Hidden Brain - You, But Better
Episode Date: December 27, 2022It's the time of year when many of us make resolutions for the year ahead. We pledge to quit smoking, eat better, or get more exercise. Then a few weeks go by, and we abandon our best-laid plans. That...’s because change is hard. This week, we revisit a favorite 2021 conversation with behavioral scientist Katy Milkman, who shares how we can structure our lives to do what we know is good for us.Did you catch last week's episode about why we complain — and how we can complain more effectively? You can find it here. And if you'd like to make a financial contribution to support our work, you can do so here. Happy New Year from all of us at Hidden Brain!Â
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This is Hidden Brain, I'm Shankar Vedanta.
There are two kinds of challenges we face.
One kind involves a novel problem.
We don't know why we are sick.
A new disease suddenly sweeps the world and it doesn't have a cure.
Novel challenges call for discovery.
Invention.
As a species, we are very good at coming up with such discoveries.
But many of the setbacks in our lives are not caused by such problems. They are caused
by problems whose solutions were discovered a long time ago.
Think about the leading causes of death in most countries. They are connected to smoking, diet,
and sedentary lifestyles.
We know what we ought to do to live better.
We should eat right and exercise,
get a good night's rest,
live within our means.
So why is it so hard to actually do those things?
What do you think of the life? Some of us figure out that we have two selves and that they are in conflict and this is a challenge we need to resolve.
But some of us go through life without paying a lot of attention to this fact or trying to find ways to overcome it.
This week on Hidden Brain, how to engineer our lives and our minds to do what we know is good for us.
Think about the resolutions you made this year. Did you decide to read more, work out more often, quit smoking? If
you're like most people, you'll probably abandon your resolutions within a few weeks.
Change is hard.
Katie Milkman is a behavioral scientist at the Wharton School. In her new book, How to
Change, she studies how we can use the mind to combat the limitations of
the mind. Katie Milkman, welcome to Hidden Brain.
Thank you for having me. Katie, we're going to tackle some of the biggest questions facing
us as individuals, communities and nations. We'll talk about how to overcome people's
hesitancy to get vaccinated and how to get around the challenges of meeting our health goals.
But I want to start our conversation at a more basic level by understanding the forces
within our minds that make it difficult to do the things that we know are good for us.
These everyday mental limitations are the building blocks of many of the problems we confront
in the world.
I want to start with one of the most common problems, the problem of distraction.
We walk into a room, we can't remember why we're there.
We mean to make an important phone call, we get sidetracked.
You once experienced a spectacular moment of distraction on a bus.
Can you tell me what happened?
Yes, I take the bus to work most days, at least I did pre-pandemic,
and I was going to work my usual route,
but I had a suitcase with me
because I had a trip planned.
I put the suitcase up on the side of the bus
when I got in the place where you can place your luggage,
I took my seat, and then I got off the bus
as usual at my stop, and I forgot to grab my suitcase.
My computer wasn't it, lots of things I needed for the trip,
I was about to take, weren't it?
I had to go into Wharton and teach my MBA class,
so I didn't really have a lot of time to deal with the disaster.
And I will just say, my husband is my hero.
I called him, I told him what had happened.
He went and stood on the bus route,
it was a bus loop around the city,
and he intercepted every bus.
Oh my god.
That stopped until he found the one with my suitcase.
So I do have the world's most amazing spouse.
You know, the story itself is so revealing, Katie, because it describes something that
I think happens to all of us.
I feel like, you know, on a routine basis, I open my email to send a note to my friend,
but when I open my email, I see an urgent
email from someone else and answering that email requires me to go look up a study.
And 45 minutes later, I look up, I realize, I haven't sent that note to my friend.
Does something like that happen to you all the time too?
All the time, absolutely.
Yes.
So, being distracted is one pitfall.
I want to talk about another another which is being impulsive.
We often make decisions quickly and then regret them later on.
I'm thinking of this classic scene from Seinfeld where the character George
Costanza gets upset and tells his boss exactly what he thinks of him.
This is it. I'm done. Through. It's over. I'm gone. Finished. Over. I will never work for you again. Look at you.
You think you're an important man? Is that what you think? You are a laughing stock. You are a joke.
These people are laughing at you. You're nothing. You have no brains, no ability, nothing.
I quit.
So, Katie, you once dashed off a note to a colleague because you were really upset.
And you dashed off this note somewhat impulsively.
Do you remember the incident, what happened, what you said, and what the fallout was?
Well, first, this has happened more than once, that I sent an e-mail.
But the one I had in mind was sent just a couple of weeks ago.
It was a co-author team.
Someone was inquiring about
whose name will come first on this paper and I wrote a hot, short email saying, obviously
the doctoral student who led this project, without recognizing there were egos involved
and maybe I should write a slightly more politic note to express why I think this is the right
resolution.
It was a huge mistake.
