Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - IT’S ALL HAPPENING

Episode Date: October 28, 2020

Rainbows are real and Scheana and Brock are finally getting their rainbow baby! The two sit down in their San Diego home and reflect back on the day it happened, the day she found out she was pregnant and their entire journey. Plus, they answer some of your burning questions! Scheananigans with Scheana Shay is produced by ACTIONPARK MEDIA. Follow us on Instagram: @scheana @scheananigans @actionparkmediagroupSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea. Now, before we get going, I'd like to get everyone's feedback after today's podcast, okay? Let me know if you enjoy the podcast, if you like the flow of it, and if we're onto something here. Yeah. So welcome back to Shenanigans, everyone. If you didn't already guess, I guess I said it last week, but my guest is my boyfriend, Brock Davies. We have a fun, exciting show planned for you. How are we doing, baby? How are you? I'm good, honey. How are you doing? Surviving. It's been a battle. It's been a long weeks put together, but we're getting there.

It's been an exciting few months. That's for sure. I guess, yeah. It wasn't depressing when I just said that. It's been busy. It's been fun. It's been a lot. Yeah.

But it's been a lot of good. Let's rock and roll. It's been a lot of good. Let's rock and roll. Okay. So I want to go back to the first day we moved in to this house. And let's talk about what happened. Well, I mean, we all probably know what should have happened the first night in this house.

And it definitely did happen. And now we have a memorable moment from that. We do. Yeah. We definitely christened this house. I looked at her sideways. The day we moved in. From the side of my eye, I looked at her and boom. And boom, I'm pregnant.

Bola boom. Yay. Oh. And the fireworks go off. We were expecting more, but it's just us two podcasting in our house. But we're pregnant, guys. And I mean, for those of you who have been following my fertility journey, that's exactly what it's been. It's been a journey from freezing my eggs twice last year to being told I could probably never get naturally pregnant on my own to now getting pregnant twice this year on my own.

Well, with the help of you. Yeah, that's a 50-50 job. It takes two definitely to do that job. Yes, it does. I am so happy. Everything is good. The numbers are good. The genetics are good.

We are 14 and a half weeks pregnant. Yeah. Due in April. The little one's in there going strong, baby. Yes, the little one is. Mm-hmm. Okay. We just got to remind ourselves to say little one.

The little one. Yes. Yes, our little nugget, because we're not finding out what we're having just yet. So, okay. How do we get there? Obviously, we went through- Well, when a man loves a woman.

Oh, yeah, there's that one. Well, when a man loves a woman. Oh, yeah, there's that one. Well, I mean, actually, I want to address the one in the room, which would be my golfing addiction and where we went before this. Because obviously, if you didn't know already, we went through a miscarriage. And that was my first public outing as us being together. That was my first public outing and showing you guys and bringing you guys and bringing

you guys into the world of us sorry i can't explain that so obviously could i handle it differently yes did i handle it appropriately i believe yes okay run down obviously we're going through a miscarriage we were dealing with this for like two days then we actually finally got the confirmation she went to the hospital with her mom i was in san diego uh working in san diego and then i got the call from sheena that morning that it was a confirmed there was no heartbeat um and so i was coming home that evening to come home um obviously in hindsight i should have come straight home after work but I finished work early and I was like, I want to go play a round of golf with the boys just to do my thing, just to clear my head.

And here's the thing. A lot of people, I know we talked about this last time and then obviously it was brought up on Instagram and it was this whole thing. But going back to that day, I was extremely upset. I didn't let him off the hook easy by any means. I was devastated that day. I went to the doctor the day before, found out there was no heartbeat. The day before.

The day before. I then drove back to Palm Springs that night because I really wanted to be with my kitties. I knew Brock had to be in San Diego for work. So I knew he wasn't going to be there that night. But he promised the next day after work to drive up. He was coming to be with me. He had to work. One of us has to work.

You know, I mean, this is my work. But at the time, the gym had just opened back up. He needed to be there. It was very important. I understood that. He needed to be there. It was very important. I understood that. He was still driving up. I feel like people think that you just like left me like high and dry for like a week. And I'm like, no, you still drove out of your way two and a half hours each way to sleep with me for four hours to drive straight back to open up the gym in the morning.

I know. It could have been longer. I was playing golf. I finished work earlier. Anyway's just a synopsis on that one. I just think I want to make it very clear. Like my missus didn't have a miscarriage and I didn't find out on the phone call and decide to go play golf. Exactly. I handled it how I handled it. I still came out. I think that whole situation, I just wanted to clarify that because there's always a viewpoint and I understand a viewpoint. I'm the most viewpoint person out there. There's a circle. You can look

at it from any side. I get that. So just to go back on that, you were still there for me. And that's where I think people think that you just like, weren't there. I'm like, well, I mean, we wouldn't be in a situation pregnant if I wasn't there for you. You know? Of course. Our whole relationship has been a very great one. And fortunate for us, it hasn't been on a show. Yeah. I'm not excited about going back to when you go back to filming. I am for you, but I don't know how that's going to be perceived. Like, I am and I'm not.

