Club Shay Shay - Hit that block button, Threesome etiquette, Simone Biles anointed a Humble Baddie | Humble Baddies

Episode Date: January 14, 2025

In this episode, Ashley, Alexis, and Sharelle discuss Pamela Anderson's decision not to wear makeup, Simone Biles debating whether or not to compete in the 2028 Los Angeles Olympics, WILD mailbag question about threesome etiquette, the Bloc, Unfollow, Mute Game, and much more! Join the Humble Baddies for their first episode on Shay Shay Media!Follow Humble Baddies Podcast IG |  @humblebaddiespodcastFollow Sharelle Rosado IG |  @sharellerosado_ Follow Alexis Welch StoudemireIG |  @lex_a_s Follow Ashley Nicole IG | @ash3nicole Executive Producer Gabriel AntonioIG | @anchorslife Post-Production: EPYC Media NetworkWebsite | www.epyc.coIG | @epycnetwork#ClubSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And we are the humble baddies. Make sure you guys subscribe. We're going to go into the first topic you guys. Pamela Anderson attended the Golden Globe Awards without makeup. I saw that. I saw that. She's been doing that. Yeah, that's her thing. So it definitely sparked the conversation in the beauty world. Like, is this the new trend? I feel like it was something great because we're so used to just thorn on so much makeup and we think that is what defines us as a woman. That is the beauty, but it's not,

I mean, I'm a prime example of it. I feel like I'm only cute when I throw on the makeup and cover up the freckles. You only cute? Really? That's why they're real beautiful. Sometimes I feel like that. I feel like, dang, I look ugly.

I need to go put on some makeup. But that's just that's the mindset we have put out in the world. So big shout out to Pamela Anderson for doing that and reminding women that it's OK to be seen and show the world that you have natural beauty, that you're beautiful. And to age gracefully and that age is OK. And looking your age is okay. Absolutely.

Yeah, especially like in Hollywood, you know, like I'm sure she's probably, she's like a unicorn. Like they're not doing that. Everybody's trying to figure out like the fountain of youth. Really that's like what doctor do I go to? What procedure do I need? What makeup artists? What hair extension?

Like everything that you need to make yourself look like something. And she's really, you know, sending out a different message. And I love that. I think that's amazing. Alicia Keys, she does the whole no make-up thing too. No lashes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's who really got me into like introduced me to that. Really, that balls, you know what I mean? The balls, the confidence of like, you know what?

I don't need this. I can go out there. My voice is what everyone wants to hear. I wanna not wear makeup. I'm like, being a tomboy, I'm really just getting into the makeup low key. My darters are the ones that are very much girly, very much into like showing me what to do.

And so like for them to be put on a pedestal, meaning like celebrities, to always be glammed up, always be ready, be on. I think it's admirable for, you know, Pamela Anderson who was like a sex symbol, you know, with Baywatch to be like, you know what, I'm just gonna bear it all. This is who I really am.

And without all of this, this is who I am, is Pamela Anderson. So we shout out to her being a humble baddie like that. You know? I'm going to take it back. Because last week before my best friend came, Ashley, Ashley, you can testify to this. Last week I was looking like a mole rat.

I was looking sick. A mole rat. Ashley, tell the truth. I mean, I wouldn't have a mole rat. I was looking sick. A mole rat. Ashley, tell the truth. I mean, I wouldn't have said mole rat. I wouldn't have said mole rat. I would have just said, you know. I needed the lashes. The lashes, they do.

Yeah, they did. They were a little sparse. They were a little sparse. Ashley was like, oh. We was at the house getting our lashes done at like one o'clock in the morning. That's how serious we was. Ashley pulled out the massage table. I was like, yeah, no.

I was like, yeah, yeah, set the table up. I said, Phil, bring the table. Emergency, emergency. Yeah, get the lashes. Gigi lives three and a half hours away from us and we was like, we can't keep on going. Shout out to Gigi. Actually, it was fine. No, I needed them too, bitch.

But you, I was looking horrible. It was like, I was here. She did us good. All I know is we needed that. Shout out to Gigi. Shout out to Gigi. I know, I needed them too bitch. But you, I was looking horrible. I was, it was like, I was here. She did us good. All I know is we needed that. Shout out to Gigi.

