Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - A Throuple of Conversations with Brock Davies

Episode Date: August 28, 2020

For the first time, Scheana and Brock are podcasting from their new home in San Diego! Scheana talks to Brock about what really went down while she was in a “throuple”! They also discuss binging their favorite Bravo shows and answer some questions from the fans. Scheananigans with Scheana Shay is produced by ACTIONPARK MEDIA. Follow us on Instagram: @scheana @scheananigans @actionparkmediagroupSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. What's up, everyone? For the first time, we have taken Shenanigans down south. Well, I guess one time we did it on a train going to San Diego, but now we are in San Diego podcasting from our new kind of office room that hasn't really become an office yet. Well, this is the officially first time use of our office. Yes, it is.

There you go. So we're sitting on the floor because we don't have chairs yet, but it's a work in progress. I like our home. Yeah. It's our home office. Yes. Working from home, you know. Progress. I like our home.

Yeah, it's our home office. Yes. Working from home, you know. If you can't tell already by the sound of his gorgeous voice, the guest today is my boyfriend, Brock. Just Brock. The man, the one and only. The myth, the legend, the ones they write stories about. The one that makes, the sound of his name makes men quiver in his presence. And drop drinks at festivals. I'm joking, guys.

Sorry. No, we're not joking. You can go back and listen to our Friendsgiving podcast to hear what that reference is to if you missed that one. I just called myself a legend on a podcast, so I apologize for that, guys. I think you're a legend, honey. Thanks, baby. And then next week, we have another legend on my podcast, my Aunt Shirley. Oh, yeah.

She's a legend. She is. They write movies about her. Yeah, so you guys will have to tune in for that episode next week. But while I am thinking about it, if you guys could please go, I know I've mentioned this before,

and give me a better than one star rating for my podcast, I would really appreciate it. Guys, I understand the one star rating. I know where it comes from. Sorry to cut you off, honey. It comes from a place of hate. It's fine.

And boredom. Because you just kept doing the same stuff. What are you talking about? No, what it was, was a lot of Chris Shell stans didn't like that Christine Jamie and I had an honest conversation about her a few weeks ago and all went and gave me one star reviews and dropped my rating. Well, let's pump those reviews up for us, puppies.

And let's cover a few topics before we get going. And you have a problem with the reviews. I have a problem with my mom asking me what a fruple is. Oh, God. Yes. So now I asked you off and then I took Sheena's advice when she explained to me like how they talk on the show. And if there's an interesting conversation that Tom and Ariana have, and catch me if I'm wrong, baby, they stop each other and then they'll have that conversation for the show. How does that work?

When we're filming, you know, we're supposed to save all of our conversations for on camera, obviously. So we don't have to reenact it or talk about something we've already talked about because then it feels forced. So if something big happened last night and we're filming tomorrow, then it's like, you know, we just wait to have that conversation. All right. Something big happened. What's a frapple about John? Tell me about that. Because my mom needs to know.

Okay. First of all, let me just remind you, honey. It's John Mayer, not John Legend. Brock likes to tell people I slept with John Legend. Sorry, Kristen Tegan. My bad. I'm like, no, wrong John, wrong singer, honey. No, no, no.

Anyway, that guy, Frapple, explain it to me because apparently I need to know a bit more about this. And my mom would like to know a bit more about it. I'm sorry, Diane. My mom would like to know a bit more about it. I'm sorry, Diane. Okay, so I was on Jessica Hall and Heather Rae Young's podcast called Flashbacks. That's also done here at Action Park Media. And we were talking about exactly that. Flashing back to 2008, 2009, when Jessica's sister Stacy and myself used to hook up with John Mayer.

Long time ago. Don't know how this was so newsworthy. It's a hookup? What's a hookup? Explain to me. Give me details. I need to know. You don't want the details. Not the deep details, but a throuple. Threesome, together, same time, No, no, no, no, no. Okay, and that's what I want to clear up because I never said threesome.

Heather asked if it was a sexual throuple. And I said, yeah, but you know, someone always had attention. And if like she was with him, there was like maybe someone else involved. And you already know this, honey. I had a thing with girls. You know, I was kind of dating a girl when I met you. So at that time when Stacy was seeing John, which was during the same time period I was seeing John, I was also talking to another girl.

So I could, you know, be in my room with the girl. She was in her room with him. Sometimes I was in my room with him. Like, it was just. Wait, so you guys were in the same house in different rooms? Sometimes we were in the same house. Yeah. Sometimes it was just her and him.

Sometimes it was just me and him. I have plenty of frapples. I just wouldn't call them frapples. The girls don't know about each other, but they're in different rooms. I'm joking, aren't you? No, but that's what I wanted to clarify because then people are like, oh, so threesomes. And I was like, I never said threesome. I said thruple, which maybe I didn't understand the meaning of thruple because Brett Kenyon

didn't explain it to me properly. But I thought a thruple is when a couple, and not that him and I were a couple, but when two people are seeing each other, allow one other person to enter into it and hook up with the other person. So it was like, yeah, you want to hook up with Stacy? Like I'm cool with that.

You guys do your thing until she started getting more attention from him than I was getting. And then I got jealous, but yeah, well, you, are you, yeah,

see, that's my problem. I just feel like he didn't want to see me anymore. He just wanted to go and see her. So then you were just, you were just the tag along the third wheel. Yeah. Oh, that's my problem. I just feel like... Because then he didn't want to see me anymore. He just wanted to go and see her. So then you were just the tag along the third wheel. Yeah. Oh, that's annoying. Exactly.

I was like, I brought you into this. What? What you were with? You're leaving me here? But I just did want to clear that up because that was like headlines everywhere. And I'm sorry to Brock's mom. That's all right. She's good.

