Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Was It About The Pasta? With Kristen Doute and Lala Kent
Episode Date: March 10, 2023This week, Scheana sits down with Kristen Doute and Lala Kent. Kristen dives deeper into her past relationships, her friendship with Ariana and clears up some rumors that have been circulatin...g. Lala tells us more about what happened on the girls trip. What does she have to say about Scheana’s time in Las Vegas? What do the girls currently think of their VPR cast members? Check out Kristen’s new podcast, ‘Sex, Love and What Else Matters” with new episodes every Wednesday. Follow @onemomsbattle for more information on #IStandWithBrody Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Go to http://www.factormeals.com/TEAMARIANA50 and use code TEAMARIANA50 to get 50% off your first box Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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From Vanderpump Rules to motherhood and everywhere in between,
it's time to catch up with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now here's your host, Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea.
Because we're good as gold. Because we're good as gold. Because we're good as gold.
Because we're good as gold. I gotta tell you few days to say the least. There is so much that I would like to discuss
about the current situations that
are happening, but a lot of that is going to be
saved for your eyes
to watch. So
for now, we're gonna
get into some
shenanigans, but not too
deep of shenanigans. But then
Kristen Doty's on the mic.
I'm going to say whatever I want.
And you never know what's going to come out of Lala's mouth.
Right.
We used to be, you never know what's going to go into my mouth.
And now it's like.
Now it's what's coming out.
Right.
But before we get into anything, I do, Lala, want to ask you about your morning, because
I know you had a very early morning.
You did a protest.
This is something you've spoken to me about, something that is very close to your heart.
And I just want to give you the time to discuss that before we get into any VPR drama.
I love this.
Thank you for giving me a platform to talk about this.
So as many know, I became very passionate about what is wrong with the family court system. I never thought that
I would be in it. I think most people don't think they're ever going to be in it until they are.
I recommend that you educate yourself on the family court system, even if you're not in it.
If you have a child, it is imperative you know what it is like. I went downtown to the Stanley
Moss Courthouse and we did the I stand with Brody
protest. Her children were taken from her over 100 days ago to a reunification camp. And basically,
this is where a healthy parent is concerned about the opposing party and wants the best interest
for the child. The unhealthy parent goes into a court. A judge orders the children, even up to 17 years old,
to go to a reunification camp.
And sometimes they order it by force.
There's videos of kids being dragged from their safe place
to go to these places.
And they're basically like torture camps.
I mean, there are times where if the kid doesn't fall in line,
they take pieces of clothing until they're just left with underwear.
They will deprive them of food.
And this is legal.
And it's a way to get money.
Like, this is obviously something where you follow the money.
How do these exist?
A lot of things exist because there's a large profit to be made.
exist. A lot of things exist because there's a large profit to be made. So my goal is to raise awareness and not shut up and continue talking about it. Yeah, I think that is so admirable of
you taking your platform and doing so much with it. You do so much good for so many people. And
by you speaking about this is literally just helping so many people. So I wanted to start with that because that personally is more important than the drama going on in this group. So I wanted to start with
that. Yeah. You drawing awareness to it because I unfortunately have know a little bit about that
just from people that I know from back home and family members, whatever. Yeah. But I've been following that one Instagram account, the one moms battle.
Yeah.
Ever since you started posting about them.
And it absolutely blows my mind.
And I really don't think that people are aware that this is happening.
Yeah, it's crazy because for the one that I went to today, there was a list of people
where it said, follow the money.
And there's a woman, I won't say her name yet, but your day is coming for me to blast
you. And she was the court appointed supervisor at the beginning of my leaving the relationship
for, she was there to supervise Randall when she, when he had Ocean and she's very corrupt. So
there's just a lot that I can't wait to just blast off on. And this is something that I mean, unless you're
in it, like I would have no idea about any of this. I stand with Brody, you know, so until you're
in it, it's just, you know, it's like out of sight, out of mind. Like you don't know there's
so many things. And with just everything, you know, in our immediate friend group that's happening
right now, when you really look at a bigger picture of what's going on in the world,
there's a lot of bigger problems and issues that also need to be discussed.
