Duncan Trussell Family Hour - 265: Danielli Bolleli

Episode Date: July 2, 2018

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Ghost Hounds, Dirty Angel, out now. You can get Dirty Angel anywhere you get your music. Ghost Hounds, Dirty Angel, out now. New album and tour date coming this summer. This episode of the DTFH is brought to you by Squarespace.com Head to Squarespace.com For what slash Duncan for a free trial.
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Starting point is 00:00:53 Every single major record label has been contacting me offering me multi-million dollar deals and my assistant doesn't have time to deal with your constant offers and gifts and the many things you've been sending us. Thank you, but no thank you. I get it, I'm a talented musician and if I knew I was gonna get harassed by record labels
Starting point is 00:01:14 I would never have played this song when I opened for Paul Simon at the Hollywood Bowl. I can play guitar, chords. That was a cover of Taylor Swift's I Can Play Guitar Chords which is from her new album 9891 which is basically her just singing John Mayer songs backwards.
Starting point is 00:01:42 The original John Mayer song goes more like chords guitar play can I Record labels I really appreciate your enthusiasm but right now I'm just doing private modular synth noise shows for my four dogs Piper, Palmer, Gatsby and Fox. I've learned to make any sound I wish on these beautiful machines.
Starting point is 00:02:08 I did not heed the admonishment of my music teacher who told me you will never be able to make the sound of a spaceship traveling at light speed ejecting a bubbling plasmatic beast into a tuba being sucked into a black hole. Here's my answer to you Mr. Smith. Hopefully you can download podcasts and help. I present to you the sound of a plasmatic beast
Starting point is 00:02:32 being shot out of a spaceship traveling at white speed into a tuba being sucked into a black hole. Oh shit, damn it. Shit, sorry, still learning these things. That was not a recently plasmated bubbling beast being shot out of a spaceship traveling at light speed into a tuba being sucked into a black hole. That was the sound of Jesus telling Peter
Starting point is 00:03:05 that he was going to say he didn't know. The denial of Christ is the thing we all do when instead of expressing love or saying that we're happy or putting out into the universe some sweetness or forgiveness or grace or compassion or mercy we choose to be sullen or unhappy or angry. Usually not because we fear arrest
Starting point is 00:03:29 but because we're trying to impress our coolest, most miserable friends by mirroring their confusion. Alright, it's like two knobs to the left I think in a couple of switches and I can get that sound of that beast getting shot into that fucking tuba into that black hole thing.
Starting point is 00:03:49 And as I get this synth warmed up put a couple more coals into the attenuverters and guys, don't get my musical ability confused with natural talent. Sure, when you hear that kind of singing and guitar playing that you just heard you might think, I can never be that good. That's like insane, that's just talent.
Starting point is 00:04:09 That's some kind of genetic thing, no. That's years and years and years. Literally 27 years of practice to learn how to play those two chords. Don't let anyone stand in the way of your dreams. Okay, down that end. Okay. Almost.
Starting point is 00:04:46 Let me just spin this attenuverter. And that is how it's done, friends. An identical sonic representation of a sound we all have become so incredibly familiar with in these days of unregulated spaceship ejections. Let me just reiterate something. That was not a recording of the actual sound. That was completely done with synthesizers.
Starting point is 00:05:35 So this can be done. You can learn to do these things. Years and years and years of practice, but don't let anybody stand in your way. My sweet loves, we have got a glorious podcast for you today with Danielli Bielelli. We're going to jump right into it, but first some very quick business.
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Starting point is 00:11:45 You scroll down of any episode over at duncatrussell.com. Okay friends, without further ado today's guest is one of our favorite guests here at the DTFH. He is a philosopher, an author, and an amazing podcaster who's got two glorious podcasts The Drunken Taoist and History on Fire. All the links you need to get to him
Starting point is 00:12:16 will be at duncatrussell.com. And everybody please prepare to have your pineal glands smashed open by today's guest. A true messenger of the light, a warrior of truth, and an amazing human, Danielli Bilelli. Welcome to the DTFH.
Starting point is 00:12:35 We're going to do a joint podcast here. So I guess this is all for today. Thank you. Thank you for watching. Welcome to the DTFH. Welcome to the DTFH. Thank you. Welcome to the DTFH.
Starting point is 00:12:57 Welcome to the DTFH. So I guess this is also an episode of the Drunken Taoist. Yes man, let's make it happen. How many times by now, we have had so many podcasts together, this is one. So many. Yeah, it's so great. And we've become like recorded friends.
Starting point is 00:13:17 Our friendship is mostly recorded. We've had more recorded conversations than we've had unrecorded conversations. That is a fact. We live in a kind of Orwellian, we've put ourselves in an Orwellian police state where we record everything that we say. I know, and when we start, when we meet up
Starting point is 00:13:33 and we start chatting, it is like, oh, that's great. Wait, stop, shut up. Let me press the mic. Okay, let's go. Record. Record, otherwise it's not a real conversation. Yeah, that's so interesting, isn't it? How much things these days are being recorded
Starting point is 00:13:49 versus in the past? We're living in an age where every transaction, every movement, every conversation is probably being recorded. Yeah. Even though some people don't realize just how much they're being surveilled.
Starting point is 00:14:05 There's a presence of it somewhere that keeps living long after your conversation is done in the live version. It's still somewhere out there. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I mean, I was looking up Alexa, I have an Amazon Echo.
Starting point is 00:14:21 Yeah. And I found on a conspiracy website and checked the history of your Amazon Echo and see all the things you've told it to do. Yeah. But not only that, it actually records random snippets of conversation
Starting point is 00:14:37 accidentally. That's creepy. Yeah, it's creepy and you can listen. Since you've owned your Echo, you can go back and check out all the different dialogues you've had, that's pretty wild. Tiny little snippets,
Starting point is 00:14:53 you can change things happening at part. I didn't take the time to go through and listen to every single snippet because there's so many of them. But those snippets are not being held at your house inside the Echo. Those snippets are in the cloud.
Starting point is 00:15:09 They are flying somewhere out there. Yeah, man, that's pretty creepy. Well, one thing that's different from any other generation in history is that so many of us will be in a position where your grandkids are in the mood for it. They have hours and hours and hours of material
Starting point is 00:15:25 to listen to you talk. Long after you're gone and also when you are the old man on the mountain, they can still say hey, I remember when you said that thing. That's pretty funny right there. This actually produces what's going to become
Starting point is 00:15:41 one of the great ethical problems of the future. It's the problem we're having now. The recent thing that happened where people started taking down Civil War statues. These people were criminals.
Starting point is 00:15:57 They're racists. We have to take down their statues. Let's wipe them from the history books because we don't want to admit we don't want to honor them with a statue. And so that seems to be related to an evolving
Starting point is 00:16:13 consciousness where people are... becoming less and less palatable. Not that it was ever really palatable but it's just becoming an aberration. I think in the past it was. It was kind of like, what do you mean you don't
Starting point is 00:16:29 like you're not pro-slavery? What the hell is wrong with you? Can you believe that our neighbor is not pro-slavery? Fuck that guy. We're not having him for dinner no more. So if you listen to some people if your ancestors did have a podcast some of the conversations
Starting point is 00:16:45 the podcast might very naturally be talking about like slave problems. Yeah, you know these damn slaves are not doing their work. Can you believe how much last week my shoulder popped up because I was whipping this damn lazy slave over and over?
