Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Krystal Nielson and Chris Randone
Episode Date: September 25, 2018Bachelor in Paradise’s Krystal and Chris join the Scheananigans for a few cocktails, some presents, and talk about where the nickname “Goose” came from, taking ownership of your decisio...ns and relationships, how they ended up on the show, their love of fitness, and their unique relationship. PLUS, Scheana samples one of her new songs! And be sure to visit kopari.com/scheana to save $5 on the BEST all natural deodorant!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between,
it's time to party with Sheena Shea.
This is Shenanigans.
And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea.
We're good as gold.
Because we're good as gold.
Hey guys, alright, we're back.
Shenanigans, as we all know, I am hashtag Team Bachelor Nation forever.
I love the show.
And as we know, I have guests from The Bachelor on my show all the time.
And today is no different.
So we have the happy and engaged couple, Chris and Crystal, hashtag Glitter Goose.
Hashtag Glitter Goose.
I like it.
I like it.
How are you?
And also, we have my mom, Erica, co-hosting today.
Yes. So we're all kind of having fangirl moments. I like it. How are you? And also, we have my mom, Erica, co-hosting today. Yeah.
So we're all kind of having fangirl moments.
Last night, Crystal and I had ours at Tom Tom.
There was a gin launch party that I invited them to.
I've been a fan of hers.
She's been a fan of mine.
So worlds colliding.
I know.
It's amazing.
It's so – I died.
I died.
I call my mom.
My mom goes, oh my gosh, your grandma is going to shit. And I go, that's exactly what I said. She's like, grandma is a huge fan. it's amazing. It's so, I died. I died. I called my mom. My mom goes, oh my gosh, your grandma is going to shit.
And I go, that's exactly what I said.
Because my grandma is a huge fan.
That's so funny, grandma.
And so I called my grandma.
I called her right away.
And she was just like, oh my god.
She was so excited.
Her little Swedish accent.
Oh my gosh.
She says hi.
That's so cute.
Hi, grandma.
Shout out to Crystal's grandma.
Love your grandma.
Yes.
She thinks I'm Drake, by the way.
I don't know.
Oh my god.
She called him Drake in code.
I love that.
Then you're seeing him in concert next week, right?
What?
When?
Yeah, October 6th in Vegas.
Wow.
Front row.
Wow.
Drizzy.
You ever been?
Coming for you.
Yes.
Yeah.
It's amazing.
He used to come into Villa Blanca all the time.
I was the only server he liked to serve him.
He'd come in, give me a hug knew my name
always ordered a chopped salad know this add this and that's crazy but at the time i was like
engaged so i couldn't just pass my number on but i was like honey but like what if like drake wants
to put me on like a hook of his song like it's just business and he was like no yeah no no so
missed opportunity drake if you're listening
wait a second
are you single
I am
I am very single
very single
yes
Drake
congratulations
I'm still pitching
to ABC
to make me
the freaking bachelorette
stop
you know it is
stop
I mean we could
we could start
creating some buzz around
yeah I just
I don't want to go
on the bachelor first
I don't want to go
through all of that
you don't
no you don't
catty girls and me do not mix.
I have enough of that on Vanderpump Rules.
Unless you just come in like the last four and then go visit mom for hometowns.
Don't have to go too far.
You don't have to do too much after that.
You know?
You only got a couple weeks.
That's true.
Right.
I've actually just made myself like the unofficial bachelorette of LA.
And I've like gone on quite a few dates with quite a few past cast.
Cast members?
We don't need a name name.
Tell us more.
Tell us more.
Can we just get one or two people that you've gone on a date with?
Okay.
Robbie Hayes.
Okay.
Basically, I just took JoJo's season and I was like, all right, let's see.
We're going to check out Robbie.
We're going to check out Chad.
We're going to check out Chase.
None of them worked out, but still friends.
There you go.
There you go.
Yeah.
That's not a bad thing.
You're good friends with Jeff.
I mean, that's going back a few seasons.
Yeah, but that's going back.
Yeah, that's going way back.
Will's from your season.
You're on a date with Will's?
Well, he did my show, and then I took him to dinner after because I like to take my guests out for drinks or dinner after.
So I don't know if that would be considered a date.
But we've hung out a few times and I think he is awesome.
I was pitching for him to be the next bachelor.
Yeah.
And then I was like, ooh, then I could just come in and be like, remember that one time
when I took you to dinner?
Right?
I really felt we had a connection, Wills.
That was an opportunity right there.
Yeah.
You know.
And then I was actually DMing with Colton last week.
He was at the Chargers game oh and i was
there and i mean obviously i know he's gonna be the next bachelor which i want to get into
but i was like hmm he's cute anyway all right he is so wait wait wait hold on hold on we can't
so you might actually be on this season you might make a cameo hey i think that dm might
have had a little bit more than what we're we I was like, yo, I'm at the game.
I was like, I'm literally right behind you.
I was like, come say hi.
Because he follows me, I follow him.
Did he come say hi?
He had to catch a flight.
And so he was like, next game.
And then we talked about the show and he said he was excited.
I wished him the best.
Always running away from beautiful women.
You know.
It's Colton, man.
What is this?
I think the reason why I'm still single is a lot of guys are intimidated by
me. I make my own money.
I don't need a man for anything.
And you know what?
You don't need a man to validate your life.
I'm going to start this out. I have a
present for you guys. I want you to open this.
Speaking of not needing a man,
I know you're excited to hear a little bit of my new
single. Yes, so excited.
I'm just going to preview it for you guys because I'm going to have my producer, Sean, too, on.
And I want to play a few songs.
So this is just a little preview.
It will be available soon on iTunes.
I'm going to put it on Spotify.
And also, you ought to open your present now because part of your present gets poured into part of these cups.
Oh, my gosh.
Open it with me.
I'm hungover right now and I'm scared.
Well, you know.
Oh, yay.
The function. Yeah, LumiLite. Yes. That's amazing. Oh, open it with me. I'm hungover right now, and I'm scared. Well, you know. Oh, yay, the phone did it.
Yeah, Lumi likes it.
Yes.
That's amazing.
Oh, my gosh, girl.
So, last night.
Yes, I've been waiting for this Urban Decay Naked Palace.
She thought it would feel good with your eyes.
No, honestly, I need something to bring.
My eyes, they don't show out.
They'll pop after this.
This is amazing.
Oh, it's beautiful.
Baby, I will do your makeup.
Oh, this is so nice.
What I'm touching right now, it scares me.
Wow.
And that's exactly what I was going for.
I brought mini T.O.s and mini tequila.
Oh, my God.
We're in trouble.
It's okay.
I called the doggy sitter and I go, hey, girl, can you drop the dogs off?
Because I have a feeling we're about to walk into a podcast.
Glitter gel.
Serious drinking.
We got glitter gel.
No, it's unicorn snot.
Unicorn snot.
This is a real thing.
Yeah, I think those
can get swapped.
Swap gifts.
Swap gifts.
This is amazing.
We got goose.
Wow, this is actually
hilarious.
Unicorn snot for body
and face.
This is amazing.
I'm going to have a
Mariah Carey glitter moment.
I love this right now.
And just swipe it
on my belt. I honestly didn't know a goose looked like this to be honest with you until now. I thought they to have a Mariah Carey glitter moment. I love this right now. And just swipe it on my belt.
I honestly didn't know a goose looked like this, to be honest with you, until now.
I thought they were white.
Ugly goose.
I was like, that is a goose, right?
Is that a goose?
It's the goose taking flight.
I don't know the difference between a goose and a swan.
That's a goose.
Swans, I think, are usually white and are black.
Or black.
I guess, well, because Lisa Vanderpump.
Yeah.
I love it.
It's a mobile pop with a unicorn.
Yeah.
See, now we're twins.
