Financial Feminist - 98. Your Body on the Ballot: How to Get Involved this Election Cycle with Emily Tisch Sussman
Episode Date: July 4, 2023Oh, say, can you seeeeee that a lot of shit has been going down in the last few years (and days) here in the US of A that hasn’t made us feel too patriotic. Between systemic racism, gun violence, sl...ashed access to reproductive healthcare, and more, we’ve found ourselves asking the question, “How do we engage with a system that feels like it’s failing us?” We brought back one of our favorite guests, Emily Tisch Sussman, former political consultant, to share all of the ways we can get more involved in creating a government that truly works for us –– from non-partisan volunteering to making it easier for everyone to vote, to effectively wielding the power we have as citizens to get our representatives to listen to us on the issues we care about. Because, truly, our bodies are on the ballot. Register to vote: www.vote.org Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at: https://herfirst100k.com/start-here-financial-feminist-podcast Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Every single elected official works for you.
You may not think you have the ability to connect with them, talk to them.
They work for you.
They have to talk to you.
They have to be with you.
They cannot avoid you.
I was talking with some other moms out here and I was like,
we're going to go to the congressman's office and talk to him.
And they're like, why would he talk to us? And I was like, because he
works for us. That's why. You may not feel that what you're feeling is like enough to be talking
to them. It is. They have to listen to you. Hi, financial feminists. Welcome back to the show.
Hi, financial feminists. Welcome back to the show. I am always hesitant to say happy 4th of July. It's just like a weird holiday. That's why we're doing an episode about it.
If you like me and many of our other team members here at Her First 100K have mixed feelings about
4th of July, this episode is for you. If you are about to walk into a 4th of July barbecue or maybe
just left a 4th of July barbecue and had weird conversations about guns with your uncle or just, again, feel weird
about flying an American flag when you're like not super excited about what America is doing right
now, then we're going to hopefully give you some really actionable ways to transform that uncomfortability, that anger, that frustration
into political, social, economic change. And that's what we're doing here. We are releasing
this episode on 4th of July, which is a holiday that just feels stranger and stranger as the years
go by, especially since a place that we were once taught was the beacon of freedom and the best country in the world has done so much to also strip the freedoms from so many people. We are
just over a year out from the overturn of Roe v. Wade, and we are three years from the Black Lives
Matter resurgence protests after the murder of George Floyd. And we're also in this year where
gender-affirming care is at stake for already vulnerable populations. And it seems like
shootings, especially mass shootings, happen more than ever. So we invited Emily Tish Sussman,
a previous guest on the show, to come back and join us for today's episode.
Emily is a podcast host, women's empowerment and family policy advocate, leading democratic
political strategist, contributing editor to Marie Claire, and mother of three. Emily is the host of the award-winning podcast She Pivots, which features women,
their stories, and how their pivot became their success. After leaving her fast-paced job as the
vice president of campaigns at the largest Democratic think tank in D.C., the Center for
American Progress, she learned to redefine her own idea of success when she left her career she
thought she would have forever.
Emily is a seasoned host interviewing countless leaders and influential women,
including Vice President Kamala Harris, Speaker Nancy Pelosi, Secretary Hillary Rodham Clinton,
Stacey Abrams, and Sophia Bush, to name a few. We're so excited to have Emily back on the show.
And we also will link a bunch of episodes that we've done previously about voting,
about saving democracy, about getting politically involved, including Emily's previous episode down below. So please don't let this be the first and last time that you engage with these topics. All right, before we
dive into our interview with Emily, a couple stats about voting. I just think this is really
interesting. We talk in the interview about the importance of voting, and I know you've been told
your entire life,
vote, vote, vote, it's so important. And you may be feeling very disillusioned with voting. You
may be thinking, well, what's it matter? But the truth is, as Emily says in this episode,
the people we are voting for work for us. They work for the people. And so one of the biggest
ways that we can impact change is not only by voting ourselves, by making sure that our ballot
actually gets counted, but by making sure that our communities and our friends and family vote as
well. So first, the national election rate, which is actual voters per 100 eligible voters in 2022
was 52.2%. This was the second highest rate that the Census Bureau has recorded for a midterm in four decades, which means that more and more people are voting, which is incredible.
The highest was in 2018, right?
So four years before at 53.4 percent.
