Duncan Trussell Family Hour - 552: Steven Kotler
Episode Date: February 17, 2023Steven Kotler, NYT Best-Selling Author and member of the Flow Research Collective, re-joins the DTFH! Pre-order Steven's new book, Gnar Country, available everywhere you get your books! If you'd lik...e to learn more about Steven you can also check out his site, StevenKotler.com. Original music by Aaron Michael Goldberg. This episode is brought to you by: ExpressVPN - Visit expressVPN.com/duncan and get an extra 3 months FREE when you buy a 1 year package. Herb Stomp - Use code DUNC15 at checkout to receive 15% OFF your first order! Hello Fresh - Visit HelloFresh.com/21Duncan and use code 21DUNCAN at checkout for 21 FREE MEALS + Free Shipping!
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just this big, kid's size.
Only had a slink shod, and they said to the kid,
you won't be able to get him down.
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And that's what it's about in America.
I ordered a shoot down.
Now it's down, problem solved.
Thank you.
Greetings pals, it's me, Detrusel.
And as you can tell, especially if you follow me
on Instagram, I've become unhealthily obsessed
with deep faking the president's voice
and other people's voices.
But right now, doing deep fakes of our president
is just scratching whatever demonic itch
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of the strangeness that is waiting for us just around.
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I love all my podcasts.
I love my podcast the way a crab loves its glistening,
frothy eggs.
I think crabs have eggs.
Regardless, every once in a while,
one podcast or another will change my life.
This podcast that you're about to listen to,
you can hear it.
You can hear Steven Kotler using his brilliance
to exercise the demon of age
that had insidiously crept into me.
You might know today's guest, Steven Kotler,
from his many books.
He is a New York Times bestselling author.
He's written The Future is Faster Than You Think,
Stealing Fire, The Rise of Superman,
Stealing Fire is one of my personal favorites.
He's a member of the Flow Research Collective
and an expert on Flow States.
He's got an awesome book coming out.
It's called Nar Country, Growing Old, Staying Rad.
Kotler put his money where his mouth is
and taught himself in an insanely fast amount of time
how to do ultra-dangerous skiing.
Now, that's just one tiny part
of what's cool about this book,
which is a journal sort of explaining his path
to doing tricks that no one should be able to do,
much less someone who's, I can't remember what he is,
like 55.
The book is all about how age is a psychological state.
Now, that might seem like a cliche to you,
but if you're like me, somebody in his 40s,
or even if you're not, if you're someone in your 20s,
if you're someone who's found yourself saying,
I'm getting old, watch out.
After this conversation with Steven,
I learned how deadly that psychological state can be.
Kotler has figured out that people are sort of cursing
themselves with a perception of themselves
as being aged out of one activity or the other.
This is 100% bullshit.
The idea that your brain can't change or grow
once you reach a certain age.
Complete absolute garbage, and it's deadly garbage,
because the more you believe it, the more you wither,
the more you atrophy, the more you rot from the inside.
This was truly one of my favorite podcasts of all time,
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Now everybody, welcome back to the DTFH Steven Kotler.
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Welcome.
Welcome on you, that you are with us.
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Welcome.
Welcome.
Thank you for coming back on the show.
Wonderful to see you.
Donkey is great to be with you.
Okay.
A little bit of kismet here.
The other day, I think I'm watching snowboarding videos with my kid.
He's transfixed.
I'm transfixed.
And I think he was like, will you go snowboarding?
I'm like, no, I'm probably too old for that kid.
Then I watched in our country.
I watched the videos on your website and there's Kotler.
How do you 53?
Uh, 55 now.
55.
You've aged two years since I a few days ago.
You, there you are doing like, I think what must be the most dangerous
form of skiing on earth, rail slides, insane tricks, things that like I, in
my mind, getting old, you know, as you get older, you just kind of fall into
this weird, sad, hypnotic idea about what lays ahead for you and freestyle
skiing is not on that list, man.
Diapers are on the list.
Diapers.
So tell me about it, man.
Tell me about it.
How did you do it?
So what is happening here?
So the field that we now call peak performance aging was like 11 different
fields that I've been either actively working in because they're directly
on related to the research I do on peak human performance.
Or they're sort of tangentially related.
Or my wife and I run a hospice care dog sanctuary we have for 20 years.
So like we know these amazing longevity protocols for dogs.
And there were questions like, will they work for humans?
And that sort of thing.
But what ends up happening is we have to start at the beginning, which
is what you sort of just gave voice to, which is the traditional idea about
aging, right?
It was what most people, what I like to call the long, slow, rot theory, right?
It's our physical skills, our mental skills, they fall off, right?
Our mental skills, our physical skills, our mental skills, they decline over
time and there's nothing we can do to stop the slide, right?
That's the long, slow, rot theory.
And the theory actually dates back to Freud.
Something Freud said.
He's like 49 and a half years old.
He's terrified at turning 50.
And he says, you know, I'm paraphrasing, but he basically says, you know, people
over 50 are so stuck in their ways and their brains are so locked up that
don't even bother with psychotherapy.
Anybody over 50 is no longer educable.
So the idea you can't teach an old dog new tricks, the long, all this gets
codified by Freud because he's terrified at turning 50.
The funny part is Freud goes on to write like six of his most famous books in
his fifties and his sixties.
So like, it doesn't even apply to Freud, but that doesn't matter because
the damage has been done.
And between like Freud in 1904 and like roughly 1995, all we did was prove
Freud right.
They figured out every single thing in the body that falls off a cliff and
that's the story most of us know.
And it turns out starting about 1995, holes start popping up in this story.
And first it's one and then it's another and then it's another.
And suddenly we arrive where we are today, which is with this, the new idea,
which is all the skills we used to think decline over time.
They do decline over time, but we now know they're all user to lose it skills.
So if you never stop using them, you can hang on to them, even advance them far
later than anybody thought possible.
So that's the theory.
