Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Shep Rose

Episode Date: April 24, 2018

Star of Southern Charm and RelationSHEP, Shep Rose, warms up with a game of heads up before talking about his time on both shows, baiting twitter trolls, and still looking for love. See Priv...acy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Thank you for listening to this Podcast One production. Available on Apple Podcasts and Podcast One. So, as you know, it's no secret that the best shenanigans always start with a little drink. And today, yes, we are talking again about wine. I actually just discovered this awesome wine subscription called Bright Cellars, where they match you with the wine you'll like based on your taste. So all you guys do is you take this really fun quiz, ask questions like what's your favorite type of chocolate, what's your go-to drink, and then their algorithm recommends the top four types of wine that you're most likely to enjoy. And if you like your matches, you can even get them sent to your door so you don't even have to take that trip to the store.
Starting point is 00:00:41 See what Bright Cellars recommends for you at www.brightcellars.com slash Sheena. Make sure you use my link when you take the quiz because if you end up wanting to purchase your matches, my link will get you 50% off your first wine shipment. That's bright like smart and cellars like a wine cell time to party with Sheena Shea this is Shenanigans and now here, here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Shenanigans. I am your host, Sheena Shea. That is at Sheena, S-C-H-E-A-N-A, on all socials, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, which is my fave. Today. Snapchat just lost a lot of money. Well, hopefully they gain it back from this shout out right here.
Starting point is 00:01:53 Did you hear about that? I did. Yeah. Yeah. I'm not on it. Yeah. Kylie and Rihanna. I'm not on it because. I haven't even said who you are yet.
Starting point is 00:02:01 Oh. People who don't know your voice. Oh, sorry. Are going to be like, wait, who is this guy just talking? I'm Shep. So as I was going to say, I have a very tall and handsome man sitting next to me in the studio right now as he touches his dad bod belly. That's right.
Starting point is 00:02:17 And that is Shep Rose from Southern Charm and Relationship. What's up? What's going on, Sheena? Yeah. All right. Last time I saw you was in New York. It was a long time ago. That's one of my little notes I have here. We can lightly get into that.
Starting point is 00:02:35 Yeah, okay. The cops might burst through the door if we talk about it in detail. Yeah, not in full detail. We'll save some of that. But yeah, I did hear that about Snapchat. Yeah. I mean, I don't do it because I figure if I take the time to film a video, it's going to, I want it to last longer than seven seconds or whatever. You know, there's this crazy feature where you can save it. Yeah. I don't care. I like Instagram. I like the
Starting point is 00:03:08 Insta stories. That's the same. It's still 24 hours. I like it better. Yeah, so what I do is I Snapchat, use the filters because I like them better. I save it and then I post it to my Insta story. Ah. Because Insta definitely gets more views. I stare at my phone too much as it is. My friends
Starting point is 00:03:23 give me grief. I don't need any more sort of temptation in the phone realm. The struggle is real for sure. Well, I do want to be present. I want to, you know. That's good. I like that. Yeah. I do like that.
Starting point is 00:03:37 Do you catch yourself being too addicted to your phone? I used to be. And then I was just saying on my show a few weeks ago, this year I had deleted my Instagram and Twitter apps from my phone. I just completely deleted them. I had my sister doing it for me full time for a little bit because while the show was on air, I'm in a relationship I'm no longer in. It was just so many opinions and negativity and just all of this coming in and i was getting real defensive yeah and my mom one morning was just like sheena get off twitter you look like a crazy person i was like i'm deleting it but i was like wait i can't delete it like
Starting point is 00:04:15 but i deleted it from my phone for a bit and it was it was a nice break though like i did appreciate having that and i noticed how much when i'm at dinner with people they're just on their Instagram feed and then I would grab my phone and I'm like oh wait I don't have Instagram on it so it was a nice needed break good but then it's like I also like missed all of the positives that come with it and you know
Starting point is 00:04:38 the fans who are excited when I like a comment or respond to their question and so I'm like you know it was a break that I needed to take, but, um, I'm back bitches. I like Twitter because I like to, um, I like to start shit and then, and then belittle people who are not as smart. Oh yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:01 Oh my God. I, one of my favorite things is making people feel stupid. I mean, I get into politics. It's really dumb. No, I know you do. I'm just like, ugh. I love putting people in their place. So when they have something to say, and I'm like, actually, you're wrong, and now I'm going to tell you why. And then they're like, ugh. Well, the best thing to do is
Starting point is 00:05:17 you disarm them with a little bit of comedy and a little, and you sort of like poke them, and then you, and then everybody else jumps on them and then they delete their account. I, that is the best thing ever. Or they'll block you and I'm like, oh, bummer. I can't follow you.
Starting point is 00:05:33 Shoot. Well, people, Andy Cohen likes to mute. He's a big fan of muting. Oh, I'm all about the mute button on Twitter. I, I like that on Instagram you can mute people's stories. But sometimes it's like I still like I don't want to be like catty or petty and like unfollow certain people. I won't name names. But I'm like I also don't want to see your shit on my feet every day. Well, I turned off my comments when I went to go – I went to shoot geese with my uncle's ranch.
Starting point is 00:06:01 Oh, yeah. Turn those comments off. Yeah. And I was just like, you know what? I don't want to hear it. No. I was like, and by the way, how do you think that pate that you ordered at the restaurant gets to your plate?
