Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Cyber Bullies can SUCK IT! ft. guest Demario Jackson

Episode Date: June 12, 2019

Scheana, Janet, and Demario talk about the dangers of cyberbullying and the importance of supporting and leading with love over trying to hurt people back. You never know the impact someone's words might have. Plus, updates on Scheana's egg freezing round two and plans for father's day! If you or anyone you know is struggling with depression or thoughts of suicide, the suicide prevention hotline is available to you 24/7 at 1-800-273-8255.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Thank you for listening to this podcast one production available on Apple podcasts and podcast one From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. We're good as gold. Because we're good as gold. Hey guys, so we are doing a special episode of Drinking and Podcasting featuring our friend Demario Jackson. What up?

What up? What up? What up, D? So we had a little like a viewing party because my friend Devin is on The Bachelorette. And we thought he was getting sent home tonight, but he did not. So he is still on the show. And whenever he does get sent home, I don't know when that is um he'll be here but in the meantime demario was here watching the show and just like couldn't stop talking wouldn't stop like what he was yelling i mean like i had to shut the door

we had to shut the windows it's hot in here so i was like okay well devon can't do the podcast yet so we're just gonna have to have demario on it because he's not going to stop talking. So anyways, I think, you know, I might ship you two. Wow. What's shipping you two mean? What does a ship mean? Wait, do you remember when my sister and Justice shipped us at Disneyland? I do remember that. Wait, what does shipping mean?

Aw, Janet. That's cute. Come on, you're younger than me. I literally don't know what that means. I'm younger than you. You know if you, like, stand someone? Oh, yeah. If's cute. Come on. You're younger than me. I literally don't know what that means. I am younger than you. You know if you stand someone? Oh, yeah. If you ship two people?

Oh, we're like in a relationship? No. It's like I'm all about this. I approve of this. You co-sign it. Yeah. You know when you go to the lot, get a new car. Yeah.

I like that. Okay. We'll see where this podcast goes. We'll see. They are drinking. I am that. Mm-hmm. Okay. We'll see where this podcast goes. We'll see. They are drinking. I am not. I'm getting my body ready for a second round of freezing my eggs, which we have a funny story about that I'll get into in a bit.

Also, I am going to, for morally, morally. Morally. As she's been drinking. For moral support, once you do start freezing your eggs i am going to stop drinking and sleeping with anyone even though i'm not right now yeah moral support really i'm going to tell people we're freezing our eggs so you're not going to drink when we go to palm springs tomorrow i mean i have like white claws don't count yes they do i don't know those are water if i ask dr gadir oh does

a white claw count it absolutely counts okay i'll have two white claws tops that's however during this process i am allowed in moderation no more than twice a week a couple glasses of wine or beer and a white claw is made with beer i believe it's like less than five percent it's not yeah but i feel like it's not like a malt liquor like it's actually it is a flavored beer it's defined as beer on yeah so i can probably still have a couple of those but once i start injections i can't have any at all and you were really good about cold turkey last time you stopped the day the doctor told you and you just yeah and i decided that day was today we had gay pride this past weekend. I was just in Miami for Jackson Brittany's Bachelor Bachelorette Party, which we will

also get into. We had Palm Springs weekend, followed by a hate message that we have to cover also. Yeah. We have a lot. A lot of topics today. To get into. We don't like bullying over here. No, we don't.

But, you know, before we get into all of this there was something that i wanted to talk to you guys about is this the other podcast yes the murder you want yeah okay so i know you guys love podcasts i love like i i feel like there's something wrong with me but obviously there wouldn't be these television shows if people didn't watch them i swear when shay and i were together our dvr you would have thought we were plotting to kill each other it was like snapped and forensic files and discovery id channel that was my shit yeah yes so i love all that murdery stuff it's weird but yeah so there's a new podcast it's a new true crime one it's called called 22 Hours, An American Nightmare. It's about a murder that took place in Washington, D.C.

So there was a family and their housekeeper. They were held hostage, dude, for 19 hours. Oh, God. But then they were killed. Oh. Yeah. And the murderer set their mansion on fire. Ooh.

I love when rich people get killed. It's so much better than when poor people get killed, you know? No. No. People get killed when it's bad. No, it's so much better when the rich people die. Okay, but seriously, you guys, like, no, you'll be shocked, like, when you hear all of this, like, what they went through during those 19 hours, and, like, you're not going to believe how they found the guy.

So, I'm... Are you going to tell me your direct answer? No, no, no. I'm not going to ruin the ending. Was it torture? I'm not going to believe how they found the guy. So, no, no, no. I'm not going to ruin the ending. I'm not going to ruin the ending. But all I will say is, pizza crust. What's the podcast name? It's awesome.

It's 22 Hours. Okay, 22 Hours. An American Nightmare. So, keep an eye out for a special sneak peek, an extra episode this week here on Shenanigans with Janet Elizabeth. And if you guys can't wait you can download 22 hours an american nightmare now on apple podcast and podcast one and there will be new episodes every monday i'm gonna download it now and i'm gonna listen to the most recent

one on our drive to palm springs perfect we can all listen to it together i love that yeah yeah yes so awesome all right um which palm springs i feel like we've been there so much Yeah. Yes. So. Awesome. All right. Which, Palm Springs, I feel like we've been there so much lately, which has been awesome. I love it. It's the ultimate bachelorette pad. It really is. Although nobody has christened your house yet. No one has. There have been a lot of people there.

We've had a lot of parties, a lot of drunken nights, like leading up until the egg freezing stuff. Nobody, honestly, okay okay we were there a couple days ago with sheena's mom i had to ask her i said erica have you and your husband oh my god i'm literally like earmuffs i'm like i don't know you can take your headphones off for this one i was like have you guys done it in the house because if so you guys are the only ones that christened she said no but she made a face so i feel like maybe they did mario enters the chat let's go christen this no okay are you coming tomorrow i'm thinking about taking off work you know he just looked at his non-existent watch

marina del rey mostly what did you think it was a fitbit yeah i'm off tomorrow. Well. You don't think I'm not going. Like, you know, we should have some Coachella fun. Well, shit. Then I'm going to have to invite someone. I got to christen that house before someone else does.

Okay, I have to say, the most recent time we were in Palm Springs, pretty much the main thing that dominated it was when you got that message. And it was probably my fault. But when you got a DM, I hate DM, I couldn't let it go. I let a lot of the shit go. It's like watching people hate on your friends for real. Like when people say really hurtful,

horrible things to your friends, it's hard not to immediately tweet back at them and just be like, you're a bitch. You're horrible. You should like go to hell, whatever this one I couldn't ignore. And I couldn't let you ignore either. No, and I saw it a few days prior,

and I'd screenshot it. I sent it to Janet. I sent it to my sister. And I was just so fired up. And I'm like, we have to do something about this. Can we read the message out loud? Yeah, I'll read it. And my sister was like, no, it's a bad look.