That's what it looks like in the lab.
There's tons of research for a bunch of reasons that we can talk about it later
on.
I look at this stuff, I take some other ideas out of stuff.
I'm directly working on flow science and body cognition, a couple of things
like that and say, you know what?
If this stuff is all true, I should be able to or anybody should be able
to onboard incredibly difficult, challenging physical skills, even very
late in life.
And so I decided to test this because of course I have to test it.
I'm going to try to teach myself how to park ski at age 53.
And as you pointed out park skiing, it's rails, it's jumps, it's boxes,
what did your wife say?
Wait, 12 different.
She was thrilled.
She thought it was a great experiment.
She was like, go ahead, we have a life insurance policy on you.
It's fine.
But so one, we can go and come back to this.
One, I think I've made a couple of discoveries on how to do it safely is
the first thing.
I was like, wait a minute, there's a way to progress safely in this.
Two, you know, park skiing was this great thing because for
like 12 different biological reasons, people think it's impossible.
It's not over 35.
It's difficult to learn.
Yes.
Over 40 is very difficult.
Over 50, you're fucking nuts, right?
You're insane.
And so we made a list.
I made a list of 20 tricks that was essentially zero to intermediate.
And I had no parks.
I couldn't do any tricks.
I've been skiing my whole life.
I'm a good skier, but I like I never went into a terrain park.
I didn't know how to do anything.
Zero skills.
And I'm also worth pointing out.
I'm not a naturally gifted athlete.
I've been around professional athletes.
I come from a family of some gifted athletes.
I've seen what it looks like up close.
I'm not that I, it takes me a very long time to learn athletic skills.
So I make this list of 20 tricks that covers zero to intermediate.
And I figure at the time if it takes five years, so it takes five years.
I got there in less than a season.
And my ski partner who's 20 years younger than me, former pro athlete,
sponsored athlete, not pro, but sponsored athlete who got really injured,
left pro park skiing, had a family's three kids, got a job, did all that stuff,
came back, used the same protocol.
And he got faster farther than he's ever gone before.
And we went, wow, this is incredibly cool.
But this is like the world's sexiest pilot study, right?
Right.
And that's the story mostly documented in the new book in our country.
But at the end of the book, you find out that the season afterwards,
we went back, we took the same protocol.
We took 17 older adults ages 29 to 68.
That's the video you saw.
And then in four days on the mountain taught them how to park ski and park
snowboard.
And most of them were intermediates when they started intermediate skiers or
snowboarders.
And we still got them into the terrain park and doing stuff as some of them.
I told you, we're in the late sixties.
Then we stripped out the action sports because apparently they're not for
everyone.
I don't understand that, but apparently.
And we used it as a class, a pre-performance aging class.
We ran about 350 people through it.
And what we were trying to do in that class is essentially, so what you were
talking about earlier, that voice in your head, this is, I'm too old for this
shit, you know, I need diapers.
That has the formula that's basically known as the mindset of old and it's
deadly.
So we know that if you have a positive mindset towards aging, meaning I think
the second half of my life is filled with like really cool, interesting
possibilities, my best days might be ahead of me.
That mindset will translate into an extra seven and a half years of healthy
longevity and there's dozens of studies that show this.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you can actually, if you're morbidly obese and have a
shitty mindset, you will live longer by changing your mindset.
It's rough, the equivalent of quitting smoking.
Like it's really significant in terms of helping.
And this is not one or two studies.
This is dozens and dozens of studies over 50 years.
One of the most well-established facts in peak performance aging.
In fact, this is incredible.
Sorry, go ahead.
Can I tell you a crazy mindset story?
Yes, please.
It'll blow your mind and you can look it up when we're done.
So this is my favorite.
I think we ran the weirdest and most radical experiment in peak performance
aging.
Anybody's ever run?
Yes.
Run her up.
Run her up goes to Ellen Langer.
She, she's like the godmother of positive psychology.
And like I call her the eagles of psychology, meaning like if there's a
psychological experiment and you don't know who did it, it's probably Ellen Langer.
Like when we were growing up, you heard a song on the radio and you didn't know
who did it.
It was probably the eagles.
Same thing with psychology, right?
Okay, okay, I get it.
That's what I mean.
The eagles.
You took your while.
Duh.
I am dumb.
Okay.
Dumb.
No, no, no, no.
No, it was, I was blaming me for the storytelling.
It was, it was my punchline delivery that sucked.
It wasn't fault.
That falls never on the audience.
That had changed my diaper, Stephen.
Hold on a minute.
Go ahead.
So Ellen does this thing.
It's 1981.
Her early work in psychology is on language priming, right?
How, how language can influence people to behave in certain ways, even
subconsciously and she starts to wonder about, so ageism is the most widely
held stereotype in the world.
It's everywhere.
It's totally socially acceptable.
Literally like I walk outside with any other stereotype, tried it out in
public and I'm fucking canceled.
Like ended me, right?
But ageism is totally fine.
You know, I got another sense of smell.
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Now my piss smells like oatmeal.
They laugh.
It's the funniest shit ever.
So I'll add to it.
You can lose it.
That is, but yes, I don't mean to derail you for sure.
Making fun of old people.
It's totally fine, right?
Like it's totally, totally kosher.
Totally kosher everywhere, but it turns out, and we know this now, like a
woman named Becca Levy, she's at Yale.
She's done most of the work on aging and stereotype.
It's deadly.
Like we are literally killing old people by how we talk about them.
It's, it's amazing the impact of stereo of stereotypes on health and longevity,
but anyways, it's early days.
It's like 1981 and Ellen Langer dreams of this fucking insane experiment.
She takes a group of 80 year old men.
She's at Harvard.
She drives them two hours north of Boston.
They've taken over a monastery and they've made them.
It's 1991.
They've made the monastery look exactly like 1961.
So the posters in the wall are from 61.
All the magazines are from 61.
