Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - Two-Can Jamie

Episode Date: March 5, 2021

Scheana and co-host Jamie talk all about her beautiful baby shower that took place over the weekend including outfits, games, the amazing guests and how it was an absolute dream come true. How did Jamie get the nickname “Two-Can Jamie”?! What’s up with the engagement rumors and how much of it is actually true…? Special thanks to PrettyLitter for sponsoring this episode. Your cat deserves the best. Your cat deserves The World’s Smartest kitty litter! Do what I did and make the switch to PrettyLitter TODAY by visiting PrettyLitter.com and use promo code shay for 20% off your first order. Special thanks to Boll & Branch for sponsoring this episode. Experience the best sheets you’ve ever felt at bollandbranch.com. Get 15% off your first set of sheets when you use promo code shay at checkout. For more info on the Rapid Covid tests discussed in this episode, please contact Brent Seals: Email: [e-mail] Cell: 310.486.6048 Scheananigans with Scheana Shay is produced by ACTIONPARK MEDIA. Follow us on Instagram: @scheana @scheananigans @actionparkmediagroupSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Action Park Media From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans. And now, here's your host, Sheena Shea. Hello, everyone. Welcome back to Shenanigans. It's just Jamie and I this week. We are chilling in a dope conference room in Orange County because I didn't have to be in LA this week and Brock has practice in Irvine. And I was like, you know what?

Let's just do one from home. But this time you're home. How you doing? Hi. So official. We have our whiteboard. I know. What should we discuss?

Right? It's like, I feel like we need some meeting pointers on there. Yeah. How to get better reviews. That's the topic of this meeting today. I think we should maybe take a break on the reviews because I think it's starting to encourage people to write negative ones again. Yeah. I was concerned about that. Yeah. But like also if we just read the positive ones and then maybe like a four star like an actual constructive one not like a mean one just because people want to like have a shout out basically and leave something mean um you know two-faced jenna is still updating every week

so she's always at the top um who is she really seriously who are you show yourself can she just be a guest you know here's the thing with the trolls. I'm all about you, whatever. You want to say whatever you want to say to me, but like say it to my face. Like record a video of yourself saying it and then send it to me. Don't just have like a photo of your dog or your kid, a fucking Bible quote and like no photo, you know, the little like silhouette and then like be saying shit behind your screen. Like show yourself.

Because let me just say, after all of the comments about my dress and what I wore at the baby shower, we must have a lot of supermodels running around this country who have been commenting on my looks. Right. And no one who gained weight during quarantine. No one. No one gained weight. I mean, let's just get right into it.

So yesterday I posted several photos from my baby shower. And in the first five to 10 minutes, I had to delete so many comments so that my friends and guests didn't see the nasty things people were saying about them. I'm not even going to say who or what was being said. And then I just after the first 10 minutes were saying about them. I'm not even going to say who or what was being said. And then I just, after the first 10 minutes, I stopped checking. I only look at the top comments because those are the people I follow who follow, like we follow each other. I just had to stop looking.

But I'm like, first of all, that dress in person fit me perfectly. It maybe wasn't the best for posing, I guess, although I thought it looked fine in all of the photos. And they're like, who's this girl's best friend, Jamie? Why did you let me wear that dress? First of all, I don't I don't recall being asked or seeing a photo in advance. But even if my sister approved. Yeah. I mean, even if I saw a photo of it, I wouldn't have I would have just thought it was a beautiful dress. I will say, the only thing is when you were taking pictures and I didn't notice this in person, but then in the pictures, like, yeah, it like moved up a bit and it covered your boobs rather than kind of

being under and supporting them. Yeah. And someone probably should have said, pull your dress down a little bit. And my mom did, she was like, Oh, pull your dress down. Cause it kept riding up. Cause obviously it's not a dress for, it's not a a maternity dress i just got it in a size eight so i've just gone up several sizes but also with that i was like i'm not gonna wear a bra with it because it is a little see-through underwire is so uncomfortable these days so yeah i had to keep adjusting it to pull it down but in photos i wasn't noticing that and who fucking cares people care they really do like they're invested let me read you this comment i just got this morning and brock's like don't even respond and i'm like no no i just i'm going to respond because i'm going to ask her what was the fucking point of saying this glowing not a flattering dress but so happy for you being

a mom is amazing so you're a mom so how would you like it if someone said that to your daughter on her most special day of her life and i said i was like what was the point on commenting on my dress and then someone else said well it isn't flattering but like the other said you look so happy what is the point well everyone wants to have their opinion i guess and you know when you're in the public eye, you've got to take it, I guess. And I do. And it doesn't bother me. But it's just like I'm curious what is the point of saying I'm glowing, I look beautiful, motherhood's amazing, but don't like your dress.

