Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Scheana Spills: Super Bowl Streakers, VPR Spoilers & Threesomes

Episode Date: February 16, 2024

This week, Scheana is in the studio solo answering all of your questions and recounting her experience at the Super Bowl, while recovering from her pickleball defeat to Saweetie & Lance B...ass over the weekend. Does Scheana regret doing reality TV? What surprising run-in did she have at the Super Bowl? Who from the VPR cast gets the hero edit? Does Scheana miss working at SUR? Plus, does Scheana know the reason behind Raquel’s breakup with James? Tune in to find out! Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans  Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Episode Sponsor:Visit maidenform.com and use code Scheana20 at checkout for 20% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 The following podcast is a Dear Media production. From Vanderpump Rules to Motherhood and everywhere in between, it's time to catch up with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hello everyone and welcome back to Shenanigans. We're doing another solo Sheena Spills episode sponsored solely by Made in Form. So thank you to Made in Form for sponsoring this episode. I'm going to do a little unboxing towards the middle of this episode and show you guys all of the new goodies I got and what I'm actually wearing under this hoodie. So you all sent in a lot of questions and I'm going to get through as many of these as I can. I'm just glancing through them now and usually the questions sent
Starting point is 00:01:18 through are heavily balanced towards drama, gossip, scandal, you know, poorly behaved men in my orbit. But today I saw more responses than ever about my mental health journey and asking how I'm doing, wanting more information on postpartum OCD. I have seen my DMs just flooded with so many women reaching out to me about that. And that means more to me than you will ever know. This is why I like to talk about these things on this podcast when I'm given the opportunity on the show, because I feel like for myself personally, it took me a really long time to be comfortable opening up to my therapist about this. It was this internal struggle where I'm like, am I crazy? What's wrong with you? How do I even put this into words without sounding like I'm crazy? But knowing that a therapist, a psychiatrist, you know,
Starting point is 00:02:27 a friend or family member who you really trust is a safe place, I finally opened up about it. And from that work that I've done privately, from the EMDR therapy that I've done over the past year, I finally felt comfortable to open up about it publicly. And I'm so glad that I did because the response has been just really positive and amazing. And that is the beauty of doing reality TV and having this platform here with Dear Media on my podcast is being able to share more of my story. And just so you guys know that you're not alone, that we all go through it too. Some of us in front of millions, some of you struggle, you know, at home privately. And I just want you to know that there are resources. There are people out there who can help you. And
Starting point is 00:03:19 to anyone who does struggle with this, I'm so sorry because it's not easy. But just knowing that my story is resonating with so many of you has been the best gift to me going into this new year. And I have good days. I have bad days. But the community of support that you all have provided me with your positive comments on YouTube, on this podcast, in my DMs, on my posts, just everything that I've been hearing helps me navigate the challenging moments. So for that, I just wanted to say thank you. And we will be getting into more of that this episode.
Starting point is 00:04:04 But I just highly recommend anyone who is feeling this way just to reach out to someone, especially a professional who can help getting on the right supplements and everything that I have tried. It was all a trial and error over the past year has made me feel so much stronger mentally. I feel stronger and more confident in who I am as a mom. I am so much more comfortable opening up about this publicly. And yeah, much more of that to come. But I just wanted to say thank you for all of your kind words. And yeah, we'll get into that a little more later because I think I need to warm up a bit.
Starting point is 00:04:51 It was a weekend. We were in Vegas for Super Bowl. We're not planning to go to the Super Bowl. And then last minute ended up getting tickets to the Super Bowl. And it was so much fun. Not a lot of sleep, but we had the best time ever. I'm still just recovering and, you know, regaining those brain cells. But I got to say Vegas Super Bowl, like that's just where it should be every year. I've been to Miami for Super Bowl, Atlanta, Scottsdale or Phoenix, whichever one it's in. And this was pretty epic. I mean, BravoCon, Vegas, Super Bowl, so much fun.
