Beef And Dairy Network - Episode 113 - Agnes

Episode Date: August 25, 2024

Sammy Dobson and Antonis Vlavo join in this month as we talk to a lollypop lady about her encounter with the angelic Agnes.Streaming tickets for upcoming live show on Saturday 14th September: https://shop.kingsplace.co.uk/30528/30529Stock media provided by Setuniman/Pond5.com and Soundrangers/Pond5.comMusic credit courtesy of epidemicsound.com:Returning Memories / Erasmus TalbotAegean Sea / George ProlopiouFeel So Lucky (Instrumental Version) / Cody Francis

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why I'm talking to her on a Beef and Dairy Industry focused podcast, but all will become clear. Hello, I'm Jenny Baxter and I am a lollipop lady in the town of Hexley. Hello Jenny, thank you so much for talking with me today. Now let's kick off with just a little bit of definition because I think we've got with what listeners around the world and I don't think every country is lucky enough to have lollipop ladies and lollipop men so maybe you could tell us what is a lollipop lady? Well they go by many different names across the globe, obviously Crossing God people will

be familiar with. Is that in the US? It's the US and New Zealand, I believe. It's mostly the lollipop people, lollipop persons, lollipop man, lady, which has been popularized in this country. And then abroad we have crossing guards and then names that link to sort of other sweet treats that children enjoy abroad. So it's all in different languages that I don't understand, but they're all basically sugar on a stick.

Yes, of course in France they've got the brioche boys. Exactly. And that is a little bit hurtful because it isn't boys mostly, but you know how these things get gendered. It's always been the lollipop lady. And obviously I am a lollipop lady, but we do prefer lollipop persons or people. Do you feel like in the US, for example, they have crossing guards, as you mentioned. Do you feel like they get more respect because they've got, you know, the name crossing guard sounds quite formal and quite important. And they are of course heavily armed as well.

Well, of course. Do you think that makes a difference? I have said again and again, if we're ever to make an impact in the community we do need to be tooled up and the stick is good, you know it comes in handy for battering and defense, it is a shield of sorts but a piece would really set us apart I think and you know you see armed officers in shopping centers these days and they're dealing with children and pensioners and what am I doing if not that?

So I do think it would bring us in line with the rest of the world if we were just to carry maybe a small clock. What about the counter-arguments of that, which is that obviously, and this is the argument often made with the police in this country, that if the police were to carry their own pistols and firearms, like they do in America, then the criminals would have to sort of join this kind of arms race. And then suddenly they're armed and then suddenly the police have to have bigger arms and then suddenly the criminals have bigger arms. And before you know it, you know, the police have got a grenade launcher and a common criminal has got a tank and that's

where we end up. Now, obviously as a lollipop lady, your sort of foe is the motorist. So in a world where you are armed, would that not lead to motorists arming themselves? Show me a motorist that isn't armed these days. But I think you've really hit the nail on the head with bigger arms. I do think if the lollipop community were just simply more hench, if we had larger arms. I do think that would help in dragging motorists from vehicles. That would help. If they give you the gap of the window, you can really heave. I've always believed that. So, is Fedsa, you're sort of a hands-on lollipop lady then?

I think most of us have to be now. This is a modern world, we're not playing games anymore. It's become a very dangerous line of work. People are quite unpleasant these days and I don't know what's done that. It could be technology, it could be something in the water and it could be the birds. I don't know. I've read things on the internet. People are definitely more unpleasant. Could it be vaping? It could most certainly be vaping. It could be the internet, it could be birds. It could be any of these things. I think people listening might have a more bucolic mental picture of life as a lollipop lady.

The idea of going out helping the elderly and a firm across the road or some children leaving school. A smile on your face, you wave the lollipop at the motorist and they slow down, come to a respectful halt. And then you smile and giggle as the children run by, maybe they're playing a game of hopscotch across the zebra crossing there. Do you see what I mean? There's a lovely picture, I think, that a lot of the public have. It sounds like the reality though is far from that. Well, the first mistake you've made there is smiling because never show them a weakness. Never show them a weakness. To smile at a child these days is an open invitation to