All the books are for 61 and brings people in and she takes the group of the 16 of
them, eight of them just sort of reminisce about 1961.
What was it like?
Oh, I remember Kennedy was blah, blah, blah on the Cuban.
The other group, the study group pretends it's 1961.
They play act as if it's 20 years younger.
They talk about the Cuban Missile Crisis is an ongoing current event.
They watch movies from 90s, et cetera, et cetera, and they measure everything
cognitively and everything physically could possibly measure.
Use list all the way along.
Five days later, just five days, the subjects who pretended, they both saw
benefits, but the subject who pretended it was to be 20 years younger.
Their vision improved on a snelling eye chart.
They're hearing improved.
Their disease symptoms fell away.
Their gates improved.
Their arthritis went away so much.
This is the crazy one.
They got taller and their fingers got longer.
Five days.
Yeah.
In fact, there's video, a touch football game breaks out.
They're waiting for the bus to go back to Harvard and this group of 80 year
old men start playing football, touch football on the lawn.
Like it's crazy.
They don't, the experiment is so well, nobody believes it.
So they redo it three different times for three different TV shows in Europe,
two different, three different networks in Europe, redo the experiment for TV
shows.
They still don't believe it's possible.
So they redo it again in 2019 with all full modern data gathering.
And my point is, and this is Ellen's point, aging is as much a mental
event as a physical process.
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Yeah.
So a lot of the biggest interventions that we can do for peak performance aging
are psychological, not physical, which is very counterintuitive.
Like most people want to take care of themselves.
They're getting older.
They are immediately they're changing their diet and things like that.
And exercise is usually important.
Human growth hormone, testosterone, supplements, steroids, you know,
seriously, like, and I'm not, and those are, so let me give you,
this is what's funny about it.
If I were to give you peak performance aging the sentence, this is the
sentence.
If you want to rock to your drop, you want to regularly engage in challenging
creative social activities that demand dynamic, deliberate play.
And I'll talk about what the word dynamic means in a second and take
place in novel outdoor environments.
But point I want to make on that is you didn't hear supplements.
You didn't hear diet.
You didn't hear all the long list of stuff.
You just tried it out.
None of it is on the list.
Why dynamic?
So let me walk you.
So let me start with dynamic and walk you through that.
Okay.
Dynamic is, is, is.
So I said there are a bunch of uses of losing skills on the physical side.
You need to train and we know exactly how long you're supposed to train each
of these as we age, strength, stamina, flexibility, balance and agility on
a regular basis.
Dynamic is one word that means all five of those things.
So skiing, tennis, these are dynamic activities.
What does that mean?
It means they need strength, stamina, agility, balance and flexibility.
That's what they mean.
Dynamic, deliberate play is the opposite.
Deliberate practice is like repetition of incremental advancement.
Deliberate play is repetition with improvisation and it's just way more
fun.
There's less chain.
There's less self-consciousness and uses far better learning and lifelong
learning is what we're after here.
Novel outdoor environment.
So why do you want this a novel outdoor environment?
So if you want to preserve brain function, you want to birth new neurons.
You want new neurons, new neurogenesis and you want to form new neural networks.
So we know specifically that this is why so you have something called cognitive
reserve.
It's what protects you against cognitive decline, Alzheimer's dementia.
People with high cognitive reserve, you can even have Alzheimer's, they
are tops of your brain upon death.
It's filled with tangles and plaques.
If you've got a big cognitive reserve, you won't show any symptoms.
And this is one of the findings that goes back to the 90s and we can talk
about why but really and if you want to build a cognitive reserve, this is why
you need lifelong learning.
So you want lifelong learning because it produces cognitive reserve.
What is that?
What am I talking about?
Lifelong learning is I want expertise and wisdom.
Those are the two things that matter.
Expertise is sort of all the stuff we learn consciously.
Wisdom is often the stuff we learn unconsciously, but that's those aren't
good definitions.
Here's what you need to know.
The part of the brain that is most vulnerable to cognitive decline, Alzheimer's
dementia to prefrontal cortex parts right behind your forehead, right?
It's the newest part of the brain from an evolutionary perspective.
So it's the most vulnerable.
The stuff that's deep in the brain stem and whatever.
Not age doesn't touch it at all.
It's the new stuff that's really vulnerable.
So when we have expertise and wisdom, what those things are are really diffuse
networks of neurons in the prefrontal cortex and they're very redundant.
Expertise, one of the properties of the brain is redundancy.
Like you never just learn one way to do something.
You learn six or seven and so there you have these backup networks running
through the entire prefrontal cortex that protects the brain.
So to maximize lifelong learning, to maximize these new networks, to
maximize neurogenesis, you have to ask a simple question, which is, okay,
if I need new neurons to protect my brain, where are they born in the brain?
Like, where do I get them?
Where do they come from?
Right?
So it turns out the adult brain will produce like 700 new neurons every
day, even until like, basically you die, but they come out of a place in the
brain and notice they have a campus.
The campus does two things.
It does long-term memory and it does location.
It's filled with like place cells and grid cells.
Why?
We have followed this hunter-gatherers.
So the brain is designed to remember exactly where you were when you had
emotionally charged experiences in other outdoor environments.
Why?
Where's the ripe fruit tree?
Okay, I got to remember that next spring when I'm looking for food.
Where did I get attacked by that tiger?
Okay.
I don't ever want to go back there.
Where was that watering hole?
Yeah.
Those, that's survival, right?
So the brain is designed to specifically remember that.
So I always say that peak performance is getting our biology to work
for us rather than against us.
Right.
Performance aging is the same thing.
It's getting your biology to work for you rather against you.
Supplied to the challenges and opportunities of aging.
So all these new neurons are showing up in the part of the brain that is
designed for map making and path finding.
So if you have, if you're getting your, these experiences, you're doing
your learning and novel outdoor environments, that's what the brain
was designed to remember.
So you're using the system exactly like it was built for.
