Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Dating and Podcasting with Diana Madison

Episode Date: March 17, 2020

YouTuber, actress, producer, and fellow podcast host of the “Dream Big Podcast,” Diana Madison is here to talk relationships! Sometimes when it’s meant to be, it’s just meant to be. S...he’s helping us understand it isn’t about all the rules and the things we think we’re supposed to do, when it works it just works.  Special thanks to today's sponsors! Hulu - Start your free trial today at hulu.com. Pretty Litter - Get 20% off your first order at prettylitter.com using code SCHEAN A.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Thank you for listening to this Podcast One production, now available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, PodcastOne.com, and anywhere else you get your podcasts. Okay, so James Kennedy told me about this crazy party that Hulu threw in Beverly Hills. Kate Chastain was there, a bunch of the housewives, and even Captain Lee. So, I just have one question. Why was I not invited? Um, now I have to watch the commercials to see what happened like everyone else. Like, extreme FOMO here. But, lucky for you, commercials to see what happened like everyone else. Extreme FOMO here, but lucky for you, Hulu has the reality TV you love. So start your free trial
Starting point is 00:00:30 today at Hulu.com. From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hey guys, it is Wednesday. I'm doing a little vlogging day in the life of Sheena that will be on my YouTube soon. So we're just going to get started with Will and I before my guest gets here. I'm going to catch you guys up a little bit on what's going on in my life. But before I do that, I know there's one thing that I've mentioned a couple times on my podcast,
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Starting point is 00:02:29 And again, that's prettylitter.com and use promo code Sheena. So for all of my cat people, check it out because you never know if something's wrong because animals can't talk unless you're Dr. Doolittle. So how are you, Will? I'm great. How's it going? I'm upset that animals can't talk. I know. I really wish they could.
Starting point is 00:02:46 I was so close to my dog, I felt like, when I would remember thinking back on spending time with him, I would recall as if we had conversations. I don't know if that's a crazy thing, but in my memory, I was like, we were totally – we had a whole dialogue. No, I think so, too. It's like one of those telepathic things. You're like, look who's talking when the baby can actually think everything, but they're communicating, but it's like one of those like telepathic thing like, you know, like look who's talking when the baby like can actually think everything. But they're like communicating.
Starting point is 00:03:07 But it's like, you know. That's the thing is like I think that we like to think that we're like way cooler than animals because we can talk. And I'm like, I don't know. Dog body language is like pretty clear. Yeah. Or cat body language, too. And there are other animals that it's like communicating with animals is like not that difficult if you're willing to just like be vulnerable for a second. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:03:25 Okay. So get this. I have a crazy story. So Jamie, who you know, she's co-hosted a few times here. We did – it's like – it's almost been like two years. But we did this group reading with a psychic. And in the beginning of the reading, they were like – like my grandma came through right away and then like other people's family members and like all of these things and then when she gets to jamie her dog who was laying right next to her crazy because shortly after he passed away so it was like the dog coming through the psychic trying to get information
Starting point is 00:03:55 to jamie and she goes wait she's like jamie and then like jamie was kind of upset because she's like why are you paying attention to my dog but then like her dog batman who she was so close to ended up passing away shortly after and he was telling the psychic that he really wanted filtered water like good like filtered water and i was like maybe i'm crazy i mean you know crazy cat lady here as i just told you guys about pretty litter but i do give my cats filtered water i keep a water bottle like to their water, and I refill it with the water bottle. And I was like, wait, is that weird? Like, I've always done that. And Jamie's like, I've never done that.
Starting point is 00:04:31 I just pour it out of the sink. I'm like, do you drink water out of the sink? I was going to say. I started giving my dog filtered water for that reason. Yeah. So it's crazy. So they can communicate just usually through, like, a psychic. You just need a psychic.
Starting point is 00:04:41 Yeah. There are animals. There are pet psychics. Yeah. And, like, pet therapists. Did you see? Do you watch Shaws of Sunset? need a psychic. Yeah. There are animals. There are pet psychics. Yeah. And like pet therapists. Did you see, do you watch Shaws of Sunset? I don't. Okay.
Starting point is 00:04:49 So I think it was last week or maybe the week before, but Nima had Mike and his dogs come over and Nima for his dog, Jax, his dog's name is Jax. He had a dog like masseuse and literally like the the guys are fighting and this dog, it cuts to the dog and the dog just looked like it was in heaven. It was like loving it. I'm like,
Starting point is 00:05:10 vibes, I feel you. That's how I am when I get a massage. My grandma took her dog to a dog chiropractor. Apparently, that's a thing too. That would terrify me though. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:20 You got to know the dog bone structure enough to crack joints and stuff. Yeah. That's kind of freaky. I'm freaked out by people chiropractors too. So that doesn't matter. I went once because I had to.
Starting point is 00:05:31 I got rear-ended and they were trying to tell me that it was my fault. And I was like, no, no, no, no, no. And it was so crazy. This woman like called a friend of hers to come and say they were a witness, called the cops on me. I was like, I was stopped at a red light. She's like, you swerved in front of me, slammed on your brakes. That never happened. A stranger came and told the cops that me i was like i was stopped at a red light you she's like you swerved in front of me slammed on your brakes that never happened a stranger came and told the cops that she saw the accident yes i was in a helicopter i was doing air traffic control for the radio station and at the time i was like in college i'm like 18 this woman's like in her like early 60s
Starting point is 00:06:00 and then of course it's a female cop i'm like she going to believe, the kid or the older lady? Yeah, it didn't end well. But I did end up going to a chiropractor. It ended up getting, like, dropped. But that day, it, like, did not end well. I was like, okay, well, I'm going to do the necessary steps. And I swear, I was, like, a huge fan of Vampire Diaries. Like, I'm obsessed with vampires.
Starting point is 00:06:20 And one of the ways that they would kill people is by snapping their neck. And when I went to the chiropractor and he did the thing with my head I was like oh my god I pictured dying in that moment I've never gone back since not a fan of chiropractors but you were probably the only person in the world
Starting point is 00:06:38 to when they have a scary moment at a chiropractor recall being murdered by a vampire I think most people people like you're just gonna break my neck oh no but you're like no specifically a vampire from the vampire diaries yeah that's amazing so anyway well it looks like she's here my guest is here so we're gonna go ahead and bring her in studio and we're gonna get chatting with diana madison and i'm gonna catch you guys up on what's been going on
Starting point is 00:07:06 in my life and what's been going on with hers. We're gonna do a whole relationship podcast. Hey girl how you doing? You can sit right next to me. Yeah so I know Right? It's like
Starting point is 00:07:23 what's up? Fist bump. Just kidding. Are we doing an elbow? No, we're hugging. We're hugging. Give me a hug. Oh, I miss you. Yes, I miss you too.
Starting point is 00:07:31 It's been a while. By the way, you look so good without makeup. Oh, thanks. Like, hello. Really? You've got no, oh, I don't have my mic on me. You have no makeup on and you look stunning. Oh, well, thank you.