Starting point is 00:05:36 So many amazing events. I saw Post Malone not once but twice. I saw Dr. Dre and Snoop. once but twice. I saw Dr. Dre and Snoop. The halftime show that Usher did, I mean, it was incredible. I played in a pickleball tournament with Lance Bass and Saweetie, and although we came in runner up, not better. It's okay. I didn't win the pickleball trophy, but you know what I did win is the signal award sitting right here it just came in today she is good as gold this one is the listeners choice award thanks to all of you for voting this is the biggest honor that is all thanks to you guys super bowl questions what was your favorite part of the super bowl and who were you rooting for? So I am a Chargers fan, as we all know. And Patrick Mahomes and the Chiefs are always the leaders in our division.
Starting point is 00:06:35 However, when I'm not rooting for the Chargers, I do root for Mahomes because I think he is just incredible. And so I was going for the Chiefs. There was a moment where we didn't know if they were going to pull through and then boom, overtime and they won. So much fun. I ran into, I think everyone I knew who was going to be at the game was somehow in my section. I ran into Scott Hanson, who we spoke about this podcast, and he is the voice of the NFL. He is going to be doing the new intro on shenanigans. So we are going to set that up soon and just do a little revamp to the intro outro here on the podcast. I feel like it's been the same for a really long time. And as a football fan, how cool would it be to have the voice of the nfl introducing welcome to shenanigans
Starting point is 00:07:27 so that was really cool ran into him ran into all the domelios i ran into a high school friend brock ran into a high school friend i ran into my girl madison i ran into my lawyer nema and his wife like it was so crazy how many people were at the game and right in this small section. But my favorite part, other than running into so many people, because that was just so fun and unexpected. Oh my gosh, Leon Bridges was sitting right in front of us. And he is our wedding song. Beyond has been a song that's been in Brock and I's relationship from the beginning.
Starting point is 00:08:04 song. Beyond has been a song that's been in Brock and I's relationship from the beginning. There was even a music festival called Intersect in Vegas where the only person I really wanted to see and the song I wanted to see more than anything else was Leon Bridges and Beyond. And we got to the festival a little late that day. No fault of mine. So of course, I blamed the people who made us late. And right as we're getting there was the very end of that song and I was so upset and I'm like Brock you owe me a Leon Bridges concert and it's been a part of our relationship the whole time so how crazy that we're sitting at Super Bowl he is right in front of us and Brock is like I'm gonna go and comment on his page. Like, we're right here. How do we not say hi? So Brock comments instantly.
Starting point is 00:08:48 We're watching Leon Bridges. Go like the comment. Go on Brock's page. Scroll on Brock's page. Then I comment. He goes on my page. He's scrolling on my page. And I'm like, honey, we got to say something.
Starting point is 00:08:58 He's literally looking at our Instagrams right now as we're sitting behind him. But I don't want to be like a weird creeper where I'm like, hi, I'm sitting right behind you. So we get up to go to the bathroom. When we came back, Brock was like, hey, man, can I get you a drink? We go buy him a couple beers. I told him that his song was our wedding song. Can't wait to see him at Stagecoach. And he was so sweet.
Starting point is 00:09:21 And that was just such an unexpected moment. So other than Usher's incredible halftime performance, I got to say, meeting Leon Bridges, that was kind of full circle for Brock and I out of all of the seats in that entire stadium and watching him just click on our profiles. I was like, what is happening right now? So that was pretty epic.
Starting point is 00:09:41 And then, oh, get this. After that, when we were at the Dr. Dre and Snoop party, Brock runs into him again and then gets a photo and was like, hey, I look a little different now, but I'm the guy who bought you a beer at the game. And he was so sweet. So for those of you watching on YouTube, I'll pop up that picture. But epic, epic weekend. Dr. Dre and Snoop, two legends.