It could have been handled so much more elegantly, it would have saved everyone time and headaches and improved relationships, but sometimes
we're impulsive.
I have to ask, what was the fallout of it?
I mean, was there any consequence to dashing off this note impulsively?
Did you have to then spend time in some ways growing back into the right answer?
Yes.
So much time rolling back.
So many carefully crafted apology emails to many different people explaining,
I'm so sorry, I should have explained my logic, I should have said this, I should have picked up the
phone, it was a mess. In addition to being distracted and impulsive, many of us are also just plain
forgetful. We promise to do something or be somewhere, and then it slips our mind.
These self-inflicted injuries can be costly.
Katie remembered one time she made an appointment
with an important colleague.
Dean Carlin, a professor at Kellogg's School of Management
at Northwestern University, was visiting Philadelphia.
We'd made a breakfast date to get together
on a Monday morning.
He confirmed it on Friday beforehand.
I'll see you on Monday at 7.30.
He was coming right to a coffee shop down the street
from my apartment.
And I got an email about 30 minutes after that date
asking, you know, did one of us go for,
he was trying to figure out where I was
because I completely forgot.
And when about my morning routine as usual and
It hadn't even occurred to me that there could be something going on that was out of the ordinary that day was pretty embarrassing
So we've looked at the idea of being
Distractable impulsive and forgetful of for many people another defining problem they face is the challenge of laziness
We let you know the dishes pile up in the sink, ignore the leaking faucet, we tell ourselves we'll
get to the gym next week.
And of course, many of us are also lazy in the workplace.
I want to play your clip from the movie, Office Space.
Employee Peter Gibbons has asked how he spends a typical day.
And rather than come up with a usual bunk, he decides to tell the truth.
Well, I generally come in at least 15 minutes late.
I use the side door, that way lumber can't see me.
And after that, I just sort of space out for about an hour.
Space out?
Yeah, I just stare at my desk, but it looks like I'm working.
I do that for probably another hour after launch too.
I'd say in a given week, I probably only do about 15 minutes of real actual work.
So Katie, you seem like an overachiever.
I suspect that you are not prone to laziness, but does any of this ring true for you?
Absolutely.
And I think laziness isn't always spacing out when you're sitting at your desk.
It can also be just, if there's some way that someone else I could hand this off to them
or I could take a shorter route to getting to my desired outcome.
In fact, the work that I did originally exploring behavior change
was motivated by a challenge I had, which was that I could not motivate myself to get to
the gym at the end of a long day of classes and graduate school. I just couldn't. And
so that's part of the impetus that led me to start studying this topic.
I want to put one last idea on the table, Katie, and this comes from the Nobel Prize-winning
economist Richard Faehlur.
Many years ago, he had some guests over for dinner, and he put out a bowl of cashews
as an appetizer.
Even though the guests knew that eating a lot of cashews would ruin their appetite for dinner,
they couldn't stop themselves.
How do temptations often derail us from reaching our aspirations?
Yeah, I love that story because it's one of the things that led Richard Thaler to start
studying what economists now call present bias, or the tendency we have to overweight whatever
will provide instant gratification when we're doing a calculation and choosing between options
and to undervalue anything that will give us long-term rewards.
So that tasty cashew is in front of me right now.
I know the dinner will be better, but I just can't resist because the instant gratification
I'll get from popping one more in my mouth looms large since it's coming at this moment.
It's also what leads us not to exercise and to sit on the couch, even though we know
it would be good for us. It's what leads us to buy that shiny new gadget instead
of setting aside the dollars we've earned for retirement. And so present bias is one of
the most pernicious obstacles we face when it comes to achieving our goals, as you can
see from those examples.
Yeah. What's striking to me also is that, you know, I think a lot of us recognize these
limitations.
We recognize that we are easily distracted, that we're impulsive, that we're lazy, we're prone to temptations.
But very often, the insight alone is insufficient to overcome the problem.
So just knowing, for example, that last week, I had trouble going to the gym, or last week,
I was tempted by that extra large dessert.
Doesn't mean that when the dessert is placed before me today
I'm able to resist it. So in other words, the mere insight into the problem isn't sufficient as a solution
That's absolutely right. So it's a first step
It's useful to have some insight into yourself because then you can begin to design solutions
You can begin to look for solutions and science has actually a lot of solutions to offer
And I know we'll talk about that, but it's absolutely insufficient.
Knowing this is going to be a problem does not protect you.
If knowing about the challenges we face isn't enough to overcome them,
what can we do to chart a path to where the outcomes we want?
When we come back, how Katie and other researchers have come up with brain hacks to help us fight our flaws.
You're listening to Hidden Brain, I'm Shankar Vedanta.
This is Hidden Brain, I'm Shankar Vedantam. We all have things we want to change about ourselves. But in spite of our best intentions, many of us sabotage ourselves. How?
