Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Reunion Prep with Brock Davies

Episode Date: December 3, 2021

This week, Scheana and Brock talk all about the upcoming Vanderpump Rules reunion! Scheana shares some advice with Brock and she gives him a heads up on what to expect on the big day. Scheana’s excited to have a partner with her during the entire reunion for the first time ever! Brock opens up about what it’s been like being on TV for the first time and watching it back. Brock also discusses the details of his past and the actions that lead to a restraining order against him… Follow us: @scheananigans @scheana @brock__daviesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea. All right, shenanigans time. Baby is down for a nap. Brock has the monitor pulled up on his phone. Shout out to Nanit. It is the best baby monitor. Just going to put that out there. We do need to start using the breathing wear that we just got because the other stuff was too small for her. And you know what's cool about the breathing wear with Nanette

is that when you put it on, it's actually just a bunch of triangles. It's a pattern. It's patterns and it watches it move, which is great. Well done. We haven't done it yet because she has slept in our bassinet next to us for the last seven months, but our sleep training coach said that she'll probably get better quality sleep in

her crib. So this past week, now that she's recovered from COVID and everything, we have her sleeping in the crib. Yeah, hashtag garbage sleeper. Thanks for that one. One of our friends whose daughter was actually born on the exact same day is having trouble with her little one sleeping too and said she's a garbage sleeper. We're trying to revert that. I think, I mean, there's so many different parenting techniques out there,

and that's the first level of, like, stress into a family. And then you've got to kind of kind of like go with that and parenting skills and find our way like pioneer through it what works for you what doesn't work for you what you what you what you want to do and so for us well for me i wanted to get a sleep coach to kind of like you know i would i'd rather do things the right way even though it's not the easiest way sometimes it's the right thing to do to my child and now i would love you you know comment below if you have any opinions about it but i think uh we're not doing the cry out technique we're not doing that no no cry it out i cannot do that we're just gonna go ahead and we're gonna work with summer's relationship with

sleeping and that's through the day and that's through the night so keeping her on like a time schedule whereas within this hour this is her nap time and she needs to get an hour and a half to two hours nap in and then she'll go to the next nap which is on a certain period of time great on her nap schedule it's the sleeping at night but she'll get there we've only done this for like six days yeah so we have that six, we've been consistent on like five of those days. Right. We have a great sleep training coach, though. Her name is Susan Menkes, and her company is called Healthy Little Sleepers. Yeah.

So she has been amazing. If you guys saw my vlog, like pre-baby, I had a little bit of like video Zoom meeting with her. I had a little bit of video Zoom meeting with her. And then at about four months, Summer hit a sleep regression. And she just kind of just stayed in it. Well, here's the thing. We also never taught her how to sleep independently. We didn't teach her the relationships she needs to have.

Well, she has slept in a bassinet next to us every single night. That's not independence. But that is what is recommended. Yes, but also... Everyone says minimum six months, baby next to you in a bassinet. Well, here's what you're saying, honey. There's multiple ways to do this, and this is why. This is such a fluid conversation between parents, especially when a child is screaming.

It adds to the fire, but there's different ways about that, what you're saying, like bassinet, no bassinet. I think we did our best. We also now need to let her be a little independent individual and let her learn how to look after herself and to go to sleep. But now that she's not sleeping right next to us and I can't hear or see her breathing all the time, I just ordered more of the breathing wear from Nanix. I'm like, okay, it's fine. If you want her in the crib, that is what's being recommended to us by our doctor and our sleep coach.

The breathing wear was also not recommended. They do not recommend that. The outlet they had talked us out of. It doesn't matter. They said on the same subject. They said if it was going to make me feel better. They didn't say that. They said for mothers that are super like worried and anxious about their baby sleeping, this is just going to cause more anxiety.

No, but that's why we went against the Owlette. The Nanit, they said, is much more accurate. Honey, your child. And this was better if I wanted something to monitor her breathing. You don't need to monitor your child's breathing. Humans have evolved this long without monitoring our breathing. Anyways, if you guys need help with your babies and sleep training coaches, I'm just doing a shout-out to Susie at HealthyLittleSleepers.com because she has been amazing.

Yes. Thank you, Susie. You have been my backup in many arguments. We just look at each other. I'm like, no, this is what we do. And then I'll refer to our email because she gave us like a plan. It was like, hey, you break it down. I like that.

Okay. I don't like rolling with the punches. No, you like structure. You like – Well, because from it down. I like that. Okay. I don't like rolling with the punches. No, you like structure. You like. Well, because from structure, you can have options. Yeah. But if you don't have structure, you have. Here I am doing an unstructured podcast.

We're just chatting. Which, why? No. Guys, it's my pet peeve. We're doing a catch up and we're doing some questions. What are we talking about today? Well, we were talking about summer sleeping. Okay.

