My Favorite Murder with Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark - Rewind with Karen & Georgia - Episode 1: My Firstest Murder
Episode Date: June 26, 2024It’s time to Rewind with Karen & Georgia! Join Karen and Georgia as they rewind to January 13, 2016 for an Episode 1 listening party featuring favorite moments and all new commentary. Throughout the... episode, they reflect on the show’s beginnings, discuss important case updates and everything that’s changed along the way. In this episode, Georgia covers the murder of JonBenét Ramsey and Karen discusses Sacramento’s East Area rapist. Now everyone can be a day one listener! Head to social media to share your favorite moments from Episode 1 of My Favorite Murder. Instagram: instagram.com/myfavoritemurder   Facebook: facebook.com/myfavoritemurder TikTok: tiktok.com/@my_favorite_murder Now with updated sources and photos: https://www.myfavoritemurder.com/episodes/1-my-firstest-murder My Favorite Murder is a true crime comedy podcast hosted by Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark. Each week, Karen and Georgia share compelling true crimes and hometown stories from friends and listeners. Since MFM launched in January of 2016, Karen and Georgia have shared their lifelong interest in true crime and have covered stories of infamous serial killers like the Night Stalker, mysterious cold cases, captivating cults, incredible survivor stories and important events from history like the Tulsa race massacre of 1921. The Exactly Right podcast network provides a platform for bold, creative voices to bring to life provocative, entertaining and relatable stories for audiences everywhere. The Exactly Right roster of podcasts covers a variety of topics including true crime, comedy, science, pop culture and more. Podcasts on the network include Buried Bones with Kate Winkler Dawson and Paul Holes, That's Messed Up: An SVU Podcast, This Podcast Will Kill You, Bananas and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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We're here with something new for you guys, for the whole Murderino community.
It's called Rewind with Karen and Georgia.
That's right.
So we are going back right now to January 13th, 2016.
The precious little baby.
And that's the day our first episode was released.
And we're going to add all new commentary
to our favorite moments from the show just for you.
And we're gonna reflect on the beginnings of this show,
talk about case updates,
talk about everything that's changed along the way.
It's been a very long time.
It has eight and a half years. And now you can invite your sister, your coworker, your
gothy librarian friends. So they can now be day one listeners as well. And you guys can
have a listening party with our commentary.
What you're about to hear taking place in 2016, just to give you a little context, we're
in Georgia's apartment in East Hollywood.
I don't think there was air conditioning, right?
Oh, definitely not air conditioning.
No air conditioning.
Obama was president.
David Bowie had just died.
It was a real innocent time and place where we decided to kick this thing off.
We had no idea.
We had no freaking clue.
Like, can you imagine back then if we had any idea
what was going to happen?
There was like a time traveler that came and knocked
on the door that was like, guys, what you're about to do
is going to change your lives forever.
Whole lives.
It was going to be like, fuck you.
You know what I was thinking?
You know what I was comparing it to in my head is the podcast
is like, we were at a rave.
And there was some cool house music going going on and they're like chill room and
we're chilling and we didn't know that suddenly the beat was about to drop so
fucking hard and we would be fucking on the speakers dancing to that fucking
beat drop like we had no idea we had no idea and we forgot that we had done
drugs 45 minutes previous.
So the beat drops right as the drugs kick in and suddenly a lot of things are happening.
And the main thing that happened, and I think the main thing we didn't expect, was feedback.
This thing we were making was not us in a little cocoon. It was we're putting it obviously out into the world
and then the world began to talk to us.
And that I think has been the most mind blowing,
sometimes very frightening and sometimes incredibly-
Rewarding.
Yeah, like, you know, really nice.
The people that like us really love us and that's what we have focused on this whole
time.
They've given us a lot of grace, and I appreciate that, and given us the opportunity to take
that grace and do something with it.
For example, in this first episode, we use the word prostitute, like, it ain't no thing.
Well at the time, it ain't no thing. Well, at the time, it ain't no thing.
It was literally what newscasters used.
It was what they were using over on 2020 and Dateline
and everywhere else.
This was the word that was used.
You know why?
Because at that rave, there were no other people
like us at that rave.
I'm going to keep going back.
Go to the rave metaphor.
There was nobody else doing it.
Last podcast on the left, they were obviously doing that.
But this kind of conversational spectator true crime podcast
with two women was not really a thing back then.
No.
So keep that in mind when you listen, please.
Yeah, there's a lot of, well, it's just to, it's basically a private conversation that
got recorded and then distributed.
There's also a lot of nervous laughing.
That's a thing over the years that I have recognized in myself, that I was a person
who laughed to fill the air.
I think it's because of my stand-up comedy background
where that's, you know, go along, get along kind of thing. But it's also where talking
about this comedically at like, we were being cool. And I think that was a very first year
or first even four months kind of energy that we had. And immediately people started talking to us about it.
And then it was like, oh, oh, we, that's,
we will never say that word again,
or we're doing this wrong.
Or it just became this like awakening of like,
oh, this is, we're like, we're doing this now.
Yeah, people are listening to us.
We have a responsibility as women,
I feel like to set a certain standard.
And I don't think we realized that was going to happen yet.
And so there is a lot of nervous giggling.
There is like, I love, like, I love murder.
Like, now we would never say something like that.
You know, it's like we've really learned.
Well, we just realized, like, we didn't consider ourselves
professionals or anything like that,
but we realized there was a standard that we needed to start kind of broadcasting up to.
And we had this opportunity and this platform to actually make that change, to actually
listen when people said, hey, you said this, and this is how I took it, and I did not like
it.
You don't have to listen to every single person that says that.
But there are people who say it and they have a great point and you go, yeah, you're right,
I'm going to incorporate that and that's a change I want to make and that makes perfect
sense.
Totally.
Like every correction doesn't have to be a condemnation.
It's an opportunity for you to grow and change and become a bigger person.
Which I actually think, I mean, this might sound self-congradulatory, but I honestly
think that's why people listen.
Is because when have you ever listened to people having a conversation and then you
go back a week later and they're like, oh, hey, listen, I fucked that up.
And like we didn't, I think because we just were like, yeah, we, Corrections Corner came
up before any corrections.
That's true.
You made up the idea for a corrections corner.
Yeah.
Before like, yes, we're gonna get things wrong.
And that's another thing too,
is like coming into it being like, we're not experts.
Go watch the documentary.
You're an expert.
I think like not being smarty pants about it
was very helpful.
It wasn't really a choice.
That's the other thing.
But we're both such smarty pants though.
We're both such PhDs.
We are.
I mean, in this episode, oh no, sorry, it's the next episode.
I thought I was just going to be able to tell my story off the top of my head.
We both really were just like, here's my story.
There's no story.
Right.
We're just chatting.
Yeah.
It was very, you know, the armchair quarterbacks that are there to talk about the game that they just watched.
So it was, you know, and it was so fun to finally give ourselves permission.
And I think the permission piece, which for people today, now that it's so normalized and it is a thing that people, it's everything on Netflix. It's everything that people talk about.
Back then, the act of giving ourselves permission
to say we like this and we want to talk about it,
people would write in and say,
I've never been able to talk about this before.
That doesn't happen anymore.
