The Adam and Dr. Drew Show - 090223 Drew's Secret Family - Poop Bucket - Theo Von (The Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classics)

Episode Date: September 2, 2023

In this episode, the fellas expand upon the pain of picking a place to eat with your significant other, Drew's "Secret Family", Current Generation vs Younger Generation and Theo Von returns to the show to talk about dads.

Hey, what's good? It's your boy, Big Brother Jake, and welcome to another episode of the Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classes. And we got a good one for you. First up, episode 1338, titled Drew's Secret Family, that aired on October 21st, 2020. The battle on settling where to eat with your spouse is an argument that's lifelong. We all know how that goes. And Dr. Drew talks about his secret family. Check it out.

I was talking to Lynette the other night, and I was like, back in the day, we'd go out to this restaurant, we'd go out to that restaurant, and she'd go, we never went to the restaurants I wanted to go to. And I'd say, to that restaurant and she'd go yeah we never went to the restaurants i wanted to go to and i said but i would ask you every time like what do you move for where do you want to go or how do you want to do this and she was like yeah we never went to the

place i want to go and i go well not i get it i want to go where i want to go but and then she cited a time we went to this like trendy place in hollywood and it was kind of crowded and they sat us right next to another table sure i could kind of hear you yeah and i said i don't want to sit you know and i was a douche and we left which definitely happened but it is down on the record book of we never ate where I wanted to eat. Yeah. Which is, and it's like, first off, that's impossible. Secondly, I said, I've said 200,000 times, do you want to go, do you want to do Indian takeout tonight? Or do you want to do Japanese?

I mean, how else could you work it? You couldn't have that in a relationship. The person didn't like Indian or didn't want to eat curry or wouldn't do it. Here we go. We're going. It wouldn't work. Eat it. All you do is eat that'd be all you do is

eat that curry all you do is argue at the table right and then it sort of goes oh well those places you wanted to go to i was like yeah that's that's true there's the italian place and then there's the mexican place and i like going to those places and i would ask you which one you want to go to but then that is true but how does it go how does it get logged that way? You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. And everyone does it. Yeah. And I mean, I'm really realizing, though, it's such a feminine thing. I mean, if you know it from your wife, you probably know it from your sister. I know from my wife.

I know from my sister. I'll talk to my sister about stuff. Like, well, then you said this, and then you did that. from my sister i'll talk to my sister about stuff like well then you said this and then you did that and it's like i have to recreate exchanges and meetings and instances with her and it's also also it's it's all feelings based you know like i he said oh he crossed his arms said get out of here and i was like why he wouldn't say that why would he say that? The guy works for me.

He wouldn't tell you to do that. You know, that's not maybe it's how you felt or whatever it is. But by the way, how are you supposed to ever overcome that? You know what I mean? Yeah. And those exchanges are going down in the in the logbook of, well, we never did this because you always said you wanted it. It's like, how is that? What I always found is most disturbing about those exchanges when I'm accused of something like that, it's usually the result of me being insecure or uncomfortable and feeling negatively

about myself that I'm somewhat awkward in the exchange. And that goes down on, it goes down as you were arrogant and condescending. Right. change and that goes down on it goes down as you were arrogant and condescending right so people superimpose their shit on you all the time because of how they felt right rather than taking into effect what you're actually feeling right it's crazy uh all right i'll take i want to get that one last call off of there sure let's see someone's got a video game. Brian. 38, Minneapolis. Hey, Drew. Hey, yeah. Drew, Ace. How are you doing? Hi, guy. Hi, guy.

Hi, guy. Hi, guy. What's up? Point and a question for you. I know you've said in the past multiple times you can't get into the video games. No. Yeah, I can't get into video games.

Well, I have one that might change your mind and switch your gears. All right. There's a game. I don't know if somebody works with the PlayStation or the Xbox, whatever it is. What I'm about to describe to you is based on the PS4, the PlayStation. It's called Car Mechanic Simulator, and I think it might be something you could get into. All right.