By being impulsive, forgetful, and lazy. These very human weaknesses make for great television comedy, but when they affect us,
they can keep us from becoming the best version of ourselves.
Katie Milkman is the author of How to Change, the science of getting from where you are,
to where you want to be. In the book, she explains how we can turn our weaknesses on their head,
how we can get them to work for us.
Katie, in Stockholm, Swedish engineers wanted to encourage pedestrians to take the stairs
over taking the escalator in a metro station.
So they did something interesting.
Can you tell me what they did?
What they did is they created a set of piano stairs.
So if you walked up the stairs, suddenly you heard a musical scale.
And as a result of this change, people coming out of the Metro,
they encounter this magnificent artistic musical creation
and have the opportunity to make music on their way up instead of writing on the escalator.
And of course, naturally, it's much more attractive.
And it was a small experiment, a short-term experiment, but the finding was that 66% more people chose to take the stairs than usual.
So what I'm getting from this idea is that in some ways when we are lazy, one way to combat that laziness in some ways is to make things more fun.
And in some ways it seems almost obvious when you say it that way, but our desire for
short term gratification, for being able to play a tune as we are running up and down
the stairs, in some ways can be used to fight our tendency towards laziness.
Exactly. And even though it does sound obvious when you say it, what's so fascinating is that
research shows that is not our intuition. When we think about how we're going to achieve a
difficult goal, research by IELAT Fishbach, the University of Chicago and Caitlin Wolley at Cornell
University has shown only a small minority of people look
for the most fun way to pursue their goal.
But their research has shown that if we actually instruct people, if you're at the gym, for
instance, pick the most fun workout you can do instead of the most effective.
Or if you're trying to stick to a healthy new diet, pick the most fun way of pursuing
that instead of the toughest way, the way that will be most effective, you see better results.
Giving kids also a fun way to do their math problem sets turns out to improve their persistence.
So the thing is that we're focused when we're making decisions on how do we get to our
end goal, and we don't think enough about this obstacle that if we don't enjoy it, we're
going to quit quickly,
then we can make much more progress by looking for a fun way to pursue our goals.
So you talked earlier in our chat about how you sometimes found it difficult to go to the
gym when you were a graduate student. You came up with a technique to overcome your
reluctance to go to the gym, and it involved a technique that you call temptation bundling.
What do you mean by that, Katie?
I love that you asked about temptation bundling,
and I should say, I did this research on temptation bundling,
and I did temptation bundle as a person
before I knew anything about the importance of making it fun,
and frankly, before that work had been done itself.
The idea came to me because I had two problems.
One, I was struggling to get to the gym.
The other problem that I didn't tell you about is when I came home from a long day of classes,
all I wanted to do was curl up on the couch with a juicy page churner or binge watch TV.
I just wanted entertainment.
And so I was wasting all this time.
I wasn't getting to the gym and I wasn't getting my work done.
And I had this insight, which was what if I only let myself enjoy this indulgent entertainment
that's wasting so much time while I'm exercising?
And it was like magic.
I started craving trips to the gym
to find out what would happen next.
I did it with page turners.
I listened to audiobooks.
So whatever, you know, the latest Harry Potter novel
or Hunger Games novel that I was listening to,
I just wanted to know what
happened next.
So I'm rushing to the gym.
Time is flying while I'm there.
I'm totally engrossed in the novel.
I don't even notice the pain of the workout.
And then I'm done.
I come home refreshed ready to get my work done because I've gotten my entertainment fix.
I've gotten my exercise in.
It was incredible.
My grades improved.
My spirits improved.
And I realized, maybe it's not just me,
maybe other people could benefit.
And I call it temptation bundling
because it was linking a temptation
with whatever chore I was dreading
so that I do more of the chore.
The chore would cease to feel like a chore
and I do less of the tempting thing too.
So you can do with other things in life,
not just workouts, right?
So you can only let yourself listen to your favorite podcasts while you're doing household chores or cooking
a fresh meal or save particularly dolegant treats that you like to eat for times when
you're studying or catching up on emails that you need to write or even a favorite restaurant
you only visit with a difficult relative you should see more of. So there's all different
ways you canation bundle. I understand that you sometimes schedule
difficult meetings that your favorite like burger restaurant. So, in other words,
you're getting something even as you're giving something. Exactly. And it means there's a reason
to look forward to that meeting and make sure that it does actually get on the calendar.
So it also means though that if I ever get invited to that burger restaurant, I'll know exactly what you think of me, Katie.
That's right.
I've revealed the secrets.
I'm not sure I can keep using it.
Making difficult things fun and bundling temptations together with important tasks can
help us overcome laziness and distraction.
These techniques take the tendency of the mind to focus on short-term goals,
and cleverly turns this weakness into a superpower. Another related idea that behavioral scientists have
explored is about the power of breaking big targets into a series of smaller goals.
