Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - On a Summer Cruz

Episode Date: June 18, 2021

Scheana and Jamie recap a Newport Beach boat bash for Brock’s pre-birthday celebration. Brittany, Jax and baby Cruz were on board, along with Scheana and Brock’s friends and family. However, one guest went a little “overboard”. Next, the ladies discuss a Britney Spears themed party they are headed to and which Britney they will each be dressing as. Switching gears, Jamie reveals a personal story from her past and how she’s been on a transformative journey to release Toxic emotions so she can stop saying Oops I Did It Again and become Stronger. (See what we did there). ​ They wrap the episode with listener questions, including “How’s bedroom life after baby?” and Scheana does not hold back! Scheananigans is produced by ACTIONPARK MEDIA Follow us on Instagram: @actionparkmediagroup @scheana @jamielynne24 @scheananigansSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Action Park Media From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. What's up, everyone? Welcome back to Shenanigans. My normal, regular, scheduled podcasting co-host is back in the building.

How we doing? Hi, guys. I'm great. Wait, was it you last week or was it Brock last week? It was Brock last week. Oh, that was why we got a bunch of one-star reviews. Yeah, I was reading those reviews. I mean, I don't know if it's just that you guys are like fans of me

and you feel like he's like steamrolling me or whatever, but I mean, that's just like kind of like our banter. I mean, he's very opinionated, am I and it's a conversation. It's his delivery that I feel like they don't get or, you know, they don't appreciate. And, you know, it's mainly because they just love you so much. Which I love and I appreciate, but he's my person. Exactly. So it's like you're a package deal. And he's not here every week. It's just when, you know, you've been like gallivanting and need to get a COVID test and we can't meet up on the same day. Right. But no, I mean, Brock is amazing. He's wonderful. And he's so good for you. And I love you guys together. I just think that

if people don't know him personally, they might not get the way you guys speak to each other. And I guess if you guys don't like watch the YouTube and you just listen to him on the podcast, I could see how that could come across kind of not harsh, but like, wow, like that guy's a lot. But like if you watch our YouTubes and you see like our interaction together and us cooking in the kitchen and like the stuff with Summer, like if you guys see the Patreon, like there's going to be so many more videos that we put up with Summer that are just like personal like home videos that I'm getting put together right now. that are just like personal, like home videos that I'm getting put together right now. So I feel like, and hopefully, you know, after like the show airs next season, like you'll definitely get a more all around view of our relationship, but. Yeah. And anyone who has strong opinions, like he does, you know, it's polarizing, I think, you know, so it's like when you guys were talking about the whole sleep schedule thing and him being adamant that summer should be on a schedule by now,

if somebody disagrees with that, then that's not going to reflect well on him pushing that opinion on you. Right. But I also don't think that that should be a one-star review on the whole podcast overall. It's like review an episode, but now it's like my whole podcast rating goes down because people didn't like one episode. So that means my whole podcast is shit.

That's the nature of the reviews and a lot of it isn't fair. It's so frustrating. It is frustrating a lot. Even if, you know, sometimes when we have guests and people don't agree with the guests, they'll give a one star. I'm like, what? I don't know what it is and I don't know if I'm just biased, but I feel like people are extra harsh on you because, and I don't know why, but you know, when I look at other podcasts and their reviews, even if somebody doesn't like the guest or doesn't agree with the guest, they're not going to give the show a one star because of the guest. But overall, I think we've always said we need to take it as constructive criticism. And if there's a particular guest or topic that a lot of people are saying that they're not interested in,

you use it as marketing purposes and it helps you narrow down what the audience Yeah. But then on the other hand, it's also your podcast. Right. And, and I like doing it with him. Like we have fun when we do it together. That's great. But apparently you guys didn't like it last week. So he is not back this week. Jamie is here and yeah. So this weekend was a lot of fun. What happened this weekend? I can't remember. We were on a boat. Oh, yes. Not just a boat. We were on a yacht. I felt so bougie yesterday. So a couple friends of mine who are in Newport Beach have a really nice 60- foot sun seeker yacht and they invited a group of us to come on for Brock's birthday which was so much fun I surprised him and had his best friend from back home who lives in the states now but they like went to high school together it's like Brock's like number

