Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Goodbye 2021

Episode Date: December 31, 2021

Happy New Year’s Eve everyone, this is the last Scheananigans episode of 2021! Scheana is joined by fiancé Brock this week who talks about how he had to literally “milk” Scheana. The two are wrapping up the year by addressing some things that need to be discussed from Vanderpump Rules and social media. They address a recent conversation from when they went on another podcast that caused some backlash, Brock explains what really happened with the surprise wedding he planned, and they share their New Year’s Resolutions. Thank you to all the Scheananigans listeners! We wish you a very Happy New Year and can’t wait to see you in 2022! Follow us: @scheananigans @scheana @brock__daviesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hello, hello. Welcome back to shenanigans. And thank you guys for listening today. We are joined by two guests. We've got my fiance Brock Davies. Hey, honey. And little miss Summer Moon. Yeah. Say hi.

Hi. So we were going to try and do this on her nap time, but we like to try and time our drives around her nap time. Nap times and poops. Yes, literally. Nap times and poops. Last night we took a drive just so this child could poop because just every time she's

in the car she's my little predictable pooper aren't you so yeah it had been a few days and we're like you know what we've been feeding her more solids now like we got to take this kid for a drive to get it out and it worked so we are now on week three of summer, not latching. And the other day I had to be milked. Oh yeah. We going there? Yeah. I woke up with my fiance crying in the shower.

It was so painful. So I don't know if it was like a clogged milk duct or they were engorged or whatever, but it was just the one side, my, as I call it, the snack boob. And the night before it was bothering me a little bit. I pumped, it still felt hard. I pumped again. It was still bothering me. And then I wake up in the morning and I'm like, Oh my God, like something is not right. She hasn't latched for three weeks now. I'm just pumping. And I guess that's just a different suction. And I don't know, something happened.

It was very painful. And I was like, honey, remember your days on the farm? On the dairy boy. When you had to milk cows. Real quickly. We didn't always like have to hand milk cows. We're not like back in the day we had. But yes, I understand when we needed to pull on

some titties yeah we know i know how to do it i'm like in the shower i put hot water on it a heat pad i'm trying to pump it was just like i was trying everything and he had to milk me a couple times that day i gave you a breast a massage i wouldn't i wouldn't say i milked you well when you were massaging me it was squirting out all over the pillow. It was like the Bellagio water fountain just... Yes, that's what it felt like. Yeah, she's still not latching. I've gotten over trying. I couldn't take the rejection anymore. After like two weeks, I was just like, you know what? I think I'm just going to pump for as long as I can. My new goal is now to just make it to 11 months.

Her pediatrician said if we can get to 11 months, then she can go to whole milk after that, and that would be good. Babe, everything you're doing from delivering her, you are amazing and well done, honey. Well, thank you. And the amount of effort you're like right now, you don't have to. You can go to formula, but you really stuck on on this. No, I really don't want to go to formula.

I don't know why I'm so against it because, I mean, you know, if we go a surrogate route next time, like our baby's just going to probably be on formula. But I just I think because I'm still so very fortunate that I'm still producing as much as I am. I'm like, why am I going to stop for like selfish reasons or anything? Like this is what's best for her. I'm going to keep going as long as I can. But when doctor said 11 months, I was like, okay, we've got an end date. She's not latching. And I was talking to our neighbors down in San Diego.

So we are surrounded by the most amazing people down in San Diego. Yeah, our neighbors are pretty great. Yeah. And I was talking to her about her breastfeeding journey, and she's now pregnant again. They have a two-year-old. And we were just saying about how every child is different. And some kids stop watching on their own. Some want it longer.

every child is different and some kids stop watching on their own. Some want it longer. And I was like, look, I'm trying to just see in hindsight. I know for me emotionally, it was hard when she stopped watching, but I know that it's going to be easier in the long run instead of, you know,

me being done at a year and her being like, no, I still need the boob to go to sleep. You avoided that part of the, yeah. Yeah. Because that was one of the things where I'm like, how am I ever going to stop? If I'm still producing, it still soothes her.