And there's this wonderful research, Shlomo Benarzi, and Hal Hirschfeld at UCLA have done showing that if we invite
someone to save $5 a day and they did this with a large savings app, people say yes to that at a
far higher rate than if you invite them to save $35 a week or $150 a month, which if you do the
math are exactly the same opportunity, but that bite size invitation, oh $5 a day, which if you do the math, are exactly the same opportunity.
But that bite size invitation, oh, $5 a day, it doesn't sound so momentous.
And I can more easily accomplish that good outcome.
So I want to talk about a slightly related idea, which is besides breaking things up into
bite size goals, which is about setting targets, it's also really helpful to give people
feedback in the moment about how they're doing. white-sized goals, which is about setting targets, it's also really helpful to give people feedback
in the moment about how they're doing. There's something about receiving in the moment feedback
that's really helpful in maintaining motivation to what our goals. Can you talk about that idea,
Carrie, and are there studies that pointed that insight?
Yeah, and it's really important to provide feedback because we can't say we've had a success and respond
to that success by celebrating and building on that success unless we know how things are
going.
There's a study I love that was done by a team looking actually at the benefits of real
time feedback for water use of all things.
And they gave different groups shower fauc, that either displayed how much water you
were using in real time or simply tracked water use.
And it was an experiment to see if that real time feedback would help people who were trying
to cut back and be more environmentally conscious.
And as you might expect, it was incredibly valuable to be able to see in real time just how much
what are you using without that feedback.
It's really hard to understand that you've accumulated
a lot of what are used while you're in the shower,
but when you're seeing it in real time,
it's more salient, it's more vivid, and people cut back.
So it's really interesting that in some ways a challenge
is that when we are required to do something
that pays off in the distant future,
the value of exercise is not something
we're going to see today or tomorrow,
but it pays off in the distant future.
It helps in some ways to manifest that future success
in the present.
That's what you're really doing, right?
And when your treadmill tells you you have run four miles
or burned 300 calories or whatever.
It's not so much that the running four miles is meaningful,
or the burning 300 calories is meaningful.
What it's giving you is a little bit of motivation
that tells you that you're on track for that longer term goal.
That's absolutely right.
You can figure out I'm making progress.
You can pat yourself on the back and feel better.
Think of this as being related to gamification a bit, which is actually beneficial in general.
If we have some way to be able to say,
did I achieve the goal?
Can I give myself a check for today or a gold star
and pat myself on the back?
You once conducted a study looking at how people make
resolutions to go to the gym to get healthy.
And you found something striking about when people make these resolutions,
that turned out to be quite revealing as a whole body of research.
Can you tell me what the initial studies were and what you found?
Yeah, and the question was just, is there some ideal moment when people are particularly motivated to change? So my then student who's now a professor at UCLA, Heng Chen Dai, and Jason Reese, who's
a senior fellow at Warden and I, were all really fascinated and said to ourselves, we know
that New Year's is a moment when people are particularly motivated to change.
And I bet there are other moments that have that same sense of a fresh start, that same chapter break
Feeling that you get at the beginning of a new year. So we we gathered a bunch of data sets and looked to see if there are other
chapter breaks that showed similar jumps. So we looked it as you mentioned gym attendance
We also looked at when people search for the term diet on Google and we looked at when people set goals on a popular goal setting website.
And all of these data sets, what we saw was the same basic pattern where we saw spikes
in the frequency of pursuing these goals at chapter breaks that include the start of a new
week, the start of a new month, following people's birthdays, following holidays that
we associate with new beginnings.
So think more holidays like Labor Day or New Years
and less holidays like Valentine's Day.
And that was really the beginning of a line of work
that Heng Chen and I in particular
have spent a huge amount of time on looking at
what it means to have a fresh start in life
and how to use fresh starts to nudge behavior change.
in life and how to use fresh starts to nudge behavior change. So I want to talk a little bit more about the idea of fresh starts because it's such an
important and powerful idea.
And I want to start in some ways with why you think fresh starts might have this effect.
I think all of us have had this experience of hitting an important milestone on a new
birthday or even moving to a new city, for example, or a new country. And feeding like in some ways, you know, you can wipe the slit
clean, you know, the past self in some ways is erased. And you can, you can begin afresh. What do
you think is driving this at a psychological level? Yeah, I think you actually just gave a beautiful
account of it. What our research suggests is that there's this identity break, there's
a break point in our life that happens around these moments, and we actually think of life
in chapters.
So there might be, you know, the Boston years, the college years, the years working at
Accenture, you know, I don't, it depends on your life story, your life narrative.
And at those break points, including the start of a new year, the celebration of our birthday,
even the start of a new week,
we feel like we're further from our past self.
Who I was last year, that was the old me,
this is the new me, or who I was last week,
that was the old me, this is the new me,
and that gives us license to say,
well, their failures were sort of the failures
of a different person.
