Scheananigans with Scheana Shay - What Really Happened with Janet?!

Episode Date: August 20, 2021

Scheana’s former co-host, Janet Elizabeth, is back on the podcast for the first time in years! The girls cover a ton of topics and catch up on what’s been going on in their lives since their fallout. Speaking of fallout… Scheana and Janet finally discuss what ended their friendship two years ago and hash out all the details on air. Janet also talks about her new job, how she started dating her boyfriend and some of her favorite memories with Scheana. It’s time for another fun Drinking and Podcasting episode, tune in now! Follow us: @scheananigans @scheana @janetelizabethxSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Vanderpump Rules to Vegas and everywhere in between, it's time to party with Sheena Shea. This is Shenanigans, and now here's your host, Sheena Shea. What's up, everyone? So a few weeks ago, Jamie and I teased that we were going to have a special guest co-host on the episode. That episode is today. This person has been on my podcast more than any other guest. I know Nima likes to think that he holds that, you know, most interviewed guest or whatever you want to call it on my show. And he is. However, my old co-host Janet Elizabeth X is back. Hey! Welcome back. Thanks for having me. I'm so excited to be back.

I know. I'm excited you're here. It's been a hot minute or two years, whichever way you want to look at it. Two years, I think, since I co-hosted the last episode I was on. Yeah. Crazy. Do you remember who the last guest was? I was trying to think about this. I feel like we had Spencer and Heidi on one who the last guest was i was trying to think about this i feel like we had spencer and heidi on one of the last ones oh my god and that was a while yeah or heather debrow i can't remember the exact order i took my highlights down so i can't go reference it but it was uh one of those i think um but we did a good chunk of episodes together there were like so many memorable people yeah and guests on it and fun times and like i love the new setup now thanks yeah we got our home office here we've got the it's all happening banner behind us neon sign i love it

yeah so this is our home for now like i said we are switching companies and i feel like i keep saying that every week but it it's going to happen soon. But regardless, you guys are getting a podcast, so I don't think you really care who I'm with. I'm so excited. So much has happened. So much has happened. We're doing a drinking and podcasting episode, which I haven't done in a hot minute. We're drinking this amazing wine called Avaline.

Yes. So before we get into everyone's burning questions, tell me about this wine because this is what you're doing for work now. I work for Avaline. Yes. So before we get into everyone's burning questions, tell me about this wine, because this is what you're doing for work now. I work for Avaline. It's great. If you haven't heard of our wines, it's a brand co-founded by Cameron Diaz and Catherine Power. Most people know who Cameron is. Catherine is the CEO of Who What Wear versus Skincare Merit and a bunch of other stuff. She's a total boss. She's awesome.

She's the only person I think I'm like super intimidated by still in LA when, you know, whenever I hear her name and everything, I like sit up straight, even if she's not around. Yeah. But it's a wine that they started in July of 2020. So I came on shortly after they started the brand and it's a clean wine it's made with organic grapes zero added sugar colors concentrates like the our ingredients are on the back of the label it's so good our ingredients are on the back of the label which most wines don't have and if they did you wouldn't be able to read the label it has like a bunch of other like 70 other additives

that can be added to wine to keep like color consistent and other things that you maybe don't want in your body. And if you've listened to me on the podcast way back when, you know that I'm like a diet Coke junkie. I love McDonald's. So like to go to a clean wine brand for me, I'm like a lot of our consumers are people who only have organic consumables in their system. For me, I'm like, I will never find a replacement for chicken nuggets and a Big Mac. But something like wine that I drink every day or almost every day,

if I have a glass of wine with dinner every night, if it's something that tastes good and I can't tell the difference between, you know, any other wine brand that has all the bad stuff in it and the taste of this, then I'm going to go with something that's a little better for me. So I try to replace now, like, you know, we're all about sustainability and organic farming. And I've, I've learned so much. I feel like about the planet and my body just from working for Maveline. But for me, I'm never going to fully, I'm never going to be vegan, which our wine is, or like 100% organic. But if I can find a replacement for something that is better for me that I can't tell the difference.

