My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark - 380 - We Definitely Frenched
Episode Date: June 15, 2023This week, Georgia tells the story of Francesco D'Alessio's murder by fashion model Terry Broome and Karen covers the murder of Marjorie Nugent.For our sources and show notes, visit www.myfav...oritemurder.com/episodes.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Hello Hello And welcome to my favorite murder.
That's Georgia Hardstar.
Thanks, that's Karen, Kylkara.
You're welcome.
We're back.
We're back from our little month off, or may off.
We took a may off.
That's right.
We pieced out.
And how was your vacation?
My vacation was gorgeous and luxurious.
I went to Italy for the first time ever.
Oh my God.
And it was everything you've heard about Italy isn't true.
What do you think I heard about Italy?
What if the stop gossiping about Italy?
What if I was like the person that I actually went to Italy
and didn't have the most amazing time of their life?
Like, I'm the world hyped up.
You know?
I think it might need to be de-influenced.
No, every single thing about that country
is perfection, what it looks like,
what it sounds like, what it tastes like, what the people look like.
The most good looking people who, yes, it's their job to be of service to you.
Most of the time, that's like what the entire industry of the country is besides making the best food,
producing the best food items. But there's like, it's also a very
matriarchal society.
So there's this kind of intrinsic love
and appreciation of women just at the outset.
Wow.
That I really recommend any woman that's kind of
feeling low on her emotional fuel cell.
Go to Italy. Okay.
You will be appreciated in ways that you thought were no longer possible for you.
It's Karen got her groove back.
It sounds like.
I mean, I'm just telling you, people should be nicer to women and female presenting human
beings in this country.
I think it's very obvious at this point in time.
Yeah. But to go to a place where they're like, Hey, yeah, what's up, ladies? And it's, you know,
to me, and it feels like good and right. And they've got a gleam in their eye. Nice.
Man, it's nice. That sounds amazing. I went to the equally overhyped Paris, city of Paris.
Paris, city of Paris. How was it?
Was there any, like, were there any, like, demonstrations?
Were near where you were?
Oh, no.
I think, like, everything, all the protesting and stuff,
and, like, kind of, just die down.
But there was, like, some, like, boarded up windows and stuff
that you, like, businesses that you could tell had been smashed
in some protests and stuff. But other than that, we didn't see anything.
They're rising up over there. Yeah, yeah, they are, but it was
just, I mean, it is. It's so you just can't go wrong in Paris. It's fucking perfect.
Yeah, did you, did you go to the loo? No, we didn't, we didn't do a single like tour scene.
No, we just, we didn't do a single like forcing. We just walked around the cute neighborhoods and ate a bunch and like, that's pretty much
it.
It was fucking magical.
Did you drink some street wine?
Definitely had street wine.
We just would sit out front of a cafe.
Yeah, right.
And sit.
You know what?
Yesterday was and this kind of why we went to is 10 years since
my name vince's first date.
Oh, can you believe that?
10 years.
Yeah, that's crazy.
That's a really cute anniversary to know.
Yeah.
Yeah, it's a little bit different from my birthday, so it's kind of easy.
But still, you know.
Well, that's a good celebration.
Yeah, totally.
In the city of romance.
Oh, oh, did you French?
Vince kept hitting his, we definitely French.
Vince kept hitting his head because every no one's like over six feet, whatever there.
So like in our hotel room, the doorway was like six feet tall.
He kept at least like six three.
So he kept hitting his head.
Oh, like another in like all over town.
He hit his head.
A lot of ducking for him on that trip.
Yeah, well good.
Yeah, it's nice to get away and then come back to LA
and be like, you know, you can finally appreciate home.
Yes, that's also a very helpful thing.
You need to get away for a minute
to be able to appreciate what you have, right?
Yeah, and personally, I would recommend
going to one of the most beautiful countries.
I mean, it's our hot take.
We, yeah, this sounds crazy,
but Italy is awesome for traveling.
Yeah.
You wouldn't believe what it looks like and feels like.
Paris?
They don't talk about the food enough.
No one ever talks about the food.
It's so good.
Hardly ever.
French cooking is like not.
It's people need to know about it.
Yeah, you heard it here first on this true crime podcast.
In that Italy and Paris and the places to be.
Or the places to be.
Did you have one time?
So we went on this trip, I know I've told you a thousand times,
but a trip to Russia in high school
that ended on the way home in like one day
and a bunch of different European capitals.
I should say cities, I don't know if they're the capitals.
So we ran Paris for like, I think two days.
And we walked down the street
because I think we went to the Louvre
and we were walking all over
and finally we were just tired.
So we were just like, let's just go in there
and see if they have anything to eat.
And to this day, I haven't had a better sandwich.
It was literally like their croque, Miss Year,
whatever it's called.
It was just kind of sitting in the tray
at the end of their day.
And I was like, that looks great.
And it was the best thing I'd ever eaten in my life.
Yeah, you can do that there.
It's just so simple.
Oh, sorry.
I meant several murderinos while I was in Italy,
which was really hilarious.
Oh, how about one?
One, and I'm so sorry, don't remember your name.
I should have written it down.
One was a young woman who was with her parents.
And me and Adrian were in a pharmacy.
We kept going to the pharmacy because they have so many good,
like, right?
Same with France.
I would find crazy in their pharmacy.
So you're just like, you know that this is the best waterproof
mascara. You don't know what you've never seen the brand, but you're just like, you know that this is the best waterproof mascara.
You don't know what you've never seen the brand,
but you're like, I have to get it.
And so we actually went back to the same pharmacy
two days in a row,
because Adrian's like, I'm getting that blue mascara.
We were standing there making all these jokes of like,
it's 1984 again, blah, blah, blah.
And then we walked out of the pharmacy
and this girl standing there with this smile on her face
and she's like, are you care, kicker?
And I'm like, yeah.
Well, she's like,
or was she American?
No, she was American
and she recognized my voice from top.
So then I'm like,
hey, this is my sister's friend Adrian.
Like, point Adrian.
Oh my God.
It was so funny.
So I hired her.
I think her name started with a D.
It was like, I can't remember.
And I'm really sorry.
It was a very passing.
She didn't ask for a picture, she didn't want anything.
She was just like, hi, bye.
I met a French murder a no.
It was actually French.
Oh, yeah, and I forgot her name too.
But I think I was so like, she like,
grand after me, was like, hi and everything.
And didn't want a photo and nothing like that.
But I think I was so flabbergasted that there was someone in France
who knew who I was.
That was very exciting.
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We had a really fun, we had decided a communal table
at one of the hotels that we stayed at.
I agree.
And both me and Adrian were like, this isn't gonna work out.
But Janet, who was our third friend in the group
who was a people person, was like communal table all the way.
And she recognized me at the end of the dinner,
I told some story about something we had done.
And then she looked at me and goes, wait a second.
And she's like, your name's Karen and her name's Adrian.
Oh my God.
And then like put it together Scooby Doo style
and it was really cute.
It was very sweet.
I love that.
I love that.
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Cool, I think I'm first look Look at us. Look at us.
We're back in the groove, baby.
Well, it's not hard.
It's just talking.
Let's just moving your mouth.
Okay.
Well, guess what?
What?
My story takes place in France, Italy.
Italy?
Italy.
Okay.
Well, ask me if you need directions or any, any recommend.
Did you have you, have you been and did you go to Milan we were there
for like to get a train basically okay it sounds like a really bougie city oh yeah fashion capital
and you know how obsessed I am with fashion and labels you're like give me that product that's
right bitch product I have a big tattoo I'm say. I told you not to get it.
Okay, so today I'm gonna cover a story that takes place
in Milan during the drug-fueled underbelly
of the Milan fashion scene in the 1980s.
Shit.
Yeah, it's like a music video almost.
This is the murder of Francesco D'Elessio
by fashion model Terry Broom.
Wow.
You know this one?
No, I've never heard of this.
You didn't hear it when you were there.
Why which?