I would love to know. I would love to know what goes through these people's minds. Like, okay, so in your vlog with the baby shower, it was so nice. And it's like, we'll get into the fact that I don't remember half of it. So as I was watching it, I was trying to piece it together. Jamie has a new nickname. It's not drunk Jamie. It's too can Jamie stay tuned. I've evolved. Um, as I was watching, I'm like, okay, so when did, I'm trying to like piece together the timeline and like, and the whole time I'm holding my breath. Cause I'm like, oh my God, I hope she didn't put in like any of those videos that were sent to you by someone who had no authority to

send them to you. I did think about the face plant photo at the end and be like, and this is how the night ended. But then I, I didn't want people to think it was me and I wasn't going to call you out. So I didn't, but I thought about it. I knew you would have. And when he, when he did that, I yelled at him. I said,

this is going to probably be in her vlog. And he's like, what? She wouldn't do that to you. I'm like, Oh no, you posted it. I know.

So for those of you who saw Jamie face planted down on the bed, that's how the baby shower ended. Who gets that drunk at a baby shower? Jamie does. Clearly I do. I am the most inappropriate guest to ever have at a baby shower. How did that happen? I know how it happened, but like, how did I let that happen? So Dashboard Confessional has the wine can vino that we talked about a few episodes ago. And just so you know, if you have two cans, you might end up face planted on a bed. You guys, we did the math. Okay. No, I had no idea. So I had two cans the entire day. You're just thinking it's a can. Who cares? It's like two beers. We did the math the next day at brunch, which we should also talk about.

Oh, yes. And it comes out to an entire bottle of wine that I drank. And so now it made sense afterwards. But during it, I'm just like, how am I so drunk on two cans of wine? Two can, Jamie. So, I mean, it's delicious. Yeah. But I had two cans of the rosé and um and couldn't drive home I could

not drive home and I didn't and this is the scary thing had I not facetimed the person that I recently met and if he did not see how wasted I was to and to come and get me I'm nervous like you say like you would have stopped me but I'm nervous that I would have been like no I only had two cans of wine all day it's okay and I would have driven home no honey it was very obvious like everyone was on Jamie watch like my little cousins my uncle my aunt my mom we all knew not to let you leave oh my god and then your car was also blocked in so you couldn't have left oh was it yeah because I remember I was like blocking oh they did that on purpose they blocked you in thank god you guys are so smart so then

brett told me he like he sent me a dm the next day he's like oh my god your psychic reading was so good i'm like what psychic reading brett and he's like wait you don't remember he calls me up do you do you know about this i don't know about this i know you were trying to talk to my uncle aaron that was after the fact he was, what is this bitch doing? No, because he said next time that happens, he wants to know, he wants answers. So I guess that's why I went and found him. So anyway, Brett was sitting there. He called his boyfriend Orlando on FaceTime. And I guess I heard people talking that wanted to talk to Orlando. I grabbed the phone. This is the first time I've ever met his boyfriend. Okay. Most of them when I was opening presents, cause I wasn't there for any of this. Yeah.

And I don't remember any of this. This is Brett's recollection of what happened. I grabbed the phone and I was like, Orlando, um, do you have someone named Tio? Like, did you refer to an uncle as a Tio? And he's like, yeah. And I'm like, okay, so like clearly you're Hispanic and that's how you refer to your uncle as, and he's like, yeah, I'm Puerto Rican. I'm like, okay, so like clearly you're Hispanic and that's how you refer to your uncle. And he's like, yeah, I'm Puerto Rican. I'm like, but this uncle was Cuban. And he's like, you're right. I was like, and he was into cars.

He had a convertible. He's like, you're right. And I was like, and you guys spent a lot of time in a pool together. He's like, yes, he taught me how to swim. Like that was our bond. Yeah. And then apparently he had other messages and like I had messages for Brett. I won't go into all of it because it's super personal but she was spot on that night that's crazy okay so maybe toucan jamie is that's new that's the thing jamie yeah by the way the person who i called to pick me

up sat there and watched this entire thing go down and he's still talking to me so i'm like oh my god maybe he is the keeper maybe because i didn't even know he was there so so brett tells me all of this and i didn't know he i just assumed this happened before he got there to pick me up then i'm sitting like outside of the fire pit with him last night and he starts telling his friend he's like listen i don't know if i believe in psychics or whatever but when i saw her do her thing that was like nothing i've ever seen before i'm like what, what? You were there? Oh my gosh. It's crazy. Okay. So let's, let's give a little update. So we were talking last week about how Jamie had a guy slide in her DMs. It was going well. Now let's, let's give a little

update. He drove what? 75 miles to come and pick you up to drive you home? I don't think Riverside is that far from your aunt's place. I think it's actually pretty close. It's not that close. It's probably like 20-something miles. Let's ask. Let's ask Siri. But he would drive that far for me, to be clear.

How many miles is Riverside to Azusa? She's thinking. Okay, 38 miles. Whatever. It's still, it's a drive. Round trip is over 75 miles.

So, and thankfully you guys took my car home. It actually all worked out for the best. Brock had to golf in the morning. I was going to have

to drop him off and then kill time until we had brunch and it worked out because he was like, why don't I just take Jamie's car? And I was like, oh, my God, that's genius. We're going home tomorrow. Orange County is on the way. Then I don't have to drop you off.

