Lex Fridman Podcast - #200 – Michael Malice: Totalitarianism and Anarchy

Starting point is 00:00:00 The following is a conversation between me and Michael Malis. Michael is an author, anarchist, and simpleton, and I'm proud to call him my friend. He makes me smile, he makes me think, and he makes me wonder why I sound so sleepy all the time. And now enjoy this conversation with Michael Malis in the dupe of a love and language that I'm increasingly certain I'll never quite able to get the hang of.

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Starting point is 00:08:16 So for people who haven't read it, it's animals overthrow the humans and then slowly become as bad or worse than the humans. So throw the humans and then slowly become as bad or worse than the humans. So Comrade, if we lived on this farm in the book Animal Farm, which animal would you most rather be? Would it be the pigs, the horses, the donkey Benjamin, the Raven Moses, the humans, Mr. Mrs. Jones, the dogs, or the sheep. I'm going to go with the Milton answer, which is better to rule and hell than serve in heaven, right? It's better to rule and help than serve in heaven.

Starting point is 00:08:54 Yeah, so I would have to go with the pigs. So I guess I'd be a cop. At the very top. So the leader, the main pig, Napoleon, versus like the... The wall and the other. Yeah, I would say it's not, it's, it's short, it's an allegory about the Russian Revolution, but I think Orwell's point was this is broader towards most totalitarian dictatorships. I mean, it could very easily be redis and indictment of Mussolini or Hitler or many of these others. I'm a huge George Orwell fan. One of the things that I think people on the right need to appreciate is the courage of many of these undisputably left-wing voices who were the strongest ones

Starting point is 00:09:34 to take on totalitarian communism. The three I think of top of my head who are all in my top 10 heroes of all time are Emma Goldman, Albert Camus, and Orwell being the third. You know, something that leftists like to throw in the face of people on the right who constantly invoke Orwell is that Orwell said, and I don't have the exact quote on top of my head, but some defective, every word I have written is to be taken as a defensive democratic socialism against totalitarianism. So, people like Truman, you know, was obviously a very hardcore in many ways anti-communist.

Starting point is 00:10:11 We like to parse things out. You're going to laugh into binary fashions that, you know, left good, right bad or right good, left bad. But historically speaking, it was this not fall away into these camps as easily as people would like. And I think it is important for those of us. It takes a lot more courage to fight the right from the right or to fight the left from the left because, in a sense, a lot of your countrymen or your fellow travelers are going to regard you as a traitor to the cause. So I every chance I get, I will sing the praises of these three figures among others who not all, even if they hadn't done what

Starting point is 00:10:51 they had done, just live just amazing lives that all of us can learn from and admire and regard us somewhat a role model. So what was the nature of their opposition to totalitarianism? Is it basically freedom? Well, the value of freedom. So let's go to the three of them. So Emma Goldman, she was at an early anarchist figure, you know, we'll talk about her later. I'm sure she got deported from the United States with her partner in crime Alexander Berkman, literal crime. He tried to assassinate Frick, who was Andrew Carnegie's main man in the Pittsburgh Steel Mill strike. She got deported to the Soviet Union and they're like, they're like, oh, you want socialism

Starting point is 00:11:32 because at the time the anarchist were regarded as socialist. Go choke on it. She's there and she was watching in great horror what was going on. She actually went to Lenin's office and she goes, this isn't what we're about. The revolution is about the individual and free speech and everyone working together to further society. And he told her that, you know, free speech is a bourgeois contrivance. And regardless, you can't have these circumstances in the midst of a revolution. And when she left the Soviet Union, and she went to Britain. And at the time, before the 1917,

Starting point is 00:12:04 there was a lot of discussion among socialist circles about what would the revolution look like, right? Would there be the Becunin anarchist model? Would there be the Marxist model? Obviously, the Bolsheviks ended up winning. But even then, it was an obvious because there was the Bolsheviks and the Mensheviks. And what people, you know, you and I know what those words mean.

Starting point is 00:12:21 But Bolsheviks were kind of funny because Bolshev means bigger and Menshev means mean, but Bolsheviks were kind of funny because Bolshe means bigger and mancha means smaller. The Mensheviks had the numbers. It was sarcastic that they were called Mensheviks and the Bolsheviks were called Bolshe, and Lenin destroyed all his foes in a very merciless way, obviously. Beforehand, you know, there was the idea that with all these cockamimi ideas, we have to work together. You know, we don't know what's going to look like for the cause.

Starting point is 00:12:46 Then as soon as he sees power, he's like, yeah, yeah, we're not doing that kind of pluralism anymore. This is going to be the right approach. So she left the Soviet Union as did Berkman. She wrote a book that they titled my dissolution with Russia. And I remember this was one anecdote, which I'm going to discuss in a forthcoming book, where she goes to Britain. And the British were very red at the time. They really had something called the Fabian Society, which was the predecessor to the British

Starting point is 00:13:11 Labour Party, which were like, all right, we're going to get rid of liberalism and have a socialist kind of nation. And she gave talks and there was this one time where she gave a talk and she started and there was a standing ovation. By the time she was done, you could hear a pin drop because she dared to look at these people in the face, something they'd been fighting for all their lives and saying, you know, we've been to the future and it works. And she's a guy's, this is worse than the czar, you know, people are under house arrest,

Starting point is 00:13:39 you're not allowed to have, you know, newspapers are being shut down if they have her radical views, so and so forth. And you know, she was just even more of a pariah than she had been previously. So she deserves huge accolades in that regard. I brought her up and we were talking about with our conversation with Yaron. Or, well, I think you don't need me to explain what he has done and continues to do, to use fiction to demonstrate the horrors of a totalitarian state. And Kamu, who might be my all-time great lighthouse, so to speak, in terms of being a man of

Starting point is 00:14:12 conscious, he joined the Communist Party. And for a lot of people in the States, you hear, oh, you join the Communist Party, so I need to hear. He was a Communist, so I need to know. He joined the Communist Party because they were the main ones fighting the fascists in France and other locations And he took Nazism as did many others of course very very very seriously He wasn't some committed communist, but this was just his mechanism to take on you know

Starting point is 00:14:35 be part of the underground and fishy France and so on and so forth so he had the quote which is a scribe to him which is kind of a misquote Howard Zann is the one who actually said it, that it is a job of thinking people not to be on the side of the executioners. And he very much felt, if you read his speech when he won the Nobel Prize, I forget it in the 50s, where he goes, it's basically the job of writers to keep civilization from destroying himself. I don't think I'm ever going to be a man on the level of Camus and what he's accomplished, but I think that

Starting point is 00:15:08 vision of it is the job of writers to be the conscience and to point out You know, this is the leftism at its best when you know giving voice to the voiceless when you have the machine of the state crushing and marginalizing people and they might not be educated, literate, or have any power at all. He's the guy who's like, you are ruining humans, these humans matter, and I'm not going to let you look the other way and act like you don't know what you're doing. So in this time, whether we look at the time of fascism or we look at the fictional animal farm, what's the heroic action then?

Starting point is 00:15:45 So Kamu joined the Communist Party. There's a bunch of different heroic actions, some more heroic than others, not just for the heroes the wrong word in terms of like effectiveness. What's the effective action, I guess, is what I want to ask. As a writer, as a thinker, somebody with a mind was the heroic action. That's a tricky question, because a lot of times in the West, heroism is regarded as intertwined with martyrdom, right? So it's kind of this idea of like, you have to speak to, you know, can we always talk about justice, let justice be done though the heavens fall. This is a common kind of motto among people with conscience, and that you have to do the right thing, even the consequences might not be what you like.

Starting point is 00:16:25 And I think that is a good loose definition of heroism. So if you meet, I'll give you one example of heroism. This was on Twitter and I really feel bad that I don't remember the guy's name. This was the line to Auschwitz, I believe it was. And you know, there's the Nazi guards keeping everyone along. And if you were a certain, I think if you were under 12, they killed you or some, there was some age limit where some kids were killed or some were not.

Starting point is 00:16:50 There was some circumstances. And he asked the mom how old this kid was, and she's like, he's 14, and she's like, no, he's 12, and she's like, no, he's nice 14. She goes, he's 12. And she realized what this Nazi was telling her, even in that circumstance, and it ended up saving the kid' life.

Starting point is 00:17:05 So I think heroism in this context is defiance and standing true to values of liberalism, humanism, and venerating the sanctity of human life. I think that, and I think it's also important to pick your battles. I don't think if he got, I don't know, that Nazi over there got in a bullhorn and said, hey, this is the rules, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. That's not gonna help anyone do anything. So I do think people a lot of times attack me

Starting point is 00:17:36 for my anarchist views. It's like, oh, would you call the police? Would you use the roads? Would you pay your income taxes? I got an argument with Tim Poole because there was that couple I think in what was that Missouri, Illinois, when they had their guns,

Starting point is 00:17:50 and they were being arrested, and they basically took a plea deal, and he said, you should have fought. I go, it's a lot easier to say you should fight, but we don't know what circumstances that someone is under. And what these totalitarian regimes did very, very well, as you know, is if you were a target, and they can't get regimes did very, very well as you know is if you were a target and they can't get through to you, that's fine, you have a family. So you can sit there,

Starting point is 00:18:12 Lex and gird your jaw and you can stand up to the torture. Cool, what are we going to do about your wife? What about your mom? One thing Stalin did, he made it a law that kids up to 14 and up could get the death penalty for certain crimes So after that the rule was from the NKVD if you were interrogating someone They would have death warrants for the kids child on the desk visible So I'm interrogating you asking you to commit to I'm sorry to admit to some crime that you're not committed and those piece of paper It's you know Svitalana, she's got a death warrant, you're gonna admit to any crime you want.

Starting point is 00:18:49 So this is something Americans, this is even the case right now in North Korea, which I know you had Yummy Park on, it's something I talk about a lot. Let's talk about it instead of the hypothetical, but this is happening right now on Earth, you can look at the map on Google. The great leader Kim Il Sung,

Starting point is 00:19:04 the founder of North Korea, said, class enemies must be exterminated, three generations. So when people talk about individualism versus collectivism, Rick Centorum, from a sender, says, the family is the basic unit of society. Unit. North Korea takes that seriously. The family is punished as a unit.

Starting point is 00:19:21 So if someone does something wrong, three generations have to pay the price, and you often don't know who it is that got you all in trouble. There's not a trial. This to Western minds is something almost incomprehensible. It's a lot easier to be brave when it's just your skin. There's something when it's, yeah, when it's your child, your loved ones, your every man becomes a coward. But also what bravery is there for me to write an essay for the Guardian to say, I don't vote.

Starting point is 00:19:49 There's no consequences to me, there's no possibility of consequences to me. This is the wonderful thing about living, excuse me, in a free country. It would take a lot of courage to be in the Soviet Union and say, I'm not going to vote. And what would that courage accomplish, a very little? So I think heroism in the sense of kind of the suicidal stuff and taking

Starting point is 00:20:08 a stance with no consequence, it is a bit overrated. There is some aspect like the way I think about heroism is something like you said about the Nazi soldier, which is quietly, privately in your own life, live the virtues that you want the rest of the world to live by. Yes. So, like, without writing about it, it's not as heroic as living it quietly. I'll give you a great example of this. I sometimes give talks on networking,

Starting point is 00:20:40 and I tell the kids, if you know someone's in town, and it's their birthday with nothing to do, take them out. And I say, I do this for selfish reasons. And everyone laughs. And I go, think about it this way. The guy who takes people out for their birthday is awesome. That could be you. Like you have that capacity to be that person and you're making that day feel special. They're going to remember for a long time what's the cost? Dinner, 30 bucks, 25 bucks. So it's very disturbing to me how often people have opportunities to slightly move the needle and make things a bit better at

Starting point is 00:21:17 almost no cost. And they just literally don't think in those terms. And one of the things Kamu talked about, you know, he's often described as an existentialist, which he did not like that term. He regard himself as an absurdist, is the idea that we're basically blank canvases. And this isn't something that is dangerous. This is a enormous opportunity. And you have the ability to become the kind of man

Starting point is 00:21:40 or woman that you admire and want to be. You don't have to be, I don't know, George Washington or one of these great heroes of all time. But everyone out there has the capacity to be, capacity to excuse me, to be a hero to their kids or to be a hero to maybe some, there's nursing homes and there's old people who are lonely. I think that you take in a dog that's on its last legs.

Starting point is 00:22:03 These are little things Terry Shepherd does that a lot on a regard of as a hero. These aren't not Terry Shepherd, I'm blank in his name. These are things that people do that aren't heroic in the sense of Superman, but that I find admirable extremely, and I think are very underrated because these people aren't championed. Is this some kind of weird, passive, aggressive, and direct way for you to tell me that I should take you off for your birthday on Monday? Is that why you gave that whole speech?

Starting point is 00:22:32 That wasn't it at all. That was a joke, Michael. No, it was a failed joke. Nevertheless, there was no punchline. Without failure, we would not have triumph. Can we stick on the Kamu absurdism versus existentialism? Sure. What do you think is the difference up in your ideas about

Starting point is 00:22:54 anarchism, too? It seems like those are somehow intricately connected because existentialism is connected to freedom. And freedom is connected to anarchism. Sure, but I mean, Sartre was a defender of the Soviet Union. He said explicitly about things like gulags, like even if it's true, we shouldn't talk about it. So what people don't appreciate is how human beings can have contradictory ideas in their

Starting point is 00:23:25 minds at the same time. So one would think, okay, someone's a Democrat, they think ABC, therefore they can think DEF, people that have all sorts of contradictions and it's not at all clear and they'll have a clean conscience because a human mind is very sophisticated and is capable of doing this. So Sartre, you know, was, you would think he's this radical individualist, you know, the sense of ultimate freedom, but he's defending the Soviet Union. Camus on the other hand would probably be, he was very much like a social Democrat. He didn't really talk about what politics should be so much as it shouldn't be.

Starting point is 00:23:57 His essay Reflections on the Gillotine is one of the great masterpieces of all time, an attack on the death penalty, not in terms of no one's evil or it's wrong to kill murderers, but in terms of what does it do for a society? If you have someone who's set, takes a person and locks them in a room and says, in two years, I'm going to murder you and you locked them for that.

Starting point is 00:24:20 This is not someone we'd regard as moral, we regard this as someone who's a complete monster, but that's what the state does, you know, with the death penalty and he challenges us to think, is this the kind of people we want to be? Do, and again, he's saying, I'm not saying killing a murderer is wrong. I'm not saying evil is wrong. His entire career was dedicated to fighting the concept of evil. But are we the kind of people who want to be doing these things that in any other context we regard as torture or depraved? So I'm much more of a Kamu person than a Sartre person. So he was probably against war in that same way.

Starting point is 00:24:58 So I don't have to admit I don't know much about the political side of Kamu. Well, I don't think his political side is that interesting or relevant. What I find, sorry interrupt you, what I find fast in the back of Kama, and what I think about on a daily basis from him, is his insistence that you have to live a life based on conscience, that you have to be accountable to yourself when you put your pill, you had on the pill at the end of the day, and ask yourself, did I live a righteous life with integrity true to my values? Did I not needlessly cause harm to innocent people? You know, that kind of mindset. Did I, if someone is weak, am I used that as an opportunity to exploit them or to harm them?

Starting point is 00:25:40 Or do I feel a bit of sympathy or empathy for this person because maybe they didn't have circumstances that were, you know, as Beneficial as other people had. Well, how does that fit absurdism where everything is absurd? Nothing has meaning You know, it really borders on nihilism Yes, so he his he regards not his his philosophy explicitly said is a response to nihilism and a Attack on nihilism. He you know, he regrets cynicism as like the worst value people can have and I agree with him 100% a lot of times people call me cynical online and I push back very very hard because to be a sit I you know I had this quote and then you write where I said rather be naive than a cynic because a cynic is a hopeless man who projects

Starting point is 00:26:28 his hopelessness to the world at large. Camus, this is the metaphor I use and I find it very inspirational. I thought it was in his work, but I guess I thought of it as private to him. There's two types of people. You imagine you go to a mountainside and you see a blank canvas on an easel standing in front of this mountain side. One people would be like, why is this blank canvas here? You know, what it was, what's going on here, and just be confused.