And so what you end up with is more neurogenesis, more new neurons
and more robust neural networks.
You know, you've, you've discovered here, Steven, you know, you've discovered
you've discovered that outdoor sex will heal the brain.
Cause it fits in.
It's a physical activity.
It's physical dynamic.
It's dynamic.
It's definitely very playful.
Improvisational.
Bring peanut butter.
Peanut butter?
You've been hanging out with dogs too long.
Nothing, right?
That was the first thing that popped into my mind.
Listen, whatever floats your boat and this is what you're saying is incredible.
Like, like you're sitting here, it's like we have this like an aspect of our
brain that is being underutilized compared to what we used to, what we
needed it for, right?
We're, we have our GPS.
We've got our technology.
We don't need to know where anything is anymore.
And most of us are stuck in a pattern where we're definitely not going to
novel outdoor environments.
We're going from point A to point B, point A to point B.
And so you're saying it's sort of like we have these.
I mean, there's, there's, there's new apps now.
I just saw this.
There's an app now that will, so let's say you got to go to the store, you
know, make you a map based on greenery.
So you can, I got to go to the store.
It will give you a novel environment that maximizes your exposure to trees.
So there, there does seem to be some benefit to technology after all.
Oh my God.
That's so crazy.
But just to clarify, it's, it's, it's like, you're saying that if you want
to grow new neurons, the place they're coming from is this theoretically
underutilized part of the human brain that it's like, it's, it's the redundant.
It's not underutilized.
I mean, it's, it's, I mean, they have a campus is not, it's underutilized
is an interesting word there.
But it's the, I mean, it's just designed to figure out, you know, it's
designed to remember emotionally charged incidents and novel outdoor environments.
That's how to get it to be the most active.
And that's how it also knows, oh, shit, this is really important.
I need to save this.
I need redundancy.
I need backup because you're having a novel experience outdoor, right?
Cause that's what it was designed to do.
Unbelievable using that, but that's always been sort of one of my sort of
approaches is evolution designed all these systems for a purpose.
And if you can, you know, evolution of psychology, evolution in our biology
is about seeing if you could align that closely.
Cause it's, you're just using the system the way it's designed to be used.
You get better results.
I'm telling you, this is a lightning rod.
Like you have done, like to me, what, what you've done here is not just great
for people my age or older people.
But you know, if you're in your twenties and you've got that old mindset
and I think some, I think right now, so we can talk about where that comes
from.
No, you're totally right.
It sets up for some people and it's insidious.
It comes from a good place, but it's, it can set up as early as like 25, 26.
And you're literally killing yourself.
Like you think this mindset is keeping you safe and it's actually killing you,
which is crazy.
And so let me tell you where it comes from cause you'll, you'll totally get it.
As you know, we have all these reward neurochemicals and we get addicted
to them, right?
People with the cell phones are addicted to dopamine, right?
That's a dope.
Absolutely.
So when we're younger, teen kids and into teenage years and early twenties,
we're dominated.
So we're dominated by the seeking system and the place system.
We're going out in the world.
We're trying to figure out who we are.
How do we want to live?
Yeah.
What do we want?
What don't like all that stuff.
We, some of the social neurochemistry comes in, but the seeking system is
predominantly norepinephrine and dopamine, right?
Those are the drugs we're addicted to.
As soon as we start getting stuff, we found stuff that we want.
I've got the right partner.
I've got the right job.
I've got the apartment.
I like, I've got the car.
Yeah.
Trade our addiction to norepinephrine and dopamine, which are about seeking.
Give me something new to serotonin, oxytocin and endorphins.
Protect what I have.
Now we do this switch naturally when we have kids, right?
Cause you don't, you don't want to shut, you want to shut down the seeking
system cause you've got to stay with your partner to raise the kids, right?
Yes.
So it's a healthy biological trade.
It turns out for peak performance aging, you need all these systems.
So you have to reignite the seeking system and the place system.
Reignite the seeking system.
Ah, I love it.
Oh my God.
That's my new mantra in life.
Thank you.
Hari Krishna.
No more reignite the seeking system ring.
Oh my God.
That's giving me goosebumps.
It's, you know, yeah, I'm a, I've got a two year old, a four year old and a baby
on the way.
So you are describing to me my life, but from a neurological perspective,
which I didn't even realize everything you just described.
It's what I'm doing.
This is a funny story.
This is a funny ski story and this is, so we call it getting geysered.
Which is when somebody gets there like, I'm too old for this shit.
Juice on you.
So halfway through my ski season in the NAR season, um, I decide that I've got
the wrong skis that I like there.
I wait, I don't weigh enough.
I can't bend my ski.
So I'm talking to other people about their skis and in these parking
lessons, um, we're in the, this is the most extreme example.
We were at Kirkwood and I'm with my ski partner and this truck pulls up next
to me and a guy and a girl get out, a man and a woman get out.
She's, she's maybe like 27.
He's maybe 30 and he's skiing a pair of skis.
The moment death wish that I'm really interested.
I was like, Oh, tell me about those skis.
Are they good?
Did they do this to this?
And, and, and I was like, well, what are they like with like nosebutters in
three sixties and things like that?
And he's like, well, what is that?
I was like, Oh, park, park tricks, you know, stuff you do in the train park.
His girlfriend jumps out of the cab turns with the most anger I've ever seen.
And she's like, we are too old for that shit.
They can't tell how old I am cause I've got a ski helmet on.
I've got goggles on.
I took my helmet off and I'm like, lady, you are literally 35 years younger than
me.
I don't know what's wrong with you, but you are 35 years younger than me.
That's what I'm saying, man.
That's what you're doing is like, this is like, you know, upstream.
Well, the, yeah, there's another, sorry to interrupt you.
There's one other point here that I want to mention cause it's important.
I think cause people don't get it.
So what the cool thing about peak performance aging is on both sides of
the spectrum on the late in life side, there's all kinds of data that says
interventions will like make a difference even into your late eighties.
