Dynamic Dialogue with Danny Matranga - 192: 5 Fitness Lies to Stop Telling Yourself
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Welcome in everybody to another episode of the Dynamic Dialogue podcast. As always, I'm your host, Danny Matranga. And in today's episode, we're going to go over five of what I believe to be the biggest misconceptions and lies people believe about their fitness, or their quote unquote, fate within fitness, if you will.
or their quote-unquote fate within fitness, if you will.
Some identity-based lines of thinking that I think really hold people back from ultimately reaching what it is that they're capable of
and selling themselves short on their fitness journey.
Before we do that, a little housekeeping as to the podcast
and the scheduling of the podcast.
I've been dropping podcasts about twice a week
for the better part of the last six months,
and I'd love
to thank each and every one of you before we go any further for continuing to subscribe, download,
and listen to new episodes. It makes a huge difference for me that you guys choose to give me
any amount of your precious time, especially when you could divide that time around or kind of
allocate that time to so many amazing different creators on all of the various
media platforms we have access to, whether it's Netflix, YouTube, Instagram, TikTok, Facebook,
HBO Max, various podcasts. You have so much content you can consume, and I'm just really
grateful for you continuing to consume mine. I try to keep the episodes short and sweet
so that you have time for the other stuff because I thought in creating this podcast, there's so many podcasts where the kind of
levels and layers that are required to unpack the density of some of the subject, even within
fitness, require hours at a time.
And that's part of what makes podcasts so awesome sometimes is they're very deep and
can often be quite long form.
But I wanted this to be quick and succinct and answer questions and help you guys
drive home big rock concepts that will help you be successful in your fitness journeys,
whether that be with muscle gain, weight loss, pain management, or you're a personal trainer
and you're somebody who would like to get more out of their career, whether that's through learning
my tactics or just having generally informed discussions about certain things with experts who I can kind of delegate the expertise to
instead of masquerading around like I've really figured it all out.
And so I'd love to keep it at a two-time-a-week frequency, but a little feedback from you
guys would help a ton.
If you follow me on Instagram over at danny.matranga, feel free to send me a DM or an email at danny at coach dannymatranga.com.
And let me know what days of the week you most like to see downloads.
I'm currently, or not downloads, but new episodes available.
I'm trying to really get a kind of good pulse check on that from you guys
as I look to add potentially a third day. Just as another layer
of housekeeping, I have been working quite hard to open the Core Coaching Method personal training
studio and physical therapy clinic. And that is excitedly going to be right here in my hometown
of Rohnert Park, California or Sonoma County, which is where I live. And so getting the
opportunity to have clients, patients, athletes,
people of various fitness levels and with various goals come in and train in person
in a way that's a little bit more intimate than what I had been doing previously at big box gyms
where I got started training or at studio gyms where I often rented space or even at home,
which I felt was quite nice. And I probably will
maintain a home gym and my new home. I'm also moving. All this to say there has been a ton of
stuff on my plate, a lot of things keeping me busy. And there's a lot of new and exciting things
for you as well. Those of you who listen first, of course, like I mentioned, is in-person training
right here in Sonoma County. So that offering might not apply directly to you,
given that most of you do not live in Sonoma County. In fact, most of you don't live in
California, but having training sessions right here in Sonoma County that are available to the
public to come and work with me. And I haven't really offered anything like this in the last
two years. So very exciting there helps me keep my finger on the pulse. Also core coaching method
online, still very much a thing,
still working with online clients personally, although I probably will not be, um, I probably
will not be adding clients much through the summer, but I do have a team of phenomenal coaches
who employ all of my methods, who are certified, who have worked with coaches and trainers or who
have worked as coaches and trainers, I should say, for five years minimum. I even have
a coach who can deliver coaching entirely in Spanish, which I think is cool because
a lot of my followers, that is their preferred language for deliverables, for coaching,
for content. And I've done a poor job historically of kind of having something for that audience.
