Crime Junkie - UPDATE: Katelin Akens
Episode Date: June 8, 2018In this update episode, Ashley gets the chance to talk to Lisa, Katelin's mom, about Katelin's case, and like, you all asked... What about Katelin's step-father?   For current Fan Club membership ...options and policies, please visit https://crimejunkieapp.com/library/. Episode Sources: Interview with Katelin Akens’ mother Lisa – conducted by Ashley Flowers.
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Alright Crime Junkies, so back in March of this year, we released episode 15 of our podcast
about the missing person case of Caitlyn Aikens, and it has been one of the most discussed
cases by our listeners.
Yeah, we get messages all the time about it on Facebook and Instagram, and people have
discussed the case endlessly in our Facebook discussion group.
And everyone has the same questions, and they're all about James.
Right.
And this feels like the perfect time to remind all of our listeners that our update episodes
do not get into the nitty gritty details of the case.
So if you're new to our podcast, or if you need a refresher on the details of Caitlyn's
case, please go back and listen to episode 15, which was titled Missing Caitlyn Aikens.
And for this episode, I actually had the opportunity to talk to Caitlyn's mom, Lisa, and ask her
some of the questions that I have seen repeated in so many places online.
And before I jump in, I want to make clear no one has been convicted of any crime in
this case, and anything discussed is from the viewpoints of the family members in this
case.
Please tell me you asked Lisa about James.
Oh, I will.
But really quick, I have to tell you something that endeared me to Caitlyn even more than
I already was.
Lisa asked me if we really lived in Indiana.
Do you live in Indiana?
I do.
I live in Indianapolis.
You know, Caitlyn was born in Indiana.
I didn't know that.
Where was she born?
She was born in Goshen, Elkhart County.
Oh my God, I'm like a stone's throw away from there right now.
I work in Elkhart.
I know, I couldn't believe it.
It's really such a small world, and Caitlyn's biological dad actually still lives in the
state.
Wow.
I know.
So once Lisa told me a little bit more about Caitlyn, I of course had to ask the questions
about James, because one of the main documentaries on Caitlyn's case that disappeared episode
that we watched really revolved around him.
And I asked Lisa if she thought the disappeared episode was a good representation of the case.
Was it a good place to start?
I mean, they actually did a really good job.
Good.
Good.
Okay.
I thought so too, but I never, you know, I never thought so.
One thing I was thinking of, we already knew right away that Caitlyn is a cone, and
it's a cone case, but we're not linked.
Oh, you did?
They did that first.
Yeah.
Interesting.
Because everyone kept talking about it, like they were linked for a long time, like everything
online, people kept coming back to it.
Yeah.
And they ruled that out from the very beginning.
Okay.
Good.
Okay.
Perfect.
Oh, that's interesting.
Based on the way the show laid out the case and the way everyone was talking online, I
would have thought there was more of a question about whether the two cases might be connected.
Yeah.
Same.
Everyone keeps linking them online still, but I guess that was all ruled out pretty
early.
I guess this must have really been on James from the start.
It was.
And so when I began my conversation with Lisa, we really started there.
I asked her about the morning she dropped Caitlyn off.
Was it really her idea to take Caitlyn to James's house?
Yeah.
My sister's husband and her were supposed to take Caitlyn there, but his work had mandatory
overtime, so he couldn't take her.
He was afraid he was going to miss the plane, but he got off work.
Okay.
And he was the only other person we can think of that would take him, and she was actually
okay about it.
Okay.
Yeah.
And so you guys, did you have a pretty cordial relationship after your divorce?
Did you see him regularly?
It took a little, it took about a year, because the first little bit, I was not happy, even
though I was the one that left, I was just, with everything that was going on, you know
what I mean?
But he was always angry with us and was just hardly explained.
He always had these depressed modes where he didn't want to hang out with nobody.
We wouldn't see him for a couple hours a week, and we did.
He was always angry.
