Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Robby Hayes
Episode Date: March 13, 2018The Bachelorette and Bachelor In Paradise’s Robby Hayes comes to partake in some Scheananigans and plays Heads Up to break the ice. Plus, they take fan questions, Robby talks his life since... the shows, his super sweet pad, and...he's single! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea.
This is Shenanigans.
And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Shenanigans.
I'm your host, Sheena Shea, and I just want to thank you for listening in again.
We have an amazing guest coming in.
He's very handsome and very single.
His name is Robbie Hayes from The Bachelorette.
He will be here in a
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We're getting back into shenanigans.
All right, I want to welcome my guest, Mr. Robbie Hayes.
Dun, dun, dun.
Yeah.
Thank you for having me.
Thanks for coming.
Second show.
Happy to have you here.
Second to none, but I'll take it.
You know.
Well, I had to have my best friend on my first show.
Makes sense.
When we were pitching this a year ago,
it was literally, this has been in the works for a year,
we did an Insta Live, and it was me, Arianariana and lala and it got a little out of hand
it did have a lot of attention it got like a hundred thousand views live but um i wanted to
try and redo that so i brought her on first so you're like my first real guest other than my
best friend so you should feel honored is what i'm. And might I just point out that he is a Robert
who I'm very happy goes by Robbie and not Rob.
I am too, as well.
Honestly, if your name was Rob,
I don't know if we could be friends.
Honestly, if you said my name and his name
as many times as you do and they were the same,
I'd probably get sick of my own name.
Watch.
I mean, I don't talk about him that much on our show.
Like, low-key, barely mention him.
So, for those of you who don't know,
which I don't know why you wouldn't know,
Robbie was on JoJo's season of The Bachelorette.
He came in runner-up and was not engaged
at the end of the show.
I am single. Let's put it that way yes he is still single
we've said i know so many people always ask if we're dating because i've hung out with dixie
his dog i am at his house often we are very good friends we've never hooked up we are not dating
but we always joke that we're going to be each other's backup plan.
So like in a couple years.
Joke?
Wait.
Oh, sorry.
Oh, shit.
Is that?
I didn't know.
I thought you were joking.
Can I leave?
We are backups.
You know, we're like, okay, well, we'll be single for a couple more years.
And then if we're still single and we're over it, then we're just going to get married pretty
much.
So yeah.
So we're not dating yet.
She is probably you and Spot.
Probably my best friends in L.A.
Yeah.
And so that's why we're always together.
Always comes over to the west side.
She's got an early flight.
She'll crash over, make sure she can make the flight in the morning.
We have fun.
Yeah.
And for those of you who don't know who Spot is that is adam spot who is one of the newest
stars of vanderpump rules i will say i think he is the best looking guy other than obviously the
guys i've dated um best looking guy who's ever been on our show definitely the best looking guy
who's ever worked at sir he is also single ladies if you would like to follow him on Instagram, it's at spot with two T's, me, a gram.
And no, he doesn't do drugs.
It's just a fun little play on words that I think he thought was funny back in college.
Yeah, he's also very close to me as well.
So he lives right down the road.
So he's always over as well.
He's actually how I met Robbie.
So Adam and I met last year working at Sur.
how I met Robbie. So Adam and I met last year working at Sur. And then the next time we hung out, he has all these hot guys from The Bachelor. And I was like, I have a boyfriend, so we can be
friends. And that's how this friendship started because I was in a relationship. And although
all of Adam's friends are very good looking, they are just very good friends of mine. And
they have inspired
me when I moved back from Vegas this summer
to move to the west side.
I'm excited.
Yeah, so moral of the story is
Spot linked us. I actually
had been being begged by Spot
to come out to LA for about
eight months before I actually made it out there.
He's like, bro, you gotta come out because he packed up his stuff,
drove across country, made it happen. And he was like, come out, come out. You'll love it. It's awesome. actually made it out there. He's like, bro, you got to come out because he packed up his stuff, drove across country,
made it happen.
