Last Podcast On The Left - Strange Customs: An Interview with Sasha Sagan

Episode Date: December 27, 2024

Happy Holidays... (Happy HA-LI-DAYS)!The boys are off enjoying ham by the fire so in lieu of a new episode this week Henry & Eddie sit down with new friend of the show - author of For Small Creatures ...Such as We: Rituals for Finding Meaning in Our Unlikely World - podcaster and producer - Sasha Sagan joins the show to discuss the "Strange Customs" of human-beings, growing up under the paternal guidance of science icons Ann Druyan & Carl Sagan, Santa Clause vs. The Tooth-Fairy, Astrology, and MORE!Last Podcast on the Left returns to our regular scheduling next week with Black Dahlia Murder Part III! Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ on Apple Podcasts to listen to ad-free new episodes and get exclusive access to bonus content.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Do you want to listen to last podcast on the left without ads? Do you want extra content? Do you want to see what it's like behind the scenes? Patreon.com slash last podcast on the left. Very special day today. Oh, absolutely. Very special. Will we rise to the occasion?
Starting point is 00:00:18 I hope so. You better. I have to. I'm looking at you, Eddie. Well, this is finally I get a skeptic. Yeah, it's nice. It's not another crazy person I roll in here. I'd have to just talk to someone and pretend to believe what they're saying.
Starting point is 00:00:31 Yeah, it's not normal. Like, you know, you don't have to roll in. We don't have to go like, yes, of course, vampires. They are an unignored constituency. And they really do. Where is Kamala on this? Thank you, our wonderful, trepid patreon listeners. I am Henry Zabrowski. I'm sitting here with Ed Larson Hello, and we we have a very special guest today someone again. We talked right before very bright
Starting point is 00:00:56 Very smart. I don't know what we're gonna do With this person. Oh, you're just scared that she's gonna tell you aliens aren't real. I am My little soul can't handle it But this is somebody I really like we're so excited to have The author of for small creatures such as we and the host of the podcast strange customs I'm really excited because it's really cool. This is one of those things. It's a part of the world I'm super fascinated about like why do we do what we do? We have author
Starting point is 00:01:28 creative mind podcast host Sasha Sagan Hello, it's so nice to be with you both. Thanks for that hilarious and Charming introduction. It's we're trying we are trying obviously also. I don't want to always be like famous daughter, but you know like you're The famous daughter of someone is the saddest you know I mean, but it's not not when it's like this I mean, thank you I do I mean a lot of my work and definitely my worldview is based on my parents work
Starting point is 00:01:59 So I feel like it's part of my identity Oh, yeah, cuz what do you can what can you do cuz like Carl Sagan is your father I followed my father's work. I'd be in prison. Yeah, exactly. If I followed my father's work, I'd be drunk at Hogs and Heffers right now Doing our best Can I actually we'll just start with that like as the daughter of Carl Sagan like does it start like do people immediately assume obviously I know you're genius because I was reading your essays you know you're very smart right way too kind but you're very smart but it's the idea of like like people when they roll up are they like nervous or
Starting point is 00:02:37 are they like like or is it all like what's daddy like what was daddy like or is it all like because you want to find at the heart of the man? You sound like you know this wonderful bold and benevolent you just yeah Yeah, yeah, like a sweet man like so what's it like having a walk around with it Is it a burden or or a wonderful treasure? Oh, it's a wonderful treasure. I mean, I feel so lucky I mean both my parents my mom and reanne and my dad Both my parents, my mom, Andrea, and my dad, collaborated on books and essays on the original Cosmos series in the 80s, which my mom has written and produced
Starting point is 00:03:10 and directed the new version of with Neil deGrasse Tyson. I didn't even know that. I had no idea how fully involved she was in the fact that like hunting for it for years, trying to get the Cosmos remake. Wow. Yes. Absolutely. No, Yes, absolutely. No, she's amazing.
Starting point is 00:03:26 And both my parents, I mean, you know, in terms of like, is it a burden? It's really not. I feel so lucky. I lost, you know, my dad was amazing and he was a really fun, great dad. And I lost him when I was 14. And so when I meet people who have questions about him or read his work, like, you know, started reading his work a couple years ago when or even weren't even born in 1996, I feel this immense like joy and gratitude that in this way, in this totally secular real
Starting point is 00:03:59 way he is living on. And no, I love talking about it. And my book is, you know, partly about growing up in that household and growing up with the worldview of, you know, that science is the pathway to not just understanding and like, not just to like reality, but to awe and wonder and joy and that spine tingling feeling that we are part of something larger than ourselves. So how does the government weather machine work then?
