Aware & Aggravated - 16. When They Try To Come Back

Episode Date: February 27, 2022

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Hi friends, this week we're talking about when the motherfucker tries to come back. Whether it's a best friend or a friend that you cut off, because they did some fuck shit, or if it's an ex, like you broke up with somebody and they want to come back, or just like a sneaky link, or like anything, like anytime somebody tries to come back in your life, this is the shit that you need to know. And even if you're like, ah, Leo, I'm gonna skip this week, I don't have anybody trying to come back. Maybe one day you will and maybe one of your friends is gonna have

an extra to come back and this is all the shit that you can tell them. So you can sound real smart, you know? Okay, let's jump right into it. So I got like a list. I got a whole bunch of bullet points. I got to have at least like 12. so let's just go with it. So the first thing when someone tries to come back they're gonna be on their like their best behavior. Typically like with an X let's just use like a dating example. When you have your X try to come back after you left their ass you dusted their fucking ass and now they're trying to come back they're gonna act on their best behavior. And if you complained about certain things while you were with them and you tried to get

them to change certain behaviors or stop doing this, that and the other, when they come back, if they all of a sudden fix all of the behaviors you had been bitching about previously that reveals they knew what to do the entire fucking time They just ratted on their self that they heard you they understood what you were complaining about They were choosing not to change their behavior when they were with you now all of a sudden They want to come back and act like mr. Perfect So that just they just ratted their self out because they knew how to fucking behave before. They knew how to act, they knew how to treat you before, but they just weren't.

So that should be your first red flag. And if someone does this shit to you, you should cut them off and never speak to them again. Sorry, I'm gonna like pull that card out because motherfucker, you're gonna gaslight me this whole time we're together and pretend like you don't know what the fuck is going on and you're gonna make excuses for the way that you're treating me and you're not gonna change certain things when I ask

you and then you're gonna come back after I leave your dumbass and then try and be Mr. Perfect. No get fucked get lost that's your first absolutely cut them off okay and let this be reassurance that it's okay to do that. Like that's the biggest fuck you that someone can do. It's like treats you like shit and then you leave them and then you leaving them is what makes them treat you nice. Fuck that. Fuck this individual, get rid of them. They got some growing up to do. They got some fucking learning to do. And don't reward that behavior because as soon as you take them back or you give into it,

they're going to flip right back to who they were. It's called a bait and switch. They're going to pretend to be a certain way to bait you. And then as soon as they hook you, they're going to switch up and go right back to who they fucking were. Don't fall for it. And I do have kind of a test that you can do to see if someone is actually like going to change. So like if they do some fucked up shit and they come back to you and they try to like apologize and they try to like create resolve, if they genuinely understand how what they did hurt you, they are not going to expect you to forgive them and jump back to them immediately. They're going to understand that you don't trust them anymore. You're scared of them.

They just hurt you. So the test is like if they get mad. So if you're like, okay, I'm willing to hear you out. I'm willing to like work on things and see where things are gonna go, but I'm not gonna put a label on it. I don't wanna jump back into dating you. I don't wanna jump back into none of that shit.

Like I wanna try and see if we can work this out without like fully getting back invested with you. If they get mad at that run, that's the fucking shit I'm talking about. They're going to bait and switch you. If they genuinely understand how they hurt you, they'll be fine with going forward with no label. They'll be fine with working through what they did and creating

actual repair. But if they just expect to come back and be nice to you and say all the right things and instantly you're going to just like switch and commit to them again and like, oh, we're back together, we're back dating. No, that's not how shit works. And they're not actually like aware of how bad they hurt you or like the reason that you broke up with them. They're not going to change. They don't get it. They don't see it because they

couldn't expect you to jump back into a relationship with them. If they saw how hurt you were, they would understand your like stand off. It's like a kicked puppy. If you kicked the fuck out of a dog and then it acts scared of you to come up to you, you're not going to be shocked. You're going to be like, no shit. It's scared of me. come up to you. You're not going to be shocked. You're going to be like, no shit, it's scared of me. I just kicked the fuck out of it. But if they get mad at you for being a kicked puppy and you act scared of them, if they get mad that you act scared, there's a huge disconnect and they're very unaware. They don't get it. They don't see how their actions affected you.

