Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Mortified at Tomtom

Episode Date: June 25, 2021

This week Scheana fills Jamie in on her recent dinner at TomTom with Brock, Lala and Randall. Two embarrassing incidents occurred which left Lala mortified and Scheana reluctantly having to pull the “I’m on the show!” card. Jamie shares the meaning behind her new tattoo and no surprise, it’s so emo. Plus she gives updates on her drinking detox. How did she do at Brock’s Burning Man themed birthday party without drinking? Let’s just say she ended up seeing cows and gnomes in Tom and Ariana’s neighborhood. The ladies wrap with listener questions including what Scheana is most excited about for the upcoming season of Vanderpump Rules, new cast and if Jamie will be making any appearances. Scheananigans is produced by ACTIONPARK MEDIA Follow us on Instagram: @actionparkmediagroup @scheana @jamielynne24 @scheananigansSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Action Park Media From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hello, everyone. Thank you for listening. It's Shenanigans with Sheena and Jamie. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you? with Sheena and Jamie. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you? I'm good. I'm refreshed. I'm back from a three-day weekend in San Diego, which was so nice and needed. Yeah, it must have been so nice to get back down there. It was, and it was the first weekend that we've had without any help.

So as much as I missed my parents and I wanted to spend Father's Day with my dad, we saw him the next day. We did dinner with him last night. It was nice to know that like I'm okay doing this on my own, like down in San Diego. And of course you are. Yeah. No, I know totally. But it's like, you know, we have her in LA full time and my mom is here at the drop of a hat anytime I need anything.

So being down in San Diego, we're like, okay, you know, if we start splitting our time more, like we don't have help down here. But all of my neighbors are so sweet. When they heard me say that, they're like, if you guys want to go to the gym, like we can watch her just, you know, make sure she's fed and we'll take her for like an hour or whatever. Would you even allow that at this point? I don't think you would.

I don't know. I'm like, you know, like Mike and Cheryl, I love them. And those are like her other grandparents, like her grandma and grandpa down in San Diego, but I haven't left her with anyone else yet. I know. So I don't know. How about this? Let's do a trial. You and Brock go on a date night and you leave her with me. I mean, I've left her with Tom and Ariana. Oh, did you? Yeah. We did a little lunch date. Oh. Which you guys will see in probably like six months.

How did they do? It was really cute. Well, Ariana, I mean, I can't get into it too much. But from what I heard, Ariana was very hands-on and Sandoval just kind of watched. But he also brought a guitar. And they sang an acoustic version of Good as Gold. Oh my God.

So, yeah. That's hilarious. Hey, your mommy sang this song. Yeah, it was really cute. That was also for not very long. Speaking of their house and like music with them, so upon like entering their house, that front room, whatever it's called, is like my dream room. They have a piano. They have a piano.

They have a guitar. They have like this awesome, like well-lit like mirror. That mirror is the sickest piece of furniture in their entire house. I'm obsessed with it. Me too. It's so cool. I've never seen anything like it. I know.

It like almost looks like 4D, 3D, like Alice in Wonderland. Like you could go into it. Yes. It has depth. Yeah. I want to know where she found that. Yeah. So cool.

I know it's like a really expensive piece of furniture. I'm sure. It's probably like a one of a kind thing, but it's so dope. I love it. It really is. Well, you left, I think before, and I did as well, before they set up karaoke. Yeah, I did. Brock stayed though.

Yeah, Brock FaceTimed me. So my mom and I mirrored my phone and I put it on the TV and we felt like we were still at the party just like watching the whole karaoke night. It was fun. So like, you know how like I always joke that like, hey, like you always talk about me doing mushrooms all the time on this podcast, but I rarely do them. Yeah. So you did them again. As you all know, I'm on my drinking detox cleanse. I'm now on, You did them again. As you all know, I'm on my drinking detox cleanse.

I'm now on, I've added social media to that detox as well. But at that party, there was a little bit of mushrooms. I had a cap, a small cap, you know? I forget which is more hallucinogenic, the cap or the stem. I don't know. But the cap, like I barely felt anything, which was great. Like I didn't want to. Like it basically just relaxed me.

It was like taking like a hit of weed or something. That's all it was. It didn't do anything crazy. I was not. Okay. Then it's the stems. Cause I've only had stems. Oh, gotcha. Yeah. Barely. It just, it was basically just like relaxing and I was just laying like on the couch for like, and it only lasted like 30 minutes to an hour. It was perfect. And it was just like, cool. Because like I wasn't drinking and I honestly didn't need anything, but it was towards the end of the night. And I was actually like feeling like a little, you know, not feeling great, you know, about my life situation at the moment. And so I just took that and I felt amazing. But point of the story is, so when Brett and I left, we were all parked somewhat close to each other. So we get to my car first and I'm like, you know what? It's a beautiful night. I want to keep walking. Let me get to my car first. And I'm like, you know what? It's a beautiful night.

