anything goes with emma chamberlain - questions from guys

Episode Date: July 9, 2020

Emma is switching it up this week and answering questions from guys about girls. Everything you’ve ever wanted to know. Topics like how to recognize signs that a girl is into you, how to approach someone you like, great gift and date ideas, and jealousy in relationships. Plus, teaching guys all about periods, and answering the question that’s puzzled guys forever: why do girls all go to the bathroom together? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hi guys, welcome to anything goes. I'm Emma. Before I get into that episode, I'm gonna give you a little life update. Because why not? I'm trying to cuss less. I almost said cuss fuck it. Because I'm crazy and different and I cuss all the time and it makes me cool, right? But I'm trying to cuss less because the video I just uploaded today and recording this on a Sunday, the video I just uploaded today, I cussed so much in it and it like made me cringe but I'm going to post it anyway because whatever but I don't

know why I cussed so much in it. For some reason every time I do something on my computer in a video like if I'm reacting to something or I'm doing it like my subconscious, like just makes me cuss a lot. And it really makes me wanna just sew my mouth shut. But it's all about muscle memory. So I'm gonna try to train myself not to cuss. So I'm gonna try to not cuss this whole episode. No promises, it won't probably happen.

So first I want to talk about something that happened to me yesterday. So One of the few joys I have in life is getting my nails done Always been that way always will be I love getting my nails done a little manny petty never heard nobody Obviously right now things are a little bit running a little bit different um but you know like due to due to covid um but

I decided to get my nails done um in a safe and respectful manner of course so i show up to the nail salon and I get in and i'm like hey hey, can I use your guys' restroom before I start? Mind you, I had to pee so bad. I had two massive cups of cold brew before I got there. I was hurting. I had to go a little bit number two.

Number two. Also I had to. So it wasn't just number one. Okay, like I had to go. And I was like, can I use your restroom before I start? Nothing, you'd be a problem. You're like, oh no, due to COVID, we've closed our bathrooms.

But sit down. And I was like, oh, oh, I don't know, but I was like, okay, I guess I have to. So I like rush, I pick out a color, I get acrylics, so that's even longer of a process. I sit down, she's doing what I'm else, I'm squarming, I'm tense, my hand is all stiff, she's like telling me to relax my hand like I can't. I'm clenching my Southern region as hard as it possibly could. Like, it was miserable.

I was gonna get my toes done too, but by the time we were done with my nails, I was literally, I couldn't stand up straight. I was in so much pain. And so I just went home. It was awful. Not to mention the lady pressured me into this like new way of applying

acrylics that like it's some sort of polygel thing but it's like not polygel. I don't I don't even know what it is and they're kind of weird but they're also kind of I don't know how to feel about them. But I am so easily manipulated that literally she just was like do you want to try this new thing and I was like I don't know and then she was like you should do it and I was like okay, I don't know how to say no. So anyway, so working on that. But whole experience was a nightmare. In addition, what else has been going on with me?

Oh, just drove my friend to the airport this morning at 5 a.m. So like, my brain's a little bit broken today. Brain is a little bit broken.. Brain is a little bit broken, but we're still gonna record anyway, cause like this is the best time to record is when my brain is like slightly broken. So yeah, I just wanted to give you guys a little treat, broken brain treat, and I drove her to the airport.

I got up at 4.45, got to her house by 5, drove her to the airport. I got up at 4.45. Got to her house by 5. Drover to the airport. It was super beautiful out this morning, like fog everywhere. God, I literally love fog. Like, imagine this slender man scene with all the fog. I love that. I love that shit. If you don't know I'm talking about, just think of a lot of fog and you'll kind of get the same idea. I love fog, it was super foggy. I think it might've been because of all of the fireworks last night

because it was 4th of July yesterday. They, I don't know what was going on, but the sky and everything was so hazy, but it was kind of amazing. And I'm listening to cigarettes after sex, driving home and they're a band. And I'm just, I just felt like I was being sent and do a different dimension.

It was, it was quite magical and different. So I just wanted to share my morning and I like watched the sun come up, God, it was really special. So that was that, that's my little life update. That's what I'm in up to. But today's topic, actually, I want to go into about what? Emma, speak normally. Thank you.

So I really struggled to come up with a topic for this week, like completely brain, not work, working, brain not working could not come up with the topic. But then I remember that I said in last week's episode that I wanted to do an episode about giving advice to guys that want like girl advice, right? Because, you know, I'm a girl and I know all the secrets. So I wanna give the boys in on the secrets, right? Like what they're missing out on, what they don't know about. So I'm really excited because I've always felt like

I give really good advice to my guy friends. But say bless you, thank you. I always felt like I gave really good advice to my guy friends where they're it came to like dating. Although for some reason, my guy friends in the past, like every guy friend I've ever had, they don't want to take my girl advice. Like I will give them free girl advice,

but I've never had a guy friend that like comfortably and openly accepted my advice about girls. Like it makes them uncomfortable for some reason and I've noticed that. So this is a great opportunity for me to give advice to guys about girls that you know maybe guys are too nervous to ask. I know so many people make videos like this but or like podcasts or whatever, but I want to take my own little special spin on it because I feel like I have some good insight because I am a woman. So I'm excited.

I got not a lot of questions because I don't think a lot of dudes listen to this, but this is a great opportunity to send this podcast to your guy friends that either need fashion advice, girl advice, they're just not doing it right. You can send this episode to them and be like, hey, let me help you out a little bit, you know? And do it you will. All right, let's get right into it. Oh my dad's calling me.

Hi, actually, I'm recording my podcast right now. And my episode, no way, but my episode is questions that guys have for women. If you want to send any over like when you're younger, like things that you worried about girls, that would be awesome. Like anything that you wondered about girls when you were younger, that you wish you would have known and that you think I should answer. I know exactly what you're saying. Will a girl ever show when they like you?

OK, that's a great one. Thank you so much. Bye. OK, great. So I don't know if you guys heard my little brief combo with my father. My dad did actually ask me a question. So this is a great start to the episode.

My dad, a little, he's like, you know, he's obviously a dad now. So I don't think he wonders this anymore. But I think this is a question that he had when he was young early. So that's how he phrased it. First question from CP, how do you know if a girl likes you because girls never show when they like a guy, or at least they rarely ever do? So how do you know?

And why do girls not show that they like you? Why are they not bold about it? This is a great question because I, in fact, not bold about it. This is a great question because I, in fact, am so good and so talented at making it seem like I don't like a guy that I like. I am the CEO of it, in fact. So, to address the first part, how to know if a girl likes you, this is a very, this is a question that needed to be in here. To be honest, good luck. Point blank period, good luck. It's really hard to know because I think girls are amazing, Oscar winning Academy award winning actors when it comes to acting like they don't like you. Okay, they're going to be saying things that I'll throw you off on purpose. They're gonna be saying things like, hey, you should date her to gauge like where you're at.