Starting point is 00:10:04 I mean, they've been working together for 30 years. It was the 30-year anniversary of Gin and Juice, and seeing them perform live together was incredible. I can't even describe it. It'll be on my vlog coming up soon, but that was the highlight of my entire weekend for sure. Jackie Joy wants to know if I wore the same hairstyle all weekend. No. Actually, the first day, I just had air-dried hair that I was too lazy to even style. So I didn't even fix my hair the first day. Second day, I had Maureen do half up, half down.
Starting point is 00:10:42 And then the third day, I was too lazy to wash my hair and I had so much product in it that we did half up half down again but we added braids on each side so it was a little different what was the craziest moment at the Super Bowl there were two streakers I don't know if we saw this on television but there were two streakers who I'm like was it worth it you just got yourselves arrested but that was pretty crazy and unexpected. I saw your post playing pickleball with Lance Bass and Sweetie. When did you start playing and should I start? So everyone who played in the tournament had either only had one lesson before or never played in their life. So it was very evenly matched with the competition, which was great. I only took one lesson a couple of weeks ago with Brock, had so much fun. I feel like this is something that
Starting point is 00:11:33 we want to do more. We were talking to Lance and his husband, Michael, about getting together and playing some more pickleball. From what my brain doctor, Dr. Amen, told me is people who play paddle sports live longer. That is literally one of the things he recommended Brock to do. So we're going to start playing some more pickleball. We have these really cool custom paddles now. And yes, you should absolutely start playing because it's good for the brain. All right. Moving on from Super Bowl, I got a lot of questions also around just some VPR stuff per use. And so I'm
Starting point is 00:12:10 going to answer a few of those. And then there was a lot of James and Ali stuff that came in, health, family, friends, all of that. So let's just get into it. Do you ever wish that you never did reality TV and were just a normal person? So actually, I do feel like I am a normal person. I just live my life in front of millions. But no, I would have regretted not doing Vanderpump Rules because I almost didn't do it. I know I've talked about that before, just with having a broadcast journalism background and doing acting. Reality TV was something I was very hesitant to do, but I am so thankful that I got this opportunity and that I did say yes, because like I was saying earlier, being able to share my story and open up about things that I know so many people struggle with silently has been the biggest blessing in this job. And just being
Starting point is 00:13:05 able to help people and let them know that they are not alone is the best part of reality TV for me. So I have zero regrets and I'm very happy doing this. And I hope I get to do this for many, many years to come. How do you decompress after an emotional day of filming? Now, just summer moon cuddles and hugs and just hanging out with her is the best medicine. Honestly, that just snaps me out of any bad mood. Her saying, Mommy, I miss you and running up to me when I walk in the door. It's like nothing else even matters. Do you have a comfort VPR episode you can rewatch over and over? No, I do not watch anything back once it's aired and I've lived that season. I don't really go back and watch it. I would say
Starting point is 00:13:59 maybe right now the wedding to be able to go back and watch that and see summer just walking down the aisle all little and whatnot would probably be one but nothing else really comes to mind that would give me comfort maybe comfort in knowing I've made the right decisions and moving on from some people but yeah have you seen an improvement in people's behavior from the start of the show to now? An improvement in some and then some ego in others. I think that doing reality TV, you know, for this long, it changes you some for the better and some for the worse. And I think that that's just a part of all of this. I think it's hard to just be the same person we started out. You know, we're in our 20s working at a restaurant, broke.
Starting point is 00:14:54 Now we own homes. We have new relationships and children. And I think that a lot of us have grown and I think some people still need to. A former VPR editor had once claimed they gave Stassi Bo a hero edit. Who do you think gets that now? Ooh, stay tuned and we shall see. I think honestly, with Jeremiah being our showrunner now, I think everyone's given a much more fair edit and I think more stories are
Starting point is 00:15:27 told evenly. So I don't know that anyone's really getting that, but this season, the season is young. We shall see. I understood what you were saying about being able to forgive Rachel for the affair, but not the TRO. However, it seems that most took it out of context. Can you elaborate further here for the people who don't understand? I'm glad this question came in because I did explain this somewhere on Instagram in a comment. What I meant was if the worst thing that Raquel did was fall in love with her best friend in her head, she was in love with her best friend in her head. She was in love with her best friend.