So being able to at least connect with coaching there will be really cool. And we also have the
Core Coaching Collective app training programs,, elite physique and home heroes. I partnered with train heroic to bring you guys these programs so
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days a week. You can do it from home. Elite physique is five days a week. You do it from
the gym. Both of these communities are unisex, although Elite Physique is designed specifically for the development of the
glutes, hamstrings, quads, core. So very much skewed towards what I would describe as like a
female bodybuilding program, four to five days a week. You need a gym, amazing community of
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crack jokes, join us in there. You can join us in Home Heroes too, which is that four day a week
program you can do from home with just bands and dumbbells. That's a very exciting one,
and those are both free to try for a week. You can check those out at the link in the show notes
down below. And I think that's really it for housekeeping, guys. Just want to make sure that
I'm doing everything I can to keep you up to date on what I'm doing and continue to communicate to
you how appreciative I am of you giving me any time at all on any platform. I love what I do working with clients in person and I love what I
do working with clients online, but I also like interfacing with my audience and the people who I
don't necessarily have the opportunity to work with directly. So here we go, getting into the
five biggest fitness lies people tell themselves that hold them back.
The first one is the notion, perhaps unusually unfounded, that I have a slow metabolism.
Have you heard this before? I can't lose weight because I have a slow metabolism. It's a pretty
common utterance. You will hear people often communicate this like, oh, when I was younger, or oh, I used to be able to eat like that, or oh, before do of course influence our metabolism. So does the size of
your body. And so does your genetics at a multitude of different levels. And your genetics certainly
influence a variety of things with regards to like dopaminergic response to food. We'll talk
about that a little bit more in a second. But truth be told, a lot of the variance in metabolism on an individual basis
comes down to NEAT, or non-exercise activity thermogenesis, things like subconscious movement.
So if you take two people who are, let's just say, of similar size, similar age, they would,
you know, potentially, you'd think, have similar metabolism, similar activity level as well,
let's give them that. But the discrepancy between their metabolism oftentimes comes down to NEAT. That seems to
be the factor that is the most representative of metabolic output discrepancies between people.
So what this means, in theory, is that the difference between somebody with a fast metabolism
and a quote-unquote slow metabolism is often things like non-exercise specific activity with regards to controllable or
semi-controllable factors. The genetic components and elements are there with regards to how we
respond to food, our general predisposition for exercise and movement, right? There's so many things. It's,
it's impossible to say there's no such thing as a person who has metabolically a lower output than,
you know, another person of similar size and weight. That's not my point. My point is that
for most people, right? The point or the saying I have a slow metabolism is often an incomplete
assertion of their metabolic capabilities. It's often that like, okay, no, you're shorter. You typically have less muscle
than somebody who's active and you probably have a sedentary job. And those three factors in tandem
or in concert have a very big influence on your metabolic output. And when you compare your
ability to eat a certain amount of food
and how that affects your body weight to people who have a substantially higher metabolic output
because of those factors, you think, well, my metabolism is fundamentally flawed, slow,
or incapable. When quite frankly, for most people, it's very much the opposite in that the metabolism
is adaptable, both upstream and downstream. In the same way that oftentimes people will say, oh my gosh, I dieted for way too long and my
metabolism just tanked to being super, super slow. The adaptation of, I had such a restricted
caloric intake for such a considerable amount of time, my body adapted to that lower caloric intake.
And in doing this, I then became stuck with only
being able to eat a little bit of food. And if I ate any more than that, I'd gain fat.
So it's adaptable, right? That's the downstream adaptation. And then there's the flip side,
which is like, hey, the more muscle I add, the more active I am, the more neat I do,
the more I get moving, the better sleep I get, the more metabolic output I can expect. And those adaptations go both
upstream and downstream. But the notion that fundamentally you were born with just this super
slow metabolism and you're fucked and you can't lose weight, which you will hear a lot from people
who are, you know, they might not even be aware of the variances in how hormones affect things
like appetite, water retention. They might not be aware of the ways in which genetics influence body fat, geography, like where your body fat ends up, anthropometry,
how your bones and shape is structured. They might just straight up think, no, I just was born with a
slow metabolism. I'm not interested in the genetic variants. I'm not interested in all this stuff
that could play a teeny, teeny role. It's nope, I've got a slow metabolism and that's just it.
