Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 1267: When Eating Junk Food & Being Lazy is Healthy
Episode Date: April 9, 2020In this episode, Sal, Adam & Justin discuss why sometimes eating less than ideal food and not being productive actually serves your overall health. Mind Pump gets controversial. (4:01) What being “...healthy” actually means. (8:05) Breaking down the 4 known categories of health and how they are all interconnected. (12:00) How moderation is the key and even a good thing can be abused. (15:27) The importance of when to optimize and adapt to ‘home base’. (18:45) The value of fasting to use as a tool. (19:53) Does alcohol have any value? (24:08) When eating junk food can be considered healthy. (25:34) Why people in the “blue zones” live longer than the rest of the world. (31:38) “Be moderate in order to taste the joys of life in abundance.” (33:52) Do I have control over this or does it have control over me? (39:55) Strategies to mitigate the negative effects of junk food. (41:30) Strategies to mitigate the negative effects of alcohol. (46:02) Strategies to mitigate the negative effects of “not being productive.” (47:58) The order of operation matters. (48:38) Your health encompasses a lot more than you think. (51:01) Related Links/Products Mentioned April Promotion: MAPS Prime/Prime Pro ½ off! **Code “PRIME50” at checkout** Special Promotion: MAPS Anywhere ½ off!! **Code “WHITE50” at checkout** Visit Vuori Clothing for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! The health benefits of strong relationships Mind Pump 1030: Dr. Roy Vongtama Moderation, Abstinence, and The Pleasures Around Us Why People in "Blue Zones" Live Longer Than the Rest of the World Visit ZBiotics for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! Mind Pump Free Resources People Mentioned Roy Vongtama MD (@royvongtamamd) Instagram
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Salda Stefano, Adam Schaefer, and Justin Andrews.
In this episode of Mind Pump, we go in a different direction from what we normally talk about and promote.
In fact, this may come across as a counter message,
but trust me, we make our case very well,
and we think that this episode needs to come out,
especially right now, during these weird and uncertain times.
So we talk about when eating junk food and being lazy
and things into those categories are actually healthy.
When they are things that you're doing
because they are better for you're doing because they are
better for you at that moment.
Okay, but there's a fine line there and we kind of break it down.
So first we talk about what healthy actually means, how it's a sphere that encompasses
many different things, not just the physical, but the mental, the spiritual relationship
health and how all of those things kind of overlap and communicate to each other.
How if one thing is off,
it tends to make the others off as well.
We talk about how to mitigate some of the negative effects
of some of those things that I just talked about.
We talked about the longest living people in the world
and the things that they do that make them really healthy
that you wouldn't normally think about.
The mitigations that we talked about, by the way, are great.
So we give you a lot of great tips on how to, if you're going to eat junk food,
and if it's healthy for you at that moment, like things to do,
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I think this episode might be controversial,
although this is a message that we've been
communicating for a long time, but I know it's going to be something that's going to stir
up a little bit of...
Well, we haven't dedicated a full single episode just to this topic, which I think you're
right, I think it deserves that.
I think we need to be clear, very clear on the point.
Absolutely.
It needs to be communicated properly and very effectively.
And the reason why I think this is controversial is because our space, the fitness and health
space, communicates very well in some ways.
And one of the ways that they communicate, I think that they over communicate are the physical benefits of eating right and exercising
and why that's everything, why that's the most important thing.
And I do think they do a poor job of not looking at the whole picture.
They don't see what health really, really is.
Well, there's too many blanket statements that are always made and it's almost like,
you know, it's predictable to where they're not accounting for nuances and they're not accounting for
everyday life that interrupts perfect patterns of trying to shoot for these, like, quote unquote,
healthy habits of maintaining this perfect kind of health. I also think I'm very guilty of,
you know, promoting that message.
All of us are early on as a train.
I really feel like I approached fitness,
very science and mathematical based.
It was, this is the science that supports
when we do these things, this is how the body adapts
and changes.
Here's the math,
topia, broccoli equals apps. Here's the math based off of, you know, your age, your movement
and your goals. And, you know, now it's just a matter of discipline. Can you, can you follow
it? And the ones that can see the results and are happy and healthy, the ones that don't
have issues they have to work through and they're just not there yet.
And that really was, now I'm saying that in a way
that I know that I probably didn't communicate that
as a young trainer, but I'm sure that I was presenting
somewhat that message.
And so I think it took me a very long time
to kind of see the whole picture.
And really start to understand too
that who you're communicating to.
When I'm talking to a competitor, which is a very small percentage of the population,
how I'm talking about health and wellness and fitness is completely different than I
am, the general pop.
The general pop is not looking to get on stage.
It's not their sport.
They have so many other aspects of their life
that they value and that's important to them.
And as a trainer, I think I was always trying to,
you know, make them like me.
It's a real similar like leading a team in business.
Like the mistake I made early on in leadership
was very similar.
I was always trying to make my staff
like me. These are the things that made me successful. Therefore, let me see if I can make them all
be like me. And it's this never-ending vicious cycle when you do that of turnover on people,
because you're just never going to find people that are exactly the same versus learning to work within their parameters
and make them better.
It is very much the Western medicine and scientific approach to break complex systems up into
segments and then to dive deep into those segments.
That's actually a strength of the scientific approach and the Western medicine
approach. If you want to know deep knowledge about a, you know, the hormone system, for example,
or the heart, you are going to get some details when you go through this through that approach.
But the weakness of it is forgetting that health is a complex,
interconnected sphere.
