Morbid - Episode 162: The Gruesome Murder of Brenda Sue Schaefer Part 1

Episode Date: August 9, 2020

The first of two parts in the Brenda Sue Schaefer murder case. Brenda was a modest, hard working woman just looking for the right man to fall in love and enjoy life with. Unfortunately she met Mel Ignato instead. This installment we’re getting Ashcentric with it and talking about who Brenda was, what her first relationships were like and what the events were leading up to her disappearance. Of course we gotta leave you on a cliffhanger, but feel free to head to a chilli restaurant while you wait for part two! See you next week.  Double Jeopardy: Obsession, Murder and Justice Denied by Bob Hill https://www.amazon.com/Double-Jeopardy-Obsession-Murder-Justice/dp/0688129102 Thank you to our sponsors,  Athena Club: Stop using razors that underdeliver and switch to Athena Club!  Sign up today and you’ll get 15% off your first order! Just go to Athena Club.com and use promo code morbid. PlushCare: Start your membership today! Go to PlushCare.com/morbid to start your FREE 30-day trial. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Well, let's just go right into it, I feel. Let's do this. OK, so this week I'm going to be talking about the murder of Brenda Schaefer. I know this one. So OK, I don't even know where I found this. I think I was just, it might have been in our suggestions or it might have just been like looking for a case to cover.

Our suggestions are like a gold mine. I don't know if it was, I don't remember. They drew it. Because I've been working on this now for weeks because I got wicked invested. Ooh, I love that. I love when you get invested. Well, the issue is that I feel like there's like nothing online

about this case. I found like maybe two articles other than like like a pdf and I can't look there. Because I think I've only heard this case maybe, I mean, I've only heard like one podcast about it and I remember being like, whoa. Yeah, it's crazy. There's like an American, remember that show,

American Justice? Oh yes, I do. I'm so good. There's, I know there's an episode on it, but I couldn't find it anywhere. So I was like, well, I had to go, I have what I can go with. So I bought me a book. Oh, look at you. I know, I pulled episode on it, but I couldn't find it anywhere. So I was like, well, I had to go, I go with what I can go with. So I bought me a book.

Oh, look at you. I know, I pulled you. Look at you. And this book, this is basically where I got all of my information. So all the credit, all the citing to Bob Hill, who wrote the book, Double Jeopardy. Nice. So.

Good job, Bob. Bob, you killed it. I'm loving your book. So the, oh, and by the way, this is gonna be a two-pada. A two-pada, you say? Two-pada for the party. I probably should have made mine a two-pada, but you know, probably.

Whatever. That's okay. Hope you have a long commute to nowhere. Exactly. To your couch. To your backyard. Yeah, very perfect. All right, well, let's dive in.

So Brenda Schaefer grew up in the St. Matthews area of Kentucky. It's like pretty close to Louisiana. Okay, okay. No, I'm not Louisiana. Louisville is what I'm gonna say. I literally just gonna be like, wait a second. You know, Louisiana and Kentucky are pretty close. They're bros.

I met Louisville. Okay, so anyways, bye. She came, I don't know if you saw my eyes glaze over. I was like, I didn't even. Picture a map in my head on the floor. My head was just like, no, anyways, bye. She came, I don't know if you saw my eyes glaze over. I was like, I didn't even. Pictureing a map in my head on my face. My head was just like, no, no, no. You didn't even write that down. I just say that.

You fixed it. So she came from a big German Catholic family, and she was the youngest of six children. Wow. Lots of kids. Busy. So her parents were Mary Essie and John W. Schaefer. And they had gotten married in 1937. Look at them. A long, long time ago.

And Mary Essie, she went just by Essie, because all the girls in her family were named Mary after mother Mary. Oh my god, I thought it was kind of funny. Wow. So we'll just call her Essie from now on. That's cute. Such a cute name.

Great now, Paul. She too. It's true, it is. So Mary, Essie, and on. That's cute. Such cute name. Great nail polish too. It's true it is. So Mary, Essie, and John decided they were ready for their first child, and they decided actually to foster a child first, and her name was Mary Ann. So they took her in when she was nine years old,

and then they were like, cool, I'd have like so many more of these. That's so cute doing that. So they went, well, let's keep it going. Keep it going. And they were like great parents. Oh. So they keep doing this. Well, let's keep it going. Keep it going. And they were like great parents. So they had Carolyn, they had John Jr., who they called Jack, Tom, Mike, and then lastly Brenda.

And Brenda was born in 1952. OK. So all throughout childhood and her whole life, Brenda was like really, really close to Essie, because the child that Essie was pregnant with before she had Brenda died while the baby was still in the womb. Oh, she miscarried. She miscarried, but I don't know if it was just because it was back then.

I think it was a culmination of a combination of being back then and also they were of Catholic faith. So they didn't believe in abortion, like abortion, even though technically it like the baby already died so she had to carry it to term and give birth to a stillborn. Which was obviously a very traumatic experience for her. That's so tough. I can't imagine that. No, anybody, I mean if any of our listeners have ever had like a miscarriage or knows what that feels like, it's like I can't imagine having to to deliver like not having a choice of how to go about exactly just moving forward, you know. It's so sad. So she had to give birth to the baby and

obviously that's insanely traumatic experience. So she was really depressed afterwards and then she got pregnant with Brenda and Brenda was like her rainbow baby. I was just gonna say it's a rainbow baby. So all throughout, like ever since Brenda was born, literally through her whole life, her and S.E. were best, best friends. Like super, super close. So special about your rainbow baby.

There is. Yeah, the girls are my rainbow babies. I was gonna say, I was gonna say, I was gonna say, you have two of them, but I didn't know if you wanted me to. Brenda, like everyone was like, she was so beautiful. Like, if you, and you look at pictures of her and you're like, girl, like you're gorgeous.

You're doing it. She had like medium dark brown hair that was always styled. She always dressed nicely. And she was quiet and shy, but if you were close to her, she, like you thought she was super funny. Yeah, and like you knew who she was. You knew she was. Exactly. And people loved her. Like anybody that was super funny. Yeah, and you knew who she was. You knew who she was, exactly.

And people loved her. Like anybody that was close to her was, like everybody that was friends with her was close friends with her, it seemed. Like she wasn't one of those people that had just like a coin, so it was like you were her friend. Right.

And like if she was letting you in, she was letting you in. Love that. And so one of her friends from high school said, quote, of our whole group, Brenda was always the best person. She was afraid to do anything really daring. Oh.