I can stay and hang out with my fam for a bit. So, yeah, it did work out perfectly. And his proposal was beautiful at the restaurant. Oh, my God. OK, before we get into that, let's take a quick little break. So as you guys know, Brock and I are moving into a new apartment, and into a new apartment means getting a new bed, and with a bed comes new sheets.

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these people probably had like their first date here this place is probably so special to them and when we came back to get my car later that evening my sister and i went shopping for a bit and then came back they had all the photographers set up the lights were on like it was really cute and i actually even thought about posting a little like snapchat or a video or something of it but i didn't because that wasn't my moment and it wasn't for me to post right so i don't post anything someone sees me at the restaurant without my boyfriend. Right. Literally riding solo and then tweets to a Bravo holic like fan account.

Saw she at this restaurant. Her boyfriend was proposing to her. It's all over the Internet. I have Heather McDonald. I have cousins. I have friends texting me being like uh i hear congratulations is in order and i'm like what are you talking about my publicist messages me and he's like um something to tell me and i'm like what all from one girl picking up takeout

food who saw you sitting there without bro without him he wasn't even present i'm like so because i'm at a restaurant where there is a marry me sign without my significant other that means i'm getting engaged how did you put that together i mean i'll i'll give it to myself i did look cute that day which normally i don't i know i looked like trash i looked like such trash because obviously it was such a nice change because jamie always even if we're just podcasting in san diego and not vlogging whatsoever she comes like head to toe glam just to hang out at my apartment and i look like my normal pregnant self and sweats and loungewear so it was nice that i had the lashes on and you didn't for once. I didn't have eyebrows either, which is the reason

why I typically do my makeup because you have microblading, which I still need. I got it once it faded. It grew out. I don't know if like my face can handle it or whatever. Well, it only lasts like really well for like a year and a half and then you have to touch it up. Yeah. I need it because then I can not wear makeup. if i if i just put like put on eyebrows and do nothing else i look like a freak so i have to kind of do makeup all the time but it was nice to see you with nothing on your face and being full glam because what i do whenever marine does my makeup i just wash my face at night but i go around my eyes so i still had perfect eye makeup from the shower and i was like

oh two days of glam no two for one yeah oh it was so funny you were like oh you get you like start dating someone and then you let yourself go and i'm like and you're still here like she's already let herself go in the first two weeks he's seen the worst and he's he's still hanging around you know this one might be a keeper. We'll see. Stay tuned. Stay tuned. So far in the first couple weeks, you know, he's already. He knows everything. Driven to pick you up.

He knows that you get drunk on two cans of wine. He sees that you're psychic. He takes care of you when you're passed out. He even updates your best friend on the status, which, oh, my God. He also sent some videos that you're talking. I've never seen them. I haven't seen the videos. Well, and on Instagram, like, you can only replay them once and then they expire.

That's why I couldn't see him. He's like, I can't even replay this for you. So Jamie's, like, half, like, falling over, sitting on his bed, and she's like this is the cia shit it's like it's a conspiracy it's witchcraft i was gonna invest in it but it's the cia and i'm like what are you talking about you were saying that the wine was made by the cia because it was impossible for you to get this drunk off two cans then jamie has this other idea that maybe not going to name any names. No, you can, he won't care. Okay, that our friend Zach

maybe just lightly does G during the day at a baby shower. She's like, well, I think I had a sip of Zach's canned wine. What if he dropped a little G in his? I'm like, who does that at a baby shower? In my defense, that actually happened to me at Brittany's birthday party. Okay.

I asked, but not, not from, not from Zach. And it was night. It was we ho. And I accidentally drank someone else's water that had put it in there. So it was my water.

I have a little PTSD from that. Okay. Well, yeah, you know, we've all been a little PTSD from that. Okay. Well, yeah, you know, we've all been a little roofie, but at a baby shower, although I will say one time I got roofied.

It was at my uncle's engagement, uh, retirement party. There you go. See, but it was also at night at a bar, not in a backyard at my aunt's house. That's a crazy story.

So this bartender decides to roofie you. I wasn't the bartender. Who was it? It was. So the retirement party was in the back of the bar. Like we had a private area, but then my cousins and I was me, Kelly and Shalom. We wanted to go to the bar and get shots. And so, and this was our karma. So we go up to the bar to order shots. And it was like one wanted vodka, one wanted tequila, one wanted fireball. So it was three different bottles. So it wasn't even like the bottle was spiked. We all had something different. We get up to the bar and this is so many years ago.

We're all broke. I'm like, I don't want to pay for these. And I'm like, whose tab should we put them on? I was like, hold on. And so the three of us leave the bar. They already poured the shots. We're like, we'll be right back. I don't know what tab it's under.