Starting point is 00:06:11 It's really messed up too. Like processed meat, the way they treat animals is pretty bad. I mean, everyone agrees with that. Of course, I'll have a burger after this and enjoy the hell out of it. I mean, everyone agrees with that. Of course, I'll have a burger after this and enjoy the hell out of it. But like, for example, a goose, they stuff their face with food and make them fat. And in a little cage, it's really fucked up, you know?
Starting point is 00:06:36 Yeah. And I'm just out there shooting them. You're just killing them. Yeah. And I'm eating them. I don't know. Are you a vegetarian? I'm not a vegetarian, but I'm not.
Starting point is 00:06:47 But you're not a hunter. I'm not a hunter, no. Well, look, I'm not like Mr. Hunter guy, but I grew up doing it. Yeah. And my dad and grandfather taught me. Yeah. And, you know, it's just one of those things. Your hat's like super like America right now. That's right.
Starting point is 00:06:59 I need to get you one. I can totally see you doing that. All right. Let's talk. All right. Let's talk. All right. So before we get into all of the things I want to talk to you about, we're going to play a game of Heads Up. Have you played that before? Maybe. Okay.
Starting point is 00:07:14 Well, here at Shenanigans. I'm sure I can. I'm a quick learner. We play a game every episode. So for you, I have chosen the adult supervision version of Heads Up. So here's how you play. We're going to each go, and we're going to see just one round each, see who gets more right. So you're going to hold it up.
Starting point is 00:07:33 Oh, I know Heads Up. Yeah, okay. So you're going to describe, and then if you get it right, you go down. Sure. And if you don't know it or you get it wrong, you pass, and you go up. So if you get it right, bam. All right. So do we want to do one, version two, even adulter, or version three, bad behavior?
Starting point is 00:07:51 Adulter? What does that mean? I don't know. Adulter? It says adult supervision, even adultier. Your choice. I don't care. We're just going to go bad behavior.
Starting point is 00:08:02 Okay, bad behavior. Let's just do it. Please. All right. we're just gonna go bad behavior let's just do it alright so here we go when someone pulls your underwear up from behind wedgie when you stand
Starting point is 00:08:22 sorry when you you get beer and you put your hands on it so it lifts your legs. Oh, uh, beer keg. Or keg stand. Okay. Yep. Um.
Starting point is 00:08:34 Slapping that ass. No. Spanking. Yes. Um, it's in a, usually a western, country and western bar and you. Uh, bowl. Yes. Um, oh, it's a show that you're probably kind of in in las vegas um a sex show no uh a circ show uh titty show no uh strip show no uh what do you
Starting point is 00:08:59 think i'm in in vegas i'm burlesque oh burlesque okay okay i burlesque. Okay. Okay. I've seen one. It's where you wear a white shirt and someone sprays you down. A wet t-shirt contest. It's a snake. It's a very long and big snake. Anaconda. Yes. Alright, that's it. That wasn't bad. That was pretty good. I'm like, wait, what kind of show
Starting point is 00:09:21 do you think I'm in? Burlesque, I thought. I see your pictures on Instagram. At the end of my show, there is – I want to hear all about it. There is a burlesque dance number. What is – do you have like a script that you have to follow? So I got six. Yes.
Starting point is 00:09:34 So it is a scripted off-Broadway comedy. It's actually the longest running one. It's called Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man. Okay. And there are six acts in it. There's a quick little break. And then at the end, you get like a fun little strip tease. No like showing it all, but there's like this fun dance burlesque number at the end.
Starting point is 00:09:56 Where do you stay when you're there? So I have a condo just like two minutes off the strip. It's really, really close. Where do you gamble? I don't, thank God. Because living there, being a gambler. No, I don't want to lose what I already have guaranteed in my wallet. Okay. That's the way I look at gamble. I don't thank God because they're being a gambler No, I don't want to lose what I already have guaranteed in my wallet. Okay, that's the way I look at it I know I wish I didn't gamble, but I do all right, so now it's your turn
Starting point is 00:10:13 Okay, all right Virgin you wear this. Chastity belt. Yes. Throwing the ball in the cup. Flip cup. No, the other one. Red cups.
Starting point is 00:10:35 Ping, ping. With not wine in it, but. Yes, it's called, I don't play drinking games. Ping. It's called. Come on. Beer pong. Yes.
Starting point is 00:10:42 Did you go to college? What you would wear on your dick. Condom? No, it's called like a... And you can also like lay in it. A hammock. Yeah, but what... Banana hammock.
Starting point is 00:10:53 Yes! Okay, you have to take this. Like if you get pulled over and they're like, no, you're drunk. You have to like make sure... Breathwaser. Close enough. Yeah, sobriety test. Feel sobriety.
Starting point is 00:11:02 Yeah, there you go. What am I doing? Chewing your nails. Close enough. Yeah, sobriety test. Feel sobriety. Yeah, there you go. What am I doing? Chewing your nails. Close. Nervous. No. Close. Not chewing, but...
Starting point is 00:11:12 Biting your nails. This is a movie. They're in Vegas. Also, the way you feel really shitty after a night of drinking. Yeah, Hangover. Yes. I'll give you that one. You just didn't go down in time.
