Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - RHONJ's Dolores Catania

Episode Date: January 24, 2020

The one, the only Dolores is getting into Scheananigans with Scheana talking about the show, her relationships, her upbringing and lessons learned through work, and the current status with Frank. Plus, bf Brock makes his podcast debut as co-host! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Thank you for listening to this podcast one production available on Apple podcasts and podcast one From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. We're good as gold. Because we're good as gold. Because we're good as gold. We are coming to you live from the Royalton Park Avenue in New York.

So pardon any sirens or construction you guys are hearing because we're in the big city. In the Big Apple. It's called the Concrete Jungle. From my era. I'm sorry. You can bring that word back. Educate us. The Concrete Jungle.

So as you hear, I have my amazing boyfriend Brock as my co-host. He's so good. And the beautiful Dolores. Hi, everybody. Catania. Yeah, you said it perfectly. Like a good Jersey girl. Dolores Catania.

Oh, she's good. Yes. Say coffee. Coffee. Oh, my God. Stay here, Sheena. I know. Well, we were actually just talking about it.

So I've just had a few meetings with some different brand deals and agencies and whatnot. And we were just saying, like, should we, like, move to New York for the spring? You know, just, like, come out here. He can play rugby. They would love you. I can work. They would love you. You fit.

You can do it. I would love it. The concrete jungle gets Tarzan and Jane. Let's go. That's it. Oh, my God. That's a podcast. That can do it. The concrete jungle gets Tarzan and Jane. Let's go. That's it. Oh, my God. That's a podcast. That's so good.

Wait. That is so good. I love that. We were just talking about we're not that creative. But look, it all comes together. Great minds are great. I know. I was just saying.

I'm like, I'm really good at taking direction. Oh, look, Margaret's calling me. It's the day before reunion. Brock, just so you know, I have so much respect for your girlfriend. And I like her so much because she was one of the sweetest people. And I'll tell you why. And you don't even know why. Oh, for a couple of reasons.

But tomorrow's my reunion. And it's very stressful. I should be getting waxed, tanned, hair. You look phenomenal. I should be at the gym sitting in a sauna right now trying to sweat it out like, you know, like the like the wrestlers do. You know, I don't have to tell you. You're an athlete.

So I should be doing all that. Can I swear on here? Yes, you can say whatever the fuck you want. But Sheena calls, and I'm like, you know what, sweetheart? Yes. You want to know why? Because I showed up at the Vanderpump, the dog thing. What do they call it, though?

It's a beautiful event. World Dog Day? Lisa's Dog Gala. The Vanderpump Dog Gala, yes. call it though um it's a beautiful event world dog day lisa's lisa's gala the gala vanderbilt dog gala yes and i'm still new to the scene but because it's dogs and i respected her i showed up anything to raise money for animals and this cute little sweetest girl in the world greeted me so nice and i was nervous to be there i was didn't know anyone and i will never forget it it's things like that yeah that make a difference to someone,

and that's why I'm here, besides the fact that I just like you because you've got a set of balls, and I respect that. Thank you. I think we were just saying before we started how, I mean, I definitely have a great mom. He has a great mom, and you are a good mom, and that's one thing I love about Jersey is it's so family oriented whether it's the drama with the

Gorgas and the Judices but it's just like it's so all about family our kids are our first love and I can speak for every single person on the cast and I know we're gonna see your daughter in another week or two poor Gabby so Gabby is like the toughest girl

tough as nails she's gonna going to be a vet. She went to a third world country to practice veterinary medicine, Ross University, and by herself. Like we dropped her off. Wait, Ross University is a third world country? Well, it's like St. Kitts. Yeah, St. Kitts. Trust me.

But she's also gone to Africa. She worked in the bush saving rhinos after poachers had gone. I fought with her never to do this. And she did it anyway because I didn't want her to travel, I'm afraid. So she does it, but she's very sensible and she's got a mouth worse than you and me put together, all of us together.

So Gabby, thank you. She's always kind of left out though because she's not around. Yeah, you haven't seen her much, but I know in a couple episodes you're going to see some her with you which i love yes yes but let's talk about your other kid who we do see on the show quite a bit what is little frankie yes i need to know he would love that you called him big for a big guy like rock to call frankie big he would feel so good he works very hard what is going on with him and Gia? So they are just very close.

Like, you know, I noticed that in one of the scenes, they flash back to them cutting pumpkins when they were little. Oh, my God. It was so adorable. It's like a Cory and Topanga boy meets world. Yes. And they were, they're like so adult for their age, both of them. They both have animals as parents.

So like, you know, like they've been through the gam their age, both of them. They both have animals as parents. So like, you know, like they've been through the gamut with a lot of us. I mean, Frank was no easy guy to grow up with yet. They came out normal. Don't ask me how, because at the end of the day,

if you raise them with love, then they're going to, right. Right. It's a crapshoot anyway. So, but he knows like right now he wants to be an investment banker. That's his dream.

He's got a 4.0. He doesn't go out to parties he studies every day if he's sitting next to me if he goes somewhere he's got a book this thick about reading about i don't know what because i don't know where my kids come from i don't even know so it's i don't know what the book is but his friends are down the shore at our house and he's got his laptop open and he's like doing things that he doesn't have to do yet but extra work so if he goes on an interview he knows about the company yeah and it's hard because he's not ivy league frankie didn't get an eye and so he's up against all these ivy league kids but frankie has a work ethic because as a single mom he's seen me struggle a

lot so both of my kids have had jobs since they're 12, 11, 12 years old. Wow. Frankie just bought his first house. He's also got a metal detector. Oh, my God. Look at him. And he loves history, and he finds things from, like, the colonial ages, and he goes to certain parks. He has, like, all this stuff. I don't even know.

And just by the sound of it, which you'll see, we do film in doing this, by the sound of the ring, he'll tell you what the coin, what year the coin is from that he has. So he is just an old soul. He's an old and so he said mom i can't have a girlfriend right now because they i can't give them what they deserve and gia is like my family and i mean i am so lucky she even asked me to go to prom i'm'm so lucky that I can even be with her. But it's not fair to her because I don't have the time for someone, and they deserve it. So he adopted a dog.

Oh, my God. He adopted an old dog of a guy who died. Aw. And the guy had no family, and the dog came into the shelter, and Frankie went to the shelter looking for an old dog. Wow. And the dog had just come in. Oh, I love that.

That's good. The dog died on the guy's lap and he had no family. His wife died 11 years ago and he adopted a dog. He named her Angel Baby. So now Frankie has this dog and it's like his best friend.

