rSlash - r/AmITheA--hole I Found My Twin Sister's Onlyfans

Episode Date: October 29, 2022

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Welcome to R-Slash, Am I the Butthole, where OP shows her twin sisters only fans to her parents? Am I the Butthole for showing my twin sisters only fans account to our parents? I'm an 18 year old girl with an identical twin sister. We've always had a tumultuous and competitive relationship. We've always fought over everything, guys, clothes, friends, etc. But our relationship came to a halt a few weeks ago when a mutual guy friend of ours sent me a link to an OnlyFans profile with an attached message that said, this you? Confused, I clicked on the link. And I was shocked to discover that this profile belonged to my twin sister.

The profile picture was very clearly a scantily clad image of her, and the username was my nickname that literally everyone in my life uses. I asked our friend about it, and he told me that he had discovered the profile through Twitter, and then subscribed to the profile. Her account has dozens of videos of her doing spicy things to say the least. Solo content and with partners, all of which has her face showing. I was floored, and in a fit of rage, I showed the profile to our parents. I mean, literally anyone who saw the profile who knows us would immediately assume that it's me considering that she's basically going by my name.

Our parents forced her to delete the profile, and she hasn't spoken to me since, claiming that I not only ruined her main source of income, but I also betrayed her trust. However, I think that she betrayed my trust by going by my nickname. So am I the butthole? Down in the comments, Sir Mittens of the Hill says exactly what I was thinking. Not the butthole. She exploited your identity for profit. She's lucky that you only told your parents instead of suing her.

Yeah, so not only is this dangerously close to identity theft, but also it kind of feels like revenge porn in a way. Because you're posting content of someone else, kinda without their consent. Legally speaking, I'm not really sure what the implications are for this story, but morally speaking, you're completely in the right here OP. As soon as she named that profile after your name, she completely lost the right to get upset at you for reporting that profile. OP, I'm giving you zero out of five buttholes. I'm giving your sister four out of five buttholes because what she did could have completely ruined your reputation.

It could have ruined your job, your friendship, your relationships with your partner, your future relationships with all these people, and so on and so forth. So what your sister did was honestly pretty bad. Am I the butthole for my reaction when I learned that my fiancee returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one that his mom picked for me? I'm a 28 year old woman. Me and my fiancee, a 33 year old guy, are getting married in December. His mom is the intrusive type, but she is nice overall, so we somewhat get along.

I hate to admit it, but wedding planning has been an absolute nightmare. His mom wasn't willing to agree on most things, and my fiance said that since he's her only son, then I should respect and appreciate her vision that she has for the wedding and how it should be. She insisted to come along for wedding dress shopping. I took her with me, my mom, and my friends. I was so lucky to find the wedding dress that I was looking for. But she picked a dress that she liked and said, I can already picture my son's bride in it. My mom and my friend thought that that line was creepy. I thought the dress was somewhat creepy and totally not my type. I apologized and thanked her for her vision, but I told her that I'd

already decided on a dress that I didn't vision myself wearing at my wedding. She got all pissy because of it, apparently. Then she must have told my fiance because he came home in the evening, ranting about how I made his mom upset, and I turned down her help in choosing the wedding dress and I excluded her from the process. I asked what process? It's just a wedding dress. As in my wedding dress. So I don't really get how she should have any say at all. He got upset and said that this attitude of mine isn't working on him or his mom. He said that I should consider the dress that his mom wanted me to buy, especially knowing that both dresses weren't that much different anyway.

But I told him, yes, they are different, like so different. Anyways, we argued about it and then dropped it. Yesterday I came home and found out that he had returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one that his mom wanted. I called him and he was straightforward about what he did and why he did it. I lost it and started screaming at him. He asked me to calm down and to really give this dress a chance. I refused to even listen. I screamed at him without even giving him a chance to speak. He came home and we had an argument. I then went to stay with one of my friends and he kept calling and calling.

And then texting, saying that I overreacted and it's his wedding too, so it wasn't cool how I screamed at him. He insisted that I give the dress a chance. He went on and on about how his mom has a vision and good intentions and just once what's best for me is her future daughter-in-law. My mother is livid and has been wanting to go scream at him and his mom, but my dad said

that this isn't worth ruining my relationship with my in-laws. He suggested that I wise enough and go with the flow. But is it too much for me to be able to pick my own wedding dress without being guilted about it just to keep the peace? Am I the butthole for my reaction? Opie, in my opinion, your mother-in-law is trying to inject herself into your marriage in a really inappropriate way. Like she has this vision of how the wedding supposed to be. So, what about the brides vision? O.P. this is definitely a red flag from your fiance.

