Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 1392: 10 Habits of Super-Healthy People
Episode Date: October 1, 2020In this episode, Sal, Adam & Justin cover ten of the most important habits shared by healthy people. The important skill of modeling successful people’s actions and habits. (2:37) 10 Habits of Supe...r-Healthy People. (7:08) #1 – Planned (break)fast. (8:12) #2 – Track water intake. (13:57) #3 – Take walk breaks. (18:26) #4 – Unplug from tech. (24:38) #5 – Follow in love with growth, instead of winning. (30:00) #6 – Prioritize and optimize sleep. (35:03) #7 – Build muscle and lift weights. (40:38) #8 – Go outside and get fresh air. (44:42) #9 – Stay mobile. (47:32) #10 – Have a mindfulness practice. (49:54) Related Links/Products Mentioned MAPS Fitness Products Visit Four Sigmatic for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Code “mindpump” at checkout Mind Pump #1385: How To Start Your Fitness & Fat Loss Journey Irresistible: The Rise of Addictive Technology and the Business of Keeping Us Hooked – Book by Adam Alter Mind Pump #1345: 6 Ways To Optimize Sleep For Faster Muscle Gain And Fat Loss 5 Long-Term Benefits of Resistance Training – MInd Pump Blog MAPS Starter | MAPS Fitness Products MAPS Prime Pro Webinar Alone | Netflix Mind Pump Podcast - YouTube Mind Pump Free Resources
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In this episode of Mind Pump the World's Top Fitness Health and Entertainment podcast,
we sat down and talked about the habits that we've seen are super healthy clients have. In other words, we sat down and talked about the last 20 years that we've worked as trainers
and we talked about the clients that we knew that did exceptionally well.
There's people who had very healthy, effortlessly healthy lifestyles, people who didn't gain
the weight back and didn't have this yo-yo relationship with exercise and diet.
People who were truly healthy, we narrowed down
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One of the best lessons I learned as an early trainer,
both for myself and for my clients, very simple.
It's very, very simple.
I remember one of my mentors,
my early mentors told me,
he told me it was kind of like a hack, right?
He didn't use that word,
but he said, this is like a secret.
He said, look at people who are very successful
in whatever area you think,
you're looking to get better at.
So business, working out, nutrition, whatever, find people who you admire,
and then just look at their habits, look at their actions, and just copy them for a
little while. See what they're doing. You don't even need to understand it necessarily.
Studying them without being creepy. Studying them and copying them. And I did this.
I did this with my workouts. I would watch people who seem to respond really well
and do real well, and I'd copy them
and I'd learn through that process.
I did this as a trainer as an early trainer.
I had a lot of passion, a lot of energy,
a lot of excitement, but I did not have a ton of knowledge.
I was brand new.
So I looked at the trainers around me
that I thought were really, really good trainers,
and I watched them and copied them.
I did this when I had my studio, watching my physical therapists in there, and what they
did, and massage therapists, the acupuncturists.
And I really think that this is an important skill to really pay attention to the habits
of people that you may want to be like and figure out why they do those things and what
the benefits are on them, copy them.
So maybe we could do this episode and talk about those types of things.
I love this conversation,
and I love the way you took it
because this is something that I definitely think
was a major contributor to the success
I had early on in my career.
That was something I didn't have a lot of experience.
I didn't have an education in the background
of kinesiology or sports medicine. And so what I did have have an education in the background of kinesiology or sports medicine.
And so, what I did have was an opportunity to work in a place that was highly competitive.
And there was 20 trainers there, and it was very easy to see who the best was.
And they were right.
I could see who was training the most clients, how much money they were making.
And I immediately attached myself to this guy
and just asked a million questions.
And I remember years later, and when I got into leadership and I had my own staff, it just
blew my mind how many people did not do that.
Like why would you not look to your peers or look at somebody in the space that is having
a ton of success and model many of the things that they are doing to have success?
Doesn't mean you got to be them, doesn't mean you've got to actually copy them, but
model after a lot of the habits that they've put in place because it's normally not something
magical that has made this person so successful, it's that they've put a series of habits together
that have created this success and whatever endeavor that they're pursuing.
Yeah, and it's a, it's really a series of trial and error that they may have gone
through to figure these things out. That you can avoid a lot of that trial and error by observing
what they do, what are their habits, why are they so successful in this particular area,
and then just emulate them. And again, it's not about not being who you are,
it really what it is is about emulating them
and then learning along through the process
and then developing similar habits,
or what you'll find at least I should say,
is you end up developing similar habits
because you start to find consistencies
among people who tend to be successful in different areas.
The most successful people that I've been around
are sponges and they definitely pay attention
to a lot of these other people around them
who are doing very well.
That was something that I, you know,
I prided myself on in terms of,
especially with personal training.
I wanted to know how everybody was organizing things,
like what kind of, you kind of communication was most effective
with their clients,
like how they could get them to adopt these other healthy habits,
especially with nutrition.
That was such a hard one for me to nail down
in the very beginning.
It took a long time and I would sit and listen
and I would listen to the presentations of other trainers
and how they'd explain it, listen to dieticians.
I even brought in a dietician for myself,
my own business to up the value of what I was presenting
my clients, and I did that purposely to learn from them
and to model some of what they were promoting to my clients.
And then I would take that with me on.
I have this knowledge now that I can pass on,
and it can come from me.
Right, right.
So here's what we did, right?
So, you know, Adam, Justin and myself,
for a long time, were trainers who train clients
or we train trainers, who train clients.
And so through this process, we've been exposed to thousands,
if you add them all up, right, thousands of people that we've either worked with
directly or by proxy, right, through other trainers.
And this is over the course of two decades.
And what you end up seeing are patterns
over that long period of time.
You train one person, two people, ten people.
You may not pick up on patterns,
but when you do this for 15, 20 years
and you do this with a lot of people,
very clear patterns start to emerge.
