Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - That’s a Wrap with Brock Davies

Episode Date: January 28, 2022

That's a wrap on Season 9 of Vanderpump Rules! Scheana and Brock talk about what it was like watching the season and seeing what their “friends” had to say behind their backs. They talk a...ll about the Reunion episodes and whether they knew Raquel and James were over before everyone else…  Do they have regrets? Also, Brock reveals his plans for paying off his child support in full for the first time… Tune in! Follow us: @scheananigans @scheanaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hello, hello, everyone. I cannot believe season nine is completely wrapped. It's done? It's done, honey. That was it. Reunion, part one and two back-to-back nights and just like that as quick as we filmed it it's done actually wait okay so figure we were on air we actually filmed it quicker than it was on air but it felt like it was just as quick i mean i'm not gonna lie this year was definitely a toll i am so relieved that that was year one.
Starting point is 00:01:06 I'm done. Can take a chill pool down here in San Diego and kind of like regroup. That was different. I've never been in that situation before. Obviously. I've never had a situation where you have friends and I'm going to put air quotation marks up in here
Starting point is 00:01:20 where your friends care about us so much that they're so opinionated about things it's a love hate relationship with your group yeah and they're my group now too and i do love them and i did have times where i hated them and we've all been there wow okay i'm just i was just learning that and it's definitely yeah so we wanted to do kind of a little reunion recap answer some of y'all's questions before i take a week off next week because we have a very exciting announcement relaunch that's coming out next week so there will be no new episode of shenanigans next week, but I will be posting a little promo trailer with my new company. And then February 11th, I will have my first guest at my new studio. It'll be a video podcast. We're going to probably talk some more stuff of the season and that'll be with Ariana.
Starting point is 00:02:21 Let's just touch on the new transition for Shenanigans. So you guys are going up to LA. You're going to have an office again. Yeah, I'm going to be back in studio. You're going to go back to in studio. You still have the at-home stuff. Tell everyone about that a bit more. What are you excited about, honey? I'm excited to be back in a real studio, back with a company.
Starting point is 00:02:40 Because I haven't been with a company since June. And that was my choice. I chose to not renew my contract because I had't been with a company since June. And that was my choice. I chose to not renew my contract because I had this other opportunity. I just didn't know it was going to take this long to figure out the contract. So I've just been doing it on my own. But I am really excited next week
Starting point is 00:02:56 to post about the new company I'm with. They have so many good podcasts that I've been a part of. I have a few friends who have shows there. So it's all just like really exciting. Good news to come. We've got new artwork, like cover art that we shot. And it's just going to kind of be like a new rebrand, relaunch. So before I start recording those episodes for my new studio, new company,
Starting point is 00:03:26 I want to know if you guys go and comment on the latest Shenanigans post, if you have anything that you would like to hear. I'm thinking I want to do something where like every episode I ask every guest the same five questions or, you know, like we used to play a game, but I want to figure out something that i can do i like the same every episode you know i'm super stoked to see you take shenanigans because when we first started dating you had you're you're really excited you're very proud to show me what you're doing you were going into the studio and then pandemic happened we had
Starting point is 00:03:59 a kid a lot of things have changed but i'm really excited to see you really putting more into this podcast now which is great you guys don't have to hear as much as me you're gonna have more guests yeah more guests more interviews i will do my best to not speak when they're talking i just here's the thing i feel like i've actually i know i've gotten better at this because I've caught myself so many times where I'm like, nope, don't chime in. Just be quiet. Let them finish their thought. How'd you learn that? Because so many people told me to shut the fuck up when my guests are talking.
Starting point is 00:04:33 I'm asking for a friend. The friend being me. Well, here's the thing. I like to try to let someone finish their entire thought. Obviously, that's the way you're supposed to conduct an interview. But then there's sometimes where I'm like, Oh my god, yes, totally. And I'm just like, chiming in because I'm agreeing with them. And I'm conversing, but that can come off, which you do to me at times as well as cutting someone off. And I never mean to cut someone off.