We go back. We ask like one of our other cousins, like whose tab should we put the shots on? Ha ha. And they're like, oh, put it on his. We're like, okay, cool. So we go back up. We ask like one of our other cousins, like whose tab should we put the shots on? Ha ha. And they're like, oh, put it on his. We're like, okay, cool. So we go back up. We're like, oh yeah. Like our uncle said, you know, we can put them on his tab.

And in that time that we left the bar, someone, I guess, slipped something in the shots. Oh, you left all the shots on the bar? That's a rookie mistake. Well, I mean, we're at a family restaurant in Monrovia. I didn't think someone was going to roofie our shots. There were only a couple people there because the party was in the back. So then we all have that one shot. And that night going home, I remember my sister was videotaping me.

I have a slight recollection of walking out of the bar. Then when I'm in the car, I start singing all of the states in alphabetical order she's videotaping me she just thinks i'm wasted and it's hilarious but then i wake up at 5 a.m on my mom's couch in my mom's clothes my shirt's on like backwards they had to like dress me oh my god and i'm like so confused and i'm like wow i got shit face i blacked out that never happens come to find out that both of my cousins one was like throwing up out of the window on the way home driving back up to the high desert the other one was like in the bathtub like super sick and we're like okay that's not normal because especially in my family we can hold our liquor yeah so for that to happen after

that one shot we're like something fishy and then i think they were like able to go back and like look at the tapes but it was like the angle of it but they saw like someone at the bar and i guess i paid for like a whole round i checked my credit card the next day and i had like charges that i don't remember signing for but i signed it and like had the receipt and i'm like i don't remember paying for all of this it was what was that person's end game like you you were clearly going home with your parents exactly like i mean i was there with my husband oh my god or he was my boyfriend at the time i don't remember but it was like i was there with mom dad shay courtney and the rest

of my family so yeah that's what i never understand when guys roofie girls it's like what's your plan really i mean normally they're what like on a date and they're planning to take them home i think right or they just met them and they're like oh let me you know walk you to wherever you're going but in your case like with family at a family function yeah i don't get it i don't either i don't know anyways back to the baby shower. So Jamie was the only person who got drunk. That's unfortunate. You know, it's nice when there's other people to like. Well, because everyone drove. True.

As did you. But they were just more responsible. What did like your family say when I'm like, did I like walk through the house through every like drunk? Oh yeah, you almost fell over. My uncle Aaron was like, oh, he's, like, in those shoes because you had, like, really high, like, wooden heels on. Yes.

And he was, like, if her dude wasn't holding her up, he's, like, I was, like, getting ready to be, like, I might have to catch her. Uh-huh. Because you, but it's funny because when, like, you're that drunk, like, you don't realize you're that drunk. And so, like, you just think, like, you're normal, but everyone else sees that you're not. i'm like opening my presents and jamie's just like thinking

she has it all together being like yeah it's fine just take my car like oh my god and then the guy you're with was like oh we need to get some stuff out of her car and i was like someone go watch them i don't know that i trust that they're not going to also take her car, but I forgot you were also blocked in, so you couldn't have left anyways. But someone went to watch me? But he promised that you weren't going to drive. And I was like, okay, it seems like you're a good dude. You're going to take care of her.

So if you're not back with her key in two minutes. But then it's funny because then we all start talking about him as if he's not about to walk back in the door. Well, because they're just like, so how did they meet? Like, da, da, da, da. So we're all talking about him. And then my uncle's like. Oh, my God, he said something about that.

What? He was like, so like clearly like you told them all about me, right? Like, because he's like, they were all talking as if they knew who I was and da, da, da, da, da. Like, so I guess i guess you told everybody i'm like i didn't tell her family about you well yeah because they're like who is this random guy at the baby shower guys weren't invited right the only guys there were my uncle dad justice and brock after golf so then this like guy shows up and they're like um we're not having an after party. Like what's going on? I was like, Jamie needs a ride home. So this is who Jamie's dating.

And I like filled them in. Okay. But then we're all talking about him. My uncle Aaron's like, you're talking about him as if he's not about to walk right back in the door and give us our keys. And we're like, oh yeah,

shit. And then you walked in the door. Oh my God. Did he hear? I mean, apparently. Yeah, I guess so.

We weren't saying anything bad. That's so funny. But yeah, we're just like, I we're just like i mean yeah like she just met this guy but you know he seems really sweet so the next day i was like jamie what did you do at a baby shower shame shame on you yeah you didn't even win any games i didn't even i didn't even win any games. I didn't even attempt. I remember sitting there, okay? And I remember the last game was like the word scramble. Yeah. And I saw these words and I think this is when it was starting to

hit me and I'm like, I am not even going to attempt to do this because these letters are moving. And I was sitting next to Katie. Oh my God, I was like the mushrooms all over again. Oh God. So I'm sitting next to Katie and she's getting every single one and I'm like. She won that game. Yeah. I'm like what the hell? And then I remember saying to her, I'm like

Katie, I want to know how your brain works. How are you doing this? And then from that moment on, I have no recollection. Yeah. But overall, it was such a good day from what you remember. It was really nice. That was all the, you blocked out at the right time. That was all the, you blocked out at the right time.