And the 2020 presidential election, meanwhile, recorded an extremely high rate of 66.3 percent.
So what does this tell us?
It tells us that people are activated
and are voting on both sides, right? A couple other interesting facts about voting. Among broad
age groups, 18 to 29 year olds, I'm in that, I'm 28, about to be 29, we showed a noticeable decline
in turnout since 2018. So if you are 18 to 29, I need you voting. I'll be right there with you.
Like, this is one of the most powerful things, of course, that we can not only do is vote,
but specifically for our generation, right? Millennials, younger millennials, Gen Z,
we are voting for the kind of world and the kind of country we would like to see as we continue to
age. And on the flip side of that, the oldest group, which was over the age of country we would like to see as we continue to age. And on the flip side of that,
the oldest group, which was over the age of 65, they voted more, which means that with these older folks who are typically more conservative, they are having a bigger sway on these policies.
So if you would like to counteract that, you need to make sure to vote.
What do I take from this? One, voting is important, obviously. Two, voting in not just
national elections, midterm elections, your local elections, incredibly important. Yes,
who we determine to be the president of the United States, very important. I would argue
the things that have a much bigger impact on your day-to-day life are the things at your state and
local level, right, as well as the midterm elections. And if you have
a particular issue that you care about, we're covering the big three that I think are a lot
of people's minds, which is abortion access and gender identity, gender freedom. The second is
gun rights and really gun violence. And the third is the environment and the climate crisis.
And the third is the environment and the climate crisis. If you care about one of those things or all of those things, voting, protesting, donating, canvassing, getting involved in some way, even if it's small, is going to be the way we shift the entire society as a whole. And lastly, again, if you're like me and you live in a place that is
blue and is always blue, yes, vote, continue to vote, support those policies, and also spend some
of your energy in places that are really contentious. So we're so excited to have Emily
joining us for an even deeper conversation. Let's go ahead and get into it. But first, a word from our sponsors.
I'm like, you get me started on anything. I'm like, abortion is a financial issue. Let's talk
about why. But hi, I'm so excited to see you back. You're still rocking the purple hair.
I feel like you've gone summer purple now. Is that accurate?
I'm so happy you recognize that. Yes, lavender is my summer purple,
and deep purple is my winter purple. So thank you so much for recognizing it.
We had a conversation, I think, last time you came on the show of like the different purples and like what that looked like.
I think you had mentioned you like took your family to the beach and one of your children was like, why is your hair not summer purple?
Yeah, all three children.
It was like a big topic of discussion of like, why is mommy's hair the wrong purple for this weather?
I really appreciate that they're on top of it, though.
Like that's that's the dream. You know, they keep me on my toes.
They keep me young. I can't remember what movie that's from. I don't even know either.
Thank you for coming back. We are talking today around really Fourth of July and how we can become more involved in the electoral process. Literally in my company
Slack today, one of our team members posted, does anybody else absolutely hate 4th of July?
And all of us were just like, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. And I think for folks that maybe don't feel
the most excited about America all the time, it's like a kind of interesting holiday where
you're like, you know know i am very thankful for the
freedoms i do have and also this some bullshit so i just want to start what are your opinions
about fourth of july what are your opinions about these like national holidays and as a fellow
progressive how have you been able to balance the feelings of wow we got a long way to go with also
i'm thankful for what i do have well i have to tell
you i love the parade and fanfare oh so it's like my day starts in a real high with like the big
parade fanfare situation last year i chased the boy scouts down the parade to get their phone
number because i was so into it and by the way i've texted them all year and they cannot tell
me when they're meeting so maybe it's personal maybe. Maybe they can see it, sense it in me that I'm a progressive to my core.
And like, you know, not everyone's a light on July 4th.
Might be the purple hair.
Just, you know, maybe that.
I know.
Sometimes I think that like, let's go Brandon firefighters that are next to me.
I'm like, but what if they knew?
And then finally someone said to me like, Emily, you have purple hair.
They know.
They just think you're one of the ones who's nice to them.
Look, it's obviously complicated, but I do like to think about the day as a day
that I spend with my family, like whether it's my kids or my immediate family, my chosen family,
but it is a day that we get and it's beautiful weather. And we do get to just kind of like
use it as a freebie, like almost like a summer snow day to reset our
feelings and be out of the hubbub. And that I do really appreciate. Like I love when it falls. I
love that we have it. Like it always feels kind of special to me. I also like turning kind of any
outfit into a costume. So if we have good outfit parameters, then we can really go nuts.