It's a game, basically, I won't read you the whole synopsis, there's a synopsis that I could read for you right now, but basically it has real cars. You get under the hood, you solve problems, you go drive the cars. All right. You create your own mechanic. Would this, though, Adam, here's the really interesting question. Would this solve the need to do things that you've been complaining men don't do enough of?

I don't know. A hundred feet from here, I got a shop. I got two cars up on jack stands, and we're, like, swapping the transmissions in them. So there's no simulation. It's going on a hundred feet from where I am. But it's cool, and I appreciate feet from where i am but it's cool and i appreciate it and people should do it and i'd rather my son do this than play fortnight yeah all right we uh we have your story drew yeah your secret family yeah we got some uh who stuff

secret family drew do you want to do that you want to do the WHO thing? All right. Whatever you want. All right. I'll start the secret family story. So one night, low, maybe 15 years ago, something like that, you and I were on Loveline and Mark Young was here, the guy I wrote the Mirror Effect book with. USC professor. USC business school professor and he's essentially a professor of human behavior and business. And he and I had met.

He's a neighbor. And we'd met out in the street. And we were talking about celebrities. And that's how we ended up. I kept saying, we have lots of trauma and narcissism. And we started bringing in our narcissistic inventory. But before he started doing the testing that drove Adam crazy for many years, he was just sort of hanging out.

And in the early stage of his relationship with us and with me, he goes to me, he says, you know, I'm a big fan of film noir. And I said, my mom used to be in those films. She was in these films like The Big Easy, I think it was called. You know what film noir is? And I said, my mom used to be in those films. She was in these films like The Big Easy, I think it was called. You know what film noir is? These sort of detective films in black and white. And so while we were on the air one night, he goes ahead and looks my mom up.

And he goes, oh, here's a whole thing dedicated, a biography dedicated to her. Yeah, at least Dansbury. Married at 18 to some dude, some William Mister. There was a silent film Western star. Brought her out here, married. And I was like, well, that's interesting. Never heard that. Never heard. No, I had no idea.

Zero idea. This is 20 years ago? That Mark said this to me? Yeah. I think it was about 15 years ago. Okay. And I was like, I had a typical reaction. I go, I think I raised this with you at the time.

I said, some of you guys have silent film star, wife number five. Does somebody owe me some money? Is this guy, is this something here that I. Wife number five? Wife number five at the age of 18. Your mom was 18? Mom was 18. He was, this was wife number five? Wife number five at the age of 18. Your mom was 18? Mom was 18. This was wife number five for him.

Wow. So let's sort of think about that being a love line call. He's 55. Right. She's 18. Wife five. Comes to Los Angeles. All I heard was regale.

This is a long story. You tell me if I'm going off the rail at all with this. She used to regale me with us. It's a whole family of stories about who she hung out with. She was on TV. She was a TV. She was an opera singer, but she fashioned herself an opera singer. But she had come out here, and suddenly she was kind of singing for big bands that toured.

And then she was in a lot of TV and then some film. Is there a website we can go to? Just look up Helene – Gary, Helene Stansbury. Stanton. Helene Stanton. They changed her name to that. And she would always talk about Carolyn Jones who we saw on Love Boat. She was Morticia.

Yeah, there's Dean Stanton. That's your mom. Yeah. And we'd talk about Anne Bancroft. She looks like Paulina a lot. A little bit. A little bit there, yeah. Yeah, it's funny because-

Go to the one below that one, just below. I'll let you keep rolling ahead. That one. Go ahead. I'll let you roll along, but it's quite a siren. Yeah. Yeah, my grandmother had those same sort of aspirations of being on stage and dance and stuff. And I sort of get the through line of the. It's difficult to be a mom and want to be on stage at the same time because it's kind of the opposite part of your brain.

You know what I mean? A mom is like, I'm going to give up all my shit, dedicate myself to this. Right. It's the ultimate behind the scenes kind of job. It's a mom, you know, except on stage. That's a different moment. You harbor resentments for having done that. You probably take all that out on your kid.

Yeah. So I got that. And well, my mom just gave her kid away. Yeah. I mean, my grandma, my grandma was just like, hey, I want to go out and dance at the Hollywood Bowl, but I can't with a two-year-old. So I'll give him away. I was busy.

