Muscle for Life with Mike Matthews - Motivation Monday: Opportunity Doesn’t Knock–It Whispers
Episode Date: January 29, 2018This episode is part of a weekly series that I have dubbed “Motivation Monday.” (Yes, I know, very creative of me. What can I say, I’m a genius…) Seriously though, the idea here is simple: Eve...ry Monday morning, I’m going to post a short and punchy episode that I hope gets you fired up to tackle the workouts, work, and everything else that you have planned for the week ahead. As we all know, it’s one thing to know what you want to do, but it’s something else altogether to actually make yourself do it, and I hope that this series gives you a jolt of inspiration, energy, and encouragement to get at it. So, if you like what you hear, then make sure to check back every Monday morning for the latest and greatest installment. Want to get my best advice on how to gain muscle and strength and lose fat faster? Sign up for my free newsletter! Click here: www.muscleforlife.com/signup/
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Here's something I think that most people don't know.
Opportunities are whispers, not foghorns.
Hey, this is Mike from Muscle for Life and welcome to another episode of my podcast.
This episode is part of a weekly series that I have dubbed Motivation Monday.
Yes, I know. So creative of me.
What can I say? I'm just a genius.
Seriously, though, the idea here is simple.
Every Monday morning, I am going to post a short and punchy episode
that I hope gets you fired up to tackle the workouts, work,
and everything else that you have planned for the week ahead.
Because it's one thing to
know what you want to do, but it's something else altogether to actually make yourself do it. And I
hope that this series gives you a jolt of energy and encouragement to go ahead and do all of those
things that you want to do. So if you like what you hear, then make sure to check back every Monday
morning for the latest and greatest installment. All right, well, it's another Monday and that
means that it's time to get motivated. And let's start with a quote, this one from Larry Page,
the co-founder of Google. He said that even if you fail at your ambitious thing,
co-founder of Google. He said that even if you fail at your ambitious thing, it's very hard to fail completely. That's the thing people don't get. My little addition to that is that's one
of the reasons why if you're going to think, you might as well think big, right? Hit your wagon to
a star. And today's discussion is going to be about opportunities because success in any endeavor,
to be about opportunities because success in any endeavor, in any aspect of our lives,
it requires opportunities, right? So it requires opportunities for us to make profitable use of our talents and our skills. It requires opportunities for us to present our ideas
to the right people. It requires opportunities for us to create the right products and the right
services, opportunities to meet the right people,
to do the right things and so forth, right? So everybody knows this, of course, but here's
something I think that most people don't know. Opportunities are whispers, not foghorns. Now,
what do I mean by this? Well, what I mean is that every day, everywhere you go, these soft lilts of opportunity are there. They can be
heard, but most people aren't listening correctly. They aren't tuning into them correctly. Instead of
carefully listening for these murmurs, they are rushing around and they are waiting for
thunderclaps of revelation to lift them off their feet and fill them with inspiration and certainty. And in my
experience, that's just not how the world works. Again, opportunities are whispers, not foghorns.
Now I've experienced this myself in my career in the fitness industry, which has been a bit of a rocket ride. So just in this last year, I sold about 240,000 books. And in the last five
years, I've sold now over a million books. I've started a couple businesses. One is now a seven
figure business. The other is an eight figure business. I have websites that get millions of
visits a month and so on and so forth. Now, if you ask me, that's all great. But what I find
more interesting personally is the origin story, how it started, the opportunity,
because it was barely a whisper. Hey, quickly, before we carry on, if you are liking my podcast,
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So if I go back to 2011, I had a full-time job doing very different work at that time.
And I wrote my first book, Bigger Lean Leaner, Stronger in my free time,
kind of a nights and weekends thing. And I self-published it because I didn't really want
to go through the process of trying to convince an agent that I was worth representing and then
trying to convince a publisher that I was worth publishing because as an unknown author, that's
very hard to do. Instead, I figured that I was a good enough marketer and a good enough
internet marketer in particular that I could just do it myself. And so I self-published the book on
Amazon's Kindle platform and it started, I believe, at $2.99. So it's a $3 book in the beginning.
And I didn't really expect much to come of it because I didn't have a website. I didn't have
a name. I didn't have any connections. I actually didn't even have a plan at that time beyond publish the book and see if anyone cares. And so that's what
I did. And it sold maybe 20 copies in the first month. I think it sold fewer actually, but let's
just say at most 20 copies and it got its first positive review. And I thought that was cool.
You know, somebody bought my book and somebody liked it. That's neat. And I didn't really think about it more than that. Then though, the next month it sold about double
the amount of copies. So maybe about 30 to 40 copies and got a few more reviews,
which also earned a nod from me. Again, I thought that was pretty neat. And I put my email address
in there as well, just in case anybody wanted to contact me if they had questions. So I got a
couple of emails, people saying they liked it, had some questions. And again, it was a curiosity. I thought it was interesting. A couple months later,
it had broken a hundred sales in a month. And although the project at that point,
the book had really only made me a few hundred dollars. That's when I started to wonder if this
could go somewhere. Was this the whisper of an opportunity? I keep in mind also, I was doing
nothing to promote the
book. Again, I had a full-time job and at nights I would answer people's emails. That's it. I was
not running ads. I was not doing any of the things that I'm now doing to sell a lot of books.
And so again, at this point I was interested, was this the whisper of an opportunity or was it a
red herring? Many years prior, I had thought that maybe I could make
my living writing. And at that time though, I didn't really know how to go about it. And so,
I went in another direction, which was kind of, I mean, I guess it was kind of making my living
writing, but not exactly a type of writing that I wanted to be doing necessarily because
in my previous life, I was creating employee training programs for various companies.
I worked in a lot of industries, but kind of niched into the healthcare space in particular.