Starting point is 00:04:29 Honestly, let's get down to brass tacks. I'm so glad you asked. You're a science person. Why did Biden send hurricanes to Florida? Why would he do such a thing? No, I feel like, I mean, I feel like the it's interesting because I think there is this correlation between, you know, the conspiracy theories and so much of the history of religion because we are so uncomfortable not knowing it is torture for us.
Starting point is 00:05:02 The future is so unrelenting with our inability to predict it. It's miserable. And I mean, right now, as we are, I don't know when this is going to air, but as we are in the lead up to the election, I mean, it's like- What's happening? What's going on right now? It's so bad. You're going to want to have a seat because it's really intense. But I think that like just this discomfort with not knowing the answer to small and deep profound questions, we humans, you know, we fill stuff in because even if it's something bad, even if it's something disturbing, we somehow are more comfortable with that than
Starting point is 00:05:39 just the open space of a question. It drives me crazy because you believe in the Bible and God's the ultimate weather machine. He flooded the earth, you know, apparently, you know, destroyed everybody and they worship God. So if they believe that Biden flooded Florida, shouldn't they worship him? It's a long story. It's a web of meteorology. It's a web of meteorology. But I kind of feel like it's why we're at where we're at right now in terms of the temperament of the country is that we track when we travel in the world of conspiracy theory all the
Starting point is 00:06:15 time. And it is funny because it is as much of a faith as anything else because you kind of believe that like a faith in the deep state means that you believe that there's a daddy somewhere making sure that there's a plan. Exactly. And I think that if you're raised with a worldview that there is someone, a man in charge who makes decisions that you cannot possibly understand, and it seems like it's a bad thing, but maybe there's a good reason and you're not allowed to ask any questions and you just have to agree it sets you up for all kinds of other ideologies.
Starting point is 00:06:49 Yes. Now do you find that that's like what led you towards investigating the customs of humans? Yes. Well, I think it's a combination of two things. Like what's a custom? Like what do you mean by like a like always like what do you call it? Like so like if you were to take like so part of the reason I'm interested in this is because when I was a kid my dad would like love to do these thought experiments about like how would I like if I were to meet someone from you know another planet um how would I explain what we were doing and why we were doing it? Cool. And it was great because also when you're a child, you're new on Earth and you're still getting a
Starting point is 00:07:33 hang of all these norms. And it's very easy once you become an adult to be very blase about, well, that's just the way we do things. But when you're a child, you're like, well, why do we say something after someone sneezes, but not after they burp? And then parents sometimes get very annoyed with the long list of why questions, because then they have to ask themselves these. And so I loved always looking at the things we do from the outside. And so that's sort of the impetus for the Strange Customs podcast. Like if you were an anthropologist from somewhere else, how would you explain, you know, marriage, anything from like marriage and, you know, rituals around birth to like April Fool's Day or, you know, I mean, Halloween is a perfect example. I think it's that. And I'm
Starting point is 00:08:24 also really interested in customs and traditions because as a non-religious person, I mean, Halloween is a perfect example. I think it's that, and I'm also really interested in customs and traditions because as a non-religious person, I still want to mark time and process change. And I still, you know, want to grieve when someone dies. And I got married and had a wedding. And like, when the seasons change, I want to have a celebration, but I don't have the infrastructure of religion.
Starting point is 00:08:42 So how do we do that? There's a, I think there's a distinct difference between ritual and spirituality when it comes to our species. Do you think it's connected? Do you think it's like we as a primate, we must have rituals? No, I don't think we must. But I think that it gives us sometimes, depending on the ritual, it's either the illusion of control. If it's a ritual that we believe changes something, makes something happen, or it's about processing
Starting point is 00:09:18 change, right? Like someone's alive and then they are not alive. The thing, whatever this is, goes away. How do we make sense of that? How do we process this change? Or if you think about all the coming of age rituals around the world, right? Someone is a child and then like, oh, all these chemicals come in and their voice changes and there's hair and they're in a weird mood and everything's different suddenly and then they're an adult. And like that threshold, we have to acknowledge that. And I think that, you know, when we sort of look at so many rituals around the world, when you peel back the first layer of like the local set design
Starting point is 00:09:56 and costumes and script, we are almost always celebrating the same things. And they are so often scientific phenomena, likeuberty is like a biological change, right? The changing of the seasons has to do with the biology of the plants and it has to do with the axial tilts of the Earth, right? And all these holidays that fall around the solstices and equinoxes. It's because we sometimes make up a different backstory, but we're all trying to process the same patterns and make sense of them and find the beauty in them and alleviate our fears. That's so fascinating. Do you think it would be better for young men to be left in the middle of the woods
Starting point is 00:10:35 to try to come back instead of getting Jordan Peterson? I mean, if those are the only two options. How about we take Jordan Peterson and leave him in the middle of the woods? If he comes back, then we have to keep it. Now, I honestly are so my father was Jewish. My mother is Catholic, so I'm an atheist and in. But I still love Christmas. I think Christmas is amazing.