And he was like, come out, come out.
You'll love it.
It's awesome.
You'll thrive out here.
Sure enough, eight months later, after he'd been begging me, I did it and I'm not looking back.
Here you are.
It's great.
I live a mile and a half from him, right down the road, Venice Beach Pier.
Yeah.
And I think we were always like destined to be like best friends because we met on 420.
We did meet on 420, didn't we?
For those of you who knows what that means, we have a mutual love.
For that day.
Yes, that day. So it's just kind of ironic that that's the day we met.
It's a funny story. It comes full circle.
Yeah, it really does. We met at Sir. Sir, a lot of things happen at sir all right so before we get into fan
questions we're gonna get into some shenanigans we're gonna play a little game of heads up so
do you want to give or take oh i want to give okay instinctively
all right well if you're giving then we're picking my favorite category, which is superstars.
Okay.
All right.
Dun, dun, dun.
Okay.
Give me a rundown real quick.
Is this a contest between us?
Are we on a team?
So we're going to see.
You're just going to start giving the clues, but then we're going to switch.
And we're going to see who can get the most in the time allotted okay you can pick whatever category you want and a lot
of talk right yes yeah it's only only words okay use your words that would be good for a podcast
because i can't see my hands right all right i mean there is a camera right there but there they Here we go Superstars
Here we go
3, 2, 1
Josh Murray was on her stage
In Vegas
She has a residency
Celine Dion
Britney Spears
You're getting a call from Adam's spot
Adam, we're playing a game here
Alright, let's try that again Britney Spears. You're getting a call from Adam Spott. Adam, we're playing a game here.
All right.
Let's try that again.
He knows we're in this.
Okay.
Now we got to start it all over. His ears were ringing.
We were just talking about him for like 15 minutes.
Okay.
Starting over.
Here we go.
Superstars.
Get ready.
Three, two, one.
Don't know him.
Next.
Stepbrothers. Will Ferrell. Yes. Don't know him next Step Brothers Will Ferrell
Yes
Don't know
Crazy pop singer
Crazy hair
Outfits
Lady Gaga
Yes
Next
She was on
She was a judge of...
Oh, Spot's calling again.
Oh, my God.
You should answer.
I know.
I should have.
You know what?
We're going to take a pause on this game.
Let's call Spot back and see what's so important.
Yeah, we're going to see what's so important with him.
Spot a kiss.
Why should I not answer?
Right?
Can you silence the ring?
Hello?
Hey.
So were your ears literally ringing?
Because Robbie and I are talking about you filming my podcast.
Recording.
Recording my podcast.
Trying to play a game of heads up.
And your call has interrupted the game twice.
Sorry about that.
That's okay.
Is it urgent?
Hey, Robbie.
Hey, buddy.
Am I like on the air?
Yeah, you're like on the air.
You're live on the air.
So is there anything you would like to say?
First time listener, first time caller.
Really excited.
We were literally just talking about you and how we met
and how you're the hottest guy who's ever been on the show, etc.
So it's just funny that you interrupted our game twice.
Spot, what do we have coming up March 12th?
I'm very flattered.
Thank you guys so much.
Did Robbie say I was the hottest guy on the show?
Because that's really what means a lot to me.
I mean, I know that's what matters.
So, yeah, Robbie said it, not me.
What Sheena thinks, I think.
Yeah.
We are one and the same.
We're the same.
How's it going?
It's going great.
Did you need something
or may I call you back after?
Yeah, just need to call back after.
Okay.
Love your spot.
All right, have fun.
Bye.
Bye.
I'm like, you know I'm doing this right now okay we're gonna try this again third time's a charm okay third time is a charm
all right i gotta get the adult uh one the supervision or whatever it's called
that's a fun category okay get ready three two one uh she's
got a little a sister bella um g g hadid uh he makes watches um uh very famous girls watches
christian dior i mean no You're close. You know it.
Michael Kors.
Yes.
I have that purse.
I get her and Lady Gaga confused sometimes.
