Date Yourself Instead - How to be radiant and wildly magnetic - the secrets of the universe with Isabelle Keating
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Isabel brought us liquid gold that apparently the Egyptian goddesses of their time took as supplements.
Of course!
Thank you.
Every goddess needs to drink their gold in the morning.
That's crazy. Where did you even get that?
I won't reveal because limited quantity.
There's like only two bottles left on earth.
After this episode.
You have that effect, though.
Oh my god, do you know how many people, like last night, too,
I was going through my DMs and someone's like,
I just booked a trip to Bali.
I just booked a trip to Bali.
And now everyone's coming to Bali now.
And I'm like, oh my god, like, I should be
partnering with the Bali tourism.
For like, yeah, single women finding themselves.
It's like the renewal, resurgence of e-pre love.
Yeah, I think I actually want to have multiple retreats here and just do it for like, I'll
come back for that, you know?
You should do that.
Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of Date Yourself Instead. We are back. We
decided to make a part two because our conversation was not finished. I feel like we had so much left to talk about on the last episode that we did,
which was actually yesterday.
Isabelle is just your next level with everything and we have so much to talk
about. And after the session,
we literally spent five extra hours talking and then we were like,
we should have just recorded this. So we're back.
Thank you for having me. Thank you for having me back.
It's so amazing speaking with you all the time, Liss, too.
Our conversations, we always say this,
but they just open up this literal vortex,
literal portal.
And I think it's important that women get together and have
these kind of conversations about big picture things
and healing.
And yeah, I wish that we would have had little microphones
on us yesterday afterward, because it was just like,
do, do, do, do, do,
do.
But hopefully we can capture some of that today.
Yeah, and every time we talk, it feels
like we're in an energetic vortex,
and the rest of the world is like silent.
Yeah, no, it's so crazy.
Yesterday after the session, I felt
like we stepped out of the studio,
and the world had shifted.
Bali is a portal.
Bali is a vortex. And what I talk about sometimes is like how, when we
walked out of this podcast, and then sometimes when we walk out of our sessions and it feels
like a different world, because when you do healing on a deep, deep level, you're actually
healing many different timelines and you're healing things from the past and from the
future and in your current reality. And so you'll step out into the world.
And yesterday we were like, this just, it's not the same Bali that we went into the studio,
right?
Because our conversation was so powerful that it actually shifts things.
And that's why when mass amounts of people are doing healing at the same time or mass
amounts of people are healing themselves on their individual level. That's why we're shifting timelines so quickly
and rapidly right now.
We stepped out of the studio and then we went and got lunch
and we bumped into like 10 different people that we knew.
And I saw this guy that looks like a guy I know
and it was literal clone of him.
And I felt like we were living this timeline, where
I was seeing people that I knew back home in New York,
but they were in Bali, but it wasn't them, but it was them.
It was the trippiest thing, for sure.
And I was just looking at her, and she's like, yeah,
this is just typical Bali stuff.
I'm like, what is happening?
Yeah, it can get a bit intense.
But yeah, I mean, Bali is so energetic because the people here, Balinese people, they're
very present.
And presence is the ultimate manifesto, right?
You can only truly manifest when you're in the now.
And people here, you see it.
They just live in the moment.
It's not like that constant stress and thinking of tomorrow and next week.
And also the way they take care of the land,
and they constantly are doing ceremonies
and thinking about energy and thinking about something
outside of themselves.
It makes it really powerful.
And that's why we talk about the purging.
A lot of people come to Bali and get quite ill right off the bat.
They say it's Bali, Bali.
But is it?
Is it really?
Or is it because we hold such dense vibrations from the cities
we come from that when we get somewhere so pure and so
high energy, it's the same thing with Kundalini.
When you feel this frequency, everything starts to come up.
Because it's like it literally can't survive in something
that is so high frequency.
It has to be pushed out to match that frequency.
And I know you had that experience.
You were down bad when you first got here.
I was like, oh no.
Yeah, so for those of you who are unfamiliar with Kundalini,
you should go watch the previous episode that me and Isabel
recorded.
She explained it.
She explained everything really well.
And that episode pretty much covers everything
you need to know about Kundalini.
So definitely check that out.
When I got here to Bali, I was like, oh, I'll be fine.
Cause everyone talks about this Bali belly thing where you get violently ill when you
get here because of the food or water.
But it's interesting because the last time I came here, I didn't get sick at all.
I feel like I was kind of just suppressing everything up until the end.
And then when I left, I did one or two sessions and that was it.
But I had like gotten a plane and left this time.
I've gotten sick three times when you're doing so much inner work and you're
actually purging and doing the Kundalini sessions. And you know,
just this time I made an intentional to actually really clean out all the toxic garbage
that's been stuck in me for literally 15 years of toxic cycles, toxic relationship patterns.
I made it a priority for me.
I wanted to just completely transform myself.
I wanted to completely strip myself of my past and renew myself and renew my cells
and regenerate who I am when I got here.
That was the purpose of coming here.
And it was so emotionally and physically tolling
at first.
In the beginning, I was sick for a week.
And then I woke up one morning and I felt amazing.
And I was like, wait.
And glowing.
I was glowing.
Even though I was so sick, I was literally radiating a new aura.
And we were talking about this the other day.
Your aura literally changes when you commit to doing the inner work.
I had this gray, weird, cloudy aura in pictures.
And I look back even two months ago, and I
see how I'm literally radiating at a different frequency.
You could see it in the photos.
If you look at old photos of myself, and then you look at the photos now, I look like a a different frequency. You could see it in the photos. If you look at old photos of myself,
and then you look at the photos now,
I look like a completely different person.
I've had no additional Botox filler.
I've had no additional work.
And there are some people that were messaging me on Instagram
because I posted a transformation photo.
They're like, do you want to tell people
about all the plastic surgery you've done?
Oh my god.
I swear on my life, I've been doing Botox and filler
for seven years. It's nothing new. I've been very transparent about the work I've had done. Oh my god. I swear on my life, I've been doing Botox and filler for seven years.
It's nothing new.
I've been very transparent about the work I've had done.
I haven't done anything differently.
I haven't done anything since I've been here.
I'm not getting Botox and filler in Bali.
I literally look different because of my energy state.
Also, you see it in the way people treat you.
So I mean, I've definitely had people approach me,
men approach me, of course, in my lifetime.
I'm not even interested in dating right now, but it's this different magnetism where I'll
walk into a room, and I was saying this on the last episode, these guys will just stop
whatever they're doing and stare at me, or they'll just come up to me and they'll be
like, hello.
And I'm like, hi.
It's always the hello.
Like you said yesterday, someone came up to you and was like, these.
And also we were sitting at lunch.
You have a very strong magnetism.
And when I first met you, I was like in trance.
But I just, when I witnessed it for myself, it's so funny.
We were at lunch yesterday and this guy would not leave the table.