They don't see how they hurt you and they're going to do it again. So another test kind of for the situation is if someone fucks up and they realize that they fucked up when they come back to you to like create repair and resolve, they're going to be offering to do things. They're going to be offering to do things to give you reassurance to feel safe to trust them again. Repairing things with you will not feel like a chore. They will not make you feel like a bother. They will not make you feel like a bother. They will not make you feel like an inconvenience. It will be like understandable to them and they will want to repair things with you.

So they will want to do what it takes to make you trust them again. They'll be fine with reestablishing trust and building the fucking blocks of it again. They're not going to be annoyed with you. I don't want to say they'll be eager to fix things, but they'll be very understanding. If you want to take it slow, they'll understand. They're not going to give you shit. They're not going to like attack you. They're not going to make you feel stupid for not trusting them. They're not going to call you an idiot. They're not going to threaten to leave you because you don't instantly just jump back into shit with them. Okay. So those are some things to look for. Oh, one more point. When they are putting in the effort to repair things with you and establish trust again, they are not going to be expecting praise.

They're not going to be expecting for you to like be eating their fucking ass and like praising them. Like, oh my god, it's like the puppy, like the kicked puppy. If they kicked you and then they come over to you and they hug you and they're like, oh my god, I'm sorry I didn't mean to. You don't need to praise them for that. You don't need to be like, oh my god, thank you for coming over here and consoling me after you just kicked the fuck out of me. Like, they're not gonna need to be encouraged. That's a big thing. That's it right there. I just came to my head. They're not gonna need to be encouraged. They're not gonna need praise. They're not gonna need a fucking thank you. Like, that's like, that's what's expected. Shithead. Like when you fuck up, you fix it.

So you're not gonna need praise for fixing it. If someone is genuinely fixing it because they want to. Now, if someone has the motive of like, all they wanna do is just get you back, anything they do that doesn't make them feel like they're getting toward that goal is gonna aggravate them. They're gonna get fucking pissed because them leaving you. Like, even if someone treated you like shit, you are so much more important to them

than you even realized. You're giving them so much more safety and security and like they're attached to you in a way that you don't even realize even if they treat you like shit I know it's hard to hear but You're like they're attached to you more than you fucking realize so when you leave them when you finally leave them It's gonna make them like anxious and they're gonna be fucked up They're not gonna know what to do. They're just gonna know that they don't feel good and they want you back

Like for whatever fucking reason so when they come after, all they want back is that safety and security blanket. And they want that reassurance that like everything's okay. That's like some childish fucking wasn't raised properly. Things didn't form right in their frontal lobe. Their reasoning processes. Like shit just didn't form for them. They're probably very immature. But this is what they're going to do. This is how they're going to behave. So it's that's the way that you can tell the difference between someone who's genuinely trying to rekindle things with you and repair things versus someone who's like anxiously just wants to get you back because they don't like the way that they feel after losing you. And like I said, like someone that comes back and genuinely cares,

there's not going to be any expectations with their actions. Like the kicked puppy, it's like, you're supposed to walk over to a puppy after you fucking kick it, if you did kick it back, and you're supposed to console it, you're supposed to do all that. But when I accidentally step on cat, because I step on her all the fucking time,

I immediately run over to her, and I grab her and I hug her, I like make sure she's okay, and I'll like hug her, and I be like, I'm sorry, yada yada and I'll like sweet talk her a little fucking ass because I feel bad. I don't expect anything for that. I don't expect shit. So if someone is coming to you and like behaving a certain way and there's an expectation behind it, like, oh, we're gonna fuck after I say sorry. Or, ooh, I'm gonna get like, you're gonna recommit to me after I say I'm sorry, ooh.