Now she understands what the thruple is. There you go, mom. I'm looking up the Urban Dictionary of what a throuple is. There you go, mom. I'm looking up the Urban Dictionary what a throuple is, actually. What does it say? Oh, I can't read. That's my first problem.

So I'll just proofread it first. Read it for me, honey. A throuple is a relationship between three people who all have unanimously agreed to be in a romantic, loving relationship together with the consent

of all people involved. Nothing about that says it's sexual threesomes. Okay, so I did it. I explained it, right? I think everyone, I mean, for my mom, together with the consent of all people involved. Nothing about that says it's sexual threesomes. Yeah. Okay. So I did. I explained it, right? I think everyone, I mean, for my mom being one of these many, a throuple and a word talks about having a relationship with three people that you just automatically would go there. I mean, I probably automatically went there when I heard the word throuple.

And some throuples maybe are threesomes, but that is not what I said. Who's to say what hooking up means? It's just someone's different interpretation. So I'm glad we got that clarified. Awesome I said. Who's to say what hooking up means? It's just someone's different interpretation. So I'm glad we got that clarified. Awesome. Thanks. Yeah. So good.

All right. We can move on from that topic and go into some of our shows we've been watching. So we're on a Bravo kick right now. We've got below deck on Mondays, real housewives of Beverly Hills on Wednesdays. We watched the finale last night. Yes.

Oh, my gosh. Okay. I'm so annoyed. On both of those. And I'm new to reality TV. Is this reality TV? Yes, of course. I feel like Sheena tells me some parts are scripted, some parts aren't.

No, I've never said it's scripted. This could be. No, well, there's certain shows. I guess Selling Sunset is considered a docu soap it's not considered a reality show what about okay so not scripted i meant what i meant like prime example go to our mediterranean when kiki kiko kiko got the kick and then all of a sudden just perfect timing like was that premeditated that that worked out shady it seemed shady but then once you watch the next episode and he fucking gore to ramsay

in the kitchen and was cussing and losing his shit then i feel like it was like maybe that was just actually what happened on that crazy vessel during that time so it just it seemed like the timing was all too convenient that kiko is like, okay, I'll leave after this charter. I'll finish it out in time for Malia's boyfriend, Tom, to step in. It just, the timing was too perfect. I agree. But then once you watch Tom step in, it wasn't planned because he just shot himself in the foot. Or it was planned and he just bit off more than he could chew.

Yeah, who knows? We could break into that a bit more and here's here's my my problem with the malia situation i really liked her the whole season i even started going back and watching season two because i was like whoa wait i don't remember what happened back when her and bugsy were on season two with hannah so what happened on season two because i haven't watched them i'll two? Because I haven't watched them. I'll fill you in. We can go back and watch it. Malaya, what was she?

Was she the same thing? Well, I'm still watching it. This was years ago that it was on, and I didn't remember. So I just went back to start season one again. Because can you give us a highlight of what's going on right now? Let's stick with Mediterranean, right? The state of that. Highlight on that one.

So Kiko got fired. Yeah. Malaya got her boyfriend Tom on the court. one. So Kiko got fired. Yeah. Malaya got her boyfriend Tom on the court. Yes. And then Hannah got in trouble for a very controversial incident. Yes. Where we have both separated opinions. Even though, Hannah, you're our girl.

Oh, we love you. We love you, mate. We actually got a question from Hannah, too. Yeah, we did. Cool. We did. So now let's go on to that one. She wants to know when we're coming to Sydney to visit Hannah and bubs. Well, we'll be coming home as soon as we can.

Seriously. But here's, here's my issue. So I've, I've always liked Malia. I think she's adorable. I love that. She's like a tomboy. Badass has like five older brothers. Like she worked her way up. She started as a deckhand. And then at the end of season two i think was lead deckhand then she comes back as a bosun so i really like her i think she's badass i think she's great at her job very very by the book which i understand i mean i don't understand maritime or whatever law because i'm not a yachter however i understand it's just like a rule there are rules yes i get it and you're not supposed to break the rules and hannah broke the rules or just didn't go about it the right way she didn't log the medications she was bringing and keep them in the cabinet they're supposed to be kept would you fly not knowing but willingly knowing would you fly with potential drugs in your bag if you were to

do them would you fly on a flight i've done that by accident multiple times yes but would you willingly know that they were in there and then go on um a weed pen absolutely okay i've i did that when i went to australia i did that when i went to london hawaii i mean i've i've always willingly and that's why when i was saying that but that's where the compass moral is broken on me and you know but weed is legal it's not. In your mind, it's legal because you can do it in California. Yes. But the actual federal rules, which is like maritime rules, laws, state that it's not. As much as we believe and I love it and I understand it, it's just the rules.

And I understand these are the rules. I might be Australian because we have rules and we follow them. We have our amendment rights. I don't know what they are if we need them in australia i'll look them up but we're going pretty good yeah you know but those are the rules i and i love hannah we love hannah yes that's our girl i understand the rules and she broke the rules however was the however malia invaded her privacy by going through her personal stuff, finding the drugs, taking a photo of it, and sending it to Captain Sandy. Why didn't Malia do that two weeks before when Hannah said she needed a value? And Malia was like, isn't that a prescription?

Why didn't she say anything then? She only said something when Hannah didn't want to switch bunks, and that pissed off Malia. didn't want to switch bunks and that pissed off malia correct so i'm not okay with the fact that she then was like oh i remember two weeks ago and i said she needed volume and i get that now the way it was laid out in that photo she purposely laid it out all perfectly and took a photo hannah didn't just have it laying on her bed or on the counter like that 100 she went in there with with a spiteful intent to turn around. And that's bullshit. That is bullshit.