one boy Charlie fly out and surprise him that was so that good. He was like, I forget what it was. He was like frustrated about something like work or I don't even remember. And then there's a knock on the door at our hotel and he's like, Oh God, like what now? I'm like, can you get it? And then I like grabbed my vlog camera and he's like looking at me like, why are you grabbing the vlog camera? And then he opens the door and it like took him a second. He was like, wait, Oh my God. And it was like, whatever it was, he was him a second he was like wait oh my god and it was like whatever it was he was frustrated about it was like completely gone and he was so happy it was like such a good surprise that was so nice you did that yeah I tried to do it last year for him but last year for his 30th it was like peak pandemic right and you tried to get his mom

right well I tried to do that with his mom and his sister because him and his sister share a birthday yeah but then they couldn't come out and then I was like okay at least if I can get Charlie from Chicago to come out but in Chicago I mean they were like shut shut down and it was just no there was no vaccine yet or anything and so he was just like I can't I'm like I know it's like it was worth a shot at least asking I'm like I will take care of your flight your hotel like whatever you need but I completely understood I mean I wasn't willing to travel yeah June. So I understood, but I was so happy that this year it worked out and I was able to surprise him because I've been wanting to do that for a fucking year. I'm so glad that happened. It was such a nice day. So who else was there? Let's tell everybody. So we had Brittany

there. We had Brittany or Brettney? Brettney. Yeah, Jamie and Bretney. And then we also had Brittany and Jax. They brought Cruz. So we had another little play date. It was Summer and Cruz's first time on a boat. Did you see Brittany's caption? Yeah, on a summer cruise. Perfect.

I know. I saw Stassi said, she's like, I've been waiting for this caption or something like that. It was just, it's so perfect how like all of the kids' names go really well together. Yeah. I mean, if Lala was there, it could have been like, you know, on a summer cruise in the ocean with the ocean or something like that too. But yeah, so it was a lot of fun. We had, oh my gosh, who else was there? My parents were there, my sister, Justice, my friend Danielle, who owns Plate Therapy therapy which are these little meal preps that are so good

she brought a ton of food for the boat and there was this like smoky chicken caesar salad with roasted red peppers and black beans and you guys it was bomb if you're in the la area i'm just shouting out this company this is not an ad but it's called plate therapy and they have really good meals that for me just being a mom now and filming full-time and doing all of this it's called Plate Therapy and they have really good meals that for me just being a mom now and filming full-time and doing all of this it's so easy to just throw something in the microwave for a minute so we had all of that yeah I was talking to her they deliver twice a week in the LA area all the way down to Marina del Rey and they also have I guess a kitchen that people can go in and just pick up stuff to go so they don't I didn't know that. Is that like up in Santa Clarita?

I think so. Or Valencia? Yeah, I'm sure it's on the website. They're like up in that area. But yeah, you could just pick up stuff to go if you don't want to do a subscription. Yeah. So shout out to Plate Therapy. That was bomb.

So that was fun. So we were all fed really well. There was a lot of tequila on the boat, lots of White Claws. Oh my God. One of our friends, whose name shall not be mentioned got so drunk that he forgot when he got there that he had valeted his car. So then like, we're like on the boat, like everyone's drinking, having a great time. We're at dinner and he's like, oh my God, he's like, I don't know where my keys are. And we're like, well, first of all, you don't need

your keys because you're not driving anywhere, obviously. But he was just like, I lost my keys. And I was like, well, they're probably at valet. Like you valeted earlier. And he's like, no, I didn't. I didn't valet. I parked in a lot behind. I was like, no, no, no. That was like for the boat. And then we parked your car. Like it's at valet. And he was just so adamant that it wasn't at valet. And then this morning I was like, so did you ever find your keys? And he said, yeah, it was at val ballet. Oh my God. See, this was a different experience for me because I was sober for the first ride. I'm doing a 30 day cleanse. I think I'm on like a week now of doing that. So initially I was just going to do like, I'm just going to

give up hard liquor for 30 days and just see how I feel and see what comes of that. You don't drink a lot of hard liquor anyways though. I don't, but when I do. You sound like the Dos Equis guy. What? I don't drink hard liquor, but when I do, I get fucked up. Yeah. I mean, I don't want to get into it, but I. We'll save that for, well, I was going to say,

we'll save that for the next drinking and podcasting Patreon. But if you're not drinking, then what? Then I just have to do the drinking and you're doing the podcasting? Yeah. Or we just do a non-drinking and podcasting, and we literally call it we're not drinking, then what? Then I just have to do the drinking and you're doing the podcasting? Yeah. Or we just do a non-drinking and podcasting and we literally call it we're not drinking and podcasting. Not drinking and podcasting. Cleansing and podcasting. I'm on a cleanse. I'm on a healthy, transformative journey right now. Okay. Which we'll hear more about on the not drinking and podcasting Patreon episode because you're not ready to get into it. But I have to tell you, like, I don't miss it.