Shout out to Gigi in these beautiful lashes. Shout out to Gigi. But don't y'all feel like you, like once your lashes are on. I feel like a new person, man. You feel better, right? A new person. Listen, the bristles was popping,

the skin was glowing. I'm like, okay. Yeah. And I got my eyebrows done. Yeah, I see that. You know, they got them touched up. Shout out to my best friend, Gigi. So that's like your go-to is like the brow.

If the brow and the lashes on it, then it's enough. I'm good. And a little lip gloss. So my thing is like, I'm cool with the whole glam thing, but you just gotta make sure like you're taking care of what's under it. So like, I'm cool with the glam, like wear your makeup, full glam, but make sure you take care of your skin. You

know what I mean? I'm cool with the wigs and the weaves and the extensions, but make sure you're taking care of like your natural hair under it. You know what I mean? Like, I think, you know, you just there has to be a balance for everything. And I think that's, you know, that's the balance. Like if you're going to spend all that money on the hair, also spend the money on the hair care. You know what I mean? I agree with that.

My question to you guys, back to Pamela Anderson, her going on the red carpet without makeup. Would y'all attend a big awards ceremony on the red carpet? No, that's not for me. I'm about that life. Ashley, you are beautiful. Yeah, I can do that at home. But if I'm going to a big event,

no bitch, I want to have like all the glam, all the makeup, the big ass dress, the heels, like everything bitch, I'm finna come to motherfucking shine. You want to show up and show out. I'm finna give it. Give it all. I'm finna give, okay? I'm finna be giving you.

And leave nothing. I'm from Heads to Fucking Toes. You have given it for 10 years straight. You gave, gave, gave on the red carpet. Would you ever do a day? A day, what? A time walking the red carpet with no makeup. Yeah, I probably would, yeah.

If I was already done all the red carpets and I've done all the events and yeah, yeah, I could see myself doing that. Yeah. I would, there is a time where I was just like, it was, it's a chore for me. Like I feel like, ah, I gotta get my makeup done. Ah, I rather, cause y'all know me,

I'll show up with nothing on and just be fine with it. Going back to what you said, Ashley, taking care of your skin. It's a priority for me, you know, making sure my skin stays. Your skin be looking like a baby. Thank you. Lickable, you know what I'm saying? Look at them legs.

But it is. I have to make sure when I get my makeup done that I have to take off my makeup at night. You know, it's just, I feel like I'm a little claustrophobic sometimes. But can you believe some people sleep with makeup in here for two to three days? Yeah, no, no, no, I can't do that. Some people, I'm guilty of it. It's like they want to save their eye makeup so they'll like sleep in it. Girl, go sleep in your makeup.

Girl, I'm guilty of it. I got, I like get home late and just... No, girl. just look up the lashes on the pillowcase. I can't, I know that it's horrible. What I'm saying is some people will keep that same face on Saturday, Friday night. No, that's just nasty. Wear again Saturday night and sometimes Sunday night.

That's just nasty. That's nasty. A three time wear. That's just hygiene. I think at that point and laziness. That just nasty. That's nasty. A three time wearing. That's just hygiene, I think, at that point in laziness. That's nasty. That's different. But I mean, I don't go about my everyday life in glam makeup.

I'm very much no makeup. I dress like a boy most of the time at home. You know what I mean? So I think I like both sides of it. I honestly don't like wearing makeup. I feel like it's too much on my face. And I feel like makeup adds like five to 10 years on me. I love seeing your circles.

Like ages you a little bit? Not a little, it ages. Well, that's what you feel, you feel like it ages you. Yes, it does. Because people be like, Well, that's what you feel. You feel like an age of your age. Yes, it does. Because people be like, dang, you look like you and your feet. They say I'm only 37. I'm like, no. Bring it down a notch.

When I don't have makeup, it's like, oh, you look like you're in your late 20s. Yeah. It's because of your freckles. They're very useful. I love that. That's great. Yeah, they are.

They are. Yeah, I ain't got no damn freckles. So I'm going to be putting on this makeup. I love that. That's great. They are. They are. It is. I ain't got no damn freckles, so I'm going to be putting on this makeup. You don't need it, boo. You don't need it. I remember this one time at actually speaking of major carpris, it was during the Met Gala. I was so nervous because everything has to be approved prior from your hair, your makeup, to what you're wearing, what your guest is wearing, everything.