Starting point is 00:17:01 They would be saying slave. But they'd be saying the great reviled word that used to be just a very common word and it would be... potentially there would be like a waste on ways to like keep your slaves...
Starting point is 00:17:17 Yes, maximize the work output you can get out of your slaves. So you'd listen to that your ancestors and you would probably be horrified by what they were saying in a nonchalant way because they were on some level
Starting point is 00:17:33 completely unaware that what they were doing was fucked up. Yeah, because to them in perfect sense. What do you mean you don't whip your slaves? What's wrong with you? Don't you know they get all weird and upbeat if you don't whip them sometime? So theoretically
Starting point is 00:17:49 now some of the things that we've talked about that to us seem absolutely normal could potentially at some point in the future be an abomination. Sure. I don't know what that might be. I mean it could be
Starting point is 00:18:05 something as simple as like it could be something as simple as I mean I guess imagine like if there were podcasts during World War II in Germany and there were some Nazis who had a podcast or something like that.
Starting point is 00:18:21 You know, it would be they could be hung for some of the things they were saying. Of course. So that's the thing. That's the weird thing about these thumb prints that we're leaving behind of our lives is that
Starting point is 00:18:37 we don't really know where this technology is going to go and we don't know what the consciousness is going to be 50 years from now. Because that's a funny thing. It's like everybody and their grandmother is convinced that everyone else was a product of their time but
Starting point is 00:18:53 I actually have gained all the experience from all those time and my conclusions are actually just the correct ones. They're not subject to time or place. They are correct in all times and places. It's just everyone else who was trapped in that strange game. Yeah, that's right.
Starting point is 00:19:09 No, this is when we're waking up from the dream. At this point we're waking up from the dream of superstition. At this point we're waking up from the primitive times. We've done it. Those times are fucking crazy but these times, no, no, no, now
Starting point is 00:19:25 we're really on the straight and narrow here. Exactly. What was it? Jefferson Airplane Song? The Crown of Creation? That idea, right? We, all that shit that came before led to this moment. To us right now, we got it. This is the end point.
Starting point is 00:19:41 That's it, yeah. Yeah, probably not. Yeah, I don't... This is why I just keep falling more and more in love with Buddhism because that is a philosophy that
Starting point is 00:19:57 to me it transcends culture it infects culture that it uses cultural symbolism to try to convey a kind of unchanging unwavering
Starting point is 00:20:13 truth about human existence. You know, and I love that because it is that to me, that is real. There is something that is not, that as of yet has not changed. Now, could it change potentially? But as of yet it hasn't changed. Which is that
Starting point is 00:20:29 you know, life is to put it in a probably wrong way. I just had it explained in a different way. But life is suffering. But actually the term I've just had this explained by David Nicktern
Starting point is 00:20:45 who's been teaching me meditation that the term is not so much suffering as much as life is kind of out of balance. Life is a human life is kind of like the way he put it is like if you're maybe, I don't know, riding your car
Starting point is 00:21:01 and one of the wheels is a little flat. It's wobbly. It's off a little bit. Human existence is a little wobbly. That's interesting because the way I always look at that statement I wasn't changing the suffering part. I was changing the world that preceded. So rather than life is suffering in my mind
Starting point is 00:21:17 was like life inevitably involves a lot of suffering. Like there's no escaping it, right? That doesn't mean that all of life is suffering. It just means that there's a shitload of it out there and you're going to run into it. Well first of all the thing is it isn't even a life is suffering it's dukkha is what it's called.
Starting point is 00:21:33 So it's not even like a bunch of words jammed together. It's just like there's we're wobbly. We're wobbly here. We go from one extreme to the next and we're kind of like if you sort of really look at your life you realize that it's just a little it's either a little bumpy
Starting point is 00:21:49 or a lot bumpy but there's always just this kind of weird sense of like you know this doesn't quite feel right. It doesn't really something seems off a little bit here and then that sort of gives birth to
Starting point is 00:22:05 a lot of activity for people. Which is because when things don't feel quite right. Yeah you need to retweet. And I think that's the metaphor for Buddhism that I always heard that was always interesting is Buddha as a physician, as a doctor so first is prescribing
Starting point is 00:22:21 what is the problem? There's the idea of dukkha. There's something is off there's something is not quite right that we need to is there a way to fix it? Yes there is a way to fix. Like what causes this problem? And then it goes into the attachment to desire. Okay we got
Starting point is 00:22:37 that. Is there a way to fix it? Yes there is and now I'm going to lay out the Eightfold Path with step by step instruction for how you go about fix it. Yeah that's it. So it's very pragmatic. It's principle-driven. So it's not a subject to time and place
Starting point is 00:22:53 because it's just laying out a methodology for how you solve problems. And it's not faith-based? No. Another super important part of it to me is it has nothing to do with faith. It's not like you don't just pretend to believe. If you're pretending to believe in the shit
Starting point is 00:23:09 you're not looking at it at all on any level. And I think that's a huge difference between a lot of Eastern stuff, particularly Taoism Buddhism versus a lot of Western stuff is that a lot of the Western stuff is faith-based. Yes. Whether something you need
Starting point is 00:23:25 to believe certain things in order to be. Whereas a lot of those traditions faith is whether you believe it or not, doesn't matter. The universe is the way it is whether you believe in those principles or not. Completely secondary. It doesn't really matter in any way because those things remain
Starting point is 00:23:41 through one way or another. Whether Jesus was resurrected is a pretty big fucking deal in Christianity. If it's not then the whole structure of Christianity starts crumbling down. Whether Buddha really lived or really said the
Starting point is 00:23:57 thing that are attributed to him or not doesn't really matter. It's more like what are those ideas? How can they be applied? Do they work? Do you try it? It's in some ways almost more scientific as an approach. It's like if you ever invented the Macarena when I heard that.
Starting point is 00:24:13 I think the idea is like if we find out that you guys, you know what? We thought the Macarena was created by Gustav Fonks in 1983 when he was drunk out of his fucking mind on Margarita and didn't do big fat rails
Starting point is 00:24:29 of Colombian blow and he came up with his dance that somehow caught on and then you find out that's not true. We don't know who invented the Macarena. There's still the Macarena. It still exists. The dance steps are still there. There is still this kind of dance.
Starting point is 00:24:45 It doesn't matter. It's still there. So in Buddhism, it's kind of like the Macarena in the sense that I don't know, like Siddhartha Gautama was it or not? I don't know. It probably was real. He probably did exist. But even Buddha would be like, don't worry about me. It's not
Starting point is 00:25:01 about me. Right now, by the way, I'm picturing Buddha doing the Macarena. I can see a beautiful TV show based on this premise. I love that, man. The beauty of that
Starting point is 00:25:19 and I think it becomes really very useful in a time period that we're in right now which is that the way humans are taking an assessment of their environment is no longer
Starting point is 00:25:35 based on walking outside and looking around but is now based on staying inside, not looking out your window, but looking out the window of your computer onto the social media and from that you sort of come up with an assessment of the world.