Starting point is 00:11:01 I love celebrating. I got a tree. But like sitting there and worshiping Jesus is insane to me So it's and it's boring. Yeah It's just I mean in general I don't like people's birthday, you know, and so Birthday it's just co-opted from the winter solstice Roman stuff Exactly, but so what do you do around the holidays? Yes. Co-opted from the winter solstice Roman stuff. Exactly. But, so what do you do around the holidays? I know you were, you know, if you were, if you had to like identify as a religion, which
Starting point is 00:11:32 I'm pretty secular Jewish, correct? Yes. That's right. Yes. I mean, my ancestors, when I do a DNA test, it's like a hundred, I think they can only say like 99.9%, but it's like Ashkenazi Jew. And I'm like, I know. But yeah.
Starting point is 00:11:46 So do you celebrate Hanukkah? Like, what do you do as, you know, someone who doesn't really have faith? I do everything. So we do Hanukkah as a kind of like historical reenactment. You know, like we do it in this way to say to our children, like, this is what your ancestors were doing for thousands of years, and see this thematic through line about the light in the darkness, the days are short in the Northern Hemisphere, and so we do this. And then my husband's family, my husband's also
Starting point is 00:12:15 secular, but his family is historically Christian. And, you know, my mother-in-law does a lot of fun Christmas stuff, and we do that stuff too. And again, in the context of this is a way to honor our ancestors and also because Christmas is so, I mean, it's so ubiquitous. It's like you have to really make a choice to not celebrate it. Especially with kids. It's hard. It's hard to be like, we don't celebrate Christmas. Well, they have to deal with it. More at school too. Totally. And I mean, it's not like I mean, it wouldn't be fair.
Starting point is 00:12:52 It's just because, you know, my husband did grow up with Christmas. So it's like, if I'm allowed to do my secular Hanukkah thing, we got to do that too. And then the other thing that we do is the winter solstice. It's not in a witchy way, although I have a lot of no shade about that, but in a way of saying, tomorrow, no matter what, the days are going to start getting longer again. And right now it gets dark very early, and that is unpleasant. But because of the axial tilt of the earth and the way it goes around the sun, tomorrow, I promise you, little by little, we will have more sunlight
Starting point is 00:13:31 and eventually return to summer. We do a dinner and we celebrate that too. I just think all the cultural stuff I love, but I think getting to the part that is irrefutable and real and good that like the days are gonna start getting longer and that's amazing is worth celebrating. So you don't do the extended Santa lie? No, we do not do any Santa, I should say.
Starting point is 00:13:58 We do like, we do gifts on Christmas usually with my husband's family, but we do not do- But they're straight from Jesus Christ. Santa drives me crazy. No middleman. No middleman. Straight from God. Yes. It's just like Santa Claus is just like putting the thought into all children that their parents
Starting point is 00:14:16 are liars. But I also love the lie that there's a part of me that wants to continue the lie. I love the idea of going in and- Fuck that. I bought the gifts. This is daddy like, let's say this is daddy's money. You know, like Santa didn't fucking go out go onto the computer and find the Hot Wheels track. I just love fooling children. Sorry, we're yelling.
Starting point is 00:14:37 I need to know. I feel so in On Strange Customs, we did an episode about Santa and it's called The Conspiracy and it's with Nicole Richie. Actually, it was really funny. And this idea that like, it is like, I mean, that maybe also sets children up to believe in conspiracies because it is a, I mean, the idea that NORAD is like in on this lie is incredible.
Starting point is 00:15:01 Like- We- Tax dollars are spent. I mean, it's amazing how much effort we all collectively put in. And it's like almost this, like one of the most taboo things is to like blow that up for children. And like, don't worry, I don't go around being like,
Starting point is 00:15:17 you know, that's bullshit. Like when I pick my daughter up from second grade instead of the other children, don't worry. Ms. Sagan, we're actually gonna have to ask you to please stop disseminating the power of pure information to the children, okay? She's gonna have to start taking the bus home if you insist on showing up at pickup with us.