And that was after you guys got divorced, or is that part of what happened to you guys?
So maybe he was kind of unstable, and these mood swings weren't really a surprise.
I don't think his mood swings were that severe.
I mean, enough to divorce, but through my whole talk with Lisa, it was really clear
that her and her family are all as baffled by this as everyone else.
So it's not like they ever expected him to go nuts.
Even looking back on it, it still doesn't make sense to them.
And I asked her how Caitlin's relationship and her sister's Gabby relationship, how
they were with James after the divorce.
And then he, since he was a stepfather, he, James was the only father figure that my
girls knew, Caitlin and Gabby, besides my brother and my sister's husband.
Because her real father was never really in her life.
In one of their lives, because they got the same father.
Caitlin's real father hasn't seen her, so she was three.
So did Caitlin and James have an okay relationship, I guess, while you were married?
And then like at the time that she went missing?
What was that like?
At first they did, they had a pretty okay relationship, towards the end, they did not.
But he stayed in her life, they didn't like seeing him at first, but he would always bring
them birthday presents and Christmas presents, and he realized, they realized that he wasn't
being mean anymore, he wasn't being rude, we didn't, we weren't living in that situation
anymore.
They were like, okay, and they were, and they were more accepting that way.
Okay.
If I needed anything at all, if I needed him to help me with groceries or pay a bill, if
I needed the girls needed something, he would get it for us.
But no, but no problem, he didn't even bat an eye.
This is the strangest part for everyone that's heard this case, is that they were so comfortable
with him.
And to think of a reason why he would just turn on them, it doesn't make sense to anybody.
And it's something that even Lisa cannot fully grasp.
Yeah, when I left him two that morning, everything was fine.
They were talking by the front door, right by the side of the couch, Caitlin was talking
about her husband's diploma, about how she was going back to school, everything seemed
fine.
So when she dropped her off, James was acting normal, Caitlin was acting normal.
But what about before she dropped Caitlin off?
We obviously now know that the night before, Caitlin had a rough night.
She did on her fiancé and was obviously going through something.
Did she really not show any of that?
I asked her mom that very thing.
She didn't bring up anything.
Caitlin seemed normal.
She seemed a little tired, but she was a teenager.
She spent the night and stayed up late, you know, she was being a normal teenager.
She had a break up earlier than what she wanted to do.
She was tired.
I was texting on her phone and was excited to go back, she could start school.
So everything that day seemed normal to Lisa until she hears from Amber, who's Caitlin's
fiancé at the time, who said something is wrong with Caitlin's flight.
And Lisa was like, no, that's not right.
There's nothing wrong with her flight.
That's the only flight she has.
Right.
I remember from the story, she's exchanging texts back and forth with Amber and with James
because James had told her that he had dropped Caitlin off and everything was fine.
Right.
Well, when pressed, James says he dropped her off at the mall instead of the airport.
Right.
And from everything I found online, it said that Lisa thought this was fishy because
Caitlin had never rode the bus from the mall to the airport.
But when I actually talked to Lisa on the phone, she said that her problem with this
story was even bigger than this.
When I talked to her, she said that Caitlin had never even been to that mall and probably
didn't even know it existed.
That was fishy because even though we live in Virginia, we never went to Northern Virginia
because there's so much traffic.
We never went to the malls up there.
If we did, it was not that mall.
I didn't even know that mall existed.
Oh, interesting.
Even though Caitlin knows we never went there, we never talked about that mall.
I don't even know how she would know that mall existed.
This makes the whole dropping her off at the mall story seem even less plausible.
I know.
Does Lisa think that any part of James's story is true?
I asked her about this too because I couldn't shake it.
Why make up this whole story about dropping her off at the mall if they can prove that
you weren't there?
Why not just make up a story about dropping her off at the airport instead?
I mean, thinking about it now, I think the whole story is made up because he never went
back to work.
He never, he went, he didn't go back to work for like six months.
He didn't even go back to the same company.