Starting point is 00:07:43 I do have a little bit of tinted moisturizer on, but I'm going to get Botox right after this. So I was like getting ready to do my makeup this morning. I'm like, wait, I'm going to get Botox and they're just going to wipe all of it off. So there's really no point in getting ready. But you know what? You look so good. You don't, you actually need to do this more.
Starting point is 00:08:02 Well, thank you. How are you? Good. How is your mom? I miss her. Oh my God. She's so good. You actually need to do this more. Well, thank you. How are you? Good. How is your mom? I miss her. Oh my God. She's so good. I was hoping she was going to be out here today because I'm doing a live podcast tonight at the Roxy with the Sexy Unique Podcast people. Yeah. So I'm doing that and I wanted her to come out for it. But with the weather last night, it was raining. Yeah. We thought it was going to be shitty weather again. Right. And so I was like, don't worry about it. And then it's like the most gorgeous day in LA today. I know.
Starting point is 00:08:27 And I came with a coat and wearing a long, like I'm like LA weather. You couldn't, and I'm born and raised here, right? Yeah. You are too. Your propensity to, you can never like predict what's going to happen. Yeah. You can walk out and it's sunny and then it'll start raining and then it's cold. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:08:41 And then it's not cold. And then you're like, what do I do? I know. Totally. But I'm so happy to be here to see you. Yes. I know. From the last time I saw you to now, are you dating or no?
Starting point is 00:08:50 I am. It's been almost six months. Stop. Yeah. Crazy. Wait. That is like really good for you. I know.
Starting point is 00:08:57 Because you've been through a lot. Yeah. And you, you know, we talked about that last time. Like, you've got the trust situation. And that's what I mean. I definitely like I know I had said this on the show before about like the girls. And I was like, oh, it's like PTSD. But I'm like, look, I'm not like downplaying people who legitimately have PTSD.
Starting point is 00:09:18 But for me, there is past trauma that carries over into each relationship. And it's so frustrating for me because my boyfriend I can't wait for you to meet him. Hopefully maybe when I do your show hopefully he's in town and can come. He lives in San Diego. Oh my god yeah. What's his name? Brock. Okay he
Starting point is 00:09:38 sounds hot. He's so hot. He literally is like if Aquaman and Thor had a baby. Like no joke. So you guys need to have a baby. He's gorgeous. Like you guys need to have a baby. He's gorgeous. Like, you guys need to, like, make a baby ASAP. One day, one day. Right, I'll babysit.
Starting point is 00:09:51 We're still doing round three of Freezing My Eggs. Okay, good. I think next month I'm doing it. And you're doing it with Dr. Gadeer, right? Yes, Dr. Gadeer. But one of the other girls on Vanderpump Rules is freezing her eggs with me. Not going to say who because it's going to be a whole YouTube vlog that we're going to put on my channel. But it'll be a little surprise.
Starting point is 00:10:08 Am I close with her? Do I know her well? Maybe, maybe not. Okay. I'll tell you after. I just like, I don't want to put her business out there
Starting point is 00:10:15 just yet because we're going to vlog. Because that's pretty personal too. Yeah. It's not like she got her hair cut. No.
Starting point is 00:10:21 Yeah. No. She has cut her hair, but we all have. Right. We all have. Oh, I think I might know who it is. she has cut her hair but we all have right we all have oh i think i might know who it is no cut your hair add extensions cut your hair right right i'm at the point right now i'm like growing the hair out i can't like i don't know if i'm gonna do short i'm gonna put a wig on
Starting point is 00:10:37 yeah and that's the thing i almost so have your real hair right this is all mine it's grown so much i actually just got a trim yesterday. It looks really healthy. Thank you. I think the prenatals that I take three times a day for the last year and a half definitely help as well. Right. So I'm just going to stay on those forever because my doctor said there's nothing bad about staying on them. So I do that.
Starting point is 00:11:00 Also right now with the whole coronavirus, it's good that you're building up your immune system. A lot of the vitamins in there are're building up your immune system. Yeah. A lot of the vitamins in there are like what you need to build. Yeah. So to catch you guys up on my life this past week, I went to Cross Music Festival in San Diego. So myself, my boyfriend. Wait, this past weekend? This past weekend.
Starting point is 00:11:20 Was there anyone there? Everyone. There were so many people there. So I got this so i went on amazon and we ordered a bunch of like face masks that have like these led lights and we're like oh we're gonna like you know protect ourselves but like also be kind of in fashion forgot them at home the first day and then the second day forgot one of them brought the other but we're there and we're like i'm i don't need this like i'll build up my immunity system by catching germs and just fighting them off so it was uh
Starting point is 00:11:49 myself my boyfriend a few of his friends a bunch of my friends max who i used to date he's also from san diego and we always do those uh san diego festivals together wait was that awkward for max and your new boyfriend so No. So, literally, Max and I, like, we'll carpool to and from, because, like, we both work and live in LA, but he's from San Diego, and we love to go down there. So, sometimes we'll just drive down or drive up together, and usually
Starting point is 00:12:16 it's a Sunday, and we come up on Monday, and Monday's when we get the episodes sent to us, so we'll, like, be watching the episodes, like, on the way up. Oh, and Max from the show. Got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So, but to go back. So the night I met Brock, this was another music festival. It's like kind of our thing. And it was called Caboo, like early September.
Starting point is 00:12:36 And we met on a Saturday night after party. And then Sunday, we went to the festival together. After the festival, we ended up going out in PB. And Max was in town that night. So literally the first day I hung out with Brock, he met Max. And one of Brock's exes is one of Max's good friends. Oh, my God. Just San Diego.
Starting point is 00:12:57 And so many of Brock's friends know Max and vice versa. So it's just like a small circle. But isn't that great that you could get that seal of approval from the ex-boyfriend? Because he knows better than anybody what you like, what you don't like. Yeah, and I mean, we didn't date for that long, but we've been friends for so long. So he knows. He knows me in every way better than most people. Right, right, right, right.
Starting point is 00:13:19 So he would have like, you know, he would give him advice. 100%. Like, don't piss her off when, you know, I'm just making out what she's PMSing. Yeah. Well, not maybe. That's every girl. But don't piss her off. When I'm not on the pill, ooh, it's bad.
Starting point is 00:13:31 Oh, it's bad. It's bad. And I haven't been on the pill for like four months because I'm getting ready to freeze my eggs again. Yeah. That's a whole process, too. It's a lot. But we'll get into that more next week when I'm doing that.
Starting point is 00:13:40 Actually, it's so interesting because I don't plan on having another kid. But I was like, maybe I should freeze my egg because what if I change my mind? You absolutely should. I mean, Kourtney Kardashian did it at 40. A lot of women do. And Dr. Goodyear obviously is, do it, do it.
Starting point is 00:13:55 I absolutely think if you can afford it, if you have the time and you're willing to do it, I think all women should. I really do. But it's just like that whole process freaks me out because I'm just like, I've done it twice. I really do. But it's just like that whole process freaks me out because I'm just like. I've done it twice. I did it twice last year.