She still needs that part of me. How am I ever going to stop? But she made that decision for me. We just had her telemed appointment with her pediatrician. And he was like, look, if you could just do three more months of pumping, that is all she needs. And I'm like, all right, we've got like 200 ounces in the freezer I can keep doing this every day I will enjoy these last few months of having boobs for possibly the last time in my life how your season started and how you mentally felt the whole

journey yeah someone's got something to say you look phenomenal your health as well you're taking care of yourself really well so I take my hat off to you, baby. And so does Summer. Well, thank you. And yeah, another reason I wanted to keep breastfeeding was for our trip in Hawaii. I thought, I was like, it's going to be so much easier if I'm still nursing her when we're on vacation. And then literally the week before was when she stopped latching. But I want to give a shout out to LV. They have a cordless

wireless doesn't have any of the tubes breast pump that literally just sits in your bra. And it just pumps you like we were at on the airplane. We were at dinner. Like that is my new nursing on the go. It is absolutely amazing. They're like like 500 bucks but i'm telling you it is worth every dollar because that has made me want to continue pumping for her because it is still just as easy as so easy and it's got it's got all the stats it's like stat that from the nfl show like you've literally got on your phone on the app it tells you how many ounces it's pumped yeah it's so cool it has the app that links to it. So it's like it'll shut off when the bottle's full.

And then it tells you how much and how long you've been going. It's really fucking cool. So shout out to Alvy. But yeah, Hawaii. We just got back. Summer had her first Christmas. Obviously, she doesn't really get Christmas yet. She did get onrapping oh yeah

as a champion at the wrapping oh yeah she is like a little hulk with like napkins wrapping paper tissue she just tears it up so she definitely had fun with that but like next year will be our first year that we really play santa and do all of that so So when it comes to playing Santa, how old do kids realize? Like, when do you start tricking them? You mean, like, telling them about Santa? Yeah, when they start, I guess, is that from choice? Well, yeah, from, like, the beginning. Like, I mean, even she didn't know anything,

but I was talking about Santa this Christmas. I was like, Summer, look, Santa ate the cookie. I could only imagine, like, her development from then for another year. Like, okay. Oh, totally. Hannah. So, no, I can't wait. And kids, like, you know, that age, like, she'll be a year and a half next Christmas.

I mean, she's going to be understanding more. She's going to be communicating more with us. So, yeah, I think next Christmas will be so much fun to just see her. Oh, my God, she's going to be running around. She's crawling now. Oh, she's a little tro her. Oh, my God, she's going to be running around. She's crawling now. She's a little trooper. Thank you for her, honey. Thank you for her.

She's great. She's our little miracle baby. She is amazing. She looks just like her older sister, too. She really does. I mean, you, honey, you really have a type. Because, I mean, their genetics being matched up the same, but, like, like wow the girls really

do look like and and you know what their namesake where like there was an issue about it in this season i'm actually really excited to for them to meet and then for them to be like look we have this connection that yeah but they might not be raised in the same household but i want them to have that connection and when they see each other i think they're going to be like, oh yeah, that's, that's my sister. Yeah, totally. I mean, when winter was her age, like, I mean, the resemblance is just crazy. And then even when she was a little older, I'm like, that is what summer is going to look like when she gets older. It's so crazy because I look at her and I just see me like, I very see you but then when I see winter I'm like oh my god she obviously she is your daughter my baby girl yeah so we're down in San Diego for a couple days

we've been hanging out with our neighbors just enjoying our time down on the beach and the other night we had our neighbors Mike and Cheryl over who are our older neighbors, like sixties and eighties. And we absolutely love them. They're like our best friends down in San Diego. We do dinner dates with them all the time. If you guys have watched my vlogs, you've definitely seen them. You know what would be fun, honey? We need to have them on the podcast. Exactly. I was about to say that. Get out of my head. No, Mike, y'all, he is a legend. We need to do that.

He would have so many. I mean, he's what, 82? Babe, he has the best stories. He would have so many good stories. I sit outside with him and we just chat. He went to high school in like the 50s. He planted these palm trees out the front of our house. Oh my, wait, what? This whole bay was the swampland when he moved in.

And they planted the palm trees. And then they were taking care of him and now they're huge oh my god now the council's taken over and then they don't trim him but yeah they have a problem but he he's an og not just our neighborhood of san diego do you want to know a real fun story we can talk about i think we should do a podcast because i think I think we should. Him, his best friend is Jack. Like Jack in the box. From Jack in the- Yeah, like Jack in the box, Jack. And guess what? Guess who came up with Jack?

Jack? No. Mike? Mike. Mike was the marketing manager. He came in from marketing and he created- You're on summer? I can't believe it.

He created Jack. Oh my God. Okay. He's very humble about it. I know Pryor, but we found that out from our other neighbors last night. Wow. Let's get him on. That'll be a fun story.

I think in the next few weeks. So we're going to be back spending a lot of time down in San Diego now that we have wrapped season nine. You know, Brock is playing rugby down here for the San Diego Legion team, working on home body from home. So we have a lot of time to be down here, and I definitely think we should do an episode like that. That would be so fun. They came over last night, and we watched the episode. Yeah, so I wanted to wrap up 2021

as this is the last episode of the year. It's New Year's Eve. It is. It was. It was. Yeah. Oh, no, no, no. This podcast is the last podcast episode of the year.