You want to talk about the episode last night? You want to get into that? I mean, when's this come out? This Friday? This Friday. Let's dive in. So we have the reunion coming up this week, y'all. Guys, it's my first reunion. Comment below what I need to say. If you have anything for me to say. Honey, there's no comment below. We're podcasting. They can leave a review and comment in it. Five stars, baby. Brock. And if you give me a one star, I won't say it. We're so used to vlogging. We're like, comment below. And then, no.

Give us a five star review and go. Or go comment on shenanigans. For BD. Yeah. Comment on shenanigans. BD. And give me your questions that you would like me to slide in there. I say slide in there as if like I know what I'm doing at this reunion.

You're not hosting the reunion, honey. You're being asked the question. No idea what to expect. Okay, so have you ever watched a reunion? Yours, last year when we filmed it. That was it. Oh, right, the Zoom one. The Zoom reunion.

That was not a reunion. That was not a reunion. Okay, but you've never watched a Vanderpump reunion, but you've watched Housewives. I've watched Housewives. Okay, so you have watched a reunion. Yeah. And you see how they are.

Andy does not hold back. How did you feel being on Watch What Happens Live? Did you feel he grilled you? Were you uncomfortable? Did you feel prepared? Were you caught off guard? No, honestly, when it comes to like the kid situation and all that, I'm very comfortable talking about that now.

Good. Now. Good. No, because I think initially it it was hard it was difficult to kind of talk about that pain but then once i realized that my fate is in my hands like i'm not gonna let lala dictate how this conversation goes like i'm gonna say yeah i did do this i did you know and by doing that it was very hard to deal with and very and that was the first time honey i was ever on live tv can we just point that out?

It wasn't even like – and then to watch myself back and to hear myself kind of stutter and have my moments of dyslexia in there. Well, yeah, your timelines sometimes are a little off. But that was just because it was the first time on live TV. And I think you were nervous. Nervous as hell. When he asked you about the restraining order, what did you say? You said it only took like four years. And I was like, what are you talking about? The restraining order. What did you say? You said it. My go-to, guys, is like four years. Four years.

And I was like, what are you talking about? The restraining order was a decade ago. It was. It wasn't 10 years ago. It wasn't going to be me and chime in on live television and try and defend you or correct you. I was just like, I'm just going to let him dig his own hole right now. So, guys, when he asked me when did this happen, it was actually eight years ago. At that time.

From now to then. So eight years ago. Not four. Double that. Yeah. Was when the incident happened. I knew it was close to ten. And then after, we were like 19.

So that was over. Honey, you're 31. Gosh, do the math. So I'm saying I thought it was about ten years ago. No, but the domestic violence order when it was charged was three years later. That's why it's eight years. Okay. So happened 11 years ago. Yes. Three years later, it was brought up in a whole write-up because there was a write-up about my past, me being raised in a broken family. Yeah, we can talk about that now. The episode aired with Lisa, which when you were on my podcast

the last time, people were like, why didn't he talk about the domestic violence order? And I was like, because the episode hadn't aired yet. We don't want to spoil things. You know, that was just kind of like an intro into it. So it was a deep intro. But now we can explain. I can talk. There's no explaining to be done.

It's my actions. Right. Any questions on that then? I mean, just go a little deeper into that. Yeah. So when I was 19, me and my ex, we had obviously a toxic relationship. But at that time when you're 19, I thought it was fine. We used to break up, get back together.

It wasn't a fun relationship. I think a lot of people can relate to that. Right. And then during that, there was arguments to be had. And I remember one time when we got into an argument, it was about me coaching a female that I knew from high school and she was like personal training personal training okay she wasn't into it because she had you cheated on her at this point no okay we used to break up and i used to hook up chicks

and get back together i had a relationship like that when i was 19 yes it's a 19 year relationship yes so when we had that was that was the case and then she was just yelling at me at my friend's house she slapped me twice on my chest and on my face. And then I was like, look, and then I did slap her in the face. It wasn't a full wind up, but it happened. And it was to like snap her out of it, to calm her down. It wasn't appropriate. And so that's- Of course not. It was not appropriate on either side. It's never appropriate. Exactly. But anyway, fast forward three years during our relationship, it kind of went

downhill during this relationship it wasn't fun and at one point in time we went to a psychologist and a counselor to kind of talk about our relationship psychiatrist whatever they're called what is it i think it's like we went to go speak to someone for help about our relationship and during that first meeting she was like y'all need to be separated this is not good yeah and then i was diagnosed clinically with depression so So they're like, yeah, you should take these meds around, you're depressed. I was like, no, this is not happening. So fast forward, we break up. I moved to a different state. So it's like, if we're in California, I went to Arizona, the next state across. So when I was over there, I was playing rugby down south. And we were talking and then

we were trying to figure out how we're going to get through this. She started dating other people. I started dating other people. And then during this distance, I called up her dad and on the phone, he was just being rude to me. He's like, you're not going to see your kids, right? Like you're deadbeat. I was like, you're not going to stop me from seeing my kids. After that phone call, that was when they put the charges against me. So that was when they went to the courthouse and they wrote up this beautiful restraining order letter from them and how it was written. It was like Brock Davies, six foot one, 250 pounds rugby player from New Zealand, Maori from New Zealand. And then they went my ex's name, five foot three, stay at home mother of two. Like they just straight

and her mom's a psychologist so they wrote this up then they went into my background of um all of it was fabric not fabricated but just exaggerated they went into how like my mom and i came from like an abusive family my parents were separated they really went after every avenue in my life and then the only one real actual physical assault was a slap. And even that they changed the date on it to be like, well, she was five months pregnant when I slapped her, but she wasn't. And so that date was wrong. And that was one thing. And so when, when they went to serve me with my papers, once they filed this, the officer was meant to serve me with this,