And that's such a good point is the reason we started
this podcast is because personally,
I didn't have other friends I could talk to about this.
Like people would say to me,
when I'd say, where are you from?
And they'd tell me, and I'd tell them the murder that happened,
the big murder that happened in their town,
like no one wanted to hear that.
And when I found you and you were like,
let's go sit at a cafe for five hours and talk about this,
I was like, oh, like this is so exciting.
This is all I want to discuss
because my anxiety around this is horrible.
And that's how I cope with anxiety is,
that's talking it out and-
Diving into it.
Diving in and see, and relating to other people.
And so the fact that we started it just for that reason,
not expecting that anyone else would want to listen
because our friends wouldn't want to listen.
Right, and also the thing of us talking about therapy,
which is, I think at the time, because our friends wouldn't want to listen. Right, and also the thing of us talking about therapy,
which is, I think, at the time,
something you and I were doing freely and we didn't care,
but a lot of other people felt like it was,
the scarlet letter somehow, or it meant something really bad.
And that has changed so much just culturally,
just because everyone's like,
oh no, I get to be healthy and happy, fuck off.
But back then, I think you and I very ignorantly
were just like, yeah, we go to therapy, we really need it.
Here's what my therapist said.
I'm like, that's all I'm thinking about this week
because I'm falling apart.
Yeah.
So also I really have to apologize
to my sister's friend, Adrienne, because I call her Prissy
within the first 15 seconds of that episode.
One of my closest friends in the world who also isn't really, I don't know what I was
doing.
I would not describe her as Prissy.
She's not at all.
She would win in a bar fight for sure.
The bar fight wouldn't start because people would be so fucking scared.
Absolutely.
But I think the word I was looking for is I had judged her on the surface of like she would think
I was weird.
Like prim and proper almost.
Yeah, but even though she...
But it's just so funny because I think that was all those things were these kind of...
It's almost like you and I just thought we were going to talk about,
you know, serial killers and whatever.
And then there were just all these weird personal discoveries and these and other people having
personal discoveries and telling us about the personal discoveries.
And also Georgia got the idea of like doing hometowns.
She had that on episode one where it was like, if you like this and you know a story that got you into this,
tell us about it. Like, what a brilliant fucking,
I mean, thanks for that by the by.
Hell yeah. I mean, it was really cool to take something I actually did in life
and then be able to like, guess real stories
instead of being the weirdo telling the stories.
If you're trying to make up a podcast for yourself, I would recommend that you do exactly
what Georgia did, which is what is the thing that embarrasses you that you do so much and
no one else understands?
Yeah.
And if you take that onto the mic, you will have your mind blown and how many people are
just like you.
Well, it's very telling.
And I know we talk about this, we've talked about this a lot, but we were both reading
Brene Brown, Staring Greatly when we started this podcast.
So it was like vulnerability, like to 11.
Vulnerability at a rave?
Vulnerability.
Yes.
Yes.
Well, and also I think being the age that I was too, it's like I'd done lots of things,
tried lots of things. And it was finally like, I was in my late forties going, I don't give a shit.
Like vulnerability is the only way because I've done all those other ways and
they're fake and other people know you're being fake and it doesn't work and whatever.
So there's, yeah, I think there was just lots of, it was just like for us, maybe the perfect time and place.
Yeah, definitely.
In our lives.
There's no way that, yeah, that can't be denied.
So right now we're going to throw to a nice chunk from the beginning of this episode,
just so you get the sense of what that is.
And then if you want to listen to the full episode, obviously the whole catalog is up
and it always has been.
But this is just more of like, if you have a friend who has told you,
oh, I want to listen to that podcast, but it's been going on for so long that it's too late, I won't get it, quote unquote.
We're here to tell you there's literally nothing to get.
It's almost the same every single time.
We're just doing riffs in the middle,
and then changing the topic to something horrifying
and compelling and people's stories.
So like, it's the same every time.
So if you've listened from the beginning,
but it's been a while, this is kind of like the best of,
so you can also like give it to your mom to listen to
without having to start from the very beginning actually.
So just stay to the end.
We'll be commenting throughout the whole thing.
And thank you guys for listening.
Here is the intro.
Let's go back.
Let's rewind.
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Goodbye.
Karen. It's really happening. It's really happening.
Georgia.
Hey.
Hard start.
Karen Kilgara.
Just go to sleep.
Let's get comfy.
Let's just relax into what we're about to do, which is our new podcast, My Favorite
Murder.
Let's get cozy and comfy and cuddle up and talk about murder.
Talk about the thing that makes you feel most romantic.
Murder.
We got a fire lit.
We're having some hot cocoa.
I'm swirling a brandy around over my head.
No, I love this topic.
I do, too.
And that's why we're friends.
Yeah, we've talked about this for a long time about true crime and what our favorite ones are
because that sounds creepy, but.
That's who we are.
That's fine.
I feel like we were at a party and something along this topic came up and that's how you
and I were both like, shoulder grab moment.
I remember which one it was.
What was it?
It was the staircase.
Yes. Everyone's favorite, What was it? It was the staircase. Yes.
Everyone's favorite, isn't it?
Oh yeah.
And because we were at a party and a girl we were there with, Erin Dewey Lennox, she
has a photo from prom of herself on that staircase.
No.
You're shaking your head now.
No, I'm just freaking out.
I didn't see that.
Oh, you didn't?
Did I?
I thought you did.
Are you talking about Matt's Halloween party last year?
Yeah. I didn't see that. Oh my God. Did I? I thought you did. Are you talking about Matt's Halloween party last year?
Yeah.
I didn't see that.
Oh my God.
So she was friends with that family in high school.
Holy.
And so, like, before it happened, there was prom.
She went to prom with the daughter, her friend, photo of them in their prom dresses on the
staircase.
Oh my God.
Of the staircase, of the staircase story.
Unbelievable.
I know.
What does she think?
What's her opinion?
I think she thinks the bird did it, which I think is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
The owl theory?
Yeah.
No.
Right?
That is made up as hell.
Everyone watched the staircase and then laughed along with us at the owl story.
You know what's funny is I just recommended my sister's best friend, Adrienne, who's basically
like my other sister I grew up with.
I told her we were going to do this.
And the second I said it, and I did not know this about her.
I've known her since I was 12.
She goes, oh, well, night soccer.
It has to be night soccer first and foremost.
And I was like, wait, I didn't realize you had an opinion about this.
She's like, oh my God, I love serial killers.
I was like, what? Like she was always the prissy girl. And like the,
or I mean, not prissy, but just I didn't know. I just thought it was so weird and perverted
all my life for loving this topic so much.
And you can't tell anyone because they're going to think you're psychotic or like into
murder, which you're not. You're just like fascinated.
By the idea, the whole concept. So that was awesome.
Then I said, you have to watch this series.
You'll freak out.
And she's been texting me updates as she's watching it.
Like, can't believe it.
Just all emojis.
So basically, yeah, go watch it.
But this chick's husband fucking killed her because she found out that he was having like
a child molester or something, right?
No, no, no.
He was having a fair, he was like paying for male prostitutes.
And she found out like right before he murdered her.