So we're not going to take today to have a full gossip podcast.
I also want to talk to both of you about other things.
And I felt like that was important to start with.
Thank you.
Sheesh.
I appreciate you for that.
Dodie,
how you doing?
How's your podcast going?
Let's talk about that.
You have a new podcast, Sex, Love, and What Else Matters.
Yes.
And we talk about-
What else does matter?
Actually, a lot of things, like including what you're doing.
But think about love.
That's love.
Love, everything.
It really is, yeah.
And I'm really excited for the new episode
to come out
my next episode
with S.E. Cup.
Oh my God.
So she's someone
we've both done
Watch What Happens Live with.
She's a massive
Bravo fan.
I feel like I've done it with her.
Have you?
I think I have.
She's a massive
Bravo super fan.
I love her.
She just messaged me
the other day.
Author, political commentator
and she had a lot of opinions
about what is going on
in the Tom and Ariana situation.
So I am allowed to say
whatever the hell I want.
And we absolutely did.
Say it all, Kristen.
Yeah.
So we absolutely did
on the upcoming episode
as well as, you know,
just talking to S.E.
about her marriage
and her child.
And, you know,
she's actually had friends go that have gone through
the same thing that ariana's going through right now so i just wanted to get kind of you know her
experience with that as well as she's had friends who have been cheated on with a friend yeah who
have had affairs and and also to complicate things further as you'll hear you know when kids speak as
you guys both know as kids become involved and marriages become involved, it actually gets like much messier,
if you can even believe, messier than what's happening right now.
Yeah.
So it'll be, yeah.
And I just kind of clear the air about some things.
Yeah.
A lot of the rumors that I read.
Okay.
In regards to how Ariana found out and things of that nature.
Yeah.
Just telling like the actual truth.
So.
Which you guys will see.
You'll see it and you can hear it on sex, love and what else? One thing I do want to ask both
of you, because I think all three of us are in similar positions with past affairs and things
that we've been involved in. And I've seen so many people online being like, how could you
have an opinion about this? You are a homewrecker. You cheated on this person.
You've done it.
You've done it.
You've done it.
So I want to know, Kristen, you were in a relationship with Tom Sandoval.
You were in a relationship with James Kennedy.
I know the Sandoval relationship with you guys, as we all saw in the early seasons of Vanderpump Rules,
neither of you were faithful to each other.
Not at all.
They were also very young.
We were very, very messy.
Very young.
Mostly just very messy.
We were young.
We were broke.
We were dumb.
I think Tom and I, as long as we did stay together,
as you know Sheena personally,
we should have broken up after year two.
Oh my God, yes.
And we stayed in it because we shared a DVR box. We shared bills. Not the DVR. Right. We shared a shitty apartment. We
didn't have any money. And it was like we shared the same friend group. It was like easier to just
as it felt in the moment, easier to just stay in it than it was to like break up the friend group.
Yeah. Yeah. We were both, you know, unfaithful. We
cheated on each other. We were very messy. And I remember, obviously, as everybody knows that
watches Vanderpump Rules, how the crazy that it brought out in me at first. But I think what's
really been frustrating me on the Internet right now are the people that actually think that
like the whole you got him how you like you get him how
you lose him which you've had to deal with lala yeah i was actually greeted last year at the
reunion with that yeah and that's about what red flags i didn't see i was actually called a mistress
by raquel levis that's rich you know but i i just i like have to debunk that so fast
because it is like, where have you guys
all been?
If you're going to comment on it, then just know, know the truth.
And Ariana and I've been, I'm so lucky to call her a really good friend for many, many
years now.
And unfortunately had to thank her for like taking him out of my life.
I know.
I know.
Isn't it strange how that happens?
It's so wild.
