Employee Survival Guide® - How Managers Can Help Quiet Quitters
Episode Date: September 29, 2022In this episode of the Employee Survival Guide®, Mark discusses How Managers Can Help Quiet Quitters. He offers a few simple yet concise considerations to aid managers to help all employees, not ju...st quiet quitters. Managers should avoid toxic work environments, provide transparent communications, avoid the dictator mentality, and requiring employees to do less work than more. Mark closing comments to managers and executives is sharp. Either managers and executives listen to quiet quitters and their objection to the grind work culture of the old school elite, or their company may go under.Listen in and send Mark any comments you have. Free speech is welcomed here. mcarey@capclaw.com. Thank you.This episode was written and produced by Mark Carey and edited by Matt Zako.Listen to the Employee Survival Guide podcast latest episode here https://capclaw.com/employee-survival-guide-podcast/If you enjoyed this episode of the Employee Survival Guide please like us on Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn. We would really appreciate if you could leave a review of this podcast on your favorite podcast player such as Apple Podcasts.For more information, please contact Carey & Associates, P.C. at 475-242-8317, www.capclaw.com .The content of this website is provided for information purposes only and does not constitute legal advice nor create an attorney-client relationship. Carey & Associates, P.C. makes no warranty, express or implied, regarding the accuracy of the information contained on this website or to any website to which it is linked to.If you enjoyed this episode of the Employee Survival Guide please like us on Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn. We would really appreciate if you could leave a review of this podcast on your favorite podcast player such as Apple Podcasts. Leaving a review will inform other listeners you found the content on this podcast is important in the area of employment law in the United States. For more information, please contact our employment attorneys at Carey & Associates, P.C. at 203-255-4150, www.capclaw.com.
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Hey, it's Mark here, and welcome to the next edition of the Employee Survival Guide, where
I tell you, as always, what your employer does definitely not want you to know about,
and a lot more.
Today's episode, we're going to talk about how managers can help quiet quitters.
That's a good topic.
quiet quitters. That's a good topic. We are now awash in articles about quiet quitting,
and there are no solutions being offered to abate the problem. I wrote an article on September 13,
2022, entitled The Causes of Quiet Quitting and a Radical Solution. In the article, I place the blame, as I always do, on employers. Based on decades of poor management practices that are out of sync
with the vast majority of workers. In this article, I will offer a few simple yet concise
considerations to aid managers, because they're employees too, to help all employers, employees,
not just quiet quitters. The reasoning behind these solutions will be self-evident.
Managers are now experiencing an existential work conflict
from outside social media to within front lines of their subordinates. Managers wonder whether
quiet quitting is even real. They wonder how to fire the alleged slackers, how to manage and
motivate current employees, and how to manage the situation for the betterment of the company.
I write to all current managers and say, I have your back here, and I'll now provide solutions below.
As managers, you enforce the policies and procedures
handed down from the high castle, the C-suite.
Yet you are powerless to effect real change.
I say this because the executive management team
really controls the shots when it comes to culture
and work life within the organization.
Managers will need to work up the chain of command to gain authorization about implementing
change strategies to keep employees engaged, which is nearly impossible in many medium to
large corporations. Here's my first solution. Avoid toxic work environments. The most common
complaint I hear from employees is about managers who raise
their voices and even yell at employees during work meetings. No one likes to be yelled at,
period. In my opinion, yelling is merely the exhibition of a poorly performing manager who
reverts to the idiocy of screaming at employees to make them conform. Other forms of toxicity can range from
overworking employees beyond reason, failing to pay overtime due to illegal wage classifications.
We call this the exempt and non-exempt wage issue. Discrimination and retaliation. Boy,
those are large categories, but they tend to just ruin cultures. Employee favoritism and
fiefdoms. My favorite, because we know they exist,
and too many lengthy meetings that go nowhere. Managers who wish to be effective leaders must
listen more and demand less. The Drucker Institute and Korn Ferry produced a report
found that most effective managers are those who exhibited the following characteristics and competencies. Here's the first one. Tolerance of ambiguity. Second, trust. What a novel idea,
trust. Curiosity. Next one is risk-taking. Adaptability. Having a global perspective.
Having a global perspective.
Managing ambiguity.
Interpersonal savvy.
Collaboration.
And then finally, instilling trust.
Trust in employees.
I encourage you to read the article in the Wall Street Journal where this information was reported.
And you can follow the link on the article in the blog article we have.
And ask yourself, if you currently exhibit these traits and competencies as a leader, as a manager, it is obvious that the pandemic and after effect has
caused many managers in the top corporations to eagerly heed the issues, concerns, and desires
of employees. The theory exposes as follows. If you have some or all of the traits and competencies mentioned in
the Korn Ferry report, then your company will be highly successful and your employees will be
highly engaged. Sounds good, right? Well, it's harder than you think. People are people. They
can't stop themselves from behaving like people. Here's the next solution. Transparent communications.
Communicate with employees in a transparent
manner as if you were speaking to your own family member or spouse. Good family relationships
require open and honest communication. That makes sense, of course. You should assess your
communication style as a manager and see if you can listen more to what employees have to say
to help them. Rewards are always given to managers who listen, and penalties assessed to those who
do not. I recently found the following article from the Harvard Business Review fascinating.