They probably make a difference into your nineties, but we just don't have
data showing that.
But like you can be a sedentary couch potato and be 85 years old.
And if you start any of these invent interventions, they're going to make
a difference.
But what the flip side is, what the data shows is for certain categories of
things, peak performance aging starts young really clearly starts young.
I guess there's a bunch of stuff you want to pay attention to even in your
twenties, your thirties, your forties, your fifties.
There's a lot of stuff in those decades that sort of matter here or could
really, you know, move the needle for you on the back end.
You're so it's, it's, I think like a big part.
What did you call the name of it?
Getting geysered.
I think a big part of getting geysered is it's like a coping mechanism
to deal with fear.
So one way to avoid whatever it is you're afraid of is to do what those
people did to you and say, I'm too old.
So you make that assessment of whatever the situation is and, and now you
can without feeling like a coward, you can ride off.
You can ride it all off.
Like I'm too old.
So there is a benefit if you try, if you have cognitive dissonance associated
with not wanting to go outside the boundaries of whatever your habits are.
And that's why what you're doing is like so devastating in the best way possible
to people who are utilizing that trick and they don't even realize that's
what they're doing.
You know, it's like, no, you're afraid.
You don't want to get hurt.
That makes sense, but don't blame it on the fact that you're old.
Blame it on that you're afraid because that's what it is.
It's fear, right?
I mean, this is it.
It's like, we want to avoid fear.
I, we want to death.
I mean, we want to avoid injury.
We want to avoid like paralysis and the assessment any of us make regarding
our own personal bodies, unless you're a Kotler is this shit is not doing nose
butters.
This shit is not jogging out of what it's doing.
But, and so I love what things that you're doing, what you're doing here
because it's like, it's, um, it's like you're banishing.
A mimetic cultural demon or something that we don't even realize we've been
trying.
Yeah, I, I, I'm trying and, um, and you have to understand for like those of us
who have been in and around this, this field for a while, like I'll give you a
random example.
I ski when I go to, when I go to Palisades, Tahoe, Squaw Valley, I'll ski with
a posse of like pros, ex pros and whatever.
And invariably we're chasing Tom day around the mountain.
He's usually in the pack.
He's usually in charge.
Tom day is in his late sixties.
Yeah.
He was like one of the first extreme skiers when Warren Miller started
making movies about skiing and then he became like Warren Miller's
camera ran forever.
He's amazingly talented, but like there are like young Olympic athletes in
the posse and the guy who's leading the charge who you can't catch is 65.
And so in the action sports community, Tom's not that much of an anomaly.
We see a lot of that fairly frequently.
You see it in surfing.
You see it in skiing snowboard and like it's rock climbing.
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I want to just, just put in italics here.
Just make sure that I understand this correctly.
Because you know, what, you know, as an older person, I'm an older person.
There's something really like weird when someone in their 20s or someone
who just turned 30 says, I'm old, I'm old.
And you're like, shut the, no, no, it's like number one, you know, you're
implicitly saying I'm a fucking fossil, right?
Like if you think you're old, how old do you think I am?
Number one, but, but, but I don't know what the number two is there.
I don't know why he started a number list.
But what you're saying is that habitual assessment of one's
self is actually, has been scientifically proven to reduce.
So let me actually take it far.
Let me take it farther than that for you Duncan.
So not only is the idea that the old dog can't learn new tricks false.
It turns out that old dogs are actually better at whole new types of
learning and thinking than young dogs.
When we enter our fifties for three different reasons.
One, there's a bunch of genes that only turn on through experience.
We call that epigenetics, but like it basically right.
Um, the second part is wait, what I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
What genes?
I'm really interested in this.
I'm, I'm very curious about, let's go to the next two cause it's easier
and I'm not an expert in genetics.
I'm better on, I'm better on the brain and we'll have a more fun conversation.
Okay.
Great.
Cool.
The bigger news, the bigger news is that in our fifties.
So the two halves of our brain do different things.
Sort of they work together, but sort of they work in opposition.
In our fifties, they start working together like never before.
And it progresses from our fifties, sixties, seventies into our eighties is
what it's at its peak.
And finally, this is why I lit on the word underutilized that you used
earlier, the brain starts, you know, bowed in our late forties, but in our fifties,
it, it'll say, okay, you've got this underutilized region over here.
You never learned to play a musical instrument.
So this is a gap.
Um, we're going to colonize it and use it for redundancy and we're going to back
some stuff up.
We're going to use it for new learning.
Yeah.
The brain starts to colonize these underutilized regions.
The two hemispheres start talking to their bunch of genes turn on and as a
result, as we enter our fifties, we gain access to three new thinking
styles that we, that are mostly offline before.
Uh, and, um, we, we, we basically gain the ability.
It's relativistic thinking, which sort of like says, Hey, look, there are
black and white thinking as a folly youth.
It's all gray and it's all shades of gray.
Okay.
Right and wrong is, is, is wishy-washy.
And then we can multi-perspectival thinking our ego quiets down.
So we can now see things from other people's point of view and all around.
And finally we get levels of systems thinking, big picture thinking that
we don't have access to before as a result in our fifties, whole new levels
of intelligence open up, whole new levels of creativity open up, including
divergent thinking, which spikes that's outside the box, like the far flung
connections between ideas, hardest aspect of creativity to train, really
difficult to train, but it starts blossoming in our fifties.
Equally important.
We gain access to whole new levels of empathy in our fifties and wisdom.
And all this stuff, um, doesn't, isn't available before all this stuff means
that like not only are we, you know, all the skills we used to think fall
off a cliff and we now know their user to lose it skills, we're gaining
genuine cognitive superpowers.
Now you have to, this is another one of those people performance aging starts
young things because there's certain things you have to do in your twenties,
thirties, forties, and actually early fifties to make sure you get full access
to these cognitive superpowers.
