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From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea.
This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea.
And we're off.
G'day, g'day.
Hey, honey.
How are you, baby girl?
I'm good. Much better now. How are you?
Well, you know, I don't know if you could tell, but I've kind of got a nasal issue thing going on right now.
So we were supposed to podcast with Ariana this week, but we have pushed that to next week because I really wanted to do that one in person and make it a video podcast.
Because, you know, we haven't had the best luck with the Zoom podcasts here on Shenanigans.
And we couldn't do it in person this week because, honey?
Well, see, the thing about this story, there's a start, a middle, and an end.
And it starts off with what we think that we know that I had COVID.
Well, the whole family.
Which turned into the middle of the story, the family, and the end of the story, here we are. And we're fine. Okay. So that was the little three steps.
But that was why we had a week off last week. We were dealing with not just Brock having COVID,
not just Brock and I, but also my mom. I gave it to the whole family.
And unfortunately, Summer.
But here's the thing.
We were together the whole time.
So it's not like it was even your fault.
It just hit you quicker before it hit me.
You tested positive first.
Yeah.
So that made it your fault.
But we were together the whole time.
It's not like you went somewhere and could have got it without me. And to be honest, dealing with this whole situation in itself was a little traumatic.
Because first off, if you mentioned to somebody COVID, I think they might reference you to as the plague.
And they're like, oh, they look at you.
But it was really difficult because we get tested every week, right?
Every Monday, literally.
We're tested weekly this year.
And then on top of that and i don't want
everyone to be like oh you guys just you guys are idiots like covid's real like we have spent nearly
a year and a half of this covid just doing the best we can because i was scared and i was worried
of people giving it to anybody i was scared of this situation right here no this was literally my biggest fears coming to light like my baby and
my mom getting covet i have been terrified of for the past year and a half and it was also more how
it came about and we don't know exactly how right but it was kind of like the domino effect of who
got sick because i carried all the blame going into this. Well, because you tested positive first.
But, okay, let's back it up.
So Brock and I went to New York for Watch What Happens Live.
Tested there.
Yeah, we tested.
So when we landed, I wasn't feeling 100%. And I started freaking out because I was like, oh, my God, oh, my God.
Like, what if I have COVID?
I can't fly home.
We're going to have to rent a car.
We're going to have to drive cross country. Like, I can't be away from my baby for that long for a quarantine
so i'm freaking out we get tested as we do every monday and you have to get tested for watch what
happens live and we're both negative we're like okay we do a test after that before we leave two
three days later before we leave we just do a covid rapid test we went to cvs and brought the
rapid test yeah negative so we made it through that we're like okay honey you're just tired
from the flight we assumed and it does flu season so i'm like and it was just like a little like 24
48 hour i just felt and that was you right you didn't have any symptoms after that no and it
wasn't any like covid symptoms it was just just like I was tired. We traveled.
We didn't really sleep on the flight.
Yeah, we had a red eye to New York.
Then we flew out then two days later.
But like when I fly like JetBlue Mint,
sometimes like even though I have the lay down flatbed,
I like the experience.
So I don't always sleep.
So that's my point.
Yeah, they got good movie.
Like you watch the movie.
No, watch what happens live.
When they fly us out, it is the first class.
It is top tier.
I don't pay for that myself.
Yeah, I know.
But that is.
I need to rub it in.
No, but I'm just saying, I love to enjoy that experience.
So we get like less than two hours sleep.
I feel like shit, but it's not COVID.
We're like, oh, thank God.
We get home.
We're fine until the following Monday when we get our normal test. We have our normal test. I'm still fine. Midnight. Here's theay when we get our normal we have our normal test i'm still
fine midnight here's the thing we get our normal test and when it's that regular that at midnight
you get an email and you're like and you're in bed you're like oh babe negative baby i did not
get that text i did sheena did and was like well babe you know what happens if you don't get it by
midnight i was like what do you mean you know what happens and his just says processing i was like oh i don't know about that processing
like how to tell me so anyway but even worse than that was that night because we had just tested
negative we had all of our friends over and their babies yeah on the sky deck thankfully outdoors
but we did a little like pizza beer wine night with all of the babies
i'm so lucky everybody was there guys all the babies oh my god all the kids all the parents
all the kids and this was the night before and in the next the next day we had such a good evening
with everybody it was so nice this is the hardest part of covid is going ahead and biting the bullet and
just telling people hey this is i have covid i tested positive this is what happened this is
the next steps yeah that was difficult because obviously production caught us up so they have
a company they third party and they manage it all for us very very well they're like look this is
your rules you got to be vaccinated on these dates and these dates so you're going to now go ahead
and go into a isolation separate yourself from the family who are you with and then that was when they were like
we were with everybody they were like sorry what everybody we'll call you right back so they hung
up the phone and then two minutes later somebody else from production was like we need to know who
you were with i was like fuck i just shut down filming then i start freaking out
because i'm like oh my god like i was in the office when i found this out and i have sheena
in the house did you have so much anxiety i was just i was like for a minute i was like how this
this doesn't end good for me and it's not just me and summer and my mom is also there was your mom okay now now it's like
workplace health and safety issue i'm joking but yeah so that was and then started to walk out out
of the office i'm on the door and i was like oh this is literally how i delivered this i think
it was it was along these lines i was like so uh yeah yeah, I tested positive.