Starting point is 00:15:36 So what do you tell her? Do you say that Santa isn't real, but keep the lie going for your classmates? No, I say that everyone eventually finds out. I'm not gonna ever lie to you, but it's not for us to tell other children because their parents have a plan for when they're going to find out. And, you know, what's funny though is there's another fictional character who I did kind of, I mean, luckily my daughter's really skeptical. So it's now like this running
Starting point is 00:16:04 joke open secret, but I don't feel as strongly about like the tooth fairy as they do about Santa. Why is that? Why is the tooth fairy fine? No, it feels like the tooth fairy is even more ubiquitous than Santa. It's interesting because it's like, so the, the, the, the scholar that we interviewed about this on my podcast was saying that one of the big differences is everybody can picture Santa, but the tooth fairy is very open to interpretation and it's not like a singular creature that everybody agrees on. So it's sort of more, it doesn't feel like this lie. It just feels like this like
Starting point is 00:16:45 amorphous like joke. And it's also not like the magic is ruined when you find out that your mother put $2 under your pillow. You know what I mean? It's just like, just give me the money upfront. Well, that's it. It was also my introduction to money to be honest with you. It was the first time I made money. It was like a job. Yeah. Yeah. Yes. And it's the, I mean, if
Starting point is 00:17:05 you want to talk about strange customs, it is the weirdest thing ever. I mean, imagine if it was not like, if we hadn't all grown up with it and you were reading in like an anthropology textbook about some distant tribe or Island somewhere where when the children come of age and their teeth start falling out of their mouths, they put it under their pillow and then like a mystical like spirit from the forest with wings comes and takes part of their body that has fallen out and leaves them so like, you know, leaves them money. The currency, the local currency. Who's the Tooth Fairy selling his teeth to? I mean, I don't know. Why does she need them?
Starting point is 00:17:49 Who benefits? Why does she need them? No one just spends money. They're either looking for votes or they're looking for something else. They've got something on you. Now, she's going to frame these children for crimes later, leaving their DNA at the scene. I don't know. Oh my God.
Starting point is 00:18:04 It seems suspicious. The To tooth fairy is Jeffrey Epstein. For the sake of kind of asking though, is it more the tooth fairy for some reason? Is it more here in America or is it across the globe? I don't think it's, I mean, I have to do some research to tell you. We haven't done a full tooth fairy episode yet, but that is something I really want to do. But no, I think it's definitely Western culture. I don't think it's global. I'm going to look into it. This is a good question.
Starting point is 00:18:30 Yeah. I don't know if necessarily everybody's paying off their kids. Now we've talked about Christmas and religion, and I really want to get your opinion on the afterlife. Your father famously said, I don't want to believe, I want to know. And so there is no, there is nothing to me. Like my dad died twice. He, you know, the first time he died, he had no idea that anything ever happened. He's like, there's nothing.
Starting point is 00:19:01 And the second time, you know, it was very uneventful. Yeah, it was the, it was the last time it was the it was the last time he died. It was the last time he died. So it's in a lot of people really, really want to believe in a life after death. Me personally, it makes no sense to me. But yet I'm on a I'm on a very popular podcast, we talk about paranormal activity and ghosts a lot and stuff like that. And also my family's very spiritual. So I'm just kind of wondering where your opinion lies on a life after death, a purgatory, the existence of ghosts. Like, I know there's 10 questions in there, but you can just wrap that up pretty good. That'd be great. You can take your belief system and sort of kind of wrap that up.
Starting point is 00:19:39 Oh no, this is like my favorite thing to talk about. I know. Yeah, I mean, it's 10 questions, but it's really one question. And so my perspective is in order to believe, for me to believe something, I need evidence. I need real evidence. And so to say, when people say, do you believe in something, this is like, the implication is like, is it what you like your best guest, your hope or whatever. And my position is I don't believe in an afterlife. I don't believe in anything in the air quotes like paranormal because without evidence, how can we possibly know what is just our hopes and our wishes and our confirmation bias or our fears and what is real? That is to say also there,
Starting point is 00:20:26 we are getting more information, that's the magic of science. But if any of this were real and there comes a day where it is proven true, it will be supported by some evidence. It will stand up to scrutiny, right? There are lots of things we didn't understand in human history that now we understand.
Starting point is 00:20:43 I mean, if you said like a few, you know, millennia ago, like, I believe that the moon controls the ocean controls the tides, right? That could be like something like a person would say, yeah, totally a what a witch would say 100%. But then once you get gravity and like Newton, like kind of works out how this could work, it becomes real. And what I think is sort of the key is that can we still hold on to like the awe and enthusiasm and the sense of like, oh my God, holy shit, this is amazing and stunning and exhilarating and spine-tingling
Starting point is 00:21:25 about the stuff that we have evidence for that is real and hold out, just hold an open space for the stuff that could just be wishful thinking or fears or hopes or ancient rumors. And I just think, you know, like the example I always give is there is a secret code in your blood that connects you to your ancestors that can solve mysteries that we did not know about a few decades ago, 60, 70 years ago.
