Modern Wisdom - #660 - Peter Akkies - 7 Hacks To Master Your Productivity & Get More Done
Episode Date: July 29, 2023Peter Akkies is a productivity consultant, YouTuber and a blogger known for his expertise on time management and personal efficiency. Almost everyone is chronically distracted. The world fragments our... attention into slivers so small it's a miracle we get anything done at all. Thankfully, there are strategies to take back control of your time and productivity and today we get to go through 7 of Peter's most impactful hacks. Expect to learn how to set up your own productivity system, what most people got wrong about setting goals, how to keep yourself accountable after creating your targets, the difference between time management and task management, how to design your ideal daily schedule, which apps you should use to be more productive, why you shouldn’t do your hardest tasks first and much more... Sponsors: Get 20% discount & free shipping on your Lawnmower 4.0 at https://manscaped.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get 20% OFF with our code MODERNWISDOM at https://calderalab.com/modernwisdom to unlock your youthful glow and be ready for summer with Caldera + Lab! Get 20% discount on Bubs Naturals at https://www.bubsnaturals.com/ (use code MODERNWISDOM) Extra Stuff: Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Hello everybody, welcome back to the show. My guest today is Peter Ackys, he's a productivity
consultant, YouTuber and a blogger known for his expertise on time management and personal efficiency.
Almost everyone is chronically distracted. The world fragments our attention into slivers so
small it's a miracle that we get anything done at all. Thankfully there are strategies to take
back control of our time and productivity and today we get to go through 7 of Peter's most impactful hacks.
Expect to learn how to set up your own productivity system, what most people get wrong about setting
goals, how to keep yourself accountable after creating your targets, the difference between
time management and task management, how to design your ideal daily schedule, which apps
you should use to be more productive, why you shouldn't do your hardest tasks first, and much more.
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I've followed your work for a long time. I'm a massive fan of the stuff that you've been doing. After all of this time, working on productivity and tools and processes, how have you come to think about the sort of
fundamental principles that people should rely on when considering productivity or designing
their own productivity system? When people start talking about productivity, a lot of the time we
start talking about apps. And apps matter, you know, it really helps
to use the right technology.
But what I tell people these days
is productivity is really an emotional thing.
Productivity is in the end about figuring out
what you want to do in life, why it matters to you,
and how are you going to go about doing it.
So a lot of times people come to me
and they're like, Peter, which apps you'd I use
to manage my to-dos, what apps should I use
to take notes and stuff.
And I'm like, those are great questions,
but let's back up a little bit.
First, let's get real deep.
What do you actually care about in life?
Like, what are you trying to achieve on this planet?
And we'll start from there.
And for a lot of times, for people, that's a scary place to start.
But you got to start there and then everything flows from those basics.
Why is that way you have to start?
When I'm talking to someone who says, listen, I'm really overwhelmed by my job. I've got my kids to take
care of my family. I've got some hobbies and I just don't feel like I have time for all of these
things. Help me out, you know, help me pick an app that's going to help me be more productive or
more organized. Often what the problem is is people just haven't gotten their priorities straight.
And so no app is going to help you get your priorities straight.
What's going to help is talking about what are all the things that you actually care about
in life and how are you currently spending your time?
And a lot of the times you find people are spending 80% of their time doing stuff that doesn't
really matter to them that much.
And I'm like, hey, maybe we got to talk about that.
Of course, if you start, if you lead with that, a lot of people, they check out right
away because that's too scary for them. People don't want to go there. So,
you got to introduce people to that topic a little bit more in a bit of a sensitive way.
But I love getting into those deep conversations with people where they revealed to me,
listen, like my lifelong dream has actually been, I want to move to Sweden and the North
of Sweden and built like a hut there and live in the forest, you know? And once you get
to that point, I'm like, now we're talking,
and we can do some goal setting and clarify that
and talk about the action steps and all that kind of stuff.
Yeah, but we got to start with what it is
that you really care about.
And that's a conversation super important to have.
I had Rob Deadek on the show a little while ago.
The guy that founded DC Shoes, and he did,
yeah, Deadek Machine, and did this show in MTV
that's done like a thousand episodes.
And he was talking about how he builds his businesses now.
And it's such an obvious thing, but I'd never considered it.
He says, what is it that we want to achieve with this business?
Are we building it to sell?
Are we building it to be a liquidity machine?
Are we building it to be a cash cow?
Are we building it to try and raise investment?
Are we building it to try and raise our reputation?
We need to start with the end in mind and then
work back from there. Because if you don't do that, what are the, you don't know what
the steps are that you're going towards. Chris Sparks, someone that we both might be familiar
with, he's a big productivity guy over here in America, ex-professional poker player.
He says there can be no growth without goals. And what he means by that is that the atomic habits,
James Clear advice of just 1% better every day
focus on what you're going to iterate on day after day after day
is a great way to operate.
That really, really is.
You fall to your systems, you don't rise to your goals.
However, it only works in service
of something that you care about, because if you don't know the direction that you're
going in, each of the different iterations could take you in the wrong direction.
100%. That's why people will come to me and they'd be like, Peter, what do you think about
time blocking? I'm like, look, I cannot just say whether time blocking is great for you,
because it completely depends on your goals
The circumstances you're finding yourself in what you're trying to achieve in this chapter of your life
So we have to figure out, you know like you're saying what is the direction and once you know the direction
We can try and speed you up by going in that direction right and that is where productivity becomes so powerful and
Productivity you know when I start talking to people about this they often think it's a bit of a boring topic
You know like you mentioned the cocktail party.
It's not something that you really start going
riffing off at a cocktail party.
But once I start talking to people about,
listen, what are your goals and what are you actually
trying to achieve this year?
People will often start sharing really personal stuff.
And I'm like, well, do you feel like you're making a lot
of progress?
And no, not really.
I'm kind of stuck in wanting to do this
for a couple of years.
That's really great. But it requires having some sense of direction. So, you know,
there's tons of people like you're saying they actually don't have that sense of direction.
So that's one of the things that I enjoy of working with people is figuring out what
is your problem? Do you know where you're going and you're just having trouble implementing
or are you really lost and you're focused on optimizing your day to day, but you've got
no purpose in mind. And yeah, actually that's where people probably should start.
It's like, do you know where you're going?
It's beginning to sound less and less like productivity coaching
and more like counseling or therapy.
Oh man, but I try to stay away from that.
That's actually an interesting point.
If people will come to me and be like,
what productivity advice do you have for people with ADHD?
And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
go talk to like a professional therapist. Hey, I'm not me.
So many of comforts and yeah, okay, so it seems like goal setting is the fundamental foundation.
Where is it that you want to go? From there, we can then work back and you know we can talk about
time management and to-do lists and all of this sort of stuff. What do you think most people get wrong
when thinking about goal setting and creating a framework for that?
People are much too vague. That's the number one thing that I see. People are saying, I want to lose weight.
That's great, but we got to get a little bit more specific. Like, why is it that you want to lose weight?
And a lot of times you start getting into interesting things. People are like, I don't feel attractive, you know,
so I can into really deep things or, for example, people are like, okay, I wanna get promoted.
That's one of my goals, okay, but why do you wanna get promoted?
How is that gonna enrich your life?
How is that gonna make you any happier?
And if you dig into that motivation,
you often find that the things that you need to do,
the actual action steps reveal themselves.
And that's something that I find so interesting,
because people are like, I wanna do this
because I wanna make more money
so that I can do my hobby more often.
It's like, now we've got a really strong motivation and we can make it happen.
And so a lot of the times people, they just have vague goals.
They're like, yeah, I want to, I want to grow in my career.