Starting point is 00:04:58 So I know I've gotten better about that. I'm going to continue to try and be even more better about that. But that's where I struggle too, is, you know, like with Raquel, for example, she's telling me a story and then, okay, the conversation ends. From what I've read on the reviews, it's like, I'm not allowed to then be like, I completely understand what you're saying because I have been in a similar situation or I did it. So you're making it about you. I'm like, I'm just validating what she's saying by giving my input. I'm like, so would you guys like to hear me question, answer, question, answer. No conversation in between. That's where I struggle.
Starting point is 00:05:32 So you want to try and identify what the listeners would like. Yeah, because I think I've gotten better at the chiming in. Like even it was on the Janet episode. I saw on the clip that we posted an audiogram on shenanigans when Janet was saying about how she when she flatlined she had a visit from her dad and I was just like oh my god I was like I totally believe in that it wasn't even cutting her off I was just like yes like go with it girl like I've had those experiences too and then she finished her story and she's like you didn't cut me off at all she's like i talked so long and you just let me go but
Starting point is 00:06:05 i'm like okay so maybe i just shouldn't have even said that one thing like yes i totally believe in that i guess and i'm i don't know why i say i guess because i am working on it too yeah and so you know what honey let's just see what happens i am looking forward to seeing your little journey with shenanigans and really dialing it back in. I think you're great. This is what you went to school for, interviews. Yeah, broadcast journalism. That's what I got my degree in. That's it. Trying to run with that.
Starting point is 00:06:32 Put that to use. So I appreciate constructive criticism. I don't appreciate the people that just go and leave a one-star review to talk shit and be like, hate Brock. I'm like, okay, so my entire podcast now gets a one star review because you hate brock it's just like it's so frustrating i go to my podcast you can just comment on my podcast it's i don't give a i nearly said it i'm trying not to say it all right we got a lot of questions about the reunion and just some in general. And we are going to, a lot of the questions that were sent in today, I'm going to also save for a future Q&A episode
Starting point is 00:07:10 that the new company said they would like us to do. And I think I'm going to have my sister kind of mediate, host that one with us as well. That was good. Because I really liked how we had that threesome dynamic. Yeah, that was good. She's good at mediating. Yeah, definitely.
Starting point is 00:07:24 So one of the first questions I saw was from Unicorn Dog and said, what took your decision from wanting to secretly elope quick to doing a big Bali wedding? Well, I think if you guys haven't listened to the earlier ones, right, the idea of the shotgun wedding and all that was purely because we had no idea how the season was going to be and myself first year coming in I kind of was like all right I'm the you know I'm just going to hold my ground and then me and Lala had our one two round in the first part of the season and then through that halfway through that I was like well maybe this could be a thing and I had Ariana big supporter of make it Happen. That's it. Love her, big supporter of Make It Happen. And so at that point, I lost myself and was trying to make it happen.
Starting point is 00:08:10 So the reality is, what do we really want? I've already got it. I've got you. I've got the life. We're winning. And so when it comes to celebrating that love with everybody, we're in a rock and a hard place on that one because... Rock.
Starting point is 00:08:23 I don't want... How can i keep saying that no so literally the first two seasons of vanderpump rules people used to always say we're in a rock and a hard place and our producers were like if you say that one more fucking time like you need to think of a different analogy and then they name an episode but it was so funny because i think there were probably like four seasons where you never heard us say that because we were like, we're afraid to say it. We're just like, we need to think of, come up with some better material. Yeah, look, what's your take?
Starting point is 00:08:54 Because I think, look, I'm happy where we are right now. And to be honest, if you guys follow along my financial situation, I'm not a fan of spending a lot of money on these materialistic things because life is more important than money. It's about the time. But you are the one who wants to have the big wedding. Maybe I need to do some soul searching after this season. I'll tell you what. I think we should definitely find a good therapist. I think that's something that I saw a question that came in and asked if you're going to therapy. I think that's something that will benefit both of us. We need to make the time and find the right person. I'm down. I'll commit to that after this. I'll have a look. If you guys haven't noticed, I am an absolute rollercoaster on this show. I believe
Starting point is 00:09:38 I know my truth. And going into that environment, I definitely straight away from them. So I want to work on myself on that point where it's like, okay, be more grounded with my truth. I know that, and then I can go into these situations a bit better because this reunion, first off, filming a season, and then going into the reunion after watching what we filmed, I fucking lost my mind. I lost my marbles.