Yes. Oh oh my gosh
And just one more Tito's together
Thank you guys
tequila I'm gonna go
I'm gonna go with
the little hair of the dog
I'm gonna go with
the tequila
that's how you guys do it
last night was only Jen
so I was like
I know you wanted vodka
you wanted tequila
we talked about it
so
I woke up at 3am
and I felt like
tales from the crypt
I felt dead
like there was
dust coming out of my mouth
because of how
dry my mouth was.
And I'm like, holy shit.
Like I'm really hungover.
I had three drinks.
Oh, my God.
That's kind of sad.
First time gin ever.
First time gin.
Well, we went and had for the first time Argentinian cuisine.
Yeah, you went to Bossa Nova, right?
It was fantastic.
Fantastic.
I'm Argentinian.
Oh, okay.
Yes.
And I wanted her to kind of experience that type of food.
Nice.
And she approved.
I did.
Baby, can I pour?
Well, Sheena's just here to hydrate you, so.
Yeah, you know.
It's all good.
Hydrate while you dehydrate.
We've had like 73 ounces of green juice today.
So far, we're good.
Perfect.
Erica, where's your drink?
No, I'm just going straight vodka.
Straight vodka.
Yeah, just straight chilled vodka.
Well, let's make a toast.
Really? Is that really odd? All vodka. Yeah, just straight chilled vodka. Let's make a toast. Really?
Is that really odd?
All right.
Cheers to you guys being engaged.
Thank you.
Congratulations.
The world's colliding.
I love this.
This is a cool thing about the reality world is like worlds do collide.
And every season of The Bachelor or Bachelorette, I make new friends.
So every time, like the first episode, I'm like, okay, if it's the
bachelor, I'm like, okay, who are my new friends going to be?
If it's the bachelorette, I'm like, who is she going to send home who I
can date after?
Thirsty.
I like it.
It's called online shopping?
Yeah, exactly.
My best friend Adam and I were watching
the first episode of Becca's season. I go, alright,
now we're not looking for her. We're looking for me.
Yeah.
Anyway, don't need a man.
But I do want to play you a little snippet of my new song.
Yes.
Okay.
Please.
I've been dying.
Okay.
It's called Better Without You.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You had me once before, but now you lost me twice.
I gave you second chances that don't make it right.
We could have been the ship, but all we did was fight.
I done gave you all of me, what a waste of time of I don't need a man to validate my life, no
We done hit rock bottom but I'm doing fine
I don't need a man to validate my life, no
Get out of my light, get out of my shine
I'm so better without you Get out of my light, get out of my shine.
I'm so better without you.
I'm so better without you. Okay.
Teenage girls are going to go nuts on that song.
It felt very tropical-y.
Right.
It reminds me of Paris Hilton's The Stars Are Blind kind of vibe.
Thank you.
Beachy, happy, feel-good energy.
It reminded me of Sean Kingston, but a girl version.
A few people have said that.
That's the first thing I thought, the vibe.
My producer's name is Sean 2.
He made the beat.
He does all the engineering, producing, everything.
Very relatable song.
I really do.
Very relatable.
Not like I'm a lyrical genius like Drake by any means, but this is the first
song I've written.
Oh, cheers to you.
Cheers.
Great song.
It's so incredible.
Thanks.
I like it.
Chasing your dreams.
The next one we're doing is a dance track that's just like very, you know, general girls
night out party.
Let's get lit.
A lot of female empowerment right now.
You know, I film workout
videos, so I always take artists,
music, typically royalty free that I pay
for, and I play them
in my demos. So if you ever want me to feature
some of your...
I will hook it up, girl.
Wait until you hear the next one. Oh my god, the next one
is so dope.
So, okay. I want to get get in i have a lot of questions
and i don't want to like i know you guys have a train to catch so i don't want to wait for it
but um i cannot remember for the life of me where did the name goose come from
so uh babe you could just go ahead and do it you could do it i want you to try to
tell it as if it was me so so casting weekend, this was before Bachelorette season was starting.
I had already been in the process of doing casting for five months.
And we're there.
They sit me in front of a bunch of producers.
And I sit down.
And they're like, we like this.
We like who you are.
You bring a lot to the table.
But we also know there's something that you're not telling us.
And so I sat back.
And I literally had a Tito's in my hand.
I just sat back and I'm like, you know, I'm silly.
I'm a silly goose.
And everyone was just like laughing all of a sudden.
I was like, I really don't know if that was funny.
But I like to prank.
I like to have fun.
I'm a huge jokester.
So the whole season behind cameras, they were calling me goose.
And then Bachelor in Paradise is where I guess everyone picked up on it.
Gotcha.
And then it's like caught fire.
And then in the interviews and the moments, it was just nonstop Goose, Goose, Goose.
And I mean, honestly, when you have tequila in you, you're rolling with it.
Right.
And so then you're just constantly saying this Goose name.
Definitely.
Watching it back.
I don't know if I would have went with it but I'm happy that it resonated
and it
you know
it's because he's a silly goose
that's why
okay
I like it
my friend named his dog that
that reason
yeah
I like it
I remember the glitter
I definitely know
where that came from
that was like
previewed for so long
glitter
glitter
glitter
it was like such a moment
of
what's the word I'm looking for?
Like such a cathartic moment of relief.
Yeah.
Throughout that season.
It was like finally a moment.
You kind of both were the villains of your season.
I don't like that word.
Well, I don't either, but I mean that's the word people use.
Perception.
Maybe.
Perception of the viewer villain.
For us, we feel that we were misunderstood passionate we kept it
real we tell it how it is and i feel like i get that more than anyone because i know how reality
shows are edited so it's like i never like to judge anyone based on who they are on the show
because that's just what they're wanting you to see right and then bachelor in paradise i felt
like we saw such a different side of both of you.
And I feel that way about a lot, like Jordan as well.
I felt like I saw a different side of him.
There were a lot of people
who didn't seem as likable on their seasons,
and then you see a different side of them,
and you're like, oh my God.
And then I met you guys in person,
and you just keep getting cooler.
So.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Wait, can we talk for a second about this photo
I saw on Instagram today?
Yeah.
So, okay.
So we hung out with Patrick and Paul.
Okay, and Paul.
And we like went and stopped by.
And, you know, Chris and I are planning, you know, planning the next step.
Why are you choking on your words right now?
I'm feeling so nervous.
Yeah.
So last night at the party they met
Patrick and Paul. Yeah.
And he was like, oh, come by our store.
So tell them the crazy thing.
So here's the thing. So yesterday
we left an interview and we're in the car
and there was a moment we're in the Uber
and she did something with like her smile
and said something that reminded me of
a vision of Anna Nicole Smith.
And so I was like, babe, you just did something that reminded me of this blonde woman. I can't figure out her name,
but she passed away and we're going over names. And then she said, Anna Nicole Smith, like, yeah,
that's it. And so I pulled up a picture, black and white picture. And I was like, you kind of
look like the young classy version here. And she's like, yeah, you're kind of right. There's
some similarities. Then lo and behold, last night we meet the guys that were really good friends
with her and designed her dress.
Her dresses.
Her dresses for her wedding.
And it was just really weird to see that kind of play out.
Yeah.
We were just talking about Nicole Smith randomly.
So hours later.
Called into the universe.
And so he invited us to come by.
So we were like, well, we have to go.
Like, yeah, clearly when you ask and the universe
delivers you have to say yes absolutely so we went this morning and we were there and they had this
like beautiful white gown and you know we put it on and it was it was amazing i felt like she
looked like a queen yeah we're trying on wedding dresses because – You were too? Or just – We got a taxonomy.
I thought about it.
But they didn't have my size.
They didn't have my size.
Nothing I could do.
It was unfortunate.
But no one really knows us.
But maybe we do have a date and we just haven't told anyone yet.
See, that's what my next question was.
The caption said save the date.
Yeah.
So you do have a date.
You're just not telling people?
We're just going to keep it quiet for now.
Am I invited?
You're invited for sure.
Mom, you're her plus one.