They're gonna not text you for days just to like keep you wondering. They're gonna play the game. Like girls play the game. At least most of them, I mean, for me, I actually, I think it depends on what type of guy I'm talking to. Like, if I'm talking to a guy that's obviously a little bit more of a player, you know, then you're gonna play that game. But if you're talking to like a good guy,

you're not gonna be playing games. That's at least my experience. But some girls are like that with any guy because they just assume every guy is a player So they want to keep the guy guessing and they don't want the guy to get comfortable. I would say if you want to know if a girl likes you They might be doing those little things like they might be not texting you for a few days And then they'll randomly pop in and ask you how you're doing or they'll like Tell you that you should date their friend or something.

Little things like that that seem kind of off, where you're like, why are they saying that? That's unnecessary to say. There's no reason for them to be saying that. Why would they say that? That's definitely one way to tell. And I think if a girl is gravitating towards you, I said this in another episode about guys

because I think guys do this too. But if a girl is kind of gravitating towards you in a public setting or in a group setting, always wants to sit next to you subconsciously, even like sometimes girls don't even know that they're doing that, but they'll choose to sit next to you or they wanna be your partner for group activity or little things like that, but they'll like choose to sit next to you or they wanna be your partner for like group activity

or like little things like that, like they wanna be close to you. But like, even if they're acting like they don't care or that they don't wanna be around you or that that was just a coincidence and like they don't actually wanna be sitting next to you, it's probably not a coincidence. It's these tiny little things.

They're gonna give you the tiniest of Easter eggs and you're just gonna have to guess. I feel like girls don't feel comfortable showing that they care until you show that you care because a lot of girls have been played before. A lot of girls have trust issues. I don't know one girl that doesn't. And so girls have a hard time showing like,

hey, I'm interested because they've done that before and it led to them being heartbroken because they showed weakness and it led to them being played, right? So they don't trust guys anymore. They don't trust that process anymore. They're like, I need to have my guard up to the fullest extent because if not,

I'm gonna get hurt. It's a protection thing. So that's why girls do that. Also because I think showing weakness in general is scary. Like, girls want to seem too cool sometimes, you know, for guys, they want to seem like they don't care to seem cool, you know what I mean? I do this subconsciously, and I'm actually having to teach myself to undo it, like to undo that part of myself, like, and learn how to be like affectionate verbally with guys, be like, oh my God,

you're so awesome. Like I literally have a trouble with that, because of my, because you know, people have played me in such in the past. And so, you know, I have to like relearn how to not be like that because not every guy's using you, you know what I mean? But it's hard once it happens once to believe that it won't happen again. Because the thing about girls is that when they go into their first few relationships or talking stages with guys, girls are very naive, right? And they just think, oh my god, this guy's into me and he's definitely not just saying

these sweet nothings in my ear. He actually means the things that he's saying. Whatever. And then six months later, you find out that he only liked you for superficial reasons and used you for X, Y, and Z and was saying these sweet nothings to you to get what he wanted from you and then he dropped you. And then you're like, oh my God. You lose all hope in love in general because you're like, if somebody can fool me that well, like I'm never letting somebody fool me like that again. And then the truss issues just last for the rest of their life.

So that's kind of why that happens. It's really too bad. But yeah, it's really sad and I think girls can grow out of it a little bit, not like fully, but I think girls can grow out of it. But it's tough. This episode is brought to you by State Farm. There's no instruction manual when it comes to being an adult.

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Okay, next I'm going to start reading questions from Twitter. Okay, first guy said, I kind of get really nervous when I'm around a pretty girl. I feel like I don't want to embarrass myself in front of them. Do you have any advice or have you ever experienced something like this? Well, I always get nervous in front of guys that I think are cute, for example. I mean, I don't know anybody who doesn't get a little nervous, but this is the time to tap

into your funny side or to tap into your intellectual side or whatever, just tap into like a cool part of your personality that you're proud of, right? I think that whether this sucks, it sucks to say, but you know, personality and first impressions do make an impact. I mean, I'm not saying that like you can't turn it around if you fuck up the first time like you can always get a second chance or usually. But I think that tap into your funny side,

tap into your intellectual side, have a conversation with this person, get kind of like distract yourself with your conversation so that you're not thinking about how you feel about them on the outside. Because listen, even if somebody's really attractive, they're still a normal human being and they have a similar brain chemistry to you, probably.

So like, they're not that different from you, you know what I mean? And there's no reason to be nervous. They're probably not thinking much about it. So just be funny, show your smart side, and don't like, you know, close up into a little ball. Try not to do that. Because trust me, they want to know who you are.

You know what I mean? They want to know you, right? So don't like curl into yourself because you're nervous. I know it's sometimes not up to you, but try your best to like be outgoing as much as you can and like make them feel like you want to be talking to them. Because I think that sometimes a kid, when you're nervous or quiet, it can come off like, oh, I don't want to be,

it makes the person think like, oh, I don't want to be talking to them, which in your case is not true. So, you know, let them know that you like to talk to them. Start a conversation about something and you can fucking do this. King, you got this. Have fun with it. And I think that if you show your personality, the more you show your personality, the more

there's a future in that relationship possibly, you know? Because girls love guys with personality. And even if it takes you some time to come out of your shell and show that personality, that's totally fine. I think just trying to get there eventually and show her who you really are. And I think she's gonna love it. So moving on.

Next question, I love this so much. I love this one. Do girls actually like nice guys? Okay, so this is a controversial question because I actually know so many girls that are only attracted to absolute douchebags. Like I know women like this, I know them, they exist. And that's totally fine.

Whatever girl, enjoy it. Have fun. Take them. Get them off the rest of our hands. Okay. I, but I get it. Okay. I get it. I think like when you first start dating and you're younger, you like the douchebag. For some reason, like, I don't know. I went through a phase like this. Like, it just happens. You want to date the asshole. Or you have a crush on the asshole. Like, even back in the middle school days, like I had crushes on guys that literally bullied me because I was like, oh my god, he's bullying me,

but like, that's why I like want his approval. Which is very bad, not the right mindset, but I'm just being honest, and I'm honest on this podcast. I'm not recommending that mindset, but I'm just being honest and I'm honest on this podcast. I'm not recommending that mindset, but I'm just saying that's the truth of the matter here. I think in the beginning girls really romanticize the douchebags for sure. And they're like, well, I want to change him and turn him into a sweet prince and whatever. Or, oh my god, yeah, he's a douchebag, but he's so hot. Well, let me tell you, I remember I used to love douchebags

myself when I was younger, way younger, but still. And here's the hero's journey, in my opinion. Ladies, let me know if I'm wrong, but here's what happened, here's what I feel like happens. Okay, you're younger. You grow up and you're looking at all of your celebrity crushes are like the kind of cool jock in the movie, right? So you're kind of like a custom

to being attracted to the douchebags, right? That's all you know, that's what you saw in movies and found attractive. So then when you start to become attracted to boys in real life, you're like, oh my God, that's perfect. That's what I like. Just this like super tough guy, right? Just playing sports, throwing around the pig skin, you know?