I never really drank a lot anyway. But that's the thing. You don't drink much. I don't miss it. I've done this before for health kicks. You just had a bad weekend with some vodka Red Bulls. We've all been there. Well, I never want to be there again.

And even just, you know, seeing, like, being on the boat with everybody else drinking and me not drinking, I didn't feel left out. I felt fine. I still had a great time. Yeah, your life the last nine months. Last year. You don't need to drink to have fun. No. And it's like.

I don't even really enjoy drinking that much. Like I enjoy my occasional glass of rosé here or there, but I'm not a big drinker. Yeah, so I think I'm giving up hard forever. And then after these 30 days. Well, let's not speak in absolutes. Let's not get crazy. I said I think.'m giving up hard forever. And then after these 30 days. Well, let's not speak in absolutes. Let's not get crazy. No, I said I think. Like, that's my plan.

But I think, you know, and then maybe I would do wine and beer only. But I don't know. We'll see. But for now, it's 30 days of nothing. And I'm loving it. I'm absolutely loving it. But wait, then what does that mean for Psychic Jamie? Well, you know, I meditate.

I think I could still do it. And it's not like I'm trying to do it. No, it's not like you're trying to like have that as a new career path. But just like if we like, you know, need some answers and we're like, Hey, have a glass of rosé and let me know what you hear or see or whatever. Okay. So meditating. Yeah. You know, the meditating was when I got all your visions about summer and all of those things. That's crazy. San Diego house, got all your visions about summer and all of those things. That's crazy. San Diego house, all of that. I wasn't drinking for any of that. That's so true. Yeah. So it's okay. I mean, it's, if it is a gift that we have, then it's there no matter what I'm doing, you know?

So tonight we have Bretney's Britney themed birthday party. Yes. And I haven't even tried on my costume yet. I gotta say, okay, I love you, Brett. And I'm doing this because you're one of my best friends. But I'm so over these fucking theme parties. This group of friends loves a good theme. I mean, I'm one week postpartum and having to do four fucking themes in Palm Springs. It's like we've got off the runway. We've got 80s pickleball. We've got a white party. We got a fucking festival theme. It was just like, we've got Off the Runway. We've got 80s Pickleball. We've got a white party. We got a fucking festival theme. It was just like, I don't have clothes that fit me, let alone fucking costumes for days. And then last week at Tom and Katie's, they give less than, or I think it was exactly 24 hours for a James Bond femme fatale theme. Again, I don't have clothes that

fit me. I don't have anything like that. So I just wore a black jumpsuit that fit me when I was six months pregnant, so I knew it would still fit me now. And I put, like, a black blazer on. Yeah, you look so pretty. Thanks. But it's, like, I mean, I normally love a good theme, and I love to go all out, but I'm just so fucking over them this summer.

You're not in the mood. And then tomorrow we have Brock's birthday, which is a Mad Max Burning Man theme. Which I just found out. Less than 24 hours notice. Yeah. So we have that. And then I know there's going to be another party in a few weeks that's a cowboy theme, which that one's easy. I've already been looking at some stuff for that.

That's easy. I got the boots. I'll be fine there. But I'm just over these themes. Yeah. That's easy. I got the boots. I'll be fine there. But I'm just, I'm over these seams. Yeah. It's so many. I'm so curious to see how your costume fits because I was planning to do the oops, I did it again. Yeah.

Red jumpsuit. Uh-huh. But it didn't fit. Mm-hmm. And oh, how I love the metaphors. I know, right? Da-dunch. But yeah, it was, I think it was from China.

So it's like different sizing. Oh, for sure. So the torso is super short. Right? But yeah, I think it was from China, so it's like different sizing. Oh, for sure. So the torso is super short. Yeah. Right? So I'm like squeezing it up over my shoulders, and it's like tight. Camel toe.

Camel toe, tight in my hips, my butt, my boobs, obviously. But then it's loose everywhere else. Oh, that's so weird. That's awkward. Yeah. So I'm not wearing that. So I'll be, oops, Brittany, I still have the hair. Ready to go. You do. And I found a red patent leather skirt that I had. Oh, that's awkward. Yeah. So I'm not wearing that. So I'll be, oops, Brittany, I still have the hair. Ready to go.