So she was just kind of like, I'm going to do what I do. And like she played it safe. I'm not a wild child. I am who I am. So she wasn't you. Yeah. Not at all. So when she was in high school, her father

bought the family like a small vacation spot. It was like a little summer camp area on Harold's Creek along the Ohio River. The vacation spot was like 25, 30 minutes away from their house, but they loved to go there all summer and like even like when it wasn't summer time, it was like their little spot. And runnin' her friends would like lay out sun tanning together and talking about life. It was the 70s, like, about their listening to like really good music. Like, just love peace love, peace love happiness, all of the above. And boys obviously, and of course, that good teenage stuff. Yeah, you

know, there was, there was, I don't know if Sunn was a thing back then, but I feel like it was. If it wasn't, you know, they were squirting on the juice in their hair. Something to get streaks in their hair. Ruined in their dye jobs. Don't put lemon in your hair. But the summer she turned 16, she caught the eye of Charles Pete Van Pelt who was 19, so he was three years older.

All right. And like I said, Brenda was one of those girls who was like absolutely stunning, but she didn't realize it. And she was like her own worst critic. Like she thought that she was fat, which she was not by any stretch of the imagination. Of course not. She thought like her makeup was wrong

and everybody was like, no, like you're perfect. Oh, that's so sad that she like, she was just insecure things about herself. Yeah, but Pete was like, yo, I think you are gorgeous. I love you. Like he was like super into Brenda. And they hit it off right away. He was the first boy she really fell in love with.

So he went by Pete. There's like so many people in this story where it's like their first name, but they go by their second name. I was gonna say, because I was like, wait, what's his name? There's a lot of that. His name is Charles Pete Van Pelt,

but we're gonna call him Pete. What a name. I know. That is a name. Van Pelt. You know, I love a Van name. Van name. I know. That is a name. Van Pelt. You know, I love a Van name. Van anything is just fun. It's true.

Wasn't that your drag name? Was it gonna be like Van something? Yeah, I forget what it was. I need to listen to that episode. We gotta ask John and Tyler. From that spooky, Gilles and that spooky. Gilles and that spooky. So Pete, you know, went by Pete.

He was a police dispatcher in Louisville, and he wanted to be a policeman someday. And that was what Brenda's older brother Jack did. He was a police officer, a police detective. So Brenda dated Pete through the rest of high school. I think they met like right at the, probably like she was going into her junior year and they dated junior year and senior year.

And they decided to get married. So they got engaged during her senior year. Whoa, which I was like, well, but then if you have a days in my right, I was going to say think of the time and it's like, that makes sense. Yeah. They planned to get married a few months after graduation, which was going to be in 1971. But in May of that year, Brenda's brother, Jack, was actually killed while he was on duty. And it was like a very like insane murder. His poor family. I know him and his partner were killed. But I think I don't, I think it was like a gang

or something like that. And they he was shot something like five times in the chest in the head and just left in an alleyway. And actually Pete, Brenda's boyfriend was like, I said a dispatcher, so he was one of the people that had to go tell Essie. There was like a group of people that went to tell her and she fainted when they told her.

Oh, that's so sad. So they, so obviously the family was like super affected by that and they put the wedding off. Yeah, I don't blame them. Actually, while Jack was still alive, he asked Brenda not to marry Pete just to wait longer because he was like, you guys are so young. Like, don't get married right now.

Live your life. Like, at least someone was saying that. I know. And that's what he really wanted. But the wedding, like it was postponed, but then when everything kind of got back together again, by the end of 1971 in December, they went through the, with the plan of 1971 in December. They went through the

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Yeah. I was like, not very good with money, but I was 20. No? No, not at all. And he wanted like a very old fashion kind of relationship, like the one that Brenda and Brenda's mom and dad had. Like he was like, I wanna call the shots, I wanna spend the money.

And she was like, I don't wanna have to discuss with you when I spend money kind of thing. Exactly. And she was like was like, I don't know. I don't want to have to discuss with you when I spend money kind of thing. Exactly. And she was like, okay, I don't like that. She's like, hi, I'm gonna be a team. And he wasn't necessarily a drunk, but when he did drink and they got into it with each other, he would be like very violent and yell and punch walls.

I couldn't find anything that said he was ever violent toward Brenda, but he was violent around Brenda. Which is scary. Yeah, that's still not okay. And if he's yelling and stuff, it's like that's verbally abusive. Yeah, it was an abusive relationship for sure.

So according to Pete, Brenda didn't like to be intimate that often, and that was another thing that kind of contributed to there, which not that often is probably like a pretty normal amount, and he was probably one of those like, he might have been, but this is like a running theme that we're gonna see, and I'll get a little more into it later. That's interesting. Yeah, it is. And I, there's nothing, I'll get into it later, but so he said that she didn't want to be intimate other than just like cuddling and kissing, and but Brenda was, she never talked about sex with

her friends that often. Like she didn't like to get changed in front of people. Like she was just a very private person. Very modest. Super, super modest. Yeah, some people are just like that. That's just, that's how she was. Yeah, that's just who she was.

So, but obviously Pete, it wasn't a fan of that. He's like, I thought when we were gonna get married, we were gonna be like, doing it all the time. We're gonna be bunnies. And I was gonna spend the money and it was gonna be great. He had this spend money and have sex. I thought that's what marriage was. Is that not what we signed up for?

I'm sorry, was that not our vote? He's like, I said I do. And it's like, you should have put it in the vows if you wanted that part of it. Exactly. And you didn't. So they're fighting all the time. The money problems are coming up.

He's spending like a ton of money. At one point, Brenda's family was keeping track of all the things he was spending money on and it ended up being like a ton of money. What was he spending it on? Just like damn shit like cars and like furniture that they didn't need. Just like stuff that he just wanted.

Yeah, and I think he was probably just excited to be married and have his own place and was just like buying a ton of stuff. Being irresponsible. He was just being 20. You know, you know. Yeah, so they wanted to get divorced because things were like getting worse and worse, but Brenda was really struggling with that decision because again, she was Catholic. Yeah. And her Catholic guilt, man. I know. And her family was like very against divorce because they were all practicing Catholics Yeah, it was just not and also it was the 70s like yeah It was not a thing that happened very often especially with like the woman

To being the one to decide to get divorced. It's like it's a lot of factors working against it being an easy decision Yeah, but eventually she did come to the decision that like she wasn't doing this anymore, and their marriage ended and divorced, and it only lasted four years. Wow. So it was a very short marriage. Short and tumultuous. Very tumultuous and very expensive. Yeah, apparently.