Starting point is 00:16:08 It was this thing where it was like, I could never be with him. You know, he's obviously in a happy relationship, but she was just so drawn to Tom and was in love with him in her own head. Not had a seven month affair, not did everything that she did. If that was the worst thing that she did and then you know Tom and Ariana broke up in an amicable respectful way and the affair never happened but the TRO did like that was what I meant that I would be able to get over her falling in love with someone it was the other actions obviously the affair and then the TRO. So that, no, that changes everything. That put
Starting point is 00:16:47 everything to a different level. But I didn't mean that it was OK what she did. I just want to clear that up. This week, we saw your conversation with Sandoval in the Sir Alley, which had been captured by fans during filming and TMZ. And you can even see the TMZ person in the alley. What is it like when fans and media speculate about something they see while you're filming without the full context of what is actually happening? Is that frustrating? That was something this season that was extremely frustrating. And we've never really dealt with that on our show before. There were so many spoilers constantly. Every week when we're filming somewhere, it was like, oh, I saw Sheena hug
Starting point is 00:17:30 Schwartz and then I saw Sheena talking to Sandoval and then Sheena took a photo with Sandoval and then Sheena was with Lala here. And it was just like everything was getting out. There were videos of the finale. I think there were even Instagram lives going on at the finale. So it was frustrating because there have been so many stories that we're following in our lives over the past summer that are going to take, you know, several weeks to tell. And for little snippets to get out here and there, I think so much has been taken out of context. I think you're now going to see the reasons of why this person got a hug, why this person was in a photo, why this person had lunch with this person. And I'm hoping by the end of the season, it all makes sense. But that was something new to navigate for all of us this year and wasn't easy. But I think we made a really great show this season and I'm excited for
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Starting point is 00:21:03 Okay, so after Allie was on my podcast last week, I've seen a lot of comments and questions that have come in surrounding some things that we talked about. One being, Raquel has hinted that James was abusive towards her. Did she ever confide this in you? And is this the reason for their breakup? So I actually had asked Raquel point blank about this multiple times because as we've all seen on Vanderpump Rules, when James used to drink, he did have a lot of rage and anger and verbally wasn't always the nicest. So I knew about the verbal abuse, obviously, that was also captured on the show. That's no secret. But I was like, has it ever gone further? And she swore to me multiple times, never, never, never. I do know the real reason why they broke up. She confided in me about something that happened
Starting point is 00:21:59 right before they broke up. But that is not my story to tell. I can only imagine with her having a podcast now, she's going to eventually share that story, but that is not my story to tell here. What are your thoughts about Teddy's accusations against James? And do you believe, Ali, that James didn't physically abuse her? First of all, I do want to say I'm proud of Ali for coming on to discuss this last week. I know that was difficult. Ali and I have wanted to do a podcast for a while now, and just getting schedules to sync up was kind of a challenge. But I wanted to get her on to talk about astrology.
Starting point is 00:22:41 And it just happened that finally, when we were able to get together, this had just come out. And I'm like, look, I don't think we can sit here and do a podcast and not address it. And part of me thought she might back out and not do the podcast. But she said, no, let's talk about it. I want to share my side of what happened in the car that night. So I know that that was difficult for her and I commend her for sitting here and doing that. It was her first podcast ever and I did ask some tough questions because I know that you guys wanted the answers to that.