I mean, but we also, we don't know what's going on. To be fair, that's true. So it's like, you know, I mean, I can't get excited about. To be honest, I am am excited you guys get a little bit of brocky and sheena i got your back hopefully you got a new a new view of uh of sheena when you guys get back on the film that'll be awesome but anyway let's jump back into it so obviously that's our relationship distant in palm springs we're living and we moved in together made the decision and bloody hell look at this place place. I'm so, I love having our friends down here, your friends coming down here. We get to host. It's just,

it's the place to be. And apparently day one in the building, we christened this place and up the duff she goes. I just, from that day, I just, I knew it because Brock and I had talked after the miscarriage and it was really hard. And I knew from my doctor, he said, the best chance you have of getting naturally pregnant and having a healthy pregnancy is to wait one cycle, one ovulation, and then to try again. So that was my plan. But I know it was really hard on Brock. And he was like, you know, maybe we don't try right away. Figure out what's going on with my gym. Figure out what's going on with your show.

Let's just enjoy living together for you know like six months and the big the biggest one on that one is is the judgment that we get because i have had a previous life to being over here yeah and and i have my kids back in australia and it's like i don't want i don't want sheena's joyful and our joyful pregnancy to be blinded by or shade thrown at it due to my past. And obviously people, especially women, single moms out there love to have an opinion about the matter. And I respect their opinion. You know, like I said, there's different ways to look at a circle. They don't understand our relationship that I've had with my kids or the kid's mom and the kid's mom's amazing all right she's doing a great job

raising the kids with her new hubby with her new daughter and again my kids are going to have like another step brother or sister you know so i just wanted to bring that one up too i feel like i'm just doing a lot of airing out there laundry because you guys don't know much about our life people see it on social media but you don't really know much so being excited about the announcement also came with like after the miscarriage was having that conversation with myself with you and really pushing to make sure that okay what i'm doing the right steps to do right by my kids doing the right steps to be right by my future kids and by you and and during this pandemic you've really helped me with that we're talking with my kids back home and we're pushing

for that so i thought i was that was judge, babe. I was worried about people assuming, assuming, because that's all people do is they assume. And, and, and unfortunately on your scale of, of people and audiences, it's a big one. So we just wanted to work that out really quick, not that one out. And I mean, it's not gonna, it's not gonna be, it's not a hundred percent clear. No, it's going to take some time, but you've allowed me to work on that. And so when I realized that that happened, we had a miscarriage and you do want me to keep my relationship strong for my two kids back in Australia, like that meant a lot to me.

So when it came to us having a kid again, yeah, that's what I want. I was, I'm into it. So then all of a sudden I looked at you with one eye open in the middle of the night and boom, you're preggers. So I'm happy. Yeah. So literally the first day we're in this house and I was like, okay, look, I know like we talked about maybe waiting, but just so you know, we just did the thing that gets girls pregnant. So if I miss my period in a few weeks, just expect that. So now here we are, our first week in our new house. And I just had a feeling I was pregnant. But then I was convincing myself I wasn't because I didn't want to be disappointed if I wasn't.

Because I knew that might be my only shot while, you know, ovulating and all of this the month after, like my doctor said. So there was like a three week mind fuck where I'm like, am I am I not like I don't know. So I'm like treating myself as if I am, which, again, just going back to the miscarriage when I it was just it was a mind fuck. That was the best way to describe it. And coming up, we have my sister's birthday in Sedona. And that's the weekend I would have missed my period. And I'm like, I can't wait until we go to Sedona to miss my period because it's on a weekend. I'm going to need to talk to my doctor.

And we can't go off roading. There's activities and things we're doing that I should not be doing if I'm pregnant. I just, I know this. So if y'all saw my Sedona vlog, the off-roading quote unquote that I did was literally just us driving up and down the street to get a few shots and then going so slow

to like the very bottom of this canyon where when I saw a few bumps ahead I got out of the razor it was a slow razor ride and I was like you know what like we we got some shots for the vlog like I don't want to fake this I don't want to risk anything there's too many bumps we rent a razor i spent half the time in that razor driving two miles of two miles looking like we're trying to pretend to off-road yeah but it was i mean obviously i'm not upset about it no we got some good photos we got some some shots for the vlog but i was like you know honey just take me back to the hotel i'm going to the pool i'm gonna go read a book you guys go the worst the worst part about that

babe when we were off-roading was it wasn't why i had go read a book and you guys go the worst part about that babe we went off-roading was it wasn't well I had you out there I dropped you off at the hotel I'm like all right ladies and gentlemen it's rock and roll so I go ahead I get a speaker out I put my speaker boot to speaker in the car it's just me and my car your system just in the front car and then we go like a half mile down the road to the first track the the first off-roading track. It's like a massive car. Anyway, we get there, and what do I do? I floor it so hard on the first corner. I fishtail out of the first corner.

We'll go towards the ditch and hit the biggest rock that you shouldn't hit and blow a tire. I'm so glad we got the tire insurance, by the way. It was like $12, which there's so many times you just turn down those little extra add-ons. But I was like, this guy driving, he thinks he's a good driver. One second into the drive, I hit it and curbed it. Yeah.