Starting point is 00:26:55 Whereas the other type of person will be like, this is a blank canvas here in this beautiful countryside. What a great opportunity. I can paint this river. I can paint that bird. I can paint that bird, I can paint my friends or myself in the background, infinite choices, and this is a gift that I have been given. And I think that also ties very heavily

Starting point is 00:27:14 into what I went to Yashiva as a kid, which is Jewish school. What we were taught incessantly how to look at life is this beautiful gift that God has given you and that God wants you to be happy. He wants you to live to the fullest in a moral way. I remember the first time I went into a church and they were asking questions about the Jewish concept, the afterlife. They weren't familiar with Jewish thought. And it took me a second because I didn't really have answers and then I remembered what we were taught,

Starting point is 00:27:42 which is, let's suppose you're at this banquet, the best chef on earth, and the table's so heavy because you've got steaks, and you've got chicken, and you've got sushi, and the wine's flowing, and you've got your Dr. Pepper and Mr. and Mr. Pib and the store brand, everything you want. And you're looking around at this amazing bounty, right? And then you turn to this best chef on earth and you're like, oh, so what's for dessert? I mean, the offensiveness of that is just so, you know, insane. Like, you have this, eat the meal. Like, I promise you, if I can deliver this meal, the dessert's going to be okay.

Starting point is 00:28:17 So this focus on the afterlife, when we've been given this amazing gift, you know, on this earth is a very kind of different mindset from both the Jewish tradition, as I've been given this amazing gift on this earth is a very kind of different mindset from both the Jewish tradition as I'd been taught and the Kamu mindset. Obviously, Kamu is an atheist didn't believe in an afterlife, but this concept that life is meaningless, but that means you have that opportunity

Starting point is 00:28:40 to find value, to seek for truth, to seek for happiness. And Kamu has this quote, it's a scribe to him. It's like a meme. I've never found the source, so maybe he doesn't really say it. But he says, maybe it's not about happy endings. Maybe it's about the journey. And I think when you have that mindset, and as you and I, I think you and I both found this,

Starting point is 00:28:58 because neither of us, when we were kids, thought we'd be doing this, right? But now that we are really fortunate, definitely this. Yeah. And definitely that. But now that we're fortunate enough be doing this, right? But now that we are really fortunate, definitely this. Yeah. And definitely that. Yeah. But now that we're fortunate enough to do this and that we're blessed enough that there's people who find this of value and interest and we could pay the rent doing this, there's not a day that goes by where I don't think you and I are think this is pretty absurd. Yeah. But it's also pretty wonderful. And as a consequence of us thriving it also

Starting point is 00:29:31 Shows other people that happiness is possible on this earth and I think cynicism is the lie It's not just a world view. It's a lie that happiness is not possible in this earth or it's only happy possible if you sell your soul and you're like a bad person, you screw other people over. I reject that in every aspect. You know, as you said, my birth is coming up. I've been feeling just a lot of really great things that have been happening very, very recently. So it affects me very heavily emotionally, especially when I see the response it gives to like the kids, right? So it's one thing to say,

Starting point is 00:30:04 this is what I'm for, but when you can provide proof of concept that what you've been advocating does result in positive responses. I got a message from this kid who had tried to kill himself a year ago, okay? And then he was like, look, I found your work, I found some other stuff,

Starting point is 00:30:21 and now I realize I'm gonna make something of myself. I was born in a meth house, you know, whatever 19, 20 years old, I should be in the garbage, but I'm gonna try to be a standup because I have opportunity on this earth, even if he fails as a standup, you know, he's still such, whatever he does, washing dishes, there's no shame in that.

Starting point is 00:30:40 Is it so bad to have a crappy job and a girlfriend who you don't really like, but as compared to the alternative of like I'm going to kill myself, this is heaven. Well, I think there's beauty to be discovered in all of it and all of those experiences. Yes. So, but at the same time, so I often think about, I just recently re-read the idiot by Desta Yoskey. I often feel like the idiot. That's why when I say I'm an idiot, I often think about Prince I just recently reread the idiot, but that's the uski. I often feel like the idiot.

Starting point is 00:31:05 That's why when I say I'm an idiot, I often think about Prince Michigan, that kind of idiot, which the world sees you as naive. I don't think he's naive. I don't think I'm naive, but I tend to see the good in people and the good in every moment. And the world often is cynical. And in fact, especially in what we do, often the intellectual is supposed to be cynical. This is very much an urban elite educated mindset, where if you write a book about someone who's, let's suppose a drug addict or a prostitute that has heft and that's valid,

Starting point is 00:31:43 but if you're writing a book about a love story, you know, two people fall in love and it's their en roller coasters or carousels, that's less legitimate. I hate that. I hate that. I hate that so much because the message it gives to people is you have to choose between thriving and happiness and silliness and seriousness and depravity. And I'm not saying a drug addict of prostitutes to pray, but they're basically the world views. If it's unless it's dark and twisted, it doesn't really count as art. And I despise that mindset, that's subtext.

Starting point is 00:32:11 So the internet and people around me often will call me naive, because I don't know. I think the word they want is innocent, don't you think? It's a better... It's not that innocent. No, but innocent in that you, you genuinely in your heart, I know you fairly well at this point, believe that goodness is possible in that you, you genuinely in your heart, I know you fairly well at this point, believe

Starting point is 00:32:25 that goodness is possible and that people can, if not be good, at least be better than they were yesterday. See, even the word naive or the word innocent, presumes that there's not wisdom in that, presumes that somehow that's, oh, isn't that beautiful to live that life of a child who sees the world with these bright eyes and is hopeful about the future, but just wait until they go up and realize that reality is much harsher than they think. But that child might be wiser than all of the adults in the room.

Starting point is 00:32:58 And don't you, don't you want to be, if the world is like that, don't you want to be the guy who takes it on and changes it for the better, right? So it's like saying, well, you know, cancer is everywhere, it's inevitable. Well don't you want to be the one who says, not anymore, I'm here and I'm going to make that change and I can see it being better than it is now. So I think you and I have the same analysis of your worldview and I don't think that there is a good word for it. So I guess it's this idea of inherent benevolence, maybe wordy, but I think that's more accurate because you and I did not have such easy lives growing up to put it mildly.

Starting point is 00:33:38 You constantly talk about just horrific aspects of life. So to claim that you don't know that they exist or you see from the rug, it's completely not accurate to your work and your mindset. Can we talk about World War II and the Soviet Union? Sure. So on Sunday, June 22nd, 1941, Hitler launched Operation

Starting point is 00:34:09 Barbarossa, which was the surprise invasion of the Soviet Union. If I could read to you a few lyrics from a song that for some reason is stuck throughout my childhood. It was a famous song during that time. 22 июня, ровно в 4 часа, Киев Бамбилли нам обивили, что началась война. Война началась на расцвете, чтобы больше народу убить, спали родители, спали их дети, когда старый Киев Бамбилли. The song talks about the moment as part of that operation that Kea was first bombed and it was announced on June 22nd, the song says at exactly 4 o'clock that the war has begun. For some reason this song haunts me because the exactness of that time and this realization that at any moment you can have this thing happen to you in your own personal life, maybe we'll have something like 9-11

Starting point is 00:35:15 happen where everything changes. And it's just like haunting because it makes me think that at any moment something like that could happen that changes everything. And I just think about like normal life going on in Kiev at the time, and then all of a sudden the bombs are dropping, and the announced that the war has begun, and you thought you were going to stay out of the war. out of the war. This is something that is very intensely emotional for me because you and I are both Russian Jewish. So to know that my grandparents and my great-grandma were told and my great grandma were told that the Nazis are coming. And this wasn't a dress rehearsal, and that if they get here, which they do, they did.

Starting point is 00:36:13 Livov is very Western Ukraine, that 100% you and all your relatives are going to be murdered. And there's a monument now in Livov, where I'm from about this, but I don't think either of us can imagine what it's like to know, to think that we're about, you know, minutes or whatever hours or there's just the Russian army standing between us and everyone, everyone we are related to are going to be murdered for no reason. And, you know, like, what's the closure here, right? Like, they evacuate a lot of people, but they didn't evacuate enough. and to know that there is this force coming to 100% murder you. This isn't some kind of, you know, the TV news being hyperbolic. They are coming to kill you. And if they get you, they will kill you. And you have to, you know, we all think about war like, oh, you know,

Starting point is 00:37:21 we hope America wins in Iraq, right? But if America got their ass kicked kind of in a Vietnam, it's not really going to affect America in the sense that you're going to have the body bags and all the kids being killed. And that's something that's I'm not super in the rug. But no one in America thought the Vietnamese are going to come here and kill them, right? They were secure in their person. So to have that sense of, we really need to win because if we don't win, we are 100% if we they the Russian army doesn't win, we are 100% all going to be slaughtered. And often it not just a bullet to the head in sadistic ways is something that to know that people who share my blood saw and went through is very hard for me to kind of, um, uh, wrap my head around.

Starting point is 00:38:12 And there's no possibility to delude yourself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I mean, they would, uh, as the song also talks about, but they would burn the factories. So it's basically saying, we're in the war now. This is like, this is your life. Yeah. This is our life now. You know how you yesterday you worried about like, Oh, I misplaced my pen. Where is it like, it's like, yeah, this was paradise. Most of us are going to this, our life now is that most of us are going to die. And if we want to prevent all of us from dying, we have to fight. And we also can't sit down in some kind of weird desert island

Starting point is 00:38:55 or playing crash situation and be like, let's decide between us who's going to be the first to die. Maybe the Titanic, that's Titanic, right? They sat down and they were like women and children in the lifeboats. You know, they had this rational agreement. You don't have those choices in a war. So it's something that I, it's just very chilling and it's something I don't really have the emotional space to understand or grapple with. You know, obviously I've been to North

Starting point is 00:39:28 Korea, you can see it and so on and so forth. You and I can't or anyone listening to this, except for maybe on me and people like that. You can't imagine what that's like to live it. We can't imagine what it's like to live in those situations where it's not like before Hitler came, everyone's dancing around and having a great time. I mean, imagine how what that life is like where your preference to Hitler is starving and waiting online for hours for bread and to have the secret police and your friends' attorney you went and your phones are all tapped and your prisoner. But to you, this is infinitely better than the alternative.

Starting point is 00:40:07 Like, these are the choices that our family had to deal with. It's something that, no matter how much you... It's like a, let me put in terms of people to understand. You know what I mean? It's like your first bad breakup, right? Like, that's a much simpler thing to wrap your head around because it's like, if you've never had it You can't really but when you feel it is just so intense

Starting point is 00:40:28 But you can't tell someone what's like We could sit down for days and hours and have people tell us But until it's the total totality of your environment and your life and your mindset. I remember my grandma She would talk about it. When you're that hungry, all you're thinking about is bread. Because your brain won't, like, human beings, we're evolved, we have instincts, whatever, and the mind is telling you food food food food food food food food

Starting point is 00:41:09 and that there's kids thinking this and that there's there they're not gonna get the food yeah and You imagine being a parent and you're watching your kids without food and knowing they're not gonna get the food and The fact that this happened in North Korea in the 90s, I met a refugee and he had to watch his dad start to death. And thank you.

Starting point is 00:41:38 And we have no concept of what it's like. We have no concept of what it's like. I mean, we kind of, you know, it's just like last night here in Austin, all the places were closed and I couldn't get my protein powder. And this is the extent of my suffering when it comes to food. You know, or if I couldn't, there was a restaurant that I went to in Brooklyn where for some, for cock to reason, they weren't serving sashimi, they only had sushi. So I had to have the rice and the carbs. To live a life where that is the extent of your food problems as opposed to the choices either Hitler killing you or being hungry 24 or seven, you know,

Starting point is 00:42:22 my grandma told this story of how they had a close call. It was her and her brother and her mom, my great grandma who passed. And I think there was like either helicopter or we had her something and my great grandma jumped on top of my grandma's brother and not my grandma. So she basically did a Sophie's choice. My grandma's name is Sophia and chose the brother.

Starting point is 00:42:45 And this is something that she felt, you know, all her life that her mom had chosen her brother over her. But these little things that happen, these little kind of decisions we have to make in war, there's a book I read called Five Chimneys, I think, this woman who was an Auschwitz survivor. And what she talked about, what people don't appreciate, it's not necessarily the slaughter and the torture, it's that there's no rhyme or reason to it.

Starting point is 00:43:13 She talked about how they had a camp just for people from Czechoslovakia, and they were treated better than the Jews, and then one day they just killed them all, right? And she's like, I still don't understand why they're giving them food and treating them well. And then the next day they're all killed. And we will never get answers, you know. And things like she talks about how they decided to kill all the kids. And they didn't really, either for some reason, they didn't have the courage to or they wanted to be cruel. So instead of shooting them, they just kept walking them the snow until they all died. So it's things like this

Starting point is 00:43:49 that the fact that you and I dodged these bullets and that we can be here and be doing this and you know running our mouths for living, I think about it all the time and it's just very think about it all the time and it's just very disturbing to know and I know you know this as well that there's lots of places on earth where if people had a choice they would kill us on site and be proud of themselves for it. Yeah, I don't know what to make of the contrast that you were talking about the fact that you've been truly happy the last few weeks and months. Yes, there have been a lot of moments of happiness and joy. And that joy is built on a history of human suffering. Like in your roots, in your blood, there's a lot of people that were tortured that suffered

Starting point is 00:44:40 so that you could have this joy. And you have both the responsibility to truly be grateful have this joy. You have both the responsibility to truly be grateful for that joy. But it also shows that there's the happy ending, that it does end in a good note, that it does get infinitely, infinitely better. And that I think there's a, I don't like using the word responsibility,

Starting point is 00:44:58 but there is an opportunity for those of us who did dodge that bullet to give testimony to these people and more importantly to give testimony to the people who are going through this now. So one of the reasons I talk about North Korea so much while I wrote Dear Reader is because it's very easy. This is human nature. I'm not condemning people. I don't think this just how people are wired.

Starting point is 00:45:25 When you see an Asian country with Asian people and things are, you know, bad over there, you, you know, I think in the West, it's like, oh, you know, Asia, they're all crazy. They're, they're wacky. They, you know, they eat dogs or someone and so forth. Some weird stereotype. And they think of them as kind of Martians.

Starting point is 00:45:40 So it's important for people who aren't of that kind of ancestry to kind of speak on behalf of these people because it's very different how just people just naturally act when you have a western are talking about this. Instead of becoming there, you know, them over there, it becomes, you know, this could have been us very easily. I have a friend, Peter, the Hansky great dude and I was showing him photos when I was in Pyongyang and he goes this looks like a Russian city with Asian people. It was a completely disturbed him So, you know, that was one of the reasons I did go to North Korea because that was as close as I would get to see what your family went through to see what my family went through and there's still living under this Regime and one of the things I fought very hard to do with your reader,

Starting point is 00:46:25 which I was successful and amazingly. And it just, I said, I could die now. Like, I feel like if you make, if you just move the need a little bit, then you've kind of paid your due for your time here on this earth to have it change from being a laughing stock. And I think Team America did a good job.

Starting point is 00:46:44 They make Kim Jong Il into a clown and they made a joke of it, but you're going from nothing to joke. At least now people are aware of it that it exists. Then many others took it from a joke to like, guys, this is really, really, really bad. None of us can even appreciate how bad it is. I think now there is an understanding, other than a few people who are just looking at through a Trump lens and wanting Trump to fail, because Trump's an asshole, and that's fine,

Starting point is 00:47:10 to be like these poor people. And it's really unfortunate, because there's a segment of Western culture who thinks that correctly, often when you're complaining about, or discussing the plight of another country, that's just your prelude to war and an excuse to invade. Like the Kurds in Syria, you know, we're talked about. If we don't in Syria tomorrow, it's going to be another genocide blah, blah.

Starting point is 00:47:33 I'm not saying let's invade North Korea and think about that. All I'm saying is, you know, thank God that this isn't your life. I bring this up all the time. The woman who was my guide when I was there, I'm aware of what she's up to now. She's still, she's extremely rich by North Korean standards, but she'll never be in a position to buy medicine. She'll never be in a position to go on a vacation.

Starting point is 00:47:58 Things that you and I just, you know, whatever, she can't go on the internet. She can't get in psychopedia. She can't better herself as a person other than through what the state allows and meaning better yourself as a person in service to the state. So I mean there's it's also frustrating because there's only so much that I can do as an individual. What's your takeaway about human nature from looking at North Korea and looking at how the rest of the world is looking at North Korea?