Starting point is 00:10:00 Yeah, but to go back to the question, we didn't have the secret elope. We were just like, you know what? Why not just plan a big wedding? As long as everything with child support is caught up, paid in full, we will go through with a wedding and not even necessarily like a big wedding. I mean, if we invited everyone, we, it would be a big wedding. I don't want to do that. It's not going to be in Bali. We're looking at other countries. If we can keep it under the budget that I want to keep it under, then yeah, we're going to do it. Because I would love for your mom to be able and your family to be able to see you marry the love of your life and
Starting point is 00:10:40 have a wedding. But child support comes first. Well, here's the thing about my child support, guys. I've been very honest and open about it to everybody. And the fact of the matter is when I started paying my child support, this is the last time I'm going to speak about child support. When I found out about my child support, I immediately said to the same child support agency, I was like, sorry. And she's like, listen, as long as you know, it is what it is. Make sure you make these payments and so I've been doing that and I said 2018 and in the reunion but since 2019 since I was contacted by them I have been making those payments so I'm sorry if somebody out there has a has 30 grand
Starting point is 00:11:17 lying around and they want to just go ahead and put it towards that I don't have 30 grand lying around so I financially had to save money, work for more money. At the same time, film a reality show. Obviously I've been working hard throughout the season. If you're seeing it on screen, off screen, and it's not just homebody, we have my gym that we've got down here in San Diego. Everything's leading up to making sure I pay that back. And it's just not going to happen all at once. Okay. The lifestyle that everyone lives now, I remember you telling me stories about you guys drinking in the back of Jax's car.
Starting point is 00:11:49 What? Remember when you told me you guys used to get drunk in the back of Jax's pickup or something like that? I didn't say that. That was maybe Kristen. Oh, I'm just pointing out the obvious, like you guys all started at the same place,
Starting point is 00:12:00 but now everyone's judging. Everyone has an opinion that watches the show that I should come in and be able to do all that stuff and yes i should be taking care of my child support and i have made up for that i've been doing that before the show came back yeah how it was delivered on the show was wrong but now i'm gonna have to argument with everyone out there about that so i'm not gonna have the argument anymore if you have a problem with it guys not my problem okay my problem is making sure that I build this relationship with my ex. I've done the right thing. And fortunately enough, everybody can hear this and you can retweet whatever you want, have made some money and I am about to pay off in lump sum the whole thing. Yes, because I don't want to have that any issues
Starting point is 00:12:42 with me stopping from seeing my kids. And I think once you do make that lump sum payment, that's just going to open the door even more because you've been making the payments, yes. But I think once she sees that, you know what? I've just taken care of this debt completely today. What's next? But here's the thing. I wasn't in a position to do that when I first started making my payments.
Starting point is 00:13:02 No, not until recently. It was the middle of the pandemic. My business was actually going shut down, you know? So now we brought three studios back from the pandemic, profitable. We went up to LA. We had a beautiful little girl. And then we started filming.
Starting point is 00:13:15 I was your plus one. Let's not forget this, guys. I was Sheena's plus one for life. And I just said to myself, when we film, I'll put my best foot forward. And then I went head first into that, into the deep end, just didn't even test it just jumped in. It was bloody cold, but I did it. And then through that we pivoted during the pandemic to live streaming, started my startup through that pandemic, and grew our business through a pandemic of a gym with opening
Starting point is 00:13:41 and closing of these rules, and still managed to make enough money to pay my debts and save up to this point. And I wanted to do this at the reunion. And the reunion was what, two and a half months ago? Yeah. I wasn't there yet. And I wasn't going to let Sheena pay for me. No.