This is where you tend to forget.
So if you go to one doctor and you have digestive issues,
that doctor is going to look at them,
look at your digestive issues just through their lens
and really maybe not consider other things.
Like if I go to a hormone specialist,
they may think, well, let's test your hormones
to see what's going on.
If I go to a psychologist specialist, they may think, well, let's test your hormones and see what's going on.
If I go to a psychologist, they may think your stress and your relationships are causing
your gut issues.
If I go to a gastro specialist, they may look at, you know, how is your gut inflammation?
Maybe your microbiome is off or whatever.
If I go to a nutritionist, they're going to look at my diet and think, maybe the things
I'm eating.
And so we tend to forget that it's this
really big interconnected sphere, that's what health is.
And this really hit home for me years ago
when I started to really pay attention to studies
that were done on longevity.
And they would show things like, okay, eating healthy
and exercise definitely contributes to longevity.
That was nothing shocking there.
I knew that already.
I would preach that all day long.
But then I would see things like relationships, having good relationships.
Yeah, community.
People who have a spiritual practice, did you know that people who have some type of a
spiritual practice, whether it be religion or meditation or philosophy, tend to
live longer and be healthier, even when they control everything else.
Like that's weird, like what's going on here.
And so all these things contribute to your health.
And one study in particular, you know, really hit this home for me.
It showed that having bad relationships was as bad as smoking cigarettes regularly.
Actually showed that. actually showed if you had
bad relationships, stressful relationships
with the people around you.
It's just as bad for you as smoking a bunch of cigarettes
or having a really, really poor diet.
Now, the reason why that hit home for me was
it made me think back to my early days of working out
and to a lot of clients that I trained who
became so obsessed with exercise that they literally discarded relationships or treated
relationships poorly because they were so obsessed with eating perfectly and exercising.
So it's like, I can't go to that birthday.
That's a that's a leg day.
Or I'm not going to go out with my friends because I never have a glass of wine.
And that's what you're gonna enjoy a little bit of wine.
Nope, can't go off my diet, not gonna do it.
And it feels self-righteous.
I think if you're stuck in that space,
but when you actually look at the data,
so many things are contribute to your health. And it's not just the stuff that I think is obvious,
and that's why I think this episode needs to happen, especially right now. Especially right now,
when I think I could say this confidently, collectively, you're probably experiencing more stress,
you're probably experiencing more stress and anxiety and uncertainty now than we were
seven months ago or a year ago. I think I can say that pretty easily. Yeah, I think people are
more worried, people who maybe even haven't lost, maybe you still have a job and everything still financially secure, maybe you're not even worried about getting sick and COVID or all that
stuff,
but your whole routine is different.
Instead of waking up, getting dressed,
getting the car, drop the kids off, whatever,
you go downstairs and your pajamas,
kids are doing whatever, okay, my structure's all gone.
I have no schedule.
It's all rooted.
Yeah, it's all right now.
I think this is a message that needs to be communicated
because I think it's a very important one.
So the question is, when is eating junk food
and being lazy actually healthy?
Yeah, that's a great question.
That's a very, very good question.
I think we should dive into that.
I think it's important to break down health
into some of the known categories first, right?
Like there's physical health, down health into some of the known categories first, right?
There's physical health, which I think that's the one that,
it's easy to explain, right? That's your muscle, your function, can you move well?
Do you have good stamina and strength? Is your body fat percentage appropriate?
In other words, do you have a healthy body fat percentage levels?
There's a range there, by the way. It It's not shredded and it's not super overweight somewhere in the middle
Your hormones your brain. There's the physical the the vessel that you that you're walking around in your body
There's an able body. Are you able to do activities are you strong?
You know all these things like matter in terms of health. Yes, then there's the mental health.
Mental health would be like, how you think about things.
Can you think clearly?
Are you able to be calm and focused?
Are you free from mental, you know, OCD or disorders or anxiety?
Things like that, right?
That's the mental side of health. And there's a spiritual health
Spiritual health is like do you feel gratitude? You know, you could have great physical health
great mental health, but just feel flat feel like life has no meaning feel like there's no you don't feel grateful for things and
Spiritual practices really help a lot with that right. Can you let go of what you can't control?
You know, Justin, you say that you said this before,
can you think outside of yourself?
That's your spiritual health?
Yeah, I get reminded of when we had Dr. Roy von Togma,
I think he had a pronounced his name,
but like the belief system, having a belief system
in place can really drive your health in a positive direction.
And I think people like discount the fact that,
you know, like believing in something,
like it really does change you physically
and like physiologically can do great things for you.
Totally.
Relationship health, this one Adam loves to talk about
all times, this is extremely important
and very social creatures.
Do you, are you able to communicate honestly
with the people that are close to you?
Do you feel like you can depend on them?
Do they, can they depend on you?
Do you feel validated and supported?
Now, I just named four.
I mean, if we want a week of really breakdown
and go crazy with all, but those are the big four, right?
Does physical health contribute to or influence
relationship health?
Let's just pick those two for each one.
They all do.
They all bleed into each other.
All of them, right?
Let's say your physical health is so poor
that you can't get out of the house
or you're so unhealthy that you feel inflamed
and irritable and angry all the time.
Is that gonna affect your relationships?
I know this when I would get people
who are super obese as clients, help them lose weight, improve their physical health.
The relationship health would improve because of it.
What about if you have poor spiritual health,
will that affect your physical health?