Starting point is 00:11:26 That's what she said. All right, I still won. You got five. Oh, no, you got six because I gave you hangover. So we're tied. All right. I like that. That's equitable.
Starting point is 00:11:37 Yes. So maybe after some drinks at Sir, we can play that again later. Okay. You know, we'll see. God, sometimes... I should just shut up. Anyway, so Shep and I met a little over a year ago. We were on Watch What Happens Live.
Starting point is 00:11:55 That was maybe one of my most fun ones. I loved it. Yeah. Low-key, maybe high-key, was jealous when you did it with Stassi this year for our premiere episode. I was like, it's my birthday! Why am I not doing it with Shep? We had such good chemistry when we did that. It was so much fun.
Starting point is 00:12:11 That was fun with Stassi. I like her, too. Yeah. Yes. Okay. Listen, I'm not going to get in between y'all. This is crazy. Who are you not talking to currently? Everyone? I don't talk to the majority of people you know. I don't know that many people.
Starting point is 00:12:27 Well, I mean, in that circle. We're not going to name names. We don't have enough time to talk about all that. Okay, let's talk about me. My favorite topic. Yes. But I will mention, when you were on Watch What Happens Live with Stassi, you had mentioned when I was texting you when I was in Atlanta.
Starting point is 00:12:41 I know, but that was so innocuous. I was like, yeah, we were trying to hang out, and it didn't work out. Yeah, because I was at your alma mater. I was going to Tailgate in Athens. Did you have fun? I had so much fun. Yes, but then somebody wrote some scandalous article saying – basically like implying that I thought I was a big deal, which I am the opposite of that, I think, I hope. Do you get that feeling?
Starting point is 00:13:08 I mean, I guess I know you, so I don't think you. I don't have a whole – it's funny. I really don't have a whole lot of confidence in that arena. I mean, I do sometimes, but I can't imagine the prettiest girl in the room wanting to talk to me. I just can't. What? I can't imagine that because I'm just a guy from South Carolina. I'm a guy from Hilton Head Island.
Starting point is 00:13:33 So I haven't been the prettiest girl in the room, Chip? Well, you talked to me, and I almost fainted. I'm telling you. I mean, it was amazing. But we were put together by the Watch What Happened Live. Yeah, and at the time, I was in a relationship. Yes, yes. But that didn't matter.
Starting point is 00:13:48 No, we still had fun. I like having girls who are friends. Yes. I really do. Yes. Of course I was attracted to you. But nothing happened, of course. Past tense?
Starting point is 00:13:57 Of course I am attracted to you. Sorry. You haven't changed, Sheena. You're still that lovely girl I met in New York. So speaking of New York, okay. So this shenanigans show has been in the works for literally over a year. I was going to do it with a different company before, and I had asked you to be a guest like a year ago when it was going to be up and running.
Starting point is 00:14:23 And I had a memo in my phone still of some things that you had – stories you told in New York that I thought were so funny. And here's the thing. You don't even have to tell them again. But I just want to know if you know what I'm talking about because I was like looking at this and I'm like, okay, roadkill Derek story. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:42 Is that something we can share on air? I passed out in a parking lot face down when I was in my 20s. And someone parked a car on top of me. And I knew the guy. And he was like, oh, my God, Shep, are you okay? It was a grass parking lot. The grass was like – I was just like passed out face down I mean I was you know it was one of those nights um and he was like are you okay Shep are you okay I was like what I mean I don't really remember anything
Starting point is 00:15:16 so he put me in the back of his car took me home I and I woke up on a couch the next day you know like tire tracks on my back just like all sore and I look up and a couch the next day, you know, like tire tracks on my back, just like all sore. And I look up and this woman is doing the dishes. And I was like, hello. And she goes, oh, hi, Derek. Good morning. And I was like, am I Derek? I thought I had turned into a guy named Derek overnight.
Starting point is 00:15:42 And no. And she was like, oh, the neighbor is Derek. He usually sleeps on the couch. He kind of looks like you. I was like, where the hell am I? And then I walk into my – he's like, Michael is in the room and my friend's name is Michael. And I walk into his room. I'm like, what is going on?
Starting point is 00:15:58 He goes, yo, what's up, roadkill? So that's what he calls me to this day. He lives in Charleston actually. Every time he sees me, he calls me to this day he lives in charleston actually every time he sees me that is so funny literally like after watch what happens live that night we all there's like a group of us who were hanging out and shep had us dying laughing like my stomach like my abs hurt the next day because we were just up until like 7 a.m listening to your story i know i should really shut up so much fun okay good you liked. Okay, good. You liked it. There was another one. Toothless in Sonoma.
