Mind Pump: Raw Fitness Truth - 2026: How to Work Out With an Erratic Work Schedule, Tips for Pursuing Athletics & Bodybuilding at the Same Time, Ways to Address Food Relationship Issues & More (Listener Live Coaching)
Episode Date: March 8, 2023In this episode of Quah (Q & A), Sal, Adam & Justin coach four Pump Heads via Zoom. Mind Pump Fit Tip: Compound lifts ALWAYS before isolation lifts, except when it’s hard for you to connect to a c...ertain muscle. (2:21) The strength training trend is going mainstream. (8:16) Staying consistent with the Green Juice from Organifi. (12:40) Dad Trivia: What does the universal 60-year-old-man celebration look like at a sporting event? (15:06) Theft and self-checkout. (17:57) The genius of Mr. Rogers. (22:40) The benefits of Ned’s Mello. (34:05) Shout out to Jay Campbell. (35:43) #ListenerLive question #1 – Have any of you ever worked with a client that struggled with Night Eating Syndrome, and do you have any suggestions for lifestyle choices that could benefit me in the process of overcoming this eating disorder? (37:06) #ListenerLive question #2 – Can a prolonged deficit be working against my body and progress in the gym? (51:46) #ListenerLive question #3 – If you have no off-season or pre-season, how do you set up training? (1:05:35) #ListenerLive question #4 – Any fitness/nutrition tips to combat the hectic life of an Air Force Pilot? (1:17:25) Related Links/Products Mentioned Ask a question to Mind Pump, live! Email: live@mindpumpmedia.com Visit Organifi for the exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! **Promo code MINDPUMP at checkout** Visit NED for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! March Promotion: “Time-crunch Bundle” (MAPS 15 Minutes, MAPS Anywhere, MAPS Prime + Eat for Performance eBook ALL for only $99.99!! Americans have changed the way they exercise. Here's how gyms are adapting The Resistance Training Revolution – Book by Sal Di Stefano Walmart Employees and Customers Blame Self-Checkout for Theft Won’t You Be My Neighbor? Get yourself tested and transcend your health goals! The Key to Fitness Success is Self-Love – Mind Pump Blog Mind Pump #2022: Lost Motivation To Workout? Do This… MP Holistic Health Reverse Dieting 101 | MAPS Fitness Products Mind Pump #1927: Performance Training Secrets From A Top NBA Trainer With Cory Schlesinger Visit Drink LMNT for an exclusive offer for Mind Pump listeners! Mind Pump #2017: The Best Peptides For Fat Loss With Dr. William Seeds Mind Pump Free Resources Mind Pump Podcast – YouTube People Mentioned Arthur Brooks (@arthurcbrooks) Instagram Dr. Stephen Cabral (@stephencabral) Instagram Jay Campbell (@jaycampbell333) Instagram Cory Schlesinger (@schlesstrength) Instagram Max Schmarzo (ATC/CSCS/MS) (@strong_by_science) Instagram Paul J. Fabritz (@pjfperformance) Instagram Dr. William Seeds (@williamseedsmd) Instagram
Transcript
Discussion (0)
If you want to pump your body and expand your mind, there's only one place to go.
Mind, pop, mind, pop with your hosts.
Salda Stefano, Adam Schaefer, and Justin Andrews.
You just found the world's number one fitness health and entertainment podcast.
This is Mind Pump, right in today's episode.
We answered live callers questions, but this was after a 34 minute introductory conversation.
Where we talk about fitness, current events, our lives, studies, and much more.
By the way, you can check the show notes for timestamps if you want to fast forward to
your favorite part.
Also, do you want to be on an episode like this one live?
Email your question to live at mindpumpmedia.com.
This episode is brought to you by two sponsors.
The first one is Organify, Plant-Based Supplements that improve your health,
Vitality, and Athletic Performance. Go check them out. Go to Organify.com. That's O-R-G-A-N-I-F-I.com
forward slash Mind Pump, Use the Code Mind Pump for 20% off. The sepals episode was also brought
to you by Ned, Makers of Hemp-Based Products. So they have a CBD, a high CBD hemp oil product.
That's phenomenal. They also have something that you take before going to bed.
It's a magnesium based supplement called mellow.
We love their stuff.
Go check them out.
Go to hello Ned.com.
That's H E L L O N E D.
.com forward slash mine pump.
Use the code mine pump for 15% off.
We also have a sale going on this month.
We put together a workout program bundle.
This program bundle includes maps 15 minutes, maps anywhere,
maps prime, and then we also threw in the eat for performance ebook,
all of those together in a bundle, one low price, $99.99,
that saves you over $200.
If you're interested, just go to mapsmarch.com.
All right, here comes a show.
interested just go to maps march.com. All right, here comes a show.
Teacher time and it's T-shirt time. Oh, shit.
Now you know it's my favorite time of the week.
We have six winners this week.
Three for Apple podcasts, three for Facebook.
The Apple podcast winners are Melody and six West 25 and Horned frog 21 24. And for Facebook, we have Ali Brown, Miguel Angel,
Lemus and Courtney Roar. All six of you are winners. And the name I just read to iTunes at
MindPumpMedia.com include your shirt size and your shipping address. And we'll get that shirt
right out to you. Here's a rule of thumb. Compound lifts always before isolation lifts, except when it's hard for you to connect
to a particular muscle.
In that case, isolation before compound will help you connect it to a tough to connect
to muscle.
I love simplifying that for a lot of breaking them.
So when you look at workout programming, good workout programming, you almost always want
to start with compound lifts.
Compound lifts are referred to as compound,
because they use more than one joint.
So like a bench press, an overhead press, a row, a squat,
those would all be all considered compound.
Insulation.
The most energy.
They require the most energy they use,
the most muscles, they give you the most bang for your buck.
Like, you know, three sets of squats does the work of like five or six other exercises, okay?
So typically you want to do them first when you're strongest, they send the loudest muscle building signal, and this is generally true. However,
there are cases where or times where this is a rule that you can break, and one of the best times to break this rule is when you have a particular muscle
that you have trouble connecting to.
For example, let's say you have a tough time feeling your butt when you do any type of
lower body exercise.
In this case, it might be okay to start with an isolation butt exercise and then go to
squats or then go to front squats or lunges because that isolation exercise helps you connect
to that muscle,
then you can adjust your form and your technique and your connection when you the compound
lift.
Same would be true for something like chest or lats or shoulders, for example.
Isolation before compound to connect when you have one of those tough to develop hard
to connect to muscles.
Would you say that mostly only applies to somebody who has aesthetic goals?
Like if you have a general pop person who is just trying to lose 50 to 100 pounds, you
know, and even if they're squatting and they don't really feel and they're glutes too
much, are you really worried right there at that point that they're not feeling so long
as that you've to the naked eye, their form and technique is safe and it's good,
are you really worrying as a coach and trainer
like that, you know, Mark who needs to lose 100 pounds
is squatting and he's like,
hey, I don't feel my glutes like you say.
So you're probably not gonna go.
Because you're so right.
100%.
Yeah, because especially when you're a beginner
and you're just building general fitness,
boosting metabolism, generally losing body fat,
you wanna stick to movements.
You're not even really trying to feel
individual muscles at that point.
You just wanna get stronger and better at these compound lists.
This is why it's a rule, but in fitness,
what's interesting is that, most rules,
there are cases where they can be broken.
And in this case, you're right, it's aesthetic.
So I've been working out for a while. I want to develop my, my lats, but every
time I do rows, every time I do pull-ups, I don't feel it in my lats. I just feel it in
my arms. My back doesn't really develop really well. So let's do an isolation lat exercise
first, like a dumbbell pullover or straight arm pulldown. Then let's go to, you know, pull-ups
or pull-downs or rows so that you can then adjust
your form and technique and connection and feel that muscle that you pre-exhausted to
somewhat of a degree.
Yeah, I'm trying to think of like a functional argument for that because that is an interesting
point.
Like if I have a quad dominant and I'm not really feeling glued activity, am I going to
have trouble hip-hinging?
Am I going to have trouble with, you know,
any of my posterior chain lifts?
Like, I don't know.
If it did, like, impede on, I guess,
the quality of the performance of the movement,
I would say yes, but, like, yeah, to that point,
like, if you're not necessarily feeling it,
maybe you're not getting the benefit then of when you,
you, you know, go into a hypertrophy
phase which does also play into strength.
Well, that's why I wanted to bring that up because I feel like as long as the quality of
the movement as far as to the naked eye, like you got good form and technique, it doesn't
make a lot of sense to the average person who's again, just a general pop weight loss
goal.
And the reason why I bring that up is because,
I mean, I remember this training people, this idea of, because what they normally do,
you gotta envision somebody who's not being coached by you. That's, here's like, oh, I don't
feel my glutes for a squat. So then they start doing donkey kickbacks and they actually
just completely neglect the squats because that exercise, I feel it. And so this is a mistake that a lot of people make.
They stop doing barbell rows, you know, or dead lifts
because, you know, nothing fills their back
more than a seated row, you know, like they've really
feel it in that.
So they're main indicators.
Right.
So then they not only start with that, you know,
they start with these isolation movements
and then they completely eliminate the compound.
Which is, I think that's what happens a lot of times,
because there's this idea of,
well, if I feel it more when I'm doing that exercise,
it's probably working more work.
You're so right.
If you did arm circles like this for like five minutes,
you'd feel in your shoulders more for a beginner
than an overhead press maybe.
Which one's going to develop better shoulders,
more round shoulders. Now, in the case of functional exercise, in your shoulders more for a beginner than like an overhead press maybe. Which one's gonna develop better shoulders,
more round shoulders for the shoulders.
Now, in the case of functional exercise,
the only way I could see this being applied,
and I think it would be applied differently though,
would be to help change their technique a little bit.
So if you notice they're technique in a particular lift
and you're trying to get them to move in a particular way,
you know certain muscles are involved,
and then maybe you can have them work those muscles. For example, I may have someone do some rows before bench press to get them to sit in a retracted
shoulder position. Very different application than what I'm talking about.
Yeah, the only, I mean, one of them that comes to mind for me is just like bracing technique
and in terms of core access. You know, that's one of the first ones that when I'm training
somebody new that we got to,, we gotta fuel that out.
We gotta be able to get connectivity there.
In order for you then to be able to queue
when you're goodness into these compound lifts
if I had a properly braced and support your spine.
Yeah, yeah, totally.
Do you speak in a strength training?
I just read the most awesome mainstream news article
on gyms.
Oh yeah.
Where do you get, where do you get who really is?
This was from C&N Business.
It's a mainstream article.
Oh, okay.
And let me tell you, nobody can call fitness trends like we can.
Okay.
I'm telling you right now.
You wrote a whole book on this.
There's a pattern ourselves in the bathroom.
I swore to God we were talking about this at least five years ago
and saying this is where it's gonna go. This is where it needs to go.
Here's the title of this article.
Americans have changed the way they exercise. Here's how gyms are adapting. These are big box, like every day people who work out gyms.