You know, I was talking to so many locals
and really picked up on the language pretty quickly,
but no, no one brought this up.
The main source used is an article from Cosmos archives,
entitled A Murderous Model and the Mob in Milan,
written by William Murray, and other sources were an archive New York Times article by Robert
Surro, an article from Medium by Victoria Saladino, entitled From the Spiring Model to Murderer
to Folk Hero.
Oh, and the rest of the sources are listed in today's show notes.
So first, I'm going to talk to you about this woman, Terry Brum.
She's one of five kids in kind of, you know, lower class American family.
Her father is an Air Force sergeant. They move around a lot,
but she spends a lot of her childhood in Elgin, South Carolina,
which is just outside of Columbia.
Her death's kind of a hard-ass
and because she moves around so much,
Terry and her sister are really close and bonded.
So she's like her main ally and her sister Donna,
but Terry's a little jealous of her
because Donna is like seen as prettier and more popular
than Terry and she's just gorgeous.
So gorgeous in fact, that after high school,
she moved to New York to become a model.
And this is in the 1970s.
So you can imagine how fun that must be.
Oh my God.
Yeah.
So Terry initially gets married at 18,
but that quickly ends.
And she sees her sister getting some success in New York
and the industry, so she heads to New York
as well to follow in her big sister's footsteps.
But getting modeling work is a lot harder for Terry than it is for her sister, unfortunately,
due to beauty standards.
And of course, Terry's gorgeous.
But you know, the beauty standards are, of course, ridiculous for models.
And Terry is pegged as being too tall, too gangily, and too frackily.
That's like what like they all pegged her as, you know what I mean?
Yeah.
She was like, she was just a little too early.
Yeah.
Like now that would be so perfect.
Totally.
Yeah, it's just these impossible beauty standards that we all hate.
Sorry, it just reminds me of back then, like there was no Botox
and there was no like easy outpatient,
no plastic surgery of any kind.
People were literally washing their face
with that almond scrub that just scraped the shit off of you.
Um, St. Ives, right?
Yes, the apricot scrub.
Oh my God.
It was like current apricot shell kernels.
And almonds.
Yes.
Horrifying.
Ugh, guys.
Just saying it was hard to be pretty back then.
Plus.
So Terri's frustrated by the lack of work she gets. So she just starts
doing what you do in New York in the 70s, which is partying hard. She gets into nightlife,
meaning cocaine. She drinks a ton of alcohol. It's a, I read like a bottle of scotch a day.
Oh.
She's a lot. Uh-huh.
In 1979, Donna, the sister goes to Paris to model there.
Terry goes with her hoping that her luck might change over in Paris.
Whoa, this takes place in Paris and Italy.
Hey, it's just more the same.
Donna is working and Terry turns to partying to escape the pain of not
getting work.
By 1980, Terry returns to New York jobless and depressed.
And she goes back to South Carolina to recover
under the care of her mom.
And she faces a tough battle keeping her addiction at bay.
But after a couple years, Terry has her life under control.
She feels renewed.
She's ready to get back out there
and try modeling once again.
This time in the fashion capital of everywhere,
Milan, Italy.
Can I just tell you two?
And I'm not exaggerating when I tell you,
like the people in Italy are really gorgeous individuals,
but they have amazing fashion sense.
Yeah.
Just anywhere we went, like I think it's common influence,
but especially in Milan, but it's just people
have great outfits on all the time.
So it's like a classy and kind of like people don't wear work out gear with like,
you know, everywhere, at leisure, at leisure. It's called.
Athlete sure has not on on. It's amazing. Yeah. I mean, that's all I wear at this point in
my life. Mm-hmm. I'm always pretending I'm just coming from a spin class that I've never
been to in my life. So the fashion industry is of course notorious for having some shady
characters hanging around and taking advantage of the young models, but that's especially
true in Milan in the 80s. For American models hoping to make it big, a trip to Milan, which is
actually usually sponsored by a New York modeling agency. It's a huge opportunity to meet the designers and photographers who
are like the head of the industry and they can give them their start. They're given cash
for a few weeks and if they play their cards right, they could book ad campaigns that will
pay them anywhere from. So it's $200,000 per day for modeling, which is equal to about $584.
Do you wanna guess how much $1,000 is in today's money
from the 80s?
From the 80s.
3000?
29, 20.
So, so close.
You're so close.
So long ago, so sad. You can make a shit ton of money, like enough to cover your rent for the fucking entire month
in just one day.
And the more work they get, of course, the higher their chances get for international
fame, because if you're famous in Milan, you're famous everywhere, and they can make a ton
of money.
And for the top models, you know, the sky is the limit.
But all of that money and fame comes at a price.
Models are pressured, of course, to always look their absolute best, which means to, you know, the modeling industry,
skinny, you have to be well dressed, you have to always look perfect when you go out.
And they also need to be going out to the right clubs in Milan. I feel like New York is the same way,
where you have to meet the right people, be, you know, see and be seen and parties and, you know, all that stuff.
And it's not just about you being a model. Right. So because in these like luxury clubs and all
these spots and parties, models meet Milan's richest and most powerful men, they all promise,
of course, to give the models expensive clothing and jewelry. They introduce them to the right
business partners. It's almost like a given that you have to flirt with these men. They're like the gatekeepers of the industry because they actually do have
connections. So these young models who go there, you know, they, a lot of times, of course, have to have
sex with these men. And thanks to the local mobs, the drugs, specifically cocaine are always
readily available in these circles. So during their stay in Milan, many of the models stay at a hotel called
the Prinshee Pacek Cool Teal Day,
which is what it's called in Italian.
It's so well known as a model hangout.
Like we're all the young models stay
and thus a rich playboy hangout that it's nicknamed,
okay, you ready for what it's nicknamed?
Just prepare yourself.
Okay.
You know, the name is Prince basically Princess,
whatever, it's nicknamed Princess Clitoris Hotel. So not very imaginative. Like, it's like so subtle.
But again, to support my majorical society argument that I was making earlier, at least
they're talking about the Clitoris. I mean, they're- That's true. It's they're focusing on what's
important to the woman. That's right. That is true.
I thought you were going to be like princess pussy hotel or whatever.
No, the good old clitoris.
The old clit.
I wonder if in Italian it just rolls off the tongue and it sounds so much better.
Yeah, it sounds a lot better.
So millionaires just hang out in the lobby and pray on these young vulnerable women,
you know, looking to find work. Like it's a total cesspool of these millionaire men. And this is
the world that Terry Brum is thrust into when she arrives in Milan in 1984.
Can I see you again how old she is? So at this point, she's actually in her later 20s.
again how old she is. So at this point, she's actually in her later 20s.
Oh, okay. Yeah.
Like 28 or so.
Okay.
Terry arrives in Milan on April 20th, 1984
and immediately runs into Bad Luck.
She's at a subway stop the day after her arrival
and a pickpocket takes all the money she has,
which was a thousand bucks.
Oh.
So she's totally broke.
She's forced to move in with her sister
and she quickly becomes a nuisance to Donna, leaving messes and falling back into our old partying habits.
Donna, meanwhile, is focused on her own life, her modeling, her big sister, her modeling
career. She is a rich boyfriend, a local businessman, and she can't really deal with Terry.
So she moves her into that infamous hotel, the Princess Clitoris.
So it's just like immediately in the wrong place for her.
And it's here that Terry meets a 38 year old man
named Claudio Caccia.
He's one of the many rich playboys around the hotel.
Claudio introduces Terry to all the most extravagant hangouts
around town.
He's taken her out showing her good time.
Nightclubs, the drinks are always flowing,
and the mob sold cocaine is just like passed around
by the tracel.
It's the fucking 80s, like of course it is.
They thought it was good for you back then.
Do they?
They did.
Well, you're a model and you need to stay thin.
Like it's perfect for you.
And it's free, right?
So you're not spending all your money
that you don't have on food and stuff. It's terrible. I mean, it's rough because it's and it's free, right? So you're not spending all your money that you don't have on food and stuff.