I want to keep walking. Let me walk you to your car. Yeah. And then I'll come back to mine. And he's like, OK. So as we're walking, we find this house down the block. I saw that on your story. Down the block from Tom and Oriana's.

And there was lights everywhere, OK? There's a cow, like a cow statue in the yard. It was so random. I was like, where did you go? You told me you were going home. It was their street. And then I saw this on your Instagram. And I'm like, oh my God, did the mushrooms just kick in or does this house really exist? I'm seeing cows and lawn furniture. That's funny. Yeah. I saw that on your story and I was like, did she go to an after party? I was

like, did the mushrooms kick in like so much that you were like, I can't drive, I can't go home. Like I'm going to someone else's house. And I was watching your story without volume. So I think that when I watched it again, you explained like, oh, I'm walking Brett to his car and I saw this. So I was like, oh, okay, she's fine. I was just like, where is she and what is she doing? This is just a house in Valley Village. And I guess it looks like this all the time. But yeah, it was hilarious. Cause I was like, wait a minute. Is this really, am I really seeing this? For you to like see a cow? That's funny. Okay. I'm going to have to check that out next time I go to their house. It's just down the street. Interesting. And was

it like, from what I remember seeing your story, it was almost like Christmas or something, but like with like farm animals? Oh God, it wasn't even Christmas. It was really random, but it was like lights. All different color lights, like purples and blues. It wasn't Christmas lights. Who just has like lights outside of their house? And then it was like decorated like gnomes cottage or something. That's cool and creepy. I'd love to meet the owner of that house. Right? We need to be friends with them. We should go knock on their door. Yeah, be like, what are you on?

Yes. What were you on when you decorated this? Yes. Oh, funny. Well, I'm glad that, you know, not drinking, you were still able to get a little something. Yeah, you know, I'm just experimenting with life right now. But that's what I loved about smoking weed back in the day was because I've never been a big drinker, but it's like, you know,

just a little bit of that, you get a happy high and you're just like relaxed. I was less anxious. And I mean, I did actually have to kind of learn how to do that without weed. Like when I was dealing with the miscarriage, I did not want to go back to smoking, drinking. I didn't want to do anything. I was like, no, I need to figure out how to handle this on my own. So I was able to, it's not as fun, but yeah, I miss weed sometimes. I like weed and I never really got it. I was never super into it. And the reason being is like if we're out in social situations, I wouldn't just because it makes me super antisocial and I don't want to talk to anyone. I will, if I smoke with you, it should be like way at the end of the night, right before I'm going to go to bed because I won't speak. I'll go in my own little corner. I don't want to talk to anybody

and I just think. It's nice for like relaxing my mind and like putting me to sleep, but it's bad for social situations. So I was never like really big into that. So I would just drink, but like, I don't even like drinking. I really don't. I feel so much better not. Even like yesterday I was at Disney and you know, you can drink at California Adventure, right? Oh, right. So I remember like passing by this group of girls and they were wasted in the middle of the day, just acting like idiots. And I remember like having the thought, I'm like, that will never be me again. And it's this like empowering, like happy thought where I'm like, I'll never look like a fool because I'm drunk again. Yeah.

Like I will never get to that. And I keep having these thoughts where it's like, I'm not missing it more than anything. I'm just like so happy that I've made this decision and it's not hard for me at all. So is it full, like not drinking at all still, or is it going to be just the hard liquor? I mean, going into this, like I said last week, like my intention was to just give up hard liquor forever and just do beer and wine. But because I don't want to drink anything for like this 30-day detox that I've self-imposed, I'm doing nothing now.

So after the 30 days are up, I'll reassess. I mean, there's a really good chance I just don't even want it anymore. Okay. But we'll see. So for next week, for the drinking and podcasting episode, am I drinking and you're podcasting? Yes. That's taking a turn. I for sure won't be drinking next week. I mean, I'm not opposed to smoking. I'll be smoking and podcasting. I used to do that. But like I said, I don't like to talk when I smoke. There was one time we even did a little

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slash Shay. Use promo code Shay for 15% off. I mean, we could try it. Maybe we'll have some like great insights or something. Yeah. Who knows? Or it'll be terrible. I don't know. I'm happy to do nothing or we could smoke and we could experiment. Okay.

So next week, we are going to be doing a Patreon only episode. We're taking a week off from doing the normal podcast. We're doing a video-only Jamie Not Drinking, Sheena Drinking, and Podcasting exclusive episode that we're going to get a deeper look into Jamie's current situation. Do you want to give a little teaser of what to expect on that episode? Because we're not going to be here podcasting at all next week. So you'll have to tune in to the Patreon to hear why we're not here podcasting next week and get a little taste of. Well, we just have, I mean, overall, we just have some announcements to make. Yes.