Starting point is 00:25:51 Yeah, and that's also that's another trip right there, right? Because the whole social media thing, I mean on some way this shit is also because it's like, think about when we were growing up where if you had an interesting, let's say Buddhism and then you go to the local bookstore and if you find two books on Buddhism
Starting point is 00:26:07 no matter how crappy they were you'd be super excited because that's all the information you have access to. Today you can type anything into the magic box and anything you want about it pops up so it's awesome. We have access to information in a way we've never had before. On the other hand, of course
Starting point is 00:26:23 it's like any invention that are the problems that come with it. It's like just because you have fire, yeah, fire is great to cook your meal but it can also burn down your house and social media works in the same way. There's a way in which internet and all of that is amazing and it does beautiful things
Starting point is 00:26:39 for us and clearly there are ways to use it to fuck up your life and unless you know how to play with it the dangers are there as much as the opportunities. That's a great way to put it because it's sort of like at least with fire, when you get burnt
Starting point is 00:26:55 from fire, it's noticeable. It happens instantly you know you've been burnt by fire. I would say the social media could be more like asbestos. You don't know it's there. You don't realize you've been infected
Starting point is 00:27:11 with some of the poisons of the thing until you're sort of like up at 3am looking at twitter and living probably if you live in the United States or in most countries unless you're in Syria
Starting point is 00:27:29 like really dark parts of the world if you've got electricity and you're looking at your computer and you have a computer or a phone and you have some shelter and you have some food then you're doing better
Starting point is 00:27:45 than a lot of people probably and certainly better than a lot of people in the past you're doing great also if you can stand up and walk around you can look at the stuff and yet the I'm imagining many people are like
Starting point is 00:28:01 they're doing okay it's not great it's not the best of the best but you can look at social media and start seeing strong opinions people will tell you people who seem to have really strong opinions and seem to be really like
Starting point is 00:28:17 authorities on this thing or that thing will assure you that yeah this is bad thing and this is a bad thing and it's bad and this is really bad and you're looking at it and you're thinking like fuck man
Starting point is 00:28:33 maybe it is bad and then you start looking at the people who are agreeing with the person who's like yeah that is bad and then you start maybe following them and the next thing you know everything's on the screen is bad but it isn't
Starting point is 00:28:49 yeah absolutely and I think that's one of the problems of the human mind a lot of humans feed on fear because you know fear is the kind of thing warning, danger is out there that's the kind of stuff that kept you alive is the kind of stuff that
Starting point is 00:29:05 pay attention because there's this thing that if you don't pay attention this saber two tiger is gonna eat you so you know be out for the signs that there's a saber two tiger in this territory and then you can avoid getting killed that's useful right that's the kind of mild paranoia
Starting point is 00:29:21 that's useful but then there's 10,000 ways in which today that set up just fuck us up because rather than just being I have my eyes to look out for anything that can mess up with my current life that's working okay suddenly you start that's all you look for
Starting point is 00:29:37 and so your life is not even longer okay because all you do is look at all the things that are gonna fuck it up right and it's like a comet is going to strike and revolution that's going to throw us in jail and take away our guns and then it's gonna be the thing that is like this
Starting point is 00:29:53 fear and the media of course knows that that's how human beings are so if you have a network you know that before a commercial break you throw fear fear be very afraid we're gonna tell you how to protect yourself after the commercial break because you know that that's gonna hook
Starting point is 00:30:09 people you know that that's gonna keep them there watching until it's amazing it's like people who figured out how to get rich we have a lot of yelling that the theater is on fire absolutely and where it gets even more dismaying is when you realize
Starting point is 00:30:25 now we have a new currency right so we have a new currency and the currency is retweets and likes or whatever validation you're getting through social media right so this is a new currency followers retweets and likes it's a currency and so these people
Starting point is 00:30:41 who are on twitter blasting out infinite tweets about how rotten the world is or how terrified they are or how we should be terrified are getting like incredible
Starting point is 00:30:57 validation for it and so they're actually unaware probably of the fact that they're doing the exact same thing the media is doing which is capitalizing off of frightening people absolutely and I think it becomes a weird game because you said the keyword
Starting point is 00:31:13 you were right there where they probably are not aware of it because here is the thing is maybe you have 10 things you want to say and 2 are about hey let's worry about these things that we should worry about these people or these ideas or this event or something that we need to consider and
Starting point is 00:31:29 you get like 500 times more response on that topic than on another topic that maybe is more creative more this but it's that's the easy sell that catches everybody so the next time you put out something greater than 2 out of 10 is 5 out of 10
Starting point is 00:31:45 and those 5 are the ones that again hit the most and the next time is 8 and before you know it that's all that becomes your shtick that's all you do is because you got the message that that's how you're gonna get the love and the attention and in some cases the money because that's the reality of it right a lot of people
Starting point is 00:32:01 who start making bank on that kind of feeding that to a certain audience and it's I think that's why to me one of my ground rules for listening to anybody is how much
Starting point is 00:32:17 are they giving me that's helping the quality of my life not how right they are not how smart they are not what a good speech they can put together is what are they giving me and usually that means something creative something positive something inspiring that
Starting point is 00:32:33 can help me make life better there's enough of that I'm in but if it's just he's smart in analyzing the problem that's out there I don't need to listen to 50 hours
Starting point is 00:32:49 of that you know it's like 20 minutes quick get a sense of what they are talking about is plenty and I think it's a conscious decision because otherwise my brain is the same monkey brain as everybody else right it's like I will gravitate toward fear I will gravitate toward
Starting point is 00:33:05 things so I need to make a conscious decision of what am I feeding myself here you know what what is this thing this is about getting peace at that other group because there's always some other group to get peace to it it's about fear is about worries about the end of western civilization
Starting point is 00:33:21 as we know it unless we do this and it's like fuck that I don't want to feed myself with that stuff I want to I want to feed my brain with stuff that makes me laugh that makes me happy yeah makes me feel more at ease in that interest me more and and also you know what interests me
Starting point is 00:33:37 world peace is it possible can it happen and how would it happen and what are the what what are things like if you think about like what are things that are leading to more conflict and what are things that are seem to
Starting point is 00:33:53 be sort of reducing conflict what are these things what do they look like what are the steps is it possible and then like taking this grand notion of like like skipping all the things in between but imagining a world at some point
Starting point is 00:34:09 where there isn't a war happening yeah there may be some skirmishes here there are some things like rotten things here and there but there isn't like a huge like there isn't really war there isn't like that that is like kind of like gone off the
Starting point is 00:34:25 table like the way that people now react to racism people begin to react that way to war so that if a president if a politician if any person seems to even remotely
Starting point is 00:34:41 vocalize about war being an actual legitimate solution to a geopolitical problem they're instantly fired of course now I don't know how we get there but like I imagine a world like that in a world
Starting point is 00:34:57 where like economies are interconnected and a world where people are overcoming their paranoia and fear about other cultures and fear about like what I don't know it's
Starting point is 00:35:15 you know I think it's possible but like to get there I don't know how to get there but if we all put our heads together with this interconnectedness that's happening and manifesting through the internet I think we can really do it I agree and I think that's where