You do. And I found a red patent leather skirt that I had. Oh, that's perfect. So it'll be a skirt instead of a jumpsuit. And you know what? When some things don't fit, you find things better. Yes. Very true. Well, I hope mine fits because I have no backup.

I should have just ordered. I was looking on Amazon, and they had a free Brittany hoodie, and I was going to gonna order it but then you suggested I do the stewardess from toxic and then Brett was like oh my god I love that and I'm like well fuck okay now like whatever so I mean now I have to wear that tonight and themes whatever I'm over them so speaking of toxic yeah I met up with my ex right so you guys I'm gonna let you in like your baby daddy ex not like a up with my ex. Right. So you guys, I'm going to let you in. Like your baby daddy ex, not like a recent. No, my ex-fiance. Yes.

We were together for seven years. Yeah. I'm not talking about the animal doctor ex. Oh gosh, no. Yeah. So here's the thing. I'm not getting too much into what we mentioned or what we didn't mention earlier. But in addition to my health kick,

I realized that I have some things from my past that are coming up and I need to heal that. And it's interesting because a couple of podcasts ago, I had that message for one of our friends, if you remember. Yes. You know, and it's like, I think I can take that message to heart as well. Yeah. And we all can. we all have stuff from our past that could be traumatic. You know, no one has lived a perfect, healthy life, you know, whether it's your parents or your relationships or whatever, like there's always stuff that's still buried deep inside. And for sure, a lot of times, like I naively thought, you know, I worked through it. I went to therapy, I let it go. I don't want to be with this person anymore. Like all of that, you know? But sometimes when you get into a new relationship, things from your

past come up. It bubbles up to the surface. And what I'm learning is like, it's meant to. Relationships are in a way are meant to like heal you. Yes, you have to be responsible for yourself. Yes, you have to heal yourself. But they're also kind of like mirrors. And like, if there's anything that's like unresolved, it will keep coming up in any relationship you're in until it's fixed so I had the realization that the things that my ex did to me with his PTSD and all of his issues were horrific he went to jail for trying to kill me so it's so gnarly. I mean, there's a lot, guys. And I don't want to bring the podcast down to that level right now. No, but you went through a lot.

I went through a lot. And like I said, I did therapy after that. And I thought I was OK. And just touching on the therapy and the mental health thing really quickly, that podcast that we did with Lindsay Palas, I had said something. And I want to apologize to all you guys, because I don't think it came out the way I wanted it to. Oh, yeah.

She was saying that, you know, her and her ex-boyfriend went to therapy, and it didn't help. And she said, you know, there's some therapists that don't help, and they actually make the situation worse. They could lead you in the wrong direction. They might not understand you. They might not have the expertise for your situation.

And I agree with that. But what I should have said was, but there are ones that, if you keep trying to find the right ones, they're out there. I didn't mean to kind of say like therapy was pointless or you shouldn't do it. Like I understand the importance of it. Yeah. You just, you have to find the right person who works for you. Otherwise you're going to be like, this sucks. Yeah. And what I've found, I've been to two group therapy sessions. Is that like on Zoom or in person? No it's in person. It's wonderful. Okay. And I find that that's what that's what works for me the best.

Yeah. I really enjoy it. I love hearing like other people's stories. I love connecting feeling like a sense of like community with other people who might be in your situation. And it's like every time I get out of one of these sessions I just feel amazing. You know I feel like weights are continuously now being lifted off of me on this little journey that I'm going on. You guys like sign an NDA before you go into the therapy, like the group therapy session? No. So you're just like trusting that these people don't just like talk about what you're talking

about? Like, yeah. Cause like, I guess I have a different view of things. Like if like I were to go to a therapy session, I would worry that it's going to end up on us weekly. Right. And probably wouldn't, to be honest with you. But yeah, that's not a concern of mine at all. Gotcha.

So there's no like doctor-patient confidentiality? I mean, there is. But not with the other – there's no patient-to-patient confidentiality. I guess. Yeah. Okay. But we also only know first names of everybody. Yeah.

And I don't know. You never know. They could be shenanigans listeners. They might know you. It's okay. And I don't know. You never know. They could be shenanigans listeners. They might know you. It's okay. Honestly, it's okay. It's okay. Yeah, it's just been really good.