Starting point is 00:16:28 Oh, yes. Well, I was in Sonoma County. We rented a 10,000 acre farm, me and 30 of my friends. And there was places to stay. And we had a pound of mushrooms because that's how
Starting point is 00:16:44 I roll. I like to roll. And we would eat them fucking breakfast, lunch and dinner and float around in this lake. And we had like kegs and we would just dance and laugh and just god damn it was fun. I remember one time we were driving from the lake back up to the house to cook dinner with mushrooms in the dinner and um like a prayer came on the song and it for some reason we it was like me and like five guys we pulled the car over and there's like a field of daisies that head high we pulled the car over opened up all the doors and just started dancing in the field. It was amazing time. Um, and then, so we were, I was really into, uh, the song Rosanna by Toto at the time and I was dancing
Starting point is 00:17:33 and goofing off and, um, somebody's hand hit my face like, like perfectly, but, and it, my tooth flew out of my mouth and I was, I have pictures do you want to see the pictures of me toothless in Sonoma? and so we spent I was like okay there's two things I can do here I can freak out or I can just go with it and of course I went with it
Starting point is 00:17:57 but that night we drew names out of a hat for prom dates, we were doing a fake prom and my date as it were We drew names out of a hat for prom dates. We were doing a fake prom. Yeah. And my date, as it were, her outfit was like a tight dress you'd wear to a nightclub with a balloon in it. So she was pregnant and I was toothless. Oh, my God. And it was such fun. And so the next day I flew back or, you you know a few days later i flew back on first
Starting point is 00:18:26 class to get a new tooth and um i people you know when people walk by you and you just kind of feel bad because you're or i don't know maybe the shoes on the other foot you walk by people in yeah in first class and you're like god damn well. Well, I was like, hey! I was like, maybe you worked harder, motherfucker. Oh, that's kind of rude, isn't it? Oh, Shep. All right. Okay, here it is. Oh, you found it.
Starting point is 00:18:55 Oh, my God. Okay, you guys are going to send this to myself and you guys are going to be able to see this on my Insta story. Hold on. Come on. Okay, well, I have a better one. I look a little more handsome. Please send that to me. You send it to yourself.
Starting point is 00:19:09 Oh, my God. I'm doing it. Okay. You guys check out my Insta story. Oh, my God. All right. Are you going to save this for when the podcast goes on? Yes.
Starting point is 00:19:17 Okay. Absolutely. Do you have my name spelled wrong on your phone? I don't know. What the hell? Am I an English teacher? I don't know. Well, it's not coming up
Starting point is 00:19:25 is it no how you don't know how to spell my name clearly s h nope see that's already wrong well that's how i spell it well oh wait all right so we're we're gonna take a little break and we'll be right back okay so why is it when you shop that the better for you products are so expensive? Like when they take out harmful chemicals and then charge you for that. Like why? I mean, you know what I mean. They take a $4 product and make it organic. Boom, suddenly it's $6.
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Starting point is 00:21:09 I love her. But she's my fave this season. Do you watch the show? OK, she is just so down to earth, normal, chill. Like, she definitely doesn't fit in with the catty group of women she's kind of placed with. I should really watch. What was that like?
Starting point is 00:21:26 Oh, man. It was great. I mean, I guess her dad obviously is the singer, rock star. Yeah, Jack and Diane. That is my shit. I mean, I love his music. But they were, as early as I can remember, divorced. And her mom is great.
Starting point is 00:21:47 But we would go over there. It was kind of anything goes. She had this amazing pool with like a waterfall. So, I mean, think of like a 10 or 13-year-old boy. Like I was in heaven. I was jumping off waterfalls doing backflips. They also had a trampoline built into the back deck. Fun.
Starting point is 00:22:06 So you couldn't really hurt yourself too bad because you couldn't fall like six feet and break your neck. Yeah. So, I mean, I managed to hurt myself a bunch. But they had a trampoline, a sweet pool, and they had a pet monkey. And I used to hang out with the pet monkey a lot because I'm obsessed with monkeys. I am too. I want a pet monkey one day because I'm obsessed with monkeys. I am too. I want a pet monkey one day. No, you don't.
Starting point is 00:22:26 Literally. No, like my monkey isn't going to be one who throws poop and is mean. Like I'm going to have a nice pet monkey. Okay. Well, my mom and dad tried to get – when I went to boarding school, my sister was already off at boarding school. They sent me to boarding school. It was just my little brother. And they tried to get my brother a pet monkey to replace me.
Starting point is 00:22:46 Oh, my God. And there was too much red tape. It's really hard and it's really not a good idea from what I can understand. Okay. Well, thanks for crushing my dreams, Shep. I think I want to get a dog, but I'm so nervous about it. Yeah, that is a big responsibility. I think it would make me be a better person.
Starting point is 00:23:04 Are you a responsible person? No, but I think I want that. That's that is a big responsibility. I think it would make me be a better person. Are you a responsible person? No. But I think I want that. That's a rhetorical question. But I think it would help me be one, maybe. Maybe. French bulldogs are so funny. Oh my god. I think they're cool. They're so cute. I know. I know. And it'll make me stay in
Starting point is 00:23:19 more and I'll get up earlier and do things I'm supposed to do. Will you? Well, yeah. I'm not gonna clean up after this sucker. I mean, I and do things I'm supposed to do. But will you? Well, yeah. I'm not going to clean up after this sucker. I mean, I am, but I'm not going to like – I don't know. I do like to sleep and I do like to travel. Those are two things. That's the thing.
Starting point is 00:23:33 Yeah. That's why I have cats. It's so easy for travel schedules. Maybe you should get a cat. I might. I like cats. I'm not an anti-cat person. Some people are.
Starting point is 00:23:44 I'm not. They're a lot easier maintenance. Yeah. But they don't like you, right? Yeah, they do. Oh, my God. Mine love me. They both sleep with me.