please spit in my face. Yes, gone are the days of that lovely image of maybe crossing the road with a flower for your lollipop lady or the lollipop lady handing out sweets. It just simply isn't that anymore. We have to arm ourselves against the motorists, against the parents and against the children themselves who are, I do have to say this, horrible. So your job is still very much to protect those children from the motorists. Oh, I would die for them. I'll protect them with my life. It's their right to be horrible. I understand that in a modern world, every child's right is to be as horrible as possible. But it has changed and we do need to be careful and we do need to be safe. And I certainly just wouldn't

go around goading an infant and a smile will do that. A pleasantry will certainly do that. What about giving out sweets? You mentioned that. Is that something that you ever did early in your career as a lollipop lady? I wouldn't take a second to look away from them. Just that one split second of checking my coat pocket for a humbug and I'm down. It's that simple. Be that a child, be that a team of children, because en masse, if you're rushed by something that's three foot tall, you're going down. It doesn't seem like it. People laugh at me. People laugh at me all the time. They say, Jenny, how can these pose a threat? Well, have you ever been

in a field with sheep when they've all gone mad at once? They'll take you down. And it's very much the same as your average six-year-old. Well, of course, the average six-year-old has exactly the same amount of intellect as a sheep. Yeah, but not the insulation, and that's what people are forgetting. In ancient times, we, Greeks, would go to the Oracle for the solution to our problems. And what were these problems? Usually, not enough Greek milk or grilk.

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But is it fair to say that Hexley is worse than elsewhere because it's fast becoming the UK's capital of car crashes. Yes, and they're very proud of that. It's being posted around the town. They've really taken pride in this. It is the epicentre of the car crash. It's also one of the fastest stretches of road in the country. And it's also, you know, the teen pregnancy hotspot. They've got a few titles and they're proud of all of them. The car crashes, the speeding on the roads, it's why my job has become so important in these parts. So are you saying that it's a kind of source of actual civic pride for the people of Hexley

that they are driving this fast? Yeah, yes, they really do. They talk about it in the pub. There's a small cabal meeting in the church hall once a week who are trying to get Hexley twinned with the Autobahn. And that's a concept, not a place. That's simply the motorway. Just the whole motorway network of Germany. Yeah. They see them as kin, that this is their town. They should be able to do what speed they want. And I believe it's the only town in Britain that's got a sign on the way in that says

please speed up. Go for it, you bastard. Yes, I mean they raised the money for that and it was a lovely day, we had a fete. I got to throw some sponges at motorists that have irked me in the past, we all had a laugh that day, but you know they raised the money for their sign and they're bloody proud of it. You're a Hexley girl yourself, you know, this is your culture. Born and bred, and, you know, we all have our preclivities. We all have the things that keep us going. My husband keeps wasps. And that's quite an unpopular thing, but, you know, how many people do you know that keep bees? Why not keep a wasp? He's not hurting

anyone, though the wasps are, but that's, I think we are sort of a people that know who we are and we like things a certain way and you can't come here and tell us what the speed limit is, I suppose. And I can understand that, but as I am a lollipop person, it is difficult. It puts me in an enviable position. I know this is maybe not really the point of what we're talking about, but is he producing some kind of wasp honey? No, he's not. Because wasps don't make honey, do they, Graham? They don't. And I remember

we watched a documentary together years ago where a man taught himself to lactate, and I think it might be something along those lines that he genuinely believes if he nurtures these wasps, one day they're going to produce some sort of thing that we can spread on our toast. And he's trying to deny that, but I can see the thought behind the eyes. I've already said some pretty horrifying stats about life in Hexley to do with speed, for example. Here's another stat. Is this right? The average length of a lollipop person's career in Hexley is six weeks. So yeah, well, I think that's optimistic to be honest with you, but yeah, it's roughly six weeks.

And they're not all dead. But you've been doing it for I believe eight years. How have you managed to go unscathed? I've had many neomissies. Of course I have. And I've seen things that I wouldn't care to draw for a therapist a third time. But I know I have to do this. Now, people might be thinking, why is the Beef and Dairy Network talking to a lollipop lady? This is all very interesting. But what's this got to do with beef and dairy? Well... Well, indeed. Tell me about the arrival of a cow called Agnes.