Hold up.
He didn't go back to work for six months after Caitlin went missing.
Right?
And when he goes back to work, he isn't even working for the same company.
Like what is going on in your life that you need six months off of work?
You are a no call, no show and then just never go back?
That is so suspect.
Yeah.
And the day Caitlin went missing, if you'll remember from our episode, the whole reason
he had to drop her off early that day was because he said that he had to work and Lisa
for sure confirmed that that day he was scheduled and just didn't show up.
He was scheduled, but he was a no call, no show.
He never showed up.
And then he never went back to that job.
He never went back to that job.
He didn't go.
Caitlin went missing in that December 5th.
He never went back to work until like that June or July.
When I asked Lisa what she thought that all of this stuff with his work meant, this is
what she said.
I don't know.
So thinking about all of that and him lying about going to the mall, I'm thinking his
whole story's made up.
Okay.
And I have to ask you about those cell phone pings because that was really the red flag
to police that James's story was bogus even before the mall surveillance video.
Yeah.
And Lisa confirmed that all of the pings weren't anywhere near the mall or the airport.
His pings from his house.
Caitlin's pings from Thornburg to Cowan Boulevard to Stafford.
I don't really know Virginia very well.
So what do those areas mean?
She said that these areas are really close together and actually where her phone ping
was almost on the way to Springfield where the mall was if you were coming from James's
house.
So all these pings are concentrated near James's house.
His cell phone is at his house.
And where Caitlin's cell phone pinged is actually on the way if you were to drive from James's
house to the airport or mall.
Oh, wow.
Is there anywhere else Caitlin's phone pings were close to?
Well, the Cowan Boulevard ping, you can use Cowan Boulevard to go to and get to River
Road where her luggage was bought.
So we know these phones were pinging in the wrong location all day.
But the number one question I got online was, is it possible for James to have just left
his phone at home while he drove her?
And maybe that's why it shows he didn't leave his house.
And it's possible, but to me, that doesn't explain Caitlin's.
But I asked Lisa this anyways.
He could have been out there without his phone, but he would use GPS.
I don't even know if he knows where Springfield Mall is.
He might because he used to work up in Northern Virginia at the different gas stations at
the Walla.
He worked at.
But he might know exactly how to get there.
I don't know.
So he could have left it at home.
It doesn't really explain Caitlin's phone because if he took her and left his phone
at home, her phone still should have moved.
Right.
I'm still not totally clear why we can't just get more information from James's cellphone.
Because James was actually a super techie guy and his phone didn't have a normal operating
system.
He's a techie.
When the Android phones first came out with a slide up keyboard, do you remember those?
We had those.
When they first came out, James put his own operating system on the first item.
So police couldn't crack it because he put his own operating system on it.
Yeah.
Lisa said as far as she knows, they've tried bringing in experts to look at this, but everyone
has failed.
And that's the main phone that he would have been using.
And now they can't get into it and he's not helping them get into it.
And just to be clear, they for sure never found Caitlin's phone.
No, they didn't.
Was Lisa and her family believe it was him texting from her phone that day?
I think so, because it wasn't her.
The way this text worked, or back to back text, she doesn't do that.
Yeah.
And I was looking back at my old phone that I had then, some of his text, not just some
of the boy who was his, but I don't know, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
But it's not hers.
So the way Caitlin air quotes was texting the day she went missing looked like some
of James's old texts.
Yeah, but Lisa said she can't be sure.
So Brett, I have to ask you, there's this question that I had that no one else asked.
So maybe I'm just like way too deep in the weeds here and it really doesn't matter.
But it seems like something that's like a huge glaring oddity to me that needs to be
answered.
What is it?
Caitlin's luggage.
Though when we talked about it, the wheel was broken and per investigators, they said
it looked like it had been thrown out of a moving vehicle.
Yeah.
I remember that.
Okay.
But how?
Like again, the story that most of us are going off of is something probably happened
to Caitlin.