Don't do that. And I was like. Don't give attention to haters. Give attention to lovers. Exactly. Because you have a lot of lovers. And I don't ever want to feed the trolls. But this one was just so vile.

It's different. You can call somebody fat, ugly, whatever you want. When you tell someone to harm themselves or kill themselves, it brings it to a whole other level. And it's not okay. So if you guys didn't see my Instagram story this weekend i saved it all it's the first highlight on my page it has like an x and like a it's like a no bully um a highlight so you can see the message and some other ones that i got but okay get this tomorrow are you ready i'm ready listen to this you have got to

be the most annoying and unworthy Vanderpump Rules cast member. For starters, you can't keep a man and have trouble keeping up with the little that do see. What? Keeping up with the little that, oh, probably that we do see like on the show. Whatever. You will never get married and have kids. Let's face it. And even then, you'll be far too old to have kids at 45.

Are you 45? No, I think she means that I won't find love for 11 more years. And I'll be too old to have kids at 45. Are you 45? No, I think she means that I won't find love for 11 more years, and I'll be too old to have kids. Well, guess what? I love you. A lot. It gets better.

You should stick to being a mistress and effing married men because that got you so far. As I see it, you should just overdose and do everyone a favor. Next time, tell your parents to pick a real name for their children

every time i say it i laugh what a joke can i just butt in yes so two years ago today my life was um what i thought was in shambles right today literally like literally today holy shit like this is like the anniversary and it it's something that at the time i didn't know that my life was going to change i didn't know that all of the madness and... This is Bachelor in Paradise, right? Yeah, this is Bachelor in Paradise. Yes. And I consistently speak out on like this.

So I've known Sheena prior to this, before the show, before any of this. And it was hurtful for me when I would see family and friends in her comment section talking shit to her. And I know her personally. Yeah. And it just... we have to do better as people that's i think the overall message do better and i okay we got a lot of we i say we you know how i say we um you got a lot of dms responding not a lot i would say a very small percentage of them but saying hey you shouldn't give this person attention and if you

draw attention to this they might get bullied in return yeah it was like two out of every hundred but i'm like okay here's the thing first of all like yes i did i tagged her because someone like that i felt like you know what this actually deserves to be called out but i'm not just gonna be like oh here's this bitch everyone go be mean to her like no i no, I did. I want her ass reported. Absolutely. Do I want her account removed? A hundred percent. But I put it out there because I wanted to bring awareness to cyber bullying, to suicide prevention, because literally I want to actually look up the statistics and see what the percentage, like the suicide rate is. But I know with kids these days, like, I mean, I think it was as personal cause to you.

I know you and I have both lost friends to suicide. It's not a joke. Yeah, honey. I know you have really thick skin because you've been in the public eye for a little while. People have called you. I've seen posts where people call you too skinny and too fat in the same post. I know that you have thick skin and that you've learned how to deal with haters.

But there are other people out there who are weak, who don't get a lot of hateful messages, but one message like that, telling somebody go overdose, go kill yourself. That can put somebody over the edge. And I think drawing awareness to the haters like that and saying this message and saying stuff like this is not okay, might prevent that person from sending another hateful message or somebody else saying, oh, I'm not going to tell somebody to go kill themselves because if I do, I might get put on blast. Yeah. They might then not put that hate out there to somebody that's weak and might actually

follow through with what they're being threatened with. However, instead, homegirl sends me another message today saying, thanks for all the free clout, heart heart that's fine i'm like okay before that okay so when she never sent me this uh screenshot of this girl's message unfortunately for this girl i had just taken a little bit of adderall which i'm prescribed so it's fine it's fine adderall by the. Shout out to Adderall and my career. But I had just taken an Adderall.

All of a sudden, I get this screenshot from Sheena like, you're not going to believe this message I got today. As soon as she sent it, I was like, I went in.

I was like, I found this girl's mom, sister, family, job, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter.

I found all of her information, phone number, address, everything. And as much as I badly, of her information Phone number, address, everything And as much as I badly Because when somebody comes from your friends It hurts, it's like personal attack I wanted to put all of her information on blast I wanted to tweet out her phone number

Like ruin her life And then you and I talked about this And we were like we'll be just as bad as her if we do that So we're not going to do that But now after she says thanks to the clout, let me know. I might come for you, girl. Just watch out.

I just think that people need to realize if you're listening to this, just because a person is on a TV show or just because a person is like a movie star or just because they do music, that doesn't mean

they don't have feelings. We're still people. Like you're still a human. To this day, I still receive like random hate mail of like, not even because

whatever you think, it's because of like the color of my skin or because if I date a Mexican or a Chinese or a white woman, it's from like a black person or a white person. So just because you see people on TV doesn't mean that they don't have feelings like we cry like you. We get depressed like you. We you know, it's a very, it's sad. And I feel bad as like a, like a brother of Sheena, somebody who like literally like loves her outside of this crazy world that we live in. It pisses me off. I come and kick it with her. I'm like, yo, like this makes me angry.

And it's mostly from like women bashing other women. That's what I like. It's very, it's like, you're too fat. You're too skinny. It's like, why would you say that? That's like the worst thing to say about like especially like a person who like gives so much she opens up her home for christmas parties and i begged her to make enchiladas before i came over here tonight like literally i was like it is not happening oh she's like i'm not making i'm like what if i get 85 on a instagram there's four of

us here that is a meal for minimum 10 and it's three hours in the kitchen but i know you're not gonna like accept this brag but you are one of the most kind generous human beings ever when i first moved here you were the you showed me the ropes of la you took me under your wing most people don't do that you had nothing to gain from being my friend you helped me through a depression believe it or not when we first had reconnected you helped me i actually talked about you to my therapist because you were the first woman that i can honestly say since like the current incident that i've actually like opened up to and like loved and had love for and i i even said that when you were like you ghosted me i'm like i couldn't be around you because i legit liked you and it was very hard for me as like uh

the bachelor nation fuck boy whatever like I had feelings and I like was falling for you in a like in a way and I didn't know how to address it and I told my therapist like I mean I haven't felt anybody like this except for like Corinne and like I don't know how to feel like this so it sucks when I see you get bullied in this and that because you're like the total opposite i love you to death like you're literally like my homie for life like love you and the things that people see about you are a short you know edited version that's boiled down to the extremes of your life and i just don't think that's fair too yeah the whole like i'm so sick of people and this may sound petty and whatever because there's way worse things people say.