It was like so perfect and something that I've always dreamed of and really like never thought would happen. I think I even said this in the description of my vlog. I was never the girl who like dreamed about her wedding and how she wanted it to be. I tried to copy like a bachelor wedding

that I saw. It was Trista and Ryan. It was like the first one of the first I think televised weddings ever. And I remember seeing that and I was like, Oh, when I get married one day, like I want it to be on TV and I want it to look like that. But this is like when I was like, in college, I think like, I never dreamt of a wedding as a little girl. But I always thought about my baby shower and I never thought I would actually have one so it was a really special day what did you dream about and did it actually happen well I knew I wanted tacos I also knew I wanted a DJ and like a huge bar but with

COVID that that dream kind of went out the window but I like I wanted to have like a rager fun baby shower and said, this was very mellow. So that was the only difference. I basically, as an adult wanted to copy Jessica Hall's first baby shower. It was such a party. It was so much fun. I mean,

Toucan Jamie would have been perfect at that baby shower. You know, what's so funny. She's my business partner and I've never actually met her in person and she was i didn't even know she was there yeah i need to actually meet her you do and she has a podcast at action park i know so crazy so crazy yeah so um she had the most fun baby shower i've ever been to but just like what sort of games would play and then just like you know the the cake pops and I knew I wanted tacos and it just was perfect and I'm very fortunate that I get to have a second one

because we didn't want to mix the sides of the family with my dad's side my mom's side and then all of my friends know my mom's side better and had been at the reveal. My dad's side wasn't able to come to the reveal because it was actually on the same day as my aunt's birthday. And I didn't realize that when I planned it. So none of them were able to come. But we're like, you know, let's just keep the families separate and do two small ones instead of one big one because it's not going to be a rager. And just disclaimer, which I shouldn't even have to fucking say everyone got tested within like 48 hours of the shower everyone was negative i didn't force anyone to if you don't want to get tested you didn't have to come and you know what a couple people didn't come so whatever but um same thing for the one next weekend with my dad's side of the family, everyone knows that they need to get tested. And that's just kind of like the new norm.

I even bought eight at-home rapid tests just to have on hand in case someone showed up to the shower and hadn't sent in their negative results. I'm like, well, here you go, 40 bucks. I didn't know that was a thing. Where did you get it? Yeah, one of my friends in LA sells them. And I think they're 92% accurate as opposed to

the ones that you pay $170 for that are like 97% accurate. And how much are the at home ones? Um, $40. Really? Yeah. So I bought eight of them. So I have them on hand because also like when we're doing, you know, shows with guests, we don't really know.

It's like, well, if you don't mind, just like, I'm not going to be like Venmo me 40 bucks. I've already paid for it. Like they're mine, but I wanted to have them on hand because then, you know, we can do that and have a rapid test and have results in like 10, 15 minutes.

But can anybody buy them? Or did you have to go through like a doctor or something? Um, he's a friend of ours. The whole cast knows him. So I'm not sure i can ask because i can see if that's like something that i just know people are going to want to know yeah i'll um he actually just texted me randomly i saw weird but i'll ask um because if that is something that

can be just purchased publicly i would love to share that information yeah kristin told me about it and um they're doing the same for britney shower this weekend. Cute. So yeah, that was the baby shower. That was perfect. I know we have some questions that came in and they're probably even more about the shower. So before we get into those, let's take a little break. Everything in our lives is getting smarter. I know y'all have heard me talk about this before. And if you're a cat owner like me, I have some news that's going to rock your world. Litter is smarter too. Thanks to the world's smartest cat litter, Pretty Litter. And that's exactly what it is.

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And she's like, Oh, I think it's mostly bloopers, though. I was like, okay. Oh, my God. She's so cute. But I was running late that day. Surprise, surprise. Yeah. So I didn't record it when I should have. So that was actually after the fact.

I figured so. You see, my hair and makeup is different. I'm in a different outfit. Yeah. But when I was doing it, I had so many bloopers because I was crying because I was trying to talk about the rainbow in your maternity shoot and just how I know like that's like the spirit or something coming through from, you know, your rainbow baby.

And every time I tried to talk about it, I would start, I would start crying. I'm like, no, I know she wants this vlog to be like light and I don't want to like be all emo on this thing. So that what I sent to Courtney was probably the fifth take. Really? Yeah. And I'm like, okay, I'm not going to cry. I'm like trying to like just be so stoic

and just get the words out. And then I saw in your comments on YouTube, it was like, your friend Jamie's really pretty, but her face doesn't move. Oh, I'm so jealous. I hate that my face moves right now. I know one. I'm like, well, I'm overdue for my Botox. So I think I'm going to take that as a compliment, but that is why. And whoever wrote that was absolutely right. I was trying so hard not to cry. I didn't see that comment. Yeah. I like adding those things in like the Jamie cam, Raquel cam, because it's just such a cute little addition. And we even left in Raquel saying that, you know, everyone got COVID tested. And there were still comments. And I'm like, well, clearly you didn't pay attention because Raquel said it. But I added it to the description too. And then people are like, fuck that. You don't have to explain yourself. I'm like, no, but I feel like I do. Because like, I'm not about to just have some super spreader rager baby shower. We're being responsible. So I do like to point that out that even if someone didn't have a test,