It's terrible. I mean, it's rough because it's like millionaires can afford it. It's no big deal
to them and they know models. Some models like need it. Yeah. Yeah. It's just a crazy lifestyle.
Yeah. So on the night of May 6, 1984, Claudio takes Terry to a party at a villa outside the city.
The owner of the villa is a man named Carlo Cabasi.
He's the brother of a successful investment banker.
He's known for throwing wild parties that end in orgies, and this night is no different.
Terry ends up in the threesome with Claudio and Carlo.
But there's another man at the party that night, and he's upset that he wasn't involved in this threesome.
His name is Francesco D'Alessio.
And after hearing that he missed the threesome,
the next morning he walks into the room
where Terry was sleeping.
And she just wants to go home at this point.
It's the next morning, but Francesco is standing in front
of her masturbating and demanding sex.
And Terry refuses and makes her escape, you know,
but this rich dude, Francesco,
is not used to being told no,
so he takes this rejection as a huge insult.
Let me tell you a little bit about Francesco, the Alessio.
So he comes from a rich family.
He's the definition of spoiled entitlement.
His dad, Carlo DLSIO is an industrial entrepreneur
who also runs one of the most successful horse racing
stables in Italy.
And that's big business there.
So they're fucking wealthy.
Horse money.
Horse money.
Serious.
That's like, people buy horses to show how wealthy they are, right?
I would say so.
Yeah, like horses and big boats.
Yeah, the upkeep is expensive on those things.
Yeah, that's a whole other thing.
You're not just, it's not a one-time purchase.
There's like those purchases that keep,
they just add the bills, add the bills over and over.
Yeah, exactly.
Like cats.
Very similar.
Dotties right here, just playing with $100 bills.
Okay. So this means that Francesco grew up around horse racing.
He knows horse breeds inside and out.
So he can read horses better than almost anyone.
So he loves horse racing and he also loves gambling.
And luckily for him, of course, the two go hand in hand.
He often wins any bet he places on horses.
So he's fucking wealthy and, you know,
this cocky Italian dude.
Wait, do you think he wins any bet
because he's in the biz or?
Probably, right?
Okay.
He like knows.
He knows who to bet on.
He's good at it.
Yeah, yeah.
Cause I mean, this is so unfair to be a millionaire
that then wins every time he bets anything.
Totally. God.
Curitating. So as he gets older, he actually grew up to be a tall, like handsome dude who
ends up with all the hallmarks of a, you know, happy, successful life. He is a wife named Cheryl.
He has two beautiful kids and a life of luxury and leisure. But because he never grows out of his childish ways,
he's like rude and spoiled.
And his lust for the finer things in life
includes drugs and women.
As his addiction to coke increases,
so does his violence towards women.
On at least one occasion, he's seen beating up
an American girl for not wanting to sleep with him.
And he's even caught beating
his wife after she threatens to divorce him. But this bad behavior doesn't stop there. He destroys
cars and hotel rooms, starts very public fights, and stops taking care of himself, rarely showers
or changes his clothes. She kind of just does whatever the fuck he wants.
Because he's basically strong out. Yeah, probably, right? Wow.
Yeah, yeah, it seems like it.
I mean, I bet the Coke was so good back then,
not to be all like woo-woo to drugs, but Jesus.
Right.
Well, yeah, it just kind of pure.
And then if you're a millionaire, it's just bottomless.
That's like, yeah, that's a great way to make a monster.
Yeah, absolutely. But he, of course, always gets out of trouble
with his dad's money and his connections
they bail him out of any legal jam he gets into.
So this is who Terry turns down that morning
and who she pisses off by turning him down.
He proceeds to start spreading rumors about her
in that tight little modeling scene.
And with all the millionaire men who are there,
she says that she's in door orgies,
that she'll sleep with anyone,
and he just says anything to try to get her
a bad reputation.
He's 40 years old, by the way, at this point,
and she's 28 just so you know.
Okay.
So meanwhile, Terry means another wealthy Milan playboy,
a jeweler named Georgio Roti.
He's nice to Terry.
He showers her with all kinds of expensive gifts.
He also loves cocaine, just as much as she does, if not more.
So they have a lot of fun partying together,
but it does seem like he actually loves her.
He introduces her to his parents.
And by early June of 1984, the two are living together
and engaged.
So she actually does fine love, but unfortunately the nightlife scene of Mulan's rich and powerful
is a small circle. So even though she's happy with Georgio, she keeps running into a vengeful
Francesco D'Alessio. So every time he sees her, he harasses her, he makes lured comments like loudly at her server when we can hear.
He grabs his crotch at her, calls her a whore,
just like harasses her.
So on the night of June 25th, 1984,
Terry and her boyfriend,
Georgio are on a double date with
the sister Donna and her boyfriend at a local spot called
Cafe Roma when Terry sees
Francesco at the bar. She's high on
drugs at the time and anxious about what Francesco might do. So she convinces the group to go to another
bar around 2 a.m. But Francesco follows them there and walks right up to their table and starts
immediately harassing Terry. She runs off to the bathroom to hide. He follows her, waits outside,
and keeps making crude sexual comments about her.
It's almost like he's trying to get Georgio,
the boyfriend, to fight him,
but he never takes the bait.
Instead, she's humiliated,
and the group just heads home without a confrontation.
And on the drive home, though,
Georgio is silent.
He's obviously bothered by what happened, but instead of directing his anger at Francesco,
he directs it at his girlfriend Terry, telling her he wants all of his gifts back and wants to break up with her.
Oh, no.
Yeah, so this harassment actually ended in her, you know, getting broken up with.
I mean, in both of those circumstances, it's like the fragility of men can cause so much destruction, because God forbid, A, you turn one guy down, or B, you shame someone who can't like step up to a basic kind of, hey, man, back off situation. I know. That's just horrible. This is where the don't-do drugs parts
come in. Because it's absolutely. It's always glamorous in the beginning and it always ends
ugly like this. Totally. So Terri is, of course, devastated. You know, her hopes of marrying
Georgia are ruined all because of this fucking dude, Francesco. So when they get back to their
apartment, Georgia goes to bed,
but Terry can't sleep. She's fucking so irate and distraught. She goes and grabs Georgio,
her boyfriend's revolver and some cocaine and heads to Frank Chesco's apartment.
Okay, so now it's the early morning hours of that same night, you know, the day, June 26, 1984.
You know what I mean? It's past midnight. It's the it's the morning of the night before.
Yeah, so it's like three or four in the morning, let's say. Francesco is in his apartment in the
Ritzie Corsa magenta neighborhood of Milan when he gets a call from a woman who calls herself Diana
and asks if she can come over to
party. So he's like, absolutely. He has a woman there spending the night already at this model
named Laura Royco. But if he says more of the mayor, come on over. Can you imagine how exhausting
this life would be? Oh my god. Five in the morning. I'm sleeping. There's already somebody in your bed. Did you just like, yeah, more, more, more, more, more, more, more.
Come on over.
Bring drugs.
Oh my God.
Oh no, I'm tired just reading this.
So around 5 a.m., there's a knock at Francesca's door.
He thinks it's this person Diana.
He opens the door, low and behold.
It isn't.
It's our girl Terry.
And she's pissed off.
He smiles when he sees her and he says,
I knew you'd show up.
It seems like they might hang out a little bit first,
taking drugs and talking.
But then Francesco tries to make a move on Terry.
She shuts him down.
His ego's bruised.
He starts slept, shaming Terry,
insinuating that she only likes group sex,
saying like, want me to call some of my friends to come over? you know, calling her a bitch and just like kind of dressing her down.
And so at that point, she reaches into her purse and pulls out Georgios 38 caliber gun and fires.
Whoa. The bullet blast through the wall, missing Francesco, and the second shot she fires,
hits him square in the chest. He lunges forward and grabs her wrists and
they falter the ground, wrestling for control of the gun. And in the tussle Terry fires
three more shots. One of them hits Francesco in the temple. And meanwhile, the model who's
there, Laura Royco is like, please don't shoot me. And Terry's like, why would I shoot
you? You're fine. And she runs out, she pockets the gun and takes off.