Starting point is 00:23:51 They are little snugglers. They greet me at the door. One of them plays fetch. They're weird, but they're so cool. Should I get a cat or a dog? Cats are easier. Season six. Team cat.
Starting point is 00:24:01 Hey. Okay. So speaking of, y'all's what, fifth season now? Fifth season. Can you believe it? Just started airing. I guess you can't believe it. Yeah, I mean, yeah, we're season six.
Starting point is 00:24:15 Wow. Did you ever think when you signed on to do Southern Charm that it would be this successful? No, I mean, I don't know. I wouldn't trade it. I wouldn't trade it for anything. I will. I'll say that. Um, it's been incredibly interesting, sometimes frustrating. Um, but I would say that 80% of the time it's fun and I enjoy it and all the things that come with it. So I, I would say that 80% is a pretty good hit rate for anybody who does anything in life. Yeah, completely. Yeah. So I could have never predicted this. But you know what?
Starting point is 00:24:54 And the thing is, is it's the cast. And everybody is insane and different in their own little way. And it's lightning in a bottle, I feel like. You know what I mean? mean yeah i'm sure you do yeah completely now last season you kind of caught yourself in like a love triangle oh my god is that austin last season i was i was so mad about last season um for a lot of different reasons i mean you know look i i everything I did myself. But there was just sort of a thing that went on where, look, I don't know about you.
Starting point is 00:25:36 You're either completely honest or you're kind of, you know, you hide some things. I'm too honest. I should stop. Yeah. I mean, I decided to be completely, like, open the doors. Like, yeah, come on in. It's fucked up, but come on in. Yeah. And I – I don't know.
Starting point is 00:25:49 I paid a price I feel like. But oh well. It's okay. You know, live and learn. Yeah. Well, look. No regrets. Lessons learned.
Starting point is 00:25:56 I don't take it – I mean I don't have an ax to grind. I'm a happy guy. It's all good. What would you say your favorite and least favorite parts of being on reality TV are? Favorite part is just, I mean, you know, we get to go to New York and go to the Watch What Happened Lives. I mean, people, people, it's just kind of crazy. You get to meet all sorts of interesting folks. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:26:24 Like you. Thanks. And it's, kind of crazy you get to meet all sorts of interesting folks yeah like you thanks um and it's doors are open now maybe that's the bad part too though because it is reality tv and like there is a stigma and you know i don't i don't really i try not to listen to the to the negativity but honestly sometimes i put myself in other people's shoes and I would probably make fun of me behind my back. Oh my god. I make fun of myself all the time. Literally on Snapchat a couple weeks ago, I had one of my friends over and we're watching the episode and he is just dying laughing at me. And they're flashing back to me saying the same thing over and over and over.
Starting point is 00:27:03 And I'm like, OK, the only excuse I can have is, you know what? I smoke a lot of weed. I tend to repeat myself a lot. I'm just going to go with that, and that's going to be my excuse. But I'm watching it, and I literally am screaming at myself on the TV. I'm just like, shut up, Sheena. Oh, my God. Don't say it again.
Starting point is 00:27:17 Oh, shit. There she goes. Said it again. But I'm like, you know what? All I can do is make fun of myself because I can't change the past. It is what it is. Definitely have to laugh at yourself I can do is make fun of myself because I can't change the past. It is what it is. Definitely have to laugh at yourself. And I love making fun of myself.
Starting point is 00:27:29 Me too. It's important. But like what I mean is like I'm sure people say really ugly things when we're not around. Oh, totally. You know what I mean? And it's okay because you'll drive yourself crazy if you think about what people are saying about you. But I don't know. Like maybe that's saying about you. But I don't know. Like maybe that's a bad thing, but I don't know.
Starting point is 00:27:48 I don't think about it. You know what another thing is? It's like I'm sure – I'm not positive, but I bet you there's been some girls who are like I like you personally, but I'm not going to get involved in whatever you've got going on. Yeah. Like I'm sorry. That's too much for me. Right. So maybe that's got going on. Yeah. Like, I'm sorry. That's too much for me. Right. So maybe that's a downside, too.
Starting point is 00:28:08 Yeah. But, I mean, the ups outweigh the downs, let's be honest. Oh, completely. I mean, it's all good. Do you think you have more haters or more fans on social media? I think I have more fans, overwhelmingly. Yeah. I mean, and I think that they they're rad and I try to interact.
Starting point is 00:28:25 But I catch myself interacting with the haters because I just want to beat them down so bad. Yeah. And it's so easy because they're the dumbest people on earth. Oh, totally. Like somebody said on Instagram – I posted something about when I was a little kid yesterday. And some woman said – and I use the word rapturously eating a popsicle. And, and she goes, I think you just say big words because you're having inferiority complex.
Starting point is 00:28:54 I was just, I was like, okay, what is it? What does your unsolicited negative comments say about you? Right. You know what I mean? Yeah. And then everybody jumped on and started nailing her. Oh, I love that. I know. It's like, yeah. So those, I got to love my fans for that. Right. You know what I mean? Yeah. And then everybody jumped on and started nailing her. Oh, I love that. I know.