Starting point is 00:35:31 it's interesting is those are challenges right because it's harder it's very easy to bitch and complain about somebody not so easy to come up with creative solutions but at the same time because it's a cool challenge it's a worthy challenge it's a challenge that actually is
Starting point is 00:35:47 stimulating it's not this sit back point of finger and say it's all the fault of the bad guys I don't give a fuck about the bad guys tell me what a good guys are tell me why you are a good guy what do you do about it that helps other people that helps yourself that helps
Starting point is 00:36:03 and it's not a hassle question like how good are you kind of thing no it's like literally what's the best that we can put forward what's the best that you can put forward and even if you don't have the answer right now that's fine but let's make that a priority you know let's think about
Starting point is 00:36:19 how would we answer that question in the best possible way dedicate you know you want to once in a while you have to vent and bitch I get it 10% of the time 20 at most but make sure that 80 is going in another direction you know that's going in the direction of
Starting point is 00:36:35 how to build a better relationship with your own physicality with your body with the sense of community with the sense of how you create better communication with other human beings how you do all those things that's where it's fascinating that is exactly where to me
Starting point is 00:36:51 the rubber hits the road and the first I think one of the things that like is a fun thing that anyone can do is imagine here here's a fantasy imagine this there is actually
Starting point is 00:37:07 a decentralized nonviolent revolution happening right now it's happening we are in the middle probably by now of a really well planned out series of
Starting point is 00:37:23 political actions that are leading to what could be a global renaissance and what those actions are is the end of prohibition on psychedelics the legalization of marijuana which you see happening all over the planet
Starting point is 00:37:39 because with the legalization of marijuana it doesn't that doesn't just mean like a lot of people who shouldn't be arrested don't get arrested it means that human consciousness begins to merge with nature at ever increasing rates because of access to a psychoactive chemical
Starting point is 00:37:55 that allows this kind of communion to happen with the planet so we don't even know like what the that plan is going to be teaching people in mass but India just legalized it Canada just legalized it Congress is trying to pass some kind of federal legalization
Starting point is 00:38:11 for medical marijuana and apparently Trump is going to sign off on it if they pass it because he fucking hates Jeff Sessions and Jeff Sessions doesn't want marijuana to be legal and he put it in play that was hilarious it's like he hates Sessions you put him there not somebody else I know that was hilarious
Starting point is 00:38:27 and it's I mean to me it's like oh my god this is like it couldn't be better like crazy fucking Trump hates this like person who's like to me a billion times worth some fucking Trump right and this and that which means that Trump is just going to start doing shit to fuck with Jeff Sessions whether Trump cares about marijuana
Starting point is 00:38:43 I don't know secondary he's like oh my god I can just fuck with him all day long what is Jeff Sessions not want to happen I'm going to do it and if Trump does if Trump just does the opposite of what Jeff Sessions
Starting point is 00:38:59 wants we really might have world peace for the next three years just to piss someone off that's awesome Trump might instigate world peace just to piss off Jeff Sessions which to me is super funny
Starting point is 00:39:15 that is funny so the we have all of these things that are happening that are clearly like moving us into a world that is
Starting point is 00:39:31 less violent more open-minded more connected it's happening so the fantasy is imagine that there is a decentralized nonviolent revolution happening and you're part of it and the moment you decide to be a part of it
Starting point is 00:39:47 you become a soldier in this movement that's happening you become an actor in this incredible secret revolution that's happening and it's a fun game you can play with yourself and it's like you can actually sort of
Starting point is 00:40:03 instigate a state of pro-noia you've never heard of this before remind me one second I remembered a word pro-noia is the fantasy that the universe is conspiring to help you oh yeah so there's a story about a psychiatrist
Starting point is 00:40:19 or a psychologist who wanted to see if he could make himself paranoid so he started walking around imagining pretending people were watching him and following him and then I think he had a psychotic break because he started really believing it
Starting point is 00:40:35 it went from being like oh my god I'm going to pretend people are following me like fuck I was right holy shit I'm being gang stalked so you can do the opposite of that to yourself and start imagining that this is the great fantasy
Starting point is 00:40:51 or the lens to look through there is a nonviolent decentralized revolution happening it's in the same way empire evolves, revolution has evolved to the point where the revolutionaries have realized oh we can't have leaders like leaders we get fucked up
Starting point is 00:41:07 in fact we can't really even have cells operating together it's better for most people to just be agents acting completely in the dark but if you just imagine that's what you are the steps are this
Starting point is 00:41:23 one, pretend it's true two, imagine you've just been activated by this podcast wait for orders to come and then before you know it you will get a synchronicity you will get the weirdest fucking thing or just in your mind
Starting point is 00:41:39 suddenly something will pop into your head about what you could do to help this great movement that's going to end in a renaissance and global peace that thing could be like oh shit I need to you know what my neighbor is broke and needs food or there is something to do
Starting point is 00:41:55 it will just come to you this ridiculous pronoid fantasy is that you just play this game with yourself for a little while and sure as fucking shit people will start coming out of the woodwork and they will help you for real and they'll start telling you things
Starting point is 00:42:11 and you'll be like wait what wait what wait a minute wait no how is that happening how do they know what is this and now you start living in this beautiful pronoid world where you are being like buffeted by the winds of some very sophisticated organized
Starting point is 00:42:27 decentralized nonviolent revolution it's a blast I highly recommend playing that game with yourself I can hear John Landon playing in the background to all of this in some very imagined so it's yeah but it's just try
Starting point is 00:42:43 I challenge you try it for a week and see where you are at it's better than alternative right it's better than thinking that everything in the universe is conspiring to fuck you up because I mean to a large degree is you know I'm a big believer in being real
Starting point is 00:42:59 but at the same time there is an element to how you choose to perceive things that will affect how you relate to them and how things around you happen now of course you know like I think one of the things that sometimes piss me off is when people skip a step
Starting point is 00:43:15 so there's the something horrible happen and it's always like ah but you need to look how it's how this is for the best and it's kind of like shut up something horrible just happened you know this is not for the best this sucks right but to me it's like it is the problem you either have the people
Starting point is 00:43:31 who become complete deniers of the unpleasant sides of reality and they only want it because it's like otherwise it ruins their happy fantasy and otherwise I'm gonna have to deal with the fact that there are harsh things in life or you find the people who get stuck there and dwell there forever about how life
Starting point is 00:43:47 is rough and terrible and hard and it's like to me it's like let's be real when bad shit happens and this bad shit and there's no spinning it in a cool way still this bad shit let's acknowledge it and then figure out how we move on from here you know it's like let's acknowledge ok this is shit
Starting point is 00:44:03 having said that continuing to say that this is shit is not gonna help us very much right so how about we figure out regardless of whether it's fair enough none of that shit matters is these are the cards that have been handed to you we can agree that you probably
Starting point is 00:44:19 didn't get the best cards but who cares these are the cards that are in your hand are you gonna play them because that's really the only thing that counts yeah is at this point are you gonna take those cards good or bad as they may be how can you play them in the best possible way yeah I like that I like
Starting point is 00:44:35 wait which is the who's the Greek god that stole fire what's his name Mr. Prometheus I believe is the name we're looking for yeah Prometheus and he got in big trouble what do they do they like they chain him to a rock and every day an eagle arrives to eat his lever