She was at least in control enough to know it wasn't like a spree.
No, yeah, yeah.
It was him.
It was just for him.
Yeah.
It was her revenge, the end.
Exactly.
So when Terry returns home, she goes home to Georgia,
tells him what happens.
He immediately starts helping her.
He cleans off the blood and helps her pack for the airport.
Buies her a ticket to Zurich, Switzerland,
sets her up at a hotel there.
But Italian police had already flagged Terry's name in the system
because the model had called 911, called emergency services right away.
And so they knew he was dead already.
She had killed this man.
Yeah.
So as soon as she lands in Zurich, this was police are there
and she's arrested and extradited back to Italy
to stand trial for the murder of Francesco D'Alessio.
So as soon as she steps off the plane,
Terry is met with a media frenzy.
Like this becomes one of the most high-profile cases in Italy of the 80s.
It's huge.
Partly because Francesca's wealth and notoriety make the case a high-profile one, but also
because I think there are so many women who understand how these men act towards them
and kind of see her as a folk hero.
Like, there's only so much we can take.
Terry insists she didn't want to kill Francesco,
but she's charged with premeditated murder,
which is the equivalent of first degree murder in America
and faces life in prison.
She's bounced around from an overcrowded prison in Milan
to a prison filled with violent criminals.
But as she waits for the trial to begin, but finally, she's moved to a calmer facility in Bergamo
near Milan, where she has an easier time settling in. In fact, she's become so much of a
folk hero to women that when she arrives at this prison, some of the prisoners hang streamers
from their cells when she arrives to welcome her.
Oh my god. Yeah, they're like, yay for her. Yeah. She becomes fast friends with her cellmate,
a former terrorist named Benchenza Fiorini, who helps her learn Italian. Well, Terry helps Benchenza
with her English, so they become like she's happy there. They become friends.
with her English, so they become, like she's happy there, they become friends.
So Terri's trial begins at last in June of 1986.
Her sister Donna shows up to support her
and even her mom flies out from South Carolina
to be there for her daughter.
Her attorneys paint the picture of a young woman
who was pumped with drugs and taken advantage of
by older, wealthier men.
And with the help of a court-ordered psych evaluation,
they can convincingly argue that Terry was suffering
from a temporary psychosis caused by, quote,
chronic cocaine intoxication on the night of the murder.
So the jury hears from countless witnesses
that Francesco was indeed a violent drug-addled man
with a long history of mistreating women.
And while Terry admits that she did kill Francesco,
she asserts that her, quote, intentions were not to murder him or to do him any harm,
but only to frighten him.
You know, that's the thing about bringing a gun somewhere.
Yeah.
It's pretty much the only thing that can happen.
Yeah.
It's murder or it's some terrible kind of consequence. Absolutely.
If you want to yell at a guy and slap him across the face,
you go ahead and leave the gun out of your person.
Absolutely. I totally agree with that.
Okay, great. Thanks.
Well, I like to disagree with that. Tell you what I think.
At the end of the trial, whatever attorneys deliver is a hard-hitting closing or mark,
quote, you see before you a living-hitting closing remark, quote,
you see before you a living being,
but in effect, she is deader than the one whose life
she inadvertently took.
Only your sentences can bring this girl back to life.
Cause I guess she's super distraught
over the killing and over what's going on.
That's a bit, I don't know.
If I was on that jury, I'd be like,
you're saying the living person is better than the dead person?
I don't think so.
Yeah, the math doesn't add up there.
That's a little fucked up.
But the courtroom is so went over by Terry's tragic story
that the line causes an eruption of tears and applause
so loud that the judge has to quiet everyone down.
So everyone's on her fucking side.
Women have fucking had it.
Yes.
But Terry's not the only one on trial.
Actually, three more defendants face charges of their own,
Claudio Caccia for false testimony,
Carla Cabasi for dealing drugs, and the boyfriend,
Georgi O'Rodi for aiding and abetting and cocaine dealing.
So like they took these three men with her.
Yeah.
Since they represent the massive problem
of abuse and manipulation in the modeling scene,
these three men are immediately hated
and even nicknamed the three little pigs.
She says, curfew.
So people are totally anti-them and totally pro-tary.
Wow.
After eight days of trial and seven and a half hours
of deliberation, all of the men
are found guilty of their crimes. And Terry is found guilty as well, but of a lesser charge,
which is the equivalent here of second degree murder, which means premeditation is ruled out.
However, she brought a gun to an apartment of somebody who gave a false name.
Yeah. She's, false name. Yeah.
She's, there's a little that doesn't hold up.
But maybe the standards are different over there.
Totally, totally.
So Terry immediately sets out to make what she can
of herself in prison.
She tells the courtroom quote, I wish I could change what
happened, but that's not possible.
What I can do is start a new life and stay away from drugs.
And maybe I will mature a
little bit. And that's exactly what she does. She cleans up and gets into a good rhythm behind bars.
She gets healthy. She works in the prison vegetable garden and laundry room and she even starts making
ceramic pottery at the prison on her free time. And at the meantime, because of the notoriety of
the case, the Italian government is forced to impose some
new legislation, including that
underage models now have a curfew
and they also let club owners
know that there will be consequences
if underage models are found hanging
out in their clubs.
But it doesn't last long, the
legislation, you know, it's just like kind of for show.
Yeah, I was going to say because
this, she was in her late 20s when this all went down.
So, right, right.
That's a good point.
So Terry's released from prison on February 22nd, 1992.
She moves back to South Carolina
to be with her family, find a new job,
and reclaim her life once and for all.
And that is the 1984 Milan murder
of Francesco D'Alessio by a fashion model Terry
Brum. God. I mean, now this is, I'm not trying to be funny at all. Did, while she was in Milan,
did she start getting work? I don't know. That's a good question. I mean, because it just sounded like,
it's like she arrived, something bad happened, and then worse and worse things happened.
Yeah.
Like, God, there's nothing worse than that,
where you're like, I'm trying to move to a new town
or I'm trying to like pursue my dream
and every single thing is working against me.
Ugh, totally.
Rough.
Yeah.
Wow, that's crazy. I know. Right? Milan. Milan. And just cocaine fueled.
It makes sense. It's just like the 80s cocaine fueled fucking living. It's crazy that there's
not a ton more stories that are kind of like similar to that. Yeah. It makes me think, you
know, it was just the 30th anniversary of Phil Hartman's murder. And that was really. Yeah. It makes me think, you know, it was just the 30th anniversary of
Phil Hartman's murder. And that was really. Yeah. That whole thing was cocaine fueled.
It's so horrible. It's like, to me, that's one of the saddest. It's, you know, it is the story is
what the story is. And it's so awful. But like Phil Hartman was so amazing. And it was just like everyone was just like, wait, what?
Why would this happen?
And it's like, because of cocaine.
It's cocaine.
You should do that story.
It's cocaine.
I know, but I kind of just did in a way.
Just like, there's not a lot else to it.
Yeah.
Sadly.
All right.
And the story I'm going to do today,
couldn't be more opposite of the story that you just
told.
It's kind of completely the opposite.
We're going to go from Milan all the way to East Texas.
Okay.
And I'm going to tell you the story of the murder of Marjorie Nugent by her man friend,
Bernie Tita.
Okay. If you've seen the movie Bernie,
it's gonna be Jack Black.
Yeah.
Shirley McLean, you are familiar with this story,
but not the Zach Galphenakis one.
No, what's that one?
That's not a true story.
That one's the one.
I can't remember what it's called when him and his, it's fucking Will Ferrell, right?
That are, they're running against each other and like, no, no, no, there's a movie.
Maybe I'm thinking of the Jack Black one.
I think you're thinking of the Jack Black one.
You're right. Okay.
Cause he sings in church and stuff like that.