And there's's there's no
karma coming down on her like no no no you guys like enough like enough of the just the handful
of people that aren't you know yeah her karma's so good it's great phenomenal that this happened
yeah like we're getting you the fuck away she doesn't have a leech that's going to be dragging
her down anymore she gets to flourish she can write her own book without someone writing her coattails she can have all
of her own you know that something about her is going to go crazy yeah and that's what i'm excited
for as hard as this is right now and i remember how hard it can be because he's very arrogant
and he's very egotistical he's not egotistical he's a narcissist he's a arrogant and he's very egotistical. He's not egotistical. He's a narcissist. He's a narcissist.
Yeah.
I'm egotistical.
All right.
He's a narcissist.
You're not egotistical.
You just, you have a big ego.
You have a healthy ego.
I have a healthy.
I like that.
It blows my mind.
I feel like I'm, this is all still very surreal
that this even occurred with he and Raquel
behind Ariana's back.
Like there's still something that's not I have not fully digested yet.
I was literally shocked.
But now, in hindsight, I'm like that.
Yeah, that sounds just that sounds about right.
But I really didn't think he'd do it to her.
Yeah.
None of the narcissist.
He's going to do it to her.
He's going to do it to Raquel.
He's going to do it to his next partner.
Yeah.
He's a soul it to her. He's gonna do it to Raquel. He's gonna do it to his next partner. He's a soul sucking human.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So.
Who's only concerned with himself right now.
And it's just bringing back so many memories.
So a lot, a lot going on in the Bravo world
on Vanderpump rules, everything right now.
Have you watched any of the new season,
Kristen? So I have not watched the new season. I have watched a couple of clips like on YouTube.
So for example, there was a day that I was with the both of you that you were like, oh, we need to
watch this thing. So I was very curious once that episode aired, like just certain things my friends are going through.
I have no desire to be watching Tom play his trumpet
or James Kennedy claim how awesome he is.
Well, by the way, I fast forward through every Tom and Tom scene.
Every one.
And unfortunately, I fast forward through anything that the Toms are in.
So sometimes that includes scenes with Ariana
because I just could never stand.
You can't stomach it.
Yeah, I just think he's.
So yeah, I've been, I've definitely, you know,
I've been hurt for a few years
and I haven't wanted to watch the show at all.
I do watch YouTube clips of Watch What Happens Live.
I'm still here to support all of my girls, of course.
However, I do think now I will be able to now start watching the beginning of this season.
I think everyone's going to watch it with different eyes.
With different lens.
Yeah.
I feel like, you know, when you watch Shutter Island with Leo DiCaprio and then you watch
it a second time.
Like Sixth Sense?
Yes.
Yes.
Exactly.
And you're like, he's dead.
So I am going to watch Vanderpump Rules now through a very different lens and see what
I see, what I notice.
So this week's episode, let's just talk about what people have already seen. So right now,
on the show, what we are, I was barely even in the episode this week, but I was the first scene
for once on the show. I was like, oh, wow, it started with me. Oh, and that was all you saw.
Thanks for that. And I'm glad everyone knows for once on the show. I was like, oh, wow, it started with me. Oh, and that was all you saw of me. Okay, thanks for that.
Well, I'm glad everyone knows you're not the villain.
Yeah, yeah.
Thank God for that.
But this week, right now, we are in Vegas.
We are at Vanderpump Paris,
which I gotta tell you,
just does a little something to my soul.
Seen Vanderpump Rules at fucking Paris in Las Vegas.
When I headlined a goddamn show there for six months and you never saw it
once.
I was talking to the Gusman's about this.
Actually.
I was like,
this girl headlined her own show,
eight shows a week.
Yeah.
And it was like a couple hours.
And Logan said he was so impressed it was
fantastic and i'm like she does not get the credit she deserves there are so many people i'm not
gonna name names out here getting credit for so much and it's like not even that cool i'm like
shitty cover bands and stuff like that there's a lot that i'm like really lots of extras and here sheena is
who has that on her resume and it's brushed over and i just want to take this moment to tell you
you should be very proud and we are very proud of you i've just seen you guys there i'm like
i basically lived there for six months i was there every single night except wednesdays was that when
i was in la recording my podcast and working at Sir still, I still was at Sir every Wednesday when I lived in Vegas.