This is the theater background in you. I understand
it very well. Yes. Yes. Really anything can be a costume if you try hard enough. Agreed.
So great, great outfits on that one. I don't love how they hand out little, little portable
or disposable American flags because I do actually really feel wrong throwing them away.
But also, I really hate clutter. So at one point, we just had like a giant box of American flags,
like the little ones they give out at the parade. I didn't love that.
It, I think, is against like the official rule of the flag is that you have to dispose of it
in a certain way. Have you ever like read, I don't know why in elementary school they made
us read that. It was like the rules of conduct around the American flag.
I don't know what the rules are, but I know that exists because my husband was in the army.
So that's like a thing. But actually, so then I made him take responsibility for all of the flags
that I was like, I want no responsibility for them. You either hide them or you keep them,
but like they're not coming home with us. And if they are, this is what I said last year, I was like, if they are, you got to figure out the way
to dispose of them. Totally. So for me on 4th of July and any sort of like national holiday,
I'm always like, okay, what one thing can I be doing to like better my, like to fulfill my civic
duty of supporting a cause I believe in? And I think one of the easiest things we can do is understanding our elections, becoming registered to vote, thinking more about getting
involved, especially at the local level. We've talked about that a lot on the show. So what is
the upcoming timeline for elections? What primaries are coming up? What does that look like?
There's a couple primaries in state this summer and in the fall. The biggest
ones that are going to be this year are going to be like mayoral and city and town. Like those are
going to be the ones that are the big ones that are coming up this year. It's really kind of all
about setting for next year in the big Senate and congressional. There's been states that have been
redistricted. There's obviously the presidential, but there's going to be opportunity for the House
to flip and potentially the Senate to be held by Democrats.
And there is a very realistic possibility that Democrats can flip the House back to Democrat control if Biden is reelected.
The margin is really small that Republicans won.
And actually, that margin is districts that Biden won.
And there's actually enough in New York to flip control of the House.
Like, I don't think that people necessarily think about that, but that there's enough
districts that are represented by a Republican member of Congress right now that Biden won
pretty handily in a lot of them in New York to flip the House of Representatives back.
And then if Democrats control the House,
Senate and presidency, then we can start to see all these incredibly important policies
that kind of got dropped out of the Build Back Better bill, like pieces like national paid leave,
the Pregnancy Fairness Workers Discrimination Act did go into effect just now. But there's so much
more that we can be doing. We will actually see a right to reproductive autonomy
in law. It's never going to come from the courts again. And Democrats controlling the House,
Senate and presidency, no matter how you feel about any other issue, like if you ever want to
control your body in any reproductive way again, having Democrats in the House, Senate and
presidency is the only way it's going to happen.
Yeah. I mean, let's talk about that. I think the issue that is top of my mind and top of
most my friends with a uterus's mind is reproductive rights, the right to terminate
a pregnancy. I was literally at a Planned Parenthood luncheon like two weeks ago,
just talking about all of this, you know, stress, but also all of the work that's happening. So can
you give us, I mean, we're recording this at the end of June in 2023. Can you give us like a status
update of like what's going on? What victories have we had? And also what have we lost?
So status update is that we're a year out from the Dobbs decision, which is when the Supreme Court
overturned Roe v. Wade and the right to reproductive autonomy for women, the underlying
right to privacy. So we're a year out from that decision. What we saw is that the lawmaking went
back to the states. So it went totally state by state with whether or not you are not just allowed to have abortion,
but how and when, including medical abortions like pills, what doctors can advise you if
you are in any sort of pregnancy or miscarriage or carrying something that is no longer viable,
the things that doctors can advise you have changed.
And it has totally gone state by state. And look, I think we were all thinking the sky would fall if Roe was overturned.
And I actually think it's maybe a little worse than we thought it was going to be,
because states didn't pause. They went immediately, not just a six-week ban,
they went to full-out bans with no exception for rape, no exception for incest.