Was with Russell Brand.
Oh, Russell Brand.
Katy Perry.
Yes.
Next.
Next. Next.
You probably have this purse too.
Chloe.
Chanel.
Armani. Yes.
Okay.
Tennessee.
Nashville.
Country singer.
Big old boobies.
Dolly Parton.
Yes.
Yes.
Don't know Bethany Frankel.
What? I don't know who that is. Real House oh what real housewives of new york skinny girl oh my god that's my girl i was on her talk show i don't know her okay so guess i
gotta keep up with my housewives you don't know who candace cameron is full house dj tanner all
right one two three four okay i got i got five so my favorite part about that is that the audience DJ Tanner alright 1, 2, 3, 4 I got 5
my favorite part about that is that
the audience will be able to hear Robby whispering the answers to you
he's like
in the mic he's like
you know I was borderline
ready to guess
I can't hear my own voice
alright
Sheena 5
Robby pick your category all right from up there
here we go easy blockbuster movies oh god i'm not gonna be good at describing these but let's try
we're playing you ready okay down if you get it right up if it's a pass I think Rob Schneider was in this.
Like, lions, tigers, bears, not an apartment.
Wizard of Oz.
No, they don't live in an apartment, but it's what you live in.
Oh, walking tip.
Skip it.
Midi?
No, you didn't get it right.
Oh, I went down.
Angelina Jolie.
She's a badass in this.
Wanted.
No, no, no.
Tomb Raider. Yes, that one. No, no, no. Everyone Wants to Be a...
Yes, that one.
They are
puppets. Kermit.
Miss Piggy.
Yeah, the Muppet movie.
You can cheat and look at it.
I couldn't remember the name of it.
The cat from Shrek who talks and is all big ass.
Oh, Boots. Yeah, but what's his name?
Boots and Fur. Boots and Kitten.
Pussy Boots. Puss and Boots. Yeah, but what's his name? Boots and Fur. Boots and Kitten. Boots and Pussy Boots.
Puss and Boots.
I don't know. You don't go down when you get it. Okay.
Quentin Tarantino.
Uma Thurman.
Yeah, Kill Bill Volume 1.
You're just cheating left and right.
Alright. Robbie, I
think I won this round. That was a hard one.
I think I should have done a different subject.
Yeah, you should have.
Okay, so the next category that I want to get is adult supervision.
Ooh, and now they have an even adult or two version.
All right.
I got to splurge and buy those for next time.
Yeah, adult 2.0.
I don't know.
I don't know what that's about, but you know what?
If you guys keep listening in, we're're gonna be playing that on this show heyo
so anywho all right um how about we get into some fan questions i'm in all right so at kiss and
makeup melissa on instagram wanted to know if you've come to my show in vegas and how you thought
it was obviously yes you've come, this is the first question.
So, yes, I came to the premiere, actually, because Sheena is my best friend, as we talked about.
I was there. There's a large group of us, about 12, and I was literally falling out of my seat laughing for the entire show. It was hilarious. And it's very impressive because there's only,
what, three of you on stage the entire time? Yeah. It's not only three characters. For the
most part, it's just two of us. And then in some scenes, there are three of us on stage the entire time yeah i mean only three characters for the most part it's just two of us and then in some scenes there are three of us on stage but but that's it the whole time yeah
they're entertaining it's awesome it's a dope show well thanks i'll be back yeah we did um
early january we had a big media opening night i had like 20 30 friends fly out from la and come
to the show and i'm not one who normally gets nervous before I go on stage but seeing all
of the familiar faces in the audience I thought was going to make me more nervous but it actually
didn't it was so much fun because I'm like looking out and then I see like all of my friends laughing
I was like yes I'm doing a good job I'm doing it so no it's great and I can tell that you put some
work into it because that was night one and it was flawless yeah thank you and i will say i just
want to give you a shout out here on my podcast robbie introduced me to my vegas bff her name is
stephanie he stayed an extra night in vegas we hung out and i'm just like oh god who is this
girl you're bringing out with us like am i i'll fine i'll be nice to her and her and i totally
hit it off that's sheena getting jealous. That's Sheena getting jealous, guys.