See, but I love that too that he's adult enough to know that he can't give someone what they deserve right now instead of just getting in a half-assed relationship and then breaking up and like not you know oh yeah

yeah I got ghosted I think everybody gets ghosted at one time no matter how beautiful the most beautiful girl sitting in front of me gets ghosted and no one should feel bad about getting ghosted if you can get ghosted like don't feel bad and here's a thing too that I think just I, we're only three episodes into Vanderpump Rules.

And I feel like this season you're going to see a more vulnerable side of me, which you don't normally see because I keep everything in. I act like everything's perfect. It's all sunshine and fucking rainbows when it's really not. But I feel like you're going to see more of a raw, real version of me this season. Well, you think you're more vulnerable, but you're less vulnerable when you show that side of you. Yeah. You're more sure of yourself. You have somebody who stands behind you a thousand percent.

Then all of a sudden Vanderpump becomes more of the housewives of New Jersey because they come with such confidence and confidence and attitude in how they come from because they know, they're like, I've got my family behind me. You think that way. And that's exactly why watching your guys' show is so entertaining because it's like, as Kataria was like, whereas like, it could be taken as offense on her show sometimes

when they argue with each other, they get offended with each other. Whereas on your guys' show, you just have your opinion and your opinion is backed with your family. So it's like, this is my opinion, this is where I stand, this is our drama, and then your opinion is backed with your family so it's like this is my opinion this is where i stand this is our drama and then the next day it's finished but it's so chaotic and it's it's that's what makes it fun so i'm looking forward to sheena like you said when she gets conviction and she's like she accepts it a bit more and she doesn't let it become that then she's going to grow as a person and it doesn't that's exactly right so now see i was you was always, I grew up in a very tough neighborhood, tough family background.

My dad was a Marine. He was a cop. Beat the shit out of me all the time. Like, if I got a bad grade, you were going to get your ass kicked. Like, I don't talk about this a lot, but it's what made me who I am. And I would not trade it for anything. There was no coddling in my house. It was like, you know, it was hard tough love but you had you know four

brothers and sisters behind me that were always behind me yeah so if one of us got in a fight all of us got in a fight and there's loyalty yeah like so you don't know see a lot of my family which you see a little bit this season but you should see my sisters and you know i've always financially done better than them but they'll still call me and say, what do you need? Oh, Frankie's sick. Do you have insurance? What do you need? I'll bring it right now.

That's amazing. That gives you confidence. Yeah. And also going through stuff and making it at the other end gives you confidence too, which you've been through all that. And that's the thing. It's like I feel like everything I've been through has made me a stronger person and has made me better.

At the time, like when i was going through the divorce i didn't deal with that i hopped in another relationship and then when that ended it was just like everything at once that i was dealing with and it was a lot but i'm so thankful that happened at the time you know i was devastated i was heartbroken but i would have never had this opportunity to headline a show in las vegas had that relationship not ended right and now i'm with someone who has my back is the best guy in the world this guy wait can i tell you i'm sorry you can yeah no no i'm excited when you talk about been with me at every meeting and like just like my biggest cheerleader so he walked in you were getting it was bravo con yes it was an

iconic what would you call bravo con for me it was epic because that was that was my first understanding of the bravo show because before that i was two two months into it we didn't really talk much about bravo how did you meet yeah we met at a festival outside in san diego at an after party just mutual i didn't know who she was and then yeah long story short we've said this and you didn't know who she was. Long story short, we've said this story a few times. And you didn't know who she was, even better. Yeah, no idea. It wasn't until BravoCon. So that was your indoctrination into the world of Bravo.

Yes. The only show that I had watched that I knew was Housewives of New Jersey, just because I related to it so much. Oh, little fuck. So when we were in there doing hair and makeup the first time, I was walking and I walked in, and that's why i walked in and met you guys straight away i was like that was the first time that was my first see i didn't even know see we have a connection bro so anyway he walks in and i'm like what the fuck is that now you sit down you have no idea the whole room

falls on the floor the whole room everybody's eyes meet we're all looking at each other and then like you turn around you sit looking at each other and then like you turn around you sit there you're bringing something coffee like you brought now or whatever it was and i look you're you have your back to me and i look at her and i go yes thumbs up and then like i'm like aquaman just that's funny i walk in the room and all my eyes go everywhere i sit down like babe they're all in the room while you're behind me going hey if you would have stayed a little longer you would saw a little fight you would have saw a real life couple of fights yeah right but that's fun yeah but this was the first reality show he had ever really watched he had never seen anything and i think where was it we were

someone was asking me yesterday they're like when did like brock like realize like what level of like i don't even want to say level of fame but just like what status or like at what point for me it was my process was this this was when i realized where who my girlfriend was and it put in a layman terms for simple brocky over here it was this it was when miles garrett hit the guy in football with his helmet for the Cleveland Browns. And I was like, oh, damn. On the Cleveland Browns Instagram page, I'm like, 1.1 million followers. My girlfriend has 1.1 million followers. My girlfriend's as famous as the Cleveland Browns. Oh, see.

Lame in terms for me. And it's her. It's not a team. Exactly. It's just her. I was like, you can poke people anywhere about the Cleveland Browns. I'm like, that's my girlfriend. Cool.

And that was like your, and then you started to get it. Then I started to get it. And I'm like, that's my girlfriend. Cool. And that was like your... And then you started to get it. Then I started to get it. And it just keeps getting... But I enjoy it. When we go around... BravoCon was really great. It was fun to see people. I got photos of her just like people just screaming at her.

I was like, yeah! You know how many guys can't... Did you ever find guys can't handle this? Oh, totally. I mean, that's why I have been single so many times now. It was like the marriage. I mean, that didn't work out for, I mean, personal reasons as well. He had his own demons that he was dealing with.

Yeah. But that being highlighted on national television absolutely didn't help him in any way. Same thing. Rob did not want to do the show. Week one, there's a rumor that he cheated on me, and then he just checked out and was like, I don't want anything to do with this. Then Adam tries to step in as my friend.

Why? Because you have something to hide? Why? Because you can't cheat and not get caught? Because now you're with a celebrity? Sorry. Too bitter, buddy. Listen. The more I think about it, I'm like, he probably did make out with that hostess.

I promise you he did. Yeah yeah but so then that ended and then like adam tries to like step in as my best friend and be like no i want to help you like look good like i just like want people to see like the girl like i'm best friends with and then you know we slept together and then ruined that and then that just didn't work out on the show and so then this next year i'm like i am not dating anybody. I am staying single, single, single. And then everyone's just like pushing bread on me and pushing bread on me. And I'm like, I don't want him.