It is entitled, The Transparency Trap. Again, there's a link in our blog article about this,
you can find it. The gist of the article is this, quote, here's the paradox. For all that
transparency does to drive out wasteful practices and promote collaboration and shared learning,
too much of it can trigger distortions of fact and counterproductive inhibitions.
Unrehearsed, experimental behaviors sometimes cease altogether.
Wide open workspaces and copious real-time data on how individuals spend their time can leave employees feeling exposed and vulnerable.
Being observed changes their conduct. They start going to great lengths to keep what they are doing
under wraps, even if they had nothing bad to hide. If executives pick up on signs of covert activity,
they instinctively start to monitor employees' behavior even more intensely. And that just aggravates the problem.
End quote. Here's the next solution. Avoid the dictator mentality. Many managers ascend to the
throne without any training about how to become a good and effective manager. Managers just somehow
learn the skills by trial and error and more error. Well, that's fine as if you're a
successful entrepreneur because I learned by mistakes. But many managers never learn how to
be effective leaders because the executive team never spends the time and the resources to develop
the relevant traits and competencies discussed in the Drucker Institute Corn Fairy Report.
So avoid the dictator mentality. And you know whom I'm referring to, and we all have had coworkers who fall into this lot.
No one likes a dictator because dictators do not spend the time and energy to listen.
They just bark orders, hide behind their insane narcissistic egos, and so on.
Dictators also brown nose up the executive management team and run cover to protect themselves,
all the while harming the
company by ruining work culture all around them. Here's the next solution. Think about doing less
than more. Yeah, I said it. Think about doing less than more. Managers may want to consider
re-evaluating how much work they are expecting employees to complete and providing less work.
On September 25 25, 2022,
the Wall Street Journal reported in a story entitled, Why Bosses Should Ask Employees to Do
Less, Not More. The article is quoted as saying, it isn't that addition is inherently bad,
but when leaders are undisciplined about piling on staff, gizmos, software, meetings, rules,
For so many companies, the opposite less, less, less is the key to success.
Subtraction clears our minds and gives us the time to focus on what really counts.
It sets the stage for creative work, giving us the space to fail, fret, discuss, argue about, and experiment with seemingly crazy ideas.
The ideas that can transform a company and make employees happier and more productive. The idea is that by eliminating things that are unnecessarily burdensome,
such as filling out expense reports, meetings that are too long,
and all that other stuff that saps too much time and emotional energy,
it leaves more time and will to do things that are time-consuming and frustrating,
the stuff that innovation emerges from.
End quote.
I thought the article was really good.
I think you should really take an examination of what that article is talking about, because
that may be the quintessential solution to quiet quitters, because we are expecting our
employees to just grind it out beyond 40 hours, sometimes not paying for those 40 hours and above for
overtime, and just expecting more, more, and more, and more, just like the internet just produces
more, more, more, and it's causing a problem. And I think what everyone has to realize,
it's just not, they're slackers, they're not lazy, they're not anything. They're just saying,
we don't like your work culture. And what's so amazing about this phenomenon, if you want to call it,
is that this is coming from a 30-something or younger population. And the 30-something and
younger populations are going to be followed by another population of younger employees,
and they're going to get wind of this. And they're going to say, well, I don't like that
grind mentality either. Live to work,
work to live, whatever you want to call it. So we're getting all this social response and
objections by the employees themselves popping up through the media. It's amazing. And
corporations are taking notice. And we all should take notice. Because maybe, just maybe,
all that time spent in the last three years of flexibility
of work life, doing and controlling your own schedule, maybe that just hit the nerve for most
folks. Whether they're returning back to the office or not, they're still going to remember
that and they're going to fight for that change. So maybe doing less is appropriate. Counterintuitive to many managers because they don't understand squat about how to run an organization because they've never been trained to do it.
And maybe less is better.
Maybe less is better for the company financially.
Maybe less is better for employees and allows them to make more money because they're going to come up with great ideas.
But we've got to try it. We just can't continue to expect employees to hit on a train,
come and show up at nine, leave at five, and sometimes later, and do it day in, day out,
and just, you know, rinse and repeat. Something is broken. Employees are saying, we got the fix.
This article I read about the Wall Street Journal regarding doing less, not more. And the solutions I gave you in this podcast, in our blog article, in our
previous article as well. It's a start. And we need to really move forward instead of going back
to the same old, same old that, you know, a lot of companies and management want us to go back to
because it's easier. It's much easier to police, to manage it, to discipline it, whatever, with a dictator type of behavior.
It doesn't work anymore.
And companies are starting to realize that.
Slow, but they're realizing it.
So if you're listening out there, managers and your executive C-suite people, the shit's got to stop.
Point blank.
I don't really care anymore.
And these employees don't either.
So you want to continue making mistakes?
I'll continue to watch.
I'll continue to litigate against you.
But things are changing.
And if you don't change with it, you might go under.
With that note, have a great week, and I'll talk to you soon.
Thanks for listening.
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