Let it go. But I'm so sick of people saying I'm desperate for a man and I can't get a man. If y'all knew my roster right now, you would not be saying that. It just isn't on Vanderpump Rules. I actually do have somewhat of a private life and the person or people, whoever I am sleeping with, aren't on the show. Nor will you ever see them on the show and adam was a that was just a extenuating circumstance people don't have to be if they want to sign up you know to be at the end of the day like live your life like why are you worried about always like it's always weird because like the haters are the ones who like consistently google search

you they like your pics they they always like like they're the ones who consistently Google search you. They like your pics. They're the reason why you're popping. I always see those, let's ban the Kardashians. But you're sharing, you're retweeting, you're posting. You're thinking about them. You're the reason why these people are popping. So if you don't like Sheena, don't talk about her. Exactly.

Because a lot of us love her and we all go talk about her. That's what I typically respond to the haters too. I'm like, and you follow her, why? Exactly. Okay. Unfollow is the top right button. You go to her page, you click unfollow and you don't have to see Stephanie. Bye.

You need to send these haters some of your enchiladas. Bye Carol. We're done with you. Yeah. Like it's always like Maggie from Minnesota who's like hating in the comments. Mom, yoga lover, Christian. Always, always a fucking, but I shouldn't say fucking in bible in the same sentence there's always a freaking bible verse like in their um like their profile it's like a picture of their

dog or a baby or something it's like proud wife loving mother it's either gonna be a hateful message or some woman sliding in my dm trying to cheat on her husband it's so hypocritical it pisses me off. So if they have a public profile and I see a photo of their children, I go and comment on it and I say, I will pray for your kids that they don't ever get bullied like you're doing to me. Set a better example. Be a better person.

I like that. You know, like I'm not going to like fight back and be like, fuck you. You're fine. You're dancing. No, I'm just like, I'm going to say better than me. I remember when my PR gave me the right to be able to clap back yeah you're better than me i would give me let me have your page for a week because the stuff that i see and janice a lot like me she's like fiery she's feisty she's and that happened to me i would post something with you and i being friends

for years yeah you're with sheena yes what like why would you what do you know her what do you watch the tv i know her personally she opens up her home she's the she drives us to disneyland we're all drunk in the backseat like she goes above and beyond for her friends i mean when we talked about this in palm springs i feel like we had a heart to heart about it and aside you were like i'm not gonna post this i don't need to like you were over it yourself you and i both talked about this though and decided there are so many people out there who get these messages and end up following through with it and it's not fair and no you needed to post this and share especially like anti um suicide or suicide prevention links anti-bullbullying. And by the way, that was dope.

I didn't, I don't know. I don't follow any of the, I don't know any, I know friends in real life. I don't try to. And when you posted that, it made me angry.

But at the same time, it was dope because you were like, let me turn this negative into a positive. Absolutely. And that was dope for, for me. It's like, how can you,

and you would, and like, just cause I know you, so I'm biased, but like you could have went about it a totally different way. Hey, go follow her, send her hate mail. No, but instead you had like, you turn a negative into a positive. That's what I wanted to do. That was dope.

Yeah. When I are the same. I had my mama claws out and I was like, let's fucking go for this bitch. And then I was like, no, you're right. You have too much love for the world. Yeah. Because I think initial reaction would be like, if I was going to put her on blast to be like, Oh, this sad human needs prayers or like something like that, that does nothing. And that's why I was like, you know, I'm not going

to post anything. And then just coming off a weekend of pride filled with love and just celebrating love and equality and all of that. And then like this message just like resurfacing and like you bringing it up. I was like, you know what? I do need to say something because there are a lot of people struggling out there with depression. I've been there. I've lost someone to suicide. This is not something that should ever be taken lightly. And for someone so disgusting to say that it's just like, do you have no soul? And then to be like, thanks for the free clout. You are an evil, disgusting human. And I'm not even going to for the free clout. You are an evil, disgusting human.

Totally. And I'm not even going to wish bad upon you. I hope you get help. And I hope you find happiness. And since then, you got flooded with DMs of people saying, thank you. I've been there. I've been bullied. Like, you're the bully.

I said, I'm your friend. Actually, I want to read this one. Please do. It's also on my highlight. I'm not going to say her name, but she's going to be in LA next week. And I would love for us to take her to dinner at Sur and meet her. She said something like this happened to me as well. And I almost ended my life because of mean people who thought they had the right to something I struggled with and still struggle with as I have to face going back to college in August.

I thought the worst of me, it was so hard and I'm still working on myself, but this is part of my story. So I just wanted to reach out and say that you inspire as I watch Vanderpump Rules because you speak your mind and you do stand up for yourself and you don't let anyone get to you. And then I messaged with this girl for a while back and forth. And I'm just like, that shit breaks my heart. There was, oh my God, I have to read this other one. This other message I got today, I literally, I was, I mean, shook is an understatement. Like I was, I had goosebumps. I was cringing what this woman said to me that someone sent her about her daughter. Let me find this.

Where did it go? I just want to say really quick, everyone struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts or anxiety or one of the pieces of the things at some point in their life. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. And the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, if you ever need it, is 1-800-273-8255. I've called it like literally two years ago today, my buddy Eric Biggers sent me the trials and tribulations. And I had 50 people out front of my house and TMZ and all these crazy articles. And I literally called my best friend Ryan and talked to his daughter, who was one years old at the time, and FaceTime them.

And that's the reason why I didn't take my life is because I want to be in my goddaughter's life. It was nuts. And to see friends go through that, I always say I'm very strong myself. And I don't even know how I got through it with friends and family. But it just makes me mad because I'm like the friend protector. And you see friends who you know in real life. But I love that we can all be here today and talk about it and be open about it. And be like, it's nothing to be embarrassed about to reach out and get help when you need it.

It's like having the flu for your brain. I always say that. I like that. It's like having flu for the brain. It's nothing to be embarrassed about at all to reach out and get help when you need it it's like having the flu for your brain i always say that i like this like having flu for the brain it's nothing to be embarrassed about it comes and goes own it get the help when you need it and uh if you don't need it and your friends do support them tell them it's okay it will get better i just i better? I just, I wish that when, so the friend of mine who we lost his suicide, literally the week that it happened had reached out to me and we had dated and long story short, it didn't work out because he felt like he wasn't good enough for me when he was more than enough. And it broke my heart. But the week leading up to his suicide, he had reached out to me and I was already with Shay at the time. And he was just like, I'm so depressed. Like my life would have been so much better if things worked out with you. And now you're in another relationship and like blah, blah, blah.