And it was fine.
It's something I was good at.
And there were things that aspects of it that were enjoyable, but it wasn't ultimately what
I wanted to do with the rest of my life.
And so that's why I decided maybe I'll throw a book out there and see if I could go in
that direction instead.
And so coming back to Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, it's now selling 100 plus copies a month.
And that wasn't enough to convince me to just quit my job and try to go all in
on being a fitness person, of course. But it did perk my ears up and made me wonder if I could
succeed as a fitness author. Could I really go all in on it? And could I make a living doing
something that I was more passionate about and that I enjoyed more? And at first I kind of
dismissed those musings, at least for the next couple of months, because there were plenty of
reasons to not go there. Of course, the fitness industry is incredibly competitive and it's
cutthroat behind the scenes in many ways. And getting noticed, of course, I knew was sure to be hard and would require a well thought
out plan.
And then it would require executing really well on that plan.
And I also had bills to pay.
And at that time, I had some credit card debt even.
So I couldn't really afford a dramatic cut in my income.
And so I kind of kept telling myself that, you know, risking what I had,
which was kind of a stable, well-paying job to chase what kind of seemed like a siren's call
was stupid, but there it was every day whispering in my ear as I sold more books, you know, I
couldn't help but wonder, could I be putting my skills to better use? And so eventually I had to
decide, was this an actual opportunity or was this an invitation
to distraction or maybe even disaster? Now, ultimately, of course, I decided to pursue
that whisper, which indeed was an opportunity and actually a huge opportunity. And so what I did
initially is I took, again, some time at night, time on the weekends, and I revised that first
edition of Bigger, Leaner, Stronger based on reader feedback and just made it a better book, republished it,
started on another book, Muscle Myths, just to try that as an idea, kind of put a trial balloon
out there. And I also then started on my first website, which was simply, it was like build
healthy muscle.com. I think it was just Mike Matthews fitness, very creative. I know. And I
also started doing some things to increase the visibility of Bigger Leaner Stronger.
I started doing some book giveaways, some ads, contacting various people in the fitness industry
and offering to send it to them to check out. As I continued to do more things and as time went on,
sales increased more and more. That was nice because I was able to use that money to pay off
credit card debt that I had accumulated, mostly in my 20s being stupid, just traveling and spending As time went on, sales increased more and more. And that was nice because I was able to use that money to pay off credit debt, credit
card debt that I had accumulated, mostly in my 20s being stupid, just traveling and spending
too much money.
And then at the end of 2012, so I published Bigger, Leaner, Stronger in the beginning
of 2012.
So by the end of 2012, it was selling several thousand copies a month.
And I had a couple other books out there that were doing decently as well.
And so at that point, that's when I really
recognized, okay, this truly is an opportunity to do something big and do something that I will
enjoy more than what I'm doing or what I was doing at that time. And so I recruited my friend,
Jeremy, to come work with me. And we actually were going to start a publishing company at first
because I really didn't want to get into the fitness industry because there are a lot of things I don't like about the fitness culture.
I think a lot of it is pretty fucking cheesy and pretty narcissistic. And a lot of hardcore
fitness people I think are also very cheesy and generally narcissistic, just not my kind of people,
not my kind of scene. So initially I didn't want to really go all in on
the fitness industry. I figured what I'll do is I'll continue to write myself, but I will also
use what I've learned about selling books to publish other people's books. And so that's
the direction that Jeremy and I went in initially. We started, probably got about two months into
that, putting the website there, putting the whole plan and the whole strategy, what we're going to do there. And then we kind of rethought our position. I just couldn't
help but see how big the opportunity really was to go into the fitness space. And not just from
a financial perspective, because you can actually make plenty of money if you can do well in the
publishing space, but also in terms of personal satisfaction, in terms of doing something that can help a lot of people in a very meaningful way.
And so ultimately we decided to pivot away from the publishing company and into fitness full bore.
And so that was the end of 2012 as you know, moving into 2013. Now we started on most for
life at that time, most of life launched in March of 2013 and we were off to
the races. And now if you fast forward to today, of course, everything is big and shiny and the
numbers are pretty impressive. But remember, it all started with a very faint whisper. Really,
I mean, I published Bigger, Leaner, Stronger on a lark. I had heard about Amazon's KDP platform
because some dude named John Locke
was the first guy, first self-published guy to sell a million books on Amazon's KDP platform.
And I read that story and that's what inspired me to publish my first book, Bigger, Leaner,
Stronger. I said, hey, who knows? Maybe people will like it. That's about as much of an opportunity
as I thought it was. And if you were to tell me then that I would be where I am now because of that, I wouldn't
have believed you.
I'm too cynical.
I'm too skeptical.
I would say that is such a long shot.
That is such blue sky thinking.
I'm sorry.
I'm an optimistic person, but I'm not delusional.
So my point is, while my outcomes have become rather extraordinary, there was nothing extraordinary
about how it all started. And that means that for you, your opportunities right now are whispering.
They're not yelling, they're not knocking, they're whispering. If you've had any trouble
finding opportunities to advance your career, your income, your relationships, any aspect of
your life, really, you might be making the very common mistake that people make, and that is
listening for foghorns and not whispers, looking for fireworks and not sparks. Even the best
opportunities rarely announce themselves with trumpets and confetti. They never come as signed
and sealed gifts from the Almighty. They never come with 100% money back guarantees.
There are often nothing more than chances to improve on something that other people are
already doing, to do something a little bit different, to do it a little bit better.
So start listening to the world around you a little more carefully and know that there is
never a shortage of opportunities. Never. There's
only a shortage of people that can hear them and believe in them enough to do something with them. did and don't mind doing me a favor and want to help me make this the most popular health and
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