He would not leave the table. He would not leave the table.
He just kept talking to her, and he was literally about to jump on top of her.
He was like, can I have your number?
This was like you ended the conversation three times.
I was being polite and everything.
She ended so nice.
She was obviously so nice, but was literally trying to end the conversation with this man
multiple times because we were just trying to have a conversation eating lunch.
He's like, anyways.
Then he would start again. he's like anyways he's like
about to jump on top of her. He kept coming back changing his outfits like he went to the bathroom changes.
He came back with like three different looks I was like what timeline did we just converge with?
No it was wild every few minutes he'd come back for you and I'm like this is
next level you just become a magnet because your energy is so pure
and you're just radiating abundance and light,
and people want to be around you.
Well, remember the first time it happened with you
when we had first started doing sessions.
After we left Bali, the first time we went back to New York,
we were working online.
And you messaged me, and you were like, is this normal?
This man just started crumbling in my presence.
I've known him for years, and I walk past him every single day.
He worked by your house, and he was like, you were like,
he forgot his name.
No, OK, this guy that I've known for two years, he lives near me.
And when I got home after doing two sessions with you,
and then just, you know, Bali, obviously, it just recharges you in general. So you're feeling a little good
I was feeling pretty grounded
But obviously like there was so much more that I still had left and I wish I had met you earlier
I was like, alright, I'm gonna go for a walk. It was like the first day. I was back in New York. I go outside and
This guy that I've known for a while just comes up to me and he's like,
hey, how have you been, whatever.
And then I saw like, he was literally shaking.
He's never, he's always been super confident
and normal around me.
Like it was never weird or anything,
but he looked so nervous and I was like,
what is happening?
Like, why is he nervous?
Maybe he's just anxious about something.
I don't know.
And he was like literally shaking.
And then he was like, hey,
can I actually give you my number? And I was like, yeah, sure. And then I give him my phone
and he freezes and he's like, oh my God, I forgot my phone number. He's like, I don't remember my
phone number. Like I'm blanking out and I'm literally just standing there and I'm like,
it's okay. He literally forgot his phone number, name, address, everything. He forgot his phone
number. And I was like, oh my god, he's really nervous.
And obviously, it was fine.
We were just laughing and talking for a bit.
But I was like, oh my god, he was
crumbling by my energy state.
I saw the look on his face when he saw me.
And he was looking at me so differently
than he's ever looked at me before.
So I was like, wow, something changed.
Something definitely has changed within me.
And that was the start of me noticing those changes.
It can be sort of fun to play with it.
But we spoke about this on the last episode.
When your energy, it changes at a subtle level,
and people can feel it.
People are perceptive to energy.
There's some of us that are more intuitive or psychic
or whatever you want to call it than others,
but everyone notices it.
And when you do a lot of inner transformation and inner alchemizing of
the things that are weighing you down, it's like, maybe this is a good transition
to what we wanted to speak about this idea of you can only shine as bright as.
As the darkness that you've integrated in yourself.
And so that's why doing deep healing like this, like working with Kundalini
energy is so powerful because it forces you to face that darkness and those
things that you hate about yourself or don't like about yourself or don't know
about yourself or don't want to look at, or things that you inherited from your
mom, from your grandma, you access these states and they all come up in the session
or they come up after, but it's like energy cannot be created
or destroyed, it just changes.
So what do you think happens when you heal?
What does healing really mean?
It doesn't go away, it doesn't just poof disappear.
It's like, it changes to something else.
It changes to aura, it changes to your essence,
your power, your creativity.
And I always use Taylor as an example,
because I love Taylor so much.
But she-
The biggest Taylor Swift fan right here.
Oh my god.
That's a whole-
She naturally knows how to do what
you're about to talk about.
Exactly.
I had this realization when I first
started working with Kundalini Energy.
The whole reason why we get sick and depressed,
and we have chronic illness and disease and chronic pain is because
these are emotions that are trapped in the body that are literally living there.
And I thought about Taylor Swift like a year and a half ago when I started this and I was
like, that is a woman who every time she feels something so dark and so negative, like she
gets it out because she has that gift of alchemizing, of creating because she's
a genius, because she's Taylor, because she's an artist.
You see it in her aura because things come in and she doesn't just let it sit.
She has to go to the piano.
She has to write.
She has to go to her guitar.
She gets it out and she turns it into something else.
That's a woman who she's not afraid of her darkness.
Everyone in the world listened to the torture poets department and we were all shattered
because we all resonate with that level of brokenness and darkness. Everyone in the world listened to the torture poets department and we were all shattered because we all resonate with that level of brokenness and darkness.
The key is in your own way, how do you access that and then transmute it and turn it into
your own power?
And you have to feel it.
And you know, because we're not all Taylor Swift, so it's like, can you at least get
on the mat and just let it run through you if you can't go to the piano and write, you
know, the smallest
man who ever lived.
Yeah, that song destroyed me when it came out.
That album was like perfect timing,
but also the worst time at the same time
because I was literally having a mental breakdown
every two seconds.
It was crazy.
The day we met, we talked about that specific song,
and you were like, yeah, the bridge of that song crushes me.
I love Taylor, but I had to stop listening to her music because it was, everything has a vibration,
right? And music has a vibration. And that's why when you listen to healing frequencies and
you listen to meditations, you feel a certain way. And it's also when you listen to sad music and
sad things, or you watch sad content, you start feeling something. So I try to avoid that,
especially if you're going through a bad breakup, You don't want to be listening to sad music and absorbing all of that energy.
You want to be listening to positive things.
So it was really hard for me to listen to that.
I feel like it can, I feel like with that album in particular, because there's always
a reason for everything.
I think it came at a time because I think a lot of us women, we needed to reaccess some
of those things that we thought we healed or we didn't heal and feel it again.
But it's exactly what you're saying.
Once you feel it, once you heal it, you need to take the lesson.
And you need to take kind of like those emotions that you brought up and
alchemize.
And you need to move on.
You need to then move on to something positive and move on to redemption and
just be like, OK, so finally I also had to stop.
You need to alchemize the energy.
And we were talking about this in our session.
When you have stuck emotion, when you're feeling stagnant,
when you feel like there's blockages,
but you don't really know the steps to take,
I think the most important thing I've learned recently
is going towards something you're passionate about
and going towards something you genuinely love to do.
And it could be something as small as reading,
or it could be as small as taking a Pilates class
or going for a walk and listening to a motivating podcast. It it could be as small as taking a Pilates class, or going for a
walk and listening to a motivating podcast.
It could just be something small, but if you're moving towards something, you're moving your
energy.
When I was going through the worst of my breakup, I was in bed.
I didn't want to move.
I didn't want to do anything, but that energy was staying stuck in my body.
It's not healthy for it to stay stuck in the body because it manifests into depression
and it manifests into illness.