And I just didn't think anything of it. It's like, yeah, like, I mean, I say I'm depressed and I have struggled with depression, but I didn't realize what level that was on. It's harder to recognize the signs, which is why I feel you, it's great that you use your platform to put it out there because there are going to be more and more young people that are going to start recognizing the signs and be there for people. I mean, you can never blame yourself when somebody else takes their life. It's a very sad thing. But I also think anything we can do to prevent people from sending

and spewing hate into the world so that less people have to experience it and have those thoughts, the better. Absolutely. I can't find... Oh, here it is. Oh my God. This message, you guys.

I don't know. This killed me. So someone reached out to this woman who... I mean, looks, first of all, doesn't mean shit. But this woman and her daughter are both beautiful. They have piercing blue eyes. They're a gorgeous looking duo. I saw their pictures. They're gorgeous.

So this person who has a fake account, they have like no followers. It's clearly someone who knows her personally, doesn't like her. So much easier to send behind the keyboard you're little listen to this tomorrow you haven't read this yet your little girl looks like a creepy pedophile pervert please don't reproduce another little girl it is not fair to them to have to grow up looking that way because of you poor kid let's hope she grows into it huh because there's no way you don't see where i'm coming from when you look at her or she said when you look at it and here's didn't even say her here's my thing like why would you do that like i'm cringing again like i have chills

all over my body and this is exactly why i feel like i encourage you to put this on your platform because people get messages like this all the time and it needs to stop. It's not okay. We all need to do better. It's one thing that I mean, I even just especially after all of this and just seeing the like overwhelming amount of not overwhelming in a bad way. Just like the amount of messages that I got from so many of you just sharing your stories with me and it's i wish i could literally just take the entire day tomorrow and read and respond to every single one but there's hundreds i think that we just have to remove like ego we have to remove like how we might feel about a person from a show like Like for me, I'm a big sports fan. Like I love sports.

Right. And Kyle Lowry had a crazy shot the other night that he missed for the finals, but I would never go to his page and talk about his children or make a fake account. Like, let's just leave it at that. You don't like Sheena because she said X,

Y, Z on Vanderpump. Oh, I'm sorry. Oh, Vanderpump. Cool. That's fine.

But like talk shit at home and with your friends while you're watching the show could you imagine creating a fake account like i would never like you know i'm not a fake account like what also have any either of you both of you have been in the public eye for a while have anybody ever come up to you in the in public in person to your face and told you hate here's the funny thing i'm i mean i'm it's different so when corinne and i were like like you know we were out and about we would get nothing but like the craziest amount of love if i'm out with yeah i think that we hide behind that mask of hate we hide behind that mask of hate. We hide behind that mask of like that we know that I can create a fake account and go, hey, Sheena, I hate you. But then you see me in person.

That was my biggest fear when I was in therapy is that I'm 6'4", 200 pounds with 5% body weight, and I'm a trained fighter. I like legit train, like my whole family. My biggest fear was if somebody comes up to me when I'm in public, when I'm with my mother or my father or significant other or whatever, I'm going to harm somebody. That's my biggest fear. But I've never received that. And that just proves that people are cowards and they hide behind. Absolutely. The keyboard.

I, again, challenge anyone who wants to come in and say what they say to me on the internet to my face while I'm working at Sir. I would love to have this The Hater Girl on the podcast. Oh, I would love it. I would love it. Just, you know what? We're not going to say her name. Just say it to my face.

No, I'm not giving her any more clout as she says. I would love just to hear like what, how is she hurting? Because I found out through therapy. Shout out to my therapist, by the way. Like I want to get her help. Exactly. Because it's something that's rooted in her to where she sees in you and it's like a like you like you like the bounce back i like the

bouncy mirror like what was it us or whatever the movie it's it's a because i found that out i used to ask my therapist i would read like hateful emails and my therapist is like this person's hurting so i would respond back i would go hey thanks for saying xyz i hope that you're having a great day how's your daughter I see that picture and it's so funny because people were like oh my daughter's great how are you yeah yeah and the next thing you know there's so many people I know I saw it on Twitter and I started doing it on Instagram when I was receiving hate as I would turn that negative into a positive I would always go oh Sheena thanks a lot for calling me a black monkey from

Africa hey I'm not from Africa I'm actually from Vacaville, but hey From college tell you daughter. Congratulations from DeMario. Yeah, it's like oh shit. He's a real person. Thanks. Yeah Um, he's not just an internet TV You're like oh and then all of a sudden you start to kind of see that Turn that frown upside down and I turned so many like haters into like oh well and to this day i have people that are like yo i started off hating you then i loved you then i hated you again but now i love you yeah i'm like and it all started with just like love and like for you

what you're doing it's great because it all stems from like people are hurting so you're getting people love and you know it's i just of I just, of course, I just cannot imagine what it feels like to be someone like that who has to go to sleep every night with like that much like hatred in their heart and anger. Like what I think we should, the three of us should make a pact for right now. If that girl has, uh, the audacity or strength to reach out to us, reach out to me. I'll see the DM. I don't have that many.

I've, I've blocked her and I'm, I think she blocked me cause she's a coward. I'll reach out to her. Well, here's the thing. She blocked us all, blocked me and Devin and my mom yesterday,

then unblocked me to send me a message saying, thanks for the free clout. And now I'm blocked again. So I just blocked her back. She changed her username a bunch of times. Four times. If this girl has, uh, the wherewithal to reach out,

reach out and the three of us make a pact right now that if she reaches out, we'll pay for her therapy for some months. I'm down. Absolutely. 100%. I would definitely do that. 100%.

If you're listening, girl, we will happily pay for your therapy. Team therapy. A really good therapist who will help you get rid of that anger in your heart and become a better person and fill the world with love instead of hate. Yep.

By the way, shout out to therapy and my therapist she's the homie and i always i'm a strong strong i didn't know i here's the thing in the black community is frowned upon you do not get help when i went on this tv show and all my stuff happened and family members found out that i was going to a therapist it was like black men don't get this and we don't do this. And ever since I've been in therapy for two years, three days from now, and seriously, it's the greatest thing because I feel like that a lot of times we don't understand that we're hurting deep rooted things, childhood,

certain things that you realize, like, you know, yeah, like it's nuts. Things that I saw as like a child that you don't realize. And then all of a sudden, like I have reverse mommy issues

I found out to where my mom and I are too close and I want every single woman to be like this Is that my problem? I'm just kidding I have no daddy issues. I have an amazing dad. I have an amazing mom therapist told me she goes you and your mom are too close And you put every woman on that pedestal and you expect for them to be like this. So janet you gotta like change that Wait, can we talk about how i'm your aunt? Yes put every woman on that pedestal and you expect for them to be like this. So Janet, you got to like change that. Wait, can we talk about how I'm your aunt? Yes.