And I feel that that thought is quite incomplete because it does not, in my opinion, give the
metabolism enough credit for its adaptability and for people's, quite frankly, personal capabilities
to adjust their routines. I know that not everybody is in a position that they can do that,
but a little bit of routine change can go an awful long way. Of course, for women, there are various things that happen to actually influence
your metabolism acutely. I have discussed this quite a bit already or alluded to it quite a bit
already, but things like age are not necessarily what I'm talking about here. I'm talking more
about things like the menstrual cycle, which would be a fluctuation of your hormones across the week that can influence
your actual metabolic output. And then things like PCOS or even like menopause. But age,
interestingly enough, and the influence that age has on metabolism, Ponser is the researcher with
the largest, I would say most robustly available body of evidence studying the age-specific impacts of metabolism, at least that I know of.
places you can find pop science, I call it, which is just the kind of research regurgitated in a way that laymen can really understand it. An example of this would
be when they found that Viagra reduced Alzheimer's prevalency by 68.6%. And so they rounded up to
like 69% and it was Viagra reduces risk of Alzheimer's by 69%. And that's the huge headline
that goes around. And then when you click in it, instead of linking to the actual study with all the research,
it links to an article written by somebody who's probably a decent science communicator explaining,
Hey, this would, that study showed. And so Ponser had a study come out that basically showed like,
Hey, after you hit like 50 or 60, I'm going to butcher this, but really common to hear people
say, Oh, once, Oh, when you get my age, oh, when you get my age,
your metabolism is fucked. What it looks like is the actual drop off on a per year basis after the
age of, I think it was 50 or 60, wasn't as much as people thought. I think it was 0.7% per year.
So 7% per decade. So like after 30 years, like a 21% decrease, which is certainly substantial, but like people communicate that their metabolism has slowed, uh, as if, you know, it's been cut in
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energy that people communicate is I have bad genetics, whether that be for the development of
a particular muscle group, or whether that just be for the general shape of their body,
or whether that be with regards to where body fat gets deposited. But the fact of the matter is,
you can't change a damn thing about your genetics short of building a time machine and going back
in time. And I understand it might be
easy to sit around and, you know, blame your genetics for why you don't look like somebody
who obviously has superior genetics. That's just plain logical. And in fact, I might argue that if
you see people who are obviously just genetically incredible and that they have like, not that they
didn't work hard, but it's very apparent oftentimes that some people were gifted genetically to just say, hey, you know, good for them, good on them. That's not an
indictment of me and where I'm at and what my genetics set me up for. But perhaps you can just
take a little bit of a breath and go, hmm, okay, maybe that's not the person to compare myself
today because my genetics aren't my genetics. And, you know, I think that's the first thing.
But the notion that you have a set of genetics that is so bad that it has predisposed you to failure in fitness or in
the development of a particular muscle or in the reduction of a certain level of body fat to me
is you're holding yourself back. Like there's a number of people who were born or who lost
limb born without, or who lost limbs through catastrophic means who go on to run
marathons and whether they were fucked genetically born into, in a situation where they had a missing
limb or they were, you know, fucked situationally where they ended up in a situation where they lost
a leg because of a freak accident or who knows. And then they went on to get, uh, they went on
to get a prosthetic to then learn to run, to then go run competitively, to then,
you know, get to the point where they can run in the Paralympics. Like there are so many ways that
people overcome their genetics and their situation athletically. And I think that we can probably
make the most of our situation, whether it be a muscle growth endeavor or a fat loss endeavor,
regardless of the genetics or the situations that are outside of your immediate control, right?
And I also think there's a bias to leaning into what we're already good at. So genetically, I'll give you an example
when it comes to muscular development. A lot of people really struggle with this. They struggle
with like, okay, my calves are my weak spot and, and, or all my arms are my weak spot. And it's
like, well, if you know your weak spots, I bet you know your strong spots. And if you know your
strong spots, I bet you do a shit ton of training for those muscles because it feels
good. It fluffs the ego and you give the scraps that are fucking left over to those weak muscle
groups. I have met a lot of people that complain about weak or lagging muscle groups that don't
really train those muscle groups. I've done this myself with my arms. I used to bitch and moan,
bitch and moan about my shitty arm genetics. Oh, my arm genetics are trash. Oh, I wish I could have big arms.
Oh, I did too much chest and back early in my career.
And now they're out of development.
And they're, I used to bitch and moan.
But what ended up happening when I finally said,
well, what happens if I go all in on arm training?
And I started doing arm first or doing more arms than chest
or more triceps than chest or more biceps than back.
I had to fight that identity thing. I was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, wait. I can't possibly do more triceps than chest or more biceps than back. I had to fight that identity
thing. I was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I can't possibly do more triceps in a session than
chest. That would be weird. Chest is a bigger muscle. No, I had to change that shit around.