Starting point is 00:48:29 I always, this is a great question. I think about it fairly often. I always say human beings are animals, right? When you say something as an animal, it's like a slur like he's like a beast. Animals are capable of enormous kindness, empathy, sympathy. They look out for one another, room one another. There's a thing with apes where they groom each other for parasites. Even if there are no parasites, they pretend that this parasites just to have that kind of bonding.

Starting point is 00:48:56 You see infinite photos online of cats raising puppies because the puppies mom died things like this. That's part of being an animal. Part of being an animal is also just the most monstrous cruelty killer whales. You know, there's this big PC move to not call them killer whales and just call them workers. They will murder blue whale pups, calves, excuse me, and play with them and not even eat them. So they just murder for the sake of fun. So there's and cats, you know, kill birds all the time, things like this. So it runs the whole gamut. And I think it's, I'm, you know, when you're on an iron, you're on your show, I don't think Lord of the Flies is accurate. I don't think Hobbes is how reality works when you're in that kind of

Starting point is 00:49:40 state. But I think we've seen countless examples of human beings, especially when human beings have power over someone who's powerless of allowing themselves to engage in not just harm, but cruelty. And that is something as so it's you and I are very painfully aware of. It's not just about the oppression, which as bad enough as it is, it's that mediocre person with that little bit of power and now they're standing between you and your daughter having medicine and they love it to make you dance,

Starting point is 00:50:19 to be like, oh, you need me to get this medicine? Make you go through hoops because now they feel like for the first time in their life, they're in a position of strength and power. I think that is, in many ways, the more common nature of evil that what Hannah Arendt talks about the banality of evil, than someone who's like an SS guard or shooting someone in the head. Like that, I think we could all wrap our heads around to some extent. Like, okay, I'm a military. It's not easy. I have to execute people pulling a trigger. You could kind of have this mental disconnect between the finger and the victim.

Starting point is 00:50:48 But like that little day to day stuff, like are you doing the right thing in a day to day basis that I think is far more common and far more disturbing aspect in certain senses of the human psyche? Yeah, there's something, especially disturbing about a weak man given power and just abusing that power. There's something about not just weak, but like mediocre at everything it does or less

Starting point is 00:51:17 than mediocre. A great example of this, which I'm also talking about the next book is Chao Chescu, who was the dictator of Romania. So, you know, the Cold War is still somewhat poorly understood in popular culture, but the different countries in the second world, the Soviet block, some are more liberal than others, some are more sane than others. And Chao Chescu, at first, was one of the,

Starting point is 00:51:39 you know, more Western-friendly, more the free ones, then he met the great leader Kim Il Sung from North Korea, and he had the idea to impose a personality cult on Romania. And it's the kind of things like forcing people to breed because he wanted to make people taller. He, I think he made like the biggest building in all of Europe, the people's palace, but it was just for him. While there's no electricity, you know, elsewhere, but you

Starting point is 00:51:59 look at this guy, he installs at badass, right? He was a bank robber. If you look at photos, him as a kid, he was a hunk. Lenin was clearly intellectual. These were not, these were powerful, Trotsky, these were powerful men with huge egos, huge force of personality. But you look at this Chachesky guy and you could, like for example, on my driver's license instead of my address, I'm like in my real address, being like one, two, three, four, fifth avenue by mistake It says one two three four fifth street, right? So you can imagine him being in the post office and me giving him my ID to get my package and him being baffled Because this says street this says avenues that have understand and this the look on his face this dullard that you can see how you know

Starting point is 00:52:39 How sometimes I'm gonna connect curse? Fuck yes, yeah So if you know like how if you're in the airport and you see someone and you look at them and an adult and you think, okay, this person was born fucked up, just like on site, like something's wrong with them, how are they traveling alone? You look at Chescu, you look at him, you're like something's not right with this guy,

Starting point is 00:52:55 not in the sense of like evil, but in the sense of he's a simpleton, right? And now he's in charge of this whole country and everyone's taught to regard him as one of the great geniuses of all time. And it's this, the idea of this mediocre nobody. This guy would have, in any other culture, been accomplished nothing or would have had an honest job where he's like, okay, he works at the mail service and he's bad at it,

Starting point is 00:53:18 okay, fine, he's not hurting anyone. And now as a result of this, he's responsible for mass death, secret police, and incarceration. And one of the greatest things I've ever seen, which I'm sure many people have seen, as well. If you go on YouTube, it's his speech, and it's the first time the crowd turns, and his head kinda is like, because they start booing him, which was unheard of.

Starting point is 00:53:38 And he was shot with this dog-faced wife, not that long after. It was just a great moment. But it's things like this. I grew through that mediocre week person is now in a position of power for somebody else and that sense of vindictiveness. Like I'm gonna feel strong for once in my life,

Starting point is 00:53:56 but it's gonna be at your expense. That I think is human nature, it's most primal. And every time I meet a person in this world, the- You're the first person to get me to cry on a fucking podcast, fucking the robot gets me to cry. What the fuck is going on? Every time I meet a weird person, somebody, to me, heroism is also taking a risk to rebel against mediocrity.

Starting point is 00:54:22 Yeah. Like in, in the most simplest of ways, like the license address, like taking a risk to break the little bit of rule that nobody will know about, to take that little bit of a leap of like that little protest against the bureaucracy. Like that Nazi comedy where he just spoke out, he's like, hey lady, yeah.

Starting point is 00:54:41 But that's a big one. Oh, that's a big shirt. I mean, like literally at the line at Starbucks or something, like, like even in the tiniest of ways, when I see people, just like, it's almost like that little, like, glimmering their eye, a wink, like, we're in this together. This, there's, there's all this conformity, all around us.

Starting point is 00:55:00 That's, at a different time, could have been Nazi Germany, could have been Stalin and Soviet Union. We're in this together, we're going to rebel against that conformity, but I just, just taking the risk, a little bit of risk against mediocrity. I don't know. And then once again, I see this in companies too. When I see the mediocrity, I see this, I used to work at Google, I see it in Google, when the companies grow, that mediocrity is overwhelming.

Starting point is 00:55:32 The Peter principle, right? The Peter principle. My hope is that all of us have the possibility for that glimmer that risk taking, the leap of faith, whatever the heck that is, the leap out of the ordinary, out of the conformity, out of the mediocrity. So this is where you and I disagree.

Starting point is 00:55:52 I think most a lot of people are not capable of that. They're accustomed to it. I don't know if they're not capable. No, I, my position, I understand your position, I'm disagreeing with it. I'm saying I do not think they're capable. I think a lot of people effectively don't have souls. They do not have a conscience in this sense

Starting point is 00:56:10 where they're going to look at an issue, bring their critical thinking and say, all right, I am going to do the right thing, although I'm taking a risk. I don't think thinking is involved, or is it just taking that leap? There's something about that basic human spirit forget the thinking part It's it's just saying like

Starting point is 00:56:29 I'll take that risk that taking that adventure the same thing that got people to explore the seas, you know that Throughout human civilization explore land explore the oceans like that exploration, like we've done stuff this way all this time. I'm going to take a leap and that comes out of nowhere, seemingly a lot of people are the heroes, but I don't think that's universal. I'm going to use a very gauche example. There was a show called scare tactics, which was basically a candid camera, but they would scare people. Like'd have vampires, whatever, and hidden camera and people's reactions. So, a lot of it, but sometimes the prank didn't work out like they expected. So, there was one where they were hiring the people who were the marks, the contestants, so to speak, was hired

Starting point is 00:57:22 to be a security guard. And you have this, this factory overnight and you get paid. And what the setup was some people were breaking out of the factory in the middle of the night, like in rags. And they were saying they were keeping us prisoner here, like blah, blah. And just watched the person reaction to this. And there was one security guard where they're, he basically forced them back into the building. And they're like, they're working us 24-7.

Starting point is 00:57:47 We're getting beaten. He's like, I'm here to do a job, get back in there. And you watch this, and it never even enters his head to be like, something's wrong here. He was given his orders. He's following his orders. And to me, that is not uncommon. And that person, although they look like you and I, there's something essentially human missing with them. Now, very quickly, the reaction is, well, it's one step from there to Nazism. I don't think it's something that I'm

Starting point is 00:58:20 not saying this person should be killed, but I'm just saying to expect that every human being has the capacity to have that defiance, especially at a cost of our life, that I think is not realistic. And I, but at the same time, I feel like a octopus on the eighth hand, it is those few of us, or if you want to include me in this, who do make these tiny little protests, who look the other way when someone is hungry who's stealing food from the supermarket, right? It's like, all right, like I'm going to pretend I didn't see anything. That those little elements of heroism are what move human-inity forward and demonstrate

Starting point is 00:59:04 the validity of the human experience, whereas everyone else is kind of like scenery. I think almost everybody in the world can derive deep meaning and pleasure from having done those courageous acts, and I also think they have the capacity to do them to discover that meaning and happiness. So you're the cynic, then why aren't they doing it? They haven't gotten a chance to, like I've never tried LSD or DMT. You haven't gotten a chance to try this amazing journey, which is taking the risk. That's not a sense.

Starting point is 00:59:38 Because as you just said two minutes ago, everyone has that chance every day to do the right thing. We have the chance to do the right thing. And we have the chance to do a lot of things and we don't realize there's a lot of stuff right in front of our nose that we don't realize. Right. Because you have to kind of wake up to it. Sometimes you need the catalyst. There needs to be some kind of thing that happens that wakes you up.

Starting point is 01:00:02 That the fact that most people don't take the small acts of rebellion doesn't mean that don't have the capacity to both do so and to derive a lot of meaning from it. Then it's a discussion about how to create societies that get more and more people to be free actors and free thinkers. That's the question. That probably leads us into a discussion of anarchism and so on. But I just think we are very young as a species. We're trying to figure out how to get ourselves to first be collaborative, but at the same time be free spirits. And I think both of those are within human nature. I think another big concern is that there's enormous

Starting point is 01:00:50 disincentives, and this is Michael Malis speaking, for human beings to be kind and for tenderness. And I think, especially when you're young, you know what I mean, when you're immature, a lot of times someone will reach out to you with kindness or vulnerability, and you think it's funny to kind of dunk the head on the water in a pool or something like that. And when you get older, you look,

Starting point is 01:01:13 there's this one example of this. This was in the 90s, and there was a woman she became a stripper or something like like that or whatever it was. But she had this amazing body. She was just gorgeous. And the show was, she was talking about how when she was in high school, she was bullied a lot. And that there was this football player. He messed with her every single day. And like at one day, she even threw pickles in her hair and her hair smelled like pickles and it was laughing at her. And this really screwed her up. I mean, up to that show. and they took her backstage

Starting point is 01:01:46 and they brought out the football player. Now he's a dad and a regular dude and he's like, do you know what, do you know why you're here? And he's like, no. And they're like, oh, what were you liking, he goes, I was kind of a jock bully, whatever. And they brought her out and he didn't even remember her really.

Starting point is 01:02:00 And she was just starting crying about the pickles and whatever and there's something that affected her for like 20 years. And I've never seen a clear example of someone who wanted to kill themselves in this guy. Like the guilt on his face and he's looking at her and he's desperate to be like, what can I do to take your pain away to make it better? Like I he was just crippled by it because he knew there's nothing he could do. He knew he 100% did the wrong thing

Starting point is 01:02:26 He knew he did the wrong thing unthinkingly like you can imagine You know I got a screw over this lady to feed my family, you know that that fun you but for it was at the time it meant nothing to him So of course he didn't remember and he was just paralyzed by the sense of crippling guilt one the reasons I always tried to do the right thing is because I'm inherently good person, which I do not think I am. I don't think anyone is inherently good, but because I will feel guilty about it for a very, very long time, because if you do the wrong thing, this is a very commu idea.

Starting point is 01:02:59 If you do the wrong thing to a good person, that's really, really bad. Because what kind of person are you? In the same way that everyone can be that guy who takes someone out for their birthday, everyone has that ability for someone who did the wrong thing to someone who is a normal person. And do you want to be that guy as well? My friend, Bittstein, he's a big gold, excuse me, Bitcoin person. My biography, Ego and Hubert, is like $500 now in eBay. It's hard to find, came out in 2006. He had told me that you can get it on torrent, it's downloadable.

Starting point is 01:03:37 I'm like, oh, I thought if you're my friend, you'd want to buy it, at the time it was not $500, I assure you. It goes, I did buy it. I'm just telling you that you could also get it for free, this information that you might want to use. And I felt, I'm like, I snapped at this kid who was doing a right by me. And I felt, I just stuck in my head. I'm like, you're an ass. And then years later, I apologized. He didn't have no memory of this at all. And I'm glad to be able to reiterate the apology again.

Starting point is 01:04:05 But you know, this is, you know, a lot of times I'm extremely aggressive on Twitter and in other venues. I always try to, and maybe I fail, and that's my moral failing, always do it as a counterattack. If you're going to start going personal, if you're going to start being aggressive against an individual, I'm not going to necessarily hold back when I reciprocate. And it's something that is very common on social media, but I don't think it is normal. I just because a lot of, this is your talk about the quiet little rebellion, just because everyone else around you thinks it's okay to just go up to people and attack them in the most personal ways, impromptu prompted because of their views. Really just take a step back and realize what you're engaging with. Now, if that's the fight they want, then, you know, my Soviet cruelty could come out. And that's kind of

Starting point is 01:04:54 why I don't drink because I do enjoy it. But at the same time, be aware of what you're doing. And again, this goes back to Camus sense that conscience really is what makes us human beings. But that's the thing we're saying. I don't think most people think in terms of conscience. They don't think it, we are taught, this is that creeping cynicism that, oh, grow up, when you're an adult, you have to make sacrifices, blah, blah, blah. And even if I buy that for a second, which I don't, but if I have to make sacrifices blah blah blah. And even if I buy that for a second, which I don't, but if I have to make sacrifices sometimes,

Starting point is 01:05:28 that doesn't mean it's okay for me to make a sacrifice of my values in this moment. If I have to maybe be at work, and my boss is a jerk to me and calls me names, I have to be humiliated, but I got to put food in the plate, that doesn't mean it's okay later if I'm at a party, and I'm just, you know,

Starting point is 01:05:45 extremely offensive to someone for no reason. You know, my own flavor of a little bit of rebellion. Sometimes I use the number two. Is, uh, you know, you're very witty on Twitter. And you my and Twitter likes mockery and wit and um, um, on what counter attack is, uh, Twitter loves that. Somebody who's skilled at it. My own flavor of a bit of rebellion is to say things very simply, bordering and cliche with authenticity and like genuinely meaning the words I say, but knowing that those words would be are easy to

Starting point is 01:06:39 attack. Sure. And that sometimes those attacks can hurt because people would just mock me. Sure. People don't like earnestness because they've been taught to be too cool for school. Yeah, so like there's this pressure for me to be sound way more sophisticated. Yeah. Use bigger words, sometimes throwing a criticism of institutions or something like that.

Starting point is 01:07:04 Like, like almost as if I have a deep wisdom about the way the world is broken. But when you speak very simply about beautiful things in life, it's very easy to sound, like you don't know what the hell you're talking about. Sure. And I kind of, I stick by that.

Starting point is 01:07:23 I don't know where that's gonna end up, but it's like the idiot from just the asking, it stick by that. I don't know where it is going to end up, but it's like the idiot from just the ASCII. It feels like that's the right thing, even if it hurts when I'm attacked for it. I do something similar sometimes, which is, I'll have some innocuous comment about like bubble gum. I mean, just, it's not of being political. And a lot of times people,

Starting point is 01:07:42 it's a few people respond to this paragraph of just invective about like blah blah blah and then this and you say this and you're a nass and just really trying to get at me. And what I in those situations are very specific circumstances. I will respond and I mean it every single time. I will say I wish your parents had been kinder to you or your mom or your dad. Because if someone is some even if I'm some idiot on Twitter, right,

Starting point is 01:08:06 who's just talking about bubble gum and this is your, I'm not talking about politics where I can see people get emotional. COVID, my grandma died. Now you're talking about it. And you, I realize this isn't about me. Like I'm someone you've never met making some inane point about nothing and you're getting agitated about this. It's clearly something else that's going on here.