If you don't feel gratitude,
if you like the life, doesn't have any meaning,
are you gonna be, wanna be as active?
Are you gonna wanna eat in ways that take care of yourself
if you feel like there's no meaning to life?
What about your mental health?
Your mental health is down.
I think everything else is gonna be suffering as well.
So they all contribute to each other
and the things that you do,
even exercise and eating can feed each one of those things
and you gotta know which one needs more help.
Both negatively and positively.
Correct.
I think, and what you'll find is I think there'll be like this,
there's going to be a theme like in this conversation, and I really feel like
moderation is the key driver in all of this, because each one of the things that
you just listed, there's a spectrum, and there's extreme versions on both sides.
And I think extreme on both sides is unhealthy,
totally.
No matter which one of those that you're talking about,
and so the real key is to learn how to have moderation
through all of them and to be mindful, right?
And then also not to abuse.
Like, I think that's the other thing to understand too
that even a good thing can be abused.
And I think that's what, I think that's the thing
that's probably been weighing on you, Sal,
because you've brought this up several times this last week
that we're seeing right now in the fitness space.
Like we see a lot of fitness people
that are scrambling what to do and understood, right?
Their businesses are upended right now
or they lost their job working at the gym
and they're scrambling to find
answers or ways to monetize and make money and they're pushing this message.
I think it's important to understand is that that's them worrying about their own personal
when you're thinking about who you're communicating to, the masses, trying to push people in a direction
of working out, training hard, staying on that wind, their mental health is completely you know, trying to push people in a direction of,
you know, working out, training hard,
staying on that wind, their mental health
is completely out of whack right now
because of what's going on in our world.
You may not be helping.
You think you may be by presenting that message,
but in reality, that person doesn't necessarily need that
and really what they need from a fitness professional right now
is to help them figure out these kind of four
categories that you broke down and where they need
to put the most in.
Totally.
Look, as a trainer, when I would get the type A,
and I mean real type A, everybody likes to say
they're type A, right?
I'm type A, because I like to work hard.
It's not a badge of honor, by the way,
it's a dysfunction.
But let's say, let's say you're the true type A classic,
overdue's everything, hyper perfectionist,
works like crazy, full steam ahead
at everything that they do, right?
So I get that person that hires me,
and they're like, okay, what are your goals?
I want a burn body fat and I want to build muscle.
Okay, so how long have you been doing?
I did, I do five days a week of orange theory,
I run twice a week, I've done,
I did the HCG diet a couple times.
I cut my calories down to a thousand.
And as I'm talking to this person, I'm realizing.
How are you, Gah?
Yeah, I realize that this person is a classic,
type eight type personality.
The way I'm gonna communicate them
is gonna be very, very different.
From the person who, they come in, they're overweight,
and I've never worked out before.
I'm a little afraid. I don't know if I want to do it
on the time, it's not fun for me.
Very, very different approach.
The type A person, the way I'm gonna coach them
is to be okay missing a few days of working out.
In fact, that's what you need.
You need to kind of take some time off,
and you know what we need to do?
Slower, easier type workouts,
and you know it's probably a good idea for you.
Sit on the couch sometimes and just watch something
and just relax, or how about you read a book?
Maybe a fiction.
Stop reading so much nonfiction.
Maybe read a book of fiction.
See how that helps.
Totally different way of communicating.
And both of them are going to improve their health
by following the tailored advice.
Yeah, going back to kind of Adam's example
of the spectrum and having both extremes,
I think it's really important.
I think people don't give any attention
to where they can assess where they actually
are on that spectrum.
Like where would you fall in that spectrum
in terms of your workouts, in terms of nutrition,
in terms of your relationships,
in terms of your spiritual practices or your belief system, do you even have one? Like all in terms of nutrition, in terms of like your relationships, like in terms of like your spiritual practices
or like your belief system, do you even have one?
Like all these types of things,
where are you on that, are zero or a hundred?
Like I'm all in.
And then like figuring out to how,
this is where it is, it is important to then understand
how to optimize and adapt and when to do what
and where to come back to homeostasis.
So this finding like a balance, which I know is it's kind of like a term out there that's just like turns on a deaf ear like finding balance.
What does that mean?
What does that even mean? Like moderation.
So like being able to kind of figure out like where I could tilt the scale to create that sort of home base.
And then I can stretch myself and I can come back and I can always find that again to
remain healthy.
This reminds me of the conversations that I used to have with my competitors.
Like if I was coaching a bikini or a bodybuilder or a men's physique competitor, one of my favorite things to do during their routine
when I was going through it with them
is to intermittently introduce fasting days.
And it would always strike this conversation of why?
Like I don't understand coach, like why are we doing this?
Like there's nothing to support really having a competitor
getting ready for a show to just not eat food entirely
for a day like that.
They're so afraid of this muscle.
Yeah, absolutely.
Exactly.
Their primary goal is to build muscle, and that's why they do it.
But one of the things that I would always try and remind them
that this isn't just about macros and calories and calories out.
There's another side to this beast and your mental state
and your relationship and connection to food is extremely important to me.
And one of my best ways to train that or teach that would be to just totally throw a curve
ball in the middle of their coaching routines.
Be like tomorrow, you're fasting and they would freak out.
And then it would then give me the opportunity to speak to that.
Listen, this isn't just about me helping you get to a certain point on stage.
It's also about helping you for the rest of your life.
And one of the things that we don't ever want to be is become a slave to this.
I've got to have this many, I've got to do this, I've got to do that.