Not the show. Got it. We still got a few more. Yeah, we're not done yet, honey. So I wanted to wrap up 2021 by setting the record straight and addressing some things that came out this week on Instagram that I don't know if you want to apologize or clear up what you said if you were just trying to be funny, but a lot of people didn't find it funny. What's this on that?

Harry Jowsey. Let's start with your comments on the Harry Jowsey podcast, start with ask me the questions and I'll answer your comments on the Harry Jowsey podcast and then I want to get into what did I say some things that were said

in the episode this week what did I say well I can play it for you let's play it oh oh fuck

what have we got my biggest my biggest pet peeve and we're going to speak about it on yours some more so you can come listen to the deep of it it's just like there's a spin on the storylines that come out and it's like we said before like it's one version or the other but it's like look real quickly i'm

not going to pay for my photo shoot or my wedding sorry from my business account like i said i spent 400 it was your engagement not the way my engagement slash wedding was going to cost me a fair amount. It got canceled because of COVID restrictions. We couldn't get the venue on time. And then they spun it, and it's coming out this week. It was spun out as if I couldn't afford to do any of this. And she's like, I spent so much money. There's so many scenes where she's saying.

I spent so much money on my homebody brand at a photo shoot and all this shit. But I can't afford to take care of my wife which fast forward six months to today turns out she can't afford to take care of her husband oh fiance t oh it's not my former her cookie wasn't oh that was it well it cut off there, I definitely need to work on my word of choice. Yeah. Let's break that down a little bit, eh? That's how Summer feels. That's what's up.

Yeah. The cookie comment, honey. I have some animosity towards her. I understand that. I really do. She's going through a lot right now. Now, here's the thing. Right now, since she's been dealing with this, I take my hat off to her.

Don't get me wrong. I take my hat off to her because what she's doing... I can't imagine being a single mom. What she's doing now is harder than what she was dealing with before. Yeah. Because before there wasn't a little child involved. Yeah. Now she realizes that that is the most important thing in her life

and that is the hardest decision for her to walk away from that comfort to be an independent woman. This is, I truly believe, the most boss-ass bitch that she has been. Yes. And I take my hat off to her. I am also a little upset about how the season comes about. And she openly apologized to you and me about...

She openly apologized to you and me about the season of what to you, openly apologized to you and me about the season of what was, cause it was how she was feeling at the time. It was projection. Definitely. And I get projection, but I just don't want to, I don't want to. What you said was very rude. And literally if you guys listen to that podcast, this clip that I just played, it cut off a little, I literally wrap up. I was like, well, thank you everyone for listening to Tap In with Harry Jowsey. We're going to wrap this episode up. It wasn't even my show

and I was trying to wrap up the conversation because I felt so uncomfortable. And I apologize because it was rude. And I can be accountable for my own actions and I am accountable for my actions. That was rude. But I also feel Lala's been rude towards you. Absolutely.

But I know she's going through a lot of things. Okay. That's that. And I apologize for that comment because I was also rude towards you. Absolutely. But I know she's going through a lot of things. Okay. That's that. And I apologize for that comment because I was also rude to you that day. I don't know what was up my ass that day. Yeah, you called me a homewrecking whore. Yeah, that was really bad.

I love you so much, honey. And it was my delivery sucks. It sucks so bad. Sucks. So I promise you guys. And even sometimes I know I apologize. On this show,

people feel like you cut me off. You talk down to me. And I'm like, it's not like it's like that all the time. You're just very opinionated. And I agree with you. You're not American. I just cut you off. I agree with them.

And guys, I promise you, 2022, I'm going to learn to keep my mouth a little bit shut. Oh, that's new. I want to hear more and listen more before I kind of speak. So you know what's the crazy thing about 2022? Is if you say it, 2020, T-O-O, like, it's 2020 also. 2022. Get it?

Babe. There was like this meme. You coming at me with grammar right now? No, I'm just saying. Like, it's like also. 2022. Get it? Babe. There was like this meme. You coming to me with grammar right now? No, I'm just saying like, it's like 2020 repeating itself. Now Omicron and all this is like, oh, it's 2020 again also. 2022. Get it? Okay, 2022.

Reference, got it, check. Ariana posted that. I thought it was clever. Mom joke. Mom joke. Anyway. Sorry for that podcast, people. I upset some people and some things I say, I promise I will be better at it.