What are you going to do? So she wanted to go live that life, too. For me, the Stockton connection was, so here's what you need. Here it says everything about my mom. She had a stepson for almost 10 years. And one day just cut him off. Gone. The stepson was cut him off. Gone. The stepson was the child of the guy.

Of one of the four wives before her, yes. Right, right. And they were married for 10 years? Roughly, yeah. And in Stockton? No, he ended up in Stockton practicing dentistry. I spoke to the guy. And just never...

If you remember, his daughter approached me at a gig you and I were doing at Santa Barbara. When was that? When we were doing those tours. Okay. That was like eight years ago. So the stepson, when do you think she knew him? From what age to what age for the kid? Eight to 18, something like that.

Eight to 18. like 8 to 18 and just yeah and uh when she was done with that life that was goodbye that was that boom cut him off right it might she reminds me of don draper it just didn't happen remember don draper talking to yeah i i don't i don't want to defend your mom too much but if your mom was so young, like 18, when that kid sort of came into her life, it's got to be a weird relationship. Yeah. Having an eight and 18 year old. Like, I don't know if she ever felt like he was her son or stepson or mom or probably. Now, look, a nurturing woman.

You know, like Lynette's a nurturing woman. Lynette would have had a relationship with that kid your mom wasn't that so so it's part your mom but it's also a circumstantial thing yeah like that's kind of a weird one yeah right okay and and he didn't harbor much resentment when i spoke to him which was right right he said it was like having another kid in the house. Right, right. 18-year-old. Right. Fucking weird, right? So they're married for 10 years. So here's a little comedy.

So I'm talking to the dentist from Stockton. I'm telling you this story because of Stockton. And so she was constantly repeating stories. She repeated them to you. Remember, you used to complain about it. Right? Any sentence that starts with, I used to complain about it right any sentence that starts with i used to complain about um i'm in yeah i'll buy it yeah you could fill in remember shells at the end of that i just go i guess i must have complained about conscious for a while and it's a period

i i would complain about everything so this is the comedy goes, yeah, my dad was an asshole. He drank a lot. Finally, she'd had it, whatever. And he goes, you know, they live down by the La Brea Tar Pits, sort of in that area. And every Sunday night, a couple came over. Every Sunday night. And they partied every Sunday night. And the man was an artist artist that excuse me, a character actor. You recognize him.

He's definitely a famous movie actor. But the wife, I don't know, you may know her. I don't know. She would come. You know, she died on stage years later. And you may know her. She played Granny in the Beverly Hillbillies.

I'm like, what? Granny in the Beverly Hillbillies. I'm like, what? Granny in the Beverly Hillbillies? Wow. I watched that my entire childhood. Never did she go, well, that woman I knew. Ever. Isn't that something? Hey, just because when you grow up in Pasadena, did your house have a cement pond? No, we had no cement.

Swimming pool. No, we actually had a cement pond. Oh, you had a cement pond, but it wasn't the granny swimming pool. No, it wasn't a swimming pool. Welcome back to the Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classics. Up next here, episode 1190, titled The Poop Bucket. Yes, The Poop Bucket. That aired on November 18th, 2019.

The fellas are fed up with how the youth just don't get it. They talk about their generation versus the new generation. Get off my lawn. Listen up. I'll tell you what I've been thinking about a lot lately, because I've been out doing no safe spaces and everyone's asking me the same questions like, how did we get here? What's going on? What's going on on these college campuses?

And something you and I speak about a lot, the self-esteem movement. And I was like, I think we're here because of the self-esteem movement. I had a weird insight, though. Let me modify that if you don't mind. Go ahead. And that is somebody else, Bob Forrest. Bob Forrest, you know, the guy with the glasses and the hat that I do stuff with. We have with and sometimes do the podcast with You Live.

And he has given up on treating younger drug addicts, meaning teen, 20s, early 30s. Why? Why, you ask? Because they don't perceive hierarchies. And therefore, he as a clinician or his life experience or the physicians he works with have no impact. They don't register with these young people, especially when they're addicts. And I thought to myself, and this is the part – you and I have talked about this before. But there's a part that suddenly occurred to me.