I'm like I can't tell the difference between like this red wine to me, which is what I normally drink. I know you like the rosé. And I love the white one too. Yes. I've tried that one. I have that in my San Diego fridge. It's so good. So for me, I'm like I'm always going to be a wine drinker, I think. And if I can find something that I just

taste as good or better and isn't as bad for me or doesn't have all these other additives and added sugar and things like that, I'll make a swap for that. Nothing is going to replace my chicken nuggets or any of that stuff. but like the little swaps I can make in life like this is one of them no totally and it's so good because I obviously didn't drink for like a year I was pregnant and then one of the first things I wanted to drink actually the first thing I wanted to drink was a glass of rosé and I will tell you I've had like five different rosés before this one that I was like maybe I wasn't craving rosé my pregnancy maybe I didn't want that there was this one that was such a cute bottle it was

like very like palm springs looking it was by whispering angel I think it might have even been called like the palm or something I think I know what you're talking about super cute bottle and I tried it and I was like is this bottle bad like has this been out in the heat of Palm Springs? Yeah. Because I had tried that same kind at Sur one night and I loved it. So I don't know if I just got like an off bottle or my taste buds were just different. And then I'm like, okay, I just go to my usual one that Nima got me hooked on years ago. The like Cote de Rose, whatever. Yes. The one that has like the flower on the bottom of the bottle. So I'm like I'm just gonna stick with what I know I like and that's the only one I've drank

for the last three months that I've had a drink until Aveline. Yeah and even Nima I sent him some Aveline. He was like this is good I'm gonna post it. I was like yes. I know and he's the little rosé snom. King of rosé. Yes. When I was like nervous when I poured him a glass I was like please like it please like it. Yeah. No this is actually good. He's like, I can, he was like holding the glass up. He's like, I can tell from the color. He was like, if the rosé is too dark, I know that it's going to be bad. He's like, your color's on point. This is great. I was like, yes, the king of rosé likes my wine or our wine. Yeah. I always say it's my wine because I just love it so much but no it's so good so

cheers cheers we are we are back we're drinking and podcasting oh so much to get into i know i feel like i'm like in the last two years since i've been on so much has happened first of all wait do you have a baby or something yeah yeah crazy i know it's like summer is so cute it's been so great to meet her she's such a doll she's such a happy little baby she really is like when you smile at her she smiles back and then you're like oh my god you smiled at me it just melts my heart I love it in the morning when she wakes up like she'll like kind of be like like get this wet nappy off me and then you do and then she just looks at you smile oh she's such a good baby the

last time i was over here i was here for a couple hours and she was just perfect and so content and just happy and then i think she got like not fussy even she was just kind of like moving around a little bit and you're like i think she probably is wet yeah like changed her and then right back to being like the most content yeah it's just like i mean imagine you know if you're sitting in wet underwear you're just like kicking, you're like, get this off me. And then she's like, oh, okay, I'm good now. But she was like, like somebody maybe changed me

or something, I don't know. It was so cute. Yeah, like, okay, you had a baby. I had a baby. You got engaged. Yes. Oh my gosh, the ring. Yes.

I just got it cleaned today. I stopped by Kyle Chan's. I was craving a salad from Toast. I haven't eaten there in like two years and I got M-Sculpt today. Ooh, by Kyle Chan's. I was craving a salad from toast. I haven't eaten there in like two years. And I got, um, M sculpt today, which I do that. Yeah. I just started it two weeks ago. I'm going to elite aesthetics on a lost Yannick. Okay. Right there in Vijo around the corner from your old apartment. Oh yeah. Yeah. So it's been amazing. I'm like, they say you don't see results until like so many weeks after your fourth treatment. But I'm like, well, between doing this, the workouts I'm doing and eating pasta,

I've somehow lost an inch and a half in my waist and I've lost a few more pounds. I want to try that. I keep seeing it on Instagram. I remember I've walked past that place a million times. I just started doing Botox again. It was almost three years. Oh my God. Raise your eyebrows. I was like, okay, here's the thing. I'm so glad we're not filming this because I swear I have angry eyebrows when I raise them a little bit. But the interior of my eyebrows kind of stay down.

And so when I raise them, instead of looking excited, I think I look a little angry. I was making faces at summer earlier and she was smiling, smiling. And I raised my eyebrows and she made a frown. And I like, no, no, no, no. These aren't angry eyebrows. It's just a little bit of my Botox. I got like the tiniest bit of Botox recently. Cause I was like, there was this one little line I wanted to get rid of. I know the feeling. I have them. Your face looks great though. Look at this line. You don't have, they're not set in though. Cause you did so much preventative but 10 years of preventative definitely has helped because as long as i am breastfeeding i absolutely will not get

botox there is not enough research done even if one doctor says it's okay the plastic surgeon who does my botox he said absolutely not he's like if any trace of botox did transfer into your breast milk it is a toxin. Like there's no point to chance it. It's not like I medically need it and I have terrible migraines and I'm miserable. It's like, no, it's purely cosmetic. And you know what? If I get some wrinkles because of my mom now, then fucking so be it.