But if you get it right, um, the, you, we are just so much better at
so much stuff post 50 and pre 50.
So if you can keep the body up and train down the risk aversion, what becomes
possible is really exciting train down the risk aversion.
Now that to me, see, this is the, the paradox, isn't it?
It's like this is where the, uh, the, the, the creeping mental disease
if I'm too old, this is where it really fucks you up, huh?
Because it's like the idea is my bones will break easier.
I'm going to break my hip.
I, you know, I won't heal us.
I won't heal as quickly if I do injure myself.
So this would, if you believe those things, you are naturally going to
become increasingly adverse to risk.
And you're saying that this will actually slow down or potentially
eliminate your access to these new.
Yeah.
So, um, if you really want access to these skills, uh, in your fifties,
you have to creativity is sort of one unlocks them.
So if you're being creative, forcing the brand to be creative, um, that
actually is what starts to really turn these things on.
So that's important.
That's one of the modifiers or gateways that you need for this.
You also have to fight off physical fragility, right?
Like if your body's falling apart, who cares if you've got new mental
skills, right?
It's not going to do you any good.
So you have to, that's when you have to start training up all five
categories of functional fitness and get really serious about that.
And finally, risk aversion increases over time.
As you pointed out, and you have to train it down.
And the reason is this under that risk aversion is fear as we talked about.
And here is predominantly cortisol and norepinephrine, right?
Cortisol hormone and norepinephrine.
Norepinephrine is literally adrenaline in the brain, right?
It's the brain's version of adrenaline and a little bit is great.
It's sort of primes learning makes you attentive and alert too much makes you
super anxious and it blocks learning.
It blocks creativity.
So this is obvious.
Like when you're stressed out, your brain doesn't want to, you know,
when you're, when you're scared, your brain doesn't say, okay,
let's find a really creative solution.
No, no, give me the same old, give me the thing that works.
You know what I mean?
So it becomes very logical, very linear, very conservative.
And if you can't access the creativity, right?
Cause you're too risk averse.
You're not going to gain access to any of these super hours and if you're too
risk averse, right?
The other one in your fifties that matters is you have to self forgiveness
and forgiveness of others.
You have to forgive those who have done you wrong.
You're to forgive yourself in your fifties.
Otherwise you can't get access to the empathy and wisdom that comes your way.
Whoa.
Okay.
I want to give you a comedy example of what you just said.
So when you start doing stand up naturally, you are terrified.
You know, you're not sure you've studied the, the evolutionary biology,
the explanation for why we don't like to eat shit in front of strangers.
Not later.
Well, we don't like to do it literally, but we don't like to bomb on stage in
front of strangers.
It apparently affects a part of your brain that is different than other psychological
pain centers.
I am clearly not a scientist, but, but, uh, so what can happen to a comic
because of that fear is that you get stuck in the same damn material.
You go on stage, you do the same material over and over and over again.
You get stuck in this rut, this terrible loop.
The minute you're, you, you can kill actually, you can do great on stage,
but you'll drive home with the same feeling that you bombed because you
know, you've been saying the exact same words in the exact same order for years
potentially, but the moment you get your, the nervousness starts going away.
When you're up there, your brain, and this is the dream of all comics is what
we love.
Sometimes your brain will spit out a joke.
It will complete a joke.
It will find a punchline.
It will pull out of the air like an angle that you never thought of.
It won't, when you're writing, it will not happen the way it will happen on stage.
You just described why and what that is.
It's because if you're too freaked out, when you go on stage, you're going
to get rigid, systematic.
Yeah.
And, and stuck.
Well, it is so, I mean, the brain limits choice and we all know this
because the extreme example is fight or flight or freeze, right?
Where the brain goes, Oh shit, crisis situation.
You have three options, right?
It takes all the others off the table.
What people don't realize is it's true with any level of anxiety, any level
of time stress, when we're time stressed.
It's why I like to get up and write at like four o'clock in the morning
because nobody calls me from four to seven a.m.
It's non time.
It belongs to no one.
So if I got to take two hours to get a sentence, right?
Who the fuck cares, right?
Like it doesn't, it doesn't matter.
And the opposite time stress.
I'm, there's no way I'm going to get that.
I'm going to have access to the same level of creativity.
It will work in the middle of the day.
Steven, this is, I mean, you know, you've been on the bar guys before
and you have changed my life.
You're doing it now.
Anytime we talk, my life improves.
I to this day, to this day.
When I am freaking out from weed refer to a podcast.
We did where you just described this.
I hear your voice.
Do you know that?
Like when I'm about to like go down the hell, that the hell tunnel
that you want to, I hear your voice like Obi-Wan Kenobi.
I'm like, you know, yeah, maybe talking you down, maybe these problems.
Like you're like, okay, you're, it's your amygdala.
It's cortisol.
It's presenting problems to you that maybe you need to deal with.
But if you just wait a little bit, some of that stress chemical will reduce,
but if you obsess on what it's presenting, it's going to amplify.
It's going to create a feedback loop.
And so yeah, I always, whenever it's like, oh, fuck, I forgot to send the email.
I didn't respond to that person or oh my God.
I'm like, okay, brain, we'll deal with that.
But right now I'm just going to relax and then sure enough, 20 minutes,
30 minutes suddenly, every, you get that nice warm high that we all love,
which is why we like cannabis.
I don't know if you still indulge in that wonderful, wonderful.
Yeah.
I'm not a quitter.
So yeah, this is, so yeah, it's what you're, what you're, what you're doing
here is, is really perfect for people like me.
I mean, and you know, with the pandemic, Steven, it's like, if anything
triggered our amygdalas, if anything created fight, flight, freeze.
I mean, you could literally go through Twitter and analyze tweets.
That's a fight tweet.
That's a flight tweet.
That's a frozen tweet.
You know what I mean?
That's really funny.
You can just see what's happening there.