Hey, you need to appeal this because this is being filed against you. That officer was on holiday. The officer didn't serve me with papers. The date comes. I miss it. Two weeks later, they rock up at my mom's door and were like, hey, we're serving you with these papers. My mom calls me up because I'm in a different state. And she's like, hey, you're, she's like, why are the police serving you with this?

There's a restraining order. It got approved because you didn't show up to court because I never was invited to court. So at that point, I couldn't connect with my ex. And then I had to deal with that. So that took nearly about five to six months to go to court finally, appeal it. And the judge said, look, you have no history of this. You don't have any record at all. We're dropping this.

If anything happens within the now or the future, this will just come back into it as evidence. And so that was it. And I defended myself at court. I didn't even have, I had a lawyer, an attorney, and then he was just taking money from me. I was like, nah, I've got this. Went to court, appeared. That was the first time I saw my ex with my newborn little girl, Winter. And then we agreed to go ahead and have a mutual agreement where I could see them from time to time, and then as long as I gave her some money from here, it would help out with bills. And that was kind of our agreement on how we would go forward,

and that continued all the way up until I left to America. And that was great. It was great. Even past that, the kids came over here to visit me a year into that. They came to visit me in my trip, and then they went home. That was kind of the last time i physically was with them yeah and then during that breakdown of communication was more on me being immature and not understanding her pain and all of this which you guys heard about last time um but from that i guess i kind of just uh i don't know what where my headspace was but i

thought i was doing the right thing and then when she was arguing i was arguing with her about connecting with me and sending me photos so I can see what's going on in their lives. And then she's like, but buddy, all I asked you is make these payments, like do this, do this. And then for some reason I couldn't financially do that. And I don't know why I ignored her. And I look back on my emails. I'm like, damn, this is the pain she felt. And that was kind of, that's it in a nutshell. And then because of that, because she had a loving partner that was raising the kids for the last two and a half years when we were separated, it kind of went down that road. And they said, look, we're going to cut Brock's family off. He's

hopeless. His family's hopeless. They can't do anything for us. And we're raising his kids. And I kind of brought into that kind of like, yeah, you're right. Like I'm not good for the kids right now, but I will be, you know what I mean? And that's where I kind of allowed for so much time lapse because until now I didn't realize, fuck this, I am good and I can be doing this stuff regardless of everything because I wasn't a bad dad. I wasn't a bad person. I just needed to wake up.

And it wasn't until you kind of like helped me realize to listen, to talk, even to have a conversation. I didn't have a conversation with her until we talked. Yeah. That was the part of it. And I felt like that was like even to have a conversation. I didn't have a conversation with her until we talked. Yeah. That was the part of it. And I felt like that was like a long time needed conversation. That needed to happen years earlier. Yeah.

Just for her to tell me how she felt. And I was never mature enough to have those conversations. But yeah. And then obviously I ended up dating you. And when we had the miscarriage and when I went to play golf, that was kind of like a big moment for me to kind of sit back and be like well hang on a second where are we going where am I going with life like I've got to I was worried I was worried I had so many feelings I wasn't even worried I was just it was just scattered because I didn't want to do anything

I don't upset anybody or my ex my two kids all of this stuff came to my mind and we that was when we went through a miscarriage and so yeah i was playing golf during not during the miscarriage but during our time from having miscarriage and having a procedure there was no heartbeat to the dnc in that week during when i was just waiting to see if i was going to need this procedure or if it was going to naturally happen at home it was during that week and and that was like a like that was huge for me because it's like i already have two kids now i'm about to have a relationship like i mean we're six months in a relationship in a pandemic living together and uh surprise yeah it was it definitely wasn't planned but at the same time it was a reality check and then it would kind of had that

side of that conversation so fast, here we are now. And then going on national television straight after dealing with all of that, it just gets thrown in our face. It gets brought up, really. That was hard. But I think talking about it and just telling my story through this whole time, I'm okay for a reunion now. I think I'm ready for it.

It's tough when you're on live TV and he's just rapid firing questions at you. And then you say the wrong thing sometimes, not even on purpose, not even like trying to lie or like hide anything. You just, sometimes as you guys have seen, he just says the wrong words all the time. I should just, I, what I really, you know what I really need to do? Need to learn to talk less and listen more. It's a big one of mine. And I can do that in a professional environment. I constantly have that in my mind, so I sit down and just listen. But when I take myself out of that environment, I'm too loud, I'm a big presence, and that's the downfall sometimes.