Also, it's kind of good. Like for me, I didn't do any Botox. I did Botox and fillers from the time I was like 21 or 22 on, like right before I got married, I was started doing like a Botox filler on the regular every three months. Yeah. And until I moved to LA and I started doing it here. And then right before COVID, I was like, I kind of want to see, I was like, I've been doing this for like seven years and I actually don't know what my face looks like anymore without it or how my face moves or where my wrinkles are.

And I was like, that's silly. Like I should actually back off. And so it was pre COVID. I was like, I'm going to take like six months off or a year off, see where my face moves. And then I'll go back in once my face is fully like moving again and I can lift my eyebrows and see where I actually need it. And then COVID hit. And I was like, I was like, I can't. Yeah, I was like, I can't get anything done. And you can only go to the doctor if you're like, half COVID or sick. So I was like, okay. And then like, I was like, this will be over in like three months and I'll get it. And then it was like, Oh, yeah, I thought it was like, gonna be a two week vacay in Palm Springs. Oh my gosh, I go back to my stories from them. And I'm like, quarantine day one,

quarantine day four. And then finally, after like two weeks, I was like, all right, I'm like quarantine day one quarantine day four and then finally after like two weeks I was like all right I'm gonna stop counting because this is never going to end no that's what like I had just started vlogging last year like right before the pandemic hit and I remember I was like okay so we'll do a two-part quarantine series it'll be like day one to 14 you're like I only need two episodes yeah this will be a six week like max it turned into four months living in Palm Springs which then i was like why the fuck am i paying 4 500 a month for my apartment in marina del rey 20 grand i spent for a storage unit oh man i was just like okay my lease is up i renewed a month i renewed a month i was like okay filming's not picking back up like it's time to just get out pretty serious by then yeah so by then we had by the time my lease was up we had just had the miscarriage

so we were very serious in it for good his lease was up that I was like why don't we just go to San Diego and get a place together like I I'm not filming anytime soon. The restaurant isn't opening anytime soon. I don't even know if I'm going back to the restaurant when it does open. It had been so long at that point. Filming took its longest hiatus ever. Yeah. It was about two years. Yeah. Which is crazy. Wild. So you guys didn't even know if you guys were going to come back or no, we had no idea. We didn't know anything. So I'm like, I had to figure out another way to make income, you know, like Instagram, we had no idea. We didn't know anything. So I'm like, I had to figure out another way to make income. You know, like Instagram,

there were no jobs. There were no people advertising on my podcast. So my podcast was no longer at Podcast One because they weren't making money from the show. Yeah, or filming. Like we used to go into the studio there. I'm sure that they weren't doing that at all. So it was just like,

they dropped half of their shows and they're like, this is nothing personal whatsoever. We love you. We will give you everything you need to get to another company and that's when I went to um Action Park Media and that was great for the past year but then you know when the year is up it's like do I want to continue this do I want to expand and go somewhere else and the company that I'm moving to I have several friends who are also there and it just seems like the better fit for the long run.

Yep. So I'm really- I think I know where you're going. Yeah, you definitely do. And I'm excited because I know some other podcasts on that network and I'm really excited. Yeah, they have some huge podcasts. So I'm really, really excited for this new move.

I'm happy for you. Congratulations. Yeah, thanks. We'll have to do another one even after this. Yes. I'm inviting for you. Congratulations. Thanks. We'll have to do another one even after this. Yes. I'm inviting myself back already. Oh, totally. No, I mean, people, every time I ask for podcast questions, there's always, even if it's just one, but there's always the one. What happened to Janet? Where is she? Shall we get into it? Let's get into it. Okay. We obviously had a falling out, Sheena and I, for, it lasted way longer than it should have.