Starting point is 00:14:07 I did it while filming a reality show. I remember. Sober, celibate, and single. I remember you came to my show while you were doing the whole process. Yeah. I remember that. So, yeah. Getting ready for round three.
Starting point is 00:14:20 I'll keep you guys posted on how that goes. If I end up doing it, you guys, it's because I'm going to say you're the one who is. I've gotten quite a few girls convinced to do it and some already have. Some are going through it now. Because I, listen, being pregnant, I mean, it's beautiful and all, but it's hard. I'm not looking forward to that part.
Starting point is 00:14:37 It's hard. We might get a surrogate. I don't know. We'll see. Not because I don't want to be pregnant, but just I don't know if when I'm ready, if my body's going to allow it. I don't know. I mean, my fertility levels are, like, zero. Wait, how old are you?
Starting point is 00:14:52 I'm 34. I'll be 35 in May. 35? You're still young. No, it's, like, it's at that, like, not high risk, but it's, like. 35 is when they start doing these, like, other tests. What's the geriatric or whatever it is. Anyway, enough about that.
Starting point is 00:15:06 That's the whole process. Back to my fun weekend. Yes. So Brock and Max have been friends since literally day one, which I love because then he's become friends with all the other guys on the show, my whole friend group. But I say this all the time. He's my best friend. But Max literally is my...
Starting point is 00:15:23 Currently, he's my best guy friend. literally is my currently he's my best guy friend him and sandoval are the two guys i'm closest with i tell everything to i go to for advice and it's great because unlike sandoval like max knows me intimately so like i could talk to him about certain things that like i might be like insecure weird about and i'm like but like brock the like i just he's a good person to get advice from I think that's amazing that like they met the first night yeah and I feel like if something goes down between you and your new boyfriend Max could jump in and be you know just give advice on do this exactly yeah I think it's a win-win situation yeah so we end up basically double dating every time we're down in San Diego with Max's ex-girlfriend, who he's still very good friends with. They hang out a lot.
Starting point is 00:16:06 Right, right, right. But I am obsessed with her. So we met at the first cross back in September, which was two weeks after I met Brock. And so the four of us were all at cross together. We ended up at this crazy after party in a, like, Nissan car parking lot. Like, a dealership parking lot. Oh, my goodness. In the back at a rave until like 5 a.m.
Starting point is 00:16:27 It was nuts. Like, okay, next time you call me, I've never done this type of party. And I'm like, it sounds really fun. It was so fun. I'm like, we're in a car dealership parking lot at 5 a.m. Just dancing our asses off, living our best lives. It was so much fun. I am like just jealous because you did this at a time where everybody's freaking out.
Starting point is 00:16:44 And I love that you've got balls to be like, screw this shit. I'm going to a festival. I'm not wearing a mask and I'm having a good time. Yeah. So we go to the festival both nights. We're literally just like living our best lives, having so much fun. Went out after Monday. We did a little Monday fun day recovery.
Starting point is 00:17:01 Wait, what was that? So we went to brunch at this place. Oh my god, what is it? What is it called? Glory. Morning Glory. Oh, okay. It's like this really cool brunch spot. They have like awesome drinks. They have this crazy souffle
Starting point is 00:17:17 pancake. Like, it's amazing. That sounds yummy. Yeah. Hangover food, basically. Yeah, so good. So we went there and then we went back to Brock's house. I had to upload some like YouTube stuff. And in the 20 minutes I'm in his house uploading, it goes from the most gorgeous sunny day ever to just clouds everywhere. Oh my God. Yeah. So we're like, okay, well, should we go see a movie? But then we're like, that's kind of too lazy. Max and I have to drive back tonight. And we had both driven down to San Diego separately
Starting point is 00:17:46 because I drove down with Brock. But I was like, I'm tired. I know he's tired. I'm like, babe, if I just leave my car down here and drive back with Max, can then you just bring it up this weekend and pick me up from LAX when I get back from Toronto? Isn't that a great idea? And he said,
Starting point is 00:18:02 yeah, of course. That is a keeper. If you had any doubt, I'm telling you now, the fact that he's going to drive your car up from San Diego, and it's not the first time he's done this. He's amazing. Oh my God. Wait, what's his sign? He's a Gemini. Ooh. Wait, what's your sign? I'm a Taurus. You guys actually, I think would be good together. Yeah. From what I've looked into. Right. Pretty good. Geminis are interesting because they've got two personalities. Yeah. So have you seen the Moody side?
Starting point is 00:18:26 Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Wait how do you do it? And that's the thing too like I feel like with Brock like I don't like we don't have
Starting point is 00:18:34 a perfect relationship. Nobody does. Nobody does. But every relationship I've been in before I'm like no it's great. Oh my god everything's perfect. He does this.
Starting point is 00:18:40 He does that. I do that. And I'm like oh no I've seen him Moody AF like he has a temper but then we snap out of it really quick and that's the thing we have such good communication we can like right pop off on each other and i'm like i'm like i'm gonna go and you go okay take a breath yeah and then i'm like bring it back i think that's the most important no bridges yeah like
Starting point is 00:19:00 you know he doesn't hold it against you no like if something's bothering us we will bring it up immediately because i'm like i don't want to have resentment i just and i've never had that in a Yeah. Like, you know, it doesn't hold it against you. No, like, if something's bothering us, we will bring it up immediately. Because I'm like, I don't want to have resentment. I just, and I've never had that in a relationship. So I'm like, no, we're not perfect. We don't have sex 20 times a week. Tourses are, like, you guys are, like, you will confront the situation. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:18 You are not to, like, hide from it. No. But before I would do that, in my past relationships, like, if something was bothering me or seemed like a red flag, I would just be like, oh, no, no, no, it. No. But before I would do that, my past relationships, like if something was bothering me or seemed like a red flag, I would just be like, oh, no, no, it's fine. It's just, it's because of this. Or I would make excuses and whatnot. So, with him, I don't feel the need to do that. So, we get back to
Starting point is 00:19:36 his place. It's super cloudy. Max comes over and we're like, okay, what are we gonna do today? So, the throuple of us hop on birds. We go to this place called punch bowl social and i'm like wait loki want to do my birthday party here that sounds like a hot mess and fun yeah like so it's this huge place so they have like a couple different bars a full restaurant they have arcade games they have ski ball pinball all of these fun games they have like corn ball, corn ball, corn hole, foosball, bocce ball, like bowling.
Starting point is 00:20:08 Everything you can think of at this place. Wait, why are there these cool places in L.A.? I know. Why is it always in like San Diego or Vegas or what? It's never in L.A. That's what we said. I was like, wait, this is so fun. I mean, it was kind of like a lucky strike, actually.
Starting point is 00:20:21 That's all we had here. Yeah, but it wasn't like as trendy or as big right it was dope but like in la there's nowhere cool like no but you know what a lot of things are getting canceled i had to double check today if our show was on because a lot of things are getting canceled everything is getting canceled right i bought a house in palm springs closed escrow april 30th last year congrats thank you so when i was out there for stagecoach, I went, signed all the last papers. Wait, what part is it? It's right in the heart of Palm Springs, like seven minutes from downtown on a golf course.