And so what we did in this episode is we listed,
you know, 10 habits that we've seen
that are consistent among the super healthy people
that we've been around.
The people who seem to do it effortlessly,
the people who seem to have the best overall health, the people who seem to do it forever.
These are not people that are in and out, but rather it's a part of who they are.
Well, the very first one that we listed is plan breakfast. And I love how you had Doug put it up on the notes
by putting a hyphen, right? So it's break, break fast. Yes. Because some people I know right away
might be thinking,
well, wait a second, what if I interment it fast
and what if I don't exactly do breakfast?
And I think there's a lot of arguments for both.
Right.
And I think the key to this first one is the planning piece.
Yes.
Not so much do you eat at 6am or 9am or 2 o'clock in the afternoon,
but it's that you have structure for the very first meal
that you eat for the day.
And the people that I've seen that have had the most
success around nutrition do this.
They map out that first meal and all the other ones,
but the first one is so important to kick off the day
and set the tone.
It totally does set the tone because here's,
so let me give you an analogy, right?
Let's say you have an important presentation at work, right?
This is a presentation that your, your potential promotion hinges upon.
So you got to do this big presentation.
Do you walk into it and then just, you know, wing it,
do you just shoot from the hip or do you plan for it?
Do you think about the scenarios and what to talk about
and how to present the things you wanna present?
Now if you're a smart person, you plan.
You don't just walk in and then just shoot from the hip
because your chances of success are much higher by planning.
So this is what we've observed training clients
is that people who don't plan breakfast
and again, break fast, meaning the first meal of the day. So this could be in the morning, it could be in the afternoon, training clients is that people who don't plan breakfast,
and again, break fast, meaning the first meal of the day.
So this could be in the morning, it could be in the afternoon,
but essentially, the first meal of however many meals
you're gonna have throughout that day,
people who plan it are more thoughtful,
it sets the tone, and they tend to eat better
throughout the day.
Now people who don't plan it, it tends to become
a race against the nutrition. It tends to become this battle throughout the day. Now people who don't plan it, it tends to become a race against the nutrition.
It tends to become this battle throughout the day,
like, oh my gosh, I'm late, gotta get to work,
what can I eat or I have an eating thing now,
I'm starving, let me just grab this quick thing.
And then the rest of the day tends to follow suit.
And I can argue that the things that you eat
probably is among some of the most important thing
that you can plan
throughout your whole day because your health does affect everything. Everything that you do, so
the food that you eat is extremely important and planning it is just prioritizing. And when you
plan it, your odds of success are much higher. You also got to take an account too that,
and I know that this has happened. You guys, It's not like we've planned every single meal of our lives since we've been personal trainers,
but the days that I forget to set this up
or I neglect planning for what my first meal
is gonna look like, what ends up happening,
and I'm sure this happens to other people,
you get your cup of coffee and that's it,
and you get in the car and you rush to work,
and then you get busy with your day,
and then hours go by, and there was no planning to that.
It wasn't like I was intentionally intermittent fasting
or trying to do that, I was just busy.
And then as the days go by,
all of a sudden hunger starts to kick in
because I haven't eaten for a long period of time.
And then what follows that are all the crazy cravings.
And what follows that is typically this struggle of,
oh my God, fighting off this craving of what I really want
and what's convenient and fast
versus, oh, what I should have and I should go prepare this.
And it's like, it's very easy to make that quick decision
that isn't ideal for you when you haven't set up
and you haven't planned.
Plus your options that are surrounding you at the time
usually aren't all that ideal.
So you're getting yourself in that situation
where now I'm really hungry, I haven't
really planned what can I get in a pinch right now. It's usually not like the best thing
for you at that point. And so I like the conversation that this is really more about the
structure of it as opposed to like, let's give you these very specific food items that
you need to focus on for breakfast because it's just not realistic.
Everybody has such like individual biodiversity
and you know needs that they have
and also people have different reactions towards food.
So you wanna set it up whatever's best for you,
you specifically to then carry you throughout your day
and have that energy to pull from.
Right, so here's an example of planning for breakfast. So yesterday, you know, I'm having dinner
with Jessica and I open the fridge and I go, oh,
we don't have any eggs. So I'm gonna go to the grocery store and get some eggs because that way I can have those for breakfast tomorrow.
That's as simple as that. It's as simple as being a little bit prepared and
planning for knowing that you're gonna eat in a way that's healthy
and balanced for you.
And Adam, you mentioned even planning to fast.
There's a very, very big difference in how I feel
when I plan to fast versus when I don't eat
because I didn't think about it.
Right, yeah.
Very different feeling.
If I'm just not eating because I'm too busy
and we got meetings and stuff going on,
the mindset that I have is much more like,
I just need to do something real quick.
Reactionary.
Right.
If I think to myself tomorrow I'm gonna fast,
now if I don't eat, I don't have that same reactionary mindset.
And it's really all about the planning.
It doesn't have to be super planned.
Will you, where you meal prep and all your food is prepared?
It can be that, but it can be as simple as tomorrow.
I'm gonna wake up at this time, which gives me 20 minutes,
which gives me enough time to eat this kind of breakfast.
And at lunch time, I'm gonna bring this food so I can eat that
or I'm gonna schedule this much time to have a break
so I can eat it this place.
So you know ahead of time what you're gonna do
and the successful people that I've worked
with, the super healthy people, none of them fly by the seat of their pants when it comes to
nutrition.
They just don't.
All of them have at least some sort of planning that goes into, especially breakfast,
but usually all of their meals.
So speaking of planning, it brings me to the next one, which, and I remember when we first
start this podcast, you guys used to like to razz me and tease me about my water jug that I used to carry around, right?
So, and here's the thing, like before I used,
I never used to do that before competing.
I can totally got into a point where,
you know, I needed to track and that was important to
getting ready for stage.