They are invested and they're talking to planet fitness, 24-of-fitness, like these major big brand gyms.
And they are shifting the equipment that they're
buying and the space that they're dedicating from cardio to strength training.
They are saying that the surge in popularity, they said strength training has been the most
popular exercise class booked during the last two years you saw on class pass, so this
was like, anything that says strength training is really popular.
And then here's a quote,
strength training has become so much more widely embraced
and accepted for all kinds of outcomes.
Esthetic, weight loss, bone health, and balance.
So what they're, it's funny,
they're taking away stationary cardio equipment,
like ellipticals and treadmills,
which now they're seeing a huge drop off.
So like big gym companies, what they do,
and I knew this through working with 24-of-fitness, they would go in, they'd have people that would go in
and watch usage of the gyms,
and they would of course serve their managers.
Now when I was managing gyms in late 90s or early 2000s,
so much money was dedicated to cardio, huge cardio areas,
and ellipticals and treadmills and stairmasters
and the latest cardio machine,
this is where everybody wanted to go.
When people would buy a membership.
If you turn a gym, that's the first place you go.
That's the first place.
They're saying now that the usage of cardio areas
has dropped off significantly
and the usage of strength training areas
is going through the route.
Wow.
And they're shifting the way they're making it cool.
This is what makes me miss a little bit
about being in the gems.
We didn't get to see this because it would be really interesting
to watch a culture shift.
You're talking about full circle right now.
Is that crazy?
I remember being far enough back in when the cardio space was relatively small.
I watched it expand.
Every gem that I worked at, I had the opportunity to work there when
there was, you know, X amount of pieces of cardio equipment, and I watched it grow. Like,
so I watched it go from, you know, whatever square footage footprint, and to expand because
of the demand for it, you know, it was really tough. You'd be touring a, a, a new potential
member. And then there would be everybody on the car machine that sometimes lines, lines,
yeah, lines. And that would be like a drawback. People would be like, oh, is it
really always as busy? Like, what if I want to get it? And so, and you always would have
to find a creative way to navigate through that conversation. But, and so they were always
or you'd be like, oh, we're getting ready to expand. We're adding, you know, three more
pieces of elliptical or whatever. So the fact that they're actually getting rid of that
is really interesting in that article, the area. So what they're doing, these, so the fact that they're actually getting rid of that is really interesting.
In that article, the area, so what they're doing,
so they interview people that work for these large companies
who go in and design these gems.
And they're saying that they're taking away
square footage from cardio areas.
They're adding, literally, it's what it says in the article,
more squat racks, more dumbbells, more barbells,
and then one more thing that's really awesome.
Grass, more free space.
Yeah, well, I've just noticed that's really awesome. Grass. More free space.
Yeah, well, I've just noticed that's been a slight trend.
I don't know how popular, but I've noticed a lot more gyms
designing that in for areas where you can drag, pull,
sled or just do lunges.
Oh, that exploded.
When we were on our way out, that's sort of happened.
Almost every gyms.
And now you go to almost any commercial gym.
They have that.
Super cool.
So what's cool about this is that the gym industry
has been driven by trends since day one,
and they come and go,
this one I think is gonna stick around
because more people are gonna strength train,
and the strength training is gonna produce
the kind of results that people like.
They're gonna do it and be like,
oh my God, this is awesome.
And we are effective.
We are seeing the beginning of the resistance
training revolution that we predicted.
I'd be so sure to write a book about that.
How freaking rad is that, though, right?
No, that's actually really cool.
Isn't that awesome?
Yeah, no, no.
Yeah, got me super excited, you know,
hearing about that.
That's really good.
Anyway, I wanted to mention,
organify real quick.
I've been so consistent with their green juice,
and I tell you what,
it makes a big difference.
It makes a big difference with digestion.
That's funny you're bringing that up.
And overall, you too?
Yeah, so that's been a real effort every night
to make sure that I mix it in with some water
and just a consistency of it
because my gut has been so off lately.
Besides that, and I know probiotics
and there's been other things
that I've been trying to include
and also omega-3s and fish oil.
But that's been one of those that I'm like,
I gotta, it has to be a staple
because I do eat vegetables
but I know the volume is not even near what.
What do you mean?
Yeah, not even close.
I gotta get back to the packets
because I have the scoop at home,
and I find myself making excuses not to use it as much
because it's less convenient.
So funny, like how little stupid things like that.
It's literally a split second.
It is, it is.
And what's the mess, right?
Like if I have to scoop it in, the little water, like the cutting the, the little pack individual
packets and then pouring it into a thing, it just makes it so easy. You could travel with
it easier that way, having the scoopers. And since I've gone through all my individual
packets, I'm down to the scooper. I already see the difference in how much I use it. So
I don't know if it's a price difference between the two of those. Do you know, does I think
it's more expensive to get the packets two of those. Do you know?
I think it's more expensive to get the packets.
Of course.
I would assume that's a lot of opinions.
Yeah, I would, I'd imagine that, but I mean, for, it's worth it to me because I know that
I would.
I use the packets because I, if I travel, that's when I, that's when I used to use it the
most, but I'm trying to be more consistent with that.
That's, I mean, I have way more consistent when I do that.
If I use the scooper, I'm not, I'm not as consistent as it's something that I need to, I mean,
you just, I, we literally all just ate right now.
And if you looked at everybody's meals, it's a, you know, a starchy car, protein, protein,
protein, protein, no, no, no, you know why?
Because vegetables suck reheated, dude.
Nobody wants like, reheated broccoli or asparagus.
I used to be so good at it, too.
I got to get back on it, man.
I used to be really good.
I'm actually coming back.
You're the bowl of broccoli.
Yeah, no, dude.
I got to do a VHEC.
I just had a conversation with Jessica
on the way to work and we're both like, you know what? Let's just start cooking big batches
of well-cooked vegetables so that we have, we have it to eat three, four times a day. That's what you
got to do. Get you throughout the day. It keeps, it gives you that fiber, it keeps things moving,
allows you to assimilate your protein better because when you're gut health software, just,
nothing feels good.
You just feel like crap.
You know, talking about chatting with wife about stuff.
Last night, Katrina and I were talking about something.
We were watching the the Warriors game.
And so it gave me some dad trivia for you.
I hear some dad trivia again for you guys.
He's like, he's just this trend going there right now.
What does the universal 60 year old man celebration look like
at a sporting event?
We'll see. So envision envision a 60 year old man at a sporting event. What does it look like? What is it? What is it?
What is it? Celebrating? Yeah, a celebration of like you scored a touchdown.
We just hit a big three. Like when I do it, I feel like you guys are going to see it right
away because I do. I saw it and Katrina and I started cracking up.
I was like, if I if you catch me, ever do that, you have the right to slap me and that slap me in the chest to be like, think of it. And Katrina and I started cracking up. I was like, if I, if you catch me, ever do that, you have the right to slap me in the chest. If you can't think of it, go ahead. Let's see.
That's like, that's true. You see it? Mechanical robot. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? You know,
you know what it is? Pulls levers. You know what? This could just get your shoulder and elbow out.
You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? You know what?
You can't twist. No rotation. I'm saying it's, is it tight? Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no right inside of it. I used to have this older cousin, he was a lot older, so he was kind of like an uncle.
And whenever, this is back in the 80s, I was a kid.
And this is when 49ers were all, it was crushing right in the Bay Area, winning all the Super Bulls.
And every time they would hit a touchdown or something, he'd hit the shit out of us.
That's how we'd sell, yeah!
We'd run away and shit, I was like, what are you doing?
Yeah. When we were in high school, it was the thing to dog pile when the touchdown happened. So there was a group of us
that would go to all the games.
Well, that's also bad as my pillow.
And after no, that was brutal. You come out bloody nose.
You were on the bleachers and then it was literally
touched the game in high school.
Yeah, on the bleachers in the game, like you would be at the
game and also you create this massive like dog pile
Like everybody like pile on and that was like you wanted to be the first like you do not want to be the one that the first person jumped on because then everybody just
Piled on funny. See that though because I told you guys about my roommate in college and he's like six eight and like
360 where and so he would get it
I would try so hard not to make him laugh half the time
because when he laughs, like he get real animated
and he would do that.
He'd like hit me.
You know, like this big ogre.
One time, like I got him laughing so hard,
he was in my Jeep and he's like laughing.
Oh, broke the seat and like all the way down
and he's like laying down there.
He like broke my car.
And he busted the dashboard.
Like he's like laughing.
So he punches the dashboard and exploded.
And he never fixed it about that.
No, never fixed it.
I duct taped it, I think.
I saw something on the news the other day.
Okay, you guys know how like so many stores now
are moving to the self checkout.
Yeah.
You ever wonder like how many people like steel?
Yes, do I wonder does it ever crush your mind? Yes, okay?
So do you see what what's happening with Walmart right now? What are they doing?
Okay, so they have the ability to keep track of like how often you do this and then there's a threshold when people get over it
And there's like all these massive arrests all over the United States happening away
So they'll let you get away with it for a little while? Yes. Look it up, Doug.
Pull this up.
I just saw it on the news.
I was like, so there are the under the impression that
I was like, well, no, they told us, like,
what the main story that I saw was like a 68 year old woman
that came after, because she had so many of these
that she was doing it.
So you have cameras and stuff, I guess.
Obviously recording your face.
Yes, yeah, the whole time.
And like, you know, you make one mistake,
can you let, don't scan something?
I don't know the San Francisco.
Yeah, you pull it up right now.
I don't know how you get away with it.
Yeah, it's Walmart, who I think is the main one
that's going after people like this.
Walmart arrests over a self-checkout.
Well, I'm gonna confess right now.
I did something pretty bad with the self-checkouts.
Oh, would you do that?
When they were doing the,
you can only have two cartons of eggs,
you know, limitation.
Yeah. I would go through the self-checkout. Oh, four to six cartons ofons of eggs. You know, limitation. Yeah.
I would go through the self checkout.
Oh, four to six cartons of eggs, yeah.
You pull it up, Doug.
Yeah, so it seems like they're targeting this type of theft.
Wow.
Yeah.
Good.
Yeah.
That and catalytic converters.
Hey, you've ever had anyone who did that stolen?
Bro, how does that work?
My buddy, how do they do that?
Okay, they just go on your cars and they saw it off.
I don't understand.
What do you do with it? Is platinum in it? Yeah, they rese go on your cars and they saw it off. I don't understand, what do you do with it?
It's platinum in it.
Yeah, they resell them, right?
I think platinum in it.
Yes.
That are copper in it?
Is it copper?
Oh, copper is cheap.
Platinum, I think it's platinum.
Why not copper pipes?
They'll steal, they'll make a compensation.
John sides, yes.
Yes, we were actually over in the central valley.
This happened to me about
palladium and platinum so
About seven eight years ago. I'm over with my buddies in the central Valley. We're over by his place
And we go golfing one afternoon and you know, it was like midweek middle of the day out in the middle
No, where this golf course and we come out and we get in and he fired his car
It sounded like a frickin race car.