Starting point is 00:23:14 But I do believe Allie. I obviously wasn't in the car with them that night. I wasn't at the event or the after party. So I think it can be true that Ali wasn't the victim of physical violence in that instance. But it can also be true that Teddy and Tamara had witnessed, you know, that old rage, crazy behavior from James that didn't sit well with them. Maybe the way he lunged to grab her phone or something they thought was a little too aggressive
Starting point is 00:23:47 or whatever they had said happened. But I genuinely think that if someone had been in physical danger and if they witnessed something that bad, I would hope that authorities or someone would have been alerted, not just like, let's get out of the car and then go to a party at TomTom. That seems weird to me. But yeah, I know that when I spoke to Teddy, she didn't want to talk about the details of what happened that night from her point of view. So I think both can be true. I think that nothing could have physically happened to Allie, but it was something enough to make Teddy and Tamara very shaken up in that car. So yeah, to just wrap that up, I just
Starting point is 00:24:31 want to say that Allie sharing her truth doesn't like negate or void anyone else's experience or truth. I just think that, you know, there's there's four sides to the story that night. And then I guess there's the driver, too, but he should have been paying attention to the road. So, OK. And then also sticking with the Raquel side of it, a lot of people have asked what my thoughts are on her podcast, which I can't really comment on it as I haven't listened to an episode. I've heard clips. I've seen some TikToks. People have sent me stuff. I've read some of the transcripts and whatnot. Someone did mention recently, I think she had like a mental health professional on or maybe her therapist, and they were addressing the topic of love bombing.
Starting point is 00:25:31 And I feel like a lot of people can relate to that experience in a relationship. I also think if that's the direction she's moving towards with her podcast and platform, that could be helpful for a lot of people. I think for the longevity of a podcast for her, needs to just not be vpr recaps and you know obviously she's entitled to share her side of the story and this is the platform she has now since she decided to not come back to the show but i do think bringing people on like a mental health expert a therapist and whatnot i feel like that could be really educational and just give some more insight that could also ultimately help people because that's what I like to do. And I actually was just speaking to a woman who's based in New York. And when I'm out there next time, I do want to do an episode with her and sit down and talk about all things OCD.
Starting point is 00:26:19 And I feel like that will be an episode that a lot of people have been asking for. So also stay tuned for that. I feel like that will be an episode that a lot of people have been asking for. So also stay tuned for that. And speaking on mental health, Annie Magnus wrote in and said, Mental health check-in. How are you? And I got a lot of questions about this. So let's get into it. I feel like I've been doing so much better. I genuinely feel like this program I'm on with Dr. Amen has helped me so much that
Starting point is 00:26:59 I'm not on an SSRI right now, which there is nothing against those. I recommend whatever can help you. I think you should do. When I was on the Zoloft, I felt like it was helping me immediately to the point where I didn't know if it was a placebo effect. I didn't know if it was because I stopped smoking weed. If it was, you know, I didn't and not that I drink that much, but I didn't have a drink at all for like five, six weeks. And so I kind of wanted to do a trial and error.
Starting point is 00:27:29 I wanted to try microdosing. As people had said, there were just so many benefits about that and it was more natural. And then I wanted to get this brain scan and talk to Dr. Amen. And so I feel like where I'm at right now is I'm in a very strong mental space. I'm not crying every day. My intrusive thoughts have been a lot less. And I saw that was another question that came in, just asking what has majorly impacted your growth on battling intrusive thoughts. And trying to just tell myself that these thoughts aren't real, not manifesting those things and just really trying to focus on the positives, living in the moment, but also looking into the future and not looking into it in a dark, what if I'm not here one day
Starting point is 00:28:22 sort of way. So I'm getting better with that each day. I think the EMDR therapy I've done with my therapist has really helped. The last couple sessions we did, we focused a lot around the pregnancy loss, the traumatic birth, and just everything that I went through last year. We've also done sessions where I've gone back to my childhood and I'm going to continue that therapy because that has been incredible. I mean, it literally reprocesses your brain and I just couldn't believe how I felt going into the session and coming out of it. So that is something I highly recommend
Starting point is 00:29:06 if you are struggling with any sort of traumatic experiences that are affecting your mental health still. EMDR therapy is incredible. So yeah, that would be something that I definitely recommend that has helped me so much. You seem to get a lot of unfair criticism. How do you cope with that? At times it can be frustrating because I do feel like I'm misunderstood. I feel like unless you listen to the podcast regularly, you're not always getting the full story of my life and everything I'm going through. I think when you're on a show with an ensemble cast, you know, there's only so many minutes and you can only get so many sides. So I try to just
Starting point is 00:29:55 remind myself of that, that people are judging me based on an edit. It's not every single thing. And I think by just continuing to share my story and knowing that I'm helping people is how I cope with that. And all of the positive comments really get me through. And I'm trying to be better about focusing on the positives and not the one negative because it used to be that one negative would stand out
Starting point is 00:30:21 even if there's 20 positive. I would have to respond to the negative. And I'm like, sometimes I still will because I like to have funny clapbacks occasionally but it's so important to acknowledge the positive people who are telling me that I'm making a difference and an impact and that is what helps me cope so thank you to all of you for that. And I'm going to just continue to try and focus on the positives. And, you know, I feel like people are always going to judge. Everyone's not always going to like me. And that's okay.