Starting point is 01:08:27 And someone taught you, someone had to teach you that this is how to respond in this kind of very kind of harsh way. And a lot of times they'll, you know, they won't say anything or get deleted. And I hope every single time there's no asterisk here that they take a second and they realize that the way that they were talked to growing up was not acceptable, that they don't have to carry this forward and that they don't have to be kind to me. I'm nobody of them. But take a second and ask if this is the kind of mindset you want to be your norm as opposed to a weapon you pull out of your pocket

Starting point is 01:09:05 sometimes where it's warranted or even when it's not warranted. So I think there's a lot of those people out there, and we forget how hard it is for a lot of people to grow up, how they're trained from their parents or the single parent, that the only way they're gonna get attention is by acting out. That when they do good things, it doesn't get comment. But if they do bad things, they got to smack upside their head.

Starting point is 01:09:31 That I think is far more common than we realize. And that's such a, it's not even, it's not hitting the kid that's going to last. The pain is going to give five, five seconds. But what you're training this child, helpless child, is something that's really, really bad. I don't know if it always can be mapped to that. I always wonder about them, like what their motivations are. And I just kind of, like whenever I think about them, I think only positively.

Starting point is 01:09:56 And I don't even think about the childhood thing. I think, I don't know. I kind of imagine that all of us can go through that stage where we enjoy the derision of others. We go through stages of being. I enjoy the derision of others, but it has to be, you know, Billy, I'd have that quote like I like it when people are mean to me, it's not pretending to be nice. But like what's the worst thing something to say about you?

Starting point is 01:10:21 You're not, what harm are you doing? Maybe your podcast is garbage and the conversation suck and the people are losing, okay? Well, no, the main thing I would say is I'm way more popular than I deserve to be. What does deserve mean? The reality is, there's people out there that just enjoy hating on others.

Starting point is 01:10:40 And I don't fault them for it. Like I don't even think of them as haters. I think of them as just people that in this particular part of their life are enjoying this activity of deriding others on the internet. I'm not sure what to do with that. I just don't wanna, I don't wanna allow myself to think bad leave them. I guess this is the thing. I'm the one saying don't think that leave them. I'm

Starting point is 01:11:08 saying that I don't think they're inherently bad people. I think that they're thinking is screwed and that I'm, I'm, I'm still mad at them. I'm saying, let's assume everything you're saying about Lexus true. This is an opportunity for you to out do Lex. Like it's it. No, but are you saying they should stop hating? Cause I'm saying like maybe they shouldn't just keep. I don't believe in should, right? I'm an anarchist, but I'm saying is like, if this is your belief about Lex, yeah.

Starting point is 01:11:33 You know what it is? I made this comment in my book, then you write when people make fun of Andy Warhol. And they're like, oh my God, he painted a soup can and now he became a millionaire. I could do this. Well, why don't you? Yeah. So basically, if I go up to you with a check and I say, I will give you a million dollars,

Starting point is 01:11:50 you could see the check, you got to paint a soup can. What am I waiting for? So clearly, there's a disconnect in their thinking between what they're perceiving and the reality. Because if it was as simple or as, maybe not simple, but as possible for them as they perceive it to be, why are they leaving comments instead of outdoing you?

Starting point is 01:12:09 How great would it be for them to have your bigger audience and drive you into the ground? I don't know how that would work because it's not the NBA, but you do this too on Twitter. You wanna point out the hypocrisy, the fraudulence of others, right? Sure, but what are you, you're not claiming anything other than this is the following is the conversation between me and, and, and, and, and Michiki, whatever his name is, right?

Starting point is 01:12:34 I got the voice down, dude, I got it down. I've been walking out my house doing my Lex impression. I've been leaking motor while everywhere. Yeah, but yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what to make of it because I think that there's a more General statement to be made like I see Twitter this way too when I read a tweet I Try to read it with like the best possible interpretation meaning like what is the wisdom in this tweet?

Starting point is 01:12:59 Right as opposed to what I think a large number of people not a large but some fraction Try to see what is the worst possible interpretation of this tweet and they want to they they want to destroy you For that worst interpretation like they want to There's people I'm already aware of this with me and certainly with a lot of people. They're waiting for me to fail They want me to be like this guy talks about love all the time. They want me to be some dark like a built off. They want you to be in pain because they don't. I I'll tell you exactly why because this is why I'm so for being whitepilled and being

Starting point is 01:13:39 for hope because if you are blackpilled, meaning if you think it's pointless, we're all done. If you're just wasting your breath. If you have any counter examples to this thesis, if there's even a little bit of hope, your entire hypothesis falls through. So it's kind of how you have all these stories of people who are painting swastikas, who aren't Nazis, but just to show that, oh, there's all this Nazism, so I'm going to kind of force the conclusion. So for them, when they see you thriving, you are, as a mediocre person with a crappy show, but you're demonstrating that people can succeed. This bothers them. So you are

Starting point is 01:14:17 and can succeed that bothers them. Yeah. So because that why haven't they? So now you're a counter to their worldview, and that is going to cause anxiety when you have data that contradicts other data in your worldview, this is the, in your mindset, this is a big issue for them. Yeah, so anyone listening to this, they're annoyed by the look of my face. Remember that you could probably do way better

Starting point is 01:14:39 than me and you should. But also, what would you failing look like? Like let's suppose this podcast went from whatever views you had to 100 views in an episode. That's still success. You are talking to people you like, having conversations about important issues, you're having good time, they're giving good time. How is that a failure?

Starting point is 01:14:57 If I have dinner with a friend of mine, there's zero viewers and we enjoy that time. That is the height of human success when you are sharing happiness, happiness, joy, joy, joy over love. So what's the difference being joy and love? I think joy is easier to attain. It's more common. You could share it with everyone. Give me an example of joy. Like what was the moment of joy for you recently? I could give you a great example of joy. Like what was the moment of joy for you recently? I could give you a great example of joy. And this is part in the absurdist mindset, okay?

Starting point is 01:15:30 I love having a bad meal at a restaurant. And I'll give you, you can see why. You go with your friend, it takes you 45 minutes to get seated. Okay, I'm starving. Waiters not at paying attention to you. They bring your water, it's got a hair in it. They get I'm starving. Waiters not at paying attention to you. They bring your water. It's got a hair in it. They get the food wrong. Yeah. They come out again. It's

Starting point is 01:15:49 right, but it's cold. At a certain point, you're like, okay, I'm hungry. I'm living an anecdote. This is something that you, if you were a dinner, we could talk about this for years because how great is it that the worst thing that's happening to me is I've got to wait an hour for this meal. That's going to be cooked wrong thing that's happening to me is I got to wait an hour for this meal That's going to be cooked wrong right that to me is joy is holding on to that idea that happiness and thriving are possible Even when in the moment it's everything's going the wrong way doesn't every moment have the capacity to Feel you would joy then yes, yes, yes, shady moments and the good moments. Yes, but that see that's the way I usually talk about love is

Starting point is 01:16:31 like I in love life Yes, and in that because life can generate every everything the pain the loss but also just like Simple or complicated bliss. All of that, I just love all of that. And that, because it fills me with a kind of,

Starting point is 01:16:51 I guess, joy, but joy has a connotation that it's supposed to be somehow positive, like you're supposed to be smiling. To me, you know, man search for meaning with Victor Frankl, you know, just, it's, you're in the Holocaust, you're in a concentration camp, just having a little bit of food that you didn't expect you will have, or even just thinking about food. Or what about, there's a kid there you tell him a funny story and you crack him up.

Starting point is 01:17:18 Yeah. Like, you take away this child's pain for like five minutes, that is the height of joy. Yeah. So to me, like, all of life is like infinitely full of possibility for joy. Yes. And that's what I mean by love. Because oftentimes like romantic love is what people think about when they think love. But to me, it's all like part of the same thing.

Starting point is 01:17:38 And it's almost like love with romantic love or love with a friend, friendship, is like like you both notice each other it's like dogs they look at each other and then they look at the thing they're interested in you both notice each other and that moment of joy you share that moment of joy together yeah like the restaurant restaurant yeah yeah if you're both almost without conspiring notice the absurdity of how shitty this meal is. And like that, again, that little glimmer of realization, that's what makes life beautiful. You mentioned your grandmother and Levov, you were thinking of returning there. The plans got a little bit delayed, but what are you hoping from that trip of going back to Russia, going

Starting point is 01:18:26 back to Ukraine? What do you hope to get out of it, but what do you think you will feel? A lot of things. First of all, I'm going with my buddy Chris Williamson. He hosts the Modern Wisdom Podcast. He is one of my closest friends. We've never met. Oh, really? We've never met. He's in Britain. He's tried, he's trying to get his ass over here to Austin. He's filling out his work. I should know. He's too good looking. I'm crying. We call him, I call him Apollo and I'm Loki. So right away, you have a buddy comedy because we're going to film it, right? You have these two guys who on paper, you are very dissimilar, but very, very close. In which way are you similar? I think we're both very intense people, very strong emotionally.

Starting point is 01:19:15 We're both very ambitious in the sense that not in terms of career, but like we want to grab life by the short hair, it's kind of thing. We're just both like good experiences. He benched more than you are. Oh yeah, of course. I mean, the guy's jacked. He's just, because you know, he's so good looking. He gave me one of those guys who was mostly biceps and oh no, no, no, he's not, if you look at, go to his Instagram, Chris Willex is handle. It's like head to toe. It's head to toe. Oh, he's perfect in every way. That's great.

Starting point is 01:19:47 He, he, what flaws does he have? Because I need that taste of friends. At his accent, it's all crazy. Yeah. He for does that he's an underwear model. So now I spell it, M U D L. So just us two British and American and just two different dudes It's gonna be a lot of fun. Although to be fair as you know, I'm an underwear model now as well

Starting point is 01:20:10 So yeah, you're we're gonna talk that in a second maybe Yeah, she thought it right calm. Yeah, this episode is brought this episode is brought to you by she thought I'm gonna get some pictures eventually. I think we might be how I yes I have a my phone we're gonna we'll have them we my phone. We're gonna, we'll have them, we can, we can shed them right, you can slice it in right here. So to be able to go with someone who is a very close, I mean, we meet him talk like every day, right? So to someone who generally cares about you,

Starting point is 01:20:38 who, who's, he's very, very grounded, right? So like a lot of times I'll have like some concern and he's really good, and if you listen to show, at slicing through the noise and being like, hold on a second, I can't do the accent yet. Have you considered A, B, and C? Because you know, whenever I had the situation, this is what I did.

Starting point is 01:20:56 So he's really good with that. So to have a, first of all, just like two buddies on a trip is a really a lot of fun. Second of all, I know that if it's going to be very intense. So for you, you left Russia much later than I did. How old were you? 13. Right. So you remember it. I'm sure very, very well. I left when I was one and a half, too. I don't remember it all.

Starting point is 01:21:17 To go to the streets where my family had to go through this stuff. To see the... They came to live up, they slaughtered all the Jews. I mean, to have that little memorial there that's there now, and to just look around and know yesterday, basically, they came here, they rounded everyone up. And also, from the other side, you had the Stalinist coming in and starting all the people, it's just to know that so much

Starting point is 01:21:42 horror and death, there's this quote I saw once about a woman who went to Auschwitz and she just made the comment like grass grows here because we think, you know, that when you come to the nature of evil that you're gonna go there there's gonna be this pits of hell and whatever. There's birds, you know, there's, you know, Robbins hopping around looking for the worms and whatever, they think it's perfectly nice and you happen around looking for the worms and whatever they think is perfectly nice. And you you stand there to understand that so much suffering happened here or there is going to be very jarring. I know that it's going to be an issue because I speak Russian and not Ukrainian and to speak Russian to Ukrainians is like a big deal.

Starting point is 01:22:17 So that's going to be a concern. I'm also worried about going to Russia because every Russian has this idea that even though they've just met you, they feel it, they feel it they're in a position to tell you what you're doing wrong with your life when you should be doing it. If they're a cab driver, I have no tolerance for unsolicited advice. And at base at all, that's going to be horrible. They're going to be telling me I need to speak Russian better because they're going to

Starting point is 01:22:38 be speaking to one chick. I'm not hearing it. I'm not interested in hearing it. So that I think, and also given my upcoming book, The White Pill, and covering what happened back in the day with under Stalinism, and later, to see this was the Lublanca, this was the basement where they would,

Starting point is 01:22:55 you know, when this is something that people might not realize, there's a superb film, The Death of Stalin, which does what I do with North Korea, puts a humor spin on it, then when you take a step back and you realize what they're actually saying, it's just like it's very, very disturbing. How, when Stalin was dying, he had a stroke.

Starting point is 01:23:12 He's laying there in a pile of his own past. He's unconscious. He'd be right before he died. He thought the doctors were all plotting against him. So they were being tortured to confess that they were trying to murder him. They had to get the doctors out of the torture chambers to attend to him and they did it. So this kind of thing to go there like red square and see, this is where it happened to

Starting point is 01:23:34 see Lenin's body. Like this is the guy who Emma Goldman yelled at. It's going to be really, because I've worked so much in this space, jarring, and intense and emotional. And as intense as for me sitting here talking to you about it, to see it and to see the faces and to see Cyrillic everywhere, you know, the Brighton Beach in Brooklyn, it's going to, I'm sure it's going to do a huge number on me because as, as Western and as the DuPoiMiracaniets, as the Russians will say, I am, this is still where I came from. Yeah.

Starting point is 01:24:06 So it's no matter to see it face to face, I don't know how I'm going to react, but I don't think it's going to be like, meh, you have assembled a number of essays from anarchist thinkers in a new book called the anarchist handbook. Yeah. You mentioned Emma Goldman. What interesting things do these thinkers agree on? What do they disagree on? The anarchisthandbook.com's the website. It covers from the 1790s to, I think, my assays the last one from 2014,

Starting point is 01:24:35 which a friend of mine who's kind of a mediocre scientist is going to be reading for the audiobook. Also podcast. Also podcast, I never had. But it's not a podcast, I know it. It's like Tom Woods, but even worse. So what they all agreed on was the illegitimacy of government and also the malevolence of state actors and the consequences of governments. So they range in terms that most people would easily regard as either left or right wing. Um, but it, it tackles the nature of government and also creates positive, non-state alternatives from really many different angles. The slogan I have is the black flag,

Starting point is 01:25:20 which is the traditional flag of anarchism. The black flag comes in many colors. So they were really all over the map in terms of what they're for, but their disagreement is about the nature of state and the nature of power. And it's very edifying, because this is an ideology that's been in many ways swept on the rug.

Starting point is 01:25:37 No one takes this seriously, grow up, that I can allow people to sit down and read these essays and see for themselves just how beautiful this tapestry over the decades and centuries has been woven about people who genuinely believed in freedom as the most important and how to maximize that for society. So maybe it's useful to talk about a few contrasting thinkers in there. So one is Leo Tolstoy, who I think not many people know is an anarchist, a Christian anarchist. Christian anarchist, yeah.

Starting point is 01:26:17 So he came to despise government for his deceit and his violence, but to him, the Christian principles of nonviolence, I think, are important. Oh, yeah. And it's kind of pacifist kind of mindset of, you know, it's better to someone to punch you than to punch them back. So he's in that way, at least I read, he influenced MLK and Gandhi. What do you think about this flavor, color of the anarchist flag of nonviolence? Nonviolence opposition.

Starting point is 01:26:48 I will put the caveat that I bothers me when people bring up MLK because he's become so corporate and everyone just brings him up without knowing about him. One of the things that Martin Luther King did so very well was that he forced people to face the consequences of what they were putting forward. You want to be racist, you want to be for Jim Crow, you want to be for segregation. Okay, it's easy for you to do that for me living room. Now turn on your news and you see men and women in suits being attacked by dogs, being attacked by fire hoses and beaten by cops, just so they could sit on the front of the bus.

Starting point is 01:27:25 And now for a lot of people who were still racist, who were still had animus toward black people are watching this, and it's gonna be a lot harder to be like, I'm okay with this, I'm okay with human beings, even ones I regard is somehow bad or inferior to be beaten and attacked by train dogs and they're not doing anything in response.