Let's talk about aunt Janet. This is the best. I think, I think we've put the bullies on blast enough. I don't want to make this entire podcast about that. Cause we had such a, no, I do.

I want to, I want to Andy Cohen switch gears here and let's, let's turn this into a little more positive. I just to go through our messages, but at some point, like about two years ago, two years ago, Mario through Sheena, we were all out one night having a great time.

And before this message, the only thing that we had exchanged on text was like, Hey, it's Janet. Hey, it's tomorrow. Cool. Like,

let's like, I'll link up soon again where is it is it gone oh you probably well because it's been over a year so your message is probably delete so anyway i do family dinners every single sunday believe it or not this asshole has a heart and i have family and i have not an asshole i know but i have family and friends so my grandmother uh my dad my aunts my uncles we do family dinner so obviously I have an aunt aunt Janet Janet Jackson not the real Janet nobody has like a normal like friend oh my god I never even thought that your aunt's last name was Jackson yeah yeah yeah so oh my god I had just so I had just landed and it was like on a Sunday what was it like eight nine what's funny is i also had

just gotten off a plane probably with sheena from somewhere and i turn on my phone from airplane mode and i see this message it's to mario and i'm like huh we've never texted before it pops up and it says hey i'm running a little bit late for dinner i love you i'll see you soon and i responded like huh just double tap question mark and you go you're not my aunt janet yeah because it's like janet and then my like so it's been like an ongoing thing for like the last like two years or we're gonna have to cut that out of worshiping you guys i kind of like it though. Based on my porn history. Oh no. Ew, what do you watch?

Don't you know the number one most searched porn history on Pornhub every year is stepmom and stepsister. Yeah. A friend of mine was in a porn and it was like no, no I was not Janet. Were you in porn? No I i wasn't i had a topless scene

in a television show a long time ago don't google i'll technically go into porn anyway no one of my friends from vegas i'm alone in this one turned porn star and one of my friends from sir who came out to see my show like we all hung out like with my friend in vegas who's now a porn star i'm not gonna say his name i think i know who this is yeah of course you do okay and so we're out a couple months ago and he's like sheena i gotta show you something i was like what and he goes it's just it really killed my vibe the other night like i was trying to watch some porn and then i see this person who we know very well and i was like oh my god but it was like dad screw whatever it was it was something incestual and daddy or school girl or i don't i don't know i like that anyway we're not going to

turn this into a porn podcast it's a good transition to pride can we talk about how much effing fun we had pride weekend this is my first la pride it was the most fun i've ever had in la it was an insane weekend it was so much fun the parade went on for i don't even know how i think i was in that car for four hours i was dumb i had my hair cornrowed and i did not put sunscreen on my scalp in the parts. So my scalp is sunburned. Burning. Yeah. Like, I was getting, like, a head scratch the other night,

and I was like, ow, ow, ow, ow. Like, it hurt. I must not be a very good kisser, since that's what you remember most about Pride. No, not the head scratch. You remember our kiss? Oh, Janet.et okay i love this so you know spread love make out with everybody she and i have been best friends for two years we have never made out until this week no but i think janet only made out with me because she

was jealous i was making out with someone else i was a little jealous you're like what about me so then we made out you can have other best friends but i mean if you're gonna make out with the other best friends why i don't know i didn't think i was your type i didn't think you were either and then suddenly there we were i'm smiling right now hey don't get any ideas i think i also maybe kissed seven of our gay guy friends. Okay. I also did make out with one of my like good gay guy friends, Logan. I love Logan.

Yo, that's Beyonce. I love Logan. Happy birthday too. We love Logan. Yes. Love Logan. But there were also a few other girls. And it just, you know, everyone was just kissing everyone.

It was just spread the love. I've never seen more people like in the streets. One, I've never seen more people compliment other people. Like everywhere I walked, someone was like, I love your outfit. You look gorgeous. It was so filled of love. I literally said, I was like, if they have a straight pride parade, I hope all those conservatives have to go because that would be a punishment compared to this.

Dude, did you see all of the haters that had like the sign saying like gay is sin and like all that we were screaming i lost my i always lose my voice you guys know this but i was literally like screaming at them we're like fuck yeah like why would you do that just they do it they do it every pride i kept saying i was like the aids walk pride they're all there with their sign saying that gay is a sin. And it's just like, what is wrong with you people? Let people live their freaking life. The guys with the signs are closeted gay.

They want to check out the booties. Because literally all of gay pride, I kept thinking these men are all so fucking hot. And I can't do anything with any of them. They all have these high, tight asses that are in booty shorts. Even Jamar, I was like, tight asses that are in booty shorts. Even tomorrow. I was like, yeah, the haters. All my gay homies bodies are better than I'm like, bro. Like, yeah, all the haters with the religious pitchforks that showed up at pride.

They had to show up there because they were afraid that their other like church members were going to recognize them. They just were there to see the booties. Oh, yeah. That's my theory. These dudes are all like closeted freaks. You see it. You read these articles. Like, dude, you're in WeHo. Just come Oh, yeah. Yeah. That's my theory. These dudes are all like closeted freaks. You see it. You read these articles.

Like, dude, you're in WeHo. Just suck a dick. Just come out, bro. Yeah, come out, bro. We're all here. We're all about. Here's the deal. Love, positivity, all that other stuff.

Come here. You'll grab some shorts. Go into Tom's home. Yeah. And put on a thong, you know, whatever. Love whoever you want. Love is love, guys. Love literally is love.

Like, love. Love, love, love. Love literally is love. Like, love. Love, love, love. It was such a fun Pride. I will say, though. As Kristen would say, suck a dick. If you want to suck a dick, suck a dick. I did love to. At first, I didn't get it because it was just, it was a long weekend.

But our theme was beach. And it was Sir Beach Club. And I was like, wait, that's so lame. That's like, you know, copying the low hand beach club and they're like we're not copying we're trolling i was like oh i like that because our show is better than theirs and they tried to say that theirs is better than ours and um look whose beach house is closed now oh yeah so okay so I also am super impressed that you managed to make it to pride and do the parade and go out and do all the sir stuff right after you did Miami weekend I was Miami I gotta know it was so much fun literally like we all put on well I't, I had a veil and like, I can't believe she almost

got you in a wedding dress. Almost, almost. But no, I don't think you guys will ever see me in a wedding dress again. Um, I don't, but we all like dressed in like all white, like everyone's in like wedding dresses. I had these like bloomers and like a lacing. I was in my undergarments with my veil though. It was, it was a look, you know, over the top eighties tacky over the top. I was in my undergarments with my veil. It was a look. Big, over the top, 80s tacky.