I'm not a public speaker. Let's be very, very clear. Definitely. I have no idea how I made it through this season without saying some dumb shit. Well, you did say some dumb shit. Yeah, you're right. Okay, but some dumb shit that you didn't say that some other people said, I do want to clear up. And I want to ask you a few questions that I obviously know the answer to, but based on all of the comments I've seen this week, I feel like you just unfortunately need to explain yourself a little more.

Hit me. So the main question that came through in so many different ways was, how can Brock afford the engagement ring with child support problems? Another one said, why did he expect everyone to pay for your wedding but him? It was just there was a lot of the same question worded differently. So first of all, you made it clear that you owe 20 plus thousand US. You said this on the show. I owed more, but that's what I owed now. That was what I owed when I said that at the reunion, actually.

Yes. Yes. Okay. You are making your payments. You know, I'm not even going to speak for you. I'm going to let you answer this. So, how long have you been- It was three questions.

Yeah. How do I afford the ring? Guys, it was a really great ring. Kyle Chang gave me a great deal. And I do have credit in this country. Not a lot, but I got some credit. Okay? And as you saw in the show, I leveraged that.

I'm not the most wealthiest guy out there. I don't even think you've seen you getting the ring yet. I don't even know if that was in this last episode. I think it was at the end of it, right? It's in the next one. Anyway, you'll see that happen. She put it on the fucking credit card. Boom.

Credit helped me out with that one. Great deal. My child support issue. And this is, this is a big one because I don't want to have any excuses about this. When I separated from my ex and when, when we went our separate ways and I had no access to the kids, I was younger and I just assumed she's taking my rights away. I don't need to continue my side of the payment, which was sending her money, even though I wasn't doing it well off anyway. It wasn't doing a good job. Yeah.

During our time of being separated, she then applied for child support. Not a problem. Perfect. Child support didn't have my contact information until I went back to Australia in 2019, which was the first time I went back home. Okay, so you're telling me that people are

actually supposed to believe that for years you didn't know you had to pay child support. Like, honey, you're not dumb. I'm not dumb. I was ignorant. Because I didn't have access to the kids, I felt like, well, if she's taking that away from me, why do I need to make... Well, because there was only agreement between me and her.

When she took the kids and restricted my access, she then applied for child support. I wasn't involved in that conversation. So it just started. Is child support, honestly, I don't even know how child support in America works. I don't know how it works in Australia. But is it where the government pays the woman or the man or whoever's requesting the child support and you pay back the government? Are you paying her directly?

It's an agreement where the government supports low-income houses or people that need help. They go ahead and help single moms or low-income owners and then it's the parent's responsibility to,

my responsibility to repay the government for supporting that. But she was always taken care of by the government. No. Once we stopped talking.

Right. Once she restricted my access, then she went, because I also wasn't during that time. I was bad at making payments to her. She would ask for nothing, like $150, and I wouldn't reply to her. I was an asshole. So after the fact, she was claiming, which was perfect.

There's no response. It's fine. Then when I got back from Australia, when I went there, it kind of kick-started them because they had all my information now. They found out where I lived because of my entry and re-entry when you went back back in 2019 okay and they contacted me three months later three months later they contacted me and i know it wasn't even it was like five months later because the middle of the pandemic right they reached out to me i remember this and i was like yeah look i'm not gonna lie didn't realize this was a thing this is embarrassing

and i want to make my plan come up with a payment plan because I don't owe my ex that money I owe the government because I've paid it over the years that's what I'm saying she was taken care of by the government yeah so I agreed I made a payment plan in the middle of 2019 they had to evaluate my situation with all my pay stubs and my tax fine years that took about four months because it's international and then going into the beginning of 2020 I started making my monthly payments and some on a payment plan to pay back so since then but why not just take a chunk and pay it all off because I'm not paying all the money to my child this is not the reason why I don't see my kids it's just a respect thing to my ex is the reason why I haven't seen my kids yet so but she did say to catch up on child support. And once you catch up on child support, then you would have access to them.

So I think a lot of people want to know, why are you spending money on an engagement ring, a proposal, a surprise wedding, and all of these things instead of taking that money, putting it towards your kids so you can see them sooner? Because there is an end game here where it's me selling our gyms and me getting love sums there those funds will be

applied i don't want to use your money i don't want to use it and i'm not loaded so financially for me i made the decisions for the season to purchase your ring on credit i made the decisions to have a rooftop wedding which was sub ten thousand dollars with all the catering and the venue but it turned into more because it had no licensing right so then when i said look we don't have the right permit in here, but you can pay $20,000 for our permit, I was like, well, that's not what I – That's ridiculous. That's not going to happen.