But Hannah should never have given her the ammunition to shoot herself. See, but here's where we disagree again because I get it. Like, I was like, oh, I'm so, I'm the Hannah. Like, I understand. Okay, let's say, let's say, like, job on yacht aside. Let's just talk about the show yep okay hannah started that show she is the only og on that show captain sandy wasn't even on season one correct it was a dude i don't know his name correct i don't even know but i get it hannah is the only og of that show

yes and to then five years later have people who were on season two and then other people come in and basically just take over and take your job i'm like i feel you so hard girl this is phase two of our little opposites dana i get it and that's and this is we've had this breaks about that as well let's keep it reference of you and dana maybe even for the show i feel like hannah got it got let it let the feelings of that of people coming to the show affect I feel like Hannah got it, got let it, let the feelings of that, of people coming to the show affect her doing her actual job. And then in downplay, as me as a viewer, I watched Hannah not really potentially do what she was made out to be doing. Like, Jessica, work harder, mate. You know, control that situation. First chick.

She had a broken finger. What was that first chick? The first crazy one? Oh. I would have thrown her overboard and just left her. Yeah, I didn't really like her. Handle that, but not doing so. And maybe we didn't see it because of editing. But not doing her job made Hannah look bad.

Because she let her feelings get the best of her. Whereas Malaya was doing her job and went overboard doing her job. And Hannah gave her a... I know. I love Hannah. I'm really into it. But I really felt that Hannah didn't do herself justice by letting this season get taken advantage of by feelings and not putting her best foot forward every time.

Easier said than done, honey. You don't understand. And that is why we have such conflicting arguments, because I'm not on a reality show, and that's probably why I'm not on a reality show. And you just know how to just like shut your feelings off and just like throw them i just don't want people to ever look at me and judge me for my last actions if my last actions were bad i want to make up for them and if and like you know and you know that like there's only one thing that gets me upset and that's about the kid situation yeah and that's

my last that's that's part of my action like you can only judge a book by its character or by what it reads and that's what my reads it's like i'm not there for my kids right now i haven't been but we've been working on that but it's separate because there's different things involved but that's the nut of nutshell of it yeah and that's the same when it comes to a person's professional and personal life the problem with you guys is it's the same our life is our job our job is our life it's very hard to separate it because that was what was so frustrating, which I feel like a broken record about the whole Dana thing. I was like, it's not about Max. It's not about this.

It's not about that. It's the fact that she has come on a show I started with my friends, and she's getting to showcase her career on a show I started with my friends, and I'm not. But I think that what damaged you the most of that, and I can say this because it's a high sign. And Dana, to be honest, if she listens to this, she doesn't like me. And I don't know why the fuck not for.

Yeah, she said she's uncomfortable around you because you liked comments against her. I stick up for that chick. Like, I think she's done really well in the situation that she's been given. And I think you handled it poorly. But I can only say that from an outsider's point. Because I'm not on the show. What did I handle poorly? You got upset that they were doing that stuff and then so you turned around instead of trying to create an opportunity for yourself you withdrew from production that no i did still try

honey i know but you started it with like you tried with max and you tried with like you tried that stuff like i tried to show what was going on in my life i know but it wasn't really a fun but now it's fun whatever give me a kiss moving on yeah but see that's that's the thing too when i hate when people say i surround myself with a bunch of yes men when i'm dating the most non-yes man i've probably ever dated you give me your opinion all the time and he's sided with dana or with stassi or with people that i'm like no like that's wrong and he's like well here's how i see it as you can tell we have i'm not on a reality show okay guys so don't take my word as gospel even yet i mean i would love to have a crack and see if i can nah i mean i don't know we'll figure that out but who knows i might buckle under pressure but

okay hannah i love you mate i'm really excited for you to have a little one. Do we know if it's a boy or a girl? Girl. Girl. I'm excited. I got two little ones and the kids' moms are raising them, yes. But it's a different level at that point. Life gets changed around real quick.

So it's fun. Well, hashtag team Hannah. Yes. Always. Okay. I want to know because we watched Watch What Happens Live a few weeks ago, and Jess said her and Rob broke up. Yes.

I want to know what happened. I would date Rob. Because I think he was just- God, I would never date anyone named Rob. Yeah, who would date someone called Rob? I thought Rob was legit a really nice guy, and he was really articulated with his feelings and his words, and he shut up and he got his job right, how they edited him. He might be a really nice guy. Yeah. And he was really articulated with his feelings and his words. And he shut up and he got his job right.

How they edited him. He might be a completely different person. No, I think. They have a good editing team or is this like bullshit for just you to say editors? No, I think that he comes across well. Yeah. I think it's general. I would love to have a chat with him.

I think he's a legend. Yeah. If you're on here, mate, if you hear this. Well, I can't get anyone from below deck on just yet but i'm hoping by the end of the season that's fine i mean we're still behind an episode so i know we haven't even watched this week yet so that's but i i remember seeing something on like a preview was it like jess got like jealous or something did he like take a photo with one of the guests some of the guests grabbed his bum and she was like uh and he sort of shoot for the photo We just saw the highlight and then she freaked out.

So maybe that's what it was. Jess could look crazy. Definitely little crazy eyes coming from Jess. It depends how he reacted to it though. But he also said, I love you. Yeah. But the girl can't get upset if someone grabs the butt. Yeah.