I remember when my kids were young, like sort of third grade to fifth grade age going, yeah, these kids this age, this group, they go to adults as though they're a resource. They go to them for questions and they go right up to them and they have no problem asking them questions and asking for help. And I thought this is such a positive thing. No, no. I don't think they even perceive them as adults. You know what I mean? They were just sort of objects for their utility.

And there was no like – the reason they could go so easily up to us is we didn't – we were sort of probably youth preoccupied ourselves, right? We weren't being adults the way we should, which is really a problem on college campuses. They're not being adults, the administrators. We probably had a bit of that in our parenting style. And so, yeah, there was nothing there to respect. They just came to us as just another object in their environment for their benefit. Well, I think we can also blame Madison Avenue,

and I do want to thank our sponsors, Manscaped.com and LifeLock.com and Pluto.tv. When Madison Avenue started going after the coveted, you know, 18 to 24 time slot or demo, we all started realizing we wanted to be 18 to 24 too, and telling people what to do and being an authoritative figure isn't really being young. It's being old. You know, it was a tacit agreement between the young people didn't want authority and

we didn't want to act old and provide authority. So there was now I'm realizing when I tell people, hey, clean your office, I'm just an old guy standing in a threshold of a doorway saying clean your office. There's no reason to do it. Old guy, when we were young, at least met, hey, man, respect your elder. Now it's a big knockdown. Now you're irrelevant. It means irrelevant. It means maybe I'll clean my office, but I probably won't.

And it's not going to be based on whatever you say. Right. When I, you know, told my 19-year-old nephew, hey, clean out the front of the shop, the flower bed. I got a heavy hitter coming in tomorrow. It's like, you never did it. And when I talked to him, he's like, yeah, it's based out. And I'll tell you the thing that's interesting about all this stuff. When I would say, clean your office, and they wouldn't clean the office,

and then I would tell them again to clean the office, it's not like they cleaned it the second time. They just would never do it. And when I told my nephew, hey, never cleaned out the front of the flower bed, in front of the shop, he goes, yeah, I had a brain fart. It's not like he walked past me and grabbed a rake and a and a broom and then went and did it he just walked past me and said i had a brain fart yeah i spaced out and then i had to stop and we go like an hour later i was like

you know you still have to go out and do that right and he's like what like like like this this is where it's this is where it's now crossed into, you know, those. It's like you're not even there. In all those movies when the world's going to end because of climate change. And they go like, Dr. Monroe, but your predictions were over 300 years. And he goes, I was way off. It's Wednesday. We have 48 hours.

Like, it's that moment, like, when you realize, oh, they're never going to do this, or they're not going to do it, or just because they whiffed it the first time doesn't mean they're doing it the second time. I was way off. But is it not the case that what's absent is fear? Yes, 100%. Yeah, because when you and I were kids, an old man, Johnson, said, hey, man, you didn't rake my arm. You'd be like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

But the absence of fear and then in its vacuum, super high self-esteem. Because I was thinking to myself, what could get a bunch of people on campus, a bunch of 19-year-olds to go, that person is not allowed to come to this campus while I'm here and share ideas. It's super high self-esteem. Because you're giving me a look, and the look you're giving is, you didn't know that was an option of things you could do

when you were 19. Never. You didn't know you could sit in an office when you were 19 and have somebody tell didn't know you could sit in an office when you were 19 and have somebody tell you to clean the office who owned the building and you had an option. That box was never going to do it.

Did you know that was an option when you were 19? I did not know. By the way, I still don't know. While you were telling me to do whatever it is you were telling me to do it, I would start doing it before you got to the end of whatever you wanted me to do.

I would imagine so. Why does that not happen? I want you to go out to my pickup truck and go to the bed of the truck. You'd be talking to my back because I'd be walking out to your pickup truck. I didn't know there'd be the, I'm not going to look up from my computer screen, as an option. be the, I'm not going to look up from my computer screen, as an option. So you wouldn't have known as a 19-year-old at Amherst if so-and-so was coming to speak, then so-and-so is coming to speak because that's what people do.