Sweet Agnes. So, we do put ourselves in the line of danger on a daily basis. Those cars come at a heck of a speed. And you're out there on your own. You're on your own. You're on your own. And one day I just saw these beautiful black eyes across the road and Agnes saw it and she stared at me. I thought oh dear don't try and cross this road pet because it's not just children I've seen mown down of course it's all sorts of animals. I used to have one of them I spy books and take them off of how many different things I'd seen die,

sometimes just in one day. You'd be amazed, the sound a badger makes when it's hit. It's much more acoustic and percussive than a deer. People don't know these things. But I thought, oh God, I'm going to be cleaning up a bigger carcass than usual today.

And then Agnes stood, she was so still, so still on the other side of the road. And then a few of the kids came out of the school and I get them to wait until I think the time's right and I'll run into the road and scream, go, go, go. And that's what they do, they'll get across the road and I run back, I catch my breath

and we'll wait for the next gap. One of these little kids just broke away and I couldn't catch him, I tried to grab his strap, there's nothing I could do and I have never seen such a large beast move so quickly. Agnes got out in front of that vehicle and she took all of the impact of the car and I thought that's it. She's obliterated, I didn't want to look up. I knew what was facing us was quite the clean-up job and obviously I heard the impact, like a thousand metal hands slapping a side of beef. And when I looked up, she just stood there.

And I'm going to say this, she smiled. You know, you can argue whether she did or not, but she smiled at me and she was intact. She had taken the impact of that vehicle, there wasn't a mark on her, and she took that impact and her child crossed the road safely. And she slowly turned around and walked away again. I felt mad for a while. I thought have I imagined this? But the car was written off, the Ben had seen it. It felt something quite magical, quite spiritual, but she was gone. And then it happened again. And I knew the second I saw it, the second I saw those black eyes, I thought, a kid's

going to run out today. A kid's going to run out today before I've screamed at them to go. He's going to run out. Sure as chips, I was right. Ten minutes later, the kids come out of school. I'm trying to hold the line, I'm trying desperately to hold the line, getting the kids back. I've got them quite scared, I think it's safe to be scared. And then all of a sudden one broke rank, away goes, and I knew it, I knew it. And out she

comes. It was incredible, I knew, she knew. She'd put herself there and she'd put herself in the way of that vehicle, a smaller one this time, and she took the impact again. I thought, no cow's going to withstand two vehicular twatons of this nature. But there she stood. There was that noise again and that first time I heard it, that sick metal thwack onto that, that slap and metal beefy sound. But that second time I heard it, that sick metal thwack onto that, that slap and metal beefy sound. But that second time I heard it, it felt a bit more like music because I knew she was going to be all right.

I knew it. And I looked up, there she was. And then she sauntered off again. So you're sure that this cow is real? Because I think that's the question, isn't it? Is this cow a cow? Or is it some kind of angel? I mean, in a way, every cow is an angel. I think we can all agree. I tell you what, before I wouldn't have agreed with you now. I absolutely would. Every cow is an angel. But now wouldn't you think an angel would

have some sort of ethereal glow? That's what I've always been led to believe. An angel, regardless of whether you're thinking a man with feathered wings or simply a wheel of eyes, as is biblically accurate, there would be some sort of ethereal glow. That's the one thing you're always imagining. But there wasn't a bit of late coming from that cow. If I could give up oxygen and breathe Grylk, I would do it. Replace my lungs with Grylk gills. Do it now. Cut my flesh. Now, please meet our mascot, Grylki.

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Check us out every Tuesday on MaximumFun.org and wherever you get podcasts. Now Jenny, I believe that Agnes appeared to you five times and performed her miracle. Although actually she did appear to you for a sixth time, didn't she? JG She did. AC Yeah. Tell me about that. JG Well, again, I'd got used to what was going to happen when I saw those beautiful shining eyes across the road. I thought, oh, here we go. Another one's going to make a break for it. The kids never learn. And I'd come to look forward to this now,

just to feel her presence. Will you, at that stage, were you goading children to get into trouble in the hope that Agnes would appear? Might I have shirked responsibility in a fleeting moment when I hadn't seen Agnes for months and I missed her. I missed her, all right, I'm going to say it. I missed her presence. It makes you feel like there might be a God. And I know there's not a God because birds exist. So it just made us in that moment feel a bit closer to divinity. So am I willing to risk a child's life? This is what you're saying. Am I willing to risk a child's life in order to spend a moment in the presence of a kindly cow? Well, that's what I want to know. I mean, you were seen and, you know, feel free,

