Giggly Squad - Giggling about how Paige has a BF, Lala dumped her man, and the Kravis Kontrovercy

Episode Date: October 20, 2021

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What's up my gigalow jiggleows? Wow. That was an... Pige from Not Hungover to you can hear light. How hungover are you? Um, I can hear light. Like, I'm in a dark room right now. Like, I can't. You look like you're kidnapped and trying to send me a message, but you're too tired.
Starting point is 00:00:42 Yeah, like literally my kidnappers, is like somewhere in the dark back there. And I'm like, I'm doing it. Stop. You know how like we're competitive? Yeah. And like things that like we shouldn't be competitive about. Yeah, like the game BS, if I lost that game, I would leave. I'd go home.
Starting point is 00:01:01 I'd be like mom, pick me up. Yeah, like I don't know why I think I can drink the amount of alcohol that like, boys can drink. And look, I think girls are very equal to boys. And I'm all about being a feminist. But there are some times where they're just better. They're better at things and consuming alcohol is one of them. I'm gonna be honest.
Starting point is 00:01:21 Taking out the trash. Men are better. I tried to be a feminist, I couldn't do it. If something's heavy or I can't open a drawer, I need men. Men are superior in things like that. In like 2% of things, they are superior, we'll give them that. Also, when you were growing up, did your dad ever make the joke? Like, I'm not afraid you're gonna get kidnapped
Starting point is 00:01:43 because the kidnapper would pay me to take you back No My dad would like cry say if something happened to you I would die I couldn't go to Mexican spring break because my dad said if something happened to you I would kill myself and I was like oh my god So harsh the guilt trip you just laid out I feel like both of our dads are traumatizing just different ways. Never been to Mexico.
Starting point is 00:02:09 You're traumatized by a came book of flight to Tulum. I'm like, what if something happened? My dad would kill me. He's like, you're too adorable to go to Mexico. And my dad's like, sure, go. I'll make some money off of you. Talkative bitch. Literally.
Starting point is 00:02:20 My dad's like, someone will see you and immediately want you. I'm like, really? Oh my god. Oh my god. My dad's like, someone will see you and immediately want you. I'm like, really? Oh my god. Oh my god. My dad's like, please someone kidnap her. Oh, before we get started, I feel like we owe the giglers a little life update. Okay, I didn't want the giglers to think I was like,
Starting point is 00:02:39 withholding information and like, people were finding out and I wasn't actively telling the giglers that I had a boyfriend. But one one it's like a very new relationship and like I'm not a psycho crazy girlfriend like I'm not like posting my boyfriend immediately like and come on you guys know I love an Instagram aesthetic so like I just want to like put his hand on an Instagram story and like no one know who it was and it was like fun and girl. Everyone knew who it was. Yeah everyone was like I love how your breadcrumbing yourself.
Starting point is 00:03:12 Yeah it gave me excitement. I got so many DMs from girls being like cool we got it you date Craig. Like cool you have a boyfriend. You had a plan in your head and it didn't work out as mysteriously as you wanted it, but it's okay, because I'm totally into it. And I kind of, there's almost a nice, enjoy these moments when you're not on blast, like where people are posting your photo everywhere, and then everyone's placing bets on how long can last,
Starting point is 00:03:39 and then talking shit about how old he is. Oh, wait, that's mine. But anyway, no, so many people were like, it's a PR stand. And like, she just has no storyline. And she doesn't really know how to do reality TV. So like, she needed to like date crag. And I was like, in my head, I was like, I love that people are thinking that
Starting point is 00:03:57 because nobody's like checking my social media to see if I'm posting him. But I do have a real life boyfriend who like does actually like me and not because we're on a television show together. Bones. I'm so happy for you. Yeah, I'm so happy for you.
Starting point is 00:04:12 I can't wait to do podcast episodes about things that come up in relationship. Right? Like this is. We're two taken gigglers. And now because we're taking, it sounds like our advice is more legit. Like we know what we're talking about even though we don't. But can I point something out? Yes.
Starting point is 00:04:33 I've been single for a full year and I've, I have literally met the king of all king of fuck boys. Like, I have dated some of the worst people in America. Same. Why is it? Immediately when you got a boyfriend, the men can sniff it out and everyone is messaging you and texting you and DMing you. It's the craziest thing.
Starting point is 00:04:56 I'm like, hello. It's like blood in the water. You've been bit. Yeah, like they could smell it. Men can smell it when you're happy. Or they can just tell when you really don't care anymore and that's like hot to them. To the toxic ones, guys who really love you want you to care. Yeah, every ex I've ever had has texted me within these past two weeks and I'm like, get out of here. I love that for you though.
Starting point is 00:05:23 It sounds really empowering. I was like, I have a boyfriend stop. What do you do when they message you? Do you leave them on red? Do you do you politely say like, thanks but no thanks? Like, what's your move? Some of them I just left on red. I was like, absolutely out of my face. And then other ones, I was like, so giddy and excited to be like, I have a boyfriend now. How are you? And they're like, I'm so happy for you. But yeah, these conversations are very important because like if you really respect your relationship This is not your time to set boundaries like I know you used to text me every three weeks when you were lonely But like none of that anymore, you know, yeah, I love town. I love texting people being and being like I have a boyfriend I cleansed your roster.
Starting point is 00:06:05 You found your star player. Guys, I know. Oh my god, I love not having a roster. So much less stressful. But let me tell you something. Having a boyfriend is also stressful. Oh my god, they're exhausting. You have to take them on walks.
Starting point is 00:06:19 Make sure they have enough to eat. Yeah, you have to respond when they talk. All the time. Every time they talk, you have to respond. It's like a lot. The amount of times that Craig's like, you have to like respond when they talk all the time. Every time they talk, you have to respond. It's like a lot. The amount of times that Craig's like, you're not listening. And I'm like, that's cracked. I literally have a whole standup joke about when I talk to you. How you're scrolling your phone. Yeah. Because you're not even listening to my story. And I'm like, right. And I mean, you're going to get to the point where you will tell a story and
Starting point is 00:06:46 he'll be like you've told that three times and I'm like yeah we ran out it ends. Because everything else we experienced together so I've no new shit, no new material. Wait that's the other thing like and does calls me out I'm like just love! I forgot how much I fucking love gossiping with a boyfriend, but like, Kreg and I are always together. So like, when we find things out, or like, we have gossip, like, we just talk about it with each other.