I went and spent $320 or whatever on tests myself just to have at the shower because I wanted to make sure everyone felt safe and we didn't have to wear masks. Yeah. Even if I haven't gone anywhere and left my house, you still make me get tested if we do anything. So it's like, you are so careful and you're pregnant. So you're not going to put yourself at risk, but you're certainly not going to put other people at risk either. Totally. And granted, like, yeah, it's not perfect. It's not a hundred percent, but you're doing the most you can to be the safest you can. Exactly. And it's just like, you know what, this is our new norm and we're not going to not hang out with anybody, not going to not have a baby shower because we're in a pandemic. I'm

sorry. I'm going to have one. I'm going to invite less people, which I felt really bad about not being able to invite every single person i wanted to but i'm like we got to keep it under like 30 people because 30 people right now that sounds like a lot it does sound like and then it was like oh and then a couple of like you know my cousins and then a couple other friends and then it was just like oh i was like okay we can't have the guys there i always wanted to do a co-ed shower that was the other thing i wanted was like a fun party everyone bring your significant significant other. But I'm like, I can't. Then that adds like another minimum 10 people and then my cousins. And then if they bring their sons and I was just

like, we just we can't do that. So it was a lot smaller than it normally would have been. But it was perfect and whatever. Well, I'm glad I can make your dreams partially come through by turning up at your shower. You have, you had one person. Do you want to get into questions? Sure. Well, you know, I'm not going to say the name because this question came in a lot and they wanted to know why and we're not there. Because they weren't invited because we're not friends. That makes perfect sense. Yeah.

You know, the people I'm closest with are the people who were invited. And if y'all listen to the podcast, you would know why certain people weren't invited. Yeah. Okay. Moving on. Stephanie Joyce wants to know, was it low-key weird that Kristen and Katie showed up in black?

Oh, my God. Okay. Wait. So, funny story about this. So, Charlie texted me last week and asked what, her and Raquel had asked what I was wearing to the shower. But then Charlie was like, what am I supposed to wear? Because she just had like foot surgery and she can only be in like certain shoes right now. She had a boot on for so long.

And she's like, I can't wear like so many cute outfits that I want to because of my foot. She's like, would it be okay if I wore jeans? And I was like, yeah, it's during the day. It's casual. I was like, jeans are fine. I was like, honestly, I would just probably keep it light. Like most people wear like pastels and light colors to a baby shower. I was like, let me just put it's casual. I was like, jeans are fine. I was like, honestly, I would just probably keep it light. Like most people wear like pastels and light colors to a baby shower.

I was like, let me just put it this way. No one's going to show up in black. Except if you're a witch. And I have that text like to Charlie, like no one wears black to a baby shower. But then the witches of WeHo showed up in black and I know my sister gave them shit for it. She was like, who wears black to a day

baby shower so I just thought that was funny but you know what it was very on brand yeah and they look cute so yeah they did uh who knows wants to know what were your thoughts right before walking into the baby shower I just couldn't believe that it was like all happening and I cried already I think twice that morning and when I was even doing my intro I was like once I started talking about it I was like okay I gotta go I was like I just got my makeup done and then the second I walked in I had to like wrap it up really quick because then I'm like looking at all the little things and like I'm gonna cry again and it was just like everything I wanted and never thought I would have so yeah just that was just the only thought and then like every time I feel

her kick I'm just like oh my god there is a human inside of me like it still trips me out and like up until a couple weeks ago when my stomach popped like I still wasn't fully convinced like yeah I see the ultrasounds all the time but I'm like I see that on the screen but like until I felt her it like wasn't real and then it's like I'm feeling her but I still just like looked really bloated and it's like now I'm like okay now I'm fully pregnant I am a full seven months and like a week and it gets so much more real every day and it just it trips me out like women's bodies are fucking insane that we can create life like that's the biggest miracle in the world yeah and to all the people talking shit about my other friends and who are pregnant just remember there is a life they are creating inside of them,

and everyone carries it differently, and everyone is a fucking superhero who carries a baby, so leave them the fuck alone. Keep your opinions to yourself. It really pisses me off. It's just like, and it's always women.

It's never men. Of course. Men don't say anything. It's the women tearing other women down. It's like, oh, so were you a stick who only carried in your belly when you were pregnant? Like, fuck off.

Pisses me off. Yeah, it makes me really sad. It makes me sad for the people who have to read it. You know, like just everyone's human. You know, just because you see them on TV doesn't mean they don't have like a heart and everybody's the same on the inside. You know, we all have feelings.