It was like an old Toyota truck and we're like,
whoa, bro, what the, what's that?
We're just slow masters.
Yeah, it didn't even dawn on us.
What had happened?
It took a minute before and his car was driving fine.
It just didn't have, it was just a little like cut,
they cut the exhaust from the Cadillac converter back.
Wow.
Yeah, and stole it.
I'm like, what in the middle of the day at a golf course parking lot,
we are our Cadillac and Bernard Jacked.
How?
Now, would you be tempted, be honest.
You see someone under your car doing it.
Would you be tempted to turn the car?
I drive.
How are they underneath?
No, I would drag them out by their leg
and kick the shit out of them.
I think stealing from somebody like that, bro,
is it's up there with like one of the worst things.
So invasive, dude.
I think so personal.
Yeah, it is.
The crimes that need to be put,
we put, unfortunately we punish crimes
that are non-violent or what should I say.
We punish crimes without a victim
more than ones with a victim.
Property crimes and violent crimes against people
need to be punished the highest.
Possession of drugs and stuff you do to yourself,
that shouldn't be punished nearly as high.
Well, and too, if they have tools with them,
and it's all premeditated, that makes it so much worse.
It is.
Because it's not like they're just randomly just snatching,
and you know,
I'll tell you guys a funny story, bro.
I'm gonna see if I can say this,
but nobody know what I'm talking about.
So I have a family member who had their tools stolen
out of the back of their truck.
Okay, so they had all,
all these awesome, like, really expensive tools stolen
out of the back of their truck.
Now he suspected that it was another,
it was a person that they worked with, okay?
And at this job site, it's all these other Sicilians.
So it's a family member of mine that's site, it's all these other Sicilians. So it's a family member of mine that's Sicilians,
all these other Sicilians.
Now he knows that Sicilians are superstitious.
So he goes to work that next day,
tells everybody about his tools getting stolen
and then says, but it's okay because I hired a witch doctor
to put a curse on whoever stole my tools.
And it's gonna curse them, it's gonna curse their children and their whole families.
And the next day, this tool we're back in the back
is true.
I swear to God.
No way.
I swear to God, bro.
Is that true story?
That is true story.
Really?
Yes, and people listening and watching right now know.
I feel like you would know who did that then,
like who's the most, you know.
No, people, listen, people listening right now
who have relatives from Sicily, old relatives, they will tell you
they are so superstitious.
Don't put that voodoo on me.
Yeah.
They put the tools back in the tunnel.
Not worried about the cops, I'm worried.
Yes.
That's the curse.
That's my life.
The molecule they call it, the evil eye.
Oh my god.
Dude, that's pretty funny.
Hey, so I'm taking this, I wanna talk about this workshop
or this course that I'm taking right now for parenting.
And I'm learning some really interesting things
about little kids and toddlers.
So, you know, obviously I have a two year old
and he's in that toddler stage
where they throw tantrums at the whole thing.
So I went to the course, they have all these modules
on there and I went to this course on tantrums
and I'm learning about like little kids
and why they have these tantrums and stuff like that.
And it's really fascinating.
It actually teaches me a lot about just even adults.
So little like toddlers, they start to develop feelings,
but they don't have coping mechanisms.
So the feelings are bigger than their ability to cope.
So they're dysregulated. And the way they learn how to become regulated is they have So they're dysregulated.
And the way they learn how to become regulated
is they have to become co-regulated.
So the job of the parent, that's what I'm reading, right?
The job of the parent is to provide stability,
boundaries, and calmness.
So you are helping them co-regulate
by lending them these regulation skills.
And you have to do this over and over again
before the kid learns how to develop these coping mechanisms
to these big feelings that they have.
Really fascinating.
So you going through that, okay?
What would you,
because obviously I try,
I mean, I try and guess or speculate that,
oh, it was probably this that we do really well.
Oh, it's probably these things that we do really well.
But, or is it just genetic?
Our son is this way.
But I've been really blessed.
I have, he's gonna be four years old in a couple of months.
And I never had terrible twos.
I never had tantrums.
I never had anything like that.
No, my son's never cried or wanted someone.
That's the exception though, right?
Most kids will go through a period where I have some.
So I think there was a time when they looked
like they were gonna happen, but Katrina and I were,
we never allowed it ever to kind of change
our level of energy around him.
Yeah, that's excellent.
So like it's like, if he can have it,
he feels safe having his, if he gets in,
like all look at her and just be like, oh, let him figure this thing out.
And like, we just let him do his thing.
Like, let him be frustrated for a little bit.
Don't pay attention to it.
Not trying, oh, don't say don't do that.
Like, it's just, you know, yeah, because they say,
so I'm asking you from what you're learning.
If I told you that I've had this great experience with my son,
now Katrina and I have all the things that we speculate what we attribute it more to.
What would you guess based off of knowing,
you know me, you know what I'm doing.
That's probably, I mean,
that's got to be a part of it
because as I'm reading it, I mean,
what you don't want to do, they also say
don't ignore your kid because, like,
leave him alone because it teaches them
then to bury or like it's shameful.
So you want to be there,
but you don't want to, your job as the parent is not to have the feelings, the big feelings.
Your job is to show them kind of how to cope and how to regulate.
They also talk in that module about, like, you can do what's called emotional, she called it emotional vaccination.
So you can prepare your kid for like a tough thing that's going to happen.
And you can say, hey, tomorrow,
John's coming over to play with you.
Oh, that's gonna be so fun.
Ooh, you know, he's probably gonna wanna play
with your favorite cars.
That's probably gonna feel really frustrating, you know?
And you kinda walk through what that's gonna feel like
and what that looks like.
Then there was some other stuff that they showed.
This one I thought was really brilliant.
You can use like toys and you can act out things.
Like, oh, baby bear, Mama bear is gonna go to work,
baby bear doesn't like that.
So baby bear is gonna cry,
but Mama bear always comes back and you play it out
and then allows them to play out their feelings
before it all comes together.
How much does that make you realize
what a genius Mr. Rodgers was?
Yes, what I was just doing.
Because genius. You know what's weird about that isgers was. Yes, what I was just going because genius.
You know what's weird about that is that was big as we were growing up.
Even in, I mean, I had different experiences going through church, but there was always
different programs that would incorporate puppets and then they would kind of act out a lot of
those situations. And it would bring to light a lot of like,
I feel like kids would respond to that really well
and they'd really engage with it
and it would teach them those type of ways
to deal with hard situation.
Well, you know, what I didn't realize
until I watched the documentary,
because I watched Mr. Rogers' a kid.
But to be honest with you, I don't remember a lot.
Like there's things like when I watch back the clips,
I'm like, oh, I remember that episode or like little things,
but I couldn't tell you the true lessons
that I probably learned from them.
What I didn't realize until I watched the documentary
was how much current event tragedy and drama he did.
He was preparing kids for what?
Yeah, and so just the brilliance of that,
knowing like, oh, we have this war going on right now
that our country is in.
So the kids probably gonna see this stuff on TV and here's parents.
So here he was acting out with these puppets and totally appropriate for that age.
Yes.
Not like, hey, watch the news.
Here's what's scary.
Yes.
And so I mean,
we do that a lot to kids now as we show them really scary shit in and data.
And then we don't, but they don't have the ability to cope or to deal with
and they don't even have the ability to do anything about it.
Hey, the climate's gonna be 10 years,
we're all gonna be dead
because the oceans are gonna whatever.
It's all alarming.
Yeah, tell your parents not to recycle enough.
And these kids are like freaked out.
It's not appropriate.
And they don't have the ability.
We know what happens.
They're all about 17, 16 years old now,
a bunch of activists dude, everybody that's like the,
that's like the thing now dude.
I feel like that's what a lot of the education is around
is this bringing so much attention and awareness to this
that it pressures that generation,
that the generation that we just had come up.
And yet we have the most anxious depressed,
you know kiddo.
I don't easily manipulate it.
But I did not realize how brilliant Mr. Rogers was at the time.
So brilliant, yeah.
And I'm watching this and listening to it, you know,
to me, it's like, and then I realize why,
so I have this ability, good and bad,
where I can turn off like a tough feelings or emotions.
Literally, you guys have seen me do it,
you know, something's going on real tough,
gonna get on the show, boom, I'm a completely different person.
That's good in some cases, it's a survival mechanism.
It's also bad because I'm not in touch with a lot of the ways
that I feel, and that means I can't be in touch
with the way my kid feels or what's going on with them
because I don't know it in myself.
So as I'm watching this, this thing, I'm like, oh man.
That's how it happened.
You know what's hard?
You know what's hard about that stuff,
and that what I think about with my son is like,
you know, what is the right balance of, you know,
pursuing this like being a perfect parent
and then also making sure that I incorporate adversity?
Because even emotional adversity, right?
There's gotta be, there's some positives that too.
So you say some of those things, right?
You challenge your kid and all this,
he's gonna emotionally rack, this is bad,
or you leave him alone, you isolate him,
and then he's up.
But then there's some negative, obviously, outcomes of that.
But then there also, that might have made him
this super independent person as an adult later on.
So it's like, I think about that a lot.
Like, okay, I feel like I'm doing a really good job
of trying to be this very well-balanced father.
What's up? That's a really good question.
It's a very, it's a really, really tough question.
Yeah, but I think of all the things that I think about
when I think about myself and the...
Yeah, I wanna say this though too, Adam,
you are an anomaly, okay, because 99% of people
who grew up the way you did do not end up the way you do.
So it did form you and forge you into
this remarkable individual, but most, I don't say 99, but majority of people who grew up
in that type of a situation. It's over half. I mean, that's a fact. It's over. I mean,
there's plenty of statistics around that. But maybe there's this magic mix of.
Well, exactly. So obviously, I understand that. Yeah. Taking him through my path is statistically
not a good idea.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm gambling with the fact that he could turn out good for himself.
Everyone's my just randomly hit him.
Yeah, so shit.
But then there's got to be some sort of a balance there, right?
Of allowing him to not have it perfect when it comes to regulating emotions and adversity.
How do I?
You guys brought it up the other day.
I think sports is a great way.
Yeah.
You really blew my mind with that the other day.
I was thinking about that because sports is a controlled,
you're gonna get your ass kicked, you're gonna lose a lot,
you're gonna suck at things, environment.
That is somewhat safe.
It's one of these.
It's almost like a pageant, right?
Like we're like acting out what's gonna happen in life.
Yes.
But in an extreme situation where you have to react
or you have to face those challenges immediately
and it's not as much thought that goes into it,
it's more of like, okay, what happened?
And like how can I overcome that?
I totally agree.
I think that's part that scares me
is that I might have the kid who doesn't care about sports.
Well, he can compete in a lot of ways though.
Right, I hope it doesn't matter.
Like, honestly, I have one of those too.
Like, my oldest, he's not real.
Doesn't have a competitive bone is by it right now,
but that all, again, and this is something
that Courtney always comes me down with is like,
that can change and it has.