That was funny. So yeah, that was our Razor trip to Sedona. What else do we have, Jaren? Yeah, well, so before Sedona, so I want to talk about, I want to go back a couple days and talk about when I found out and I called you because it was a very similar phone call to the first time when I call, I FaceTime him. He's sitting in his F45 shirt at the gym and I'm like, walk away right now, get away from people. And he's like, oh shit, what did I do? Immediately I'm like, it right now get away from people and he's like oh shit what did I do immediately I'm like it's like when you get pulled over by the police you know you

didn't do anything but you think you've done something so you go you go through the checklist of shit you've just done that could be illegal and then she's like walk away I was like should I've done that I like the girl's photo on Instagram 20 minutes ago oh I like the other one's photo that is one thing I've never looked at with any guy i've ever dated i don't look at who you follow i don't look at your activity who you like who you comment on i don't care i think if someone if someone gets upset about that that's ridiculous like come on bro and especially effortless with the amount of good looking women you do look at for like your home body you know i mean i, I would go crazy if I was the jealous

insecure type. Cause I see asses on your Instagram all the time. And I was like, Ooh, is she going to be one of your coaches? I'm not like, who's that? Who's that bitch? I got, I got my, I got my account and I got my new home body account and my home body has got a whole bunch of fit chicks. If you want to look up hot chicks on Instagram and not have your girlfriend or wife get upset, start a fitness app. Recruit. Oh, that's Sarah. She's one of my coaches.

I'm stuck in the roster for my coaches. So yeah, so I call him. I'm like, you need to walk away right now. And I just like, and you guys can see this in my vlog which is also out today you'll see our entire journey up until now you see our phone call and i was so nervous like i was like shaking when i was holding the camera i'm trying to film with my vlog camera the facetime and it's just your forehead so i don't even think i got like your initial reaction awesome you hear your voice but I was like holding it,

but I'm looking at you. I'm trying to like double film here. You were out of your mind. Freaking out. And then I like hold up the pregnancy stick and he just like starts laughing. Yeah. Because I guess for me.

Not surprised at all. Not surprised. For me, I'm just like. I'm shaking. Yeah. I did my job, you know. I'm shaking. Yeah. I did my job, you know? I'm glad. But I was also shaking because I was terrified of going through what we went through again.

So as much as, you know, the first time I was also terrified because I've never been pregnant in my life. I'm 35 years old. I was like, or I was 30. Yeah, I was 35. Just turned 35. And I was like, oh my God. Oh my God. But, you know, I got nine months to figure this out. Like we got this, but a lot of women,

you know, see that they're pregnant on a pregnancy sick and are so excited. And the second time, as much as I wanted to be excited, I was terrified because I'm like, okay, so then we're going to plan a whole life for this kid again, get excited and then possibly be let down. Like it was terrifying. Yeah. No, it's, and obviously obviously we went through we've gone through that before so i my laugh wasn't laugh it was just like of course you're like i knew it exactly one time literally and i was like it i know when it happened it was half a time it was like one eye open i looked at her when i was half asleep and like and then you're like oh wait anyway too late i guess the beauty of that was with the anxiety that comes with everything we've gone through before you had we had great doctors they helped you out a lot yeah man these guys were emailing her on sunday results just so she got her results

in time so i have who was that what was your doctor dr payman benuni in beverly hills benuni thank you dr benuni for like he would get results and email us on sunday because he knew that sheena wasn't sleeping she was stressing out about these numbers and that so yeah so every week i had to do blood work yeah to make sure my levels were still good because i now know i'm like i feel like i've gone to medical school in 2020 what numbers your levels should be between for progesterone for estrogen for hcg how much they should go up every day every other day every she was looking so much into it I was doing a lot of research she literally if you looked at her head I'm your girl yeah she looked at those things all

you could see is just like this the calculations going off my babe just relax wait another week because we had a downside didn't we there was one point where what numbers in the first trimester your progesterone should be between 11 and 44 just know that so the first pregnancy the first time i got blood work it was like 7.9 then it dropped to 4.1 and it it should never be that low. It shouldn't go below 11. 12 hours ago or 11? Well, I mean, 11 is the lowest it should be. So, I mean, I wanted it to be 20 something, you know, but our first few weeks of doing blood work, we were at 16, then 18, then it dropped to 14, but it went back up to 17.5. And then week seven I think it was it went down to 11.9 and just seeing that 11 I was like no no no freaking out we're on our way to Joshua Tree for Raquel's birthday

they don't know I'm pregnant they were literally the two people James and Raquel I think it was the hardest to keep it from because we see them every week little did we know yeah Raquel saw she's an angel man she saw the clear blue wrapper in my trash and didn't say anything though because she's like you know it wasn't like I saw a positive test in the trash so she was so sweet and didn't say anything but she knew she was like that's why she wasn't ziplining in Catalina. That's why she was making mocktails in Joshua Tree. That's why she doesn't want to get on a bird scooter.

And that's why they're our favorite. Like, they're pretty cool. She's on to it. Raquel's a beautiful gem. Thank you, Raquel, for being so thoughtful. Yes. Yeah. Yeah.

So, okay, to back it up, I get this phone call when I'm on my way to Joshua Tree from my doctor, but the day before he put me back on progesterone pills just to keep my numbers good until the placenta could take over and the baby was able to get all the nutrients that way. In the meantime, the baby gets all the nutrients in the first trimester in those first few weeks from progesterone. So I get on progesterone medication. We redo my blood work a few days later he calls me and i think it was 49 and i'm like holy shit what like i was so shook but then i was like wait is it too high and then i'm like freaking out that it's too high and he's like i

know i can never win with this call me a hypochondriac is that what you are i call you a hypochondriac and you say, that's not what I am. You say it when you say I'm overreacting, you call me a hypochondriac. Well, because you overreact over things. No, but it's a different thing. You don't use it in the right context. Well, regardless, some people say crazy. I say hypochondriac, whatever.