Even in the gray areas, abortion practitioners and clinics
are nervous to be practicing because they don't know when they're going to have their license
revoked, when they're going to be sued, when they're going to end up in jail. Of course,
these extreme circumstances need to have laws that protect women, but also women just need to
be able to make their own decision about how and when they have a baby.
So we don't need to be going to all of these extremes about why you need to have bodily autonomy and reproductive autonomy.
And it is gone.
And even for those that live in blue states and think they are protected, the anti-women's body caucus is not stopping.
This was not like, oh, we got enough, we overturn Roe.
They're moving forward on trying to limit the use of pills being sent across states. They're going
to start prosecuting doctors in other states if someone travels to a state to get an abortion.
It is really very live. I'd say the good news is that Americans as a whole do actually support, like it always kind
of hovers in the mid-70s, of like Americans as a whole do actually support reproductive autonomy.
And whenever the laws swing in one direction or the other, like being more permissible or
more strict, the public tends to go in the other direction. And the laws have swung
so far in becoming strict and abortions being inaccessible. Public opinion is going more and
more towards, oh, shit, we actually need to be able to get abortions. And we just lost that right.
So I do think there's going to be a little bit of a maybe like a correction where lawmakers start
to hear like, wow, we actually went too far.
Unfortunately, women are going to die. Babies are going to be born that they cannot support.
And there's going to be a lot of unintended consequences in the meantime. But I would say
that's the one piece is the silver lining is that the louder people get to say this is unacceptable,
the more lawmakers will step back and say, OK,
I went a little bit too far and try to start to change the laws. OK, a couple of things to follow
up on what you just said. One, I feel like even in the midterms, we saw that like Republicans,
I think we're expecting, you know, this red wave. And what happened was actually people came out in
droves to support and to protect abortion. Do you feel like that is that strong enough to carry
the left through 2024? Because I've been listening to like a lot of the podcasts and a lot of the
shows about like, is that a strong enough issue to continue moving people to vote and especially
to vote progressive? Like women are real pissed. Yeah. Like, we never realistically thought
we would lose this right.
Like, and there's a lot of us that grew up with it.
Like, it's not just like super young people.
Like, there's a lot of us that never actually thought
we'd lose this right.
So I do think the more that Democrats can hammer at home,
I think they should be running on,
we will actually respect you and protect you
and get the government out of your business. I think as it pertains to abortion, as it pertains
to gender reform and care, like I do think that the more Democrats can do that, then you stand
for something. And then I think you also run on your track record, which is like the infrastructure
stuff, the paid leave stuff, the kind of nitty gritty that has actually come to fruition under the
Biden administration.
Doesn't get a lot of catchy headlines, but it's actually the nitty gritty of like the
government can function.
So I think running on those two tracks are the strongest way to actually get people to
engage, to turn out.
But the other piece, which I know you see among your listeners, is guns.
People are saying this is an unacceptable way to live. That was my next question. Yep. Yeah. And
climate is the other piece. But on guns, it's actually super interesting. That was my third
question. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Okay. We can get to each of them. But on guns, I think for a lot of
young moms, and I put myself in that category of moms with young kids, even if you're not motivated yourself by reproductive
freedom, which is unmanageable to me. But what we are seeing is there is more engagement among
moms of young kids on guns than there is on reproductive freedom. And I had trouble making
sense of that. But I mean, it's like you
would give up everything for your kid. You know, like you want to protect your kid even more than
you want to protect yourself. So I feel like sometimes these political strategy conversations
end up coming down to like, oh, it's guns, it's abortion, like women will turn out. And they just
kind of like say the same things over and over. But I think those are the reasons that those things matter, that you will engage people,
because you have to engage people on two levels when you think about turning.
I'm sorry, I'm going back to like being a political strategist, not being a voter.
But you have to engage voters on two levels.
Like one, you have to make their decision.
You have to get them on your side of the candidate, of the ballot initiative, of whatever the
thing is they're voting on.
And then you have to have them feel committed enough to actually go through with voting.
Like, it's not easy to vote in America.
It should be a lot easier.
So if you could think through all the steps to make sure that you can actually make sure
your voter registration is up to date. Make sure that whoever typed it in
didn't put a typo in. Make sure that they didn't purge you from the voter rolls because someone
else in your state with the same name died. And so now they think you're a dead person.