You know, he shows like as he grows up,
like his interests change and shifts,
but I think too, it's still really an important thing.
Just as school, do you want them in school?
Do you want them to be educated cognitively?
Do you also want them to be educated physically?
And so this is, I think it's,
whatever that looks like in some physical form of challenge,
like needs to be placed in front.
I love the school that we're in right now.
I'm like, so it's, no, it's,
Max has been in three schools.
Yeah, you keep saying this.
You really like this place.
Yeah, I mean, dude, the kid is learning presidents right now.
He's fucking three.
And he's having fun.
Yeah, oh yeah, he loves going to school.
That's actually, if he loved how to learn, that's it.
Yeah, at that age, like first and foremost,
he's got to like to go.
Like I don't want to take the kid somewhere
where he hates, and he loved the last school.
And the last school, I have no qualms or anything bad
to say about the last school.
But boy, we've only been going to this school now
for about a month or so, maybe a little bit longer than that.
And he comes home with like the stuff that he's working on.
And so I see like the way they're teaching him how to sound out certain words and to count and to add already and like just
that and you can see him already processing it and I'm picking it up where I didn't see that in the
the the previous two schools. So there's so there's obvious a lot more focus around the academics in
the school that he's in now, which I really love and appreciate. You know, it's probably true about parenting,
is that like 85% to 90% of it is just caring
to be a better parent.
No, you know what I'm saying?
You say, it wasn't it?
Arthur Brooks, who says that?
Arthur Brooks said something to you one time
that you've repeated on the show
that I've then repeated to a lot of people
that I thought was, is a really powerful statement?
Is that someone asked him when he got in a cab,
I believe like, and it was about like being a good father.
And he said, you've already, you've already,
you're already 50% there, he said.
Cause you care.
Yeah, he said, because you care,
the fact that you care, you're already ahead
of half the other fathers,
because that's a big part is that they don't even care
enough to be thinking about it enough.
And so you're already on the right track.
And I'm like, that's such a good point, is that, you know, it's impossible be a perfect dad.
I know that I'm not gonna make every decision right.
I know that I could have looked back one day
and say I should have done this instead of that.
But the fact that you're as a father at this point
in their young life already actively thinking about that a lot,
I think that puts you at any major advantage in comparison.
Not definitely. Adam, I want to ask you, we're supposed to talk about NAD. Do you still
use mellow on every night?
Religiously. One or two packets. Are you two packets?
So I know Dr. Cobraul told me to do two, being completely honest on the show. I am not
consistent with that. Because I've trained myself already to, it's a night routine. It's
now. Did you do right before bad or like an hour before? No, right before. Well, about a half hour consistent with that, because I've trained myself already to it's a night routine. It's now-
Did you write before bed or like an hour before?
No, right before, about a half hour before.
So that's actually a good point,
because what I've noticed, and again,
I don't know if this is just like a correlation thing
or if it actually is a true causation of this or not,
but when I take the net, it actually,
within about a half hour to hour,
it makes me feel sleepy.
That makes sense.
So, that's how long it takes the magnesium to.
See, and then, but if I take it like four hours before,
I'll get that kind of feeling,
and then obviously if it's only like six o'clock at night,
I'm not going to bed, and then it passes,
and then I don't feel the same benefits,
which is weird, because I know it's like,
the reason why I'm feeling these benefits
is because I'm probably magnesium deficient.
I give the body the right magnesium,
but then yet, if I take it too early, I don't seem to get the same.
Oh, that must be the GABA.
There's GABA in there as well.
Okay.
Yeah, so GABA affects the neurotransmitters of the brain
and it's a relaxing compound.
And that's probably the reason why you notice
that kick in and then go away because it's in and out.
Yeah, I have found the sweet spot of win.
It's like right after dinner,
but when we're contributing our base suite decided
we're gonna head upstairs to our bedroom.
That is when I will take it because I know that,
I have this nice little half hour hour window
when I wanna go to sleep.
And if I take it too soon, it tends to pass
and I don't get the same effects from it.
All right, let's do a quick shout out.
We just had Jake Campbell on the podcast,
and the dude is fire.
I love his way.
He's a wealthy information.
He's a good, he's a fun guy.
Yeah, I love when we meet somebody
who I know like very little about,
and I have so I have no idea what to expect.
And most times, to be honest with you,
we do so much of this, and I'm like,
I'm not that excited.
I'm like, because I think I'm gonna let down more often than that.
Yeah, but I love when we meet somebody who like, like instantly hit it off.
I'm saying like we're exchanging phone numbers before the day is even over and already texting
each other and stuff like that.
Like what a very cool dude and just a wealth of knowledge.
Fire hose.
Oh my God.
I just want to hang out with him all day.
Keep asking questions.
I'm asking questions all the way.
So is it Jay Campbell 333?
Is that on Instagram, Doug?
That's correct.
There you go.
Hey, check this out.
Do you want to know if your hormones are optimized?
Is your testosterone potentially low?
This is true for both men and women.
Are you interested in using peptides
to augment your fitness boost muscle growth, burn body fat,
improve cognitive performance? Well, improved cognitive performance.
We'll check this out.
We work with Transcend and these are people that help work with peptides and hormone therapy.
See if it's right for you.
Go to mphormones.com, talk to one of their professionals and see if peptide therapy and
hormone therapy is right for you.
Again, it's mphormones.com.
All right, here comes the rest of the show.
Our first caller is Brooke from Pennsylvania. Hey Brooke, how you doing? How can we help you?
I'm good. How are you guys doing? Good. All right. So I just want to thank you guys so much
for having me on the show to ask you guys a question. I'll get right into it with a little bit of
background of where I'm at. I never really exercised regularly until about 2019.
I got into weight training a little bit,
but I never really had a proper program
until March of 2022,
at which point I just kind of got focused on building strength
and focusing on building up some muscle.
And I did that until January of 2023,
and now I am in the final week of phase two
of Maps Annabolic.
The main topic of my question today
actually has to do with nutrition
and having a healthy relationship with food.
So I do have a history of disordered eating.
When I was a young teenager around like 14, 15,
I did deal with some anorexia
and a short period of some
bulimic behaviors. And then once I was about 16, I never really recovered from
that or moved on from it. I just kind of moved into a different form of
disordered eating. So I've been kind of binge eating on and off since I was about
16. But in the past eight to 12 months, I have developed something very weird,
and basically I can stick to a meal plan all day and do perfect. But I go to sleep at night,
and I will wake up at some point during the night with just an uncontrollable urge to eat,
and it feels like I cannot go back to sleep until I eat
something, typically. That is something sugary or some sort of carbs. So I just really want
to get some advice on how to build a healthy relationship with foods since I've never
really had one. So my question here is, have any of you ever worked with a client that
has had this type of disordered eating, eating and you have any advice for myself or anyone
like me who is dealing with this and just wants to build a
healthy relationship with food.
Yeah, bro, I had a client with a night eating syndrome before.
So, okay, so have you worked with a therapist on any of this?
I have in the past.
I have, I had to switch
and I have not been able to find any therapists in my area
that are both accepted by my insurance
and really like willing to say,
okay, I think I can work with you on this.
Okay, because that's been a struggle.
That's where I'm going to point you,
because I could give you structures.
I could say to you, set up your meal plan
so that it allows you to have food in the middle of the night
so it works within your meal plan.
I could say something like,
I've heard people say that they put a lock.
That's what I did.
That's what I planned it.
On their cabinet, and we're from the to get it,
they have to do this process, which gives them pause, type of deal.
But the problem, and I wanna say this too,
before I go on, none of us are therapists or experts
in eating disorders, we've just trained a lot of clients
and so probably have dealt with a few of these.
So from my experience working with clients
and working with my clients therapists,
this is where I learned the most, okay,
is I would get a client with some form of disorder
reading, and then what I would do is I would ask them
if it was okay if I worked with their therapist,
and then I would work with the therapist
to work with the client.
And what I learned from that was that if there's something
that's unresolved, that this is going to manifest itself
in 101 different ways.
So you'll stop it for manifesting
by I'm not gonna binge during the day anymore,
but then what it does is it manifests
into night eating disorder or I'm gonna stop,
you know, anorexia, but then it turns into bulimia
or I'm gonna stop, you know,
I'm gonna create so much structure,
but then it manifests as orthorexia.
So there's something that's unresolved
and there's something at the root.
And if we don't, this is like taking painkillers
to stop a headache that's being caused
by you hitting your head against the wall.
Like we have to stop that.
The painkillers may mask the pain
but if we don't solve the root issue,
then what's going to happen is
even if you figure out a way to prevent yourself from having disorder eating, it may manifest itself in some other disordered
something. Sometimes it turns into...
It's not a may, it will.
Yeah, it will.
It can be drug abuse, it can be exercise addiction, it can be, you know, promiscuity,
it can be like, like, so many different ways. So, you have to address the root issue and all of your attempts at putting boundaries and
walls around this, you'll find yourself becoming more and more frustrated.
And what may happen by pushing this further and further, is that the manifestations may
get worse and louder.
Okay, so, my advice is this, put your efforts
into finding someone you can work with
on figuring out the root cause,
because until you do that,
I mean, you can figure out how to figure out
not to eat in the middle of the night,
but it's gonna come out in some other different way.
It's probably what's gonna happen.
There's really not too much to add to that because Sal's right.
Like at the end of the day, even if we gave you this incredible hack that helped you out
temporarily, it will manifest itself somewhere else some other way.
And so absolutely getting, getting counseling through this is the number one focus.
There are things I think that you can potentially do during that process because obviously,
it's not like you go to one therapy session
and also you're cured or something, right?
So there is stuff that you strategy's gonna do.
First of all, I would not keep these foods in my house.
Like for me, the ice cream weakness and stuff like that,
like not having them in my house is the first step
to not allow myself to do things
like that.
Right.
Right.
The other one would be structure my diet to where I'm eating like a, you know, higher
fat, higher calorie meal, like right before bed, because I ate less calories through the
day.
Right.
And so I'm kind of helping, like hoping that I don't wake up with some sort of craving
by doing that.
So that could help too.
So you could structure it that way.
You eat the same amount of calories you put in,
or another thing too is like,
I don't know exactly what your deficit is right now.
Maybe you're at too large of a deficit,
and so it's like you're cutting weights,
maybe cut less calories or eat closer to maintenance
instead of restricting so many calories,
so you're not so hungry,
and then also, you know,
structure it in a way to where,
you know, the bulk of the calories
is towards the end of the day,
so you don't feel like you're also really hungry, right?
So those are some like temporary strategies
that I think you can do to potentially help mitigate this
while you're working on the root cause,
but sounds right at the end of the day,
that even if we solve this one issue for you,
it will manifest itself somewhere else.
Yeah, I do want to add this to Brooke. I'm very hopeful for you for a couple different reasons. One,
that you're on a podcast live telling us and you're very open and you're 22 and you're doing this.