Yeah, last year I couldn't quit smoking
or get an exercise routine going,
but that was the old me, the new me can do it.
So it gives us more optimism and we're also more likely it seems to step back and think
big picture about our lives and our goals at those moments because they're disruptions
to the day to day and those kinds of disruptions lead to more reflection.
And most of the time when we try to set a goal or try to make a change, we do fall on our
face maybe once, maybe twice, maybe 10 times.
It's rare to succeed on your first try.
So it seems really adaptive to me that we've developed these ways of setting those failures
aside and feeling fresh motivation.
I want to add one important caveat to the fresh starts literature,
because in some ways what it's indicating really is the power of disruption in our lives.
When we can come up with disruptions that actually are real disruptions, you know,
moving to a new city or a health scare, for example, or in some ways artificial disruptions,
like the start of a new year or the start of a new season, it allows us to change things about
our lives.
But your work is also found that these fresh starts,
in some ways, can be sometimes detrimental to people.
Can you talk about when that might be?
Yeah, this is actually work that Heng Chen-Dai,
my former student, led.
And we were both really interested in whether or not
fresh starts might sometimes actually be harmful,
particularly if people were having a lot of success. interested in whether or not fresh starts might sometimes actually be harmful, particularly
if people were having a lot of success. So she had this really great idea to look at this
not only in some laboratory experiments, but also in a study of major league baseball players.
And players often get traded in the middle of a season, and you can think of that as a disruption,
right, or kind of a fresh start.
You move to a new city, you move to a new team, but there are some fresh starts that are
a lot more dramatic than others.
So there's two leagues in Major League Baseball, the American League and the National League.
And if you are traded across leagues, all of your season-to-date statistics get wiped
clean, and you have to start again.
If you're traded within leagues, you actually get to maintain all your season-to-date statistics. So, Hengshan saw
this really neat opportunity to look at players who were having a really good season-to-date
and a really weak season-to-date. And one to see if there would be different effects
of that cross-league trade relative to the within-league trade. And what she found is really
exactly what she'd hypothesized
when you're on a roll and you have that disruption, players who are performing above, well above
average, those players actually ended up seeing their performance decline more when they're traded
across leagues than within leagues. But for players who are having a week season, the cross-league
trade is more helpful because again, you really want that reset when you've been having
a tough time.
I want to look at a real life challenge that is facing people in the United States and
many other countries around the world, Katie. And that's how to get people to take the
COVID-19 vaccine. Some people are super ego to take it, of course,
but there are many people who are hesitant.
I understand that you've conducted a study
that actually answers this very question
and comes up with techniques in some ways
to get people to be more willing to get vaccinated.
Can you tell me about that work?
Yeah, it was a huge team effort that we mounted
about a year ago when it was clear that
figuring out how to encourage people to get a vaccine was going to be important to recovering
from this pandemic. And we have a team of 150 scientists who we went to and we said, okay, we're
going to partner on giant messaging studies with Walmart pharmacies and two local health systems,
Penn Medicine and Guisinger Health,
and test different communication strategies,
encouraging people to get a vaccine,
and see what works best.
And we did this test in the fall of 2020,
and we did it actually around flu vaccination
so that we would know what changed a real vaccine decision,
but we'd have the results in time
to use the best tools for motivating COVID-19 vaccinations.
So we tested ideas like telling people,
hey, everyone else is getting a vaccine, you should too,
or you should do this for the people you love to protect them.
Or sending a joke, have you heard the one about the flu?
Don't spread it around.
Maybe that would be particularly memorable and funny.
So there were all these different ideas
and what we found at all three sites,
an urban and a rural health system,
as well as Walmart pharmacies
and this test included over 700,000 Americans,
we found that the best performing message everywhere
was a simple message reminding you to get the vaccine
and saying it's been reserved for you
or it's waiting for you.
reminding you to get the vaccine and saying it's been reserved for you or it's waiting for you.
And what we think is going on there is that when someone tells you this vaccine has your name on it, it's first it gives you the sense of ownership. And we know from research on something called
the endowment effect that when you feel like something belongs to you, you're much more likely to
want it, you're less willing to give it up, you value it more.
So that might be part of the psychology.
It also gives you the sense that this is being recommended.
Why would your doctor reserve it for you?
Why would it be waiting for you if they didn't think it was a good idea?
And it may also seem like it's going to be easier to get it.
It's already set aside for me.
The hassle is going to be lessened.
So for all those reasons we suspect, although we don't know for sure, this seems to be the
best performer.
It's very clearly rising to the top in all three sites, and it's what we've been recommending.
Others, who's were seeing it adopted now, which has been really exciting.
I want to talk about one other limitation that can be turned into a super power,
and that's the idea of ignorance. Usually ignorance is a bad thing,
but if you don't know how difficult something is,
it can sometimes become easier to accomplish.
Can you tell me the story of George Dancing?
I love this story.