You can't. You got to be content with and happy with yourself. Unless he was like, ooh, yeah, do it again. And like, didn't say like no or unless he just went into the crew members deck and just gave it one there could be a problem yeah that did happen on what season was it the first season oh yeah and i heard about that yeah he got fired he was like giving his number to guests and i think he made out with one of them. I don't remember. Shoot your shot. Shoot your shot. I will say though

I do wish Hannah and Bugsy got along because I like Bugsy. I think she's really good at her job. Again, honey, that was where I really believe when Bugsy when she heard the word Bugsy when Hannah heard the word Bugsy, she was off it. They were on season two

together and they didn't get along. I don't know the history of people and I'm not on word her doing bugsy she was off it well no they were on season two together i know it was an issue i think i said i don't know i don't know the history of people right but all i and i'm not on reality tv so i'm not a counselor for people but it's like if you let those feelings affect you moving forward then what are you doing like you get yourself in trouble if her and bugsy got along really well they would crush it yeah instead they were just like oh it was just it's that competition i get it it's not a competition if you think you're winning we are winning you are winning your race and i'm winning my race and it's not even a competition i know but you know what i mean no i don't know no matter what stassi and i could be best friends till the day we die it's

always going to be a competition but it shouldn't be because you guys are both separate people you both have different opinions and you both have different directions. But I don't think we think it's a competition. Everyone puts us against each other. It's like always team Stassi, team Sheena. And we're like, we're cool. No, but you just got to identify yourself as like, know your direction. And if, and that's where I feel like I hate this when you do it, you do compare yourself with you and Stassi. You guys get compared. I think I've been better about that. You have been 100% honey. I actually just started listening to an audio book

and there's this whole chapter. Let me see what the chapter is called. The book is Super Attractor. It's by Gabrielle Bernstein and the girl who does our acupuncture out here. Shout out to Reiki city acupuncture and

wellness lounge in san diego ladies they are amazing i just had my first reiki session ever that shit was incredible but in this book it's chapter three and she talks about there's like seven blocks and it's just it's really interesting interesting. I was listening to it and I was driving back to Palm Springs, pick up the kitties. And I rewound it and listened to the chapter again because I was like, oh my God, this is so good. Like the way her outlook, she was saying how she was competing in whatever sport thing it was and she won. And the girl who came in second called her after and was like,

I mean, congrats, but like, Oh, I'm just so pissed that you beat me. And she was like, I beat you because I wasn't competing. I was just having fun and enjoying the game.

I wasn't trying to win or be better. She's like, when you compare yourself, you're saying that you're not good enough and you have to be better than someone else to be good enough. And when did you listen to this audio book? Two days ago. I love that book.

It's so good. Keep listening to that, honey. I'm on chapter four. That's it. Like, guys, like, with everything we do, we need to have a competitive nature, but it's not against other people. You can't ever compare your A to somebody's Z. Because then you're putting that out in the universe that you're not good enough unless

you're better than someone else. Preach it, honey. High five. High five on that one, sister. Boom. Good work, baby. I thought you'd like that. I love that one.

That was good. Thanks. Thanks, Monica. Thanks. Thanks, ladies and guys. I enjoyed that. Yeah. So we're here in San Diego.

We've got almost, I think think everything's pretty much done. I have one box that I'm looking at that's giving me a little bit of anxiety that we need to unpack still. Actually, two boxes. One in here, one in the bedroom. But we just got the new beds set up. Who's going to be our first guest? Do we know that yet? In San Diego?

Yeah. Parker. Okay. He's coming over for dinner tomorrow night, but we're going to podcast with him soon too. But like staying over. Who's coming over for the weekend? Oh, James and Raquel. James and Raquel are going to be our first guests? Yeah. Parker. Okay. He's coming over for dinner tomorrow night, but we're going to podcast with him soon too. But like staying over. Who's coming over for the weekend? Oh, James and Raquel. James and Raquel are going to be our first guests?

Yeah. There you go, guys. Yeah. James and Raquel are coming. Labor Day weekend. We're going to have a fun vlog. I really wanted to do a Floatopia, but I don't know if we're going to do that because you were supposed to build me this floaty slide island and you didn't i didn't but that was because of a few things pandemics and actual things so i can't

get too much things manufactured uh-huh okay so we'll just pin that one storyline i want for later on for a youtube for you babe we'll do i'll build you on and secondly you never know what's going to happen because we have my my fitness studio We're hosting our Labor Day party out there. Yeah. And everyone's going to have the easy ups on all that. So they'll be out there. And I told them all to bring their floaties. So, I mean, if you put enough floaties together, you might have some kind of floatopia.

Okay. But we'll get to that. I'll build you one, honey. I promise. We'll have fun. But in the meantime, just trying to get all of our furniture and everything else just settled and put together. Trying to get all of our furniture and everything else just settled and put together. We recently had to get some new sheets for our bed because your monstrous feet.

How did you do that? To be honest, I heard it rip one time and I was like, hmm. So you did hear it rip. I did, but I didn't realize I just ripped the sheets. So we're in a new place and it gets pretty hot at night. So, I mean, I don't really sleep much on regardless. So I just kicked the sheets off and I remember rolling and i was tight tangled in the sheets and i just i showed out just and just ripped and i have no idea how we woke up in the morning it looked like wolverine had straight shredded those things and i mean maybe i might need a pedicure actually definitely

your talons they couldn't have shredded our sheets i shredded the sheets guys yes it was very good pillow talk to be honest hey babe look at my sheet shredder sheet shredding we just had to get all new sheets for our bed thanks to brooklinen now we have i think they're untreadable sheets say that three times untreadable sheets untreadable sheets untdable sheets. Say that three times. Unshreddable sheets, unshreddable sheets, unshreddable sheets. Oh, you are good at public speaking. That was a good diploma for you there, honey. I couldn't say one word of that. But these sheets, they are amazing. I mean, one of the things that I have to do every day before we start our day is make the bed.