I don't. I really don't. People seem like, even in my thing, they ask me about my boyfriend, right? He should be doing. They kind of dictate your life a little bit. Yeah, I do want to ask you about that because a lot of questions that came in were like, why doesn't she get back with Frank? There's so much chemistry with Frank.

Where's David? David's never around. So is it a filming thing? Does he not like the cameras or he's just that busy? Never around. No, no. He doesn't have to be that busy. He's been a doctor for many, many years.

It's his first love. Yeah. Now, I respect a man that works. And I'll sit home for you all day long. But for that one time I ask you to do something with me, do it. And, you know, it's also he's more of an introvert being in the hospital for 25 years. This is a guy who has just been doing one thing. He hasn't had much of a social life.

He's been married already. But he does it well. He does it well. He does it well. He's the best. He cares about his patients. And he'll go. And I respect that, too. Guess what? I'm a surgical assistant. I'm in the medical field. He does it well. He cares about his patients and he'll go. And I respect that too.

Guess what? I'm a surgical assistant. I'm in the medical field. I get it. I get the problems with dating a doctor because people like them. The hospital is a very hedonistic place. Yeah. It is.

Oh, yeah. It's kind of bravado to get into the doctor's situation. Yeah, for real. Well, they have but you know late hours a nurse and a doctor

on call I mean ooh yeah whoever doesn't know that life like you know whatever whatever

whatever I don't know so but David's home every night he'll come home 9, 10 o'clock at night leave 7 o'clock in the morning and then he'll click

on his sonograms all day and you know what i'm okay with that but he could do a little more for me than he does he could do a lot more for me than he does and i think he's taking that for granted a little bit and i've tried to explain it to him but he's not really getting it so okay david let's see what happens next yeah but but i enjoy my newfound freedom too see and that that's the thing it's whatever works for you but But, you know, it's also. So you took a year off. Like, you were doing your thing. Yeah, and a relationship is compromised.

So, you know, it's like you can be okay with the new freedom that you have. But also, like, he needs to show up here and there for a few events. Right. Like, I've been divorced for 21 years. Wow. Show me another woman that's gone. I got divorced at 28. Best unsingle this good. Yeah. Show me another woman that's gone. I got divorced at 28. Best done single this

good. Yeah. Hell yeah. With no education. With no support. My dad was a cop. My mom was a waitress. I didn't graduate college. I didn't even go to college. But I have a work ethic. And at any given time, if I have to scrub

a toilet, I will. Or I'll work 10 jobs yeah or I'll meet a nice Jewish man that does well for me too I've had those too I've had a few of those in the mix yeah and in between you do what you have to do and you grow from each thing totally so I I have no complaints about my life I would change nothing there's no guy I dated that I'd said oh that's the one that got away I don't think I've met that man yet yeah and you know we'll see what happens I've come so far if I didn't get divorced I would still be just the person he met that never left my block never had been on a plane yeah only knew

to be a wife and a mother and you know that was it never even barely graduated high school that's all I knew I had never been on a vacation in my life that's crazy I had never been on a plane so how far could I have really gone think about that what could I have seen wow I mean I've traveled the world I've done the world I've lived a good life and now I'm redoing my life now

I lived in Australia I lived in France England amazing now America as a rugby player as a rugby player I was fortunate enough to travel I lived in Australia. I lived in France, England. Amazing. Now America. As a rugby player? As a rugby player. I was fortunate enough to travel with that, with my family and that. Went to play rugby in France and that. Your family is like legacy of rugby players?

No, so my family is my two kids. I've actually, I've been married before. You have? Two kids. And then divorced. So the kids' mom lives in Australia raising the kids. How old are they? So I'm a little boy. Let me get this right this time.

I aged them by two years and they put me back don't worry about it so my little boy just turned let me double check these numbers in my head a eight and winter my little girl winter is uh six i love the name winter yeah so don't feel bad that you don't know your kids i don't't either. Is that really important? I think, I mean, for me. You know their birthdays. I know their birthdays. Just the year got mixed up. For me, not being involved as much with the kids, especially right now for this period of separation,

I think I feel bad for doing that. But at the same time, it's like, well, it's not that I don't want to be there as well. Separation with kids and all that, that becomes a different issue. You also know she is a great mom. She is. And they have a good sex life.

She's a great mom. Look at my kids. You see my kids? I great mom. She is. And they have a good sex life. She's a great mom. Look at my kids. You see my kids? I did it alone. Exactly. Frank was traveling New Jersey. I did it alone. It's okay.

If they have a good mom, it's okay. And they're at ages now where you're okay still. When they get to be teenagers, you've got to have a presence. Yes. That's where it's more important. And I think that's where we get it. Me and her are both working to that. And I understand. You have a little time. Her life. And I understand it's more important. And I think that's where we get it. Me and her are both working to that. And I understand.

You have a little time. Her life. And I understand where we're going. So if she's listening, hi. Hi. You're doing great. Kudos to you for being a good mom. Yeah.

I never take that away from her at all. That's huge. It's everything. Yeah. But that's that. All right. Well, speaking of family and being divorced, how long did it take you and Frank to get to the place where you're at now

because I mean that is divorced parent goals it is and what had happened was after I beat his girlfriend up and I got it I curb stomped her I mean I got her I got her in an alleyway like American History X curb stomped?

Yeah. Like she was on the gutter. She was still going. She was. She was, yep. And I dragged her up an alleyway, and she got away from me because my sister got out of the car and started to beat her up too. So then me and my sister started fighting,

and that was her chance to get away. Because I wanted to do it. Do we have to beat this part out? Is there an arrest warrant? No, you know why? It's over an amount of time. It's over an amount of time. The statute of limitations is up.

So, yeah. So, good to know that one. Anyway. Anyway. Well done. I'll finish the rest when I'm done. But, so, so I got a lot of my frustration out because I remember when I was 15 years old,

I used to be a shampoo girl. And it's like working in a bar. The hair salon is very like a bartender. Oh, totally. So when you go there, the women would tell me, and I learned a lot from those women. Now, I had to be home at 11 o'clock. I was getting married.

My dad didn't let me out ever. So I learned a lot from working. I learned about a gay lifestyle because the hairdressers were gay. He called me Dolores Clatoris I didn't even know what a Clatoris I go home one day I'm like the guy called me Dolores Clatoris at the dinner table my father threw all the plates off the table so I learned so much about the drama and about life from I didn't have to travel to learn about life live working there

I learned the most I'll ever learn in my life. Oh, my gosh. So I remember this woman, her husband just left her, and she goes, you know, I said, do you have any regrets? At 15, I knew enough to ask that. She goes, I regret I didn't go and confront her. So I knew when it happened to me that I had to do it to move on because she had never moved on. I got you. So I did it.