And it's a stereotype for sure. And I don't think that it's, you know, whatever, but that's like what I think a lot of girls are initially attracted to. Don't worry, trust me, I'm not speaking for everybody. I'm just speaking for most of my friends, if not all, and many girls that I've known in my past. Then the next step is you date one, right? You date a douche bag.

Oh my God, dreams are coming true. You finally get to date one. Wow, best day ever. Yeah, he's an asshole, but he's so hot. Okay, then you do that. And then you get treated kind of like shit. Or you have a crush on one. You never even date them, but you have a crush on one.

And they end up doing something that hurts your feelings. You might do that a few times. You might date a few douchebags after that. You might be like, well, maybe that was just a bad one. But then you're like, I'm done with this. It's nice boy time. I just want a nice guy that's not going to break my heart, not going to put me through emotional trauma.

I just want somebody that's going to treat me right that's still a good looking guy. Okay, the thing is girls will choose a guy that's like good looking, okay, good looking, when I say this, please take this with a grain of salt. I'm talking about what you're personally attracted to. Beauty is not the beholder. I'm not talking about the standards of beauty here. I'm talking about what you find attractive. Does that make sense? So

Who you think is cute? So that I'm not saying like in the broader scheme of things Who's attractive and who is and because that just doesn't really even exist? It's all up for interpretation. So I'm more saying like somebody who you find attractive, right? Okay So girls I feel like in the beginning will choose a cute guy that's a douchebag over a cute guy that's really nice because they like that challenge, right? And they like the fact that it's like, you know, what's the stereotypical like hot douchebag?

Like you know what I'm saying? But then eventually they're like, wait, I've been ignoring the really cute sweet guys that are actually nice and care about my feelings and actually want to have a healthy relationship with me and actually care about like me and then they're like oh my god What have I been doing this whole time? I love nice guys

And then they end up marrying a nice guy So that's I think why it says why the the saying says nice guys finish last Because yes a lot of girls will choose a douchebag. In the beginning, but then where are the douchebags left when it's time to get married? Nobody's marrying the douchebag. In the people who do end up marrying the douchebag. I'm praying for you. All right, because that sucks.

But I think that trust me, even though nice guys may finish last, they still cross the finish line. And they may do it in a more amazing way than the other ones. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't know. I don't understand why women sometimes like douche bags. Like, I don't get it. It doesn't make sense to me. And I don't know where it stems from. I try to analyze it just now. I don't know if that's what it is. I really don't get it. But girls do usually grow out of it. Some of them don't know if that's what it is. I really don't get it. But girls do usually grow out of it. Some of them don't, but most girls grow out of it and just want a sweet

guy. It's all they want. They fucking manifest it for their whole life and wait for the nice guy to come along that's their dream. And finally, they end up finding one usually. But like, you know, girls, it takes them some time sometimes to figure out that that's what they want, you know, girls, it takes them some time, sometimes, to figure out that that's what they want, you know? So be patient and the ladies will come around once they get older and get fucked over a few times. All right, next, do girls care about acne? Personally, I don't at all. Somebody who's had acne for years. I can't

imagine not liking somebody or like my opinion on somebody changing due to their acne. Like, this is the truth. I don't, I don't care. I get it. It's out of your control. It's like, and it has nothing to do with whether or not somebody's attractive. Again, like I said earlier, like somebody's attractiveness is not very superficial. It's like, I was thinking about this the other day actually. I was like, I wonder if I, if something like happened to me that made me look

completely different. You know, how would that affect, like, would that affect things? You know what I mean? Like, would, like, would people not be as attracted to me? Or people who already knew me especially? Like, would I what I like you know I was wondering like how much of this is personality based and then I thought about it and I compared it to like my opinion or my view on somebody and I was like thinking about like okay what if something like this happened to them or something like that would that change my my view on them and I kind of switched it around, right? And I was like, no, not at all

because I don't love people for how they look. On the outside, obviously there's something to be said for physical attraction. I'm not saying that like, that is irrelevant because it totally is. I mean, you need to be attracted to your significant other in my opinion, at least a little bit. I mean, that's crucial because there's a whole other element.

If you're not attracted to somebody, then you might as well just be friends and then have a fun friendship and call it a day. But if you're attracted to somebody, that's when it becomes a relationship if the feeling is mutual. So obviously physical attraction is necessary, but I think physical attraction is more than just

like how somebody looks on the outside. It's how they carry themselves. It's their personality affects the way that people look. I mean, think about it. You could meet somebody and be like, ah, they're cute. And then, you know, six months into knowing them, you're like, wait, this is the hottest person I've ever met because it's more than just the way that they look. It's like they become better looking to you over time once you get to know them and you know who they are. It grows over time.

So something like acne is completely irrelevant because it's about how you carry yourself and about your personality and how you click with that person. There's nothing to be, girls, I mean, if some girls might be like, you know, kind of superficial like that, those aren't girls you want to mess with anyway. Fuck girls that are, that would think like that and be like, no, I'm not going to date a dude that has acne because like, oh, he's perfect, but he has acne. You know what I mean? That's just, I don't think that that's fair.

But then again, it's like to each their own, right? Like, whatever. I mean, you can't control how your brain chemistry works, but I do think that girls usually aren't going to care about acne or about like, you know, weird things like that. Like I feel like girls, if they're in love with you in a sense, like you can have acne, you can smell bad. Sometimes you can shake your pants, you know, at a restaurant and they're still gonna love you because they love you in a way that maybe is kind of

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To a certain extent, I think it can be really fun. Like playful banter, you know, girls and guys going back and forth and just being playful. Ah, you know, ah. Just a little bit of playful, just playful stuff. But I think it can be kind of like, there's a fine line, because girls are really sensitive. So like, they will act like what you said

didn't hurt them, but it probably did. So if you're like, oh God, it looks like you're, you bought your pants from fucking children's place in the mall. Like a girl will be like, ha, fuck you, you know, your hat is from Lids. And like you think it's like this funny banter, but actually the girl's gonna go home and burn those pants because you said that they're from dresses, even if you're kidding and didn't mean it. So I think it's like, it's fine sometimes

that I think it's just be careful and make it, try to think about it in a sense of like, is this girl gonna get offended deep down? Is this gonna hurt her feelings? Cause girls deep down really do like, you know, want to feel pretty or want to feel cool to

tip not even just guys but girls everybody So like and that's human in general So when you get picked on it can kind of like Girls will not think it's a joke. They'll be like, oh my god, there's a truth. There's truth in every joke. So he meant what he said. He just was saying it in a joking manner. Like now I'm offended and I need to burn my pants.