Starting point is 01:27:47 That strikes to, I think, a very basic nature of especially American. Like, okay, whatever you're for, I'm not for people getting beaten and attacked when they're not really doing anything. So I think pacifism is something that's very easy to make fun of, but people don't underestimate how powerful it is for someone to say, you can do what you want to me. I'm not going to fight you back. I just want to live peacefully and have the same rights as you. And to say, screw you, you should get beaten. That's a hard pill for a lot of people to swallow. So I think he was really, and Gandhi, of course, as well, were excellent in that regard. There's a little bit of Machiavellianism to it.

Starting point is 01:28:29 They've both been beatified, they're regarded saints, but their strategy worked very, very well for their purposes. So I think just all of us, when you see someone in this kind of Christian, I know you're on, obviously, it's not thing very highly Christianity, but if you see someone who's willing to take a punch and just say, you could do whatever you want to me, I'm not going to hurt somebody else. Instinctively, and maybe this is kind of a hack, most people want to side with that guy, step in between and be like, oh, okay, let's take a step back because whatever led to this is not tenable, we need to go back to Drung Board. If the consequence is people are having these as a result of my decisions and actions. So I think that aspect of anarchism is very, very in certain contexts. Healthy and much smarter and more sophisticated

Starting point is 01:29:23 than people give it credit for. And let's also point out that Tolstoy wrote Warren Peace and he wrote Anna Karenina. So this was not some naive or innocent whatever word you want to use. He knew the nature of evil. He knew how bad things get. So he wasn't saying at all that human beings are inherently nice and kind. He was saying it's much more effective to not fight back and to force them to face that I'll give you another example. I was talking to I was on the show

Starting point is 01:29:51 of trigonometry and I was talking to the hosts and one of them talked about how someone he knew had been the Gulag or his mom was born theog grandma. And after Stalin died and the Soviet liberalized and lots of the people in the Goulogs were freed by Khrushchev and so on and so forth, I didn't know this, many of the, or some, let's say some, of the guards of the Goulogs killed themselves because they had genuinely believed that everyone in these camps was there for a reason.

Starting point is 01:30:21 And when they found out that these people were completely innocent, they didn't even have trials, and that they were the ones forcing to work themselves to the start of, they couldn't deal with that guilt. So when you are a pacifist or non-retalitory and you're forcing someone who's using force, like, look what you're doing.

Starting point is 01:30:41 Look what you've become for some people. Some people don't care. You know, like the guy in scare tactics, like I mentioned earlier, where for a lot of others, they're gonna be like, okay, is this who I wanted to grow up to be, they will have that little flame of conscious that you and I talked about earlier. There will be like, how did I get to the point

Starting point is 01:30:58 where there's this lady who wants to ride the bus and she's, you know, lovely dressed, put together, and I have a sending a dog on her. What kind of person am I? For some of those people, they're going to be like, okay, I can't be a part of this. I don't even understand the politics. I still am racist, but I'm not going to take part in this atrocity. Well, that was for him from the individual perspective, perhaps he calls that Christian, but listening to that voice of conscience, like whatever that is in you.

Starting point is 01:31:31 So for Tolstoy, it seems like anarchism from the individual perspective is silencing the rest of the world and listening to the, the, for him probably God-given voice of conscience. Yes. And so that, that's what it means to live in body anarchism. And in body Christianity, I would think you would say. But he would see those as basically. Yes, correct. Yeah, so in terms of forms of government,

Starting point is 01:32:01 the Christian government is one that's no government. Yeah, correct. What do you think about that as advice for an individual, turn the other cheek? Do you think, I tend to believe that that's a really good way to live? I think it's very underrated, and this is me talking. I think a lot of times when someone, let's suppose you're having an argument, and but you have to, you have to pick your battles, right? Let's suppose you're having a heat argument. If someone says something very cruel to you, we have attempted to double down and

Starting point is 01:32:33 hit back twice as hard. But if it's someone who at all cares about you, with they're just in the moment, and you just stop, and you just say, did you hear what just said to me? For some cases, that person will take a step back and be like, just like when I snapped at Michael at Bitstein years ago and be like, wow, okay, this is bad. This is bad, I'm sorry. And they kind of, you know, it's kind of like, they have to get to 10 before they re-control

Starting point is 01:32:58 or delete to use your language. Thank you. I'm a pro overflow, I appreciate that. But, and for some, they're gonna, they're gonna just twist the knife. But I think this is a very useful technique. And also, you can also sleep well at night, because you could be like as much as this person tried to hurt me, I still didn't reciprocate.

Starting point is 01:33:18 And yeah, I took that punch and it sucks, but at least I never said anything that I could feel guilty about. Exactly. Do you think that's ultimately a good way to implement anarchy in your personal life? Anarchy, implementing anarchy in your personal life just means respecting people's boundaries. It means not forcing people to do things that otherwise wouldn't want to do. I think you then have to take case by case. There's so many human interactions that are required for life.

Starting point is 01:33:55 And there's tension and all those kinds of things. It's not always... You're being naive, or innocent. You're being naive. No. Should I put the hat on? The hat's on the other hand now. Well, I had to take off the hat because it's like photo with the ring. I was starting to feel like powerful. I wanted to give

Starting point is 01:34:11 you orders. No, I just I think there's a ways of dealing with the tensions that are natural to human interactions that can't be simply, you know, it's not as simple as saying you want to respect the freedom of others and the boundaries of others. It's like you both have to agree on stuff and work something out, and the mechanisms of that agreement, the game theory, that agreement requires different hacks and strategies. The question is for an anarchist collective that's well functioning, what kind of hacks, what kind of ways of behavior are more likely to be productive and not? That's almost like the question, do you want to turn the other cheek or do you want to stand your ground really firmly when somebody's an asshole to you you walk away? Or when somebody's an asshole to you you turn the other cheek and give them a chance to rise to the best version of themselves and then find a common ground kind of thing It's it's an open question of how to form those collectives when there's people with with difficult childhoods and all that kind of stuff. Well, as all of this that comes down to what is your relationship

Starting point is 01:35:29 for this person? Right. Is this out of character? If you and I got into a disagreement all of a sudden you started getting very personal. First of all, I'd be very hurt. Yeah. But then I'd be like, this is out of character for less.

Starting point is 01:35:38 I'm sure I could be like, whoa, whoa, let's take a pause here. Like, you're getting heated. I'm trying to work this out. What's going on here? And you get a kind of a meta conversation. But again, heated, I'm trying to work this out. What's going on here? You get a kind of a meta conversation. But again, you and I have a relationship of mutual respect. So as opposed to if it was a stranger who just wants a piece of you, it's just like, you are coming at me not

Starting point is 01:35:56 correct. I don't have to reciprocate in kind. I'm not going to shoot you, but I'm not going to pretend that you deserve respect when you're treating me with such contempt. I do defer, especially with people I know, because this is a smart long-term game theory as well as the right thing to do.

Starting point is 01:36:13 I do try to give them the benefits out of first, right? Because if you're gonna go aggro, you can't go back. But you could always go from, like, let me hear them out and then I could go aggro. So there's a big asymmetry there. Yeah, and that's, I mean, I don't think anyone has the answer to this question is is that the right strategy. To me game theoretically seems the right strategy is to uh... With reciprocity is what game theory says is the right strategy. They did the prisoners

Starting point is 01:36:37 dilemma and they found it for tat is the one that's the most advantageous. So that's for one that's perfectly rational actors but when you have I mean there's noise that there's, I think, benefit to just even if they keep being shitty to you still being nice to them. Well, then there's the adverse where girls are turned off. Some people are like, if you're in a relationship and Dutchess girls, but girl, like, some people, when you're kind to them, they find you less attractive, right? Yeah. That is kind of this weird. What am I supposed to do? Like, you're only into me. If I mean to you, I don't want to be mean, but then I'm getting punished for doing the right thing. That's another tricky one. And I mean, this is nothing that necessarily do with anarchism. So much is like, you know, human beings are infinitely complex. We don't often know the back story.

Starting point is 01:37:23 Like, for example, just yesterday, Jay, who's here is one of my closest friends. I had a dinner with a bunch of people. I couldn't bring a plus four. So I didn't, he wasn't invited. He didn't know the circumstances. He just thought we were having dinner with Adam. He was hurt. Once I spelled it out, he completely understood it.

Starting point is 01:37:39 I felt horrible because for me, to have any of my friends feel left out is just a very, very cruel thing. And I felt bad and I'm glad to apologize again publicly that that's end up being the circumstances. But yeah, it's, it's, it's, it's, a lot of times we're also in Plato's cave. When you're dealing with somebody else, you have very, very limited information about their background of circumstances. And that's why I will always, if it's someone I even have a little bit of, of relationship with, try to give them the benefit of the doubt because I will always, if it's someone I even have a little bit of a relationship with,

Starting point is 01:38:05 try to give them the benefit of the doubt because I've found, especially this is comes from being a co-author when you co-author books and you're walking out the people shoes. You don't know what's a lot of the information. So it's a lot of times it's just a misunderstanding. But isn't that a fundamentally anarchist question of how we figure out this puzzle of human complexities in order to form voluntary collectives. Like, we have to figure that out.

Starting point is 01:38:28 How to make people feel good. How to make people like... I agree. That's fair. And that... I think not only anarchists have to think about this as my point. Of course. Well, but we have to think about it more than others do.

Starting point is 01:38:41 Right. I feel like I should try to argue against anarchism at some point out of love, out of love. And because people, people enjoy seeing me, what is it when like Ben Shapiro argues against like a 20 year old feminist? I think you're seeing a destroyed size of a student with glasses. This is this video of Michael Mal's destroys a Marxist Russian communist pig. So, anarchism is opposed to hierarchies. Well, that's left anarchism, anarcho-communism, yeah.

Starting point is 01:39:13 The state. But there are many hierarchies that are not the state. We have a hierarchy here. This is your show, I'm differential to you. Right, but there are, okay, rigid hierarchies. Force hierarchies is the force hierarchies. Force hierarchies. Forced hierarchies is the worst hierarchies. Force hierarchies. Okay. So do you think it's possible that humans when left on their own accord, they form hierarchies naturally?

Starting point is 01:39:32 Yes, inevitably, in my inevitably, which is why I disagree with the left anarchist. I think it's not a coherent thing to argue for non-hierarchal relationships, even in theory, it doesn't make sense to me. And I know the old school anarchists will call me stupid or uninformed, but I've never been able to even wrap my head around this claim that you can have relationships with that hierarchy. Right. So I guess there's a certain sense in which we're living in anarchism now. And I don't mean just like because the nations, as you've said, are in anarchism relative to each other.

Starting point is 01:40:05 But isn't the United States just a collective that was formed in anarchy? And this is just the collective that we're operating under. This hierarchy that was naturally formed. Well, the United States was that naturally formed. It was formed by force and by fiat. But to your point, I stress this throughout the book. I always say this anarchism is not a location to relationship. So yeah, you and I do have a hierarchy in that.

Starting point is 01:40:30 This is your show. But neither of us really has an authority over the other. Like I'm here voluntarily. You can kick me out if you want. I can leave it and you want. Neither of us has the power to force the other to be in this relationship we've chosen. My lawyer, I defer to his judgment. He's not forcing me to do it, he gives me his advice

Starting point is 01:40:47 and I could take it or leave it, same with a doctor. So there is clearly like who's in charge and who's not in charge, but they're not in a position to impose their will and everybody else. And you could very easily see John is Stephanie's lawyer and Stephanie is John's doctor.

Starting point is 01:41:01 And in each of those contexts, one has this position of ostensible authority over the others. So anarchism is in fact not some utopian crazy thing. It is the norm of human relationships where you meet people. You're not necessarily equal. Someone's gonna be taller. Someone's gonna be stronger. Someone's stronger. Smarter, wealthier, what others. But you're not at all thinking, I am here and I could tell you what to do and you are legally or morally obligated to follow my wishes That that is the basis of anarchism So what way is the United States imposing by force something on you do you think?

Starting point is 01:41:36 If you leave your house you will go to jail 40 my money being taken from your bi-taxation, right? But don't you have the freedom to not operate under that? No, but that's like, yeah, like technically, if someone comes up to you and mugs you and says, you're money or your life, you are making a choice. But what the anarchist argument is, they're in a position to force you to make that choice. That is not morally binding, even though they have practically the power to force you into that dilemma.

Starting point is 01:42:04 But you have the freedom to live under the United States or not. So, so even... I see, yeah, the argument is if you don't like it leave, right? Not necessarily leave like geographically, but there's ways to live outside the force of the United States. There's ways it's just very difficult to operate that way. But that's like saying you can outrun the mugger, which is true, but the issue is does that mugger have the right to tell you at gunpoint, you either give me your money,

Starting point is 01:42:35 or I'm gonna shoot you, or secret plan C you get to run away, is that person a moral actor. And the anarchist answer is never. And the difference, one more thing, the anarchist answer is never. And the different, just one more thing, the anarchist view is the difference between that mugger and the government is only an air of legitimacy. Literally, they're morally identical. So it's possible that every hierarchy that gets big enough and successful enough such that it can monopolize a bunch of services it provides. Isn't it always going to be a moral in your sense the way the United States government is a moral?

Starting point is 01:43:12 Well, I don't want to say just like the United States government is a moral because that implies the United States government is uniquely or especially a moral. I just want to clarify that because I know you didn't mean that and I want that to be the implication. Can you repeat the question? I'm sorry. So like won't every, okay, so that's right. This is, so that's progressive economics. Yeah. So the argument is in any market at a certain point, things tend to centralize. And then that organization, de facto can dictate price, can dictate so on and so forth.

Starting point is 01:43:39 That is completely a historical. If you look at any market, the trend is always towards decentralization, the music industry, right? When we were kids, they were four or five record labels, they were the ones who made all the songs that you're gonna see in the Billboard, top 100 with a few exceptions. Now anyone can go to direct-to-market.

Starting point is 01:43:57 If you look at TV stations, right? It went from CBS, NBC, ABC, then you got Fox, then you had cable, which is a hundred. Now you have satellite, which have sounds around the world, and you have YouTube, which is literally infinite. So as technology improves and as wealth increases, which is a function of free enterprise, you are going to always have more and more choice, even within a monopoly, Coca-Cola, right? This is an example I used, I think, and write when we were kids every terrible comedian would be like oh now that I've got diet

Starting point is 01:44:27 Caffeine free coke what's next? It's like yeah, that's good. You want to have what was his name? Cayman the guy who invented the segway if you go it Dean Cayman if you go into some Restaurants right now you will have those machines we have like 80 kinds of coaks, and then you can have whatever flavor you want to add to a grape, cherry, lemon lime, and so on and so forth. So in any field, you're going to have more and more competition. You're going to have less competition and less choices when the state gets involved because the state wants control, the state wants one big neck with one leash around it, and that

Starting point is 01:45:04 way, you could just pull that dog in one direction and other. And you saw this last year with the lockdowns. Carol Roth wrote this amazing book called The War and Small Business. And she talked about we have seen for the first time in history a massive wealth transfer from small and medium business towards organizations like Target and Amazon, who made trillions of dollars last year, whereas Mom and Pop, which to me at least is like the acme of American achievement. You come to America, you have a fruit stand, a laundromat, you make you socks, whatever

Starting point is 01:45:36 it is, you're that unique artisan creating something special. They're the ones who didn't last, whereas Target and Amazon did. So when you have the state involvement, it will always be in favor of Jeff Bezos. And for the simple reason that it's going to be a lot easier for Jeff Bezos to get Nancy Pelosi and Mitch McConnell on the phone than is for me making socks and etsy. But your sense is that there will be less and less over time Jeff Bezos' like whatever industry we look at, there's be less, there's a trend towards decentralization across all industries. And when I say decentralization, I just mean choice, right?

Starting point is 01:46:13 So if you look at, again, networks, you're gonna, if you were in the 80s and you had a network just for LGBT issues, first of all, it's gonna be complete heretical, that's not gonna happen. And there's not gonna be enough necessarily if people identify that to have an audience, then there was something called logo. They have that.

Starting point is 01:46:29 There's lots of other shows like that in this way. More specific, look at websites. I'm positive that you and I, if we wanted to look up breeding guinea pigs, would find thousands of websites about different breeds and all this other stuff. 20 years ago, 30 years ago, like you're going to have two books. And they're not going to be dynamic as these new breeds are developed. So at the same time, it does following on your argument, it does seem easier to move and immigrate from state to state within

Starting point is 01:47:01 the United States and to other countries. Do you think that's a form of freedom that embodies anarchism where you can resist the force of state by choosing where you live? To some extent, but the line, some of these boomers have got me in Twitter if I'm going to have to police or something, it'd be like, if you don't like America, get out of here, and I tell them, freedom means I do what I want. Not what you want. Freedom means I don't have to move.