And so I understand the concerns, but know that financially I have been in a position now where I can make better decisions and really be accountable for what I need to be doing. And I apologize that everyone is upset with me. I'm upset with myself. Yeah. No, I just – I apologize that everyone is upset with me. I'm upset with myself. Yeah. No, I just saw a lot of comments. And it's fine because another thing, guys,

and this is understandably, we've been in the pandemic. So for me to go back home right now, I can't see my kids yet. I need to talk to my ex. I need to talk to her step, their kid's dad, and we need to start a relationship before I even have access to my kids. Yeah, it's not like you just go back and like pop in to see them. Hi, how you doing? No, it's I'm going to work on my payments,

which I've been doing since the beginning of 2020. And that was before filming started. So when this narrative of me being like, I understand the frustration and pain that you guys all have because I was a deadbeat person. I'm accountable for that. I don't have excuses or buts. I'm telling you guys, before we started filming,

I was never been in a better place. It took me a couple of years. I got cut from football when I came over here. 2018, built up a gym, so I was in the negative. 2019 was our year, my year financially to really be a man and step up. Even through a pandemic, I did that. And moving forward, I'm going to continue to do that.

So it frustrates me when people talk to me about money, especially people that have abundance of it. Because I was never raised rich. I was never raised average. I was raised below government funding houses. And that's kind of like another thing. I don't have excuses, but my environment that I was raised in, you don't get Range Rovers.

I already said this. You don't have any of that. So I apologize for how I treat other people. I am very hard with people, very brushed with people because it's how I came up in that hard environment. And it's not an excuse. I'm just apologizing for my actions of 2021. Yeah.

Okay. Does that kind of wrap? Did you get it? No, I think so. I just, yeah, I think a lot of people wanted to know, you know, why are you not flying to Australia right now? And people aren't realizing, like, the borders aren't open. There is still a two-week quarantine.

And with these new variants and with everything going on with COVID right now, sure, you can get there, quarantine for two weeks, and try to do whatever you can while you're there. But there's also a chance that then the borders close again and you can't leave. And can I be honest with everyone on the podcast and you, honey? It's not even the fact of COVID right now because I think right now we're going to,

hopefully we get out of this soon. It is the actual reality that I need to build up a relationship, a respectful relationship with my ex and her partner. And this show didn't help that relationship. Of course not. Okay. We were on rocky terms, having my daughter namesake after that one,

more rocky terms. Like I rocked the shit out of this boat. So I care about you guys' opinions. I do. I generally do. It hurts. It reminds me every day. But the biggest reminder is the fact

that I don't get to talk to my two kids. So thank you for like keeping me in check. I'll do myself that as well. But if you want any more questions, hopefully I answered it. I'm not just trying to skive off people. What was the other one? The wedding.

Oh, well, there were... That gets complicated. A lot. Like M&M Mommy wants to know what was the real reason you didn't get married right after the proposal? So we had this... There was a permitting issue.

Yeah, so we had this event, and then three days before the event, we found out that this bar turned into a rooftop cinema actually didn't have the correct permits. So because of that, production went to go pull filming permits from the city, notify me that, hey, actually, that venue isn't cleared. We can't do it.

I panicked a little bit. I was like, that's right, I can figure this out because that venue had catering sorted, bar sorted seating all of it was perfect and like i said financially it wasn't a strain i'm not rich guys i'm not there yet yeah okay so then i went to randall the second time to be like and la la and i was like guys the property just felt pulled out like i just lost the venue So it wasn't this three day, four day fucking wedding thing. I had the idea of the wedding before I even set up with Randall. You have to talk with production to clear these things.

Yeah. I had it set up. And so for the narrative to be like, Brock's just trying to like, yeah, I was trying to force it after that. Once that venue fell through, I had whispers in my ear saying you got to do this. And I really wanted to do it this season because we never

know the future of the show. And I really wanted to show you guys that, you know what? Sheena has got a genuine man and I genuinely love the fuck out of you. And I really wanted people to see that. And I love you for that. And these next three episodes, I'm so embarrassed because I really just was figuring out a way

I don't even need to go there yet. And figuring it out, guys. We'll get into that after that airs. We'll come back in a few weeks and revisit those conversations. But I think that was another thing people were wondering was like, why the rush? And it's like, well, we're only filming for so long and I understand why you did want to do that while we were filming for the show.

Yeah, that was the first time I felt the pressure. The first one was when I brought you Not A Shining Gift for your birthday. And then this time was, is this what I need to do? Like, we might not get another season and I've never filmed before. And so I let that get into my head a lot. And then on top of that, a little bit of just determination.

It doesn't sit well with you guys, I promise you. And I understand. And all I can do is say it's 2021. Moving on to 2022. I apologize. Yeah. Well, when you say you felt pressure to get me a certain present because we were filming, I didn't need a big present.