And then she lost it.
And I just start bawling.
It wasn't a good feeling.
Because now all of a sudden, like last night, summer was fine.
But now all of a sudden, I was like, oh, my God.
I just thought because we were outside.
Like we had all the babies and their walkers.
Like they were bundled up.
I lent everyone beanies.
We had a little beanie walker gang going on up there with all the kids.
I just thought, you know, like, she coughed because it was cold outside.
And so we took her inside.
And the next morning, she has a cough.
Now she has a fucking fever.
I'm like, oh, my God.
Oh, my God. I'm freaking out.
So I call our baby nurse who is amazing she worked
with us all season on set and she has a company that does at-home covid tests so she comes over
i was banished before but once once i said that it was they shut me back in the office they slid
under my door two face masks and they said through the doorway make sure you
wear these if you need to come out and if you need something just don't come out and just ask us for
it so i that was me for whatever i transpires next i have no idea what what the plan was i was just
he had to make his phone calls i'm freaking out then i'm calling people on the side too and they're
just like sheena it's okay like this happens like we're all fine like no one was up in brock's business it's not like he was holding the babies or anything like that
thank god oh god but yeah this was like this was like we've had probably five events mainly in like
this back part of this pandemic where we're kind of like i should be right we're vaccinated yeah
nah like that was it like we've been very we just went on
a freaking work trip like i mean it had i don't know like we don't we don't know if it was traveling
you couldn't get out the fucking grocery store the worst part of covid is literally calling everybody
you care about because you if you took the time and the pen to spend time with these people you
care about them and literally going through everybody i had to call my driver up okay but like hey bro i know you drove me but just the heads up
and he's like thank you don't feel anything not a problem but appreciate it like i had to go through
the list yeah nurse comes over does not home test and the minute i found out my baby was positive
what did you think just think because i wasn't in the room for this you guys i was in the other room i here's the thing it was like my biggest fears all just happening
in front of my eyes but also a weird sigh of relief because i knew she was gonna be okay i
just i knew in my heart you knew in your, but I was also freaking out in my head,
but I was like, no, like she's going to be okay. But then I had to call her doctor because we had
her vaccinations a week later. So I'm like, well, obviously she can't go get her vaccines next week.
I need to call the doctor. I need to let them know. We set up a telemed appointment for later
that evening. And he was just like, you know what? It happens. Babies are typically fine. It's like a little bit
of a cold. He had a switch her vitamin D to polyvessel and to give her a multivitamin. He
said, you know, breast milk is the best thing for her and she would be fine. Listen, we are very blessed. Shama was fine. But
I was banished to the wetlands.
Well, because I'm still worried now
about my mom. Yeah. And that was
our biggest issue this whole pandemic is your
parents because we see them often. Even though
she's also vaccinated. Yeah.
But it's just like you just don't know.
You don't know. We've got plenty. We've had friends,
close friends of ours. Yeah. Parents
have passed from this.
So it was very, having that over your head was crazy.
It was really scary.
I was freaking the fuck out.
I know.
Yeah.
I know.
And then I tested positive.
My mom tested positive.
We're all fucking positive.
So long story short, I was the one that was positive.
It's just a slow trickle.
We kind of were like, let's separate up.
I will go to San Diego because I'm a big male adult just coughing around the house.
It wasn't fun.
So I went to San Diego.
Sheena and her mom went out to Palm Springs to be in an open area.
And they took the COVID kit with them.
And three days later, they tested positive.
So here I was getting a vacation down here and working on what I had to do.
Was working, was sleeping.
