No Stupid Questions - 74. Does Reverse Psychology Really Work?
Episode Date: November 14, 2021Also: does knowing your family history affect your identity? ...
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This is a terrible idea.
I'm Angela Duckworth.
I'm Stephen Dubner.
And you're listening to No Stupid Questions.
Today on the show, does reverse psychology really work?
You're not the boss of me.
Also, how does knowing about your family's history affect who you are?
I was cousins with everybody.
Name a Jew, we're cousins.
you are. I was cousins with everybody. Name a Jew, we're cousins.
Angela, you're a psychologist, I understand. I am.
I've always wondered what it's like when a concept from your discipline goes mainstream, and how well or poorly it may be understood by all of us. I can imagine it's gratifying in a way, but also
frustrating. So I have a question along those lines. Maybe one of the most widely known tools
of your trade, which many of us talk about and think about and maybe participate in,
what's known as reverse psychology. So my question is simply this, is it real? Does it work? Is reverse psychology a thing?
I will say this, this term reverse psychology is not a term that psychologists actually use,
but I think it's come to mean when you want X and some way, shape or form pushing for not X,
and then you get X actually. What I thought of immediately, though, when you brought up this
topic of reverse psychology was a term that is used a lot by psychologists. That's called
reactance theory. Have you heard of reactance? Yeah. Bob Cialdini has written at length about
reactance, and it's a concept that really, really resonated with me. But I'd rather you explain it
than me. Okay. So Jack Brehm was a psychologist who, it was 1960s, had this theory of psychological
reactance. And basically the idea was that individuals have a need for autonomy, a need
to do things their way. And the feeling of encroachment upon that, the feeling that your
rights were being violated and that your autonomy was being constrained would produce an oppositional response. This was very obvious to psychologists who were running these lab
experiments. They were trying to get people in the labs to do certain things. And the more you
tried to get people to do some straightforward thing that you didn't even think twice about,
the less they would want to do it. And to this day, graduate students, for example,
who are being trained to become
psychological scientists are trained very early to think about the unintended consequences of
telling people what to do. And reactance, I think, is really held up as a theory. People don't like
to be bossed around. My memory of an example of this is from 30 Rock. Did you ever watch 30 Rock?
I have watched almost all of 30 Rock. So there was one episode when Tracy Jordan, who's played by Tracy Morgan, is told that
now that he's a sort of in trouble movie star being downgraded to TV, that there's certain
things he can and can't do.
And Jack Donahue, who's played by Alec Baldwin, he tells him that, look, we understand you're
a movie star.
You live your life.
Don't worry about it.
We're going to clean. You live your life. Don't worry about it. We're
going to clean up all your messes. The one thing you really can't do just because these days it
seems off limits is dog fighting. So Tracy immediately goes to set up his own dog fighting
ring, which I guess is an example of reactance. He doesn't want the possibility of that thing
taken away with him. So Jack Donahue gets frustrated, of course, that he's done the
opposite. So he says, what if I told you that the one thing you cannot do is go to therapy?
And that leads Tracy Jordan to go to therapy. So that's what I think of when I think of really
black belt level reverse psychology. Yeah, well, if it's in the script,
I think it's going to work really well. The reason why we have this reactance response is
we are inferring from the situation that you're trying to control us and that you have established
a hierarchical dominance over us. Like you're not the boss of me, but in general, I've taken this
lesson from Brehm, which is that choice is good. And when I teach classes, for example, Stephen,
I'm always looking for ways to allow for
choice. So instead of saying, hey, you have to do this assignment, I can say, hey, this assignment
has two versions. You can do A or you can do B. And frankly, I don't care which. And I think all
those kind of micro autonomy moments serve to not only diminish reactance, but just in general,
people do like exercising choice. Every time I do it, it works great.
Now, in that scenario, is it true that you really don't care which they do?