I mean, the owl playing into that, it makes it seem more unlikely when you know about
the male prostitutes. It throws a, what do you call wrench in the works a little bit
for the owl.
It throws an owl. It throws a male prostitute into the thing.
It throws a live owl into the works. It's so crazy. But I understand there's people
making argument that he got railroaded because of the male prostitute thing and painted a
picture of him that wasn't real or whatever, but it's still bullshit. Because you can still kill your wife and be railroaded and have Southern people be biased
against you because you're secretly.
Southern people aren't the tolerant of...
The Southern.
And I'll be intolerant by saying all Southern people are intolerant.
But it's absolutely true across the board.
There you go.
That's what we're about.
Big facts and truths. So stop listening now're about. Big, big facts and truths.
So stop listening now if you can't handle the truth and facts.
Or spoilers like the guy killed his wife on the stairs.
It's not a mystery.
I don't think a spoiler is ever the guy killed his wife because that's like, yeah, the guy
killed his wife.
Yeah.
It's like a spoiler is that an owl did it.
That's exactly right. Good point.
So we're going to, so this is, are we calling this My Favorite Murderer?
I thought you were going to say are we recording this?
So do you want to start with-
Is this what we're-
Should we start? My Favorite Murderer and it's going to be real fucked up and Dustin brought
up a great point that we might be inviting a murderer into our lives by doing this.
I mean, but here's the thing, and this is why I'm so fascinated by this topic in general,
we might already know a murderer.
Oh my God, like probably.
Probably and in that way where they're just in a very cat-like, removed, Dexter way, just
observing all this for the kind of, oh, they think they're cute.
Isn't that cute and quaint?
Yeah, so I guess the disclaimer is please don't kill us because we can't do this podcast
anymore.
This is why we're friends, because we love murder.
Murder and the one time I was stoned at a party and decided to tell people one of the
worst things I've ever seen, I made people blanch and walk away from our circle and Georgia
moved closer with the wide eyes she has right now going, oh my God, this is amazing.
It's when I, I don't know why I did it.
I do.
This is part of my problem.
Oh my God, tell me I love it.
It was when, I think it was at that same party.
Yeah.
Somebody asked me what had been going on lately and it was right after I got back
from South by Southwest, or not right after.
For some reason, the South by Southwest.
The car accident.
The car accident came up and my big brag,
which never pans out as a brag, I always think it is like how fascinating about me and no
one ever agrees, is that I was there when it happened and I didn't see it. My back was
to it. I heard it.
Tell everyone what it was.
Oh, sorry. At South by Southwest two years ago, a guy was in a police chase and he turned up a street that was cordoned off for people to mill about because it was a festival. And so all the
people standing in the street in front of the theater where X was playing got plowed
down.
Old punk rockers.
Yeah. And I had been standing last in line to get in. So I would have been the first
person hit, but I decided to walk away.
Good for you if you're like, fuck this shit, and we'll read.
Yeah, because you know me in lines and waiting and how I don't go anywhere or do anything.
So I walked away to see my friend at the front like, hey, let's just stand out here and listen
to the music.
The car comes, people fly like cardboard boxes.
I tell this story in groups of people and people are literally
like bumming out hard.
And I had just read about it that afternoon and I was like, tell me everything. Because
that's why like, car accidents are another thing. I've had two ex-boyfriends and one
best friend die in car accidents.
What?
Yeah.
What?
Yeah. Two ex-boyfriends, there were ex-boyfriends at the time, but they were important ones,
you know, from like high school. Died in car accidents. One of my best friends from high school died
in a car accident. Don't trick and drive you guys.
That's horrible.
I know. So I'm just fucking want to hear all about it. And I'm also big on anything could
happen at any moment and you'll never know about it. I don't sit near a window at a restaurant
because I'm like, a car is going to come creaking through the fucking window and kill me.
Sure.
So that shit to me is like, tell me everything so I can avoid it.
Yes.
That's what all of this is really.
I just want to collect information and hear theories and stories so that I can be braced
so that when I see the weird, you know, that the one thing's out of the knife's lock,
I'm ready.
Totally.
Like why is there an open soda can right there?
I didn't open that.
Well, I don't drink Pepsi light.
It's tough here.
So keep us in context.
We're just, we're living the life.
We're trying.
Listen, we both have really bad anxiety.
I just want everyone should know that we're like, I hope that's clear.
I hope it's clear that we're clinically anxious people.
I went all the meds.
It doesn't work.
This is me at like a baseline, like medicated, I'm doing okay anxiety.
I just don't leave my house almost ever.
Right, you have two ferocious dogs.
I have dogs that guard the door and we just stay indoors all the time.
It's a secret.
Everything's locked.
Windows are locked and closed.
I don't know how you live. I shouldn't say this actually.
How I live in that house?
On the first floor.
Well-
That's my huge fear of dogs.
It's scary, but those dogs, that's why I got those dogs.
Yeah, that's true.
That's true.
I lived for a couple months without those dogs and every night I would just lay in my
bed like I would hear things.
Waiting.
It was crazy.
Yeah.
Because also the quieter it is, the worse it is.
Yeah. Because then you're just like, then your brain is telling you you're hearing things. It was crazy. Because also the quieter it is, the worse it is. Because then you're just like, then your brain is telling you you're hearing things. It was not as
funny like just get a look at a dog.
Yeah. Good for you.
Thank you. I'm a hero.
I always have a boyfriend. No, that's not why. Also because I had a seizure when I was
a kid once and I don't want to sleep alone anymore.
Oh, tell me about it.
Also, I love Vince, but also it's nice to not get murdered.
Also I love Vince comes third.
The murder is important though because you have to live to be able to love him.
But here's the thing, what if he murders me?
I mean, you got to think about your husband.
Here's what I'm telling you.
The book I write will do you proud.
Thank you so much.
I will be the Ann Rule.
I'll be like, guys. I was there the whole time
You know you would never have known he wanted to murder her. Yeah. Yeah
Yeah, this is the best still waters. You're like that guy's the best
I'm so waters just I'm saying people that are like you would have never known that murdering them
That's the name of the book still waters run deep. Yeah, the Vance Averill story
Okay, should we tell okay, so then we'll tell each other our favorite murders. And then, okay, here's what we want.
If you guys stop listening during the murder part, because you hate us, before you do that,
listen to this. We're obsessed with people's hometown murder, kidnapping, fucked up, crazy
stories. I have always asked people at bars and they stopped talking to me because
I want to know they're like, what was the crazy thing that happened in your town?
And I have-
If they can't handle that level of conversations, better you're not talking to them.
I completely agree.
Get out.
And I don't have one really, one of those stories.
Because you're from LA?
I'm from Orange County. Nothing bad happens there. No, there's some shit. So we want
you to email us. You can
email me at myfavoritemurderatgmail.com. Your town story, but don't say like, here's the
town story, put a link in it. We want in your own voice, like, so this fucking thing happened
and I was this year's old and my mom wouldn't let me and then we used to go to the house
and throw rocks at it. Here's what happened. Does that happen? Totally.
Did you do that?
Yep.
You have a, well, let's see, we can go then. Talk about Polyclass.