Okay, man, that's great.
But can we get like a little bit more specific and what that means and why that
matters to you?
So the first thing I always do with people is I say, let's write down your
list of goals.
And then we're going to do a couple of goals, and then we're gonna do a couple passes
to see if we can make them really, really specific.
I mean, can you say instead of,
I want to lose weight, can you say,
I wanna be able to fit in this specific dress
that I wore at my graduation or something like that,
write something that makes it more meaningful,
more salient, but also, the more specific you get, what you want, the easier it is to figure
out what are the action steps that you're going to do.
And that's the next thing I talk to people about.
It's like, right now we know what you want, how are we going to get there.
And that's a lot of people just completely forget about that.
They have their list of goals, they put it up on a post site on their desk or something
like that, and they just sort of think that by having that list of goals there, things
are magically going to happen.
And I always like, no, let's get really specific.
What are you gonna do today?
What are you gonna do tomorrow?
What are you gonna do next week?
Next month, next quarter, to get to that point.
And it's gonna be small steps.
That's where you mentioned the atomic habits framework.
Hey, now we can get into tactical stuff.
Like, a lot of ways to make it happen.
But first let's figure out where we're going,
break it down into small steps, and then we'll get going.
Okay, so it seems like not only what do you want in terms of specifics, you also mentioned
there, or why do you want it, is a good motivator, is that what people are relying on when things
get hard, is that just to clarify that what they want is actually what they want to want?
There's a couple of things there. A lot of the times when someone says that they want
something, and I start asking the why question a couple times,
okay, you want this, why do you want this?
Well, it's important to be, okay, now be more specific.
Like what values do you have as a person that you care about?
A lot of times people can't answer those questions
and they get into interesting things
because people might think that they want
to achieve a certain goal.
But really, it's actually something that they've sort of
thought since childhood that they wanted,
but in reality, it doesn't matter to them anymore.
They're set of values as an adult, or maybe as a 30-year-old.
There's a 40-year-old.
It's a lot different than it was as a 20-year-old.
Those are the kind of things that you uncover.
I would, you know, it happens so often that people are telling me,
I really feel like I should do this.
And they're like, ah, I should.
That's the magic word in productivity.
I should do this, right?
Why do you feel like you should do this? Well, you know, I kind of think that blah, blah, my spouse, no, like, ah, should. That's the magic word and productivity. I should do this, right? Why do you feel like you should do this?
Well, you know, I kind of think that blah, blah,
my spouse, no, no, no, no, what do you want?
And by asking people why and what are your values,
people start to think about this.
A lot of people, they can't, if I ask them,
like what are your top five values in life?
A lot of people can't answer that question.
I think that's terrible.
I think it is so important that you notice.
For myself, for example, I really value autonomy,
competency, freedom, those are things that I care about a lot.
But if you can't answer for yourself,
what matters to you?
It's gonna be really difficult to figure out
how you should be spending your time.
I love that.
I love the fact that it's a firmer place place to stand, you know, there's a five
wise exercise, which you'll probably be familiar with. Have you have you heard the five
wise to do with, I think it's the Lincoln Memorial or the monument, or whatever? No.
Okay, so this is this is really, really funny. So I'm going to read it out to you. So the
five wise, why is the monument disintegrating?
Because of the use of harsh chemicals.
Why is the harsh chemicals being used to clean pigeon poop?
Why are there so many pigeons?
They eat spiders, and there are a lot of spiders at the monument.
Why are there so many spiders at the monument?
Because the lights are turned on early solution,
turn the lights on later at night.
So you're five layers down of wise
to actually get to a much simpler solution.
So, you know, for instance, the person that wants to lose weight,
why is it that you want to lose weight?
Well, because I don't feel very attractive, why is it that you don't feel attractive?
Well, because my partner doesn't seem to be paying much attention to me,
why is your partner not paying much attention to you?
Well, they spend a lot of time at work, why do you think they're spending a lot of time at work?
Well, it's because we don't have enough money.
And you go, okay, well, actually your desire to lose weight is a financial problem.
It's a problem around the fact that you don't get to spend enough time together. You're not
sufficiently open. So I think that's really, really great. One of the problems that I,
I would totally agree in the number of people who want to achieve things and don't. And when you
ask them, have you written down very, very specific goals? They will say no, they'll just have this sort of amorphous idea of a rough destination.
Yep, yep, it's over there. I'm going over there. No, no, no, what exactly is it?
I'm speaking to myself, right? This is me from every year of my life for the last 35 years.
But when it comes to taking a large project, I want to fit into a size
eight dress.
I want to 2x my net worth within the next two years.
I want to buy a house by the age of 40.
I want to do whatever.
Where do you suggest that people go from having a large project to intermediate milestones, goals, daily actions, how do you think about breaking that down?
Amazing question. And people should distinguish between what it is that they want and how they're
going to do it. Because you started talking about goals that you have, but also about living large
projects and kind of using those interchangeably. And I think a lot of people colloquially use that language,
but I find it very helpful to get really specific
on what the difference is between those things.
So I might say right now, I'm trying to build a bunch of muscle.
Hey, we can do a whole sequence of series
and why that is, but in the end is because I want to look more attractive,
you know, and feel better as I walk through the city
and meet people and get smiles all that kind of stuff. So I want to build a bunch of muscle.
I could say that's a goal, but I have a bunch of projects, a bunch of action steps related to that
goal. So one might be find a personal trainer to work with. Another might be come up with a good
routine of lifting to do at the gym. Another might be improve my diet in the sense of upling the protein intake that I have, making sure I hit all my macros and stuff
like that. So by getting really clear on what is it that we're trying to achieve
which is the goal and what are the action steps that we're taking which often are
new habits to build, right? Healthy habits to build. Could be like getting more
sleep, you know, going to bed earlier, like putting it with your phone at night,
but also projects like, I'll, hey, I got to set up like a lifting routine for myself
That's gonna involve a little bit of research some trial and error all that kind of stuff
This is really helpful because now you can have on the one hand a list of your goals
And on the other hand a list of the things that you're gonna do about it to and then you can just start working through the list
Whereas a lot of the times I see people that are writing down that they're to-do list, you know, they're like get buff
It's like, okay, great. Like that's not something that you can do. You know what I'm saying?
You need to break that down into a bunch of steps
So it comes down to being really clear on what is the destination?
What are the steps and defining those steps very clearly as well?
And then we can talk all about, you know, when are you gonna do that stuff?
What are you gonna work on first, second and third?
How do you make sure that you have a manageable workload?
But the key thing is not just to write down what it is that you want, but also for each thing
that you want. What are the key action steps? What are the key things that you're going to do
to make that happen? What about milestone cadence, check-in, review, cetera. One of the things that I found when trying to follow a GTD
framework, which involves usually a weekly review of where
you're at and so on and so forth, the review process was so
arduous and so frequent that I ended up having a very negative
relationship with it and I ended up not doing my review.
But if you don't have check-ins sufficiently frequently,
you can end up wandering off track toward your goal of doubling your net worth or losing,
you know, for dress sizes or whatever.
So what is the minimum viable product when it comes to thinking about milestones and
check-ins and cadence and stuff like that?
Right.
So, this partially depends on your personality
and that's why I think it's a great question.
I find that some people that I work with
have a ton of intrinsic motivation.
And if you have a lot of intrinsic motivation
and you know what it is that you wanna achieve
and you have your action steps pretty much mapped out,
you might not need so many check-ins
because you're just gonna do stuff by yourself, but I also have a friend of mine who
he's quite an accomplished person. He's a very well-known speaker at this point. He's amazing at speaking in public. He gives workshops at big companies. He's written a book.