And I was feeling all those things and it got to the point where I was like, I need
to take action and taking inspired action towards something, even if it's just a tiny
thing, something different, making a vision board, which is in my masterclass, the mind-body-soul
reset.
I have all these things that you could do to take small steps to get to the next level without pushing yourself too hard when
you're going through a really hard time.
It really does make a difference.
It compounds over time.
And then you're over time releasing energy and releasing stuck energy in the body.
And I think combined with things like Kundalini and therapy and journaling and meditation, you
will start to see transformation.
And you'll start to heal.
And it's not an overnight process either.
But it's so important to alchemize that energy
and transmute it.
As you said, energy is not created or destroyed.
You have to change it.
And it changes into something positive
once you take that action to kind of work towards it.
And use it.
Use that as your driving momentum,
as your driving force.
I know you've had this experience
in your own process, in your own transformation,
but you access these states of whatever they are.
When you work with this energy, it
turns into, how would you describe it?
It's like power.
It's the fire burning everything down in your life.
And that's, I think, as women, that can be our power
and our redemption.
And taking all these broken hearts
and being like, now we burn down everything
that no longer served us.
We tap into that anger, and we make it power and creativity
and healing.
Yeah, we have superpowers.
Women have so many amazing superpowers
that just need to be unlocked.
Because I think we get so sidetracked and so distracted.
Oh, this guy didn't text me back, or he broke up with me,
and he made me feel like shit about myself.
Obviously, we need to go through these experiences to learn and grow but at the
same time when I look at it objectively now and look at all the bullshit I've
been through and look at all the guys I've dated and everything I'm like yes
it was all worth it because it built me and it built my character and I'm so
strong and I'm literally a warrior when it comes to relationships but at the
same time I'm, none of those people
even matter anymore. I'm so in my power now that I realized it was all just, those were side quests.
Those were side quests of the spiritual war. Those people, you need them because as I said,
I wouldn't be the woman I am today without these experiences. However, I will say, looking back, I'm like,
I didn't ever need any of those people
to discover this power.
It was just, there was so much distraction
that you don't know how to unlock it
because you're always thinking about something else.
You're always thinking about, who am I gonna date next?
Or this guy did this to me.
There's so much going on in the world externally
that you don't even realize how powerful you are
until you do the inner work.
You heal, you take time to be by yourself and in your thoughts and in your own
energy.
And then you're like, wait a second, I'm amazing.
I'm the best.
And I have another section of my, uh, mind, body, soul reset masterclass that
talks about this concept.
And it's also by Joe Dispenza.
He's a doctor that studies the human brain and psychology and how, when we change our internal energy state, we literally transform ourselves and it's also by Joe Dispenza. He's a doctor that studies the human brain and psychology and how when we change our internal energy state,
we literally transform ourselves.
And it's proven through science that when
you do inner energy work, you're literally
changing the makeup of your cells and your DNA.
And you could reverse disease and cancer.
And any trauma or chronic illness,
you can reverse through the power of your mind.
I'm obsessed with him.
You should definitely go watch all of his YouTube videos. I wish he was like my second dad.
Like, I'm like, if I had Joe Dispenza next to me at all times, I would be superhuman
permanently, because he's just so amazing.
Anyways, he has this concept of waking up every morning and literally telling yourself,
I am the best.
Like, you have to believe that you are the best and it's literally going to change your
internal state and inspire you to take action, inspire you to go after your dreams.
And I started doing this and my reality started like changing so drastically because you're
conditioning your subconscious mind to believe that you are the best in every room you walk
into you are the best.
You radiate this golden aura and people feel it.
You become a magnet and there's nothing wrong with feeling like you're the best person in the room, because otherwise, I don't know.
I just feel like it helped me with my confidence so much.
It's not like a narcissistic thing.
It's just being so sure of yourself
and so grounded in your energy that people
start to treat you differently.
Otherwise, the other option is getting run all over,
walked all over.
You have no boundaries, and you're insecure.
So I'm like, why not just program my brain to feel
like the best person in the room, right? It's just a mentality and something and a strategy you could
work towards so you build your confidence. And I think for me, so much confidence also comes from
when you believe in your ability to get through challenging things. And when you see how much you've changed and grown along the way, it's like,
that's, that's also confidence because you know that anything that comes your
way, you will be okay.
Like you've made it this far and you're going to keep going and you're going to
keep healing and, and that you build up this resilience in your nervous system.
And when you start reprogramming your brain and reprogramming your nervous
system and your body, other people can sense it like, wow, that's a resilient woman.
That is a woman in her power.
That's a woman who is like, yeah, just is not afraid of her own power because we've
just been conditioned and conditioned and conditioned to be afraid of our power.
And we've let men take that from us.
This whole movement of this feminine like resurgence and this huge Kundalini rising and the age of Aquarius which we
spoke about on the last episode, this is all starting to change because it's like
in order for the world to really heal we need to heal the feminine wound and the
feminine essence and it's like I'm seeing it so much I'm sure you are too.
It's everywhere with at least in Bali.
But I hope it reverberates out to every corner of Earth.
I'm seeing a shift in even people that are messaging me
in my DMs being like, I feel so much more in my power
now than I ever did before.
And it's becoming this thing where
I'm getting more positive messages versus two years ago
when I started the podcast.
People were messaging me really dark, sad things all the time saying, you know, I'm broken, this
man destroyed me, I have no purpose, I feel lost. And yes, of course, everyone
goes through different phases in life, but I think on a global scale, things are
shifting, especially in the feminine energy. I see it just from the messages I get now.
People are like, I'm broken, but I know I'm going to get better.
I'm really going through it, but I trust that I'm going to meet my soulmate.
There's just so much more positivity around the healing process, and there's so much more
access to healing materials and things that we could do.
So I think people are just generally more hopeful because there's like self-help podcasts. There's kundalini
There's different forms of therapy you could do there's
Hypnosis which I have yet to try but I really want to do that. There's just so much more access to resources and
there's courses like
It's just so amazing and I think now I'm seeing the shift, as you said, more than ever, which is women
are taking their power back.
Yeah.
It's interesting, like, the pulse
that you have on kind of the collective
and the feminine collective just through your large community
of how you can actually notice how it's changed in two years.
Like, what happens when you start to heal?
I think I maybe mentioned this on the last episode.
Or maybe in our conversation after, yeah, after lunch, but, um, you, you can kind
of zoom out of your own individual personal journey and you can take a look
at like what's going on around you.
That's sort of what healing does.
You realize it just expands your consciousness and you realize like,
okay, wow, this is, this is a trend.
This is a shift.
And by being aware of that, you can tap into it even more
and being like, OK, wait, we're all doing this.
Like, we're all tapping into our power.
We're all saying never again.
We're all giving up.
Everyone has and had that never again.
We need to cover that in more depth,
because you mentioned it on the last episode.