So over the top. You could have worn anything else. It was like, it had like pearls in it. It had like multiple layers. Yeah, so we're like going around Miami like at clubs in these wedding gowns and stuff and you'll appreciate this to Mario. So we're at the club

and I look over and I see this guy and then I like make like one of the um like security guys who was with us like I look at him and I was like wait do you see what I see and he's like yeah freaking Melvin Gordon just in the middle of the club and I'm like and of course I look like this right now and he just kept staring at me and I'm like hi big fan they're like go ask him for a photo I'm like first all, I don't ever ask anyone for a photo. He is one of my favorite Chargers players. I was like, who's Melvin Gordon?

Shout out to Melvin Gordon. Killer. Yeah, number 28. I don't know who anybody is. He's amazing. But he also, he's so funny. Did you see the thing he did a few months back with his Uber driver? No, no, no.

It was like whenever they, I they were um they were in the playoffs it was they were somewhere on the east coast who were they playing i forget somewhere on the east coast whatever it was an away game for us obviously and he was in an uber this it's a video that's like went viral and his uber driver was like talking like not talking shit about the chargers or whatever but he was, he just kept like going. He's like, oh, what about that Melvin Gordon? He's like, oh yeah, like he's all right. And like, he was like, at the end of it though, he told me he was joking.

I was like, and he has personality. He was like, I'm not going to like go up and holler at you. You can come over to me even though I look like this. Melvin, if you're, if you're hearing this, holler. You guys didn't talk. No, I just like kind of gave him like a little smile and a wink. And then I just like did my thing. So were um brides outfits the first night you guys went out yes that was the first how many weird comments did you guys get are people asking you what the

hell was going on well i also because you know i'm having to be sober now so that was like my last week i was like okay we have mi Miami we have pride I will in my moderation drink a little bit and so the first shots of Brittany yeah but the first two nights I mean and also Lala was there you know she's sober now and there's just a part of me that has like just that like I don't know you call it a soft spot but just I like sympathize with people who struggle with stuff like that because I know when I do have to go sober and I'm not an alcoholic, I don't have to go sober for those reasons. But I do know when I am like,

especially, you know, when we're in this group of friends, like filming a television show, it's hard to stay sober. So I told her, I was like, you have a sober buddy this summer.

Like I'm freezing my eggs again. And I just like, I felt guilty. I was like, I can't drink. Like she needs some, can can you guys stop there like all over each other you guys This is making me low-key uncomfortable No I'm telling a story

Save it for after the podcast. Oh my god get a room. I wish you could see this I'm gonna snapchat them if they do this again like low-key So anyway, I wanted Lala to have a sober buddy. So the first two and a half days in Miami to snapchat them if they do this again like low-key besties we're good so anyway i wanted lala to have a sober buddy so the first two and a half days in miami i didn't drink at all the last day wow kristen and i had a pool day with the guys and i was like fuck it let's get drunk and then britney's like are you gonna do shots with me tonight and i was like yes i have to i had to do one night of shot impression voice also i saw a picture of kristen topless on the beach i took that photo girlfriend

looked good she has the best tits i have ever seen i've always thought they're natural dresses that she's worn like if i am girl if i ever get fake boobs i'm just gonna take her to the doctor with me and say do that there it's a full c, she posted the photo. You guys can go check it. What did she put over her nipples? Little suns. Oh, yeah, suns. But I mean, laying down flat, like you and I with our small B cup on a good day, we're like double A cups. But like if we lay down flat, it's like nipples on a chest.

Oh. Kristen has the best boobs that just perfectly sit up. When she was laying flat and I'm just like fuck you as i'm taking all these photos i'm like god damn you look so good but i think i saw some paparazzi photos of you guys taking pictures there was so much paparazzi in miami like we don't usually get that especially in la no one gives a fuck but like it was all over miami like when we were in australia they were stalking our snapchat i had my first person who even follows me on snapchat still remember that

i got a plane and they're like are you janet and i was like am i in trouble am i being arrested did you find the weed pen in my bag is that what's happening 100% are you sheena's friend i was like i don't know if i should answer this but maybe yeah but yeah so i mean i was i was sober for most of that trip the last day I did let a little loose but I'm now again fully sober no weed no liquor I will occasionally like of course the Jackson Britney's wedding I'm gonna do a champagne toast I'm gonna have a little bit but that's okay per my doctor so until then I'm just, you know, going to take it easy. When you remind people to you did.

Okay. You did the first freezing round. You got nine eggs. Is that right? Yes. So we got 12, but only nine were mature. Okay. And once I mean, and some people will be like, oh my God, that's amazing.

That's nine babies. But it's like, no, no, no. Once they're fertilized, genetically tested and all of that, even say that there are nine perfect embryos. That doesn't mean through in vitro that any of them are going to stick, you know. So I just as someone who honestly right now is fine not having kids, I'm fine being single, traveling the world. If I'm in a relationship, I still want to travel the world like I don't need a child to complete my life however I do know that when I was married I did want kids and I do know that if I do get into another relationship with someone who really wants kids this would be a regret of mine say I

meet the love of my life at 40 years old and I'm like why didn't I do that when I was 33 I had the money I had the time I had no reason not to why wouldn't I do it when I was 33? I had the money. I had the time. I had no reason not to. Why wouldn't I do it? It's like an insurance policy pretty much. Exactly. And so I did it. And my, um, as I had discussed a few months back on my podcast, my AMH levels, which I can't even think of what that stands for right now, but it's your fertility levels.