But to write that book that he got published and has't quite well, he really needed other people to just,
you know, get on his ass basically and be like,
hey, like, did you do your writing this morning?
Like, how many chapters have you put out in the past month?
And so he really needs extrinsic motivation.
That's fine too, but this is a case of knowing yourself.
I personally find that I don't need other people
to, you know, shove me along.
I have a lot of, you know, discipline in terms of making my own stuff happen.
But if you're not like that, that's totally okay.
That's just something that you need to know about yourself.
So get a friend, get a coworker, get someone else to do those check ins for you.
Now, for me, because I like to do this thing myself, I have a, like you're saying,
some systems in place, a weekly review, which is something that I recommend.
Anybody do this really, but particularly if your motivation
comes from yourself, hey, that's a great time to check in
with yourself every week.
How do things go in the past week?
What have I done?
What have I yet to do?
Make sure, you know, not just as a motivational thing,
but also just make sure that you're on top of everything,
that's a big plan to that.
And I combine that with doing some quarterly planning.
So I take every three months and, hey, it's, we're recording this at the end of June. So in a couple of
days, the new quarter is starting. I'm going to sit down and just update my list of goals.
I do it once every three months. And the reason I do it have that frequency is I don't,
you know, freak myself out in the middle of a quarter where I'm like, oh, I should
take a look at my goals. I have like, I know there's a moment coming when I can sit down and update my list of goals,
check in with my action steps,
see if I'm on track for stuff.
I find it really helpful to have a cadence for that.
And to be honest, like if you're doing that once every couple
of months, I think for most people,
that is going to be perfectly fine
as a check-in of where you're going.
But if you don't wanna do some kind of weekly review
GTD style, like you were saying,
get someone to check in with you.
You know, just sit down, you could make it like a mini mastermind,
or just a weekly meeting with a friend or something like that.
Hey, what have you been working on? What have I been working on?
Just so that there's a little bit of accountability.
And hey, if you need to make that more social, then go for it.
But once a week, and then once a quarter for the planning, that's great.
What do you do when it comes to conceptualizing your goals?
Do you do health, wealth, relationships and other or have you, have you,
have you got a framework that people can follow when it comes to splitting up
their life?
Yep. I try to think of purpose goals in life.
Impact goals is one way to say that.
So that's really broad.
It's like, what is the meaning of my life on this planet?
And that's something that some people feel really strongly
that they know, like there's like a social justice cause
that I need to go after, for example,
right, other people don't have that so much.
I think of relationship goals, right?
So social life, but also intimate relationships.
I think of travel goals, fun goals.
So I do break that down into a bunch of categories.
Financial goals is another one, right,
for a lot of people that's really important.
I tend to think of home goals as well,
just like my home environment.
One of them could be like,
build a nice home office to work from.
So I do like to break that down into a bunch of categories
because it helps me have a more rounded set of goals.
You're not, you know, and any given point in time, you can't be working on 15 of your goals.
It doesn't work that way, right? You know, you don't want to spread your attention that much because
you won't get anything done, but it's really helpful to have some kind of at least trigger list
of all the different things that you could care about in your life and one of them could be like
physical health, another one could be mental health, right? And like I said, home, relationships, finances,
all that kind of stuff, just to make sure that you're thinking of everything, even if you're not
actively working on all the goals and all of those different parts of your life at the same time.
At least you know they're there and you could choose to work on them.
Do you have a goal setting process or have you got a course that you've done that people can go
and take if this sounds like it's good to them?
I do, I do. I call this big picture productivity. Actually, it's what I call this because a lot of people are focused on the day-to-day stuff. How do I manage my to-do list for today or this week?
But that's really helpful, very important. A lot of people need help with that. But what I do is I say, let's take a step back and let's think about if we were to define productivity at a high level for you.
How would you define productivity for yourself?
This is an exercise I do with people and people like this because at first they start thinking,
oh, how many tasks I can done every week.
And then when you ask them a couple more questions, when you ask the why question a little bit more
people start saying, hey, actually, it's about, am I making progress on my goals?
And then we start talking about their goals.
So yeah, I take people through that system and a lot of people find that really valuable.
It does take a little bit more vulnerability than just the, let's set up an app for you.
You know?
Yes.
Okay.
So next thing, time management, something that everybody struggles with.
What are your principles for that?
This is tough to say, because it does depend on the context a lot.
I used to recommend one system of time management for everybody.
Then I got some people that told me, hey, listen, I'm a doctor.
Like, I see patients all day.
And I can't do this.
I have to get my to-dos, like, on my to-do list,
done whenever I have five or 10 minutes here, right?
So when it comes to time management,
there's not one technique that I would recommend for everyone.
Some people, for example, really love to do time blocking.
This can be great, if, let's say,
you're like a software developer.
You can take your week and you have some meetings
and then in between your meetings,
you're blocking off time for so-called deep work.
I'm sure you're familiar with the concept of deep work
by Cal Newport.
Yeah, it's like the work that you do
that's the most focused, that's the most valuable, right?
And so it's great to make time for that.
And for a lot of knowledge workers,
it's really helpful to set aside time in their schedule to
work on that, you know, maybe even blockoff time on your calendar so people can
schedule meetings with you at that point. But the context is so different. One of
my favorite students owns a coffee roast tree. And so he's constantly, you know,
roasting coffee, shipping it out to consumers, going to like state fairs or
whatever, and showing up with, I don't know, whatever he has a truck or something, I guess, and
he's like selling his coffee.
And this guy also, like, he has a bunch of employees to manage.
He can't sit down and work on something for three hours because people are always bothering
him.
So for someone like that, you have to come up with a different system.
So I'm always telling people, I'm not going to tell you one system for time management,
because it doesn't make any sense.
However, I will help you discover for yourself what matters.
So this is where we do the exercise.
What are the types of work that you have every week?
And what level of focus do each of these types of work require?
Are there times of the day that you find yourself more focused?
Are there times of the day that you find yourself you're able to blast through your email
the best.
And we construct a kind of schedule based on that rather than saying, this is the one
thing that works for everybody.
Because in reality, there's no one system that works for everybody.
Okay.
So you're talking there about almost trying to design a daily schedule, thinking about
energy level and task requirements, thinking about focus availability
and what it is that you're trying to achieve.
I'm gonna guess, that's probably a good conception
that you would have two broad buckets of people.
One, everything's chaotic, I get my to-do list
done in between the other things that I have to do.
The hairdresser, I'm a barber, I'm a personal trainer.
You know, I have like, required time
and then I have spare time during which I can fit other things in.
And then there will be broadly a knowledge worker who has a little bit more
autonomy over how they work and the structure of that. When it comes to designing
a daily schedule, what are you thinking about there or what are you talking to
with your clients? So for the people who are the knowledge workers, one of the things I say is let's start by
looking at your meetings because a lot of people, if I look at their calendar, it's just
completely full of meetings, right?
And can we squeeze, can we batch those a little bit?
Can we create times in the week where, hey, Wednesday afternoons, you know, completely
full of meetings or the opposite, right?
Wednesday afternoons, I don't take any meetings whatsoever.
So for a lot of knowledge workers, that's a great place to start. We can also talk about email and communication on
Slack or Microsoft Teams. A lot of knowledge workers find themselves constantly communicating,
and that can completely wreck your focus. So I was also saying, can we batch that as well? Can we
have you checking your email X times a day, two, three, four times a day, depending on how important it is?
Can we set up systems so that you've got focused time
where you're not on teams, you're not on Slack,
you're not available, right?
For knowledge workers, that tends to work really well.