You know what you are. Whatever. So we find out the medication's working. I stayed on that for the next few weeks until we went to my 10-week appointment. So they first got me in at eight weeks because technically at 35, I don't know why the fuck they use the word geriatric. It's because you're middle-aged. No, I'm not.

No, I'm not. Excuse me. In the medical term, you at your age is considered a high risk. Yes, it is. Purely by age. I considered a high risk. Yes, it is. Purely by age. I am considered high risk. Considered as middle-aged. It didn't say middle-aged.

Difference. I don't know what you're talking about. Anyways, so yes, they got me in at eight weeks. We saw the heartbeat. We saw the little flicker. But then when we got in for our 10-week appointment, which is normal with COVID right now, they're usually not seeing women until 10 weeks unless they're high risk.

So we got in at our 10 week appointment and that's when we heard the heartbeat for the first time and found out I can now get off the progesterone medication. The placenta has taken over the baby's getting its nutrients that way. So we got good news that day but we're still technically in the first trimester it wasn't until the next appointment week 12 it was 12 weeks five days i couldn't bring brock with me to this appointment but they had the cutest covid dad setup which faced the huge it was like a i don't know like a 50 inch television screen they had a little phone like uh stand whole setup for the daddy cam daddy cam and that was when we got our like 4d crazy scan where you could see the blood pumping through the four chambers of the heart. You see the blue, you see the red.

Oh, that was in the foreskin. That was just like the ultrasound. So in it, they can go ahead, yeah. Yeah. Find the heart chamber, check it out, see if it's working. Measured every single bone. Like we got all our genetics results back. Everything was negative.

I'm 100% clean. Yeah. All organically godly. Yeah, Brock's perfect so that's awesome this is the one time when I'm like I really hope you're as perfect as you think you are because usually it's annoying

but in this case, awesome I'm glad we're there so everything has been good we're now in our second trimester and we're like okay, it's time we can tell people keeping it a secret was tough Everything has been good. We're now in our second trimester and we're like, okay, it's time. We can tell people.

Keeping it a secret was tough. It was really tough. I'm trying to, I'm trying to, I'm, I'm making up reasons why I'm just driving up to LA for a business. Oh, I gotta go up to LA to see the doctor. My, my business partners are like, bro, what the fuck? There's plenty of doctors down here, bro. And obviously I knew that they'll all understand and they'll all be excited, but I just didn't want to, again, go for that publicly, even if I was with my friends you know so I wanted to wait and then

plus now we can we can really enjoy it and celebrate it with them and go for like I'm slipping it up every now and then I'm talking to people and they're crying about it and that gets me a little upset like my best friend Casper yeah a good friend of mine Casper's coming out here and so like hearing his stories and I was like yeah i can share this with people now so i'm glad we kept it a secret and we did what we did yeah it was pretty tough i think an awkward awkward yet interesting moment was when we went to britney's baby shower it wasn't a baby shower it was a reveal yeah the gender the sex reveal yes there. See, 2020 baby got brought right. We went to her sex reveal and then everyone was pregnant there and all that.

And obviously you got a lot of questions like, Oh, how do you feel about that? And so we just, I'm okay lying. I'll show it. I'll be like, yeah, we're good. We're not pregnant. I go around the truth. Like where people are like, Oh, are you not drinking? Cause you're like cleansing or are you pregnant? And I'll just like thumbs up the like cleansing text.

I'm like, you know, just not drinking right now. Like I can't lie. I'm too honest. I straight up go, no, we're not pregnant. I've said it to heaps of people. So they're going to look at me now and be like, you lied to me. Literally today, you're going to get so many texts being like, you liar. I knew it.

I knew it. I wasn't lying. I was just protecting ourself. Okay. There's a difference between that lie for sure. For sure. Protecting ourself. Okay. There's a difference between that life for sure.

For sure. So yes, finally, we are 14 and a half weeks. So excited that everything's good. We can share it with the world. I'm starting to get a little bit of a bump. Don't rub it in. You're looking good. Thank you.

But I'm saying now I don't have to wear a baggy t-shirt everywhere because I'm worried about someone seeing that I've put on some quarantine pounds when it's really 10 pounds a baby. It's just quarantine pounds in there. Let's, let's not cheat ourselves out of that. I didn't gain weight in quarantine. I lost weight oddly. Maybe I was just the one gave away. I was just the one gave away.

Cool. Fine. Thanks. I was just projecting just then. That's funny. Baby shower. What else did we get up to? Well, we had a baby shower earlier that day so before britney's reveal my best friend stacy who if you guys have been following the podcast

was a little upset with me after the flashbacks podcast i did with her sister jessica hall let's not talk about it no but you know stacy, Stacy, my best friend. So we hadn't talked in quite a few weeks. And I was just like, you know, I know she's pregnant. She has hormones, but like the whole time I'm like, I'm pregnant. I have hormones. Like I need my best friend. I want to go through this with her together. So I was just like, you know, I'm just gonna wait till I see her in person. So I see her at her baby shower. She walks up. She immediately gives me the biggest hug. She was like, what do you drink? Because they had this cute little preset menu. It was an Aperol Spritz or a mimosa. She goes, oh, which one did you choose to drink? Drink another one

for me. I was like, oh, I can't. I think I said the words like I can't drink instead of I'm not drinking. Honey, you give away the easiest leads to I want you to know that I'm pregnant. Well, I also was telling her that day. Yeah, I know. You love it. You're like, I'm like, babe, just straight up lie. Like avoid the truth just because it's so much easier than trying to.