I just said, oh, just, you know,
make an effort to drink water,
but I wasn't really counting or tracking
or paying attention to.
And one of the things that I noticed when I really started to track one, I realized how much
I under-consumed water.
Then two, I found when I was busy trying to drink water all day long, that it kept me from
making other poor food choices and also drinking my calories and elsewhere.
It had this kind of two-pronged thing that helped with my success in my journey of health
and fitness.
And so that's something that I once I piece
that kind of together, it became like a mandatory thing
that I would just teach clients.
And obviously depending on their size,
it's a different amount that I'm telling them to target.
Although I think anywhere from a half a gallon
to a gallon is a pretty good generic number for most people.
And I would tell them, hey, you know, I want you to measure that out and plan to hit that every day.
And because they were focused on that, they would make other good decisions throughout their day.
Yeah, I remember when you're going through that, like a big epiphany for you.
And I took that to myself to try and start tracking and seeing how much water
I was really consuming. And when I was going through that process, I realized like even some normal
nagging kind of achy pains that I was experiencing my joints, like I was much better, you know,
those were eliminated on some level just trying to remain hydrated. There's lots of benefits to being hydrated
that I didn't even consider, especially like two,
like being more foggy and not as clear thinking as well.
It was pretty crazy.
Yeah, you notice big differences in your skin.
I know this was a great selling point
for my female clients where they'd say,
hey, let's aim to drink this much water
and then let's pay attention to your skin.
They're like, oh my gosh, I can't believe how different
you know, my skin looks.
This is probably one of the most stark contrast
between healthy people and unhealthy people.
Healthy people, they drink,
they have a different relationship with water.
That's what, that is their beverage.
It's water, I just drink water.
Anything else is like a dessert or a treat
and is very occasional. I just drink water. Anything else is like a dessert or a treat,
and it is very occasional.
Unhealthy people, water tends to not be the main beverage.
The main beverages tend to be coffees, teas, sodas, juices,
things with flavor.
And because they've developed that relationship
with liquids that have flavor, water to them seems boring.
It seems, I've actually had clients tell me
they don't like the taste of water,
which always was weird to me because water,
I don't understand, that's supposed to have...
It's refreshing, so yeah.
That's supposed to have a taste, right?
But super healthy people have a completely different
relationship with water.
If you go out with them to a restaurant
or you go out with them to go eat anywhere else,
you notice that when the waiter or waitress comes and says, hey, would you like anything
to drink?
99% of the time they say, oh, just water.
I just want water.
Almost never would they say I'll have something else that has flavor in it.
And this again, this is a huge start contract.
That's how I, so this is something I showed Katrina not that long ago because we were having
a water discussion like, because we, this is how we, when we eat out,
we most always drink water or tea.
And, you know, I feel like the waiter looks at us
like we're being cheap.
Yeah.
Like it's because we're trying to save money
and not do that.
I'm like, whatever, you know what I'm saying?
Who cares?
Give me a boss.
But then I totally like look around in the restaurant
and I'm like, you can tell people that are health conscious,
you pay attention to what's on the table.
And a lot of times you'll notice the people that look healthier
and fit are drinking water at the table
versus drinking the soda, the beer, the wine
or all the other great drinks that you can get when you eat out.
And I always look at it like it's like a double win.
It's like, oh, I save it because Jesus,
when you have drinks at a restaurant,
it's like three to five dollars for a drink,
and if you get multiple drinks in a sitting,
you know, you're spending extra 20 bucks
just in drinking your calories.
So, it's like another two-pronged win for me.
It's like, okay, not only am I managing my calories better,
I'm also in taking my water and take,
and then I'm also saving a couple bucks in my wallet too.
That's awesome.
The next one, this one's an interesting one
because I first noticed this when I had this one client,
I got close to, he was a successful business person.
He was always active, but he ended up hiring me
because he wanted a structured workout programming.
And he was very successful with his workouts as well,
easy to train, kind of like Doug. Doug was a great client his workouts as well, easy to train.
Kind of like Doug, you know, Doug was a great client too. He just, he did it applied and learned,
and it's just great working with people like that. But anyhow, he had invited me to his company
to speak to his employees about health and fitness, because he thought it would be a good thing
for me to go talk to some of his staff. So I actually went to his work and spent the whole day with him.
And one thing really struck me,
very interesting about this guy,
whenever he would meet,
and I stuck with him all day long,
it was pretty cool, I shadowed him all day long.
What was really cool is that he would,
whenever he'd have a meeting with someone,
someone would meet up with him and be like,
oh, we're supposed to have our meeting right now,
be like, all right, cool, let's go outside.
And then they'd walk and have their meeting.
So every time he met,
what he did, he did this like five times that day.
Every time he'd meet with one of his employees and they'd give them a rundown on statistics
or costs or margins or whatever, they would go for a walk outside.
And I asked him about this.
I said, why do you, I noticed you walk, is this because you're so fit, you know, fitness
conscious is because you like to maintain your fitness.
He goes, actually, that's the side effect.
He goes, it's cool that I walk throughout the day.
He goes, when I track my steps, I'm like 20,000
because whenever I'm talking to somebody,
I go for a walk.
He goes, but that wasn't the primary reason why I did that.
He goes, I did that because I noticed it made me sharper.
When I didn't do that, I wasn't as sharp.
I didn't feel like I could really empathize as well.
My staff, I noticed when we would walk,
they were able to convey what they were conveying,
brainstorming was much better.
By the way, this is a habit that you see artists do quite a bit.
When artists get stuck, when they're writing a book
or they're making music and they get stuck on a particular thing,
one of the things that they'll do to get through that
writer's block or that block is to go for a walk.
So one thing that I noticed, I noticed it's definitely
with him and then I paid attention to it
to the rest of my clients that were really successful.
The really successful clients that I trained took walk breaks.
They weren't workout breaks, they were walk breaks.