And then Sheena's was like we all have it
so you're getting your ass back out here because we're a team and you had some days off covid but
uh thankfully long story short this is good we've been here it is a bit of a relief i i know you can
get it again it's not i don't think as likely but we're covered antibodies like vaccine and
natural immunity now but you can still get it again so i'm not saying i'm just gonna like
go out listen i'm not gonna we can't even have this conversation because there's too many people
on two different sides of the conversation about this let's just say this we survived yes we're
very lucky and we will work on our health to put us in the best position
possible to deal with this moving forward my point was just i am still going to be careful
because i know we can get it again but i do feel a bit of relief that my biggest fear happened
and we're all okay i'm so that was my biggest fear was summer or my mom getting covid and not being okay and
there are those there are those wild cases that we really do here and this is this is the problem
let's let's move on because like so many people could get offended by what we're saying about it
like oh well you're just lucky like i get it we are very lucky i get it we've survived this banter
this is this will happen with our life. We're blessed.
Yeah.
Now we're back, guys.
We're back.
So we are actually back in San Diego right now.
We did Palm Springs for a week. Now we're down in San Diego finishing out our week here.
And then we'll be back in L.A.
I have definitely enjoyed being down here.
I must say it is a good vibe.
Yeah.
But I'm also bummed we missed Sandoval's live performance.
Yeah, that's why we weren't there.
Guys, if you saw on the Zoom, on live, on Instagram live, that was so fun.
I miss those moments with our friends.
Yeah, we also missed Bryce Vine's album release party.
Wow, damn it.
Broken Bottles. Yeah. Shout out Broken Bottles. But yeah. yeah we also missed bryce vine's album release party wow damn it broken bottles yeah shout out
broken bottles but yeah anyway so we're we're here we're good we're in san diego and one of
the things i was mentioning a couple weeks ago i was saying how we were down here but i was happy
to be back in la to be back in our bed because we have the best sheets in LA. Is that what it is?
Yeah. Because I used to refer to this bed as my go-to in San Diego. Right. But then we moved.
But then we got a bigger bed and better sheets. Yeah. That's what it is. It's the sheets.
It is. Which is why I ordered more sheets for San Diego because I needed it in both houses, you know?
Yeah, I know.
I definitely know.
So we have bowl and branch sheets, which I've talked about before,
but I want to mention it again because honestly, you guys,
we spend one third of our lives in bed.
So, you know, pure organic cotton sheets from Bowling Branch,
they can make a very good Christmas gift for someone. You know, holiday seasons are coming up.
I think it's a good gift. Damn right. Put them in the sheets.
So one of the things that I love the most about the Bull and Branch sheets is Brock and I are very different sleepers.
Like he's a hot sleeper.
Hot.
You always run hot.
Hot.
And I'm always cold.
So it's like I either want to cuddle up next to you to get some of your heat or I just need really good sheets that are good for either hot or cold sleepers.
And these sheets help both of us, right?
Yeah.
I know that for a fact.
That's the favorite part about my sheets.
They're the best.
And we have them in like a bright white.
They look good in all of our houses.
They match all of our decor.
And it's not just their sheets that are made the right way.
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Babe,
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Good sheets in all
cities. Good sheets in all
cities. We're definitely
living the fast
life there with the bed sheets. And
especially the last week
we've spent more time in bed.
In the sheets. We've got some questions, honey.
All right, look.
Have you guys got some questions for us?
We do.
Let's change the MO because it's been bleak,
but pick it up for us.
Amy 018 wants to know,
what's been the hardest part of your relationship?
I think the hardest part in our relationship
that we've gone through together or separately.
Either. I mean, me, many have spoken about it and I do want to talk to somebody outside of us because my hardest part in our relationship was especially that phase of the miscarriage, you know, because that kind of, even though you guys heard I was playing golf, you know, I was going through it myself because it just brought back all my feelings of my ex my kids
and where i was in life as opposed to enjoying that moment and then us going through the
miscarriage as i was trying to you know deal with that onboarding and then it went to the
miscarriage and that was that for me for our relationship we both dealt with it completely
differently separately but that was the hardest part and to be able to talk to you about it was even harder
because i didn't have to talk about it but yeah that was mine yeah sorry it's okay we got through
it but yeah that was definitely that was the hardest part the hardest i for me that's a
keystone moment because i've at that point like i realized you were good for me i am going to be a
good dad i believe him like you know what i mean like that for me was like okay this is where i'm going and this is fucking where i want to go
that was my that was it's a keystone moment for me in our relationship yeah yeah i love you
next question let's just rapid fire these bad boys carla azate underscore wants to know
has brock ever met shay and what is his opinion on him?
Have I ever met Shay?
You haven't met Shay, but you have met.
I've met Max.
I've met Jason Derulo.
Jason Derulo?
What are you talking about?
I've met.
I have met.
See, this is what gets you in trouble.
Sometimes you just say things.
I've never, for the record.
I'm sorry.