Starting point is 00:44:51 yeah during the night his lever grow again yeah the next day the eagle come back and eat his lever again yeah and he like but isn't the idea that through the whole thing he laughs at the gods like Prometheus maybe this is just like some existentialist take on it I like that
Starting point is 00:45:07 but yeah I haven't heard it the idea is that Prometheus is like even in the midst of this yeah the Prometheus is like yeah confined away still got the fire still gave the fire to people mother fuckers and I don't have to be freaked out by this never-ending torture by your dumbass eagle eating my
Starting point is 00:45:23 fucking liver PS I've gotten used to it PS I think it's funny PS I'm friends with the eagle PS I'm glad he's eating my liver because he's hungry he's awesome I've named him William his name's William I look forward to him flying down and so then suddenly you realize like this is the power of the
Starting point is 00:45:39 of being a human right is that if we take like it so if we're to look at like what you're talking about like no doubt there are hard like every debt horrible horrible horrible horrible inconceivably horrible fucking things happen in them but you know if we myth a lot of mythologize
Starting point is 00:45:55 it and use Prometheus as an example you can in the midst of this horrible thing still find a place of equanimity peace tranquility and power and this is to be
Starting point is 00:46:11 a warrior and you can find that place in it where even in the midst of this you're still smiling at the world this is the human power this is the human potential and this is like if we do that
Starting point is 00:46:27 you know what is it people say speak truth to power speak truth to power do that but do it with a smile yeah that's important because otherwise you're spending your life thinking that until the day when
Starting point is 00:46:43 utopia materializes you have to grind your teeth and fight on and it's gonna be rough and it's like well you're gonna wait a long time because that may or may not happen anytime soon but having fun while you're fighting the good fight that's where it's
Starting point is 00:46:59 like one of my favorite sentence of all times is my sex loving a Zen monk from the 1400 EQ sojourn who said throw me into hell and I'll find a way to enjoy it yeah and I love that right because it's not
Starting point is 00:47:15 denied hell is hell it's like it sucks it is what it is right I'll find a way to enjoy it it's like regardless of what the objective reality out there is I'm gonna figure out a way to make it better than if I just go in think you know look how objectively
Starting point is 00:47:31 it's terrible there is such thing the objectivity there's also the way in which you relate to it and that's a choice that's not just it's not dictated by the facts the facts limit what you can and cannot do some people are gonna have a easier or harder time but your choice is a key one that's right
Starting point is 00:47:47 and the first thing they want is to colonize your brain with fear and by them I mean it's like okay so basically what we have going on here is essentially two competing paradigms we have one paradigm is the paradigm of fear disaster terror the amygdala
Starting point is 00:48:03 people they're like and within that paradigm you have two different I think you could break it into two big categories one category is the people who are profiting off of it this is not just the weapons manufacturers this is the media this is people selling like
Starting point is 00:48:19 anti-anxiety medications is the people who have like come up with like bullshit hyper-expensive ways to like overcome it by going to like I don't know this is there's like there's a huge industry in
Starting point is 00:48:35 scaring people and actually you know I actually it was really funny I wanted to take a screenshot but I think CNN realized how preposterous the headline was so they took it down but the headline was something along the lines of like you know the economy
Starting point is 00:48:51 the unemployment is lower than it's been in 50 years but Americans are still uneasy and it's like I wonder why CNN I wonder fucking why because every single day you're bugling the trumpets of the apocalypse
Starting point is 00:49:07 and now you're like ah people seem to still be uneasy weird huh weird that's weird right you're selling cars motherfuckers you're selling cars you're selling ads trying to make money I get it you want to make a buck but anyway we have one paradigm it's the people who are profiting off of it and not just those people
Starting point is 00:49:23 who are profiting off of it with actual money but the people who are profiting off of it with power these are the people who are like on social media putting themselves forward to some kind of like champions of peace or champions of some kind
Starting point is 00:49:39 of like I don't know some kind of but and yet everything they say is a different breakdown of how rotten the world is and so those people are profiting to so that's the profiteers and then we have the just people who are authentically
Starting point is 00:49:55 terrified because they don't know what's happening because they've become confused they've their brains have been colonized so those are the people I think that they can truly be helped so that's one paradigm the other paradigm
Starting point is 00:50:11 is the all the peace workers in the world all the people who are like truly trying to make a more peaceful beautiful collaborative connected world where we figure out a way to
Starting point is 00:50:27 have dialogue with each other and we figure out a way that like there's got to be a way there's got to be a way I know we can do this so there's these two competing paradigms happening here and the I think to be a successful peace worker
Starting point is 00:50:43 you and the thing you're talking about is like we can't just skip over this when we can't fake smile at the eagle and we can't fake smile at the gods we have to figure out a way to actually find peace
Starting point is 00:50:59 inside ourselves and this while of Buddhism because it's like it really has a method that cuts through whatever the particular political situation of the time period may be to get right to the crux of the issue
Starting point is 00:51:15 which is that to be a human being is to feel a little off balance to feel a little off and the reason we feel a little off is because of three fundamental problems which is that we either have desire
Starting point is 00:51:31 we want this thing or that thing we don't want something which is actually kind of another form of desire I desire this thing to not be happening but that's called a version we don't want to be in the car in traffic in our marriage
Starting point is 00:51:47 we don't want to be looking down on a fucking eagle's beak nailing us in the stomach yet again and flying off with our fucking liver we don't want that William here's William again that fucking eagle William really
Starting point is 00:52:03 can't taste that good and then the third one is just ignorance we're ignorant which kind of means we're not aware of the fact that we live in a universe of impermanence or we're not aware of the fact that we're all completely interconnected
Starting point is 00:52:19 and so these are the three big problems regardless of where you're at the political situation how much money you have don't have what you're doing if you really look at your problem those are the three main fucking problems you either want to be somewhere else or want to have some shit you don't have
Starting point is 00:52:35 or you don't want to be where you're at or you're just completely confused about what the place is in general so we start dealing with those things first and then you begin to like actually experience a kind of lightning of spirit and that produces I think
Starting point is 00:52:51 a state of consciousness where you can begin to like work with the world and maybe make changes I don't know speaking of which you seem in a on a good wave you seem like in a really good mood today and
Starting point is 00:53:07 I haven't seen you in a while your overall vibe seems pretty damn happy I like that thanks man because you know it's like you know it all too well there are those waves right there are the moments when we feel like this
Starting point is 00:53:23 and then sometimes there are the moments where it's like fuck it's hard it's like mild cycles of depressions are not so mild that sometimes can kick in but you seem to be what do you think is this like a wave or you're finding a way to be
Starting point is 00:53:39 at a different place of balance in your life I got lucky man I got this guy Nick Turn David Nick Turn he's like a Chogyam Trumpa student who like is like just this incredible you know what happened is like I sort of decided to go a little
Starting point is 00:53:55 deeper into studying Buddhism and meditation in particular and so I started working with this guy and like he's like a really talented teacher he sort of I don't know he sort of helped me like find some figure out some shit
Starting point is 00:54:11 that I had kind of like hadn't really fully grasped at least like with my own mind I'd like heard about it and read about it a million times and so it's cool man when you start understanding the way your mind works which is like
Starting point is 00:54:27 sort of like if you want to have a reason to meditate I think the reason to meditate is because you want to like you want to help that it's a good reason to meditate but to really help we got to figure out a way to