Yeah, so she moved home, even though her dad was like super against it. He literally was like, Brenda made her bed, now she can lie in it. Oh. But they got over it eventually. It's just like who he was. Yeah. He was just kind of like didn't like a picture just like the dad and like TV shows that just doesn't say much. And he's just like mm-hmm. Like yeah. That's it is what it is. Yeah. And again, another time. Right. But obviously as he was like super happy to have Brenda back because that was her girl. Like she loves her. Brenda dated here and there after the divorce, but she was pretty put off for a little while

because remember, that marriage was not just shitty in a financial way, it was shitty in a violent way. Yeah, absolutely. You wouldn't trust someone. And she definitely had trust issues after that. But after a while, she did meet this guy named Jim Rush. He was a dentist and they met at TGI Fridays. Oh my goodness.

Which is literally one of my favorite restaurants in the entire world. And I was just like, be cute up there. I'm like, I wish that I met Annie at TGI Fridays. I didn't pretend. We met outside of a Forever 21, so it's just as good. I was gonna say that's a bow down par, so. It truly is.

But they really hit it off and they began seeing each other all the time like taking vacations together they would go take vacations with Brenda's family and Brenda's family was like we love Jim wow Jim getting it Jim was getting it and listen to this one time he bought Brenda a billboard like he rented a billboard. That basically was just like, I love you so much. There's not enough space to tell you how much I love you on this billboard. That dental flex up in here.

A straight up dental spoonage. Whoa. Oh, crrrr. Whoa, DDS. I love it. Damn. So they dated for eight years. Whoa.

But, you know, like, things are not always all TGI, Fridays, mashed potatoes and billboards. Love professed via billboard exactly. Also had the TGI Friday's mashed potatoes. I have, oh my God, they're pretty good. So good. So it wasn't all mashed potatoes all the time. It wasn't.

Not at all. They had their fights and it seemed like a lot of them were just because they were like very opposite people with very opposite personalities. Brenda thought that Jim drank too much and she was like embarrassed by him when he would drink. And he did agree, yeah, there were times when he drank too much, but he thought Brenda could be like hard to read, even though they had been together for a wicked long time. Yeah.

He was like, I don't know how she feels about me. Like, yeah, because she seems like she's just one of those people that even if you know her really well, you just can't crack her. Yeah. Like, do you like me? Like, how do you feel? Right, like, can you?

I feel like we've all dated somebody like that. Yeah. Like, why are you dating me? Like, they just don't express any, like, what you need. Right. They express just enough. Exactly. And that's exactly how Jim fell.

He was like, I don't know if you like me, can you tell me how you feel about me? I feel like you're a little too cold. And he also felt like she was a little too hard on him. Okay. There were also sexual issues in this relationship as well. Huh. So, it seems like Jim was having a problem with impotence.

Oh, okay. That was going on. And he said that Brenda just wasn't really interested in having sex all that often. He actually suggested when they broke up that she might have ISD, which is actually referred to now as HSDD. So it's hypo, not hyperactive, sexual desire disorder. Okay. The person affected just like isn't interested

in having sex very often, even when their partner is. So like low libido. It's literally low libido. That's like the exact same thing. According to HealthFline.com, it's different than being asexual. I didn't want anybody to get confused. Because that is defined as like the lack of sexual attraction.

Yeah. Where HSDD is not a track, like you're still attracted to the person, but you just have the desire. The act of sex. You're just not something you're into. I don't need to. So that was that. That wasn't working out. And also, so I think it's kind of like common to assume, and I, when I was reading the book,

the author said the same thing, that like maybe she was like molested or like it seems like that kind of. I was wondering if there was something with that, just because she was so, some people are just inherently modest and not really like into talking about sex with their friends or anything like that,

but I feel like sometimes that can be a factor of like why you why you so against talking about it, doing it, you know, especially when it carries into like all of your relationships. Because sometimes I mean, I guess I could see like you're just not sexually connected with one person. Yeah. But when it comes to all your relationships, it is it seems to be makes you kind of rush. Yeah. So I couldn't find anything at all, and neither could the author of Double Jeopardy, but I don't think it happened, so there's nothing to say it did.

I mean, if she might just be modest. Yeah, it's just who she was. But I was looking into it, and some of the causes of HSDD include having a partner with a controlling attitude, contempt or criticism and conflict. Oh, okay. So those were all things that seemed to be the big problems

and Brenda's marriage to Pete and all kind of issues that she was facing with Jim too. Yeah, so it might just be that she's picking the wrong dudes. The wrong dudes, yeah. That's also a common theme here. Other causes can be painful sex, feelings of rejection, hormone changes, there's like the list goes on. And of course.

So she also could have been dealing with that and just didn't want to talk about it. So nobody really knows. But I also said, Brenda was like one of those girls who didn't realize how beautiful she really was. Like she didn't feel pretty. And people think that that could have been a reason too why she was suffering from this

because that's a whole other reason why people suffer from this. Could have been like a body just more via insecurity kind of thing. Right. And I clarified like I couldn't find that she was like molested or anything like that. I also couldn't find anything to say that she was ever diagnosed with HSDD.

Okay. It was just something that Jim was like, I think you have this. Yeah. And he wanted things to work between them. He was like, I have this issue where, you know, like I can't get going. I think you have this. Yeah. And he wanted things to work between them. He was like, I have this issue where, you know, like, I can't get going. I think you have this issue. And he was like, I'm seeing a therapist for my issue.

But like, he, and then he was like, I think you have this and like kind of hinting. Maybe it would be good to talk to someone. But they're, and he wrote this all in a letter to her. And there was other things in the letter like, you're so cold. I don't know how you feel about me. And Brenda just took that and was like heartbroken. And she was like, it completely turned her off. It didn't get taken as like maybe like feedback to help the relationship.

It was like criticism probably. Yeah. And he kind of got like mad at the end of the letter and like said some other stuff that was like, okay, Jim, like, yeah, you got it. You got to calm down. You got to quit while you're ahead. Guys don't like failing rejected. No, but you does.

I was gonna say, no, just a guy does. So they tried to work things out after, but after eight years, they wanted to call it quits. Wow. Just like eight years as a long, fucking time. You're almost at a decade. I know, right? Just go, get over that hump.

Just, it's everybody gets there. The eight year rich. The eight year rich. There's one year late, right? Yeah, it's a seven year rich. That's a seven year rich. Ask Marilyn about it. I don't know. Things, I mean they ended amicably enough, but it didn't seem like moving forward. They were kind of, they didn't really talk that often.

Yeah. But it did seem like for each of them, the other was the one that got away. Uh-huh. Because we'll get into that in a little light. I don't know. But Joyce Smallwood was one of Brenda's best friends and they had like a ton in common. And Joyce had been in Brenda's shoes before. She had been in a shitty marriage and she had been in failed relationships and she's like, I know exactly how you feel, girlfriend.