And yeah, then you're talking about time blocking
on your calendar, where you're blocking off chunks of time
when you're like, I am coding, I am programming,
don't bother me, you know what I'm saying?
And it doesn't have to be programming,
it could be something else as well.
Whereas for the other kind of people that you mentioned,
the personal trainers, for example,
who are walking around with clients all day, again, can you actually
set aside some time to do your bookkeeping?
I remember when I started working with a personal trainer, one of the hardest things that,
you know, he was struggling with is he barely got around to filing his tax returns.
And he knew he had to do it, but he was so focused on helping clients.
And at some point, I was like, all right, man, let's just take one afternoon a month,
like block it off on your calendar,
put a repeating event on your calendar
for like one afternoon a month, just a deal with that.
And he started doing that
and actually worked out really well for him.
You know, he's like, hey, now I'm on top of all this stuff.
Didn't take that much time, but it feels a lot better.
And so you just have to work with the constraints
that you have.
I think we all wish that we could, you know,
determine our schedule to the fullest degree possible.
It's not true.
We have constraints.
Got to work around them.
Like you're saying, you got to ask yourself, when do you have the most energy?
When do you have a little bit of time to do this stuff?
What are the different requirements for the tasks that you have and build a schedule around
that? An experiment is another thing I always tell people.
Just try something for a few weeks, see if it works for you. If it doesn't, it's not you.
Don't blame yourself, just try something else because I see a lot of people, they feel guilty
because they heard the cow newport does this time blocking a certain way and they try the time
blocking and it doesn't work for them. And I'm like, don't worry, it's not you. It's just the fit between the technique and you is not great.
That's okay.
Go try something else.
Eventually, you find something that works.
What's your opinion on eating frogs first,
having the biggest, scariest tasks,
earliest first in the day,
and then kind of cascading down from that?
Lots of people will tell you that's the thing that you have to do. Personally, I don't do that. And I find myself being quite productive. So I understand
why some people want to do this because especially if you're in the kind of environment where
throughout the day, people start bothering you, right? You lose the ability to focus and
to do the important stuff. People email you, you're like, Hey, Jack, can you do this for
me today? Oh, sure. I'll get right on it. And then you lose the ability to do the important stuff. People email you, you're like, Hey Jack, can you do this for me today? Oh sure, I'll get right on it.
And then you lose the ability to spend the time
on this really important thing.
And you lose the focus.
And maybe throughout the day, you become a bit,
yeah, just more chaotic, less available
to do these really hard things.
For myself, I find that very late at night.
I can often focus the best.
That's just something that I've discovered for myself. So a lot of the time, I will do that very late at night. I can often focus the best. That's just something that I've discovered for myself
so a lot of the time, I will do those things late at night.
And when I'm working with someone,
I'm always asking them, you know,
when do you feel like you're most focused?
Most people will say in the mornings.
For sure, most people will say in the mornings,
early on in the day, and so that's great for you.
Go to it early in the mornings,
like don't accept meetings before noon
or something like that, right?
But it's not that way for everybody.
And I wouldn't want everybody to try that.
Like if you know that you love working at night,
go work at night.
Like, you know, I always laugh at people who tell me
that they, you know, they get up at 5 a.m.
and that's the only way to like live their life.
I'm like, if you wanna wake up at 5 a.m.
like go for it, that's great.
But you can also be perfectly productive
if you wake up at 10 a.m.
It really doesn't matter.
All that matters is what you do
with the time that you're awake.
I have friends at both ends of the scale.
I've actually noticed with myself,
so in a previous life I was a club promoter,
and I used to finish all of my assignments for university.
They would be done until midnight,
and then I would hand it in first thing in the morning.
And now later in life, I'd heard that there was
a genetic predisposition to being a night owl or an early bird.
And I don't know whether I had some epigenetic shift
at age 31 or something, but honestly, man, I changed.
I really, really did change from being someone that worked
best late at night to being someone who works best
earlier in the morning.
But one of the things that we've spoken about there
is this sort of relationship between goals,
tasks, and schedule or routine.
How do you think about the relationship between task management slash to-do lists and time-blocking
slash calendar insertion of those actions?
It seems like you could almost use a calendar as a
to-do list to give you the things that you need to do, but that's probably not
quite going to be sufficient because you're not going to have your projects
managed. So how should people think about that conceptualization between time
management and task management? I love this question because a lot of people
conflate those two things. I always recommend that everyone has a to-do list that is a little bit of a sophisticated
to-do list.
So not just one list with like 12 items on it, but let's break down your life into various
areas.
And so the ones that I usually tell people to start with is like admin and finance tasks.
That's one bucket, yeah.
Another bucket is trips that you go on and let's say fun stuff.
So hobbies and trips, let's call it that. Another one is stuff you've got to do for your health.
Another one is stuff you got to do for your home. Then there is things that you do that are about
your relationships with other people, right? Scheduling a meeting with someone or taking someone
at the lunch or whatever. And then there's work. And for a lot of people, that's a good basic
division to start with. Now for each of those big buckets of your life,
I like to call them areas, whatever categories,
think about all the tasks that you have
and put them under that bucket.
And think about the projects that you have.
A project is just a collection of tasks,
contributes to an outcome.
Write a project is like,
hey, I'm writing a book or something.
That's a project,
because it has a start and a finish,
and you're working on it for some, you know,
definite period of time.
And once you have that list, right, now you know what are all the things that you could
work on.
The next question is when are you going to work on those things?
And that's where the calendar comes in.
That's why you start setting aside time for like, I'm going to work on, you know, hobby
stuff on Saturday afternoon, right, or like Friday morning, I'm going to work on writing
my book.
And how you make that jump, there's a bunch of different tactical ways to do it. Like I said,
you could do time blocking or you could just not do time blocking, but just make sure that nobody's
interrupting you and you sit down at your task list and prioritize it somehow and work through it
from top priority, low priority. But starting with that list of all the things that you want to do,
so sort of an advanced sophisticated to do list, that's the starting point.
Now, I always recommend that over starting with your calendar, because if you're looking
at your calendar, it's like, oh, I'm going to work on, I don't know, email from 12 to
one on Wednesday or something like that.
Then you're not sure whether that's the most important thing that you should be working
on.
If you make that task list first, you can look at it, and then you can say, what are actually
the most important things, and then you can start filling in your time really intentionally.
A lot of people have a very negative relationship, I think, with that to-do list. You know, you should be making life easier for you.
It should be, you know, the orchestration of the things that are most important to you in life. And yet, I know that I go through periods like this
and a lot of my friends do too,
that it feels like an adversary.
So what is your advice to people
who feel like they're overwhelmed
when they look at that to-do list,
they open it up and it's just this big, black,
whole, scary monster, what can people do?
Man, I'll try to answer this in less than 30 minutes
because this is one of my favorite topics.
There's two things that I'll say. The first one is put fun stuff
on your to-do list. Put your fun shit on your to-do list as well because if you're the
kind of person who like hates looking at their to-do list is like, you probably put all
the stuff that you don't want to do on there and you didn't put all the stuff that actually
excites you, which is a big problem. But another reason when you say a lot of people feel
overwhelmed when they're looking at their
to-do list, this happens a lot, this happens to me too, is if you did it right, your to-do list
is just a reflection of reality.
And so the problem is not with the list, the problem is with reality.
So if you're like in a year to-do list and you're like, oh my God, I have so many things
to do, I've way over committed myself, right?
The problem is that you over committed yourself, the problem is not the list that you made and it's actually very revealing.
It's one of the reasons why I do love this GTD getting things done technique of doing a weekly review because what people often find when they're doing this weekly review is like, holy crap, I actually committed myself to doing so many things. This is not a reasonable amount of things to do this week,
this month is quarter.