Starting point is 00:29:05 It's like, yeah. So those, I got to love my fans for that. Absolutely. But it's still surreal to me to think that I have fans, you know? I mean, I know my mom and dad are a fan of me. Of course. They're your biggest fans. So from doing Southern Charm, did you ever think that you would get your own spinoff
Starting point is 00:29:22 show? Was that something you wanted or? No, it wasn't something that you would get your own spinoff show? Was that something you wanted or – No. It wasn't something that I set out to do. I'll say this. Me and Cameron and Whitney to a certain degree, but Whitney created the damn thing. And Whitney is doing Southern Charm New Orleans. Did you know that?
Starting point is 00:29:39 Oh, no way. OK. I saw something on Bravo with Cameron and Jerry O'Connell the other day and they were showing the cookies for all that. So I think that a part – so get back to your question about did I – was I angling for a spinoff? No, I wasn't. And I think that the – if I may be so bold is to say that the reason that maybe Cameron and I resonate with people is that we don't really care. We don't care. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:30:06 This doesn't matter to us. And like, we're not trying to do this and that or sell this or do that. You know what I mean? Really? We're just all sort of sitting back and laughing it at this whole thing. So for those of you who didn't watch Relationship, I love that name, by the way, who came up with that? That's what my friends called me. I was in my big relationship in my life. I was in my 20s and I was boring, according to my friends. So they call me boring. Yeah. I find that very hard to believe. I mean, my dad would call me and ask me what my friends were up to because he was like,
Starting point is 00:30:41 I don't want to hear about your. Oh, my God. I'm sort of kidding. Okay. I was like, wait. They called me relationship. I was a different person kind of. Yeah. But I was happy. Oh, you're saying when you were in a relationship you were born.
Starting point is 00:30:52 When I was in a relationship. Okay. That part I can understand. I thought you were just saying in general. No, no, no, no. I was – my crazy antics were mitigated and back down big time because I was in love. Okay. I can see that.
Starting point is 00:31:05 Because I was in love. She was great can see that. Because I was in love. She was great. Is that the last time you were in love? That was the big one for sure. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. It's all good.
Starting point is 00:31:17 You sure? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So for those of you who didn't – I was 24. Like you're not supposed to like – Oh, no.
Starting point is 00:31:26 That is single time yeah i just think you know people who get married when they're in their early 20s have a pretty high probability of it of it not working out in the end i got married in my late 20s and it still didn't work out and on that note we're gonna take a little break and we'll be right back fabfitfun is a seasonal subscription box for women everywhere to discover new brands and products for a life well-lived. FabFitFun delivers a box of full-size fashion, beauty, home, fitness, and wellness products. It's delivered four times a year and it's only $49.99 a box. With Mother's Day around the corner, forget flowers.
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Starting point is 00:35:33 I did. It was – I really did. I thought they did a very nice job. Yeah. And I'm very – I was very pleased. But at the end of it, the two girls who were left, Peyton and Priscilla, you chose neither. I know. I know. I know.
Starting point is 00:35:46 Isn't that crazy? And then he chose a girl who already had gone home, and then you went after her, Bella, in New York. Well, yes. But now you're here single. Yes. So... What happened?
Starting point is 00:36:01 Exactly. I liked them both tremendously, but like there's – I liked Priscilla. She was a little firecracker. Yeah. When I saw Priscilla's first date, I was like, I like this one. I know. And she was closest to your age.
Starting point is 00:36:12 I know, and I liked her a lot too. So what happened with Bella? So no, no. So like I don't know. There was just something when I was around her. I just liked her laugh and her smile a whole lot. And that's all I'm trying to do is make someone laugh or smile. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:29 And if I like the result of what I'm trying to do, it stands to reason that maybe I would be attracted to them. And she left and it was like crazy. And I was – it was intense, man. The whole thing was intense because think about it. It was just me. There was no one else. Yeah, you were the Bravo bachelor. Nowhere to run, nowhere to hide.
Starting point is 00:36:50 You only have, what, six girls? Imagine the bachelor when they have like 29. Could you do that? I don't know. I wouldn't want to. I wouldn't want to. Okay. And even on all these dates, I might be comfortable in front of a camera, which I am.
Starting point is 00:37:04 They're not. Right, because it's new to them. And it's not like I can watch the ball game like a normal date or like, you know, be like, hold on a second. Like, oh, shit, my friend. You know, like I was locked in. Yeah. And so and I was basically trying to pull the best out of them that I could and give them my best. It was incredibly exhausting, I'll say.
Starting point is 00:37:28 I mean, yeah, dating six people at one time, that could be six girls at one time. That could be exhausting. But it came out okay. I hope it came across that, you know, I tried to, I treated them all as respectfully as possible. And I think that they walked away, hopefully with a smile on their face. Yeah. 00.01 So yeah, I went up to New York to do the reunion show last year and Bella and I
Starting point is 00:37:53 were talking and making plans and this and that. And I don't know what happened, man. Um, she like, I went, I was there for five days and, uh, she stayed with me one night. Um, now she was going through, she was trying to get a new job, trying to look for a new apartment, all this, this, that, but I'm of the opinion. If you really want to be with somebody and see somebody, it doesn't matter if the world is ending, you will make that happen. Absolutely. Okay. Yeah. All right. I'm the same way. So I was kind of like oh kind of bummed you know like yeah whatever and then we um i rented a house in in montauk and um and for it was colin joe's 35th birthday and i invited some buddies and then Bella and her friends came and I mean, we were at Surf Lodge. Have you been there?