That's Sheena getting jealous.
Well, I mean, we are going to get married one day.
But, you know, I had to check out the competition.
Yeah, it was really funny for like the next week to see you guys in each other's Snapchats every single night.
I was like, oh, you guys just hit it off.
And then she took me to the Magic Mike show.
And then I went back again.
And again.
And I'm going back again tomorrow.
It's a good show, guys.
It's a really good show.
If you haven't seen it.
It's not as good as Sheena's, but it's different.
No, but the thing is, you can see mine at 7, and then go see theirs at like 10 or 10.30,
whatever time it's at.
Shit, you can see Sheena's at 7, and then probably walk with Sheena there to see it.
She'll probably be going, chances are.
I wouldn't walk.
I would probably...
There you go, Uber.
Yeah.
Plug.
Lift.
Lift.
Go lift.
Yeah.
Okay, so next question that came in
was from at simsinghh.
And they would like to know
how your life has been
since doing The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise.
It's been great.
Part of it's been nonstop travel.
You know, you always are off in some other city doing a show.
Yeah, you're always leaving me.
I know.
Well, you left me for four months, so we can talk about that later.
Okay.
But it's been great.
You know, I've met so many cool people through the events, the appearances, the shows, the
traveling, everything that I've done, seen so many cool places that it's really priceless.
And thinking back, like, when I was 26, 25 and, like, you know, ready to take that next step, marriage or whatever that may be, I'm getting so much traveling and seeing so many cool places that I'm thankful that I have this, you know, this openness to be able to do this.
I feel blessed.
Yeah.
Well, we're in this single life together, so we gotta, we gotta stay single.
Oh,
we,
we,
I mean,
I mean,
we've already,
we've known each other less than a year and we've already been in four
different cities and states.
I was going to say,
we've taken on a lot of towns.
We have.
I know.
I mean,
LA is like our home.
We've been to Atlanta,
New York,
Vegas.
We're planning an Australia trip for later this year.
We are planning an Australia trip.
You just have to get out of that
after the show
right
yeah
so we want to go
it's their winter right now
so we want to go
when it's their summer
that's true
yeah
so
I think it's fall for them
anyone from Australia
it's like fall winter
it's like towards the end of the year
like our winter is their summer
so
so we can wait
we'll plan that
yeah
totally
um
speaking of New York
when's that WWH?
What is the one you're in?
Well, by the time that this is on, I'll already have done it.
But I'm going on Sunday.
Okay.
Yeah.
Because that was the clip I got.
Wait, what?
From their last one.
Can I show you a clip I got sent?
Oh, sure.
So what is that?
What's that show?
Watch What Happens Live?
Yeah.
Okay.
I don't know what.
I think it was their last filmed one.
Oh, when I was there last month?
My buddy sent me this clip of an Eric.
What?
Of an Eric.
Who's Eric?
That's Carl.
Carl.
Oh, yeah.
No, no, no.
That did not happen.
Let me set the record straight.
Let me play it again.
Ready?
I think what she was upset about is that other people were talking about it on our behalf,
which is frustrating because Kristen was not there, Stassi was not there, and Steven was
not there either.
Right.
Okay.
There you go.
Apparently I wasn't there either.
But no.
Making me all sorts of jealous all the time.
What I see as hooking up is like, you have sex.
That's what I would think hooking up is.
And I think the majority of the world would take when he says, yeah, we hooked up twice, is that we had sex.
We did not.
We had a couple drunken makeouts, a couple nights in New York.
Like, give a girl a break.
I was single.
I thought it was funny.
I just got sent it this morning.
I was like, I'm definitely bringing this up on Sheena's podcast for sure.
Yeah.
So, no.
So I've set the record straight.