Jason Derulo. Where do you even get that from? have never hooked up with jason derulo yeah i know
i thought i was thinking like body doesn't want to land like okay that's john mayer who you also
have not met i have not oh she has i mean yeah i haven't met john mayer but i feel like we'll be
friends oh my god i have where i was going i have met Rob. Oh, yeah. I've hung out with Rob.
I've hung out with Max.
I've hung out with Jesse Metcalf.
Oh, yeah.
What other ones of your exes have I hung out with that I haven't met?
Probably, but we don't need to get there.
Oh, you're right.
There's that guy.
There's the other guy.
Oh, and then that one.
And then, oh.
What about the fat guys?
We were watching TV the other day, and just so happened that another one of Sheena's celebrity smack buddies appeared on TV.
And her and her mom just happened to remind me, oh, remember this guy?
No.
What do you mean no?
She didn't say that to you.
Your mom was like, no, she didn't.
She said it to you, and I was in the fucking room.
Oh, because the neighbors were over, too, and then she was just telling the neighbor that you used to my daughter used to smack that
guy do you understand how that sounded i was in the room and i my head snapped i don't think she
said smack i think she said date but but we all know what you're dating and i put my fingers up
when i say friends of sheena's love you Anyway, so the reason I asked that about Shay is because it leads to this next question
and why I brought up Rob.
Julie May 62 said, would you ever bring in any exes on your podcast, yours or Brock's?
Well, I feel like you could.
I was actually thinking it's something that I've thought about for a while,
about having Rob on the podcast.
Maybe I can ask him how to hang up that TV that stays up in seven minutes
because he's all sore mind and it didn't stay up.
People messaged him that your TV fell down.
Well, that's why I don't have cameos saying,
let me tell you how to hang a TV in seven minutes.
You know?
That's not my cameo tagline.
It's like the bootlegger version of hanging a TV.
So if Rob comes on the podcast, you co-host it with me, right?
Well, I mean, if you need me to.
Well, here's the thing, guys.
I have no problems with Rob.
I don't have problems with anybody.
I don't have problems with Max.
Because I don't bear that.
Do I wish you were treated differently? Yes, but thank you Because I don't bear that. Do I wish you were treated differently?
Yes, but thank you.
See, and I don't.
I'm so thankful for how that ended
because it was so bad
that it just forced me
to regain my independence.
And I did this show in Las Vegas
and headlined
and did so many things that I
wouldn't have done if I was still in that relationship and that's and I think that's
a great way to think of relationships especially you know it's a healthy way to think of it anyway
but yeah I would co-host with you with Rob like I mean what are we going to chat about we can we
talk we've hung out a few times yeah I just thought that maybe you know it would be a fun
future episode I don't know if you want to co-host any of my exes because I don't know what you're talking about.
Well, it's my podcast, so.
So there's your answer.
Yes to her exes, no to mine.
Yeah.
So stay tuned because, I mean, Rob does have a new book out, you know, that he could talk about.
He has some shows he's working on.
So maybe we bring him on.
Do you guys, the question is to the people would you like to have
that i mean this person asked that's one person okay i want i want i want to let us know let us
know i think people would be into it perfect we would have to ask you know that question
what's the question did you make out with the hostess at toka madera oh that's a good fucking
question to this day even like now being friends with him again to this day
i never have asked him did you do it when i heard this rumor i shut it down immediately because i
was like this is bullshit and i know that he would never cheat on me like this is bullshit
but i never even asked wow there you go people maybe that might be a question when you
have them on the podcast we'll see i'll ask it stay tuned court dot nickel tay wants to know
what is our favorite thing about each other but also our favorite thing about summer right now
you go first oh there's just so many little things about her right now. Like today, she was in her swing on the porch,
and she was just with her mouth wide open like, ah,
but like having so much fun.
And then like she'll do like the brrrr with her lips.
She does so many cute little things.
Just pick one.
It doesn't mean you don't like the other ones.
They just asked you to pick one, okay?
Right now, I think her scooting backwards is like in the wheels yeah okay no no not in her walker
when we have her on tummy time and she's trying to crawl and she just scoots back and then she
looks at us and smiles because like she knows she's doing something but i also i love when she
screams with like her like fun scream like that ah okay there you go my i think my one for her is the
her smiling yeah now she kind of like looks here like gives you a big like gummy smile because
you've got no her gummy smile i posted it so you can see it's hard to just pinpoint one thing about
her what's the other question one thing we like about you each other yeah like i like the fact
that you are a very positive person and you put a lot of you
put a lot of effort into like making sure you you care about a lot of people you know and that's
makes me put a bit more effort into trying to care thanks i love you i mean i love you
and you annoy the shit out of me but i love how you always make me want to be the best version of myself.
Like you don't let me just take the easy way out.