And I should say that Carol Dweck,
who's a brilliant social psychologist at Stanford,
is the person who taught me this amazing story.
It's the story of a graduate student
who walked into a class a little bit late.
And there's a problem written on the board,
actually a couple problems written on the board.
He jots them down, assumes their homework,
and later goes back home, he's working on them.
They're a little harder than usual,
and he notices that, and he takes them
a little longer to solve them than a typical homework set,
but he eventually solves them, and he turns them in.
What's so fascinating about this is that those were
two unsolvable problems that had been written on the board.
So his professor discovers that George Danzig
has actually solved these unsolvable problems
and comes rushing and he tells him,
oh my goodness, do you know what you've done?
Believing these were just his regular homework problems
is a big part of what helped George solve them.
He didn't treat them any differently.
He expected to find a solution.
He persisted until he did.
If he had thought they were insolvable problems,
he might not ever have attempted them
and never have had the success.
Now, most of us are not mathematicians trying to solve unsolvable problems, but we can
still see the relevance of George's experience in our own lives.
If we don't know how many people have struggled and failed at a task we're about to attempt,
we can approach that task with less trepidation.
We can focus on finding a solution rather than focus on the long odds that we face.
When we come back, how we can employ one of the most important strengths we have as human beings,
the capacity to plan years ahead to future proof our lives. You're listening to Hidden Brain,
I'm Shankar Vedantam. We've talked about the obstacles and challenges we face in changing our lives and habits.
We are distracted and forgetful.
We are lazy.
We are impulsive.
We've seen how we can get around some of our limitations
with behavioral hacks, but this can be a constant uphill struggle. To really pull off the change
we want to see, we need to do more than overcome the limitations of our present selves. We need to
make things easier for the people we are going to become. We need to future-proof our lives.
At the University of Pennsylvania's Wharton School,
research a Katie Muckman studies how to do this.
Katie, you talk about the idea of present me versus future me.
What do those terms mean?
Present me is literally living in the present.
All the decisions made in the present
and all of the things consumed and enjoyed in the present,
that's all that exists.
Future me doesn't get to enjoy any of the delights
of the present, the bowl of ice cream
that's sitting in front of you is not available
to future me, but future me will have to pay the consequences if you eat that
bowl of ice cream every night. And so future me has a whole different set of objectives to optimize
over. Future me is worried about having enough saving for retirement, worried about having excellent
health and good relationships, and so they have very different objectives, as you can see in that,
is where a challenge arises.
The comedian Jerry Seinfeld has a wonderful summary of this idea, and I want to play you
a clip of what he says.
You ever do this like late at night, and you're watching TV, and I stay up late because
I'm night guy.
Getting up after five hours late?
That's morning guy's problem.
That's not my problem.
I'm night guy. Night guy. Night guy always screws morning guy's problem. That's not my problem. I'm night guy.
Night guy always screws morning guy.
Yeah, I'm curious.
Because night guy has control of when you go to sleep.
Morning guy has to get up.
I feel I do this all the time myself, Katie.
I'm having so much fun doing something
or agreeing to some new project.
And I forget that I'm essentially binding future me to those very same choices.
Absolutely.
It's a major challenge and I think one of the most interesting things about human nature
is this is one of the challenges that we really all face and some of us figure out that we
have two selves and that they are in conflict and this is a challenge we need to resolve.
But some of us go through life without paying
a lot of attention to this fact
or trying to find ways to overcome it.
So there's really interesting psychology and economics
that comes into play though,
once a person recognizes that they have this conflict
and need to resolve it.
So I wanna talk about some of the ways
in which we can make our lives for our future selves
better than they might be otherwise.
And I wanna talk about some of these different ideas.
The research at Dan are really wants our students
to proofread the MIT newspaper
and he allowed students to choose from three options.
They could choose to meet a series of deadlines
throughout the course, turn in all of their assignments on a single due date, or in the most flexible option,
they could choose their own deadlines. Now, it might seem obvious that we all want the flexibility
to choose our own deadlines, but what a Dan are really fine.
What an economist would expect is that most of those people would set the deadline at the end
of the semester, because that gives them the maximum time and a lot of his students
Chose deadlines that were fairly evenly spaced throughout the semester just like a professor usually would do for you
But they recognize that they might need that commitment to ensure they wouldn't let all the work pile up until the very end of the semester
and if you compare the three groups of students and their performance, right,
you have a group that can turn in their assignments
whenever they would like,
because there's no deadlines,
a group that has evenly spaced deadlines,
and a group that has invented their own deadlines.
And the best performers on the last assignment,
not hugely, surprisingly,
are the ones who had the most stringent rules
where the professor
set evenly spaced deadlines for them throughout the semester.
The second best performers were the ones who had the ability to choose deadlines that were
earlier, some of whom took that opportunity.
And then the worst performers were the ones who had an all at the end deadline and no constraints
whatsoever, either imposed on them or available to them.