Like, and then they don't get that, they're gonna freak out. But someone that's genuinely doing it, they're not gonna expect anything for them coming to you and trying to repair the situation or say that they're sorry. Like, they're just gonna get it. They're not, like, that's the whole thing about why I don't like people saying sorry. I throw around the word sorry in like a joking way,

but you will never fucking hear me say, I'm sorry in a serious sense, because I don't need to fucking say that. When I come to someone that I realized my actions affected in a negative way, I'm not coming to you for a fucking forgiveness. I don't need you to forgive me. I just want to explain my perspective and explain what's going on and share with you that I understand how I hurt you. Like I'm going to come and share all this shit with you to hopefully make some kind of repair and to make you feel better. I don't expect anything for it. If you don't want to take me back, I'm not going to be

mad at you because I get it. Do you see how that's a fully different energy that's a whole different feeling versus someone coming to you that's like, I'm going to say all these things, and then I want you to give back with me. It's like, no, you can tell when it's genuine because there's no expectations attached.

And if you feel like there are expectations attached, they don't get it, okay. They can hope for things. They can hope that you will like want to take with them back or whatever, but they're not going to expect it. It's two different tastes in your mouth. When you hear it, you'll know it. Okay. You're aware. You're listening into where I'm aggravated. You get a pitch. And the rest of the things that I say in this, you're really going to be able to spot it. Okay, my next point is if someone does something severely fucked up to you, if they break your trust in a big way, if they disrespect you in a big way, if you forgive them and take them back, they will never respect you.

I'm sorry, I don't make the fucking rules. It's the way it is You can get mad at me, but we both know it's the truth bitch, okay? I'm here as a friend telling you this But if someone does something really fucked up to you and then they can come like if someone cheats on you And then they come to you and they can convince you to get back with them Whether it takes them a month and you finally like cave and you get back with them or you give them another chance or whatever it is, you have now shown them you can be manipulated and you can be fucked on and gotten back. They're not going to be scared of anything because if they can do something severe enough

like fuck another person while they're dating you and you will still take them back, they have this new confidence that you will never fucking leave them. They will never lose you because they just weaseled their way back in. They just got the fuck back in. So you just gave them a reassurance that you will never get from them because typically if you're the one forgiving someone, you're not doing fucked up shit. So I'm just throwing that out. But if they do something really, really bad to you, it sucks. But you have to realize that you can't forgive it. Like sometimes there is no forgiveness.

I don't believe in forgiveness. We've talked about that before. I'm this packet. We've talked about it. Bitch, I've talked about it. I act like we're having a conversation But that's how I feel. I did ask you like I'm talking to like my bestie when I'm fucking making this podcast. That's why it's so funny but Yeah, like sometimes people shouldn't be forgiven

Sometimes people's actions are too damaging to even be able to create repair and there's nothing wrong with that There's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with not forgiving someone. I know that's not preached in social media and that's not preached in this new generation, but forgiveness isn't always deserved. You don't have to. You don't have to forgive fucking anybody for anything

if you don't want to. But the main point I need to drill into people and I had to do it into myself for a long time is if you let shit go, you will never be respected. They will do it again. If you show someone that you will put up with and allow being disrespected in a certain way, like that's pathetic. Honestly, and I'm able to stand here and say that because I was the pathetic one for so long.

I let so much fucking shit slide in previous relationships. I know I said I've only been in one, but in order to clear myself legally, I'm gonna have to say multiple. Okay, let's just pretend. But I let so much shit slide, I should have never fucking put up with. I'm like disgusted looking back on the shit that I let go. Not unlike the person didn't deserve it.

But how fucking disrespectful it was to myself. I was disrespecting the living shit out of myself to continue in the relationships I was in and with the people I was in, even with friendships, like I actually can say relationships because fucking everybody, like the shit that I used to put up with is so fucking degrading, like absolutely not, absolutely the fuck not. Do not ever take someone back that cheats on you, that betrays you, that does some fucked up ass shit. You will never feel safe with them again.

You will never feel secure. Trust cannot be rebuilt. I'm mad, bitch, I'm fucking mad as you can tell. But trust cannot be rebuilt from some things. Some things just break it and it's fucking broken. Trust is like a vase. If you shatter the fucker, good luck. There's never rebuilding it.