Starting point is 01:47:29 You don't have to move. Free speech is a good example. It doesn't mean I have to be on Twitter, right? Twitter has the right to ban me. But what I'm saying is I'm saying something and you don't like it too bad. You're the one who has to accommodate me because I have a right to do what I want

Starting point is 01:47:42 with my person as long as I'm being peaceful. So I guess I'm trying to get to the difference between the state and what you would naturally want in Anarchy, which is like a security company. Sure. All those things, they will, as they become successful, start looking more and more like the state because you get to elect, you give them money, they have leaders, what's the difference between a government and a very successful service provider in anarchism? This gets a little confused in America, because big

Starting point is 01:48:20 companies necessarily are in hand in hand with the government, end up in bed with them. The answer to this question is a long complicated one and thankfully it's all in the anarchist handbook. There was an essay by Murray Rothbard who Dave Smith is this is the essay that convert Dave Smith. So maybe it's not as good as it could have been otherwise called Anatomy of the State. And Murray Rothbard points out that state is the only agency in a country which gets its goods through force. The state is the only agency that is not a producer, but inherently a parasite because it does not get its money voluntarily, but through taxation and by imposing its values on a country. That is what makes a state uniquely different from, let's suppose, an Amazon or a Barnes

Starting point is 01:49:02 and Noble or a target. Jeff Bezos does not have the authority or the moral legitimacy to get an army and go into somebody's house, whereas Andrew Cuomo or Ron DeSantis, Donald Trump and Barack Obama certainly do. But is it possible that to reframe, so Jeff Bezos does, if he hires a security force, right, also is it possible to reframe taxation as a form of payment? Like, if it was done much better, if you could pay this collective that we call government

Starting point is 01:49:39 in ways where you could pay for things that you care for. So much, your money would be much more directly contributing to the that you care for. So much, your money would be much more directly contributing to the things you care for. Whether if you care for a service at healthcare, you'll be able to buy and essentially insurance from the government. Why am I buying insurance from the government as opposed to insurance from an insurance company?

Starting point is 01:49:58 What do you perceive the difference between a tax and a price? Do you see the difference? I guess I know on the surface level, I'm trying to get deeply to say there's a lot of similarities. But what I'm saying is there's one essential difference, which is taxes are imposed on you and you have no choice. Here's an example, my bookie going hubris, my biography, it goes for $500 in eBay, someone paid for it, some crazy person. People are showing me

Starting point is 01:50:23 that it's on Amazon for $3,000 or something like that. You could put a million for it. You could charge whatever price you want. The question is, is someone paying that $3,000 for it? Is someone paying that million for it? It's actually the buyer who establishes the price because the seller can put any price that he wants, $80 trillion, but unless someone's paying that amount and clearing the market, that price has literally no real meaning, right? It's not an indicator of value or worth of market price. Taxation, on the other hand, is by fiat.

Starting point is 01:50:52 I can decide it's fair that you, Lex, have to pay 40% and Joe has to pay 45%. Joe and Lex are in no position to be like this price is too high. Not only is that money set just completely out of their hands, it's taken for people who are employees, it's taken out of their paychecks before they even see it. So they don't have the choice to be like, you know what? I agree that the government has the right to pay taxation. Here's my check for 40% it's going on.

Starting point is 01:51:20 It's completely different paradigm than you are when you're paying for. But this is the government provides a lot of services in the current system, right? But there's no service the government provides that cannot be that would not be provided better more efficiently and with more choices in a market. Well, that's a hypothesis. No, that's very likely. No, that's not it. I can demonstrate to you very easily.

Starting point is 01:51:39 I love it when you got flustered. This is this is what people like. It's so cute. The robots. Don't make me put on the hat again. No, nobody has a fire. No, the smoke coming out of his ears. What is price?

Starting point is 01:51:57 Okay, so it will tax love. You know, like, you know, people like, I think of the government as a kind of subscription service. No, no, that's the anarchist view. The anarchist view of private security would be a subscription service. So that's exactly correct. But everyone hates when you sign up to a gym

Starting point is 01:52:15 and then you realize in the contract, it's very difficult to cancel that membership and then they up the price. I mean, there's a lot of unpleasant things with a subscription service that then you can elect to go to another subscription service. Sure. Or you could go and Yelp and complain,

Starting point is 01:52:33 and if there's enough people do that, the gym will be receptive. Look at the power of Yelp or the power of the vote. Well, we could talk about that too. So you're saying Yelpelp is more effective than voting. Yes. The thing is, I agree with you, but you go take a further step.

Starting point is 01:52:52 You say that Yelp is ethical and moral and voting is amoral or like not voting, but government is moral. So like it's not only is one more efficient than the other you're saying like because I would say government Sucks at doing what it does and it's gotten a lot better at it and I believe it can get keep getting better As it gets smaller and leverage this companies more and more, but you're saying no no no government is Fundamentally as an idea gets in the way of companies that should be doing those things anyway.

Starting point is 01:53:30 I just think that companies, when you take away government, will start looking like government. Just because something looks like something does not mean it's the same. If someone puts out a Yamaha into fill in and they go to shul, they're not Jewish. Right. The basic objection of with government, because you can leave, like, I apologize, this is that stupid, Twitter cliche statement. Okay, sure.

Starting point is 01:53:54 But your opposition to this idea of leaving the United States is that it's just, it's a lot of effort. It's too much friction. That's not the option. The option is, in the introduction to the book, I say anarchism can be summed up in one sentence. You do not speak for me. Everything else is application.

Starting point is 01:54:15 So the claim that somebody I've never met or who I voted against, let's say, I hate Donald Trump, I despise him. You know, I want Hillary Clinton to be president, too bad Trump's president, that's not what I want Hillary Clinton to be president. Too bad Trump's your president. That's not what I want. The idea that this person can come on me and make any claims onto one second of my time as opposed to try to persuade me, that is something that I and anarchist regard as inherently evil and nonsensical. But to operate large organizations, like you see this

Starting point is 01:54:43 with cryptocurrency, this governance, you have to make difficult decisions. There's a block size wars for Bitcoin. Sure. So you will, there is a voting mechanism often with membership when you're subscription service. Let's see, the thing is you're using these words and you're switching definitions. Because like, if I go to a store, I can technically say I'm voting for Trump, a candidate orange juice as opposed to another one, but to kind of say, oh, well, you're making a choice there

Starting point is 01:55:07 for every choice as a vote. I don't, I think that that's something that the Venn diagram is not. No, I literally mean vote in this case, not money. Okay. There's some decisions like should Bitcoin have increases block size? Okay. There's a bunch of different, they're called soft forks or hard forks. Oh, I'm not saying you should never vote.

Starting point is 01:55:26 Like stockholders have to vote. Right, exactly. But there's no pretense. Here's, let's look at this. If you want to build robots, right, you would sit down with the company, you guys would be like, we should do this kind of robot, we should do this kind of robot.

Starting point is 01:55:38 The stockholders would have a vote or the board in proportion to their investment, the firm. Me, who knows nothing about robots, I am the idea that I'm in a to their investment in the firm. Me, who knows nothing about robots, I am the idea that I'm in a position to walk in and be like, this is what you should do, is crazy and bizarre and wrong, because I'm not in a form of position. So what democracy does is it forces people

Starting point is 01:55:58 who run business as well to run businesses poorly by people who don't know how to run businesses at all. That's one of the many concerns. But you're saying that's the fundamental property of the state. I have a sense that the state can become as effective as what we think of as companies. This is why they can't because the state does not have access to data the way that firms do. And this is one of Ludwig van Mises's great points what he called the calculation problem. If I'm looking at comic books, right,

Starting point is 01:56:29 and I have detective comics, if detective comics 26 is a thousand, and detective comics 28 is a thousand, and detective comics 27 is 50,000, that is telling me that even if I don't know anything about comics, that detective comics 27 is either very, very scarce for some reason or very, very desirable. It's the first appearance of Batman, whatever, but you don't need to know that to just look

Starting point is 01:56:52 at this data and be like, okay, this is the market. Tell me something. If prices are set by the government, which the government is a monopoly, I have no way of picking those winners or losers. I don't have that data of supply and demand of an entire nation or a world of people making individual decisions and having price be dynamic and informing me as the organization where I should allocate my resources. So the price is a really strong signal that allows you to operate a voluntary collective

Starting point is 01:57:25 where people get what they want and don't get what they don't want. And it tells me what to produce, what not to produce, and it also is great because if I see this podcast in the street which didn't exist five years ago and now these people are making bank, that tells me as someone who is an investor, okay, they're making 50% whatever, 10% profit on their capital

Starting point is 01:57:46 in the plant industry, it's 2%. If I'm going to further my capital into this 10%, and that's gonna lower the profit rate as that builds up, and that is how markets are regulated voluntarily. But the word government, I just think it's possible to have collectives of human beings that represent others based on their voluntary. They yes, of course, you have private governance.

Starting point is 01:58:12 Absolutely. Private governance. Any company you're going to have a CEO, you're going to have a board directors. Yeah. But then you, I just, it starts to look very similar to me, a successful private governance mechanism at a scale of the United States starts looking a whole lot like the current government of the United States.

Starting point is 01:58:33 What's, what's, have, I even Amazon, I don't think is anything close to the civil wise size wise or budget wise or power wise. No. So you're saying you just, it's not even state. It's almost like anything at that size. You want to keep things smaller. And I don't, I, there, markets are not going to combine to that level of the state because no Jeff Bezos will never even position to tell everyone in America, I'm going to take 40% of your money before you even see it. That to me is actually unclear. We don't know that to be true, that Google or Amazon can't grow to the size.

Starting point is 01:59:09 If you take away the US government, I'm not sure that Amazon can't grow to the size of the US government. Okay. So worst case scenario is we're back where we started, right? That's not worst case scenario. But the concern is that Google is going to be the federal government. That's not the concern. I'm saying like, this is what it looks like when Google is the federal government.

Starting point is 01:59:30 It's not like, to me, the US government is our best attempt so far to have large scale representation of people's interests. It really sucks, but it's our best attempt so far. And the question is how to improve it. Like, if you take away all, if you take away the US government, I'm trying to see how do we improve on that level, that scale of representation of people's interests. But let me give you one example. That's that people can wrap their heads up very easily.

Starting point is 01:59:58 I'm against the government police monopoly. I'm for private security, right? You don't have to be an anarchist to understand this. Can everyone agree, or at least as a hypothesis, everyone can wrap the heads around, here's a big concern, 911, right? I've heard this 911 call it's very chilling. There's a kid in a closet,

Starting point is 02:00:15 his family's being murdered outside, right? He has the call 911, he's whispering. It's horrifying to hear. There's no reason why the number I call for my family's being murdered is the same number I call for the fire department is same number I call for an ambulance. What if instead they operate like Uber, you had buttons on your phone, if there's a real emergency, like someone's gun flyers, someone's being killed, you press this and it sends instead

Starting point is 02:00:39 of the one police district, whatever company is nearby, you have a bunch of them, and they're the ones who are gonna come through your house to save you. People can wrap their heads around that very easily. That is one very clear way to go from having a government security monopoly towards having a more free enterprise system. So when you apply that to pretty much anything, it doesn't become that complicated of a internal.

Starting point is 02:01:01 So what I would, you're gonna criticize this, but I believe the government, it's like the parenting thing we talked about earlier, I think it creates a safe space for government for, I'm for safe spaces. So I'm not going to laugh you about that. I want people to be safe, but for a safe space for entrepreneurship. So I believe that good government, hold on, say, but for a safe space for entrepreneurship. So, I believe that... Good government.

Starting point is 02:01:27 Hold on a second. Give me a second. Sure, I'm sorry. You're right. I'm sorry. I think government gives opportunity for companies to out-compete it. Yes. So...

Starting point is 02:01:40 UPS, FedEx, 100%. Not any question. So, I believe you need to have- Private schools. Government, to give a chance for UPS FedEx, for space X, oh, there's an X in there, to pop up, and then government will naturally back off from that place.

Starting point is 02:01:59 So, like, but you need the innovators to step in and build the thing. Okay. Like, you can't just, when has government ever backed off though? That never happens. I back well from from from what from FedEx and UPS from SpaceX from Amazon. Wait, wait, hold on. The US Postal Service still competes with FedEx and UPS.

Starting point is 02:02:20 So here's the other thing, not nearly not well, but they still exist. And the point is they're dying. But UPS and FedEx are taxed. So not only are they paying for their own company, they're paying for this competitor. This is the essential difference. Imagine if you didn't have UPS, excuse me, the federal government in no post office. So you had FedEx, you have DHL, you have US Post Service and many others. How about in this scenario, UPS has the capacity to take 20% of FedEx's DHL and courier's money

Starting point is 02:02:50 and put in their own pocket and they never have to do anything return. This is going to be an enormous advantage of UPS and then when you add the addition that UPS is not necessarily going to be more efficient than the others, this is going to be a huge distortion in the market. Can you imagine if your podcast, you just automatically got 20% of views of everybody else? I mean, would there be any incentive for you to be great? Or you could just send your laurels and do whatever you want, even more than now?

Starting point is 02:03:12 It's hard to imagine more than now. That's what you're about to lack imagination. I think there just has to be, of course, you can do it completely without government, but government. That's all I need to hear. Okay. That's all I need to hear. Okay, that's all I need to hear. Shows over. Shows over.

Starting point is 02:03:27 What else you can do without government? The question, the question is, that safety net that's needed for entrepreneurship, that's needed for, I'm sorry to say, but I have a sense that there needs to be a bit of a safety net for freedom. I'm much more comfortable with saying you need a safety net for freedom than you need one for entrepreneurs.

Starting point is 02:03:47 The beauty of markets is with your startup. If you have a startup and it completely fails, the only person who screwed is you and your investors. If I'm a government and I make a startup the entire society fails like the Iraq war, right? If I have this cockamami plan, I don't, everyone else doesn't have a choice. They are both funding it and sometimes you've been drafted or forced into it, right? The safety net, the ant, let's get back to the early anarchists. One of the things that I admire about them, the anarcho-communist, the old school left anarchists, is people don't remember what

Starting point is 02:04:17 context they were in. They were in context without a welfare state. They're immigrating in huge numbers from Eastern Europe. People are, you go to the Tenement Museum in New York, people like 12-to-Room, kids are working factories, or if they're working factories or they have to starve, it's not that their parents didn't love them, it's that the parents didn't have birth control, which is a felony. And they also weren't in a position to put food in the table for their kids because they're uneducated and the jobs are paying nothing. So you could understand why Emma Goldman, Alexander Berkman, Prodone, and all these other figures were like, this is untenable.

Starting point is 02:04:47 We see Carnegie with 80,000 mansions, whereas this lady whose husband died at age 30, who's never been to high school, or even junior high school, has 10 kids. How is she going to put food in the table? It's not going to happen. You can understand why they would be like, all right, we need to seize this money and distribute around the people. That makes a lot of sense. In a contemporary context, where food is much cheaper, where shelter to some extent is more available, when medical care, people, we're so oblivious to how bad things were, that we see things are bad now, so we assume

Starting point is 02:05:21 that they were better than in some context. They were much, much worse there in many contexts. So if you're gonna make an argument for government, for me, the strongest argument is like food stamps or like a free lunches for children, because I agree that would be very inefficient, and it's gonna probably make them obese because you're gonna have Nabisco lobbying to make sure that if you're gonna have this protein,

Starting point is 02:05:44 you're not gonna give the kids an audio, aren't you? These kids are poor, you want them to have Nabisco lobbying to make sure that if you're going to have this protein, you're not going to give the kids an Oreo, aren't you? These kids are poor. You want them to have some pleasure, and that's going to have deleterious effects. But if the choice is an inefficient government program and mass starvation, that is one where as an anarchist, I could easily see making the argument for that one. Even though I think very clearly private charity would be more efficient and distributed more effectively, but at that point, I don't really care about efficiency. If you're throwing out food to make sure these kids get fed, I don't care. So would engagement and military conflict be one of the biggest negative things about

Starting point is 02:06:21 the state to you? Yeah, of course. War is the state at its worst. So if we take away war, or do you make it defensive instead of aggressive? Yeah. Wouldn't that be a huge step forward? If war instead of regarded, this is

Starting point is 02:06:37 really drives me crazy. We're taught as kids in school that war is a last resort. And I agree with that. And yet when you look at the corporate press, war is always the first response. And these people do not talk about what war means. They'll show examples during the Bush years

Starting point is 02:06:56 of soldiers coming home in caskets, which already is an unacceptable price, in many cases for me. But they don't even pretend to care about the people overseas whose countries we've ransacked and lives are ruined. And it's just like, well, what are you gonna do?