That is huge. Very software. That is huge because it's almost impossible to work or solve if the person can't.
Most people don't even admit it to themselves.
Let alone tell other people and let alone put it out there for other people to listen to.
So you are, you're actually beyond the hardest step.
So everything from here is going to be positive.
You just have to take those, those
next steps. Here's one thing I'll say and you could try this. When I said earlier,
still stands, okay? Yeah. But here's what I'm going to say that you could try. And it's
going to be painful and it's going to suck. And it's probably going to result in some
sleepless nights initially. Okay. Could you replace eating with something else in the middle of the night?
In other words, you know, a blanket piece of advice would be when you get up in the middle
of night and you have that crazy craving and you can't go back to sleep unless you satisfy
it, maybe you sit down and you journal and you journal and journal and journal and if
you don't go back to sleep so be it, and you journal and journal and journal. And if you don't go back to sleep, so be it.
But you journal the entire time.
That's going to be painful.
You're going to have to deal with whatever feelings come up.
And you're going to have to deal with the sleeplessness.
That is probably going to come from that initially.
And that's just, that's just one example.
It could be journaling.
It could be meditation.
It could be prayer.
It can be something mindful, nothing distracting.
So I wouldn't want you to replace this
with something that's distracting like watching TV.
Like watching TV, listening to music,
like trying to just like, okay,
I gotta distract myself, type of deal.
You can cardio or something.
You gotta get into what the hell you're feeling,
which sucks, it sucks.
I'm gonna be straight up with you.
Oh yeah.
So I like journaling a lot because what journaling does
is it's a form of thinking that allows you to take pause
and end, we're known as cycles of thinking.
So when we keep thoughts in our head,
we tend to cycle thoughts,
but when we write them down, we tend to complete thoughts.
And you'll notice when you write
what you're feeling and thinking, it's more complete and it's, and it's, you tend to end that cycle
of a thought. So it causes less anxiety. It's just more intensive, and it forces you to look at what's
going on, which is really, really, really hard. So maybe try that for now. But in the meantime, I would say,
So maybe try that for now. But in the meantime, I would say,
look for someone that you could work with
that is a therapist that can help you.
And they don't necessarily,
I mean, ideally it would be somebody
that is an expert on disorder eating.
But you could also just find a trauma therapist.
So if you're having trouble finding someone
who works with eating disorders,
that's within your insurance network
Broaden your search and look for people who work with trauma because the skills. There's a lot of carry over there
With the skill. Yeah, yeah
in doing this
Should I attempt to stay in a deficit or do you think from experience?
Would it be more beneficial for me to move back towards a maintenance and try to just stay at maintenance until I get this kind of under control?
Here's what's going to happen, Brooke. The harder you focus and look at your diet,
the worse this is going to get. Right. Okay, so I want you to do less, not more. So,
calorie deficit, maintenance, surplus. Why don't we do this instead? Let's make it easier.
Don't worry about maintenance. Don't worry about deficit. Don't worry about surplus. Why don't we do this instead? Let's make it easier. Don't worry about maintenance,
don't worry about deficit, don't worry about surplus.
Just give yourself this right here.
I'm gonna eat as much as I want.
I'm just gonna eat whole natural foods.
That's all.
That's the only rule you get yourself.
If I wanna eat, I'm gonna eat.
As long as it's whole natural foods,
I'll eat a bowl of fruit,
I'll eat bananas, I'll eat some steak,
I'll eat some chicken, I'll eat a bowl of rice.
But-
I like sound of that.
So just do that because what's gonna happen
is if you place your focus on your calories and macros
and you start counting those things,
even if it's maintenance, too much focus
is gonna make this worse.
Less focus tends to make this a little bit better.
Okay, awesome.
I really appreciate that you guys.
The journaling idea, I did begin journaling
at the beginning of this year,
but I never thought to do it in the middle of the night
when I wake up.
I'm definitely gonna give that a go,
maybe give some meditation or prayer a go.
I really hope I see some improvements in that
and I'm really hoping I find a therapist
that I can work with, yes.
And expect it, Brooke, expect it to suck.
So don't say, don't think,
your expectations should not be, all all right tonight when I wake up
I'm in a journal and I'm gonna feel so much better. Your expectations should be I'm in a journal
It's gonna suck way worse. It's gonna be really just gonna suck. It's gonna be a whole shitty night of me journaling and whatever.
So yeah, so just do that and then eventually it will get better, but expect it to suck.
I can okay, I can do that absolutely. Okay, I'm gonna. That's not all I got for you guys.
I really appreciate this.
That really did give me some good insight into how I can take some new approaches to this.
Yeah.
Listen, don't hang up yet.
Yeah, yeah.
I think I know where Adam's going.
Yeah, bro, I'm gonna have Doug put you in our private forums.
Yeah.
Why don't you keep us, let us, let us follow along.
Yeah.
Give us some follow up and it might help to have that kind of support.
Absolutely.
I really, really appreciate that you guys.
You got it.
I'm welcome.
Thank you.
All right.
Thank you so much.
No problem.
Dare I say, do you see in the future that like I just feel like this would be such
a great candidate for therapy and psilocybin?
Oh, uh, you talk about somebody who's got like like deep like face it in a dress.
Yeah, trauma or issues that are that are you know what they're using right now for that?
Like here in California, I don't know where she's at if this is legal, but you can actually do
ketamine therapy with therapists and doctors. So it's not it's like literally with licensed
professionals. Yeah, and the results that they're getting.
Phenomenal.
Yes, phenomenal.
So, I mean, I really think,
didn't another state just decriminalize it again?
I thought I just saw somebody do a post
and it's starting to make its way around right now as far as,
like I think in the next five to 10 years,
it's gonna become like a,
you know, the way it was very taboo
to even talk about marijuana just 10 years ago.
I think it'll be that widely accepted
in the next five to 10 years.
Yeah, the ketamine therapy is really cool.
I'm so glad they do that in California.
I know, again, I wanna add, you know,
just keep adding to this.
It's like, you know, I dealt with body image issues
for a long time and I mean, I still have them.
They're still there, but the hardest part
was me just admitting to myself,
let alone telling other people. So at her age, and what she's saying, that's such a big,
that's such a big deal. She made a big step just yeah, yeah, admitting that, and being honest
about it with herself. And I, I think it's just so valuable to as a trainer and a coach to align
yourself with, with a therapist, because there's just going to be so many examples like this where just having somebody to really counsel and talk
them through a lot of these things will spawn such a great result.
Yes, and because this is the big one, what you do as a trainer and a coach for someone
else would be the wrong opposite thing that you would do for someone like this.
Yeah.
Like for someone else, you'd be like,
this is a trap.
Right things down, do the,
like you would make someone like this worse.
So I mean, just want to put an exclamation point on that.
If you're a trainer coach, align yourself with therapists
and you get someone like this, do not advise them.
You work with the therapist and the therapist
can advise you on how to handle this.
And then you'll do a great job
Our next caller is lean from Kentucky. Hey, lean. How can we help you?
Hey guys, I'm so pumped to be on here. I love you all as everyone else it says
I found you when I first started lifting weights and I was on think 17 or 18
So is the perfect time I'm 23 now, so I've definitely been
assigned to all of the information that you've put out there. So I reached out because
I'm struggling with the getting lean part. Lean wants to get lean and she's having a hard
time. So I am, I tried to floor it deficit a couple of weeks ago, no, it was about a month
ago. I was at around 1700 calories.
So let me give you like what's going on now.
I'm 5'6", I'm 1'15".
My skill says I'm around 28% body fat.
I don't know if that's accurate.
And my deadlift right now is at 2'15".
I think I got caught 185.
And I've been running maps in a
ballack a pretty repeatedly. During the summer I take breaks and I do like boxing
and just kind of try to stay active outside the gym just because I travel. I try
aesthetics and it was just too much volume. I started eating everything in front
of me. I just don't I don't know. It was it was a lot. I was eating a lot. My appetite
like spiked and then it was just I was just really tired. So with the colorect deficit, I was doing
good. I was losing about a pound a week over four weeks. And then all of the sudden I just kind of
crashed. My sleep went to garbage. My stress, I seem pretty sensitive to just general work lifestyle. And my appetite
also crashed, which was weird. I was eating a run 120 grams of protein pretty consistently,
but I just kind of stopped eating it. I run a thousand calories. So I do have, so I do
want to get lean, but also I love being strong and I also play sports and just want to keep up with my endurance.
I don't have any crazy timelines or anything like that.
So I just kind of want to know what I'm doing wrong
and how I can make a lasting long-term aside.
Okay. I need more context.
What else happened during that four-week caloric cut?
I see in your notes that you're in law school getting ready to
graduate. I have a cousin who's a lawyer. I remember when he was going to law
school and did all that, it's like insane amount of work and studying a lot of
stuff. What else happened during that period of time or did anything else
happen? Nothing else changed. It just did a deficit. I mean I would say I was like I
hear you say with stress that matters.
I've asked you about stress before.
So I think I was going through something stressful as well to add to that.
But nothing like nothing insanely, I would, I mean, even go into the gym,
I felt like I lost my strength as well.
Like I would try to load the bar with a 25 pounds.
I would just get tired.
Yeah.
So was your sleep. So stressed too.
Yeah, she said her sleep went to crap.
Yeah.
You're okay.
So, um, smoking like a true law student, you know, oh, stressful, but it wasn't that bad.
Let me, let me make a guess here right now.
Are you the kind of person that is like, you know, stuff gets hard, you just keep going,
pushing through.
Let's just keep doing this.
Do people tell you you need to take a break? You're doing too much.
Is this calming?
So I do a lot.
Like I just have a lot on my plate.
I do a lot of extracurriculars and sports in school,
but I feel like I do a good job balancing.
Like I meditate and I do my yoga and I take my walks
and I eat well.
So I think I balance it, but it is a lot.
I mean, yeah, you're a little into now.
You're doing a lot, you're overstressed
is what's going on.
I think Maps 15 for her.
Yeah, 100%.
I think Maps 15 would be a perfect.
I bet you would do amazing on Maps 15.
And then I would do mini cuts.
So instead of staying in a deficit for a month or two months,
three months at a time,
you know, run a week or two, just low calorie, and then go back to maintenance to a little surplus,
and then go back, especially since you also really care about building strength. So if we
stay in a long, we stay in a long cut for an extended period of time, you're not going to see
strength gains, you're going to see the opposite. And so, you know, I would actually cover more around maintenance and then have these little
weeks where you go in a deficit and then go back to your maintenance to a slight surplus.
And so it'll allow you to still kind of build strength.
You'll also kind of lean out.
You don't have a time frame either.
So there's no rush.
This is the healthier, better, smarter way to do this.
And so I would just kind of interrupt these little mini cuts with,
you know, mini bulks and follow a program more like map 15 and and be also aware of what else
is going on because you're in law school, you like all this other stuff, you know, pay attention
to even though it may not seem like a release like you don't you don't have to have somebody die in
your family to consider it extra or
a lot more stress on your life.