There is no rebuilding it. Now if you chip off a couple pieces of the vase, you can put them back on. That's sabable. But to fully be able to like have the vase again after you shatter the fucker, it's not happening. Some situations trust is too broken to be rebuilt. I don't care what you do. If you cheat on me once, I'm already going to be paranoid about everything that you

fucking do and every move you make and every person you talk to that's not me. And then that's like my fear that you're going to cheat. So if someone actually does cheat on me, it's now been verified. Like you will do it. You just did it. So for me to try and get back with you, I don't care if you act right for 20 fucking years. When you say I'm gonna go into the store real quick, bitch, I don't trust you. It's always gonna be in the back of my head.

Are you really going to fuck someone? It does not matter how long you try to rebuild it. It's not gonna be rebuilt. That little voice will always be back in the back of my head because it's survival. It's A. You might get fucking betrayed again. That voice don't shut up for me. That voice don't shut up for anybody. And anybody that tells you that is a fucking liar. Like you'll never be able to get that back. You might be able to like pretend, but you're always gonna secretly be scared as shit. You're always gonna secretly be like,

looky more into things and going through their phone as you fucking should, okay? You should always go through your partner's phone. You heard it here fucking first, all right? If someone doesn't let you go through their phone, don't be with them. It goes both ways, like why would you, why should you not be able to go through your partner's phone? People spend most of their fucking day on their phone, don't be with them. It goes both ways. Like why would you why should you not be able to go through your partner's phone? People spend most of their fucking day on their

phone. All of everything you need to know about someone is on their fucking phone. Why would I not want access to that part of you? A bitch I want to know you fully if I'm committing to you. So go through that goddamn fucking phone. You need to find out anything, go through that damn phone. Every part of it. Okay, let me get off that. Where the fuck even was I with this whole topic, I just got off on a damn tangent. Oh, about if someone does something really, really fucked up, you can't take them back, they will never respect you.

And they'll get this like reassurance that, all right, now I can do some fucked up ass shit and you'll take me back. And they'll just keep doing worse and worse shit. I'm sorry to say it, but that's what happens when you give someone that level of security with you. They know that they can push it. They know that they can like get you back.

They're going to be less considerate of you in the way that you feel because they know that you'll always just be there or they'll always be able to manipulate you and get you back. So don't fucking be that put your goddamn foot down on their neck. Don't let them back. My next point with breakups or cutting someone off, it's already really fucking hard. Like the amount of convincing it takes for you to finally cut someone off and then to actually go through with it to like fully break up or cut a friend off or whatever it is. It's so fucking hard to already do it. If you cut someone off and then you go back to them, however hard it was to cut them off

the first time, it's gonna be harder the next time. So remind yourself of that. It's gonna take more from you and it's gonna be way fucking harder to cut them off the next time. And I really need to talk about embarrassment because people are too comfortable running their fucking mouth about the dumb ass shit that they put up with. So if someone is in a toxic relationship and like say you're my friend, okay, and you run to me and tell me all the fucked up ass shit that your boyfriend is doing to you. Babe, you look dumb. Okay. Don't run your mouth about your partner to anyone.

That's, that's a fucking rule. Like if someone does some fucked up ass shit and you're going to let it slide, let it slide in your own head, you deal with that one on your own because you're going to look like a goddamn fool to everybody else. And everyone's going to see how you're willing to disrespect yourself. And it's going to make everyone lose respect for you. The way that you're okay with being treated, the shit that you're going to tolerate. So before you go run your fucking mouth to everybody about how your ex was so bad, make sure you are not going to get back with them. Because if you go run in your

mouth about this person, you just broke up with. And then a month later, you're back with them. You're a goddamn idiot. You look like a fucking fool to everybody around you. And I know that sounds very harsh, but you need to hear it. I needed to be told this shit too. But like shut your fucking mouth until you are certain. And even if you're still in a relationship with somebody, watch it. Like you're when you're with somebody, I'm very old school. I'm very old fashioned with my beliefs about relationships. Like you should never try to embarrass your partner. You should always try to like uphold their sense of respect and self and everything. It's like you want to uphold their image for them.