Yeah. For example, in the upcoming semester, I decided there should be a book club element to
my class. So in the beginning of the course, you choose a book that you're going to read. And then
as we learn about the psychology of motivation, et cetera, you can draw in examples that you're reading about in this
memoir or novel. And I could assign a book, but I decided to assign a small number of books as
your choice. Or if you can get a quorum, you can pick another book. And I think like, why not?
Is that about choice or is that about giving agency to the student and making them feel empowered by that? I think they're very
overlapping. There's different ways that people can have agency, but the need to feel that you
are not on someone's leash, that you are not in somebody else's harness. This is one of the core
motivational needs that every psychological theory of motivation recognizes. I'm thinking of
the marshmallow test, the delay of gratification test that Walter Mischel invented to see how
self-controlled kids were. There were these experiments that Walter was doing after he
established that it is very difficult to delay gratification, to wait for two marshmallows later
versus having one right away. He then wanted to know what little
tricks and strategies do young children about four years old, what do they do to enable themselves to
wait longer? And in these experiments, he wanted to randomly assign kids to do one of these
strategies or not. Let's take the example that he wanted children to think of the marshmallow
as something inedible, like in your mind's eye, could it be a fluffy white cloud, which of course
you can't eat a cloud, so maybe you should be able to wait longer. And so in this experiment,
if you were not Walter Mischel, if you were a lesser psychologist, you might design a protocol
where you usher the four-year-old in, you sit them at the table, and then you say,
where you usher the four-year-old in, you sit them at the table, and then you say,
here are the marshmallows. Now you should think of them as clouds. And what Walter did was something very subtle and very important. What he said to these children is, if you want to, when you want
to, you can think of these marshmallows like fluffy white clouds. And I'll never forget that
language. And I literally used it with my own children because I learned about it when I was in graduate school. My kids were
young, like if you want to, when you want to, you should. And then just fill in the blank,
you know. So I think that was a way of preserving that autonomy while also essentially issuing an
order. That's so interesting. Are there any instances where, if not reverse psychology,
but this sort of mental manipulation was used to fight COVID?
You know, I remember early on in the pandemic, and I can't even believe I can use that expression, but there was this op-ed by a psychologist I respect a lot named Dan Willingham.
refuse to wear masks and refuse to socially distance and refuse to follow the other basic guidelines from authority figures like Anthony Fauci. What's really going on is that their need
for autonomy is being squashed. They feel like their individual decision making is being threatened
by these decisions that are coming from on high. And I've read that and I was like, I don't know,
decisions that are coming from on high. And I've read that and I was like, I don't know,
maybe, maybe not. And then as the pandemic progressed, I have come to believe absolutely people who don't want to get vaccinated, who don't want to adhere to other standard guidelines now,
like mask wearing and so forth. I think there is basically reactance going on. And you can ask the question, should we have mandates about vaccines and masks and so forth, or should we not?
I would say that on one hand, the first theorists who talked about reactants said that completely stripping autonomy can be the worst form of reactants incitation.
can be the worst form of reactance incitation. On the other hand, there's other research suggesting that once you say, look, categorically, you have no choice. It doesn't have anything to do with you.
It's just a rule. There's other research suggesting that puts things in some kind of mental account
where people are like, OK, I guess I won't think about it. I'll just do it. I am inclined at this
point in the pandemic to actually go with the mandates and go with, hey, you know what? This isn't a debate anymore. It's just a law. That's partly because all these efforts to persuade people, they aren't really working very well, at least with some portion of the population.
which is the need for autonomy with preferences. So there's a spectrum of reasons why a given person may not want to take a COVID-19 vaccine, right? Now, you may disagree with the entire
spectrum of explanations, but there is a spectrum, including, you know, there was a particularly low
rate of take-up among African-Americans, and it's been argued pretty convincingly by a lot of people that one reason
is that African-Americans have been grotesquely exploited by the American medical community for
centuries. So I'm not sure the psychological phenomenon can necessarily explain all the
pushback there. That's fair. I don't think need for autonomy explains every person who doesn't
want to get a vaccine, although it has an element of autonomy to it because it's a little bit of like, I want to come to my own decision and not submit. talk about the appetite for autonomy or when I read about reactance theory, it often sounds as
though the person exercising that is being a little bit childish. Like, no, no, no,
I don't want to put on the seatbelt because you're telling me to put it on.