Starting point is 00:20:52 I'm not going to give my address. Oh, got it. Because I have a house in Palm Springs, too. I was just wondering what area. We'll talk about that. Yes. Off. Because I'm curious about how much you pay.
Starting point is 00:21:00 I live at 1, 2, 3, 4. And what section and yeah because um i'm really big on real estate yeah on the side just does like you know yeah so it's a three bed three bath pool jacuzzi and it's on a golf course i mean it was i mean it was a public listing but right it's on a golf course well you know what's good for you good for this is, like, my girl right here killing it. Yeah. Yeah, good for you. That's a big step.
Starting point is 00:21:27 I was so excited when I drove out on stagecoach, like, from the house we were staying at to sign all the papers. And I'm like, oh, my God, one year from now, we're going to be in my house for Coachella. Stagecoach, like, everything. And now I'm like, wait, that was my whole April. You don't understand. I'm so bummed. I've never been to stagecoach. That was my whole April.
Starting point is 00:21:42 You don't understand. I'm so bummed. I've never been to Stagecoach, but for me, Coachella is like that one time of the year where I literally feel like a kid. Yeah. And it's like my Disneyland. Yes. And I'm just like, you know, from the outfits to the parties and to like seeing all your friends and just like not being coherent the whole weekend.
Starting point is 00:22:01 My heart was so crushed. Me on carnival. Me on carnival. Me on carnival. You know, here's the sad part. I saw someone post, a friend of mine who lives international in Dubai. She posted this post saying, you know, this many people infected here, this many people dying, and all Americans care about Coachella. And I'm like, you know what? I was like, oh, my gosh, she's so right.
Starting point is 00:22:21 Because everybody who I would talk to was like, Coachella is canceled. Yeah. I mean, it's not canceled. It's postponed until October. But hold on. October is, you know October is not going to be the same. It's going to be cold. That's when, okay, so did you go to desert trip when they had it?
Starting point is 00:22:36 Like Old Chella? I remember Old Chella, yeah. It was the year I got divorced. So it was 2016. It was like literally a week before we separated. It's cold. And it was chilly. I don't remember it being freezing. And I'm even trying to was like literally a week before we separated. It's cold. And it was chilly. I don't remember it being freezing. And I'm even trying to think back to like being there
Starting point is 00:22:48 this fall. I'm like, it wasn't freezing, but it's not warm like spring. So here's the thing. And it could be raining. Yeah, that's the thing. The winds are so high, even when it's Coachella. Yeah. Can you imagine what it's going to be like in October? No. I mean, yes, because I was in my house in October, but it's different every year. It's like you never know it's going to be like in october no i mean yes because i was in my house in october but right and you know it's different every year it's like you never know yeah i feel like october is not bad but it is going to be windy that's the one thing yeah but you know i know this is like everybody is so affected by this it's like everybody's on edge yeah businesses are being affected this This is crazy.
Starting point is 00:23:26 I did not even imagine we're going to be going through something like this. No. Literally, so many things. Ultra in Miami I was supposed to go to in two weekends.
Starting point is 00:23:32 Canceled. South by Southwest. South by Southwest. Canceled. And you know, people aren't getting their money back. For those?
Starting point is 00:23:38 Yeah, because I guess, you know, Coachella is refunding. Coachella is. So, S, South by Southwest.
Starting point is 00:23:43 I guess there's those little things you don't read at the back of the ticket. If this gets canceled, you're screwed. And basically, that's it. So I was like, wait, should I take advantage of this situation and go buy tickets for summertime
Starting point is 00:23:57 and it's probably really cheap and then you go online and it says if you buy travel insurance knowing there's a coronavirus, it doesn't affect it. So, there you go. and it says if you buy travel insurance knowing there's a coronavirus it doesn't affect it so there you go oh wow this is just wild you know the thing is i don't like to panic and i wasn't panicking until oh are we we're just we're vlogging and podcasting so we're multitasking i love that i love that this is my style right here yeah um wait we're here to talk about relationships. I got to tell you. We are going to talk relationships.
Starting point is 00:24:26 We're just finishing up about a little coronavirus stuff. This is, you guys. And festivals. This is like, I want to cry. I want to cry talking about this. I want it to be over. Please, someone find a vaccine to cure this. This needs to go away.
Starting point is 00:24:43 It really does. It's affecting everybody. It's affecting my social life. So can you guys figure it out? I feel like I'm on house arrest. Like, I'm like. See, and I'm just going about living my best life, like, as if everything's fine. I'm, like, at the nail salon right before this.
Starting point is 00:24:58 And I have my hand in the dryer. And I'm, like, thinking, I wonder how many hands have been in this before mine. But I'm like, I'll just wash them later. Right. I was at the nail salon a week ago. And then there were been in this before mine. But I'm like, I'll just wash them later. Right. I was at the nail salon a week ago and then there were people coughing next to me and I swear to God, I'm like, I got it. I like literally started hallucinating, making up these stories while I'm at the nail salon. Thank God I don't have the virus.
Starting point is 00:25:17 But I love talking to you today. Yeah. Because you're kind of like influencing me in a positive way because I have been. You can't change everything. Like I turned on the news this morning and this woman was like, now is the time to stop going to concerts, stop going to events where lots of people are at, stop going to the grocery store,
Starting point is 00:25:32 stop going... I'm like, so stop our lives and hide in our apartments and houses? That's what you're asking us to do, to just not be social, not live our lives. I'm not living my life like that. I'm going about business as normal. And if you get the virus, you get the virus, you don't eat all. You life like that i'm going about business as normal and if you get the virus you get the virus you know then i'm gonna fight it off because i'm a strong bitch
Starting point is 00:25:49 and i swear max and brock both last week had the man flu and they're both like oh my god i got coronavirus and i'm like maybe you did maybe you didn't but you know what you guys are survivors you got through it because i heard with this virus a lot of people could have it and you don't even know you have it your body's fighting it off yeah i mean it's like fever runny nose like respiratory issues and it's like that's the flu hold on are you reading any of the like conspiracies about this virus nah oh i'm such a conspiracy freak tell me one and then i want to get into some relationships here's a conspiracy for you. How come nobody has been infected in Russia? Oh. That's a good one, right?
Starting point is 00:26:30 Hmm. There's like conspiracy theories that like. Well, I mean, Italy is like fully on lockdown and Stassi's getting married there in October. Well, it's planning on getting married there in October. I'm like, I love you, but not booking my hotel right now if I can't get a full refund. Right. I was there this past
Starting point is 00:26:45 summer and we were planning our like all our friends to go back this summer too um and i was just like yeah i don't know i hope by summertime it's done because apparently this stupid virus doesn't like the heat yeah oh my god so i gotta tell you this too okay i've been reading the psychic stuff because i'm obsessed with psychics and there's all these psychics that predicted this happening and there's this one psychic, Sylvia Brown, who's dead, but she wrote about it
Starting point is 00:27:07 in her book. I didn't know she died. I didn't know until yesterday, but I will read you what she said. Do you want me to read it? Wait, yes. Oh my God,
Starting point is 00:27:14 I used to be obsessed with her. I've been sending this to like everybody. She wrote about it in her book that this virus is going to come. Stop it. No, I'm not kidding you.