And I'm going to blame it on COVID. But I'll say this. We were inseparable for three years. You were my first friend in LA that I, of people I didn't know. I knew a couple of people when I moved out here from high school and stuff like that. But you were my first friend in LA. When my first weekend here, I moved out here, um, July 28th of 2017. And my birthday was July 31st of 2017. But that I remember like my second day here, you were like,

Oh my God, your birthday's this weekend. Or like, it was like on a Thursday. Yeah. You're like, what are you doing for it? And I was like, nothing. It's on a Thursday. Cause in Ohio, like if your birthday's on a Thursday, you go to Olive Garden with your family and like that's it which is not bad not bad but like that's you know that's your Nima and then very anti-Olive Garden oh my gosh I know get over it Nima go to Olive Garden but and you were like in LA if your birthday it doesn't matter what day of the week your birthday is you have a huge thing and it's like you know you have like a theme party and whatever and you're like you're what do you mean you're not doing anything your birthday and I was like I don't know it's on a Thursday and you were like fuck that I'm taking you to Disneyland yeah and you took me to Disneyland

you paid for everything you made me wear a big button on my shirt that said it's my birthday like wish me happy birthday then all day everyone wishes you a happy birthday every ride every people we pass happy birthday yeah and I was like oh my god this is so fun and so yeah I think um so we had a falling out but I will say before that it was three years of us being single girls together for the most part like a couple you know a couple guys in that but like they're not important now but like we were together pretty much every day for three years totally traveled literally thousands of miles together like all over the United States like we've been to like Utah Nashville Hawaii we went to Utah yeah oh my god Sundance yeah that's right um I mean so many other places New

Zealand Australia like literally all over the world did we ever do New York or Atlanta together I don't think we did New York no we didn't do New York I remember when you went Atlanta, cause it was like one of the trips you did without me and I couldn't go. And I was like, well, you're going to be gone for four days. What am I going to do? What are we going to do? Do I stay at your place with the cats? Like whatever. But we spent like three years pretty much almost living together. Like I can't, countless times I slept over at Marina Del Rey. I felt like it was my own place. If you were gone, I stayed with the cats to make myself feel have a break or need a break. And for me, like, you know, we got into it. I think we both had reasons to be upset with each other. And for me, we needed a break and COVID made that break extra long and that sucked. But,

you know, it was one of those things where I think we both needed a break from each other. And once, you know, things happened and we both took time away from each other, it makes you, especially when it happened during COVID, it made me realize like you look back and you think like, is this really that important? And our friendship that we had for those three years, like now when I look back, I'm like, our time apart was like a blip on the radar.

And I look back to now the three years before that, and I'm like, that's what's most important. The Disneyland days, the travels. And I look back to now the three years before that and I'm like, that's what's most important. The Disneyland days, the travels. Australia, New Zealand. Jumping off of, when you forced me to jump off a building

in New Zealand. I didn't push you off the building. You all but pushed me. I suggested it would be fun. I said, I got up to the top of the building

and I was like, actually I changed my mind. I'm turning around and you're like, no, you're not going down the elevator. And I was like, I think I'm going to go

down the elevator and then the guy who was instructing the building fall literally pushed me off yeah and gave me the worst photos that I have of myself ever which you should throw oh my god we need to post those it's like first of all I got to the bottom of this thing and they take like they have gopros all over you and like all over the thing and we got to the bottom of this whatever the jump and we went inside all three of us Courtney Berman too was there we went inside and you and Courtney had both skydived before so all of your photos are these cute like I didn't skydive that was still

on my bucket list but I had jumped off the stratosphere and like other buildings before so I I knew you guys knew how to jump off buildings and look pretty yeah I did not and I was terrified the entire time so we get to the bottom and one of the angle of the video the like closest one they didn't even put mine up because I think it was so unattractive that they were like we don't want this linked with our company we don't want to scare people off from jumping but like you guys looked like Beyonce actually jumped off the building that we did and she's like giggling the whole time she has her Beyonce wind in the hair she looks fabulous you guys look like that I look like I'm having somebody rip my toenails out of my

body being tortured like the most horrible photos actually so much so that like Jamie, Courtney, a handful of our other friends have framed, made fridge magnets. Oh yeah. I had a magnet in Palm Springs. Like literally have these pictures of me. I'm screaming, not a pretty scream. It's like the Kim Kardashian cry face. Oh yeah.