On both ends. True. So we'll just leave it at that. Oh, wow. Okay. Do you want to say more? Say what you think I should be saying right now. You are no longer in a situation you've been in since Valentine's Day.

There you go. Yes. More to come next week. But there's other things too and very exciting things and happy things. And speaking of good things and exciting things I told you and I can't give too many details but I just want to let you guys know that I'm so excited that a situation that we thought was good fell through regarding business and it turns out that something oh better has come along I'm so excited for this for you. This is insane. This is the biggest, hugest deal ever in my life, I think.

Yeah. And it's, I wish I could say more. When can you say more? Probably in like a month or two. Okay. Something has been in the works for about a year now. And I wasn't totally psyched about it. I didn't like the choice.

The direction it was going. Or the direction. And everything that I had envisioned for it and had hoped for it has now come true. You manifested it. The streaming network that it will be on as opposed to the previous network it was going to be on. Yeah. The content that it will be about is they're scrapping everything and starting over.

I love this for you. And it's enormous. And so if I'm going to be announcing that my life has changed in a sad way next week, let me also include some happiness with that as well. Yeah. Yeah. There's always a positive side to things. Totally. And that's the thing where, you know, when things in any situation seem like they're not going the way you want them to, it's usually because there's a better plan and there's always light at the end of the tunnel. A hundred percent. You guys, I totally recommend, I'm always recommending like weird, obscure documentaries. Yeah.

This one is called Thoughts Become Things and it's not on like any major like streaming work. It's like the next level to The Secret. Okay. It's about the law of attraction and how everything that we think shows up in our life. Everything, every situation we're in, everything that happens, it's because we've had that thought first and it's like this unbreakable law this just is how things are so by watching this documentary it just kind of like spells it all out it's super like interesting and very like

easy to understand if you search it thoughts become things like it's on this like weird app on yeah i have i use amazon fire stick i don't have cable, but the app is like Tubi, T-U-B-I, that it was on, but it's free. It was awesome. And like, that's what the guy was saying. He was like, you know, well, what about when, you know, I say like, I think about something and it doesn't come true. It's like, that doesn't mean it didn't come true. It means that these maybe bad things had to happen to get you what you really wanted, to push you to that place that you really need. So it's so interesting. You guys, I totally recommend you watch it. If anyone watches it, I will geek out with you on it. DM me. I am on an

Instagram break for about two more weeks, but I will get back to you. How has that been for you? I mean, it's fine. Like, did you delete the app? Did you hide it in a folder? I didn't hide it. I didn't delete it. It's still on my phone. I just have really strong willpower. I really do. And it's like, if I decide I'm going to do something, I do it like with the drinking or like when I was six years old and I said to my dad, I'm not going to eat meat anymore. And he's like, you can't do that. And I was like, six year old me. I was like, yes, I can. And I never did again. You know, it's like, I've never had an issue with like willpower, you know, even like living in like Hollywood and like me saying like, I'm never gonna do hard drugs. Like I've never

done Coke in my life. And like, God, how many times have I been around it? I know, that is so impressive. So it's like, if I say I'm not going to do something or I'm going to do whatever I put my mind to, I'm able to do it. So, you know, with the Instagram thing, I only decided this a few days ago. I did accidentally, I meant to open a different app and I clicked on it one time in my detox and this amazing post came up. I was like, oh my God, this is a sign. That's why you accidentally clicked on it because you needed to see that. I screenshot it and I'm going to read it for you guys at the end or now. Yeah. What was it? You're talking about it. Okay. I mean, it's kind of long, so I figured we'd save it for the end.

I mean, we can, but then what if you forget? And then we like wrap the podcast and you're like, oh shit, I didn't read that quote that I wanted to read. I feel like we do that often where we think about saving something and then we wrap it up and then like I'll think about it tonight when I'm in bed. Like, oh damn it, we didn't do that. All right, bear with me guys. And if you don't want to hear this where you see it's going when I start reading,

just fast forward maybe like a minute. Okay, so I'm going to read you guys the post and then the caption beneath. The caption is really long, but I think it's so amazing. And it's on this woman's site called Rainbow Salt. Rainbow. Yeah. And she does a lot of quotes that are amazing. And I'm normally not a quote person. I kind of think they're cheesy a lot, but this one. But sometimes you need to like see that. Yeah. This one really struck something with me. Okay. So the post is one day when you least expect it, you are going

to crash into someone who is going to be so soft and gentle with your heart. And you are going to be so glad you kept it open. You are going to be so glad that you continue to fight for it, that you chose to believe it deserved more. That's so true. Cause that's Brock. So the girl who wrote this, she then explains that in her caption, Please just have the courage to let go of the people who leave your heart confused. That's so many girls. Yeah. Oh, my God. So true.