For what is this? For the Met Gala that happens in May. And so they almost want to test run of what you're coming out with, to make sure you're on theme, to make sure you're on top of it. So like that pressure is on another level. And then you turn around and you see all these cameras

and you see all of these, everyone's doing these live interviews. So you wanna be on point. And then at the same time, you turn around and like, everyone is on, everybody is like performing and showing up and being honest. So I feel like it's like low key makeup can be like a mask to like almost cover blemishes,

like, you know, internal and physical blemishes. But at the same time, it's like people can, they're kind of hiding behind that. You know what I mean? Of this glam, of the big hair, the big lashes, the makeup. And really, who are you underneath that? I think it's art though. I think, I don't think it covers up. I think for majority it's art. It just enhanced the beauty. It's a show. Especially for Matt Gallo, you're enhancing the beauty.

You're being extra. Absolutely. Very much extra. much extra. We didn't see your pictures from when you went to the Met Gala girl. We had to pull them up. We're gonna judge. Send us the pictures. We're gonna see if Lex has the case on the Met Gala. I hope you did as well girl.

I hope you showed up and showed out. You have to. We're gonna let you know. We're gonna let you know. We're gonna let you know. We have to. You have to. We're going to let you know. We're going to let you know. We have to.

Speaking of Pamela Anderson and her being such a hot girl, I have some other hot girl headline news. OK, hot girl headline news. So let's talk about Simone Biles. She's been in the headlines lately. She's contemplating going back to the Olympics in 2028. Let me read what she said exactly. She said, I'm at a point in my career where I'm humble enough to know when to be done.

And she said that it would be greedy for her to return to the Olympics in 2028, because there's almost nothing left for her to do. to the Olympics in 2028, because there's almost nothing left for her to do. I think that's, you know, first of all, obviously very humble of her, because she is like one of the most, well, she is the most decorated gymnast in history. She is a BAMP.

Yeah. A badass motherfucker. You know, that's y'all standing in a seat. See these two over here, y'all. She totally is. She is the BAMP right now. You know, she is... She really is. She's an amazing woman.

And to know, you know, that she's accomplished so much and she realizes that, you know, I've done what I needed to do. Yes. And I think, you know, it's great that she can take that self-reflection and, you know, give somebody else an opportunity to do. And I think, you know, it's great that she can take that self reflection and, you know, give somebody else an opportunity to shine. She doesn't feel like she can get any higher in this space. So maybe it's time for her to move on into a different space.

And I feel like she's also focusing on herself, her mental health, like taking care of herself. Because when you devote so much time to be at the top, to be the goat of your sport, you're not taking time out for yourself internally, your mindset and everything because you're so focusing on. And also it's probably so much pressure too. It is. Yes. You know, like what if you don't perform like you did four years ago? What if, you know.

Absolutely. And you know, the world is, these people are crazy. They are, they micromanaging every little thing that she does. You can't have one mess up. Yeah, absolutely. And I see her out supporting her man. She's going to the game. She can be a wife.

She's a wag. She's a whole wag. I love it. She's showing up for her man. That's beautiful. So what do you guys think about that? I feel like, you know, in our lives, there are times where we have to take a step back

and self-reflect and, you know, make decisions where we feel like, you know, we need to move on to another space. Like, we've done everything we could do in this realm. I know like, Sherelle, you and like the real estate industry, you opened up your brokerage, but now you're on to like developing. Is that, would you say, a time where you felt like you needed to move on in a different space? In that specific topic, I would say it was more of growth.

But I have a prime example where I felt like I needed to pull back and I went to my leadership. I was at E7, I had soldiers. I said, my mind is all fucked up. I just did two tours to Afghanistan. I'm hurt, I was at E7, I had soldiers, I said, my mind is all fucked up. I just did two tours to Afghanistan. I'm hurt, I'm injured. If I'm not right, I can't train my soldiers to be right. It's time for me to step back because I don't want

to lead them down the wrong path. They're looking up to me. So at that point, when I went to my doctor, when I was talking to my therapist, I told them I can't do this anymore. It's not right, I'm failing my soldiers if I continue to stay in and just stay in for the time and the paycheck.

That's like very mature of you, very like intuitive of you. Absolutely. You know, to be able to like really just look within and realize how you can affect other people and know that it's time for you to move to a different space. Yeah, because you go through so much

and you'll know your mindset is not the same. You don't have the same drive as you had. This was for me, I didn't have the same drive as I had before and I had to reevaluate myself. And I was like, I'm only failing my soldiers if I continue to stay for a paycheck. Right, right.