Starting point is 00:38:51 Or Surf Bar, Surf Lodge? I've only been to Montauk once, but we spent most of our time at the Summer House. Right. So we didn't get too much time out in the town. So we had dinner, lovely dinner, some wine with a big group and then we went to Surf Lodge
Starting point is 00:39:03 and it was like 11 p.m and i was running into people i hadn't seen in forever and she and her friends turned to me it was like we're gonna get a pizza and watch tv at the house i was like i'm not i was like i can do that in charleston so it was just sort of a difference of uhies and just the way – I don't know. Yeah. Look, maybe I'm crazy. I probably am. I know I am.
Starting point is 00:39:32 I mean, I wouldn't say crazy, but just maybe not ready for a relationship yet. No. No, come on, man. I don't want to – I'm not staying in. I went a thousand miles to get to Montauk. Oh, no, for sure. That I get. Yes.
Starting point is 00:39:50 And it just – it was like – it fell on deaf ears. Anyway. So after that, it just – And then something else happened. And then she canceled the dinner plans when I was in New York for one night and that was the end of that. So it didn't last very long is what you're saying. No, it didn't. And I don't – and by the way, I had no ill will, and I actually helped her find a job and all the – like, her life is fine.
Starting point is 00:40:14 And I'm not in it, and it's totally okay. Well, good. As long as you're happy, you're in a good place. Okay. So that – Last night ran into – Oh, yeah. So wait. Tell me. Last night ran into. Oh, yeah. So wait, tell me about your night last night.
Starting point is 00:40:30 Well, let me tell you about the other night. Well, I've had a wild time here. How long have you been in L.A.? A week. Okay. Oh, wow. I went to Sunset Towers to grab a drink. I was there today.
Starting point is 00:40:44 I've never seen more celebs in my entire life. Mika Kelly, Emily Ratatowski or whatever. Chelsea Handler. I mean, so many people. Who's the girl that was in Thunder? The great actress, Shirley's, that are on was with Chelsea Handler. I was like, what the fuck? So that was in uh thunder or the uh the great actress shirley's they're on was oh yeah i was like what the wow so that was pretty cool and then i was at a party and uh i there was this really really really pretty girl who i think is like a pretty popular model and i was like hi and then
Starting point is 00:41:20 i turned around and zach efron stop it oh God. What kind of party were you at? I was at a sick party. What can I say? Seriously? Yeah. And then last night – I mean I hate to be like name proper, but I'm just like a guy walking around. Yeah, but I mean it's L.A.
Starting point is 00:41:36 I mean people love this shit. And I guess last night I ran into Ireland Baldwin who's literally my height. Oh, wow. She's very tall. And she was very cool. So anyway, I'm kind of like, kind of crazy. I'm like a little boy from South Carolina roaming around and meeting these people. Interesting.
Starting point is 00:41:57 Yeah. Yeah. It is interesting. Yeah. I mean, that's LA. Yeah. There's a lot to do. It's Scott Eastwood's 32nd birthday.
Starting point is 00:42:05 I was there. I'm friends with some of his friends. So it's been an interesting time. It's been a good trip. Yeah, I know. But I feel, like, guilty about having so much fun. I kind of, I don't know. Why?
Starting point is 00:42:17 I need to go home and check my mail. Speaking of home, Charleston is still a place I have yet to come. And I really want to. I know. Well, I mean, had I been there, I think I would have hit you up, so, you know. What are some of your... I have to sleep in the guest room. Well, you don't have to.
Starting point is 00:42:36 We'll see what happens. Tequila says you don't. What are some of your, like, go-to places in Charleston? If I were to go, where would you take me? Well, I own a couple places, part owner of a couple places. So you do have a job for those who think you don't.
Starting point is 00:42:59 Oh, I mean, I'm not behind the bar or anything, but I would. But yeah, I've got a few things that I'm working on. Okay. So, yeah, I've got a bar called the Palace Hotel. I've got this other bar that you would love called the Commodore that's like live music. Oh, my God. Okay, that's my language. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:43:17 And then I have a bowling alley that I'm a partner in. Fun. Yeah. Even with my long-ass nails, I still love to bowl. No way. They're not real. Okay. Come on. So, yeah. And then we go out to the beach bars the beach bars yeah my favorite it's because i live out on the beach i bought a
Starting point is 00:43:32 that's amazing that's i'm moving to the beach this summer when i move back from vegas yeah you should so i have a house downtown and life was a little too wild i had to get out because people were coming over at all hours of the day it was just just out of control. Yeah. And so I bought a house out on the beach. I still rent the one downtown. And I love it. And the bars out there are so cool. There's all these salty veterans out there. Okay, you're really making me want to come.
Starting point is 00:43:55 Okay. That sounds like a lot of fun. All right. My two favorite things, anyone other than tacos, anyone who knows me, being on a boat and live music. Those are, like, my two favorite things to do. I don't think I want to get a boat. I've been thinking about it.
Starting point is 00:44:09 Maybe I'll get a dog or a boat. Either one. A boat. Boat? Boat and a cat. Okay. Boat and a cat. All right.