Starting point is 00:21:56 And that is the key to answering so many questions, reuniting lost family members, figuring out like all these history. And like, if you, by the time you're doing like your allele worksheets in middle school, DNA doesn't seem like this magical, mystical, thrilling thing, but I think it is. And so whatever things that we currently categorize as paranormal, we have to just like hold an empty space
Starting point is 00:22:27 until there's evidence because we humans are so inclined to fall into the traps of our own belief systems. And I do believe everything can eventually be chased down and charted, but I do think partially it's because the, would you say even the bandwidth for what you'd consider evidence also kind of expands with science and technology and understanding? Sure. And like the thing that my parents always told me that's so magnificent about science is it has this error correcting mechanism, right? You're a better scientist if you prove that the conventional wisdom is wrong.
Starting point is 00:23:05 If you can really prove it, like if you really, it can really stand up to scrutiny. And sometimes we believe things for centuries and then they end up being disproven. But like this system is our best bet because we're not that good at figuring out what's real and what's not historically. Do you think that there's a standardized version of science across the universe itself? I like be like the universe, like beyond. Let's say we go to another place, right? Like,
Starting point is 00:23:37 cause I'm certain does this extend to like alien life? Like the idea that there's probably some form, right? I mean, I don't know. We don't have the evidence, right? So the idea of an alien race living on another planet, like live with a society that can think we just, that's just kind of conjecture, technically. But where do you stand on it? You asked me about like when like people come, like come up to me and like when I was a kid and people would come up to my dad, I mean he would get the like in like airports and restaurants like Dr. Sagan, great to meet you. Like, do you believe in aliens?
Starting point is 00:24:18 Aliens, where they at? Yeah, exactly. I mean like and it's and and people really wanted to know and they were genuinely, I mean who wouldn't want to know? I mean, it was like genuine curiosity. You're a smart guy. I'm a moron. You tell me what you think. Yeah. Right. And I mean, this is like before like social media or anything. And so you're just like, Oh my goodness, perfect person to ask this question. And he would say, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:24:41 And they would say, Oh, but what does your gut tell you? And he would say, well, I don't use my gut for this. I use my brain. And we just don't. And he would have loved, and I can't underscore this enough, he would have loved to have lived to see some evidence that there was life elsewhere in the universe. But he, like the quote that you just mentioned, he didn't want to just fall back on his wishes and hopes.
Starting point is 00:25:08 He wanted to really know. And so I think just like holding that space open for not knowing. But your question about like, is science uniform? Yeah, like do you think that if you go to another place, like do you think that like in another solar system and another galaxy, like would would physics change? What are stuff changed? Like, do or is the belief of science that there's
Starting point is 00:25:30 like, there is a running theme that would hold true or is it quite, is it possible that like things could be entirely different in another part of the universe? I think things would be entirely different. But I think that if we think about like, I mean, science as like, the coat, like nature, the way we understand nature, the way the physical laws of nature exist, it's not a set of like, it's not a list of like, things to like, figures and formulas, it's a method to understand. And whatever we were to encounter somewhere else,
Starting point is 00:26:08 surely it would be like amazingly different. But whatever we were able to glean through evidence about what life or not life existence, inanimate existence maybe there was, would be science. Because I feel like almost in a way that's not faith, you're looking for evidence, but almost in a way it feels like science has this kind of, there is a faith in the idea that this,
Starting point is 00:26:37 our ideas of science will hold. Right, maybe? Well, I disagree because the fact that we're like, the goal is to constantly test it. And then when there's new information change accordingly is kind of to me, I mean, sometimes faith gets used. Yes. Like sometimes faith gets used as like optimism or like positive, like having a good attitude and like I'm all for that. You know what I mean? If it's like, Oh, things look terrible. And it's like, have some faith. I mean, like it could work out. That would be great. You know what I mean? Like that is a different thing than the idea that no matter what you're presented with, no matter
Starting point is 00:27:17 what evidence is brought your way, you will not waver. That is a different thing. And I feel like that is antithetical to science. Yeah. And so it's like a quest for truth and knowledge kind of, you know, it would change depending on what you were testing, you know, and what you are like, yeah, what you what is true on earth wouldn't be true on Ramulon or whatever place doesn't exist, you know, so unless we do then find out that all science has like a, there's like a bottom law, like there's like something that we're all connected to, which is what I think is the, the literally
Starting point is 00:27:51 the hope we hope that it would all, I feel like scientists would be, how do you, I'd say the term would be fucked if they ended into another section of the universe and they're like, Oh no, it's the fuel stopped working. You know what You know, like the stuff stopped working. We're screwed. Yeah. Sure. Yes, totally. But if we could somehow, even with everything that we're used to from our planet and solar system, not working, if we can somehow then glean what's different, why it's different, what the like structure of it all is that pursuit would still be science. Yeah. Cause you would have to find, discover whatever new elements are in this different place and like whatever new gases that we have no ever heard of, you know, exists in
Starting point is 00:28:35 another place, you know, because it all doesn't exist in the bubble we call earth. I agree. And I just, I just think it's like no matter what, like it's the, when, if we ever get to go out into the universe and get some new gases, as you say, or we got to get new gases, I'm sick of these old ass gases. That's the number one thing we're looking for. I'm brewing some of my own right now. I think no matter what we find, but it will just underscore how precious and rare this planet is.