And you can be your best self. Exactly. Way to pivot for sure.. Right. And you can be your best self. Exactly. Way to pivot for sure. Thank you. Absolutely. Okay, so Lex, what about you? Like, how do you know when it's time for you to like move forward?

Well, sometimes it's really out of your hands. Low-key, mine was out of my hands to shift my, really my family dynamics during my divorce, for example. Out of my hands, meaning like now I had to learn how to budget differently, I had to learn how to really run my household differently, I had to learn what it is for me to thrive and to really have a source of income

and really just depend on Alexis and get my mental health together, really just really focus on getting back to who I am in self. So sometimes you just don't have a choice. Sometimes you have no choice. Yeah. And so it was like, you know what, now I have to pick it up. I need to figure this out. I need to put my big girl panties on and say, you know what, okay, now it's time for me to like catapult into where I need to be, into my essence. Because we naturally go into the state of survivor mode. That's it.

So it's like, while you're in survivor mode, you still fucked up mentally and you don't even know it because you're fighting for everything else and everyone else. At a point, you're going to break down. So you have to pull back and say, I got to take care of myself. Yes. And that was my main priority. I felt like I was almost just like numb. You know what I mean? Kind of just kind of going through the motions of things and just letting things go.

But then it turns into like being proactive and really much like harnessing. Like phases to it. It is phases. It is phases. And I learned to give myself grace. I really learned how to be patient. You know what I mean? And not have this instant gratification of now, now, now, long-term goals, make sure, and short-term too.

But at the same time, it really just put an adjustment on me of where it is that I need to be and how I can be the most productive Alexis. Yeah. And you did that shit. Thank you. You did a good job. We proud of you, sis. And I feel like I'm still going too.

Yeah, it's constant. It is. It's constant work. It's constant reevaluation and recalibrating and figuring things out. That's life. Life is just a constant evolution and growth. And yeah, but you did that shit. Thank you.

What about you, Ashley? Yes. that shit. It truly is, thank you. What about you, Ashley? Yes. Little shit. I mean, I think for me, there was a big shift, I would say, when Phil retired, because we were doing life a certain way that I was in control of everything. I was in control of home and how we did things,

how I raised our son, what he ate, what he drank, when he went to bed, what he did, what he wore, everything, you know what I mean? And then there's a lot of talk about when the guys retire and it's a lot about him and not so much about the woman, the wife or girlfriend, whoever at home. And so I was prepared for him, but I wasn't prepared for the adjustment

that I needed to make. And so for me, I think I was in a space of, just thinking I had everything in control. And I knew that- You had a system going. I had a system going. And I felt like if I wanted my marriage to survive the retirement, which everybody knows-

Those numbers are up there. That's right. It's a statistic that once they retire, your marriage goes down the drain. I knew that I had to make a shift. And so for me, it was that it was shifting the way I think about things, the way I make decisions,

the way I just do my everyday things. So, it wasn't something that I, like you said, I was basically forced to do that. But yeah. But you did very well and look at you. I'm still doing it, child. Every day, every day you're doing it. Y'all are killing it.

We getting on each other's nerves. He's right there on my side. But you know, I applaud you and Phil. I do too. And we spoke about this, what was that? The other day, we were talking about like everything. Yeah. We gonna redo the wedding and everything. Oh yes, yes.

Like they are, y'all compliment each other so well. It's like y'all brothers and sisters. Y'all get along so good. We family, we for real family. Yes, yes. Yes, yes. Now for real. We love it. Thank you. It's beautiful to be on that wait line. It's true, authentic love real family. Yes, yes. Yes, yes. Now for real. We love it.

It's beautiful to be on that wait line. It's true, authentic love and Phil be with ass shits and everything. Yes, yes. He be with the shit. Thank you Phil for being with the shit. Shout out to my bro Phil. Yeah, shout out to Phil.

He be holding it down. He be his boys. Absolutely. Cause they actually, they his boys. Get your kids, Phil, get your kids. Get your kids. Get your kids. Absolutely.

That's funny. Well, Simone, get your kids. Get your kids. Absolutely. That is funny. Well, Simone, we gonna be cheering for you, whether you go to the Olympics or not. You are an amazing woman. You've accomplished so much and we always gonna celebrate you because you've done so much as a black girl out here. Absolutely.