Yeah. I mean, that one, yeah, that one's rough because it's so famous and the town
was so small. I'm from Petaluma where the little girl Polyclass got taken out of her
bedroom by a man while she was having a slumber party.
Like multiple people were there. Yeah. Multiple little girls. Why did he do it then? Do we know? little girl, Polly Klaus, got taken out of her bedroom by a man while she was having a slumber party.
Like multiple people were there.
Yeah, multiple little girls.
Why did he do it then?
Do we know?
Nobody knows.
There were lots of theories that the dad had bad deaths or was involved in drugs.
But that's kind of, of course, small town gossip.
That's extreme too.
It's crazy.
And also this guy was a total like Charles Manson in and out of jail all
his life.
Keep them in jail. Come on. That's another problem I have.
It's this simple.
It's so simple. Like rapists get three to five years. Stop doing that.
That's so insane.
It's insane.
You know, we're going to do a lot of good on this one.
I feel like we're going to change laws. We're going to be advocates, victims advocates.
Mariska Hargitay is going to guest spot on it one time.
She's going to deliver our speech. No, I don't know what I'm saying.
At the awards?
She's going to give us our medal at our awards.
At the podcast awards?
Uh-huh.
Listen, there are lots of rape kits that are backlogged thousands and thousands.
Let's get those rape kits tested. Hey guys, and thousands. Let's get those rape kits tested.
Hey guys, hey guys, let's get those rape kits tested.
There's like a loosely closed door and on the other side of, and it called a rape kit.
And on the other side of that door is the person who did it.
And probably other bad things that you might want to know about.
Probably. Should we confirm the fact that we're going to call it my favorite murder?
Or do we agree to that on the spot?
We agree to it on the spot.
Yeah.
I love that.
That's amazing.
It's the same thing with when I played that theme song in my, while I was watching TV,
I think I paused the TV.
I got the idea for
what it could be, sent it to you in a voice note, and you were like, sure.
That's it.
It was just like, okay.
Because I was like, well, it could be this.
And it was like, there was no discussion at all.
And you just rubber stamp that thing and put it right up.
Done.
I'm a yes lady.
I think there is a mention that you mentioned,
let me rock out for the theme song.
I think you mentioned that and then you do it
and I'm like, perfect, moving on.
Moving on, we've done it.
It's like, it's kind of great because if we had known,
maybe it wouldn't have been so simply executed.
We couldn't have known.
And also, yeah, I think that's that.
Those details that seem so important,
they didn't seem that important at the time.
We were just hanging out.
Yeah, what was going on in your life at the time in 2016?
I had two fucking jobs trying to keep my head above water
as I slowly went underwater with my mortgage.
And so this was the last thing I was supposed to be doing above water as I slowly went underwater with my mortgage.
And so this was the last thing I was supposed to be doing because I had two full-time writing
jobs and trying to transition between one and the other and doing this.
But I was like, yeah, it's so fun and I want to have something.
Because I was so tired of in my career doing stuff that was just like for money to get it just started feeling so crazy to work so much
For money and nothing else. Yeah, and so it was like when you had this idea and you were like we should do this
Don't you think it was like yeah, we definitely should we need a we need an extracurricular activity
I needed like something that wasn't something that wasn't comedy
people from comedy, all
the people from all the jobs I've ever had. Like I loved the idea. And also, you know,
the first couple of times you and I hung out, and I think we've talked about this a lot,
but like the energy you have, like at a party is some of my favorite kind of energy because
you're, you are a manic. Well, you're like a,
a very light social shit disturber in a way that is my favorite.
Cause you're just like,
biggest compliment I've ever had. You like look around and then you're like,
you know, am I about to yell something like make everyone say what they're
thankful for or am I about to belch so loudly that people are going to like have
their hair blown back? All of it equals fun. I love it. Thank you. Yes. So I needed more fun in my life for sure.
Oh I love that. Thank you. Yeah it was that. It was just for fun. Vince has mentioned in this first one as though he might kill me and you're gonna write the memoir about it.
Oh yeah. Yeah. So that hasn't happened yet, which is nice.
And I'm still with, I can't believe I'm still
with the same person.
Like as someone who's always been in a series
of three to five year relationships,
the fact that I'm still with the dude
from the beginning of this podcast is like awesome to me.
Yeah, you've done it.
I did it.
That's a huge accomplishment.
Yeah, for sure.
Okay, well, my story is first, I think, right?
Yeah.
I do a classic Jean-Bernier Ramsay.
So here we go. Let's rewind.
Should we go? Should we do my favorite murder?
Yes. You want to go first?
Sure. I think this is an obvious one. So like, yeah, what do we? Okay. My favorite murder.
It's your official voice.
I'm really excited.
Yeah, you know what? Let's get real. Yeah. What do we... Okay. My favorite murder. It's your official voice. I'm really excited. Here we go.
Let's get real.
We're just going to do every week our favorite murder, like a murder story we love.
So I had to start a good one because it's... And it's new. I'm newly interested in this.
I was just going to say one thing. We know other people love this as much as we do.
So if we mess up information, don't be afraid to tell us because I understand like when I hear people talking about something, it drives me crazy
if I know the real thing because it is my passion. But I also am very inaccurate and
messy person. So if I get it wrong and you want to tell us, please do and we'll talk
about it.
I appreciate that because I'm so nervous about getting any of this wrong that I'm going to
get less information than I like would think I have. And also get tell us more information that I'm going to get less information than I would think I have.
And also tell us more information that you know or cool things that you know about.
Totally.
I think at the end of the episodes, we should just read, listen, or mail of weird shit.
I think that's a great idea.
How about we have a whole segment that's like corrections?
How about we have a supplement to our podcast of just corrections every week.
My passion is for the act and for specific stories within it, but I'll always get the
numbers wrong or the years wrong.
My passion is for the insanity of it and the fact that this stuff happens. So tell us when
we're wrong.
Just jump into this.
Just nicely though.
You don't have to get on your high horse about it. Just calm down.
Yeah. Okay. Now that we got that out of the way. My favorite murder is that of Jean-Bernier
Ramsay.
Oh, classic.
Which I used to think was stupid and boring until I listened to last podcast on the left's
two-part in-depth discussion of it.
Yes.
And I was like, oh, this is way more fascinating
than I remember.
Yes. I love that podcast. You turned me on to it.
And you turned me on to it because of those episodes, which I immediately listened to.
And those guys are so on it with all of their research.
Yeah. Very thorough. We are not.
We're not going to do that.
Everyone knows it. Basically, a six yearold girl was murdered in her home in Boulder, Colorado in 1996. She was a beauty queen, which I think just kind of sullies the whole
thing because it's really just a little girl and the beauty pageant stuff has nothing to
do with it.
Right. Except for you could stop right there and still have a real good horror story because
she's a six-year-old girl. They're babies.
Children. I was telling you that, that I was looking at a picture of her and then remembered that she's six,
like one year older than five, and she looks like she's 10.
She does.
It's dirty. The whole thing is the creepiest.
And she looks smarter than, she looks a little knowing, which is fucked up.
And I feel like the beauty pageant thing was a big deal because it kind of, because it
was never solved, this crime, which I don't think is true.
I think her father killed her, which we'll get into.