Starting point is 00:07:14 So when something happens, now we can't wait to tell this person, or like, wait, I heard gossip. Like, I love when I have gossip to tell Kreg. I love when you could find a guy who gossips with you because that means they're your best friend. I know there's a stereotype like, oh guys don't care about like your girlfriend. No, no, no, no.
Starting point is 00:07:32 I want my guy to call me up and be like, how's it going with Amber? Is she still fighting with Kenzie? It's Kenzie, Madet Sarah. I need the goods. Like, it's like, our life is a sitcom and they need to know what's happening. Because if they don't care, then what are we talking about?
Starting point is 00:07:45 Right. Like Craig like sits down and I'm like, I have some shit to tell you. He said, wow, can we, but this reminds me. I wanted to tell you about something I watch on TikTok, which means it's informative and legit. Right. There was a study on why relationships last. And this guy, scientist, I don't know how many people were in the study, but when
Starting point is 00:08:06 couples did this, 90% of couples stayed together long term, and if they didn't, only 30% of couples stayed together. Oh my God, I can't wait. What is that? Okay, and it's actually quite simple. It's literally when someone said, look at that bird. It's really pretty. The couples where the other person acknowledged it and said something, lasted 90%, and the ones who literally just like didn't acknowledge it, didn't last, and I honestly believe that so hard.
Starting point is 00:08:38 I, 1000% believe that. Like, it's the simple act of like caring about what your person is saying Even if you know in the tiniest tiny yet even just making the effort to just make them feel heard with the littlest things Because obviously when you're like hey, we have to have a talk they'll respond to you But it's about two people just vibing and I don't care how hot he is how good the sex is how much your mom likes him And I don't care how hot he is, how good the sex is, how much your mom likes him. Like, if he doesn't think your little stuff is worth listening to, you're gonna feel empty.
Starting point is 00:09:12 Also, I think that is like a really big thing. And also, like, just complimenting each other. Like, like, I love telling Craig that I think he is the hottest guy I've ever seen in my life. And like is the hottest guy I've ever seen in my life And like the hottest guy I've ever dated and like I feel like when you say that to men Like they need compliments just as much as we do like the more I compliment Craig the more he also complements me and like We were also in narcissus Well, you're teaching each other your love language. Like, he'll see that it feels good
Starting point is 00:09:46 and then he'll want you to feel good. Wait, we do have kind of similar dynamics. We're like, we both don't mind the limelight, but we also are proud of each other. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, like I get jacked up when Craig, like, okay, perfect example is Craig is an embellisher, okay? He will tell stories, he will tell stories to like a group of people
Starting point is 00:10:08 that I was present for the story, okay? And he will say things that are a complete lie and like embellishment like to make the story better. And I'll just look at him like across the room like, you know that didn't happen. But like, I'm not calling him out, but like, then I punched a shark in the face. And I'm like, that's it.
Starting point is 00:10:29 He's like, I saw a whole freaking sweater set. But like, I just love listening to him tell stories and I like people, like I like when people laugh at like the stories he tells. So like, I'm not going to call my man out and be like, that didn't happen. Sometimes I do, but like, if it's funny. The other day Craig was here and we, he's been like flying a lot. And so he, like, he just like his body hurt
Starting point is 00:10:55 and he was like, let's get massages. So he like went on an app, we got massage, like couples massage in my apartment. So it was so sweet and like so cute. And like they come with like a portable massage table like and we do it we were doing it at the same time. So the girl that was doing him like just kept talking like chatty chatty Kathy and I could tell that Craig wanted to be like hey shut the fuck up.
Starting point is 00:11:23 But like no one said anything. But I can feel, even though I can't see him, I can feel what he's thinking. Greg had a huge bruise on the back of his leg. And the massage girl says, oh my God, how did you get that? And Greg goes, oh, a soccer game. I am immediately burst out laughing, because I'm like, what world were you in a soccer game?
Starting point is 00:11:48 And like, he didn't stop there though. She goes, oh my God, like, do you play like in a pick up league? Craig goes, yup. And I am on my chair, apologizing to my masseuse because I'm like sorry for laughing but my boyfriend is blatantly lying to this lady Mm-hmm just because he wants her to shut the fuck up, but like I know why he's doing it And then when they leave like and it's over I was like were you playing in a soccer game? And he was like no, but she like wouldn't stop talking and like I'm not explaining
Starting point is 00:12:22 No, but she like, once up to Hawking and like, I'm not explaining. To the lady how I got a bruise. And it was just, but you know, you're starting to know like, what he's thinking and how we react to situations. It's funny because when I get massages with the desks in Chinatown, this motherfucker knows Mandarin, so he won't shut up with the person next to me
Starting point is 00:12:44 because he's practicing his Mandarin and she's giggling and she's loving it and I'm alone left out. Yeah, pretty sure they're talking shit about me. And at the end she's just laughing and she laughs at me and we leave and I'm like I'm glad you had fun, I'm glad you made a new friend. Yeah, like no, her and I are just friends, don't worry about her, that's my sister. But it's funny because whenever you go to Chinatown and you get your nails done the joke is that these women are talking shit about you And I'm like, yeah, tell me if they're talking shit about me. Yeah, I know I have like Harry feet
Starting point is 00:13:17 Like what do they talk about and he goes they literally never talk about anyone? They just like want to know when their lunch break is Like they don't give a shit Okay, um now they were out of the closet in so many ways, we have so many good things to talk about. First of all, Kravice got engaged yesterday. Yeah. Where were you in the news broke? Like what was, no, it's literally like,
Starting point is 00:13:41 where were you when you heard? Like I will never forget where I was. I have so many thoughts and conspiracy theories on this. But you texted me about it. So what was your initial thought? I have a full conspiracy theory with a K. Okay. Do you know the story about two days ago,
Starting point is 00:14:06 about Courtney going berserk on an airplane? Yeah, I saw it on page six. So apparently there was like, but no one else like picked it up. No one like said anything about it. It got, no, it fully got picked up. I was, no, the son, everyone picked it up and it was very like that she was bratty,
Starting point is 00:14:22 that she had a freak out. The Kardashians were spotted and were like, this is so not true. But apparently he lost his phone in between the seat and business class when they were flying from New York. Also, people were starting to give her bad press because they were like,
Starting point is 00:14:37 why would she not post about Kim when she was on SNL, when everyone else did, and then she only posted about Travis when he was on SNL. So there was just like weird energy going on. Oh, she didn't post about Kim being on SNL. No, but then when Travis was on she was excited. But I mean, this is all like stupid stuff. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:54 But then Tim was like, of course she went berserk. Like it's just fifth time flying or something. And it's like apparently Travis was fine. Travis was just sitting there. Yeah. Then someone's like, oh, she probably has naked pictures and shit. But I'm like, he probably has a lock on his phone. Right.