And today you are definitely our humble baddie of the day. Shout out to Simone Bowles. Absolutely, shout out to Simone. You are our humble baddie and the day. Shout out to Simone Biles. Absolutely, shout out to Simone. You our humble baddie and you're our BEMF, period. Ladies, I have a new game for you all. Well, really for everybody, but for y'all specifically. I'm gonna give you guys four scenarios and you let me know if we're going to block,

unfollow or mute this person. Got it? You guys got it? Okay. All right. Here's number one. Your ex starts following you again, liking your photos,

watching your stories on the daily and clearly trying to slide back into your life. Do you block, unfollow or mute? Sounds like chat. Oh. What's the given? What's the given? It's given follow back.

I'm like, I'm a, I'm a. You going to follow back? Yeah. Yeah. So it's like, it's given Sherelle then. It's given. I ain't going to block. Okay.

I wouldn't block. But I'm going to follow back. I'm going to follow back. I'm going to follow back. I'm going to follow back. I'm going to follow back. I then. It's given. I ain't going to block. Okay. I wouldn't block, but I wouldn't unfollow either. I mean, wait, I'm already following him? Wait, how does it work?

Well, your ex starts following you again, meaning you know that he stopped following you. Yeah, I wouldn't block him. I would let him look. I want them to see my life being fabulous and whatnot. I agree with that. That's how I am. Ain't nothing wrong with them seeing a little something.

Watch me be fine and fabulous. Watch me thrive. Look, my quote gonna be, I'm gonna make sure you see it, a friendly reminder and I'm gonna tag you in it. Oh. Oh. Yeah, you gon' tag.

Let us know what y'all will do, okay? Chad? Uh-oh. But do you think that's like a green light to like open up the door? Like a little flirt, a little like nudge? No, it's just the friendly reminder. If they're trying to, no.

If they're trying to like, if they're liking all of your pictures and they're trying to like get back in there, they can try all they want to, but I'm gonna entertain you and give you a friendly reminder. Okay. But you know what you're missing, okay? I wouldn't give them no energy though.

I'm not following back. I'm not following back. I'm not following back. I'm not following back. Y'all know y'all gonna be watching. You might as well just follow it. I'm not watching shit. I'm not following.

But you gonna be watching. I might watch, but I'm not following. Lex, don't act like you ain't watching. Lex, you ain't watching. Nope. I don't need to. Your nope don't even sound. Been there, done that. Your nope don't even sound serious. I don't though.

I can sit there. Let me see that phone and see if it got a picture. Look, let me see. That's it. We fact checking. Right. No, no. I want you to watch me.

I feel like if that's my ex, it's done. Y'all follow each other? Yeah. I'm not following. I'm not following. I'm not following. I'm not following. I'm not following. I'm not it. We fact check it. No, no. I want you to watch me. I feel like if we're, if that's my ex, it's done. Do y'all follow each other?

No. You had to think about that real long. But is he watching? I don't think he follows me. Is he watching you? I think so, for sure. Are you watching him? How can you not?

I'm just saying. Period. Okay. You know, but no, I'm not. Okay. I've been there, done that. I'm very much like, if we pass that. You went spin the block?

Never. Stop acting like that. I spent the block many times. Who? Over the years. Maybe it's a new route. No. Detour.

The GPS is. Yeah, the GPS is not going in that direction. You know how they give you three alternate routes? You know what I'm saying? Um, detour. The GPS is not going in that direction. You know how they give you three alternate routes. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, no. No, no. Okay. Okay, number two. Your friend posted the worst photos of you on their feed.

Didn't ask. I don't like that. Didn't warn you. And definitely didn't choose your good angles. What's the move, block, unfollow or mute? I'll mute that bitch. It would never happen to me because first I do like that. Oh!

I say no to pictures anyway. And if one of my friends who I call a friend post, they know not to post no picture of me and I'm looking crazy. So if your ass ever do that, one of my close friends. The haters be hating. I'm a block your ass. They really do.

They really do. You gotta, I feel like you gotta like give everybody the airbrush or you gotta give everybody a light tap or something, you know, the equal opportunity photo. All my friends, we look out for each other. Like we ain't finna post no picture looking crazy. Yeah.