But the fact that it's like, well, maybe a child molested in it because I feel like
that kind of made it seem that way. Because
she's this dressed up woman basically as a child, then maybe she was murdered by a child
molester or fan or something.
Right.
When really I think she was, it just happened to be her father who was that person.
Right. Like that became the red herring that really is such a heart. You can't ignore
a red herring like that because the thing itself is so creepy. It's like being in a cult, being in child pageants.
Right. Definitely. It's like the Satan scare of the 80s when they thought everyone was,
all these kids were Satanists. But really God and Satan don't exist, so that's impossible.
Wait, wait, what?
Oh, I'm sorry. So then, yeah, so I think that the dad did it. There's like a lot of weird things about
it. The ransom letter is three pages, which is the longest ransom letter in murder history.
That's the thing that I'm going to get corrected about probably.
It's two pages.
And it was written on the notepad in the Ramsey house with their pen. So the killer did this
and then wrote a three page ransom note, just chilled the fuck out and with their pen. So the killer did this and then wrote a three page
ransom note, just chilled the fuck out and wrote a note. Like who would do that? And
she was already dead in the basement from blunt force trauma. She had blunt force trauma
to her head, which would have killed her, but she was then strangled, which is what
ended up killing her for real. It's just so fucked up. And the ransom note
is incredible.
Also the fact that there are children playing out in your alley right now so we can hear
them screaming.
They're screaming.
I wonder if you can hear that in the background. I forgot about that.
It's the perfect background. No, it's perfect.
It's good. Okay.
I was like, why am I so uncomfortable right now? And I'm like, because there's a child
screaming somewhere.
Oh, it's all so wrong.
All the time.
It's so wrong.
It's so upsetting.
Go listen to the, I know you hate this, but listen to the 911 call.
Can't do it.
Yeah.
Is it Patsy?
It's Patsy freaking the fuck out.
But the wording in her call, and if you like listen to it and listen to the interpretation,
she's saying everything wrong.
Like what?
She's not saying, my daughter is missing.
She's saying, we have a kidnapping. Like,
she's not taking personal responsibility for what is happening to her or her daughter.
She's kind of making it more generalized.
She's setting up a story, it sounds like.
Yeah. And there's all these interpretations people say about like, you know, not asking
for help. They're saying for her daughter, she's like begging for someone to
deal with it instead of asking for help for her daughter.
And then there's like, people say that one of the ways you know they're lying is because
that they said that their son who was like 10 was asleep upstairs until like after the
police had got there. But in the background with analysis with the 911 call, you can hear
his voice. Yeah.
And there's just all these little things.
Oh, so it could be like some family event took place.
And this was like the cleanup version.
Well another weird thing is that, so they found pineapple during the autopsy in her
stomach that she had eaten before she died because it hadn't been digested.
And there was a bowl
of pineapple with a spoon in it on the table and the son's fingerprints were on the bowl.
But the parents said that they put her right to bed when they got home from a Christmas
party that night. That's the thing that happened on Christmas Eve or Christmas.
Yeah.
Christmas Eve.
Yeah.
Yeah. Because that's why there was no good cops.
Right.
All the good cops were at home having Christmas. All the good cops weren't living in Boulder, Colorado. Yeah. Because that's why there was no good cops. Right. All the good cops were at home having Christmas.
All the good cops weren't living in Boulder, Colorado.
Yeah.
And then, okay, the other weird thing in the ransom note, the kid, okay, so these people
are billionaires.
Yeah.
And the killer asked for the ransom.
They made it look like a kidnapping, which is why they're with the ransom note.
They asked for $118,000 as the ransom, which
like poor people, like that's a lot of money. It's not a lot of money, but also that's a
very specific amount. And it's also the amount that John Ramsey had been given as a Christmas
bonus that year.
Do you think they were trying to set it up to make it look like someone knew that in
there? That's why it was such a specific number?
Yes.
Like they were trying to lead people away from themselves.
Yes, definitely. Well, the whole note does that too. And then, but the other weird thing
I think we talked about this is that when they were doing sample handwritings of the
mom and dad, so Patsy Ramsey, who's the mother, was how to rewrite the note. And instead of
writing $118,000 numerically, she wrote out $118,000. Who the
fuck does that? Like that's so stupid. Obviously, you're trying to mask something.
Unless she loves calligraphy and that's her thing.
Well, they basically, a bunch of handwriting analysis said that it's her handwriting.
Really?
Without a doubt.
Really?
Yeah. But then I've read other stuff that it's his as well.
Even then though, if it's like some kind of in-family murder, whoever wrote the note doesn't
mean that's the killer.
Exactly.
It's just that it's collusion.
Exactly.
Is that the right way to use that word?
Collusion?
Well, let us know.
Tell us.
Correct us.
I'm going to throw out stuff like that because it feels good in my brain.
It felt good.
When you said it, I was like, yeah, she's right.
That's collusion, god damn it.
And they're like, that's actually a rare alcohol from PG.
I'll have the collusion on the rocks, please.
I just love the story because I'm equally convinced that it's one of the parents, that
it's both of the parents, that it's the son, but I don't think it's anyone outside the
family.
Now, what's the deal with the son?
So the son was like, I think he was 10. He had hit her with a golf club in the past in
the face, but it was an accident supposedly. People all over the, you know, I don't know if you know this, but people on the internet have theories and talk about them.
Oh yeah.
So people's theories are that it was him, he hit her over the head with like a golf
club or something, which is because she has blunt force trauma from being hit with something.
So then maybe she was dying and one of the parents killed her to make, and then set it
up to make like a kidnapping and a murder so that the son wouldn't get
in trouble for it.
But I mean, talk about picking a favorite child.
Yeah, that's a little.
He never got he didn't get spoken to by the police for a month.
And when he did, it was like quick, nothing.
Right.
He's so young.
I don't know.
I remember reading that they after the first first night where the cops had never been cops before
showed up to not secure the scene, then whatever they talked to them about that night, the
Patsy and John, right John?
John, yeah.
They also weren't interviewed for a month.
They had so much time to rehearse what their story would be.
Definitely.
And lock it all down.
Just the fact that they had searched the house multiple times over and finally were like,
sent John, the father, to go search the house just to give him something to do.
He goes into the secret wine room off the weird basement and happens to find her after
eight hours of the cops having been
there.
Wow.
Grabs her body, takes the tape off of her mouth and brings her upstairs thus ruining
any DNA evidence that you could have used.
And then Patsy throws herself on the body.
She did.
Yeah.
So the DNA shit is just fucked.
I mean, that's all guilty hindsight.
I kind of wonder though, like...
I don't know.
Would you...
Well, hard to say.
I don't think I would throw myself onto the body of a dead child.
No, no.
I mean...
Let's try it.
Hard to say. Let's reenact this. Let's have
a child. Okay. And let's have it murdered six years from now. I just can't the idea
of like, a real quick problem solve. Okay, Junior messed up again. This guy, boys will
be boys. I'm going to strangle her to death. It's so much. It's such an oversolve.
It's a big from A to B. Plus, wouldn't she want your fucking psychopath kid who ruined
your prized daughter, killed your prized daughter to get in trouble for that? Some people don't.
I don't know.