And then I was good, and then I went home. And then Frank and I had, like had kind of a violent relationship sometimes. I never told anybody this before. But we'd go a couple rounds. He'd come over frustrated with his girlfriend. Take it out on me. We're divorced. Why didn't you let me back?

And I realized it was really hurting my kids because I took them to a therapist. And I didn't believe in that back then. You didn't grow up like that. Where I come from, you don't grow up like that where i come from you don't do that shit and i seen this kid punching the wall and he was like a big like 18 year old kid and his mother was sobbing behind him and i i dragged my son who was in a carrier and gabby was three years old hanging off my leg and i said to the lady how do i get it so my kid doesn't ever be so hurt she said don't fight in front of them i never fought with

frank again and that was probably like 18 years ago wow like so if he came over like that in that fit of rage roid rage whatever you're talking you want to go i'd be like you're having a good day and then after a while and i wanted to spite the girl too because for all the young girls out here that get cheated i'm gonna let know, don't let them win because when your boyfriend does that, he's complaining about you. He's saying, oh, she doesn't do this, she doesn't do that. She complains. She's an act. Prove him to be a liar. Be

nice to him. If you're going to take him back, never mention that person's name again and be so nice and then cheat on him for a chance you get. But, but, build him up for that fall. If you want to get him back, that's how you get but hurt him build him up for that fall if you want to get him back that's how you get him back for that fall be like yeah

everything's good sweetheart everything's going to be the best you could be and then you're out as soon as you get him yeah right that's the best revenge it might take a year right I'll wait five years for that I've got I've rocked I'll sit there and fucking wait till I know I got you good.

Is Frank still single at the moment? No, Frank's dating a girl. She's 30. Okay. Yes, she's 30 years old. The tank's going for 30. Okay. Yeah, and he's very happy.

She's very nice. She's very, very quiet. And Frank is not a... He's an introvert, actually. Oh, wow. Even though he was an attorney and he had his own law firm, he was great in the courtroom.

Uh-huh. He's... When he talked... Like, he's shy. Frank isn't shy. Frank's the attorney, is he? Oh, yeah. I thought he was an attorney and he had his own law firm, he was great in the courtroom. He's shy. Frank isn't shy. Frank's the attorney, is he? Oh, yeah. I thought he was in construction, too, like with Joe. He is now.

He got disbarred. Okay. You missed that one before you came around. Oh, yeah. He did a favor for a friend, Bob. I forgot about that. Yes. And it was in the account, and the friend's like, I need the money, I need the money.

So he took it out of the escrow account and gave it to his friend. Yeah. It was right in there. He got audited. And they said, where'd this money go? It was still supposed to be in the money, I need the money. So he took it out of the escrow account and gave it to his friend. It was right in there. He got audited. And they said, where'd this money go? It was still supposed to be in the account for like another two weeks. And they took his license. In New Jersey, they'll take your license for $5.

You could do coke and bang hookers on your desk. But if you took $5 out of the account, you're losing your license. I'm glad I'm not a lawyer in here. I would lose my license plenty of times. Wow. Are you an attorney? No. Oh. But I'll be a good one. Yeah, no, you're good. I'm glad I'm not a lawyer in here. I would lose my license plenty of times. Are you an attorney? No, but I'll be a good one. Yeah, no, you're good.

You would be a great one because you're very, very bright. You'd be great at anything, but Frank was very good at it. So now he's construction. He's in construction. That's me. Construction is me, and that's what I want to look at doing in California or even out here if it came this way. That's what I love about construction. You can take that

craft and we can go anywhere with it and be good at it. Come work with Frank. He's so good at all of that stuff. Frank needs you. Hey Frank, I'll send you my CV. You don't need what? We don't do that in New Jersey. What even is that? We're coming over for dinner next time we're out.

You just come and you just start working. Whatever you want to do. It's yours. That's what friends do. I like that. Now, how often do you get asked, when are you and Frank going to get back together? So here's the thing. Frank and I have grown out of each other. We love each other. I have his back. I've had his

back many, many times. He built Frank David's house for free. He didn't charge him a dime. Wow. Is it done now? It's done. I didn't move in. So it's done. That was the follow up question.

Yes, it's done. But like, you know, Frank is just always respected who I was with and I always respected who he was with. And that's a big, big part of it. Also, it's huge. You have to. I didn't always agree. There was one girl.

She just wanted to go and party on her like 40 and then she called me I think white trash one time so her and I got in a fight but she was fighting with him over me because she wanted to go out with her friends and he saw through that so he's like oh you want to go out and

just leave you don't need to start an argument to go out just go out no no just like don't play games don't need to set an argument to go out. Just go out. No, no. Just like don't play games. Yeah. So we, you know, but Frank has always been he's a good guy. Yeah. And I'm glad that I kept the family together and I want everyone to do that. Yeah.

And if he didn't want to show up to pick up the kids, don't come. I don't care. I have 50 kids in my house anyway. I've never had a spare room, Brock. Yeah. I have kids that live with me. You just adopted me and gave me a job. I see what I mean.

That's how I am. Now we know where we're staying. I have, you know, all Frankie's friends from pre-K-3 have grown up in my house. They come home for the summer. Their parents have moved on. There's never an empty room in my house. That's cool. Yeah.

And I don't care. It's a home. Yeah. It's a home. I feel like every kid should have that. Yeah. I didn't have a lot growing up. So I'm very

like when it comes to kids I get them I know it's not easy being a kid I know it's not easy being young that's why like

I love you I was just telling my friends Sid I was out to lunch with him before I came I'm like little Sheena aww and see you know

I feel like I'm the same way I mean not necessarily with children or kids but even just over the past 10 years, every Thanksgiving and Christmas, like, we'll do Friendsgiving.