So who should be on the lookout for this big presence coming for them at the reunion on Friday? What do you mean, who should be on the lookout? Who do you have the most I have obviously me and Lala we have a lot of things to say to each other you know then there's some comments with Katie that she said and I mean you guys are about to see but like me and James start getting into it a little bit more so I'm gonna be honest I have no idea what to expect and I'm a little nervous on that front but I feel like I'm just gonna roll with the punches it can't be much worse than fucking Lala it's me spilling it to Lisa for the first time

ever on national television you know what I mean like that was the scariest emotionalist like it was just I was a wreck emotional my most emotional moment in my life yeah it was on national television I've never been in that position before so as as long as I'm not there at this reunion, we're good. What about you, honey? I'm excited to for once have a partner next to me for the entire reunion. I've never had this. I've never had. Am I going to be out there with you for the retirement?

Yes, you're a main cast member now, honey. I don't know how that works. No, I thought originally like when we filmed the season that you would be there for like a part of it. Yes, you're a main cast member now, honey. I don't know how that works. I just, no. I thought originally, like when we filmed the season, that you would be there for like a part of it. But then when you were asked to be in the opening credits, I was like, wait, this means that at the reunion, you're going to be there the whole time.

Yes, baby. I'm so excited for that. Yeah, because when you say it like that, so Kristen and sandoval that were together james had raquel james said lala james also had kristen katie and tom have always had katie and tom stassi was with bo stassi had jack so there's always been a partner wow yeah fuck how did you do that yeah so it's always been i mean pretty much like lala and i for the last several years that

like doesn't have our partner there. So I'm- Wait, so Randall's not coming? I don't know. Is Randall going to come to the reunion? I mean, I doubt it. But is Randall going to come to the reunion? I don't talk to him, so I don't know.

I know, but- Let me just say, after my divorce, my ex-husband showed up at the reunion you're kidding really oh yeah no oh yeah shay what happened yeah it was it was so uncomfortable wait i remember randall might rock up no i'm just saying this happened to me but i mean she chose to show up oh they asked they invited him? Yeah, they can't force you. It's not like they're going to go and kidnap you and tie you to a chair. But, like, you know. I just remember at that reunion, I went up to one of my producers,

and I was like, if I have to face my ex-husband right now, when I'm already dating Rob at the time, I said I am either going to have a shot of tequila, pop a Xanax, or go smoke some weed. Wait, you can't- Choice is yours. You can't drink at reunion? Back in the- there were, like, a few seasons when I think it was mainly,

like, around when, like, James and Lala were, like, really off the hinge with alcohol and, like, bad. They were bad, were they? Very bad. So, like, there was, like, no alcohol allowed on set. Oh, that bad they wrecked it for everybody that's how bad for for a few years yeah like we could not have a drink on set and so i went up to one of our producers and i was like here's your choices a b or c which do you want

me to put in my body right now because i'm not going into this dead ass so you always and that's the one thing they brought me a tequila shot you also kind of used weed to kind of help you deal with the fact that you didn't have support on the show. Yeah, I was high all the time. And I'm not going to use the word unwavering because if you don't know, like I'm not always on Sheena's side, but I'm just going to point out real quick, honey, I'm proud this season. You had a great season. Thank you.

We weren't drinking a lot. You were breastfeeding the majority of the time and you haven't done weed. Not the majority, the whole time. Yeah, you haven't done't drinking a lot. You were breastfeeding the majority of the time, and you haven't done weed. Not the majority, the whole time. Yeah, you haven't done weed for a while. Anything. Yeah. I mean, yeah, I've drank now. Yeah, but congrats, honey.

Because that was a big, for you to feel like you're solo on the show. Well, you've got your friends, but when it comes down to the nitty-gritty, solo, and then you have to deal with these interactions with this group, it's tough. And now, like, I mean, I can't even imagine, like, okay, like next season if there's another season, you know, and I'm not breastfeeding.

Like, I can't imagine, like, smoking weed. It's going to get wild. I used to do that all the time. Anyway, in true Andy Cohen form, let's switch gears. Switch gears. It's one of my favorite things. So you'll see. He always does it at the reunion.

Which means we're carrying on from this topic. Move to the next one. So here at our apartment at the Wallace, we rented a bunch of our furniture from Furnish. A bunch? Like 90% of it? Yeah. F-E-R-N-I-S-H. You can use code Sheena and get $100 off.

But I noticed this morning with our furniture, our bed, honey, we're going to have to buy it. The cats. Well, yeah, yeah, yeah. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Let me just be very clear. Your cats. Our cats. You got them in the prenup.

You'll get them in the marriage. So our cats have wrecked the bottom of the bed. So the other day I saw that there were like a few little like strings kind of hanging down. So I just ordered a fabric shaver that's going to be here today from Amazon. Yep. And today I was like, oh, my God, I hear Salem under. And I was like, shit, he's still like scratching at the bed. And I look, oh no, like the foam is now like coming out.