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and free shipping when you use promo code SHEA only at brooklinen.com. That's B-R-O-O-K-L-I-N-E-N.com. Brooklinen is everything you need to live your most comfortable life. Yeah. Yeah, baby. Yeah, baby. now get back to the topics okay housewives are we going to housewives now yeah i think we below decked it out until we can get someone we like you we love kiko tom we don't know tom well

enough yet well we do he can't cook but he can can cook. But here's the thing, Tom. You're not cooking in your own restaurant. You're cooking for people. You're not cooking like, it's not Tom's restaurant that people come to. That's another thing. Do you get what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah, you got to understand that. He doesn't understand that.

He should. Kiko did, but he also, I would have fired him too because he just was a good person, but couldn't get it done. Yeah. So I get that too. But Kiko? After he crushed that 72 courses. He came with taco.

He came with bad. It was a bad day. But Hannah told him to make the nachos. Oh, so now it's Hannah's problem? No, I'm just saying. Hannah was not doing her job? Maybe he wouldn't have been fired if he made the food he wanted to make. I'm going to have to ask Hannah about this.

It's a Hannah conversation. She probably doesn't want to talk to me when I tell her we have it. But I'm all team for you, mate. Anyway, let's move on to the woman who I stole luggage from. Denise Richards. My dear. Yes.

She's kind of like the only actual celebrity that I know of. Like, can put a name to a face to a movie real quick. Yeah. I'm sure you can. And then I stole her luggage and was standing right in front of her and didn't realize who it was until after the conversation and i was on the flight with her oh what i was with her all weekend at bravo con honey

see i was a brother kind of no idea yeah i did really did i really your fans or people listening probably were off the fact that he took me because like you just take me because he has no idea who anybody is but it was fun that was like your first taste of like okay this is my life and if you want out we've only been dating like a month and a half two months oh i knew i knew i could have back doored if i wanted out because you straight up blurred me out of that photo which was appropriate we said we weren't doing no social media for six months just say all your fans yeah just so you guys understand that one we made a deal to each other that i said look because when i first met

sheena that was one of her biggest personal issues she looked like obviously guys you guys could tell she has the greatest track record you know not trusting it i guess all of that so that was a big one when she mentioned that to me i said look i don't even know what's going on with the show so cool let's make a deal. We don't need to do anything for six months. And even though we wanted to post some stuff, we didn't barley on stories and that. We didn't put anything hard out there. And I'm glad we did it.

Yeah. Babe, it's only been a year. It's going to be a year. Don't forget, I haven't forgotten. On the 15th, but at the end of the month was when you sealed the deal. Yeah. So, yeah, just food for thought. Anyway, enough about us.

That's my DR, my Denise Richards, and these ladies. Okay, so Housewives finale, y'all. I've heard mixed reviews from my friends. Some absolutely hated it, but then some, like myself, found it absolutely fascinating. So the fact that they have been breaking the fourth wall this season is beyond interesting to me, especially because I'm on a reality show. My hands up. Do you know why? Yes, you're asking a question.

I have no idea why, actually. And my opinion is, it's because Denise Richards is such a queen. She doesn't need to play along with the rules of reality TV. You thought the final episode was meant to be that final party. It should have been. I guarantee it should have been.

But I'm like, one cast member. Guess what? Guess what? D.I. turned around and said, not today, production. I am better than this trash. And obviously, we don't know actually what happened with all of that because that was when everything went black, pretty much. Yeah.

And then you saw it three months later once she released, and then she continued to film again, yeah but i mean the fact that good girl you know i mean if you guys watch housewives or pretty much any show on bravo the season finale usually always ends with a big party so i guarantee that party at dorit's house was like you know christmas party whatever but that was like, this is the day we film our season finale party. Yeah. And obviously Kim got a plus one because we knew she was going to bring Brandy. Of course.

That's why Denise didn't come to Teddy's baby shower because she was going to run into Brandy. And then Brandy texted Denise, like, I'll see you tonight. And so Denise is is like not tonight but we don't get to okay brandy was so into showing text messages and then she doesn't show that one why don't we see that text message um i mean she might have but remember honey you're not seeing everything exactly she said she texted her and even denise said yeah i knew she was going to be there so that could have been a very boring text exchange anyways but that's why denise didn't show up because she's like i'm not doing this shit bang because i'm a queen ass mother but i just i find it so interesting this is what my favorite thing is about watching

keeping up with the kardashians is they talk about the show on the show when you're watching a reality show whether it be filming in a restaurant in your house the interviews whatever it is you're watching a television show that was filmed yes and the fact that now they're breaking the fourth wall down a little more they're showing producers they're showing just drama because there is drama they're letting them talk about producers yeah you think there's drama you've made there's more off the cameras are like that's that's that's it i think you said that ages ago when we first met you were so into it when we're watching the kardashians i was so into it fascinating because i'm they're like if courtney doesn't want to film she's out and that's okay so that's you guys being already what are the

viewers like do they like the fourth wall or they don't like that because like you said you had mixed views well just that some of the people in my group chat like for my huddle group chat like they're all obviously big bravo fans they were just like oh it was so boring and i was like i thought it was a fucking fascinating which is probably why we aren't production crew again and that's maybe maybe because people do just like drama they don't want to hear about the fourth no no but everyone else in the group a couple people thought it was boring because there was no explosive denise brandy fight and that's what people they wanted an explosive lisa rena didn't need to have to go out there and do that yeah but i was like no but the fact that denise not showing up to that party which was probably what

should have been the season finale then they had to pick cameras back up and keep filming and then talk about producers. You're right. That definitely got boring after that. Because then you're like, what film quality is this? And they threw the coin or whatever into the pool. And I was like, okay, let's end this party. This shit's boring.