you know, you're here to give your side of the story, but you were seen producing what looked like a vape pen from your pocket, which was recorded as smelling like gross, sweet pineapple, synthetic pineapple smell. You puffed the vape smoke towards the children as if to give them the scent and then you threw the vape pen into the road. Is that true? Yeah, I can see what it might look like. I can, but it's certainly not what you are insinuating. Yes, those things happened. I can't deny that but but it's not in this nasty sort of way that the people are suggesting. Simply Graham had heard on some wasp forums that vapes were a lovely way to control the wasps. You've

seen beekeepers, apiurists with their little puffy things that that lulls the bees to sleep. Well we thought wouldn't it be nice to be able to leave the house every now and then by the front door rather than by the cat flap and just put the wasps to sleep. So apparently these vapes, the pineapple one particularly because wasps are drawn to flavours of a tropical nature nature was a good thing to subdue the wasps. He bought this vape, he tried it and he did end up in A&E and you know normally they don't sting him that badly. I do think they've come to understand he is trying to help them but you know they're wasps but something in that sickly sweet vape angered them and angered them bad.

Maybe wasps only like true pineapple. Maybe they don't like the idea of just not smoking a proper cigarette. Do you know what I mean? But whatever it was, it deeply angered them. It upset them. And are you saying then that explains why you had the vape on that day? Is this what you're saying? Is this your alibi? He handed it to me on his way to the hospital. He took himself because he wanted to drive quickly. He handed it to me, I shoved it in my work jacket. That

day I put my hand in my pocket without thinking and there's the vape. And I thought well why not try it? Why not see what all the fuss is about? I took one draw, it's disgusting. I don't know what everyone's going on about. Absolutely, it's exactly what you'd expect. So I've been at a children's party, put your mouth around the smoke machine and licking an air freshener at the same time. Unbelievably horrible. And it was so horrible I just had to throw it as far and as hard as I could. Never once thinking that the children would follow that. It was the sixth time I saw those eyes because she knew, she always

knew, she knew better than me. And Agnes, sorry, Agnes saved, saved six kids that day. That was the last time that Agnes saved a child's life on your crossing. It was, yeah, she went out with a a bang because she was hit by a transit van and, um, I mean, she was almost vaporized. Yeah. Yeah. Why, why do you think it is then that she somehow very suddenly lost her ability to take an impact from a speeding vehicle?

I've asked myself this again and again. Was it the vehicle? I don't know. Was it the amount of kids lives she was saving? All at once? I don't know. Was it the five massive vehicular hits she'd taken before that? I don't know. Was it the fact that the children were goaded into the road by a lollipop lady who was desperate to see this benevolent and some might say angelic cow? It was an accidental tossing of a repugnant smoking imitation. In no way, in no way did I lure those children into that road. Simply in order to see a cow I believe is the closest to God. I might never experience a bee life. Now people might have heard of this.

It made the papers nationally. Front page of the Sun. Bolognese bomb. And that's putting it kindly, it really is. I've never, I've never seen a meat cloud. Um, it was incredible. I mean it really was incredible the way the light hit it. It was, it was quite something, but I mean it did stretch to the next village. Sorry. I'm sorry.

Now I believe you've been fundraising for a statue? Yes, yes we have yes. How much have you managed to raise so far? £14. Right, yeah. I know it's not a lot but you know, every little bit is something, it's a step closer. Because that to me speaks of a community in which maybe a small number of people believe this cow to somehow be maybe spiritual or magical, and the rest of the community really feeling like it's just a nuisance animal that keeps walking to the road and causing trouble.

Like she's gone now, isn't she? So they've not got much more to complain about. And I'm doing all I can, I really am. I'm doing everything I can to raise money. I'm also selling a mirror on Facebook Marketplace. So if any of your listeners would just like to go on Facebook Marketplace, look for the town of Hexley and anyone selling mirrors. I've tried to take the photo of the mirror without me in it. I've done quite well, but there is a number of wasps so you'll be able to identify the mirror by the number

of wasp reflections you can see there. I really am trying to get rid of that mirror but that is all to raise money for the statue of Agnes. Okay well, best of luck Jenny. Thank you. And all the best with your continued work trying to slow down those drivers. Oh, I'll be doing my best. You, you bet. You better believe. And, and if anyone does want to buy that mirror, that's the town of Hexley.