Starting point is 00:30:56 Because as long as I like me at the end of the day, and I'm confident in the decisions I'm making, and who I am as a mom, a wife, a friend, a daughter, and everything, then I'm doing the best I can, you know? Have you ever considered getting out of the public eye due to your anxiety? No, because my dream has always been to be in the public eye, although it's funny because my dream was to be more of like a TV news host, to be an actress, to be more of a person who tells a story. And now it's like I am the story and I am the news. So it's funny how I thought my life would go one way, but it's gone a different way. But now
Starting point is 00:31:42 I am just so thankful and so blessed to be able to share my story with all of you. And being in front of reality TV cameras does provide me with this amazing life. It gives me this platform. But looking into the future, I do hope for more opportunities where I can fulfill those dreams that I went to school for, studied broadcast journalism and, you know, telling other people's stories. Maybe I get into producing. There are so many things I still want to do. I have so many career bucket list items I have not checked off yet. So this is just, you know, what I'm doing right now. And I hope to also do this for a very long time. But there are so many other things I want to do in the public eye. And the public eye is not what gives me anxiety. I
Starting point is 00:32:38 think that my anxiety I was born with. I was an anxious kid. I always had to get straight A's. And I think there are also a lot of things that through therapy, through EMDR therapy, through going back into my childhood, watching old home movies, I'm realizing more why I am the way I am. And I want to just continue sharing that story more as I am on this mental health journey because I think it's important to just be open about all of that. I didn't sign up to be a public figure on a reality show to not share my whole life. And I think being an open book is very important
Starting point is 00:33:19 and it just gives people more of an overall understanding of me. Because like I said, I do feel like I'm often misunderstood. So yeah. And kind of along the same lines with, you know, just being happy and confident in who I am. I got some questions about how do I manage being a mom and a wife? How did I know I was ready for a baby? Being a mom and a wife, especially a working mom, has its challenges. I'm so thankful that I have such an amazing and supportive husband who has such a flexible schedule and is able to be home when I'm not home
Starting point is 00:34:06 because I think it's so important for her to be with one of us as much as possible. We do have an amazing nanny who is actually a teacher. She's not even really a nanny, but when we need her as a nanny, she comes over and helps us. We have my mom. We are very fortunate. But being a working mom is tough. I remember when I had Whitney Rose on my podcast and I got a little emotional about that because I'm like, I am sometimes away a lot, but then I'm also home a lot. And because I'm always posting out and I'm at events and stuff, it's like I'm still home the other times and although I may not always post that sometimes I'm not posting it because I'm just off my phone in the moment hanging out with my daughter so as much as you may see that I'm out and about more on Instagram it's
Starting point is 00:35:01 because when I'm not I just don't want to be on my phone. And I'm also not always posting in real time because I notice when I do that, people come find me. And as a safety thing, I am trying to be better about that. But I didn't even know I was ready for a baby. I didn't know I could get pregnant. I just had a psychic reading one day and she told me if I wanted a baby today, I could have one. And I thought, yeah, you know, I have frozen eggs. Sure, if I wanted to go have a baby today, you know, I could. But then I realized, wait, you didn't get a period. Wait, you were a little nauseous this weekend. Wait, could you be pregnant? And I was. And we all know how that didn't progress.