Yeah, but just seeing it and like the archway, the balloon, I was like, Oh,
it was my home. But it's also nice to see a little bit of a place that feels like home to me on the show.
Because at least, you know, Vanderpump Paris is on the map.
That place is so dope.
So were you not there?
I was not invited on the girls trip.
No.
Katie wanted to have her divorce party.
She did not want me to be a part of it.
I understood at the time that I did not understand it all.
I was like, as Lala said, her laser was pointed at the time. That I did not understand at all. I was like, as Lala said,
her laser was pointed at the wrong person.
But we're going to see that all play out this season.
So we don't even need to go there.
And the reunion should be very interesting
because I think Katie's expecting an apology from me,
but I'm also expecting an apology from her.
I think there's a high chance that that could happen
if it comes from both sides.
Yeah.
Security will definitely be amped up.
I was literally thinking the same thing.
Yeah.
Like we need to have cages.
Yes.
Everyone needs their own personal bodyguard because.
Yeah.
I volunteer as tribute to be used as a weapon.
Yeah.
Against anyone.
Yeah.
I've picked a few dresses and sent over the ones
that I was like still
looking bomb in but where I wouldn't
have a nip slip. I'm like because there's
going to be nothing worse if I'm going in and then
my nipple steals the show.
I won't allow it today.
What if it's the tatted nipple though?
I was going to say which nipple?
They're both pretty cute.
Yeah. No. I mean, just
to be called
myself diabolical,
I would love for that to be
taken back and redirected.
I think there's a lot of things
I think that a lot of people
are going to be humbled
in this entire situation.
I'm not one of them.
My humbling moment took place last year.
So that's great. I think knowing most of you, you know, very well and still being friends with most
of you very, very closely. I think that whenever you guys film this, it's going. I agree with the
humbled and I think that everyone's going to be looking at each
other with different lens oh totally and what's more important right now yeah like yes you're
going to have to address all the things because that is what you do at a reunion but there's
going to be a much bigger thing at hand that everyone's going to be teaming up yeah I think
this will be one of the hardest reunions we've ever done. Absolutely. I'm not jealous of y'all.
To be able to focus on the season because, you know,
we have to kind of go back into real time and how you felt about certain people.
That's going, it's going to be hard because I remember last year,
there was a moment during season nine where he,
whose name we shall not mention,
and I were at james
and raquel's engagement party and we had a moment of like crying that our wedding was postponed
my life had gone to right but we do interviews after the fact after the fact my life had gone
to hell in a handbag and they wanted me to go back to that time. And I broke down and I said, I cannot go back to that.
Like, it's a trigger.
And they completely took the scene out.
They didn't even use it because I was like, I'm like, I can't even get the words out to like pretend to be like excited about something like that.
You know, it's going to be I'm not envious.
Sorry, I don't know.
I'm kind of emotional today. I get it. It's gonna be hard for you. Sheesh. It's gonna be very hard
for Ariana. So I do understand. So just I'm, I got you. You're there. You're there to be the guard
dog. Yeah. I will say though, in moments like this, without saying too much. I am happy that we are a group of people who can band
together for the bigger picture and put personal differences aside, be in a group chat together,
be in the same room with one another because our shit doesn't matter right now. So for that,
I am thankful. Yeah. But stay tuned.'s let's take a little break let's regroup
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there all right and we're back so i want to talk a little bit about this week's episode that we saw because it ends with raquel making out with oliver you gave her the green light she has said in
interviews that you kind of tricked her into thinking he was single and
like no accountability.
It's really funny how I've been calling this hoe dumb for a really long time.
And now that it's convenient, she's like, I am dumb.
I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
You've been telling me for a long time.
You went to college.
You're not in a great world.
And now it's like, I am dumb.
No, bitch.
So easily taken advantage of.