Like, we need to get you out there. We need to cheer you up. And I've been dating this guy, Bob Davis. And so Bob was like a little bit older than Joyce, but he was a super nice guy. And he had this friend Mel. And she was like, I want to set you up with Mel. And Mel's last name is Ignato. Okay. So Mel Ignato. Whenever I read it, I want to say Ignatow, but that's not how you say it. That one sounds good too though. Yeah.

So Joyce suggested that Brenda meet Mel and they go on this double date with her and Bob and Brenda's like, you know what? Like, why not? Sure. Let's try this again. Let's go crazy. She's like, if it sucks, it sucks, whatever. In September of 1986, Brenda met up with Bob and Joyce and met Mel on his boat.

His boat was called motion lotion. Motion lotion. Motion lotion. Yeah, I'd split at that point. I'd be like, you know what? I'm actually good. I'm actually really good. I'm actually gonna motion to the other way. I actually feel really good about leaving right now. You know what? On second thought I had bad sushi yesterday. But she did not take that as a sign to run the other way and they hit things off and he, things went so well that Mel invited her back on the boat the next day just the two of them. Wow. And she was again like, yeah, why not? Like cool. Hop on the motion lotion. Let's get on this motion lotion and get it moving. To Brenda, I guess like Mel seemed different than the other guys that she had been involved

with in the past because he was different. He was older by 14 years. He was really well established to be honest. Like he had money. He had a job as a salesman where he traveled back and forth to Asia. He drove a Corvette. He owned this gorgeous home that was super expensive at the time. He had the boat. So he had motion lotion. He had motion lotion.

How are you gonna say no to that? That's different. And so she was like, okay, let's do this. So they're dating whatever. But she also learns that he has a lot of strange pet peeves and weird quirks. And Joyce remembered that once they were going to go on another double day on the boat and that Brenda and Mel showed up super, super late because Mel insisted that they eat dinner first. And Joyce was like, well why didn't we just eat dinner on the boat?

Yeah. Why can't we do that? And Mel was like, no, like, we'll make a mess on the boat if we dinner on the boat. Like, I'm not going to have four adults eat dinner on my boat. I'd be like, sir, are you okay? And it's like, we're like, you just said we're adults. I was going to say clean up after I thought four, you know that, right? But he did not like people eating on his boat. He did not like messes. And he thought that if they all had dinner on the boat, it was going to be sure to leave a mess. Of course was not into that. And then what are you going to do with a mess? I mean he didn't want to clean it. That's it. You can't do anything about it. The motion lotion is now just a mess. It's a

dunked. Now it's just it's stop. We have to abandon it wherever it is. This is before we get a messy. So less we've made a mess. So save our sandwiches. Save our sandwiches from the motion lotion. So Joyce is like, okay, well, that's weird. And then she slowly started to like add up the weird things about Mal and was like, Brenda, you need to get rid of this guy. He's a weirdo and I'm gonna read about you in the paper some day.

Oh. Because things started getting like a lot more serious than just eating on the boat. Yeah, like he's letting these things out slowly, slowly. And Joyce is like, this guy's rude. He boasts about money all the time. He's like always saying how much things cost, which I think is so yucky. I was going to say that to me is a red flag for a person when they constantly talk about

how much money they have. I'm like, yeah, we're not going to get along. He also lied about being in the CIA. He would like talk about CIA missions that he had been on. Oh, and that's like, that's a real sign that he's out to lunch. Like, you need to. Right, you need to get off that ride.

And that's what Joyce said. She literally told Brenda, I'm going to read about you in the paper if you don't get rid of this guy. That makes me sad. Girl, if you're a boyfriend, if your friend's boyfriend starts talking about his CIA missions, you need to go get your girlfriend out of there.

And you know what, when your friend is telling you, like, I'm so concerned that I'm afraid I'm gonna read about you in the paper, it's SNIP SNIP. At least consider it. Give it a shot. But it was too late at this point. She was already, it's been like a couple months and she was when you're in with these people you're in. And these certain people, these certain guys, well they know how to

hook you. And Mel is this guy, too, a key. Yeah. He sounds like it. He became obsessed with Brenda. I mean, remember, the other thing is he was, he said at one point, he was like, I don't know why she was dating like an ugly guy like me, which is beautiful. He carried a picture of her in his wallet in a bathing suit and he used to like show it to people that he worked with, which would treat me.

If she had known that, I feel like she would have been, I don't know if she did or not, but she would not have liked that. Yeah. Because she's so modest. Very modest. Yeah. He constantly showed up modest. Very modest. Yeah. He constantly showed up at work with like gifts and jewelry, you know, that honeymoon phase

that they put you through. He even proposed to her after two months of dating her. Wow, that's right. He proposed like right around Christmas time. And he told Brenda that the ring cost $20,000. Jesus. Which also, I don't wanna know how much my engagement, I mean, do I wanna know?

Sure, if it's like really expensive. Don't tell me, though. I don't. Like $20,000. And that's also him. Like putting a, that's almost putting a bounty on your head kind of thing. Like it's literally being like,

you got $20,000 on your finger right now. Like that's basically him being like, put the pressure on. Like just remember what you have on your finger. It's, you know, look what I did for you. It's control. Exactly. And so, Luka, I mean, luckily, I don't know what Brenda was thinking, but the right thing because she was like, no, it's like, it's too early.

Wow, good for her. And I kind of wonder if she was like, I can still get out of this if I don't engage him. Yeah. But he asked again and kept showering her with gifts and he would call every weeknight at like a certain time. He would call her on the weeknights between 10 and 11 so that she couldn't go out because she had to be home to take his calls. Okay, huh. That's bad. That's bad.

So bad. He would make dates with her on the weekend. So like all of her time was devoted to Mal, exactly. And all of her friends started to catch on and her family started to catch on. They, the family hated Mal. Like they were like, I don't like this guy. Something's off. But like I said, it didn't matter because he proposed again.

And he proposed on Valentine's Day, 1987. And this time Brenda said yes. Because she's like, all right, third time's a charm, I suppose. Second. Oh, I thought it was three. I said, I think I said it first, but I didn't mean to say.

Okay. So Mel started calling even more now. He would call two to three times at work during the day. He would still do his 10 and 11 calls, and he was still taking her out on the weekends. So now at work, she was talking to him and she worked as a nurse's aide. Oh wow.

She didn't have time to be taking these phone calls. She wasn't at a desk much. She's like, I'm kind of actually busy. I'm kind of saving lives. After he started the calls and everything, then he wanted to know about her finances. And even though Brenda didn't know a lot about his finances, but it seemed like he was doing pretty well. Well, it's also like, guys, you're going to get married.

I maybe share that information with each other. Well, he was willing to get all of her information, but not willing to share his. You've got to give me yours. I'll let you know why he didn't want to share his. I'm shocked to that. It's something shady. I bet. Oh, it's real shady. But more shady stuff that he did, he made her ensure all of her jewelry.