Thank you.
We have this on tape.
Yeah.
That's it.
Yeah.
We'll take a note.
It's recorded.
So you guys, I mean, after watching the reunion, we see Kevin and Astrid come back together,
Kendall and Joe.
But you really were like the only
like standing engaged happy couple from like beginning to end.
Did you ever think going into Bachelor in Paradise that you would come out engaged?
No.
No.
No.
And it's so funny because I thought I was going to go home on night one and I just kind
of went in with that expectation because going into The Bachelor, I was like, I'm going to
hometowns. I'm going to hometowns.
I'm going all the way.
Like, top two, I got this.
And like, woo, backfire.
It was so hard.
But you did go home.
That first date, right?
You went to the hometown.
Oh, yeah.
That's right.
Very first date.
I remember that.
Thank you.
You did go hometown before anybody.
So you were right about that.
Oh, that's a good one, Mom.
Thank you so much.
You're right.
You're awesome.
Thank you.
I feel good about that. Okay. So I was like, you know what?
Maybe this time I'm not going to have any expectations.
And I'm like, I'm going to go home. I don't even
want a boyfriend. It's better that way.
Then you're not disappointed. Right.
And what I have found in the past is like, when you
go out, and ladies, hear me out. When you
go out looking for a man,
and you're like, okay, I'm ready for a relationship.
You're looking for the wrong things. Sure you you find that you're like settling and kind of
sometimes lowering standards in some areas i don't know because like you just want the guy yeah right
yeah you want the guy um verse going to paradise i was like i don't even want a boyfriend and it
just kind of like it just happens so naturally and it was beautiful of like, it just happened so naturally. And it was beautiful.
And one of our earliest conversations and really where Chris and I bonded was
us growing up without our fathers in our lives, growing up with single moms.
And that really resonated with me because we know what that's like to be,
that's where our drive, our ambition comes from because things weren't handed to us.
We had to go out and seek it for ourselves.
And so I really understood kind of the essence of who Chris was because that's who I am.
And so we just very much so connected on that level.
And also just that our view of marriage in the beginning of Paradise was that we didn't
necessarily know if we'd ever want to get married and the fear of commitment.
We didn't want that.
So it's so crazy, our journey
because now
we're engaged and it just goes
to show finding the right person. I think that's the beauty
of it is that we expected a totally
different outcome and what we
got was something beautiful that we didn't
really envision. So it was expect the unexpected
type of thing, which
in reality is something I'd rather
have than going in and trying to force
something and thinking that this outcome is gonna happen so i i'm not only blessed and i feel lucky
but it's just i feel grateful to know that this is the woman that i ended up finding and connecting
and i saw on the reunion show your moms sitting next to each other and they're like besties now that's amazing and okay so we also got our moms on instagram we've been like pushing them in our stories
and now they're like they got a thousand followers they're doing highlights oh my god that's amazing
they're posting every my mom never posts and now she's posting and commenting every day
i i guess all these photos they took of us that we have no idea
like what photos they have.
Yeah, they have YouTube channels
and they're like going for it.
My mom posted a photo
of the ring before I did.
I was like,
oh, I gotta get out of here.
No, I'm pretty good now.
I mean, we're like
many years into Sheena's season.
So I now know
before I post something.
That Sheena must filter
and approve it.
I was gonna post that.
Now you are.
She's like,
well, I'm like, no,
all 10,000 of your followers also follow me. So if you posted it, then they've already approve it. I was going to post that. Now you are. She's like, well, I'm like, no, all 10,000 of your followers also follow me.
So if you posted it, then they've already seen it.
Right.
Mom, how many followers do you have?
I don't know.
Are you 10,000?
She almost has a K.
I'm almost like at 9,000, I think.
That's awesome.
Yeah.
I'm going to follow you after this. Oh, mom.
Oh, totally.
But yeah, no.
So I'm careful with what I post.
It's like, don't snap me that picture then if I can't screenshot it and post it.
Yeah, that's true.
You know?
But I'm good with that.
It's such a thing.
Where do both of your families live?
A lot of my family lives in Argentina and Sicily.
And then I have family in the East Coast.
So East side of Florida on the beach, Melbourne Beach, Cape Canaveral, and then some family in New York.
Cool.
That's it.
And then there's really nowhere anyone else.
So mom's in Florida?
Mom's in Melbourne Beach, yeah.
Okay.
Mm-hmm.
And what about you?
That's where Ariana's from.
Is that?
Melbourne, Florida.
Really?
Uh-huh.
Who's Ariana?
One of my best friends.
She's on the show.
No way.
Yeah.
That's where she's from.
What high school did she go to?
I don't know.
I can text her and ask her.
How old is she?
Yeah.
She's my age, 33. No way. That's crazy. I got to see what high school did she go to i don't know we gotta find out how old is she yeah she's my age 33 no way that's crazy i gotta i gotta see what oh my god i'm you know i wonder if we have a lot of mutual friends she'll just answer if i call her that's so crazy call her
yeah i'm going to what are the odds of that and where does your mom live crystal my mom
well i'm from montana missoula montana and my mom actually just sold her house and moved to salt lake city to pursue her dream career of working at young living
essential oils like sold her house and she got it so mama it has her second lease at life at 60
sweet living large yeah loving it love you love you tess yeah she's gonna listen hopefully she
listens to this yeah
I hope so
she didn't answer
I will find out though
she'll probably call me back
when we're still doing this
I definitely wanna know
we'll get to the bottom of this
we for sure have some
mutual friends
yeah
oh I'm sure
is Melbourne small?
yeah
and everyone knows each other
especially if you
grew up with friends
in high school
and you had a lot of friends
her last name is Maddox
oof
I don't know if that. I wonder if she went to
Sebastian or Mary Island.
I really don't know. I'm curious.
So, were you guys a fan
of the show before you did it? Yes, of course.
Vanderpump? No. Well, thank you.
But, just kidding.
He's like, wait, will you get me on that next season?
Actually, I started
watching it a few seasons back.
So, yeah, it was interesting.
Yeah.
And then my buddies, everyone thought for a couple years, like, you should definitely go on the show.
You'd be great.
And then finally they submitted me and I never looked back after that.
So you were nominated.
Yeah.
We were wentering.
Yeah, that was another question I had.
What about you?
My best friend submitted me in September 2016 and they called me nine months later.
Wow.
Going through old submissions.
I think that was me too.
I think that was me too.
Yeah, it was an old submission that they were –
See, it wasn't the right time before.
Maybe the season before wasn't meant for you.
Well, that was Nick's season and I was submitted like three days before filming.
Oh, wow.
So the casting had been done.
Uh-huh.
And yeah, it was ironic because I was dating someone very briefly for two months and we
were supposed to be on this trip when I got the call.
And I ended up canceling the trip because I just knew this guy wasn't for me.
Oh, wow.
And I just didn't want to – I just needed to do me and invest in myself.
And I was listening to a podcast and writing and then I got the call.
And it's just like so funny how everything ends up working out yeah and what I've really learned throughout this
journey I mean bachelor in paradise and everything in between is just truly it's it's listening to
that inner voice and that guidance and following your heart sure and it's honoring it for you and
Chris really taught me that especially in business it was like, if you're going to make a decision,
make it for yourself,
not because anyone else is influencing you or thinks it's the right thing.
You need to own it for yourself
because if you fail,
at least it was your choice.
You can blame yourself
and you can understand why you failed.
Totally.
If someone else fails you,
you put the blame
and then you never learn
why you actually failed.
Complete ownership.
That's how I feel about my last relationship.
I was like, you know what?
It didn't work out, but I gave it my all.
You did.
I then semi-recently put myself out there again.
Didn't work.
But I'm like, you know what?
I'm not going to regret having feelings, putting them out there.
Absolutely not.
If you put it out there, you never know.
But I know I'm supposed to stay single for a little bit longer.