And I'd have to show them that like this is not going to kill your gains in one day.
In fact, it'll give you a great opportunity to work inward and focus on other aspects
of your health and fitness. And so I love doing that mainly too because I knew not a lot of coaches
were doing that. I didn't know anybody in the space at that time that was kind of disrupting
in that way where they were showing competitors to fast because I understand that there's nothing
supports me scientifically for, you know, this is going
to add muscle because that's your main goal. If you're getting on stage and presenting
your physique, it's all about either building muscle or holding on to the most amount of
muscle when you lose the most amount of fat. And fasting just doesn't really speak to
that. But what I understand is that the relationship with food, the mental health, the spiritual,
all the other aspects that you're talking about right now, how much that plays a role, their overall stress, their overall hormones, and
everything else that goes into presenting the best version of themself on stage.
And I know teaching that during that phase is so crucial.
So I'm so glad to use that example.
Fastings actually, a beautiful example of what we're talking about.
If you had a client that came to you that didn't like to eat,
maybe it has a history of anorexia,
fast things the worst things.
That's right, bad idea.
You don't tell them to not eat,
that would be absolutely catastrophic.
Fasting to lose weight in general
is a terrible way to use fasting.
Now fasting is a spiritual practice,
exceptional, it's just a way to detach from something
that you think you need to have every single day.
In fact, it's present in every,
almost every single major religion in some way.
You know, the major religions for sure,
because it's a way to practice detachment.
You know, it's a tool like anything else.
Like if I put, if there's a hammer on the table,
and I said to you, is that hammer good or bad?
Neither.
It's just a hammer.
If I hate to take it and I hate you over the head
with it as hard as I can, it's bad.
Now it's bad.
If I take that same hammer and I build a house for you
or fix something for you, now it's good.
It's all in how it's being wielded
and everything can be abused.
Anything and everything can be abused. Anything and everything can be abused.
Can junk food being lazy and alcohol be abused?
Yes, of course, that's easy.
Everybody knows that.
Those things are abused quite often.
Can eating super clean, exercising super consistently,
being hyper, hyper focused on being perfect
with everything be abused?
Yes, all the time.
I've seen this all the time in the fitness space.
It's not as common, but it's not as uncommon
as people would think.
And so this conversation I think needs to be had
on how things are can be healthy
and how they can be unhealthy.
And I think it all boils down to how it's being used.
We'll look at alcohol.
There's a great example.
Alcohol, you know, a lot of people in the fitness space
will say alcohol has zero value.
Okay, from a physiological, maybe physical standpoint,
they're probably right.
I can't think of any muscle building, fat burning,
physical health promoting, you know, benefits of alcohol. But what if alcohol is a part
of your spiritual practice? What if you're a Catholic and you, you know, Sunday, you go
do church, and if it's only way you get laid with your wife. It's very important.
Well, I mean, along those lines, what if you, you know, once a week, you like to sit down
with your wife, put the kids go to bed
You and your wife like to split a bottle of alcohol
So it's not like you're getting destroyed or smashed and you know you have a couple glasses and you both enjoy it
And it relaxes you both calms down opens up conversation you communicate now. You're helping your relationship health
maybe a little bit of your mental and spiritual health,
and are those things gonna benefit your physical health?
Yeah, they are.
Now it's okay, look, back to alcohol.
There's millions of millions of millions of Americans
drink alcohol on a weekly basis.
Very, very small percentage of them become alcoholics.
They're definitely an abuse pattern,
and so we're not promoting that at all,
but something like junk food, for example,
let's talk about that for a second.
How the hell can junk food even be considered healthy ever?
Well, it usually isn't.
Most of the time, when people eat junk food,
it's not good for them.
But I'll give you an example of when junk food was healthy.
We're all on lockdown, I got my kids.
I hadn't seen my kids for almost three weeks
because I had gotten sick and I wanted to be over,
I had all the scary symptoms.
I had the dry cough, the fever, the whole deal,
Jessica had it too.
And my kids half the time live with me,
half the time live with their mom.
They were supposed to come to my house.
I was sick, so I said, no, don't let them come over here.
And then I waited in additional two weeks after that,
just to be perfectly safe.
So I didn't physically see my kids for almost three weeks,
very, very difficult thing.
So when they came, you know, I, one of the days,
I said, hey, do you guys wanna bake cookies from scratch? You know, my daughter, of course, course freaks out she gets super excited because it's a treat. It's not like we cookies all the time
My son, you know, he's 14 nothing gets him excited. So he's like whatever
Yeah, cool idea. Yeah, he's he's always at like a little more
I don't care what happens is always like whatever so we so we did we all you know
Mick mixed the cookies made him together joked around played music waited for them to bake
They came out and then all of us you know rented a movie together and we all ate cookies together
Now you know high-end sugar. I didn't get like you know, they're just cookies. I was at the high-end sugar
They're you know, it's got chocolate chips in them
Probably I didn't count the macros. I wasn't looking at the calories. I'm sure I went over my calories for the day
probably I didn't count the macros. I wasn't looking at the calories. I'm sure I went over my calories for the day just from the cookies alone. But the health, it made me healthier that day. I felt it.
I felt it in my relationship with my kids. I felt it in my soul, in my mind, and those things also
contribute to physical health. Well, you have to understand the potential cascading effects that
something like that has. And what that reminds me of was a hack that, you know, I kind of
fell into, I don't know, it was probably almost four years now in the podcast. So if you've been
listening for a long time, you know, I've shared it. And it was a relationship hack for Katrina and I,
you know, both her and I, you talk about type A people,
I think we're both like this and go, go, go. And, you know, if there's an Achilles heel in our
relationship, very easily, can we both get tunnel vision in our goals or what we're doing at work?