I don't have to worry about this It's like the approval you're like, yeah, do you approve this? Is this cool? I'll be reposting pictures though Like if it's an ugly picture and they posted it and you know, they didn't mean no harm, but it's just an ugly ass picture No, I ain't gonna be but I tell people quick if I ain't looking right or not I want to take that shit down. No, I'm not taking a picture. So you won't have it to No, I'm not taking a picture so you won't have it till you can post it. You're like, this is not an option.

No, no ma'am. They may think I'm crazy, stank, whatever. No, I'm not taking a picture. I'm not in the mood to take a picture. So it's a block, unfollow or a mute? A mute. I'll mute somebody real quick. Like you look at me wrong bitch, I'm a mute your ass. Damn. But muting is good for your mental. I think it is. I mute people all the time. I don't even know how to. Yeah. I think it is. I mute people all the time.

I don't even know how to mute people. I'll show you. Yeah, we'll show you how to mute. Will it let them know that it's good for your mental? I don't know. I don't know if it do, but it don't matter. I don't think it does. I'm quick to block people now. I don't block nobody.

I want them to see. I want them to see. It be fake pages though. It ain't the real people. I don't give a damn. I don't give a damn. I want them to see. I want them to see. It be fake pages though. It ain't the real people. I don't give a damn. I'm quick to block y'all ass. I don't give a damn.

I want them to see everything. And they be coming back around with a whole new page. Sure as hell she be blocking the bots. I sure do. I don't care. I want them to see everything. I just don't want to see them. I'm like ass.

But when they're desperate, they gonna go create a whole nother page. I don't give a damn. Exactly. That's the, so it's pointless to block them then. People have time, okay? You might as well just let them look from their dumbass fake page. The first one.

They're just going to make another one. People have way too much time on their hands. I swear. Okay, so we muting her. What's next? You're out with friends having a blast and someone tags your location on Instagram. The catch. You didn't want certain people knowing where you were.

Are you gonna block, unfollow or mute? I'ma call they ass out, cause why the fuck is you tagging our live location? Yeah, I don't like that. While we enjoying ourselves? Like, are you crazy? It's dangerous. Yes, it's very dangerous.

I don't like it. But then again, my people don't know how to do that. They know. Well, I don't have to do that. Yeah. They know. Well, I don't know. I would probably, I would probably, if it was a habitual thing, then I would probably unfollow. Cause you don't have good social media etiquette.

That's fair. I like that. What about this one? What? Hosting everything. You always pulling out your camera from posting all- fair. I like that. What about this one? What? Posting everything. You always pulling out your camera from posting all. I don't like that.

Not aware of what's going on in the scenes or anything. You know, I like my extracurriculars. And so I don't need that to be, you know, I'm going to be in my element. Some stuff is just not for social media. It's not for the greater. Exactly. That's right.

That's right. Yeah, social media etiquette is a thing. It really is. It's a time and place to be posting for videos, for pictures, for everything. And if you don't got it, then yeah, you're going to get unfollowed. I feel like, I'm with you, Ash.

I'm like, look, if it becomes habitual and it's an ongoing thing, because it is a safety thing. It's a safety concern. We are public figures. People do know when we pull up, we are very social. And so it becomes dangerous. It's a safety concern. We are public figures. People do know when we pull up, we are very social. And so it becomes dangerous.

It can be dangerous. Yeah. Even if you're not a public figure, you shouldn't post where you're at. Mm-hmm. You know, in the same time. I like this little game. Make sure you guys comment how you would feel.

Yeah, let us know. Or if you agree with us. I like that. Because we already know, rails people don't do that. Rails people don't do that. But what the child do? It's a small portion of people that I hang with and go out with y'all.

And my people know. Her people know. Yeah. Bitch, you part of the people. What you mean her people don't? Bitch, I have. So we, sure I said we of the, we. We together.

We are people. We are people. We are people. Right, we have good social media. We do. That's why I fucks with y are people. Yeah, we are people. We are people. Right, we have good social media. We do. That's why I fucks with y'all. Yeah, yeah. We the people.

We get it, we get it, we get it. Okay, here's the fourth ladies. A close friend screenshots your story from close friends lists. And now it's circling back to you. Block, unfollow, or mute. Cuss that bitch out. Block, unfollow, or mute.

Cuss that bitch out. Cuss that bitch out. Cuss that bitch out. And unfollow and block all that shit. Cuss that bitch out. Like what? Yeah, that's that's real bad. D all of the above. Yeah, you shouldn't even be in a close friend. Yeah, you gotta go. You out the close friends and...