I was just like, maybe I'm tired of being single for a little bit longer I was just like maybe I'm tired
of being single
and I was like
nope nope
stay single
stay single
it was a moment
brief moment of weakness
save yourself for Drake
yeah
right
or Colton
you know hey
Colton if it doesn't work out
just kidding
no so okay
I love Tia
so we've
we've
DM'd a little bit as well
so I mean
I would never go there
but what do you guys think about her yeah I know you guys weren't I love Tia. So we've DMed a little bit as well. So, I mean, I would never go there.
But what do you guys think about her?
Yeah.
I know you guys weren't each other's fave on your season.
But did anything change in Paradise? I mean, well, I guess it's kind of awkward because then you were dating her.
No, I mean.
They went on like one date.
No, Tia's cool.
Tia's a great person.
She just, she really liked Colton.
Yeah.
Wait, really? Yeah. She really – she really liked Colton. Yeah. Wait, really?
Yeah.
She really did.
I couldn't tell.
Yeah.
I knew for sure even before she took me on the date, the conversations we were having that first day on the beach when everyone was walking down was just all about Colton.
Yeah.
And I'm like, wow, this girl is head over heels for this guy.
Yeah.
And even on your one-on-one.
And even on the one-on-one, we talked about Colton a lot.
And so the whole time I'm just thinking, okay, she loves Colton.
She's really trying to figure this out.
I know Colton's coming down to the beach.
Lo and behold, he comes down the next day.
Of course.
And so my mind was scrambling because I'm just like – we had a lot of good conversations the first couple days in Paradise, which weren't aired, which is unfortunate because those conversations led us to kind of grow and blossom our relationship and uh i just
kept gravitating to her non-stop and i knew in my heart i had strong feelings for this woman but
there was something about her that just made me really infatuated with who she was on the inside
as a person yeah and i wanted to keep getting to know that person. And so Tia, though, was like dangling there.
And I knew she liked Colton.
And I'm just sitting there.
She gave me the rose.
And I'm just like, oh, my God.
Like, what is going on right now?
Just give him the rose.
Let me go ahead and focus on Crystal.
Right.
But with that said, I don't have any hard feelings for her.
She's actually a really cool chick.
Yeah.
And she likes to have fun.
So she seems like it. I was just like, hey, girl, let me know next time you're in L.A. She's actually a really cool chick and she likes to have fun. She seems like it.
I was just like, hey girl, let me know next time you're
in LA. Let's grab drinks, do my show
because I haven't met her in person
yet. She likes to drink and
have fun. I think if you're a female
friend of mine and you like to do that,
great. I feel like that's cool.
That's the kind of female friend that I want to have
that I'm not dating and someone that
can talk to me about anything and just shoot the shit and just have fun.
I loved it on the reunion show when Annalise came back on stage.
She's like, yes, bitch.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because she's this, like, sweet southern girl of Arkansas.
And she's, like, dropping F-bombs.
Like, yes, bitch.
I was like, yeah.
I think Tia could be a savage.
Yeah.
Right, babe?
For sure.
She definitely has an undercover savage, which is not a bad thing because you don't want't want as a woman you don't want to be a pushover and just seem like
you're so soft and sweet all the time you want to have a little bit of a thick skin and you can
be independent and be strong-minded definitely especially in this industry like i was telling
you guys last night you had asked me for advice being in this world and i'm just like you have
to have thick skin because if you let every little thing people say get
to you it will tear you apart
and every single one of us on
Vanderpump Rules have had our moments where it's just like
people say things and
you start to believe them about yourself
and you're like oh my god maybe I am this person
and it's like you can get in a really dark place
and it's just it's not healthy
nothing about this nothing about our lives
we all know.
We've had conversations even as of late just trying to make sure we help each other out
and understanding comments that we see and just putting those to the side and understanding
they don't know me and I don't know them.
You have to.
Exactly.
Even like from a mom's perspective, it's tough.
I have two girls in this business and, you know, Sheena has just been torn up and spit
out over and over
several times and everyone loves my sister yeah how is that how is that for being a mother it's
tough because for the first couple seasons i was that mom on twitter and i was like mom i mean
were you commenting back oh heck yeah that's a good that's a good mom and i was like you can't
stand up for yourself you need your mom to fight your fights i'm like no i'm telling her stop and
sheena did and i was like know, but I had to.
I have gotten a lot better.
I just stay off social media.
That's going to be hard as a mom.
It is.
It is.
Really hard.
And then I then try to practice what I preach and just remembering that the majority of
those people that are saying things, they don't know Sheena.
They don't know the kind heart and the charitable, amazing person she is.
And I'm not just saying that because
she's my daughter you know i mean that's the truth yeah so it's tough so i've i've i think
my skin has thickened up quite a bit the last few seasons it has to be it's still it's still
hurtful when i see things yeah of course you know chris and i were chris and i were talking about
with our moms coming on reunion and for for the reunion for the finale we just went to my bungalow and we were gonna do a huge
party but we're like you know what let's just close this chapter out together just the two of
us and Wayne and Chucky and bottle of wine and when our moms came out we were just talking about
I mean we cried we like laughed and cried and it was just such it was the happiest moment I think
even more we were more happy to watch that than us even get engaged because having our moms go through the journey of watching us be villainized and go through all that scrutiny to then see us be celebrated as a couple.
Yeah, it's amazing.
I just –
There's nothing like it coming from a mom's point.
It's so hard.
point you know it's so hard i think one of the biggest things you learn in this journey is patience because instant gratification is something so many people rely on nowadays because of the
tools and resources that we have but when you go through the negativity and the storyline of
how you started in the dark and then coming out the light at the end of the tunnel it just teaches
you that patience if you just wait and have faith and you strongly believe in who you are and you know who you are the good things will
come and that's what i've always said to sheena too you know who you are you're the closest friends
and your family know who you are i mean like i said it's still hard but you know you've gotten
through it yeah it's all good hashtag season seven oh my god seriously no this will be this
will be a good season.
This is a good season.
This was, I think, the best summer I've had in a long time.
You filmed in the summer, so you just wrapped.
When does the premiere happen?
Usually like November, December.
Okay, okay.
Yeah, so everything's usually about six months behind.
We'll definitely be watching.
Yeah.
For sure.
Yeah, you can just skip last season.
Don't even watch that.
Just start.
They have Vanderpump Rules on demand now on Delta on the TV.
So you get to catch up and they have all the seasons.
And we're actually flying out to Miami to celebrate our engagement.
Yay.
Next week.
So we will be watching.
Yeah.
Even if it's an episode I already watched, I just want to.
So anyway, Crystal.
Moving on.
You were telling me last night that you used to be DJ K-Doll.
Wow.
So you said it was K-Dollar, K-Money.
I know you studied journalism and broadcast and all of that.
How did you get into being a DJ?
Yeah, K-Doll.
Sounds like a stage name.
I mean, I guess it was.
Yeah, exactly.
Well, I worked in radio and television.
I studied that in college.
And I came out of college with no internships because I had to put myself through college, like waiting tables.
I worked in food and beverage for 13 years. Yeah.
For 13 years.
Still in it.
Yeah.
But, you know, since half my life has been spent in a restaurant. Since I was 16, I'm now 33.
Wait, what was your first restaurant job?
Marie Callender's.
Oh, no way.
What'd you do?
I was a hostess.
Okay.
Yeah.
I was a dishwasher at a truck stop in Montana.
Oh, my God.
That I had to walk two miles each way through, like, wilderness to get there.
Wow.
Yes, to wash dishes, yeah.
That's insane.
Huh.
That's insane.
Yeah. Could. Love it. That's insane. Yeah.
Could finally legally work.
I bought like a seven pound cell phone when it came out.
Because it was so long ago.
Oh my God, right?
Huge.
Huge.
Yeah.
And then you just decided
to be a DJ K-Doll?
Oh yeah, yeah.
I love that.