Yeah, yeah. But then you have Rinna and Dorit and was it Teddy? I forget who else sat down at lunch with them. And they're like, oh, well, she told producers this, producers that. And I'm like, they're leaving in them talking about producers this is so interesting for you this is what i think it's interesting for people too though to see because that's the behind the scenes stuff yeah okay you know you're watching a television show yeah and maybe and then when they're saying about denise controlling the narrative and like bravo bravo bravo bravo

bravo bravo fucking bravo i have done. Bravo, bravo, fucking bravo. I've done that before. I'm guilty of that too. It didn't work, did it? No, then it was just jealous, jealous, jealous, jealous. I'm not jealous, jealous, jealous. It never works for me. It doesn't, see? You're not Denise Richards, honey, sorry.

You're my Denise Richards in my world. You're my Jason Momoa. Yeah, but I'm not. I'm Brock. In my world, you are. Oh, you want me to be Aquaman? No, you're my jason momoa yeah but i'm not i'm brock in my world you are oh you want me to be an ankle man no you're better than aquaman there you go honey see but how they were saying how aaron posted like about her hernia surgery and they're like yeah we're controlling the narrative but i'm like smart i loved every minute of it i was literally like sitting on the edge of my seat so i was like oh my god and now they doing this. And it was just so all over the place that I just found it so interesting. Like bravo, evolution.

There was so much. Is that evolution? Yeah. Oh. Damn. They left them in there? Yeah. Okay.

I thought it was pretty, I mean, to be honest, Denise must have given evolution such a headache. Because like what Lisa said, you know, because Lisa called her out and put her in her place because she knows herself for so long. She's like, oh, something came up, you didn't want to hear it out and went all of that. But, oh, she's still a boss. Yeah.

I would love to just, we could get her on here. What do you reckon? I'll text her. Yeah. Yeah, you can text her because I stole her luggage. I have her number, yeah. But we'll let things kind of calm down for a bit no we saw the reunion coming up oh yeah yeah so you know not everyone's just able to

hop on podcasts when i mean surely we should have a conversation with brock i have no idea about any of the history i just wonder how after you know a cease and desist was supposedly sent and all of that how they got her to start filming again that's what i'm saying like she made him jump through her how did this happen i want to know more well or i know here's my one for denise she was just a professional and finished her free contract you know yeah she's just a pro that's what i mean she's working she's talking to mannequins right now i mean that yeah i was telling brock last night how they're shooting bold and the beautiful and certain

soaps right now is with mannequins and then for the sex scenes they're using their real life partners that's so hectic and soap actors aren't i mean denise is awesome but like soap actors in general aren't always the best actors they have to memorize hundreds of pages of script a week, so they're very talented people. But to then go and act with just a mannequin, having no emotion, expression coming back from you, that takes talent. Yeah, well done. It really does. She's a pro.

I reckon I'm going to call that one. She said, you know what? I made a deal with these guys. I'm going to finish it up and get it done. Yeah. And we'll find out. I think that's a good one. I think that's a good theory. Yeah. Keeps both parties at bay.

Yeah. It was a great finale, I thought, and I cannot wait for the reunion. Yeah, there we go. Okay, here we go. It's either going to come out like drama, drama, drama, or it's going to be bravo, bravo, bravo, and just get through it. You know what I mean? I want to get one of those coffee mugs or something.

Bravo, bravo, fucking bravo. Yeah. And then then dree's like that's not gonna work sweetie they're gonna leave it in and they leave all of that in i'm like exactly jack's on our season finale when he's like that's why my fucking show is so successful and lisa's like it's not your show it's my show and i put you on it so be fucking respectful or whatever yeah don't be disrespectful i was like oh my god they left it in it was so good it was phenomenal it was so good i i hope you know we can do more of that because it's so real and that makes reality shows even more real as showing hopefully on the show hopefully yeah i don't know you said you had mixed reviews so but i think that was just samira saying she thought it was boring because certain people were like we wanted an explosive fight but i'm like that doesn't mean audience you know people

love people believe you still work at sir i do work at sir okay yeah part-time yeah but not like full-time people still believe britney goes in there for shifts you know what i mean she does yeah yeah we all do. I know that. Mm-hmm. First, before we get into some fan questions. Yes. I just want to give a shout out to this company I just saw called Litter Robot. I saw a commercial. Did they get back to you yet?

They did. Yes. And so I might be working with them soon. And if so, I'm going to tell you guys more about it. But if you have a Litter Robot, please, um i would say comment below but we're not on my youtube but you could comment on my youtube i just want to know what you guys think of it because i'm hoping to get one soon here you go guys give sheena a five-star review on her podcast and the review will be five stars on the litter box okay that's how you get your five star reviews honey yes all right we've got a bunch of

fan questions so many of them were when are you getting married when are you trying for babies again oh guys that was like come on 70 of the questions how how can we go from having a healthy relationship to when are you getting married like why is that why does that have to come around like that yeah what reality do people live in? It's not 90-day fiance. I think some people think that, honey. People think I still live in Australia and they've got to marry me? So many people didn't know you lived here when we started dating because I went to Australia right away.

So they thought I met you here and then I went to go visit you. And then when they're like, wait, he's in San Diego? How long is he here for? I'm like, he lives here. So guys, listen here. There is times and obviously we're in a great relationship. We're not in a rush. We're both divorced. Yeah. Plus I have to deal with her every day, guys. Come on. You think that's a walk in the park? She has to deal with me. I have to deal with her. Like, we're fine. Okay. Yeah. There's good things coming. I promise you.