Starting point is 00:15:08 Long story short, a scene was had and it was talked about. So my theory is that Chris Jenner picks up the phone and she goes, Travis, I know you're planning on proposing. We need you to do it today. We cannot have more like negative energy towards this. It needs to stop the story right now. And he was like, and she goes, double the flowers, make it look like a squid game finale,
Starting point is 00:15:32 do some fucking fancy-ass shit, do it on a public beach, I don't give a fuck if you're not, cause why would they do it on a public beach? That was so weird. I think she's just like, find area of a fine space. Like you know Courtney does not want a public place. Yeah. And they did it. Are they filming their Hulu thing? I think she's just like, find area, find space. Like you know Courtney does not want a public place. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:46 And they did it. Are they filming their Hulu thing? Because it was also filmed. Okay, so my conspiracy theory is that when they were in Vegas, and everyone was writing those like, congratulations and like those cryptic like messages, I think they got engaged in Vegas, like by themselves with like their friends and family.
Starting point is 00:16:05 I think this engagement is purely for the TV show. So further fucking more, someone posted that Alabama Barker has a photo with Courtney sitting in front of her house in 2018. So they think that they've been in this relationship for a while, but they had to wait it because the Scott storyline needed to end or something, and they were going to put it on like the Hulu show, and that's why they're so hot and heavy and got engaged so fast.
Starting point is 00:16:34 But that's a real far stretch. I've never been more terrified of a teenager than I am a valedine of Parker. She'd bully my ass. If she ever came up to me and wanted my lunch money, I'd immediately give it to her. Like she could beat the shit out of me and I would say, okay. She's tabby with one of those fingernails.
Starting point is 00:16:53 Then two things about Scott, people are like writing mean comments, like, Scott shaking, Scott's. And I know that's funny, but like as someone who understands like, cyber bullying and stuff, like I feel bad for Scott, but I do not think that him and Courtney should be together.
Starting point is 00:17:11 Okay, I also agree. I feel bad for Scott because let's be honest. Scott, not that this is a pass for Scott, but Scott and Courtney were together when they were very, very young. Scott was only 26 when they had Mason. That is fucking young. Like probably for his loves.
Starting point is 00:17:32 Yeah, like especially for a man, not that that's an excuse like to cheat on your like baby mama or like terrorize her, but like I kind of give him a pass and look at everyone else's husband. Like Lamar was banging hookers and like Scott so gets like a worse rap. Like, yes. But Kanye has like absolutely annihilated.
Starting point is 00:17:56 Kanye came for stormy, OK? But Scott still gets a bad rap. Imagine your favorite ex. And imagine the whole world loving their new relationship. It must be hard. I know you're like, he's rich, he's whatever. It sucks. It sucks.
Starting point is 00:18:14 No, that sucks. That sucks. Do I think they should be back together? I don't. I don't think, I think that you break up with someone and like, X's are an X for a reason. Yes, I think that like you break up with someone and like X's are an X for a reason. Yes, I think there are those rare couples that like maybe can take a few years off, grow
Starting point is 00:18:32 and like come back together, but I think that is so fucking rare. And I think everyone you have ever dated, like I don't regret any of my boyfriends because every single relationship, I can pinpoint a very specific thing that I learned while in that relationship that I now carry to my next one. So I don't think that Courtney and Travis would be as good as they are if she hadn't had a whole like debacle with Scott.
Starting point is 00:19:05 Agreed. But by no means do I think that they should be getting back together? I also think after Scott, again, we're just throwing us out there, but I think she loves that Travis is sober. I think that because of the Scott experience, she knows like maybe she really wants to be
Starting point is 00:19:23 with someone who's clean just to avoid like getting scared that he might cheat or that kind of stuff. I need like a light. Hold on a second. I screen-chatted you because you actually look like a ghost who's gonna haunt me for the rest of my life. Further fucking more though.
Starting point is 00:19:39 For how over the top I am and like bougie and like love explosive things. the top I am and like bougie and like love explosive things. I genuinely like into my core do not want a like public engagement. Like I do not want a hidden photographer somewhere. I do not want a thousand rose petals. I do not want someplace to be like shut down for like our engagement. Like I want to be in bed. I want to roll over. Him be holding a ring and just be like, let's do this.
Starting point is 00:20:12 I wanted to be so like the public engagement actually freak me out. I know. I love how you got engaged. I think that is still more romantic. Well, we both love being in bed. So like our guys know that. But I also, after you get engaged, you're a fucking mess. Like I was like, like the whole world's kind of goes blurry. I think you black out. You black out. I remember crying and I love that I was in like a safe space with him where I can just face time my mom. I mean, I'd love to be in a bed, in a hotel, in Paris, like by the I feel tower, like a bed nonetheless.
Starting point is 00:20:48 What a bed. I love room service after with like a thousand roses and like a French man giving me French toast, but like... It's a thin line because you want your privacy in a relationship, but both of me and you are in the public eye where like people are going to like see you exist with. Yeah, like there's just things as a part of a bigger like story. Yeah, there's just things that like I think are so much better when it's just shared with
Starting point is 00:21:24 like an immediate family or like just like the person you're in love with Yeah And rather than like it being shared with thousands of people who like don't even really care about you or like don't like I just hear for the drama Which like same I'm saying you wouldn't want to get engaged on bachelor paradise after three weeks in front of the castmates With a ring from Neil Young. Look, I really have no place to say anything because like reality TV, whatever. But I really don't think I could ever be on a reality TV show where there's like a prize.