I think it's just, and this isn't for you.
This is like a problem I have.
I hold myself to a standard that I want to get to, you know?
And yeah, I did it when I was 19.
Sorry, guys, growing up a little bit.
But I feel like if you have the answers in front of you which we
have a lot of smart people in this world that do the testing and figure out the most appropriate
way to do things then doesn't that just make sense to try and do it like that it's very difficult
you get the keys to success in front of you but it's very difficult and it's very difficult to
keep along it's very simple repeat the same thing over and over again and try and do one percent
extra more than you did yesterday.
Yeah.
Do you know how hard it is to actually apply that in life?
It's difficult.
Otherwise, everyone will be doing it.
But if it was easy. You do good.
You're doing really great.
You've been working on your ability to like just you in general.
And I see your confidence.
And I hope you guys will see it this season too.
Like it's growing.
Well, I think by the end of the season, when you see me back in a crop top you'll see like that extra confidence watching the show now and we're like eight episodes in nine
episodes in like to where like to it's you're two different people i know i mean when i look back at
it and i'm just yeah i mean if you're about to see big boy hair and a speedo coming up and that's not
a pretty look but i think from the first day
of filming till our finale i think i lost 20 pounds over the season i just lost i finished
filming and i still didn't lose any and because how good you look that made me feel bad about
myself so i've lost 15 pounds you look so good honey thanks baby wait till we go yeah wait till
we go you put on the baby weight with me yeah but you lost yours when you gave the baby i kept mine
no i still had quite a bit i just now i'm back what was for mothers out there what was one thing
for you that triggered that was the turning point when you realized because i feel like and a lot of
women i feel like could do this and i want to be mansplaining okay but what was something for you
because what for me like there was a key moment where you were like not happy with yourself
everything upset you and then you realized for me i saw you talking to courtney and you work it out
with her yeah i really saw you kind of like all this it's this simple just to turn up and you
turned up and then by you just showing up to those workouts with her yeah i think that was my point
what was your what was your point for women out there i think it was just almost like a matter of acceptance and
understanding like my body just created human life and i need to accept that i'm not going to
just snap back right away that is not normal and i really needed to which was very very difficult remind myself to not compare to lala
you know who i'm filming with who that was like my um but look props to lala we all say she just
snaps back but she probably put a lot of work to it no she didn't that was the problem she's just
blessed whereas i was like working out like regularly, but she also, I mean, she wasn't able to work
out a lot of her pregnancy because she had some complications.
So that wasn't her fault.
She just, she's very just naturally blessed.
But I think for me, it was just, you know, I needed to be okay with that and just accept,
you know, this is what my body is right now.
And I know it's
going to get better. And I can only do things at a certain pace. Snail, Paco, rabbit, babe,
you look great. And I'm proud. And now I feel good. Now I feel like back to normal. These
lightning fit workouts that I've been doing. Is that what they're called? Lightning fit. Yeah,
you always say lit method. But that's the thing that you do in the dark with the rowing machines.
Yeah, I got it.
No, I did that one time.
No, Lightning Fit.
It's the EMS.
I know what it is.
I did it for a day.
Okay, well, I'm explaining it to my listeners.
Oh, okay.
So these Lightning Fit workouts, it is EMS,
which is like electro-muscular stimulation,
where you have these like suits you put on and he has this little iPad
that controls it and it shocks your body and it makes you use all of these muscles that you don't
normally use. And basically a 25 minute workout is equivalent to like three hours of a normal workout. So the science of what it is,
is yes, you use, it contracts the muscle.
I don't believe you use more muscle. You use more muscle in saying the fact that
it's tensing from the attachment
where the muscle attaches and the origin
and where it inserts.
And it's very effective.
And I do see your results, honey. I do see it. I like it. If it works for you and it keeps very effective, and I do see your results, honey.
I do see it.
I like it.
If it works for you and it keeps you moving, good on you.
Yeah.
I've felt so amazing doing these.
But I wouldn't recommend it to everybody.
No, I don't think it's for everybody.
If it works for you, it works for me.
I do it twice a week, minus the last week that I haven't been able to do it.
But I've been on such a good roll,
and I feel so good doing it.
So shout out to Lightning Fit.
If you guys are in LA or OC,
they do at home or they have classes,
and it is literally the best.
It is my favorite workout I have honestly ever done.
Wow, ever done, even in my workouts, eh?
Yeah, no, this is like legitimate my favorite.
Yeah. Okay. No offense
taken.
What's the next question, honey? Rapid fire. Let's get them
going. Rapid fire. Yeah.