James probably had something to do with it.
We're only talking about James.
How would he alone have thrown luggage out of a moving vehicle?
It was a big piece of luggage that one wheel is broken off of it.
So I'm thinking we threw it out of the car while it was moving.
So it almost seems like it would have to have been two people, right?
One driving and one throwing the suitcase out or possibly he hadn't ready, but he I
don't know if you would have enough room on your driver's not throw it out the window
while you're driving.
So I'm thinking maybe two people.
How did we not talk about this during the episode?
This feels kind of big.
Would it have been Caitlin?
I still don't think so.
I haven't found anyone that I've talked to who thinks Caitlin just really who then.
Were there even any other suspects?
I talked to Lisa about this.
I said, you know, would there have been anyone who would have helped him or maybe would have
been there after things went wrong?
The only person I know that would help him that day would be his mom.
He doesn't really have many friends at all.
He he's a homebody.
He doesn't go anywhere.
He doesn't do anything.
He doesn't really have any friends.
I know one friend that he has and I don't think his friend would help him do that.
Where does his mom live?
Close enough that she could feasibly get to him quick and help.
Britt, this is where I believe that all of the answers to this case.
She actually lives in his other house with me and him living together because he owns
two houses.
In our episode, I only remember you telling me about one property that they searched.
Because they did only search one.
My first question to Lisa when I heard this was if they searched both or just the one
that he lived in at the time.
I usually try my best on these calls to be silent and keep my cool, but I just couldn't
at this part.
I'm so sorry.
Just the one he lived in because the other one she's considered as a tenant.
Because he hasn't actually lived there.
So they never searched that other property?
Oh my God.
And I've asked them to do it several times and they can't.
Why?
Because even though he owns it, he doesn't live there.
Somebody else does.
Yeah, I know, but he has to act like, oh my gosh, I think that's crazy.
If you have access to somewhere, you would think you could get a search warrant.
Even though he's not there, if I have access to a friend's house and they suspected me
of killing somebody, I would assume they would still get a search warrant.
Right.
But they, I guess they can't.
Oh my God.
I also asked Lisa more about the search they did of this one property.
Yes, they said they searched everything.
What they confiscated that day when they searched his stuff, he's never asked for it back.
Wait, so they still have everything they confiscated?
It's about his vehicles.
What?
Yeah, his phones, his guns, that he had of his dad's, his bedsheets, his pillows, everything.
And he never wanted it back.
You know.
Does Lisa still live close to James and his mother?
Yeah, I actually talked to her about the last time she saw him and I asked her when that
was.
The case was, December was a year, so I haven't seen him or talked to him in 14 months, 15
months.
Because not this past December, but this December before that, I went to his house and I begged
and asked him to go talk to the police, talk to somebody about Caitlin and I told him that
he don't only put your name and phone number and address and everything up there.
He just didn't care.
He didn't care.
He didn't.
He wouldn't do it.
He told me that was going to ruin him.
Oh my God.
I don't want you to go say something and he still wouldn't do it.
She said one time her other daughter even saw him more recently.
He's living his life like there's nothing wrong.
Do you ever see him?
No, I haven't really come across him because I've been working a lot.
My other daughter Gabrielle, she's come across him at Walmart one time and they looked at
each other and he ran away, went another way.
When did it turn into this?
I remember from the episode, he cooperated with the police and the family for a while.
Did he just shut down after he became a person of interest?
According to Lisa, they all knew from day one that he was going to be a person of interest.
So she's not sure what made him shut down because I told him when I talked to him that
day, when I was on my way home, when he, she went that night, when y'all, she went missing.
I talked to him at 645 PM when I was on my way home and I told him, I said, you know
that you are the last person to see her, you're going to be the person of interest, right?
He said, I know that.
He already knew.
And he's, he was fine talking to me.
He was very, very intelligent.
Yeah, I think I've been told that he was going to be a person of interest.
He talked for a while.