And, and, and it's, you know, it's cause we all just went through this bullshit.
And I think we've left it, but we're still scared where we've, our, our risk
aversion is so high right now and the implications for society, if creative
people, if philosophers, if scientists have managed to get into a trauma
state from the pandemic, it's bad news, man.
We're, we're not going to get the innovation.
We're not going to get the, you know, you're, you're, you're right about that.
And, um, yeah, I mean, the other thing is that, so there are nine known causes
of aging, we get older for nine reasons, but the thing they all have in common
is inflammation.
That's what that's the root cause of all of them.
And inflammation is always tied to stress.
It's always tied to stress.
Right.
This is one of the reasons and Langer says aging as much a physical as a
mental event is a physical process.
Aging is tied to stress.
And now we're hyper, like first of all, in modern society, we're, we're
hyper vigilant in general.
The pandemic has made it worse.
And it's interesting.
The, um, there's the, the long-term effects, um, are, are considerable
because these are the very things that age us the most.
Right.
Right.
Right.
This is, you know, it's like the old cliche in like,
like cheesy old movies.
You look at the vampire and your hair turns white.
It's like, you know, that's the metaphor.
It's like the vampire in this case is like you're, you're staring at this
like life-sucking idea of your future that is not real.
And, and, and so you age, you get, you get, that's when you get the stress wrinkles.
That's when you get the tremors.
That's when you get all this stuff.
Why wouldn't you?
You're freaking out.
One of the reasons I thought the, we talk about like a NAR style.
NAR, by the way, if anybody doesn't know is.
I didn't know when I felt like it was named act.
Oh, what is it?
It's action sports slang.
It's short for gnarly.
And it's a very defined as any situation that's high in perceived
risk and high in actual risk, which as it turns out is a great description
for later years, high in perceived risk, high in actual risk.
So NAR country, right, is a finale.
And it turns out also that NAR country is also sort of a good descriptor
of like the gritty mindset you need to thrive in your later years too.
Yeah.
So that's where, that's where the title came from.
But we talk about we at the flow research collective when we're training
people in this stuff, we talk about sort of a NAR style adventure.
I'm not saying you should go out and learn to park ski.
One of the things I will tell you is, and I'm me, right?
I'm, if I know I did all the work, I read all this.
I still, there was like residual, the mindset of all this is sneaky.
Like it gets in there and like deep levels that you don't even notice.
One of the things that I found is, you know, like halfway through my
skis and it didn't matter what I thought about the second half of my life,
because once I started learning how to do a nose butter 360, you know what
I mean?
Like whatever I thought was possible, the second half of my life was out
of the freaking window because it got exploded by what I'm doing in the real
world.
That was the weirdest thing about going after this kind of quest is like,
I thought it was going to take five years.
It was going to be possible at all.
Almost everybody else thought it was impossible.
Even my friends who were pro athletes would hear about it and be like,
well, how many bones have broken so far?
Like they just didn't believe you could do it safely without
killing yourself or anything else.
And yeah, you know, we just found a way to do it safely.
Yeah.
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You are the psychological equivalent of that doctor who cured
ulcers, but to get the ulcers, he had to give himself ulcers
to make himself the lab rat to cure the ulcers.
Yeah, totally.
You know what I mean?
I mean, you know, Duncan with all the peak performance stuff
I've done over the years.
I'm usually the first lab rat.
I just don't ever talk about it because I don't believe it works
for me.
I don't trust that it's going to work for you.
Most other people are like, oh, it worked for me.
It's going to work for you.
And I'm like, no, no, no, no, there's a lot of psychology that
says that's not true.
There's a lot of stuff that says that's not going to be the case.
So I just never talk about my experiments on the front end
because I don't like, I know enough science to know that
they don't mean it.
I'm just proving it to myself and then I have to go figure out
if it's going to work for other people and do all that stuff.
Those experiments have kind of been prevalent my whole life.
I just like never this is the first time I was like, okay,
let's just tell everybody about the experiment as a way to
talk about the science rather than just talking about the
science in a million other ways and telling.
I wish you could have seen the grin on my face watching you
on the ski slopes, watching the analysis from that.
What's his name?
The Nick Nick.
Isn't he funny as shit?
Funny as shit and a very impressed with you.
Like what the fuck?
Like definitely like what?
This is not.
It was he was great.
So I stumbled upon.
So when I stumbled at a parks gate, one of the things is they
speak their own language.
I didn't even know the names of the tricks.
Right.
So like how to figure out the names of the tricks.
I had to find commentators online who were accommodating
and they would name you like, oh, that's what the fuck that
is.
Okay.
Right.
So I stumbled upon this kid during like the COVID lockdown
right when everything's closed and all I'm doing is I'm
watching him and this other slush is another free skiing
channel.
That's how I learned the names of the tricks.
But as I was watching him, I was like struck by two things.
I was like one, he's funny and two, he tells the truth like
a lot like he's not like he's honest.
I was like, I'm going to send him footage of me three months
in the experiment.
He's an idiot.
We now know each other a little bit, but I literally sent it
to him.
I called him.
I was like, this is who I am.
This is what I do.
This is footage of me three months into my experiment.
Grade me, judge me, make as much fun of me as you want.
Just use the footage, explain to me what the fuck park skiing
is so they know and just just frame it up and whatever you
want to say is totally just be honest.
And that's what showed up.
He was honest.
He was honest.
And okay, look, we've got only a little bit of time left
and we have a hard out.
I've been reading about there's a new movement in the world
right now.
The movement is go outside.
It doesn't seem like that original movement, but relative
to the world that we're in right now.
It's a it's a kind of unplug, get out there, pull yourself
away from the dopamine addiction of your phone.
Do you consider yourself part of that movement?
I think you are.
Do you see yourself in what you mean?
Well, so the thing you have to understand is I was never I
like I like technology and I've as a writer, you know, I've
covered technology.
I mean, I work for wired.