Starting point is 00:27:23 Hold on. Let me get my text out. I mean, she used to help find like missing people and whatnot. She wrote Stop it. No, I'm not kidding you. Hold on. Let me get my text out. I mean, she used to help find, like, missing people and whatnot. She wrote about it. And I found out yesterday she was dead because I was like, could I get her on my podcast? And then I was like, oh, she's dead.
Starting point is 00:27:34 So she apparently said in her book, here we go. And speaking of missing people, just to update you guys, it's been 15 days and my mom's cousin has still not been found so oh i'm so sorry to hear that yeah it's been crazy but any clue we literally have gotten psychics wait i have a good cyclic psychic so do i she does like crime uh investigation okay i'm gonna get her to talk to you guys desperate at this point okay i'm gonna get my girl to talk to you guys because she does crime crime. That would be amazing. Okay, so this one psychic claims that this is like apparently made, like humans made this virus. The psychic also said that this is going to – okay, so it says here it will vanish with the first rays of the spring sun,
Starting point is 00:28:22 and when it gets warmer, it will truly all be over, this one psychic said. Ooh, it's getting warmer soon. It's almost spring. Almost spring. And this one other psychic said by March 21st, it'll be all done. Well, that's the first day of spring.
Starting point is 00:28:33 First day of spring. And then this one other psychic said, basically... No, we didn't have to postpone Coachella. It's going to be done by then. Right, it's going to be done by then. And this one other person wrote about this virus in a book
Starting point is 00:28:44 and the city was Wuhan, where this virus came from. No. And there going to be done by then. And this one other person wrote about this virus in a book and the city was Wuhan where this virus came from. No. And there's all these conspiracies on like don't do it you guys. Don't go in the dark hole like I did. And they were like this is man made. It's made in a lab. I mean don't do it. But I did it. Wow. Yeah. It's crazy. I'm going to have to look into that. Right.
Starting point is 00:29:00 When you're in the bathroom and you know when you're like. Right. I got some time on my hands. Right, right. You got some time on your hands. Yeah. Okay, so... Relationship questions.
Starting point is 00:29:10 Yes, because you are an expert in a 10-year healthy long relationship. I wouldn't say healthy. Well... 10-year. Okay, but... Because no relationship is perfect like you said. No, but I'm saying healthy. Like, you guys aren't kicking each other's asses.
Starting point is 00:29:24 No, no, no. Not this week. Well well you know what i've been avoiding him this past two weeks because of the stock market oh because i'm yeah uh-huh he's like a business guy and i'm just like i don't even want to talk to him yeah so i don't even know how he's doing i have no clue yeah but i mean yeah no relationship is perfect but i think it's how you deal with the obstacles and how you communicate. Right. And that's one thing that I think I finally figured out. Speak up.
Starting point is 00:29:49 Right. Don't just, like, act like everything's perfect. Right. If there's an issue, like, talk about it. Talk about it. It's so important because men are not going to talk about it. Yeah. And it's our job as women to, like, put it on the table and to be like, we need to address this.
Starting point is 00:30:03 And I think I was kind of like you at the beginning of all my relationships I've ever had. And especially with Ray, my husband, I would like swallow the problem or just like bury it, you know, not address it. And then it would happen over and over again. And it came to a really like it took me a long time to get comfortable to be like, ah, this ain't happening. And that happens not because
Starting point is 00:30:25 of the relationship but through age so i think when we get in our like 30s because me and you are on the same age you kind of like start realizing what you want as a woman and it's so different from what you want when you're like in your 20s oh totally so i think it's with age that made me get like confident to bring stuff to the table rather than like our relationship because our relationship like you know i will say this to you we met in a trailer park i know if you look at me you're like wait what diana but like if you guys follow me you know celebrate christmas in a trailer park but if you know me you're like wait how are you there but we met it like this is how we met i broke up with my boyfriend i was devastated and my cousin's like you need to meet this guy. He just
Starting point is 00:31:06 moved down here from New York from the East Coast. Not New York but Philadelphia East Coast. And then I was like I don't want to meet anyone. I just want to like fuck around and da da da. And she's like no no you really need to meet him. So she invites me out. Forgets to tell me where we're going. I'm dressed up like I'm going to a club. We end up going to RV Park
Starting point is 00:31:22 in Mahan Beach or whatever like around there and it was like this RV they have like a fire and I'm like decked out like I'm going to a club and I like remember seeing him and I thought he was cute but I wasn't interested I drank the whole night threw up the whole I was
Starting point is 00:31:38 that one girl that threw up the whole night talks about her ex-boyfriend and when he asked my number I thought it was a joke because I was like who asked the drunk girl who threw up all over the place is that the boyfriend it is the boyfriend should we like put him on i'm gonna okay hold on pause don't forget where you're at hi honey i'm doing a podcast and you're doing it now with me we were just talking about you oh yeah okay sure you were let me see what he looks like
Starting point is 00:32:07 let me see what he looks like oh well it's not that way yeah what's up babe honey hey what was that I said what's up
Starting point is 00:32:15 I was just calling out just to go over tonight cause for some reason I thought we were like at an important event but it's a podcast with somebody
Starting point is 00:32:24 it's a live podcast I'm doing tonight, but let me finish the one that I'm doing right now and call you back in 20. All right, honey. Wait, wait, you forgot to tell me that he has a sexy accent. He does. So born in New Zealand,
Starting point is 00:32:38 raised in Australia, so his accent's a little mix of both. He sounds hot. Is that him? Oh, he looks like Jason Momoa. Oh, my God. I got to see this. He's gorgeous.
Starting point is 00:32:47 I'll show you. I got to see this. But I can't see you with a guy that doesn't look like. You know, you need, like, a man. See, and that's the thing. I've never, like, dated, like, a really, like, hot guy. Right. So that's his main bun right there.
Starting point is 00:32:59 Stop. Yeah. He is. He is. He looks like Jason Momoa. I know. But that's the thing, too. I'm like, yeah, he's drop is he looks like jason but that's the thing too i'm like yeah he's drop dead gorgeous but he also is such a nice right person and he just treats me so well he's not from la that's
Starting point is 00:33:13 why he's not from america right right right right yeah this like hair goals i mean it's not fair i look at him and i'm like it's so annoying annoying. He has better highlights than I do. This is not fair. Wait up. That's his natural hair color. So a couple years ago, he dressed up as Aquaman literally, and he went all out that he shaved the part in his eyebrow. He highlighted his hair and so that's just it kind of grown out.