We've got some exciting things there's no need to put yeah sheena's gonna turn around and work on herself i'm gonna work on myself we're good shut up we're gonna run our own race okay tina underscore mccabe4 wants to know if i'm jealous of your hair there were also a lot of hair questions that came in about yours well that was because that hairbrush what's it called called? The Brush X. Brush X? Yeah. Got me the flow. Yeah. Yeah.

We're going to be putting out another discount code in the next week or two with Brush X. The code is Sheena15, but you guys need to watch my Insta story because the code only works for 24 hours for the first 50 orders. There you go. Sweet. So I haven't filmed it yet because I have braids in my hair right now. But once the braids come out, you guys want to see the flow,

get a brush X when we put that commercial up. If we can sell out in 50 seconds, my hair is paying for itself, baby. Boom. Yeah. To answer your question, Tina.

Yes, I am jealous. Oh, really? You're jealous, honey. Oh, um,

mirror in the city wants to know for Brock mirror. What's it got for below deck matter. Are you team Hannah or team Malia? Sandy guys. Answer that carefully. to know for Brock. Mira, what's it got for me? For Blow Deck Matt, are you team Hannah or team Malia Sandy? Guys. Answer that carefully. I am always going to be loyal to a friend. Yes. So that's Hannah.

But I will tell my friend, do not give people ammunition to shoot you down. Okay. Courtney Jow Eagand wants to know, what is one new thing you learned from the other that you now love? One new thing I learned from the other that I now love. Okay, go first. The fact that you're really hard on me can be really frustrating at times, but I love it because I know it comes from a place of love and you just want the best for me and you know what I'm capable of and you don't want me to quit on myself. and you just want the best for me and you know what I'm capable of and you don't want me to quit on myself. So as frustrating as that's been over the past year,

I do love that so much about you because you really push me to be the best version of myself. Well, that puts a lot of pressure on my hands in there because I don't know. Something that I love about you that I thought was annoying first. Just one thing that you learned like about me or like you know well guys i'm really good judge of character i'm really good at people unfortunately i guess that can i say that yeah so i didn't really it's not that i learned much from sheena

but i just really admire how she goes through just like ariana said goes through life with just rainbows and freaking looking through with unicorns and everything's all peachies and rainbows. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I admire that. That's a skill set to have. I just definitely don't have it. Rihanna kicks in at some point, but she just keeps on going, you know?

Yeah. Which is fun. Okay. It wasn't as good as yours, but. Next. Next. Echoey underscore Cass wants to know, any new couple goals y'all have to accomplish together or projects we've got a few couple goals yeah our first one was moving to san diego

friends of mine we're friends with staff with uh oh yeah yeah with the uh boys from rufus right that's so we want to become their friends we want to become their friends. We want to become their friends because, oh, I don't know, just for clout. It's one of our favorite bands. That's like who we've seen at festivals together. I've seen them, I think, three times in the last year. Plus the boys from back home. I should be friends with the boys from back home. Yeah.

They're from like Encinitas. Be friends with me. But they live here. Yeah. Couple goals. We just want to focus on ourselves and really just crush it i think that's my couple goal yeah and we do have some things that we're working on right now it's a little too early to talk about it but way too early it's you know something that requires traveling and

can't travel right now way too early next it's krista LJ wants to know, how do you feel about how men have treated Sheena in the past? This is a question for me? Question for you. It's not a question for me. It's not a question. Well, I'm annoyed, but I can't be annoyed because Sheena allowed that to happen. Okay? Sheena stuck with a man that treated her like that.

So I am in no position to judge or say because no one is, because no one knows that relationship better than the two in the relationship. Well, I'm thankful that they all treated me like that because they really set the bar low for me. They really did. I could poop with the door open when she's right in front of me. I went going in for a kiss and I look like a saint. You know, you do do that. Exactly.

I look like a saint. Luckily, I look like a saint. You love me. S Myers underscore 12 said, what is y'all's favorite dinner to make together besides your enchiladas, which I'm making tomorrow? Well, which aren't our favorite. No, they're not your favorite. They're mine and everyone else's favorite. They're just not big on Mexican food.

Barbecue sirloin steaks, baby. I will cook the woman up the best steak. A filet, not a sirloin. Who said that? I said that. Yeah. A filet. A a sirloin. Who said that? I said that. Yeah. A filet. A filet.

Yeah. Love me a good filet. He's so good at the barbecue, too. Barbies, baby. You can't be half Aussie, even though I'm not actually any Aussie. I was just raised there, and be bad at a barbecue. Yeah. If you're bad at a barbecue, mate, you can hand in your man card now and just walk to

the back of the line and figure that out. Uh-huh. Okay. card now and just walk to the back of the line and figure that out okay mrs max sarah said moving in together is so exciting but the money part can be tricky so what is they said what's our plan and like what would advice be to couples who are moving in together do you think one should and this is our first month so i guess we can figure this out right here on shenanigans. Should one person pay one month?

Should everything just be split each month? What do you think? I mean, honestly, either works for me. I think if I pay one month, then you pay the next month, or we could split it. But honestly, I feel like splitting it and the tit for tat, it's just like the way i see it honestly it all evens out eventually neither of us are taking advantage of the other except for me for the last two weeks well because he lost his wallet let's just make that clear yeah so i lost my wallet i am and we have been very advocate for of the i don't want to take advantage if we use my card then you venmo

me yes always so always i think just keeping track it, but not being so nitpicky because that can just be so annoying. We're like, well, you didn't pay me $12 for the fucking electricity bill. We're still very young. We're still very young in our relationship for us to be like, ah, this is what it is. Like, cause there's not this. I mean, I don't want anyone to think of I'm taking advantage of the situation and I don't want her to think that either. So for me, that's where that comes from.