So that's the little journey that I've been going on. Love that for you. Oh, so getting back to the point of meeting up with my ex-fiance. So he came over and we went for a walk. He went over to your house? Yeah. He didn't come inside, but we went for a walk around my neighborhood. And his mom was also visiting from the East Coast.

So she got to see Ivy. They haven't seen each other in a very long time. Oh, good. So Ivy was so happy to see both of them. It was really, really good. And I just told- She hasn't seen him since like pre-pandemic, right? In like two years.

Like in person. Yeah. Wow. Here's the thing. Also, like in addition to the horrific things he did to me when we were together, when we were not together, he would still, I hate to say this because like we're on good terms now, but if I'm being totally honest and I think he would allow me to be, he would harass me, you know, even when we weren't together anymore to the point where

he was trying to threaten to get me fired from my job. And it got to the point where I was like, why are you threatening the mother of your child? Like what good would that, you're hurting her by hurting me. And it forced me to have to get a restraining order against him so that he couldn't make these types of threats to me. He also threatened to, you know, go to her school and take her. So it got scary. Yeah, it got scary. It got serious. But he has all of his own issues. And he has been working tirelessly at fixing them, going to so much therapy. He's now on the right medication. That's amazing.

Yeah. And it was just so healing to have this conversation with him where I could tell him that he's forgiven. That's huge, too. Yeah. It's such a weight that's been lifted off of me. And then for him to tell me that he's, you know, to break down and apologize to me for everything and finally acknowledge it. He never acknowledged that he did any of these things. Oh, that's so.

And he made it like I was making it up. Yeah. And he finally admitted to me and himself that everything he did and how messed up he was when he got out of the military. And, you know, thanking me for supporting him and being there for him through all of that. And it was just a very good healing conversation. And I think I definitely needed it. Oh, good. That makes me happy for you. Yeah. Aw, look at this path that you're on. Wow. It's like, I don't see you for a week and all of this has happened. Yeah. Has it been a week, two weeks?

I feel like I've seen, I don't know. I mean, up until yesterday. I think it's kind of a blur. Yeah, because you were like in Florida and then you were in Texas and whatever. Yeah. So I've got some questions for you. Okay, let's go. A lot of people are asking, how is your sex life and your relationship with Brock after having Summer? My relationship is amazing. The sex life is still non-existent because I barely got the okay from the doctor five days ago at my appointment. And I have to get back on birth control. So they've ordered me an IUD because he says, well, when you're breastfeeding, there's only two types of birth control you can get on. Otherwise, it'll, like, dry up your breast milk.

So you can either get an IUD or a progesterone only pill, but you have to take it at the exact same time every day. And he's like, if you're not going to be good with that, then it's not effective. It's kind of pointless. He's like, so I definitely recommend the IUD, but that they have to order it, go through insurance. It takes two to four weeks to come in. Then they have to like surgically or however, like implant it, like put it in you. And then they can take it out whenever. So he said, that's the best option for me. It's also going to like fuck up my period for like the first couple of months, but I would rather go through that than accidentally get pregnant before we're ready. And I don't even know if I want to be pregnant again, just because of everything I went through

with the help syndrome. And I just don't know, like, I don't know that I want to put myself at risk again now that I am a mom. And I don't know if I want to, I don't know. I like, I had such an amazing pregnancy that I'm like, I can't have a better pregnancy. I could have a worse one. That's more likely. I'm high risk to have preeclampsia and help syndrome again. So I just, I haven't decided what we're going to do for baby number two. But all I know is I'm not ready for that in the next year. So being on birth control is just the best option because obviously we know Brock is very fertile. He got me pregnant twice last year when I didn't think I could ever get pregnant. So I think with certain birth control, like I remember when I was on the NuvaRing, when

you put that in, it's like instantly effective. But usually with pills, you have to take a whole pack like all 30 days before it kicks in. So I'm only on day two of my pills. I just started them yesterday. Are you waiting to have sex? Well, we just haven't yet because, I mean, I'm sorry. I'm not really a fan of condoms. So that's the only like safe bet.

I don't trust this pull-out game. Would you rather have sex with a condom than no sex at all? Not yet. I'm scared. Really? Now it's been seven weeks. So like now I'm scared. Like to go that long without it and then like to do it again.

And then it's like, are my boobs going to be squirting milk in his face? Like, I don't know. I'm just like. He might like it. I barely, like I said, got the okay from my doctor a few days ago. We have been so busy filming. It hasn't even been an option. But it's like I would rather not for – it's already been seven weeks.