Starting point is 00:13:56 That's it. But you now, thankfully, are in a position that you can take care of that with your own money in a lump sum yeah at the reunion i wanted to be like guys here's here it is boom but i couldn't do it then and i wasn't going to allow sheena or any one of you guys out there that think that i'm on right in the coattails of sheena shea and this show to think that that's paying for my children because you know what's paying for my children is me and my my hard work
Starting point is 00:14:25 that I've put in place that I have been working on myself as that part so sorry if I lose myself at the reunion because I've just dealt with this whole show and the world that watches this show and their opinions because of a half truth I think people also forget that the reunion, it's literally our job to rehash everything that was said the whole season. And I went in there, honey, because you told me that. Yeah, I went in with the idea of like, all right, we get to go back and talk about this because I want to talk about this. Yeah. And as soon as I could talk about that, and it was brought up, we're dealing with a different situation. A question came in was do you not see an issue with brock's behavior during the reunion towards lala and james so a i do see an issue b i understand that you're just
Starting point is 00:15:18 trying to do your job by rehashing all the things that were said about you this season and reliving those moments and reacting however your delivery could always be better i was just upset and hurt by the fact of the matter of every all these red flags were put against me but yet i'm knocking them down and then to get to the end of the season to deal with that because here was the can i tell you the biggest like emotional part for me honey this season i try and i stay out of it but it's literally the attack through social media like people are just ruthless and they just love to just talk through their phones and half the things they say are valid my past actions are my past but i don't walk around slapping people i don't walk around and I'm an absolute asshole to people unless
Starting point is 00:16:05 you are a piece of shit. Now, since I had the issues with Lala, we made up. Yeah. We made up. I understood where she came from. And I was like, you know what, Lala, boom. And then her issue started. And I was there. She came to our house. We supported her. Not a problem. And then what happened was then I started watching the show again. Now, this is where a lot of people have reached out to me and been like, oh, how do you feel like you're, you know, I thought this of you, but now this. And you know what?
Starting point is 00:16:34 You're right. I don't know how to handle that type of whiplash in a relationship just yet. Because, yes, me and Lala are in a good space. I know. I'm so good at doing that. And it's not normal. And that's the thing with our group it's like you get through it and then we're good and then we hug it out but then you
Starting point is 00:16:50 watch it and then you have to read so i totally i wish i could have handled myself differently at the reunion i really wish i could but we watched all like last of the six episodes the night before like we were fired up seeing everything lala said about us behind our back even james was judging your photo shoot the things james said he called us shit on the floor we were fired up i don't even think you saw that part in the reunion when i was like oh what was that james you said oh yeah shit on the floor fuck you i'm sorry i was fired up that day i definitely we definitely i was heated because I watched six episodes back to back because I sent them out to us.
Starting point is 00:17:28 Back to back. It was a lot. And then I was just sitting here just going, look, like I thought we were in a better place than where we are. Is there any more questions about like how I spoke to Lala? Because you're right. It was a lot that came through. I wish I was the bigger man.
Starting point is 00:17:40 I wish I was the bigger man in all of these situations. Yeah. There was another question that came in that said, what do you wish was shown this season but wasn't? Okay, let's play that narrative out. What would you like to have seen this season too? Honestly, the one thing I was most upset that I didn't see, other than the first part of our engagement,
Starting point is 00:18:01 like what happened before we went outside, was Tom and Ariana babysitting Summer. Oh, you're right. Y'all, it was so cute. I wish there was like a lost footage episode or somehow this scene can come out because when they came over to babysit, Sandoval had a full bag of everything like you could possibly need. He had nappies, he had wipes, he had diaper rash cream.
Starting point is 00:18:28 He had every, every single thing that like wouldn't even be possible for the hour that they were like going to watch her for us. Right. He brought his guitar. He sang good as gold on acoustic guitar to her. Like, it was the cutest. That was funny. I, you know what? I remember that. I'm so bummed we didn't get to see that as we were filming this summer i got to spend a lot of time with schwartz
Starting point is 00:18:50 yeah and there was a swartzen james but it was but then with schwartz i got to spend some time with him and we went bonsai trimming we got a bonsai tree and we were trimming oh yeah we never saw that and you guys never got to see that that that story that we were talking about because it was it was different i really enjoyed connecting with got to see that story that we were talking about because it was different. I really enjoyed connecting with Schwartz over that, and it was just more about just like being there as Schwartz, supporting him on that way, you know? There was so many different storylines that I wish we could have looked into.