If anyone asks you, you know what I mean? Like you just avoid the question. By avoiding the question, you're answering that question for them. Whatever, I was telling her that day anyways. In her present, there was a card with an ultrasound photo. She was finding out that day. I know.

But immediately she yells across the entire, I mean, granted, there was like 15, 20 people there. Yelling. Across the shower, she's like, you're pregnant? And I was like, no, dumbass. I'm driving back to San Diego. I'm not going to drink and drive. And she's like, oh pregnant and I was like no dumbass I'm driving back to San Diego I'm not gonna drink and drive and she's like oh and then she runs over to me and she gives me a hug and she goes squeeze me twice if it's true and then she starts bawling she's like oh my god now everyone's gonna ask why I'm crying I was like just so you're excited to see me like we you know

like we hadn't talked in like the last like month and a half so you're just like excited to see me and then I gave her the card and she's like I can't read this right now I'm gonna cry I'm gonna cry and it was the best baby shower ever it was so exciting to drink this non-alcoholic champagne with my best friend who we've had our own pregnancy pact since we were 21 years old we always said we were gonna get pregnant together but when she was pregnant with her first it was kind of towards the end of my marriage and I was like I know we kind of made a pact, but like, I can't get knocked up right now. Yeah. We're going to have to save it for baby number two. And then the day that I reached out to her to let her know I was having a miscarriage before I can even get the words out

and the text to her, she sends me her pregnancy announcement and it was just like i was so happy for her and so gutted at the same time because i was like oh we could have been going through this together and now we are she's doing like a month and a half but we still get to go through this together and her kids gotta grow up together and oh yeah they're hanging out i guarantee you her and her mom gonna be dropping those kids off oh my god do we put vanita on the spot we put her on the spot she put herself on the spot oh my god stacy and jessica's mom i absolutely adore she's like my second fun party mom she's amazing she's a weapon she's she potty. So Brock had on some roll tight jeans at the baby shower. And apparently the talk of the shower after Brock left was about Brock's big package.

I get a phone call from her mom and stepdad that night asking if I'm okay. And I was like, yeah, I'm great. And they go, but does Brock hurt you? Excuse me? Like, what do you mean? Like physically, emotionally? Like, no, but does Brock hurt you? Excuse me? Like, what do you mean? Like physically, emotionally,

like, no, he doesn't hurt me. And they're like, we saw his jeans. Does he hurt you? And it was hilarious. It was,

it was even more funny because when she had that conversation with you, she thought I was in the room. Cause I was upstairs playing video games. She said, is Brock home? And I said, yeah, you were home. You weren't listening in the conversation. I was upstairs playing video games she said is Brock home and I said yeah you were home you weren't listening in the conversation I was upstairs so she then yeah I saw our announcement she's like don't stand in front of me I can't look at you I was like why

she's like you heard me on the phone I was like I didn't hear anything on the phone she's like oh you're lying I was like I heard third person that you think I got a massive wang but she was like oh my god you know it was just funny it was a good laugh yeah so this weekend i tricked my whole family because no one else in the family knew other than my sister my mom and dad and justice obviously i tricked them all into coming to my aunt d's house for a surprise anniversary party for my parents but in reality it was our announcement party and no one had any idea till they walked up you guys will be able to see this on my vlog next week and right when you walk up there were like signs that say like plot twist surprises on

you and that's when everyone found out like wait we're not here for an anniversary party sheena's pregnant oh my god and it was so awesome it was it was fun it was yeah it was good to see i mean raquel again was one of our highlights because we were looking forward to telling her it was so cute and you'll see this in my vlog as well next week i I had Raquel, Kristen and Brittany, Tom and Ariana, I had them all like vlog themselves either getting ready for the party or showing up or whatever. And so Raquel's video, she sent me last night

and it's so adorable. She's in the car driving and she's like, so I have a theory about this luncheon and then goes into her whole theory of it's not really a luncheon. It's really an announcement and I'm pregnant. And she's a little smart cookie, that one. Yeah. She figured it out.

She Nancy Drewed it. And yeah, so we had that this weekend, which I'll get into more on next week's podcast because I do still want to get into some questions on this one. We just wanted to let you guys know that we are pregnant. So thanks for following along the journey, and we've got a long one ahead of us. But I thought it would be fun just to touch base

on a bit of what we've been going on. Obviously, outside of the show completely, this whole relationship's not even on the show. i know it's on youtube though so go check out my vlog coming coming our way and then production's got a good job coming their way let's try and make sure these angry hormonal women stay in the same room without killing each other i don't even want to think about that it's okay no all right before we get into questions honey did we hit all the points that you wanted to mention? Guys, she's giving me a stick because I'm not a preacher.