But I was thinking when I got home last night,
I was like, we need to do an episode on that concept of Never Again.
And people will relate to that a lot because I had my Never Again this year and it was
the most freeing, liberating experience after I went through, I was crying for maybe a couple
of days, but it's like when you've had enough, like you've literally had enough.
And I recorded an episode, How to Stop Being Too Nice.
I covered a lot of this energy in that episode, but we were just talking about this yesterday.
It's that moment, that breaking point where you've hit rock bottom with people and the
people that run over you that treat you like shit, that treat you like garbage, that don't
see your value, and you're like, I'm done.
This is my reputation era.
Literally.
Like, the serpent unleashed.
And it's like, that's also a whole other topic.
I was thinking that.
Never again t-shirts, hats, guys.
Expose the frauds.
If you want merch, let me know.
Just DM me and maybe, just depending on the response, we'll get there.
But I do think that every woman has that moment where it's like,
no, actually never again.
You're not just saying it.
And something literally changes within your brain
and the fire in your sacral and in your heart.
And you actually know.
And maybe that is what propels the healing journey,
it propelled mine, where I was just like, no.
I knew that if I wanted to stop attracting the type of men
that I was attracting in my life, I knew I had to do.
It wasn't going to just happen magically.
I knew I had to do something and change, literally change
almost everything about myself.
I am who I am at my core, but I stopped drinking.
I stopped dating.
I stopped sleeping with men.
I stopped wasting my time with anything and just committed fully to the healing journey.
And it's like, you did as well.
That's exactly what you did earlier than I did.
But that was my year.
This was my year for doing that.
2024 was my breaking point where I was like never again am I
going to let someone take my energy, take my power, take my confidence away. I'm
harnessing my power, my energy and I'm focusing solely on myself and that's it.
And unless a man is God sent and God sends him himself and is like this is
your husband and like makes it so crystal fucking clear. There's no point in entertaining anyone.
Friends too, business partners too,
whoever's in your life, if they're draining your energy,
there has to be a boundary,
because otherwise you're never gonna tap
into your fullest potential.
Those people are always gonna drag you down,
and I feel like, especially with me personally,
just my romantic relationships,
those were always the relationships
that were dragging me down the most.
And I never had firm boundaries in place.
Up until this year, I just snapped
because the last person I was with was in June,
which was my never again, was a guy that was,
it almost felt like a simulation.
Like I don't even remember how I even entertain this person
because now I'm just such a different person
that I'm like laughing.
So I'm like, that was a little bit like embarrassing but anyways. Like the
new you would just never even go there. I would never even this version of me doesn't even know who that
girl was that even entertained that person if that makes sense and I'm not
you know it's not to attack anyone's character or say like oh you know that
person's this terrible person but it's like for me and my standards and what I deserve, that person was just not it
at all.
He was not a good guy for me at all.
I was being put through another form of mental abuse, but it was almost like I was doing
it to myself at that point because I knew what to look for.
I knew all the red flags.
I have a podcast that talks about self love and knowing your worth and setting
boundaries.
And yet I was like kind of going against my own values by even being in the same
room as this person. Like I'm not being dramatic.
I was only looking at the first two weeks I met him. So the first two weeks,
obviously when you first meet someone, everything's always amazing,
but you have to start looking at someone's character over a period of time.
Right. And after the two week mark,
things started going downhill already.
And I was like, kind of denying myself at that point.
It wasn't about him, it was about me.
And that's when you have your never again,
because you get so angry at yourself for tolerating it.
It's not you're angry at that person,
it's you're angry at you.
You're like, I knew,
I knew that this person was a piece of garbage and I was tolerating
it because what for what?
Because it's familiar, because it's your old toxic patterns and like you're just used to
the familiar.
I was like, I don't want to be in the familiar anymore.
I want to break this cycle so I never go back to these shitty people that don't see my worth.
He was literally placed there as a catalyst.
I will always remember him as the catalyst that made me realize that I am never going
to settle ever again.
That is it.
And that's it.
And it's a beautiful thing in a way because I'm so freed from my old self that people
message me and they're like, you just look so different.
I didn't do anything different.
It's my energy because I literally freed myself from that woman that
tolerated abusive behavior.
That's it.
And then you start to glow differently
because you love yourself.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
It literally is the self-love glow in boundaries.
But I think the boundaries, they come.
When you love yourself, it's like therapy is so amazing.
Because therapy teaches you a lot about boundaries and it
teaches you a lot about how to work with the mind when these things come up.
But until you actually free it like energetically and you free it from your body, when you have
this breaking point and then you put everything that you've done up until this point like
into action and you can go even deeper into your healing.
I know for myself, it took such hard conversations.
I just remember being in my bed here in Bali like a year and a half ago, and I
was just like crying.
I took out my laptop.
I started like journaling and writing to myself.
And I remember just being like, this is not going to be easy in the beginning.
It's not get to change every pattern that I have.
Like it's, it's going to actually be challenging.
That's the point.
And I remember I wanted to revert back and like send that text
or like send that message or like whatever it was.
And it was like, it literally is like a withdrawal symptom,
but it gets easier.
Like it gets easier cause you release
and you kind of flex those muscles of like,
we don't do this anymore.
We don't do this anymore.
We don't do this anymore.
And then it just becomes you.
Would you say that's, you notice that as well?
There was brief moments.
My ex from four or five years ago messaged me and was like, I see you're doing so well
with your podcast.
I'm so proud of you.
I don't even have his, I didn't even have his number saved.
Like the unsaved number, like it was the unsaved number text text you get and you're just like, I know this number, but
whose number is this?
And then I Googled it and I was like, oh, it's my ex.
He was a huge part of my life.
He was a huge part of my journey learning more about myself and about relationships.
The old me, even six months ago, would have replied.
I would have said, thank you so much.
I hope you're doing well.
But I realized you can say that energetically without communicating and just move on and
send love and light and move on and have that boundary.
I'm at a place now where I have such firm boundaries that I just can't open that.
I can't open that portal of communication because at the end of the day, that relationship
was also
really toxic.
So if I really want to change my identity and change who I am, I have to let go of every
little piece of that.
And I almost texted him back.
I thought about it.
I really did.
I was like, this was like three weeks ago.
I want to say something because I love him.
I still have love for him because he was a big part of my life.
I don't even know what that would do.
Like, what is that going to do?
Like for what?
For what?
I wish you well.
I appreciated the message, but I sent him a thank you in my head and moved on.
I think that's showing how much you've grown when you can actually cut the cord for real.
Guys, when you cut cords, people are going to come back.
Like people, that was the last text I ever expected.
I haven't spoken to that person, to my ex in years.
I had a full other relationship after him.
We never communicated.
To get that text was like actually shocking to me.
Like I was like, what the fuck?
Like I didn't have, I didn't even have his number.