He pressured her to buy a condo as like an investment, even though she wasn't going to live in the condo because she was still living at home because at this point, her mom Essie had lupus. And like she was a nurse's aide. So she lived at home and took care of Essie. Oh man. It was like, she was just like such a little thing.

It's gonna save her. So he made her buy this condo that she's not gonna live in. And he starts like getting really, really pissed off about very, very small things. And when I say small things, I'm talking like, how she ripped toilet paper. Whoa. Like if she didn't rip the toilet paper

on the preferated line, he would lose his shit. If the faucet handles like on the sink weren't lined up where he liked them to be, and like completely even, he would like flip out. Oh, I can no. I couldn't lift this way. Small things like that.

And if the bathroom anxiety you would be in it all times? No. That's insane. Like I have to like put it out like 10 and 2. Like the fucking faucet. Okay. And if the bastard anxiety you would be in it all times, that's insane. I have to put it out like 10 and 2, like the fucking sausage. Okay. And it's like how many times do you really pull the toilet paper off the perforation? I mean, I actually do that all the time.

But I would never do it on the perforation. I like to only do it on the perforation. And if I leave a little piece, I like pull it. I mean, I definitely like usually works that way. Yeah. But like, I'm not. If somebody came to my house and didn't do that, I wouldn't like flip out on them. I'll be like, I probably wouldn't even know it's too bad.

I was gonna say, would you be like anything? No, I wouldn't be like anything. But he, Mel was like something because he was like, this bathroom cost me $25,000 to redo, and it's very important to me, so it needs to be clean at all times. Your bathroom is very important to you. His bathroom was super fucking important to him because he like remodeled the whole thing.

But it's like there were and everything was like pink and like I mean it was the 80s so like pink tubs and shit were cool. But yeah he was really important to him. And his whole house like later on we're gonna find out that like people were like shocked that anybody even lived in this house It was like a museum. It was kind of thing perfect. It reminds me like the whole faucet thing reminds me Have you seen sleeping with the enemy with no Julia Roberts? I haven't oh my god, it's so good He the guy in the movie like it's literally male He would like flip the F out if the towels were messed up, like they had to be like perfectly even,

and the canned goods had to all be facing the front. Ooh, and there's this scene where like she like gets away and then like he like comes and finds her and he like she knows he's in the house because everything's lined up perfectly. And when she got away, she like didn't want it to be spoiler alert. But, I haven't seen that movie.

Yeah, sorry. So Mel got weird about all that weird stuff, and then he got super, super weird about sex. Uh-oh. So Brenda told Joyce, the one who set them up, and then was like, why the fuck did I do this? She told Joyce that Mel talked a lot and pressured her into having group sex.

And he said that he knew another couple they could arrange it with. And Brenda was like, yeah, no, like I don't wanna do that at all. Like I'm offended that you're even bringing that up. Yeah, you can't just force that on someone. If you entered your relationship as like, no, the swingers, I mean, that's fine.

I don't wanna do that. Do what you do. But that's not for everybody. Yeah. And that's something that you should probably talk about pretty early on. That's a pretty big assumption to just be like, you're into this right?

Like what? I don't think he even like assumed that she was. I don't think he was like this is just what we're doing. This is what we do. So far. Because you're my like little person that I control. Which is so creepy. So Brenda was like, Pish, she was like, no.

But he continuously asked her. He was like, are we going to do that? Like, come on, let's do that. Answers still know. No. Can I still no. No. Can I have no for $5,000 please? He also wanted to try different stuff in bed, like restraining Brenda.

And I feel like she probably agreed to do that. So maybe he would like stop doing other things. So she agreed to do that, but she told Joyce that he tied her so tightly and wouldn't loosen the grips even when she begged him to. Like her circulation was like being cut off. And and wouldn't loosen the grips even when she like begged him to, like her circulation was like being cut off. And he wouldn't loosen them and he just did whatever he wanted to. Oh.

He made her take these like pills that she didn't know what they were and he called them sex tablets. Oh. And he she was like even if she didn't want to take them, he told her, quote, I can get this pill into you somehow if I want to oh I don't like that is in that the most terrifying thing is bone-chilling She one time told one of her friends that she didn't remember taking one of these pills Like she didn't like was like she didn't take it. She didn't do it with consent with consent But she woke up completely naked with no recollection

of taking her clothes off or falling asleep and she woke up in Mel's house. Oh my goodness. Yeah. He kept pressuring Brenda to set a date for the wedding because remember they're engaged at this point. And he wanted to have, or he was like, if you don't set the date, at least do this big engagement party,

like I've planned, but she kept putting off the date, and she canceled an engagement party that they had planned. Really? She clearly was not into this. Was stuck. She was scared. I'm sure the stuck didn't know what to do.

It just stresses me out, and then things could even worse. So Brenda one night went out to dinner with her sister-in-law, Linda Love, which I couldn't say much. Linda Love. And Linda was dating Brenda's brother Tom at the time. So she told Linda this horrible, horrible story. Her and Mel were on vacation together and she woke up to Mel holding a cloth over her face. And she wakes up and is like, what the fuck are you doing? Oh my god. And he was like, oh, I got this stuff in Asia.

I just want to help you relax. He's been so stressed out lately. So I'm going to chloroform you. That's exactly what it probably was. Oh my God. And he said he's like, I just want you to relax. You've been so stressed out and she's like, I'm sleeping.

He's going to say, I was sleeping. It doesn't get more relaxed than that, Mel. Wow, Mel. Wow Mel. What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up?

What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up?

What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? What's up? Yeah, if that's not a red flag, I don't know what is and right when that happened while the wrong vacation She wanted to leave but there was no flights out and somehow he talked her down

You know these people they talk. Oh, yeah They know how to talk like they know how to like they always know how to talk to do a complete 180 So Linda was like you're so pretty you're so smart like you have so much to offer like what are you doing? You don't need to do that chloroforms you and actually but Brenda kept telling Linda You're so pretty, you're so smart, you have so much to offer. What are you doing? You don't need to do that chloroforms, you and I actually. But Brenda kept telling Linda what she was telling all her other friends and family. She kept telling people you just don't understand. If your friend says that to you, they are in so deep.

She needed some kind of help. It's like, what do you do? When you're having to say to people, you don't understand how he is when you're not around or whatever like that. And it's like, but why? Right. Why is he only, you know,

why do you only have these like little, like you just don't understand moments? Or is it like you don't understand like what will happen if I try to be, if like exactly? It's like both things. So she said that, I mean, Linda encouraged her to get out of there, but she said you just don't understand. And she was like, I'm gonna talk to him.