Starting point is 00:33:40 He's stunning. Yeah, he's a good one. Back to you. You know why I was telling the story of how we met because if any single girl's listening right now i like to tell the story to people because i'm just like i met ray my husband in the worst way possible like drunk throwing up talking about your ex-boyfriend you know everything those stupid self-help books tell you to meet a guy and it's the complete opposite yeah Kind of like how you're not catching a coronavirus because you're going to everywhere possible. Because I'm trying to catch it.
Starting point is 00:34:08 Trying to catch it. It's kind of the same thing as like guys could smell desperation. Yeah. And guys could smell when the girl really wants them or wants a situation. Yeah. And it's kind of like when kids are like little kids are in school and the girl likes the little boy and the boy doesn't give attention. And then she starts liking somebody else and the boy feels it and then starts going after the girl.
Starting point is 00:34:30 Yeah. It's kind of the same. Like the second you show desperation, they like they run. They run for the hills. And I think with Ray, I think it was like love at first sight. Yeah, I felt like like attraction to him and all that. But I wasn't in that mind space of meeting a guy. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:34:44 I was like, I just had my heart broken. Fuck this shit. I'm going to drink my ass off. Threw up all over the place. My residue was all over the place. It was not pretty. I was that girl. Oh, my God.
Starting point is 00:34:54 But you know what? There was something about me he liked. And ever since then. He could see past that. Right. No, that's probably not you every night. Right, right. Actually, lately with this coronavirus, since I'm home, I'm like, pop a bottle because this is not fun.
Starting point is 00:35:09 Because I like to always be out. You see me. We're always out to be home because of this virus because everything is getting canceled and da-da-da. Yeah. I need to do what you're doing, just be out and about regardless. Yeah, I'm not going to change my life because people are getting sick. People get sick every day, everywhere in the world. Right.
Starting point is 00:35:27 So I've been drinking a lot. But my whole point is, like, you know, just be yourself. If you're a mess, you're a mess. You're not a mess. You're not. Like, the guy, if he's meant to be, he will be. You could be the biggest idiot. You could say the worst.
Starting point is 00:35:41 Because I remember before, I'd be like, did I say something wrong? He hasn't texted me. Did I do this wrong? Did I say the worst, because I remember before, I'd be like, did I say something wrong? He hasn't texted me. Did I do this wrong? Did I say? Oh, yeah. Totally. Us girls, we have so many of these conversations in our heads and these stories we create of like what we did wrong for the guy not to text you, not to call you, not to want to
Starting point is 00:35:56 take you out to dinner and blah, blah, blah. Yeah. And the reality is, if it's meant to be, if he's the guy, he's going to like you no matter what stupid shit you say or what-hmm. Or what you do. Or how many times you text. Yeah. And I mean. You can text a million times and if it's the right guy, he's not going to see it's a million texts.
Starting point is 00:36:11 No, exactly. But if it's the wrong guy, he'll be like, this bitch is blowing up my phone. She's crazy. She's a stalker. So that's something I've learned. If it's the right person. Right. And that's the thing is like, I mean mean also like he'll tell me when i'm being
Starting point is 00:36:25 annoying and i'll tell him when he's being an asshole right i'm just like okay that was rude so like apologize right and he'll usually fight back like it wasn't rude i'm like no it was rude and it hurt my feelings so apologize and then he does because he'll be like all right fine you're right it's like he's such a competitive person that he always like has to win or be like ski ball for example yesterday right kicked his ass every time and he just i'm like let can you just let me have this one thing that i'm better at you know what i feel like that might be why he likes you though yeah right yeah because i feel like i don't know like i saw his picture i feel like his vibe i don't think he could be with someone that was gonna be so passive no no and that's the way i've
Starting point is 00:37:04 been in past relationships. But it wasn't the right guy. And it wasn't the right person. And it wasn't the right way to be in a relationship. It's like, if something's bothering me, speak up. Instead, I just, like, swept it under the rug, acted like everything was sunshine and fucking rainbows. And, yeah, it's not. No, listen, the one thing I learned about relationships is you got to really want to be in a relationship to make a work so most of the time when i see people like not have the
Starting point is 00:37:29 relationship work out i i feel like one person out of it just doesn't want it to work out because if you really wanted to work out it's hard work like i you know me and ray have done therapy like we've had some like in the last 10 years it's crazy because they've been like a lot of ups and downs and there's been times where it's been a slump, you know? Yeah. And then there's been times where it's been amazing. And it feels like we just met. That's normal.
Starting point is 00:37:51 It is. But, you know, like I said, it's easy to walk out and not be in a relationship. But I think with us, we like make commitments of like we want to be in this relationship. So we have this issue right now. Let's go see a therapist. Let's make it work. But I like I mentioned, like, if you want to be in a relationship, you need to want to be in a relationship. And at the time when it's so easy to walk out, it's so easy to walk out. See, I disagree, actually, because when I met Brock, I was single Sheena living her best life did not want to be in a relationship. I pushed him away
Starting point is 00:38:22 for the first few weeks. And then I just gave in because I was like, okay, this guy is amazing. He's showing interest in so many ways. Maybe I'll give it a chance. But going back to my marriage, it was easier to stay and it was harder to walk away.
Starting point is 00:38:40 It was not easy for me to get out of that. I mean, not just because I had to go through a divorce and the legality of all of it, but it was not easy for me to get out of that. I mean, not just because I had to go through a divorce and the legality of all of it, but it was just so much easier to just stay and tell myself, it's going to get better. It's going to be okay. You married this person for better or worse. This is the worst, but it'll get better. Leaving was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made in my life.
Starting point is 00:39:00 Right. I think you're right. And with marriage, like I was in general in relationships, I think it's easy to just walk out. You're right. When marriage is a little bit more complicated that was the right thing to do right but it didn't make it easy my question to you is this and maybe like someone listening could like take it like how did you know it was the right time to walk out I knew he was lying to my face 100 and I gave him every chance and opportunity to lie in a different way to be like okay no I did buy some pills but they were just for my friend i did not take them i bought some pills but it was for like i was like but no i'm not i'm not accusing you of taking anything like i'm just asking like did and he said no no
Starting point is 00:39:56 no no no and i knew 100 because the person he bought them from was a friend of mine right and it was just like no turning back there i knew he was lying and i gave him so many chances i'm like please tell me the truth like want to go to rehab like want to be better i would have stayed forever if he told me the truth and once i knew he was lying in my face i'm like i could never have kids with you i could never fully trust you i think that's like something and he was stealing stuff from me too oh Oh no. It was just like. Oh no. It was bad. I think that's something like important that I told my single girlfriends is like, you
Starting point is 00:40:30 know, in your 20s when you're dating someone, you like them for different reasons. In your 30s when you're dating someone and you want to get serious. It's so different. Yeah. You got to really imagine, can this guy be a good, A, father? Yeah. B, husband? Or like, you don't even have to be married these days.