So I was like, this is weird because I shifted timelines.
That's how you know when you've shifted timelines
and you've healed something is when the last person
you'd ever expect to text you,
texts you something really positive
and you don't even have to answer.
Absolutely.
And it's like, also ladies,
when you truly do level up and heal,
they always come back.
They always come back.
They always do.
Even if it's like in eight years.
My ex actually here in Australia, not here,
but on this side of the world, when I studied abroad,
I haven't spoke.
I don't speak to these people.
He's been blowing up my phone.
12 years later, I don't even know. When I studied abroad, I was 19. I'm 31. Do the math. I can't do to these people. He's been blowing up my phone 12 years later. I don't even know when I studied abroad.
I was 19.
I'm 31.
Do the math.
I don't, I can't do math.
That's why I work with energy healing.
I can't do basic math.
Um, yeah, that long ago.
Okay.
And we're still, he still talks to me.
It's just, yeah, it's just, it always. Because it happens when you do the inner work, right?
If you're begging someone to be around you,
if you're chasing energy, if you're desperate,
you're blocking anyone from wanting to be around you,
because you're literally pushing them away with your energy.
But the second you harness all your power inwards,
this is all about how to detach, is
when you're harnessing your power and energy inwards,
people start to come back into your life
because you're so detached from them.
And they feel it, right?
So it's just an energetic formula, really.
Because if you think about it, there's
all these people walking around with bits of your energy.
And then when you really heal and come into yourself,
you take all your energy back.
It's exactly what you said. You cut those cords. And they feel it. And when you really heal and come into yourself, you take all your energy back.
It's exactly what you said.
You cut those cords.
And they feel it.
The second that you get over someone or move on or heal
or take back your energy, that person
feels it because there was subconsciously a cord tying you
to them.
And when you remove it, they are like, wait,
because they're not feeding off of it anymore.
And so they miss it and they react.
For me, the day that I announced that I
was going to move to Bali and do this Kundalini work full time,
the very day, January 6, 2024, my ex came back, of course.
Hey, how are you?
Of course, they always do.
And they know that you're doing better,
because it's an energetic thing.
It's like, energetically, they don't feed off of your energy
anymore, and you're clear.
But that is also the moment where you have to stay strong.
Because to be fully honest, I relapsed in that moment, and I did respond to the text,
and I did take the call.
But it's OK, because things, they spiral.
You'll think that you're healed, and then it's OK to go back and feel like you're moving
backwards sometimes.
But you actually are moving forward.
But there still might be a lesson there.
There still might be something that you can glean from that,
even if it feels in the moment, oh my gosh,
I just did all this work and like,
how can I still be feeling like this?
Like that's okay because it's so cliche,
but healing is not linear.
Yeah, no, it's not cliche.
It's, I think people are harder themselves
when they're healing sometimes.
I know I was.
If I took five steps forward, or what it felt like five steps forward, and I was like, oh,
I don't care.
I'm free.
I'm happy, whatever.
And then I'd have a week or two where I was literally so depressed again and going backwards.
It feels like you're going backwards, but it's just the process of purging.
Grief comes in waves.
You could be fine while you're healing for two weeks at a time, three weeks at a
time, and then one day you wake up and you have a really shitty, hard day and you miss
that person and that's part of the process.
I think a lot of people think like, oh, it's just like once you cut it, you're done and
there's something wrong with me if I go back, but it happens to literally everyone.
It's just part of the process. But it gets easier over time. Now, I would never answer anyone that's hurt me or betrayed me.
You could always send people love and energy and positive vibes from a distance. You can communicate
through energy. You don't have to reply to the text. You don't have to say anything. You could
just say something with your energy and people will feel it. And that's kind of how you know,
too, when you get that message.
Like what is actually the intention?
Because then like it just feels manipulative.
Like even your ex sending you that message.
It's like why?
I don't know.
Why?
There were several occasions where I had messaged him when we had ended things and I had reached
out to him and he just was never interested in conversing.
Now you're interested in conversing because you said you saw a podcast episode.
Maybe you did, maybe you are happy for me,
but at the same time it's like,
why are you reaching out now?
When I'm so grounded in my energy,
all of a sudden you want something
or you want to communicate.
I don't know what it was exactly,
but for me I was like,
this shows how much I've grown now
because as I said months ago,
I know if it was like January of this year that I've grown now because as I said months ago, I know if
it was like January of this year that he said it, I would have answered.
Now I'm like, no, no, never again.
As we just said, never again.
And I mean it this time.
Whereas before I would like say it, I would say, oh, I'll never tolerate this.
I'll never tolerate that on the podcast, like full transparency.
I have all these episodes from two years ago.
Never again. Don't let a man treat you this way, whatever.
Yes, all of those things are still true.
They apply more than ever now.
And I was speaking authentically, as authentically as I could, when I recorded those episodes,
I meant every word I said, but was I really applying it?
Was me at my core applying those principles?
Sometimes, but there were other times where I would relapse or do, you know, still make mistakes.
But now I'm like, there's no more room for mistakes.
I'm at a phase in my life where it's just every cord has been cut and I can now give
advice coming from a place of like, I'm living every ounce of my truth.
I am truly embracing every ounce of my truth.
It's easy to give advice and not apply it to yourself.
I am really good at giving advice, but can you apply it to yourself?
That's the biggest thing.
And now I can say yes, whereas I was still making mistakes.
And that's okay because I'm human, whatever.
I think also, maybe we spoke about this in the last episode too. But when, when your energetic boundaries are just so strong, when you do all that work,
when you literally unleash your own Kundalini and you just feel it like rising in your body
and in your heart and it just becomes this protective fiery aura around you.
Like the things like that, those messages, those people, they act, they, they literally,
they cannot even hit you.
What happened with that message from your ex, literally it came into your field, it
just fell flat.
You couldn't respond.
You couldn't resonate.
It just comes in and comes out.
In the beginning, just, I mean, it kind of is like fake it till you make it.
You might have to put forth a lot of effort, but then eventually it comes easily.
That's why what we're talking about when we're walking down the street and people are getting
in motorbike accidents, craning their necks because-
Men are turning their heads like, oh my God.
Needing nothing really does attract everything.
At least for me, I've never... I started noticing the change when the way I would walk through Bali before this transformation,
the way I walk through now, and it was just like...
It's almost like, yeah, this is a dating podcast.
We can talk about this.
When a man knows that they can just never touch you, they can never have you.
Really?
Because you walk in that much energy and just self-love where it's what
you say.
You're like, unless God is hand delivering me, my husband, like no.
And it's crazy because they all come out of the woodwork and you're just like, where were
you before?
But it's fine.
No, it's just because you've accessed a different version of you.
So there's going to be like all the people that weren't at the timeline you were at before,
they're showing up now because you've like, you've changed, like you have to change in
order to see those people.
They were always there.