Single Sheena. If you're confused or you have to ask her, what is he thinking? Does he like me? Then the answer is no. You should never be confused. I used to make myself so available just because I thought he'd like me more if like I was just like making everything so easy for him. Yeah, F that. And yeah, oh God, I, ugh. Yeah, okay. Let go of the people who make you feel like you are compromising all that you desire and all that

you hope for and all of the goodness and the beauty that you know exists in this world. For a skinny version of love, let go of falling in love with potential. Let go of falling in love with the idea of someone rather than who they truly are. Let go of the fears you have that keep you holding on to something that hurts, something that is so heavy, something that has only left you feeling misunderstood or unworthy or at war with yourself. Oh, it keeps going. Oh, it goes. Oh, I only saw the first screenshot.

Sorry, it's three more paragraphs, guys. I'll read faster. Let go of waiting for the people you have always treated kindly to treat you kindly. Let go of waiting for the people you have always treated with respect to treat you with respect. Let go of waiting for the people you have always chosen to finally choose you. Let go of waiting. Let go of holding your breath, just hoping that things change. Let go. Don't allow yourself to get comfortable existing in spaces where you know you deserve better. Love is not meant to hurt. Love is not meant to be given in bare minimums. Love does not require for you to be cooler or less emotional or less yourself for you

to be worthy of it meeting you. Love chooses you in the good and the bad. Sounds like the better version of Corinthians for like wedding vows in 2021. Oh yeah. You know, like love is patient, love is kind, but it's like, you've heard it so many times. This is like the new age. And in the good and in the bad

really strikes a chord with me. Because if someone can't stay with you in your bad moment, they're not worthy of you. Yeah, so true. It isn't an almost thing. It isn't something you have to beg for. It isn't something you have to fight for constantly. Something that is always a source of pain

and confusion and hurt. There is power in letting go of anything that is forcing you to let go of yourself. Don't ignore what you know in your heart. Remember, it is better to be alone than to feel lonely in what you're settling for. That is so true. It is better to be alone than try to fit your heart into the hands of someone who does not want to hold it. How sad is that? Yeah. It is better to be alone than to fight for someone who is not fighting for you. Word. Truth. It is better to be alone, to be your own foundation, than to spend any more of your time waiting

for someone to see the beauty in what you are giving them. You deserve good love. Promise you will let go of anything that does not feel that way. Promise to stand up for your heart. And also, I think it's better to be alone or not necessarily alone, but in a different situation that doesn't make you compromise things that you strongly want and feel. You know, I mean, relationships are about compromise, of course, but like when it comes to like huge life things, like, you know, having more kids or things like that, you can absolutely

compromise for the person you love, but they also maybe shouldn't expect that if it's something that you like strongly want or don't want yeah and to play devil's advocate on that it's like also like maybe there's things that you thought were important that someone can make you realize aren't or some things that you didn't think were for you and your eyes have been opened up because you feel this new way because of this new person. So all of that to me is okay that if another person can like show you new thoughts and new ways of like looking at things, I love that. But also like if there's certain things that are important to you and that person doesn't think those things are important and they don't want to put in that effort just to make you happy

and they chalk that up to like, okay, you're just not compatible. It's like, even if you're just asking for the bare minimum and someone can't do that and then they kind of like use that as a cop out you know that's the cop outs that's not cool i can't i know so you got a new tattoo i did which i haven't even seen in person yet i just saw like an Instagram story snap where I couldn't even tell what it says. So where exactly is it? What's the meaning behind it? Okay. Well, first of all, I pranked you and Brett in our group chat. It didn't, not for one second. I was like, oh, she's bored. I'm like, do I entertain it? And I'm like, I can't because it was like, it was so, had you not done the neck one and you just did like the, what's this?

The collarbone? Yeah. What's that? Like decolletage or whatever. Then I might've been like, hmm, ballsy, but okay. But the neck tat, I was like, there's no way. I'm not even going to entertain this. You're just like wasting time right now.

Well, that's exactly what I was doing because I was waiting for so basically like when they put the ink i get or stencil on you you have to wait 10 or 15 minutes until they can start right the tattoo so the tattoo artist was like you want to like fuck around like just like do some other stuff like stencils i'm like why and i'm like wait a minute i could fuck with my friends yes let's do a neck tattoo let's let's do it all right so we did like this like really cool like moth with like a skull in it and then like this uh lotus on top of the moth and then ivy underneath it yeah i was sending the ivy i would have believed right but it was because it started with like the butterfly and then the ivy was added i was like first of all the ivy's crooked so i sure as hell hope she is not for real where did she find this bootleg tattoo artist and like even