I mean, yeah. That's where that theory falls apart for me. Yeah.
She is clearly the prize pony.
Right.
Which is why maybe he wanted to kill her.
Of course.
But then, so I see them covering, I see them covering like note wise and bad 911 call wise
and all that.
Just not killing her.
But not the killing.
Maybe she, they didn't know she wasn't dead yet.
So they put the over her.
No, she was breathing.
I don't know.
I mean, we're not going to solve it tonight. Are her. No, she was breathing. I don't know.
I mean, we're not going to solve it tonight.
Are we? Oh, I thought that's what this podcast was. I mean, let's not even talk about the
underwear she had on, the weird underwear she had on, that they found DNA on it that
didn't match the family.
It was not the brother's DNA?
No. That she was sexually assaulted, but they also said that it looked like it had been
over a period of time. It wasn't even like that
night she was sexually assaulted. It was like, this is something that's been happening for
a long time.
So here's where we give you some updates if the case has any. Unfortunately, as you definitely
know, this case doesn't have any. It's still cold, it's still being looked into. But there's really no new findings.
I mean, if anything, it does have the feeling on par
with Jack the Ripper, where the theories, the stuff
is starting to pile up, the accusations,
then people getting cleared.
I remember, weren't Patsy and the father cleared?
Yes, by the DA cleared recently or something?
Yes, by the DA.
Yeah, but it was so sketchy.
Oh, was it?
Yeah.
But it was after her death, right?
Yeah, I think so.
Here we go again, speculating.
I know, Jesus Christ.
Nothing's changed.
This is like, it's fucking, we're trying to give ourselves a take too and we can't even
do it.
This is what we'll comment on in eight and a half years when we're commenting on the commenting
on episodes. Jesus Christ.
Oh my God.
Anyway, but point being the frustration of those kinds of cases where the more people
talk about it, the less people seem to know.
Yeah.
And the more like just theories and you know, info you get that gets thrown in, the more
muddled it gets somehow in a way that it'll never get solved.
Well, and also just saying that, being aware of saying that,
where it's like people giving their opinion.
Yeah.
You know, I don't believe in the owl theory or whatever.
That's opinion.
But people do, in true crime, of course, take it so far,
where it's like, no, they did it.
It's this surety of the conversation,
I think, is the thing that it ends up really screwing
people in the end.
Which again is why we constantly reminded people we don't know what we're talking about.
Watch the documentary.
And sometimes the documentary doesn't know what they're talking about.
And sometimes we'll learn in life no one knows what they're fucking talking about.
So we're about to go into my story here.
Here's the thing, A plus to us for structure on this thing.
The structure of this show makes sense.
It's so workable.
We stuck to it.
That's really, that is funny that we never had
to make a structure change.
No, because it was so good.
This scaffolding was solid from day fucking one.
You tell me, I tell you.
That's like it.
And it's a surprise.
Fun times, always. For my story, I covered the East's like it. And it's a surprise. Yeah. Fun times. Right. Always. Right.
For my story, I covered the East Area rapist.
I think it was before Michelle's article where she renamed him
the Golden State Killer.
Am I right about that?
Yeah.
I mean, this is just so eerie that you covered this case.
And there's so much.
I mean, there's so much that happened after you covered it.
Yeah.
These are two cases where yours,
nothing's ever happened and mine, it got solved.
It got solved.
Michelle McNamara wrote a book about this case,
a very incredible Los Angeles magazine article
about this case renaming D' DeAngelo the Golden State Killer.
Paul Holes gets introduced into the storyline and then as we all know
Michelle passed away I think it was about three months after this episode
came out. Yeah and then Joseph James DeAngelo was captured and arrested a
little over two years after this episode came out. Yeah, wild.
So wild.
And something no one ever imagined.
I mean, I think that looking back,
that piece of looking back is so incredibly satisfying.
What if we could make a podcast where you could look back
on all of them and be like, and then it got solved?
That's the...
So satisfying.
It's kind of the point.
I think people are in here going,
hey, this is important. These people have to be. That's the so satisfying it's kind of the point. I think people are in here going. Hey
This is important. Yeah, these people have to be like we're talking about serial killers people who
Who have to be found? Yeah, who their cases need to be solved so those people don't get to walk around
Killing people serially right anymore. And I think this is kind of the biggest example of that too. So, incredible. Here we go.
Hey, Karen.
Yeah?
What's your favorite murder?
My favorite murder.
Can you write a ballad for this? Can you write like a-
Totally. I'll do like kind of a hang them high like murder ballad about.
Yes.
That actually makes me, I really don't like those songs. Those like old Appalachian country
songs where it's like, I just had to kill her. It's always just like, well, she done
me wrong. I just had to hang her high. Or it's like, fuck you.
Sing about her parents and how bummed they are.
Sing about someone rising up and shooting you in the back with a shotgun as you go to
do it.
Right.
Because you're a jerk.
Anyhow, mine isn't about that.
Mine is about a serial killer that some call the original Night Stalker and others call
the East Area Rapist.
So this is a guy that was a rapist in Sacramento in the mid to late 70s. And I went to college
in Sacramento. And it's a, it's the strangest place. It's a floodplain and it's the capital
of the state. And it's very hot most of the time.
It's kind of like Wild West almost, right? Yeah. It feels there's a real like, it doesn't feel like California at all.
Yeah.
And there's almost no culture whatsoever.
It's like it's a lot of Taco Bell's next to Shell stations over and over underneath
power lines.
And maybe that was just the experience I was having there because I went to college there
and I flunked out
of college a year and a half in, failed terribly. But anytime I would drive around, I'd be like,
this is the worst. Like everything just seems scary and awful to me.
Sounds like a nightmare.
And then the surrounding suburbs, like Citrus Heights and these kind of like outlining, and this area where this East Area
rapist was going nuts for years has this very like sinister, it's like nice on the outside,
but something weird is going on.
Everything is beige.
Yes.
Everything's beige.
That's where I grew up in Orange County, in Irvine.
Yeah.
And actually, I think he came to Irvine.
He did.
That was second half.
That's right.
So he started out as the East Area rapist and he wasn't killing people yet.
He was just raping women.
He was breaking into houses.
So he did the thing.
He did the recon the day before.
Oftentimes people would say we heard something on the roof and we didn't even look.
Oh my God.
That's why I brought that thing up earlier.
He would also break into the houses and look
around do stuff in the houses while they weren't there. Sometimes he would hide rope under
the couch cushions and have stuff ready.
So they're ready.
So he was all ready.
Oh my God, that made me want to throw up.
He was sinister. And then so basically then he would break into their house the night of, turn the light
on, the couple would be sleeping.
This what troubles me the most about this.
Is that he would do it to couples.
So he would flash a flashlight in their eyes, tell them to wake up, he'd have a gun on them,
he'd have his ski mask.
And then he would tell the woman to tie up the man.
Then he would go to the kitchen and get a
stack of dishes and bring it back and stick it on the man's back. And then he would say
to the man, if I hear these dishes move, I will kill both of you. Then he'd take the
woman usually, I think it was like half and half, but I think most of the time he would
take the woman out into the front room and he would tie her up there and rape her while
the husband could hear in the bedroom.
Sometimes he would do it there.