So like after lunch, after breakfast,
you know, when they're having a meeting,
when they're talking to somebody, when they're on the phone,
they would just go do these short 10, 15 minute walkbakes
breaks throughout the day.
Well, we've shared the research that supports that
when you pair a current habit with a new habit,
the success rate is like dramatically higher.
Right.
So pairing walking with something else
that you have to do every single day,
and this example you're giving right now,
the guy who's, you know, got meetings, he does probably every single day with, you know, have to do every single day. And this example you're giving right now, the guy who's got meetings he does
probably every single day with three to five people.
So very easy to say, hey,
every time I'm gonna meet with this person,
I'm also gonna walk into it.
I do that here, right?
So we have a staff here,
and I meet with them on a weekly basis,
and when I'm kind of getting the upload
on whatever they're working on project-wise,
instead of us sitting in an office
or sitting down in the studio and talking,
I normally have them good up and go walk with me
and download me on all the information
while we're walking around the block.
So it's very easy for me to create that.
The other one that I always love to do is with eating, right?
We all have multiple meals that we eat a day,
and if I can just make a habit out of,
hey, getting up after I'm done eating, I'm going to walk. I've improved digestion.
I'm going to increase my steps, burn more calories. And it's easy for me to be consistent
with that. And what people don't realize is those little 10 minute walks paired with meetings,
paired with eating adds up to be a lot of extra steps and movement and calorie burn in
a day and in the week and in months.
And that's massive difference and could be the difference between somebody losing 15 to
20 pounds more fat a year.
So it's and it's a really easy thing to stay consistent with asking someone to go to the
gym every day and you know, train intensely for an hour is a major commitment for a lot of people,
but asking most people that, hey,
when you do the certain things in the day,
can you just do this walking or add that?
That's a lot easier.
Yeah, I mean, I've pretty much eliminated all treadmill.
I used to jump on the treadmill to try and get my cardio,
just like everybody else,
just to get that additional movement
if I'm trying to keep my weight at a certain amount
or whatever.
So, you know, just like you guys have said,
in terms of like using it for those, you know,
meetings or for, you know, digestion, huge,
but also me commuting, I have like a 45 minute commuting
back home.
And so the first thing I do when I get home,
which is, it kind of kills like three birds of one stone.
I get home, the kids come out with me,
the dogs come out with me, everybody sort of like downloads
me about their day, like how this online school thing
has been going, like, you know, what your struggles have been,
like it's just a much better conversation than it is
when I come in and everybody's sort of in their own corner
and, you know, off on their own.
So it's a great way to then connect with people as well.
Yeah, and let me put it this way.
Let's say you did three, ten minutes, and here's a wonderful thing about walk breaks.
It doesn't feel like a scheduled workout.
It's a lot easier to maintain.
But let me think about it this way.
If you did three, ten minute walks a day, okay?
First of all, easy to digest.
It's a 10 minute walk.
10 minutes is easy to spare at any given moment
throughout the day.
You do it after breakfast, lunch,
and there's three of them.
That's 30 minutes of walking cardio every single day.
How much easier is it to do that
than to schedule a 30 minute cardio session?
It's a lot easier.
Not only that, but the frequent short walk breaks
have been shown to improve mood better
than a dedicated concentrated bout of cardio.
They seem to burn more body fat.
They seem to improve productivity better
than the concentrated bouts of cardio.
So in my personal opinion,
and especially through observing clients,
walk breaks in terms of being able to stick to it long term, in terms of long term success
with your health, far better than the structured, you know, intense bouts of cardio.
Now the next one is one that I think, first of all, was not on my list just, you know,
maybe five to 10 years ago.
And although we didn't order these in priority, I think this one is going to be one of the
most important ones going forward in the future.
And that is the importance of unplugging and making a conscious effort to detach from
all of our tech.
I know you guys used to tease the shit out of me
about the Adam Atler book that I shared years ago,
but that was life changing for me.
Like reading that and I feel like, you know,
pulling the curtains back on how they've designed this tech
to be so addictive and to attract people.
And rightfully so, it's a business
and that's what they're trying to do.
So I'm not demonizing
the tools but I think a lot of consumers are just completely unaware.
They're oblivious.
Yeah, unaware and I think if you were you probably be a little more reluctant to hand your kid
an iPad at two years old and do things like that that you don't know that may be setting you up for
greater challenges as they get older and so because of, I think this is one of the most important things.
And that is just scheduling that and putting yourself,
and what I do for myself to protect myself
from going down the rabbit hole of emails
and social media and just tech in general
is I have a hard time at night,
that just at that time,
I don't care how busy I am at work or what's going on,
that the phone goes up in my room,
plugged in the charger for the night,
and I don't see it till the next day,
and then I also have a time in the morning
that I still wait before I get up
and just look at social media or look at emails
or look at text messages right away.
So I have that window that I allow myself to consume
and or use for work purposes, and once it I have that window that I allow myself to consume and or use for work purposes.
And once it's outside that window, I shut that down. And I think that this is going to
become such an important practice for people in the future because it's so easy to get sucked
in. Well, it's one of the more challenging one, I think, people will face because it's engineered in such a way
where almost like everything is on the phone now.
I mean, you could justify.
I could justify, I need this for directions.
I need this for so and so is gonna call me
and I need to text all these people
and I need to check my emails and like everything is there.
And so it's very challenging time that we're in now
to be able to put that aside.
And really just revolves back to the first thing
with the scheduling of food,
it's the same mentality going into that.
Really have to start structuring your day in such a way
where you're not reactionary towards all these things,
you're ahead of it.
So I'm gonna be ahead of it.
I'm gonna plan this window during my day
to accomplish as much as possible. And if I don't, it's okay. I'm just to be ahead of it. I'm going to plan this window during my day to accomplish as much as possible.
And if I don't, it's okay.
I'm just going to focus tomorrow.