Like that is how girls' minds works. So I mean, every here, like here and there, it can be fun. But just know that girls are probably thinking about it 10 times harder than you even would realize. And maybe just compliment her instead, but also playful fun, playful fun banter is fun. So I think it's just, you know, it's a balance and just be careful with it

because just know that girls are sensitive. And if she starts to act weird, afterwards be like, hey, that was a joke, by the way. Girls are so sensitive. I mean, and I am, I'm sensitive. So I'm guilty of this. And I don't know one girl who isn't like literally My friends and I will talk about like oh my god so and so said this to me and like I know it was a joke But I'm literally taking it personally. Please help like why am I taking it personally girls will do this. It's fucking crazy

Okay, next one What's a good way to impress a girl while still being respectful? Great question. I love how you included the respectful part that's really sweet and smart of you. I think if you wanna impress a girl, I mean, I really think it depends on like the girl,

what they think is impressive. It's obviously not gonna be the same for every girl. So I'm just gonna kind of speak for myself, my friends, the community of women, I know. I think that when it comes to personality wise, it's impressive when guys listen. This may sound random, but it's very true. When guys are interested in you and listen to you

and wanna talk to you and are attentive with what you're saying, it is beyond impressive. That's something that's universal. I don't know one girl that wouldn't be impressed by that. It's like super attractive. It's really like sweet, you know, like it's just great. So that's one way you can impress a girl. Number two, if you know how to skateboard,

bring it out. I can guarantee that that won't impress her. She will act like she doesn't care, but she does and she's very impressed, most likely. Speaking of that, any talent that you have, if you post it on your Instagram story or something or post it somewhere for her to see it, she's probably gonna be like, that's fucking cool.

Like, if you can crochet, God, I don't know, if you can crochet sweaters and you post it, and be like, oh my God, just crochet the sweater. Like showing little talents that you have, I think girls like guys that have their own like passions and things that they're interested in and hobbies. So if you show those off, I think girls are really impressed by that. When it comes to like being in a room with people, if like you can fit into any room, doesn't mean you're the most outgoing person in the room, but if you can fit into any group of people

and just hold your own, I think that that's really impressive. And that has nothing to do with the girl. It's not like the girl will just observe that and be impressed. And I think just being able to hold a conversation that's smart, funny, and interesting with a girl's impressive. Period. I think those things are all really fun and impressive and different.

Sorry, coffee break. Delicious. I literally drink coffee. This is the most basic thing I'm ever going to say, but I don't drink water when I'm dehydrated. I drink coffee and then it makes me more dehydrated. I just thought I'd share. And then I have constant headaches. He he he.

Anyway. Oh my God. Somebody fucking ask me does size matter. Do you mean size of your heart? Like size of like your, like your metaphorical heart? Yes, girls love when guys have a big heart because we love when guys care, you know? I hope that that's what you meant.

Oh, this is really, I love this. Okay, so somebody said, I'm not a guy, but this is a question coming from a queer girl for a straight girl to answer. Does it make you uncomfortable when a gay girl hits on you? Like how does it make you feel I'm so curious? It doesn't make me feel uncomfortable to be up personally. To be honest, I don't feel uncomfortable

when anybody hits on me. I take it always as a compliment. As long as it's respectful and not crossing any lines. And I don't know if this is the same. I feel like this might be universal for everyone. Being hit on is a compliment. I mean, some people don't like it, and it makes them uncomfortable, like, regardless. But for compliment. I mean, some people don't like it

and it makes them uncomfortable, like, regardless. But for me, I'm just like honored that somebody would do that. And I mean, I don't know if that's like normal, but I think it's really, it makes me feel good, right? Like, you're like, wow, it's so sweet. So yeah, I mean, but as long as I think in any scenario, like as long as it's respectful and, you know, in innocent, I think that there's no

harm in it in general and hitting on people. I just don't think that there's, I think most people are not going to get feel weird about it in general from anyone. This is broad. But yeah, me being hit on in general always a compliment as long as it's respectful. That's my answer. I'm getting so many good questions. I'm so excited. God, I just liked so many. I have so many.

I'm going to have to like answer these quickly so that I can get through all of them. This is so fun. Okay. So apparently a lot of guys don't understand how tampons or pads work. I'm getting a lot of questions about this. So I will explain to the best of my ability. As for a pad, the pad goes on your underwear.

So picture underwear. If you're looking at it, let's say you have underwear around your ankles. You're on the toilet. You're looking down. There's that little middle section that covers your little VGG. Okay. God, I don't think I've ever said the word vagina in any capacity on the internet. So that was interesting. Have I? Probably. Anyway, but basically a pad sticks right there on the underwear in that little spot in the

middle that goes in between the legs. And so then when you bleed on your period, the blood instead of going into your underwear gets caught in the pad. As for a tampon, there's a little applicator. So it's a, this made no sense to me before I got my period at 16. So literally I went 16 years without understanding how a tampon works until I finally got my period. Basically, there's this plastic applicator and inside is a tampon. So you stick the applicator inside of you that already has the tampon in it.

Then you push this little button and it inserts the cotton tampon into you and then you pull out the applicator, the plastic applicator. That probably made no sense, but you could also watch a video on YouTube and figure it out. Next, what kind of style the girls like? I mean, obviously, totally, like totally, you know, depending on the girl. I mean, I know some girls that like really like the whole kind of sporty guy look. A lot of girls really like the more like skater boy look,

some girls like the surfer boy look. Personally, I like when guys are like into fashion in a sense and have like, or like into that whole thing. Like that's my personal preference. But at the same time, I think that clothes are like, are like into that whole thing. Like that's my personal preference. But at the same time, I think that clothes are like people's personal expression.

And so dress how you feel, makes you feel confident and comfortable. And I think that, you know, most of the time a girl is gonna be okay with that. As long as you feel confident in what you're wearing. And like, you know, whatever. I mean, obviously there's certain things that are a turn off, but I think as long as you're comfortable

and happy in what you're wearing, also, girls will help you out if you want some help. So like, if you're like dating a girl and you're like, God, I wanna dress cooler for Asker, be like, how can I dress cooler? Like, I really want some advice. She'll probably take you shopping and swag you out. Okay, this is really interesting.

A girl said that she asked her brother why girls get offended when guys look at our chest or butt, it's supposed to be a compliment. Okay. I think that girls don't, girls don't want to be appreciated for their bodies as much as I think they want to be appreciated for things that are a little bit more innocent, right? Like I think that girls, I think girls want to be appreciated for their personality, their brain, their talents, their hobbies, the way that they hold a conversation, rather than their boobies or their butt, because

you know, that's something that women can't control. They're born with those things. And so if a guy just likes you for that, it seems really superficial and it doesn't seem like the guy actually likes you for you. Obviously, or the guy is interested in you for you. Also, I think it's kind of a respect thing. I think it's those are in the sense private parts and it can feel kind of unnerving. It's like obviously a compliment when somebody finds you attractive,

but I think that, you know, looking at somebody's boobs, like I just don't know. I just don't know if that's really a compliment. I think a compliment would be more to like get to know somebody and like find out if they're cool and then compliment their personality or their, you know, whatever. And then you can compliment their boobs maybe when you're dating them.