I'm always on top of that. And it's been pretty hard the last two weeks cause I lost my wallet. So a lot of Venmo transactions, but for couples, you can't, you can't set a time, but when there's a point in time when you guys equally add to each other's wallets and equally support each other, then you equally can pay the bills. Yeah. I am chivalrous. Chivalrous? dinner and not expect shoes and I will do that. But at the same time, I will expect her to go 50-50 with me on some things, especially if it was a group decision. If it was a personal date or my idea, I pay. If. For the sheen of the idea, she pays. Yeah.

That's the rule of thumb. Until you get to a point where you guys start bringing in the same income and you start adding value to each other that way, I think for me, that's my reasonable aspect of it. Yeah. Good answer. You like that one, honey? I do. Yeah. So are you taking me out for dinner tonight or is that my idea?

I was getting a cookie dinner tonight. Fucking woo, winning. Emily underscore Elmo, as an Australian and not being able to visit my family in a different state. How is Brock handling it in a different country? Well, the family is the family is my main one. And that's what was one of the things that got me with Sheena. She understood that and she's really good with her family. So for me, I speak to my family every week, time to time. She speaks on more than I do do that's just how i am but my biggest one right now is we just spend the last three four months trying to get back in contact with my kids

mom and all that and so that's what we're waiting on so once the once covid lifts i've got my traveling permits um we will be going home and going back to the family but they do travel a lot you know so yeah there's two different questions in that one is the kids in the family and it's a loaded question because obviously i'm not there with the kids so emma law 12 said where do you guys see your future together and by the way you're my favorite on vanderpump well thank you emma i mean our future here san diego we're living our future like this is my dream i gotta wake up in it so i just think more of this sorry babe i just vomited in my mouth we don't know but we are doing the best and we are enjoying every step of it yeah heath momo this is a little bit of a deeper question

said does the miscarriage trauma affect your sex life and if so how do you cope and i feel like this is something that a lot of couples who have gone through infertility struggles and miscarriage specifically probably would like to know. I think at first, in the beginning, we were just afraid to hurt me. It was just like, well, can I? Can I not? And then I felt guilty.

And then just my emotions were so all over the place and I didn't, it was, I don't know. I can help you on that one. I think in a relationship, it's just understanding each other. And obviously, as much as we're not sexual beasts, we're not just in a relationship just to have sex constantly. So that was never our focus. So when we went through the miscarriage, sex wasn't a priority on the list,

but it wasn't like a determining factor of our relationship either. So we were getting through other hurdles and dealing with other feelings. And the biggest one was that she and I may have been feeling like, oh, you know, may have been feeling feelings, but I think our relationship just kept going. Like it didn't skip a beat at all and at that point in time the focus wasn't on having sex it was on making her feel comfortable and understanding that what happened happened and not judging herself or anything like that and just

being like look you know we can there's always an opportunity later on and just keep your head up and that that was the focus point i don't think we we really made it a key point of during a miscarriage is oh my god we can't have sex you know that wasn't a question and if it is a question in your relationship i think you just forget about that part because it shouldn't be just look at each other and understand each other's feelings and focus on other attributes of your relationship unless it's just 100 sex relationship then you know i'm not in that relationship i can't give advice yeah k underscore e underscore and oh I guess it's Kennedy with some

underscores in it what was his first impression of the show had he watched before and will he ever film with you well obviously I had watched it before but not like a memorable moment or anything like that just with like past girlfriends and mums and sisters potentially watching

a drama like Bravo show i actually think i do remember watching an episode with jacks like watching a part of a show with jacks and i was like how is this dude how is this happening and it was like where i asked my sister what was going on because you know when guys walking on the show on the missus like what's this we just try and get like a catch-up story i actually remember this like i asked my sister what's this guy she's like oh that's that he used to work for her and now he got fired he got his job back at wherever he was working so so and i was like how and then my second question was where is he looking half the time so i i have remembered but, but I never watched it deep enough to watch Sheena. I know my ex was like, you know who she is?

I was like, well, apparently I do. So now guys recognize Sheena, so it's funny. So obviously the guys that watch the show are like, oh, that's the smoke show. Yeah, hey. But yeah. But filming-wise, she doesn't even know when they're going to start filming. So we'll deal with that bridge when we get to it. Yeah. But filming wise, she doesn't even know when they're going to start filming. So we deal with that bridge when we get to it. Yeah.

Kate dot Vizzle asks if we're still planning on freezing embryos in the future because my whole journey is inspiring. And that's cool. I think so. I don't think that is on the agenda right now, but I think before I were to go through a third round of freezing eggs i would we would do embryos oh yeah we can definitely have that conversation moving forward she froze them for a reason and my guys definitely we know they work so we'll just deal with that one

when we come up to it i think yeah sorry guys i'm not a genie i'm not going to turn around and talk about our future like that because there's no need to yeah but i had talked about doing a third round of freezing my eggs and then i said i was like if i were going to do that i would probably just do embryos and not do eggs but that's just not on our agenda right now no not yet no kj ryan 14 wants to know if i can put my high pony on you we already have that it was actually a tinsel one that she used for her Coachella vlog. Remember, babe? Yes. Oh my God, we did. That's right. Done. Next. Last question. My boy, David, simply underscore David underscore C said, how are you liking the adjustment from Palm Springs to San Diego? Are you both loving it? And you already know the answer. We came back

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