Yeah, probably the biggest benefit of doing this
is the shift and perspective that you get
because what technology tends to do,
and this is especially if you are on social media
or reading news articles or Facebook, Instagram Facebook, Instagram, you know, all the
different, you know, media outlets online, what they tend to do, they tend to distort your
perception of reality. So a simple example would be, you know, you're on Instagram, you're
following a bunch of fitness pages because you like to learn about fitness and health, but it's
a lot of pictures of impossibly fit,
perfect looking bodies.
And without realizing, even if you're a self-aware person,
without realizing it, your brain starts to perceive that
as the norm.
So then you start to perceive yourself as far worse
than you may actually be in terms of your levels of fitness,
which can tend to make you feel worse.
Another good example is reading news articles.
If I go on any news outlet,
I'm gonna read click-bady articles
about what's going on in the world.
So I'm gonna read about some kid
that got kidnapped over here
and some sex trafficking ring over there
and this drug bust over there.
But my brain perceives it is happening in front of me.
And I'm gonna develop a lot of fear
and anxiety around this.
Look, we've known this for a long time.
In fact, psychologists and therapists
have told clients with lots of anxiety and stress
to stop watching the news for decades.
This is before technology got so good
at putting this stuff in your face.
And what happens when you unplug is you start to change
your perception a little bit
because now your perception is being shaped on real world interactions.
You go outside, you talk to your neighbors,
you talk to your friends and family members,
and what you start to realize is,
oh, people are not nearly as crazy
as it seems on social media.
People are not as perfect looking
as maybe I perceived on social media.
You get that real connection.
We evolved communicating with people in real life.
It's a totally different feeling.
And there's a reward there, I think people forgot.
The person to person interactions,
you get something out of that.
Like you don't get virtually.
And it seems that this platform is so convenient
that now I have access to grandma
across the country. I have all these different family members
now that I could pay attention to,
but a phone call would go a lot further,
or actual FaceTime, obviously, a person to person,
you get a lot of tremendous value out of that.
Yes, absolutely.
Now the next one, this reminds me of another client
that I trained who I learned a lot from.
We had this whole conversation about competitiveness,
and I am naturally a very competitive person.
I like to compete, I like to win at whatever I'm competing at.
And at the time when I was training this client,
I was quite young, I was in my early 20s,
so it was like the peak of my obsession with winning.
And we were having this conversation about winning.
And I said to him, I said, I love winning.
It's like my favorite thing to do.
I love to win.
And he said, you know, that's not bad.
He said, but I could teach you a way
that'll make that'll ensure that you're gonna be more
successful in life.
And I said, okay, what is that?
He says, fall in love with growth instead of winning.
And I'm like, what do you mean by that?
He goes, well, in any competition, in your view, you either win or lose.
In my view, you either win or learn.
He said, if you fall in love with growth, then you're going to become a better person,
whether you win or lose,
doesn't matter what happens.
Now you can still be competitive,
you can still try to win.
But if you fall in love with growth,
the reality is you're always winning
because you're always becoming a better person.
This is something I noticed
with the most successful super healthy clients that I trained,
that they were very much enamored
with just personal growth.
It was all about growth.
And they were able to set aside their ego to examine some of their own behaviors, to examine
some of their nutritional behaviors or exercise behaviors.
The growth-minded individuals that I trained, when I would talk to them about over-applying
intensity, what I'd sit in front of them and say, you know, Mrs. Johnson, your intensity is way too hard for your body right now. And I think that's what's preventing you
from losing weight. Now, she's not growth-minded. She'd be like, what are you talking about? I'm
burning more calories. I'm working out more hard. But because they were growth-minded, they said,
okay, well, you're a trainer. You're obviously know what you're talking about. Let me be open-minded
to what you're saying. Let me give it a shot and see what happens and because they were growth-minded
They were extremely successful as a result of it. So the super healthy people I've ever worked with all of them were growth-minded
By the way, they also happen to be successful on other areas of the world. I love this one
This one is for sure one of my favorite ones because it took me to about 26 before the light bulb went off here. Like you, Sal, I think I was focused so much on winning
and losing was a failure.
And I looked at failures or losses,
like that sucks, don't want that to happen,
but it wasn't as an opportunity for growth or learning.
I think that didn't switch on till later,
and it didn't switch on until I started working
on self-improvement.
So at 26 I began reading really.
I wasn't really reading much before that.
And what I quickly started to pick up besides what you just alluded to, which is failures are
opportunities for growth, I also noticed the momentum that you get when you're focused
on personal growth.
When you're seeking growth and you're wanting to get better, in any aspect, it could be learning
an instrument, it could be reading on self-improvement, it could be doing working on your fitness, whenever
you're doing to improve yourself, I always felt it bleed into all the other aspects of my life.
And when I'm not, I can always feel like this way to the world on my shoulders. When I'm not
focused on growth, or doing something to improve who I am, making a better version of myself for
every day, I can always tell how that affects every other aspect
of my life.
And when I'm working on that, I can feel how it
bleeds into everything else.
And so, from 26 on to today, that is probably one
of the number one things that I would say really contributed
to a lot of the success was that momentum that I gained
from always focusing on personal growth.
It was cool for me to see that play out with some of my clients in particular as well, who
really prioritized themselves for the first time.
You could see that where now is the opportunity for them to improve physically, which then
also improved other habits, their sleep improved, their school performance improved,
their relationships with their parents
or their significant other,
they started to have better conversations.
It was just a snowball effect of things
that transpired as a result of them
really kind of taking that time to hone in on working on themselves
and being growth-minded and going through that process.
And I think that's one of these areas.
If everybody could just really take the time to experience it, it takes some courage,
it takes some bravery, you do something new.
And I think that's obviously the big barrier for a lot of people to be challenged with.
But if you do pursue it, it really does affect
everything in a positive way.
Oh yeah, if your growth minded, if you're seeking growth,
all these points that were listening in this episode
are gonna work for you.