You don't want to make people disrespect them or look down on them. So watch your fucking mouth about what you tell people. You know what I mean? Like I don't like that. Like people that will just run to their friends and vent about their partner and like talk shit. Like, uh-uh. Don't you fucking dare do that. Your partner doesn't deserve that. One and two, you know look like an idiot. A raw. Babe, I'm just trying to help you. I'm really just trying to help you.

Don't do that. Okay, I'm going to hit back on this topic really quick. If someone tries to come back into your life and they're doing everything right. Okay. And they're like Mr. fucking perfect. Understand that's the best they're gonna get. As good as they're being as the best they're gonna get,

cause you act on your best behavior after you fuck up. Like when they're trying to win you back, they're gonna be 10 on 10. They're gonna be behaving the best way that they fucking can. And if you aren't even satisfied with that, you're done, bitch, you're done. You might not have realized it until I just said that, but they're gonna try to act like Mr. not have realized it until I just said that, but

They're gonna try to act like Mr. Perfect and while they're acting like that If you still don't even like them, you're done. Don't even consider going back. Let that be your validation All right, that ain't what the fuck I want because even when you're on 10 for what you're capable of it ain't enough for me and I want to reassure you that's okay. If someone's best is still not enough for you, that's fine. You're of a different caliber. You deserve more. Refuck and play that, okay? Skip back right now and listen to that again. Okay, now I want to give you a couple of tips and just different perspectives to look at with these relationships. So if someone loses you, okay, why wouldn't they want you back? Duh, like, that's a fucking given. Like, no shit. Why would

they not want you back? Why would they not be chasing after you? Why would they not be trying to come back? Like, they realized what they had, they realized what they lost. Like, why the fuck would they not be coming back? We get that, but you need to ask yourself, why do you want them back? Why would you want them back? And especially given now, the circumstance of if they did something fucked up to you and they broke your trust, they betrayed you, whatever it is, they were disloyal,

whatever it fucking was, why would you want them back now? And I am gonna hit on, okay, logically, it's easy to say like, I deserve better, but the way that you feel, it's like if you feel like you want them back, that's understandable, because people can do fucked up ass shit to you and you still just care. When you genuinely care for someone,

you're gonna have an attachment to them and you're gonna want them back no matter what they do, but sometimes you have to govern that little voice inside yourself and be like, look, I understand that you want it. And here, cry, break the fuck down. I will let you cry right now, but you're not going back. Okay.

So be sad, but we're going and we're getting better for ourself. That's it. You have to govern that little voice inside you and be logical if I can sucks and it hurts, but why the fuck would you want them back? Another thing to ask yourself, if someone does something or betrays you is how many times do I need to be shown? Like if they just cheated on you or they just talk shit behind your back about you to somebody else or they did something like they betrayed you and somebody they stole from you, whatever it was, they just showed you.

Straight the fuck up, they just showed you. They don't give a fuck about how you feel. They're not gonna consider you. They're fine with disrespecting you. What else do you need to see, babe? Why do you need to have it happen again? Why do you need to give them another chance to not fuck you over?

They shouldn't have needed the first one in the first place. And that's the reason that I don't fucking ask for forgiveness. I don't need second chances. I don't fuck up. Like it's not hard to be a decent human being. So don't make no excuse for no bum motherfucker. All right, so I have two more little things to say, okay? How are we liking this podcast so far?

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but you don't wanna hear. I got your back always don't worry Okay, so out of my last two points the first one is There are so many more people in the world than you can even imagine And I know when you're like losing a friend or you're in a breakup Everything feels so small. It feels like that one person is just like, oh my god, like that's it. Like, you feel like there's nobody left for you. Bitch, I can't tell you how many more people are in the world than you can even imagine.

And if you are considering going back to someone that treats you like absolute fucking shit, or has this respected you enough for you to want to leave Don't give up on yourself yet Go do what is in your ability to meet new people go make friends go meet new partners go travel bitch Go do anything in your control to meet more people before you sit down and tell yourself This is it. I should just settle. No, you're so much more capable than you think.