You're not the boss of me.
And so I think it's important to untangle whenever we can the spectrum of preferences
or the spectrum of motivations that may lead to a kind of behavior, because if you want to, quote, correct or change or amend that behavior, it's important to know
what's actually driving it as opposed to an assumption that it might be this feel for
autonomy. I agree. It's not just the need for autonomy, but I do think that makes a complex
situation even more complex. So let me ask you this.
When I first asked you this question about whether this thing that we lay people call
reverse psychology is real, you pretty abruptly said, no, it's not real.
Well, it's not a jargon term that psychologists use.
Well, it sounds like it's also not a strategy that you endorse.
I think it's a little broad.
Sometimes people would say like, oh, if you really want to go out with someone, then you should play hard to get. That's kind of reverse
psychology. But then I would say that's not really reactance. That's more like using the
Cialdini principle of scarcity. You want to be something that they can't have. So I just think
that in lay terms, we use this term anytime we do something which is kind of counterintuitive.
But hey, I have nothing
against the non-jargon broad terms that people use. Well, it's not so much a matter of what one
might call it. What I really want to ask is, do you bristle a little bit at the phrase
because it implies manipulation? And as a psychologist, especially as what you call a positive psychologist,
you are all about using the science to basically encourage pro-social behavior and not merely
manipulative, selfish behavior. Well, I have not been above using some version of, I guess,
reverse psychology with my own children. Like, if there was a way that I could get them to
not ignore the vegetables on their plate or beat each other to a pulp during some game.
There was a lot of hand to hand combat that I was trying to minimize in their earlier years.
And I was not above using every trick in the psychological book.
Your two daughters are you're saying they're physically kind of scrapping with each other.
Yes.
Yes, they did that a lot.
And what ages are we talking about now?
I'm thinking like five and six. They were about a year apart. All right. So what if you said to
them, look, you guys like to fight a lot. Let me help you out. I've made for you these gloves
that have fitted really, really sharp knife blades. So now when you punch your sister,
you could actually kill her, which seems to be what you want. What would that do?
You know, that is an interesting thought experiment, Stephen. I'm not sure it would
be an ethical experiment to run with my own children or anyone else's. But I would say this,
I'm going to venture a guess. If they had any kind of reflective presence of mind, they're like,
do I really want to kill my sister? Is it a really good idea? Then it might work. Plus one
for reverse psychology. But in the heat of
the moment, when you're really, really pissed off at your sister who just took your princess dress,
then I don't want to give that little girl blades. I'm not going to take that risk.
That makes a lot of sense. So let me ask you about another sort of cousin or sibling of what
I think of as reverse psychology. This is just lowering expectations, but maybe with a
little manipulative twist. I learned this from Steve Levitt, my good friend and collaborator
who you know. Levitt is really smart. He's also an unusual thinker. So he does have a lot of ideas
that are, in retrospect, terrible ideas because his brain just generates a lot of really unusual.
Yeah, it's creative.
Right.
But even when he has an idea that I would argue he's pretty sure he knows is a good idea,
he'll say, well, this is probably a terrible idea.
Or he'll say, you know, I haven't really thought much about this, but what do you think of this?
And to me, that lowering of the expectations is a really interesting and I find effective strategy. I'm curious what you think of that. principle here is that you should always assume that human beings are trying to figure things out,
like what's really going on here. In this particular example, you're setting up the expectations so you can exceed them. It's the same thing when the airline pilot is like,
we're 14 minutes early. Yeah, that's because they make all the flight times longer so that
everyone's pleasantly surprised when you actually land earlier or on time. So I like this idea of setting people up for being surprised in
a positive way. I was thinking also of the first Superman movie with Christopher Reeve. Do you
remember the scene where Lex Luthor is in his den or whatever, and then Superman comes in? This is
where Lex is trying to poison him with the kryptonite. So what Lex does is he has it in a safe, which he is kind of protecting with his body.