But I'm being serious. Is there something important we missed? We did really well. I think we followed the – I wanted the list of like a conversation line so I knew where we were in this conversation and where we can go through it. I just know that we bounce around because then from here, I think about something there, and then from here, I think about something there and then from there,

I go back to here. And so I just talk, but Brock needs a little more structure to his conversation. Let me know if you guys enjoyed how this podcast was. So it wasn't all over the show. Okay?

Okay. I think we did a really good job at sticking to the track. We got off beating track here and there. We get back on there. I like this. I like this too. Let us know if you guys like this.

Okay. Now we'll jump into some Q&As. But did we hit all your points, honey? Yes. Okay. Okay. We hit all my points. There was just one more point in there saying that I'm going to be the best dad ever.

Yeah, you are. And that you're in love with me. Massively handsome. Big Willie. And what other points did we miss? Lover's hair as well. I think you wanted to say something about my hair. Oh, yes.

How into me you are. And yeah, keep it going. Yeah. Just make sure you hit those points. I'm glad you hit all of those points. Check, check, check. Thanks, honey. So the main question, I just, I actually, I want to say this before we get into all

the questions. I really appreciate that you guys. Appreciate? Say that again. Appreciate. Is it appreciate? I appreciate. Oh, okay.

Appreciate. How do you say it? Appreciate. Appreciate. Appreciate. I was trying. Yeah. And it's aluminum foil.

I was just checking. Okay. Keep going. Immaculant. Immaculant. Exclose instead of disclose. Yeah. You just make up words. Okay. Oraculant. Immaculant. Exclose instead of disclose. Yeah, you just make up words.

Okay, or this and this. Whatever. I really appreciate that not all of the questions this time were baby, baby, baby. I think that you guys have listened to me and read my posts and really respected the fact that I just said, especially because, I mean, I am pregnant. I've been pregnant for the last 14 weeks. So when people are asking me, it wasn't a trigger because I am pregnant, but I was just thinking like, what if we were trying and we didn't get pregnant again, that could be really hard to see all the

time. And for any woman who is trying and suffering with infertility to constantly be asked, you know, you've been married this long. When are you having kids? When are you having kids? You just, you don't know someone struggles. And it's just not a question anyone should ask a woman. So I am so shocked that there were only two questions out of the hundreds that came through about a baby. There was one, are you trying for a baby? And there was one, do you guys have any plans to use your frozen eggs? And there was one, do you guys have any plans to use your frozen eggs?

And I would say if we go through a few natural, or a few, a couple. Yeah, a few. Natural pregnancies. I mean, ideally, you know, a boy and a girl. But I think if we had two boys or if we had two girls, we would use a frozen egg to guarantee the opposite sex. Yeah. To answer that question. I guess that question's so far in the future let's see

let's get through baby baby number one but i'm just really thankful that you guys did listen and the majority of questions were actually good questions and not just about baby stuff but the one thing that was about 85 of the questions were when you're getting married when that was my mom's first question oh my god it was mom was. Oh, mom, come on. Straight away, she was like, when are you going to get married? Yeah. I told her about the kid and she was like, awesome. So you're going to get married soon?

I was like, mom, come on now. I think we're very, very open about this. I think there's going to be a longer engagement than a normal engagement. Yeah. But there will be a ring on it, 100%. I don't think she's going anywhere. And if that means, if it makes her feel more comfortable having a ring on it, then I'm more than happy doing that. Yes. Okay. It's just about timing and that is up to myself. Yeah. Okay. So when the time is right, the questions will be asked. If you want to come to

the wedding, it's going to be in Bali.i okay i think that we'll also like have a longer engagement like we're not in a rush to get married we are both divorced so not in a rush but we plan to be together so one day we will see i like this question here from uh j Rake, R-A-K. She goes, what's the best relationship advice? Mate, no one can give any advice for a relationship because no one understands what that relationship is. That's my opinion on the relationship advice. No matter what relationship, I think communication is the most important thing because if something is bothering you and you just let it build up and

then you have like harbor resentment I think that's a terrible thing in a relationship if you communicate with something right off the bat that's bothering you you get to the root of the problem and you can work through it I think that's the best advice I have is to just be honest and upfront with how you're feeling sometimes Sometimes honest and upfront is hard. I mean, I know me and you feel like we have a brutally honest conversation sometimes. And sometimes I think me and you filter ourselves. So it's just do your best. But at the same time, it's like, just make sure you're happy. That's my advice for a relationship.

As long as you feel loved, because sometimes you're not going to feel loved, because you're arguing. I argue with you sometimes. But at the end of the day, I know I feel loved by you. So that's my, as long as you feel loved, then it's up to you to interpretate, interpretate. Oh, fuck. Here we go.

Interpretate your own ways of that relationship. I'm out. Damn it. Interpretate. All right. Next question. Kelly Lee, 87. Does Brock, like most of the vanderpump cast past and current

who he's met i would do not want to comment no i i enjoy um obviously i came into the scene into the group not knowing about the bravo network and all that like seeing it not knowing about it all right so i gave everyone an opportunity i, and then everyone gave me an opportunity a hundred percent. And then I gravitated to people that I gravitated to. I don't not like people in the group. I think people have different opinions, which is what we're all entitled to. That's what makes us human.

Yeah. And so that doesn't mean we all have to like each other, but if you put us all in the room, will we get along? Yeah. If I got, if I got, if I had to drive to people's houses, there'll be a different story. Yeah.