And sure enough, my quote unquote bad arm genetics resulted in like an inch worth of arm growth in a
year, which is nothing crazy. But for somebody who's been training for a while, who always
thought they had shitty arms, you're pretty fucking pumped about it. And long story short, I learned an awful
lot about the way that making complaints about my genetics was holding me back. And I think it's
best to remember that you have to do the best you can with what you have. You can't change your
genetics. We bias and kind of lean into stuff that we're already good at. And we might lean away from
stuff that doesn't come so natural. And we often tend to work harder on the stuff that comes easy and run away from the
hard stuff. And that ain't good for life. So I think there's some carry over to life there too.
And, you know, restructure around that stuff. So if you think there's something holding you back,
or you will at least know that genetically you might be ill-equipped to handle something,
hey, you got to work that much harder. That's all there is to it.
Here's another lie or thing that I think people tell themselves. This is number three.
And this one fucking kills me. And it's the, if I had their schedule or if I had their life,
I would look like that. Or I could look like that if I didn't have, like the, I've been scrolling
social media, looking at the bodies of beautiful men and women whose bodies I envy, whose bodies I wish and had, or whose cars I wish and had, or whose success I wish I had.
And if I just had their life and their schedule, then I would have all of the things that they have. physique specific results, whether it's the big booty or the big biceps or the flat abs or
the super chiseled chest. I would have that if I could do what they do all day. If I didn't have
this job, this is the thing again, you can't have their life and why even bother thinking about it?
Maybe you would, maybe you wouldn't, but why waste the damn energy comparing to a situation
that will never happen? Will you ever be in the
situation that that influencer's in where they are probably not working as many hours for you?
Maybe they don't even have a boss. They're getting their supplementation probably paid for and
provided for them for free. They have the ability to work out for a considerably longer amount of
time. They might have the ability to break away and do cardio. Maybe they also have a disposable
income that allows them access to the best plastic surgery
in the world.
What are you doing comparing yourself to those people if you are not in that situation?
I know social media makes it so hard, but to tell yourself, if only I had their life,
if only I had their situation, I'd be where they're at.
Well, you don't have their life and you don't have their situation, but you have your life and you have your situation and you have today, tomorrow and the immediate future to make whatever fucking changes you want to that. The second you start thinking about how you can restructure your day to make it better. And I understand that sometimes these things throw themselves upon us
when we go on social media, we can't stay away from them. They push themselves onto us. I get
these little TikTok reels, short form video content of people going through their day,
really sped up like these little micro blogs or vlogs. And what gets me every time is like the
desk aesthetics. So I always hang around and I like see
these badass desks that are standing desks. They come up, they come down with badass monitors and
stuff. And like people have all their little shit and their productivity stuff. And then they go on
their day and they drink their, their green juice and they get in their car and they drive to the
gym. You've seen these like rapid smash cut videos. And I see that and I'm like, I don't see anything
else. I just go, damn, I fucking wish I had that
desk. That desk is so sick. And that I think is a little bit more reasonable because I could
theoretically look at that desk and go, okay, that's a cool desk. I want to create something
like that for myself. So if you find people or find content that inspires you like that,
that's one thing. But don't tell yourself that you would look and behave and have it so much easier or have
what they have if you were in their situation. Because one, whatever got them in their situation
probably required work or they got a handout that you ain't getting, period, end of story.
So one way or another, you're going to have to do the work. So you might as well stop complaining
and just start doing it. Number four is the notion that I'm just not a fitness person.
I've heard this a lot, especially in one-on-one personal training.
People come to me and go, oh, I need to lose weight.
But I'm just not really a fitness person.
I don't, I'm not really an exercise person.
I don't know if people understand this.
But a quote unquote fitness person is a meme.
Like what is a fit person? Like you see them in
TV shows and you see them in movies and you see them in cartoons. And the way that fit people
are portrayed is, you know, like tighter spandex, water bottle, hyperactive, probably wearing
active wear, very energized, usually preachy. right? And I have just found after almost a
decade doing this, there's a lot of quote unquote normal people who become quite fit without ever
having to be a quote unquote fitness person. There's a lot of like small clicks inside of
the fitness world, like powerlifting, bodybuilding, Peloton people, running people,
Zumba people, and that part of their identity really shines, but they're still people.