Starting point is 00:19:16 How do you walk into the show and do what I did this season and be normal? Like I'm sorry if people are judging me for every action I do, but at the same time, I did my best. Amongst the sharks, I did my best. And next question, I guess. You really did. Did you really not know before that James and Raquel ended their engagement?
Starting point is 00:19:37 Oh, that's okay. Did you know? Absolutely not. No, what I did know, you can see at, like, the beginning of the episode when I'm talking to Raquel, and I'm like, is everything okay? Because I could tell something was bothering them. Everyone could tell something was going on.
Starting point is 00:19:49 And James was really upset that I heard him walking around. He's like, you don't know what I've been through last night and today. And so I'm like, I don't know if something. That was when I was speaking to him. Yeah. I didn't know if something happened with their families or if someone passed away. I didn't know what happened but he was i did not think for a second that like they were breaking up i just thought
Starting point is 00:20:10 something happened in their personal lives with their families i forgot so i asked rical to come in when i was getting my makeup done i was like is everything okay and she was like yeah you'll find out and i'm like okay nowhere did i even think that that was what was happening if anything I thought maybe you know they were gonna say we're just not sure about getting married right now because they were already saying 2023 so I thought they were just gonna say I don't know if like getting married is what's best right now like we need to go to couple therapy we want to you know get a new place together like I knew they were over their apartment i thought that was going to maybe be the big announcement and even at the moment when she said we're breaking off our engagement i still thought that's what it was i didn't realize
Starting point is 00:20:53 oh you're breaking up and moving out tomorrow wow i was so shocked i was two things because before we were filming we were talking and I just remembered this. I had a conversation with James. We were literally just sat down on the couch. I was like, you're right, bro. He's like, he's like, you know, it's going to be a lot. And I said to him, I remember saying like, look, as much as it's going to be a lot, as long as you try, it's going to be okay. I think I said something along those lines. One of my little spiritual things. Maybe I should take note for myself. Yes, I hear you people out there. Listen to yourself, Brock.
Starting point is 00:21:27 I hear you. I was just giving him some words of encouragement. I'm like, look, no matter how bad it's going to be, it can always get better. Totally. And then we went out and we all saw it. But then on the par of that, you'll watch this show as well this season. And I watched it back and I was like, whatever these guys decide to do, we're going to support them both.
Starting point is 00:21:47 And as simple as that. So when they said that, I was wrapping my head around it and I just was like, there was more to it. There was more to it and we don't know. We didn't know all, they just told us what they wanted to tell us, but I know that there's more to it. And we just don't know.
Starting point is 00:21:59 And so that was when I asked them, well, I just don't get this, you know. I wanted to get more from it, but it just made me sound like I just didn't listen for the whole half an hour. I was like, well, I just don't get this. I wanted to get more from it, but it just made me sound like I just didn't listen for the whole half an hour. I was like, well, I just don't get this. But hey, you know what? I think they're both doing well on themselves. They're both working on themselves and they're both in a happy place.
Starting point is 00:22:19 It may not be a perfect place, but I look forward to seeing them both do what they're going to be doing. Yeah. Someone asked, do you think there will be another season of Vanderpump Rules? And although we never find out right away, like we don't know yet, what we do know is the finale and reunion ratings were the highest they were all season. and reunion ratings were the highest they were all season. So ending on a high, literal high note like that, I think is such a good sign that the viewers want more.