It could just be simply, you've got a test you're studying for and you also did, you know,
your two sports that week and you just got two bad nights of sleep and, you know, something
else is on your mind, maybe, you know, inflation's driving crazy.
Or just cumulative.
Yeah, exactly.
Just a lot of little things that are compounding,
that it's just, this is a week
that you take it easy on an intensity.
Yeah, so doctors, lawyers,
high performing executives, you know,
they have something in common, it's a superpower,
but it also could be a detriment.
Now, what's the superpower?
They kind of don't feel the stress like everybody else,
so they just keep going.
Bulldoze right through it. Right. But the effects are still there. You just don't necessarily
feel it. So you asked somebody who's like that, hey, do you feel like you're straight? No,
I feel totally fine. But if you were to like measure everything physiologically and really
getting tuned, you would see like, oh no, you're you're under stress. You just don't, you
just not connecting to it. You don't identify, you don't feel it,
which allows you to perform at the level that you perform,
but also puts you in a position where you don't know
there's too much until like your hair falls out,
or you lose your sleep, or,
and I'm giving you examples of like clients
that I've worked with,
why is my hair falling out and on?
So, it's more than you think,
is what I'm trying to say.
So, what Adam said with a diet I love.
In fact, you can even do it like this.
You can be in a deficit five days a week,
and then two days a week being a slight surplus.
Over the whole week, the average, if you were to add them all up,
puts you in a slight deficit.
So, it's like deficit deficit deficit deficit,
maintenance surplus deficit deficit deficit.
Those diet breaks tend to be less stressful on the body.
Then as far as workouts are concerned, map 15 is ideal.
I bet you doing maps 15, you're going to see your body progress faster than it's doing
even with maps endabolic.
I bet you're going to see faster progress.
Here's how you'll know.
It should feel like the results you should get should
feel effortless. In other words, if you do this, if you follow what we're saying and they're
like, oh my God, this is so weird. I'm getting leaner. I feel strong. It doesn't feel like
I, why am I getting leaner? I don't feel like I'm killing myself. Like this isn't feel
like I'm struggling. It's because you're working with your body versus, oh my God, I'm working
so hard. I'm doing everything right. Why you're working with your body. Versus, oh my God, I'm working so hard,
I'm doing everything right,
why the hell is my strength going down,
why the hell are not getting leaner,
now you're working against your body.
You know, we are just having this conversation off air
and why we think this is so challenging for people
because it's a bit counterintuitive, right?
Everything else in your life,
if you study harder and more for your log exam,
you do better. You practice your sport harder and more for your log exam, you do better.
You practice your sport harder and more often, you're better at your sport.
Like most things that you apply more of, you get more results from with body composition
change, i.e. leaning out.
There's a right-dose spot.
There is.
It doesn't work that way.
It's not the more you do or the harder you work at it, the better results you get.
There is a sweet spot,
and that sweet spot is different for everybody
and different at different times in your life.
And if you're at a point in your life right now,
where you've got a lot on your plate,
that's not necessarily a time that you can add
a bunch of the exercise that you need to do things
that complement what else is going on in your life.
And so it's tough because like I said,
it's so unique, everything else in your life,
you apply more to it and you put more effort towards it.
It pays you more return.
That doesn't work that way with exercise.
There's a very sweet spot for what's optimal for your body.
It's a moving thing too.
And just to add to that, here's one other thing I want you to add to that.
Don't judge it.
So don't look at your work.
I'm only working out three days a week that can't possibly be too much.
If it's not working, it's too much.
If all of a sudden your sleep goes to shit, you're noticing hormone imbalances, your libido
goes down, your appetite, all of a sudden is strange, either you lose it, or you get crazy cravings, it's too much, even if it's three days a week or two days a week.
But I think based on what we're saying, I think if you just switched right now to Math 15,
you can even do the advanced version, which is 20 minutes with a barbell.
I bet you'll get, I bet you'll start seeing things move in the right direction.
And then what we said with your diet, you know, you alternate between a deficit maintenance and then a surplus here and there. I bet that'll
nourish you just enough. The other thing I want to ask you was your digestion. Did you
notice any gut issues during that time?
No, I think I was. I'm generally kind of usually always bloated, but I think I think it was okay. I didn't
know it's anything drastically different. Yeah. Okay. So I also I would like, like for
you also to see if you can address some of the the issues with bloat because that does
mean that there's some gut issues that are underlying. Now why is that important? Because
it's one more stress. Oh, underlying gut issues. I'm going to tell you something right now,
lean underlying gut issues, even things you've you something right now, lean, underlying gut issues,
even things you've been dealing with a long time,
that you're like, yeah, that's not that big of a deal
or whatever, that reduces your capacity for stress
tremendously, like 20%.
In other words, if you fixed your gut issues,
you could probably add 20% more workload to your body
and be fine.
So I'll recommend that you try and find yourself
a functional medicine
practitioner and take a look at maybe some of the underlying gut issues because that's
compromising your ability to handle stress. Get in our free form. That's where I'm going
to send you. So MP holistic health on Facebook. It's a free forum. There's functional medicine
practitioner on there that you can ask questions. Dr. Cabral is amazing. The whole team is
amazing over there. Yeah. So that's definitely worth looking into.
For sure.
Can I ask you, so like, going with that?
I'm not, of course I agree with you,
but I guess when is the right time
to be going after those like tremendous gains?
You know, like if I went on deadlift twice my body weight,
how do I know, you know, is it life kind of always
just different kind of stressors?
Yeah, but let your body tell you.
You're gonna know, like, there's,
when I know everything's lining up nice, right?
As far as like my diet, my sleep,
like the way I'm taking care of my body,
it lets me know on those exercises.
Like you deadlift and squat so frequently and so often,
like it's very obvious to me when,
like I'm feeling really good.
You grab that first set and the weight just moves and you're like, oh God.
Yeah, but let me add this though.
You'll get, your body will adapt if you give yourself the right dose.
Okay, so could you get your deadlift way up with what's going on with your life right now?
Well, yeah, if you're training properly according to what your body needs,
I switched to maps
15 and I hit a PR in a deadlift that the original PR hit in my early 30s.
And I went and worked out, I was working out 25 minutes a day here in the studio and
all of a sudden I hit a PR.
So it's, I mean, it's possible even potentially now.
But what Adam said is also true.
If you're at the end of law school, then you get to pass your bar, then you're going to
start.
And I know the first few years as, you know years as a lawyer is like, you're just getting your
ass kicked. So you know, it's probably not going to happen in the first over the next
few years. You got all this stuff going on. But if you train right, you should see your
strength go up regardless.
Okay. Cool. Do you guys think the 1700 calories is like a good range for my, is that like, is that me with,
like, is that decent, I guess?
What kind of what you see?
Just my five, six, one, and 15.
Yeah, it seems pretty typical.
I mean, how do you feel eating that much?
Does it feel all right?
I don't know, I can eat a little more.
Okay, I mean, you could do a reversed diet.
You could slowly do a reversed diet
during this process and get those numbers up too,
if you want it.
Let me send you our reverse dieting guide.
So you have something to follow.
Okay, cool. And we'll send you maps of team two, if you don't have that. Thank you want it. Let me send you our reverse dieting guide. So you have something to follow. Okay. Okay. And we'll send you maps of team two if you don't have that.
Thank you so much. You got to lean. Thank you so much for the sport. Thank you. I appreciate you.
No problem. You know how you're talking to a stress, a holic or whatever. Is when you mention it,
they kind of smile laugh because they think it's cool. Yeah, like I've had people tell me that like, oh, you got to and I'll
could yeah, do you wear as a badge of honor?
Yeah, wait a minute.
That might be a problem, you know, that might be an issue.
But yeah, I bet you if she did math 15 and did what you said with the diet,
she'll see her.
How many goes right back to what we were saying off air and we're having that
conversation and you take someone like that, just athlete, lawyer, like, I mean, she, you're,
you're right. Like that personality, like she's gotten to where she's at in life because
she's a killer because she can have some stress and mo right through it. And that attitude
has stopped working. That attitude has served her very well in all other pursuits, in
sports, in school, that works.
But when you have a goal of progressing your body,
body composition, hitting PRs, that isn't-
Body thrives on your balance.
Totally different.
Our next color is Eric from Ohio.
Eric, what's happening?
How can we help you?
Hey, hi, guys.
I just wanted to start off the, thank you.
All the stuff you have done a lot for me in my life.
I asked a few months that I found out what you guys saw.
Going straight into the question, I've heard a few episodes from you guys recently in the past
month or two and it's talking a lot about training for different parts of your season.
talking a lot about training for different parts of your season. And so obviously there's like professionals or in high school, things of that sort of college.
It's very easy when you have your season and off season.
But for someone when there really isn't a off season, how do you train?
Whether for an off offseason preseason
So I that I'm curious for a broad sense but also for mine So I can go and like explain mine, but as a broad sense how does someone do this?
Well, there is no broad sense it would be very specific to what you're doing because how much how much you're playing volleyball
Matters how we would program your training. So there's not really
like a broad answer other than you would you would compliment your training to your volleyball
volume, right? So however much volleyball you're playing would dictate how much training
volume would do this. That's kind of the generic answer. The more specific one is when you tell us
this is how much I play volleyball every week.
And these are my goals.
I want to be good at volleyball or I want to be six pack abs or I want to jump higher.
Like that, that all matters.
And then the programming change based on that.
So why don't you tell us what it is that you want to accomplish and what's, what your,
what your schedule looks like.
What is your, what is your, yeah.
And are you competing a year around
or is this like spurts of competition
where it gets more intensive, right?
So we could kind of lead up to some of those bouts.
But yeah, I give us a little more information
and context.
Yeah, so, you know, how it obviously gets cold,
we have indoor season.
And then in the summer, we have sand season.
So that's why there's not really much of a
off season. So during indoor season there are leagues. They are high competitive leagues so although
they are for fun, there are semi-pro players, there are many collegiate athletes of that sort.
And that's indoor, which indoor starts around October
and goes until April.
And then by that time it's usually warm enough,
we go straight into sand.
For me during indoor season, I usually play,
so like the leagues two to three days a week,
but then also open gym, which is less competition,
that's purely for fun one day a week.
So it's usually around anywhere from two to four days a week.
Okay.
And I understand, I'm more play sand because indoors over,
not a big fan of it. So that's usually only like once a week,
and I still try and find like Endor times there's very few places, but we'll play Endor.
So Eric, so you do have an offseason and an in season, it sounds like. So when you're doing,
well, no, what I mean by that is when you're doing sand, you're doing like one, you're doing less
Basque, excuse me, less volleyball than when you're playing indoor.
Yes, okay, so that's when I would do more training in the gym. So look at your entire schedule and
If you're doing less than if you're doing less three days a week or less of
volleyball, I would do one to two days a week of strength training. If it's more than three days a week or less of volleyball, I would do one to two days a week of strength training.