Either wanted to see them or not wanted to see them. It's either go or not go. You would have never entertained the notion of stopping them from speaking, right? Not an option. Not an option. Not on the list. It wouldn't even have been something you had to prevent yourself from doing because it wasn't an option. It was not a thought that could possibly have occurred to me.

Right. But. Nor was it an option to go up and crap on the stage when he was. You know what I mean? It's just not even like... Well, first things first. It had nothing to do with you. Right. It was none of your fucking business.

Right. Either the person... You treated it like a band. It was either a band you wanted to see, Scotty Snotty and the Hankies. How'd you know? Or it was a band you didn't want to see. Who performed at my prom.

I know. My point is this. That's how you treat it. It's like, oh, I'd like to go see this or or I'm not. And I and it has nothing to do with me. Think about now. I always say my latest five years, all roads lead to narcissism. That's everything. Everything we're trying to explain any everything. Why would this happen? Why would they do that? Why would this it all just lead to narcissism. That's everything. Everything we're trying to explain, everything like, why would this happen?

Why would they do that? Why would this? It all just goes to narcissism. Narcissism is the hub and the spokes just go out. But the self-esteem movement, which we thought was going to be fantastic for everybody, it turns out it's okay if you're alone on a bus. But when you're sharing a college campus, it's not a good thing. No.

Because you shouldn't even have thoughts about preventing people from speaking. And that is a high self-esteem. By the way, you don't own the college or the campus. You're just kind of renting it for four years and hanging out. I didn't even have that level of sense of my belonging there. I was sort of like a servant. I was like a serf.

Yeah. Yeah, I never, my feeling, I never went to college. I told you, they were going for, I know this, I know it. Still, there was a 19th century sort of leftover something there, and they were going for monastery meets prison. That's what they were going for.

And delivered, by the way. Delivered both quite nicely. Yeah, and I was just on a construction site, and if anyone told me get in a hole or get on the roof or go to my truck, I told that a foreman who told me to go to his truck, and I started going to his truck, and he just went, run. I just started running because that's what he told me to do. Because he was the foreman. And then I was the guy, I was the labor. So that was our hierarchy back then. But maybe I could learn something from him and maybe I could get paid more money. Right. Or I could tell him to talk to the hand old man. Well, if you don't perceive hierarchies, why would you think you could have anything to gain from him?

There's nothing to gain from a non somebody. You don't understand he's moved up a hierarchy for any reason because there's no hierarchy. We'll be right back with more of the Adam and Dr. Drew show classics. We'll be right back with more of the Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classics. Welcome back to the Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classics. Again, I'm your host, Big Brother Jake. And finally here on the show, one of my favorites, Theo Vaughn.

He returns. That's episode 461. That aired on November 20th, 2016. Theo talks about his dad being 70, 70 when he was born, and Adam laments on how worthless his father was. Check it out. Theo Vaughn is our guest. Speaking of boys being back.

Mm-hmm. I don't have a bio for him, but I'd give him a plug if I did. Adult male. Sorry, someone must have thrown it away. I'll be right in with you. That's what they do. That's why you got to check. Theo Vaughn, everybody. Product of a normal, spontaneous vaginal delivery.

Adult male. Can you guess if I was breech or not, Drew? I'd guess breech. You would? Just checking how your whole life has gone. Wow, dude. Am I right? I don't know.

I take no offense to it. I feel like. I was probably natural born. My mother's tough. She's Midwestern. Well, you'd be natural born for each. His dad is 70, or was 70, sorry, when he was born. Yeah.

And we used to play on his walker in the yard. I remember when I was really little, we used to climb on his walker. Wow. How old were you when he's still around? No, he'd be 107, actually, this month. But, yeah, he was 86. He died when he was 86 and he was older. So you were 16-ish.

Yeah. I always wondered, you know, men that you – do you have siblings by other moms? Three siblings, same dad. Same mom. Did he distribute them across many, many years or all later? No, four years. And so he married your mom much later in life. Yeah.

And was she older too too, or no? She was 32 when I was born. Okay. So I always wonder about these guys that choose to have kids with somebody in their 70s and beyond. To me, that seems— Hold on. These guys who choose to have kids in their 70s and beyond. You mean these girls?