If you're not, it's gonna be very difficult to adopt
any of these if they're not ones that you already do.
Now the next one took me a long time to figure out for myself,
but I did figure it out for my clients.
You know, we really do take sleep for granted.
And what I mean by that is I think a lot of people
realize the importance of sleep,
but we take it for granted because we do whatever we're doing
throughout the day, and then we just turn the lights off
hit the pillow and expect to have amazing sleep.
It really doesn't work that way.
Now, it's not because sleep is something
you have to work hard towards necessarily.
Mainly, it's because modern life
doesn't lend itself well to good sleep.
You know, for, again, for most of human history,
we are brains slowly gotten to sleep mode
as the sun set.
We didn't have electronic lights,
we didn't have electronics that we were looking into.
We were outside doing our thing
as the sun began to set, our brain got that signal,
perceived it and said, okay, slowly winding down,
getting ready for sleep.
I'm pretty sure we didn't cook food in the middle of the night.
That's like a nice dinner bell for predators all around us.
So we didn't eat close to bedtime.
And our brains and bodies prepared for sleep
before we got to sleep.
We're not like a, it's not like your cell phone
where you can just shut power off and it's off.
The body actually needs to prepare itself for sleep.
The most successful healthy people I've ever met
actually put some priority in sleep.
They actually treat, they actually take it seriously.
They don't just expect to get good sleep.
They have sleep routines.
Now that may look like in the past with a lot of my clients,
this look like dim lights and reading.
I had many, many successful clients
who this was a strategy, this was just something that they did.
An hour or two before bed, they have like a dim night light
that they put on or a book light that they clip on the top
of the book, and they read about an hour or two before bed
and go to sleep.
Now for them, I don't know if they realized
that they were really prioritizing sleep.
I think they just thought it was a great way to wind down
and read a nice book, but really what they were doing
is they were setting their body up for sleep.
Now we have science that shows the value of this.
When you prepare yourself for sleep
by not exposing yourself to bright lights,
but not eating a big meal right before bed,
by having your bedroom set up for a good sleep experience,
you know, cool with the blinds shut, no light coming in,
it's clear, the evidence is clear.
You see the stages of sleep are more effective.
People fall asleep faster.
They wake up more refreshed.
Hormones as a result reflect their good sleep.
Fat loss is easier.
Cravings tend to go down.
This is a very important one.
It's not a hard one to do, by the way.
There's not this crazy, it's like you have to follow this crazy workout
or understand nutrition in and out.
Really, it's just about taking it seriously,
just preparing your body for sleep.
I think a reason why it's not,
a lot of people don't have success with it,
because I think a lot of people are unaware
they're not having success with it, right?
I think a lot of people,
there's nobody who doesn't sleep, right?
So everybody sleeps, so I think everybody assumes
that, oh, I'm fine. I get up and
so I've been sleeping my whole life every single night, I get up about my day, and I think
they're just unaware of what it looks like when you really optimize sleep, at least for
that's what it was for me. Like, I just assumed that because I got up every day and crushed
every day, that it was, I wasn't lacking in the sleep department. And until I start just
like the tracking of the water or paying attention to
your macros and calculating and weighing your food, like, it's just one of those
things until you really start to pay attention to it, you don't realize how much
better it can be if you put a little effort towards it.
And to your point, so it can be just that simple.
It could be as simple as just a green, make just like we talked about the
unplugging and having a time zone. You just agree that, hey, if Katrina and I simple as just agreeing, like we talked about the unplugging and having
a time zone.
You just agree that, hey, Katrina and I just did this again.
Like we changed it because Max is on a new sleep schedule, right?
So he sleeps about 12 hours now.
He goes down at 7.30.
And but he is up, like it comes 6.37.
He is up and ready to be up.
There's no like laying down and wanting to nap anymore or relaxing kind of what it was
before because when he was getting up multiple times in the night, it was like these
little three hour windows we were sleeping with him because we were constantly having to get up.
Well now that he sleeps consistently, when he's ready to get up, he's ready to get up,
which means we now have to adjust our time and go into bed before Katrina and I would allow
ourselves to stay up till 10, 30, 11, 30 at night on a regular basis. And now that's not working because now it's interrupting our sleep when he's ready to go
for the day.
And so, you know, we've set this just, hey, by 9, 30, we have to be in bed.
And if we're going to, if we're still awake or without that, then we listen to an audio
book or we just dim the lights and we talk and have communication for 30 minutes, like,
that's kind of this new rule that we have.
And it's just that simple.
You don't have to do anything crazy
or add anything or put that much thought into it,
but that little bit of organizing,
hey, we're gonna go to bed at this time.
We're gonna turn the lights down.
And at that point, we're just gonna either be conversing
or reading a book, it does wonders for setting your sleep up.
Yeah, I think if you ask somebody,
just the random person,
have you ever felt super refreshed
in the best night sleep ever?
And they could kind of recount a time where that happened,
but what did you do that led up to that?
Like I doubt they could even tell you
what all that looked like.
And I think if people just put more effort
in understanding
how they set them up to have that feeling,
to have that feeling of being refreshed
and having this vibrant energy in the morning,
obviously you're gonna see the benefits of that.
And there is a way to do that.
Right, the next one, near and dear to all of our hearts,
we talk about this all the time.
And that is to build muscle and lift weights.
There is no form of exercise that is better suited
to combat the troubles and challenges,
the health challenges of modern life
like resistance training, like lifting weights.
It's the only form of exercise
that will positively influence your metabolism.
And when I say positively, I mean speed it up.
So it actually teaches the body to burn more calories.
It's also protective against a sedentary lifestyle,
which is the common lifestyle that we now have.
Even if you work out, most of your day is probably sedentary.
Most jobs now require very, very little activity.
Not necessarily a bad thing,
but you want to protect against the negatives of that,
building muscle does that.