And then on actual Christmas, like, I have any of my friends who either can't afford to go home or have lost their parents or don't have family, we always take them in because my family celebrates both holidays on the Saturday before or after. So it's, like, on the actual day,

I'm like, no one should be alone on Christmas. Sometimes it's tiring, though. To tell you the actual day, I'm like, no one should be alone on Christmas. Sometimes it's tiring though. To tell you the truth, sometimes I'm tired. I was out. She was like, I'm going to Christmas party. I was like,

babe, we just did Hawaii for a week. I'm just going to stay at home. That's what I see. And that's okay for you to do. It's just like, it's okay for David not to be a part

of what I'm doing. I'm a big girl. You don't need to come to every, you don't need to film with me. People wanted to see your face they deserve to i've done a lot for him i've done a lot for david he has a family and friends through me dave uh frank just built a whole house for him yeah not with any commitment towards me with the intention of but if it doesn't matter it's not going to take the house back or send

him a bill yeah he owed me to film that's Frank. I'll send him the bill for you. All right. Speaking of filming, I want to get into the episode that we just saw this week. And there's a lot of little fights. And you're not really involved in any of them, but you're kind of always in the middle at the same time. So let's see. First, also, I want to start by saying your smile looks amazing dr appa rock shout out to him so good is like a prodigy yeah okay and this man has a work ethic like you've never seen he could be in dubai at night get in 4 30 in the morning be at the gym and show up and

do your teeth i've worked with doctors like this he's's intense. Yeah. Intense. Special kind of human and very good and takes a lot of pride in what he does. So if you were on the East Coast looking for a good dentist. Well he's in LA and Dubai. Oh shit. He did Kyle. You just missed that? He'll fly. Yeah. Well he's like Kyle he did. Uh huh. Reza. He did

um who else did he do? Do you know who else? Kyle was the first one of us that he did. Oh, cool. Well, they look amazing. It's only a couple of days. They're only a couple of days old, but yeah, love the guy. I have some too, so I know what it's like to go through that.

Oh, so out of all of the women, are you and Teresa closest? Would you say closest? Yes. By by history. Yeah. History. Day to day. Margaret. Are you and Teresa closest, would you say? Closest, yes, by history. By history. Day-to-day, Margaret. Now, did you go to high school with Teresa, or you guys have just known each other since you were really young?

We've known each other. We grew up in Patterson. Gotcha. We were Italian. We knew each other peripherally and as friends. Yes. I remember Teresa would always piss people off for years because she says things that there's no filter.

So you can imagine 25 years ago I'm pregnant for my daughter I have a shore house and my cousin calls me who's her friend and goes Teresa they're getting ready to go to Temptations was the place to go okay it was like pump now okay so she's like

she just pissed off everybody in the house and they're gonna kill us can I come and stay by you and I said of course like and she comes in with her Daisy Duke. She probably still has the same pair. And, you know, that's like, I know Teresa a very long time. Yeah. Love her. Okay.

So there's the Margaret versus Teresa feud. We've got Jackie and Jennifer, Jennifer and Melissa. I mean, there's a lot going on right now. So where should we start? All right. Margaret and Teresa. Teresa's wrong. Yeah.

Wrong. Where do you stand with Danielle? What are your thoughts on her? I made amends with Danielle. Remember, my fight with Danielle was she made something up. And we all know we have those people that do make things up about us that we never said. And it's only your integrity and your reputation, whether or not someone's going to believe you. Somebody could fucking ruin your life by lying and saying something you said.

Oh, totally. And that I took very serious because she lied about something that I didn't do. So I always, I forgave her after I, you know, had my peace with her and whatever. But, and I moved on from it, but I just stepped back and waited for her to do it to everybody else, you know. I don't have anything to prove. Let them find out. So then her and Margaret had

gotten into it and Teresa, for some reason, only sees superficially. Like she doesn't see anything underneath the surface of what's going on. Would that come down like, this is Teresa,

just memory of her? She just doesn't remember the fact that that person did something to somebody else because it didn't involve her. Or that she flipped a table on her. Right. So she always said, oh, maybe I,

she always, her memory, so your memory plays tricks on you and your brain lies to you all the time. And what happened was, in her memory, so your memory plays tricks on you and your brain lies to you all the time. And what happened was in her memory, she felt like Danielle was picked on at the moment. But she forgets a lot of the things that had really gone on. So making amends. And she felt like Danielle's good TV.

Yeah. I mean, yeah. She is. Yeah. She is. Yeah. She, you know, those like train wrecks that you just like have to watch. You can't look away. She's one of those. She is, yeah. It is. Yeah, she... You know those train wrecks that you just have to watch and you can't look away?

She's one of those. It is. It's great TV. It's entertaining as fuck. But there's a price to pay for that. So there's got to be... It can't be so bad. I'm sure there's somebody else that's good TV, too.

Yeah. But I guess then that is why Teresa kind of gives Danielle a pass because she forgets about the past and just... Well, she's only seeing Margaret Porter on it. She's only seeing Margaret. Right. And I was like, well, in this situation, but it's like, but everything else that happened before.

You have to take all of that into consideration. Like there's a reason Margaret has not done this to anybody else. Right. Margaret's stuck up for you, Teresa. Yeah. Many a time. Yeah. So you have to look at that.

But she wasn't really seeing that. And Teresa is also someone who likes someone who you know like you're the greatest you're the best and you know we're friends and what could I do for you and yeah value adding value to relationships is how you build relationships too yeah definitely moving on to Jackie so we see you ladies at the Hamptons. She has a beautiful house. And now we all find out, which I think kind of for the first time that Jackie comes for money. And it's not something that she's flashy with, like, say, Jennifer.

So you think I'll take pizza at any birthday party. But it was like I'm like, OK, I see. That's just like kind of play devil's advocate and stuff i see where jennifer's coming from i mean i grew up just fine not wealthy at all not poor just you know normal didn't come from money so i'm like i sometimes when i see things like i'll be curious but i would never ask because it's rude you don't ask people how much money they make or what they spend on this and what but i'm like i for the for jennifer i'm like okay i understand where you're coming from because you didn't have it and you're curious but it's still not something you ask especially to her face and then to say

behind her back oh well i just think she's stingy and cheap because she only served pizza What's your take on that? Well. How was the pizza at the party? I wasn't invited. It was a kid's party. Oh. So I didn't go to the party. Okay. But it's exactly what I had expected. She's not a showy person, you know.

I think that Jennifer needs to watch who she says it to. Right. Margaret and her are very close. And also, there's cameras in your face. You know, whatever you say is going to be repeated. And if it's not repeated, it's going to be shown. And you're going to talk about it at the fucking reunion. It's game on.

Tomorrow. It's game on. No holds barred. Yeah. Whatever is said, you can't blame me in the cast. Now, when I first came on and they'd say, oh, go approach her about that. And I'd be like, oh, God, that's my fault. Oh, come on.