Starting point is 00:35:56 But I felt like the soul of that baby let me know that I was ready for a baby. And as hard as it was to go through that experience, I think it made me ready very quickly. And I knew it was something that I always wanted. It was not an easy road to get there. I froze my eggs twice. And I think something in that woke up my body. And then having to unfortunately have a DNC procedure for the miscarriage woke something else up in my body.
Starting point is 00:36:27 And that's because Summer Moon was supposed to come into this world. So speaking of her, Amber J. Sandoval wants to know if I feel like I expose Summer to too much on social media and the show. And, you know, I feel like that's personal opinion. and you know I feel like that's personal opinion I think some people you know I see the comments they're like keep your daughter off social media this that and the other but you know what I didn't sign up to live a private life and I can only hope that one day when she gets a little older she enjoys being in front of the camera and the choices that Brock and I have made. Because, I mean, this kid has had a camera in her face since she literally came out. I mean, we filmed the entire birth.
Starting point is 00:37:16 So I think she enjoys it. I mean, she sees the camera. She gets excited. If she's not in the mood, she'll be like, Mommy, I don't want to be on camera. And then we put the phone away. So if there's ever a day where she says, No more cameras in my face, then it's done. It wouldn't even be a question.
Starting point is 00:37:33 But for now, she has fun when the big cameras come over to the house and she turns it on and she cheeses on cue. I mean, this kid is a little actress and I've been hesitant to get her in entertainment more because we do a lot on social media and with the show. But I feel like even at only almost three years old, she is smart enough to tell us when she wants and doesn't want something.
Starting point is 00:38:01 So I'm just always going to listen to what she says and follow her direction because if you know me and you know her, she runs the show and I'm just living in her world. When you first started dating Brock, what was his reaction to you having your eggs frozen? He wasn't weirded out about it at all. I think that was something that kind of took pressure off him thinking, okay, I'm dating this woman who's five years older than me. You know, he has his two older kids. We all know that story. So I feel like telling him like, hey, just so you know, like I frozen my eggs and I'm not like trying to lock in a younger guy and get knocked up. I think that was something he was like, oh, awesome. Like we don't even have to worry about that. And then I was very honest with him when
Starting point is 00:38:53 I told him, you know, I'm getting off birth control because I'm getting ready to do a third round. This is something my doctor recommended just to have as many eggs as possible. And he was totally fine with that and supported that. But then after six months of not being on birth control, I got pregnant and yeah, didn't know that was possible, but best thing to ever happen to me. Okay. So enough of talking about things that are going to make me emotional because I think we've done that enough on this. So I'm going to wrap it up with just some other random questions that came in and then I'm going to get back home to my baby because I miss her. It was a long weekend away. Okay. Shabana319 wants to know, is Kevin straight and single? Kevin is the guitarist in the 27s. You saw a
Starting point is 00:39:47 little bit more of him on this week's episode and you saw that Katie and him were going out on a date. So yes, he's straight and spoiler alert, it didn't work out with him and Katie. So yes, he is single. Do you get annoyed by Lala being so dismissive about other people's feelings? Do you get annoyed by Lala being so dismissive about other people's feelings? I don't think she's dismissive. I think you're actually going to see a lot more of the softer side of Lala this year. And there's even a moment at Sir I Don't Know If Anyone Caught It in this week's episode where you can see her kind of wiping tears away. And we were talking about stuff before Tom walked in
Starting point is 00:40:26 or whatever that made her emotional, and there were a lot of moments like that. You probably won't get to see every one, but I think you're going to see a different side of her this season. How did you and Ariana meet? We met working together at Villa Blanca. She was bartending. I bartended sometimes with her.