Studied radio and television
and I couldn't get hired
in television because I had zero experience from not doing internships, right?
Because I had to pay my way through school.
And so I started filming myself as an independent reporter.
And – oh, actually, I paid – I went back and worked in radio.
And where am I going with this?
Did you want to do sports?
No, I wanted to do entertainment television.
Oh, was it entertainment television?
But essentially it was just I ended up getting a job in radio and working my way up to be on air and kind of through with the mentors that I was with.
They were nighttime DJs and so kind of got into that scene.
I love that.
I didn't do it for very long, but I very much so enjoyed it.
Then I jumped to television and then I did a big jump and moved to L.A. in 2012.
And now you're in San Diego.
And yeah, I was out here for two years kind of just checking out the whole L.A. scene.
And I really like my dream was to work at the epicenter of pop culture and work for E! News.
Uh-huh.
That's still my dream job.
It is.
Oh, similar.
Yeah.
Very similar.
Yeah.
I wanted to be Juliana Rancic.
Uh-huh.
You're a queen.
Okay. Love her. She's such a queen. Yeah. She took G's job. Yeah. Yeah. Very similar. Yeah. I wanted to be Juliana Rancic. Uh-huh. You're a queen. Raymond, you're nice.
Okay.
Yeah.
Love her.
Yeah. She's such a queen.
Yeah.
She took G's job.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I know.
Hey.
Yeah.
She does.
So it didn't work out because it just ate me up, especially coming from Montana and
Idaho.
The LA scene was just, I really lost myself and turned to fitness to find who I was and
my passion and purpose and realized in this yoga class on my 26th birthday that I was not even using half my potential.
And it was just like that defining moment.
Turned to fitness, made a plan, focused on myself, worked with mentors, and they just had such an amazing, positive – they were just so transformative in my life.
And I realized that I wanted to be that person for someone.
So I moved to San Diego in October 2014 and pursued a career in fitness.
And, you know, that's what I've been doing.
That's awesome.
So ironic that like five years later, I'm back in LA doing entertainment television.
But as a fitness coach.
Yeah.
So I had to go find myself before I was ready.
Totally. Keeping the faith. Yeah. Has she been kicking your ass in the gym? I've seen some Insta stories. but as a fitness coach yeah so i had to go find myself before i was ready totally keeping the
faith yeah has she been kicking your ass in the gym i've seen some insta stories yeah i love
watching your insta stories they're so cute she's a beast uh she's putting me through that total
body guide workout that she has and it's that 30-day workout where you're just exhausting and
i come out there drained and she's in a great way, you exhaust all muscles
and you come out and you feel like a beast.
You feel shredded.
Well, the focus is fat burning and lean muscle gaining in like 20 minutes.
So it's a lot of muscles working at the same time.
Yeah.
I've been, um, working out with my personal trainer for the last, oh my God, has it been
three years now?
At least 2015.
Yeah. Got super into fitness. That definitely helped me in a lot of ways. Right. It's such a
channel for stress and just finding yourself and realigning and grounding. And you know,
got to heal us within first. Okay. So going back to you doing like on-air stuff and all of that,
I have to ask because I know
a lot of people have made comments about this.
Do you notice that you've changed your voice?
Like did you do that when you would host?
Is that just a thing on Ari's season?
So I have – I will show you videos.
Well, so I worked with – at Orange Theory and I was a fitness coach in group fitness
and it was just very strenuous, the environment
for your vocals, because you have 13 fans blasting plus the AC at like 64 degrees and you're coaching
five hours back to back to back yelling. I'm a motivational coach. Like I'm the fricking hype
woman, you know, um, five hours straight and it's just a lot of vocal strain and going into bachelor,
I picked up extra shifts and worked more with clients and was
coaching 300 people through a 30-day challenge I was doing online.
Oh, wow.
I just lost my voice.
And I actually have been dealing with issues with my vocal cords for almost two years before
Bachelor.
Same thing with Sheena.
So I totally lost it.
And I know one of my Facebook memories came up of one year ago because I was leaving a
year ago for Bachelor.
Me on the train, just no voice, exhausted.
And when I came back from Bachelor, I never went back to that kind of coaching because
my voice was shot.
And then to have it on a large platform where people are like, you're faking it.
And I'm like, I can't talk because I have to whisper because it hurts yeah because the vocals break right so it just sounds bad i like your voice
yeah but then i just it was like the first episode of paradise i think it was tia she was like oh her
voice changed yeah yeah yeah but i had noticed that too and i was like oh wait you don't have
that as soft of yeah but i i get it i yeah you get you get it I now have a way more raspy voice
than I did before and I even had to
cancel one of my sessions last week
because I couldn't go in and match my vocals
that I had the night before because I was at Tom Tom
talking to fans but literally
yelling because it's so loud in there over the music
and I was like I text Sean too
and I was like I'm not a flaky person by any means
but I don't have a voice so like
I can come in and write but but I can't record today.
It's a real thing.
It's true.
When you use your voice, I mean, especially for huge amounts of energy coming through it or coaching, then your voice is gone.
It's a muscle and you fatigue it.
Yeah.
But I also do have that sexy kind of whisper voice.
Totally. Totally turn it on for me. Yeah. It's a little sparkle and Christmas. I don't like that. I don do have that sexy kind of whisper voice totally
totally turn it on
yeah
sparkle and
that's what I use
in my music
I'm like I can do
the sexy like
it's like the
Britney voice
yeah
totally
she turns it on
she turns it on
she does this thing
in the morning
like this good morning
that I actually
love waking up to
it's like this sweet
little good morning
that she says and that starts my day on a good morning that I actually love waking up to. It's like this sweet little good morning that she says, and that starts my day on a good
morning.
Good morning.
That's cute.
So earlier today, you guys were, well, you weren't, I guess, but you were trying on wedding
dresses.
I spent my afternoon at Laserway.
So I don't know.
Have you had anything lasered before?
Girl, I have been wanting to
get lasered. No, I have not.
I'm a virgin to the laser.
So right now I'm just like,
I'm feeling a little...
Every session you do,
it just gets more and more intense
because they have to get deeper to the root
of the hair. So this was like my
ninth or tenth session.
And yeah, it was quite painful i will
say that um so if you do it don't drink coffee before it's like whatever anyways the point i'm
trying to get to is i get there and you're not supposed to have any deodorant any lotions
anything on your body at all so just another little tip for you. Okay. Good to know. So there's this new company that I have been using. It's called Kapari and it's, I know Kapari. Really? The coconut. Yes.
Coconut deodorant. So I had it on, I had to wipe it off. And then I just realized as I'm sitting
here right now, the air isn't on. It's a little hot. And I was like, I need to put some deodorant
on. That's the whole point of this conversation. Girl, I got my luggage
in the other room
and I got like
essential oil deodorant.
So you already know about this.
But it's, you know,
a great safer alternative.
It's aluminum free, coconut.
Love Kapari.
It's like being on an island,
you know?
It's gotten a lot of love
from editors at Cosmo,
people.
There are thousands
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Check it out. As Crystal and I
already are. And as soon as we're done with this
show, I'm going to go put more on because I'm getting a little
hot in here.
Okay, so one thing I really wanted to know
that I thought of last night as we were drinking
at a bar, was the bar in Paradise open 24 hours?
No.
No.
Okay.
Okay.
So Wells and Yuki did get time to sleep.
They weren't there half the time.
I think the bar would open at noon.
Okay.
And then sometimes at like 4 p.m.
And it was always like by the time I finally was finished intermittent fasting and I was ready to eat and I was ready to have a drink, the bar would close because they were like switching.
I was like, I'm sorry.
What?
So there's a bar upstairs, which my boy Fernando, he was amazing.
I miss him.
Amazing.
Shout out to Fernando.
Shout out to Fernando.
And then you had Wells and Yuki when they were there, but they would usually come for a period of time.
Like 4 to ten.
But then after that, you can go back up
to the other bar. So were they really making drinks, though?