Starting point is 00:21:59 And like you're fighting for like, and it's like a game. Yeah. Also, I would never say I wouldn't get engaged on reality TV because I told myself I'd never cry on reality TV and here's a game. Yeah. Also, I would never say I wouldn't get engaged on reality TV because I told myself I'd never cry on reality TV. And here we are. Oh, yeah. Like, I've just solidified that I will absolutely
Starting point is 00:22:12 get engaged on reality TV now, but now that I said that I don't, I want to get engaged in bed. I do think that does is the first guy I was like with with on a reality TV show like legitimately in a relationship with. I know you're with Craig and I do have to say that when castmates talked shit about me I'm like okay granted okay fine. When they talked shit about des. Yeah. My blood boils Yeah. Boiled to another level. So different, like, yeah. Already felt this, like, take out, like, TV.
Starting point is 00:22:51 Someone saying something to my face, I, most often, I'm like, yeah, no, that's probably right. Like, you're right, I am the worst. But, like, someone saying something about my boyfriend is such a different level of like burn inside of you. I'll burn the whole place down. I'll burn your house down. I'll then travel to your parents' house, burn their house down.
Starting point is 00:23:14 Like, it's just a different level of protection because you can't understand my someone would ever be mean to this person who you are so obsessed with. Like sometimes I'll get, like I get some of the meanest messages I've ever read in my life and I'm just like cool cool screen shot at send to the group chat and be like LLL. But like when I get messages about Craig being like oh my god like don't date him or like anything I have gone fucking off on people to the point where I'm like,
Starting point is 00:23:46 okay, I got a stopper, it's bonding to crazy. Yeah. It's such jealousy. It's just jealousy. I know, but I'm just like, do not speak his name. Just protect your baby at all costs. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:23:59 So speaking of relationships, I hung out with Shina Neema, who we love. Yes, how was that? We went to Lola Taverna and Sheena's sister, who I'd never met. Oh my God, she's younger, right? She's younger, she's so sweet. And she's kind of like, she's her own personality, she's not just minisheena, like she's very cool. I could, she was like, I could tell she was Gen Z and too cool for me.
Starting point is 00:24:28 And I was trying to act cool. But anyway, yes, she isn't great mood. She has a baby. And I'm like, she, no, are you? I was full podcasting. I was like, are you still going to be able to be a mom and be fun party sheenet? And she's like, I'm going to a festival this weekend.
Starting point is 00:24:42 Like, you just have to get a babysitter. Like, we're the same us. It just takes like longer to like organize the kid. Yeah. She has this huge rock. But I was trying to get to you about random roles as one does. Right.
Starting point is 00:24:57 And one thing I remember was her just being like, by the way, Randall's amazing. We love Randall together, they're awesome. And he fits into the group great. And like I'm a big stand of Randall and Lala. And then we get a notification that Lala, well, okay, notice how the press covered it. Yeah. That was Lala's word. She goes Lala dumps the shit out of Randall
Starting point is 00:25:30 Literally the headline the headline was so I don't even know I'm going what he did what he did if he did it if he didn't do it that headline was gold It was Lala dumps randall like after three like it was just so direct yeah the word dumps and it's normally it's like hard woke up they split no it's like she tossed them on the curb no literally chucked chucked this man out the fucking window and was like, get out. Here's the thing though, also. I look, I understand that people can post whatever they want, famous or not, public eye or not.
Starting point is 00:26:18 You should be allowed to live your life in like, however you want. But when I'm fighting with my man, I'll tell you one thing the last thing I'm doing is like putting it on Instagram. Like I just But this is what Perry and I broke up like I didn't like a dress Right, like I can't like it makes me nervous to like, address big situations on Instagram. Like, and come on, everybody knew when she posted that picture of her putting a crown on,
Starting point is 00:26:50 and like, the Beyonce song playing in the background, while she's like, checking into a hotel, like, everyone knows. But like, here's what makes me nervous too. Like, now, if she does get back with him, like, people are gonna have so much more to say. Like, where is like, if she just kept it in for a little bit and like, figured it out and then maybe they get back together,
Starting point is 00:27:09 like, she wouldn't have to explain herself to anyone. She's having an impulsive moment. Now, media and social media, when I was going through it, a lot of accusations and lies were being said about me. And I wanted to just post shit. I wanted to just respond. But like, I never did, and I'm to just post shit. I wanted to just respond. But I never did and I'm glad I never did.
Starting point is 00:27:29 Cause it just feels like the energy of it. And at the time you feel like being the high horse doesn't feel good. It sucks. No, I mean it is, okay the other night. The other night I could not sleep. And like I sometimes will look... No!
Starting point is 00:27:47 No, listen, I will look at my Google alerts, whenever it mentions my name, whatever. So I had gotten a Google alert that Craig was talking about me in some article, whatever, it's like 4 a.m. I can't fall asleep. I'm reading the article and I watched the video and I was like, what the fuck is this? And I had a full-rage text written out to him being like, why would you say that in your interview? Like, this looks so crazy. Like, do you even like me, like, saying all this crazy shit?
Starting point is 00:28:17 And then I looked at the date of the article. And it was like a year ago. Like, they used a video from like a year ago that like in a recent article and I was like, oh my god Thank God I like took a moment deleted the text and was like that's crazy page. Don't say that like why don't you just take a fucking breath And then like I saw the date and I was like, oh my god if I sent that text message, you're like you're insane I do think in the media it's a lot of like telling like it is, like, Bernice has down, like don't fuck me. But it's actually a lot better to just ignore shit unless it's like,
Starting point is 00:28:53 really needs to be spoken to, or if you get pushed to that level, if you get pushed to the breaking point, then what the fuck is going to break? Then we can't hold it down, and I'm not responsible for what comes out of my mouth. Okay, my next question. Do we believe it? Do we think that they broke that she broke up with him because she saw on Instagram him in Nashville walking into a hotel with two girls? Like, what do you think the story is for all we know like she knows more information hopefully than we do but well I think it's also it's not even the fact that look if there are pictures on the internet of Craig walking into a hotel with two girls my initial reaction yamAMFUCKIN' PIST, because the optics of it, the optics of it,
Starting point is 00:29:45 why is it always two girls? It's always two, it's never one. Oh, my God, why do I have to go so hard? It's too best friends being like, don't leave me, because this might get me weird, like, don't leave me. Did you see the TikTok with all the girls being like, how do guys not understand that there's a difference between these two looks that you shoot your friend?