And then Superman, who, of course, isn't that bright, but has got other positive qualities, is like, get out of the way, Luther.
And then Luther says, no, don't open that.
So, look, whatever we're doing, whether it's trying to manipulate a superhero or get somebody
to think your idea is actually great or eat your broccoli, just always assume that the
other person is trying to figure things out.
And maybe how can I use that to be effective?
I think that's the advice.
Well, let me ask for advice from a real world situation.
When our kids go off to college, this is something my wife does that i really like she
writes a letter a really thoughtful heartfelt letter about the opportunity and the challenges
and so on and she spends a lot of time thinking beforehand about how the letter will be received
which makes a lot of sense because she puts a lot of effort into it and she wants it to be taken seriously. So if you're Ellen, my wife in this situation, would you say to your daughter,
Anya, I've written this letter with my feelings and a little bit of advice about
how college is going to go. And I think it's really important and it would mean a lot to me
if you read it. Or would it be better to say,
you know, I wrote you this letter. It's not a big deal. Just some thoughts I had. Here it is.
Which route do you think might be more effective on the median person?
I think that always prefacing advice with what our common friend Bob Cialdini suggested to me
once, feel free to ignore this. Feel free to say no. That is an extra little protective anti-reactance layer that puts people at ease. And I think it's good advice for all of us advice givers.
Angela, feel free to ignore this, but I think we should end this conversation now.
We put it that way. I think it's a great idea.
If we put it that way, I think it's a great idea.
Still to come on No Stupid Questions,
Stephen and Angela discuss how learning about your family's past can shape your future.
Dude, tell me all the things I need to do to not get diabetes.
Stephen, we have a question from Brian Mickelson, and it's very brief.
Are you ready for it?
I am so ready.
So his email starts, hello, NSQ people.
Immediately, I loved Brian.
And then here's the question.
To what extent does knowing your family history and or genealogical information affect you?
Thank you, Brian.
The short answer, I would say say is it depends, right? I'm sure there are many people for whom their family history is neither of great interest nor importance,
but for many others, and I would certainly include myself here, knowledge of the past
has definitely shaped the present and the future in a variety of ways. If we're thinking about this
era of home
DNA test kits, I would not be surprised if more and more people are joining the latter group,
especially if there's even a little bit of mystery lurking in their past.
So wait, have you been genotyped? Have you mailed in a kit and
spit in a vial and figured out who your real brothers and sisters are?
spit in a vial and figure it out who your real brothers and sisters are?
I did do that quite a few years ago. I was asked to do it for this project that was run by Moment Magazine, a Jewish magazine that was taking 500 or something American Jews and wanting to see
how related they actually were. And it turns out that I was cousins with everybody. Name a Jew,
we're cousins. Whoa, I was cousins with everybody. Name a Jew,
we're cousins. Whoa, you really are a tribe. Yeah, we're pretty tribal. So let's take these two different ways that you could know your family history separately. One is your DNA, your genes,
what comes back from 23andMe when you send your spit away. One of my favorite psychologists is
Steve Heine. And he has coined this term genetic essentialism.
Essentially, it's a bias that comes from essentialist thinking.
He says that when people are told that genes are relevant for a certain behavior or a certain attitude, like, did you know that your tendency to vote Republican or Democrat is partly a function of your genes? Did you know whether you're going to be overweight or not or have ADHD or not is partly influenced by your genes?
When that happens, immediately people make some mistakes cognitively.
They think, oh, this is natural.
If it's natural, it's faded.
Also, it's zero or one.