Like all of those things happen all the time, by the way. And that's why when campaigns talk to
you, they start with, are you registered to vote? And did you check? Because even if you think you're
registered campaign, like the state voter board of elections will purge you all the
time or like it happened to that not that but it happened to me i realized last election my ballot
went to my previous address and it never got to me and i sat there waiting and waiting and waiting
and i was registered to vote but realized my like address was wrong and so I
I didn't get a chance to vote and it was like it it was so frustrating and it was also on me
I should have like looked into it further but I feel like that's the thing that happens is it's
like even the well intention of like yeah I'm gonna register to vote I'm gonna sign up to vote
yeah you mistype your name like it's going to a wrong address. Like I moved a lot in the past,
like year and a half. And so it went to a dress I was at previous. And so I never got it. Yeah,
that's, I think the easiest thing that somebody can do listening is just like, not only register
to vote, but make sure it's like, correct, make sure it's going to get to you on time and make
sure you fill it out and turn it in on time too. Yeah, totally. And there's really good programs
that help you stay on top of like vote.org is why I always go to as a resource. They're so good about knowing where you are, knowing what elections are coming up in your district to say like, hey, the early vote is coming up. Have you thought about early voting? Like, have you checked your address? I am a voter is another good one. But I always use vote.org because they're really good about about the reminders yeah i mean i think that young people now move i think an average of seven times by the time they're 29 so like what is the
chance that the last address you were registered at is the current address by the time the election
rolls back around right like it's the fastest thing you can do is just check so the other thing
that i'm thinking about with these issues and you were mentioning like, like, of course, as a political strategist, right?
Like, how do we get people to vote on these specific issues?
It feels very, like, immediate.
I think that that's the other thing is for both sides, right?
Republicans are largely using, I think, gender identity and transgender issues to get people
to the polls in a way that strips folks from of you know their their rights
for their own gender and their own identity i think on the flip side there's something really
powerful about the urgency of like we can see our rights getting taken away right we can see abortion
getting removed right we can see this this threat for transgender people we literally see you know shootings
especially in schools every single day is that part of it is that like the urgency and how do we
feel like how do we use that sense of urgency to actually make lasting change
beyond just like one election cycle well i think it's consistency. Like the process is slow on purpose.
Like there's a lot that an executive can do.
So a president, a governor, a mayor, a county executive, because they can just kind of sign it.
But big things have to be moved by Congress, moved by your state legislature.
Like it's slow on purpose so that it's deliberate.
So it is the consistency.
slow on purpose so that it's deliberate. So it is the consistency that is on us,
like to stay consistent and to stay with it and to keep reminding them that we are there.
And we were chatting right before we started recording about the power of the NRA. I worked on guns for like seven years and I ran the only campaign that defeated the NRA at a federal level
for like the last two decades. And basically the biggest thing is that it's not
that there's so many people that want no gun laws. It's that they're really loud and they're
really consistent. They're just really consistent. So like what a lot of the senator in those offices
would say to me at the time is they would say, look, we're never going to expect to get more
calls into our office on your side.
We just need to not like get killed on the numbers.
Like, can you just get it a little more even just so I feel like I'm not making the total wrong decision for my state?
So we just need to keep showing up.
And that's not the easiest message to hear.
We're like, oh, my God, my life happens.
I'm exhausted.
How am I going to keep at this intensity level for a prolonged period of time?
And the answer is you can't. And so you like dip in and you dip out when you can and you do what's
right for you and what makes sense. You know, this used to be my whole life. This used to be
my whole job. And then I had three kids in three years and my political career took a total nosedive.
And now I'm on the local school board. I'm involved in super local elections. I worked on our
local ballot initiative for affordable housing. And I'm starting a mom's demand action chapter.
You know, like it changes, like what it looks like changes all the time. But just knowing that
the things that you care about, like, I think you need to have confidence in the system. And it's hard for all of us to have confidence
in the system right now.
And I think that's what keeps people out of it
is they say, well, why should I keep engaging
when I'm not seeing results?
And kind of the answer is that one,
the system's not great,
but also we need to be really consistent and really loud.
And that's not comfortable for everybody.