Like, you know, I covered I covered this stuff, but as far
as personal technology goes, I've never I've never been
suckered in by it.
So I have very little of it in my life and I've never not
gone outside.
I'm outside.
I mean, you know, ever since I got a dog, I'm at least
outside a couple hours a day just walking my dog.
Right.
Um, but I've like, I live, I don't live in cities.
I live in the country.
Like I like this is so for me, I never had to be told to put
down my phone.
I don't like I'm the guy in the airport who's not looking at
his phone is looking at all you motherfuckers looking at your
phone.
What is wrong with you people?
Don't you have books like it's so strange to me and I and I
will say you should have her on the podcast because she's
lovely.
My dear friend, Catherine Price, who wrote a great book called
how to divorce your phone and is probably the world's leading
expert on that right now.
Yes.
Yes.
She's awesome.
Please happily, happily.
Um, you'll love her.
Let me make a note of that.
Thank you.
I appreciate it, Stephen.
I mean, God knows how many how to divorce your phone.
How many?
No, it's a great little book.
She wrote and it's really so for older adults, older adults,
anybody who's sort of the mindset of older, anybody over
50, there's like seven or eight or nine or 10 or 11 or 12
reasons you really want to put down your phone.
There's a lot of yeah, there's a bunch of stuff.
So there's a bunch of stuff that cell phones make a lot worse
that are already issues for people over 50 and so literally
like these are the stuff that you need to be training up and
your cell phone is training them in the other direction.
Yeah, um, totally.
So there's a bunch of like you really want to be putting down
that phone and so in the course that in we in the course that
we spun out of this, the peak performance agent course, um,
it's one up based on Catherine's work, some other stuff is
one of the things that we ask people to do for the duration
of the course, but divorce your phone.
I'm taking your course.
How do I take your course and also when is this when is your
book coming out man?
It's not out yet.
It comes out in 14 days.
Yeah, it's 14th.
It's on the February 28th is when the book when the book
drops, um, if you go to our country.com and you want to
pre-order, there's this ton of really amazing people from
his training bonuses that are free, um, that you get for
pre-ordering because pre-order.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
If you want the pre-order, everybody pre-order this book.
It's up.
It's up to you guys.
I mean, you can get it anywhere, but if you go to our
country.com and pre-order it, we're going to give you a lot
of free peak performance tools and trainings to help.
Um, when do I get to, when do I get to do nose butters?
How do I take your course?
Is this like a scheduled course or is it?
So do you want to, I mean, the, we haven't done the course
it doesn't, isn't, isn't skiing snowboarding.
The skiing snowboarding, we don't know when the next time
we're going to do one of those is, but, um, I could, the book
walks you through exactly what we did to sort of the approach.
So it makes it like there's, there are very safe, safe ways
to do it, but, um, we haven't, uh, we're, at some point
we'll start doing ski like on the hill stuff again.
Um, we just haven't put it together.
Uh, there seems to be a lot of interest in it though, which
I didn't like in the beginning, I look, I use skiing in a
sense as a metaphor and I wanted, one of the advantages of
the book is the book is functions as a, it's almost, it's
almost a diary, right?
It starts pre-season training and goes all the way through
the season and covers every day.
And the reason is it's really hard.
Nobody's ever written a book on applied peak performance.
There's this detailed cause it's really hard to make it
not terribly boring for the reader.
Like there's a lot of writing challenges in doing that,
right?
And, and, and it took, it actually took a very long time
to get it right.
But what it gives you is a look at like, oh, this is what
it looks like.
This is how it's applied on a daily basis over a very long
time.
And you start to realize you're like, oh, wow, this is a
lot more accessible.
There's, yeah, he's doing some crazy stuff that maybe I
wouldn't do, but like, I can do these things.
I can do my versions of these things.
This is available to me.
Cool.
I love it.
And in the course, what is the core?
Like, is it a, is it the courses?
The course is called, um, enter the NAR.
It'll be, uh, we will, it'll be available through the flow
research collective, um, like our, you know, like our flow
trainings and other things.
Um, and we, it goes, I think it'll go on sale, uh, probably
April 1st.
I think we're going to wait and give the book a month and
then put the course on sale April 1st, but I can, you know,
we can let you know.
Can't wait.
Steven, you're doing the Lord's work.
Thank you for this.
You have no idea all the synchronicities involved in
this conversation.
Thank you for your work and, uh, everybody, please pre-order
NAR country.
Well, you remind me of my mantra.
Usually I say Hari Krishna when I'm getting offline, but
what is my mantra?
What was it?
It was, uh, what do we see?
It was C.
That's cause I'm not.
Hold on.
Hold on.
Everybody's like, uh, God, what did you say?
I remember it was so beautiful.
Activate the mother fuck.
This is why I need to take it.
You know what?
You know what?
If somebody would have only recorded this conversation, I
don't record my podcast.
I don't go back.
It's just, it's just, it's just like we do it in the ether.
I know I hijacked the greatest life coaches on earth for an
hour and don't release the podcast.
This is a great scam.
Activate their power points to distract them so they don't
realize it's not recorded.
This is it.
This is it.
Steven, thank you so much.
I know how you are.
I know how you are.
You, you are a, this is one of my favorite conversations in a
long time.
Thank you for your time.
And, uh,
Duncan, my pleasure.
It's great seeing you again.
What's the website?
Well, sir.
What's your website?
Mr.
Kotler.
No, uh, my Steven Kotler.
Dot com.
No, our country.
Dot com.
Flow research collective.
Dot com.
Duncan trestle.
Dot com.
Yes.
Um, you, we've taken it over to actually all that Steven
Kotler stuff.
You don't know this.
This was going on.
Why are you podcasting and stealing my.
I know you, you're hijacking your website.
I'm sorry.
Steven.
Thanks.
I'll, you could hijack my website anytime.
That's Steven.
Call everybody.
Thanks for coming on the show.
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