It's going to happen in a very binary way. Like I have
genes that incline me to be fat. Oh, I'm going to be fat. And this error that we make can be
really dangerous, as he points out, for example, with weight. When you tell people the truth,
which is that your genetic heritage is going to incline you in one way or the other,
they eat less carefully. They're like,
oh, well, then I'll have two sundaes, please. So I think this idea is very important because
as information is becoming more available about our own genes, I don't think we should suppress
that information. But I do worry that people are going to make mistakes in how it influences their
own behavior. I mean, we hear these stories all the time,
and they're becoming more common now with home DNA testing, especially for people who've been
adopted and so on. If you find a biological parent who has a profile, let's say it's an IQ profile
that's really different from the family you were raised in, you do hear these stories about people
who have a total reassessment of, oh, no wonder I always was blank, whatever, different from.
Right.
Because this is who I really am.
You can see how a reassessment of your biology can totally scramble your perception of whatever
it is, your intelligence, your physical risk.
There's this really interesting research on Huntington's disease.
Huntington's disease is,
I think, around 50% hereditary. If you inherit Huntington's disease, I think you usually die
in your 50s, 60s. But there was a paper years ago, and this is about the trade-off of what you want
to know and what you don't want to know. So Emily Oster, the economist who's now at Brown, working with a pair of neurologists, Ray Dorsey and Ira Schulzen,
they were surveying people who were at risk for the disease. And they found that if you know you
will get Huntington's disease and ultimately die from it relatively young, that you do make
different choices about
how much education you're going to get, what kind of family formation. In another study,
they found that a shockingly low percent of people who had a parent with Huntington's
wanted to get tested. Only something like 5% chose to know. I found that really interesting. I can see why
you don't want to have that genetic determinism enter your thought process. It's a total balancing
act. The most important part of Steve Heine's research and theory on genetic essentialism
is that when we think something's genetic, we think it's immutable. And that means there's nothing we can do about it. And so maybe you
could argue that some of the people who say like, thanks, but no thanks. I don't want to actually
know what my genotype is and my risk for developing X, Y, or Z is because they know that they're going
to then feel this lack of free will and this kind of like, well, I guess it doesn't really matter what I do to take care of my body and my mind, etc. I think salvation lies
in people getting much more educated about the complexity of genetics. And there's a book out
now. I really recommend it. The author, Paige Harden, she is a behavioral geneticist.
And what she tries to communicate in this book, it's called The Genetic Lottery, is that we have to all get a little more sophisticated about our genes and how they play out, which is impossible to get from just like reading a couple paragraphs on Wikipedia. If you care about good outcomes for society from an equity perspective, you kind of can't ignore genetics and you can't have misguided, simplistic understanding of genetics either.
Let me share some data on what people are looking for, especially when they take the home DNA testing kit.
So the two biggest firms are Ancestry and 23andMe.
This is data from February 2019.
and 23andMe. This is data from February 2019. As of that date, more than 26 million people had taken an at-home ancestry test. That same year, Pew conducted a survey of people who took
those mail-in tests. When asked why they took it, 87% said they wanted to learn more about where
their family came from. So that's like, do I really have an Italian grandparent? 36 percent said they wanted to get information
about their health or their family medical history. But check this out. Another 36 percent
said they did it to connect with relatives they might have but didn't know about. Have you had
any new relatives, like close relatives, show up in your orbit?
Emerge in my life?
Yeah.
Well, you know what I have sitting on my kitchen counter?
A cousin?
I actually have two unopened 23andMe kits. Actually, one of them is open, but neither
of them have been mailed back. Because when I opened it, I saw this rather enormous vial,
which I was supposed to fill with saliva.
And I was like, what? I don't have that much spit in me.
You're just not a Julie person.
No, but I am eventually going to get around to it. And if I had to ask myself, like,
why did I order these 23andMe kits? My sister actually thought, well, first of all, they were
on sale. Neither of us, I think, were expecting to meet siblings that we didn't know anything about. I would actually be curious about some of my own medical respecters. I would have,
I think, the opposite reaction as what Steve Heine finds with genetic essentialism. For example,
if you told me that I have a tendency towards diabetes, I would be like, dude, tell me all the
things I need to do to not get diabetes.