And so you have to find your different role. Like one of the biggest pieces of advice I can give to people if they're
not comfortable engaging in an election or something they feel is controversial is offer
to be childcare for somebody who can. Like what's kept me from knocking on doors a million times,
the fact that it looks like I'm tugging a circus behind me. I hit two
doors and I'm like, well, this was fine. We're getting the fuck home. Go to a campaign office
and say like, hey, I'm willing to just be a little daycare center here so anybody who wants to
volunteer, I can watch their kids while they're going out. Everybody can find a role they are
comfortable with, but having elected officials know that these are things that we care about
is the thing that is going to make change. They know in elections, but they also have to know
off cycle. I think about like the resurgence of BLM in 2020. Right. And there were plenty of people,
actually myself included, who I was not the most comfortable going out and protesting.
Like that was just I was just and that's my own privilege. And I know that, but it was something that was really scary for me. I had other friends who would do that.
I was literally staying at home. I was right by my phone in case they needed anything. They had my
number on their arm, right? I was donating. I was, you know, sending food. There's ways that
you can support movements if you don't want to be the person who's directly, directly in it.
Or like you said, it feels weird or it feels controversial for you. So I love that idea of
either supporting the people who are going out there or finding a different way to show up.
I think that's great. I think that's a really good example. Look, similarly, I had a three-week-old
baby when the protests were happening. The fear of COVID was very real. And that
would it just didn't and I spent my whole life protesting. I love a protest. But like it just
did not feel like it was in the cards for me at that moment. And I love those examples you gave,
like having your your number written on their arm if they need anything. And maybe it's just
being the emotional support to someone to say like, oh, you just went out and did this thing.
Do you want to talk about it? right and you got tear gassed and
like that's what happened is plenty of my friends had that happen and we had long conversations
about it yep totally i mean you were an incredible support to them and that was big it can also be
something more minor like a friend so i you know i mentioned last election cycle i worked on the
affordable housing initiative out here to try to increase our access to affordable housing.
And so a friend of mine and I took the morning. She'd never canvassed. We took the morning and we walked up and down Main Street and we asked, you know, does anybody have a business?
Can we talk to your employees about the fact that this thing is happening and there's an opportunity for them to commute less and actually get housing in this neighborhood?
And so one place in particular
said, this is really interesting. Can I bring everyone out from the kitchen to talk to you?
Cool. And we're like, yeah, we'd love to. That's why we're here. Yeah. And so we stayed there for
a little while and talked with them. But then afterwards, we still then had like when we even
when we were walking around, we still like we have little kids. We needed another friend to go pick up our kids from school.
Yeah.
And that person was not as comfortable coming and doing the front-facing talking.
But had they not done that, we would have not been able to go out and have those conversations with those voters.
So, like, there's something that everybody can do.
And, you know, voting itself, voter registration is nonpartisan.
It's not controversial.
And I cannot stress this enough. People do need to check their registration all the time.
again we're trying to make as quick hit of this as possible like if you are sitting here and you're listening and you're like i want to get involved i think obviously first thing is to
register to vote and make sure your registration is correct what other volunteer canvassing
donation opportunities are there were the issues you care about i would say find the issue and then
figure out who's working on it locally. I've mentioned like I
am working on Moms Demand Action because we don't have a chapter here. And I live in a Republican
congressional district where our Republican member of Congress just reiterated his right
that everybody should be able to have access to massive guns. So we need to do better organizing
here. And quite frankly, I see this as an opening to be able to engage a lot of
people that aren't politically engaged. Like I was like, here I am. Like I am a federal, I am a
national political strategist. I'm amazing at this. I'm going to work on this local housing
initiative. And I did not get a lot of people involved. Like I really failed with a lot of
people. And I think that starting in a different place, like starting around safety for our kids,
I actually think is going to be a new place, a new entry point to get people involved.
Again, I would look at vote.org.
Just make sure it gets on your calendar so you know when things are happening.
There's a lot of great organizations that are doing stuff around choice.
I'd say Swing Left really has very good resources for people to find a variety of ways that
they can find the thing that feels good to them.
And even just find out when your local elections are.
Like, so much can happen at the local level.
I mean, these school boards are being overrun by Moms of Liberty, and they're, like, making
crazy policies.
And, like, how many people show up in every
election? 200, 400. It's really not a lot of people. And I'd say the lowest hanging fruit
thing that you can do is just say what you care about. The more you normalize caring about things,
caring about things. Other people will be open about what they care about as well. And it will get to that sense of community like human beings. We're always trying to get to people want to be
in community. And so if you're normalizing asking people, have you registered to vote yet? Or what
does your company do for Election Day? Or do you have, you know, again,
like I have people with young kids.