No, the men. The men. The men. The women. Who choose to have kids with somebody with their 70s and beyond. I mean, no, the men. I'm about to talk about the men. You're wording it a weird way.

All right. Sorry. The guys who have kids in their 70s. Yes. Yes. The guys who do that. But the women are doing it. The women are doing it, but the women are responding to a biological drive, and I'd

have other issues. Yeah, right. But the men seem to be like, it's such like the ultimate narcissism. It's like I'm not going to be around when you finish high school. I know it, except in my head I am because I'm never going to die. Right. And how did you – do you have feelings about that now? That was exactly – I mean you really kind of just summed up the bill of goods that I was kind of sold, you know.

And I'm just kind of dealing with some of that emotionally in my life now at this point. I'm just kind of realizing I'd always put my dad on like this weird pedestal. But then now I'm realizing that he wasn't really a dad. A lot of it was just like romanticizing it, you know, and stuff like that. So coming to terms with that, I mean, I'm against it. I would vote no on senior penis, basically. One of the greatest drug lords ever were. Senior penis?

The Mexican. That's what he said, right? You want to talk about instilling fear into the heart of the hearts of... Many. Yeah, many. Many along the border, especially. Yeah, many along the border. I don't want to tell you what was in that duffel bag, but it wasn't heads.

Well, hey, speaking of... This is the work of Señor Penis. He strikes again uh remind a nick uh tell matt come in and remind me i gotta call i gotta call my dad oh nice my dad's funny my dad is a funny guy you know it's an interesting thing uh pride where there should be a vacuum of pride but pride you know it's like a lot of people you see that

the mama she went to jail for putting her kid in a coma with a flip flop and she's like I love my kids don't you tell me where's all the pride coming what's the rush of pride?

My dad's funny because my dad has a lot of pride. Is it pride or righteous indignation? Ooh, that's a good question. It's funny. We call it pride, but because there's zero accomplishments connected to it, it's not pride.

It's a little anger. Indignation of some type. Mixed with it's me. Don't say indignation, dude. You can say sanding indignation, but don't say indignation. It's a racial slur, isn't it? He doesn't...

I think it means you're half black or one quarter black. The thing that's funny about my dad... Oh, yeah, I do need Matt. Just remind me to call. Tell him need Matt because I got to tell, just tell him to remind me to call. Tell him to call. I want to hear this conversation. Tell him to check my schedule and tell him to see if it's open for Friday.

But my dad has no, nothing to offer, obviously. No one of my fathers, anything. They're the least target rich environment in the world. Your dad can play trumpet. He can play a little flugelhorn. Yeah. No, there's no reason to go hang out with my dad or my mom, right? Right.

So what I'll do is I'll just go four months without calling my dad, and then I can tell he's got this pride. But he doesn't want to go a year without he wants to essentially call me and then pretend like i called him and then kind of get pissed of why i didn't he'll call me and get mad that i didn't call him and go to lunch it's a weird it's a weird thing yeah but i kind of enjoy it i don't really care but i can tell he's kind of pissed about it and he doesn't because my whole thing is uh i've had this conversation with my wife before, which is like where she went like she stopped doing it. But she used to go like, we never do anything. We never go anywhere.

And I just went, you got to give me one example where you said, let's go to dinner this weekend with Drew or let's go ourselves or let's go to a movie and dinner or let's take the kids and go on vacation this Christmas. And I went, no, you got to give me one because football game the answer game i've asked you a million times wow oh you i'm not going to fuck that first off they don't serve beer where it we sort of do it at my house it's a block blocks away at your house we'll serve you up at my house okay we'll load you up, dose you up properly. Put that on the schedule. Dose him up. Pistol Pete him. By the way, UCLA is

playing... USC. Okay, well that's something else. Half the time they're playing like Irvine State or something. They're 53 point favorite. I don't like theirs or something. UCLA is next weekend. It's the weekend Rack. I don't like theirs or something. Yeah. UCLA is next weekend. Mm-hmm. All right. It's the weekend after Thanksgiving.