No, you're blocked. That's a violation. You're done. Yeah, that's real bad. You gotta go. The whole point of the close friends is to like cut up. Exactly. Like to show up, like talk shit.

I talk mad shit in my club. But surprisingly, you have to be careful who you put in your close friends. That's true. Because I have seen a lot of females leak their close friends photos, whatever. Like it's all in the blogs. Like it's crazy. That's crazy. That's not cool.

No, that's definitely a blog. What if, ooh I got one. What? What if a girl got your man in her close friend? Oh, hell no. What you gonna do? You gonna follow that bitch? Block her?

What you gonna do? She gonna get a good lesson out and then I'm a block her. Yeah, cause that's crazy to me. Like for what? Why you got, yeah why? Why? Why you got a girl? Why you got a girl? Why you got a girl? Why you got a girl? Why you gonna do? You're gonna get a good person out, and then I'm a block her.

Yeah, that's crazy to me. Like for what? Why you got, yeah, why? Why would I want to feel me to see? In my close friends? I wouldn't want to feel there either. That's like incest. Right, well yeah, why you, that's nothing.

I don't want you looking at me like that. I talk, again, I talk a lot of shit in mine. Like, for the ladies. I mean, I know some people called friends are just, they just, it's cause they don't, like you said. It can be broad or something. Yeah, it's not nothing like that. I don't care even if it is.

Close friends is something. What if you forget who you put in your close friends and you decide to get outside the box one day and shake their ass one time. Yeah, I barely even follow other people, men in general. Like if I don't already have like a relationship with you myself personally, then I don't need to follow your man. Like that's weird.

That's weird. Social media etiquette y'all. Social media etiquette. Tell me what y'all think. Am I doing too much? I don't think so. No, that ain't doing too much. Let us know.

They gonna let us know though. They gonna let us know. But right now it's time for Humble Baddie's Mail. It's time. I like Humble Baddies Mail. All right, y'all, let's see who we got. Mind you, we don't know what the hell somebody sent in. Oh man, but thank you so much for sending in your inquiries

because you'll end up here, so thank you. Yes, okay. Hey ladies, it's Cindy from Memphis, okay? Hey Cindy from Memphis. First of all, I love the show, y'all are killing it. Thank you, Cindy. Thank you, Cindy. Okay, Hey, Cindy from Memphis. First of all, I love the show. Y'all are killing it. Thank you, Cindy. Thank you.

Okay, so here's my dilemma. My husband and I are in a bit of a routine in the bedroom. Same position, same move, same everything. It's starting to feel a little meh, you know? Not meh. So, that what you said. Let me get that one more time. A little meh. That's what Cindy said. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no.

No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no.

No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no.

No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. No, no. Okay, Cindy. Okay. A third or some toys. But I want it to be fun, sexy and something that reignites the spark we once had.

What do you think I can do? Help a girl out. Let me go first on this one. Okay. Lex is ready. I am because... The sexpert guys of the group. A little real. Lex is ready. I am because- The sex spurt guys of the group. A little bit, a little bit. Not the sex spurt girl.

Lex the sex spurt. Anyway, oh my goodness. Now you got me blushing like this. Okay, I'm very open with my sex. Lex probably a freaking- I am, I'm proud freak. Okay. Yeah, the sex spurt girl.

I would say let's start with baby steps because adding someone into the bedroom is definitely a confidence thing. It can be a jealousy thing. And if you're trying to lock it in with your mates, your husband, like y'all are intimate and exchanging all these, you know, energies. Have you ever brought somebody in a bed? No, never. Never. Did you?

No, never. Okay, got it. I want to be the main attraction. Noted. I want to be the main attraction. But I say bring some toys in. There's a plethora of different types of toys, whatever you're into. If it's pulling, tickling, teasing, start with that and see what your partner's into.

And then that elevates to me the sex. You know, you're supposed to get down and dirty with your mate. Right. You know what I mean? Well, somebody can speak highly of getting down and dirty with their husband. Yes. Let us know how to keep it fresh because we want to know. Give Cindy some tips, girl. Okay, so Cindy, Cindy girl. Let us know.

I think you have to like tap into whatever your man, like what you said. So like, my man, he like call of duty. He like playing the games or whatever. So, you know, a little role play. Yes. You know, a little dress up, you know, like Tomb Raider with the guns.