Okay. So
because we briefly
mentioned Rob
and the TV, I saw
a question come in from
Kara Brooklyn underscore that said,
what's up with you and Charlie? Her post was clearly a joke. Do you think you overreacted?
Yes. No, I don't think I overreacted. I think you did. Here's the thing. Charlie posted that
the TV fell down. All I was doing was reminding her like, when you went over that day honey you told them you
needed a stud finder anchors all of this stuff which they didn't have we were filming for the
vlog so it wasn't like you went over there to actually do the job the right way yeah that was
my point i know but there's no need to kind of have that Twitter argument with somebody.
It wasn't an argument.
I know, but it was you defending me.
Yes.
It was you defending me.
Have you met me?
I defend the man I'm dating.
I understand that, but I agree with whoever just wrote that comment.
I don't think it was necessary for you to be like, well, actually, it was because of this.
Because the reality is, I hung a TV.
It lasted longer than what I thought it would have,
and then it fell down, and I kind of expected that.
And so did Charlie.
No, they did expect it.
Corey showed me that photo before they even posted it.
In the wall after we left that day.
You just did that.
Yeah, and that's fine.
But if fallen out, it's funny.
I think you missed the humor in it, honey.
Well, the first one. Because you went straight to defensive, and I appreciate you. the humor in it, honey. Well, the first one.
Because you went straight to defensive.
And I appreciate you.
And I just said, I was like, but you guys know you didn't have the right tools there.
And that was it.
That was all I was saying.
And then she came back and was like, did you sit up all night mad?
It's not that deep, boo.
I understand that.
And I was like, oh, no, no, no.
That moment, that was.
Well, you also just had COVID.
No, this was the morning after Summer tested positive.
So I'm like, no, I did not sit up all night mad
about your fucking tweet, dude.
I sat up all night with a baby who has COVID
and that is what I texted her.
So I was like, I'm not going to Twitter fight.
Do you understand?
We're in this whole thing.
It was the wrong day.
It was the wrong day. And maybe wrong day and maybe that was a day
where you need to be like oh yeah that was funny i did or even just wait but there were even other
people who were like you're just posting this to make her man look bad which is fine have you said
i'm pretty sure i made myself look bad this whole season because our friends don't need to add fuel
to the fire but but you know what honey i was just annoyed but i don't think i overreacted
i think i just didn't find her humor funny in that post yeah look and i'm glad you did i knew
about it beforehand when i went to lunch with cory he's like oh yo look at this the tv fell
off i was like fuck surprise it lasted so long yeah and i knew that that we had a mutual funny
conversation with them and there was no need to like take that conversation like guys well actually
the tv didn't fit in the wall because I didn't hit a stud and
I didn't have the appropriate.
Like that's just too much.
That's what I do.
But I like to explain things.
I understand.
But I think it was just like,
Oh look,
Brock did a shit job.
It fell.
And we thought someone was breaking in.
And I was like,
well,
it fell because you guys didn't have the proper shit for him to do it.
Right.
Yeah.
But you're capable of hanging a TV the right way.
They are very much capable,
and they probably would have done a better job than what I did.
Whatever.
I don't think I overreacted.
I think you overreacted.
I was annoyed by the did you sit up all night mad
because I was like what I sat up all night with was not this tweet.
It was poor timing, and you have a natural reaction,
a knee-jerk reaction to just respond.
Because I will always defend the man
i'm dating you don't need to do that with me well my actions will defend myself and my words will
tell people to go fuck themselves i don't know okay well i've gotten over the like buying lavish
gifts but i haven't gotten over defending the man i'm with well listen just let me defend myself
okay and then and then fend for yourself rachel i felt like you put me in the lines dead all season.
That's fine.
I did it right.
Did Brock honestly not watch VPR before?
How did he know the suck a dick for a Range Rover and the TV joke?
Okay, that's a good question.
That's in our group.
That's not even just the TV.
Well, yeah, I feel like when people talk to you guys about memorable moments,
I'm like wait well
like i didn't i knew that was brought up okay yeah and then like but it wasn't because you
saw it on the show it was just because we had talked about those are highlights when you talk
with somebody like well actually i'm like wait what that happened and then yeah i might go back
and google like james kennedy getting punched in the face by tom like i'll watch that yeah but i'm
not sitting back guys i have no time to go back and watch that no there's like i feel like i feel like
i watched that one episode right it's on and guys it's on bravo like it has the random replays
remember i watched one episode and it was when you were getting it was katie's it was tom and
katie's wedding and then it was like three months later using the dog as a tissue what the fuck was that anyway
i watched that episode and then at the end of it it was sheena's divorce and that and i just felt
i came and gave her a hug and i said i love you honey because i just watched and i've experienced
one year of it what it was like for you to be fucking by yourself to have people come at you
and and that was why i wanted to film this season.