You got the wrong audience
with me. Yeah. So
let's go back
to that night because
I feel like people who have
watched the episode are going to be like okay
Lala but you were like low key
hitting on a married man saying you thought he was
attractive or whatever and then you ask
are you still with your wife?
So were you just saying
like oh this guy I saw on tv I thought was hot but like right I know he's married no actually so
obviously we film a chunk of time right and it's whittled down to whatever's the most interesting
I'm totally here for it we were at dinner with Lisa Vanderpump and I had only, I mean, you couldn't break the
fourth wall. They were like, how do you know him? How do you think he's cute? I'm like,
I watch him on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Like, what do you think? Yeah. And what's her
name? Lisa Vanderpump had said that he's separated. And so for me, that is a bit triggering. And I'm not saying that everyone who says they're separated is really not.
So we get to the club and I'm like, he's cute, blah, blah, blah.
So I'm like, I ask him, you know, are you still married?
Because now cameras are here.
Like who would lie on national television?
This is coming out.
Why would you think that?
Right?
Like if I met you at some bar, I'm going to pull the
record. I'm calling the PI.
We're going to know.
He goes in to tell me that
he's separated and he actually is
the one that's saying that he's getting
his footing for the
ping-ponging of the kid back and forth.
He's not saying it exactly like that. I'm just talking like
Lala.
I go into my
custody situation like we're
kind of bonding over how it's strange
With Raquel sitting in the middle by the way.
Just to set the scene.
Behind her, in front of her.
Right and it was fine by the way
because Raquel and I were bonding
on that trip. You know like I packed my
bags at her house, whatever.
Right. It was did not last
long, by the way, which you can kind of tell with the preview for next week. So then she's like,
he's kind of he's kind of cute. And if you remember, she's like, I was very wounded from
my relationship. You know, he said he was separated. I believe that shit. We don't need to
go back into it. But him saying that he was
separated. I didn't have any intention of like sleeping with anyone. I hadn't made out with
anyone in a really long time. It just I didn't feel like that he was the one that was going to
change all of that. Right. Right. You know, it just didn't feel that way to me. Yeah. But Raquel
was like she was interested. And that's why I gave her the green light.
And in my mind, I'm like, yes, the separated thing does trigger me.
But we're filming a TV show.
Like there's no way he's going to be lying about this.
So and his mom is on another TV show. Right.
Like why would you ever think that when you say you're separated, you're not actually separated with cameras?
One hundred percent.
And so that was kind of like that gave me pause.
But let's just even take that out of it.
I just it just wasn't that wasn't my person.
I could just tell.
And so Raquel expressed interest.
And I was like, they didn't show this, but she goes, I say, we're overthinking it.
We're overthinking it right now.
I was like, we're good.
We're overthinking it.
Like, go for it. I don't give a fuck. We're overthinking it right now. I was like, we're good. We're overthinking it. Like, go for it.
I don't give a fuck.
We're not talking about this anymore.
So she goes to the dance floor and they make out whatever.
And I stand by the fact that if I wanted to bump PPS, I would have.
Oh, absolutely.
Well, yeah.
Like, that's just the way this goes down.
All right.
If it comes down to it and it's the two of you there, you're going to always.
I always win first choice.
Yes.
I always win the game.
Absolutely.
Period.
Unless I'm against you two bitches.
Then I might have to fight y'all off.
So, oh gosh, we still have a very long season ahead.
It's so hard to talk about this season,
like what's going on right now.
I know.
Because it's like I'm getting fumbled up because I'm like wanting to say things that are happening now.
Uh-huh.
And I can't.
I know.
It's hard.
This is probably the hardest podcast I've ever done.
Yeah.
Right now.
I agree.
Right?
Yeah.
This is harder than when I was being asked questions about my life going to shit.
Yeah.
I was being asked questions about my life going to shit.
Yeah.
And every question that came in for you two, obviously wants to talk about what our take was on that.
What happened in New York?
There's so much that you guys will see later on.
So we can't get into too much of it now,
but I do want to ask kristen's opinion on let's
just talk about character can you discuss what you think is like the character of all of the
cast members on vanderpump rules good people, bad people, malicious.