Starting point is 00:54:47 as much as possible like find some kind of equilibrium inside right so you know you start doing mindfulness practice and you start recognizing something that's really interesting that is like
Starting point is 00:55:03 for me it's like incredibly interesting because I have known about it and I've experienced it in different ways but the methodology of this particular lineage of Buddhism the Kagu lineage, the Shambhala it's like real non-woo wooy basic
Starting point is 00:55:19 here's what you do you take a seat you follow your breath when your mind wanders you bring it back to your breath that's it it's really simple and it's simple but then you start becoming aware
Starting point is 00:55:35 of how your fucking mind is working at least and it's really amazing you start realizing oh my god that thing you just talked about the wave you realize oh shit that fucking wave that I thought was like my life
Starting point is 00:55:51 is actually happening on a cycle in my mind at every moment and so you start getting really familiar with this incredible thing that's happening which is you're blinking in and out of reality you're going from a state of being lost in your thoughts or sleepy or whatever
Starting point is 00:56:07 or caught in your body but usually just in your thoughts to back to your breath and in the present moment and that's it but you start realizing like oh my god I keep blinking in and out I'm like a firefly I'm like a an interdimensional
Starting point is 00:56:23 firefly that's going from the thought realm into the like human realm non-stop of course blinking in and out of reality all day long I'm here and now I'm back lost in my thoughts yeah and what
Starting point is 00:56:39 glimpse of rear back in my thoughts yeah yeah yeah and so what starts happening or what I have found has happened and one of the really cool things they say is like look whatever the fuck happened in your past meditation and whatever you think the thing is you had don't be attached to that either
Starting point is 00:56:55 because that's the same bullshit because now you're now instead of your thoughts you're now instead of blinking in and out of like some other past experience now you're blinking in and out of thinking about meditation of course it's the same so that being said there is a kind of spaciousness
Starting point is 00:57:11 that can start happening when you're doing a sitting meditation that you didn't even I didn't even realize it's basically sometimes when it's working for me the feeling
Starting point is 00:57:27 reminds me of like a dolphin that got let out of an aquarium and is suddenly dealing with the fact that like there's an entire ocean and you've been swimming around this little aquarium that you thought was you
Starting point is 00:57:45 and that is an that is a very that really really really is a big relief man that makes you happy I bet you show it that's great well it's also I'm wearing a new Buddhist cologne
Starting point is 00:58:01 ok fuck all the other stuff you said that's the answer Scent of Awakening it's my own personal brand guys if you go to dunkatrustle.com for only $25.99 you can no longer be afraid and feel free like the dolphin
Starting point is 00:58:17 yes, the scent of Awakening that's the way to do it about I remember like sometimes speaking of cycles you're talking about working out like a madman then you fall off, then you come back in again where are you at in terms of relationship with the body
Starting point is 00:58:33 not good not great man I like not great I I went to the gym like a week and a half ago and it was felt fucking great and I didn't go and this I think I love about this guy Nick turn so cool man and the way he teaches is he's like a lot of us ask this question
Starting point is 00:58:51 which is I know it feels good to work out but I don't or I know when I meditate my life tends to get better but I don't do it why don't I do it and what he was saying in this class is you know like we're always trying to find some kind of mystical answer to that question
Starting point is 00:59:07 you know and he's like it's probably laziness he just he goes back to old-fashioned lazy it's not some kind of fucking like that's what I love about it it's not like some I would love to believe
Starting point is 00:59:23 that the reason I don't do it is because of you know I don't know like I don't meditate I don't meditate because I'm afraid of my own awakening no interdimensional demons are struggling with you
Starting point is 00:59:39 trying to hold you back because they know that the world is never going to be the same when Duncan Trussell become enlightened and then that's a six pack I'm lazy I like to play God of War it's like there's not a that's what I really love about this particular lineage is it's not
Starting point is 00:59:55 bullshit it's just like you're probably lazy and that's okay I would much rather someone tell me oh no you're lazy then it's some fucking confounding complex thing right no so my that's like you know certainly something that is
Starting point is 01:00:11 always floating in my consciousness is that man come on dude let's fucking let's get back to the gym it feels good what about you some some I want to do more I want to do more and it's I think one of the things that's tricky for me is that I do on any given day I do ten thousand
Starting point is 01:00:29 things that I enjoy that are good so I'm not saying oh you know I'm wasting time I definitely don't waste time for oh I'm doing this shit that I hate and it's it's it's a good problem to have because it's like okay I'm working on this thing which is a good thing I'm doing this other thing that
Starting point is 01:00:45 is a good thing I'm doing but there are 24 hours in a day and so something got to give so at some point is like prioritizing of okay if there are several things that you want to spend your time doing pick make a choice yeah you know because at some point otherwise the 24 hours
Starting point is 01:01:01 make a choice for you and before you know it you haven't done this some of the stuff that really was a priority because you did something else that was okay you can justify it but it doesn't quite deliver the same results that's right and and I think I really need to it really boils down
Starting point is 01:01:17 to just good stupid old fashion discipline of just getting up and saying today this gets done yeah I don't care how when you make it happen one way or another that's it and it's great and anytime you do that whatever it is it's just like instantly liberating
Starting point is 01:01:33 like when you whatever it really is just like so he's just like the hardest part about writing sitting down to write oh yeah writing itself is like not the easiest thing ever but like getting your ass in the seats the hardest part about getting to about working out is getting the gym oh yeah
Starting point is 01:01:49 the hardest part about meditating is getting to the meditation cushion it's like it's it's really not a it's really not that difficult you know and it's just like you know doing it and I had once I was I went to train
Starting point is 01:02:05 I was going to to judo class and I drove probably 20 minutes to get there I get out of the car I have my gear with me I walk in I took one look at the mat I walk back I got back in the car I drove
Starting point is 01:02:21 20 minutes back and I was just like yeah it's not happening you know what I call that victory because you fucking did it like just making the effort just making the effort to try to do the thing I think it's still victory man it's not the best victory ever
Starting point is 01:02:37 but it's still better than not it's still better than sitting at home without knowing there was a good victory the following week because I basically do the same thing right I walk in I sit down and I'm just finding an excuse to not step up and walk away yeah
Starting point is 01:02:53 and I was somebody who saw me and we were like hey you want to jump in and I'm like I don't know and he kind of stepped off the mat and he's like are you depressed and I'm like and you know I didn't think I was depressed but when he asked me the question I was like I guess so
Starting point is 01:03:09 a little bit you know and then he was so cool because the guy said like you know I totally get it I feel the same way a lot of the times just step on the mat with me we'll just play for five minutes okay we'll just I'll just show you something there are a couple of things I'm working on we'll play those for five minutes
Starting point is 01:03:25 then if you want to go go okay and it's like and I step on the mat and we start playing and of course I start feeling better and everything start clicking and then I get an awesome workout and I feel better about life and it was just like oh that was interesting that's a proficient teacher yeah that was awesome right there yeah that's kind of
Starting point is 01:03:41 part of being a teacher is like you you you get good at like analyzing your students where they're at right you want to come to them where they're at and like in like figure out a method for for that place he sounds amazing yeah that's super
Starting point is 01:03:57 cool that was mr. Chris Hill said thank you very much now that would he did exactly what I needed in the moment right yeah I didn't even know I needed it and he had that exact right reaction that wasn't like oh come on just get in here and do it it's like yeah fuck you I'm leaving yeah