Starting point is 00:22:53 They're interested in how this story ended and want to see where it's going to go. I think everyone's, and I'm new to this. And so, yes, I also read the comments where it's like, keep out of it, know your place. I know my place. It's next to my fiance. But if everyone's seen you guys' journeys,
Starting point is 00:23:11 and I'm interested to see what James and Raquel and Lala get up to. I really am because, you know what, Lala's stepping outside of her box now. She's got girls' nights. She's been going on some girls' nights. She's been having fun. Like I've never met that version maybe maybe this is a new these are new people yeah so i would like there to be another season for sure would you guys support the other season we hope i am just manifesting a season 10 because i think there is still so much more story to tell. Like there's so much going on with us right now. I mean,
Starting point is 00:23:46 even yesterday, you know, just disagreements about things that were said in press and phone calls and texts. And I'm like, this is why we have a show. This is why we have a show. Rebecca Rosie 12 said, how are you and Lala after her telling James and not letting you? So in the moment, I was very drunk. I let myself get drunk one time this season. And that was the last night of filming. So in the moment, oh, I was fucking pissed. Like I was just seeing red.
Starting point is 00:24:18 I saw her yelling at Tom and I was like, no, this is my chance to stand up for Tom. I didn't do it all season. I'm doing it now. And I was like no this is my chance to stand up for Tom I didn't do it all season I'm doing it now and I was so angry but at the end of the night and at the end of the day just overall I'm like you know I honestly I understand why she did what she did I can see where she was coming from we're not ignorant to the fact that what we did was not okay yeah we are we we both agree on that part totally i mean we tried to do it in the best way we thought we could but it just it was bad we missed that assignment we yeah we didn't you know pass that assignment so i understood why lala did what she did and i, look, her and I have talked so much since then.
Starting point is 00:25:07 This was back in July. And I'm like, we've already made so much progress. I'm not going to let this one thing set back all of the progress we've made. I understood why she told him. I think James handled himself quite well, considering that information being brought to him on his engagement phenomenally you know so maybe look like more of an asshole to James he really held it together I was very proud of him for how he reacted and how he didn't react so I get it I get
Starting point is 00:25:40 why she did what she did so I wasn't gonna let that ruin all of the work we had already made. Now, I have not spoken to Lala since the reunion. Have you not? I have not. I just don't know what to say. I don't know. I know, because you saw her at Hartford's birthday, but there was a lot going on, and then you just didn't talk.
Starting point is 00:26:01 It's not an appropriate place to talk at Hartford's birthday, so I just left it go. Okay, well, an appropriate place to talk at Hartford's birthday. So I just left the guy. Okay. Well, you're going to see her at Brittany's birthday. I don't think it's an appropriate place to rehash our feelings out. It's only appropriate at a birthday if there's cameras. That's funny. Then it's all hats off.
Starting point is 00:26:19 I think honestly, I like you said earlier, honey, I want to get, I want to work on myself a lot more. I thought more of myself than what I delivered this season. A hundred percent. Yeah. So we'll work on that one. Okay. Pebble and Vine said, as a fellow Aussie, I think Brock was so misunderstood.
Starting point is 00:26:36 He's a good egg. A good egg. Oh, mate. Look, I was on Carl and Jackie O the other day. I love them. And I grew up listening to these guys. These guys are just the best. They're just straight shooters from, like, they're just, you know,
Starting point is 00:26:50 and I miss having that. I don't know why I can't be like that, but I do know why I can't be like that because it's ignorant. But I slightly do miss that back home. And, yeah, thank you for the support, mate. Yeah. Yeah. miss that back home and yeah thank you for the support mate yeah real bd dina bbw said i just love the way you were standing for yourself and i am i appreciated that thank you very much because
Starting point is 00:27:14 i am trying to be better this year in 2022 at standing up for myself, apologizing when an apology is necessary, but not apologizing just for the sake of apologizing. I want to be better at being like, okay, but why do you feel this way? And if an apology is warranted, then you will get one. But I'm so good at just being like, you know what? I'm sorry. You're right. You're right. You're right. Let's just move forward. And I need to not do that anymore. I want to be better at getting to the root of things and really understanding instead of just surface level apologizing as I think I have in the past. I'll apologize for anything just to make it easy and move past it. And it's not that I don't mean the apology because I'm like, oh, I apologize for how you feel. That's always genuine.