They were making drinks.
I heard that he took a bartending class.
He did.
She was his assistant, but
She liked sliced limes.
I think
clean some glasses.
Wells is actually going to be our bartender at our wedding.
Really?
No way.
Him and Sarah.
Him and Sarah.
They're going to be a little joint thing.
Seriously?
Yeah.
Sarah Highland is going to bartend at your wedding.
I mean, Wells is coming, and his plus one is Sarah.
Yeah.
She will be the new lady.
Sarah, get ready.
Oh, my God.
That's amazing.
Yeah.
Nice.
No drink limit either, so.
Yeah. I mean, is that a thing at weddings? Is there a drink limit? Well, there was. That's amazing. Yeah. Nice. No drink limit either, so. Yeah.
I mean, is that a thing at weddings?
Is there a drink limit?
Well, there was in Paradise.
Oh, really?
Yeah.
Two drinks.
Two one-ounce pours per hour.
Yeah.
Per hour.
Huh.
It's almost impossible for a man to.
See, I mean, it is a liability thing, so I understand that.
They didn't used to have it.
I was going to say, was that just new?
Due to what you faced last season.
Yeah.
Right.
Yes.
Demario is a good friend of mine.
I've known him for like 12 years.
Oh, I love Demario.
Demario's a really good guy.
One of the nicest people ever.
So when all of this came out, like all that stuff about them, and then I ended up meeting
Corinne, because she also does a podcast here.
We've done each other's shows.
But yeah, that was insane and so inaccurate
every story that came out like yeah tomorrow's a good guy yeah he really is really thoughtful
and caring yeah he's nice when did you guys both know that like okay this is the person i want to
spend the rest of my life with was it like that amazing date because you guys were like it was
like you were like walking on water. That date was crazy.
I mean, the bachelor dates are always amazing,
but that one I was just like,
I want to be there.
That looks so fun.
And shout out to Ben Rector.
Yeah, Ben Rector killed it.
That, it was incredible.
His performance was like 30 minutes long, right babe?
Yeah.
Oh, that's fun.
It was truly a private concert.
It was a 30 minute concert for us
and it was incredible.
It was just amazing. It's something i'll never forget but i
don't know if that was the first moment where i knew she was the one for me there was a lot
of conversations in the pool that i knew for sure this woman was special yeah uh there was another
time where we had our first kiss which was nice we had talked like two hours before that before
we actually kissed but i would say probably when she the the day
after the headband uh bandana rose ceremony yeah she had a serious talk with me and she was basically
saying listen you need to be self-aware take accountability for your actions because i was
ruffling a downward spiral i was on a downward spiral i was ruffling up some friendships there
and she definitely turned me around she helped me understand just to be myself and take control of my actions and know
that listen you're in charge of what you do no one else is and as soon as she gave me that helping
hand i knew i had an amazing woman right in front of me that i wanted to not lose ever i like how
you guys look at each other i know there's truly know the listeners can't see this, but there are twinkles in both of your eyes.
I mean, just the way you look, it's amazing.
Yeah, it's like a perma smile on your face.
I love it.
I love it, too.
So cute.
We're so happy.
We're so happy.
Were either of you one of the people that you had your eye on coming into Paradise,
or was this just like a pleasant surprise?
Pleasant surprise.
Yeah.
That's the best though.
Literally like that's one thing I've learned too just being single is to not have any expectations
from anyone I go to dinner with, hang out with or anything because it's like if you
have expectations you get disappointed and if you don't then it's everything else is
just a pleasant surprise.
And we touched on that earlier.
Yeah.
Exactly.
It's perfect.
Yeah.
That's a great way to put it.
So one part of the show that my mom missed because of the Monday night football game,
it screwed up everyone's DVR.
I was not happy about it.
So had to watch on demand.
But I had looked up and all of a sudden, you have a feather in your hand.
You have a blindfold on.
Where did that come from?
She was like, what are you talking about with blindfold?
And I was like, I was texting.
I look up and I was like, and then I rewound and I was like what did i miss and i'm like hold on i i don't where did that come
from it was a goose feather it was it was a goose feather okay and uh i kind of wanted to set the
tone for the night however though i had a really bad stomach flu in the fantasy suite oh no and i
was struggling but i fought through because i knew it was a special night for us.
However, though, we spent the whole night talking.
We actually didn't.
We already had intimate sessions before that.
And so we knew that we already had experienced that.
Do they provide you with condoms on set?
No.
Why?
They provide you with what you ask for.
Okay.
Well, they didn't provide us. I Okay. I was in a good mood.
They didn't provide us. I mean, I guess I didn't ask.
I don't like
comments. Stop talking.
Grandma's looking for something.
Sorry.
Anyway,
so the reunion
show, we touched on it a little bit earlier,
but
let's talk about your tears.
How did you feel when he was just so emotional in that moment?
What were you thinking, Crystal?
So we were so nervous going on stage and it was like, we've done this before.
I don't know why, because like, I mean, last time, like when I did women tell all that
was a completely different experience. Right.
I knew what was coming and you just kind of
brave face. Yeah. Wall up.
Put the armor on and go out.
And it was just
we were so nervous. So like we go
we sit down in this tight dress
where I'm like smashed in.
Yeah. And like I can barely
sit down because it's so tight
on my ass and i sit and i'm trying
to take like a moment to like compose myself and all of a sudden chris you know just starts you
know sharing and starts crying and it was just like i mean he told me he was gonna cry because
he's just so i felt it he's so excited and grateful to be here. I felt all the events leading up to that moment, the good and the bad, just it all came out at once.
But the tears were definitely just – I was sitting down next to her and all I was thinking about was how happy I was in that moment.
But knowing that I got through this with this woman by my side.
And so that's really why the tears came out and her helping me get through all the negative things that were being said and just the journey.
And had it not been for her, I would not have been sitting there happy and so in love with an incredible woman.
So it was tears that you provided.
Yeah, it was just it was really special because it was just it was the whole culmination of our journeys and both of us going through our own individual seasons.
Right.
And then coming together on Paradise and then even Chris kind of getting this – again, villainized on Paradise as we're together.
It was a struggle for our relationship.
It was just – it was hard because I knew the amazing man he was and to see that and we were just like, where's our love story?
Like where is our love story?
Why is this not being shown?
Because it was such an incredible personal transformation for us.
So to, I don't know, just to kind of just end the journey together on that note with our moms there, it was just overwhelmingly incredible.
And, I mean, Chris is an amazing guy who wears his heart on his sleeve and he's emotional.
Not the first time I've seen him cry.
And, you know, and I know when he does share, he speaks from the heart.
I'm just very real, very blunt.
That's the best way to be.
Life is too short.
I'm in tune with my emotions as I am with women's emotions.
So I think that is solely based on the fact that I grew up with all women.
I have a single mom and two amazing younger sisters.
So you understand women and how they feel and their emotions.
And I think that's why we're able to connect on such a deep level as well is because I know how to communicate
and I'm able to understand how she feels at all times.
Totally.
Aw, you guys are so cute.
Super cute.
I want to ask your opinion on this because you know them.
So, the Jenna and Jordan aftermath.
Like, I'm just going to skip the Annalise talk because Camille, fuck off.
That was messed up.
Like, I mean, go on National Television.
It just, that was messed up.
I don't even want to give him any light on my show.
So, I'm just going to skip right to Jenna and Jordan because seeing how smitten he was,
he was someone who, I'm not going to lie, I could not stand on your season.
However, very entertaining.
Great for reality TV.
And then Robbie and I are, Robbie Hayes, we're very, very good friends.
So when Jordan was out here with like mental and stuff and we had went to an event together,
I met him briefly and I was like, okay, you're not a total douche.
And then after watching Bachelor in Paradise, I really started to like him.
And he just seemed so head over heels, in love, smitten, all about her.
And then- He really was.