So she talked to Mel and he was like, okay, I am being too hard on you. I'm not gonna call you on Friday nights. Oh, boom. You know Friday nights, so I won't call you. Ooh, that was easy. All right, moving on. So to us, so I won't call you. Ooh, that was easy. All right, moving on. So to us, that's like, are you fucking kidding me?

But if you picture like what Brenda was living, that was a huge win for her. Anything, any concession. Anything. Would have been a win. Any peace back to her fucking life. So she was finally able to go do something out of Friday night, rather than just sit home and wait for Mel to call her.

So she gave Jim a call, the dentist, the poor dentist. And she went out with him for drinks and she told him everything that was going on with Mel. And she said, quote, I want to get away from Mel. He frightens me, but I know he won't let me go. Oh, that makes me so sad, so sad. They talked for hours and hours while they were out. And Jim even stopped in the house when he brought Brenda back home Because like I said she was living at home taking care of Essie and Essie was like so excited to see Jim

He stopped and talked to the family for a little bit and then Essie remembered They Brenda walked him back outside and they stayed outside talking for two more hours. Oh my god They were they were. So they were. They were the ones that caught away. They were caught away. So a couple of days after Brenda went to dinner with Linda and told her everything and went out with Jim

and told him everything, she's on her way to work in the morning and she calls Linda as a Friday morning and she's like, I think Mel is following me to work. Oh no. And now you have to wonder, like did Mel follow, like Mel followed her often. This was not the first time she thought he probably saw, he saw Jim. Uh oh. That was the day before Brenda disappeared. Oh I'm so nervous. And I know what happens in them nervous. I know. So that next

Sunday at 330 in the morning, as he called Mel and was like, is Brenda still at your house? Because she knew they were supposed to see each other that Saturday. But now it was 330 in the morning, Essie called Mel and was like, is Brenda still at your house? Because she knew they were supposed to see each other that Saturday, but now it was 3.30 in the morning and Brenda still wasn't home. And Mel was like, no, she's not here. So Brenda, or Essie, excuse me, was like, oh shit, like I know her and Jim are kind of getting back together. Maybe she's with Jim, I'll cover for her.

Which, what a mom. Incredible. Which is like, Brenda's like, oh, you know what? I think she was going to Sandeys, which was her other sister in law. Oh, okay. So he was like, okay. And she was like, I'll call you back. I'll let you know.

She was like, fuck that. I hate you. I hate you, bye. So at 4am, Mel still didn't hear back from Essie. So he called Sandeys himself because obviously he has all her fucking contact information. And Sande's like, no, she's not here. Like what are you talking about? And that's when Mel started to panic. So started to panic. I was just going to say, quote unquote. So he calls 911. And this is exactly what he says. He goes, I don't know if I've got a problem here or not. I've got a person who's missing

or seems to be missing. Um, sir, those are two very different things. I don't know if it's a problem, but I've got somebody who's missing or seems to be missing? Um, sir. Those are two very different things. I don't know if it's a problem, but I've got somebody who's missing or seems to be. Someone might be missing. Is that a problem? But like, I might just be interpreting it as missing. It's like, can you help me? No matter what, it's a problem.

So you're like, okay, okay. And imagine you should hang out. Maybe she's a operator? Yeah. So what's the problem? She's like, sir, do you want to hang up and maybe figure this out first? We're gonna call me back.

Do you want a minute? Do you want to know what the problem is? So by this point, I see it already called Sandy herself and she knew Brenda wasn't there. So she calls Jim and she's like, is Brenda there? And Jim's like, no. So everybody's starting to panic. Jim himself immediately got dressed and ran down to his car

and starts driving around town looking for Brenda and like all the spots he knew, like she may have been. Jim sounds like very, very pure. He loved her. He loved her so much. I mean, they were together for eight years. Can you imagine? They had their issues, but I feel like they were it.

So sad. He drove by Mel's house, too, to see if Mel's quervet was there and it was. Brenda's brother's mic and Tom went looking for her too. They drove past her condo and she wasn't there either. So Brenda's car was found abandoned on the westbound lane of i64 and St. Matthews. Okay. The rear tire was flat. The car had like clearly been ransacked. The radio that Brenda had specifically put in there, it was like a special radio because she cared like about her car a lot. She like kept it super clean and super nice. So to find it in this state, they were like, oh, what the fuck happened. So the radio was gone. There was

blood in and outside of the car. Someone had attempted to break into the trunk, but unsuccessfully. They, somebody had been studying themselves, like there was a hand print on one of the windows, like they were like studying themselves to get up. So that's the state that the car was in. And everybody knows that Mel was the last person to see Brenda alive.

So the police, I have a theory. Yeah, the police immediately go out there and they're like, what do you have to say? So Mel tells them everything he had literally taken notes to read from It's like to to say exactly what they had done that day So he's reading to them from notes which number one is weird as fuck that would be my first like ding ding ding thumbs around Well, that was like they're dig ding. And then there was another ding-ding-ding, because most of the time, Mel and Brenda

spent together that Saturday, was only spent between the two of them with no other witnesses to cooperate the story. Huh. Which I mean, like, that's so crazy. Wow, that's so coincidental. Happens, stance. Happens all the time.

So this is what Mel said. He said Brenda came to his house about 3-3 3333 and they decided to go drive around together. And he made a point of telling the police that they were driving Brenda's car because he said his corvette was having a tire issue and he wanted to make sure that Brenda was safe. Oh of course. Of course. It's always all about her safety. I love her so much. She is precious cargo. I just personally treat her like shit. Sermel. Nuh. I hate him.

So he said they drove around in Brenda's car. They went to a gold star chili restaurant, and it was raining. So then they drove to a boat show where they stayed in the car instead of going on any boats because of the rain. Sounds too detailed. So far.

So a little weird. Oh, it's very detailed. Then they left and went to an art festival, but they stayed in the car again because it was raining. What a day. So it's like, why are you going all these places where you can't go inside because it's raining? And it's like the art festival was happening outside in the rain?

Yeah. Of course it was. Okay. So it was the bocha. Then they looked at a housing development. Obviously. They then went to an outdoor shopping mall from 6.30 to 9 p.m.,

which I'm like, you got to the shopping mall at 6.30 after going to dinner, a boat show and an art festival. And that's a long time to go shopping. You see, after a long day like that. I can't lie, I probably would do the same thing. And then they went to dinner at Captain's Quarters. Then after they went to dinner, they looked out at the same thing. And then they went to dinner at Captain's Quarters. Then after they went to dinner, they looked out at the water together.