That's why I wanted to be very honest
because I wanted to be your plus one.
And that's how the season started.
I was your plus one.
Turned to main cast, which was pretty wild,
but it was because I didn't want,
and I'm never going to let people walk over you.
Okay.
I'm not going to have to be, I'd be as defensive as you.
I think you can handle yourself in most situations, but if I need to be i'd be as defensive as you i think you can handle yourself
in most situations but if i need to i'll be behind you and tell people to fuck off yeah especially
at the reunion honey you got somebody sitting front row with you i've never had this that's
that's what i wanted to give to you i wanted to support you but to answer that person's question
no like no i think you could you could cap it at like 10 total episodes between multiple friends
houses or having it with their parents just watching in the background and me just like
what is this shit i think i remember one time my mom what my sister watching it it was jack's
yelling at lisa and i was just like i was like yo this dude is mine i remember that like random but it's not like it's not like stuck in my head
right because mom and nicole had a photo of you remember yeah it's embarrassing moment guys but
my mom and sister came over here my mom my sister loved it loved the show she wasn't team sheena
when we first met um and she had photos of everyone from like pride parade and i was like
wow how crazy yeah because i remember my sister
talking about like that but yeah never like who would have thought like oh a year later that girl
on the pink car in the parade is gonna like be carrying my niece who would have thought wow
crazy and it's crazy to see because yesterday we just watched Lisa's, but that was,
was that watch what happens?
That was bro housewives,
right?
Pandora's wedding.
Oh yeah.
That was,
they're doing way old reruns.
Oh yeah.
I was like,
wow.
Yeah.
Max looked young.
Oh yeah.
He was a baby.
He was a teenager.
That's a great,
you guys show has been on for that long.
Yeah.
I think Max was 16 when I met him.
I wonder how many of you guys followers are like, Oh geez. I think we have quite when I met him. I wonder how many of you guys' followers are like OGs.
I think we have quite a bit. Yeah?
Yeah. Wow. Thank you guys
for the support you've shown us over the years.
We love you. I enjoy you
guys this season.
Disney Mom 1128 wants
to know when is the wedding day
and who is in it. And
we can't say too much, but
yesterday we set a date.
We set a date, guys.
It's just a matter of getting the place
that we want on that date,
but we've picked a date.
It's happening, honey.
You think I'm not going to make that work out?
Oh, yeah.
No, I know.
We will.
We will.
We know where it's going to be.
We know the place.
Now, if it's a destination or wedding,
can we say that?
We've already said,
yeah, it's going to be in Bali.
The problem is, now we've got to figure out how to host a destination or wedding can we say that i mean yeah it's gonna be in bali the problem is
well now we've got to figure out how to host a destination or wedding because me and you have
differences on this i want everybody to fly out and everybody honey you're talking like over a
hundred people we can't do activities for a whole week with a hundred people that's not gonna happen
can you hear me out okay i think you have two options every day
because you don't want to because people are flying over the distance to go to bali
we still want to give them free time i would like to host an event each day one will be each day
well they'll be like well listen if we had a day not every day but it had a day we had rice farm
tours and then we had another shuttle going to the quad bikes.
Yeah, honey, but not for 100 to 150 people.
Like, no.
Why do we have to say no to 100?
That's so much.
I know, but here's the good part.
Brock's never planned a wedding, y'all.
Here's the good part.
I think if people are paying, if people want to come.
They're coming to the wedding
yeah but why limit them
they're flying halfway
across the world
they can do whatever they want
exactly
they can come out early
they can stay late
they can plan their own vacay
this is
this is a group itinerary
oh it just sounds like so much
the airplane's gonna be
litty as a titty
book this one flight
that would be fun
and we'll get everyone
on the same flight
yes it would be fun
if we were all on the same flight
they land in
I'm with you
we do some touristy stuff
for a couple days
we give everyone the hotel to book into then we give everyone all on the same flight. They land in. I'm with you. We do some touristy stuff for a couple days. We give everyone the
hotel to book into.
Then we give everyone
the second leg of the
journey, which is in
the jungle, the hotel
to book into.
We have three events
there while we're out
there.
The monkeys, the
waterfalls, wise farms
and the quads.
You can do one of
them.
You can do none of
them.
You can do whatever
you want.
And then we have our
wedding.
I think that that is
stuff that we should
do with our immediate family and the bridal party only.
That's too much.
Trust me, honey.
It's way too much.
If we're inviting 100 people to the wedding.
But who wants to fly out for a four-day wedding to Bali?
Honey, that is not our job.
Yes, that is normal.