This, even literally like that show was what, two, three weeks ago when you guys filmed
the reunion show?
It was not that long ago.
I ended up at Avenue with a bunch of y'all after and it was the end of august yes okay so
yeah it was three weeks ago and that night she's acting like everything's fine they're happy they're
engaged and then have a date boom like he i mean completely blindsided but like did she seem fake
when she was there?
Did she seem as genuine as he was?
I'm very interested in this.
I think them in Paradise, he was definitely head over heels for her.
I think it's also fair to say that she helped him show a different side to the viewers as far as sensitivity and emotional and a very loving person.
She was good for one thing.
She was good for that.
And I think in the moment, she was probably having fun in Paradise.
And then also, I think that maybe she did have a different mindset than he did.
And in the moment, you probably feel pressured.
You're probably not sure what decision to make because there's a lot of things going on.
And also she's in control of her actions outside of these Paradise Walls.
And I think that for him, he definitely saw a future for longevity.
And maybe when she got back, there was the realization that that wasn't the same case.
And so I guess that might have potentially led to what's going on right now even though we
don't know the validity of it we saw the text and so and we know that jordan is now not with her
right and i think that's something he feels on the inside of the right decision to make right now
yeah she is saying that those aren't valid texts she's denying however though it's something where people who have brought that
to light normally have very strong sources right to make it valid and so we just have to see what
happens but i will say this we love jordan we support him and whatever decision is made moving
forward we are with them and we just wish them the best of luck and hope that they can figure things out right it was uh it was upsetting to hear because we got to know both of them and
chris and jordan were very good friends coming off of the bachelorette and jen and i were on
bachelor together and i had some wonderful conversations with her and in paradise i mean
we the four of us were hanging out the night that chris and i kind of got together
and i mean it was kind of the four of us and we ended the journey together and so we saw
the effect that jenna had on jordan and i mean he really did love her and i know it seemed insanely
genuine it was just such a different side of him. I believe he really did have feelings for Becca and was falling for her
as she's an amazing woman,
but maybe not.
I don't know.
Wasn't there.
But I just saw a more genuine side
on Bachelor in Paradise.
Like on Bachelorette,
he had his, you know,
stupid things he would say
and he was just kind of a douche.
It seemed like more of a role or an act he was in.
Yeah, but I don't doubt that
maybe he did have real feelings for
Becca again. I don't know. I wasn't there. But
this just seemed so different.
And it was like, I got
chills when I was watching that. I was like
this is so sad. He just looks so happy.
Reality Steve.
And Robbie and Jordan are friends.
And that's the source.
Reality Steve, he doesn't
normally post things without having strong sources.
Yeah, he's like TMZ.
And he doesn't want to ruin his image or his credibility.
And he was also looking out for Jordan because he knew that if Jordan does have strong feelings for this woman, I think he felt in his heart that this is something that people should know and Jordan should know because he was looking out for him especially seeing the transformation that Jordan had in paradise
of that hard shell and the bachelorette and being someone who was maybe put on an act but then you
got to see his soft side and his heart and he loved the girl he did and he probably still does
love her sure but I think I think right now he's still trying to process. And whatever support we can provide, we're more than there for him.
And I just hope that they can both move forward at least making a decision and having happiness knowing that at least they had a great experience in Paradise.
Yeah.
And just take the positive if they can from this situation and move forward and apply that to their next relationships.
And at least you, like you said,
you did get to see a different side of Jordan.
And who knows?
They might even pull together.
I hope not.
I hope Jordan finds someone.
What?
I mean, come on.
Me personally, I couldn't get.
Those texts, I'm better than him.
I never loved him.
Like all of those things.
That's really harsh words to get over.
And I think he deserves better.
And he deserves a woman who is going to be equally as smitten with him as he is with her.
No, and it's not.
I'm not team Jenna.
She was very calculated into going.
It's all about my business.
And even after all of these texts came out, then I watched like the proposal.
And I just there were little things about her.
I'm like, you're lying.
You're lying.
No, no.
Like I was just like watching her facial expression.
She like put her head down when she was smiling. And I'm like, you're not genuinely happy.
You're faking this. You're trying
to put this front. Like, oh my god.
I'm so happy. No. Bitch, I've done that on reality TV.
I get it. I'd rather have Jenna come
out and just own up to it. Yes.
Own your shit. Take accountability.
And just thank Jordan for the amazing
ride and apologize.
No. Yeah, I agree.
And move forward.
Be the bigger person.
Yeah.
Jenna.
Yeah.
If you're listening.
If you're listening.
Hi.
So on a lighter note, how do we feel about grocery store Joe on Dancing with the Stars?
Because I'm so excited.
That was my question.
That's my guy.
Sorry.
It's okay.
That's my guy.
I talked to him yesterday.
He had a little knee injury.
I mean, not an injury, but just a little soreness because he's busting his ass right now.
They do.
It's crazy.
It's not easy.
And I know he even said he's tired some days and he also has his relationship with Kendall.
So this upcoming week is going to be the first episode.
And he's starting to now –
Is it already?
Oh, my God.
Is it already?
Yeah.
And he said he's starting to pick up on the routine
and and understand the moves yeah so i'm excited to see him and support him yeah he said he's not
a dancer he's not a dancer but but but i think uh joe's a quick learner and he's easy he's someone
who can easily adapt so we'll see uh what he has in store for us next week on dancing with the stars
oh i love that and him and kendall They're good. They're good. Yeah.
Yeah. I've gone on a lot of dates with them.
Third wheeling.
Is she here in LA then with him?
Yeah.
She lives in LA.
I don't know why I thought she lived in San Francisco.
She used to.
Oh.
Yeah.
She went to school.
She went to school in San Francisco.
Oh, okay.
Kendall.
Well, good.
But Kendall's a sweetheart.
She's a good soul.
She's a good girl.
Seems like it.
They both compliment each other good.
Yeah.
They're both quirky and weird in their ways. which is nice because it makes a unique relationship.
Yeah.
Aw.
So if you guys could go on a double date or trip with any bachelor, bachelor in paradise,
bachelorette couple, who would it be?
Well, babe, don't we already have one coming up?
Wait, what?
We do.
We actually have one.
Do tell if you can. Angela and Clay what? We do. We actually have one.
If you can.
Angela and Clay next week in Miami.
We're doing a nice little family trip.
So we're all going to be celebrating our relationships together.
Clay's a good friend of mine and Angela's a really good friend of mine.
Yeah, and Chris actually set them up. And I set them up.
Really?
You know who they are, right?
Sheena, I should actually hook you up.
Wait, are you talking about Angela from Paradise?
Bachelor in Paradise.
Eric's Angela.
Yeah.
Yes.
And Clay, who is the Bachelorette. Okay, yeah.
NFL player.
Yeah.
Chris actually set them up.
So they're dating?
Or this is their first date?
They're going to get married.
They'll get married.
They'll get married.
I love that.
Yeah, and Angela and I are very good friends.
I like that.
We're all very close.
She is beautiful.
Shout out to her genetics.
So Nick sent her home on night one.
She came down and I go, I know exactly who you are.
You wore the red dress.
Yeah.
You went home on night one on Nick's season.
And you had the photo album with your grandparents.
And she's like, yes, I did.
I was like, I know.
Because I was like floored that she was sent home.
Yeah.
So her and I immediately became friends.
Oh, God.
And we're really close.
So we're so excited.
So yeah, we're celebrating our engagement. They're celebrating them as a couple. And we're really close, so we're so excited. So, yeah, like, next, we're celebrating our engagement.
They're celebrating them as a couple.
And we're doing it all together. So, four days
in Miami. I really liked him
on his season. Aw.
So we're excited. Yes.
Very cool. And I'm a matchmaker, so she knows. Yeah.
When you're ready for a man.
Here's my question, as you can see
me circling. Who do you guys have
in mind for me?
Man.
I'm going to have...
A strong man.