And Brenda wanted to see this like certain landmark, but it was raining so they couldn't see that. It was raining. Yeah. I don't know if I mentioned it before. If Mel wrote down in his notes that it was precipitating that day. Precipitation, precipitation.

So then they got back in the car and Brenda dropped him off at home. He kissed her and he told her to drive safely, of course. I kissed her. I kissed her and I said to her, drive safely because I love you because I love her because I kissed her on the mouth. I did it. He went inside and yelled to his mom that he was home because yes, he lives with

his mom as well, which is fine, but I hate mail. So I'm saying that. It just makes me think of the will Farrell and wedding crashers. Where he's like, mom. Well, I love that he's like, and I yelled to my mother at 11.30 PM that I was home so that I could confirm that I was home and my mother can tell you that I was also home at 11.30 PM because I was home

and I yelled to her that I was home. I was home at 11.30 PM. Oh, then this is weird as fuck. 11.30 p.m. because I was home and I yelled to her that I was home. I was home at 11.30 p.m. Oh. Then this is weird as fuck. Then he said that he woke up around 12 and he was hungry, but there was nothing to eat. So he went out in his quervet, by the way, that has the bad tire to the Sky Lift chili restaurant, which I was at midnight at midnight.

And also how many fucking chili restaurants do you need to go to? I was gonna say and it's also like give your gastrointestical self-abrest well Bell with chili too. They had started at a chili restaurant. Then they went to another restaurant and now he's hungry. So we went to three restaurants and like a matter of two out of three are chili. Yeah, I mean you're gonna have Harper. Like calm down and And also like that's just a lot of restaurants for one day, like calm down. Get a door dash, no kidding. He talked to a waiter while he was there.

Oh, he did, didn't he? He talked to a waiter who could confirm that he was there at the restaurant because he talked to him. I spoke to another human being at the, at the, he said that he talked to him about like a soft drink, like the size of the soft drink because he got a soft drink. This is what he ordered a soft drink spaghetti chili, spaghetti and chili. My God, the

heartburn. The student is going to have. I know. A manager did later confirm that he had spoken with Mel that night because he was there at that restaurant where he ordered this thing and made sure that he talked to somebody about this off-drink. Yeah establishing an alibi. And that was the only part of the story that checked out. And what a weird part because like why did you go to dinner? I love that the midnight chilly dinner. Chilly and spaghetti dinner is the only thing that was like well that checks out. He did do that. I love how, like, very classy everything else is.

It's like an odd show and a boat show and a housing development. And then I went to a chilly restaurant. He's like, a dinner, a dinner, and then I had chilly at midnight. And I talked to someone with some spaghetti all the sads. And so the entire time they're questioning me also, obviously this was like a back and forth exchange.

He keeps like pausing his story to be like, have you found Brenda's car yet? Have you found her car? He's like, did you see what I did? Yeah. Did you find that? Yeah. Yeah. That's basically what I'm saying. I'd like to know if you found that yet. And they kept telling them like, no, dude, we haven't found her car yet. Which I don't, I couldn't figure out if they were lying that they hadn't found the car if they actually just hadn't found the car yet. They probably weren't just saying no, because they were like, your shady as fuck. We're gonna tell you what to think. We're gonna keep it close to the chest.

We need to put that on a shirt. We do. So after they talked to him, they were like, you do realize that nothing in your story can be cooperated by any witnesses, right? Except for that midnight chili rod. Except to stop that chili rod that we honestly don't really care that much about right now.

And he was like, yep, I know that looks bad for me. And they were like cool, cool, cool. It's like good that we understand each other. We're on the same wavelength here. But we're all on the same page and the same paragraph. But obviously like eating chili isn't enough to just arrest somebody, so. No, no. But now I really want chili, so I'm not a, I'm like chili, I guess. I guess a thousand degrees, but I want chili. Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't want chili right now. I want chili, so I'm not a, I like chili, I guess.

It's a thousand degrees, but I want chili. Yeah, I was gonna say, I don't want chili right now. I want chili in the fall. I make a great fall chili. You would do. Sweet potato. And actually I do want that right now. Oh, right now.

I'll make it for all of you. Thank you. So that's a big batch of chili. Yeah, raise your hand if you want some. Shoot, that is a lot of chili. I'm nothing if not a giver. Millions and millions of batches. Yeah.

I'm here to share my chili love with everybody. I like the red hot chili peppers. My husband used to love the red hot chili peppers. I like that you said that to me. My husband used to like, I don't know if you know it. I don't know if you know it. His name is John. He used to love them.

My husband did a concert once. Oh, that's fun. Yeah. So anyways. The whole family had gone to Brenda's home earlier that day to be together in case she came back or because they heard anything, you know, like, whole things like this happened in your family. Yeah.

And they were super, super close anyways. Of course. And Mel showed up there and he was unfucking welcome because that entire family hated him. And Linda is there because she's part of the family and she's like, oh, I know you. I had dinner about you. I know you and I've seen you. I'm all Greg.

I'm all Greg. I'm all Greg. And the other thing that was like pissing people off is that Mel kept doing these like big emotional outbursts all decided and like sobbing. And Essie specifically was getting really fucking pissed off because She was trying to like hold it to hold it together and this guy is like the matriarch Right, and this guy is like crocodile tear it up the whole place. Yeah, so they actually had to

Separate him like and put him in a separate room like as he was like get him away from it Like you need to get this motherfucker out of my face Fuck him and Mike and Tom were like dude. You need to get this motherfucker out of my face. Fuck him. And Mike and Tom were like, dude, you gotta stop doing that. So while he's in the separate room, he talks to Carolyn, who's Brenda's older sister. And Carolyn was like, you know what? I know that Brenda's still alive. Like, this can't happen to our family twice. Like, I know she's still alive. Because remember Jack, the other older brothers had been murdered. So they're like, there's no way this is happening. What's the odds thing that's right?

The odds of that must be astronomical. And Mel looked at her and literally looked into her eyes and said, I think she's dead. Oh, looked at her at her sister and was like, I think she's dead. Wow. And like, do you know that? I'm really kidding.

Can you please share with the class and tell me why you think that? Like, why? What piece of evidence do you have that says that? Right, like, she's been at that point. She hadn't even gone a full 24 hours yet and he's like, she's dead. I know it. She's dead. I just have a feeling.

And it's like, okay. So Linda, I was talking about Linda before. Linda Love had been listening close by and she knew something was completely fucking wrong about the situation. And she told Tom, her boyfriend, or might have been husband at the time, and Brenda's brother, everything that Brenda told her at dinner, because Tom didn't know that before, because Brenda was like, please don't tell Tom. This is just girl code.