Starting point is 00:29:09 Yes, I agree completely. So we've been talking about outer space, going other planets, stars and whatnot. I gotta ask, just because it drives me crazy. Astrology does it hold any merit? Am I the same as everyone born on October 5th? He's such a Libra about this. Like honestly, as soon as he starts talking about it, I'm like, oh, is the Libra talking?
Starting point is 00:29:42 I have the same problem actually, because first of all, happy belated birthday. Because in Los Angeles we have to talk in astrology. Yeah, I hope you understand that. Oh no, I know. I wrote about this in my book and I've spent a lot of time in Los Angeles and I have the same problem because people are like, what sign are you? And I'm like, I'm a Scorpio, but I don't believe that there is any evidence
Starting point is 00:30:06 to support astrology and they're like, oh, of course you would be intense about that. Yeah, totally. Yeah, start a huge argument about it. No, it's a huge problem actually that, I mean, is it a huge problem in the grand scheme of things? No, but I think, so no, astrology does not, it's not supported by evidence. And how would that even
Starting point is 00:30:26 work if it were how what like that's the kind of the crux of all of this, like, how would what planets and stars were in what, like position above your, like above the hospital when you were born have any impact on your personality? Like how would that work, you know? And I think it's just, yes, no, I'm, I guess. My personality changes with a head injury. It doesn't matter where the stars are. Who knows, maybe that could reveal your rising. But I think that the thing that I really,
Starting point is 00:31:03 that I, the thing about astrology that really gets me is I think the desire for it, like the hunger for it and the hunger for like a lot of stuff in that genre, like crystals and things like that, is because we do have this desire to be, to feel like we're part of the universe. And we do have that desire to feel like connected to the earth the universe. We do have that desire to feel connected to the earth and feel that, and I think especially if people are not religious, there is that hunger to feel connected to one another, and to the grandeur and majesty of the universe.
Starting point is 00:31:42 I think that that is valid, but I just don't think astrology or crystals are the road there. You're just destroying the market here. Okay. There's a lot of stuff that we got. A lot of stuff is engine on astrology here. Finally talking to someone like me.
Starting point is 00:32:01 I'm sure, it was so convincing. They're gonna close up all their little crystal shops in Los Angeles. Just start crying. Problem solved. Yeah, yeah. They're burning all their tapestries, throwing the incense out. Yeah, open up just a science library instead. So as, because I'm so fascinated by the concept of religion and why people are getting
Starting point is 00:32:26 so crazy about it. It seems like the radicalness of religion is on the rise, but also it seems like atheism or sometimes listed as just none when you have to click a box is also, I think, the third religion in the world right now. Do you think it's going to continue to rise as, as time goes? Or do you think it's going to go down? It seems to be kicking back kinda in a way. Well, I do think the rise of like, um, sort of normalizing a lack of religion.
Starting point is 00:32:59 I do think that it can make more fanaticism because sometimes you dig your heels in deeper when you feel like there is a threat. And I think that even the most devout, most religious, traditional person alive today is doing things very differently than their ancestors were doing a thousand years ago. Nobody is like perfectly following this ancient thing. We are all changing and adapting and pulling things out of ancient texts that seem important and letting other things that were maybe the headline fall by the wayside and sort of just like anything,
Starting point is 00:33:45 traditions, rituals, religions, they have to mutate in order to survive. And so I think change is inevitable and it's not so much a scale to me of like more religious or less religious necessarily, it's that it's gonna change over time, it's gonna reflect the moment, change over time. It's going to reflect the moment. What are the changes we want to make?