It's just a matter of accessing that timeline because you literally are shifting dimensions
when you change your internal state and your reality literally shifts according to what
vibration you're vibrating at.
All those people were always there, my ex was always there, like all these people
existed but they're coming out of the woodworks now because I've accessed this
new timeline where I don't even need them anymore. I don't need that. I don't
need that attention. I don't need that external validation. I'm so much more
confident that I never approach guys. Like I always made the rule like oh they
should approach me. No, I don't even care anymore right like it's not about rules because I don't care
when you care so much and you have all these rules in your head you're creating
resistance to like receiving in a way if you don't care about anyone else because
you're so grounded in yourself it doesn't matter who does what or who
initiates what so like even I just walked into the spa here and I just jumped into this
ice bath with this guy like with no warning and I was like I would never do this by the
way. It's just this new unlocked version of me where I like don't give a fuck. So I like
jump into the ice bath and it's like a small little bath and I'm like hey what's going
on? I started the conversation and he was like...
Crumbling. He was like, oh my god,
and I could tell. I had to initiate and it was very fiery of me to do that. I was like, this feels
great to be in my power and not care if a guy is saying hi first. Who cares if I say hi first?
Like at the end of the day, we're all going to die. Like who cares? It's just a matter of really
detaching and being so grounded that nothing really matters and nothing's that deep.
So it feels so liberating.
And I, yeah, I just started a conversation with him.
We started talking about like all this deep stuff.
We got into like a really, a two hour conversation and I was in an ice bath and
we ended up staying in the ice bath for like, it was like 20 minutes and I wasn't
even cold cause we were having, we were having such a good conversation.
And now he's like, you know, very interested and continuing.
I don't know, like he's, he was all right.
It was fine, but I'm at a place in my life where I don't even care about dating or I
don't know.
It's just such a different frequency where he's trying to hang out with me now
and I'm like, it's nice.
I like him, he's cool, but I don't need it.
I don't need, I just don't need anything.
I'm so content and at peace that it's so liberating.
And you are the master, you were the queen of dating yourself instead.
And that's also why I'm so happy that-
Too much.
As well as on the podcast because just getting to know her and also understanding
her, she is the master at dating herself.
It's so crazy.
You don't talk to any guys.
Who do you talk to?
I'm like, what do you mean?
I just asked you and I was like, hey, so do you date?
What's going on?
And you're just like, I don't know.
Yeah. But what's your take on that?
What phase are you in where you're just?
So OK, there's two things I want to say,
because the first one came up a moment ago
when you were speaking about accessing new timelines.
Again, it all goes back to creating your reality
and just the people that come out of the woodwork.
And when you realize it's a new dimension and whatnot.
But that's why, first of all, even though I don't date in Bali, I never, ever, ever,
ever let anyone say, again, because it doesn't fit in my field.
It just comes and it falls away because I shut it down with my boundary.
If people start saying, oh my god, the dating in Bali is terrible.
And they say it in every city, the dating in New York is terrible. The dating in London is terrible. And they say it in every city. The dating in New York is terrible.
The dating in London is terrible.
Stop.
Because you're perpetuating that, and you're feeding that.
And collectively, we are making it that.
Because there is your individual reality
that you create with the words you speak
and the thoughts you think.
But then collectively, we do that as well.
And by the way, when you just step into your own power,
you're no longer playing a numbers game.
It's not a numbers game, so it doesn't matter. Because own power, you're no longer playing a numbers game.
It's not a numbers game, so it doesn't matter because the timeline that you're in now, like
your husband might not even exist, but you do deep healing tomorrow and you open up a
timeline where there he is.
We're not playing with numbers here.
That's 3D stuff.
That's like unhealed level stuff.
So you create your reality.
So it's not about the dating and it's not about the dating scene.
So I firmly believe that.
And like really, and I notice every time I speak with a woman here and I'm just like,
no, not, not listening to your limiting beliefs on dating.
Like that's not happening here.
That's not welcome.
It's in every city too.
So it's like where is safe.
If you're everyone's saying dating's terrible, there's like a collective energy saying dating's
terrible.
That's not going to get you your husband or your
wife.
I know that.
Because you know that.
The power of your words, the power of what you say and tell your brain is what you're
attracting into your reality.
So for me to say that is such a limited mindset.
It's so limiting.
And I've heard it in every city.
When I was dating, I've dated in many, many cities around the world and it's just like
everyone said that.
I always rejected it because it's like it doesn't matter.
It's not a numbers game.
It's like your person is for you and they're coming, but you need to do the work and do
your healing and you need to enhance your frequency and you need to love yourself and
you need to like not accept anything less and they're going to come.
I don't care where.
It's like we're actually quite literally in the age of miracles.
Miracles are happening every single day.
Like it's happening.
Miracles are happening, even for the everyday regular person who
doesn't know it or doesn't believe it.
And if you're tapped in by any means, which you obviously are,
because you listen to this gorgeous angelic woman,
like, miracles are happening.
And then the second part, what did you ask?
Like, do I date?
Or what do I do?
Like, what?
OK, so a lot of people who are listening to the podcast
are dating themselves right now.
And they struggle with being alone.
I think this concept of being alone and being in solitude
can be looked at as a negative because you feel isolated.
And I've been there too, where it's like you
go through periods of time where you feel like you have no one,
you have no one to talk to. you miss those warm moments in romantic relationships
or like cuddling and having someone to cook with
and sleep with and spend time with.
So what do you do to date yourself?
I feel like your energy is so grounded.
Being around you is infectious because it's like,
I'm like, oh my God, I wanna date myself more.
I've never met anyone like that really.
It's cause most people are like, oh, I need a boyfriend.
I'm like, chill.
You will meet your person.
And I've always been that way.
I'm not in a rush.
I've never been in a rush to get married ever.
But you are the queen of, my person's going to come when they come and that's it.
I love that mentality.
So how did you get that? I don't know. Like, honestly. Speak on it. I love that mentality. So how did you get?
I don't know.
Honestly, what are my secrets?
I have been traveling the world alone since I was 19,
basically.
And I remember in the beginning it was more challenging,
but I'm lucky that I had that opportunity.
So I kind of started building and flexing
that muscle at a young age.
Yeah, because the first time you do go eat in a restaurant by yourself or go
get a coffee by yourself or like the first time you do a solo trip by yourself.
I remember the first time I went on a solo trip, I felt really lonely actually
in the beginning and I was just like, I don't, I don't really know what to do
with myself.
Is this okay?
This feels weird, but then you just get used to it more and more and more.
And for me, I love my own energy.
If you can't match my energy, then I feel drained.
And I think I used to spend time with people
and I didn't understand why I was always so exhausted
and I thought there was something wrong with me,
but I realized it was just because people couldn't,
they couldn't match my energy
and I was lifting everyone up.
And then as a result, I had to come crashing down.