I'm setting it straight again
um his ex was just on the show recently lauren workus and she even said it straight it was like
no they made out and you know she's like but that's what carl does he leads people on and
you know i will say i thought he was very much a gentleman until he aired my business out there
putting his own twist on it without my permission.
And I thought that was a pretty slimy thing to do.
Well,
I'm glad that I gave you the platform and opportunity to send something back.
Thank you so much.
Love you still.
Yeah.
Love you too.
So let's talk about how I'm on bachelor in paradise.
Your title was social media influencer.
You're so cool.
You can find me on the
side of the highway holding up a cardboard sign that
says we'll work for likes, legitimately.
And I'm wearing a ransack.
But how, I mean, it is
a business, though. With all of us in reality
TV. It's my main source of income right now.
You know, it's great. I have a six or seven
source of income. It's probably my main one.
It's taking off. I mean, I think we've just seen
the tip of the iceberg. And with all jokes aside you know former competitive swimmer on
bachelorette i hadn't swum a lap in four years i've got four degrees i've got a finance degree
a real estate degree a minor in spanish and a master's in finance yeah and they went with
performer professional swimmer my last race was in 2012 at the olympics like come on that was a
while ago yeah and so then they put social media influencer. I mean, that's fine.
We all do it.
We're all doing it.
And I will admit that was before I knew Robbie personally.
And I made fun of him. She judged me.
Thanks.
Thanks, Sheena.
Now look at us.
I was like, Adam, your friend Robbie from college.
Like, he thinks.
I didn't know.
Robbie from college.
I mean.
I call my little brother in my fraternity Ian from college.
So that's funny you said that's funny but i didn't know really that you don't get to pick your title on the show
until like bachelor in paradise obviously i mean it's such like a parody like yeah it's a funny
show but it's like then that season was like oh scallop fingers and all of these other like
and then they made me be the copper tone baby in my speedo with doing the turnaround with the
did you hate that though i didn't mind it at all.
Yeah.
I definitely snapped at him.
Did you?
I was like, look at your friend.
You're such an ass.
But now we're besties.
Besties.
So it's all good.
What's next?
How long were you there
when you did Bachelor in Paradise?
We filmed for 15 days.
And it's supposed to be longer than that.
However, if you remember,
we got sent home
for a week and a half in between.
So we were crunched for time, which made for very late nights, 6 a.m.
ish and very early wake ups at 8 a.m.
ish to get all the filming in to fill the summer slots that they had already purchased
on ABC for Monday nights.
Yeah.
Now, one thing I've always been curious about, and I'm sure a lot of other people are when
in like the rose ceremonies like
on the bachelorette what time do those happen because sometimes when people are doing their
interviews at the end it's like the sun's up like those not happen to like 5 a.m sometimes the first
night second night uh or first rose ceremony second rose ceremony but that first night you're
doing the rose ceremony about 7 8 a.m and as the person you walk out it's 9 a.m it's bright yeah
wow it's crazy I don't know if you know this
Because you haven't been
The Bachelor
But that's gonna be
My next question
The person who is
The Bachelor or Bachelorette
On that first night
How could they possibly
Remember all the names
Are they taking a break
Do they have a little
Piece in their ear
Like
Yeah
There's no way
I mean I couldn't even
Do it myself
No
Especially with all
The drinking that's involved
Right
However
You know that
That lead role Jojo would give out Three roses, grab three more, and then she'd come out.
She probably has a name she knows.
So she'd go back.
She wasn't just sitting up there nonstop.
Yeah.
I mean, obviously, again.
She'd go back.
We'd sit there and wait for five minutes while she deliberated back there, and then she'd come.
Television shows are edited, people.
They are edited.
Oh, are they?
Yeah.
Oh, wow.
A lot of people don't know that.
They think they're like 45-second conversation I had with the entire thing and not like 45 minutes yeah so um but
i've always wondered that i'm like there's no way that they can remember all of those names no
but obviously yeah there's 26 of us the first night when i was there that's a lot that's crazy. So how did it feel making it almost all of the way?