But I think when you don't really know someone, it can be a little weird. So maybe don't do that. Moving on, a guy asks, does hype matter? And if so, why does it matter so much? I think that girls want to feel like subconsciously protected by the guy, right? Like this is obviously, you know, for, I don't know, that's not always true. Like I think some girls don't care about height as much,

but I think that subconsciously a lot of women are attracted to a guy that's taller than them. Then them, not necessarily a guy that's super tall, but just a guy that's taller than them, because it makes them feel safe with them, and it makes them you know, feel protected in a sense, and also like there's something about a girl feeling smaller next to a guy that's like weirdly I don't know if it's attractive. I don't really know the word to use, but I think it's kind of like it's just nice you know, but I think that

I think it's kind of like, it's just nice, you know? But I think that everything is so circumstantial and I think that if like there was a short guy that was maybe like a girl's height who's also short, like if let's say a girl's 5'5 and a guy was 5'5." And like they really loved each other. Like I don't think that that would get in the way. I think it's just something that tends to be a preference

but I don't think that there's no room for exception. So you know what I'm saying? I think that a lot of girls, I mean, it also might be an aesthetic thing for some girls. Again, like a superficial thing, like, oh, it looks good because of the guy's taller and it's like society says, but I think that don't feel discouraged because they don't think that that's a deal breaker for most girls. I think that it's a preference for some, but I don't think that it's a deal breaker. I think that, you know, girls always have an idea of what they want in their head and then

the guy comes around and, you know, they're different than what they imagine, but they're still great and girls will see past those things. So, yeah. Guys said how to get out of the friend zone. I really think you need to. God, this is so hard. I think you honestly have a tap to have a conversation because I, I think that just like making a move can be really risky and can like make the girl. You don't know if she, well, if you know that the girl is interested in you, like 100% like you have confirmation, but you're still in the friend zone because that totally happens.

I think you make a move as long as you're aware that she's interested and you're aware that she would be okay with that. If not, and you're kind of like, God, I don't know if this girl likes me, be like, even as a joke, be like, I really like you a lot. Like you could literally make him do a joke. Be like, oh my god, I really like you. Sorry. And like if she's like, oh my god,

that's weird, because I feel the same way, huh? Then amazing, make a move. And then, you know, get into it and date them whatever. But if they're like, oh no, then you handle that accordingly. But like somehow find out whether or they're like, oh no, then you handle that accordingly. But somehow find out whether or not they like, I mean, you could even ask their friend. That's kind of a middle school thing to do, but you could be like, listen, I really like this person and I am too scared to ask, like, do you think that they like me or should

I just give up? I've done it. I've done it. So just, you know, and then regardless, find a way to kind of make a little move only. Someone asked, do girls really care about replying? I'm assuming that means to text, yes. Girls absolutely care about replying. I mean, you know, no girl wants to be fucking ghosted, you know?

Nobody in general wants to be ghosted, hello. So yes, definitely girls care about replying. They aren't just like, it's fine, I don't care. Everybody cares, everybody cares. 99% of people care about that. Next, what's the best way to pick up a girl in real life? For example, at the mall, parks, somewhere public, with other people around.

Okay, so I actually heard this on another podcast. Shout out to call her daddy. It's a great podcast. Although, if you are young, it is very rated R. So just, you know, proceed with caution if you take that wreck. But if you're like over 18, go check it out.

It's a funny podcast. Very raunchy though, I'm warning you, but I love the host and Jesus great. So anyway, but she was talking about how she picks up guys by writing her number on like an African or a piece of paper and just handing it to them and then walking away and then they can do what they want with it. I think that this is so fucking genius.

Here's where this is genius. Number one, it eliminates the awkwardness. Like there's no awkwardness. Now, because you just handed it to them, you walked away, if they wanna hit you up later or even come over and talk to you, great, the ball's in their court, you shot your shot, but it's not uncomfortable.

You didn't like get into their personal business. You didn't talk to them too much and make them kind of frustrated or annoyed if they like didn't want to have a conversation with you and you just suddenly start talking to them. Like it's like the safest bet and it is probably the most attractive option too because it's like wow, kind of mysterious.

Like he just gave me his number. Like wow, kind of mysterious. He just gave me his number. Like, wow, that's crazy. I think that that's genius. But if you for some reason don't have a piece of paper or something, I would say that you could go up to them and just give them one compliment and just be like, wow, I really love your outfit. Or wow, your eyes are beautiful, and then just walk away.

And then see what happens. But like, keep it brief. I think the key is brief. Like, if you can start a conversation with them and like a line out of store or something great, but if you like walk over and linger, that can sometimes feel kind of weird, you know what I mean? So I think keeping it brief and like chances are, like if a girl's interested, after you do a little something like that, she's gonna be like, wait, I can't miss out on this opportunity if they're interested.

I'm gonna go over and I'm gonna talk. So I'm gonna talk to them, whatever. Try it out. I really love the whole phone number on a piece of paper thing. I think that's fucking genius. But if that's not an option option try the other one. Yeah Next a guy asked is it weird to ask a girl to go shopping with you so that you can shop in the girls section comfortably I have to get girls jeans because I'm really skinny and I like wearing girl clothes

But I'm scared of being harassed if I go by myself. That is not weird at all That is not weird at all and Find is not weird at all. And find a girl that you feel comfortable with and that would help you feel comfortable in that situation. And fucking go for it. And I can guarantee like nobody's gonna like anybody if anybody judges you for that their they're an asshole, so do it, for sure, nothing weird about that. Next, the girls find guys who dress more feminine or that don't care as much about being manly, more attractive. Personally, I think yes. I think that it's so attractive when a guy is,

like, just doing his thing and like isn't concerned about like the gender role element. Like, isn't so concerned about what's masculine and feminine. Like personally, I love to pick up on masculine, quote unquote masculine. I mean, what even is all of that anymore? But I'm using stereotypes here. I love to wear like maybe more quote unquote masculine outfits at times, right?

And because I feel comfortable in it. And I feel like, and I like the style. So why would I not fucking do that? Hello. And I think it's really cool when guys are just wearing things or doing things that they think are cool and aren't concerned about whether or not it makes them seem manly. My I did just did finger quotes.

I think that's fucking cool. I think that that is inspiring and way more interesting. I think that's way more attractive. Some girls like a manly man and that's, you know, to each their own, but I think that's way more attractive. Some girls like a manly man, and that's to each their own, but I think that a lot of girls think that that's really cool and a lot of people in general think that's really cool. When you're just being yourself

and you're not so concerned about seeming super masculine or feminine, I think you do what you wanna do and that shouldn't even exist or matter. Next, what's the best gift for a girlfriend? My friend wanted to ask you, we love you so much, love you too. I think girlfriends really love stuff that's like sentimental, like something that has been discussed, but okay, so girls,

okay, okay, wow, this is really good advice. Girls really like to know that a guy's listening, right? Girls want to think that like, their boyfriend is interested in what they're talking about and like cares. Because girls, I feel like tend to talk a lot and be like, you know, whatever. So girls want to know that like guys care about what they say and what they have to say. So if you get or something that's like sentimental, like, let's say you guys talked about this one

really cool jacket once, like she sent you a picture of this jacket and was like, God, this is my dream jacket. Like I'm so obsessed with it, but it's like, I don't know, I it's too expensive. I'm not gonna buy it right now. And like months go by and like she keeps talking about it. She's like, God, I wish I could have bought that jacket and you get her that jacket. Like something like that or even something smaller.