Starting point is 00:44:15 All right. Before we wrap this up. Please. So who – I know what I've heard and the answer is most. Which cast members have you not hooked up with because I think you've hooked up with most no I haven't that's not what I heard
Starting point is 00:44:34 well Catherine yeah that was season one no other ones I mean Cameron's married oh Danny of course, of course. Now she's married. Danny, of course. So you and Cameron never?
Starting point is 00:44:48 No. No. She was like seriously dating her now husband when we met. Yeah. Okay. She's great. She's fantastic. We're buddies.
Starting point is 00:44:57 But now I don't see her or talk to her as much because this little nugget that she had. So I'm sort of bummed, but I'm happy, but I'm bummed. So I need to go over that. I haven't even met Palmer yet. What? She made me get inoculated. I had to go get a flu shot before I met. And I got one, and here I am. I'm ready to go.
Starting point is 00:45:17 Yeah. But now here you are bar hopping in Hollywood with all these A-listers, because you're so cool, Shep. I knew you'd spin that into that. bar hopping in Hollywood with all these A-listers because you're so cool, Shep. Oh, my God. I knew you'd spin that into that. You're A-list. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:45:31 That's so sweet. More like D. Before we go, favorite and least favorite cast member. Oh, you're crazy. You think I'm stupid? Favorite. I mean, Cameron. Yeah. I mean, mean honestly she's my fave i back to real world san diego i've been a fan of hers for so long her and uh jamie chung who's a friend of mine as well um
Starting point is 00:45:56 we're both on that season i really do like like everybody for different reasons yeah and at different levels okay who do you not get along with the best i mean craig and i are always at each other's throat yeah but i it's just it's a it's a brother thing like he's he's i don't know he has a chip on his shoulder about me about for some reason i feel like sometimes and then i get frustrated by him easily and then that just is combustible but I really do love the guy and like when we see each other it's nothing but laughs hugs and
Starting point is 00:46:31 shots what about Austin Austin and I are very close was he because he was your friend before the show correct yeah yeah I I mean I mean I recommended that he be on the show yeah okay were looking for other male cast members. So you wanted to bring a younger version?
Starting point is 00:46:49 Yeah. Well, I was going to these parties at Austin's house, these late nights, and he was just this affable, fun guy. And I was like, you know, the world should be exposed to more southern, affable, fun guys, I feel like. Yeah. And then, I mean, you know, of course we have Thomas who's incredibly entertaining, but he, you know, he can be volatile sometimes. Yeah. You know. I've seen him be kind of a dick.
Starting point is 00:47:20 And he said some things about some of us on social media. I know. You know what the thing is thing is he always apologizes but like it's like don't do it in the first place buddy I don't know but I do I enjoy being around him so
Starting point is 00:47:35 I don't know who else you get along with pretty much everyone on and off camera I can't imagine not being friends with these people in my life because we know things about each other's lives these last five years that only we know about. Yeah. You know, it's like a fraternity or a sorority or whatever. It's just you've been in the foxhole with these people.
Starting point is 00:48:00 You know what I mean? Yeah. It's like – and you can't not love them. Oh, I know. I mean – You can't not love them for that reason alone and that's one of the things with my show there was um a part um when we were all in mexico recently um that i had pulled all of the girls into my room and it was the day my divorce was final and we don't always all get along but i wanted to have
Starting point is 00:48:26 a moment with all of them and i had them all come to my room we all did a cheers and each person i was just like here's the thing like we may not always get along but and i may dislike and despise certain people at certain times but at the end of the day we all still have love for each other we've been through this crazy ride together and i'm like whether it was kristin picking up the wedding present that i forgot the day of my wedding or the stassi just being there for me during different parts and then katie was like my unofficial bridesmaid and ariana was in the wedding and then britney and lala came after but they were there for the divorce and it was just like everyone in some sort of way has been there for me in a hard time.
Starting point is 00:49:08 And as much as we don't get along, it's like I still have so much love for all of them. And it's frustrating when we don't get along because it's like we used to have so much fun together. But then at the same time, I'm like, I just want to strangle you sometimes. So do you all like – so you don't like avoid – or do you avoid – I mean I live in Vegas right now. So I have my own little vacay. I'm putting this to you right now. I think you should repair whatever ills.
Starting point is 00:49:38 I will say when I come back from Vegas and those who are still currently close to me know I'm a different person than I was last summer. I've really grown a lot. I'm single for the first time in eight years, and I have been for about eight months now. How's that going? It's a lot of fun. We're going to talk about this. I'm actually – Shep's never been to Sur. So we're going to get out of here.
Starting point is 00:50:01 We are going to go get some drinks at Sur. I will fill you in on my single life in Vegas. But before we go, tell everyone where they can find you on social media. Relationshep is my Instagram and then my name Shep Rose is on Twitter. And I think that's it. And then Thursday
Starting point is 00:50:17 nights is Southern Charm. Yes. Every Thursday night on Bravo. I am your host, Sheena Shea. That is at Sheena, S-C-H-E-A-N-A. And we're going to get Sheena to do the next iteration of relationship. Relationship, Sheena. Relationship.
Starting point is 00:50:33 Oh, my God. Bravo. Hey. All right, guys. Thanks for listening. And also be sure to follow at Shenanigans on Instagram. Bye. But real quick, right before we go, I've got to leave
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