But she told him everything at this point, because she like this mother fucker has something to do with it Yeah, I know weird here. So she tells them everything and they're like we are going to the police right now Like I'm I'm going right now. He just said she's dead like what the fuck does he know? She's getting weird right So on their way out they saw that Mel was driving that corvette that he said had the tire issue. So now he's driven that to go get chili in the middle of the night and now to the house. And he parked it across the street from the house, which I thought was sus. I, because I wonder if he was doing that,

so it would be like inconspicuous. Right, like no one would notice. Right, and he mentioned that it was having tire issues to the family as well. But they didn't have time to check. He's a dumb. He is a dumb. Oh, it gets dumb. He's a true dumb. It gets, in He's a dumb. He is a dumb. Oh, it gets

dumb. He's a true dumb. It gets in part two. We're going to get real dumb. Oh, man. We're going to go stupid. That's on high two. But so they on the way out their linda and Tom wanted to check his car, but Mel left right at the same time as them and they didn't have a chance to check his car, which is like such like a grim reaper move. It truly is. It's like a grim reaper. It's like a nightmare with my creepy fucking mustache gross. Wait until I post a picture and you're gonna vomit everywhere. So the police needed more information for more people. So they went to Brenda's work where she had worked for 12 years. So they know her. So they know her for sure. They know her

habits. They know her and they see her and she's Brenda. She worked as a nurse's aide for Dr. Spalding and Spalding said that Brenda was the best employee that he ever had. He fucking loved her so much. He said she rarely took time off. She was super pleasant to all the patients and she even went as far as to go visit the nursing homes where they lived like on her time off. She was super pleasant to all the patients. And she even went as far as to go visit the nursing homes where they lived, like on her time off. So she was just a sweet bundle of joy. Mm-hmm.

So as soon as the police walked in there and were like asking things about Brenda, he was like, what happened? Did Mel do it? Like, I know that Mel did it. And he starts offering up all of these, like, things, like information about Mel. He tells them things he had heard

that like Mel had large sums of money hidden around the house that Brenda had seen. He said he knew that Mel had drugged Brenda and taken nude photos of her. He said, he just like went on and on. It was like a laundry list of things that he knew to be true about Mel. Oh man. And this is all stuff that you know, these poor people are setting there being like, damn it, I should have, you know, obviously you can't do anything. What are you supposed to do?

Someone to do. Someone to want to get out of there, and they need to be ready to. Right. So you're kind of like at a, your hands are kind of tied. But in these situations, you're always like, could I have done something? Well, it was so far past the point of. Oh, for sure.

Like, it was so set up for point of... Oh, for sure. It was so set up for something horrible to happen. For sure. ...which is so fucking sad. Yeah, it was percolating to this point. Yes, it definitely was. That was like a $10 vocabulary rate. I love that word. So the police talked to other like, of Brenda's co-workers and they tell the police what

they know about Mel and Brenda's relationship. They were like, yeah, he calls here all the time, like two to three times a day. And actually, he called the Friday before she disappeared. And she loudly said to him, I told you never to call me here again. And she hung up on him. Oh, no. Yeah. And Linda had also informed the police that Brenda had planned to give Mel back his ring on Saturday. Friday or Saturday. Whenever there's, she had planned to give Mel back his ring on Saturday. Friday or Saturday. Whenever there's, she had planned to do this.

That's always, always it. So the police are like, cool, cool, cool. We're gonna go pay another visit to Mel. Gonna go talk to Mr. talking to waiters over here. I'm gonna go talk to this chili guy. This chili lover over here. Spaghetti, a spaghetti over here. The citric guy. This chilly lover over here. Spaghetti, spaghetti over here.

This citric acid, love and motherfucker over here. This tums ass little bitch. So, weirdly enough, when they get there, Mel isn't home. He's not, that's so weird, huh? Oh, I thought he'd be waiting for him. And his sister answers the door and they're like, is Mel gonna be home soon?

And she's like, yeah. So they're waiting there. And the direct quote, actually. and they're like, is Mel going to be home soon? And she's like, yeah. So they're waiting there and they hear his mom on the phone with his attorney. So he's lawyer and up at this point. Or enough. And he actually already had an attorney. You don't say this was going to be the second time

he needed to use his attorney. The first time he needed to was in 1984, and it was because he was in a vat of hot water for multiple counts of tax evasion. Oh, look at that. I'm not gonna lie. When you said vat of hot water, I thought he was literally in a vat of hot water.

I wish. And it was gonna be some like weird, like possibly sexual thing, and I was like, oh, what is this? He was in his pink bathtub and a bath of hot water. Get a weird test shit is gonna happen out of this. Well, he was involved in the CIA. So like things went gnarly and then he ended up in hot water.

Actual. He's had a time. No, figurative hot water because of exhibition. He had actually been sentenced to three years in prison and to pay $11,245 at restitution. Damn! Yeah. He only served 30 days of his sentence because apparently he's got a great attorney and

we'll get into that in part two. And after that, he obviously got pretty depressed because he owed a lot of money that will make you pretty sad. For sure. And I mean, obviously, he was having anxiety about paying back the money. Yeah. So he was suffering from depression, anxiety, financial shit sucks. Yeah, it really does.

And his therapist also diagnosed him as having a passive aggressive personality structure. Oh, okay. You don't say that's shocking, sir or ma'am. So while the police are there waiting for Mel to get home and listening to his mom call his attorney and lawyer him up, they really start to believe like this is our dude, like, I mean, obviously, like, to this point they've heard all this crazy shit about him. Now he's lowering up like, yeah, cool.

Then that became a lot more apparent because Mel walked in the door, booming through the fucking house, holding an alcohol bottle and screaming at the police that they had lied to him that they had found Brenda's car and they hadn't told him and he was like so fucking angry. He was screaming at the police about this. Oh no. We're gonna talk about the rest in part two. God damn it.

Yeah. Damn it. Who runs in and screams at the police? I just have such a vivid image in my mind of that. I hope everybody else does too. And fun fact, the book said that the carpets were like chocolate brown. So I just picture him like walking into this like

chocolatey like beige home. It's just like yelling home. Just walking. But it's like gorgeous. It's like, you know, it's like weird. Yeah. No, I'm not in to Mel at all. I hate him so much. In part two, we're gonna talk about a girlfriend that Mel had.

Shit gets wild in this case. It gets insane. Wild. Potentially three parts, but I'm just thinking two for now. Probably. Probably two. Yeah. It gets crazy. Well, I'm ready. But I had to set the scene for you first. Set the scene. So right now Brenda's missing. Oh, guys. Everybody knows that Mel has something to do with it, but what are they gonna do? Where's Brenda? I don't know. We gotta know. I know. This is a very sad case. It is sad. Well, man, as always you can follow us on Instagram while you're waiting for part two at boarded podcast.

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