Yeah.
And Matthew McConey, he is in it.
Okay, wow.
So here's the thing about the movie.
And the movie is really good, I think.
When it came out, I enjoyed it.
I'll say it like that.
Matthew McConey is one of the executive producers
because he's from that area of Texas.
Oh.
And his mother, there's a bunch of people that are actually play the townspeople that
come in and comment like directly to camera documentary interview style about Bernie
and about, you know, about all the things that happen.
And Matthew McConaughey's mother is one of those people.
And she's just like, wow.
She's great.
She's really funny and very memorable from that movie.
Yeah, so and a bigger star in our world is Skip Hollinsworth is the one who wrote the script
for that movie because he did the original article when that story came first broke.
Oh my God, our friend journalist.
Skip Hollinsworth. Great true crime journalist. Screenwriter. Yeah. where he came first broke. Oh my God, our friend journalist, Skip Collinsworth,
great true crime journalist.
Screenwriter.
Yeah, he's a great true crime journalist.
We've talked about him ad nauseam on the show.
Truly.
He, his writing and his journalism and research
has enabled both of us, I think,
to tell many, many stories on the show.
He writes a lot for the Texas Monthly,
which is an amazing
magazine. And they now have podcast network. So if you're in the true crime and you're looking for
something new, you could search Texas monthly, you could search Skip Holland's worth in the podcast
app. And I'm sure you'll find something amazing. Okay. So the sources used today are a Texas monthly, a couple Texas monthly articles by
Skip Hollinsworth, including the 1998 Long Read Midnight in the Garden of East Texas.
I bet that's amazing.
And multiple Dallas Morning News articles from 2016 by a journalist named Brandi Grissom.
I actually found a couple articles by Brandi in just trying to get, you know,
like basic stuff. So Brandy was all over this story in the in the 2010s. And then you
can find all the other sources in our show notes. So just so you know, if you haven't seen
the movie, Bernie, it is directed by Richard Linkletter. It stars Jack Black, Shirley
McClein, Matthew McConaughey. Why am I picturing Zach Elfnakis as the character?
It's this one. I know, I just looked it up and it's definitely
Jack Black, but in my mind it was, I don't know why.
Because it's a similar vibe of like the small town kind of goofy guy that's like...
That he plays so well that Zach El that California because he's so good at selling
my mind to him.
Okay.
Yeah.
It's, there's a lot of, but the funny thing is, and this is true about Bernie Tita, he
was big into church and singing in the church choir.
So, of course, there's all these scenes in this movie of Jack Black, basically singing
and singing louder than everybody.
But Jack's an amazing singer, and I bet you the original Bernie was just like a guy that was in the church choir.
So that's kind of, that's something I really enjoyed in that movie was Jack just jamming out to like church hymns or whatever.
Okay, so let's just start this story where it all begins on August 2nd, 1958,
when Bertie Tita is born in the town of Tyler, Texas. His father Bernhardt is a first-generation
Ukrainian immigrant who had suffine arts department at nearby Kilgore College and his mother Lila
May is the educational director at their church. This young family is eventually rounded out
by Bernie's younger sister, Anna,
and they're all deeply religious and very, very musical.
In 1961, though, their family suffers a devastating blow
when Bernhardt and Leela May are involved
in a head-on collision.
Leela May is pregnant at the time.
The other car that they got in the head on collision with
was driving on the wrong side of the road.
Oh my God.
Lila is killed and her baby is killed.
And Bernhardt struggles with survivors guilt
and begins drinking heavily.
He eventually takes Bernie and his little sister Anna,
both just toddlers at the time and moves to Abelene for a fresh start.
So that's just kicked off by serious tragedy in this family.
She says, truly.
But in Abelene, more tragedy awaits. Here, Bernie experiences traumatic sexual abuse at the hands
of an uncle later on. And it goes on for years. Oh my god. Yeah. And later when Bernie's only 15, his father passes away, then
on top of everything else, Bernie begins struggling with his sexual identity. Being a gay man living
in this incredibly conservative part of the country means that he has to hide a huge
part of who he is from others. And it's also at this point, if he's born in the 50s, this is like the 70s. So just being a just didn't you weren't allowed to do that, be that it was absolutely just
not discussed.
And just so you know, when the film Bernie is released and when Skip Hollinsworth wrote
his articles about this case, Bernie was not out.
They basically treat both of those things treat Bernie's sexuality
as just kind of innuendo and it's not really addressed directly in any way, but he has since come out.
Okay. Just I think that's an important detail. Yeah. So he lives through all of this horrible
personal tragedy, but he's very resilient. He knows with his father gone, he has to provide for himself and his sister.
So he immediately gets to work.
The first job he gets is at a funeral home, and he's picking up shifts after school and
on the weekends, doing yard work and landscaping.
But eventually he goes inside and begins assisting with funeral services.
And his sister Anna would later tell Texas Monthly, quote, I really think that because of the loneliness
he went through in his childhood, Bernie made it his calling to serve people in times of
their own need.
So I think that's really true.
It's like when you have that kind of understanding of loss and what people go through when they
are out of funeral, it would make
a lot of sense that he would find connection there and be able to kind of give people what they need.
So, after he graduates from high school, Bernie gets an associate degree in mortuary science in
Louisiana. And then when he's in his mid-20s and 1985, he moves back to East Texas and he settles in the small town of Carthage, population,
6,500 people. Oh my goodness. Truly small town. So he gets a job at a place called the Hawthorne
Funeral Home and he has quickly recognized for his top notch mortuary skills. According to the
owner of the Funeral Home who says, quote, he was probably the most qualified young man I've ever seen.
He waited well on the families, he would sing solos behind the screen during the funeral
and he was a darn good and balmer.
He had a talent of making the hair of the deceased look really natural.
Wow.
And quote, so kind of all of his best talents are being utilized.
Yeah.
Yeah. He really found himself a spot. of all of his best talents are being utilized. Yeah, yeah.
He really found himself a spot.
But Bernie isn't just valued for his work at the funeral home
in Skip Holland's Worth's article, Midnight in the Garden of East Texas.
He describes Bernie as a remarkably warm,
hearted, and popular man. He makes friends quickly and he's eager to be helpful.
He helps his neighbors fill out tax forms.
He gives gifts just because he does little repairs for friends and neighbors when need be.
According to a member of his church, Bernie is, quote,
very quick to shake your hand and ask how you're doing.
And if you told him you weren't doing too well,
he would drop everything to talk to you and see what he could do.
And, quote, how many times have you asked someone how they're doing doing too well, he would drop everything to talk to you and see what he could do."
And quote, how many times have you asked someone how they're doing and you don't even listen
to the answer and you just like start talking about something else?
Yeah.
I mean, yeah, it's very common.
So this story, it's very important to kind of state this up top.
This story is almost entirely, the narrative is driven by Bernie himself,
whether it's in Skip's article or the resulting script that came out of that article. Marjorie
Nugent obviously isn't there to talk about her experience in this situation, nor are her family. So it is that kind of one-sided. It's a character study that's real,
but it's also kind of this thing that's very to me very interesting as you kind of look through it,
which is all the kind of red flags that we talk about, which is people hiding in the church,
people using niceness as a mask.
So that essentially when all the other people in town
hear about what happened, they just say,
I can't believe it, therefore it didn't happen.
Therefore that's not it.
Right, right.
Or something else must have triggered it or something.
Yeah.
Yeah, there must be an explanation.
The narrative is controlled by the person
who has the most to gain from controlling it.
Yeah. And I think, but probably especially back then, this idea of, say, sociopathy or
psychopathy where people know they're controlling the narrative. And what they're doing is very much
to play into that. I can do this over here with my left hand,
and if I'm acting like this with a big smile on my face,
I can do whatever I want with my right hand.
And especially in a small town,
if you've built up those relationships
and you've built up a certain kind of reputation,
the movie Bernie and everything else goes to show
is it takes you really far.
Yeah, for sure.
So that's where the other main character of this story comes in.