the moth was crooked when he yeah I mean I will say okay there I said there wasn't one second there was probably one second where I thought that you were just like trying it out to see like oh would I like a necktap because I mean I'm not gonna lie I kind of like the way it looks and what's hilarious is he reposted that yeah and all these girls started dming him like that's exactly what i want let me know how it turns out my god he got so much extra business and like i may have started a female neck tattoo craze wow who knows okay and then when i announced i was joking there were a lot of people that were like dming me like oh damn that was badass yeah no i mean you have one tiny tattoo so then for your next one to be a moth skull butterfly on your neck, I was just like, oh God. The actual tattoo is on my hip, the side of my

hip. Okay. Kind of like my side butt. You know what? That's a spot that I don't have one. I could get another one there. I like this area. I spent a lot of time thinking, I was thinking maybe on my ribs, but then I'm like, yeah, that's played out. And then my arms. And then I'm like, no, I like this because it's like concealed. And it's not something that I want people asking me every day. Like, what does that mean? You know, now I kind of want one there.

I need to see that. It doesn't hurt at all either. Yeah. I mean, I have them everywhere. And the one that hurt the most was my index finger because the part of it was on the bone. Yeah. Yeah. I could imagine. But the part of it was on the bone. Yeah. Yeah. I could imagine.

But the other fingers, none of those hurt. None of these. I do want to do some more words or something on my upper inner right bicep. Yeah. Yeah. So yeah, I put it on my hip, which is a great spot. Can't wait to take pictures when it's healed. It's actually feeling really well.

I was freaking out the next day because it looked all thick and blurry and there were words I couldn't make out. You have to, just because you checked someone's Instagram and it looks like they're great at, you know, tattooing skull moths on people's necks, that doesn't mean that they're necessarily good at fine lines for words. But thankfully it looks great. And do you see my ribs? I do. I learned my lesson the hard way. But I feel like that blurring in time. But look at the comparison.

Yeah. So when I was freaking out that I thought that actually happened to me, it's called a blowout. Yeah. And basically, it's like if there's an inexperienced artist, they go too deep is what happens. And then the ink gets into the fat, and then that's why it spreads. Yeah. I'm going to try to remove this one. I was freaking.

I was so depressed the next day. I'm like, can't something just go right for me this week? But then the next day it was fine. It looks great. And it's lyrics to a song that I love. And it goes, let's unwrite these pages and replace them with our own words. And it's from a song by Rise Against called Swing Life Away. So emo.

So emo. But the meaning to that, to me is that we all have these stories that we tell ourselves. I came into my last relationship with a story. Yeah, I'm from an abused relationship. I had years of domestic violence. I'm scared. I'm this and that I have all these flaws. I have all these issues. And like underlying all of that, which I'm finding through my therapy and stuff is this idea that I'm unworthy, you know, because of these stories that I've told myself about my past. You know, it's like someone who loves me and is supposed to marry me and is engaged to me can abuse me. Mentally, that fucks with you. Yeah. So I'm doing unfucking of my brain now. I'm fixing the things

that I didn't know I still needed to fix. So, you know, it's just basically saying like, no, like I'm going to rewrite everything with my own words, not these stories that I think something that happened to me meant this. Cause it doesn't mean that. And I am worthy and I do deserve love. Leads me back to that phone call that I made to you after Danny and I went to Big Bear with Ivy and he met Ivy for the first time. And I remember just dropping Ivy off, dropped Danny off, dropped Ivy off with my mom, got in my car and I sat and I went and like looked at this like mountain. And I remember calling you and Brett crying. And I was like, I'm not meant to be happy. And I'm scared. And like Ivy is going to be too much for him and he's going to end up leaving me. So I need to just end it now. And I was so scared. And I remember the words coming out

of my mouth telling you guys like happiness isn't meant for me. Like I'm not supposed to be happy. So I sabotaged a lot of stuff with that belief. I'm getting over it and that tattoo is like the first step oh more to come next week yeah you're gonna show the tattoo next week as well oh yeah totally well yeah it looks great well I'm glad that it's not botched that it looks good me too I want to get another one Lala and I have actually been talking about getting the girls names on us. Cute. But while breastfeeding, I don't know if that's okay. So probably not. I read an article and it didn't really say that it was bad. I'm going to ask, I don't know if I should ask my OB or her pediatrician, but I have her two month appointment tomorrow. So I'm going to ask her pediatrician what he thinks, if he's heard

anything about that, because I would like to get one, but I could also wait six months. I would say wait. Yeah. I don't know. Cause I'm like, even just Google it, you know, it's not recommended to get Botox obviously. And that's something, a poison going into your skin and ink, you know, the body recognizes that as like a foreign substance. I don't know if it's considered a poison, but yeah, I have no idea. I don't know like how that works. But I assume you shouldn't. If any of you guys know, please like leave a comment, slide in our DMs and let me know. I feel like obviously the safest thing to do is to just not do it right now.