And one of the greatest hacks I ever found was, you know, let's, let's organize a time where we're sitting
down and listening to a book together for an hour. Now, it wasn't the actual book that
we were reading that did so, so much great work. And I would say, just like, it's not the
actual cookies that are, that are the healthy part of this or that's okay about it. It's
the process in which you, you gather with your family's the process in which you gather with your family
or the process in which I sit down with Katrina
and we were no longer thinking about all the things
in the rest of our data distract us,
we're focused on baking cookies
or focused on this book that we're listening to,
and then it's what happens from that
and what that promotes.
It would promote this incredible dialogue
and deep conversation where her and
I would connect on another level. Now, that's an easy example for the average person because
it's reading doesn't sound like a negative thing or a bad thing. It's like, oh, reading
more is good for everybody. Sure. But if cook baking cookies in the kitchen promotes something
like that with your family, it's the same thing. Yeah. It's just, it's weird for somebody in the health and fitness space to talk about that
because it's cookies.
Well, because it's extra calories and fat and can't be good for you.
Yeah, we went through the same thing, just being on lockdown and then just the overall
tension of the household.
Like we all feel it, we all experience and it's, I mean, you just find yourself getting short, you know, and
things like that normally would just roll off, irritate you a little bit more, because
we're confined.
Everybody's feeling that same stress, and we're all kind of on top of each other.
You know, there's still things to do.
There's school, there's virtual things, you know, there's, you know, the dogs, everybody
else is reacting.
And so to have something like a treat,
or for us it was like a pizza night.
And we're all looking forward to the end of the night
where we're gonna get this pizza.
The household mood was elevated.
We're elevated, we're cool with toggles.
So again, this isn't a repeatable pattern
of like, okay, well, this is the answer for every time
we all get stressed or, you know,
there's other outlets.
Very point.
But this is something that is, like, it's a treat.
A treat is something that you can look forward to
and joy partaking it.
And it's not something that like, I'm,
I'm like, this is a new button where I'm always hitting this button
It's something that I occasionally do very good because
Can you use
Things like junk food and and maybe leisure as it as a way to
Distract yourself. Yeah, is that healthy? Sometimes it is usually it's not
Usually it's not sometimes it is you know it is. If you're that perfect parent,
and you're doing everything right now,
and you're just, oh my gosh,
I'm, I've got so much on my shoulders right now.
I'm so like, I'm at home school in my kids.
I gotta worry about my job.
I'm trying to create some structure at home,
and I'm a little worried,
and it takes three hours to go to the grocery store
because of the lines, and this is all the weird stuff.
And then, you know, at the end of the day,
you put the kids to bed and you're like,
I just need a break.
I just need a 15 minute break.
I'm just gonna eat a cupcake and just chill for a second.
Fine, is that healthy?
It can be.
Now, is that, like Justice said,
if that's your, you know, like,
if that's your button that you push all the time,
every time you stress,
you reach for a cupcake to medicate yourself. Well, that's abuse. That's your, you know, like if that's your button that you push all the time, every time you stress, you reach for a cupcake to medicate yourself.
Well, that's abuse.
That's different.
But if you do it in the right way
with the right mindfulness around it,
now it can become a very healthy thing.
You know, it's funny to me when you look at like
life spans around the world and look at countries
that have longer life spans than others.
You know, countries like Italy, they live longer typically than people do in America.
There's lots of, well, it's because of this.
Here's the deal.
Italians love to eat.
They also love to smoke and they love drinking.
They smoke way more than we do.
Smoking is one of the worst things you can do for your physical health.
It's really generally a totally unhealthy thing. But how the hell do they outlive us? Go
to Italy and see how they are with each other. Well, look at the relationships that they
foster with each other. They place a lot of value on relationships, on community, and
on connecting with other people. And I believe that to be the reason why people in Italy
outlive us. And the studies on the world's blue zones
Actually show that one of the thing when they study so blue zones are
Are in the world where a disproportionate comparison of the rest of the world disproportionate amount of people
Live to a hundred okay, and there's like the island of sardinia
Which is a part of Italy is one of them. There's Okinawa is one. There's an island off a Greece.
There's a Loma Linda, California, the seventh day Adventist.
They live a long time.
There's other areas.
There's a bunch of them, right?
And they study them and what they try to do is find
commonalities.
And what they thought was they would find like silver bullets.
They thought that they would examine these cultures
and be like, oh, there it is.
Everybody eats sumoch D or, you know,
mega threes over here.
Yeah, everybody eats a vegan diet.
Everybody eats a pescatarian or everybody,
and they didn't see that.
They saw some stuff that was common,
but it wasn't no silver bullet.
But there was one silver bullet.
They all had good, close, you know,
and they rated highly their relationships,
the people around them.
Every single one of them, all of them had them.
The seventh day Adventist was part of their church.
Okinawa, you know, in Sardinia and in the island off of Greece.
It was these people who were all,
were very connected to their really tight communities.
They're great grandkids and they all had purpose
and meaning all of that.
That was one of the most common things that had these people lived along
It's and had nothing to do with diet and exercise listen be moderate in order to taste the joys of life in abundance
Who said that some stoics way smarter than me?
Profound Adam
But it's fucking brilliant.