It is so scratched. What? Yeah. It's bad. But you know the one thing that the cats haven't ruined on the bed? What's that? The sheets. Those sheets, eh?

Yes. So I've told you guys this fun fact before but literally like we spend one third of our lives in bed so pure organic cotton sheets from bowl and branch they are the way to go and they honey make a truly special christmas gift like you're thinking about what should I get your parents for Christmas? I think a set of sheets would be a good gift. If you can give some sheets and some white elephant gifts, I'm like the old school Christmas giver now. Like you can give me socks and underwear and I'll be a happy man. No, I know. So put some sheets in there. I'll feel like it's bloody Christmas. I mean, the gift everyone wants is like a better night's sleep, you know,

and Bull and Branch never disappoints with their highest quality sheets. So they have them in a variety of colors. You can get them from any size of bed from twin to California King. And I think that they're a great gift. Bottom line, guys, go check them out. Yeah. And they're good for like you're a hot sleeper. I'm a cold sleeper, but we're always both comfortable in bed.

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That's B-O-L-L-andbranch.com. Promo code Shay. See site for details. Exclusions may apply. So yeah, best sheets. Good for a Christmas present, wouldn't you say, honey? I would think it would be

a great little gift. Like I said, white elephant. You will win the crowd over if they pulled out those sheets. Definitely. We are now joined by another co-host, Miss Summer Moon. Honey Davies is awake.

So you might hear her chime in if she disagrees with what we're saying. Yeah. Or grab Daddy's mic. So I posted four questions. And let's just kind of rapid fire them. All right. Let's go. Rapid fire, rapid answers.

I'm ready. Josh and Roxy Mom wants to know, are you guys going to film your wedding? Yes. Yeah, 100%. I don't know what it will be filmed for. We don't know what platform it will be on. Yeah, but 100% we will be filming it. It will definitely be, you know, YouTube, hopefully season 10, maybe a spinoff. I mean, who knows? But regardless,

when we get married next year, it will 100% be filmed. We'll make it happen for you guys. Yeah. A Pounds Johnson wants to know, did y'all already get married? You're wearing a wedding band. So you want to explain that one, honey? So kyle chan make me a band that i could wear under my ring to help kind of hold it in place because i've really it sounds i feel like an asshole saying this uh you are i have really small fingers and the rock is really big relax it's not it's not about the size it's a heavy stone. It is. And it rolls. It rolls. It turns constantly. So I thought if I put a band and it sits a little higher up on my finger, it would help it from turning all the way around my finger.

It doesn't always help. It depends if my fingers are a little swollen or not. But I like to just wear the band and only wear my ring for like occasions because it is really big. So that's where the band came from. It was a great deal on the ring. I'm just going to say that right now. Yes, we got a great deal. Great deal. Beautiful ring. And when we

get married, I will have this exact band replicated, wear one under and one on top. Perfect. And then probably like solder them together. Well, whatever keeps that thing from rocking. Apparently the gravitational pull of your rock is too much, you know. It's a problem. I just have a small finger.

But I did order these little like backs on Amazon that I can put on my ring to help like size it or whatever. Perfect. Mm-hmm. Courtney.Allen.Casa wants to know mocktails for pregnancy. Help.hmm. Courtney.Allen.Casa wants to know, mocktails for pregnancy. Help. Help. Okay.

So I was just talking to my friend who is pregnant, and I was telling her about for Christmas, because she's like, should I ask my doctor if I could have a glass of wine? I was like, A, no, you're not in your second trimester. B, what's the point of one glass of wine? You're not going to get drunk. What's the point? Really? Well, I mean, for me, I would get drunk off one glass. You're not a pregnant woman with a high tolerance.

Oh, so all pregnant women have high tolerances, honey? No, I'm just saying I know my friend. I'm like, what's the point of one glass? And she's like, you know what? You're right. I was like, I'm going to send you a couple things. So when I was pregnant, I'll go into like a mocktail thing. But what I drank was if I wanted some wine or like champagne, there are a couple brands. So there's ready to pop champagne. That was so good. And literally,

it's like a placebo. I'm like, Oh, you know, you feel like you're getting a little buzz or like have a Heineken zero. But there's also another brand called Badass Mom and they have wine. They have a gin, but it's non-alcoholic. I remember that. Remember? So you can use this Badass Mom wine gin to make like a mocktail and do it with like any juice. So I would do that in place of the liquor and then do like soda water, muddle some berries and some mint. And that was like my go to mocktail because it was like a mojito without the alcohol.

I like that. That's good. I remember that Jenna too. I was like, what? But hey, apparently it's a thing. Yeah. Chelsea, what? For Brock.

What? Do you prefer wearing your hair curly or straightened? I am definitely not straightened. I prefer to wear my hair up out of the way so it's not a conversational piece. But you do brush X your hair occasionally. I brush X the shit out of my hair. It looks very Fabio, but like so good. Thank you.