Are you talking, like, from the Bachelor franchise?
Yeah.
Like, if there were someone from that, who would you think would be good for me?
What about Jason?
No.
What about Chris Harrison?
Isn't he married?
No, he's divorced.
Yeah, not Chris, though.
No? No. No.
What about Jorge?
Fernando.
Wait.
Do you need an older man?
No.
You would take a younger guy?
I just need someone who's a freaking man.
Maybe Nick from Orlando.
Nick?
No. We'll brainstorm a little more. He's a lawyer. maybe Nick from Orlando Nick asbestos yeah no
we'll brainstorm
a little more
he's a lawyer
he's an asshole
sometimes
yeah
let us put that
on the back burner
yeah
girl we gonna find you
one day
yeah see the thing is
I'm not looking
but if anything
were to just happen
happens to show up
on your doorstep
but I was just curious
who you would have
in mind for me
if I was looking
which I'm not but you're not again if ABC wants for me if I was looking. Which I'm not.
Which you're not.
Again, if ABC wants to make me the Bachelorette, I'm not going to say no.
She's putting that out there.
I support it.
If you bring us on as a guest, then we'll support it.
And we will pitch that.
Yes.
That's a phone call away.
Thoughts on Colton being the new Bachelor?
We're team Colton.
Team Colton.
You know, he is so multifaceted and has so much to offer.
Yeah.
I think really, I thought it was going to be Blake.
See, that's what I thought.
And I was talking to Wills about this because I was like, dude, you should be the next Bachelor.
And he's like, I'm not even in consideration for it.
Right.
He thought it would be Blake or...
Jason.
Jason.
Or Colton.
I think Wills deserves...
I thought Colton, but I didn't know.
I think Wills deserves an extra chance on Bachelor in Paradise.
I do too.
He went home early.
It wasn't fair.
No, we watched that episode together.
So we did my podcast, grabbed dinner.
We were shocked.
Watched that episode together.
And I felt so bad for him because it was like, I don't think he said one word in that entire
episode.
He got like little to no air time.
It didn't make any sense.
No, he's so dope.
It's crazy because that rose ceremony, it was like I was going to give either Chris or Kenny my rose.
And Tia was like, I'm going to give it to Chris or Colton.
And so I was like, okay, as long as Chris is going to get a rose.
Because we'd only had small off-camera talks.
We hadn't kissed or anything.
And I just felt so drawn to him.
So I was like, I just need it.
If Chris isn't getting a rose, I'm giving it to him.
Yeah.
And Bibi was supposed to give it to Will.
It was all planned out.
All the girls talked.
Oh, he told me.
And then last minute, all of a sudden,
and we were all just like, wait, what?
Yeah.
Yeah.
That was definitely a plot twist there.
I don't think Will saw that coming.
And I know he had conversations with her, with Astrid.
Like, everything that, again, wasn't shown.
And if Colton goes home that night on the first rose ceremony, does he actually become the next Bachelor?
That's the real question.
Because I think that heartbreak with Tia and that relationship in Paradise I think helped elevate his stance
and position as being the Bachelor.
I'm saying the next day Becca showed up.
Do you guys watch Unreal?
No, I've heard about it though.
Okay, do you think
maybe a producer
was in Bibby's ear being
like, so we really need to keep Colton around for
ratings? So like, you know, Wills isn't
giving us much so we think you should give your rose to Colton.
Because that's what I think happened.
I'm saying yes.
Absolutely.
Watch Unreal.
That's what happened.
100%.
Whatever.
Wills, you deserve another chance.
Expect the unexpected.
Yeah.
That's what we've learned.
Hashtag justice for Wills.
Yes, right?
For real.
I was hashtagging Wills for Bachelor.
It's about time.
We need a brother. Maybe next season. It's about time. Maybe next.
We need a brother.
Maybe next season.
Right?
They do.
And he would be.
So imagine just like the fashion sense.
Right.
Every rose ceremony that Wills would have.
Like he already did.
But like as a Bachelor, I'm still rooting for him.
All right.
Last question.
If you guys could change anything about your season, what would it be?
And this one's coming from my mom. From the Bachelor
or Bachelorette season? Yeah. Well, I guess either
or, but I'm just saying, is there one thing?
One moment. I already know.
One thing, what is it? Haircut, beard,
headshot.
100%. Take away the
beard, give me a nice little fresh cut,
and then my headshot would have been
absolutely different, and it probably would have been
a game changer.
But it doesn't matter because I'm happy now.
You already won.
Yeah, I already won.
You won.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Winning.
But that would have definitely at least had a better visual image.
You know, mine would be in the preparation of going on The Bachelor.
I literally was balls to the balls up until the minute I arrived to hand over my phone working.
minute I arrived to hand over my phone working.
And I wish I would have taken, you know, a week off and just kind of ground down centered and got to a different headspace.
She has a really good work ethic.
She is very driven and ambitious.
That's amazing.
We have so much in common.
You guys are so much alike.
She doesn't play.
She balls to the wall, like all in.
And that's what makes her a successful businesswoman.
Yeah.
Yeah.
That's awesome.
I love that.
Well, next time we get down to San Diego, maybe we can get my ass in better shape.
Oh, hell yeah, girl.
We're actually moving.
She actually brought you a total body guide.
Oh, really?
Oh, I did?
Oh, my God.
That's a little gift.
Yay.
So I forgot about that.
Yeah.
So she's like, you know what?
I'm going to give Sheena it.
If she goes through it, help her get shredded a little bit.
Yeah.
That's like, you know what? I'm going to give Sheena it. If she goes through it, help her get shredded a little bit. Yeah. That's like my goal.
So I was in Vegas doing a show for five months.
And while I was there, I'm dancing every night.
Like I was still working out, but I didn't have my trainer there.
And I tend to get a little lazy sometimes when I'm by myself.
So I just kind of lost the great shape that I was in.
And then we're filming all summer.
We're drinking all summer.
We're eating tacos all summer, which I'm still not changing.
But I wasn't working out as much.
And so I just, like, got back, like, a month ago.
And I was like, Halloween body is going to be on fleek.
So this next month, like, what?
What do we have?
Five weeks till Halloween?
Yeah.
I want my booty to look like yours.
Because those paparazzi pictures last night, I was like,
can you make my ass look like hers?
Because I wasn't standing at the right angle. I was like can you make my ass look like hers because I wasn't
standing at the right angle
and like you know
that's right
we already saw
like a post
yeah there was
so a post of us already
from the red carpet
on
oh I'm sure
and I was like wow
I want to see
all those photos of us
where are those gonna be
probably Getty
Getty images
might be one of them
I'll find out
I'll see who all
was there last night.
Gotcha.
Yeah.
I'm excited.
All right.
Tell everyone where they can find you on social media.
You can find me at CoachCrystal underscore or my website is CoachCrystal.online.
And you can find me at Chris Randone on Twitter and Instagram.
And my website is DominantSalesTraining.com.
Love it.
Yeah.
Mom, at Erica Van Olfen, we are trying to get through that 10K, people.
10K.
Let's go.
I'm following.
I'm going to have my mom follow.
Awesome.
Yes.
You got to be part of the mom's clique.
Right?
Are you single?
Yes.
No.
Oh, that's okay.
You can still be a part of it.
I've been with my husband 34 years.
Wow.
That's older than all of us.
That's crazy. Wow. Thanks, older than all of us. That's crazy.
Wow.
Thanks, Sheena.
Thanks.
All right.
Well, thank you guys for listening.
Don't forget to follow Shenanigans for fun little videos and stuff you won't see on at
Sheena's Instagram.
And yeah, I'm so excited for you guys.
I can't wait for the wedding.
Yeah.
We can't wait to have you there.
Yes.
It's going to be awesome.
All right. Thanks, guys. I can't wait for the wedding. Yeah, we can't wait to have you there. Yes. It's going to be awesome. All right.
Thanks, guys.
Bye.
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