Epicurus.
Is that who said it?
Yeah, I just remember.
That's brilliant.
And I think the thing that you have to understand
is that, and I'm very careful when I talk about this type
of a message to my clients, because as a fitness professional,
it's important to
that you don't just give them the green light of, oh, right. You know, Sal, Justin and Adam
on Mind Puffs, baking cakes, yeah, baking, yeah, exactly, baking cakes and eating cookies
and drinking alcohol, it can be healthy. And so they, they sort of, you have to be very,
very mindful and understand
where the line of abuse and detachment comes from.
And I think that you have to be careful of that
because using it as a tool to have fun with your family
and connect together and enjoy a salsa,
the hedonistic values of food together at that moment. Totally awesome.
But there's a difference between you having a couple of those cookies and enjoying that whole,
and obviously part of the process of baking and communicating is also enjoying the actual thing
that you made. So understanding the value of enjoying that and then over indulging.
And that's the same thing that goes for alcohol.
Like, there's a time and place.
Like, you know, if you've been stressed out
because of what's going on with the coronavirus all day,
you don't know what's going on with your job.
Currently right now, the kids are at home all day long
and the house is finally quiet and you and your partner together.
And you're like, man, let's watch our favorite,
let's be lazy, watch our favorite Netflix series and have a glass or two and you're like, man, let's watch our favorite, let's be lazy,
watch our favorite Netflix series and have a glass
or two, a wine together like that, totally understandable,
drinking three bottles of wine at that same time,
different story or even more importantly,
because if even if you did that one time, not a big deal,
running that back night after night after night,
now it has control of you and you don't have control of it.
And I think the reason why we avoid talking about things
like this so much, or we typically throw it
in the category of bad, is because it's easier for it
to become addictive.
It's easier for you to abuse it, because it feels good,
it tastes good.
And so there's that fine line when, as a fitness professional,
when I'm presenting this message of, you know,
I have to really know who I'm talking to to make sure
I communicate this correctly.
It's also the context of the time, okay?
The reality is, for the most part, you know,
when we're running this podcast, life is normal.
We're talking to people and they're on their way to work for the most part, you know, when we're running this podcast, life is normal.
We're talking to people in their, on their way to work
and they normal life and it's all, you know,
everything's going, right now, right now, excuse me,
is a little bit different.
It's, it's, it's not a normal time.
It's weird.
So the weirdest time I've ever experienced
in my entire life, right?
So right now, here's what I'm seeing a lot of.
I'm seeing a lot of people who are not only stressed
about what's going on, but they're stressed about the fact
that they're not perfect with their diet.
And oh my God, I think I gained five pounds.
And oh my God, and you know,
what are you gonna add more gasoline to this?
Yeah, like what am I doing or whatever?
Or I'm getting messages like this from people
who are like, Sal, I need your help yesterday,
I had junk food.
Like, what am I gonna do?
I tell them, it's okay, you had junk food one day.
Forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself, it's okay
and considering the contents of what's going on,
maybe that's what you needed that day.
But here's the reality, okay, the reality is this.
For the most part, I'd say the vast majority of times,
healthy looks like usually usually most of the time
you're eating foods that are physically healthy, whole natural foods, you're not overeating.
For the most part, most of the time you're consistent with your activity and exercise
and physical self-care.
For the most part, you're doing all the classic things
that we know that are good for you.
Most vast majority of the time,
it's the every once in a while when you do the other stuff
when you have good attitude around it
and you're not abusing it, that it can also be healthy.
It's when it gets flipped that it becomes a problem.
It junk food, if that becomes your only way to escape
and you do it all the time, it's bad.
You're, it's not good, it's not good for you.
But if you're a healthy person,
and like I did the other day when I made cookies with my kids,
I had no problem, I had no stress.
I ate those cookies, I wasn't thinking of myself like,
oh my God, I'm gonna get fat, I ate so much sugar,
what have I done, I gave my kids had three cookies each,
I'm such a bad father.
No, 99.9% of the time, we eat very, very, very healthy.
That point, one person at a time, we need to have cookies tonight.
Everybody stressed out, everybody's worried.
Let's all bake some cookies and have a good time.
And let's just forget about what's going on around.
The neat thing about that too is, especially when you're talking
about with kids, right?
Like because that is something that you don't do consistently,
the joy that you get from it is much higher,
then something that you do all the time.
Now it's valuable, right?
There's no novelty in it.
If you do it every single night, then it's the norm
and it almost expected and then it's borderline abused
or can be abused.
Dude, I had that experience with cannabis.
There was a period of my life where I was,
there was a lot of crazy stuff going on
and I was using cannabis for my gut health
and I started using it on a regular basis.
I started noticing that if I used it on a regular basis,
all the positive effects I was getting from it,
I wasn't getting anymore.
I was just getting more of the negatives.
And so I started to realize,
it's just, I'm having it too much.
I got to cut way back, and when I cut way back
and utilize it the proper way,
then I get some of those benefits that, you know,
you hear about from cannabinoids, like CBD, TTC, and all that stuff.
God, speaking of that, somebody just asked me,
I think it was in our form, or one of my questions,
what I thought about, like, dabbing and stuff.
And, you know, it's a matter of...
Stream.
Yeah, so that's just way beyond me
because if I'm being completely honest,
and not mind you, there's always exceptions to the rule.
There's somebody who has extreme, extreme crippling
pain that they're in that it takes that level of medication
for them to feel numb or whatever.