I know that. I know. But you said you felt pressure to. And that's why you didn't give me big present. I know that. I know. But you said you felt pressured to. And that's why you didn't give me my gift on camera. I brought you. I named you. I named you a star. It was the most meaningful, like thoughtful present I think I've ever been given.

I understand that. It was amazing. That's something I've always wanted. And no one's ever listened enough to get it for me. And when I was like, oh, my God, you listened. You're like, what are you talking about? I'm like, I told you this is something I always wanted. You're like, no, you didn't.

And I'm like, oh my God, maybe I just- Yeah, you told another boyfriend that one. Well, I told a lot of boyfriends that one. No one ever listened. So I just assumed that you finally listened, but you said I never even mentioned that. You just knew. Yeah, I tried to not,

I tried to take this season on first year into it to just do what I would respect because if I saw it on camera regardless how it gets edited I'll respect it and here I am trying to like explain the edit but okay so Gloria underscore 1528 wants to know why spin it as a surprise wedding when it wasn't. So I want to address this. When you and I had a conversation about getting engaged, getting married, I mean, we've had several. Because I wanted to know, you must have. It's like, all right, if this was an option, and Sheena said, it's not an option, but let's be real. So when we had the conversation, he was like, what if one day when I propose to you,

we just get married right on the spot and turn it into a shotgun wedding? And I was like, what if one day when I propose to you, we just get married right on the spot and turn it into a shotgun wedding? I was like, hell no. Absolutely not. He's like, what? Why? And I'm like, no, no, no. Do not do that. First of all, I was super struggling with my body image.

Nothing was fitting me right. I was like, I'm not trying to get married right now. Like, I probably shouldn't have even worn the crop top when I wore the crop top because I wasn't in the best shape then. I'm not trying to. Wear the crop top when I wore the crop top because I wasn't in the best shape then. I'm not trying to wear the crop top. You are perfect. Thank you. But I'm like, I'm not trying to get married when I'm not feeling my best. I would want hair and makeup there.

I would want to make sure like these specific friends who aren't on the show are there. I would want someone who knows us and loves us to marry us. Like there was just there were so many things. And he's like, yeah, what else? What else? What else? knows us and loves us to marry us like there was just there were so many things and he's like yeah what else what else what else and I gave him so many things that I was like he's never going to be able to pull this off and had shit with the permits not happened I think you would have been able to pull it off so this was this was how this surprise was not a surprise but it was a surprise because this wasn't just a spur of the moment thing, guys. This is before the season started. I was going through and I was just asking, just vetting her.

I said, why no? Tell me why no. And she goes, because of these. And these were her must-haves. And I was like, okay, what are they? Pretty much the dress, the makeup, the family, the loved ones, and then that will be okay. Which, again, it's not okay because I was just forcing this issue.

Anyway, that is how Sheena never knew about it because I continually just asked her and kept it very casual. And then I was like, perfect, I have all of this. I have her dress because she purchased a dress for an event or for a reunion, right? Yeah, it was either for an interview look for this season, for a reunion, for Watch What Happens Live, or hey, if he actually does try to pull off this shotgun wedding, I have a cream slash white

dress that would be perfect which is the dress that i put on in the photo to announce our engagement that was the dress i had so that dress was at her mom's house yeah so sheena would never know when it would be on location no i had the the visionary of this which i think i've gone over it already was movie premiere, movie premiere starts. And that was the reason why I asked Randall for his help. It was because I needed him to. It was such a good cover, honey. Yeah.

I had no clue. I was like, so for me, I've been to many screenings and many premieres in my life. Screenings usually are more casual. Like it's just a chill night. The premiere is like the red carpet, the, all of that. So we were going to Randall's premiere the following Monday and I already had glam set up. I had a dress, like I knew it was red carpet, all of that. So I'm like, why is he having a screening? I'm like, oh, okay. Well maybe because we're filming this week, we're going to

be wrapped by next week. He wants to get the movie on the show i don't know so i guess it makes sense for randall to have a screening and a premiere but i'm like i'm not getting like glam for the screening when we had like your home body shoot like i had so many things i already needed glam for that week that i was like i'm not getting glam for the screening he was like no like he's trying to scramble like wait how am i going to convince her she needs to get glam he's like well you know it's randall like he goes big like he's trying to scramble. Like, wait, how am I going to convince her she needs to get glam? He's like, well, you know, it's Randall. Like he goes big, like he's having one of those repeat carpet things. And I was like, oh, a step and repeat. And he's like, yeah, yeah, he's getting photographers.