It's also the only form of exercise
that has been shown in men
to reliably raise testosterone levels.
And in women, if applied properly,
it's one of the most effective ways
of exercising to balance out estrogen and
progesterone.
Muscle also is a wonderful protection against insulin insensitivity issues or insulin resistance,
which is a big problem nowadays.
By the way, brain disorders, Alzheimer's and dementia, many scientists will say is a form
of insulin resistance.
In fact, Alzheimer's, some scientists will call type three diabetes.
Lifting weights is the best form of exercise when you consider the context of modern life.
Here's the best part about it.
You don't have to do it every single day.
Most people can lift weights two days a week, maybe three days a week, and you're going
to reap most of the benefits that you just talked about.
I'm going to even challenge that a little bit, and that's because there's a very good
chance that our single topic episodes could share the most, right?
So there's probably thousands of people listening to us
for the first time with this,
and if you're somebody who is not already into fitness
and lifting weights on a consistent basis,
even one day a week of a full body routine,
if you are doing all these other things,
can make a huge difference in your life.
That's true.
And it's very different than how I would have
approached fitness 10 years ago, back in the days I would
never tell a client they could lift weights only one day
a week, it was just like, oh my God, you need to be in here
at least three to seven days a week and that's so not true.
In fact, you're far better off if you're not doing
anything right now, just starting one day a week, becoming
very consistent with that before you go to two and then
eventually go to three.
And even just doing one full body workout a week with all the other things that we're
talking about, you would be surprised what a healthy person that you would be just from
that alone.
Yeah, I would say if you're new to working out and you need some structure and some guidance,
we have a workout program called MAP Starter, which is a great place to start, but we have a lot of workout programs
you can choose from that'll fit your body and your goals,
but really lifting weights is,
and now we have, finally we have studies
that are showing this by itself,
in-compete if you compare it
to other solitary forms of exercise,
it's the most effective form when you consider,
modern life again, when you consider the problems
that we're encountering,
everything from obesity to diabetes,
to osteoporosis in women, lifting weights,
and again, it doesn't take much.
This is a wonderful thing about it.
Lifting weights is just sending a signal to your body.
It says we need more muscle.
It's not like you're doing it to burn tons of calories,
unlike other forms of exercise,
you don't need to do it all the time
to reap the amazing benefits.
Yeah, and that's the thing is,
it doesn't have to be all that often.
I mean, strength training itself
like provides you with abilities.
So strength itself is something that you wanna be able
to keep and maintain because, as we age,
we're gonna start losing these abilities. And this is something that we want to be able to keep and maintain, because as we age, we're going to start losing these abilities.
And this is something that we need to express
constantly with our joints to also prevent
arthritis and other pains,
and other discomforts, and really improves
your overall quality of life.
So it's something definitely to consider in your routine.
Totally.
Now, the next one, this one's interesting to me,
because as modern medicine
or Western medicine progresses, one of the drawbacks sometimes is we forget old wisdom.
Now, we tend to rediscover it later on, which is what's happening right now with this next
one, but we did forget it for a little while, you know, at the in the early days of Western
medicine, if a child was sick, if your elderly parent was sick,
or if you weren't feeling good, if you were feeling down,
you were feeling sad, you were feeling a little bit of pain,
something that people used to say was,
go outside and get some fresh air.
This was something that they did all the time.
In fact, they would do this with babies,
where they would have babies go and sit next to a window,
or they'd put them outside to get some fresh air.
And it's because they notice, this is old wisdom, by the way.
You see this in all old, you know, medicine practices, Chinese medicine, erivetic medicine
as well, that going outside has these positive health effects.
Now science is now supporting this, right?
We see that when people go outside, feel good chemicals tend to go up, getting sunlight boost vitamin D levels
and has positive effects on inflammation.
And when you consider how little we go outside nowadays
in modern societies, it's even more important.
If you think about all the time you spend outside
versus the time you spend inside,
it's probably a ratio of 95% to five percent.
Probably 95% of the time you spend awake is not outside.
We did not evolve that way.
We need to be outside.
Now there's a new solar power.
You don't need to go outside all day long, but dedicating some time outside or doing maybe
some of your work outside, sitting on your laptop outside, it does have huge health benefits.
This is a big one for me.
I make sure every single day I go outside for at least an hour,
and if I don't, I can tell a market difference in how I feel.
Well, this one feeds big time into the sleep one too, right?
For setting your circadian rhythm, right?
So I notice a big difference when I go straight from home
to work, and then we sit underneath these fluorescent lights,
and we work all day long until the sun goes down and go home and how hard it is for me to fall asleep versus when I
make a conscious effort first thing in the morning to get out whether I'm walking the dogs or just
going for a stroll and absorbing that sunlight early on in the day to set the tone for my timing,
my clock, you know, so my so my body knows that hey it's daytime, it's beginning of the day, when it's supposed
to start to wind down later on, when we're constantly getting this artificial idle time,
it confuses your body into what time it is and is it time to go to bed, simply by going
out and getting into the sun early on in the day, does wonders for you also setting your
sleep up later on in the evening.
Oh, if you're doing the walks, like we talked about earlier, the walk breaks, there you
go. You're walking. You're walking outside, so you're doing the walks, like we talked about earlier, the walk breaks, there you go. You're walking to combo right there.
Yeah, you're walking outside, so you're doing your walk
and you're getting, you know, you're being outside
and getting that sunlight.
Now, the next one, this one's also very important.
This one is connected to the lifting weights,
one that we talked about, and that is to stay mobile
or maintain your mobility.
If, to keep it as simple as possible,
really it's about practicing things you don't want your body to forget.
Okay, so if you don't want your body to forget how to run, you should probably practice a little bit of running.
If you don't want your body to forget how to bend over to pick something up, reach up above your head, squat down,
and reach behind you. Turn, reach behind you, jump off of a curb or jump up on top of a curb.