Let's say she's been talking about how she really wants to go on a trip to this beach town. That's like an hour away. She's like, God, I really want to go down there. And then as a gift, you pay for the trip to go with her there. Like, something that like she's been talking about, something that's like not just random. I think that obviously getting somebody something nice

that's like random is really sweet too, and gifts in general, I mean, anybody who complains about a gift just deserves to get no more gifts ever again. But like, you know, I think that something about sentimental stuff is even more important. Like even if she was like, talking about how like her home doesn't feel homey,

and she wants something that like makes her house feel more homey, like let's say she just moved or something, and you get her a cute little framed photo of you guys. Like something like that, it doesn't need framed photo of you guys like something like that It doesn't need to be something to have again like anything that and you know you get an x-way like I wanted to get this for you Because I want your place to feel more homie because I care about you and I want you to feel comfortable where you live You know and I want you to feel safe and I want you to feel comforted whatever she's gonna fucking melt so that's that Next

Why do girls go to the bathroom together girls go to the bathroom together to gossip to hang out? It's like fun. Like I don't think it's that deep. I mean, I do think that a lot of gossip does go on in there a Lot of gossip goes on girls go to the bathroom be like, oh my god. Did you see what? He said to me like I think he wants to like kiss me later. Or like, oh my God, his outfit's so cute tonight. He looks so cool. God, his hair looks so good. Or like, oh my God, Becky was being such a bitch out there. I can't believe she would act like that. That's what's going on in the bathroom. Along with fixing makeup, peeing, pooping, the whole nine yards. Yes, women do poop.

It's crazy. In mind blowing. Sorry, ladies, didn't mean to expose us like that. All right. Next a guy asked, why did girls constantly change their look, whether it's clothes, hair, or anything? I think girls like to... Well, this is, you know, this is for a specific genre of person,

not every girl does this, but I think that there's something so exciting about changing how you look and like changing things up. I mean, I know I look different every month. I swear to God, like right now I'm blonde, who knows what I'll be next month, but I think it's like fun to switch it up and kind of try something new because I think girls get bored with how they look.

I mean, guys too, but I think guys change their look up a little bit less like stereotypically. I mean, again, everybody's so different, but so situational. But I think it's fun to change things up and like see how you look with like different hair or different style of makeup to like see and find your own personal style

and what you think makes you feel the most confident. I think when a girl's like, I'm not really feeling really confident like how I'm looking right now. They tend to change something to see if it will maybe fit them better and make them feel more themselves. And I think that's why girls do that.

Somebody wants me to explain how bad periods really suck. I just actually got off my period or I'm in the process of getting off my period right now. And I just had probably the worst period of my life. For example, I was bleeding so much that I was bleeding through the largest size of a tampon in 20 minutes. It was ruining my, and it would bleed through everything. It would bleed into my pants, just ruin my jeans that I love so much. Actually, at one point I was wearing shorts

and I got blood on the ground because it bled through everything onto the ground. But in addition to the uncontrollable amounts of bleeding that can happen, you also feel constantly full, like you just ate a full meal, like you feel that discomfort, like bloating feeling all the time,

even when you're not full. So that's awful. You get headaches, you feel like angry, you just wake up angry, you wake up in a rage sometimes. You just want to punch somebody for no reason. You also feel really sad. You feel really sad and you feel like everybody's turning on you.

And your brain basically feels like broken. Like you're mad at everybody. You're upset about everything. It's like the combination of like every bad sensation all together at once. And it's fucking miserable. Thank God it's only one week out of the month. I don't know if I could survive it any more than that.

Somebody asked, what's a boy's fashion turn off for girls? For me, I really don't like, I don't like the preppy look very much. Like the whole like, you know, frat boy kind of look. It's just not for me. I mean, honestly, a turnoff for me, I think, not even a turnoff,

but obviously like if there's like no sense of style at all, it's not necessarily a turnoff, but I'm just like, I wanna help you. You know? Like if there's no sense of like, like artistic, I just like love like the beauty of clothes and fashion and I'm so passionate about it

that when a guy like doesn't care, it doesn't, it's not a turn off, but it's like, I wanna share that joy with them. So like, if they don't already have that excitement about it, I would hope to teach them. And if not, then whatever, it's not like a deal breaker. But I do think that like, when a guy is really good style and like is into, you know, fashion,

and even like runway stuff, and like, like, so watch runway shows like I like that like I think that that's really cool when guys are into fashion in the more artistic sense I think that's really fucking cool but that is also just me some girls don't give a fuck about that so that's just a turn on for me but a turn on God I sound like a fucking that's just such a cringy term. Ugh! Ugh! That is such a cringy term. Somebody asked, what are your thoughts on toxic masculinity and the patriarchy?

I should look up with patriarchy men. I am not very smart. From what I understand, patriarchy is basically the ideology that men are the head of the household. I'll start with talking masculinity. So, I mean, I just, for me personally, I always have wanted to be a space for guys to just be themselves. If they wanna dress however they wanna dress, and if they're, quote unquote, feminine in some ways,

like I wanna be a safe place for people who wanna show those sides of themselves, because I think that not everybody, like some people expect men to be very manly. I just have never believed in that. And I think growing up with a creative dad, who, you know, him being an artist, he has some, like, what, you know, stereotypical feminine traits. Like, you know, being really sensitive can be considered feminine.

I don't believe in all of this stuff. I just think it's all stupid and fooey. I just don't think it even matters, but I'm discussing it because it does exist, you know what I mean? Like people do think like this, so I'm saying that I don't, but it does exist. I just think that like it doesn't matter. Like I think that guys should feel safe to cry. I feel like guys should feel safe to be upset

or to talk about their feelings. Like, I just think that all that is so important and so necessary and I would never ever, like, I just, it makes me so sad that some guys don't feel safe to show that side of themselves. Actually, I find it to be really attractive when a guy can open up about their feelings

and can cry and like all those things. I think that that's so raw and special and I like, I think it's a really beautiful thing. And along with also anybody else, I like when people are really vulnerable with me and I like seeing vulnerable sides of people and I like being like a safe non-judgmental place for people to be that and do their thing so that they feel understood and they don't feel judged and they're being their true selves and they don't feel like they need to be any certain way or fit into any society standard.

So I really hate toxic masculinity. I think it's really, I think it's slowly but surely, I think that people are starting to become, it's starting to become less of a thing, like not less of a thing, like of course, everything, you know, whatever. But I think that a lot more, I think it's starting to like fade away a lot.