And that's really valuable because then you can start
prioritizing, is that fun?
No, you're gonna have to say no to some stuff, right?
You're gonna have to actually tell people,
hey, actually, I'm sorry, I committed myself to this,
but I over committed myself, I can't do this.
You're gonna have to choose.
That's painful.
But if you did it right, your to-do list is just a reflection
of your commitments and extremely valuable at that because it forces you to sit down and make deliberate choices about what you want to spend your time on it.
We all have a limited amount of time in our lives. We don't know how much time there is left, but it's a limited amount of time.
And you can only do a finite amount of things.
The to-do list serves to tell you what are all the things that I could spend my time on
and it helps you choose between them, which is I think one of the most important things you can
do if you care about spending your life in a very meaningful way. Right. So when people deal with
a to-do list, which has way too much stuff on it and they think it's the fault of the to-do list,
what it actually is is the fault of their commitment
to a lot of things, and perhaps a lack of discipline
to keep this organized.
There's sometimes, I guess, people just open it up,
and they don't know where to start.
They don't know what they should begin with.
Perhaps they don't have too much on their plate,
but there's just this ambient sense of dread when they do go
toward it. What else is there? What else have we missed when it comes to dealing with overwhelm
generally with workload? Here's the thing. What you said, I think, is actually a little bit different
because what it sounds like now, in this case, if you're looking at your to-do list and maybe you
do have enough time to work on all these things, you're just not quite sure what you should work on.
Next, now we have a priorities problem.
So it's back to the goal setting.
Like, what are your goals?
Which ones are more important than the other ones?
What do you actually value?
What are you trying to achieve with your life?
And those are, you know, difficult questions
that you probably can't just sit down one day and figure out.
This is going to take some introspection over time.
Maybe you got to do meditation.
You got to take some drugs.
Something I don't know what you want to do.
You got to figure that out somehow.
But if you haven't figured that stuff out and you're looking at your to-do list,
like your to-do list is just going to be,
it's going to be revealing this problem to you.
So it's like you're saying that to-do list
never causes the problem.
It's just revealing the fact that you haven't set your priorities.
Right? If I'm looking and I have got like 300 tasks
that I could work on today, and I have got like 300 tasks that I could work on today,
and I have absolutely zero clue,
which ones I should be working on,
I can stare at my computer screen all I want,
that's not gonna give me the answer.
What I need to do is go in a friggin' walk, right?
And ask myself of all the things that, you know,
I care about in life, like,
which are the things that I care about the most right now?
Then we can say, you know what?
Right now, the most important thing to me is,
let's say, building muscle. Okay, I should probably work on that stuff then, you know, or
it could be like, most important thing is doubling my business revenue. Okay, I should
look at my tasks, which one of these tasks is it going to give me the biggest ROI on increasing
my business revenue? That's the one that I should work on. So you got to start earlier
if that's the problem.
Yeah, I really do believe that almost everything comes back to getting very, very clear
on what it is that you want
and ruthlessly calling everything else.
Like the ultimate productivity system
is just knowing what you want
and pretty much everything else comes out of that.
One of the things that I know that you're
intimately familiar with,
and I have been too throughout my 20s is burnout.
So, one of the things I've noticed now is,
because I did it so much and pushed myself through it,
and then would end up having a miniature breakdown
where I'd just be in bed for three days
and I wouldn't be able to get out of it.
And I thought I was depressed.
I thought I was chronically, like sporadically,
acutely depressed.
So I'd have periods every sort of three to four months or so
where I'd be in bed for three days
and it would always be after a really intense period of work
and it would make me feel sad,
but I don't think it was because of depression.
I think it was a combination of low mood with burnout
and the low mood was due to the burnout.
What about you?
What's your burnout story and what have you learned
about dealing with it and pulling people back
from the brink?
Yeah, burnout is such an interesting topic because I dealt with that myself.
It's about six or seven years ago now.
I was working as a consultant in the US and wasn't even a particularly bad firmer or anything
like that.
I just pushed myself too hard and at some point I found myself getting cranky with everyone
and having no patience and getting like my heart rate was way too high and my blood pressure is too
high. And I ended up stopping work for a while and I had no clue what was going on and
took me a year and a half before I started seeing a therapist. So everybody, if you're feeling
like that, see a therapist faster. Don't wait a year and a half until people start telling
you. That's the first thing. But when I did a little bit of reading about burnout,
it turns out that there's not really a great definition
of what burnout is.
It's kind of this nebulous concept that is very real.
And many people experience it.
And like you're saying, you've experienced it.
I've experienced it myself.
For me, it was like, I couldn't vacuum the house.
If I started vacuuming the house after five minutes,
I would just drive myself crazy.
And I would just like, yeah, I just need to sit down.
And it was really bad for a while.
And I know that.
So it was like a kind of like a loss of resilience almost?
Oh, that's, I've never actually thought of it that way,
but that's a fantastic way of saying it.
It's like you feel like you can't handle anything whatsoever.
Like basic daily interactions are so freaking hard.
And I found that really rough
because I'd always thought of myself as a very capable person.
Like I can do anything, I can learn anything that I want to learn.
And then when you're hit with this point where like you can't do something really basic
like vacuuming the house or like I would have this crazy thing where I would go into the
city to go to like a bookshop.
And then I was like, no, actually, why am I going to the bookshop?
No, no, no, I like, I actually feel like getting a coffee.
And then I would change directions and go to a place to get coffee.
And then halfway there, I'd change back.
No, actually, I want to go.
And so I was super indecisive.
It was bizarre.
I couldn't take any decisions anymore.
And this lack of capability really hit me hard,
because it really, my identity was as someone who's capable
and can learn.
That was really painful.
But I found that, as I recovered from that, I started seeing
it in a lot of other people.
A lot of people who have way over committed themselves at work were pushed way too hard,
they're dealing with a lot of the same stuff.
And I think it's very common these days.
For me, the cause was very much that I was pushing too hard.
I was pushing really hard.
Felt that I wasn't getting the results that I wanted.
Started to stress out, pushed myself harder, and you enter a vicious circle where you stress
yourself out more, you perform worse, you push harder, and you get more stress, etc.
And so for me, the solution to a lot of that was pushing less hard and actually trying
less hard, which is a whole different challenge.
But I've come to see that there's a lot of different types of burnout that people go through.
And for a lot of people, productivity techniques are really appealing, actually.
That's sort of the link that it is there for me is a lot of people who experience the sense of
burnout of, I'm less capable than I used to be, they really want to grasp something solid.
They want to grasp a system that gives them an idea of this is the tasks that I'm going
to work on today and I'm going to work through them and I have a plan.
That's something that I found very important and that I see in a lot of people today.
But I certainly wouldn't want to give medical advice to anyone with burnout, but I love
sharing my own experience because it was really transformative
in my life. Bringing order to chaos is, I think, what most people are trying to achieve.
Just generally at home, you can see it in the way that people converse online. The fear that
a lot of people had around COVID, I think, was largely due to there is chaos out there and I need
to bring order to it. Some people brought order to it
by being overbearingly protective of themselves
and their loved ones.
Some people brought order to it by saying
it was the grand plan of some maligned scientist.
All of these things were a way of,
it can't just be random chance.
I must get some sort of control back from the world.
And yeah, this is what people are working with.
So I came up with an idea that kind of relates to burnout, and it was something that I reflected
on when thinking about rejuvenative practices and the ways that people try and mitigate working
too hard.
And I called it productivity purgatory.
And what it is. Iatory. And what it is.
I don't know what this is.