Her name is Marjorie Nugent.
Marjorie's in her mid-70s.
She's very wealthy.
Her husband, Rod, amassed a fortune in oil and banking.
Damn.
Yeah, oil wasn't enough.
He basically is like, I have all this money from this oil.
I'm gonna have a bank now.
Holy shit.
They live together in a sprawling,
stately compounding carthage.
And some locals describe Marjorie as icy and reserved.
God forbid a woman be unfriendly.
This is how the movie Bernie depicts her.
But her family is pushed back on that characterization and called it
deeply unfair, which I think is fascinating because in the story, she is alienated from her family
and kind of distant from her family. So the idea that after the fact it's like this is, yes, I'll
just got mischaracterized and she wasn't really like that.
Yeah, what seems true is that Marjorie doesn't have the same outward friendliness and charm that Bernie not only has, but that has made him locally adored.
So it's very easy to just be like, he's good and she's bad.
Totally.
Also, she's rich.
So she probably has a lot of rich people's habits of like,
do this for me and I don't need to talk to you
and out of my way, I'm first in line.
Right.
Maybe I don't know.
Yeah, or like, you know, she keeps herself
more than other people do,
or they don't like her because she's rich
and the spread rumors about her,
or whatever it is.
Yeah.
It feels like there's lots of variables
that could be at play here instead of the simplest.
God forbid, that is how life is.
So one Carthage resident tells Skip Holland's worth
in his article, this about Marjorie, they say,
she wasn't all that unfriendly,
but she didn't go out of her way to be friendly,
which can mean a lot in a small town.
And quote, and there it is is really, 6,500 people.
There's high schools that are bigger than that.
I says, jedgy, jedgy, jedgy.
One mark against you, it doesn't go away quickly.
Totally.
Or ever maybe there's the girl that barfed in third grade.
Remember when he called the teacher, Mom, in fifth grade?
He's 45 now.
Please let it go.
And everyone calls him son.
OK, so in 1990, Marjorie's husband,
Rod dies suddenly of natural causes.
And it's at the funeral home that Marjorie
needs Bernie for the first time.
And he assists her with all the arrangements.
So it's now well known
around Carthage that Bernie enjoys close friendships with Carthage's widows. Red flag number four, I think.
Sounds like a party to me. But he takes particular liking to Marjorie. And surprisingly, the
feelings mutual, Marjorie really loves Bernie. He's a God sent to her. She doesn't have very many friends in Carthage.
Now she's lost her husband, so she suddenly has this man there who's being very supportive in her grief.
Yeah. That friendship continues after the funeral is over. Bernie regularly stops by Marjorie's house.
He eats meals with her. He runs errands for her,
and he generally helps her recover emotionally from her husband's death.
According to one Carthage local, quote, Bernie made her smile. He gave her plenty of attention.
He was an excellent conversationalist. It was like he made her feel young again.
End quote. And when you see the pictures of the two of them, Marjorie really looks like an old lady.
And Bernie has this 80s mustache
and the 80s right up the center hair, feathered hair.
Yeah.
And like a polo shirt.
And he just looks like a young good looking dude.
Okay.
It's an odd match.
Some might say, no judgments, but it also was the kind of
thing where back in a time where he couldn't be an out gay man that was just like, I love old ladies
or the movie anti-mame or whatever. He had to just kind of like, he was very caring and he wanted
to make sure she was okay in her isolation, yes,
acically, or at least that's what everyone thought.
So this is the part of the story where accounts begin to differ depending on who you ask.
Here's what we know for a fact.
Marjorie's late husband, Rod Nugent, is worth about $10 million at the time of his death.
His death makes Marjorie the richest widow and carthage. I would hope so.
And the money just rolls in. She makes upwards of $300,000 a year off of her husband's
business royalty payments alone. Oh my God. Yeah. And now Marjorie's ready to use this money,
you know, once she's kind of done it with the grieving process to have some fun
out in the world and to do that with Bernie, she's basically found the perfect companion to do that
with. Despite their 40-year age difference, Marjorie and Bernie become incredibly close. And this
fact, of course, is not lost on the people of Carthage, who constantly gossip about
them and speculate if there's a romantic connection between them.
Yeah.
Marjorie's own family is deeply confused and a little unnerved by how close Marjorie
and Bernie have become in just a few months after the death of their father and grandfather,
including her only son, Rod, who has had a relationship with his mother.
So they're kind of distanced, but ultimately, the family is glad to see that their newly widowed
mother and grandmother has company and isn't just alone in her house. Now, Marjorie begins to
lavish her new best friend with expensive gifts, starting with a $12,000 Rolex watch.
Oh my God. Right? She also takes Bernie on incredible vacations. They fly first class to Germany,
England, Egypt, Russia. Holy shit. Yeah. And then when they come back, she bank rolls classes so
that he can get his pilots license, she flies him to New York
to watch Broadway musicals. I mean, good for like, if this didn't end so horribly, I'd be like,
hell yeah, have some fucking fun, you know? Yes. And that to me is the is kind of the line in the
sand because as we will learn later, we don't think Marjorie thought this was her gay best friend.
We think Marjorie thought this was her new boyfriend.
Oh dear. Okay. Yes.
So Marjorie eventually buys Bernie a house,
not far from her own. Holy shit.
And then he hosts a big open house, that Christmas,
with all his Carthage friends and acquaintances invited.
So basically for someone like Bernie who's making $18,000 a year, this relationship with
Marjorie is a life changer.
I'm sure.
The benefits are mutual though.
Marjorie seems very willing to spend her money on Bernie.
I mean, she's making $300,000 a year on just interest.
Yeah.
She don't give a fuck.
She's like, this is bottomless pit of fun.
We're about to have.
Totally.
But he does bring out the best in her.
You know, before she met him, she of course was introverted
and by according to some people, standoffish and stuck up
if not grumpy and moody.
But now she starts going to Bernie's church. She starts opening up. standoffish and stuck up, if not grumpy and moody.
But now she starts going to Bernie's church.
She starts opening up.
She hosts a brunch at her estate
for the Women's Sunday School group.
She basically starts kind of thriving.
Like she realizes, or maybe realizes, I don't know,
but the power of human connections.
That you can have all the money you want,
but if you're behind a big old wall
and you're estate by yourself, it doesn't matter.
Right.
Basically, within one year of their meeting,
Marjorie decides she's gonna update the will.
Ooh.
She cuts her family out entirely.
What?
Uh-huh.
And names Bernie, the sole beneficiary of her estate.
Okay, like this is just a screeching halt at this point.
Right.
When, how does this come up conversational?
Yeah.
I mean, if she wanted to add him in there
and not tell him, there's a little like, when she passes,
but to cut everyone else out,
and solely this one fucking person,
that's a red flag right there.
And you've gotta know as an eight year old woman
who has all your marbles in place,
that's gonna look like you don't.
So you have to do it.
You would have to be communicating with your banker
or your lawyer or other people of like,
well, are you cutting everybody out?
Is that need to happen or could you just include someone
and make sure he has a piece of this gigantic pie?
Sure.
Anyway, so basically when Marjorie dies,
Bernie stands to inherit $10 million.
Now, it's just all going to be his.
Oh my God.
It would be a huge deal for anyone,
but at the time Bernie met Marjorie, he was sinking into credit card debt. And by the
early 90s, he had given himself free reign over Marjorie's fortune. And as Gip Holland's
worth points out, because he figured that someday it would all be his anyway.
In any case, he feels very free to spend a lot of money on himself, whatever he wants.
He buys.
But he also starts pumping money into the carthage community.
He reportedly buys at least 10 cars for struggling families.
He awards educational scholarships at a nearby university.
He gives his church $100,000 for building upgrades
and he buys out a local trophy shop that's in danger of closing.
Oh my God, not the trophy shop.
We can't lose this trophy shop.
So basically, he's also buying people's respect and admiration in the community,
which is another very smart thing to do.