But worse. Worse. And my limbs are somehow all like bent in, in half but they're like no but you looked like fucking Gumby or like the from the Incredibles the Elastigirl that's what you looked like it's my arms are bending in a way that should not be possible I don't know what was happening there it was I swear it was the it had to be the outfit like the way the wind was blowing it up because your arms looked real weird really It was really, really bad. So much so that my friends literally, like I have a framed picture in my bathroom, I

think that Jamie gave me, like literally blown up to be like, I don't know, 16 by 20 framed of me in that, that people are like, ha ha, I got you this for your birthday. And I'm like, thank you. Thank you for making me relive this crazy, horribly ugly face that I did where my body looks contorted but oh good times but yes okay so back to it we yes we didn't talk we got into it yeah there were I mean there were a few different things I think overall they were more petty things they were things that wouldn't necessarily require a full falling out but it was just like a lot of little things that finally one day I just was like fuck you

I'm done and I blocked you and I forgot about that I genuinely forgot that I blocked you it was right at the beginning of COVID I remember calling Nima and I was like Janet I was like bitching at him and I was like fuck this and then And then about a month and a half later, I had the miscarriage. And I just assumed, you know, like that's one of those things, those big life things that happens when anyone you've had a falling out with or whatever, they reach out. They have a chance to reach out. You didn't know I was blocked. So when I heard about this, first of all, I didn't see it. Your phone number wasn't, but. I did. But this is my thing. When somebody blocks you from Instagram, it's a

line that says, do not cross. Right. Do not fucking contact me. Don't contact me. And, um, and we were, you know, and I, I thought about it many times. I typed up many things. I didn't know if my phone number was blocked or not. And I also didn't want to find out like the idea of sending a text and it came green or, you know, didn't say delivered or whatever that would have broken me. So, you know, now I will say like, I have my utmost condolences for your experience. I know it was like the hardest, you know, I can't, I can't imagine what you went through. I've, I haven't been there and so I can't, you know, speak on it, but you know, I am so sorry for your experience. And I would say if our falling out would have happened a little bit later or a little bit differently, I know I would have been right there with you in Palm Springs.

You would have driven out there in a heartbeat. I would have, I would have already been out there with you, I think, but either way, yes, I would have driven out there. I would have been there for you. And you know, that was like, one of my biggest regrets of us having a falling out was when I heard about this, cause I don't even think I heard about it for a little while. I heard from somebody else and I was like, she, what? I was like, she had a miscarriage. And I was like, she wasn't trying to get pregnant. I don't think I was like, what do you mean? No, I wasn't. And, and I was like, no, no, no. And then I like looked it up online and I was like, oh my gosh. And I was like, and I typed up many times, like, should I say something? And then I went back to like, she blocked me.

She doesn't want to hear from me right now. And, you know, I, my biggest regret is like, I, you know, wish I could go back and be there for you. Cause like we were so close. I know I would have been a shoulder to cry on and listened and talk to you through it. And I'm really sorry I wasn't there for you during that time. Cause I know it's, I can't imagine what that's like to go through and I hope I don't, but it happens to so many. I wouldn't wish that upon anyone. Yeah. And I know it happens to so many women and it's

unfortunately so much of a part of like getting pregnant, but you know, that's, it's crazy how common it is. Like literally I didn't know it was one in four and it's just like it's the worst thing ever yeah and it made like my whole pregnancy hard to enjoy yeah like there was there was there were a few days that like when I would be at the doctor and they would tell me like all the genetics came back okay and I would hear her heartbeat I'm like oh okay I'm so excited but the majority of days of my entire pregnancy like those 10 months you're pregnant, I wasn't excited because I kept thinking something's going to be wrong. And I didn't feel her in my belly until I was 22 weeks, five days.

That was the first time I felt her. So over half my pregnancy, I never felt her. Every day, I didn't know if she was okay until I had that one appointment. And then you'd feel good for like a day after that appointment and then you'd wonder if something happened. Yeah, I can't imagine it. And now seeing you as a mom is like the most wonderful thing in the entire world. Like you and Summer are such a vibe.

She's my little mini. She's so adorable. And like seeing you as a mom, I see you as a totally, you know, not different person, but I feel like not many people know Sheena as like her true self. Like, you know, you see an edited version on TV and that's true. Yeah. But like, you know, it's not. It's just such a small portion.