You deserve so much better than you fucking think. As soon as you start to question, do I deserve better? You do. I heard that the other day and I can't fucking stop thinking about it, but that's the truth. So do everything in your power. Do everything you can to meet new people. Anything, get the fuck up and go do it, babe. You need to go do that for yourself

before you sit down and just accept defeat and go back to this piece of shit. Okay, the one that you left. That's your last option. That's your backup plan. Okay, let them be your fall back. Because the way that they just fucked on you, they can be manipulated back into taking you back. Don't worry. I don't even care if five years fucking goes by. The motherfuckers that

fuck you over and betray you, they're always looking for approval. They always want your forgiveness. They'll be right there when you want to fucking go back if you want to go back. So like I said, go find anyone else. Go do everything you can in your power to meet new friends, meet new people, get in a new relationship. Go fucking do it, bitch. Like go exhaust yourself first before you run back. All right, so I'm going to close this bitch out with bringing the little you into it. So imagine whatever experience you just had or whatever you just went through with a friend or a partner or whatever it is. Imagine the child version of you.

That's like six or seven years old. Imagine them walking up to you right now. And imagine yourself telling them you deserve to be treated this way. You deserve to be cheated on. You deserve to be betrayed. You deserve to be fucked on the way that you just were. You don't matter. Your feelings aren't important. You should choose to go be with someone like this.

You should choose to go be with this person that treats you like shit. You deserve it, kid. Imagine telling yourself that. You feel how fucking bad that feels? That kid is still in you. That little child is always a part of you and always will be. So if you can't find the strength to choose better for your adult self, choose it for your little self. Choose to find better for little you because little you is always there. Holy fucking shit. Oh my god, here I am fucking crying. That just hit me. But yeah, people,

if find it really hard to see their innocence when they're grown. Like it doesn't matter what you've done, it doesn't matter if you've been a fucking prostitute or if you've sold drugs or if you've fucking murdered somebody. You're still a child, like you still have that little innocence and that little purity of like a child. And children deserve to be cared for. So like, please just care for yourself and don't put yourself back in a situation

that's fucking bad. Like just think of little you. Think of little fucking you and what you would do for them. Don't tell them they deserve that fucking shit because they're still in you. Don't put them through that. Like protect them and choose better for them if you can't choose better for the adult you right now,

that's just a really good way to bridge that gap. And to help you stay strong is to realize that there's more in you to consider than just you now. And there's so much more about you that is worth protecting and loving. I just have a really soft spot for children and kids and I will protect them at all fucking costs That's just how I am so this analogy really helps me and I have to envision little me a lot To kind of like get through shit and choose the right thing because I have to choose better for him a lot of the time because me who I am now

It's easy to just like Whatever you know, but when I think of little me, I feel like I have a responsibility now and it's like I have to parent that kid and like I have to watch out for him and I don't want him to go through bad shit because I'm fine with going through bad things. I can deal with shit, but to imagine little me having to do it, I want to protect him. So I choose better for both of us. So that's why I gave this example.

But just remember, little you is always inside you. So draw on them when you need to like the strength to choose what's good for you. And one more thing, it shouldn't take someone losing you to appreciate you or to realize what they had. If they didn't see it when they had it, that's not fair to you. That's not fucking fair at all. So if you leaving them and now they're like all of a sudden, oh my god, all these things I miss about you, so fucking late, I'm sorry. Little you don't deserve

that. Little you doesn't deserve to be in a position where they're unappreciated and where it takes you being hurt enough to finally leave someone for them to see you. Fuck that. That person's not worth you. That person isn't worth having you if they didn't fucking appreciate you. All right, I need to end this episode like that was a lot. They didn't fucking appreciate you. All right, I need to end this episode. Like that was a lot. Who emotionally, for me, like bitch, sometimes I just be talking

and I just like fucking the water works just be happening. It's very rare, but this was a very intense topic and it's something that hits very close to home for me. So I hope everything I said in this episode was helpful. I hope you learned something. I hope you choose better for Little You. And I'm talking to everybody when I say that. Not just your relationships with fucking everything. But if you want to follow my social media, I'll put it all in the description of this podcast. Don't forget to leave me five stars.

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