Like I think that it's disappearing and a lot of guys are pushing through that and not, you know what I'm saying. And then as for patriarchy, I mean, I just grew up in a house where like that was just not the way that it worked. I mean, well, my parents were divorced. So I didn't have like, when I was at my mom's house, my mom was like the head of the house, when I was at my dad's house,

my dad was at the house, and even when we all lived together, like it was always like an equal split of everything, and it was never like, you know, my parents split things financially, and like, you know, my mom never leaned on my dad, my mom had a job, and my mom, you know, my dad never leaned on my dad, my mom had a job and my mom, you know, my dad would do the dishes and do the chores like there was not really that stereotypical thing. So I never really grew up around that type of situation.

I don't believe in it. I think like, you know, we're at a place now where relationships and households, you know, I think everybody does their part. And whether it doesn't need to be like everybody has their set rules or their set, whatever, I think that we're in such a different time now where there doesn't need to be that structure. Like sometimes the woman is gonna financially carry the house.

Like she's gonna pay for everything. And the man is gonna to financially carry the house. Like she's going to pay for everything and, you know, the man is going to be maybe more of the one that does the stereotypical woman thing, like take the kids to school or do the dishes or cook. Like, I just don't think that there's any need for that structure. I think it's whatever works for the two people and their family and whatever system works best. There doesn't need to be rules.

Like, it's existing. It's simply existing and making existence work best for everybody involved. There doesn't need to be these rules. You know what I mean? I just think that it's dumb. That's my opinion, whatever. So yeah, next, Emma, is it okay to fart on the first date?

And Emma, when you find the right one, how long do you wait to burp out loud in fart in front of the boyfriend? Great question. I would not fart on the first date. I just wouldn't, I mean, if it happens, what are you gonna do, but I would avoid it. Just because I think there's no way it's not gonna be awkward,

so maybe just avoid that one. But, as for how long do I wait to fart or burp in front of boyfriend? I never fart in front of people if I have the choice. Which is funny, which is funny, which is very ironic because I will literally fart in my videos and burp in my videos fully. But in front of people, no, I don't wanna do it.

I don't want to. I mean, there's maybe my parents or something, share, but I just don't like farting, and well, my friends too. I burp actually more in front of people. That doesn't bother me. But farting, I avoid at all costs. For so many reasons.

But I do think that once you get to like, once you're like a year in, like fuck it, I think you're just kind of like over it. Like all walls are down, like there's no way to hide a fart at that point. Like it's just gonna happen, but personally, I wait, I'll wait as long as possible. Burping though, I mean, I'll probably do that immediately

just cause it's not up to me. Like if you burp, like, what are you gonna do? Next, are girls insecure when boys like other girls pose? I think definitely, I mean, I think it depends. Like, you know, if like a guy is like liking really hot photos of girls, I think girls can definitely feel a little bit insecure because they're like,

oh, well, my boyfriend likes this photo, this girl who looks so beautiful in this bathing suit. And I'm a little bit jealous. I think that's really normal, but I also think that that's something that a lot of people grow out of, you know, like I think that at a certain point you realize like just because he's liking this photo, doesn't mean that he's gonna cheat on me with her, doesn't mean that he's gonna, you know, like, doesn't mean that he doesn't care about me. I do think that it makes girls uncomfortable though.

So I don't know, I mean, I don't really know what my standing is on that, like how, like what the protocol is, like our guy's not supposed to like photos then, of girls, like, I mean, no, that's not supposed to like photos then of girls. Like I mean no, that's not fair. Maybe it's just like about the content of the photo. Like if it's a full-ass pic, like, you know, maybe the girl's gonna get mad.

But if it's like a regular photo of a girl just smiling with her fucking dog, like that's a little bit out of control. Um, but I think if it's like, you know, I don't know. But I mean then again, who cares? Ah, I don't know. Let I mean, then again, who cares? I don't know. Let me know what you guys think about that. Next, I feel like girls always move on quicker than boys.

I do not think that this is true. I always thought that guys moved on quicker. So this just made me feel really good. OK, I don't think that that's, I just simply don't think that that's true. I think that it's very situational and I think that girls and guys, it is not, it has nothing to do with like,

I don't know, I think that girls take longer to get over guys. Like, I know girls that are hung up on guys from years ago, but I also know guys that are hung up on guys from years ago, but I also know guys that are hung up on girls from years ago. I think it's just normal to be hung up on people after you break up. In general, I don't think that there's any, like I think it's so normal

and I think that everybody does that. Next, thoughts on waiting until marriage. It's none of my business. What other people do. Like, you know what I mean? I actually used to really think it was so interesting because I did not grow up religious, so I never understood like, you know,

why somebody would wait until marriage. Like, I just didn't get it. But then as I grew up and like, thought about it more, I was like, wait a minute, it's none of my business. Period. It is none of my business what somebody else wants to do with their fucking like relationship life. Like that has nothing to do with me. I mean, it does it kind of blow my mind a little bit like does the concept of it kind of blow my mind? Yes, I don't know.

That is like, I don't know, I wonder what that would be like, you know? Cause I don't know. But, and I don't know anybody personally who made that decision. And I think that would be really interesting. I mean, I'm definitely like, you know, I am interested in like what that would be like,

but at the same time, that's also none of my business and I Think that if that's what somebody wants to do, you know, whether it's for religious reasons or it's just for like You know, they don't feel comfortable with being intimate with somebody unless they're in a committed relationship because They don't want to get fucked over or whatever like that is absolutely that individual's choice and it is not my place or anybody else's place to judge that. So I don't know, but I am really fascinated by it.

I do wonder like, you know, would it be weird? Like, okay, I'm not gonna get into this. Cause I don't know how to get into this without it being really an uncomfortable conversation. I just, I'm so curious about it. And like, is it weird that? Like, I don't know, I'm really, I'm super, I'm not really educated on that topic.

So I will, maybe I'll watch some YouTube videos about it or something like what that's like. Next question, what types of dates do I go on? Well, I don't really go on. I don't. I'm going to rephrase this question for you and say what types of dates would you like to go on or what types of dates do girls like to go on? Well, I'll give you guys, give you give the boys, give the boys some day ideas to bring the

ladies out girls love cute shit for one and not me though for some reason like I like if I'm I'm gonna like hit both sides here like this I think there's many different types of girls some girls I think get cringed out by like cute shit like picnics or like you know like some girls do get cringed out by like cute shit like picnics or like you know like some girls do get cringed out by that. But I mean they're not gonna they're not gonna hate it if you didn't. I don't think any girl actually that's a good point. I think girls maybe get cringed out by the idea of it but then like if a guy did it for them they'd fucking melt regardless so I don't think that that is true. So, I mean, I know my friends actually did this date once and it was really cute.

They drove to the beach and then they set up their back seat. They put down the seats and their back seat and then they laid out a blanket and they ate food in the back seat and just talked by the beach. I think that's like during sunset time, that's really cute. Or just go to the beach in general. I think the beach is just a fun place to go. Get in the ocean, you know, together, enjoy it, have fun,

be yourself at the beach together. I think that's always really fun. If you don't have a beach available, I think I hate the idea of going to the movies for a date. I mean, watching a movie with somebody once you kind of already know them, that's great because you know, like whatever you already know them, but I think like for the first few dates,

like do things to get to know the person because if you just sit there and watch a movie the whole time, it's just awkward. And then it's like, yeah, I don't know, it's just awkward. I think getting food with somebody's really fun. I actually really like going on drives with people, like driving around late at night with people. I know that's not really a day,

but like I fucking love that. Like I could, because I feel like the talks that you have with people when you're in the car are so easy because you don't have to make eye contact. You're just kind of like sitting next to each other and like enjoying the nighttime vibes and just talking. I think that's really fun.