If you were, if by chance, this is someone
who is just cynically playing this for what it's worth.
Totally.
There's no limit to Bernie's generosity with Marjory's money.
Hollandsworth writes, quote,
when a man who once worked with him at the funeral home
told him that he wanted to open a clothing store, Bernie
agreed to fund it, saying that Carthage needed its own
name and Marcus. The man's idea of what Carthage needed was a
little different. He proudly opened Bootskuton, Western
Ware.
Oh, love it.
So basically, Bernie's kind of buying friends and buying, you know, buying the goodwill.
Totally.
And as he tells it, the relationship between him and Marjorie eventually begins to deteriorate.
We know Bernie begins to complain to his friends and family about Marjorie's possessiveness.
His friends seem to back this up.
They later give accounts of how Marjorie would expect Bernie to be at her back in call.
He becomes her round-the-clock caregiver.
And if Marjorie can't track him down, she gets, quote, almost panicky and calls his
pageur incessantly until he arrives.
I feel like my response to that, though, is, would you think that $12,000 watch was for?
Right.
And all the money you've been spending around town.
There's not such thing as a free lunch burnie. You can't come on. Yeah. Okay. So by early 1995,
Bernie calls his sister and suggests that Marjorie is acting aggressively, irrationally,
and might be suffering from mild dementia. We do not know if that's true or not, that's only
according to him and his sister repeating what she what he told her. But what Bernie sister
can tell is that he's exhausted. So she urges him to find his way out of the arrangement
between him and Marjorie. Bernie reportedly responds by saying, quote, I'm our only friend, I have to stay because I'm the only one she has."
End quote.
So then in November of 1996,
Marjorie Nugent vanishes from Carthage, Texas.
No one sees her for weeks and then months.
And when people, including Marjorie's family members,
ask Bernie where she is,
he gives them a range of excuses.
He claims that she's had a stroke
and she's recovering in an out of town nursing home.
He then tells Marjorie's stock broker
that Marjorie hasn't been in touch
because she now has Alzheimer's.
So he's using that dementia thing
as much as he can.
A few people including Marjorie's family members,
find Marjorie's prolonged absence incredibly weird,
if not very suspicious,
especially considering what Bernie was telling everyone.
Marjorie's cousin says, quote,
I was worried something had happened to her,
but I didn't know who to talk to about it.
Bernie was so beloved and carthage
that if I had suggested he'd done anything wrong,
I would have been laughed out of town. The whole thing is like turns it into this super
dark like yeah, if this was the truth. Yeah. Yeah. And he wasn't a victim and he wasn't
like, this was all a plan. Totally. Marjorie's absence doesn't seem to affect Bernie's spending at all. He buys a
jet ski, a bunch of new furniture for his home, an expensive coin, and crystal collections.
And if she's still alive and in a home somewhere, Bernie doesn't seem to be particularly worried
about her. He is throwing big parties at her house. Oh, yeah. He goes on a trip to Nashville with some
local friends. And while he's on that trip, he somehow does a public performance of the song Beautiful
Dreamer that gets him like such an emotional performance. He gets like a prolonged ovation
is how they describe it. So he's kind of now living his best life.
And all of this is very different
than how a dedicated companion would act
if somebody was, say, in a home or suffering from dementia.
And that's because Bernie is hiding a very dark secret
and that secret begins to bubble up to the surface
in July of 1997,
which is when Marjorie's family finally calls Carthage police
and asks them to please do a welfare check on her.
Now at this point, she hasn't been seen or heard from in months.
For some reason, please don't follow up on that request
for another month.
So then in August, investigators reach out to Bernie
and they ask if he knows where
Marjorie is. Bernie gives them a new explanation. He says, Marjorie is in a hospital three to
four hours away in Temple, Texas, where she's staying under a fake name. But when police
try to corroborate this, they can't find anyone that's been admitted to a temple area
hospital that matches Marjorie's description.
Yeah, and like how weird would that be? What would be the point of that? Right. Like, she been admitted to a temple area hospital that matches Marjorie's description.
Yeah, and like how weird would that be? What would be the point of that? Right. Like she has to go four hours away to go to the hospital.
With a fake name, that's silly.
It's like the details that start piling up, where you're like, how come
all these details for? So now police are getting suspicious. They loop in Marjorie's son Rod.
So Rod drives to Carthage with his daughters
and they unlock Marjorie's house for the officer
with the police.
The entire group searches the house together.
Everything seems to be in order.
The maid still comes regularly.
The yard's being tended to and the male gets taken in,
which is super creepy.
Yeah, so creepy.
But something feels very off in Marjorie's garage.
And that's because there's a deep freezer in there
that's mysteriously taped shut.
Oh, taped.
Bone chilling when you open that garage door
and you're like, uh-oh, yeah.
And sadly, one of Marjorie's granddaughters
decides to cut through the tape and look inside.
And at the bottom of that freezer, underneath bags of pecans and boxes of pop pies is the
body of 81-year-old Marjorie Nugent wrapped in a white sheet.
You can never get overseeing that ever.
Like that is so shocking.
Your grandma.
I mean, I know it was like the early-ish 90s, but like family members should not be searching
a house with the police. Totally. Even if the policeman, somebody you want to high school with
and blah, blah, blah. Like, think it through. Yeah. Think it through people over the past.
And it will later be discovered that she has four bullet wounds in her bag.
Oh my God.
So now immediately police set out to find Bernie and they don't have to look for very long.
He's about to take the local little league team and their families out to dinner.
So when police ask Bernie for a few moments of his time, he very nervously agrees to be interviewed when the interview begins. He basically immediately confesses that he shot Marjorie
Nugin in the back in November of 1996. That means her body was in that freezer for nine months.
Holy shit. He adds, quote, I had thoughts of hitting Marjorie in that freezer for nine months. Holy shit.
He adds, quote, I had thoughts of hitting Marjorie in the head with a bat or anything for
a couple of months prior to that, but I did not want her to suffer.
She had become very hateful.
She had become very possessive over my life.
She was now evil and wicked, but I still cared for her.
And so, four bullets is like so violent in the pack, you know?
And I think it's also really violent and gross
to be basically crafting your excuse slash story
while you are confessing to this murder
where it's like she was evil.
Yeah.
Like no, dude.
Yeah.
Like you can't kill evil people.
You can't kill good people.
But I guess what you also can't kill evil people.
No, killing anybody isn't the solution.
And if she had some sort of like, in if her brain, as my mom used to say, was going organic, if there was something wrong
with your brain, why aren't you immediately getting her
to a doctor or a facility, anything?
Like it's, yeah.
So Bernie's arrested, he's charged with Marjorie's murder.
He's given a $1.5 million bond,
and the response by many residents of Carthage upon hearing Bernie's arrest is a surprising1.5 million bond and the response by many residents of Carthage upon hearing Bernice
arrest is a surprising one. Instead of being freaked out or condemning the man for shooting
an elderly woman in the back, instead they rally around him. They urge the local district attorney,
Danny Buck Davidson, to go easy on him. But this is not the view of everyone in the community.
Davidson says, quote, this town is split up.
People remember him as being real nice and doing nice things.
And they like my office to go real easy on him.
And then there's a group that wants no mercy.
End quote.
And I think it's safe to assume Marjorie's family
would fall in that second group.
Even though Marjorie and her son, Rod, had a distant relationship, he, of course, is
shaken and devastated by his mother's murder.
And in 1998, Rod publicly accuses Bernie of stealing as much as $4 million from his mother.
Wow.
Rod believes that Bernie intentionally isolated Marjorie from her existing support system, tricked her into giving him access to her funds, and then killed her once she started
figuring out his schemes.
And to Rod, this is a clear case of elder abuse.
This theory gets strengthened when Bernie's old boss at the funeral home admits that a widow
once called the business asking Bernie to return the money he'd borrowed from her.
Oh dear.
But Bernie supporters claim that he was in an abusive relationship with a controlling,
emotionally suffocating, elderly woman, and he snapped under the weight of her constant demands.