But at that point, I have to ask myself,
if I've scaled to that level to where I'm using
or needing that to feel the positive effects
that you're saying, is does this have more control over me
than I have over it?
That's a good question.
I think generally to ask yourself of all of that.
And that's what I think on all these things
that we're talking about, everything from relationship
to spiritual to mental, talking about junk food,
talking about alcohol,
is that that's the question you always have to be able
to ask yourself is like, do I have control of this
or does it have control of me?
And it's a very easy answer if you mindlessly
eight, 10 cookies after you bake them,
that you lack the self-control and it has more
control over you then.
But if you enjoyed baking cookies with your kids and you had it in moderation or it lasted
over the next week and you had a cookie or two every other day, not a big deal, you have
to, but you've got to be always doing those checks and balances to make sure that you're
following in that moderation part of the spectrum
and not on the extreme.
Totally.
And there are ways, by the way,
that you can make some of these things less damaging,
but just as enjoyable,
where you can mitigate a lot of the negatives.
Like, here's an example, okay,
we're talking about junk food or whatever. Let's say right now,'re like, look, I want to give myself a little bit more leeway
to have junk food here and there, okay, just because of what's going on right now.
I'm not feeling good, plus it's processed.
I could buy, I don't want to go to the grocery store every day and process food just last a long time.
So I'm going to buy more processed food than I normally do.
Well, here's a couple ways you can mitigate some of the negatives.
There's healthier junk food. to buy more processed food than I normally do. Well, here's a couple of ways you can mitigate some of the negatives.
There's healthier junk food.
There's processed food that's not as bad
as other processed food.
You know, rather than buying,
you know, if I'm gonna buy like gummy snacks,
rather than buying the one that's, you know,
made out of wax and chemicals and crazy shit,
maybe I'll buy the more natural one
that's got, you know, maybe less calories
and comes in smaller packs. This one I learned from Adam. This was Adam got, you know, maybe less calories and comes in smaller packs.
This one I learned from Adam.
This was Adam's, you know, competing strategy
where he would put his snacks or treats or whatever
in small bags portioned out.
That way he knew if you wanted to eat, you know,
some, you know, honey roasted peanuts
rather than grabbing the whole jar,
it was a baggy with one ounce.
You know, that's like a way to mitigate.
I love hacks like that, and I love that.
I just posted on my story yesterday,
the recipe for my peanut butter balls.
Oh, it tastes better than any damn cookie I've ever had.
And it's a, you know, quote unquote,
you need to brand that.
It's a quote unquote healthy
item's peanut butter ball.
You know, my house, Did I just say that?
I didn't say Adam's food.
I said, my peanut butter ball.
I think you should.
Adam, this is brown.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Adam's brown.
But I mean, really all it's peanut butter, honey, and way protein.
And it's delicious.
And it's delicious.
Yeah.
And you just mix it in a bowl and you make balls out of it and you put it in the refrigerator.
Oh. And it's amazing. And it's got, oh, I had, I've had these before. Yeah, I you just mix it in a bowl and you make balls out of it and you put it in the refrigerator. Oh, and it's amazing and it's got
Oh, I had I've had these but yeah, I brought them. They are amazing for months. Yeah
It's enough. I'm sorry. I only had two last time. I only had two last one. But I mean and again, it's something that
Katrina and I can make it's it's a treat
It's something that at least when I'm getting it,
I'm getting a moderation of protein in there,
healthier fats, even the source of sugars coming from honey.
Like, it's a better treat to have.
And that's part of that mindfulness.
It's just knowing that,
I just as easily could have grabbed a box of chips of hoi
at the grocery store.
Exactly.
But here's the thing, what I know is both those treats will feed my soul or feed the other
side of me the same way, right?
It breaks up the weighing and measuring food and all that crap and worrying about that
so much, I get to enjoy the hedonistic values without it being so crappy.
Like, it quels like somewhat of the tendency
to then, you know, binge, you know,
and go like completely off the rails,
like, you know, like it being a little more flexible
and introducing things that like might be,
you know, considered a treat,
but maybe a little bit more healthier version of the treat may help
to suppress that urge.
It's so crazy.
I think of things like the, and this is where we've talked about this, and we have I think
a split down the middle in our forum that we've shared the halo ice creams.
Those things are an example of that point you're making of. You know, this is, I love ice cream.
I've talked about that many times.
And what's neat, if you were to eat that whole thing,
a halo ice cream, they range from 280 to like,
I think the highest one is, I think 360, maybe 400 calories,
and comparison to a Ben and Jerry's, which is 1700.
Yeah. You know what I'm saying? So there Jerry's, which is 1700. Yeah.
You know what I'm saying?
So there's a, there's a dramatic difference.
That's what I mean.
You can pick, you know, beef jerky is a good example.
Nuts are a good example.
Dried fruit, that's not, that they don't add tons of sugar to.
And then portion it out, portion it out, and, you know, be, be, you know, realistic with
yourself.
Put them up in little baggies, and then when you're
want to grab something to snack on, or it's a better choice. It's just a better choice than a full
box of cookies or a whole bag of potato chips. And look, again, not demonizing one of the other,
but just giving you strategies to kind of balance it out a little bit. Alcohol, here's a good one.
Here's how you can mitigate alcohol.
First off, don't drink right before you go to bed
because now you've added not only the fact
that you drink alcohol, which isn't physically good for you,
but you've now added to that you have shitty sleep
on top of it.
Well, also, I mean, this is my own personal hack.