And then, so in the beginning, he was just raping the women and leaving both of them.
And he also, while he was doing it, he would talk in a high pitched voice to himself.
To himself?
Which is just think of it, just think of, so you're already in this like crazed panic,
right?
I mean, this is what I do with all these stories is I just even for a second try to put yourself
there in a picture.
Oh, I'm there.
I'm there right now.
So, you're jolted out of sleep to this weird like, what the fuck?
And then it's like, someone that's talking like this.
You know what I mean?
Like, there was one thing I just read where he said he was repeating to himself, I'm
going to kill them.
I'm going to kill them.
Like chanting it to himself as he was tying them up.
Fuck, no.
So he seems, there's also a phone call with him.
He left a victim a message a week later and I have not listened to it.
Is it there?
Can you listen?
You can listen to it.
I think, because whose wife just wrote a really amazing article about that?
Michelle McNamara. It's Pat Noswalt's wife.
She is such a fucking badass. She wrote the best article about it and I had never heard
of it before.
Yeah. She has an amazing blog. We will look it up and tell you. It has the word murder
in it. But if you put Michelle McNamara in the Google search and murder blog,
it'll come up.
Also, don't kill me for calling. I don't mean to call her someone's wife. That's not who
she is. She's more than that.
She's clearly so much more.
Right.
Yeah. But this is how you know her. But I know about this serial killer because there's,
you know, it's funny when you follow this and then it's like, you see one story that's
on forensic files or something. And then you see it and
you piece it together where it's like, the later murders were reported first on shows
like that, like 2020. So it was like the murders in Goleta and Ventura and Dana Point. And
then separately, they would report on the East Area rapist that was this ridiculous,
he had 50, over 50 rape victims and 10 murder victims.
And they never caught him.
That's what's okay.
So here's the thing, they never fuck.
And you know, I was, they said that maybe he was a construction worker.
Right?
Yeah.
Because he had really intimate knowledge of how these houses and their backyards were
set up. And they did find a map once that was hand drawn. But when he would get caught
or people, anytime there was a close call, because he liked to mess around and almost
get caught or do really dangerous things. So there would be a neighbor that would flip
on a light and be like, hey. And then they would watch him run and vault like backyard fences and stuff like
he was in crazy good shape. And he was like, he, I think fancied himself a cat burglar,
but then off also clearly just was, you know, yeah. But the, the, the, so the creepiest thing, my favorite creepy thing is there were so many rapes that were
happening in Sacramento that they had a town meeting, like a community meeting.
You know he was there, right?
Well, yeah.
Tell me, tell me, tell me.
So in this, somebody took a picture of it for the paper.
No.
So they have a group shot of this town meeting.
And it's the cops saying, this is what's happening.
This is the MO, look out for this.
If you hear something, report it, report it.
Look, you know, all that kind of stuff.
If you see weird people walking.
Oh, because also there was never a car found anywhere near the scene.
He either walked, jogged, rode a bike, or did something parked far away.
And the couple times there was a guy walking a dog, but every time they described the guy
as looking white and like fit and normal.
Like it's that kind of thing where they, it's the person who can fit in and is totally fitting
in and being like a weird
murder cuttlefish fitting in and then disappearing. So, but my favorite thing is so they had this
town meeting and at one point the cops were just saying, this is happening and people
are really angry because it's so many. It's like in the thirties at this point. And this
man stands up and says, I don't think you're telling us everything we need to know. I don't think this is even possible. How can a man break into another
man's home and that man has his wife raped right in front of him and he does nothing.
That's impossible. Two weeks later, that man and his wife.
No.
Yes. His wife was raped by the East area rapist two weeks later. So they know for a fact he was there.
So there's a photo and it's like everyone identified in it except for one creep guy?
No, because it's like such a large group photo.
It's like the photographer was standing on the stage in like a high school auditorium
look.
Oh my God.
So it's really awesome because a lot of times on specials, they'll just take that time to
scan that photo.
And every face in the photo looks guilty.
Every face is the scariest thing you've ever seen.
It's crazy.
That's so crazy.
Yeah.
There's like a sketch of him and I'm like, whose dad is that?
Because that guy was young in the 70s, right?
It's probably someone's fucking dad now.
Yeah.
Or even grandpa.
Grandpa, some mom's boyfriend.
Horrifying.
And the thing that he, like his serious problem with couples and like needing to degrade the
man and rape the woman, there's so much there.
Because that makes it so much harder.
The crime's so much harder.
So he's clearly specifically doing it for a reason. Yeah. And he's doing it so much. He just did it and kept on doing it. It was just a thing
that was happening in Sacramento for years. So it was like 76 is when he started, the
summer of 76. And then I think it went on for two years in Sacramento. Then he went
to the East Bay. And then somewhere, I think he went down further, Visalia, because they think that's where he
started.
They call them the Visalia Ransacker.
Oh my God.
Which is like central.
It's weird that they're both called the Night Stalker though.
I know.
Because it was pre- Richard Ramirez.
Yeah.
But it was like, that's really what he was doing.
Because he would go and scope it out beforehand.
But he just wasn't famous.
And he basically kind of disappeared.
Then when those other, those same MO murders, rapes and murders were happening down here,
that's when they finally put it together.
And there was finally like, they say that that case in the 70s is why they started developing the DNA database in California. Because they were going so crazy about not
being able to find him.
So they could all link them together. Yeah, I think it happened. It happened at Irvine
in like the early 80s. I think when I lived there when I was a baby.
Oh, yeah.
And he's still around. He could potentially still be around.
Is he still murdering? Is he still killing? Or did we just not know that nothing has happened?
Not in that way.
Not like he, you know, he would tie people up with very special knots.
Yeah.
Michelle McNamara wrote these amazing articles.
If you want to know more about it, like she's gone into it in such a detail.
It was in LA magazine.
She had an article in LA magazine and she has a ton of stuff
on her website.
I just want to know. I just want to know the answer. I think that the cut like for all
these things, and it's funny that we're both talking about murders that are unsolved because
I just want to know, I want the problem solved. Like I want the, what's the answer to the
riddle?
And you want it like, you want there to be a better policing system where this doesn't
happen so often.
Yeah.
It's so easy to point to like, well, what did they do wrong?
And it's so easy to point to it.
And you hope that that doesn't happen anymore, but it does.
Because this was back in the 70s where they intentionally withheld information if they
were like crossing counties and it was all that weird police politics that I think they, you know,
they know better now and they don't do anymore. But, uh, God,
it was like the dark ages.
Here's one thing coming back out of that.
Here's one thing I'm going to say about all of the stories you're about to hear
for the first, I don't know, maybe 30 episodes.
Well, less than that, I would think.
But for this, we were just talking.
There was nothing written down.
It wasn't researched.
Not even not researched.
It was just like, I'll remember what I know about this, which is the ego of that is insane.
Yeah. It's also like, here are the things about this case that's made it stuck in my mind,
but not the details. Right. Not dates. And that was a very important, and we learned that one
very quickly, which is like within a couple, the feedback where it's like, these are real people.