Don't make me do that. They're like, she said it on camera and my first year I got away with being like oh I can't I'm not gonna I feel uncomfortable I don't want to hurt them and then my second year I'm like yo bitch you fucking know better yeah if I say it I'm expecting you to say

it to me with no problem so if you say it on camera it's coming out yep 100% but if you say it off camera that's a different story. Yeah, but then sometimes still if it builds a storyline, if it's something that was said off camera, it's like you still have to address it. Oh, we know what we signed up for.

Exactly. And you know what's expected of you. Yeah. I know. I mean, we've signed our life away to the Bravo gods. I feel like, you know. I mean, we've signed our life away to the Bravo gods. I feel like. Yeah. Okay.

So now moving from Jennifer's comment, which upset Jackie to Melissa. I don't think it upset Jackie as much. Like she had an answer to that. But do you really think Jackie, who's got millions and millions of dollars. Is going to sit there and be upset about pizza. And gives a shit about what Jennifer says? No. She thinks Jennifer is...

I think it was just almost like it seemed like it just like it kind of like hurt her because it was like... It hurt Jackie? It was like she brought her into her house. She invited her like they've had their issues. It didn't hurt her at all. She throbbed. Oh, that's Christmas morning for me.

Somebody like that. I'm just trying to see the rainbows. As dumb as she is. She was not affected by that. That's literally a great scene. Okay. That's your moment. That's it.

And you have nothing to lose by going after this girl because she just opened the door for you to eviscerate her. Right. And it's so easy to do. And then Melissa chimes in and is like, well, Jackie's winning and we're all losers. And then her and Jennifer go at it and that's how the episode ends. So, like, next week

to see this fight continue. That annoyed me when Melissa said that. Because we go back to what we just talked about earlier. It's family, you know? You can insult anybody. Just don't insult our families. Don't judge that. And I don't think it happens a lot, but when it does,

that's when we get real emotion. You'll get the visceral response. It's a knee jerk. A knee jerk reaction. Visceral response. And we're violent people. We really are in New Jersey, all of us. I know.

I love it. It's just so good to watch. I just want to see Shana get her an argument on LaVanda Pop and flip a table. It's season five, honey. You did it? It was a chair, it wasn't a table. Do it better, honey.

No, literally, it was like, we were leading up to Katie's wedding and I had made a comment on a podcast where I said that, I said unlike me I have a very big circle of friends like I have a lot of close friends I have my best friends as we know on Vanderpump Rules I've got a lot of best friends but I just I do and I have a lot of acquaintances I have a big group of friends I'm from LA I'm a high school friend I've been friends with her 21 years now and yeah but I said I was like Katie I she just, she has like a smaller group of friends, like

very close friends. Don't you think you're raised differently though? Because you always had people at your house, right? Yeah. Totally. And that's how you live your life in your adult life. Yeah. From the way you were raised.

And that's what I was trying to explain to Jackie. Yeah. And the only argument I ever got in like where it fit me in the house and people said, like they were against me for saying that. All I meant by that was she has, her immediate family is her husband and her children. What was the comment? Raised from a different cloth. Cut from a different cloth.

This guy. I know. I want to punch you in your face. You're so cute. You say it out loud. Especially where we are right now in society. I wasn't raised like that. I wasn't raised like that. In the multicultural New Zealand, different cultures, same thing. But it's like that was exactly that.

We're raised with people around us. Giving, giving, giving. Right, and she's more tight-knit. Her husband, her children, and then that's it. She covets her family time. When my family time extended to everyone family time is just okay you got people coming in the door yeah every door i have three doors every single one is open all the rooms full for example what you said before and and that's all

i meant by that and that was that was a rough time for me yeah it was a rough time of getting hammered for like two weeks of bad stuff yeah and even jackie felt bad because she knew what i meant by right and that's the thing we see and then i have to explain to her but i don't like explaining for like two weeks of bad stuff. Yeah. And even Jackie felt bad because she knew what I meant by it. Right. And that's the thing we see. And then I have to explain to her, but I don't like explaining to people because I'm not articulating things so well sometimes.

Yeah. Articulation is not my cup of tea. It's a gift. She could tell you the best stories about every night she'll talk about. She's really good at talking. That's good. Using her words very well.

Yeah. I think I've also gotten better at it with you because there are times where I'm just like in my head and he looks at me and he's like, honey, use your words. I see you going crazy inside. Use your words. And I'm like, let me think of the right way to say it before I open my mouth. See? Let me compose my thoughts and then put them into words.

I'm still like that. And you're younger. You're working on it. You're much younger than I realized. Yeah. Jennifer has not. Huh? I'm almost 35.

I'll be 50 next year. So that's a big difference. So Jennifer has not. I knocked you down 10 years ago. But good plastic surgeons. But Jennifer has not come to that realization yet. And she's still so new. She's so new.

Not even to the, I've known her long, I've known her, I used to work with him. I was his surgical assistant before the show. Oh, okay. A couple times in a surgery center. He would moonlight in between offices there. And I've assisted him before we were both anybody on the show. Uh-huh. him before we were both anybody on the show uh-huh so yeah but jennifer hasn't come to the realization yet to think about what she says before she says it say it right right or just

shut up and listen yeah listen listening you learn so much from listening it's such a skill set that majority of people don't do no and i especially when i learn it podcasting i'm getting better at that because like i just like when i'm talking about your teeth and i'm like oh east coast he's like were you not listening he'll go and i was like oh shit yeah i know because sometimes especially when i'm doing a podcast i'm thinking about my next question as you're answering but i'm like but i need to listen because i'm i want to hear your story obviously but it is it's something that you have to practice. And I've tried to get better.

When I meet people, repeat their name back. And even just with fans. But you meet so many. And that's the thing. But when you remember that one name, it means so much. I'll meet someone at Sur, and then I run into her at TomTom. I'm like, wait, Ashley, right? And she's like, oh my god, you remembered my name.

And it was the only name I remembered that night, but I remember it. And I'm trying. That was a fluke. Shut up. You know, he remembered my name. And it was the only name I remembered that night, but I remember it. And I'm trying. That was a fluke. Yeah, shut up. You know, I went to, I'm going to an energy doctor after I leave here from Mexico.

He's like, yeah, he's a shaman. So my memory, I went to another guy also. It's all quantum physics. It's the medical association won't recognize them as doctors or what they're doing as their practice. But they're like 20 years out of out of like like 20 years from now people will be looking into them more

100% so they've been doing this for years and years and years and my memory was so bad that I thought something was wrong with me and I went to one of these guys I went to this guy Andy and I met him in the place you just left oh no way he was working with the girls there because a lot of the corporations call these energy healers in to work with them.