Thank you. Yeah. It's having long hair. It's kind of like, I don't want to be that dude that has long hair and wears it down. And then all of a sudden a reunion look. It wasn't quite what i wanted to do when they said yeah we'll do your hair i was like yeah cool let him do it i was like i'll just roll with it i guess oh watch what happens live see you said reunion you meant watch what happens i meant watch what happens live something to do with that but yeah clarence prior our boy my boy clarence he wants to know

what do you and brock honestly think of me as a friend and fan and would Brock face me in swimming? I look Clarence. If we have a time and there's ever a time we're in, I'm in New York. Just shout out to me. I'll put the speedos on and we can jump in the pool. Okay. I think you're an absolute legend, buddy.

Like you were very consistent. You're very supportive. And I appreciate that, mate. You take a lot of time to reach out to us. So if that means I have to reply to you and send you speedos, I will. You're a good dude. We need it, Clarence. We need to make it happen.

We'll make it happen, buddy. Swimming Challenge in New York. It's happening. Just Plain Zach. This is our boy, Zach Peter from the No Filter podcast. Yep. He has a question for you. For me?

Have you ever role played a scene from Aquaman? What, for us? I guess it's for us, yeah. Yeah, no, I haven't. But should we? But what scene would you like to... He just fights all the time. There's no, like, scenes.

Well, what I do want to do, though, is I want you to be Aquaman again for Halloween, but I want to be the chick with the red hair. I want to be, like, a full gold... Full suit. Full gold Aquaman suit. Yeah, but I want to be the chick with the red hair. I want to be like a full gold. Full suit. Full gold Aquaman suit.

Yeah. Like we need Kyle Chan costing people to do it. Exactly. I'm in. Yeah. You want to do the lady in red, the redhead? Yeah. Yeah.

Let's do that. I'll do a red wig. We'll get back to you on that role playing. Oh, another one from Chelsea. What? Does drinking beer out of your shoe ruin them? And is your shoe still wet? My shoe was not wet.

My sock dried it up. And it's a party foul. If you leave anything in the shoe, you know, you got to drink it all. Does your shoe get ruined? Depends if you have really nice shoes, I guess. But no, not really. I mean, there's moisture in there all the time. You sweat.

I don't know. It's gross. I don't I don't understand it. Here's the thing. I was saying this to my sister last night i could understand maybe slightly but still not really if you're like you know a college frat boy in australia or wherever i guess we don't do college we just don't do that oh whatever okay it's called university because you go there to get an education whatever

i'm just saying america and here's what i'm saying i could see maybe like there's a keg and there's no cups and you don't want to do a keg stand and you know it's covid time so like everyone doesn't want to put the hose in their mouth to drink the beer and you're like oh i have a shoe maybe babe you put too much thought into a shoe i don't i don't what is the point of taking either a pint glass to celebrate a bottle or a can and pouring it into a dirty smelly shoe and then drinking it i don't get it here's where like like if you win a challenge or you win a championship you take off your boot you just put all that hard work in and you drink from it like there's it's just like a it's kind of like a symbolic meaning of like a champion i still don't get it not everyone in everyone in Australia just pulls off their shoe and has a shooie.

It's just like in the heat of the moment, like when you chug a barrel, do a keg stand. What's the point of a bloody keg stand? Well, my friend Kylie said that her and her husband have done shooies. Exactly. I was just like, I just don't get it. That's it. What's the point of a keg stand? I don't get it.

It's the same, same. It's a drinking culture. Keg stands are fun. I've done it. We have a video of me doing a keg stand. Now drink from a shoe. See how much fun you have. No, the keg stand was not on my foot.

My shoe, maybe, but yours, a man's sweaty shoe. Walk a mile in my shoes, baby. There's another question from Jen Kopiteke. Has Sheena done a shoeie? If not, can she do a shoeie on the next Drinking and Podcasting? She needs to do a shoeie. That's going to be a hard pass. Why?

I just don't see the point. What's the point? Why does it have to be a point when it comes to drinking? What's the point of drinking? If it was a brand new shoe. What's the point of drinking? There really isn't. Exactly.

So thank you very much. Why do you have to drink it from a glass? Who said society you have to use a glass? What's wrong with shoes? Melissa underscore KR22. Will you ever cut your hair? Yeah, 100%. I think I'll be willing to cut it all the time.

I think right now we're at a point where if I was to cut it, it'll be a charity event. So I'm just going to build up for that. Yeah. Yeah. We'll just get rid of it all. He did say that if I ended up losing more hair from my postpartum hair loss that he would shave his head for me. I would, honey.

Or if I ever needed it. Is that weird? No. Oh, cool. That's pretty sweet. You've got a little grass patch out the back right here of spare hair for yourself. I am I2000.

I love when Brock uses the wrong word. What other words does he use incorrectly? Well, earlier it was emotionalist i use them all wrong guys come on okay but it's funny because you always act like it's a language barrier when english is your first and only language or there's maori as well but you don't speak it yeah little words give me five words fuck yeah what did you just say words. Kia ora, ataroa, taringas, puku, kiekaha. Fuck yeah. What did you just say?