I would rather not for a few more weeks and wait until I'm on birth control and it's super safe than like – Is he okay with that? Yeah, he's fine with it. Wow. Yeah, because we know you're fertile. We work well together. Our bodies like each other and we're not ready for that again. Like I could not imagine.

Oh my God. Like I just, I couldn't. Oh my God. That'd be so soon. So yeah. So we're just like, not right now, but it's like, who knows after the party tonight, we might want to, and we'll just use a condom. But I've just been too afraid.

And then like Summer sleeps right next to us in the bassinet. So like that's awkward. I don't know. And the last time we did in this apartment, I was so pregnant. It was so awkward. Like trying every position to try and like induce my labor. I was like, just forget it. We'll just go with our appointment, okay?

So to now try to get, I don't know. I think when we go back to San Diego, that's when it's going to happen. I'm so comfortable there. I love our bed. It's not until July. No, we're going back this weekend. Oh, okay. Yeah. I thought you meant like July 4th. Oh, like, like, no, no, we're going back this weekend. So I feel like if it's going to happen, it's going to happen in San Diego. And like, of course she still sleeps right next to us there too. But I don't know, maybe we put her in the crib for a little bit. Have you put her in the crib at all? No. And I have the monitor over the crib, but I have her sleep next to us in the bedside bassinet. And I'm like, do I put the monitor over the bassinet? Like I haven't done that yet. And I'm like, what was the point of

getting this monitor and breathing wear if I don't have it on her when she's sleeping but when she sleeps right next to me like I just feel like it's okay once she starts rolling over 100% I'm either gonna have the nanit monitor over her bedside bassinet or she's gonna sleep in the crib with it because that's when I really want to monitor her more but right now she's in her swaddle she She has her hands up. She doesn't move whenever she's hungry or she's wet. She makes noise that she like has this like grunt. And I'm like, okay, I got you. I'll get you out of your swaddle. I'll change you. I'll feed you. But she like lets me know when she's awake and needs something. So I finally have, I mean, obviously I still like every night we put her in, I make sure I'm like, are you breathing? Is your chest like, is it moving? Like, cause her swaddle's kind of thick. So I still like every night we put her in, I make sure I'm like, are you breathing? Is your chest like, is it moving?

Like, cause her swaddle's kind of thick. So I just like stare really closely to make sure her chest is still going up and down. But I've gotten past that initial fear of like not being able to fall asleep and just staring at her and crying. But I'm like, she's not even at that age that SIDS like really happens. That's like two to four months. And like when they start rolling over and sleeping on their stomachs and she loves to sleep on her stomach so that like terrifies me so I know whenever that time comes that I will have her like I said either in the crib with the monitor and I mean the room is right across from us and then San Diego it's right next door so

even in our bed if she wasn't sleeping right next to us I could still hear her but I need to monitor her this is so crazy what you're saying is so it's like another language to me. And it's, I'm like, how do I not remember any of this? Ivy's going to be eight and four days. Okay. And she slept next to you. She slept next to me. Yeah. I, I think she climbed out of her crib and I was like, nevermind. We're not doing that. But like, I forget all of this. So if like I were to ever have another one, I feel like I would have to relearn or you would have to tell forget all of this. So if like I were to ever have another one, I feel like I would have to relearn or you would have to tell me all of this again. I don't know that it would just all like come back to me.

For sure. So crazy. Yeah. So yeah, haven't had sex yet. I'll keep you guys posted on my do. Inquiring listeners want to know. We just, we really want to be safe. And you know, it's like when we're filming, we just have so much going on right now.

We're so busy and we're so fucking tired. That's like not the first thing on our mind. It's like, what are we having for dinner? Not like, when are we having sex? I will never get to that point. I will make a point of it. I mean, we did throughout the pregnancy. But like now, like.

I don't let this last too long. I'm no, but I just, I, I'm too afraid of getting pregnant again, that this is the safest way until my birth control kicks in other things. Yeah. But you don't remember what it's like having a newborn. It's not like, I don't. And also like now I'm being like telling you what to do. But also I think if like my bounce back was like a little stronger and I felt more confident being naked, I would probably be more horny. Are you having issues with that? I just like, I mean, I've lost like 30 pounds initially. So like that was great.