Starting point is 00:30:05 Like, if you look over at your friend and everything like that, I love that. You give the look where you're like, I'm good. I'm good. I'm into this versus if you don't fucking leave me or I'll kill you. Yeah. So like, I understand even Lala not knowing the full story and just seeing those pictures, like, you're pissed because it's You know like
Starting point is 00:30:27 Illegitimizing your relationship But I think before she made any moves and she might have done this we have no idea Like gotten the full story from him Because maybe it really was nothing like maybe It was just like a annoying thing that someone caught a picture and it was like taken out of context whatever. And he called her and was like, you're going to see a video. I'm sorry.
Starting point is 00:30:53 I cheated. I was drunk. He could have done that too. But then like, what's up with him posting? The question is the kids with her book. What did you say? She, then like while she's like posting the Beyonce video, like song of her in a hotel,
Starting point is 00:31:10 he's posting his kids like promoting her book. Yeah. I, this is crazy and this is so typical reality TV where like the drama that's happening now is probably way more interesting than what's gonna be airing. But it'll be interesting. And also, I love Lala. I've actually always loved Lala.
Starting point is 00:31:30 I interviewed Lala when I worked at a media company back in the day and she was so cool. She was with her mom. They had a really cute relationship. Like I feel like she would like initially meeting her. I feel like she is really nice until you like piss her off. Like then like she would like whatever. But I think initially meeting her like she would be nice. Do you remember how she was like something about
Starting point is 00:31:56 a married man or something? I don't know. Well, I mean, look, not even like La La on Randall. If you are dating someone and you are the other girl and then he starts dating you, you will also break up that way. Like at some point, then you will be the main girl and he will have a side check.
Starting point is 00:32:16 Like I just feel like if you start dating someone out of cheating, like he's going to then cheat on you. Yeah, I think it's a pattern. I'm also trying to have more empathy for relationships if someone has some infidelity or something. I think what ends at relationships is not necessarily the infidelity, but like all the stuff that comes with it.
Starting point is 00:32:34 And like, maybe if you're with a Hollywood producer who like loves to party and occasionally likes to fuck young models and you're cool with it, like the J-Lo Alex Rodriguez type of thing. I just would be never be cool. I'm trying to be more understanding. I'm not gonna lie when I read it. At first I was like, no, no, no, I'm so sad for this
Starting point is 00:32:54 because they have a child. But then I kind of was like, fuck yeah, Wala. Like kick us out. Also like, the girls were really young. Like they look like they were in college. I didn't even see the video, but also part of the video. The one girl from behind kind of looked like me, and I was like, oh my god.
Starting point is 00:33:12 You're like, is that me? Yeah. Did I book written films? I was like, I think I have those leather pants and I literally wore my hair in a ponytail the other day, was that me? Yeah. I was really drunk this weekend. Yeah, I was like, wait, was
Starting point is 00:33:27 I in Nash? No, I wasn't. No, I wasn't. Anyway, I hope, yeah, I know. I hope if he did cheat on her, I hope that like she's not so sad and knows that like it has nothing to do with her and like she does not deserve that And I think that if they are just in a fight and maybe he didn't cheat like I hope they work it out But like yeah either way they're in a sucky situation right now It's just that just so I mean if anything you're gonna fail fail fast like get out of it now before he he cheats When you have like a four-year-old a five-year-old a seven a seven-year-old, a 13-year-old. Like, I don't know. Our kids much more fucked up when parents get divorced at 13. I don't know. I'm throwing random stats out there.
Starting point is 00:34:10 Right. And like, they're just engaged. They can like, they can move on. She can find someone, yeah. Paige, this is the biggest shoe. Hmm. They have a podcast together. Oh.
Starting point is 00:34:23 That's like a good podcast. Like it's quite popular. That's your reaction to the podcast. It's a baby. A podcast is a baby. Because my initial thought is who gets the podcast? Who gets the podcast? Who gets to go on the podcast and explain what's going on?
Starting point is 00:34:44 For sure, Lala. I mean, Lala literally is writing the press articles herself. She goes yeah Lala dumps cheating as whole boyfriend That's Lala's so let's vernacular. Let's be honest Randall might be like a successful producer maybe has some money like but we didn't know who the fuck he was Nor did we care who he was before Lala. Like, so now that Lala's done with him. Also, Laura Sober, I don't want her husband going on these benders. Yeah. I mean, it's so easy to judge from outside the house, but I just hope Lala's family is okay.
Starting point is 00:35:26 We are big Lala fans here on the pod, Team Lala all day, but it just sucks us. Oh, it sucks, it sucks, it sucks, but do you ever see a motivational quote on Instagram and it makes you angry? All the time. Like do you ever see those quotes that make it like life so easy and you just have to do this and it's like it's not like that. Right at all, you know who gets really mad about motivational quotes? Dominique.
Starting point is 00:35:55 Really so Dominique is our spiritual healer of the pod. What is she not like about them? Because she'll post really good ones. Some are just like top, that's what it is. It's toxic positivity. Yeah, that's what she says. She's like people that are like just like not suck it off. But like just smiling 100 positivity, like good vibes, Dominique hates that. She's like, no, that's not, that's actually making you feel like you're not allowed
Starting point is 00:36:18 to have emotions that are sad or mad or angry. Like it should just be happy all the time She's like and that sets you up for failure and like thinking you're not good enough or I'd see things like when I was going through Shit where it's like if someone disrespects you just tell them to go fuck themselves and move on and I'm like That's not it's not that simple right right like well Or they'll be like when you're feeling down, just get up and you're like, no, it's not like that. Sometimes I'm tired. No, like I think one of the best things that I've realized, and like this is only through therapy, is when you do, when something does happen to you and you're sad or depressed or mad. Like, it's okay to feel that.