Yeah, that makes me sad. Okay, Joni one, three, six, seven. Will your baby have a common name or trendy slash unique? Give a little hint. A little hint is it's a little bit of both. I think the first name, it's not so common, but this is what I said on my huddle last week. Cause the girls are like, can you give us the first initials? Like I'm not going to do the initials just yet I have a blanket that's being monogrammed and when that comes I may post a photo of that I'm not sure but I said she will always be able to find her name spelled properly on something and that is one thing that I never had my whole life but I love my name and

I love how unique it is but i never got to go to you know not like going to a gas station and getting the keychains cool but it's like any souvenir shop or anywhere on vacation i've never been able to find my name so i don't know if her name would be on keychains either but if it was it would be spelled correct exactly that's the only thing is anything it would be on it won won't be misspelled. But then I think her middle name is unique and trendy. Yes. Which is why Brock doesn't like it. Oh,

he doesn't know. Do you think you guys might change? No. Last minute. No, I'm signing the birth certificate. She gets your last name. Like that's enough.

No. Isn't it weird that psychic Jamie said you you're not gonna end up with that name it might be the first thing she's wrong about you know i mean we have a lot of things already personalized so i know that would be really unfortunate and yeah i just i feel so attached to that name but also like i'm saying we're not gonna announce it until i hold her because i'm like what if i hold her and i'm like oh my if I hold her? And I'm like, oh, my God, she doesn't look like she looks like this. Yeah. So if that happens, I will go into business, into the psychic business.

There's there's like a two percent chance that happens. So low. But yeah, because I mean, the other name that we wanted that we said we'll save for our next baby. It's like, but what if that name just like really resonates with her when we hold her? Then whatever. We have some stuff that's personalized that, you know, whatever. So stay tuned. End of April.

That will be announced. Yay. All right. Olivia Lebel wants to know, did you and Katie reconcile or have you guys always stayed friends? No, we've always stayed friends. I think the only time we really had like a falling out, quote unquote, was gosh, like season five. No, five was her wedding.

So maybe like season six, we weren't getting along so great but that was the bleep season and I know we just had like some differences but then season seven like when Adam and I were hanging out her and I were cool again we weren't as close and then yeah last year I mean I don't think there was any disagreements we even got into. Like I was butthurt. I wasn't invited to her second wedding in Vegas, but I also know how that goes when we do trips and only, you know, a certain amount of people can go sometimes.

And I was also freezing my eggs that weekend, so I couldn't have gone anyway. So it was like, I wasn't invited, but she knew she couldn't invite me because I couldn't go. I still wanted the invite to then say, sorry, I can't go. But we really the invite to then say, sorry, I can't go.

But we really like we haven't had any issues. So, you know, she wasn't at my gender reveal because back then I was just keeping it very, very closest friends. But when my baby shower came up, like it wasn't even a question. I was like, of course I want Katie there. And I was so happy she came. Yeah like it wasn't even a question. I was like, of course I want Katie there. And I was so happy she came. Yeah. It was nice to see her. I don't really get to hang out with her a lot.

Cause like COVID and like, you know, like we don't get together as groups or whatever. And I never really got to know her very well, but she was very sweet at your baby shower and impressed me with her word search skills. Yes. Okay.

Um, Steph rest to Chcia wants to know, how do I like your baby daddy? And how do I feel about you being pregnant? Oh, well, I love Brock. I love, I think he is your perfect match in every possible way. He can handle every aspect of your life, but not only handle it, like he, he helps to improve you and your life and he brings so much. And he's just like, if we're all out like that, when we were at brunch, like I felt his presence being missed. Like I miss him when he's not with us now. So that's how much I love him. So I'm so happy you found him. And obviously I love that you're pregnant. I know you should get pregnant with me stop just stop with that she keeps guys she keeps trying to tell me to get

pregnant no it would be so fun no you have enough friends who are pregnant yeah but they're not you stop it i'm manifesting this do not i'm blocking I'm blocking that right now Toucan Jamie can't stop it okay stop um okay um how did we meet well didn't we say that on the Christine podcast or no yeah we met through a mutual ex friend and congrats to Christine yes oh my god I posted yesterday okay first of First of all, of course I would expect nothing less than the most gorgeous fucking photo shoot ever announcing. She looks like a goddess.

Christine Quinn. We're talking about selling sunset, having a baby. I'm so excited. She kept that under wraps. She did. And how far along is she now? She's pretty far.

That's not for me to say but i'll tell you off the podcast because i know her due date okay but um yeah i'm so excited for her more baby best friends yes see here you got another one you don't need me to be pregnant but it's just you know it'd be it'd be fun if you were i i did not enjoy being pregnant. I'll say that. It was, I got really, really swollen, bloated, like my ankles, like my last month, like I couldn't walk. Like I was just stuck on the couch for like the last month and I gained a lot of weight. Um, how much weight did you gain? I stopped. Here's the thing. Like when I was around five months is when I switched my birth plan. So up until five months I was ready to deliver at Cedars-Sinai.