It's a destination wedding.
It is not our job to provide activities for someone else's vacation.
They're coming to the wedding.
If they want to make it their own vacation and come out for a week,
that's on them.
All the activities and stuff we do should be immediate family and bridal
party only.
Immediate family and bridal.
Okay.
That makes a little bit more sense.
Because those are our closest friends and family and everyone else coming
is coming to celebrate our wedding.
And we're going to spend the rehearsal dinner when we go out to Finn's or Om whatever like that's going to be a big thing to do with everybody we're not having
a hundred wedding guests really want to go to the monkey forest and then a hundred guests go on
quads and then a hundred guests go you know what i'm saying you put it like that you're right yes
that's why i will be doing the planning okay but i love i love your vision i want everybody to have
fun everyone's gonna have fun it Everyone's going to have fun.
It's going to be a fucking wedding
in Bali on the beach.
It's going to be awesome.
So we just worry about the recall.
Yes.
Those five days.
Yes.
Everyone else does
whatever the fuck they want.
They can extend their vacay in Bali.
Should we put everyone else
in like a group chat
so they can kind of like
do things together?
We're not putting 100 people
in a group chat. I don't things together? We're not putting 100 people in a group chat.
I don't think you remember how many people you've already lightly invited.
To be honest, if people want to fly to Bali to come to our wedding and I know their face, perfect.
Nice to meet you, bro.
That's a mad trip you just made out.
We'll have some fun.
Anyway, we also did-
We've got to figure out our list.
We figured out our bridal party.
We did. we also did we figured out our bridal party we did but we are not going to announce that
anytime soon because we're motherfuckers can get cut real quick now you never know things in this
group no actually i think our group's pretty solid no it is uh but i want to save asking people
until like next summer until we i don't want to ask anyone yet.
I want to like make sure like we still need to go to Bali and make sure we can get the place we want.
I want to figure out all those details.
Yeah.
Before.
Yeah.
Our sisters are going to help us and then they'll do the liaisons for us and then we'll fly in real quick.
Do the okay.
And then lock it in, baby.
Wow. I'm actually excited for this. I really am, honey the okay, and then lock it in, baby. Wow.
I'm actually excited for this.
I really am, honey.
Well, yeah, it's our wedding.
You better be fucking excited.
I know, but like, I know you've been,
everyone's like, well, you've been married before
and then so have I, but mine was completely different.
I've never gone on one knee and asked someone to marry me
until I did it with you.
Yeah.
And I am a bridezilla, whatever.
Groomzilla.
Groomzilla.
But I'm like a groomzilla of Tom Sandoval's loving.
Like I want everyone to have fun.
So I will agree to what you said.
My party, mine is limited to five days.
That's my limitation.
Yeah, but the activities that we are going to plan
are going to be for the bridal party.
Yes, okay.
That makes sense.
Perfect.
It's much easier to plan things for 15 to 20 people
if you're including immediate family than it is for 100 that's why we're planning the wedding
that's for the 100 people i agree that's their activity and then we can go to fins or omnia or
like something like that people they never ask us themselves okay all right. You heard it here first, people. We just, yeah.
I don't know.
I want to make.
I know, but just trust me.
Okay.
The wedding will be.
All right, fine.
Yeah.
I'm excited.
It's going to be good.
Next question.
The last one was Telly443 just wanted to know,
where's our first family vacation with Summer going to be?
Hawaii.
Well, if your family is Hawaii.
Yeah.
And then my mother gets to come over next year.
Yeah.
And then that will be the first time.
Summer will be nine months.
No, she'll be nearly a year old.
And she gets to see her Gigi for the first time and her auntie.
So my mom and sister are coming.
Hopefully before.
Hopefully, you know, the borders open up.
It's not happening.
Well.
I mean, wait, we have to fly back to Australia over summer?
For what?
Because right now the borders are closed.
You have to fly home and still quarantine.
We're not doing that.
Oh, yeah, that's not happening.
We've got to wait.
And that's the biggest one.
Once the borders lift up, we'll be fine.
I'm excited.
Yeah.
Thank you guys so much for listening, for sending in all of your questions.
Send some questions in.
Remember, we got a couple of polls.
I want to see everybody.
What was the one?
You want us to host a podcast with your exes?
Oh, yeah.
That was one of them.
If you guys recommend any ways to host or have really good
destinational weddings, we'd love your feedback downstairs.
Leave us a five-star review.
Go for it.
And then.
Thanks, honey. That's Brock closing it out, honey. You can take it away.-star review. Go for it. And then... Thanks, honey.
That's Brock closing it out, honey.
You can take it away.
Thank you guys so much for listening.
And like I said,
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