I feel like they just talked about this, too, when we were in that meeting. I think they just did. Yeah, because I was like, wait, I feel like I just heard this. It was either talking with you before we started podcasting or that meeting we were just at. He brought my memory back. What? Mm-hmm. He helped my memory.

Like, I'm on the ball now. I used to get lost in a hotel. he helped my memory like i i'm on the ball now i used to get lost in a hotel like if i was here this was my room i wouldn't remember my room number unless i wrote it on my hand and i feel like the older you get the scared as you're like oh my god do i have early stage like dementia i thought it was that bad yeah it was that that bad and and i would be like i would be talking to you right now not remember your name i we call him dory. Hi, I'm Dory. Literally. From Finding Nemo. Yes.

Because like, I mean, it's mostly like when we're drunk, but we'll be mid, wait, what was I just saying, babe? And I'm like, you're literally mid-sentence. How did you forget the end of your sentence? Because I forget in my head, so I keep talking. Have you been hit in the head a lot in rugby? It's a tough-ass sport. Yeah, probably, but I don't think it's that. I think it just comes down to caring.

And that's where thinking and memory comes down. Like, if you don't, it's that. I think it just comes down to caring. And that's where thinking and memory comes down. Like if you don't, it's a muscle. Like if you don't use that memory part of your brain, if you don't physically remember or challenge yourself,

stimulate yourself. Too bad you're leaving tonight. It's not going to, it's not going to help you. It's true. No, it's true. Obviously, but other effects,

I think that's the biggest one. Like contact sport, yeah, that's a thing. I get you, but no one hurt you. You're built like a brick shithouse. You're built like this building. This was the best.

I don't know if I've told this story on my podcast. If so, I'm sorry, I'm repeating myself. I'll give a short version. But recently we were at a music festival. I drank a little too much. Actually, no, I think I talked about this on Bravo Daily Dish podcast. Drank a little too much. I was like, okay, if I get sick, nearest trash can, okay, I found

it. So I feel it coming. I was like, okay, I don't feel good. I don't feel good. So he comes with me. I throw open the trash can. I hold her hair. And then he holds my hair. So sweet. And then he's like, let's go to the bathroom. I need her to hold my hair if I was in the bathroom. Exactly. So he's like, let's go to the bathroom, clean

you up. I'm like, hold on. Second trash can. On the way to the bathroom. Third one now. I'm like, hold on. Second trash can. On the way to the bathroom. Third one now. I was just, it wouldn't stop. And I'm like, oh, my God. And then I'm like, get me a napkin. I'm like, oh, my God. Oh, my God.

I was like, I need a piece of gum. Get me a napkin. And it was so bad. And then he's like, and he's really drunk, too. And so then he comes over with like a napkin. And as I'm wiping my mouth, I get a tap on my shoulder. Excuse me, Sheena. Can I get a photo?

Sheena just does the whole, sure. She said, sure. She says, wipe the lips, sure. See, that's another really big thing that I like about you.

Yeah, I was like, yeah. That's huge. You know, that's like means her heart is so good. You'll see. And I enjoy it.

I enjoy people coming up and being like, wow. Because I do see sometimes people shy away from doing that. I'm like, but what is your audience? That is your audience. Yeah. And so I said, yes. I'm grateful doing that. I'm like, but what is your audience? That is your audience. Yeah.

And so I said yes. Grateful for them. I never say no. Unless I'm in the middle of a meal, I'm like, just let me finish. And then absolutely. Because also I don't want to just be like, okay, bye, go. Let me finish my dinner. I'd rather have a little bit of a conversation with you.

See, I knew I liked her. So after this happens. Nice. That says a lot about you. Thank you. We go back to the concert. It's Foo Fighters. They're killing it. They're're really good live i was never a fan of them until i saw them live like they're so good they're amazing so we're enjoying the rest of the concert and i was

like wow babe i was like you're okay after that like i was fine i felt so good oh yeah i never got drunk i never drank there were some other things in our system as well yeah but i mean like i want to feel that no yeah you're good the next morning's not fun so that's that's my biggest like if i waited 50 years not to do it it's okay like yeah you're okay you feel like you're very you've lived your life very well i can do that okay you're good so we get back to the concert and you're feeling and i'm feeling so much better. And I just go, babe. I was like, wow.

Our relationship just went to a new level real quick. And he's like, what do you mean? I was like, you've seen me throw up. And he goes, babe, you threw up. Are you okay? And I was like, what? I was enjoying the concert. I got you vomited.

I'm like, that was three times. Ten minutes ago. How did you forget? And he's like, oh, now I remember. But are you okay? I'm telling you, this would help you. This guy,

this guy, I don't know if he's here tonight. There's another, I'll talk to you about it. We'll look into it. Andy, see if they'll, Andy, you'll see him tonight.

Okay. I'm telling you, it'll help you. I think you should. You're a young guy. Yeah. My brain shouldn't be doing the tricks it's doing on me.

No, but I mean, and my mom, like she worries about that too. I mean, she my mom, like, she worries about that, too. I mean, she loses her phone all the time, and she's, like, terrified that. This guy helped him. I have a whole new quality of life, Andy. That's amazing. I love that.

Here, I'll show you. Okay. Yeah, I like this. Well, we're pulling Andy out. I did have a lot of questions from fans come in. Let's go Q&A time. So, we're going to do Q&A with Dolores. All right. from fans come in let's go q a so we're gonna do q a with dolores all right mrs edward doverton wants to know besides theresa who is your favorite cast mate margaret yeah i knew that answer

sally raz wants to know if you're still friends with ciggy i am I don't see her much she's traveling a lot so okay and then Skannis wanted to know if you still talk to Caroline and Jacqueline all the time okay do you think they'll ever come back on the show if they do it's gonna be World War III yeah I think I'm trying to think of what season I started watching y'all's show. I think it was like 2013, I think was the first year. Caroline's been my mentor in life. Oh, wow. She's the wisest woman you'll ever, ever meet. She's amazing.

Her kids are amazing. They helped me raise Frankie. Yeah, I love that. Frankie grew up at the Brownstone. Okay. So, and her kids were so good. They're the sweetest kids. And Jacquelineeline when i came

on the show the second time later on she like picked me off the floor after this breakup and she was like uh come on let's do the show let's do this okay uh samantha al donaldson wants to know which girl from the pump rules cast would you choose for your son if all of us were single oh my god well she you know how I feel but Brock is my like sweetest heart I love the two of you but of course she's in it that's why I'm here yeah I love her heart

I love your heart I love yours all right S-D-A-W-E Dudek I don't know how to say your name but wants to know what's the most memorable word of advice you've ever given someone? Well, actually, Siggy taught me, know your worth.