And it just says mirror for sale and then in brackets, not the wasps. So if you wouldn't mind, that'd be great. Thank you. Right. So selling the mirror, you're not selling the wasps. I mean, if somebody did want to buy the wasps off you that they see in the photograph, you know, with that money going towards the monument, is that something you consider? I'd consider it all day long. Absolutely. I'd love to get rid of these wasps. I mean,

I'd have to speak to Graham, but if you are interested in the wasps, I must stress the picture that you see there, that's shown twice as many wasps. You're seeing the wasps and the reflection of the wasps. So the wasps for sale are the physical wasps, not the reflection of the wasps. So if you're seeing 412 wasps there, there is actually only 206. Okay. Yeah. So you don't want to be caught out. You know, it's not false advertising. You're not saying I've got all these wasps. Well, I very much am saying I've got all these wasps, but I'm not saying I've got twice as

many as all of these wasps. Yeah, yeah, gotcha. Yeah. I've been stung before, in every sense. Well, best of luck to you, best luck to Graham, and thanks for talking to me. Thank you very much. A big thanks to Jenny Baxter for that interview. If you'd like to make a donation for the statue of Agnes, or are interested in buying her mirror and wasps, but not the reflection of those wasps, there are links on our website.

Also, since I recorded that interview with Jenny, it has been announced that the heavily frog-inspired musical's empresario Andrew Lloyd Webber has put together a musical about Agnes called Beefo Angelico. It is a jukebox musical using songs by stars of the music world who have been convicted of traffic offences such as Justin Bieber and David Cassidy. Also just like in his hit train-focused musical Starlight Express, all of the performers will be on wheels. In fact, they will each be inside their own top-of-the-line Hyundai i10, because the production will be presented in association with Hyundai.

The tour begins next year, starting at the Hippodrome in Aylesbury. Aylesbury! So, that's all we've got time for this month, but if you're after more beef and dairy news, get over to our website now, where you'll find all the usual stuff, as well as our off-topic section where this month we run down our top 5 fictional tortoises. So until next time, beef out. Thanks to Sami Dobson and Antonis Vlavo. And just before you go, may I remind you that we are doing a live show at the London Podcast

Festival on Saturday 14th September at 2pm. And although tickets for being there have sold out, and thank you for buying those, I look forward to seeing you there, you can watch on a live stream. And that obviously works anywhere, so you can watch it if you're in Auckland, New Zealand or Timbuktu. Also, if due to time zones, if 2pm in the UK is not a good time for you to watch, if you buy a ticket for the live stream, you can watch it at a time of your choosing, I think for a week after the show. I will leave a link for tickets in the show notes for this episode. Some other things to tell you about. On that same day, there is a live show by Tom Crowley.

Now, Tom Crowley is on the Beef and Dairy Network a lot. A lot, a lot, a lot. He's brilliant. He's got his own podcast called Crowley Time. Definitely check that out. But if you're a fan of Crowley Time, his live show is on at 4pm. So, Beef and Dairy will be done at half past 3.

And then you can go straight in to see Tom Crowley. What a combo! And finally, another live show bit of news. This is from Helen Zaltzman. One of the first ever podcasters that I ever listened to and I'm a big fan of hers. She's been on Beef and Dairy a few times, I think. She does a podcast called The Allusionist, not The Illusionist, The Allusionist, which is all about language and its impact on our world. It's a brilliant, brilliant podcast and she now lives in Canada, but she's back in the UK for a UK tour and her live shows are always great fun and involve Martin Alstwick, who's also been on Beef and Dairy and who wrote a song about Sid Onion called Leave the Door a Jar, which is one of my favourite Beef and Dairy songs. Anyway, they're doing a live tour of the UK. They'll be in Newcastle, Glasgow, Manchester,

Cambridge, Bristol, London, Birmingham, Edinburgh, Oxford and not, sadly, Aylesbury. Those dates are happening at this tail end of August and through September. Go to www.theallusionist.org. To find out information about that, lovely. All right, well, I'll see some of you at the live show in September. I can't wait. Sierra Cato, the hosts of TV Chef Fantasy League, where we apply fantasy sports rules to cooking competition shows. We're not professional chefs or fantasy sports bros. Just three comedians who love cooking shows and winning. We'll cover Top Chef, Master Chef, Great British Bake Off, whatever's in season, really.

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