Yeah. These are real cases. If you're going to talk about them, give the respect. And it's like, these are real people. These are real cases. If you're going
to talk about them, give the respect. And it was like, oh my God, you're so right. We were just
kind of like having a chat, but you're right. Don't be citing these cases incorrectly or not
knowing the victims' names, all of it. And that was like that kind of thing where you're like,
oh, of course, I'm so embarrassed.
Yes, of course.
I've got to slap some respect on this.
And also not citing sources.
Thank God we started doing that regularly.
You can't have sources if you don't have a document
you're reading off of.
So at least the source, Michelle McNamara was the source
for me being able to retell this story.
Michelle McNamara was the source for me being able to retell this story. But yeah, the source lesson we learned soon after this, where there's so much material
in the true crime world that floats around, and that is the hard work of journalists that
have broken those stories and chased down those stories and put the book or the article
or whatever together. And that's the kind of thing, you know, as a professional television writer, I was very
embarrassed by that. I was just like, Oh, right. Yeah, this has all been made possible by the
journalists and the writers that have collected these stories already or the TV producers.
Right, totally.
The one thing we do really get right here
is like this professional thing we do at the end,
basically setting this thing up of like,
hey audience, play ball with us.
Yeah.
Which was, as we've said a million times,
that's the magic sauce,
the audience being in this conversation with us.
Definitely.
Yeah, we got really lucky.
So lucky that my personal email address that I gave out originally still gets hometowns
sent to it.
That's like how new we were.
I was like, send them to my email address.
Here it is.
And I like don't, I don't visit that email address anymore.
It's like a wasteland of like, you know, ads and weird shit.
Probably the weirdest shit. Yeah. So funny. Now it's a, you can call Georgia at her home
number 818.
So this is the part of our podcast where we want to hear your stories.
You tell us what you, what horrible things you love.
And why.
Yeah, we want to hear about your like crazy fucked up crime story from your town or that
you encountered or that happened to you and we want to hear in your own words, right?
Be honest.
Be honest.
Email them to...
Myfavoritemurderatgmail.com.
If you spell that wrong, it's your own damn fault.
At Gmail.
And then we'll also record other people that we're friends with telling their stories too.
Because everybody has a story about some fucked up thing that happened in their town. Totally. And then we'll also record other people that we're friends with telling their stories too.
Because everybody has a story about some fucked up thing that happened in their town that
they're kind of obsessed with.
And if it's not, it doesn't have to be murder, murder.
No, no, no, no, no.
Just be a creepy, what's creepy?
Yeah.
Fucked up story that you can't tell certain people at parties.
Yeah.
Because certain people will walk away with like a weird white face and rolling their
eyes at you.
This is a safe space for you.
Yeah.
Thanks for listening, everyone.
Guys, this was the first one.
You guys, our very first favorite murder.
But not the last.
No.
These rewind episodes are going to be insane.
They really got into their lawsuit era at that moment.
It was crazy.
Since it's our lawsuit era, should we talk about how when people demand that we speak
online, we never can because of contracts?
Yeah.
Because we understand that you want us to come and explain everything and we want to
make it right for you.
And we really wish we could and
actually in 20 years when we write the tell-all book you will know but and you
know what we're talking about and I would like to thank there's always one
lawyer murderino in the comments going guys they might not be able to talk
about it yeah it's like oh my god that please. Please put it at the top.
You know us.
How much shit do we talk on a regular fucking basis?
Literally not allowed to talk about any of it.
Like, oh God, you guys.
Ask us in person.
I mean, you know, we are no strangers to controversy.
As most people who have listened to this podcast know, there's been a lot of shit that's gone
down.
Eight and a half years, it's like kind of hard to avoid.
Eight and a half years of talking about stuff people do not want two women to be talking
about. Right.
Being very opinionated. But there is one thing we do really want to say that we kind of aren't
allowed to say, but we do want to say to you guys.
Sure. And yeah, there's a few things that we wish we could just blur and talk about and rewind
about.
Yeah.
If we could go over all the real details in detail, the way people we know have wanted
us to in the past, we would love it more than anything else.
That's for our second memoir.
Okay.
So at the end of every episode, we thought it would be fun to do something that we do now that we never thought of doing because instead we named these episodes number puns
for some fucking reason.
Now we name them after something silly that was said in the episode or something.
No one wanted to do the number pun work anymore after I think 26.
A long time, longer than it should have been.
It went on forever.
And I just want to say, I don't think it was my idea because it's puns.
That's true.
It probably wasn't, but you were there with me while we were making them up.
For sure.
Look, I signed on, just saying.
We tried.
But on our main show, at the end of every record, our producer Alejandra reads us a list of phrases that we said
that could be funny that could serve as the show's title.
Yeah.
So we thought it would be fun if Alejandra read us
some suggestions of what the title could be
if we were doing the new version of title right now.
Right. Right. What currently would we name this
if it wasn't the stupid fucking number pun?
Well, don't shit on the number pun. Well, what would we think if it wasn't the stupid fucking number pun? Well, don't shit on the number pun.
Well, what do you think if it wasn't the number pun?
So Alejandra, let us know the weird shit
we've said through this episode.
All right, here we go.
Cozy and comfy, Georgia, when you were just
laying down on your couch getting ready.
Swirling a brandy, Karen also getting comfy.
I love this topic, and that's why we're friends and that's just
you guys talking about True Crime at the Top. Shoulder grab moment when you both read the party
talking about the staircase and Owl did it. That's exactly right. Is that the first time we said it?
Yeah. Oh my god. And then collusion on the rocks. That's the one. See, whichever one of us starts fucking busting up laughing, that's the title.
We're going to skip exactly, that's exactly right, and go to Collusion on the Rocks.
Collusion on the Rocks, that's what this episode will be called, right?
It's a good one.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Let's do that.
Well, thanks for rewinding with us, you guys.
Hopefully some new people have come and done a little, this is like a flight of a podcast.
We're giving her a taste test
of all the different flavors that are in this podcast.
There's many more flavors.
You can go listen to the full episode if you want.
Yeah, trust us when we tell you
that if you listen to this episode
and then you listen to the most current episode,
you won't be lost.
No.
Yeah.
The sound is a little better, but won't be lost. No. Yeah.
And all the...
The sound is a little better, but it's about it.
It's a lot better.
Yeah.
And if you think that the phrases that we've come up with, like, you're in a cult, call
your dad.
If you don't know the source of that, therefore that's going to create confusion for you,
it's absolutely not.
No.
I don't even remember why I said it.
I think it was something about...
Yeah. It was Jonestown, and I always thought like, I remember't even remember why I said it. I think it was something about. Yeah,
it was Jonestown. And I always thought like, I remember it was Jonestown. Yeah. Yeah.
Stay out of the forest. That's another episode. We just say we just say we talk a lot of shit.
That's the thing. And so you know, and then we didn't I went I don't know when we started
saying our fucking sign off. But I think we said at the end of this that we needed sign-offs.
And then we just made shit up off the top of our head.
Yeah. All right. Well, then, should we button this up?
Let's do it. Thanks for listening to Rewind.
Yeah, we appreciate you guys.
Stay sexy.
And don't get murdered.
Goodbye.
Goodbye.
Whoa.
Oh, my God. Can we keep that air?
Oh, no.
Yeah.