Starting point is 00:34:07 What is the future that you want to create for the next generation, whether you're secular or religious? And I think that if you're holding on, like white knuckle holding on to elements of a religion that divide, that belittle the people that are different, that cause violence, then you are not helping. I'm just going to go out on a limb here and say, I don't like it. And most times, honestly, even the core of the religion that they are believing in doesn't
Starting point is 00:34:42 actually reflect what they're doing. So obviously, look at the Christian nation state they wanna build. It is specifically like, you know, it seemed that Jesus was a easy going guy. You know what I mean? The whole thing, the live and let live thing, all that kind of horse shit.
Starting point is 00:34:58 And you talking about how nice he was. Yes, feeding people who are hungry. Yes. Taking care of the sick, all that kind of stuff. It seems that- Including people who are outcast yes. Taking care of the sick, all that kind of stuff. It seems that- Including people who are outcasts, yes. That stuff doesn't seem like it's so- Centered.
Starting point is 00:35:12 That has not been the main headline in the Christian nationalist movement, and I have a bone to pick with them about that. That's what I do with them. I really do. I have had it up to here with the Christian, crystal fascist nationalist thing. We're not on the same page. Yeah, I mean it's a mirror right religion like anything it's a mirror you want a
Starting point is 00:35:34 reason to feed the poor you want a reason to do you know acts of kindness to build a hospital you can find it you want a reason to feel like you're better your little little group is the one good group, and everybody else can just suffer, then you can find that too. And I just think more and more it's, well, maybe always, but I think I see a lot of it is about identity and not about theology. It is, right, people who like identify really strongly with a group, but maybe haven't done the reading. I think that is it, and that goes back to something very ancient and very tribal.
Starting point is 00:36:13 And maybe there was some evolutionary advantage tens of thousands of years ago to be like, we live in a band of 20 or 30 people and we gotta just survive and we can't trust anybody else. But now we got each other's backs no matter what. Yeah. Right. But now our village is eight billion people and counting and we got to start looking at it that way because the differences between the groups and like I said, like the set design and the script and the costume is superficial and it is totally unimportant.
Starting point is 00:36:45 And that is the greatest gift of the cosmic perspective is when we get to zoom out and we're not down here seeing where the world feels really big and the differences feel really extreme. But when we can look at the image of the Earth from space, and we see that all these borders are artificial, and that if anyone were to show up from anywhere else, we would be indistinguishable, one group to another.
Starting point is 00:37:15 And that I think that we have to just use this amazing gift that science has given us to see ourselves on this lifeboat together in this vast ocean to realize that the little things that people are willing to kill each other over are just absolutely superficial and meaningless. Yes. I always go back to a conversation I had with a religious leader when I was a kid and they ... a kid teenager, but whatever.
Starting point is 00:37:45 And I remember them saying like, if you don't believe, then what actually keeps you from sinning? And now that I look back on it, you know, I said morality, but like the, but I also think that like your concept of a sin is probably different than my concept of a sin because like you think that I can't say the word God if I'm not saying it in the right way. You know, while like they're rampant abuse throughout the entire fucking church system that it's like, would you guys seem to have like, like that's cool. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:38:16 But if you have to believe in hell to not steal or beat somebody, it doesn't stop them from doing bad things. Does it? Right, but also that's such a reveal because it's saying I would be a serial killer if I wasn't worried that somebody was watching. That's the really scary thing about that argument to me is because it's like the idea of getting caught or getting in trouble or getting your comeupp and later on is the reason you're not doing like really bad things. And then about the all the little other things that they don't like all the little sexual infractions of better like with between consenting adults
Starting point is 00:38:54 or by yourself or like all the things that they don't like. It's like well then if no one's hurt like you're two people getting married and just because they have the same parts, it's like, well, then we don't need, you don't need to not do that. Like if no one's being hurt, then it's okay. And if someone is being hurt, you should have another method, another system internally that says this is bad besides being on the CCTV of the universe.
Starting point is 00:39:25 The Lord itself, yeah, watching you. besides being on the CCTV of the universe. The Lord itself, yeah, watching you. I just do it, it's just so fun. I think that what you're saying is correct. It's really, because we, the concept of people want a group to belong to. Because it's scary out there. Totally. It's scary out there and it's hard.
Starting point is 00:39:40 And I think that people are willing to join a group, especially like, you know, what we're seeing in current American politics Which is this idea of like the for one side the barrier to entry is extremely low All you have to do is show up and they kind of accept you no matter what Spectrum of hatred you bring to the fold you know I mean right there kind of happy almost they're like oh look We got a new type of hate Look how diverse our hate is I?
