An Army of Normal Folks - Serving The Quarterback Who Broke Your Records
Episode Date: August 16, 2024For the latest "Shop Talk", Coach Bill's tribute to his late friend Steve Davis, an Oklahoma quarterback and true servant leader.Support the show: https://www.normalfolks.us/premiumSee omnystudio.com/...listener for privacy information.
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Hey everybody, it's Bill Courtney with An Army Normal, folks.
Welcome to Shop Talk number 20.
I think we ought to have a bell, Alex.
Shop Talk number 20.
I got it on the free.
I don't know.
We need a bell.
Shop Talk number 20.
We're going to talk about servant leadership and we're going to talk about it through the
prism of a late friend of mine who actually
played football for the University of Oklahoma.
It's a great story and it's a great lesson.
We'll be right back with servant leadership with my buddy Steve right after these brief
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Hey everybody, welcome back to Shop Talk number 20, where I just want to briefly talk about
servant leadership.
And this is probably not going to be the only time I talk about servant leadership.
Because I think there's lots of different ways to display servant leadership.
But a guy named Steve Davis, who I was so fortunate to meet, displayed a kind of servant
leadership as a mentor that I think is phenomenal, really.
It's a great story.
It actually, Steve was highlighted in my book, Against the Grain, in one of the chapters
that we call, How Leaders Are Def defined. You can read all about him
if you've got the book and if you don't buy the book and you can read about him and other stuff.
But I want to share his story as it pertains to servant leadership.
Steve was the quarterback from the University of Oklahoma. I was, I am too young to have followed Steve as he
played in the early 70s. In fact, when he introduced himself to me some years back,
he mentioned that he played quote, a little football in college. I didn't really have
any clue who he was, but afterwards I'd Googled him and looked up his stats and this guy who
played a little football was the MVP of the 1976 Orange Bowl.
He ran for 33 touchdowns and passed for 21 on Oklahoma teams on their heyday that went 32 wins, one loss, and one tie.
So not only did I find out that Steve was a dog, he was humble because he mentioned he played a
little football the other thing about Steve is pretty incredible is he was
number eight on the depth chart when he showed up at Oklahoma and ended up after
the seventh guy got a broken arm being the starter for University of Oklahoma
and ended up with the stats and the world that I told you about.
Why I herald him as a servant leader is obviously he was a leader on the football team and at Oklahoma.
But I met him because he organized quarterly lunches for
the Fellowship of Christian Athletes where he brought together X Division One coaches
and players, prominent business leaders, high school coaches, and he had hundreds of people
who forged meaningful relationships in this work. And this guy even in 1975 when he was still a quarterback at the University of Oklahoma,
spoke on a nationally televised Billy Graham crusade in Lubbock, Texas.
Just an amazing guy played for Barry Switzer on the field. He won and he inspired others.
So when I met Steve at the Circle Cinema in Tulsa
after a screening of Undefeated,
he asked me if I could speak at one of these events.
And of course I said, you know, call me.
I didn't think much about it.
And a week later he called me.
So I went and I spoke at the event in Tulsa
and got to be buddies with him.
After one event I flew back to Memphis with him and he talked about other stuff
he had set up in Miami for the Orange Bowl and at Notre Dame in South Bend,
Indiana and when we parted I thought to myself how much fun we were gonna share
and the future good work we could
do together. Six days later I received a call Steve was dead. He and his friend
Wesley Craves were killed when their small private plane the same exact plane
I'd just been on with them crashed into some homes in northern Indiana actually
going up to South Bend putting together some of the work that
he and I talked about doing together.
It was devastating.
It's devastating for his family, obviously, and devastating for the Oklahoma community.
But it was devastating to me personally.
I'd started to make a friend and a guy who I really respected and thought of as a leader.
Last August, not last August, August of that year, I went back to Tulsa to speak at a luncheon
that was held in his honor.
And I really couldn't stop thinking about him,
his parents, his siblings, his children.
But then I found out another piece of his story. At the time, Oklahoma
had another gifted quarterback that was named Landry Jones. You may have remembered him.
Once Landry was criticized for really poor performance and a loss that Oklahoma had to
Kansas State and Oklahoma doesn't like losing to Kansas State and he was getting blistered in the media. Steve reached out to him. Steve never had forgotten how much it hurt when
he was booed by the fans in Normand and the only single game he lost as a starting quarterback
for Oklahoma at 1975 when an unranked Kansas team beat them 23 to three. Steve said, it broke my heart. It made me feel like I'd let down
every sooner fan. Privately, it was one of the lowest moments of
my life and certainly the lowest moment in my career at Oklahoma.
Steve went on to mention how the Sooners rallied after that loss
to beat Missouri and Nebraska, and then Michigan and the Orange
Bowl to win their second straight national title with him
under center. It was his quote. It was a wonderful vindication of that one
November afternoon and the silencing of those booze that have forever
galvanized our team and made us all respect and love each other and to find
our team beyond our 32 all respect and love each other and to find our team beyond
our 32 one-on-one record.
With that experience, Steve knew what Landry Jones was going through.
So Landry was on the verge of breaking the old school records of 32 wins that Steve himself
held.
Steve didn't care. All he cared about was helping a man
facing the same expectations and the same sadness that he once did when he was beat by Kansas.
He wrote, Landry, you are a champion who has been blessed with indescribable athletic skill
and an exemplary personal history.
You will leave Norman owning virtually every passing record as well as being the winningest
quarterback in the 117-year history of Oklahoma football.
You've made sacrifices and commitments that few OU quarterbacks have ever made, and you
deserve that recognition and respect because of your discipline and determination.
Steve didn't have to write that letter to Landry. He wrote it because he wanted to serve
him as a leader through shared experiences as a mentor to let Landry know that it was going to be okay.
Later that year, Landry did break Steve records.
And the first person to stand up and applaud him was Steve himself.
Y'all, we can serve in a number of different ways.
You can serve as a mentor, you can serve as an advisor, but when you use your experience
and past life experiences to serve another young person who may be going through something
just like you, you don't have to be part of a 501 c three, you don't have to be part of
some big organization, you just see a need and you fill it. So, leadership and service
can come in a number of different ways. Sure, you can be a leader of a national championship
football team that's heralded as one of the best in the history of the game. But maybe
Steve's greatest measure of leadership was not what he did on the field as young man, but what he did
later in life mentoring another young man who had a similar experience to him.
Servant leadership guys, it is really how we change lives and I can't imagine a better
example of how that works than the story of Steve Davis. Think about it. Where can you
serve in order to lead? Where can you mentor? Where can you share experiences? Where can
you be part of an army of normal folks just seeing areas of need and filling it?
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podcasts.
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science podcast in America.
I'm a neuroscientist at Stanford and I've spent my career exploring the three pound
universe in our heads.
Join me weekly to explore the relationship between your brain and your life because the
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Listen to Inner Cosmos with David Eagleman on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or
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