I know a lot of people that have like personal staff as in a nanny or a babysitter.
Did you ask them if they are registered?
Do you give them time off on election day
to be able to go vote?
Like those, that just normalizing that conversation
is probably the strongest thing that you can do.
Like, I don't know if there's anywhere that you can donate that can run an ad that is better than somebody seeing someone stand up in their community, not even in a loud way, just saying, like, I make sure that everyone around me has information and access to vote.
you know, the issue or picking the thing that really matters to you. I think it's also,
it's so easy to get overwhelmed to the point where you're like, I either need to run for office or I do nothing. Right now, running for office is great, especially we've had many conversations
on this show, Amanda Lipman from Run for Something, you on our previous episode about like
the importance and the power of running for office, especially local office. If that's in
the cards for you, great. I think most people are like, I can't do that. Okay, then find one thing
you can do. For me, it was phone banking. I literally sat on my bike desk and just I'm
pedaling and I'm just making phone calls. And I'm just like, hey, are you registered to vote? Who
are you voting for? Like, there are so many places to get involved. Maybe you can't donate your time.
Maybe you can donate some money. Maybe, like you said, you can care give for other folks who are doing that. And there is no like too small
action. Like just do something like make some sort of change or do some sort of thing, especially
today when we're thinking about America and patriotism, like what is just the tiniest thing
you can do to get started
rather than feeling like, oh, it's either I become president or I don't involve myself at all?
Or nothing at all. I'll give you the lowest possible hanging fruit thing that I did when
I was on maternity leave. So you can not just phone bank, you can text bank. So you can text,
first of all, talk about low hanging fruit. But then also when the baby when I was like up all night with the baby, they I was I became a super volunteer. Thank you so much. Very proud of that.
Because I'm like doing so because I was home with the baby. So it's like texting all day.
And then I was up in the middle of the night when no one else was up. So they gave me the
manager password to go in and clear out all the hate texts. all the spam. And you're like, you need that. That's helpful.
You know what? I was like the overnight in there. Make good use of that newborn maternity leave.
Yeah. Yeah. I love that. Okay. As we're wrapping up, what organizations can we connect with both
directly and indirectly that are related to elections, that are related to causes we care about? You mentioned Moms Demand Action. What other
organizations? Oh, Vote.org. Anything else? Swing Left is doing great stuff. Planned Parenthood
has built a really good political machine. And I don't have a particularly favorite one on climate.
I think the League of Conservation Voters always puts up a good show.
There's a couple like environmental justice organizations, too. We can drop them all in
the show notes, too, for folks. One last thing. If someone is ending this episode,
leaving feeling inspired, what is like one soapbox thing you have to say to them
as they go eat a hot dog on Fourth of July? Every single elected official works for you. You may not think you have the
ability to connect with them, talk to them. They work for you. They have to talk to you. They have
to be with you. They cannot avoid you. They will feel it on election day, potentially. But I was talking with
some other moms out here and I was like, well, we're going to we're going to go to the congressman's
office and talk to him. And they're like, why would he talk to us? And I was like, he works for us.
That's why. So remember that you may not feel that what you're feeling is like enough
to be talking to them. It is. They have to listen to you. I still remember the first time I called
my representative's office and I actually spoke to a live person and I was like,
okay, they're actually listening in theory, but they're actually listening. It was very,
very exciting for me. And it's not scary because it's an intern who answers the phone.
Yeah. Their only job, like I'm telling you how this works, their only job is to mark off a
tally every day on what issues people call on and if they're for or against it. They're very pleasant.
They do nothing else. They just answer the phone nicely and they mark it. Like it's not scary to
call offices. I love it. Thank you for being here. Where can people find you and your work?
I host a podcast called She Pivots the Podcast, where we talk with women who have
changed their careers for deeply personal, not professional reasons. And I started it because
I pivoted out of politics, as you can see from this conversation. So we're on Instagram. You
can find us anywhere there's podcasts. Amazing. Thanks for coming back. Thank you.
Thank you, Emily, for joining us. Thank you. But I'm going to take one, at least one tiny little piece of action today that'll make
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