If it's more than three days a week of volleyball, I wouldn't do that much strength training.
I would focus mostly on mobility.
That's just how I would look at the whole thing.
Depending on how much volleyball you're doing, that would dictate how much strength training
I do that week.
If you're doing two days a week of volleyball, then I would do one day or two days a week
of strength training.
Does that make sense? Yeah.
And depending on where you're at in your life and your goals, you can manipulate that.
So let's say you're, you know, been doing this for two or three years and you're like,
you know, I love playing volleyball, but I also would like to sculpt my physique a little
bit more, scale back to volleyball, pull back one or two days of volleyball, add one or
two more days of
strength training. The mistake that people make at your age, the point you're at right now,
is trying to do all of it at once, thinking you're going to be this ripped, good-looking fit,
also a bad-ass volleyball player. Something's got to give. Either you're going to be a not-so-great
volleyball player, but look really good on the court because you put very little time into playing
volleyball and you put most of your time in the gym or you're going to be a athletic
fit, but maybe not look like a jacked bodybuilder and really good at volleyball. And so, and trying
to live in both worlds, like you you'll end up suffering both, right versus like focus
on what is more important to you right now. That's how you should prioritize your training
for the week. And as that shifts through the year and over years, you just manipulate that.
So if you're...
And that's what I meant when we first started this conversation, that there isn't really
like a broad generic answer other than you should compliment your volleyball with your
strength training, not trying to get it.
Now, what I meant by you do have an off-season or an in-season isn't that you stop playing.
It's in the sense, so the reason why there's in-season training
and off-season training in the gym,
it's really dictated by the intensity of their practice
and their game play.
That's what dictates the workouts.
So anybody who plays any sport, if you look at their whole year,
there's periods of time when they're practicing
and playing more, and there's periods of the year
when they're practicing and playing less.
So when that happens, then you could do more gym time
versus when you're playing and practicing more,
which is less gym time.
So a general answer would be,
one full body workout a week when you're playing indoor,
and when you're playing sand,
two full body workouts a week. That would be general
Right, and if I had more information in context, you know, there may be a way to structure in like a sort of a maps 15 protocol
Where you could do like a really low volume training just to kind of make sure that we're hitting and addressing the strength of your muscles and kind of
Have that compliment what you're doing, but in terms of like me knowing the exact amount
of volume of stress that you're placing on your body
through all that, I would need to kind of be able
to monitor that, figure that out,
and almost have you on like an HRV kind of a setup
to be able to get that.
Well, to that point, Justin, did you listen
to the Corey Slesinger episode?
The NBA coach?
Yeah, so I mean, Justin's referencing like basically
micro-dosing your training during the Austin time.
So you could technically still train every day,
then it takes more skill to do this, right?
I think Sal's general advice is gonna be the easiest
to adopt, right?
Yeah, is the easiest for the average person to apply.
But if you wanted to get real technical and work towards
being able to train more often during in season,
you need to be very conscious of your intensity.
So you could still train, but in these microdose type
transitions and reducing the intensity.
But that's, that's, take some skill to be able to do that, to know that, you know, because
again, you know, everybody, and I love when Sal says, you know, what's, what you can tolerate
isn't necessarily what's optimal for your body.
So just because you can get through a weight training workout, does it mean that was what
was good for your body while you're also playing volleyball?
So learning how to, if you're going to microdose training,
you've got to really learn how to scale back the intensity
and learn to feel your body out.
If you don't have maps 15, I'm going to send that to you, Eric,
because I bet if you just follow that while you play
whatever you, however much you play,
you'll probably progress most of the time with just that alone.
Not the advanced blueprint, the other 15 version
with the suspension trainer.
I bet if you just followed that while you played, you would see yourself
progress.
Okay.
Yeah, I do have that one.
I haven't.
I just got knee surgery about two months ago and just got fully cleared
about two weeks ago.
And I was in the middle of antibiotic for the second time,
but I bought 15, it came out so I have yet to try.
Yeah, I gotta be perfect.
How did you blow your knee out?
My quad tendon was partially dorm.
What, playing volleyball?
Yeah.
And also weight training around that same time?
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
The location there.
That's why, bro. You know, you're gonna work on our intensity. Yeah, yeah Cation there that's why bro you know gonna work on our intensity
Yeah, no follow master of teen I that's just do that. I think you'll be fine regardless of how much volleyball you play
Unless it's like ridiculous. I bet that'll that'll give you a pretty good consistent results the whole time. Yeah, it's good advice for sure
Okay, yeah, I guess uh
I wanted to read going back into like coming back,
trying to like rebuild the base,
cause I noticed like my vertical has dropped quite a bit
and I didn't know if re-trying to build the base
as I've heard you guys mention or 15 might be a little bit better
to go.
I think 15's gonna be very appropriate.
I bet you're gonna see progress the entire time.
Are you already following our friends Max Marzo and Paul Fabrett's already too on Instagram?
Paul Fabrett's, yes, the other one I've never heard of.
What is it?
Max Marzo.
That's his thing too, right?
Isn't it under his name?
Yeah, Max Marzo.
M-A-X and then SCHMAR-ZO.
You got it.
Thank you, Doug.
One for 50 Marzo.
He's made up, but it's a real name.
Yeah, so all the stuff that those guys all teach real
applicable to the training and stuff that you do,
it's really designed to keep athletes in great condition,
vertical, you know, multi-planar movements,
like the stuff that they put out there,
force production, deceleration,
these are all skills that are going to benefit your volleyball.
So definitely follow those guys and take a look at the stuff they got.
You see?
I'm sure you're looking at that.
You got it.
Thanks, man.
All right.
Thank you.
You know, of course he fucking blew something.
Yeah, I know.
I knew you were going. I'm like, like long at home. I can't feel bad
Well, I mean, I just I don't know I mean shit. I'm the fucking you know the the pot call on the kettle black here because I
Four seasons in a row
Injured from but that's exactly why I got injured though is that you're doing everything
I yeah, and I was and I was still so obsessed with looking a certain part
But then also loved basketball so much and something did have to give my Achilles tendon my ACL
You know like shit just kept giving because I wasn't training my body according to the sport that I was trying to play
I was trying to go full throttle both and that's a basketball bodybuilder
Yeah, you know the the challenging thing too when you're young
is you seem to have this like,
your tolerance for stress and exercises so high.
Very resilient.
That the only time that you tend to realize
your overdue it is exactly that.
Well, that's why I love when you say that.
I think it's such a great way to communicate that
is that what you can tolerate is not what is optimal for you
because I was fine in the gym.
I was fine, like I didn't think I was fine in the gym. I was fine.
I didn't think I was overdoing it.
I didn't feel extra stressed.
I felt amazing, but my body wasn't conditioned.
And I wasn't managing load management
on what I was trying to do on the courts.
I was trying to be a bodybuilder who also played basketball
and they don't compel me each other
Our next color is Tyler from Delaware Tyler. What's happening? How can we help you? Hey, so how's it going good, man? I got a pretty unique question
At least I think
So hopefully you guys can answer it. I've been a fan. I actually got recommended to you guys while I was in
Form of training for one of my planes. So it's cool to be here.
Good deal.
But my question is being a military pilot comes with its challenges obviously, but especially
for fitness and my kind of lifestyle flying heavy cargo planes.
It's about 24 hour duty days for missions so we can be on the road even longer.
Missions take up to potentially two weeks.
It's hard to eat sometimes because it depends if we're on base,
staying off base.
Not all the time do we have the efficient gym equipment,
like this last time I stayed in a so-called resort that had
a 15 pound kettlebell and two five pound dumbbells.
So between that, my hectic duty day,
sometimes I have to prioritize sleep
because I need to be able to perform safely
and fly the aircraft the next day.
So it's hard to find time to fit in meals,
fit in a workout, especially while on the road,
and then even when I get back home,
because when I get back home, I have my wife
in our dogs and just trying to catch up on life.
So I guess just any tips that you guys could say because I'm tired of trying to fight the 30 plus
hours sometimes that I sacrifice and get a workout in and then maybe get four hours to sleep to go
on the next mission.
Yeah, you got it.
Well, first of all, I want to thank you for your service, man.
I appreciate you.
Yeah, you got to. Well, first of all, I want to thank you for your service, man. I appreciate you. Of course.
You can keep an eye on this for you over here.
All right, so here's a deal.
For someone like you, high performance, high stress, you know, there's a lot of line
with what you're doing.
You got to have this mindset with your lifestyle.
Everything you do has to improve the quality of your life, okay?
Whatever, regardless of that context.
So if you're, and you kind of sound like you're already doing this already, so it sounds
like you're already on the right track when you said, you know, I got to prioritize sleep
sometimes because I got to be able to fly safely the next day.
So look at exercise and diet like tools in a toolbox.
And you're going to, and it's a, it'saceted tools. Like these tools can morph and change
depending on the job that you need.
So do you need recovery?
Do you need mobility?
Do you need stress relief?
Do you feel lots of energy?
And you're gonna go after it in the gym?
Do you need meditation?
Do you need mindfulness?
That's how you dictate what the workout looks like.
And that's how you dictate what the diet looks like. that's how you dictate what the diet looks like so diet would be like that as well like okay
I'm feeling undernourished. I think I need more energy so I'm gonna eat some more food or my digestions off
I think I need more fiber or I need more well cooked vegetables or I notice my recoveries a little let me increase my protein or I notice
I'm sharper when I drop my carbohydrates and I increase my fat intake and I need to be sharper at the moment.
Look at diet and exercise like that
and you're gonna have, because of your lifestyle,
you're gonna have to modify and manipulate those
pretty regularly versus the average person we work with.
The average person we work with,
they know what their day looks like every single day,
nine to five, whatever.
Here's my schedule, here's what it looks like.
Everything's very predictable. And then I can give very general, well here's my schedule, here's what it looks like. Everything's very predictable.
And then I can give very general,
well, here's your workout, here's your diet, do that.
But because yours changes so much,
if you were my client, I would have you,
I would be in contact with you pretty regularly.
Hey, Sal, here's what's going on.
I'd be like, well, how do you feel?
All right, well, this is what I want you to do
with your workout.
And it would look very different than maybe
what I gave you the week before.
So, that's unfortunately the best answer I can give you
because I can, I'm gonna send you Maps 15
if you don't already have it.
So I was thinking, so I was thinking Maps 15,
Maps suspension and maybe like anywhere, Prime Pro
is like these all in your arsenal
and then using the advice that you're giving him right now,
which is like, you know, pick from those based off of one,
what do you have access to?
So if you're in a place where you made the comment
about the kettlebells and the five pound,
I mean, great place for it to have a suspension trainer work out.
Just throw it up.
Get us to suspension trail.
Maybe it's one of these days where it's hardly any sleep,
and you're overly stressed, didn't get a lot of food,
mobility day.
So then you do all prime pro type of stuff.
And so you're not, you're making,
you're not following like one of our programs
traditionally like most people would.