Like I've always said, I wouldn't change anything.
Yeah.
I've been on two seasons of ABC's franchise with The Bachelor, and I've never been eliminated from Road to the Morning.
So that's something to talk about.
You know, right?
Yeah.
Not just one, but two.
And so making it to the end, you know, when it got done, about four people, five people – actually, at five people, they separate you.
You don't see the guys.
You only see them at rose ceremonies.
You're assigned a producer, and it's just you and him or you and her for the entire next month if you last that long.
And then once you get to rose ceremonies, you see each other.
You catch up, blah, blah, blah.
She does her thing, and then you're out.
You're back again.
And so when it got down to the final two, I'm like, you know what?
I don't even think there's another guy here. You've seen previous seasons got down to the final two, I'm like, you know what? I don't even think there's another guy here.
You've seen previous seasons where she'll go the night before and be like, you know what?
It's not you.
I'm not going to put you through that.
Make you give your pre-proposal speech.
Walk down there and get dressed.
But no, she didn't do that for me.
But that's how I felt.
I felt like I was the only guy still there for her.
And that's what they make you feel like.
You know, you're secluded.
You're alone.
You don't have a phone to talk to anyone.
I can't call my mom for girl advice, blah, blah, blah.
So it just bottles up in your head and it's all you think about.
It becomes overwhelming.
You become infatuated.
That's how you fall in love so quickly.
So when it came down to it.
And JoJo, she's awesome.
I mean, I would not think she's a hard girl to fall in love with.
Her and I have been friends for a couple years now.
Not a single bad thing to say about Jordan.
No, she is amazing.
She's drop dead gorgeous.
She is such a sweetheart.
Her and Jordan still seem super happy together.
They seem great, yeah.
And yeah, so yeah, she seems like an easy girl to fall in love with.
And I think you and I can relate on being in love on reality television and having
the backlash from social media you think looking dumb you know i mean some of the things you say
it's like when you watch it back are you like why did i say that like do you ever have regrets or
so i i see what you're saying people can say stuff and think that you know i get caught up in moments
i'm very emotional i think i was the first one to say I love you on the show.
I wear my emotions on my sleeve.
It's how I've always been.
I'm the same way.
For that reason, I do get lovey-dovey and mushy, but that's just me.
I'm not trying to come off as a hard ass on the show.
I'm this guy from the South.
I don't show emotions.
I get into it, and it was great.
With that being said, I'm able to be more of myself when I'm around her.
Because I'm not trying to be something I'm not in front of the cameras.
Yeah.
And when it is her and I sitting there talking, it looks like it's just us on television to the average viewer.
But there's 15 people.
Oh, my God.
I know.
Within a five foot radius.
Yeah.
Five with cameras, four with boom mics, three selling you.
Oh, kiss now.
Like all sorts of stuff.
So the first two weeks is an adjustment. and then you kind of forget everything that's
around you.
It's just her.
Totally.
One thing I will say that always bothers me while watching The Bachelor or The Bachelorette
is on the one-on-one dates, they never eat the food, and the food always looks so good.
I'm like, why aren't you eating that steak?
It's going to get cold.
It probably already is cold.
Like, I want that steak. They feed uh yeah especially coming from your show working at a
restaurant it's a shocker right yeah so they feed us in the hotel before we go and then that's really
just for show and we could nibble at it if you want yeah it's probably been sent they never do
no one ever eats and that's because it messes with the mic when we're talking yeah see for me i try in every scene possible to
eat on my show because ever since i got in shape people think i'm anorexic and i'm like
if you knew how much i ate you probably would hate me more or just go follow her because she's
always working out i see your workout snaps all the time i'm always working out and then i followed
up with in and out a lot too because i live across the street from when it's too convenient it's all about moderation exactly but i love me a good
cheeseburger and that's just one thing that's always bothered me i'm like i i gotta ask them
why don't you eat the food that's why like are you just like afraid you're gonna get they don't want
any of that interference with the mic and especially in those moments like those are like when you get
finally get one-on-one time with her and there's no one to butt in there's no one to um you know
say hey can i have a moment so you're just sitting there for 45 minutes you have good
conversations so if something came out like that's where i told her i loved her yeah it's like right
there and um they don't want to miss that you know they want the authenticity of doing it the
first time sure they can go back and say hey do that again you were chewing during it but
right they want the authenticity of it yeah makes sense i get it let's produce a show
with the authenticity of it.