I just don't, I just, the notion that you're not a fitness person or fitness isn't for you, like
fitness looks a million different ways. It can absolutely be for you. Maybe you just haven't
found the part that works best into how you want the world to look at you or how you think the
world should see you or how you'd like to be viewed. Like you don't world to look at you or how you think the world should
see you or how you'd like to be viewed. Like you don't, you know, you don't have to be like
decked out in Lululemon with a fucking stainless steel water bottle and your AirPods and your hat
down low to be a fitness person. All you have to do is be working on your fitness through one of
the many ways. And you only go so far as like your identity is going to allow you to go. So if you say
like, Oh, I'm a fat, lazy and healthy person. Oh, or, Oh, I'm not a fitness person. And you only go so far as like your identity is going to allow you to go. So if you say like, oh, I'm a fat, lazy and healthy person, or I'm not a fitness person, like you're
not doing yourself a whole lot of favors and hopefully ingraining some element of fitness
into your identity, right? Speak kindly about yourself. You don't know what's coming down the
road. You might not love fitness. And quite frankly, you know what? I love coaching and
teaching fitness sometimes a lot more than I love working out. And I don't consider myself a gym rat. And I don't consider myself the greatest trainer in the world.
I consider myself Danny, a guy who likes to work out and stay healthy and helps guide other people
there. Like the whole, I'm not one of those fit people, or I'm just not a fitness person. Like
you got to scrap that because your fitness is important. And whether you are or are not
naturally inclined to, you know, lean into it, don't limit yourself with the language. This is the last and perhaps
most frustrating one, which is I don't have the time to work out. People oftentimes will
communicate that they don't have the time to work out. And I think it makes sense. And I think
there's an awful lot of nuance here because me at 27 with no children and no main responsibilities outside of managing my business which does take up a lot of time like
it's it's not necessarily a particularly empathetic stance to be like you do have the time to work out
you just don't want it bad enough because I think that delivery is fucking terrible and scares people
away but the truth is most people do have fucking time to work out and they just don't want
to because it's hard to overcome the resistance and friction of moving when you're tired and
stressed. And so like if I were to tell you you needed to work out just like me, that would be
an insensitive hogwash dipshit comment. But if I told you like, no, you need to work out, like
no matter how tired you are, no matter how busy you are, you need to make time for moving your
body and taking care of yourself and nurturing yourself with foods that are dense in nutrition that can look a million different ways and come from a million different places.
And you should probably avoid adding excessive amounts of body fat or allowing your blood pressure to raise to a certain level or allowing your blood sugars and A1C to go past certain thresholds.
There's nothing wrong with telling people like, hey, you know what, You should probably make some time to work out even if you're busy.
And we can frame that around your schedule. I think one of the biggest mistakes that ever
got made was people thinking you needed to train like five or six days a week to be in
killer shape. You can get in the best shape of your life training three days a week if you train
smart, especially if you're not doing anything or you have a history of not doing a whole hell of a lot. That being said, you probably need to give yourself time
to see results. It's not going to happen overnight. A little bit can go a long way.
That's why I created the Home Heroes workout program on the app for people who are training
from home who don't even really have the time to get to the gym. But I also created elite physique for the gym and really made sure that it was efficient. Like
your workouts can take under an hour. And if you don't have an hour, you can do 30 minutes. And if
you don't have 30 minutes, you can do 15 minutes. If you do 15 minutes, five times a week, boom,
right there without even kind of thinking about it, you just went way over an hour.
And that's better than nothing. But if you can only do three times a week, do three.
Something's always better than nothing, guys.
And I think that a lot of people get really tied up into these identities.
They say things like, oh, I just have a slow metabolism.
I can't get it done.
It's just my genetics.
So I can't get it done.
Or, oh, if I just had their life and their schedule, I'd be good to go.
Or, oh, I'm just, I'm not one of those people.
I'm, you know, I'm just not a fitness person.
Or, oh, you know, I just, I don't have the time for it. Like you can hear, as I say these
exasperatedly in an acting style fashion, like you've heard this stuff before and all, there is
some semblance of truth to every single one of these things that's ever been said by anyone ever.
But I think my main take home is what the hell are you going to do about it? What are you going to do
it? You know, when today now do what you can with what you have taken one day at a time. I think that these things
are fair to say, but unpack them and look to find solutions, not problems. All right, guys,
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