But also, I haven't even mailed in my kit.
I will say, my family, we had a relative turn up who nobody knew about, except one person
did know.
Really?
No.
Yeah.
Wait, who's the relative?
Well, I'm not going to get into it here, but it was a close relative.
What?
A close blood relative who had a child that no one
knew about. So interesting. It was a kind of classic secret pregnancy from long ago. This
connection never would have happened without a combination of home DNA testing and social media,
because you have to find people also.
Oh, yes. That's the other part of this picture, being able to find people and then connecting.
So I do think that technology in various forms are maybe changing things a lot. But one thing that is not technology that we didn't touch on in this conversation yet is knowing your family
story. Does that affect you?
So my personal experience with the question that Brian is asking
was fairly important to me because I think I've mentioned this on the show before. My parents
were both first-generation American Jews whose families had come here from Eastern Europe, from
what's now Belarus, from what's now Ukraine and from Poland. But then my parents,
during the Second World War, they both converted to Roman Catholicism before they met each other.
Then they met and married like two needles in a haystack and proceeded to lead a very Catholic
life and have this very Catholic family in which I grew up.
And then you became Jewish again.
I did as an adult. And the way I
became Jewish was because I was as a journalist, as a young writer, exploring biographies of my
mother and father separately and then together. My father died when I was a kid. So that meant
tracking down relatives who I didn't know and trying to close that loop. There'd also been a big schism in the family
because his conversion was very controversial. My mother was alive for these years, but there
was still a lot to know there. So I began, as Brian Mickelson is asking in this email,
to learn a lot about family history and genealogical information. And that included,
genealogical information. And that included at one point going to Poland to do research on my Jewish family to try to find marriage records, birth certificates, death certificates.
The town where they had lived was one of the first cities that was taken over by the Nazis
in September of 39. This was Pultusk, Poland, which is north of Warsaw. I'd read by that point
a lot about World War II, about the Holocaust, but seeing the place where it happened and staying
in a hotel that used to be the Nazi headquarters, the Nazis used Jewish headstones from the cemetery
to pave over the area outside their new local headquarters.
Oh my gosh.
And those stones were still the plaza there. And then on top of it, I found very, very,
very few records of my family's existence there because the records had mostly been destroyed.
And of course, my family had all been destroyed. Experiencing that and then gaining the specific knowledge of my family history totally changed
my sense of who I was, who I came from, and then how you relate to the world.
So I think that what you learn about not just your genes, not just your actual DNA, but
also your family and how they lived, maybe how they died,
for some people I think is hugely important,
and I'd say for others, much less so.
I thought about this because my dad had this father,
so my grandfather, whom I never met.
He was this textile magnate in Shanghai, China,
and fabulously wealthy and famously powerful. They used to literally call him the chairman. Like they didn't call him by his name,
they just called him the chairman. He had this larger than life existence. And so many of our
family stories, they revolved around this mythic figure. And for my dad, he always thought himself as like the chairman's son
who had to make good on his own father's ambition and greatness. But I think that's another way that
family history influences us. And it can be a profound effect.
Yeah, I've talked to friends who found out that just by learning more about a relative,
my grandfather was a great artist,
or my grandmother was this amazing baker, whatever. Then they sort of take up that family
tradition of a craft, and it makes them feel connected to the past and so on. I also just
think that it's a noble interest to want to learn more about your elders, whether they're living or dead. I mean,
the thing I learned when I wrote my first book about my family, my parents' conversions,
was that you should always interview people as soon as you learn about them, because most of
these people were older and they just started dying. Yes, that happens. And so I became
extremely vigilant about the minute I would learn about a new great aunt or
whatever to get there immediately. And I was sometimes successful, but a couple of times I
wasn't. One time I was unsuccessful was not my own blood family, but my wife's family.