Because indeed, they procrastinated
and that last assignment got short-shift.
Can you talk about another idea when it comes
to future-proofing ourselves, Katie?
And that's the idea that we can set up default policies
that nudge our behavior in a certain direction.
Researchers have looked at this in a number
of different settings.
What is the power of these defaults to help us overcome our present focused tendencies and care more
about our future selves?
Defaults are this amazing tool and what defaults do also is they harness our natural laziness
but actually turn it into an asset rather than a liability. So the most famous study of
defaults probably is a study that was done looking at
people who were joining a new company that had a 401k plan, a retirement savings program.
And you could sign up for the program on your first day as a new employee and they made it
really easy to do it. For a long time, all you had to do on your first day of work was check a
little box on some paperwork you're going to fill out anyway and say, yeah, why don't you go ahead and take a little
bit of every paycheck and put it into this 401k I'd be delighted. Then they made
a key change to their paperwork. I think it was in roughly 1998. Somebody said,
let's just change the check box and say instead of checking a box to opt in,
you can actually just check a box to opt out. We'll switch it up. And that tiny change had a huge effect on people's savings decisions.
So people who joined the company just before this paperwork change and just after, you
saw about a 35 percentage point increase in retirement savings signups when they were
getting defaulted in and they just had to check a box to opt out, then if they joined
the company before and had to check a box to opt out, then if they joined the company before and had to check a box to opt in.
Because we take the path of least resistance, if I don't have to think, I don't have to
check a box and it just happens, I can be lazy and the right thing will happen naturally.
There's also this sense that this must be the recommended path or else why would it
have been set as the default and why would they be giving the option only to opt out of
what they've already set up for me?
So between laziness and the implied recommendation, it's this hugely powerful effect.
It's been shown to change all sorts of decisions from the prescribing of brand name drugs can
be reduced by changing defaults dramatically.
You can increase the number of people who agree to be organ donors and you can of course
increase retirement savings.
And again, just to be clear, in the case of the company,
people have the same choice either way.
They can elect to be part of the retirement savings plan or not.
It's just that in one case, you have to elect to join the plan.
In the other case, the default is that you're enrolled in the plan automatically,
and you have to elect to be out of the plan.
So, and in both cases, what you find is that
people are reluctant even to take the effort to check the box
of actually changing whatever the default is.
Exactly right, and it's really fascinating.
It's a really powerful tool that a policymaker or employer,
a benevolent government can use to try to help make it easier
for citizens or, again, employees
to end up with the best possible outcome because something has to be a default in most
situations.
So once you recognize the importance of them, you can try to be careful and thoughtful
and choose defaults that will lead to good outcomes.
It's also a powerful insight though for an individual who wants to improve their own outcomes that if we can set defaults in our own lives and take advantage of our own tendency to go
with the default, it will help us make better decisions. So you can think about the way you stock
your pantry, what the default foods are that are on hand. You can think about the default website.
Your browser goes to if you want it to be not Twitter, but then your time's homepage, for instance, so that you get something that's full of
enrichment as opposed to something that might take you down a rabbit hole.
So there's lots of ways in our own lives we can set up defaults, including
default savings contributions. Every paycheck you can have an automatic withdrawal
that's sent straight to a savings account so that money just disappears and goes
right where you want it to go forever after.
Another way to get defaults to work for you is to set up defaults not for your present self, but your future self.
By recognizing you have two different people inside you and planning ahead, you can take advantage of the laziness of future you to stick to the default.
of future you to stick to the default. There's this really interesting research that's been done by Richard Thaler and Shlomo
Benarzi on a program they call the Save More Tomorrow program that shows people are more
willing to save for retirement and able to save more when they're offered an opportunity
to save in the future.
So their future, self-ful experience, the pain not present me of saving.
But that future moment when they can save
is actually when they next get a raise.
So it's a moment when your income is going to increase.
And so you can think, well, gosh,
this isn't going to be all that painful, perhaps,
because all the savings that you're asking me
to set aside will come from money
that's sort of gravy on top of what I'm used to taking home.
Now, you can also set up defaults that punish future you for not meeting your goals.
You can drop a contract with your future self. If future you fails to deliver on a promise,
future you will have to pay some large penalty, like giving away a large amount of money. And these kinds of cash commitment devices are tools that researchers proving can be
really valuable to prevent future me from falling prey to present me's whims because now the price
tag is too high and and we persist longer. We stick to our goals at a higher rate
when it's too costly to fail.
I remember we had a producer on Hidden Brain some years ago
who was trying to kick the smoking habit.
And we used a technique that Dean Karlin and Ian Ayers had come up
with where he committed, the producer committed
to making a large charitable donation, but not
just to any charity.
In this case, he was promising to donate the money to a nonprofit group that he hated.
And now that makes it even more painful, because you're not just giving away your money,
but you're giving away your money to a group that you really detest.