Starting point is 00:40:15 Think which is truly incredible like honestly in a way of how many spectrums of hate there is and and how they can find Community why can't we on the other side? well, I Mean, I think there is like I mean I do think there is community and like I think that when we can look at ourselves as belonging to the planet, I think we can, you know, and the thing that I really admire about religion, even though I'm not religious, and I'm critical of it in a lot of ways, is the sense of community and the sense of belonging and having a group that comes together when, you together when times are tough and celebrates when things are going well. And I think for those of us who are not religious,
Starting point is 00:40:52 we have to build that for ourselves. And I think being in one of the best ways to get that feeling is being involved in causes that you believe in and volunteering and social justice, doing things to make things more how you hope them to be. And it sort of also fills that need of like, okay, this is my group and we go with like stuffed envelopes together or whatever canvas. And I think there's something really to be said for that because we do want to feel like we're part of something, but it shouldn't be something that is we're part of something, but you know, it just, it shouldn't be something that is we're part of something that makes us superior to everybody else.
Starting point is 00:41:29 Yes. I agree with that. It was hard for me a long time because my mom was, you know, without my father for a long time and, and she would go to church all the time and give them money and stuff. I'm like, well, you're just giving them, you know, your hard earned money is driving me crazy. But then like the entertainment in me is like, Oh, that's just the price of admission for the show. Well, that's how I kind of felt too. I was obsessed with being a priest as a little boy and it was really just because, Oh yeah. But it was because I realized over time it was because he had guaranteed time.
Starting point is 00:41:58 The priest had an hour every week where everybody had to show up and believe everything that that guy had to say. And he could say whatever you wanted and then Eventually realized like oh I could be a comedian. Yeah, like I don't need this power Yeah, you know like I can do and you can do it more than an hour a week and oh, yeah Look at me now. All I do is yeah Yeah, and you don't have to learn Latin or whatever Um, so that's good. Not unless we're trying to break into Vatican City podcast, Marko,
Starting point is 00:42:27 which has honestly been very difficult. Yes, I can tell that would be. It is so hard to get into the papacy podcast. Now, world. It's mainly just one guy who's kind of controlling that. Yeah. I'm gonna go to the other side. I'm gonna go to the other side.
Starting point is 00:42:43 Thank you for Squarespace. Use code, Big Pope 90 for Squarespace. Now, I got to ask this question just because you're here and Henry's here. Henry fancies himself a Satanist. And what does that, when you hear that, what do you think? So my understanding, and you know, you'll have to tell me if I'm wrong, is that it is a subversive belief system. And it is, I feel like one of the things that I know most about the Satanists is the ways
Starting point is 00:43:19 in which they have really worked with the legal system to sort of counteract some of the Christian nationalist moves and say, oh, well then can we go to the public school and hand out our flyers too? And sort of leading us to question the ways in which our society favors one belief system over the others. And I don't know, I heard someone say like, you know, the Satanists don't really believe in Satan. They don't. The whole point of Satanism is that it's, it is an edgelord political position. I am a Satanist and I believe in that. The idea that like, you're just supposed to remind everybody like, you know, the church needs the devil.
Starting point is 00:44:08 Like in 1984. There's like a whole thing here where like, there's a whole side of this story that's not being told, which is this serpent gave them the ability to be wise. Like it gave humans the ability to not, because that's the idea, they were living in a fantasy world and they were living in the Garden of Eden, which is essentially a really nice cage,
Starting point is 00:44:31 and then the devil came and released them. 24 hour a day surveillance. Yeah, yeah. And then we gave them all, we gave people autonomy, but then that's the problem, isn't it? And then it's been the problem ever since. And so here we are. Here we are. Thank you so, this has been wonderful. That's the problem, isn't it? And then it's been a problem ever since Thank you, so this has been wonderful Sasha your delight this is wonderful
Starting point is 00:45:03 Thank you, please buy the book for small creatures such as we by Sasha Sagan anything you want to leave people on any anything you want, any socials. I know you must love TikTok. You must love social media. I am very nearly 42 years old, so I don't think I'm allowed on TikTok. Oh, no, we're running it. It's not good out there. No, millennials are sadly in charge of TikTok. It's not good.
Starting point is 00:45:23 That's even worse. No, but I am on Instagram. I'm Sasha Sagan on Instagram. And I just had the best time talking to you both. Thank you. Thank you. And go check out the podcast Strange Customs, because it's still out, right?
Starting point is 00:45:37 Because are you still you still hosting it actively? Just had a little break right now, but I'm going to I'm going to I want to come back to it. Yeah, I really enjoy doing it I like I like asking people questions about why they feel like really strongly about you know, um April Fool's Day Yeah, such a Scorpio Thank you so much for being with us.

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