But if her doctor's like, oh yeah, that's totally fine, then maybe I would. I don't know. I saw you went to dinner with Lala and Randall. We did. to Tom Tom how was that um it was fun it was busy we thought about bringing the girls and then I remembered when you and I went a couple weeks ago and I was like wait wait no I was like Friday night oh my god so we were at their house we did a little spa day the guys did a scotch tasting and then we went went to dinner after. So we drove separately. We pull up to valet. And I just, I had a feeling, because it was like 8.45.

I was like, what? She's going to say that the fucking valet is full. So we pull up, and we're behind their car. And the valet is like, no, no, no, no. Like, shaking his head no. And I was like, wait. I was like, we're with that car. And he goes, then can you call them?

Because their car won't start. And I was like, what? Oh, no. And so Brock gets out. And he's like, oh, I'll handle it. Brock jumps out, gets in the car. And he's like, wait, this is so weird. I was like, oh, he probably accidentally took the key in with him. I was like, I'll call him. So I call Randall and he's like, what's up? Where are you? And I was like, we're behind your car. I was like, your car's not starting. Do you have the key? And then Brock goes, he ran out of gas. He doesn't have gas. Oh, no. And Lala said when they got in the car, she was like, dude, like, we should probably get gas.

And he's like, we'll make it. Oh, no. They made it to valet. But then he was, like, kind of stuck. So then he had to go in neutral. Brock's pushing it. Lala was like, I am fucking mortified that, like, we're pushing your car out of valet. So then after Brock helped push the car,

the valet was like, I'm still full. I was like, you're a fucking asshole. You know, we've had issues with that valet before. Yeah, and it was the same guy. Annoying. I know. And the valet pre-pandemic were awesome. They knew my car.

They would leave it in a good spot for me. I guess I was just spoiled. But this new valet, he's like, he's not a fan. They better recognize. Yeah, then get this so then we go and we're like looking for parking we like everywhere is just fucking full and brock was like i'm not gonna make you walk all the way from the library to tom tom he's like so i'll just drop you off so he drops me off i have both of our wallets in my purse i walk up it's all like new

people at the front and normally you know just kind of walk in because right there at the line, then like people were like asking for my picture. And I'm still I'm great with taking photos always. But now in a world that's back to normal and there's no masks and I'm not fully vaccinated, I'm still a little paranoid. And I like to, you know, sit in the corner kind of away from people until I feel safe. So a couple of women like come up to me right away and I'm like, OK, I'm just going to keep my mask on. And I'm the only person in West Hollywood in a mask, by the way. So I do that. The host guy at the front doesn't notice. And not that it's a big deal, but doesn't care. So then I'm like, okay, well, I'm not going to get in line. My friends are already in, you know, I just walk in. So I walk in, he stops me and he's like, ma'am,

I need to see your ID. And I was like, oh, seriously? He's like,'am I need to see your ID and I was like oh seriously he's like yeah I don't know you I haven't seen you here before and I was like oh hi for you okay so I pull out my wallet I hand it to him and he goes who the fuck is this I handed him Brock's wallet so he sees like a bearded man and I'm like trying to use that as an ID then I'm like but then people are taking pictures of me and then I'm like getting like frustrated and I'm like I have never ever ever will be like I'm on the show right but I had to because I was just like now I'm like embarrassed I'm like pulling out the wrong like ID people are taking photos of me I was like we're gonna be here all the time I was like what's your name like I'm Sheena I'm on the show like my friends own this

place and then Brett sees that like I'm like not, what's your name? Like, I'm Sheena. I'm on the show. Like, my friends own this place. And then Brett sees that, like, I'm, like, not getting harassed, but he was just like, why is Sheena, like, taking so long to come in and, like, digging through her purse? He's like, she's on the show. She's fine. And then he, like, pulled me in. I was like, thanks. But I'm like, I never do that. But it was just, like, when there's, like, so many people around and then, like, taking my photo and I'm,'m like flustered. I was just like, I just want to go in and see my friends and sit in the back. And I mean, there's just so many new people working at the restaurants now that like you would think they should know, but then they don't know. And I'm not the person who's like, oh, you should know who I am by any means. But when people are

like pulling me for photos and like, you see, I'm clearly like flustered. It was a lot. So I don't recommend going there on a Friday night. But the food was great. What did you get? We got the spinach and artichoke dip, which has this like crispy pita bread that's so bomb. It's like, I think some of that comes on the vegetable platter that you and I got. So good.

We got cauliflower wings, which are vegan and so good. We got crispy chicken sliders oh my god the goat cheese balls at tom tom i'm sorry to say this but they're so much better than sir what's the difference they're like they're a little bigger you get four oh yeah you get one more okay and the cheese is like hot and almost just like melts in your mouth. Like it's like soft. Whereas like at Sur, it's almost more of like a thick goat cheese. Yeah. But at TomTom, like it was just like melts in your mouth.