But I guess more specifically, I don't know,
like I just, I love my energy.
I have a very active mind.
I personally don't relate to the idea of I'm bored, I've never been bored.
I just...
Wait, what's your chart again?
I think people are going to want to know because I'm super into astrology.
I'm a Scorpio Sun, a Gemini Moon and rising, and my Venus is in Virgo, which we uncovered
recently.
You were like, oh, that can be the reason why you're forever dating yourself instead.
Yeah, Venus in Virgo, I think, is the worst placement for Venus.
It actually is.
It's trapped in Venus because it's so rigid that you're so picky.
Wait, I don't reject this limiting belief on my Venus.
I'm so sorry.
We're not doing limited beliefs on astrology.
It's good, though.
I think it's good.
The positive is you're picky.
You don't settle. you've dated royalty.
Girls like date, has very high standards.
Other podcast episode.
Yeah.
So like she has extremely high standards.
Yeah, I do actually.
That's the thing.
It's like that's a good thing.
I'm Venus and Pisces.
I'll fall in love with a rock.
I'll fall in love with like bunny.
I'll fall in love with literally anyone who looks
at me and says, you look pretty.
I'm like, really?
I love you.
Yeah.
Like I used to, well, I used to be, I'm not like that anymore because I've, you know,
I've obviously done the healing work, but in the past Pisces is like exalted or an astrologer
told me like Pisces is, Venus is exalted in Pisces, which means Pisces is really strong and active in a Venus placement
and it makes you so open to any type of person and love everyone and love all of humanity
to the point where it could be a bad thing if you don't know how to have boundaries
in place.
So for me, I would just fall in love with people who had addiction and struggled with
things and I would take on their problems and try to heal them.
I was always a healer in my relationships,
which can be a beautiful thing, but it can also
be really draining.
That's part of the reason why I had to do my own healing work,
because I was like, I can't take on people that
are taking my power and energy and nurse them back to health,
give them all of my power, and then be left with nothing.
That's what kept happening to me.
You're very different.
I'm very, you said this the other day, like I'm very unimpressed.
I'm very unimpressed and unbothered.
Like I'm not, I'm not easily impressed by like a man, like women all the time.
I'm so impressed.
Women are doing amazing things.
I'm just not that impressed.
And it takes a lot.
So does Scorpio too though.
Like.
It takes a lot to also like, I think, keep up with me intellectually, honestly.
It was either like a meme or a TikTok. And it was like, keep up with me intellectually, honestly.
It was either a meme or a TikTok, and it was like, hmm, assisting men on their plant medicine
journeys having the thoughts that I had when I was nine.
Or it was like, listening to a man have his biggest awakening.
And me and the girls already talked about this at our sleepover in eighth grade.
Obviously, there are so many intelligent men in the world that exist.
But I've run into this issue, too, where it's like, you need to provide
like substance at the same level that I'm providing, right?
Like you need to teach me things
because if I'm teaching you things,
I expect the same in return.
It's a two way street, right?
I would always be the one to lift everyone else up
in my relationship at this point in my life.
Why not be with someone that also lifts me up
and inspires me?
Like I shouldn't be the only one pulling the weight in that aspect. I want to learn things too. I want to grow too
I don't want to be the one that's always facilitating the growth and being your mother or being your teacher all the time
It's just exhausting and it's not fulfilling for me anymore. So like the whole thing of being unimpressed now
I'm at the point where I'm like, yeah, I'm fucking unimpressed
whole thing of being unimpressed, now I'm at the point where I'm like, yeah, I'm fucking unimpressed. I'm also unimpressed because I'm done being your mother. I'm
done being your caretaker and teaching you how to be a good partner. The next
man I'm with who's gonna be my husband, he's gonna be fulfilled and healed
already. Like, why am I trying to heal you? Why am I sprinkling you with all of my
abundant energy and then not getting
anything in return? It should be a two way street.
It should be sprinkle, sprinkle. She actually did change my life though.
Share a seven. Say, sprinkle, sprinkle. I'm sure a lot of you know who that is.
The sprinkle, sprinkle lady is life changing. It is true because I've seen this a lot, especially with how you are, Liss.
Obviously you're so successful and you're so bright and you're so abundant.
I see this with other women that I know.
You do have to be careful when you're just a successful woman going after your dreams
and achieving a lot because people will relate to this.
There are people out there, men out there who will try to get in.
And again, we spoke about this last episode, women are the chargers and
men are charged up by our energy.
And it needs to be an equal type of partnership where that yin and
yang come into balance and harmony.
And it's like electrifying when you come together and it's like this
burst of energy for both people.
But oftentimes, unfortunately, just because I think women are farther ahead on their healing journey, men are catching up, which is amazing.
But women are farther ahead.
And so men will come in and yeah, they, they take sort of your energy.
I heard this from a womb healer here in Bali a few months ago, but sometimes if a woman has a lot of money energy,
a man can actually come in.
And they'll sort of feed off of your money energy.
And then they'll kind of run with it.
And you'll see.
And then they'll grow businesses.
And you feel like, wait, how am I kind of left with nothing?
And it's because you were the one with the money energy.
And then they took it and did whatever they needed to do by you supercharging them.
Oh, yeah.
It's like this isn't exactly money, but it was like with my ex.
When I met him, he didn't have TikTok, and he had this dog that he wanted to show off
because he was like, my dog's the cutest dog in the world, like whatever.
I'm like, okay.
Unimpressed.
Unimpressed at this point.
Like, okay.
So I had my TikTok going.
I had my whole social media business.
I've been doing this for forever, for 12 years.
So I told him, you need to get on TikTok.
You need to take advantage of this opportunity.
You need to do this.
I was telling him.
And he was like, I don't really want
to get involved in another social media app.
I'm like, you need to.
It's going to propel you forward.
What happens? I'm building my TikTok,
I'm working on my business. He starts his, his TikTok takes off, he surpasses me in followers,
he surpasses me in everything. Like his all of his videos start going viral. I mean keep in mind,
it's a fucking dog so it's like obviously. It was just a dog TikTok? Yeah it wasn't him so it wasn't
like that bad but it was like he started out shining me and I was like you know what at the
time I was dating him, I loved him, I didn't care how I was happy for him like I was supportive but then it
got to the point where he was like rubbing it in my face and being like you know my dog's more
famous than you there was one time it's kind of funny honestly like looking back because it's
like comical at this point but like one time we were walking and this girl was waving at me and
I was like hey and she's like no I was waving at the dog like I follow him on TikTok it was like
so humbling because this like dog suddenly was more famous and I don't, Hey, and she's like, no, I was waving at the dog. Like I follow him on tech talk. It was like so humbling.
Cause it's like dog suddenly was more famous and I don't care about fame.
I don't care about followers.
Like, I don't care about any of that.
That's not the point.
The point is he was trying to take what I had and run with it and outshine me.