I don't understand why he's allowing his mother to exercise so much control over his in your wedding. Is that really the kind of dynamic that you want to have with your husband? Where no matter how much you might want something, it's always going to be less important than what his mother wants. OP, I'm giving you 0 out of 5 buttholes. I'm giving your mother-in-law 2 out of 5 buttholes, and I'm giving your fiance 3 out of 5 buttholes.

Also… buttholes and I'm giving your fiance three out of five buttholes. Also, OP clarified in an edit that I'll let you guys guess who do you think is paying for the wedding dress? A. OP is paying. B. The husband is paying. C. The mother-in-law is paying. If you guessed A. OP is paying for the wedding dress, then you're completely correct. So even though OP is the one who's paying for what's probably a four figure wedding dress, she doesn't even get to pick it herself. Am I the butthole for calling my fiance's selfish for refusing to let my dad walk me down the aisle? I'm a 23 year old woman and my fiance is 26. We've been together for over two years. I don't have a big family.

Just my dad and my older sister. My dad has always been a single parent, devoting his life to me and my sister, and working over 14 jobs in the past six years to provide for us. I love my dad, and we have the best relationship that anyone could hope for. However, my fiance does not get along with him. They have different opinions on so many things. For example, one time my fiance suggested to my dad that he sell his truck because it's been sitting there for years. My dad got offended because that was my grandfather's truck and he doesn't have the money to get it fixed. Another example is my fiance got mad at my dad at a party for talking about his

struggle after my mom's death, and he accused him of collecting sympathy points, but dad said that he always talks about it casually. Their recent disagreement was when my dad refused to give my fiance money to contribute to the wedding. My fiance complained, but I said that my dad isn't obligated to pay for the wedding. Yesterday, my fiance told me to look for someone else to walk me down the aisle and I asked why. He said that my dad refused to help with the wedding and he should be grateful that he's still invited. I got upset and I argued that for one, my dad refused to contribute because he has no money. He can't afford to pay. And two, just like any bride, I want my dad to walk me down the aisle on my wedding day.

He threw a fit saying that I was trying to ruin his mood and get him upset on our wedding day. But I called him selfish for wanting to take away this moment that I always dreamed of over his disagreement with my dad. It's not fair, given that me and my dad are on great terms. He yelled at me for calling him selfish, saying that it's not just my wedding, and that clearly I don't care if he's uncomfortable and then he walked out. He's fuming and is insisting that I'm being inconsiderate and that I'm projecting on

him when I called him selfish. Oh, P. It's incredibly ironic that he says, it's not just your wedding, it's our wedding when clearly this guy is acting like it's 100% his wedding. Like he's right, it is both of your weddings and if it's your wedding OP then you have a right to have your dad there. You just do. And like what exactly is your fiance upset about?

He's upset that he suggested that your dad sell his car, but your dad decided not to sell the car. Okay, I don't really understand why that's an argument, but whatever. And then, what's, what, and then he got upset at your dad for complaining that his wife has did. The mother of his children, the love of his life. Of course he said, what man wouldn't be sad about his wife dying.

OP, your husband is toxic, he is mega toxic. Down in the comments, people are absolutely ripping your fiancee apart. And for good reason, because he's controlling, he's negative, he's selfish, he's manipulative, this is not the guy for you OP. OP, I'm giving you 0 out of 5 buttholes. I'm giving your fiance 3.5 out of 5 buttholes. Am I the butthole for getting up and walking out of the diner when my boyfriend said that

he forgot his credit card? I'm a 32 year old woman and I've been dating my boyfriend who's 36 for 9 months. He has 2 little kids who love going out to eat. We go out once a week to eat, and each time he just happens to forget his credit card to make a payment. Obviously, I would end up paying since we had kids with us. But honestly, it left me broke this month and the month before. I just received my paycheck for my second job, which is part