Starting point is 00:28:05 But it's like, I just say I'm sorry when there needs to be a deeper conversation. Does that make sense? I mean, you're talking to somebody that just, I'm an asshole to people sometimes. So I feel like you're the balancing act of that. And there is truths on both sides of that. I think the biggest one is,
Starting point is 00:28:23 let's try not to be assholes when we have to deal with things. Like when I explained to you some things, okay. For me, the best tactic for that is trying to, like you said, understand where they're coming from. If you can understand where they're coming from, then you can sympathize with them, empathize with them. Either. It depends. Either or either. Okay. Or you could not because you are entitled to feel how you feel. Exactly. And then at that point, once you see where they're coming from and you digest that and you see where you're coming from, then you have a decision to make. Do I bend the wheel and I see where you're coming from and that makes more sense than where I'm coming from? And it just comes down to your morals.
Starting point is 00:29:02 It comes down to what you want to be doing. And yeah, my morals are very short. I'm an asshole. I cut to the point. If I see where you're coming from, but I can validate back. Well, that's cool. Perfect. Cool story, bro.
Starting point is 00:29:13 That was a hit, wasn't it? I was talking to Raquel about this last week. We both want to be better about not being such a people pleaser and really just loving ourselves and doing what's best for us first because that is my best and worst quality is always putting others before myself and if everyone else is happy but i'm not i've been okay with that and i'm not okay with that anymore what's because what are you guys doing to work on that then apart from just being you're aware of it i'm aware of it a that just being self being self-aware, I think is huge. It's huge.
Starting point is 00:29:47 But I would like to also start talking to someone because I haven't gone to therapy for like three years now. And I guess the thing that's been holding me back is just the struggle of finding the right person and possibly having to do a first session multiple times until you click with the person. So that's what's been keeping me back. And then I know with some of my friends, their therapist just like doesn't show up. And that's frustrating, too. So I'm like, also, do I want to do it over Zoom? Do I want to do in person, find someone down here in San Diego? Like I just need to find
Starting point is 00:30:25 the right person because I think talking that out with a licensed professional will also help me in life and just in my friendships and navigating, you know, how to express how I feel and not just cowering and apologizing. Let's do that, honey. I'm in that with you. We've got some downtime down here. We'll go find somebody. The best thing about it is that we can connect with a therapist online as well. Totally. So there's that digital health aspect. So let's look into that. I got your back. That's what I was going to say. I think what I'm going to do is, you know, maybe just start by asking all of our friends who go to therapy how they feel about their therapists.
Starting point is 00:31:09 Maybe almost all of our friends are in therapy. So I feel like within that small circle, maybe they recommend one. And James has seen a therapist too, right? Yeah. Well done. Everyone's going to therapy except us pretty much. So I think we should do it. But yeah, it's just finding the right person.
Starting point is 00:31:29 So we'll see. Well, honey, thank you for putting up with me, including this season and then rewatching it with me. Thank you, everybody else that watched the show. Yeah. Thank you, everybody else that sent kind words our way. Yes. For everybody else that didn't. Yep. Have fun with that. Cheers to all of us. You know, another season in the books and I can't
Starting point is 00:31:53 believe it's over. I can't believe summer is nine months that she was in me as long as she's been out of me. It's just crazy that here we are 2022. So exciting things ahead like i said next week we are taking a break from doing a new episode but we have an exciting announcement i will post about and then we'll be back with ariana and i will post for questions and i am so excited full teaser for you honey you've got you've got a couple of good people coming through lined up already at the bat and I am so excited. Full teaser for you, honey. You've got a couple of good people coming through, lined up already at the bat. Oh, yeah.
Starting point is 00:32:30 A couple of fun interviews. So I'm happy for you, honey. I'm proud of y'all. Thank you. Now let's go get some help. Yeah. We're going to go start looking for therapists, so we've got to go.
Starting point is 00:32:40 Thanks for listening, guys. Bye. Sheena Shea. Shea FK. Thanks for listening to Shenanigans with Sheena Shea Download new episodes every week on Apple Podcasts Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts Looking fine and I got my girls with me With the boys at the table getting tipsy
Starting point is 00:33:03 Miss me, kiss me one more time Get over here boy, I'ma make you mine Do you want it? Bye.

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