That's my interpretation on friends. Roger That XO wants to know who came up with the merch idea and when will there be shirts? I feel like, honestly, honey, it was kind of more your idea than mine. I've always wanted to sell merch of some sort. And I've thought about that with like shenanigans, but I just never really had. I think for me, my, my one is my, I love business. I love the idea of building a network or building and building a brand. And you know, that's the, if anyone's listening to this, that's at home, that doesn't know what they can do during a pandemic, mate, look and look at yourself and build your brand, you know. And I just saw Sheena had such an amazing brand

and the story she could tell because of what she's done and the hard work she's put into it and the bullshit she's put up with. So I acknowledge that too. But I just really saw an opportunity for her to knuckle down and be like, look, babe, you are boy crazy. Let's be honest.

I was girl crazy. I found my woman, you found your man. Like, but it's at that point is understanding like people, when they say things should always be taken with a grain of salt and then taken into account because that's their opinion. So I always thought,

and I think the brand for you and Boy Crazy, I mean, we've got some turnoffs, like some generates that we want to create from it. Like I want to get Kristen, like give her her own brand, like a little special limited edition and just have just crazy just crazy on it but i think that's very funny like and i don't want her to think i don't think she's crazy because i don't think she's just crazy he's making you crazy exactly so embrace if you're going to learn

to embrace those faults that you that people perceive you as and instead of taking them as like negative which what sheena did often you know? People should get upset when she called her middle age. Sorry, honey, you're 35. I'm 30. We're getting up there. But I'm not middle age. Not technically, but you're in the middle of that age group. Okay?

Oh my God. Who cares? Live your life. We got all that. You've lived 35 years without me. If I'm middle age, then I'm dying at 70. That's young. Well, yeah, you're not doing that, woman.

Okay, then. We're not dying, yeah. Don't say I'm middle age. All right, honey, you're coming up to middle-age, and so am I. But it's okay. Yeah. It means we've got all the experience. Brock was the one who was on the phone and via emails and all this with the manufacturers,

getting the beanies done, making sure the font was right when it wasn't right, getting new samples sent out. He was working on this for the first couple months of quarantine for me. And honestly, I don't think I would have done it or could have done it without him. So thank you, honey. You guys, yeah, I love you, honey. I love you too.

But you got to get some more fire under your wood or whatever, wood under your fire. You got to stoke it a little bit more. You got such there, like just build it up. Anyway, I'll build your fire for now until you realize what you got. Thanks, honey. So thank you guys for supporting that. Yes.

And proving me right yet again. I love being right. I love being proved right. It's good. I think it's going to be fun. Going into winter, the merch is going to be good. And yes. We are going to be expanding.

I think hoodies are next. Crop tops. Cropped hoodies. We'll do t-shirts and hats. Yeah. But I think next up is going to be expanding. I think hoodies are next. Crop tops, cropped hoodies. We'll do t-shirts and hats. But I think next up is going to be hoodies. I've been talking to a new manufacturer who I'm going to work with on that. They're based out of Las Vegas. So yeah, we're expanding.

I wanted to start small and see how it did. See if there's even any interest to wear any apparel that has boy crazy especially written across your forehead and you know what they're selling like crazy so it's awesome and we're going to expand but I learned my lesson from doing the four athletics line and having too many options and that not doing so great and being overpriced that I was like okay we got to do this the right way. And I think we're doing it the right way. We also just launched this week.

Our it's all happening masks. Those are unisex. They have the adjustable ears. So they're good for men and women. Get on there guys. I appreciate you guys looking in there. Yeah. This is a great question.

I'm into this one. It is from Stephanie dot T dot four. I'd love to see you and Sheena on the Amazing Race, Survivor, or Celebrity Big Brother. We've already talked about this briefly. And obviously, if it was a situation, I would love to do the Amazing Race or Survivor. Yeah. I would never do Survivor. Amazing Race would be our thing.

Celebrity Big Brother, if I could do that with a partner, I would absolutely do that. And Amazing Race, I think, would be so much fun. But I don't know if they're going to be able to do that show again. Amazing Race? Yeah. You know, traveling the world. Traveling the world or running past people and avoiding contact. It's not really ideal right now.

Well, when it comes back, Amazing Race. I would love that. I'm in. Lock us down. We will be on the first episode back, season back. Maybe. 100%. Lock it in.

Yeah. I'll have the baby strapped to me. Backpack and baby, we're good. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Okay. Are you doing Halloween? And what are your costumes?

We can't talk about our costumes yet. I know, but I also like Halloween. Why can't we talk about our costumes? Because I'm not going to say that yet. That's going to be a little fun surprise post that we're going to post in a couple weeks. It's a cute, creative costume. Oh, okay. Creative aspect.

Yeah. I miss original Halloween. We're obviously not going to have that. I really missed our occasion last year when we were in Australia. I just put a mustache on and pretended to be Freddie Mercury. I wanted to be Beauty and the Beast. Yeah, I really, really dropped the ball on that one. So I look forward to when Halloween comes back.

Yes. And we are going to, we've got a good costume set up for that one. We have a couple of good ideas. We've got some fun ones. So to be decided, you'll see them follow along on the YouTube channel and keep that going on there as well. Annie D 1120. What is the one question you're tired of answering? I mean, I just feel like a lot of the questions every time I ask for questions are marriage

and babies. So it's just, I just like it when people are a little more creative and it gives us something more interesting to talk about because that's just, it's like the same thing. You know, we can answer that. We answer it. But then it's like, I feel like we have to answer it all the time. So I got one. This is a good one.