Like, what do you think about this group of people?
I would like you to talk about their characters
before you found this out.
Because obviously we all know what you're going to say.
I mean, it's really not a whole lot different,
if I'm being honest.
Can you ask me the same question after?
Yeah, it's for both of you. different if I'm being honest. Can you ask me the same question after? Because I
have
I chose what was it maybe
about a year ago to like stop
hating Raquel or like hating
on her. Oh it was a choice.
I think it was at Ocean's birthday
party actually. It was at Ocean's birthday party.
She wasn't invited to by the way but you're kind
enough to pack up that
pair of lights and half a torso and
bring her to go see tom sandoval on the most extras in new york got canceled oh god yeah it's
my opinion so just so everyone knows yeah i i essentially had really never had an actual
conversation with raquel she had an actual conversation with anybody without short
circuiting well and that strangely that date Ocean's birthday party was like the most intelligent and well-spoken and put together I'd ever heard her be without kind of barely blinking her eyes and just opening her mouth a lot.
That's right.
She does do that.
Yeah.
Just like these weird, dumb stares where I'm like, why are you just looking at me like that?
Like, what is your brain catching up?
Like, I'm not I'm like, why are you just looking at me like that? Like, what is your brain catching up? Like, I'm not I'm confused. But that day, she and James had obviously broken up. And she was
willing to sort of commiserate with me on the way that he is and the things that he had done. And
she was open to hearing a lot of my truth. And other than that, the day, like I really haven't talked to her much at all.
However, I have always thought that she and James are on the same exact level of being an opportunist.
I had to remind myself that she was a fan of the show before she was on the show.
And not that that makes everyone that way, but but she didn't organically really fit in
with the group ever at all,
except being under your wing,
except you trying to help and guide her
through the craziness that is filming that show
and being in that friend group.
Lala had to eat shit
and then organically become a real part of that friend group. I was a part of the friend group and had to eat shit and then organically become a real part of that friend group.
Yeah.
I was a part of the friend group and had to eat shit to then become back a
part of that friend group.
She never fit.
And James,
as we know,
is an opportunist.
He self admittedly.
I don't even times.
Yeah.
And I just don't want the things I could say about him.
We don't have to even,
let's not even touch.
Um,
Tom Schwartz, you know, I just, of course I love him. We don't have to even let's not even touch. Tom Schwartz.
You know, I just of course I love him.
I do.
But he's a fucking pussy and he needs the man up.
Like enough is enough.
Like you think what you are saying?
It's I think it's just because he's just burying his head in the sand and thinks that things
will just go away and things will happen.
And, you know, it's like he can be honest with us in real time
and like texting and like, I don't stand for this
or I really feel this way.
I really feel I want to back this person up,
but he doesn't do anything about it.
So when I don't see your actions,
how the hell am I supposed to believe you?
Well, and I fully co-sign on what you're saying
because just recently Sheena pointed out that my words hurt
but I've always been taught that like words don't mean shit actions are everything you know like
we're all gonna say things that we wish that we didn't say sometimes right but like your actions
are really the end all be all absolutely right like someone can tell you all day I love you I
love you I love you if they're not showing up like it doesn't
mean shit. It means absolutely nothing and same
as I'm sorry. I love you and I'm sorry
like I don't want to
hear it anymore if you're not showing. I may
say messed up shit to you Sheesh
but I just bought a house next to you.
I know. So my actions are
speaking loud. Yes.
No I know and that was one thing that I
like briefly mentioned
to you the other night
when we were out.
I was like,
all right,
so last week on the podcast
I was like,
I didn't like that
you kind of called me out
when I don't remember
that conversation being
Raquel and James
were already together
when James and I
hooked up the second time.
Yeah.
I don't remember that detail
of the conversation.
Honest to God.
I do remember in atlanta
we were there for the give them lala live podcast and she said on stage and we talked about it that
it was more than once but then when i find out in like the last episode or whenever that it was when
they were already together i had like pure shock on my face yeah this is on the show i feel like
i just feel like i knew that and like, who cares?