So good. That's amazing. Yeah. So. If I can beg the gods at TomTom to come up with a vegan goat cheese ball, you guys, I would be forever indebted to you. There's vegan cheeses. But goat cheese is such a distinct taste and flavor. If we at Sugar Taco can make those quesadillas, the cheese in that tastes like better than an actual dairy quesadilla, they can do it. I don't know if I'd say better, but it's pretty damn close. It's the best vegan

cheese I've had. I've never had vegan cheese that's that good. Me neither. It's really good. And it's made from scratch. It's like queso-y. Yeah. I feel like the goat cheese thing could be done. It's not impossible.

I mean, if they're 3D printing filet mignons, you know, anything is possible. So I implore you guys. It was so funny. I remember like months ago oh no it was after like the last season's premiere party remember we went to rocco's after oh yeah that was a wild night and then people were getting arrested yeah but i remember like somebody went it's probably tom and like some i think he had like one of the chefs from tom tom go up there

with him and the chef goes because this was like before they expanded. And they said, we're expanding TomTom. And I could have sworn, he said, and we're doing an all vegan menu. And I was freaking out. I'm like, this is such a great idea. Lisa Vanderpump loves animals. This is perfect. This is such an amazing statement.

And then, you know, came to find out like I misunderstood what he said. And he said something like, we're going to have an all-new garden or all-new menu. But, like, he didn't say vegan. Oh, I mean, they have vegan options. They have a few options, yeah. Yeah. I mean, a couple months after that, the world did shut down. So maybe they were planning on doing a whole vegan menu, and then it just didn't work out.

I don't think they were, but I'm trying to plant some seeds right now. Yeah. If anyone is listening, at least do a separate, like, little menu. I mean, it's West Hollywood. You love animals. Like, come on. Let's do it. Have you eaten at Bottega Louie?

I have been to the one in downtown, but not the one next to Tom Tom. It looks so good. Can we go? I would love to. It's, the one in downtown is amazing. It's legit Italian food. It tastes like real, it's not this like West Coast Italian. It's real Italian food.

Yeah. It looked like it. Yum. We're going to have to try that. that yeah and the space itself is beautiful yeah it's really nice i'm so excited it finally opened i'm waiting for that so we had some questions i know a lot of questions came in that were very baby centric and from some of the recent reviews you guys think that i've been talking about the baby too much. But it's kind of my life right now. You know, I'm like a full-time mom.

I'll throw in some baby questions and they can deal. But one of them I saw was, do we have a SNU? And we went against the SNU. I was actually talked out of getting that. Because the Nanit monitor I have with the breathing wear wasn't compatible with the SNU wrap that you put the baby in. But also we have a Baby Delight one that can like unzip. So you can like have the baby sleeping next to you, but literally just like reach your hands in and pull her right out.

And it's very breathable. It's safe. And I love it. So we went against the SNU. Cool. That was all foreign to me. I have no idea what the hell you just said, but awesome. Okay. So someone asked, the Nick T wanted to know how is post-baby

sex, but let me tell you. Still hasn't happened. Hasn't happened. Good little update. But I was going to tell this person to listen to last week's episode because we answered it then too, but nice update. You went to San Diego and still. Want to know why? Sure. I got my period. That's bullshit. I am breastfeeding full time. But what my doctor said is he thinks it's because I just started a birth control pill that caused my period to start early. So yeah, wasn't going to do that on my white bed. Oh, okay.

But to be continued. I am getting an IUD ordered next week. And I guess that's like effective immediately. But I heard that also fucks with your period. So I don't know. The first time post-baby is not going to be when I'm bleeding. I can tell you that. Okay.

Unless we're in a shower. The showers here are too small. Okay. What are you most excited about for the new season? Ooh. From Marissa. I'm so bad at reading people's names. I'm excited to see Brock.

Honestly, like I think he is such a natural and I think that there's going to be a few episodes where people may not find him to be their favorite person, but we'll see a personal story come full circle and we'll really, really fall in love with him. And I'm just so excited for that part of it. And just to see like our relationship, because I genuinely feel like this is the first

and only like mature, adult, supportive, fully transparent, honest relationship. Like with Shay, I mean, he was like my number one supporter and was an amazing person. But we had a lot of skeletons that I tried to hide and I didn't want to talk about because I wanted everything to just seem as if it was perfect. And then we all know what happened with the guys after that. So I'm just really excited to see Brock and I's relationship.