Yeah.
Makes sense.
I get it.
Let's produce a show.
Should we?
We should.
Send in ideas.
Yes.
Okay.
I have another question that came in for you
from at Peace Love Andrea.
This,
I don't know how up to date you are
in your Vanderpump Rules,
but I was,
as we're saying, a little, low-key little
Rob Sess this season, and apparently I bragged about how handy he is and how he could hang
a TV on a wall in like under seven minutes.
So everyone wants to know.
Under seven minutes?
Robbie, how long does it take you to hang a TV on a wall?
I don't know if I could hit under seven minutes because I'm a Capricorn.
I'm kind of a perfectionist.
I like to do things right.
But you've been in my room.
You've seen my hanging TV there on the wall.
There's not a wire in sight.
It's all back behind the wall, drop down, drop in.
I will say this guy's room, it's like you never need to leave it.
There's a mini fridge.
There's a full bar.
I mean.
Greg, coffee.
Literally. There's a puppy. It's a full bar i mean coffee literally there's a puppy it's always in there i mean that bathtub double head shower jacuzzi bath it's amazing are you
listening ladies is everybody listening should we should we run that back it's amazing are you
listening ladies is everybody listening should we should we run that back so a couple weeks ago robbie had an
appearance in vegas and i swooped him at the airport we hung out for a bit i did my show and
then i had to fly to la and i had to be on the west side early in the morning for a hair appointment
got my weave done and i he had offered for me to stay at his place with Dixie, his dog, because she's a sweetheart.
And I felt like I was in my own little hotel there.
Right.
It was like I had everything I needed.
I lit a candle.
I had a nice bubble bath. I was like, ooh, he's got the bath balls put on planet Earth.
I was in my zone.
I have a bad Amazon shopping addiction.
I probably buy something every day.
Same.
Whether it's batteries because I need them or bath salts, bath salts all sorts of stuff swipe to order right it's too
easy amazon but not mad at it but it is way too easy but yeah i can change the tire pretty quick
oh how quick can you do that get my hands a little more dirty than TV. But after I stayed at your house, there were things on the internet that we both saw.
People were like, oh my God, they're dating.
Sheena's snapping Dixie from Robbie's bed.
I'm like, Robbie's not even in the bed with me.
It was just me.
He's in Vegas.
I'm in LA.
I was in the bed with you that time, but yeah.
Well, that time.
No, yeah.
I got a lot.
There's all those like sleuthing message boards where they're like, oh, my God, Robbie.
That's Robbie's dog and she's a snap.
And that's Robbie's blanket.
That's Robbie's bed mattress.
What's going on here?
Someone help.
Yeah, again.
We're here to help, guys.
Not yet.
Stay tuned.
Stay tuned.
So, Robbie, as we were saying earlier, people saw, you know, photos and snaps that I posted from your bed.
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All right.
Well, those are the fan questions I had.
I know this answer, but I'm sure some people are wondering, after doing Bachelor in Paradise, why didn't you do Winter Games?
Did you get the option to?
Did you not want to?
They mentioned it to me, but I was a little heated after the way Paradise ended that I promptly declined going on another ABC show.
With that being said, I'm kind of glad I didn't do it.
It was quick.
It was super quick.
I think it was very jumbled.
Yeah.
I'm sure the ratings were all right, but I think that overall people were kind of like, what's next?
Yeah.
But yeah, after Paradise, I'm still out there.
I'm being pitched to different talent buyers for TV shows.
So I told my entertainment attorney that all I really want to do is be on Vanderpump.
Hey.