But can I tell you, we, James and I hooked up
when my dad was like alive and kicking
and the season where my dad had passed that reunion,
she talks about how in her horrific
Polly Esther puffer sleeves,
like a match too close to where she was gonna fucking melt.
She was thinking she was eating.
I was like, girl, no, this is not the vibe.
But she was like, we really decided
that our relationship started when we moved in together,
AKA he gave her two drawers.
So like technically we didn't cheat.
Yeah.
Technically we didn't cheat. Yeah. Technically we didn't cheat because my person was actually married.
Very much so.
I was a mistress.
So you can't cheat on a married person.
And y'all started your relationship when you got to dress.
So we didn't cheat.
Hands clean.
Bye, bitch.
So we're doing a live podcast and she basically calls me out.
I was like, no, I told you that. And then you know, the audience like, ooh me out and was like, nope, I told you that.
And then you're in the audience like, ooh, ooh.
And I was like, no, I don't.
And then after I'm like, Lala, first of all,
that didn't sit right with me.
You're like calling me out
when I genuinely don't remember that.
And she's like, gotta shake it off, shake it off.
I'm gonna say, and I was like, you know what?
You're actually right.
And I understand like we have such a good friendship now because
i think we understand what each other needs we understand the things that could annoy us about
each other or like that but i was like you're right i'm just gonna shake it off because it's
not like you meant harm by it you weren't like i'm about to publicly embarrass this bitch on her own
show i just want to make people laugh i know and. And I just get sensitive. But it was at your expense.
I am sorry.
And that I was like,
yeah, that didn't sit right with me
watching it back.
Just kidding.
But then I'm like,
it's just Lala.
And yeah,
this bitch just bought a house
right next door to me.
Right.
But can I tell you,
there are things that sheesh,
sometimes like you point things out
or other people
where I'm like,
I'm feeling a little uncomfortable,
but I'm not going to let you know it because it's not that big of a deal.
I shake I shake words off very quickly.
I live by actions.
I would rather have someone not tell me that they love me all the time and actually like
maybe appear once in a fucking blue.
Totally.
All right.
So there's that.
Yeah.
Maybe appear once in a fucking blue moon. Totally.
All right.
So there's that.
Yeah.
Well, I'm glad we're at that understanding now,
but also in a place where we feel comfortable enough
to bring up those things to each other.
And honestly, I like forgot about it
because it wasn't that big of a deal.
But then there was something said the other night.
I was like, oh yeah, by the way,
this bothered me like a week ago
and I didn't bring it up
and I don't want to let it fester any longer so I'm just gonna tell you now and she's like gotta
shake it off in a month in a month from now she was like my heart's actually broken in pieces
I did but we've never had that where I'm like shake it off girl gotta let it go yeah I'm literally
moving into a place next to you this you gotta let go yes no for sure i can't wait to after this reunion just go to palm springs
that's what we're doing we're sending the moms and the kids down yes they will already be there
and then i'll pick up sheena and her australian husband to head on meet you there yeah do it
yeah i want to have the gusbands too yes yep. Well, I feel like if we stay seated in front of these mics much longer,
we could say something that could get us all in trouble.
So maybe we, as Lala Kent says, wrap it up.
Can we wrap it up?
Wrap it up.
What the fuck are you talking about?
Continue this conversation in like 10 weeks when you guys see everything that we're trying to
not say. Yeah. Oh, all right. Kristen, when do new episodes of your podcast drop? Every Wednesday.
Awesome. Lala, where can everyone follow along the I stand with Brody? Everyone. I would go to
one mom's battle on Instagram.
I follow her.
She will keep you extremely updated.
It's very important to know
a lot of women,
the court system gags them
so they will not be allowed
to share certain things.
One mom's battle.
She ain't gagged.
She barking.
So go to her page and follow her.
Thank you guys for listening.
We'll be back next week with I don't even.
I don't even know.
Don't even know.
Bye.
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