Starting point is 02:07:10 Not ransack those countries. So that war is, to me, is the state at its worst. See, I think that there is value from small government that doesn't engage in wars. I do think that the kind of collectives that you imagine functioning well would look like the best version of government that I imagine. So I see. Okay, great.

Starting point is 02:07:33 What a great endorsement. Well, I see them as the same. I think a lot of this is just terminology. I have no problem saying that I'm using an anarchism incorrectly and to go for what you want. I have no problem with that or anything really. Because like I said, life is beautiful, but nevertheless, you wrote the essay, why I'm not going to vote this time or ever.

Starting point is 02:07:57 I think is that- Why won't vote this year or any other year or any year? And the basic idea- I hope you do a better job reading it than you just read that title. I guess you'll take as many takes as necessary. I'll read it in Russian and then pay somebody to translate it. This isn't even Russian, it only just make it worse. But you find this guy.

Starting point is 02:08:21 You get what you pay for. This is Anarchy. This is what you pay for. Exactly. This is Anarchy. This is what you wanted. Like your basic summary is, let me see, if pressed the simple explanation I have for refusing to vote is this. I don't vote for the same exact reasons that I don't take communion. No matter how admirable he is or how much I agree with him, the Pope isn't the steward over my soul. Nor is any

Starting point is 02:08:51 president the leader of my life. This does not make me ignorant or evil any more than not being a Christian makes me ignorant or evil. If I need representation, I will hire the most qualified person to do so. Yeah. Isn't voting our current best developed way of hiring the most qualified person to represent you on some things? No, because if I have a lawyer and the lawyer screws up, I can fire him. If I vote for someone, I don't get who I want.

Starting point is 02:09:21 I get for who my neighbors want. So that makes no sense. But representation means I want you to get for who my neighbors want. So what that makes no sense. But representation means I want you to speak for me. Whereas voting is like, I kind of want you, but I'll take what I can get. And I'm going to take what I could get regardless. So what's the point? Well, in governance again, that's what with Bitcoin is you want to be represented in deciding what to do. But once. Wait, Bitcoin isn't picking a person.

Starting point is 02:09:45 They're not picking a president of Bitcoin. They're picking an idea. Yeah, it's more like a referendum. And to me, a referendum is much more coherent and defensible than it is voting for representative. Because if I'm voting for Joe Biden, I'm saying this person speaks to me for abortion, taxation, environmental policy, immigration, war, right?

Starting point is 02:10:05 The odds that unless you're a complete NPC that this one person will speak for you for everything and will deliver what he promised and has the power to deliver what he promised is not true. Whereas if I ever Brexit, if I say I want Britain to be remained part of the European Union, and say yes or no question, that makes a lot more sense to me. But even that is not pure democracy because going back to the idea of the European Union to say yes or no question, that makes a lot more sense to me.

Starting point is 02:10:25 But even that is not pure democracy because going back to the idea of the circulation of the elites, which James Burnham talked about, Pareto and Moscow and all of them, you are still going to have someone telling you what you can and can't vote for and how these questions are framed. So contradiction to what the left anarchist said, some element of hierarchy is always going to be inevitable. So listen, I agree with this aspect very much so that we should be voting for ideas and issues not voting for leaders for leaders to represent us across the full spectrum of

Starting point is 02:11:01 issues. It seems to make no sense. Okay. Good. Man, good. Man, this is great. But I do think there should be a leader. I do believe in voting for representatives to debate, to be communicators of ideas to us.

Starting point is 02:11:16 But here's what, let me, it's our interrupt you, but you could have those two things. For example, wouldn't this be an improvement if they have that now? You have a referendum. Do you want tax rate to be 30 or 40, whatever percent? Yeah. You have the guy leading the campaign for 50, fight for 50, then you have the lady leading the campaign for 40, fight for 40.

Starting point is 02:11:33 They'll go out there. They can have debates. They can talk about the issue, but you're still not voting for one of them. You're voting for the issue. That makes much more sense to me than I'm going to vote for him and hope that he puts forward 50 and that depends on 99 other senators. Exactly. But also, I mean, I do like the idea of voting for certain people to debate certain ideas.

Starting point is 02:11:51 Yes. I think that's a major improvement. But the final vote should be based on the idea. So, okay, so agree. That would be nice to have plus no wars. And then you'll stop tweeting so aggressively. And to decriminalize things that don't hurt people, the crimes, drugs, especially prostitution is a big one.

Starting point is 02:12:10 If there's, and this is me talking, Mr. all cops are criminals. There is no one, or maybe other than like abuse children who needs access to the police other than sex workers. They are the ones who are the most likely to really put themselves in dangerous situation so they need to be able to call security because that's why they have pimps

Starting point is 02:12:29 because you're a woman dealing with some strange dudes who are a lot of the time gonna have weird kinks, you wanna be able to be sure, even if you don't approve a prostitution, think it's horrible that she's not gonna be raped and murdered and have no consequences. And if you're gonna say, oh, well, she's a prostitute, she can't be raped. I just think for a second, if you're agreeing to sleep with somebody and then he starts choking,

Starting point is 02:12:50 you're being the crap out of you, saying it's now it's a dumb situation that is clearly beyond the pale assault. And the same thing with drugs. Yes. heroin, cocaine, you crack. You, um, the people that need help the most are the ones who are addicted to those drugs. But even the ones who are in punishment, let's suppose you think drug dealers should be in jail, right? It is very hard for me to say that someone who sells cocaine should be treated or in the

Starting point is 02:13:18 same building as someone who rapes children or is a murderer. These are not similar types of evil, even if you believe that that drug dealer is an evil person. Yeah, I have, I mean, there's a message in there called by Alexander Berkman who was a emigolman's partner crime, crime on prisons and crime. And this is leftism at its best for getting the person is forgotten. And the fact that we have the world's largest prison population, the fact that so many people are just like, oh, you commit a crime, just put them in jail throw away the key, at the very least, if you want to be totally a moral about it's expensive. And second of all, the concept that all criminals should be locked in a room together in these kind of largely inhuman conditions, and that's going to help people, I don't think that that's the ideal mechanism.

Starting point is 02:14:01 Yeah, I tend to believe, I usually don't speak so negatively about politicians, but I do think that politicians have done more evil in the war on drugs than did the people that are supposed to believe the criminals in this picture. And I'll give you another example of how this is the anarchist critique of power. Hunter Biden, and I'm not making fun of him, and I think he shots at him.

Starting point is 02:14:23 He had an article in The New Yorker, where he talks about when he was in LA, he was buying crack and there was a misunderstanding or like he left the crack pipe in the Hertz car and then blah blah, there's a tissue. He's admitting to a felony in writing to a reporter and I'm sure this was within the statute of limitations. There was no possibility he was gonna have consequences. Kamala Harris, who was a cop, talked about when she was in college, she was smoking weed. And it's like,

Starting point is 02:14:50 I don't begrudge you guys smoking your crack or smoking your weed. But for other people who are poor or maybe just had the short end of the stick, this is years that their life being destroyed at the very least even arrest is a traumatic situation. If you have a weed or cocaine or crack, you're arrested. That's really going to screw up, it's going to do a number on you being locked up. So to have that double standard to me is completely unacceptable. And that is nothing to do with the Republican or Democrat. George W. Bush was a co-head back in the day.

Starting point is 02:15:22 He talks about overcoming his addiction and I'm glad that he did more power to him. But just to have this kind of, it's just really kind of disturbing to me. And this is my anarchist brain, like how prevalent drug use is in college. There's that, I think it was joke on South Park. Like, there's a time and a place to try drugs. And that's called college where people experiment.

Starting point is 02:15:40 But all those college kids, which are gonna become next generation's elite, don't really have that worry That if they get caught then anything's gonna happen to them But that kid in the street who did not have that good upbringing even if he's a piece of crap Like he's not gonna have a different punishment. I think that's just really at his base on American So in contrast to Tolstoy Let me ask you about Emma Goldman. You wrote that if anarchism believed in rulers, then Emma Goldman would be the undisputed queen.

Starting point is 02:16:14 What ideas to find her flavor of anarchism, would you say? Emma was really an old school radical. She was a radical among radicals. I don't know what ideas, I mean, what would die be as to find her was anarchism. Obviously. There's the violence. I mean, she was more open to the idea of violent opposition

Starting point is 02:16:36 versus something like tolle's way. Oh, sure, for sure. So basically Emma and Alexander Berkman, their mentor was someone named Johann Most. And Johann Most was a very early, free speech, not very early, but he was a free speech concerned because he published a pamphlet in Europe that was translated in the States about how to build dynamite.

Starting point is 02:16:55 Because his idea was, all right, you have this oppressive government, this oppressive police force that use batons and bolts against us. The only way for us as the working class to level the playing field is through dynamite. And here's how you build it. So the question is, all right,

Starting point is 02:17:11 is this something that could be allowed to be legal now that you're allowing the layman to in his own house build bombs? So Johann Most, basically they had a big parting of waste because when Alexander Berkman tried to assassinate uh... frick yohan said no no no this is not uh... something i'm for and in fact they thought uh... with this assassination to fail the assassination this would be the

Starting point is 02:17:35 thing that fired off the revolution because you have the strike the pinkerton's in the vile pink turns getting killed strikers getting killed you know this was a marks predicted you know they're gonna like the spark and everything's falling down. He ends up going to jail for 13 years instead. Alexander Berkman does. And then Goldman and Berkman had a big issue

Starting point is 02:17:53 because when Leon Salgas killed McKinley in 1901, it was really, it's kind of humorous and retrospect. He gets arrested and they're like, why'd you kill the president? He goes, I was radicalized, I have a golden, and she's like, oh, damn it. She's on the run. She's like, I don't even know this guy. And she made the point about why is it worse than the president

Starting point is 02:18:14 being killed in somebody else. We're all equal. And you would think if you're against capitalism against the ruling class, this would be your first target. But Berkman, who went to jail, who was a tried to assassinate someone, he had said, McKinley, this is your villain, he's just a party hack, he's like a symptom of the times.

Starting point is 02:18:32 This is foolish and Goldman disagreed with him. She thought it wasn't necessarily justified, but it may have done something that was defensible. So the three of them had their differences on the use of violence. And in fact, when she came back from Russia and was denouncing it in her book, my dissolution in Russia, my third dissolution in Russia, the last chapter she goes, look, I'm not saying I'm against violence. When there's the revolution columns, we're going to have to use forest. She goes, but it's not the force of the state against the working class against the masses. This is exactly where we're opposed to This is a complete obscenity to our principle. So that was interesting the fact that she was a her

Starting point is 02:19:13 Priotical mother earth was a clearinghouse for many prominent You know ideas of the day that weren't anarchists, but we're certainly radical so she was a and also she was like tiny She's like 5-1 so to have this little woman who was so feisty And talk back to Lenin talk back to Lenin Would she took on Lenin Woodrow Wilson Jander Hoover was the one who deported her Someone who just and the thing is you have to be careful because I think just like war It's very easy to glamorize violence and to regard it as something admirable or heroic like you're fighting for the cause. But if you take it out of the romanticism, you're killing someone who had kids.

Starting point is 02:19:52 You are killing someone with a family. If you're going to shoot someone, they're probably going to retaliate twice as hard. Violence sings its own song and this is a very dangerous word you're going down. So you really need to be careful about what you're preaching here. And you know, she kind of had this mixed feelings about it, but that is certainly not Emma Goldman her best. Emma Goldman her best was about the ultimate freedom of the individual of caring about people who are desperately for who despised the corporate idea

Starting point is 02:20:25 that we all had to be made to cookie-cutters and be interchangeable and all have to start work at the same time. And basically our entire life, slave for corporation, then I'm nothing to show for it, while they get wealthy, and you have no opportunity

Starting point is 02:20:37 for either productive work or creative work. So that, I think, the valorization of kind of the lowest of a low is something I find very admirable. There's a quote of hers, which I think, even for those of us who are, you know, for property rights, is left to anarchism at its best, which she goes, go and ask for work. If they don't give you work, ask for bread. If they don't give you bread, take bread. So the idea that, like like if you're that poor and you're honestly trying to work and work isn't available and you steal food to keep alive that you shouldn't feel guilt about

Starting point is 02:21:11 it, I don't know that I would disagree with that. I think that there's something to be said at that point where it's just like, you know, if property rights come between that and mass starvation, it's going to be very hard for anyone to make the case for property rights. Now my argument is when you have free enterprise food becomes so plentiful that now obesity is an issue, but at the time she did not have, of course, have that data to, you know, access. Is there somebody you left out from the book that you thought about leaving in, like some interesting figures? Yeah, there's a couple. So,

Starting point is 02:21:46 interesting figures. Yeah, there's a couple. So Chomsky would have been one. Of course, because he's one of the biggest anarchists in contemporary times. I was on the fence about Herbert Spencer, because he's not anarchist. Chris Williamson's reading the chapter for the book. He coined the term survival of the fittest and the chapters called the right to ignore the state from his book social statics. It was deleted from later editions, but you'll found it and reprinted it. And Randolph Born, he was an early progressive. He was the only one who were one of the very few fighting against entering the Great War. And he had an essay called War is the Health of the State, which is basically about how

Starting point is 02:22:23 states love war because it gives them an excuse to increase their power and it's very hard to argue against increasing state power in the time of war. But since he was not himself an anarchist and there was plenty anti-war and there already, I didn't include him, but those would be the ones. Is there some people that you think the public would be surprised to learn

Starting point is 02:22:43 that they are at least in part anarchists. I saw that Howard Zinn is supposed to be an anarchist. I mean, is there, just like Tolstoy is an anarchist. Is there some people like that that you think in our modern life that would be surprised to learn their anarchists? I can't think of any of the top of my head. I mean, you could say Carl Hess, who was like Barry Goldwater speech writer from the 96th work campaign, but he's hardly a household name. I mean, I think a lot of

Starting point is 02:23:10 people would not ascribe to that term, but are certainly informed with this complete distrust of all authority. Murray Rothbard had an essay. If I didn't include an admiro in the state, I was going to include this one. It's much, much shorter. And his question was, who are allies and who are enemies? And the point he made is there's lots of people who would call themselves anarchists who are of little use, who are someone who is still like a minoracist or for government. But genuinely hates the question Rothbard had is, if there's a button, and you could press that you would end the state, would you press it so fast, your finger would get a blister, those are allies, even if they're somewhat of a minorcaist.

Starting point is 02:23:49 So I think that is kind of a better lens of looking at it. And I don't think anyone needs to really ascribe to anarchism as a whole ideology in so far as you're seeing right now, many people in certain fringe elements are just essentially or are decreasing the fringe and increasing mainstream elements are realizing that this idea that whatever the state does is somehow morally binding or legitimate is something that at least bears strong questioning. Sure. I mean, I guess there's a lot of groups like the libertarians, for example, have some element of that.

Starting point is 02:24:26 Oh, sure, for sure. Of harsh questioning of the ways of government. And also, I think what I love, I mean, if there's one issue where I would want people to have this kind of analysis, it is war. And it is like, okay, are you really sure? Because this is 100% going to result in a lot of people being killed, a lot of people being traumatized, a lot of people who are never gonna recover, children innocent people, are you really sure this is the right thing to do? And I think a lot of times, if the answer is, well, it's the profitable thing

Starting point is 02:24:57 to do. And that is, I think, again, government, and it's absolute, most venal and worst. You, Michael Malice, in many ways are a New Yorker. Oh, yes. I'll give you one example. I don't know where Austin is in the map. No idea. Not even kidding, but does it even matter? It doesn't matter. But nevertheless, you've decided to move to Austin.

Starting point is 02:25:20 Yes. Why do you think you're moving to Austin? Or why do you move both to Austin and away from New York? This was one of the... I hate it when people talk like this, but I'm going to do it anyway. This was one of the hardest and easiest decisions of my life. It was hard because I've lived in New York since I was two other than college. It's the only home I've known.