But for my age should be between 1.4 and 4.2 and I'm only at a 0.28. So that to me basically is like infertile. And if I were to try and have a baby on my own, it would probably be really difficult. I've been on birth control for like 20 years. And I think that that could have been one of the causes for having such low levels. But the fact that I got nine was amazing. But my doctor was like, you know what? I do recommend doing it again because you never know. And like, okay, let's say what if I want two or three kids? You know, I can always get a gestational surrogate. Look at Kim Kardashian. She's on her fourth kid. She's only been pregnant twice. Like it's possible people have kids so much later in life. Now it's possible I could be pregnant with my own,

like MJ at 45 Gretchen's 40. She's pregnant. You know what I mean? Women are having kids so much later in life now it's possible i could be pregnant with my own like mj at 45 gretchen's 40 she's pregnant you know i mean women are having kids so much later in life but i just did not want my eggs to get any older totally and it's an insurance policy and you had yeah i know you got some backlash for this and a lot of love for it but you had a really good first time experience freezing your eggs i went to one of your doctor's appointments you almost passed out you were getting all these shots i was supposed to be there for more i was so confused when i was like hold on i need ice chips i'm gonna faint i can't watch this anymore i was so i never forget when sheena's like it's like a guy's day and sheena's like the fucking dd like driver for us like lunatics and she's like oh yeah and mind you like i can honestly say i'm i don't know about any of this land and she's like oh i'm freezing my eggs and i went to her freezer like legit like was like where they at like where

they at and she's like oh and she explained i'm thought they were in her freezer at her apartment no lie i was thinking i was like i don't want her ice to touch the eggs and like she like gives me like a moscow mule or something so i'm like uh sheena what's going on but she was so like it helped me as a guy and i always tell this story of like just telling people and people are like oh my god i didn't know that sheena froze her own eggs legit i didn't know what it was she's like oh i'm like i'm thinking she's just like and just like and throwing them into the freezer like a little ice thing it's not how biology works no cute i thought it but but shout out to you for doing that yeah so i'm gonna do it again and in the in between time

i did get back on birth control i'm now off it again which is just like totally like messing with my psyche i literally yesterday had a full like i felt so bad for devon yesterday morning i don't know why he's still friends with me. I freaked out and I'm like, I didn't know what was wrong with me. I'm like, did I just like party too hard this weekend? And I'm just like, now I'm like going into that, you know, like Sunday scaries, but like on a Monday, you know, and I just, and I didn't realize what was wrong with me. And then today, boom, mother nature comes to visit again.

I'm like, bitch was just here last week. Also, shout out, never be late if you're meeting Sheena somewhere. That's the number one way to kick her off. No. Punctuality. No, Sheena's one of the few, I have like probably like 400, 500 unread text messages. She's one of the few people. It's like my grandmother, my my mother a few aunts not

even my father when sheena texts text her back because then she'll send that second one like hey like it's like you don't want to get on sheena's bad side with texting no you don't like she's very and like you don't want to because she normally has like food and like drinks at her yeah it's always good lunchable but mozzarella cap, Capri Suns. Always. And what are they called? String cheeses. String cheese. Always. But,

um, yeah, so I've just been like, my body's been a little out of whack. I'm going to start hormone injections, hopefully right after the 4th of July, depending on all of my levels. But I think just for me,

I mean, I'm single and yes, you know, I'm safe, but I think it's still smart to be on birth control, even though it's affected my levels. I am off it right now, but I will get back on it. And this is something that I wanted to talk to you about Janet. Awesome. Because I think now that you are single, you should get on birth control. I know you're

always safe, but I do think you should get on birth control. And I know I've talked to you about this before, but it's called Simple Health. I'm so bad at going to the fucking pharmacy every month. That's the thing. I always end up taking them 10 days late and I'm always like bad at it. That's why I don't do it. Yeah. Like if you don't take it every day, it doesn't work.

No, but with Simple Health, you can get your birth control prescribed online and delivered to your door. So you don't even have to go to the pharmacy. Okay. That would actually save me and that would actually make me take it on time. Yeah, exactly. So it's so much easier, especially it's like, I mean, for me, like whenever I have to go to the pharmacy, if they're going to like, sometimes they talk a little too loud or whatever.

And it's like, I mean, birth control, it's, I'm not embarrassed to pick that up about your birth control, you know, but it's like, and then someone will recognize me and it's just like, it is a personal thing. I'm not having sex. I'm a virgin. I'm fine. Saving myself for marriage. They're like, bitch, you're divorced. I only did it that one time, but just so you guys know, and Janet with a simple simple health you just fill out a form um you don't have to go to the doctor it is literally so easy you do it all online from the comfort of your own couch it's you just send me this link yes i'm going to so best of all it offers affordable care regardless of insurance i love that yeah so they do accept insurance and luckily

birth control is free with most insurance plans not mine but most which i don't understand i pay a lot of money for my insurance and it's not free but what is birth control how much does it cost um mine is 75 a month cheaper than a kid that's cheaper than a kid. Yeah. This is probably way less. Yeah. But you pay absolutely nothing to use this service as well. Monthly. So for those without insurance, pills started about like $15 a month, which is still super affordable, but also delivery is free for everyone.

That's the thing for me. I can't get my ass out of bed to go to CVS on time every month. Yeah. So the prescriptions usually about $20 just depending on what type you guys have. But my listeners can try simple health for free. Just go to simple health.com slash Sheena or enter the code Sheena at checkout when I'm ready to start dating again. And I just, I would just want to say one more thing that this isn't like a replacement for routine evaluations you still need to go get your paps get checked but it is a better way to get birth

control and just again go to simplehealth.com slash sheena give it a try thank me later love that yeah so so much easier but now that we also were talking about you're not drinking i just yeah you guys are going to the MTV Awards. Oh, my God, on Saturday. Are you going to have a drink there? No. You're going to be sober. No, I'm going to be sober because for Father's Day,

oh, my God, I'm so excited. You guys, RVO, my dad, will be on Shenanigans next week. Dude, I don't know if you guys saw, but when we were in Palm Springs last week, first of all, Ron Van Olfen, Sheena's dad dad is the secret star of the show these are also highlighted on my instagram there's a teddy bear and it's a picture of riley at the very end of it are my dad's white claw and quers light ads so basically you're in the pool at sheena's palm springs house and all of us are joking about how we're secretly sponsored by white claw which we're not we

were just making white claw fake ads where we were just literally making stupid Instagram ads. And Ron did the best one. I'm obsessed with him. He's the secret star of the show. Yeah. I love Ron Van Olfen. This is going to be so much fun.

So we're going to do a Father's Day podcast. Yeah. So we're doing drinking and podcasting with RVO again. I will be sober. I'll let you drink for that one, Janet. I appreciate you wanting to stay sober with me. But for this one, you got to have a Coors Light. And it's Father's Day.

So you got to crack one open. Crack a Coors with Ron. Definitely. I'm so excited for that. But MTV Awards, you're going to be sober for. Yes. Tell me what you guys, you guys are nominated for something. Yeah.

Reality Royalty Award. And for some reason,, you guys are nominated for something. Yeah. Um, the reality royalty award. And for some reason, Kardashians are not nominated. What? I know. So we have a really good shot here, but it is the MTV awards and we're up against my boys on Jersey shore. So, Oh, you guys, no offense to them. I'm bummed.