Yeah.
Is Lisa concerned for her safety at all?
Yeah, I actually asked her this because I would be a little, there's obviously something
that happened to your daughter.
You think you know who did it and you're openly telling him that you think he had something
to do with it.
I mean, he is this killer, like, could there be backlash, but she was less concerned.
No, I don't think he will, because I think everybody knows that, that he did something
to Caitlin.
I think he's going to be too big of a chicken or a coward to do anything else right now,
because the spotlight's on him.
So she very clearly thinks she knows who, but does Lisa believe she knows the why?
We have a lot of theories for that day.
We just don't know what it would be until he comes clean.
I asked Lisa if there was any small part of her that believed Caitlin was still out there.
I still hope she's out there somewhere, but where?
I don't know.
Yeah.
If she's still alive, we don't know.
I know the time and stuff like that is not good, but I still hope she is.
Knowing the story from the outside, I told Lisa it was just so hard to believe that Caitlin
would have just left her family like this.
It was so obvious that she loved them, and it just didn't make sense, at least not to
me that she would just walk off.
It wouldn't have.
She was so excited about landing me on board, and she felt like to see him, she felt like
to be an aunt.
She would have never left that baby.
She would have never missed out on his life.
If anything, they would have made her move home and not run away.
Yeah.
I can't help but agree.
I know her diploma was gone, but nothing else points to this being a runaway.
Yeah, not even her complicated relationship, and Lisa and I discussed this.
There are a thousand ways to get out of an engagement, and if that really was the problem,
I'm sure Caitlin would have known that she could just stay home in Virginia.
Yes.
She always knew that.
I told her when she left, she was 18 years old on my cutting, wherever I'm at is always
her home.
I don't care if it's two months from now, three months from now, three years from now, 30
years from now, wherever I'm at, it's your home too.
You can always come home.
I don't care when.
She always knew that.
Have there been any updates recently from the local police?
No.
I asked Lisa how often she gets to talk to them.
I talked to them about once a week because it gets too depressing calling them all the
time.
There's nothing new.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It makes you more depressed talking to them every day or every other day, and there's
nothing.
As far as Lisa knows, the police are just waiting for something new to come in to reinvigorate
the case.
And I asked if James is officially considered a person of interest by police.
As far as I know, Lisa, he doesn't know of interest.
Have they ever seen anyone else a person of interest?
No.
Is there anyone else that James might have talked to in the last couple of years?
Anyone that might know his secrets?
Not that I know of.
No.
If you don't see anybody, it would be his mom.
And is she still alive?
Yeah.
She lives at the other house in Yones.
So that's it?
She's just stuck waiting.
Yeah.
And I asked Lisa if this is sometimes the hardest part, just not being able to do anything
to get those answers.
Yeah, it is.
You never know.
You think of it like everything.
It's just going to be the day.
Because we think, I think about it all day long.
Even when I walk, because I work at a convenience store, I'll walk down and I'll be like, Kate
would used to like those.
Certain candies or like banana flavored, laughing happy stuff like that.
I like Kate.
We used to love those.
You know, just certain things.
And the baby landed.
He's got so many characteristics of Kaitlyn, the way he does things, the way he smiles.
A lot of it's her.
A lot of it is a lot like her.
Finally when I kind of ended things with Lisa, I just asked her if there was any way that
we could all help as podcasters, as listeners.
And this is what she said.
I mean, just keep sharing her stuff, keep talking about her, you know?
I want people to know that she's still missing.
I want her bound, keep sharing herself.
So everyone, after this episode, please go to Facebook.
There are two groups, Find Kaitlyn and Help Find Kaitlyn Agans.
Please share some of her stuff on your page.
The more people we can get to share and see her face, the better chances we have of helping
find Kaitlyn.
And if you want more information on Kaitlyn's case, make sure to check out episode 15 of
our podcast.
We also have an accompanying blog post at crimejunkiepodcast.com.
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