Starting point is 00:37:06 And like, it's actually better to sit in that feeling, feel it, get it out rather than like pretend that it doesn't exist. Because then it just manifests into like other shit. Preach, preach, preach. I'm currently working on that. I have to feel my feelings instead of just working. It's hard. Because I love working because I don't think about stuff.
Starting point is 00:37:25 Because when you think about stuff, it can hurt. But if you don't, if you don't literally cry it out, it stays within you. Also, I feel like we grew up in Italian households where the mantra is suck it up and move on. Yeah, same. Like you're just taught to be like, don't feel sorry for yourself, like suck it up.
Starting point is 00:37:41 Yeah. So like if something bad happens or your sad's kind of like, people have it way worse than you, you should be thankful that like this is your problem. But you're like, but I cry every day. That's also very like our parents generation. Of like you're lucky that like we have good jobs and you're, you know, my fucking grandma came on a boat from Sicily, like shut the fuck up.
Starting point is 00:38:04 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, you're like, okay, well, you had toily like shut the fuck up. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, you're like, okay, well, you had to bring grandma into the fucking thing. Yeah, one supreme grandma and I can't win. Yeah. We got notes from the gig, where is apparently Sam and girl Emily is 29. It's 29. You're very upset.
Starting point is 00:38:18 Got a little bit more. No, two minute messages to the public. People were highly offended and very angry with me, very angry. For some reason I thought she was like 24. And let me tell you, it was a toss up between Chick-fil-A and Burger King, yeah. And by said, Burger King. Sometimes, not all the time, but sometimes when I eat Chick-fil-A,
Starting point is 00:38:57 I get really nauseous after. And I just couldn't risk it today. Mm-hmm. I got Wendy's and I got Wendy's because I got chicken nugs, cheeseburger, and then to be healthy a baked potato. Right. Because I'm bad at this.
Starting point is 00:39:14 And that's a vegetable. Yes. I'm the pit of me of health. I get a lot of hate and criticism that my favorite fast food is burger, okay. I don't think you should get that lot of hate and criticism that my favorite fast food is burger. Okay. I don't think you should get that kind of hate because I'm not afraid to be me. And if you don't order an original chicken sandwich from burger king, then I'm sorry that you don't have a sophisticated palette.
Starting point is 00:39:37 That's not my problem. That sounds like a personal problem. Aren't those like rectangle, like they're kind of huge, right? They're oblong and they're amazing. They're massive oblong. Is that French? I don't know. I think that's the word. I wait, I'm googling it. I think I used to crack that. No, but you're right. That chicken sandwich is like at another level and I think you get more bang for your buck. You really do. Like I'm full after that. Like sometimes I'll eat a oblong, an object or flat figure in an elongated rectangle or
Starting point is 00:40:11 oval shape. Fuck you. How did you, okay. I don't know. Should you sign it for Jeopardy right now? What the fuck is going on? Yeah. Oh my bill, nine.
Starting point is 00:40:21 I also feel like you're at the point of your hangover right now. We're suddenly, you just got a burst of energy and I'm. Yeah, I did. Living for it. I also feel like you're at the point of your hangover right now. We're suddenly you just got a burst of energy and I'm living for it. I said, but right when we're doing this podcast, I will die. You're gonna hit a wall. Right before you black out, do you have any front page news before I get to dope documentaries? Well, we just try. Oh, wait, hold on, I actually do think I did have to do that. What did you think about Megan Edmonds getting married
Starting point is 00:40:47 after four weeks? Oh, okay, so Megan Edmonds got married after only four weeks and it is the nephew of Joe Biden. And they were at the wedding. I would actually be pissed because like, okay, I'm walking down the island of wedding dress. I don't need everyone staring at Joe Biden and not me. If someone is more famous than me,
Starting point is 00:41:10 they're not invited to my wedding. And that's just math. Oh. Oh. Like they're not coming. I think about that all the time when like Taylor Swift goes to her like, friends weddings, I would be pit.
Starting point is 00:41:25 Like if I ever had the opportunity to be friends with a legitimate celebrity, I would have to tell them in the beginning of our friendship that they were not invited to my wedding. See, I kind of want my wedding to be pop-in, and I want people to... Like, I want to cast the characters. Yeah. Oh my God, you know what we should think about and talk about on the next podcast because we need time to think about this. Three people because I played this game at a dinner party the other night. Three people that you would want to have dinner with and why. And some people have some really interesting answers and like really good ones.
Starting point is 00:42:03 So let's think about it. Let's also ask the gigglers who they would. Dead or alive. We love some really interesting answers and like really good ones. So let's think about it. Let's also ask the gigglers who they would. Dead or alive. Either. Either. Interesting. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:42:12 Yeah. Right. We'll get back to reals tournament. Yeah. So Megan, King Edmonds, four weeks, I do think you're still in such a dopamine high that you're not thinking straight. I'm going gonna be honest. And in four weeks, you cannot have thought yet,
Starting point is 00:42:29 and you don't know how someone fights. And if you have already thought, that's an even bigger issue. Can I tell you something? Craig and I have not had our first fight yet. And I mean fight where it's like, no, I'm fucking pissed, like I'm not talking to you for a little, like a real fight.
Starting point is 00:42:48 We've got, like you're in a relationship and having a disagreement fight, yeah. Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie, like, nothing I'm nervous for it, but like it is definitely a thing, because I'm like, what do you think we're, I bring it up all the time, so I'm like, what do you think we're like in a fight?
Starting point is 00:43:05 What do you think the vibe is? It's a drunk fight or a sober fight? Because those are also two different dynamics. Yeah. I haven't drunk thought with a boyfriend since I was 25. I'm actually less nervous about that. Craig and I actually drink very well together It's like the number one thing he tells people that's good. He's like I really like page cuz we drink well
Starting point is 00:43:31 And I'm like you make us sound like alcoholics like we're just great chemistry But like it is a thing it makes well together. I do have to say well together. I do have to say, does is the first guy that in fights, I've found myself saying sorry. And I'm not saying that I'm like wrong with does more than other guys. It's just that with does I care to resolve it with other guys. I wouldn't. You have to remember like this is not important. And I just want to get past this. And I find myself saying sorry all the time. Yeah. Yeah, and it's so true.