Starting point is 00:40:44 But like, I think the most important thing is, will he be a good a father yeah be husband or like you don't even have to be married these days but like i think the most important thing is will he be a good father because like especially you you're like freezing your eggs that's kind of like the next step of your life that you're looking or thinking about so you have to really decide like can i see this guy yeah being a father or a husband and um you know it's interesting like I feel like I got lucky with Ray because I did meet him in my 20s and I've been very fortunate. But if I was single now,
Starting point is 00:41:10 that's the first thing I would look at. Yeah. But I wouldn't, you know, it's so funny because I wouldn't even think about this like before. But it's just like in the 30s, especially when you're like 35, like that's the priority. Is he going to be a good husband and father?
Starting point is 00:41:21 Because you have no time. Yeah. You don't have time to waste. No. And I mean, I wouldn't be with him if I, he actually has two kids in Australia. He does. So he already is an amazing dad. So you're going to be.
Starting point is 00:41:32 He's also divorced. So it's like. So he's been through it. We've been through it. Yeah. And we're very much so on the same page. Right. He wants more kids.
Starting point is 00:41:41 Oh. And he's so supportive of me going through round three of freezing my eggs because I'm like, you know, that means no sex for three weeks. Oh, yeah, that's right. Yeah. He's like, well, there's other things we can do. I was like, play your mouse, not Morgan. True. You know what?
Starting point is 00:41:57 He is so good looking and you're so beautiful, obviously. I feel like you two would have such beautiful kids. I'm like, I can't wait. I can wait. But I'm excited for when that day comes. Listen, I have a two-year-old. And God bless him. I love him so much.
Starting point is 00:42:14 But take your time when you're ready. Because things are everything. I guess maybe with that whole coronavirus thing, maybe why I'm so freaked out is's because of the kids right so I have a four year old and a two year old and the four year old I just got an email from their school like I don't know what's going on it could be shut down I don't know what and I think that's the reason why I'm
Starting point is 00:42:34 really freaked out because if I didn't have and Christian I probably I'm so ballsy would have bought a ticket to go somewhere with these with these like you know cheap rates like I would have I know i'm thinking about it right because i'm like 400 bucks to hawaii count me in yeah um but the fact that i have cool and christian it's just like things kind of like your priorities shift and so you
Starting point is 00:42:54 got to be really ready for that totally and i'm not there yet you'll know when you're there no i actually i'm like you never know no i mean happen. You never know when you're ready. There could be a miracle. And my almost negative AMH levels, I could get pregnant on my own. That does happen. It does happen. It's not like never say never. Right. But I just know that we have a lot of things we're working on together and separately,
Starting point is 00:43:20 business-wise right now, some things that we're building together. Oh, I love that conversation. And we love traveling so it's like i want some more time to just do that focus on us we're turning my second bedroom into an office right now it's almost completely gutted we're gonna paint it next week shana i'm loving this yeah i can't wait till you come to my podcast to talk about this because the business thing i'm like yeah we have um boy crazy merch coming soon capitalizing on what max called me on national television and like let's make bees right is max trying to get like a percentage out of it no he said he'll model for me and he just wants a beanie that's amazing he's like you can have this i'm like thanks i love it i love that
Starting point is 00:44:02 you're like you know you you're inspiring me with like your entrepreneurial spirit because most people would have like taken that and been like uh but you're just like no I'm gonna make money off of that yeah and at first when he called me that I was so offended I was like hormonal I was crying I remember yeah and I was just like why would you say I'm crazy and then literally the next weekend I went to Vegas and um when I came back and I like sat him down on boys night and was like reading all of the old texts and whatnot. A big part of that conversation, I was like, look, one of the reasons I wanted to talk to you is because like I was in Vegas this weekend,
Starting point is 00:44:35 low key realized between Magic Mike Chippendale and DJ, I was like, yeah, she knows a little boy crazy. And you were not wrong. So why be offended? Like, yeah, she knows a little boy crazy. You were not wrong. So why be offended? Why is it okay if a guy is girl crazy, but when it's a girl, it's taken in a negative context? He even said that in the kitchen when I was like, did you call me boy crazy? He goes, well, I'm girl crazy.
Starting point is 00:44:56 But of course, he didn't see that. But girl crazy, why is it like not negative? Why is it always, this is the issue I have. Why is it always with women? If a woman is single, it's a problem. If a woman, with women if a woman is single it's a problem if a woman like a girl is boy crazy it's a problem why is it always negative when it comes to girls yeah so i'm turning that i need you i need you i need you for like humanity and to program people different when it comes to women to change that conversation with like your products just like i'm changing the conversation i feel like with my following about like what
Starting point is 00:45:29 moms look like these days because people think like moms can't wear bathing suits and take pictures moms can't be sexy and i'm like fuck this shit like i have a two-year-old four-year-old it doesn't mean i'm like dead exactly doesn't mean i can't have a career i can't have a life like no yeah and kind of like you know kim kardash has been a big, you know, big person, like trying to change the programming of how people think about women. Right. But it's like, no, you can be a mom and be sexy. It's like, yeah, it could go together.
Starting point is 00:45:57 Exactly. You don't have to choose one or whatever. So I'm so happy that you're doing that. Yes. I did want to ask you some questions right because you have been in a long relationship so what would you say are like the top do's and don'ts in a relationship oh I think like you marked on like one which is communication that's a do yeah communication don't is don't hide from it um We both are guilty of have done that in our past.
Starting point is 00:46:25 Absolutely. Do be forgiving with them. Let me tell you something. Certain stuff I've learned, I'm not going to win this battle. And it's taking me 10 years to realize I'm not going to win this battle and I got to be okay with it. And he's learned with me, he's not going to learn this battle. So he needs to be okay with it. Yeah. In order to make the relationship good. And it's just certain things like he loves to ski. I hate to ski. And then he'll plan all these ski trips. And then I'll be like, oh, wait, there's a ski trip. And he's like, yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:54 And you know what? I'm like, I'm not going to go to with them to the ski trip. I'm like, have fun. And I just learned that I just got to give it when it comes to the ski trips. Because I've been with him on these ski trips and it's torture for me. I don't ski. I'm like sitting in the cold you that's literally tom and ariana right literally i'm like get me out of here okay yeah i'm only excited when i go to aspen and even that i'm like three days get me out of here yeah so certain things i've realized and with him like you know i like to go
Starting point is 00:47:20 to paris fashion week i like to go to you know'm into fashion. As long as you're okay with each other doing those separate things, which is healthy. And he knows. He knows that I just got to be okay with her to be like, I'm going to Paris Fashion Week. Peace out. Book my flight. You know, and stuff like that. And these are just something that's so stupid. But it's something I like to do.
Starting point is 00:47:41 He doesn't like to share that passion with me. And it's fine because I don't want him to come to Paris Fashion Week with me to go to like the Elie Saab show. He's not going to like anything there. So it's like, you know, I go with my friends and then, you know, he goes with his friend skiing. And we have a relationship where we trust each other. Yeah. And I think that's really important to trust each other. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:48:01 So it's funny. Like the other day he brought it up and I was like, you know what? I'm not going to go. I'm not going to argue. Just go. I'm like, there'll be something coming up for me. Well, I don't know now with this coronavirus. But yeah, I was supposed to go to Paris Fashion Week and I canceled.