It's a snippet. Yeah. Especially last season. Boy crazy Sheena. Like, God, there's just so much more to me. boy crazy Sheena like god there's just so much more to me and that was you know that was um you know a case where yeah you were boy crazy in a little point of your life but I think that there when I bonded over both being boy crazy it was that that you I thought were the person I was like you know when they say a season a reason or a lifetime I was like Janet was in my life for my

single season like that's that's that was her in my life. I'm here for the life single season, but now we know. Yeah. Yeah. No, I think, um, now seeing you as a mom is like, I feel like I'm seeing you in your truest, most to the core form. I feel like most people didn't see you. Like when we would go to your parents' house and just lounge by the pool and just see the non-drama moments, the off TV moments, the, the like really, I think who you are, who you grew up as. And now seeing you with your daughter, I feel like I see that every single time I see you now, I feel like you're more to your core and roots than ever before. And I'm so proud of you. I'm so happy for you. Like, it's just truly a beautiful thing to see. And I can't wait to have one and ask you a million questions.

I know. I'm not pregnant, by the way. I have all the answers. That's the thing. I do feel like I am so overly educated on everything pregnancy, fertility, because I went through the freezing eggs process twice. I've been pregnant twice. We went through the freezing eggs process.

Yes, we did. I still get one of your eggs, right? There's 16. There's still 16. Yeah. So yeah, it's like I feel like I'm so overly educated on so many baby products. I worked with this amazing company, which when it's time for you, I will put you in touch with them, called the Goo Goo Guru.

I just set Pandora up with them. Oh yeah, she's pregnant. Yeah. They are this amazing concierge service where they tell you like everything you do and don't need what's baby safe. What's not what, like it was just such a lifesaver. Like these women are so amazing. I can't shout them out enough. I was just to say right before we started recording today, um, Erica, your mom is here. She's the sweetest Nana, Nana, Nana. Yeah,

she would have been Nana. But that was her grandma. And then my dad's Opa, but my mom's not Dutch. And so she wouldn't be an Oma. Because then I was like, No, my dad's mom was Oma. And so we went with Nana. I like Nana. But right before we started recording, summer was taking a nap, and she woke up a little bit and you gave her milk and you went into the fridge, breast milk, and you had, I learned something new today. You were like, oh, I have like four ounces of this one and three ounces of this one, but this one's night milk, so we probably shouldn't give it to her. And I was like, night milk? Yeah. What is night milk?

You're like, well, your body naturally produces melatonin when you pump at night. I never knew that. Yeah. It made me realize, like, I feel like every time I, like, am around a baby, I'm like, wait, what is that? Yeah. What do you do? And so that was something I was like,

I didn't know there was a difference between daytime milk and nighttime milk until today. And so I'm definitely, when I get pregnant, which will hopefully be, like, in a year or so. I'm not now. We're drinking and podcasting. Yes, we are. But I hope that's something I can ask you about because I'm going to need all of the baby

advice. I'm learning the more I'm around babies, the more I'm realizing I know nothing. Yeah. Oh, dude. And that's the thing. I knew nothing. And so I had, um, my friend Jessica Hall and then my girlfriend Stephanie down in San Diego, they had both separately told me about Goo Goo Guru and I was like okay I've heard about this now from two completely different people in my life I'm gonna reach out yeah and I worked with a woman named Abby there and it was just like what and she has she either has one or two sets of twins but oh my gosh she is super mom and twins is like a whole nother thing. Yeah. So she had like just gone through,

we did a whole, I did a vlog about it too. It was like my like baby product haul. And she just like went through like the difference of what car seats and strollers and like, well, this one does this, but this one also does this, but it doesn't do that.

And it was just like such a lifesaver. So I highly recommend them. Yeah. that and it was just like such a lifesaver so I highly recommend them yeah no it was amazing but she I think single-handedly taught me so much about being a mom in 2021 because like I mean my mom was the most amazing mom ever she raised me in the fucking 80s and 90s things are a little different now that's when you put like rum on your baby's teeth when they're oh yeah and like so many other weird yeah like i wouldn't know that you're not supposed to use baby powder nowadays but like you're not supposed to use baby powder really yeah i still don't even know the exact reason why i don't know if it's something like maybe they breathe it in or

whatever but there's just like so many little things that our parents did with us and i mean we're all okay thank god for modern technology yeah, there's just so many little things. I'm like, well, shit, I did not know that. And even this is one thing that I'm still like, you guys don't hate on me just because I say I'm thankful for the sometimes of it. But the trolls who educate me, they're not trolls. There are trolls and then there are followers who-

But people who say like, you shouldn't be. Yeah, so there's like the people like that that troll me while trying to educate me and that I don't appreciate but the people who reach out and they're like hey just so you know like this type of seat or you know doing this like there's been some things like oh for one example I was eating papaya in like my second trimester and I guess that's one thing that can lead to like preterm labor. Oh, and I had just posted our like fruit bowls.