Starting point is 00:44:09 Like if you want to resolve it, you really love that person. Like I've had fights with boyfriends where I'm like, I mean, you leaving the milk out isn't a really big deal, but like I'm breaking up with you. Because you just don't care. You, it's like how people see what they want to see. Like when you're ready to break up, you could fight over anything.
Starting point is 00:44:28 Anything. Yeah, you just have to find a way that you guys are resolving it while also expressing yourself. And remembering you're on the same team, and just remember you're not trying to beat anyone. You guys are on the same team. You don't need to win. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:44:40 No one's keeping score. You just want to get back to being in good graces if someone's upset until listen. Oh my god, look at us. Sometimes, of course, I've gotten pissed off before. And now, if I get mad, my initial reaction used to be like, well, now I'm just going to yell things at you and be such a fucking bitch because I'm mad.
Starting point is 00:45:02 But now my reaction is, okay, what about this is making me upset and what is my real feeling? Like, am I sad? Am I mad? Like, is it my ego that he just like hurt? Like, you have to think about like how you actually feel about something because your initial reaction isn't how you actually feel. And then once you pinpoint that, it's so much easier to be like, look, what just happened made me sad. This is why it made me sad. And like, and then he responds.
Starting point is 00:45:36 Look at that. One month in a relationship and I'm just like a fucking therapist. I am literally that annoying girl. You're teaching him. You guys after you get past your like puppy dog stage, it's like the boundary stage where you guys are gonna push each other to see like what your boundaries are with certain things and you have that's when you either that you don't care to respect their boundaries and it ends, or you don't communicate your boundaries well and it ends, or you communicate your boundaries and you guys are able to respect them.
Starting point is 00:46:09 And that's like the oversimplification of why relationships last past like the four or five month stage. A lot of it is also, you know what pisses that person off. A thousand percent. Like, are you ever in a situation with other people and like, you know like your man is about to freak out But like no one else knows. I'm like wow, Karate's gonna be pissed about this I think one of the biggest bonding experiences with your boyfriend is like being mad at the same shit Oh my god, but you know, where you just like hate being angry at the same shit. Yeah, you hate that person.
Starting point is 00:46:45 He's like, you too. And I'm like, let's talk about it. I do think that similar to Neandes, I feel like you and Craig are like, actually friends. Like if you didn't ever fuck, you'd sit in a room and like make each other laugh and you have the same sense of humor. I literally, so far, the nicest thing
Starting point is 00:47:08 Craig has ever said to me is, you're my best friend. I love that. And it's true. You just, yeah, you're dating and you're sexually compatible and you also think about bigger life things. But the day to day is really just being friends and like thinking the same memes are funny or like.
Starting point is 00:47:29 Yeah. I follow like raccoon accounts because Craig sends me raccoon videos and like we think they're funny and people in Russia have raccoons as pets and like we think it's odd but we like it. And like just weird things about about being someone's best friend. Because there's so many relationships that you just stop liking the human.
Starting point is 00:47:48 I don't care how beautiful his penis is. Yeah, you're just like, I don't even care about the outcome of this, because I don't. And it is different. When you fight with your best girlfriend, you really do immediately want to resolve it, because you're like,
Starting point is 00:48:02 bitch, you're my best friend, fuck off. And if you really like your boyfriend, you're my best friend, like fuck off. And like if you really like your boyfriend, you also want, but you're like, no, but we're best friends too. Like, I want to resolve this quickly. Where if it's like someone you don't like or a girl that's like not really your friend, you're like, okay.
Starting point is 00:48:15 Exactly, like with your boyfriend who you really like, you're like, wait, I can't go another minute, like not talking to you, we're being awkward with you. Honestly, we're building doesn't cry up so much. I don't think they deserve it. At all. Yeah, they're so lucky to breathe our air. I know you have some dope shows.
Starting point is 00:48:38 Just to wrap this up, I have two really good dope documentaries, The Brittany Murphy Doc on Age of Your Mass. Okay, did you finish it? Yep. Okay, I haven't finished it yet, but proceed. What are your initial thoughts? What are your initial thoughts?
Starting point is 00:48:52 My initial thoughts are what a absolute tragedy. And this guy was a master manipulator and he killed her. Where are you at in the dark? I just got to the part where people are starting. You know it's crazy too that I kept thinking about if this happened now, how much more it would have been in the media,
Starting point is 00:49:18 but then there was no social media. Yes, and back then it was all about Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, the thin party girls were bad stuff happens. And that was just like, that's them. No one gave a fuck about women. Yeah. They were just like, no one stared back at us.
Starting point is 00:49:36 They literally, and she was not at the top of her game. But I wrote some notes. Like I was that into it. OK. Yeah. There was a real conspiracy theory that there was like a mold problem. It is there's no mold. There was no mold found in the autopsy.
Starting point is 00:49:53 It's not the fucking mold. Also, if it was mold, how is her mom great? And her mom's like the weakest one physically. Two, they were definitely addicted to pills. They had so many different pills. They were doing the upper as the downers. It was so sad to see her place was like a sh- it was like a shithole of hoarding
Starting point is 00:50:14 and like definitely you could see the mental illness. Um, what's also scary is there was a full on intervention with her friends where her friends were like, this guy's ruining her life, and her mom and her... I haven't gotten to that part. And her mom and her were like, no, we love him. And this is where I think it went wrong, because you know our moms, they have our lives. My mom has saved my life from certain men.
Starting point is 00:50:36 Thank God. Countless times. This mom, he was able to also manipulate to the point that people think they were fucking. I think they were fucking. I think they were. If you see the photos and the way they acted, it was weird and I don't think that the mom was giving me weird fucking vibes. When they did the Larry King interview
Starting point is 00:50:55 and he called her baby, yeah, I was like, and he said they sleep in the same bed together because they cried together. No one calls you baby, but the guy that you're sleeping with. If a guy called me baby. And like I wasn't sleeping in bed with him every night and making out with him in the morning,
Starting point is 00:51:14 I'd be like, get out, like don't call me that. Like, no, it's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's like typical for a predator to be like, trying to dominate as many women as possible. Oh, oh, it's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird.
Starting point is 00:51:27 It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird.