What do you miss most about Australia, honey? I mean, your family, obviously. But I just, I love Australia. I saw there was another question that came in that asked if we're going to raise our kids in Australia or the US or both. And I would love to... Bilateral training. That was from Miss underscore Gigi.

Yes. I would love to have a place in both countries. Yep. I would love to see all the kids in Australia and when they come over on their holidays over here and then vice versa on our holidays go over there um that's something we want to work towards that's the goal um I mean when I just call back home like with everything going on right now in America with like I know now don't don't be like well if you don't like America get the hell out I love America

I'm not leaving okay but Australia is just very simple in the way of thinking. And it's very less confusing for my head. And maybe that's because I'm simple. I'm okay with being simple if that's the case. I called home the other day, I missed it. And yeah, I was talking to the family and that was like the biggest one. I was like, wow, it's just so simple back home. And I really, I think with that simple thoughts, you have so much more clarity in your head to do other things so the the living in australia is definitely going to be a part of us we're going to be back home often um obviously because my kids especially after the pandemic and then the goal will be holidays so holidays for australia are separate so they can come over here which would be amazing to show them snow and i love yeah that winter it's so cool here is summer there so yeah that's funny it's great love ray lee wants to know and i saw

this question come in a few times and i saw a lot of comments on instagram is it awkward taking pictures of your ex and your present so was it awkward honey taking pictures of what with you and max doing the boy crazy shoot together oh no there were like a lot of comments that were like oh this is awkward she was living in a gym with a little thruple when i sent max the photos he's like i think i like the one of brock and i the most he goes it shows you got two types and i go two types of men or two types of masks? Yeah, honey, I mean, Max, I mean, the reason why that never bothers me is because I'm just, I'm the shit.

You're a man. I'm an alpha male. And it's not to say he's not. I'm not intimidated by Max. He's becoming one. Exactly. I'm not intimidated by him. I think he's actually a really nice guy

and he's got a lot of feelings. He really does. He really does, you know? He's a very sensitive person and he's got a lot of feelings and he really does he really does you know and very sensitive person that's why i feel i feel like i'm so protective over him i just have such a soft spot for him because i feel like now awkwardly i'm in this like big sis role and i need to like protect him he's very sensitive stop talking be nice to max max Max. Yeah, Max is, and I enjoy Max. He's good for people. He's good for company. He's not going to be a bad person to be around.

So that doesn't really bother me. So that's funny that people have that. Yeah. The Real Johnny Brophy wants to know, do you have any music coming soon? You and James need to collab. I do want to do something new with James. I do have a song that's been in the vault

for about a year and a half that I do want to release, but I'm going to be getting back into the studio soon with Erica Costell and her new all women ran music label called BIA, B-I-A, Bitches in Action. And I want to kind of, because it's no secret, I'm not the best singer. Erica's like, I think you can sing. And I'm like, I appreciate that with some auto tune. I think I sound all right, but I'm not the best singer. Erica's like, I think you can sing. And I'm like, I appreciate that with some auto tune. I think I sound all right, but I'm not the best singer. So I kind of want to do more of like a Kesha vibe music, like more than like talking, singing. I think I'm much better at that, especially when it comes to performing, but I'm not going to be performing pregnant anytime soon. That's for sure. What I do want to do, and this is how I'm going to wrap up this show. What I would like to start soon once sir is able to get their event permits back and we can do

gatherings of more people. I think I've talked about this before on my show, but I want to do a shenanigans live at sir, a dinner and a show where we have a charitable aspect. They donate a portion of the dinner. It's kind of like a prefixed menu and you get dinner and you get a show. It's going to be fun. It's going to be a little dinner and show. And then obviously,

well, Sheena and I will have some guests coming on and that, but obviously this is post pandemic as we start. Yeah. But I'm not going to be a pregnant waitress. You're not going to see me at sir. In the next six months with my baby bump in a sir dress. I hate to break it to you. I'm not working there anymore.

So. Sir, I would stand for what? Sexy, unique restaurant. Yes. I mean, there's a little bit of something sexy about pregnant,

but yeah. Yeah. I'm not going to be waiting tables anytime soon, if ever again, but I do love sir. That's always going to be home. That's family. So I still want to stay involved with the restaurant, but while I can't be performing on bars, we're like, what else can we do? We want to take shenanigans live and eventually do a tour.

But for now, let's just fight. All right. Well, thank you guys so much for listening. shenanigans live and eventually do a tour. But for now, let's just focus on Sarah. All right. Well, thank you guys so much for listening, sending in all of your questions. We'll be back next week. I'll get to some more questions that we didn't answer.

I'm not going to do reviews on this episode because I don't want to do anything negative. I just want to keep it all positive. I would like some reviews from you guys from this episode. Yes. And next week we'll be back to reading our reviews, answering some more of your questions. I'm not sure who our guest is going to be yet. It might just be me and Jamie and Brock.

We'll figure it out. But send in your questions, comments, reviews, concerns, love, all of it. Thanks for listening, guys. See you guys. Bye. Love all of it. Thanks for listening, guys. See you, guys.

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