Starting point is 02:25:42 I know it intimately. I know all the cool spots. I love it with every fiber by being or I did. It was very much ingrained in my personality, my outlook about what cities can be and can't be and should be and shouldn't be. Deciding to move was not done, but when you see your crew, your chosen family by one whittling away, it's not easy. They all left. There's just a couple of us left in New York. And I don't see any mechanism by which New York is going to improve. Things are getting much worse all the time. It's just completely outrageous. Here I would have a huge crew. I didn't realize how much cheaper real estate is than in New York. This is another way.

Starting point is 02:26:25 New Yorkers are the most provincial people on earth who are completely oblivious to the rest of the country. For a long time, the argument was New York versus LA for certain types of people. They would say LA is cheaper in terms of rent. New York, let's suppose the rent is 1,000. LA was 700. You'd have to get a car. This is a wash.

Starting point is 02:26:42 I assumed Austin would be 80% of New York prices and I'm looking at these houses And for like 700,000 you could get a house here that would cost like 3.5 million New York Yeah, so and you could have a gun and it's just like I can have a yard and I can have a dog and I can have a three bedroom And I can have you know aquariums and my weird plants. So to have all that and it's just to have, I am very, very lucky that I have such a supportive crew and they're also very smart. Cause they sat me down and they said, whatever excuse you have not to move here,

Starting point is 02:27:18 we are going to make sure that doesn't count. So my buddy Matt said, cause I have a huge library, he goes, I will go to your house and I will pack every single book you own myself so you can get that as an excuse to other way. I don't know how to drive and you do this ULKU. She's like, we're gonna take driving lessons together. There goes that excuse.

Starting point is 02:27:39 How do I find an apartment? They're like, we'll go to, with the realtor, we'll take pictures for you, we'll report back, you could trust our judgment. And I'm like, that's very, I would do that. That're like, we'll go to, with the Realtor, we'll take pictures for you, we'll report back, you could trust our judgment. And I'm like, that's very, I would do that. That sounds like fun shopping for house that up to buy them. Then Matt, just yesterday had the idea, goes, come here, rent a furnished apartment for a few months.

Starting point is 02:27:57 You don't have the pressure of buying. And it's just, it's gonna be an easy transition. The rent's not gonna be anything compared to New York. I'm like, these are all very valid things. You're here, lots of other people. By the way, that's what this is. I made sure that's renting month to month. Oh, this is rental.

Starting point is 02:28:15 This is rental. But you didn't realize this. I thought you bought this. No, no, no, no. This is rental. Why? I thought you bought it. No, it's rental.

Starting point is 02:28:23 Well, I really value freedom. So, I really, who are you talking to? I've heard of this thing freedom. It's really great. But not everybody in the implementation of freedom is different for everybody. Of course. For me, I don't want to make a statement about others. I'll just speak for myself. I think when you buy a house that is not just wise financial decision or all those kinds of reasons that people have investment all those kinds of things I think it's also a hit on your freedom because the positive way to frame that is you make it a home Yes, you have a deep connection to it But the negative way to frame it is you're now a little bit stuck there.

Starting point is 02:29:07 And you may stay there way longer than you should when much better opportunities for life come up. The stage is on life when you're not sure exactly what the future will hold. I would argue that's very often the case. Basically, every stage in life, and I just want to make sure I maximize the freedom to embrace the most ambitious, the craziest, the wildest, the most beautiful opportunities that come by. You've actually brought this up to, because I said I really enjoyed the conversation with you and you're on. Yeah. Like you talking to you and somebody else. Like you talking to you and somebody else,

Starting point is 02:29:47 I think you make a really significant effort. I mean, you've said this before, but it's really is true. And it stands in contrast to other folks who are also good conversations. You really make an effort for that person, like to just like to meet the person. Oh, for sure. And that's a, you make me, you make me realize it's kind of a It's an art form But it's also just It's a thing worth doing of putting in that effort and that leap of humanity to like reach to But whether you're talking to Dave Rubin or Alex Jones or Joe or me just. Yeah, those are different human beings.

Starting point is 02:30:26 Of course. And they're taking that leap. It's fascinating. Do you have, how do you think about that? I'm a huge introvert as you are, I think. I feel very, very, very lucky that I get to get on a mic and run my mouth. And for some reason, people like this. that I get to get on a mic and run my mouth

Starting point is 02:30:45 and for some reason people like this. So I know what it's like to have a good convo and I know what it's like to have a bad convo. So before I'll do a show, I will have like some things I would wanna talk about. No, then I'll think about how to say them in an engaging way. So I do my homework in that regard.

Starting point is 02:31:05 I'm also very good at, or I pride myself at, taking people who are cerebral or intellectual and making them a little bit silly, but also making them feel safe to be silly because I'm not going to be making a buffoon of them that we're having fun as opposed to disrespect in the person. I think we all saw that with Yaron who is very cerebral, very serious, but we were all cracking jokes and he was having good time and he knew even if I'm making fun of him to his face, it is coming from a place of kindness and he's in on the joke and we're all having fun. That is something I try to do as much as possible. I had an episode of my show

Starting point is 02:31:44 a couple of weeks ago and someone who's been a friend of mine for a long time and someone I admire a lot, Elizabeth Spires. She was the founding member of Gawk Founding at her of Gawker. You know, she's worked for the observer for Jared Kushner. She's her resume second to none. And she was on my show and she was talking,

Starting point is 02:32:01 you know, her politics are pretty straightforward like corporate journalist, blue-pilled politics. And my audience was very upset that I wasn't pushing back or like whatever. I'm like, my job, if someone is coming to a place where the audience is at least gonna be somewhat hostile, is not to make her have negative consequences for doing something that she didn't need to do.

Starting point is 02:32:23 My job is to make sure that the experience is a positive one for her as the host. So when I'm the guest, I always feel that my job is to make the host look good and make the host not feel like it's work. And the audience really likes that because instead of it being an interview or intense, it is a conversation. Nine of us know what's going to happen.

Starting point is 02:32:43 And so this is something I think about a fair amount and I try to apply and in so far as you successfully, I'm delighted and there's times when it's not successful and that's a shame, but all we could do is do our best. Yeah, I really enjoy that conversation with her. I was surprised by the dislikes and all that kind of stuff. Well, one of the things I always talk about is, I don't care what my friends politics are.

Starting point is 02:33:06 I care about if someone's, if I'm having a bad day, can I call them up and ask for advice? And Elizabeth has been there for me in the past. And then when I do it on a camera in front of Mike's people freaking out, I'm like, I'm practicing what I preach. My, the relationships are more important than someone's political views. And it's not hypocrisy at all to Demonstrate that and not not to push back and those great humor there. You're both a bit of trolls Yes, yes, but nevertheless that connection the humor and the mutual respect and love that those all there. Yeah, it's just fascinating

Starting point is 02:33:41 You've talked to Alex Jones a couple days ago. Sure, yeah. He've talked to him many times before, but you've had him on your podcast this week, yeah. This week. I was kind of surprised that he mentioned that human animal hybrids was like the number, the main conspiracy that people should look into to open their eyes to the, you know, to all this, to the globalists, to all the conspiracies that are out there. Was that surprising to you?

Starting point is 02:34:11 No, because I came in there with questions, and I was very focused on corralling him and having it be, like kind of a coherent intellectual conversation. That was a really, really good, it was only an hour, but it was a very good conversation. Yeah, thank you. The response was overwhelmingly positive. And I'm like, all right, I'm in a unique position because Alex, I met Alex, well, a Desserture, but I was on Alex with Alex on Tim Pula, a couple of times.

Starting point is 02:34:37 It was Mayhem, it was Anarchy. And I'm like, all right, let me get. But the thing is what people enjoyed is I was the one who's basically able to translate Alex's. He's obviously very performative. And a lot of times Alex will say things that are not really particularly controversial, but he'll say them in such a way that it sounds crazier than it is.

Starting point is 02:34:57 You know, I think Joe's made this observation as well. So what I wanted to have him on when I on my show is, all right, let's go through all these conspiracies which have validity, which don't. And I knew if I asked him, because he's got a lot of historical knowledge, even if you think it's a lot of it's nonsensical, let's start out the week from the chaff, you know, because everyone has someone crazy in them. I have this expression.

Starting point is 02:35:19 You take one red pill, not the whole bottle. You take the whole bottle of red pills. You assume literally everything in the media is a lie. That's just not a coherent position to have is the weather a lie when they tell you that temperature is going to be wrong tomorrow. So that was fun to watch him go through that. And he felt bad because he felt incorrectly in my opinion that he was needlessly aggressive and disrespectful toward me on Tim. I didn't feel disrespected at all. He got heated, but I didn't take it personally. People have heated debates all the time. So I think he promised me he wouldn't interrupt

Starting point is 02:35:46 and would be differential, but that because he promised to be on his best behavior, that gave me an opportunity to address him seriously and not to bring the clown aspect out of him, which is easy to caricature him. My friend Ethan Supply, who I'm sure people know, played basically a character based on him in the hunt. Because Eric Alex is kind of this cartoon archetype. So it was really fun to get another side of him.

Starting point is 02:36:12 And also it was just fun being on his show, just him being bombastic and just trying to be the convoys of reason. And for once the trickster was Apollo. Well, I like this. The thing he said before, and that's what makes me the most interesting now is the Nietzsche quote about the, you know, gazing into the abyss. I think he said on your show that he is becoming the abyss or something like that.

Starting point is 02:36:36 I think that makes him fascinating that when you really take conspiracy theories seriously, the kind of effect it has on your mind, that to me is fascinating. What can I say one thing that's term conspiracy theory seriously, the kind of effect it has on your mind, that to me is fascinating. What can I say one thing that's term conspiracy theory? If you ask any layman, it's like this, you say, do you like puppies? I hate them. Do you like baby dogs? Oh, they're the best, right? People, the human mind is capable of doing this.

Starting point is 02:36:58 Yes. So if you ask people, do you think extremely powerful people often get together and manipulate data or rules in order to further power and control and maintain it? I think 90 plus percent of people will be like, of course, then you say, oh, so you believe in conspiracy theories? Oh, no, that's for crazy people. Those concepts are identical. Now that term is used for people who are like, all right, there's conspiracies in government to experiment on people like Tuskegee,

Starting point is 02:37:27 this is not in dispute, the CIA has unsealed things, Operation Mockingbird, so on and so forth. And at the same time, conspiracy theory applies to people who say, 9-11 never happened, and those are holograms. Now, it's the same word for both, but these are not at all equal truth claims, and they do not at all have equal evidence to them. But it's very useful for powerful people

Starting point is 02:37:47 to have that term in the zeitgeist because then I don't have to explain or defend. It's like only lunatics are gonna look further on this. Do you really wanna be a lunatic kid and that takes care of the issue? Unfortunately, the same problem applies, language applies to a lot of other areas. 100% that's an agent language, yeah. It's used not just to communicate, but to

Starting point is 02:38:06 office gate. Obviously that could be fixed by coming up with different words to label conspiracy theories that are much more likely to be true. Yeah, power elite analysis is another is basically in spurious theory. This is the black pill versus white pill question with the abyss. Do you think thinking about these things can destroy the mind can make you deeply cynical about the world? Yeah, because if you are thinking that you are not aware of or know as aware of who's controlling things and that the level of their control

Starting point is 02:38:46 it gives you the sense of parallelism and hopelessness. And my counter is the people in charge, when the reasons I'm an anarchist, are nowhere near as smart and crafty as you think they are. And certainly maybe the ones that complete the shadow maybe are, but the ones who are in the public face most certainly are not as social media has demonstrated when you look at how senators and Harvard professors tweet, these are not, you know, intellects that you're in awe of to put it mildly. So I think that kind of takes the bloom of the rose to a great extent. You mentioned that you've been doing a lot of amazing things, been truly joyful recently. Yeah. What, I don't know if you have a bucket list.

Starting point is 02:39:29 Is there items on the bucket list you haven't done yet? Or are you pretty much satisfied and happy? And if you die today, if I murder you, you'll be happy. I could die today. Is there an item on the bucket list you wanna get done? I don't, yeah, deep sea submersible. That would be number one on a bucket list. Why? Because that's where all the most interesting zoology is.

Starting point is 02:39:55 And to be in a place where like virtually no human being has been and to see these gods mistakes in their natural environment. My friend coined that term God's mistakes. If you look at deep sea creatures, you can imagine God making some animal being like, oh God, this is hideous. I'll just throw the bomb in the ocean.

Starting point is 02:40:14 I was gonna see this. So that would be my number one bucket list thing. I would say go to the White House as a guest. Would be a bucket list thing. Russia, go to Russia, would be a bucket list thing. Russia, go to Russia, would be a bucket list thing. I want to go, these are secondary, like go to Airtria, would be a bucket list thing. I've got a long list of books I need to write. That's, I don't know, that's really a bucket list per say. There's not that much. What I'm at a point in my life is once you cross up certain things,

Starting point is 02:40:45 you basically instead of driving the car, start surfing. And just amazing, I talked to you about this medical thing, you know, before we started. At a certain point, and I'm sure this happens to you because your platform's a lot bigger than mine. All sorts of things start coming your way that you never would have thought of. And you're like, this is pretty darn cool.

Starting point is 02:41:02 So to be, and that's happening at an escalating rate, like I'm at a point now where I get stopped every day by people. So that's going to be a weird thing for me to get adjusted to. I ever like without exception, everyone who has ever stopped me on the street has been cool. And it's been a pleasant experience. There was one exception and an event where someone was genuinely on the spectrum and they didn't understand like distance and you don't touch people. But that's as bad as it got.

Starting point is 02:41:31 So that is something that's gonna be weird for me to have to deal with over the next couple of years, but you know, it's the price you pay and it's hardly a small price when people come up to you and say you've made my life better. But it's just weird when you go and like, like I was at the gym and then someone tweets like did I see you at the gym just now, it's kind of weird and I'm sure it's the same for you when you're walking around and you don't think about it, but people know who you are and

Starting point is 02:41:56 you don't know who they are that you're being watched. Even though it's not a level, it's still just you don't get prepared for that. Michael, there will be two really big names that wanted to do this podcast, we'll do this podcast that I consider to do episode 200 with, but then I realized why the hell talk to somebody famous when I could talk to somebody I love that nobody knows or cares for. You just hit a random number, generator. Yeah, I listed all the Russians I know and who is the easiest to get. Yeah, who's the most desperate person? He's got a shitty book out.

Starting point is 02:42:37 I think it's talked about that for five minutes. This garbage cut and paste that he did. Yeah. And it turned out okay, I think. So slightly above average, Michael, I love you. You're an incredible human being. It's an honor that you would talk to me. And you'll be my friend.

Starting point is 02:42:54 Thanks so much for doing this. The respect that I got when you asked me to be the guest for the anniversary episode was similar to the respect with my two friends, Josh and Zoe, they were gonna get married in a city hall. And they said, we want someone to witness it. They ask you, so it's one thing when people tell you, they like you in respect to you, which I had growing up.

Starting point is 02:43:14 It's something when they show it. And this is something that I do not take lightly, and I hope no one takes lightly. And if someone does right by you and shows you respect, going back to kind of taking out for dinner, thank them. By the McCandy bar, by the Moussoda, do something to show that you don't take it for granted because I think what you and I both want to do is increase human kindness as much as possible. And I'm going to look at the camera. Be kind to yourself because a lot of you deserve it. Be kind to yourself because a lot of you deserve it

Starting point is 02:43:45 Desvidania! Desvidania! Thanks for listening to this conversation with Michael Malas and thank you to Galagames, Indeed, BetterHelp and Masterclass Check them out in the description to support this podcast And now, let me leave you with some words from Jack Kerouac that perhaps begins to explain the nature of and the reasons for my friendship with Mr. Michael Malice. The only people for me are the mad ones.

Starting point is 02:44:12 The ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time. The ones who never yawn or say commonplace thing, but burn, burn, like fabulous yellow Roman candles, exploding like spiders across the stars, and in the middle you see the blue center light pop, and everybody goes, thank you for listening, and hope to see you next time. Thank you.

Lex Fridman Podcast - #200 – Michael Malice: Totalitarianism and Anarchy

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