All right. What is that, Drew? What is his problem that he has? Figure me out for Friday and call my dad or something. Or tell me to call. Yeah. Yeah, you can call. Tell him you're you. He knows me. I call him Uber for him. Friday is...

It's pronounced Goober. Friday open? No, you've got Chassis Press. Sorry, go ahead. Yeah, you're relatively open. Relatively. All right. Well, you find the time. Afternoon-ish.

Yeah. I'll take my dad to lunch. Gary, check out the date of that game. I think it's this weekend. All right. We'll figure it out. Anyway, your dad, 70. Yeah, 70.

Not fair to you. Yeah. But there's a weird thing that young males do. You're very 70. Yeah, 70. Not fair to you. But there's a weird thing that young males do. You're very right. I'm sorry. I was giving bad information. Good. I'll be in Reno. Good.

Nice move. You baited him and then bailed on it. You asked for one example. And by the way, it's funny you would bring it up because I was just getting my balls busted for this too. Just this morning. Tell me about it. Wow. I mean, Tell me about it. I mean, we never go anywhere.

We never take vacations. We go to New York all the time. And we just got back from fucking Bali. Wow. And I'm like, wait a minute. Yeah. But you dare not bring this all up in the heat of battle because then you're just an asshole. Yeah.

Gary, right on the screen, when does this air? Now I'm starting to float a little bit with your weekends and my weekends. you're just an asshole yeah gary right on the screen when does this air i'm then i'm now i'm starting to float a little bit with your weekends and my weekends and everything else but um it is a weird there's a weird thing i um i think chicks are allowed to feel a certain way these days yeah and that's just the way they feel and i i've had this argument drew yeah with my wife and or my daughter where my daughter's like yelling at me you can't tell me i can't feel this way and i was like yes i can you you can't just if you feel if you like, I mean, meaning your wife can feel like, oh, me and Drew never do anything. But you just got back from Bali and you go to New York every other weekend.

So she goes, but I have the right to my feelings. And it's like, well, it's a very slippery slope because you can feel like the neighbor kid molested your kid but there's no evidence but i feel that way and i know in my heart so lock them up like there's this weird thing that we're doing way way too much of as a society which is if you feel this way then those are your feelings and nobody can deny you those feelings. Your feelings can be valid and still unfounded. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? No, I do know what you're saying, but when they're unfounded, they're then null and void.

They're not null and void. They're real. You should pay attention to them, but they have no foundation in reality. So let's move on. It's a new – okay, you don't want to get in trouble. But I'm saying there's this new world order, and it's a very slippery slope, which is everyone's entitled to their feelings, and they go, okay. And then you feel like, I'm frightened.

Donald Trump's getting into the White House, and I'm scared because now there's a target on my back. And we all have to acknowledge those feelings. And my feeling toward that, and I don't think you're helping whether you're a child or chronologically an adult, but have the mentality of a child. I don't think we're doing those people a service by embracing that. Because I think what you're doing is you're creating fear and chaos and more feelings that we really need. I think it's, it's, it's somebody here, here's, here's the deal. Uh, you need the pilot to fly the plane. And when you hit some turbulence, you need a guy with a steady voice to get on the blower and go, we hit a little rough patch air, buckle up. It should be okay.

Uh, we've had, you know, we, this has been reported. It's, we hit a little rough patch air. Buckle up. Should be okay. This has been reported. It's going to be a little bumpy going in, but it should be fine. We don't need a guy to grab the mic and go, oh, my God. Oh, my God. Assume the crash position because you're going to freak everyone on the plane out. Agreed. We know we're going to land statistically.

It's going to be safe. We need that voice. And the person in the back of the plane who's screaming we're all going to die is not entitled to be safe. We need that voice. And the person in the back of the plane who's screaming, we're all going to die, is not entitled to their feelings. That's what I'm saying, Drew. All right, that's it for this week. Thanks for listening to the Adam and Dr. Drew Show Classics. Remember to check back each week for new episodes. And while you're at it, don't forget to like, subscribe, and rate us five stars wherever you get your podcasts. I'm your host, Big Brother Jake, and thanks for tuning in. Deuces!