And I know it's not Brock and I's. I just said that because it bothers you. You heard the little like things fire off in my brain. Yeah. Yeah. Well, that's exciting. I'm looking forward to seeing all of that. And we still have some exciting things coming up that you'll probably see on social media. So stay tuned. But yeah, and I'm really excited to watch back James and Raquel's proposal because that was just fucking epic that'll be a great episode oh it's gonna be so good yeah yeah and that was by the way that was from Marissa Ned 23 I'm sorry a lot of times when I read the questions I never say the people's yeah names but I'm going to try to be better at that thanks Marissa she also wants

to know about new cast members and will Jamie be appearing? Jamie does appear. Yeah. Jamie's got some cameos. Jamie's got some call times. Yeah. I like it. There are some new girls who you may see a little glimpse of at Brock's birthday party in my vlog that came out this week. And I really like the new staff. Wait a minute. You vlogged at Brock's birthday party? Yeah. You didn't see that? No.

Yeah. I handed you the camera at one point. I recorded for when you guys were, when you brought him the cake. Yeah. I didn't see you doing anything else the rest of the time. Oh, yeah. It's out this week. I'll have to watch it.

Uh-huh. I guess I'm not in it. I don't know if you are, actually. I'll have to watch it. I guess I'm not in it. I don't know if you are actually. I don't know where the hell I was. I was in the pool with Ariana for like hours. Well, yeah, you're in that vlog for sure because it started on the yacht and then we did. I don't even remember you vlogging on the yacht. Yeah. You were sitting with my sister. I don't remember you doing anything. Well, I did and you're in it and you look good. And I'm sober and everything, which is crazy that I don't remember anything. You know what? All the times when I'm like,

I don't remember that. Maybe I just have a bad memory. I think so. That's so funny. Yeah. So if you have signed up for the Patreon, you'll see an extended vlog that also included Brock's first Father's Day with Summer.

So we have all that from last weekend in San Diego. But the longer version is the Patreon only one. Seabrown33, this is my girl. She lives in Boston. We talk a lot. I want to go to Boston. Yeah. Number one on my American bucket list.

I love Boston. We have to go to a Red Sox game. I want to so bad. Sunway Park is like my favorite place ever. It is top on my bucket list of baseball stadiums. Also, when we eventually do our podcast tour, Boston is one of the cities we're going to. 100% in Atlanta. Sure.

She wants to know, favorite thing about your friendship? Love you ladies. Ooh, I love how trustworthy you are. I mean, there's a million things I love, but I know that I could tell you literally anything. I could type it in a very incriminating text message and it would never go anywhere. And I don't have that with a ton of people. There are very few friends that I feel like I could say anything and there's going to be no judgment.

There's going to be honesty coming back and it's not going to leave that conversation. Yeah. And I mean, likewise, because the incriminating and embarrassing things that I send to you, there's very few people in this world that I would admit these things to. Well, and what you need to do, I told you this, you have to give a disclaimer if you don't want me to listen to your voice notes in front of Brock or like my mom. No, I have been. Because sometimes I'll just hit play and then I'm like, oh, shit, that's sorry, that's a private one. Brock, that's not for you to hear. Or I'll be like, yeah, Brock can listen, but he'll think I'm an idiot afterwards.

But that's fine. Which we have one of those. We have another story about, can we say an exorcism? Oh, God, yes. That'll be next week on Drinking and Podcasting. So I got a psychic reading like a week ago from our girl Eden Sustin, who she's read you before, Brett, I believe.

Yeah. She's done one or two with me prior. My mom. Oh, she did your mom too? She's amazing. She's great. What is her Instagram? Because I'm not on Instagram right now.

I don't even want to open it to look, but do you know offhand? I need to find that. Okay. Maybe we could put it in the episode notes or something. She's amazing. She's wonderful. She did it over the phone, but she is doing them in person now. But supposedly she was talking to my dad the whole time and our reading was only supposed to be an hour and it lasted two and a half hours because he wouldn't let her stop telling me things. So

got a ton of information. I'm sure there's a lot of you out there like Brock who are skeptics, don't believe in that kind of thing. So we are just- She actually changed her Instagram and now it's EdenHS. Okay. Yes. It was Talk Purpose Truth. It's her podcast that she has. Right. Yes. But it's EdenHS on Instagram. Yeah. So I mean, obviously like some of you are going to think we're kooks for believing in that and that's fine. So we're saving that for the drinking and podcasting episode. Everything she told us there. Stay tuned next week on Patreon. Yes.

All right. Do you want me to read any more questions? Are we good? If there's another good one, we can do one more. Oh, someone wanted to know our Enneagram types. But Sheena and I didn't know what that meant. Oh, I didn't even know what that was. I had to Google it.

And then it was, like, this long old test. And I'm like, I ain't got time for that. But we will be back drinking and podcasting next week maybe we do the Enneagram test we'll do it before yeah and then we can I didn't have time for today I got a pickleball tournament to go play in right now so yeah next week like I said we will not be here but we have some exciting announcements to make on Patreon. And happy birthday to Ariana by the time this comes out. Yes.

We have her party tomorrow. Yes. Happy birthday, Bestie. We love you. We do. We love you very much. And I love all of you guys. Thank you for listening.

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