Starting point is 01:04:13 he wasn't just letting me just a little gentle prod in just enough to get you to take the first step on your own and it was he's one of them yeah it was great he's one of them and there's so many of them out there like it's not just Buddhists it's like obviously it's like every
Starting point is 01:04:29 religion every industry every it's they're every they're all out there man and like they're really really good and what are they good at doing they're good at helping us mm-hmm be a little less stuck
Starting point is 01:04:45 yeah they're just they like and it's like everyone's you know like if you think about a car stuck in mud it's like universally kind of the same problem the car stuck in mud but the method to get each car out of the mud is going to vary
Starting point is 01:05:01 from types of mud to type of car to what you what tools you have on hand to get the mud the car out of the mud there's lots of different ways to do it and it's really amazing when you realize like holy fuck there are people in the world who have trained themselves or been trained
Starting point is 01:05:17 to get cars out of mud yeah only it's not cars it's people who've gotten stuck and they've gotten stuck and and they want to be free that's another part of like I think the skill set that these people seem to demonstrate
Starting point is 01:05:33 is they can recognize the people who actually want to get out of the mud and the people who don't who like being stuck in the mud and the people who like being stuck in the mud they're like enjoy the mud and I think it's part of what's trippy about these phases you know the eyes and lows of life that are inevitable
Starting point is 01:05:49 is sometimes when you are stuck in the low you know you're stuck in the low you know what it feels like to be in the high and you know you have done it 10,000 times before but exactly what you say this time you don't know what it is that's going to make it go click and suddenly you're out right and
Starting point is 01:06:05 so you keep on that in and you turn around and you try this try that like the last time it was awesome is like the after maybe six weeks of this wasn't terrible wasn't bad but it was you know mild depression where I'm under some I'm carrying
Starting point is 01:06:21 like 50 extra pound on my shoulder kind of feeling and my daughter started talking to me because she saw you know I'm in a weird mode I have been in a weird mode for a little bit and it's not dramatic but visible enough and I don't know what the fuck she said but something
Starting point is 01:06:37 that she said made me I could almost even click in my brain where I felt something go clung door opening I'm suddenly looking at the exact same situation in a slightly different way I sat
Starting point is 01:06:53 with it for a day or so and the next day I was done and I was out and that whole phase was over and I don't even remember what words she used but that's the thing is like it's not just a perfect methodology that always works every time it's like it has to be the right I mean the right tone the right thing
Starting point is 01:07:09 that on a particular day can turn the key that's right and there has to be a willingness you know there has to be an authentic desire because a lot of people they don't I think everybody naturally
Starting point is 01:07:25 wants to be lighter they want to be free they want to like it's kind of like you know what's one of the saddest things to see when you're taking a walk is
Starting point is 01:07:41 sometimes you'll see people hanging on their porch a canary in a cage and like I don't know maybe the canaries never really flown but the canary sees birds and knows this is possible
Starting point is 01:07:57 and it's sad to me and I think that everybody deep down knows that there's something there is more than maybe what they're experiencing there's a potential for something else
Starting point is 01:08:15 but some of those people it's way deep down and they don't want to they don't want they're doing it in their own time in their own way it's nobody's business and it's absolutely fine for them to be that way because they're in process and they need those gestational periods of like deep absolute traumatic
Starting point is 01:08:31 misery to get to the point of and when they get to that point of it's going to be that much more sweet because all the extra time they served in the whole mind of their self it's going to be that and no one should get in the way of that
Starting point is 01:08:47 in fact I think it's really not cool to get in the way of that let them do it on their own in their own way and respect what they're going through even if it's not palatable to you it's not your job but some people man they're ready
Starting point is 01:09:03 they're ready. There is need to push one thing that say that's the way out of the maze. Yeah that's it and those are the people who like some folks have gotten good at recognizing them and or you should be good at recognizing it in yourself like fuck I'm ready for this and then that's why
Starting point is 01:09:19 they call this a practice which is the reason if now if you're out of the depression and I'm not recommending meditation for anyone other than me I'm just this helps me sure but right now if you're out of the depression and you start doing like a little bit of mindfulness practice
Starting point is 01:09:35 what are you practicing for you're practicing so that when you get back there again and you're all lost and you've gotten all foggy and you've forgotten about the whatever and you're lost suddenly you'll this thing will happen where you
Starting point is 01:09:51 where you're oh my breath oh I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna fall in my breath for a second oh wait I'm back oh shit I was gone whoa I was gone for a fucking month holy shit I was gone for eight hours I was completely
Starting point is 01:10:07 gone I was up in my head I didn't want to be where I was at I wanted something I was lost I was gone and that those moments of like coming back into this beautiful world when you've been off and you're like simulated
Starting point is 01:10:23 holographic jumbled confused swirly massive memories or thinking about the future worrying about the lump on your fucking head that you got to go to the doctor all the all the things those moments of coming back
Starting point is 01:10:39 into this has become really sweet it becomes really really sweet when you start realizing like wait a minute I keep coming back here and that's fucking great man I had this dream it was the coolest fucking dream I was in some theater
Starting point is 01:10:55 big weird theater and like I look behind me and there's this dude sitting there that look like the Dalai Lama but he was kind of in disguise or something but he's definitely a monk I'm like is that the fucking Dalai Lama and then like I guess this Buddhist stuff's been getting in my head or something but then something
Starting point is 01:11:11 starts demonstrating to me it's like hey check this look what it feels like when you stop resisting as much as you've been resisting every single thing I just want to show you here's kind of what it would feel like if you just stopped resisting what came your way or if you stop being at if you start
Starting point is 01:11:27 if you stopped fighting against what's happening and in the dream for like I don't know 20 seconds 30 seconds it was like what you it's like the vest thing it's like suddenly somebody just took off a 600 pound vest
Starting point is 01:11:43 and it was the sweetest most liberating three incredible and it wasn't like my external situation changed it was just like the stuff that was happening I was just like in that instead of pushing it away
Starting point is 01:11:59 and that's a big relief for me is to like stop fighting whatever the moment is because that's an unwinnable war and a lot of it right now you're doing through meditation how often do you do it how long like give me the basics of meditative practice
Starting point is 01:12:15 oh my god it's like I just did so I just did this class with Nick turn and then it's like I haven't done it in like a few days since then and still I'm feeling the effects not that you're feeling the effects so when I'm doing it well I am doing it
Starting point is 01:12:31 I'm just not doing it well and and it's important to do well that's the other cool thing about this lineage is it's a practicing lineage which means that it's like it's not a this is not a this is not philosophical yeah yeah
Starting point is 01:12:47 it's like you do it yeah you do it right so yeah when you're doing it it's like five five days a week 20 minutes a day you could do 10 if you don't want to do 20 come on it's like
Starting point is 01:13:03 that's like the smallest possible investment one could make to one's well-being it's not exactly a shit load of time no I mean but it's it isn't and it's that makes it that much more hilarious when you're not doing absolutely and and but then the other part of it
Starting point is 01:13:19 is like don't don't beat yourself up yeah yeah that's fine I get it completely but still we're talking about something that if you have any wheel whatsoever you can do you know if you if you want it in any way shape or form it's totally doable it's not like oh you know what
Starting point is 01:13:35 you need to put two hours it's like I don't know about I don't know if I can two hours you know that kind of thing yeah talking about relatively small time investment and you can what will happen or for me what's happened is like that the you start you start