And he would make these digs and like on a psychological level,
it kind of made me feel less.
It kind of made me feel like he had taken what I had given him and like,
tried to overpower what I was doing and try to make me feel less he had taken what I had given him and like tried to overpower what I was doing
and try to make me feel less than and try to make me feel like what I was doing was not as important
as his dog. Obviously I was happy for him but looking back it was like a manipulative tactic
to kind of take my power and take what I had built for myself and like use it against me.
You know what I mean? Yeah and he was very subtle but I gave him that inspiration. I gave him that
idea and like good for him but looking back him that inspiration. I gave him that idea.
And good for him, but looking back after everything collectively, what I knew he was doing, he
was using it as a way to take my creativity, take my ideas.
And it's the same thing with money.
It's like when a man sees a successful woman who's built a business, who's really abundant
and financially successful, if he's not on that level, the only way he could get to that level is if he takes
what you have or takes your money.
It's just how it kind of works, which is really unfortunate.
I feel like so many people have, because I'm hearing this story so much lately.
And I'm like even seeing it play out in real time with some of the amazing women.
I know that's why it's so important to learn about energy and the literal quantum
physics of energy and how it works, because these things start to make sense.
Because again, everything is an energetic balance, an energetic frequency,
and wavelength, and that's why choosing the right person to be with is so
important, because just imagine when you meet that person who matches your
energy and then together you both supercharge each other and rise up.
Yeah.
Taylor and Travis.
Yes.
We love them.
That's a public example that I think a lot of people could see.
She dated so many people that were not on her vibrational level and there were some
questionable choices there.
And then you see how she rose up and activated this new timeline.
And after the tortured poets, she meets this man that's just as successful, has his own
career, has his own life.
He was successful prior to her.
So he's not taking anything from her.
He's just letting her shine.
And also he shines just naturally by being himself.
And they were like...
And together, and he lets her shine, and he loves it,
and he's proud of her, and he's not intimidated by it.
And you just, yeah, they each have their own thing
and their own sparkle.
And you can tell she feels so safe in his presence.
Taylor Swift, healer, one of the greatest healers
of our generation.
I stand by that.
Her music, really.
And it's like healers need to date protectors.
And look at him.
You see when he's pushing her security out of the way
because he's five times the size of them.
Yeah.
It's like such a being in your masculine
and having that protector energy.
Speaking of the masculine protector energy,
I was FaceTiming my ex from Australia,
who we've always been friendly.
And it's just this freedom
Between us where like neither of us are really emotionally in it
But we just like respect each other and we still chat whenever we're both single
It's just like more of having a friendship versus I don't really consider him my ex. It's more of like a friend
I was telling him about the last guy I was with and I was like he was putting me in my
Masculine and it was so unattractive and he was like, he was putting me in my masculine and it was so unattractive.
And he was like, okay, let me give you a scenario. So we go out to eat, we're at a restaurant
and there's no tables. What would he do in the situation? And I was like, oh, that happened.
That actually happened where there were no tables. We didn't have a reservation. We walked
in. He's like, who took charge? I was like, me. And he's like, he's like, you're joking.
I'm like, no, I was the one who had to go up to the host and he's like he's like you're joking. I'm like no I was the one who
had to go up to the hostess and be like hey is there any possibility we could get a table and
this man's like cowering in the back like this and I'm literally like why am I doing all of these
things? Those small things really do make a difference to me personally. I feel like it
makes me feel protected, it makes me feel safe, it makes me feel like I'm in the presence. I could be in my feminine.
It's like so nice when a man takes charge.
So he's laughing on the phone and he's like,
if I go into the restaurant and there's no tables,
I'm going in guns blazing.
I'm going in with a mission and I'm gonna make sure
my woman has a seat.
My jaw was like on the floor.
I was like, can we get married?
Can we get married?
That energy, it's that energy of knowing
you're being taken care of.
And it doesn't mean all the time,
obviously if you're a few years into a relationship,
you could pay for your man's coffee, fine.
But it's just the overall energy needs to be,
I'm in my feminine, you're in your masculine,
you make me feel like you have my back.
Why am I carrying you?
Right, can you bring some problem solving capabilities to the table? To find a table. To find a table. But it's
such a good example. Yeah. Because it's like who's speaking when a situation like
it's such a small thing but it's not. It's telling about the dynamic of the
relationship. Yep. And it's so attractive because I see my parents thing, but it's not. It's telling about the dynamic of the relationship.
And it's so attractive because I see my parents too, my dad's like very take charge like in
his masculine energy.
So like he would do the same thing.
So it's an inspiration for me to see like my mom's like a go getter.
She's really driven.
She has a lot of masculine energy where she like shows up in the world in that way.
But when it comes to those things to protect, to be looked out for, my dad has her back.
That's what matters.
And I feel like it needs to be, that's what it needs to be in order for a woman to feel
really grounded and safe in a relationship.
Right?
Yeah, absolutely.
And these conversations are popping up everywhere, at least in Bali.
I hear it all the time.
I hear it at the gym and the ice plunge and the sauna and all that.
So things are beginning to change.
And I'm so grateful again, no limiting beliefs here, just expansive beliefs.
I'm so grateful that the men are waking up to this.
And I think we are going to start to see more and more and more men realize
like just how important those small things that compound, like you mentioned, are, that they matter.
And so yeah.
Yeah, I think that's it for today.
We could start a whole separate podcast, probably.
It was so amazing to do a second part to the Kundalini Awakening
series.
For those of you, again, who are more interested in Kundalini Awakening Series. For those of you
again who are more interested in Kundalini you could always follow Isabel on Instagram if you
want to. Isabel Keating Healing. Yeah. If you guys want to learn more about Kundalini and what it is
you could go to the previous episode as I mentioned. It's a really good one. We cover a lot
about Kundalini on that one in particular. This one was more unhinged. I think it's just so important to have these conversations
because I know people can relate to that.
Yeah, I think so too.
Yeah, and I'm really, really grateful.
Thank you so much, Angel.
To see your transformation has been so beautiful from the day
I met you till now.
And I love how many people you're
helping and spreading this energy to.
And yeah, just the amount of people who come up to me now
and say that you've literally changed their lives and their perspective
and helped them heal from narcissistic relationships and abuse and all of that.
So it's just going to keep spreading.
It's never going to stop.
And I know you're never going to stop.
And I'm never going to stop.
And the world's going to be totally different soon.
So thank you.
Thank you.
Yeah, thank you.
That was really sweet. I'm never
going to stop. I feel like it's my mission now to make sure that the people heal. We're going to be
unstoppable. And it's just been so amazing to see because I'm already seeing such changes
collectively. All of you guys that message me, that reach out to me, I see how everyone's healing
and changing and leveling up together. And we're building a bigger community than ever on date yourself instead.
And it's so incredible.
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