They'd come to visit. Our kids were pretty little. So my in-laws were sitting
on the bench, putting their shoes on, getting ready to leave. And my father-in-law, we just
started asking him some questions. He had a really interesting life generally in business and in the
army. As part of that service during World War II, he went to Japan for what turned out to be
the end of the war, though it wasn't obvious
that it was going to end when he was on the way over. And he became part of the occupying force
briefly and developed a real affinity for Japan and a real love for Japan. One of his grandchildren,
a nephew of mine, he too then developed a great affinity for Japan, informed a huge amount by his grandfather's love for it.
So these two people, separated in age by, I don't know, 70 years or something,
they had all these wonderful experiences around Japan, around the food, the language, the art,
et cetera, et cetera. And he decided, he was probably in his early 80s or so by now, to take one last trip
to Japan with his grandson and a couple other members of the family. And so we were talking
about all this on the bench that day as they were leaving our apartment.
Putting on their shoes.
Yeah. And I was thinking, when you come back, I'm going to sit down with a tape recorder
and we are just going to talk. I'm going to ask you a thousand questions, and we're going
to get it all down so that future generations can know. Well, the sad, sad, sad story, on that trip
to Japan, he fell ill and ended up dying in Japan. So he never came back. It was a great sadness.
I also felt, oh, why had I not started that sooner?
Why did I wait?
I'd known him 10 years by then.
So whether it's to Brian Mickelson or anybody else that's asking about whether knowing your
family history and or genealogical information will affect you, you don't know the way it
may affect you.
But I do think it's a fairly noble and selfless and interesting pursuit to learn as much as you can, because if nothing else, we tend to be pretty self-focused, most of us, and not think so much about what our parents or grandparents were like as young people. And I think it's a slightly enlarging pursuit to show that kind of curiosity. I was at my friend's house for dinner and her son was being nagged by my friend.
Call your grandfather, call your grandfather,
call your grandfather,
because the grandfather is I think like 81st birthday.
And the little kid who's the third grade
is like, ah, after this.
And then she said, call your grandfather
and ask him what he was doing when he was your age.
Good question.
And I was like, oh my gosh,
that's such a great question. I mean, look, I think Brian's question about family history and how it influences us for good or for bad is a great one. And there's this thing about family
history, which is it's always there. So there's this non-urgency. It's like, oh, I could always
call my grandfather and ask him. I could always figure out what the story was, or I can always mail in my 23andMe kit. But, you know, there is the moment that we're in, and we don't have infinite time.
And I think in many ways, with some sophistication and some reflection,
knowing your story, it's a good thing, and we shouldn't procrastinate too much.
This episode of No Stupid Questions was produced by me,
Rebecca Lee Douglas,
and now here's a fact check of today's conversations.
In the first half of the show, Stephen shares an example of psychological reactance
from the NBC television series 30 Rock,
and he refers to Alec Baldwin's character,
the vice president of East Coast Television and Microwave Oven Programming for General Electric,
as Jack Donaghy. However, the character's name is actually pronounced Donaghy. Later,
Stephen says that he participated in a project for Moment magazine that looked at the DNA of
about 500 Jewish Americans. However, the scale was actually much smaller than Stephen remembers. The piece
involved just 15 people, all notable Americans of Jewish ancestry. Stephen was directly related to
11 of the project's participants, including neuroscientist and actress Mayim Bialik,
former co-host of All Things Considered, Robert Siegel, and Harvard Law professor Alan Dershowitz.
considered Robert Siegel and Harvard Law professor Alan Dershowitz.
Finally, Stephen breaks down economist Emily Oster's research on Huntington's disease.
He says Oster found that only about 5% of people who have a parent with Huntington's chose to find out if they have the disease. In a 2008 study, Oster and her colleagues did find
that only 8.3% of individuals who were at risk of Huntington's
pursued genetic testing. However, according to more recent findings from Georgetown Medical
Center, that figure is slightly higher, about 10 to 15%. That's it for the fact check.
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