And I'm like, okay, well, shit. Step and repeat. Yeah. I was like, well, if Getty Images is going to be there, then yeah, I guess I am going to need to step it up. So I'll see if Marine's available. And of course, Marine was available because Brock already spoke to her about my glam. How she was going to talk me out of doing a high pony,

I still haven't figured that one out. I didn't even think about that. She had a plan. She had a plan. I was like, I wouldn't have wanted to get married in like a high pony. How are you going to talk me out of it? She's like, oh, I had this look.

I was going to like convince you. I love that. To do. So that was how I had no clue. And it wasn't until we're at the give them Lala event. And I overhear Brock talking to Schwartz and Schwartz is like, Oh, he's like, Randall's screening just got canceled. And I hear Brock go, well, it wasn't really the screening. It was going to be our wedding. And I was like, what? Oh my God. It was, but I had no idea.

So it was a surprise. Yes, I had a dress because I had five dresses. I had two in white. Well, I had one white, one cream, a brown, a blue, and a red. I had all these dresses for interview looks, reunion options, and Watch What Happens Live. So that's why I already had the dress. The dress, the venue, venue the time it all was there

and then it didn't work out and then i was grasping at straws the next day i did not expect lala's assistant or lala to front up any money she texted me about certain things which was step and repeats and all of this and i was like well i don't even have a venue yet and then that day after i saw them i saw them in the morning. I went to go look at these venues. I found one. And then they finally were like, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I was like, this is perfect.

And then they go, we can't staff it. Because it was 4th of July. It was the day before 4th of July. Yeah. And so at that point, I was like, you know what? This isn't what I want. And I pulled the pin. And I pulled the pin.

And I was like, I will talk to LaLa. So is that why you didn't respond to her assistant when she asked you to call Craig? Yeah. A, I'm bad at communication. We know that. Look at my phone. I've got like 80 text messages. Because I'm like, I'll handle it later.

Meaning I went to see Lala and Randall. I said, look, guys, the venue was going to be 20 grand for their own permit. I'm not paying that. And at that point, I generally pulled the plug. Oh, my God. I'm so glad you didn't even start to like try to put that on credit or anything. Because that would never be what I wanted. You knew that. You know who I am. Okay. I'm so glad you didn't even start to, like, try to put that on credit or anything because that would never be what I wanted. Honey, you know who I am, okay?

I know. The fact that people want to talk to me about financial problems and I can't handle money. Yeah, I never was raised with money, but I've spent the last four years outside of being an athlete trying to accumulate funds and money. Working your ass off. And working. So, yeah, you're right. I didn't suck a dick for a Range Rover and live in the Hollywood Hills. No, you're right. I didn't suck a dick for a Range Rover and live in the Hollywood Hills. No, you're right.

I didn't. And I'm sick of this narrative of all these women thinking that, oh, you should be better off your money and you should do this and you should do this. You should worry about your relationship. I will worry about my relationship.

Okay? Because I never had a comment on about this. Never did. Yeah. Because it was their relationship. So anyway. Shelby G. Taylor wants to know if I was disappointed

the surprise proposal and wedding fell through. So initially I was because I was like, damn, like the way. Explain how you wanted to do it. Because once I heard all of this and I was like, oh, I can. I'm a very visual person. If I read a book, I can just envision it. So when he explained how he wanted it to be, my heart broke a little. I was like, damn, that would have been so good.

Randall's movie premiere, everyone rocks up in full glam, step and repeat red carpet. And we go to this rooftop and there's a movie premiere. There's kind of the seats. We sit at the front on the right-hand side and the movie premiere starts. Randall has his talk, movie premiere starts. And then 20 seconds into the movie premiere, it burns out on film.

And then our love story comes up and our movie of our life, because we've vlogged it all on your YouTube. Yeah. That comes up how we met, where we went to, the festivals, the parties, the baby, the love. That was our new story. Our love story was going to play. And then I was going to get up in front of everybody because everyone

would be like, wait, because no one fucking knew. Right. They'd be like, wait, what is this? And then going to get up in front of everybody because everyone would be like wait because no one fucking knew right they're like wait what is this and then i would have proposed in front of the movie premiere i'm on my knee and then if you were to say yes obviously spoke to sandoval what he was going to do what if i said no we've been rough but sandoval was down to kind of like ordain it right so he was gonna as you said yes we're gonna pull the screen up and he was going to be behind it with the whole front, altar and all that. And then at the back of the walk down the cinema,

at the back of it was going to be Marines set up for your hair and makeup with your dress and like your little makeup tan. Well, I probably should have already been hair and makeup ready for the step-in, right? Maybe, yeah. Touch-ups, whatever. That's your makeup. That was a small thing I overlooked. And then it turned in, rolled the red to white,

and it was going to be that. And then when I spoke to Randall about the idea, he was like, this is great. And then he added his $20 into it. It wasn't even two cents. It was a lot. But I was like, yeah, cool. Like whatever gets us moving because I need to make this work.