It's not like that profound or anything,
but I just started drinking whiskey, you
know, and by itself, like not no, no added anything else. Like you're just sipping on it.
And so therefore it's like, you're not going to just run through like you would making it
all nice and easy to just like wash back like with.
So just like, you're telling people it's great. Go straight, go hard and sip it slow.
Okay. Well, I'm going to tell people if you're gonna do that,
you better have something like Z-biotic before
to make sure that you don't get fucked up.
There you go, if you're just kidding.
Well, so what I do with Z-biotics,
for the listeners who don't know, Z-biotics is a probiotic.
We just started working with them.
It's actually an ingenious invention,
but it's a genetically modified probiotic
that actually the bacteria consume
some of the byproducts of alcohol.
So, and the byproducts that cause the shitty bad gut, you know, inflame, inflame feeling,
some people would say it contributes to the hangover.
So you could drink this before and then have alcohol.
I, I'm not, I'll take the Z-bottix, I'm just having one glass of wine.
I'm not even drinking, you know, tons of out just one glass of wine.
And what I noticed, I just feel a lot better anyway.
And I do it during the day.
I don't like fucking up my sleep, you know,
drinking at night.
That was a game changer for sleep.
Oh, I remember learning that as a young adult, you know,
when you're young, you got with your buddies at that night,
then the next day you feel crappy.
And then I remember one time, you know,
I was like a Saturday and I went down,
I don't remember where it was,
it was like some festival or whatever
and I was kind of drinking during the day
and then allowed myself to sober up and went to bed.
Woke up the next day, I was like, wow,
I feel so much better.
Like, oh, I know why, I slept, you know?
So these are just some strategies.
Here's a way to mitigate the negative effects
of being inactive or lazy or unproductive.
Schedule it. This sounds funny, but thisproductive. Schedule it.
This sounds funny, but this is true.
Schedule it.
Put it in your schedule tonight at seven p.m.
from seven to nine, I'm gonna do nothing.
I'm gonna sit on the couch and do whatever I want.
Or I'm about to surf social media.
What time is it right now?
4.30?
Okay, I'm gonna give myself 30 minutes.
Schedule it.
These are just strategies like recess.
That's it.
It just strategies you can use to help prevent yourself
from turning things that can become,
you can start to develop a poor relationship with
and help kind of manage that.
That's all.
I also have one that's kind of like,
I think counter common knowledge,
and that is like when I'm going to,
if I know I'm gonna have a glass of wine,
or if I know I'm going to have a glass of wine,
if I know I'm going to have one of these treats, I'm actually the common knowledge thing would
be to have low calories or fast. Therefore, when I have the wine or I have this thing, it
doesn't absorb all of my calorie.
So you have the same calories. Right. that would be common knowledge, but I actually coached to and utilize differently
because I know that when I don't eat or I'm low calorie,
I'm like ravenish and I want to eat.
And then I eat something that's hyper-palatable.
It makes that discipline to only have so many
even more challenging because my body wants more calories
and this thing is really good.
So I prefer to have my good meal or have whatever I have planned and then afterwards I enjoy
the treat of whatever it is because it's easier for me to shut it down because I've already
kind of filled myself up on nutritious good food before I do that.
And it is.
It's against kind of common knowledge.
You would think that it would be a smarter strategy.
We weren't talking about calories in versus calories out
to have less food earlier in the day,
but behavioral speaking, I find,
and I think anybody can relate to this before
where you just get busy at work and you're doing things
and you normally would have had lunch at noon
and you totally skip that.
And now it's four or five and you're driving home from work and maybe nothing's prepared for dinner
and you're like starving.
You shovel it in.
Well, not only that, but that's the time that you make that fast food choice.
That's that time that you reach for something quick and palatable because,
and over and dull, it's because you waited till you were really hungry.
I utilize when I'm doing something where I'm allowing junk food, alcohol,
any of these types of foods into my diet,
I actually do the opposite.
I still say, okay, I really want that treat tonight,
but I'm actually gonna eat this meal that I need
or I should have first.
I have that.
And what I realize is then after sometimes one,
I'm satisfied and then I'm like,
yeah, I don't really need it tonight or I don't feel like it,
or if I still decide that I feel like it,
I don't have a hard time only eating two,
versus having that treat while you're also really hungry,
that is going to challenge your ability
to be very mindful of not overindulging.
Yeah, I think at the end of the day,
really the ultimate message is to understand
that your health encompasses a lot more
than just the physical side,
your fitness, how lean you are, how strong you are,
how you can move.
It encompasses a lot of different things
and they're all interconnected.
And be kind to yourself, take care of yourself,
sometimes, not often, but sometimes that means
you have a little bit of junk food,
you maybe have a glass of wine or like Justin said,
you have straight whiskey,
or you sit on the...
For all the champions out there.
Or you sit on the couch and you, you know,
you veg out on TV, most of the time,
it means you're eating, you know,
what are considered classically healthy foods,
whole natural foods, you're not overeating, you're eating, you know, what are considered classically healthy foods, whole natural foods.
You're not overeating, you're active.
But at the end of the day, you consider the whole sphere of health.
And right now, our weird times and what you may need might be different than what you normally
need.
And if you may be at war with yourself because you can't do what you do before and you
think yourself, why can't I just be a strict and crazy because think times are different and maybe you need to take
care of yourself a little bit differently today. And again, at the end of the day, anything can be
abused. So abusing anything is unhealthy. Of course, that includes junk food and being lazy.
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