Starting point is 00:40:46 I was a server there as well. But yeah, that's how we met. Okay, what are your thoughts on Billie Lee saying you asked her to join you for a threesome? So I did see this video. I saw Sandoval say the Mary Fuck Kill game, and I get it. We've played that game on this podcast, too. Comment about my OCD.
Starting point is 00:41:11 Rude. But whatever. I'll deal with that later. Billie saying that I approached her for a threesome is inaccurate. I did have a conversation with her at Gay Pride season six, and I had made a comment about my then boyfriend saying that if I ever wanted to have a threesome with him, he would like to have one with me and Billy. And I made that comment to her like, oh, just so you know, my boyfriend thinks you're hot and like said he wanted to have a threesome. And we both kind
Starting point is 00:41:46 of laughed about it. And she was like, we're friends. That's weird. I'm like, oh, no, no, like I'm not down. I know how threesomes can get tricky if one person's getting a little more attention, especially if you're in a relationship with someone and they're paying more attention to the person who's not you. It's just something I did in my early 20s, something in my 30s in a relationship I was never going to do again. So I think she maybe took that conversation as that's how I was approaching her to have one. But no, my then boyfriend was interested in one, but her and I were not. So I just want to clear that up to anyone who is wondering. And kind of going along with those early 20s, can you tell us more about your early LA days? That you're going to have to
Starting point is 00:42:37 wait for a book. One day when I write a book, I plan to have a section about those early LA days. I'll need to find, you know, fun nicknames for certain people and ways to tell those stories. But that's for a book one day. Yeah, lots of stories there. Favorite celebrity you've met in your life? Favorite celebrity you've met in your life? Ooh, gosh, I've been fortunate to meet so many. I have to say my interaction with Lady Gaga and her commenting my first wedding dress was pretty iconic. Miley Cyrus, oh my gosh,
Starting point is 00:43:20 hung out with her a few times and that was so fun. She's just such a down to earth cool chick John Legend and Chrissy Teigen incredible love them there was one time I was so close to Elton John and that was like one fangirl moment I remember I was at Craig's but I couldn't say anything to him I was like don't bother him El. It's Elton John, Sir Elton John. But just seeing him that close was iconic. Do you miss anything about working at Sir? It's funny that you ask this because I was recently saying to someone,
Starting point is 00:44:02 I do miss those early carefree days working at Sur. Just the camaraderie, the food. I miss the old food at Sur. I miss Villa Blanca. Obviously, now I love that I don't have to clock in and go work a serving shift, but I do miss it a little bit. And that's why I still go back there for dinner all of the time. I was at a dinner recently and I started just kind of busting the tables and I'm like, you know, you worked at a restaurant when, but so many good years there, Guillermo
Starting point is 00:44:38 and Natalie, Ken and Lisa, you know, just getting to work for them for so many years it was fun and yeah RIP Villablanca Miss Villablanca and Pump last question favorite moment of 2024 so far you know we've had a lot of good ones already and we're only in February getting back Australia, ringing in the new year with the family, going to the Emmys, being able to do Watch What Happens Live with my band, having summer in ballet class. I mean, it's been a great start to the year. There's some fun things I'm working on and I can't wait to share more about that with all of you. But in the meantime, stay tuned for more music, more vlogs, more podcasts, more episodes of Vanderpump Rules. Give us some grace. It was the hardest season we've ever filmed. And I hope you guys enjoyed
Starting point is 00:45:41 the show. Thank you for listening to this podcast. I again want to thank Maidenform for sponsoring this podcast. Be sure to check out all of their stuff. We will be linking it in the description. I'm telling you, so comfortable. The fact that I can wear it under an outer five star. Thanks for listening, guys. Bye. outer five star. Thanks for listening, guys. Bye.
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