You probably want to practice these things
to maintain your mobility.
Now, if you want to take it a step further
and make it really effective,
you do some dedicated mobility work
with dedicated mobility exercises.
That probably will give you the best results.
I'll be even more prescriptive, right?
So we created a webinar at primeprowebinar.com and it's free and it's an hour long and
I take you through every major joint and we do mobility drills in there.
If you're listening to this and you're like, okay, I want to start doing this or include
this routine, go through that and then begin to implement some of those moves throughout
your week and you don't need to do it all in one hour setting.
I take you through it in an hour setting.
And if you've got that dedication and you enjoy doing it for an hour, that's totally
fine.
But another way you can do this is take all those movements and break them up through
the week and set them up as little five, ten minute increments just to add mobility every
single day.
And that in itself will do wonders for your mobility.
Oh yeah, and primeprowebinar.com is free.
And it's really go on there and take it,
see how you feel before, see how you feel afterwards.
Right, you'll feel it right away.
Oh, right away, right?
It's not like you got to do this for, you know,
a few weeks before you notice a difference.
You'll notice a difference right away when you practice.
Yeah, and it's great,
because a lot of those moves will kind of show you where when your body is in alignment,
the difference that you feel immediately from that.
And you'll notice it in the way you carry yourself,
your posture, your energy levels.
It just carries with you throughout the day.
And so to be able to apply moments of, you know,
these rituals throughout your day and just chunks,
watch what that will do for you
with all this other stuff throughout your day.
Yeah, now this next one's really interesting.
You know, it's funny, when you look at studies
on longevity, one thing always pops out
that I think scientists have a tough time talking about.
It's consistent though.
Every longevity study shows that people who have a mindfulness practice, now usually
is in the form of prayer.
I think that's the most popular way, or most common way, people practice mindfulness,
but it could also be a meditation or a gratitude practice.
But every single longevity study I've ever seen that's done on lots of people shows that
people who have a daily practice of prayer or mindfulness, their chances of dying from
all causes is significantly lower.
By itself, this one they control all factors, Diet, activity, they control sleep,
they control for smoking and alcohol.
By itself, practicing mindfulness every single day
reduces people's risks of all cause mortality.
I was watching that show on Netflix alone
where people are sent off into the Arctic.
This is I think it's season six or whatever.
And it's so interesting watching these people live
in the middle of nowhere for, you know,
two, three, four months or whatever at a time,
and to see how grateful they are
when they catch a squirrel or a fish,
things that we tend to take for granted,
how happy they are.
And it's interesting watching that
and seeing how happy they feel in that moment
and how sad I feel
watching Netflix eating a burger or whatever on my couch and it's like this is totally a mindset and
Like anything you got to practice it to get good at it. Well, this also to to Justin's point that he's made a few times now
I think comes to mind for me, which is it takes us out of that reactive state
Right all many times we start our day and we're right into it.
You wake up, you roll over, you open up your email,
your social, you're either reacting to the likes
or the dislikes or the bad comments
or the email that you got to get to work and do stuff
or life hits us in the face
and then we spend the whole day just reacting
to all these things and never wants to we get to stop
and kind of gather our thoughts,
be grateful for where we are currently in our life.
And then also start to wrap your brain around planning other stuff,
planning all these things that we're talking about.
I feel like this one's perfect as the last habit
because I feel like getting this in place helps you set the other nine up.
Like if you are listening to this list,
and you're like, man, it's a lot of things.
I'm not really doing any of them,
or there's half of them on here,
I'm not really doing, start here.
Start here with this one, and practice this,
whether it be meditation, whether it be prayer,
whether it be just being still for a good half hour,
an hour out of your day, you start there,
and that will set the tone for all these other things.
So what it'll do is it'll allow you
to clear that mental space.
You're not plugged in, you're not doing anything else,
you're being still and in the moment,
and then I can sort of gather my thoughts
on all these other habits that I wanna build.
Well, it just also reminds me of ancient wisdom
and why we have rituals and we have these things,
you know, part of our day in certain cultures.
It's for certain reasons.
And one, especially like, too, like we pray or we meditate before we eat, like a dinner
together.
And like, why do we do that?
I remember going to that and watching Paul check and you had that realization of, you
know, this really puts me in that parasympathetic state.
Like, now I'm calming my body down,
and I'm more receptive towards this food
and utilizing its nutrients.
And this is something that I didn't even really realize
until later, if I'm in a rush and I'm eating
how that affects my gut health,
and how now I'm gonna be fighting this heartburn,
and all these things, as a result of not really calming myself down and being in a better state going
into that. And it's the same with getting ready for bed. You know, and you see a lot of
these religions and cultures that, you know, have prayer before bed or have gratitude or
have meditation practices. And it's all there for a very specific reason.
Yeah, it's ancient wisdom.
It's wisdom that you see across the world
in every culture, they all practice this.
And we tend to be okay with saying that evolution
is a real thing from a biological standpoint.
Oh, we see bacteria evolve, we think animals evolve.
People forget that ideas evolve as well.
And the ones that stick around for thousands of years, there's something to them.
And every single culture that we've ever observed has some form of a mindfulness practice,
either in the form of meditation or gratitude or usually in the form of prayer.
So there's a tremendous amount of value.
And by the way, there's lots of these things
that we're talking about that can be combined.
For example, we talked about prioritizing your sleep.
Why not do your gratitude or prayer or mindfulness
before you go to bed?
Or do that when you're walking.
Oh, by the way, if you do it while you're walking,
you're also outside.
So now you've hit three all in one.
So all these things are not things
that you have to do by themselves.
They're really just habits.
They're habits that you do throughout the day
and do better as you pair them.
And that's right, and they tend to work better
when you pair them.
But again, we wrote this list
because these are the things that we observed
and are most successful, super healthy clients.
The ones that keep it long term forever and seem to have the most effortless time doing it all.
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