Oh yes. You know what I'm saying? Like role play, like show up different. Is it like a voice change? Is it a voice change, hair change? Everything. It's everything. It's a whole, you're a different person.

So I would say do that, like whatever he's into, you gotta play into that role. And- Does she incorporate toys? Yeah, a toy is always good. A toy is easy. That's the easy way to spice things up. That's a fun field trip.

But I think if you really wanna like turn it up, it's the role playing. That's true. Yeah. And I would say go, go like, it's communication. Like what are you into? What are you like talking to them? What's up?

Like, what do you want to see? I like that that you observed obviously that you know you're what your husband does. Cause it's the surprise too, you know? Cause he's not expecting that shit. You know what I'm saying? Yes. He in there playing his game.

He going and walking that bitch. Booted and booted bitch. You got it. You got it. She said leave the boots on. He already knew what to do. Okay, I'm saying. So that's my advice.

I feel like you have to switch it up. You definitely have to switch it up because I feel like in relationships they can, the sex part, it seems like it becomes a check the box. Like, okay, let me roll over, hit it from the side. But not dead bodies. She said dead bodies. They are good over, hit it from the side. Uh, uh, uh. But that's what he is. She said dead body. They are good sometimes, but not all the time. You have to spice it up.

Spice it up once a month. Like, go get some, take your man to the sex store with you and pick out some dildos, pick out some vibrators. Pick it out. And, like, you know, when I was in a relationship, me and y'all used to go to the sex store, handcuff me, tie me up, blindfold me, smack my ass, choke me. Yeah.

Okay, see, somebody really try to put me out there like it was just me, okay? It's not just me. A little booty call. Oh, you saying it's a little drafty, baby? I don't know. No, I'm good, I'm good. It's really hot over there. No, but know. I'm good. I'm good.

Sure. It's really hot up there. No, but I'm saying you have to switch it up. You have to because I found myself even, you know, even though we were doing those things, we got so busy, we didn't take time out for ourselves. Yes. And that plays a big role. People say sex don't, but it does.

You have to take time out to love your partner, make love to your partner, caress, role play, and you know, spice up things. I love it. And then- Just what? And then you're done. I think, yeah, sometimes it do be uh-uh-uh. Sometimes you can, what you call it, starfish?

I say starfish, bitch. Starfish. Or dead body. Yeah, the dead- Starfish. But not all the time. Cockroach. What's the cockroach? Oh shit. Bitch, sometimes, I be tired know. Or dead body. Yeah, the dead, but not all the time. It can't be cockroach. What's the cockroach, I said?

Bitch, I be tired sometimes. I just have to. Wait, the cockroach. I've never heard that. I've never heard that. The legs, when the cockroach sprayed us, spray that on us. Yeah, cockroach, starfish.

I never heard it all, not the cockroach. Yeah. That's the first, that's the first. Let us know if you've heard a cockroach, starfish. I heard it all, not the cockroach. Yeah. That's the first, that's the first. Let us know if you've heard a cockroach. Fuck that, heard a cockroach. Not cockroach. She don't went from starfishin' to cockroachin'. Don't lie to me, I'm just, you know.

I love it, I love it. Married and boring. But you're not though, you're still, you're saying you have to show up. You know what I'm saying? I love it. This is the reason why Ashley is still married, cause she be spicin' it up. Every now and then you have to show up. You know what I'm saying? I love it. This is the reason why Ashley is still married, cause she be spicing it up.

Every now and then you gotta pull it out. I was talking to Ashley that time, bitch I'm headed to the sex store. I said, okay, yes. I love it. Yeah. I was there. She said yeah.

But I was calling you bitch to get it back. Bitch what should I get? What's the new shit? What's the new stuff about? What's the new shit bitch? Let me know I'm old. She has to know. I'm gonna marry her for a while.

I'm gonna let her know. She has to know shit out. I'm gonna be calling you next, bitch. Next time call me because I'm frequent. Oh, okay. I'm gonna call her next. Oh, do you bring it with your mate? I do.

Okay, have you tried it with your new mate? It's true. Your new mate got shrapped. Cut, okay. She gonna get all the tea. Yes. Period. Sandy, we hope we gave you information that you needed, girl.

Spice it up, tell your man. Role play, cockroach, whatever you gotta do. But stay the course. Stay the course. Tap in, see what he's into. And y'all take a field trip. Let go. Yes.

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