Polly's not going to be there. I'm like, what do you have a residency at Dre's in Vegas? Like you can't come to the MTV awards. You know what you're going to wear yet? Um, I think I'm, I, I'm going to do, um, similar to my reunion look. I have that dress in black, a blazer dress, but I'm also getting it in, um, like a neon green, yellow, super spray tanned, cool hair awards before. Yeah. we were there last year. We were nominated. Oh, I didn't realize that. I wore like a... Oh, I do remember that. It was like a nude jumpsuit that

people either loved or hated, but I'm like, if Beyonce wore this, you'd fucking love it, wouldn't you? But because it's me, no. You know what? They even hate on her. That's like, that's how bad haters are. Like, they even hate on... There needs to be a t-shirt that says, even Beyonce has haters right

you need to make that i'm gonna make that hashtag even beyonce has that sounds like a rant that would be on demario's instagram and twitter yes no seriously like even be wow think about that beyonce has haters that's man that's yeah that's nuts to even think about like what but a reason why i'm not going to use that as one of my moderate drinking days is because if we do go out to palm spring saturday night obviously i'm going to be driving so the only thing i will say about driving to palm springs in my ford is it is a gas guzzler you know you can stop at exit 111 and go to the kfc buffet on the way it breaks up the drive i love how you know all of the like...

I'm a fast food junkie. Yes, me too. It's my thing. I love fast food. I should be 300 pounds. Yeah. There's a KFC... Okay, shout out.

This is not a fucking ad. There is a KFC buffet on the way to Sheena's house in Palm Springs. Janet knows where every buffet in Southern California and Ohio is. Exit 111. It's $8.99 for all you can eat KFC.

All the sides, all the desserts, and you can ask them for any chicken. Again, this is not an ad, but KFC, if you're listening and you want to sponsor us, I'll do it for just like three free buffets. Facts. Throw me three free buffets. Three years of free buffets.

Can I take you on like a date oh my god you guys will literally cost more to drive there than it will for the buffet anything for you i got you anyway back to my car the gas guzzler yeah so when we go tomorrow i'm not driving because and the thing is what do you get 12 miles a gallon probably but i mean from marina del rey to palm springs it's a full tank so i do love my car and it's it's so dope i got it wrapped and all of that like it's a great road tripping car matted black you know but it's not good on gas and it sucks so i was thinking i don't know if i want to do it yet but because I have my Z still and I have my Ford and I love it. But now that I bought a house in Palm Springs, I don't know if I maybe need to get

something with like better gas mileage. So I know you guys have heard me talk about this before, but true car is where I'm going to start looking in case I do want to, you know, trade in or sell or whatever. But, um, if you guys go to true car you just put in your license plate number and all of your car details pop up and you just like answer a few questions about like navigation or moonroof and just boom you can watch as they bump up the value so let me tell you how much your car is worth yeah no literally like you already know what it's going to cost you and you'll know how much like it's going to cost your wallet. But also, when you guys are finished, you'll get a True Cash offer in just minutes. And you can take it to any local certified dealer to cash out or trade in.

You know what? Maybe I should trade my car in since I still am really bad at getting gas. Yeah. Electric. Oh, my God. You should. Hit up True Car. Get a car that plugs in.

We'll find a place in palm springs that you can charge it to drive us back any more gas lessons from sheena when i first moved she didn't know how to pump her own gas i did i could have done it but in california the gas thing sticks in your car and i can't pull it out i don't know if it's because my arms are too scrawny but every time i go out and try to pump my gas i'm there yanking the thing it's because my arms are too scrawny, but every time I go out and try to pump my gas, I'm there yanking the thing. It's like when two dogs have sex and they connect and they can't like attach. I think about that every time I get,

I try to yank it out and I can't, and I have to go inside and get the attendant and be like, can you pull a gas thing out of my car? I'll teach you how to pump gas. Can you pull it out for me? Help me pull it out. I'm pretty good with the gas pump. Okay.

You guys, you know what i'm gonna wrap this up i'm gonna send them to their room send us the gas i'm i mean i i can't even like smoke myself to sleep i can't drink myself to sleep i can't i'm just gonna soberly go watch the new black mirror with my girl miley cy. If you guys haven't seen the Ashley O episode, definitely go check it out. It's so good. I've already seen it twice. I'm about to watch it a third time.

And yeah. Is there anything else you guys want to add? Stop bullying. Like really, it hurts. It hurts. It hurts. It hurts. It's no coincidence that I'm here on the two day anniversary of when you guys started.

And you didn't even know we were podcasting tonight. No, I came over just the two-day anniversary of when you guys started. Like, it's just. And you didn't even know we were podcasting tonight. No, I came over just to, like, I haven't seen you guys. I'm legit. Oh, and I sent Sheena a very nice birthday text. To Mario. No, no, no. Don't make me feel bad. I never miss messages.

I respond too quickly. It was the cutest, bestie, like, I love you. She didn't respond. Like, no. And then and then like we started talking a few weeks later and she's like and then she hits me like how i missed it here's the thing i don't know you i would have been living she goes oh my god i mixed your text and i'm like but i couldn't be mad because you know yeah like i literally sent that out of my heart like i love her to death so yeah he said i love you our friendship and great times you're dope loving caring and a fucking boss happy birthday love you lots stop fucking with fuck boys get you a fuck zaddy yes thanks for coming to my

ted talk yes fuck zaddy you didn't respond and then no so here's the thing this is in the middle of my birthday we're in palm springs i I had people installing TVs in the wall. I had like seven people there. You were there. There was a lot going on that day. You know when you send something, and then I was like delivered. And I was like, huh. You're like, she not always responsive in five seconds.

I'm like, always. And then I just was like, all right, I know she's busy. But then she hit me with like, you know when you're not interested in the guy. You're like, oh my god. She's not interested in me shut up i said i was like so then a couple weeks later i'm like hey i was like oh my god how did i never see this i'm like double tap heart heart heart heart extra heart i will say that weekend i think it was like nine people come to try to hang i did we had we had summer house in palm springs. It was a lot. It was fun. Many more weekends to come. I love the bachelor pad, which, guys, I have my own room in.

Yes, she does. She wanted to give me my own room in her Palm Springs house, but I asked for it and just claimed it enough times that now it's stuck. I like that. I'll maybe come visit. Front room has become Janet's room. Yep. Come visit, guys.

All right. Well, we will be drinking and podcasting from Palm Springs next weekend with our VO. I can't wait for you guys to get to know my dad

on another level because he's never on the show. He's the star. He's so awesome. We're going to have so much fun. Our VO is the star.

I also want to read the suicide prevention hotline. Yes, please do. If you're ever struggling and need help, it's never anything to be embarrassed about their numbers 1-800-273-8255 thanks for listening guys and be nice spread love

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