Kia ora, hello, like how are you, kiekaha, like how you doing, taringas, which is your ears, puku is your belly,

and kiekaha is like good luck. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. That's probably the only five words he knows. Fucking pushing it. We used to learn it in school, and I'm far from New Zealand.

Sorry, guys. mtaylor254, just want to say, y'all are proof people change and grow. Sending love from Pennsylvania. Yes, from Pennsylvania. Thank you. You know what's the fun thing about Pennsylvania? I always thought Pennsylvania was where Dracula came from.

Transylvania? Yeah. Have you seen that commercial that's on right now? Yeah. There's another place called Pennsylvania. Pennsylvania. Where is Transylvania then in like in like like on another continent like in europe somewhere okay i think transylvania

so that's where cal dracula is from transylvania not pennsylvania not pennsylvania got it nope bb underscore pure vine how has your relationship changed since filming a reality show together? I think it's the same. It's just on TV. I mean, yeah. I don't think it's really changed at all. And I think that's the thing. Guys, it's a reality show. It is real.

It's our life. If anything, we communicate a little bit better on camera than when the cameras aren't out because we have to sit there and be like, how do you feel about that, honey? Tell me how do you feel. Well, what happened last night? And actually being engaged. So if anything, it helped communication barriers. Yeah.

Also, part two of their question is, when are we going to get a podcast tour? ATL is waiting for you. Atlanta? Atlanta. I love Atlanta. Guys, here's the deal. We will start when we can do shows here in LA first and foremost and see if it's a thing. I know.

Like, I really, I wanted to do one at Sur. What's stopping you? Just, like. That's the one question I'm going to tell you. What's stopping you? Honestly, having to set it up myself. Well, unfortunately. Figuring out renting a stage and speakers and just doing all the setup.

It's not difficult, honey. You just haven't put it. So there's your answer, guys. It's difficult right now for her to do it. If someone could set it up for me, it would be easier. No, I'm not doing it for you. No, this is your business. This is your podcast.

You can do this. I like doing a podcast here, but I would love to do a tour. Well, I'd love to too. But you go on tour, honey. You don't do anything about it. It doesn't get done. You go to venues and everything is set up there for you. I don't do anything about it it doesn't get done you go to venues and everything is set up there for you i don't know shit about audio you're gonna go on tour when we can't even do a freaking

dinner i'm saying i don't know how to do that sir isn't set up to do a live podcast if i could do it at like the roxy or something like that maybe i'll look into that honey and everybody else out there listening to this argument right now you can do whatever you want if you try and start it. Because when you start it, you learn what you need to fix. You learn from your mistakes or failures. The only way you know how to have a podcast tour is by hosting a live podcast event. Once you do that, and you see that there's traction and people might enjoy it, then you bring on talent. Just do it once a month, honey. That's all I want you to do. Let's do that. Okay. Let's make, oh, happy next month. We'll do it right here, right to do. Let's do that. Okay. Let's make, oh, happy. Next month, we'll do it. Right here, right now,

on podcast. In the new year, you will do a podcast at Sir, and we will do it in person. Okay. See you next Tuesday, dinner and show. I like that.

Deal? Okay. You guys got it? Podcast tour starts there. It will stay there for a bit until we figure out our ground and we get it going. Perfect.

It's Dana Boo. It says, I need to get my husband the Speedos from last night's VPR. Please send deets. Guys, so if you want the Speedos, it's an Australian brand called Budgie Smugglers. They're a great fit. They're custom cut. They really accentuate the booty.

And yeah, all I did was I just reached out to them through Instagram and was like, hey, I want to get some custom. They do anything custom. So you can even get your own face on them as well. The print was Vanderpump Rules print, I guess. But they're more than happy. Hit them up and just let them know you saw them on a show. And just ask for a discount.

I don't have one for you. But like, oh, my God, show them a VPR. You got a discount for me because I don't have one for you. But they'll love it. Angel78x wants to know, when Because I don't have one for you, but they'll love it. Angel78x wants to know, when Katie and Lala go in on you, it's traumatizing behavior to watch over

and over again. When do they go in on you, honey? I mean, I guess probably like at your birthday party. Yeah. When I had repeated what they said to Sandoval because, I mean, you allow it. Yeah. I think had repeated what they said to Sandoval because, I mean, it's what I do.

Yeah. I think in that episode, and this is the thing, like as much as they go in on you, you need to be able to be like, yo, I have a problem with you guys because I don't feel comfortable with you guys. I think it's figuring out that truth. It might not be comfortable, but you've spent all these years having these off and on relationships.

You don't know where you stand with them. And so it's hard for you to know where you stand. So it's hard for you to kind of put your foot down because you don't know where you're standing. Well, and then like when right after like Pilates, you know, and they're like bitching about Sandoval. I'm like, I don't have anything to really contribute to this conversation right now because it's two against one. And no matter what I say, it's just, I was like, I'm just going to sit here and do it.