You're literally picking and choosing from the arsenal
of workouts that we have based off
of what's going on in your life.
Yeah, what you need, how you feel,
what's going on type of deal.
Okay.
Does that make sense?
This is John.
Yeah, no, I think that makes a lot of sense.
I've been, I mean, I've been working out since I've been in high school
Like starting off freshman year my dad kind of helped me it helped me go along the way and then same thing with sports
And then you know, you have like fitness advice for the military and their own kind of training
But I've also just done some research and love listening to you guys and taking advice from you and your podcast
but also on top of that,
for the diet side as well, not just the fitness.
I think that's probably also been my hardest struggle
as well lately, because I've tried to been doing
like Cali Surplus lately to just gain some size,
because that's always been a struggle for me.
But like I said, being out on the road
and the limited option, sometimes it's hard
to kind of find that diet.
One of the hardest things about having
a body composition goal at the stage of your life
that you're in right now is it's just...
It would get interrupted so much.
Yeah, it's just not ideal.
Like you mean, it's not to say that you can't potentially
build some muscle or get stronger during all this stuff. It's not to say that you can't potentially build some muscle
or get stronger during all this stuff.
I'm not saying that, but when you have somebody who's like,
I want Adam, I want to add 15 pounds of muscle.
I would never want to try and do that while also
complimenting everything you are going on with work.
It's just something that's got to give.
And what you do for a living is far more important
than you having 10 more pounds of muscle on your body.
As a coach, if you were my coach or my friend or client
or whatever, I would just tell you, like, listen,
right now I want you to be, I mean, you're a fit guy
I can tell, like, you're already in really great shape, bro.
So, and so this idea of you want another five
or 10 pounds of muscle, that's your own shit.
Like, you're, you're, you're, you know what I'm saying?
Like, just keeping it real.
I mean, that's like, you don't need,
no, that makes sense.
You don't need fucking 10 more pounds of muscle on you. You're a, I can tell by the saying? Like, just keeping it real. I mean, like, you don't need, no, that makes sense. You don't need fucking 10 more pounds of muscle on you.
You're a, I could tell by the video,
you're a very fit guy.
So, you're training your diet.
It should 100% at this point of your life
where you're at, complement that.
And then there's gonna be a time,
there's gonna be a period in your life
where it gets better and easier and more balanced.
And then that would be the time I'd say,
yo, bro, remember that 15 pounds we wanted to put on?
Like, let's get it.
This is the time to dial the diet in,
be hit that surplus like crazy,
add the volume in the training.
But right now, I think it's a time to be a little more balanced.
You know, Tyler, do you have an idea of what kind of eating
gives you the best mental sharpness,
what gives you the best strength and stamina, what gives you the best strength and stamina, what gives you
the best, like what makes you feel at least inflamed.
By the way, it's not probably not going to be all the same.
It's probably different ways of eating for all three of those.
So the reason why I'm asking that is if you don't know that, start to figure that out
for yourself.
Okay.
And then you can use diet as a really effective way to optimize performance when the context changes.
So I'll give you an example for myself,
my mental sharpness is best when I do fasting
and a keto style diet.
This may not be true for you,
so I'm not giving this advice, this is for me.
So when I travel to do podcasts,
which I'll do sometimes for the show,
I'll travel to LA or other places,
and I'm doing podcasts all day, I'm eating,
I'm usually fasting quite often,
and I'm eating a ketogenic style diet,
so I could be the best on the podcast.
That's not the best performance diet for me though.
If I want to be strong in the gym and get the best pumps,
fasting in keto is not it.
So when I'm here and everything's stable,
and I'm like, I wanna get strong,
then I'll eat in a surplus and I'll eat carbohydrates
and I'll eat starchy foods to boost that for myself.
When I notice my gut is off, I also have a diet
that's a little different.
When my inflammation is high
and I notice kind of just general stiffness,
then my diet also changes.
So if you can identify that for yourself,
and then you can look ahead and be like,
I'm going on a mission and I'm to be up all night flying this plane.
And I feel best when I eat this particular way for that particular style of
performance, then you can lead up to it and eat in that particular way versus,
oh, when I'm home, I got, look, I'm going to be at home for the next three
weeks. I'm going to have a regular schedule.
I think I want to get, you know, focus on strength. I'm going to eat this way.
And so, yeah, I'm sure that like the regular schedule. I think I want to get focus on strength. I'm going to eat this way. I'm sure that access to quality foods, that's always going to be a challenge. This is just
something that, as your options are limited, supplementation at this point, I think in
your situation, would make sense and to be able to preemptively look into that in terms
of quality protein you can bring with you and whatever form that is
You know making sure like if it's if you do better on like a ketogenic diet like being able to have things accessible for that too
You know supplement wise. So I would I would you know in terms of like in your specific situation
Which I think even more so it makes makes sense to have some of those options available.
I'm assuming when you're on mission
and you're doing multiple days
and you wrote up here 16 to 24 hours minimum
that you probably aren't eating a lot anyway.
You're probably doing a lot of fasting.
Is that true?
You do forget to eat every once in a while
because we're in the plane doing stuff,
especially when we fight across
ocean. There's a good amount of wall time, but there's also checklist that we have to do in order to stay safe because there's
little control out there. And then it gets way hectic when you get closer to the field. So it's kind of like
the beginning in the end or the most hectic and the middle is like
somewhat, but we have this tiny little oven in the back of the jet that I'll try and make food ahead of time. But then when we're on the road, it's harder
to continue eating those meals. Like I said, you forget every once in a while. So yes, it's
it's hard. And sometimes I don't eat and fast a little, I guess. Do you notice, do you notice
any changes in perform, do you perform better for that particular type of performance better or
worse when you fast?
I think actually a little worse. I think food helps to supply some energy to me and then also just keeps me up.
Even drinking water, staying hydrated to have to even get up and go to the bathroom.
Just keeps me in the game and in the zone a little more than if I forget to eat
or something stressful happens.
Okay.
So then then I would totally plan for that.
And it sounds to me like ready to eat snacky type foods,
like nuts, beef jerky, sardines,
if you have actually, I don't know if that would work
on a plan if you're flying by yourself or someone else.
That's okay, thank you.
But you know, stuff like that might be kind of a good idea
while you're on the plane.
And also with water, do you put electrolytes or sodium or salt in your water?
Because I think that would help a lot as well.
I haven't yet.
I can definitely try that out.
Tyler, yeah.
Unless you're eating lots of the, I know, I've worked with some people in the military
and the foods that give you guys already high as hell in sodium.
But if you're eating low sodium stuff,
put some electrolyte powder in your water.
We work with element T.
That's a great option.
Put it in your water.
And that'll give you more energy
if your sodium is low otherwise.
Just that curiosity, Tyler, has peptides made it to you guys?
You guys have a lot of buddies that mess around
with peptides, have you at all?
I personally haven't heard of that. Okay.
Interesting.
Did you, it might be allowed to?
Did you, it might be allowed to?
Why?
The Air Force?
I don't know.
I don't know.
I don't know.
I don't know.
Listen to the episode with Dr. Seed that we just did.
Dr. Seed, yeah.
I have not actually just got back.
I was trying to talk to you guys last week.
I just got back from Spain and I was pretty busy over there.
Oh, yeah, dude.
So if you get a chance, listen to that episode.
And then, and if you have questions, we have a website,
mphormones.com, and you can get a console in there.
I'm pretty sure they're okay to have peptides,
but just something for you to look into.
Check it out.
Yeah.
I just wrote it down.
I've been John down notes the whole time,
but I'll check it out and I'll make sure to ask our flight
talk to you.
They got some neutropic ones that might be interesting.
That's right ones.
I know that I think the military also gives them.
That's why I asked.
That's my definition.
I thought maybe you guys were already like giving them to them.
So if they're I mean, I'm just curious.
So you check it out.
One, obviously find out.
Make sure it's fine, but I which I think it is okay.
And then there's some things in there that I think you might have see some benefits from.
But we'll say we'll send you math 15 minutes. So you got that, all right?
Awesome. I appreciate that. And then so basically the nutshell just
die it for energy during the flight and then what I can on the road and then just
constantly adapting the workouts constantly. Yep. Yep. Yep. Okay. Yep.
All right, man. Thanks, Tyler. Well, thank you. Yeah. Thank you guys so much for the advice.
I love to show love watching you and I'll look forward to seeing more.
You got it, brother.
Thanks, Tyler.
Thank you.
That's rough, man.
Like, 24 hours, you know, days in a row, flying a plane.
Oh, I'm sure you'll forget to eat all the time.
Oh, bro.
I'll be so brutal.
Well, right away, I thought about the, the, the, the diaxa and the C-max and all the
stuff.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
But I, I won't sharpen a look. But I wonder, I think that they give them.
That's what I thought.
The definitely.
That's what I asked to.
I thought maybe they would already be giving it to them.
So I wonder if we're maybe better pilots.
Yeah, or maybe even like Adderall or something like that,
methamphetamines, it might even be prescribed.
That's certain times.
It's really interesting.
But yeah, that's a such a, obviously,
we give advice on the podcast. We're talking to most people. It's a situation like that. That's really interesting. But yeah, that's a, that's a, obviously when we give advice on the podcast,
we're talking to most people.
A situation like that, that's where you need.
Yeah, your workouts are changing all the time.
You can't follow a program.
You know why this is challenging?
I mean, he's a young guy and he wants to put on
50,000 muscle.
And the truth is, it's just like where he's at in his life
and what he does is like so much more important
than five or 10 more pounds of muscle.
And plus if he tries to put on five,
15 pounds while he's doing all that.
Yeah.
And the truth is, he actually is real.
He might get what he wants by actually following
what we're saying.
So you might see the body responds.
That's right.
You get, you actually build some muscle during that process,
but I mean, the dude looks phenomenal.
Yeah, so he's already great shape already.
So that's it.
Look, if you like our podcast
You'll love mine pump free calm go check it out got lots of free guides that can help you with any health or fitness
Cole you can also find us all on social media Instagram
Justin is found at mine pump Justin Adam is found at mine pump Adam and you can find me at mine pump
Dissteffanau on Instagram. Thank you for listening to Mind Pump.
If your goal is to build and shape your body,
dramatically improve your health and energy,
and maximize your overall performance,
check out our discounted RGB Superbundle at Mind Pump Media.com.
The RGB Superbundle includes maps and a ballad,
maps for performance, and maps aesthetic.
Nine months of phased, expert exercise programming
designed by Sal Adam and Justin to systematically transform
the way your body looks, feels, and performs.
With detailed workout blueprints in over 200 videos,
the RGB Superbundle is like having Sal Adam and Justin
as your own personal trainer's butt at a fraction of the price.
The RGB Superbundle has a full 30-day money bag guarantee and you can get it now plus
other valuable free resources at MindPumpMedia.com.
If you enjoy this show, please share the love by leaving us a five-star rating and review
on iTunes and by introducing MindPump to your friends and family.
We thank you for your support,
and until next time, this is Mind Pump!