So it's when your rejuvenative practices fundamentally are built for improving your productivity
as opposed to the pure enjoyment of them. So you go on a walk during the middle of the
day, not so that you can spend time in nature and enjoy it,
but because you once heard Andrew Huberman say
that 15 minutes walk per day improves the dopamine release
which can help you with your focus.
You're not going and playing ultimate frisbee
on an afternoon because it's actually something
that you fundamentally enjoy, even if you do enjoy it,
but the reason that you tell yourself
that you're gonna do it if you do enjoy it, but the reason that you tell yourself that you're going to do it
is because people in blue zones
that live to be super centarians
are exposed themselves to a minimum of 115 minutes per day
of vitamin D through direct sunlight.
Like all of these different things
that basically even your leisure activities
become a productivity activity, right?
And that's why the productivity
purgatory comes from that you can basically never leave it.
It's permanently on this ambient sense
that everything that I do should be in service
of me being more productive, of me being more focused,
of me being more attentive.
And I think it's a fundamental challenge
because there are many people out there who want to improve, who want
to commit themselves and give everything that they can to improving, but I think that
it mistakenly looks at what improving consists of.
And one of my friends, George, who's a fantastic writer, talked to me about this and said,
very rarely do people look at a problem and think anything
except for I wasn't focused enough, I wasn't sufficiently attentive, I was too distracted,
I need to be more productive.
The only button that you have to push is more productivity, more productivity.
Where is, yeah.
Whereas in reality, a lot of the highest leverage things that you can do are creative pursuits.
The idea that you have that 10Xs or 100Xs, whatever the issue is that you're coming up against,
sometimes comes out from putting your nose against the grindstone, but a lot of the time it happens in the shower.
It happens when you're trying to fall asleep on a night time.
It happens when you're finally on a walk and your phone's died.
It happens when you're on a plane and the Wi-Fi's out. So I think if we were to remind ourselves that there are productivity
problems and there are creativity problems and the environment and the mindset that you need to be
in for productivity is one and the environment and the mindset that you need to be in for creativity
is another. And outside of both of those things is life. And life is not necessarily something that feeds into either of them and yet it can.
Right?
I think the best way to avoid the productivity perghtry, at least, that I've found is to
do things that are so enjoyable that they make you forget that you're supposed to be
being productive.
So for me, pickleball is a perfect example of this.
When I'm playing pickleball, An atomic bomb could go off,
where I could find out that Russia's invaded.
I'm finishing this point before we stop
and go and do something
because I'm so intensely focused on it.
I'm not doing it because I think I'm gonna get jacked.
I'm not doing it because Andrew Cuban told me
that it's gonna improve my focus.
I'm doing it because I fundamentally enjoy
what it consists of.
And for other people, it might be bird watching
or watercolors or whatever,
sex parties. I don't know. All of these things contribute to you living a life outside of your
productivity. And then when you come back to it, you tend to have more energy. But yeah, productivity,
purgatory. And this is the opposite of something called the dark playground, which is a Tim urban
concept. Have you heard of this? I have not. This is awesome. So the Dark Playground is a place every procrastinator knows well.
It's a place where leisure activities happen at times
when leisure activities are not supposed to be happening.
The fun you have in the Dark Playground isn't actually fun
because it's completely unernd and the air is filled with guilt,
anxiety, self-hatred and dread.
Sometimes the rational decision maker puts his foot down
and refuses to let you waste time doing normal leisure things, and since the instant gratification monkey sure
as hell isn't going to let you work, you find yourself in a bizarre purgatory of weird
activities where everyone loses. So, dark playground is doing leisure when you shouldn't
be, and productivity purgatory is doing productivity when you shouldn't be. So, we have two ends
of the same spectrum.
I absolutely love this.
I thank so much for introducing these concepts to me anyway,
because I think they're fabulous.
And I love that you mentioned Cupiderman,
because he's fantastic, and he's got a great podcast,
and he shares so much wisdom.
But that resonated with me so much,
because I am a natural optimizer.
And a lot of people who are into productivity who want to be more productive or natural
optimizers as well.
And that's really what you were talking about, right?
I am going to go on my walk to optimize my productivity.
I am going to build a meditation habit so that I will be so friggin focused and optimize
my productivity.
And I think a lot of the times that there's many problems with that. But one
problem with that is the definition of productivity because I think, you know, this is why in some
of my courses I ask people to do this exercise. What does it mean to you to be productive
with this people like, well, I want to make sure that I get all my tasks done, you know,
inbox zero and all that kind of stuff. And I'm like, those are not the things that make
you happy. Okay. My definition of productivity is, are you reaching your goals in life?
Are you achieving your goals?
So what is it that you actually give a shit about?
And how quickly are you getting there?
How's not that quickly, but how consistently
are you making progress towards those goals, okay?
And so when you think of it that way,
you're not gonna go on a walk to be more productive
and somehow unless there is a very good reason.
So if your biggest passion in life is like, I want the world to lower its carbon emissions
as fast as possible.
It's the thing I care the most about.
That's my mission in life.
That drives me to, so it makes me happy, you know, that's how I want to add value to
the world.
If that's all you do all day and you make yourself go in a walk so that you can sustain
that work longer. Now
I think actually that wouldn't be what you call the productivity purgatory, right? It's
just like it's in service of the mission that you have. But if you are doing a shitty
corporate job that you really don't care about, what was this guy who wrote this book called
Bullshit Jobs? I think that's fantastic. If you have a bullshit job, you don't care about it,
and you're close to burnout, and you're starting to make yourself go on walks just to calm
down so you don't burn out. Now you're doing the thing that you're describing, which I think
is really, really bad. I wouldn't say that it's always bad to go on your walk or do what
Hubertman recommends or whatever, right? But there's got to be a purpose to it. If you're
purpose for doing that is I want to, you know,
be able to spend more time on the thing that I don't really care about,
then you're doing it wrong.
And yes.
Yeah.
It's, um, it really all just does come back to goals.
Like everything just comes back to, if everything comes back to,
what is it that you want to do?
Why do you want to do it and how are you going to do it?
Like that's just everything all the way down. I mean, one of the other
one of the other horsemen of the productivity apocalypse, I think is email and this is something that I've really really been struggling with this year, particularly
not that I haven't before, but this is like
even more give me give me some words of wisdom
around
email and dealing with it and either
apps or tactics or whatever. A lot of people deal with email. The thing that I always start
with is expectations management and teaching people that you are not going to reply to emails
within whatever 10 minutes, half an hour. This might sound ridiculous, but a lot of people
that I talk to that work in corporate environments,
they are literally expected to answer their email
like within like half an hour and if they don't,
it's weird.
You've just got to teach people that you're not gonna do it.
This was what I did.
This was what I did when I worked in a corporate environment
is I just, you know, refused to answer emails
that quickly a lot of the time
and people at some point start to respect that.
So that's before we get to any tactical stuff stuff like what app should you use or how often should
you check your email. It's just like try to stem the flow and try to change people's expectations
that you're not going to do this. Now beyond that I'm a real big fan of batch processing. So yeah,
I check my email a fair amount throughout the day, but I don't really reply to email all that
often. You know what I'm saying? So I'll check it because I want to make sure that this thing came in that I'm waiting
for, et cetera.
But I have some time where I sit down and I'm like tomorrow, I'm just going to bash process
like these 40 emails that need dealing with or something like that.
And maybe that doesn't take that much time.
Maybe it takes a little bit more time.
That's okay.
But I try to bag it out that way rather than, you know, 10 times throughout the day answering
this email, answering that email because that completely destroys my focus.
I find that a lot of people are doing that.