And it turned out to be a very effective commitment device.
Yes, I love that.
I love the anti-charities.
And this is one of the two most popular cash commitment
and device websites is stickstkk.com.
And that was actually founded by Dean and Ian,
based on some of their research showing how effective this is.
And they actually have a study that shows if you give people
an opportunity to put money on the line
that they'll have to forfeit in six months if they fail a nicotine or cotenine, you're in test.
This is smokers, of course.
If they put money on the line, it significantly increases their likelihood of quitting smoking
over and above a control group that gets all the sort of usual bells and whistles on smoking
cessation advice, but no money, and no commitment device that they can put on the line
If they fail in fact, there was a 30% higher success rate among those who had access to this kind of a cash commitment device
Hmm
You're a fan of the writer Victor Hugo Katie and he came up with an astonishing
Commitment device in order to finish writing his great novel the hunchback of Notre Dame
Can you tell me what he did?
Yes, absolutely. Victor Hugo was having trouble like all of us do with procrastination,
and he was going out to parties. He was a big socialite, and he wasn't hitting his deadline.
His publisher told him, you've got to do it. You've got to hit this, and he realized he had a problem.
So he used a clever commitment device, which is he locked up his clothes.
so he used a clever commitment device, which is he locked up his clothes.
And the punchline is, because he couldn't go out in public
anymore, he's naked, basically at home.
All he could do was write.
He's able to get this magnificent piece
of literature finished.
It's so interesting, Katie.
So many of the ideas we're talking about here have echoes
in the story from ancient Greek mythology involving Eulissi's and the song of the sirens.
Can you tell me that story and how that idea has manifested and what are sometimes called
Eulissi's contracts today, where people come up with ways to prevent their future selves
from making bone-headed mistakes. Yeah, Eulissie was on this adventure and knew that he and his crew were aware that they were about to go past a legendary island inhabited by
CNIMF's sirens whose song was so tempting and so sweet that every other crew that had gone past this island
had been lured closer and closer to shore to listen to the sound of the sweet sirens voices.
And they'd eventually all died because the closer you get to shore, the more likely you are to
end up among these rocks that lead to shipwreck. So Elyseys knows he's coming up on this
temptation that no one before him has
been able to resist and that's led them all to perish. And he comes up with a strategy that's
going to allow him to get through at a commitment device. What he does is he says, okay, he wants everyone
in his crew to plug their ears with wax so they won't be able to hear the sounds of the sirens
and they won't be tempted to go off course, but he actually wants to experience their sweet song, so he asks his crew to bind him to the mast.
So he will be unable to redirect the ship, but able to enjoy the sounds of the sirens voices
without having any impact on his health and safety.
And so this has become a famous example of a commitment device.
He comes up with a way to bind himself in advance so that he can achieve his long-term
goals without letting temptation get in the way of that good outcome.
So if we can plan in advance, present bias isn't such a problem. And if we can plan in advance
knowing present bias is coming down the line, it will try to bite us. It will try to take us off course. While planning and advance is the best tactic
we can use to avoid ever falling prey to that challenge.
One of the things I'm taking away
from our conversation in General Katie
is the importance in some ways of seeing our foibles
and flaws, not in judgmental terms,
but in sort of non-judgmental terms.
It's striking as I was reading your book, I discovered something that I hadn't known before.
You actually studied to be an engineer at one point.
And in some ways, this whole approach of thinking about our minds almost as engineering problems,
I think, comes across very clearly in this book, which is you're not sort of being judgmental
or wagging a finger or saying you're a bad person for being impulsive or easily
Distracted or lazy. You're saying these are just the ways our minds work. How do we design in some way solutions to protect us from ourselves?
Can you talk about that idea that in some ways being non-judgmental about ourselves can help us become the people we want to be?
Yeah, it really is the key premise of the book and I do think because I learned to think like an engineer about problem-solving to recognize,
you can't solve a problem unless you understand the forces of opposition and then strategically
overcome them.
If there's one lesson really that's come from almost 20 years of research on behavioral
science and trying to change behavior for the better.
It is that too often we don't think, like engineers, we just look for a one-size-fits-all solution to problems
and don't take the time to figure out what is the obstacle I need to overcome.
And I think being non-judgmental but analytical about those problems is critical
to allowing us to see the solution,
to see the path to the best possible outcome.
And I hope people take one thing away from the book
from my research, even from this conversation.
It would be that the importance of thinking strategically
of recognizing once you understand
what your limitations are, what's holding you back,
you can be much more successful
because you can work around them.
Kati Muthman is a behavioral scientist
at the University of Pennsylvania's Wharton School.
She's the author of How to Change,
the science of getting from where you are,
to where you want to be.
Kati, I've wanted to have you on the show
for a very long time.
Thank you so much for joining me today on Hidden Brain.
Thank you so much for having me. This was tremendously fun.
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