Starting point is 01:13:51 because this thing has happened where you begin to like he did this like in the class he did this crazy like it was amazing like you know this is all I has all been worked out over 2000 years like how to do it and evolved
Starting point is 01:14:07 it's a I hate using the term but it really is a kind of technology sure but you sort of like start out with just like following your breath but then he does he's really cool there's other things that you can do with your awareness right so you can move your awareness from your breath
Starting point is 01:14:25 to the visual field right so now instead of following your breath it's like your breath in the visual field just like purely looking at like the visual field around you and then like when the thinking happens you thinking and then you go back to like watching but then what starts happening
Starting point is 01:14:41 or what happened for me is you begin to experience this if you're like me and you've taken LSD for your entire life you begin to experience this thing that your mind returns is like wait this is exactly like LSD I feel like I'm tripping
Starting point is 01:14:57 and not tripping because you're hallucinating but tripping in the sense that it feels as though your identity is beginning to sort of dissolve into this field of awareness and that yeah I was talking to him about it
Starting point is 01:15:15 and he told me the name there's a name for that and it wasn't like he brushed it off or anything he's like yeah that's like you can get into that expansive space but that's not eat right that's not what we're doing at the second this is let's go back that's still your mind again being like
Starting point is 01:15:31 oh I'm spreading into infinity okay okay thinking now let's go back into that the moment again but because of like something about it like I don't know it does sort of begin to unravel
Starting point is 01:15:47 it's basically like it feels like you're wearing a straight jacket and somebody like pulled a thread on the straight jacket just enough so that you can start like wriggling a little bit and it starts loosening and loosening but yeah five times a week 20 minutes a day
Starting point is 01:16:03 follow your breath find a class I think taking a class is really smart with this stuff probably you know speaking of meditative practices you ever experienced much with the whole Wim Hof idea the Wim Hof method the breathing and the freezing your ass off
Starting point is 01:16:19 yeah no I've you know I've done like cold dips and really like it and like I think there's something that you find within that kind of like discomfort that's pretty amazing what about you I haven't no I want to because it sounds like
Starting point is 01:16:35 kind of like as far as meditative practice go that's also an interesting one where you're playing with your breath you're still doing that because ultimately that's where it all starts from but you apply it in a slightly different and I think it's like that's something that's interesting right there is the ability to
Starting point is 01:16:51 the basics are the same you know the goals are the same but the ways to go about it there's more than one way and you try what works for you because yeah I know people that wouldn't be called dead sitting on a pillow but like Wim Hof thing makes sense to them and so okay then
Starting point is 01:17:07 that's your thing yeah it's so important to find it and I think that's the key is what works for one person or works for one person in one phase in their life may not be the same thing that works for the next person or even for yourself in a different phase of your life
Starting point is 01:17:23 and so it's like keep experimenting you know and things like these where the experiment is not you know do it for a week and you just spent what hundred and probably hundred minutes doing it five days a week yeah a week smallest time investment ever is it doing
Starting point is 01:17:39 anything for you yes continue is it not doing anything for you okay try another one try a different one I think the main thing is that if you're like me and you've heard people talk endlessly
Starting point is 01:17:55 about there being some other experience of reality that doesn't seem to be as terrified and heavy and freaked out and angry and spooky then you might have rolled your eyes at that and been extremely skeptical about that
Starting point is 01:18:11 and thought that's not that actually isn't I actually was talking to someone the other day and like she's miserable right now and all I could tell her is like yeah yeah yeah that is how you're feeling now but it truly doesn't have to
Starting point is 01:18:27 be like that like you don't have to like there is actually a way to live that doesn't have to be so so rotten and the way to get there there's so many different paths and in fact there is no it's a process so even to
Starting point is 01:18:43 say there's a path that leads to this destination or that is ridiculous but there is the potential for the the lightning of your load and however you do that to me it's like that's part of the adventure
Starting point is 01:18:59 it's just the moment you decide to me what really gets me into this stuff more than ever is when I actually think more in terms of like how is this gonna help me help other people and
Starting point is 01:19:17 how is this gonna help me because you know everybody listening to this has either gone through the death of a parent or will go through the death of a parent and if not the death of a parent you're gonna go through the death of a friend
Starting point is 01:19:33 and not not just that but like at some point you're gonna come into the company of someone who is really needing you to be fully there with them and you can
Starting point is 01:19:49 help in this like incredible decentralized revolution you can train yourself up and to me that gets me more excited about it than anything which is just realizing like wait a minute this really fuck me please fuck me
Starting point is 01:20:07 you fuck me in the sense of like that I can't it's hard for me to get that excited about that you know it's gonna it's hard for me to get that excited about that as much as like wait oh shit oh shit like actually this is real like people actually need our
Starting point is 01:20:23 help in the world big time yeah that's one of the things like because once you become aware of how much suffering you go through in life then a lot of people just become asshole because it's like oh I've had it bad so I'm just gonna pass it on to everybody else
Starting point is 01:20:39 yeah but the ones who don't do that then you become really understanding of where everybody comes from because it's like man I know all too well that feeling and it sucks and just because it's not me right now well this person doesn't need to be there
Starting point is 01:20:55 it's like if there's a way that I can do something to help them out why not that's it dude and it's like especially like this is one of the cool things about being an old dude building fucking old getting these wrinkles you know like experiencing the pains of getting like an older body
Starting point is 01:21:11 and like feeling like all the and all the things like I've you know they've happened to me yeah it's like all that shit is just training and this adds back to the imaginary story you can tell yourself which is instead of thinking about your life as a some kind of accidental
Starting point is 01:21:27 catastrophe imagine that you've actually been being secretly trained by a super intelligent so that you can become an operative in this incredible thing that's happening and so then you look then the moment you just make that little shift and look back at like all the
Starting point is 01:21:43 shit that happened to you and realize like oh god I was fantasizing that a Shaolin monk would come and take me to a temple where I would like have to like throw toothpicks through steel but it's like oh no brother this is way bigger than that
Starting point is 01:21:59 a super intelligence wrapped around you in the form of your incarnation and produced a series of events in your life that have like made you who you are today and that you are going to use at some future point to transform somebody else
Starting point is 01:22:15 to help in some way potentially to actually like stop a school shooting to stop a nuclear war maybe we don't know collectively what can happen so this fantasy is so fun to play around with because it's like suddenly your life stops being this
Starting point is 01:22:31 meaningless never ending spray of diarrhea out of the anus of some kind of dark chaotic being but actually becomes you realize like oh this has been an organized systematic training that has in some way
Starting point is 01:22:47 or another given me tools that I'm going to need to use at some point and what happened was that because you right now listening to this podcast at one point got stuck and forgot all this and couldn't quite get out
Starting point is 01:23:03 and you know there have been a few efforts to try to wake you up didn't quite work out right now the call has arrived through the sweet lesbian rasp of drunken trust man wake up there's a revolution happening
Starting point is 01:23:19 we gotta get going Danielli thank you so much thank you for being on my show and letting me be on yours this is awesome but especially because now thanks to this we have the wake up call for everybody but right now there are probably thousands of people who suddenly their
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