Starting point is 00:51:35 It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird.
Starting point is 00:51:43 It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's so weird. It's weird. It's weird. did the plastic surgery apparently he's attracted to anorexic women got her to change all the stuff on her face and um and she was such a good actress like when they were doing the montage of some movies I like forgot that she was in some movies girl interrupted I'll never forget like the first time I watch that I was actually way too young to watch that but I remember watching it and being like this is such a crazy movie. She was so good and someone in the documentary was like, I can't believe she didn't get an Oscar for that movie because she would...
Starting point is 00:52:13 She really was so good, like she would take roles and totally make it her own to the point where directors would be like, I didn't even know the character could be played that way and she crushed it. Like, no one could ever play Ty but her. She, no one talks about like she was a star of Clueless. Like Clueless, she was a star. All surrounded her story. And like, if someone's headed in the documentary too, you know, you watch a movie and you're like,
Starting point is 00:52:43 oh, but what if like if like countless people could have played share? There's no one that you could have put in Ty's role and it have been as good as a Britney Murphy. Like, even like her dumb movie, I remember being in high school and watching the movie where she's married to Ashton Kutcher and they're in like parents or something. That was great.
Starting point is 00:53:02 That movie is so good. So good. So good. So some shit went down with her in Ashton that I think was the downfall of her kind of mental health or a bit where she got vulnerable because her friend said she didn't want to talk about it. And then the one thing she wanted to tell the media was that she doesn't have any disorder
Starting point is 00:53:21 and that it was an amicable breakup. Like no one broke up with anyone. It was like mutual. But Like, no one broke up with anyone. It was like mutual. But it sounds like he broke up with her. Oh, yeah. People were saying he broke up with her, but she was like, he didn't. It was like a mutual thing.
Starting point is 00:53:33 But I think, so that's just a mystery on Salted. Yeah. It's interesting, Ashton was an interview in the film. I don't know. No, I agree. I don't know. Like, you know, Justin said something with Britney's doc. He came out. I wonder if like, you know, Justin said something with Brittany's doc. He came out.
Starting point is 00:53:45 I wonder if Ashton will say anything. Also, when you are in a relationship where, like this happened to me in my early 20s, I was in a very good relationship. We broke up and then the next guy I started dating was just awful. And my boyfriend before him, multiple times would be like, it's none of my business and it's multiple times would be like,
Starting point is 00:54:05 it's none of my business, it's not my place, but like, are you okay? Like, there's no way Ashton and her didn't talk at least once when she was dating this guy. Like, I feel like it is weird that he wasn't interviewed because I bet he knows a lot. Like, you don't just see someone you used to love like falling down a rabbit hole and not
Starting point is 00:54:27 Feel compelled to say something Or it was like that bad that they can't talk because I think He know how you'll date someone and then try to like date someone different because it's like too hard to do with someone like that Yeah, I think she purposely went from ash didn fucking Kutcher. So fucking hot. Amazing personality. Really? Just totally. To this gross ass, dude. And I'm not calling him gross because he's ugly and fat.
Starting point is 00:54:51 I'm calling him gross because he's a predator. And I also think he's ugly and fat. And he's ugly, but she wanted someone who was like the antithesis of like the Hollywood limelight. And I also think we talk about serial killers all the time, but there's so, it's a serial like emotional abuser that, but he also, this guy was also rapier. You'll learn later.
Starting point is 00:55:12 Very rapy vibes. Very rapy vibes. Oh, for sure. You don't even know. He has two children. They get into it. Oh my God, I need to watch the second part. Yeah, you need to watch it.
Starting point is 00:55:22 But what reminded me, similar to Britney Spears, was, didn't you find it weird that all the movie she was in was directly correlated to this dark shit she almost was going through? She always played these roles that were wanting to be someone else or struggling with pain in a relationship or struggling with drugs. Like, she loves playing the dark
Starting point is 00:55:49 Rolls and it's like Britney Spears all her music was always like fighting for power Right because like when she for like uptown girls one of my favorite movies ever But she always played roles that were like you and fun and like yes I understand that like the darker roles showed more of her acting range, but I feel like the reason she was so good at them was because she was letting out emotion from her real life. Like, yeah. I mean, I think that if she was still alive, she would still be one of the best actresses today. Well, it was sad because she stopped booking roles in her last couple years because he no one wanted to deal with him.
Starting point is 00:56:29 So she was doing like horror movies, independent films, and then the most fucked up thing at the end is the mom takes all the jewelry he bought for Brittany to this guy and says, can you sell it? Because I need cash. All the diamonds were fake. No way. Yeah. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:56:54 And it was just like a symbol for the whole relationship. But there are so many con artists out there. And what I learned about people who get conned from all my documentary watching is you see what you want to see. Which is what you do when you like fall for someone. You want to see their good qualities. You don't want to see their bad qualities. But this guy, it's crazy that he succeeded to this level of con. It's just like a true, true tragedy. Like, you know when people are like, yeah, everything happens for a reason and like whatever.
Starting point is 00:57:27 There are certain times where you're like, put down that, like that shouldn't have happened. Like this, she should not have died. Like that is just not, it was just a tragedy. And then her best friend, her best friend was like, I, knowing what I know now, I wish I just stood outside and knocked on her door to like take her away.
Starting point is 00:57:45 But like, you know, you can't look back 20-20. Yeah. I would have gone arrested, I didn't care, I would have done it. But she again wanted to believe that her friend was happy. Yeah. That maybe there was something she was missing. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:57:59 She's such a good documentary. So I highly recommend to finish that. And oh my god, what a good documentary. So I highly recommend to finish that and Oh my god, what a fucking episode we went through all types of shit. We seriously did new relationships starting relationships ending Next week we're gonna do our top like three people we would have dinner with and we'll ask you guys on Instagram What your ideas are so we can get inspired but um I'm going to San Francisco tomorrow for show. Oh my god. You've been traveling. I don't know how you do it And then I'm going to Irvine
Starting point is 00:58:34 Tempe and LA all in like four days, so I'm already tired Yeah, I'm I'm exhausted But I'll try to keep everyone posted on the travels. Yeah, thank you so much for giggling. We love you guys so much. See you next time. Bye guys!

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