I like that. And that's one thing that I feel like, personally, I kind of lost in the last two years with the assholes I dated and just not really prioritizing myself or my career. I felt like I kind of lost myself and I didn't know my worth. Sounds like you've grown from it so much.

Yeah. I mean, even just literally in the last four months since I've been with him. Like, he has got my confidence back so much. It takes a good man will do that. And I feel like I can stand up to people again if they're wrong. Whereas before, I just, I got really passive. And I was just like, it's not that big of a deal. Because you're tired. I just I got really passive and it was just like it's not that big of a deal like tired I just don't have the energy to fight I'm like you know what it's

okay some things aren't worth fighting though either you gotta pick and choose your if there's a camera in my face I'll go after you go through things some certain things don't bother you as much anymore yeah I agree all right um RCB that's me wants to know if you work out or do you just have good genes? I have good genes, but I have worked out. I haven't been able to work out as much as I would like to. There are no excuses, but I am mentally and physically tired lately. Filming, you know, and just like life is tiring. I do a lot of philanthropy and I do a lot of appearances

and I'm just trying to make survive yeah but um i used to work out four hours a day for probably 15 years i was married to mr new jersey i dated bodybuilders after that so i have like before the wheels fall off they're right there they're falling off like there's some remnants of what was left of that i mean i don't know what else to say but Well, you look amazing. Everyone should work out or try to get some exercise. But I'm not lazy either. No, but your 49-year-old goals, for sure.

Oh, God, no. Carol B. D. R. wants to know, what is your least favorite part of being on the show? Sometimes you have to confront things that you would want to run away from in real life. I feel that. But you are under contract to confront them. And you also made a promise. I'm a very principled person. And I feel that the people that watch the show deserve the truth.

Yeah. And it's not fair to them to be anything but real. So that's what's hard. Confronting things in life you might skirt around normally. Definitely. Exactly what you spoke about earlier. You can say something but don't say something because it's going to come up on camera. So be just with your words.

Yeah. Totally. Because those are your words. That should be a tattoo. Be just with your words. Let me create it. Let's stay in my corner. It's crazy. Kim Camerata wants to know, who is the one person you met at BravoCon and clicked with?

Who did I click with at BravoCon that I met that I haven't met? Oh, gee. Me, but it's okay. I'll jump in. Yeah. Actually, just say Brock, because who else did I meet? Do you know? Yeah.

It was a lot of running around, I think. There was so much running around. Just getting put into the interaction part would do better for you guys, I think. But I think obviously for a first year round. Yeah. It was great. I think next year or I guess this year now. We all kind of know each other.

There's going to be an L.A. next year maybe? I think they might do two. I was hearing like maybe an L.A. and a New York one. Should be Vegas. Everything could be one place. That's the thing. That was the problem with it this past year is it needs to be in one space. Vegas can hold that kind of event, has that kind of event.

It's the only place I know. There's plenty of places. Yeah, but even if it was like at Javits or something, not the whole thing, I mean it's huge, but just knowing that they had the baza area that like everyone had booths at i never once saw that they had like and it's all happening like neon sign and all this i never saw that because we were doing like the q a stuff and all of that in the other building so it was like are we allowed to put it out there what we're going to be doing at the next private con

um sure just like cool dibs on it just in case someone else yeah so next bravo con we're going to be setting up uh booth and we'll be doing podcasts the whole weekend oh that's a great everybody why because that way you guys are there yeah just like five minute interviews like we better make sure i get on that 100 you can't maybe get everybody yeah but it's just i was like i wanted to do that this year but we didn't have a place to set up i'm like i'm not going to walk around with my mobile equipment hunting people down but if I had an area set up put it out there you know maybe even like

try and like make a schedule and like get you know like the women of New Jersey from 10 to 12 and then let Brock rally oh done done just sit back and let him do it I would tell him no for nothing I would be like where do you want me to sit and what time do i need to be there

last question i got was from jill robinson who said if you had to pick a different city of real housewives to be on what would it be oh i really can't see myself anywhere else yeah i don't know that i'd fit in anywhere else i just don't it's a different it's a different culture and we've spoken about this whole conversation yeah so that's an easy answer i am where i belong why would you want to leave that no no totally i love that it's not even about leaving like where else do i see myself no other place yeah i just don't yeah i love that boom boom any follow- questions, honey, for your favorite housewife? I don't know.

Let's see what I got. There were so many that came in, but it was just Frank, Frank, Frank, Frank, David, David, David. And I was like, let's try and be a little more creative. But some other people just said they just wanted to say hi. You have followers from Norway. People love you. I love everyone. Yeah.

And then does she believe, oh, did she believe Joe had anything going on while Teresa was away? Do you think he was unfaithful? From what I hear now, I don't know about when. Because that makes that prenup null and void. I think at some point, I think at some point, well, you'd have to prove it. Yeah, exactly. I never saw, I can say I never saw him with anyone else. But I can say I don't think that he was faithful.

Yeah. She can do so much better. I mean, just even seeing all those flashbacks and the way he talked to her. See how I get over this. This is the end of fall 1988. Jersey Guido. Mila Kriag wants to know if she can date your son.

Yes. I'm looking for him. I'm late. I gotta go. I forgot my appointments. We gotta wrap this up. Thank you so much for doing this. Thank you. This was amazing. Last question.

I know you're here today with me, but what is one thing that you do to prep for a reunion? Do you make notes or do you do anything like just go in? If I'm watching, well, we have to watch all the episodes, right? Which I have not done yet and it's tomorrow. So I have to do that because I cannot even pull them off. I was trying. But prep for reunion, you try to diet. Sometimes you can't.

You try to work out. Sometimes that doesn't work. You try to do everything you would do like if you were getting married. Yeah. That's like what it is. Same. I do the same thing. Yeah, but it doesn't always work out that way.

At this point, nothing I thought I wanted to do happened. So except for my teeth. I got my teeth doesn't always work out that way. At this point, nothing I thought I wanted to do happened. So, except for my teeth. I got my teeth done, which I think is huge. And thank you, Dr. Appa. Yes, shout out to Dr. Appa. Thank you so much. I know you're so busy today and I really appreciate you doing this. I'm so happy to be here.

Yay, we'll be back soon. And now we know what we're saying, right? Oh my God, of course. All right, thanks for listening, guys. Bye. Bye. Bye. Thanks for listening to guys. Bye. Bye. Bye. J.S.K.

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