Starting point is 00:48:15 Oh, no. Yeah. Yeah. I was just in London and I was supposed to go to Paris, but we didn't go because the weather was such shit. Have you been to Paris Fashion Week? No. Oh, you got to go.
Starting point is 00:48:22 No. Raquel went last year. It looked like so much fun. It's on another level. It's so fun. And you just meet such amazing people. I don't know. I love Paris Fashion Week, but we're not going to sit there and argue.
Starting point is 00:48:36 We've already 10 years in a relationship. We know what we like and don't like. Some things you just gotta give in. And that's something in our relationship. We just give in. I'm not going to ski. I hate skiing. I hate the cold. And he does not does not like fashion yeah we literally we went to tahoe with tom and ariana for new year's this year and that's like by the way my husband's dream oh to go to tahoe it was so much fun we uh snowboarded at heavenly i've been snowboarding a lot longer than ariana yeah and i enjoy it but i mean I'm not great right but I'm good like I get
Starting point is 00:49:05 down the mountain I don't really fall Brock is really good and Sandoval I was with him like four years ago the first time he went snowboarding in Park City during Sundance oh yeah and he was terrible and then by the next day awesome I'm like what is it with these guys who just set their mind to something and are amazing at it so when i was like with brock on the mountain i accidentally went left because i didn't hear him go right then we get stuck on this like plateau ski trail and we're like yelling at each other and he's like oh i said go around like i didn't hear you i'm going down a mountain and so we're like snowboarding is hard tom and ariana are fighting i go you know what tomorrow we're doing a boyfriend swap. I'm going with Sandoval. You're going with Throne.
Starting point is 00:49:46 Best idea ever. But yeah. So it's so funny that you said that about us. You could make him on your next trip because that is his dream. Like to be in Tahoe for New Year's. Yeah. I'm like. No.
Starting point is 00:49:57 It was so much fun. There's a festival. Oh, that's like his dream. Like you said, he loves that. And here I am to be like New Year's. Let's go to Tulum. So I would say some things you got to just give it. And I believe in this.
Starting point is 00:50:13 If you have the possibility, you have separate bathrooms. Happy marriage. Yeah, we have separate bathrooms. Yeah, you need your space. Like in the mornings when I wake up. I mean, we don't live together, but I have two bathrooms. He has two bathrooms. I think like if you're going to get married, because I don't think marriage is that important in this day and age, but if you are going to get married, obviously, like, spend time
Starting point is 00:50:30 with that person, live with them, like, see. Yeah. Because I think, like, that first year of any relationship is when you get to know the person. I would never marry someone unless I lived with them first. Yeah. The first year, I think, is, like, the make or break. If you can make it through the first year.
Starting point is 00:50:43 Yeah. But I think when you live with each other to make it easier is to separate bathrooms because in the morning I'm really moody If I don't have my coffee don't talk to me and like ray Wakes up at the crack of dawn and he's ready to have conversations with me in the morning and i'm just like And it's just like I need my time in the bathroom to do my like eight steps skincare routine and not have anyone bother me with my eye patches. Yeah. And I don't know.
Starting point is 00:51:08 For me, it's like separate bathrooms. Uh-huh. All right. Yeah. Some good advice. And for men, happy, like if you have kids, happy mom, happy life, happy wifey, happy life, happy girlfriend, happy life. So just keep the girl happy.
Starting point is 00:51:21 And I think the most important thing is respect. Yeah. Because everything could be. 100%. Listen, everything, what we're talking about, skiing and Paris, these are all fluffy things, right? Yeah. If there's no respect, you know what I'm saying?
Starting point is 00:51:34 I never like think twice that like my husband's cheating on me just because I know we have respect with each other. And I was even saying this too to Brock recently. I'm like, I've always been like, I've never been cheated on. And so that's always just been a fear of like, well, is it going to happen to me one day? Because it happens to most girls. But I'm just like, here's the way I switch thinking about it is because he respects me so much. And I'm like, look, if you're going to go and do something shady, bye-bye.
Starting point is 00:51:59 You're lost. You've got to sleep with yourself at night. I'm not going to worry about that and be insecure about it. Because I'm going to drive myself crazy when I know you have so much respect for me that you wouldn't do it right and you know what i feel like women are really intuitive you know you would know if something you know right like the other day i saw like um like today he's been good but like yesterday he came home and he's like in his mood i'm like oh my god like i know the stock market is down like you just feel it you know that they're going through something and i think like
Starting point is 00:52:28 women's intuition is legit so you gotta like respect it and yep you know i agree i think you'll know you'll know if he was doing something yeah 100 100 but when there's respect let's say let's say he even thought about it when there's respect he'll probably come and talk to you about it or like do you know what i'm saying you're like adults so there's like conversations that can be had in regards to like someone who doesn't have respect and just you know does shit yeah well well you know thanks for being here i got so much fun you know i never talk about my relationship i'm very private about it so this is the first and i hope ray doesn't hear this but this is the first time i'm talking about my marriage because I love this. I'm very private about it. So this is the first, and I hope Ray doesn't hear this, but this is the first time I'm talking about my marriage because I don't really talk about it.
Starting point is 00:53:08 Oh, well, I'm glad I got you to open up a little bit. Now I gotta go inject my face with some Botox. Oh, wait, where are you getting it? At Dr. Meller in Beverly Hills. But where? On your face. Oh. Look at your face. Look at this. Girl, look at those wrinkles. You are fine. No, I need resting bitch face.
Starting point is 00:53:23 I know what I tell you is not going to be like. Reunions coming up in a few weeks. I need to make sure my Botox is good. Wait, you need to be like working on like. Those reunions are intense. I don't know how you do it. Do you call a therapist right after like crying? I've driven to Vegas right after.
Starting point is 00:53:42 Those reunions. Yeah. People don't know like how hard it is to be on a reality show. Yeah, but if I get the Botox now, I mean, in a week it's going to kick in.
Starting point is 00:53:50 By three weeks from now. So you have to help your face. No one will really know how you feel. Exactly. Tell everyone where they can find you and listen to yours
Starting point is 00:53:57 or watch your podcast. Well, you guys can find me at Diana Madison. Also on my podcast, Dream Big with Diana Madison. And Dream Big is all about people who are like have that entrepreneurial spirit of built stuff from nothing and I can't
Starting point is 00:54:11 wait for you to come on because I know I'm so excited I'm excited to talk to you about business because nothing gets me more excited than speaking with like-minded women yeah who are like changing conversations about females and like what we represent. And I just can't wait to hear about the boy crazy brand. Yeah. So stay tuned, you guys. And I'll be posting when I do her show in a few weeks. Thanks for listening. Bye, guys.
Starting point is 00:54:34 Bye. Thanks for listening to Shenanigans. Download new episodes every Tuesday and subscribe on the Podcast One app at PodcastOne.com or at Apple Podcasts. And don't forget to rate and review the show on Apple Podcasts. Looking fine and I got my girls with me. With the boys at the table getting tipsy. Miss me, kiss me one more time.
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