Yeah, that's my plan. And had I done it then, I would have been in the hospital at the same time with Kim Kardashian when she had North. Oh, my gosh. That would have been cool. Right? Like Ivy could have been like next to North. But anyway, so like around five months, I decided to switch and do a natural at home birth and use some um a place in the west side called the birth sanctuary and they sent midwives to my house

so at that point they don't they didn't weigh me every week because you weren't going to an ob exactly gotcha so i stopped but at the point when i stopped weighing myself it was a lot i'm trying like i started at like which that was coming off of Playboy. So that was like my fitness. That's what I started at. Okay. And then, so I just had a lot more to gain. Because like, I'm not normally in Playboy shape.

So I think I was in the one, God, I can't believe I'm admitting this, in the around five months. Okay. That's a lot. I'm pushing that right now. But you're in seven months. So imagine. Honestly, I'm fine if I keep some of this ass and hips weight on me. I may not get back in a lot of my old clothes, but that's what Depop is for. And I'm going to start selling all of my clothes

that are never going to fit me again on Depop. So stay tuned for that. Fun. But there's just so many things like red carpet dresses I've worn, interview looks I've worn that I've been saving to like auction off to a charity. But then there's no charities like knocking on my door asking for stuff. And there just haven't been any events that I've been saving these for. You know what?

One day there will be a reality star hall of fame. Yes. And you can put the cro reality star hall of fame. Yes. And you can put the cropped wedding dress in it. Oh yeah, that I'm saving for that for sure. But there's just so many dresses that it's like, I wore once on a red carpet that, you know, aren't even like, it's like pretty little thing or something that aren't even that expensive

or worth like auctioning off to a charity that I just want to sell. And because you can't wear it again. Yeah, exactly. So I'm going to start a Depop soon and start selling some of those because it's not going to be realistic for me to be a size zero again. If I could be a 2'4", goals. I do have to say that breastfeeding takes the weight off.

I mean, for me it did. I'm sure everyone's body is differently. Yeah, that's what I've heard. Because I think it burns something like 500 calories a day just from breastfeeding alone. Yeah. So, and it takes 3,500 calories to burn off a pound. So that's like a pound a week pretty much. Yeah. And I have Brock who, you know, drill sergeant trainer Brock, who is going to get my ass back in shape. But if you feel like not working out and you just

want to rest, just listen to your body like oh no totally and that's what he's been so good with me like at the beginning of quarantine when we would work out together was the only time we would fight because he was just like do it and i'm like no like that's why i like working out with seth because he's patient with me but when i was working out with brock and he, I was getting quick results because I was just like, fine, you don't think I can do it? Watch me do it. Add five pounds to it. And I would like one up him.

But it's like I want a mix of the two when after baby. Yeah, a mix would be perfect. So after Brock trained us that day, he pushed me really, really hard and it felt great. And like, I'm so glad someone was able to push me that hard. But also like I hurt my leg and like my legs were so sore for a week that I couldn't work out a week afterwards. So it's like, you have to find a balance where you can, where it's like realistic to be able to keep doing that all the time. So, and he's been so good with me the last couple weeks, just like since Hawaii working out at home and he's like enjoying it. So I'm like, you know, we obviously, we don't know if it's going to be natural or C-section

until we get there. My recovery, it might take longer. You know, I might not be able to work out for a while. I might be recovering from surgery. So we'll see. But I know between him and Seth, they will definitely get me back in shape when my body's ready.

I'm in no rush. I know I say this now because I'm like perfectly plump with the belly and once it deflates, I, who knows how I'm going to feel, but I just really don't want to be self-conscious about any of this. I just want to appreciate it and know that I've created a life and whatever I look like after Brock still loves me and it's going to be okay. I look like after Brock still loves me and it's going to be okay. And I don't want to complain because I just, you know, I just want to appreciate this entire process and not be one of those girls who's like, I can't get my body back. Like I just, I don't want to be that person. So I'm saying this on the record to hold myself accountable. We will all hold you accountable. I'm not going to be that person. But anyways,

thank you guys so much for listening. Next week, we have the comeback kids from Action Park Media, Barbie Blank and Jonathan Lipnicki on the show.

We're going to have Chasen, who is on Tayshia slash Claire's season, coming on soon. I was just talking to Danny Pellegrino about doing a crossover. Also my girl Amanda from Not Skinny But Not Fat. I want to get the Summer House girls on. We have,

oh, congratulations to Hannah. She got engaged. Oh my God. Congratulations. I can't wait to double date with them. He seems hilarious. He seems so funny. I love it. Yes. Congratulations. Yes. So happy to see that. Yeah. A lot of fun guests coming up and then probably around time of baby, we may take a couple of weeks off depending on, you know, C-section natural, how much she cries a couple of weeks from the podcast. I think why don't we like stockpile a couple? Yeah, we can do that too. Yeah. So we don't have to take a break. Leave people hanging. Yeah. And you know, hopefully we don't have to take a break let's not leave people hanging yeah and you know hopefully we'll be able to do

like one from home like a quick one but just I'll bring your equipment into the hospital room do you have it yeah so a lot of fun

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