I love that. Also, you could go to a nice restaurant. You guys could cook together. I think that's really fun. You could just hang out and like talk. I don't know. I really like simple things like that. I don't think it needs to be so complicated. If she's somebody who really likes activities,

you could go do an activity with her. You could, I don't know, go to a fucking pottery. One of those things we paint pottery. God, that actually sounds really fun. I haven't done that since I was younger. Hmm, maybe I'll do that by myself. I wonder if those things probably aren't open right now. I shouldn't be, yeah, won't be doing that.

The girls like it when guys get dressed up just to take an Instagram photo too. Yes, God, what a dream. What a dream. What a dream would it be to be dating somebody that also likes to get dressed up just to take an Instagram photo, just to take off everything that you'd put on? That is a dream. Because I hate that I do that.

And to have some company in my misery would be absolutely beautiful. So I think that's amazing. And I think girls probably like it because girls do that. And so that's something to bond over. You guys can go take photos of each other. Although if I like a guy even remotely,

there's just no way that they're taking a photo of me and I'm gonna pose for them. Sorry, it's just not gonna happen. But, you know, whatever. Somebody asked, do I need a drink and smoke to talk to a girl? No, no. Even if you feel like, you know, being under the influence helps, you don't need to and you shouldn't.

I mean, if you're 21 and like you enjoy a little, a little buzzed evening, and you're being responsible and you're drinking responsibly and you want to be and you think being buzzed helps you talk to like People I mean there's no harm in that as long as you're not out of control and doing things that are dumb But I also think that you should before you do that you should be comfortable with Doing those things sober, you know, and then of course like if you're into those things and you're responsible about it and you're whatever, and you're like of age, I don't see a problem in enjoying those things with your significant other

as long as you're doing it responsibly and what I'm saying. So, because I think it can be fun, from what I've heard. Next, I've been talking to this girl for about five months now. We've confessed our feelings and I don't know how to ask her out. Just fucking do it. If you have the go ahead from her, she's waiting.

Honey, she has been waiting. She's fucking marking the calendar, putting little tally marks on her wall behind her fucking headboard on her bed. She is waiting. She's been waiting every day. She wakes up every day thinking you're gonna ask her out. Just get it over with, like get it over with. She's going to say yes. If you've already confessed your feelings,

you're totally in the clear. Just be like, listen, we've been talking for so long. Like it's just dumb for us not to fucking make this shit official. Let's make it official. Love you, babe. Get into it. A guy said, we prefer if girls text first

and initiate the combo. I actually agree that I think it's important for both guys and girls to be initiating and showing, putting an effort and starting conversations first. I don't think that anybody should be doing it first. I think it should be equal. Although I do think that, like nobody should be carrying more weight than the other.

Although I'm really bad at texting first because I get like a full panic attack when I text first. So that's is a disease that I have. Next, why don't girls, like having deep combos about life, the future conspiracy universe, et cetera? I don't know what girls you're talking to, but I feel like most girls are very into talking about that stuff.

That's like one of the most, those are like, I love talking about those things. I mean, not to be fucking cliche or whatever, but I think those things are, I mean, I think a lot of girls like to talk about, you know, insignificant stuff too, because it's just fun, but I don't know, maybe she doesn't wanna open up to you

because she doesn't like feel like, she feels like you might judge her or something, maybe you could start a conversation about that stuff, but she also just might not care about those things. So I don't know, but I think that those girls do exist, so you could find one. I'm not sporty. Does that turn girls off?

No, you don't need to be fucking sporty. Like, there's so many stereotypes that I think are really toxic and unnecessary. Like, it doesn't matter if you play sports. I mean, obviously some girls are like, they have their own preferences and whatever, but there's also girls that probably would prefer a guy that doesn't play sports.

So just find somebody who likes you for you. Hey, I'm a love the podcast. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for three months and we still haven't kissed. Is that okay? I just don't want to push anything or should I just full send it? Hope you're having a great day.

Thank you. Oh My god, the profile picture is of him and his girlfriend. This is the fucking cutest thing I've ever seen. You guys are very cute together. Um Okay If you feel ready and you feel like she's ready and she's your girlfriend, I would say and you feel like she's ready and she's your girlfriend, I would say you could maybe have a joking conversation about it. I always approach things with jokes. Is that good? No, but it is safe. It's a safe option.

To be like, what if you were just literally, you're like, God, I care about you so much in the or no way that's not that's not funny. What? That was like deep. No, you could just be like, God, I want to kiss you so bad. Ha, ha, ha, ha. Like literally say it in that exact tone. And then if she's like, wait, same, then you're like, all right, word, and then you just lean in and get the first one over with. And then after that, it'll be fun. I just thought you sent it.

If you feel like you're ready and you feel like she's ready and you guys kind of like, you know, get on the same page about that, fucking send it. Yeah. I mean, if you're dating and you've been dating for three months, I think you're probably ready. Do girls want to have space when they're on their period. No, I actually feel like I want more attention

when I'm on my period. But, because I'm like, I feel like everybody hates me when I'm on my period, so I'm like, oh my God, they hate me. So I like need extra love and affection and I need a lot of attention. And, but I'm never gonna ask for it. So everybody's just gonna have to like, guess that that's what I need. Isn't that amazing how that works? Somebody said my boyfriend wants to know if girls have ever tried peeing standing up. I

have multiple times peed in a urinal and in a toilet standing up. It was hilarious and Very fun. I would recommend something to do with your girlfriends. You know, during one of those girls trips to the bathroom that everybody has, that's when you should try it. So like, you know, like all the girls go to the bathroom. That's when you should try pink standing up. Try not to get on your pants because you probably have to go back out to wherever you are, to the party, to the restaurant, whatever. Yeah, give it a go. Let out to wherever you are, to the party, to the restaurant, whatever.

Yeah, give it a go. Give it a go. Let me know what you think, ladies. I think we're done, everybody. This was a nice and long episode. I hope you guys enjoyed to my boys that are listening to this. I hope that this helped. Listen, I'm no pro, all right. But I thought that this was really fun. This overall topic is a little bit cringey

and I'm probably going to cry myself to sleep now because I just gave girl advice to guys. And there's something about that makes me want to cring really bad. But regardless, I really enjoyed recording it. I had fun giving you all advice. I always do I love you all so much and I appreciate you guys coming back every single week and listening to me if that's something that you do and I hope you're having an amazing day and I hope you have an amazing week. I'll see you guys next week. You're all awesome. Be yourself fucking

Full send it and tell your crush that you like them this week. God, follow your dreams, alright? I love you all so much. Peace and love, and I'm out of here.