Then I feel, if I was in that situation, honey, and it was a conversation about somebody, one of my friends, who I consider a close friend, and that was happening, I'd be like, guys, you're saying all this.

I agree with this and this, but apart from that, I don't agree. And yeah, put your foot down. I know. I need to be better about that. And that day made me realize I need to be better at that. Well, it's also. I used to be.

Did you? I got soft. Did you? I did. I've always known you as a pushover. No. Yeah. No.

Well, I'm all for building up your boundaries, putting your foot down and standing up for what you believe in. I'm all for that. Yeah. Okay, honey. And you're right. Watching those girls on the up for what you believe in. I'm all for that. Yeah. Okay, honey? And you're right. Watching those girls on the show talk to you like that, it pisses me off. Yeah.

It annoys me. Agreed. Agreed. Shoger916, will your engagement be shown on the show? Well, we filmed it, so. Here's hoping. I hope so. It's not a Palm Springs event.

It's not a Rochella. Actually, do I get to get some tea on that? On what, our engagement? Yeah. Sure. So COVID was a problem. Venues were a problem. So then at that point, you'll see this season,

I really did what I do best, and I just put my blinders on, and I fucking focus on the end goal. And it gets us in trouble. It gets us in trouble, baby. So how you originally wanted to propose to me, which I'm assuming you guys will see play out, didn't happen. Yeah. Once you guys see that, we can break that down a little bit.

I had the best idea for it. And just because of a venue issue, last minute changes, and the fact that we had to kind of line it up with everything, it just didn't pan out how I really, really wanted it to. So then it became an intimate moment between me and Sheena. And look, I'll be honest, you're not going to understand anything I say because this is probably the 10th time I cry on the show. This was happy tears.

And yeah, here we are. Yeah. So hopefully you guys see it. I mean, I feel like you guys will see it. We'll all have a good time with it. Hopefully you enjoy it. It is not fireworks and Coachella and Richella. It's none of that.

But I didn't need that. I understand you didn't need that, but I wanted to give that to you. And we had it, but we missed it, opportunity. So then we just did us really, really well. We did us that well. We didn't tell anybody about it. Yeah. And there is the tea that opens up the gateway.

Dun, dun, dun. Dun, dun, dun. Oh, reunion week. We got this, honey. Okay. You're a pro. I mean, you're a pro. You've done this eight reunions.

What's some advice that you would give to your man? We've done this eight reunions. What's some advice that you would give to your man? One thing is literally it's our job to butt in. So like if other people are arguing and it has nothing to do with you, still, if you have an opinion about it, chime in. That's just, that's our job. I don't know this.

Butt in. I don't know this. Chime in even when it's out of place and let them tell you, shut the fuck up's none of your business but you know what they do it to us so we should do it to them that's my advice damn yeah i really wasn't gonna approach for that one like that yeah just go in okay i'm going to yeah yeah what are you going in for who are you going for stay tuned oh you don't give anything up who's who's your top three that you feel are gonna come for you oh top three for you honey top three i mean three's a lot well here's the thing i think you need to be aware of our own flaws okay so by being aware of your own flaws you're

already beating them to the punch because now you're like right this is what i need to work on like it's a self-awareness. Yeah. But, I mean, this group has a way of just really getting in there, don't they? Uh-huh. Just really just jabbing and twisting that knife. Yeah. I mean, I know for a fact I know what I'm going to have to deal with, which is me and

Lala. We're going to talk about my past. Uh-huh. James and I, you guys will see. We're friends, but we butt heads. Same as, like, with me and Charlie. Well, that's the best part about the show. Like it's not the best part.

It's really funny. I really enjoy everybody in the show, but we butt heads because it's the, because what we, what a show, what the reality show is. And this is me again, preaching, pretending I know what's going on. My version of year one in the biz. There's no filter. I get to lift the veil off and you just speak your mind. And then God hoping that kind of tells you who you are as a person

because it kind of, if you keep lifting up your veil, that's who you are, you know? Yeah. And that you just get to be your raw self, which makes for these arguments, okay, in case in point me and Lala, to be better because it's a deeper topic with a better result, which means stronger relationships. I hope in the end. Yeah.

But I'm not there yet. I'm very upset. Now I'm seeing the shit that gets said. Now I'm watching the shit that gets said. And now I'm hearing the interviews. And I'll tell you right fucking now, you're all accountable for what you said on the show. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care if you're trying to be trying to make a show.

I don't care if you're trying to. You said it. I fucking know you said it. And I'm not happy. And the same goes for me. Yeah. Stay tuned. Bam.

Thank you guys so much for listening. Hey, by the way, I love you, honey. I love you, too. Love you guys. Thanks for listening. We got this. Can you comment below below tell me to shut up leave a five-star review just five star whatever else comes after that i'll read it as long as it's five stars thanks for listening guys bye bye sheena shea shea fk thanks for listening to shenanigans with sheena shea download new episodes every week on apple podcasts Spotify, or wherever gonna make you mine.