It's worse when people are working in Microsoft Teams or Slack and they're on these chat
apps all the time while they're trying to work.
It's like, now it's not even a couple of times a day.
It's just the entire time you're getting interrupted.
There also, you just have to teach people.
You are not going to reply all the time. If you're in a corporate environment where people don't respect that, you're getting interrupted. And there also you just have to teach people like you are not going to reply all the time. And if you're in a corporate environment where
people don't respect that, I mean, you got to have a conversation with people who are
managing you or your boss and be like, what, what, what is it that you want me to do here?
Like what is my job description? And what are the, what is the value that I'm meant to
add? Have a real frank conversation.
Yeah. Am I, am I employed as an email replyer? Yeah.
I'm employed to actually do some task outside of this.
Is it France that's just brought in that law
that says businesses can't expect their employees
to answer emails outside of...
I think that's right, I'm pretty as well.
Can you tell you more something?
Yeah, I don't even think they have access.
I think it's something like unless workers are in the office, they can't even take they have access. I think it's something like, like, unless workers
are in the office, they can't even take their phones home with them or something. They've
even structurally integrated or implemented this.
Yeah, I think that's quite an extreme way of doing this, but I think in turn, you know,
I think people need to take responsibility for this themselves, right? I think you need to go
talk to the people that you're working with and just have a conversation and be like, listen,
I cannot be on top of my inbox all day because I need to focus on this stuff.
Like this is, you know, the real things that add value in our company, the way that we
serve people in our company require me to focus on stuff.
And I can't do that if I'm on top of my email inbox all day.
And if the people that you're working with don't respect this, you just need to go work
somewhere else.
That's where I tell people like at some point, if changing the culture is too hard, just
go somewhere else where you can do that.
Because otherwise you're just signing up to a life of,
you know, what are you doing?
You're just answering email all day,
and barely getting anything done.
Is there a way?
Is there a way?
Yeah, right.
Okay, so let's say that we've set expectations.
People don't expect us to reply within 30 minutes.
We also understand that batching is good,
so that we're not distracted.
Yeah.
As Carl Newport says,
fracturing the world into slivers of thin, that nothing meaningful could get done.
We're not doing that.
We've got it into these nice little blocks
of maybe an hour or 30 minutes or whatever during periods.
What about tactical stuff apps or integrations
that you like?
I am always telling people triage.
So what happens is you got a bunch of new emails
on red emails triage them.
So there's a couple of things, right? It's either this email you don't need to do anything with it.
Okay, great. You know, if you can unsubscribe, good. So you don't get more of those emails next time.
Or there's an email that you do need to do something with. Now it can be quick or fast. Quick,
let's say two minutes or less, right? So if there's an email that takes you two minutes or less time,
just flag it, right? And then when you're doing your batch processing, go through all your flag emails, handle them on flag. Don't you
can do this in Gmail, you can do this in whatever mail app you're using, right? Any mail
app supports flag on Gmail. Is that the star? It's the star. It's the star on Gmail for
sure. Yep. Okay. Yep. Emails that take a little bit more time to deal with. Now I recommend
creating it to do for them in your to do list list. Hey, everyone should be using a to-do list. If you're not, then that's
where you want to start. Make sure that you set up an app to work on your to-do list.
Create it to do for those emails. So a lot of the times what people will do is sort of people
have just discovered the magic of to-do lists, right? Over like a certain app. They'll start
forwarding every single email that they ever need to do something with to there to do app.
And now what happens is now their to-do app has like, you know, 60 tasks in it.
They're all emails that will take one minute to reply to.
And I'm like, that's not a good use of your time, man.
Just like batch process, though.
However, if it's something that is going to take a little bit of time, you know, if you
need to like write a report or whatever, if you need to do something, forward that email
to your to-do list app.
A lot of apps will let you forward your email to the app and that creates it to do that attaches
the email text or whatever given an appropriate title.
And you know, at some point you get around to doing the thing, go back to the email, reply
and handle it and so on.
So that's the triaging system that's super important.
And that's how I would work with that in your email app.
A lot of to do list apps will have like, let's say a Gmail integration. For example, one app that I've been using recently
is called To Do Is and has a very nice Gmail integration. So if you're looking at an email,
you can be like, boop, create a task for this inside my to-do list that links back to the email.
I love that. Super handy. So there's a lot of tactical stuff that you can do right there.
That, that actually also, I know I keep going back to the messaging apps, but that works
also for Slack and Teams. So if you're using Slack or Microsoft Teams to
communicate, you can turn a message into it to do really handy. So I want to make
sure you don't overdo it. So you don't have like I said, like 60 really little
tasks in there. You got to find that nice balance of creating to do is for the
things that you need to do, but not going crazy with all the little stuff
because then you won't see the forest
or the trees and everything.
What about email apps, like superhuman and other stuff?
I haven't used it, but everyone that I speak to
that's part of some very expensive company
seems to use that.
And I know that there are other solutions too.
Is there anything tactically when it comes
to email integration or email apps themselves
that you like?
I really don't think that you need to be paying a lot
of money to use a fancy email app.
I mean, I know that there's a lot of apps these days
that the ones that I have to laugh at the most
is the ones that promise that AI is gonna answer
all your emails for you, which I'm always like,
maybe.
I'm down for that.
Maybe.
I want to be made redundant.
And then eventually, AI can record the podcast
and I can just throw myself off a cliff.
That would, yeah, yeah, I thought you were going to say like sit on the beach or something, but that took a turn.
No, but you know, here's the thing, like, some people get really wild amounts of email.
You know what I'm saying? So personally, I get a day, I don't know, a couple of dozen emails or something like that, but some people get like hundreds and hundreds of emails.
So I understand that if that's the case, then you might need to have a more advanced
way of like dealing with stuff.
But I don't think that these expensive apps are really going to help you with that.
What you really need to do is like I said, just have a triaging system, sit down at set
times, triage your email, unsubscribe from as much stuff as possible that you don't need,
set up some filters if you need to,, so you're mostly seeing the relevant stuff.
I know people who at work,
if it's an email that they're sort of CCed on,
automatically chuck it in a folder that they never look at,
because those things are never relevant, you know?
Unless it's directed at me.
Exactly.
Away you go.
If that's the environment you're working,
you gotta do that, that works.
But yeah, it's really not about the app, it's more about having the system around it,
where you have a way of making sure nothing slips through the crack.
So each email that comes in, I decide what to do with it, either I need to do nothing,
it's a short task, best process later, it's a long task I created to do for it.
If you do that consistently, unless you're getting absolutely wild amounts of email,
that should work pretty well for you. And if you're getting wild amounts of email, that should work pretty well for you.
And if you're getting wild amounts of email,
hey, you probably just need to pay someone
to manage your inbox for you, right?
You have no idea.
Now I have an EA or PA or VA or something.
Yeah, dude, I do appreciate that
with the email approach that it's the same with note taking
for me, so I'm looking at my Apple notes now,
2,659 notes.
And I use them for prep for guests.
I use Apple notes for everything.
And it's so funny that after an entire lifetime of,
is it ever note?
Is it notion?
Is it going to be some fancy if this then that link in
with SMS and all the rest of it?
And it was staring us in the face the whole time. the ultimate note taking app was embedded in all of your Apple
devices all along.
And with that, like, the simplest way that I found, I know that I could be smarter, I
know that I could use smart tags, I know that I could nest things within the correct folders
and all of the rest of it.
But I have an awful lot of information, I rely on my notes for work for the thing
that I'm the most passionate about. And I find it absolutely fine with basically no
system because anything that I'm trying to find, because it has a very strong global
search, I just type the thing that I'm trying to find in. And by design, it's got it written
in it because it's a written note-taking app. Anything that I want to find from any guest over 650 episodes of this podcast is available in that.