And I lost the vision as we were trying. And I told Lala Randall that. And I said, look, it is what it is. It wasn't until like two days later when I explained it to, and I love you, Ariana, so much. She was like, don't give up on this. And that was the second time this season I was influenced. And then welcome these next couple of episodes.

But look, it is what it is. And I'm actually glad it didn't happen like that because you do deserve more. And I was making out as if you deserve this, but you deserve more. And I promise. Bali, baby. We just hired our wedding planner. We did. Shout out to Shelby Owens down here in San Diego with Simply Classic Events Wedding.

She is amazing. I'm so excited that we have a wedding planner. Guys, I hired a wedding planner, okay? And we're a year out from planning yeah she's great i look forward to surprising sheena and doing all of the good stuff but we're excited so excited we've it's like i'm so excited but then it also stresses me out because now we have to like really make our invite list and get all of this in order let's just finish 2021 turn the corner tomorrow turn the corner and then we'll we can focus on those we've got plenty of time you know it's been

a crazy year for everybody how crazy you know and and you know what reminds me of that like we are in a have so blessed this this summer and i'm so annoyed that i disappoint people with my actions i apologize because there are worse people and there are people in worse positions. And I'm sorry if I let you guys down. Well, you haven't let me down, honey. I think you are amazing. And I love you so much. I will work on your delivery.

Delivery is huge. All right. Well, I want to wrap this podcast up saying goodbye 2021 hello 2022 what is one new year's resolution that you have my love other than being better with your delivery yeah i've got my personal goals already now and And one of them is listen more, speak less. But next year, we've got a couple of one-year goals and long-term goals. But next year is to finally receive a full salary through Homebody. We've got a couple of goals through that by hitting our next raise through the middle of the year. And that's my main focus right now is really Homebody full force and really being more attentive to yourself and to

people by listening more and speaking less this is gonna be fucking hard yeah this is gonna be very hard cut that if and out yeah that's another one that's another one actually you know what guys my short-term goal is to watch my delivery and listen more speak less cuss a lot less yeah look guys you're gonna be putting money in that swear jar the older she gets her first words gonna be it won't be that chicken running around the house it would not be that because i will be better okay i will be a lot better because you know what i am a representation of our family yes and i want to be better because I have spent my 20s kind of just floating around

and I really look forward to my 30s of really just delivering and setting a bar on my own standard. And you guys can keep me accountable. That's the best part about having everybody here

with their opinions. Yeah. I enjoy them and you know what? Sometimes they're valid because I have been a dick because I was hurt this season of how I went on a national because I was hurt this season of how

I went on a national television show and had to talk about the hardest things I've had to deal with. Yeah. I mean, you really got initiated full force. Like, yeah, there was no foreplay. It was just straight to it. There's no lube at all. Anyway, honey, what's your New Year's resolution?

Give me a short term and a long term. I guess they kind of go hand in hand, but I just want to be the best mom I can be. I really want to work on my fears. I'm trying to not worry every day that something's going to happen to her. I really want to be better about that, and I don't know how I can be.

I just want to focus on her and all the good and not what could go wrong. Honey, I really want to be better about that, and I don't know how I can be. I just want to focus on her and all the good and not what could go wrong. Honey, I love you. We will do that together. We'll figure out a way to help you get through that. I promise. I just, I want to be the best mom to her. You are above the best. I want to keep pumping milk for

her, you know, three more months. I got it. So, um, that's my goal. Yeah, and I really want to kick ass in the gym. I want it. That's my goal. I really want to kick ass in the gym. I want to get back to our workouts. We got a treadmill up here that I don't run or walk on as much as I should. We just moved down here. You said this yourself. I actually commented and you're like, well, we just moved here

and I agree. We need to get back in our swing of things. It's the winter, but it's our beach house for the winter. I think when we have our three months down, we get to really focus on being us. And I think this is great for us as a family.

We have to start the new year together. Yeah. Down here. And listen, honey, you bring so much light to my life and I love you so much.

And Summer does too. You are the perfect balance of me and you for her. Thanks, honey. Well, thank you guys so much for listening. Goodbye. Goodbye, 2021. Hello, 2022 you guys so much for listening. Goodbye. Goodbye, 2021.

Hello, 2022. It's been real. Yes. We will be back next week with my little Bambi princess, Raquel. Yeah. Thanks for listening, guys. Bye. Bye.

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