Well, you know the best way to get on the show is you have to date someone.
Date someone?
On the show.
Or date Sheena.
I'm the only single person, so I'm your only option.
Again, stay tuned.
Yeah.
I was looking on Instagram the other day and it looks like Ashley.
I finally found love from winter.
She's still with.
See, I didn't watch any of the winter games.
I did.
I mean, I, you know me.
I'm like team bachelor nation.
I don't miss a season.
I have a lot of friends who have been on the show, but I did see on Instagram.
It looks like they're still together.
That's good. I like Ashley. She's great. Yeah. She's a sweetheart. I've seen with looks like they're still together. That's good.
I like Ashley.
She's great.
Yeah.
She's a sweetheart.
I've seen with her.
See her on LA.
She's great.
Yeah.
And I love her makeup.
Just got to shout that out.
There you go.
She cries it off, but it still looks good.
Um, as you can see, I'm wearing your line right here.
Let's start that.
Let's run that back.
Okay.
Everybody pay attention.
Sheena is in here not only bringing me in on the second ever episode of her podcast,
which I'm sure is going to have like 150 before we know it, but she's also repping a Leisure
Lettics off the shoulder sweater and it is amazing.
Thank you.
You guys can find it on our website at Leisure Lettics.
It's amazing.
And this is something that you're doing with Chase, correct?
With Chase.
And as well, we partnered with the Clothing by All Guys.
They do the bachelor wine yoga tanks that everyone wears.
Oh, yeah.
And all them do when they are in the main role.
And so they kind of gave us a springboard to jump off of.
So they've already got the Shopify account.
They've already got the website.
They've already dealt with retail clothing.
It gave Chase and I
a six-month head start. Then we took our platform,
which is 85-90%
women, and revolved this company
around yoga pants. It's been a hit. It's been
great. Six months later, we're cash positive.
For a startup, that's great.
Amazing. They have some great
apparel. I have quite a few things from the line.
I love it. This sweatshirt, I will say, it has like that 80s off-the-shoulder vibe, which is so my style, and it's super soft on the inside.
It is dope.
Yeah, that was one thing I made sure to pack when I moved to Vegas.
I was like, I need that sweatshirt.
And I brought it today to wear just for you.
You don't even need anything underneath it.
It's just great.
I don't have anything underneath it.
I know.
I watched Change.
to watch change um is there anything else that you're working on right now that you want to get into a little more that we haven't yet i wish um there is something um just as of recently i've
been working on about a week ago but it is nowhere near ready to be announced it's very infant stages
in fact i have a workshop planned for tomorrow where I'm going to lock myself in a room with my two partners that we're planning on.
And just for four hours, just jot down on paper.
Again, stay tuned.
Stay tuned.
Stay tuned.
I swear.
So, you guys, Robbie's house is like his own little – you guys should have – one of the things you're pitching, it should be a reality show in that house.
I don't know if that's what you're talking about.
You don't have to say anything. But I'm friends with all of these guys they're all
so good looking they're all single they all have very interesting lives and live together in one
house i don't know how they do it without killing each other um yeah it's great and we we've actually
been offered um to do kind of like an MTV Cribs style run through the house.
You know Lauren Zima?
Yeah.
She was going to do it over there with her outlet.
But I think we just kind of fell apart and didn't keep up with it.
So it never happened.
But I think you're on to something there.
It is fun.
And Dixie kind of – she's like the – she's the house mom.
She's the lady of the house.
She's just wandering around.
She's got like four dads.
She's great.
She's spoiled rotten.
I just wanted to throw that out there.
If that wasn't something that's already in the works, it should be.
I also can help produce it.
I know you guys really well.
Just throwing that out there.
But all right.
Well, thank you guys for tuning in again.
Robbie, thank you for being my second guest.
Thank you for having me.
I had a blast.
And we're going to be drinking on the west side tonight.
Guys, go see Sheena's show.
Go to Vegas.
Go to the Paris and go see it.
It's worth it.
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