And all that I need to do is think of two key words that are unique to that one particular episode, and it'll come up.
Yep.
And it's so funny that you mentioned this, have you seen the meme about Apple notes where like the dumbest guy?
It's the midwit meme, isn't it?
It's the what?
It's called a midwit meme, where you've got like the dumb guy
and the sage, both using Apple notes.
And the guy in the middle who's got like obsidian and notion
and I have the idea.
I love that meme.
It's one of my favorite memes.
Because it's so true.
I get a lot of people asking me, Peter,
what do you think about these link note-taking apps?
I have Obsidian and then I can create like my own Wiki
and I can connect concepts to each other.
I can build my second brain and like, no, by the way,
I mentioned building a second brain.
No offense to Thiago Forte.
I think he eats people.
A lot of excellent stuff.
Fantastic.
I just personally find that my first brain is pretty solid
and my first brain plus a really simple note-taking app
is like perfectly sufficient for me.
And it's yoga stuff.
The yoga stuff is it's built for a very specific type of person with a very specific
type of problem.
And he's the best in the world.
He's the best in the world at what he does for those sorts of people.
But I tried and I'm an optimizer, maybe an unorganized optimizer or an unoptimized optimizer.
But like I've tried to do it.
It just, it doesn't work for me.
I can't, it's the same reason why my weekly review for GTD didn't work.
It's the same reason why I'm not an intrinsically motivated
when it comes to task management sort of person.
And what I really like about generally the format
that you've gone through today is that it is not a one-size-fits-all.
It's not that there are morally better or superior ways to do productivity.
You know, I used to think that another people may feel this too, that it was almost like a personal failing of mine.
Yes, it's not.
No, I felt like I should be better, whatever better meant.
I should be like more or more virtuous, disciplined, moral,
motivated, whatever, right?
And I would feel bad, I'd be like, oh, I'm not an inbox zero,
or my external brain isn't sufficiently organized.
Oh, I didn't do my weekly review.
And after a little bit of time, you need to give it a crack and see if it's going to work
for you.
And there are times where you need to push through discomfort, but there are multiple
ways to achieve the same outcome.
And for me, now working with a team that at least can help to be on calls with me, can
be like, look, I want to go through my emails, jump on a call and we can go through them
together. Like, that makes it, that makes doing emails fun.
Almost, not fun, but it makes it less shit.
Barable?
Yeah, makes it bearable, yeah, precisely.
And the same thing goes for the tasks too.
Like, I could have fought and fought and fought and fought.
Here's one thing, I don't even know if I've heard you talk
about this, but here's one thing that I love
to use Apple Notes for, which I think is really cool.
So I write this newsletter every single week. you talk about this, but here's one thing that I love to use Apple Notes for, which I think is really cool.
So I write this newsletter every single week.
This newsletter requires a very specific first headspace, and second arrangement of information
for me to create the newsletter.
The newsletter is derived from things that I've found throughout the week. And what I use in Apple Notes is I just have a folder
that has all of the different elements
of each newsletter that I need to do,
plus every past edition of the newsletter.
And when I click on that and I fullscreen my notes out,
I'm in a workspace that has everything that I need
and nothing that I don't need and nothing else.
And I love using that to almost move me that has everything that I need and nothing that I don't need and nothing else.
And I love using that to almost move me into different modes of thinking.
So I'm like, right, I'm in newsletter writing mode, so I press the newsletter thing
and I have all of the notes I've taken down into the memes and the interesting studies that I've found
and I'm like, right, well, what am I going to write about today?
And I'll help Peruz through, Peruz through, oh, that's cool. I'm going to write about that. That resonates with me this morning on a Saturday or whatever when I'm writing, right, what am I going to write about today? And I'll have Peru's through, Peru's through, oh, that's cool.
I'm going to write about that.
That resonates with me this morning on a Saturday or whatever
when I'm writing my news.
I'd throw it in.
There's the format.
What did I write about last week?
I don't want to write about two things
that are too similar, two weeks in a row.
And it's done.
And I just keep on building it.
So I love the idea of using a note-taking app
and then the folders within it as workspace designers
that you put you into
a state of mind and also gives you the information that you need to move forward.
Yeah, you found a minimum viable system to do this for you and it didn't require a really
elaborate method or the most sophisticated note-taking app and that's all right.
And I so appreciate that you that you emphasize that point that, hey, this
is working for you and that people shouldn't feel guilty about it because just to get back
to a second, to, to Teago Fortes build a second brain, right, which is sort of the premier
note taking method out there. Like you said, it works for a very specific people. And I
sometimes work with people like that. I always say, if you're a researcher, right? If
your job is like you're an academic researcher,
you're reading tons of papers all the time,
you need to take notes on them,
you're gonna refer to them in your newest publication,
and you know, you have lots of ideas,
spin-offs that you need to keep track of and stuff.
A system like that probably makes a ton of sense,
because you just have so much information
that you need to organize in a specific way.
But, you know, going back to the,
my favorite student
who runs a company where he roasts coffee beans,
he doesn't need a system like that.
He's not working with that much information, right?
He's working with like, hey, which permit do I still have
to apply for so I can go to sell coffee in this town
on Saturday?
You know what I'm saying?
It's a very different kind of thing
and it requires a different kind of system.
And it requires experimentation, as you said, try something out.
There might be some discomfort.
I'm on board with everything that you said completely true.
But it's going to look different than the really elaborate knowledge management system,
something like that.
And so I really want people to, you know, if they're going to take one thing away, this
thing that you and I have both harped on, which is, hey, it's not you.
Figure out a system that works for you,
and I would add to that, keep it as simple as you can
for it to do the job that you needed to do.
So that might be Apple notes that works really well.
It works really well for me as well.
It has just enough features for a lot of people,
if you're not using Apple devices,
maybe it's gonna be a different app for you.
That doesn't matter. Keep it as simple as you possibly can
while keeping it functional
because you got to keep the end goal in mind.
In the end, the goal is not to have your notes
be as organized as possible.
The goal for you, Chris, is like,
I want to have a bang and podcast, right?
And so if it helps you produce great podcasts,
that it's great.
And even if the system is a little bit messy,
it doesn't matter if the podcasts are good, right?
So you got to optimize for the right thing.
I guess what I'm saying here.
Hell yeah, I love it.
Let's bring this one home, Peter.
I really appreciate you.
I'm a massive fan of your work.
I'm really, really glad that you came today.
Where should people go?
Would they want to learn from you?
Would they want to see the content that you've got?
Where should they head?
Yeah, for sure.
Two places, one of them is YouTube.
Just search Peter Ockie's, my name on YouTube,
and people can check that stuff out. It's a great introduction to my work. I have. One of them is YouTube. Just search Peter Ockie's, my name on YouTube, and people can check that stuff out.
It's a great introduction to my work.
I have a lot of tutorials on there.
Tech tutorials like how to get the most out of Apple notes, for example.
But also introduce you to some other apps that you can use to get more organized.
I also prepared a little guide.
It's called How to Organize Your To-Dose in 30 minutes.
So if you're someone who's thinking, you know what?
I feel really inspired right now.
I want to get on top of my to-do's, but I don't want to take hours to do it. I can
dance it down to the shortest format that I could. So people can just go ahead and find
that it's over at OrganizeYourToDoos.com. So that's a simple one. OrganizeYourToDoos.com
and it'll just take you 30 minutes.
Amazing. Peter, I appreciate you. Thank you.
Thanks so much.