But now I'm just at a standstill. And now I just got the clearance to start working out again. So I just started working out again. But it's just my stomach. I know my stomach was huge. I grew a human, but it's like, I don't know. I mean, I, I've been working out like every day. I lost all my quarantine rate in a week, which is insane. But I have to say like, even as like a former personal trainer, I knew this, but working out is so effective like for depression, anxiety, stress. It's more

effective than any pill you could possibly go on. Yeah, for sure. So I feel like once you can get back in that exercise routine, you're going to just feel completely different. Totally. Yeah. But yeah, I mean, I've never had sex in my life this big and like uncomfortable so it's just not been like top of my list of things to do I get it but also you're beautiful thanks and he says the same thing and he needs the same I know compared to many like I'm doing very good for being seven weeks oh my god today postpartum but I mean yeah it's I'm not like excited to see myself naked not there yet okay so it'll happen probably this weekend but until then yeah we're just we're so busy we're busy figuring out fucking costumes to wear for all of our friends goddamn birthday parties no more guys okay we're

done after this are we too old for costume i know i usually have so much fun with them but now it's like what's gonna fit am i a small medium or don't know. Because on Amazon, some stuff in a small fits me, but then like House of CB or Pretty Little Thing, I'm like a large. And then some things I'm like an eight tenths. I'm a four sixths. It's like, I don't even know what size I am anymore. So I'm constantly measuring myself when I shop online and then looking at the size charts to see what size I am. And it's just very inconsistent with all of these brands. And then there's the Australian sizes and the UK sizes. And I'm like, I don't know what size I am anymore.

Frustrating. I don't even, like, I would think, like, once we were able to start going out and everything, I would be so excited to put on heels and dresses and dress up. Oh, I'm over it. I'm so over it because we just got so used to being in comfortable clothes that it's like, I will wear, you you know my vans anywhere I go or flip-flops like over heels now and I used to love getting dressed up I don't know if it's gonna like I don't slowly change and go back to that no I don't know so I got eyelash extensions shout

out to at b underscore lashed because uh Felicia is amazing she's good that is just the one thing that I'm like okay then at least I don't have to like wear full makeup. I still feel like I have a little something. My brow is microbladed. But it's like, it's just so much effort. Yeah. I mean, I've worn more makeup in the past month and a half or just past month than I have in like the last year. Yeah.

Because we're filming. Yeah. And I, oh my God, I don't even know how you do it because the few times that like I've had to show up for certain things you know where it's like every time like it has to be full makeup my hair needs to be done I need to figure out what I'm wearing oh I don't even do my hair anymore it just goes in a bun the last like four scenes I filmed my hair is in a bun because I'm like can't be bothered I don't know how you do it every day because like I if I do it a couple days I'm just like drained I think I've ran out of hoodies to wear that's kind of been been like my style. Thankfully at night it hasn't been hot in LA. So I can still do like the black over the knee boots with like an oversized like sweatshirt or hoodie.

But I'm like, cool. I think I'm on like my last one because I've already worn all of them. That's just like been my whole wardrobe. So yeah. Who's been bringing it this season with the wardrobe? Everyone except me. Everyone is like. Oh my God.

Ariana showed up the other night. I don't know if she posted anything to the Belmont. She had like these black high-waisted pants on and this like black almost like it was like a not bandeau but it was kind of just like it looked like she had like a wrap. It was like covering her boobs and then it crisscrossed in the front and it was just so hot and then like fucking Raquel. Oh my god. I can't with her. She looks so good every day I'm just like why are my friends so hot I love her hair short it's so cute it suits her so well yeah and like I love long hair as you can tell yes there's certain people I feel like that looks when they have the shorter hair that even accentuates their beauty even more and I think with her it does for

sure yeah I'm always like posting her when she's, like, doing her photo shoot, like, before we start filming. And she's like, can you take a photo of my outfit? Because she looks so fucking perfect. And then I'll just, like, post the behind the scenes of, like, Raquel's photo shoot. But, yeah. So, I mean, they've definitely been bringing it with the wardrobe. And, you know.

How are you doing? I feel like. With the wardrobe? With everything. Like, are you a little stressed? Um, stressed isn't the right word. I just I think overwhelmed at times because it's just like it's a lot every day. Yeah. And then it's like we have Sunday Mondays off. But like I'll either want to go to San Diego or like yesterday we had the boat and then like today.