time. We agreed to go out together with the kids, and I even sent him a text reminding him to not forget his credit card. He laughed it off. At the restaurant, we ordered dinner, and he left the kids order lots of new stuff on the menu, which was really expensive. Before we started eating, I mentioned his credit card just to make sure that he didn't forget it. He looked at me shocked and then started searching his pockets for a while. He then looked at me in a sorry way and said, guess I forgot it in the other pair of jeans that I thought I was going to wear. Then asked me to foot the bill just this time. By that point, the food was on the table, but I didn't have one bite. I grabbed my

stuff and got up. He freaked out asking me where I was going. I told him I would not be paying this time again and to enjoy dinner with his kids. Then I walked out. He called me later and absolutely lost it on me. He said that he couldn't believe I would walk out and leave him and the kids in this situation. I said that I wasn't going to pay for him and the kids every single time, that it's unfair. He said that he forgot and that I didn't show sympathy for him and the kids and he had to cancel and go home with the kids hungry since he couldn't pay right there and then. We got into an argument and he's been mad at me about it ever since then, saying things like how he needs to take a look at how I'm treating the kids specifically

and how I was willing to let them go hungry with my selfishness. Am I the butthole? All right, Opie, let's be perfectly clear. It's not that you were letting his kids go hungry with your selfishness, it's that he was letting his kids go hungry with his selfishness. Because for getting, what you said nine months,

and this is a weekly thing, so four weeks in a month times nine is 36 consecutive dinners. This guy has forgot his credit card. I think it's pretty clear that this guy is not forgetting his wallet. He's intentionally not bringing his wallet so that you will pay. Also, like, you've been dating for nine months,

that's plenty of opportunities to just pay you back for the meal. Like, it's 2022, if I forgot my wallet, and someone else had to pay for me, then it just be like, okay, well, shoot me a text with your Vinmo or whatever, and I'll send you the money, no big deal. OP, this guy is obviously just trying to get you to pay for his kids. I think it's time to re-evaluate the relationship because not only is he being incredibly selfish, but he's trying to guilt-trip you and uses kids

as like leverage against you and making you out to be a bad person. This is emotionally abusive, to be honest. OP, I'm giving you zero out of five buttholes. I'm giving your boyfriend 2.5 out of five buttholes. Also, I gotta read this comment down below. Indication warm says, she's his ATM, and then the King Pete says,

I don't know about you, but my ATM only gives me my money, so I think your analogy is a miss. Am I the butthole for reporting my son's therapist for sharing private information with his stepdad? I'm a 36 year old man. My son is 14 years old, and recently his dog passed away. I signed him up with the therapist because his dog's death has literally left him unable to speak.

He's been in therapy for two weeks now. Two days ago, my son called crying, saying that his stepdad punished him by taking his bicycle and selling it for no reason. I was livid! I went to have a word with the stepdad, and he told me that there was a reason, and that's that my son badmouthed him to the therapist, and he claimed that he treated the dog poorly. I was floored by this. I had an argument with this stepdad and I asked him how the hell he knew about this and I told him to prove that my son said all that. He showed me text between him and my son's therapist. So basically, the therapist had been giving out private info about a bunch of stuff that my son talked about while in therapy. I was even more floored. I went straight to that therapist and we had a huge argument.

I told him I was going to report him after he defended himself, saying the reason he gave my son Stepdad this info was because of his concern as a parent. I said that I don't give an F what his justification was and I reported him. He tried to talk to me about how he felt for my son Stepdad and his concerns as a parent, so he didn't think that he did anything wrong. My son's mom called me after she found out about the report, and she blew up at me on the phone, calling me a controlling butthole for what I did. I ignored her calls after that, but my own wife thought that I made a hasty decision, and that the real problem was with my son's stepdad, not the therapist.

Was I in the wrong for reporting him? All right, I'm going to read this top post from Milk Boy Nuts in the comments because it really cuts to the heart of the issue. Hey, I'm a therapist. What that therapist did was against the law. Your son wasn't in danger of hurting himself or someone else. There was nothing helpful that could have come from this therapist telling the stepdad this info, not the butthole. Yeah, OP, I think you're completely in the clear here. If what the therapist did wasn't ethical, then he deserves to have this report against him, right?

OP, I'm giving you and your Sun 0 out of 5 buttholes. If anything, I'm proud of you for having your sons back. I'm giving the therapist the stepdad and your kid's mom 3 out of 5 buttholes. That was our slash amythebutthole and if you like this content be sure to follow my podcast because I put out new Reddit podcast episodes every single day.