Bernie's defenders point to the fact that Marjorie seems to have few friends and strained relationships
with some of her family members. And these people claim that this is indicative of Marjorie's
difficult, if not hostile personality. You get to be difficult and not be murdered for it.
Right. Totally. It's just how it is. So to ensure fairness, Bernie's trial is
moved more than 50 miles away to a town called San Augustine. And in 1999, Bernie Tita is convicted
of murder and sentenced to life in prison. Not long after, Skip Holland's worth and Texas
based filmmaker, Richard Linkletter, write aplay about Bernie, called Bernie. According to Hollinsworth,
the script sits on a shelf for a decade before finally being produced. It's released in 2011.
It took critical acclaim. So Marjorie's family, of course, hates this movie. Marjorie's granddaughter
Shanna will later say that Bernie, quote, took Marjorie's life.
He took her money, and then in the movie,
they took her reputation.
They took her dignity.
Ouch.
Yeah.
Quote.
Mm-hmm.
So meanwhile, Bernie has an ever-growing league
of supporters and advocates who consider him a deeply generous,
kind person who is also flawed.
Bernie committed a murder, which everyone agrees is terrible, but he's
undeniably remorseful. And among his supporters is an appeals lawyer named Jody Cole, who was so moved
by the movie that she reaches out to Bernie and offers to take up his case. While digging into Bernie's
court records,
Cole learns about the childhood sexual abuse
that he suffered at the hands of his uncle,
and the jury in Bernie's murder trial
never heard this information,
which Cole thinks is a huge oversight.
She hires multiple psychiatrists who analyze Bernie
and conclude that, quote,
the years of victimization coupled with what they described as abusive treatment
from New Gent caused Tita to suddenly snap.
End quote.
So Cole takes this information back to district attorney
Danny Buck Davidson and asks for Bernie's case
to be re-evaluated.
And to the shock of many people following the case,
Davidson, who is the same
man who prosecuted Bernie back in the late 90s, now concedes that he would not have sought
a life sentence, had he known about Bernie's history of sexual abuse.
Wow. The thought of Bernie's case being re-evaluated and potentially resulting in a lighter
sentence in Senses, Marjorie Nugens family.
I'm sure.
They think that Davidson, who has become a bit of a celebrity thanks to the movie,
has fallen under the spell of Hollywood and fame.
So in 2014, Texas Court of Criminal Appeals grants Bernie a new trial,
but not to re-evaluate his guilt to look at his sentencing.
So while he awaits trial, Bernie's released on bond.
He spends the next two years living on Richard Linkletters' Austin property and being a model
citizen.
He works for multiple nonprofits that, quote, seek to improve conditions for prison inmates.
And he also gets involved in local,
in a local Methodist church,
where he sings in the choir and at Christmas dresses up
like Santa and hands out guests to children.
Marjorie and New Jersey family members are astounded.
They feel like everyone, journalists,
the criminal justice system,
and many members of the public are being conned
by Bernie just like Marjorie was. So in 2016, Bernie heads back to court. His defense points out
that he's remorseful and that he's been on his best behavior, both while he was incarcerated
and while living in Austin. The defense also continues to insist that Bernie's relationship with Marjorie was rife with emotional abuse and crippling control.
And now his lawyers claim that Bernie might have lost control when he killed Marjorie because
he himself was abused as a child.
A psychological expert testifies that quote, Tita suffered from a dissociative episode
sparked by the cumulative effect of his childhood abuse and the demeaning
treatment of New Junt.
The defense would also add that the New Junt family doesn't actually care about Marjorie
and instead they claim the family is using Bernie's guilt to get at her fortune, which
is pretty fucking awful to pretend that you would know what any other people are
feeling about their family member.
Right.
Well, in response, the prosecutors maintain their stance.
They say that Bernie is a con artist who targeted vulnerable old women for his own financial
benefit.
Prosecutors find an expert who argues that Bernie shows signs of narcissism and anti-social personality disorder. And they also bring up
damning evidence like the fact that Bernie created fake deposit slips meant to
convince Marjorie he was smartly investing her money. But in fact, he was just
pocketing it. And what makes a difference here is there's actual testimony on one of the more confusing
and gray areas of this case, the status of Bernie and Marjorie's relationship.
So this is a quote from a 2016 article from the Pinola Watchman about this trial and it
says, quote, witnesses in the now weeklong trial have presented accounts indicating that then 38-year-old
closeted church choir singer was establishing a romance with his 81-year-old benefactress.
Tom Stone, the New Jens Longview accountant since 1970, said he had been talking business
with the widow in her Carthage home one morning, when Tita emerged from a bedroom pulling on
his jacket.
And she stood and kissed him.
The CPA said, specifying when pressed by prosecutor Jane Starns, it was a mouth-to-mouth
kiss.
So to me, that is a real, that is where it's at. Cause this isn't fun times with my grandma
like person in my life, me trying to help a widow,
right now I'm playing the part of Bernie,
me trying to help a widow, me trying to be a good person,
a church member, blah, blah, blah.
Yeah.
This is a person who's emotionally manipulating a woman
who I bet you was married for 40 or 50 years, right?
Right.
When you think about that,
she's just lost her husband.
Yeah, absolutely.
She's basically like, doesn't,
and she's, her family isn't close to her.
Right.
So what is she going to do?
And suddenly here comes,
Mr. Mustache into her life,
being like, I got this, I can handle it,
we're gonna have the time of our lives.
And then she does.
That's wild.
Eventually, in this trial,
Marjorie's granddaughter, Shanna,
actually gets up and testifies.
And she tells Bernie directly to his face, quote,
you wanna take everything about my family
and make it dirty and nasty, but the truth is,
that is what you are.
You sir are nothing to me.
You took my grandmother's life.
You took the last years of her life, and you stole her money.
But you know what her legacy is?
It's my family.
Yeah.
So try a last for three weeks.
And then in April of 2016, a verdict comes down.
And once again, it's another surprise twist.
Not only does Bernie not receive a lighter sentence
for his good behavior, he's given 99 years to life
in his room.
That doubled down, holy shit.
He weeps as he's taken from the courtroom.
Berni Tita is currently incarcerated
and will be eligible for parole in 2029
when he's 70 years old.
Skip Holland's worth, who's played a key role
in the telling of this story has continued to mull over
his feelings about this case.
In 2016, he writes, quote,
I have a feeling that Tita will always remain a mystery,
either a very good man who snapped and did one very bad thing,
or a con man who fooled nearly everyone he met
even after he committed murder.
Damn.
And that's the story of the murder of Marjorie Nugent
by Bernie Tita.
Wow.
That is deep. And I definitely was thinking of the murder of Marjorie Nugent by Bernie Teeta. Wow. That is deep.
And I definitely was thinking of the of the Zach Alfonakis
Will Ferrell character movie the whole time.
Similar. It's a similar vibe.
Is it okay?
Similar vibe.
But I mean, that's the other thing is that movie in retrospect now.
And it is from 2011.
Yeah.
Whatever.
But everything's different in retrospect.
But to basically go back and then put that dark filter on it where it's like, it was presented as,
hey, this guy, you can't, but it's like, but we know after seven years of telling these stories
over and over again every week, it's like, that's exactly how those people work. Right.
Well, it's interesting.
Both of our stories was like, you know, blame the victim.
At what point do you make someone snap?
At what point is the victim?
Yeah, part of the problem.
That kind of thing.
It's just these gray area questions that are so hard to dissect.
Well, and I think this is a thing
that I've definitely learned on this podcast,
which is you wanna talk about a person being
a victim of childhood abuse
and having that be the reason
or the excuse or whatever later in life.
And we've heard it over and over
from survivors where it's like,
that doesn't hold up because most people who go
through that horrible stuff do not go on to murder anybody at all.
Right, right.
Totally.
It's not.
Yeah, it can't be an excuse or everyone would be doing it.
Yeah.
Totally, totally.
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And we'll continue to do it
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