I mean, today was like a day off, but then we still had to like drive back from Newport and then Brock was really hungover. And just having summer, I mean, it's a full-time job and it's the best. You have so many full-time jobs. I will be up every three hours for as long as she needs me. But she is sleeping better. Speaking of that last podcast, she's been doing pretty good with this routine we have. Yeah, it's just, I mean, it is a lot. I can tell you're, like, overwhelmed.

We moved to L.A. I can feel it. A few days later, we're in the hospital having a baby. We stay in the hospital for five days. A few days later, we're filming. A few days later, we're in Palm Springs. And then it's just been nonstop ever since. Like, I feel like I haven't just been able to relax.

And any time I get a little bit of time to relax, I'm like, well, no, I need to make sure, like, Summer doesn't need anything. Or, like, I need to, like, I'm always, like, checking in, like, when we are, like, filming something or I'm away from her and my mom's with her. I know she's fine and taking care of it. I'm like, when did she last? Is she okay? It's just, like, I feel like I'm constantly. And that's, I mean, welcome to motherhood, you know?

Are you feeling mom guilt? I'm working, you know? And that's one thing. Like, someone commented on, like, the post that Brock and I posted when we were outside of the Belmont. And they're like, oh, dad looks tired. And I was like, well, yeah, you guys are just, like of the Belmont. They're like, oh, dad looks tired. And I was like, well, yeah, you guys are just like out partying. I'm like, I'm working. Right.

So I'm not going to feel bad for working because that's how we're able to provide this life for our daughter. So I don't feel guilty because it's for work. I think if I was just like, like when festival season comes back up, I might feel a little bad. But I also know that like we're only going to go to the festival for so many hours. I'm coming home little bad. But I also know that like, we're only going to go to the festival for so many hours. I'm coming home to her. My mom will be there with her. I think the first trip away, maybe. But right now I don't feel any of that because like,

I'm only away from her when I'm working. I would never be away. I'm glad to hear that you don't feel that. Yeah. Also, like, I just want to let you know that even if it's not for work, as humans, as moms, as parents, like we need that balance. Yeah., I just want to let you know that even if it's not for work as humans, as moms, as parents, like we need that balance. Yeah. Like when we went to Tom Tom for dinner, you know, last week Brock was like, no, like have a night out with your girlfriend. And I'm like, are you sure? Like, I feel bad leaving, but like, I mean, it is good to just still have somewhat of a social life for like your mental health and all of that. Right. And of course I'm sure you're sitting there missing her. Oh, totally. And then people are coming up to me asking about her and I'm like, let me show you

photos. And then I'm like, can I just go home? But I feel like even if like you don't want to do those things, like occasionally it's good to remember to have that balance. For sure. And when you go back and even like in a relationship, you know, hanging out with, leaving your significant other, hanging out with friends, when you reunite, you have your other, you know, you each have your separate lives and then you can just bring more to the relationship. You know, you're more balanced when you're dealing with summer. So it's just a good thing to keep in mind. And I'm very happy to hear you're not feeling guilty. Yeah. No, not yet at least. But I can already see the comments coming in when like people see like how much I'm out and it's like well I'm working and a lot of

the time she's like 15 feet away from me right like when we were at sugar taco last week like my mom is there with her like yeah you don't always see her but she's there yeah someone came over and they're like hey we could see we could see your mom in summer you guys need to move over but she's there guys even if yeah so tomorrow for Brock's birthday party, like, you're not going to see her, but she will be there. Yeah. So, yeah. Is Ocean ever there? Not like...

Not during filming stuff? No. No. She has, like, a day nurse and a night nurse and a nanny and all of that. So I just, I have my mom, which I don't want more than that. But it's like sometimes, you know, she has to come with me. If I have to be gone for six hours, I can't go that long without pumping or feeding her so she's always there or i will be home in less than six hours that's the deal yeah so anyway this has been fun we got a party to get

ready for though yeah i can't wait to see your costume yeah let's see if it fits um were there any other questions um yeah the bathtub that oh um my mom got it at Target, I believe. Okay. Yeah. Well, thank you guys so much for listening. I hope this is not a one star podcast. And you know what? I will ask you guys, do us a favor. If you're enjoying this, if you're getting any entertainment or value out of this, let us know. Let us know what you like. Give us that five star review. Yeah. And constructive criticism is always accepted and appreciated because we want this to this let us know let us know what you like give us that five star review yeah and constructive criticism is always accepted and appreciated because we want this to be enjoyable so yeah it is what it is and we love you guys and thanks for we do thank you so much for listening guys

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