I was like back from our baby moon, making our like Hawaiian things at home. And someone messaged me and they're like, Hey, just so you know, like I found out and I was like, Oh my God. And then I looked it up.

I'm like, thank you so much. So like for that, I'm so thankful that we do have this big public platform that people are able to reach out to us. It's just the trolls. And they're like, Oh,

like, you know, I just pierced her ears. I'm sure people had their opinions about that i don't give a fuck right but if someone was like hey just so you know like it's not smart to go to claire's because the ear piercing gun da da da that i would appreciate that there's a way to reach out and there's a way not to reach out and the way of like you shouldn't be whatever is not the way to do it especially like everybody has their opinions. Yeah. But like let people raise their children how they want.

Don't judge. And if you have an opinion, say, hey, did you know? Yeah. Like instead of being like, you shouldn't be this. You know, I appreciate the people who do give me that research because. Especially with like, you know, I don't like to get into it too much, but with like COVID and certain things, I prefer to get more of my information from educated people than to just get in our fucking rabbit hole google watching the news like all of that it's like i would rather speak to

people who know what the fuck is up i trust doctors and scientists and people like that and you know covid has made a time where we're talking about vaccines now more than ever and i think it's actually made a whole population of people who have always just gone to the doctor and gotten, you know, their vaccines without thinking of it. They're like, what's in this? And it's like, for me, I'm like, there's things I know better than anybody. Medical stuff, science is not one of them. I don't know shit about science. But I know that I can trust and I can look up my research and I can trust my doctors. And I'm like,

that's for me, that's it. Also like not to be a Debbie Downer, but my dad passed away from COVID in November of 2020. And after that, before, to be honest, before that happened, I was like, you know, going out a little bit, even when things were really, really restrictive and like, it was like literally quarantine. I was still like meeting up with friends and doing game nights. And I was a super social person before quarantine and COVID happened. It was really hard to like fully shut down my social life and not be a social animal. It made me like depressed. And so I kept, you know, going out and having game nights or doing like house parties and little things like that.

Then when you like lose a parent to something, it becomes real and in your life and in your face. And for me, like losing my dad to COVID, he was in poor health. He didn't believe in masks and, you know, he was very much against, you know, the vaccine wasn't out yet, but I'm sure he would have been anti-vax if he was alive during it. But seeing him die from COVID and he was fine on a Thursday, dead on a Sunday, it changed my whole perspective of it. From then on, as soon as I lost my dad, I went home. I was with my family.

We didn't have any sort of funeral or arrangements because we couldn't, you know, we had to like cremate him and just literally spend time in the backyard with my mom and like my brother. And that was like our service. But like when I came back to LA after that, I was like, people would be like, Oh, do you want to do like a game night? And I'm like, I can't, I don't want to take the chance of getting COVID. This is serious. People are dying from this. And it's naive of me to look back and think I didn't think that before. And I was still going out. But I kept thinking like, I'm young, I'm healthy, I'm fine. Right? It's not gonna happen to me. And then after I lost my dad to it, I was like, No, I could pick this up at a game night with my friends and then go to the

grocery store and spread it to somebody that then dies from it. And it became very, very real to me. And I was like, I, I can't take this chance. Like it put it all in my face in a way that I, I wasn't ready for. I didn't want, I, you know, still don't want, but it, it woke me up to a way where I was like, I need to take this seriously. This is a virus that's spreading throughout the world and taking so many parents and grandparents and children and brothers, sisters, everything away from people. And once I lost my dad to it, I was like, I can't be the cause of somebody else losing a family member or a friend to this. And so from then on, I really quarantined like hard,

like I didn't do anything. And that actually like, not that I'm grateful. I'm not grateful for COVID like fuck COVID. It's, you know, the worst thing that I think that's ever happened to the, not the worst thing that's ever happened in the world, but one of the worst things that's ever happened to me and the world and everything around us. But it made me realize what's important in life. It made me stay home and realize like the little things are so actually happy and important. Like being a home body was something I never thought I would do. And I actually like took joy in staying home all the time and being home all the time and not being so social and like taking a breath from the world.

It also like getting back to like our rekindling of our friendship after losing my dad, which I'm so grateful you reached out. You sent me a very kind text when you, when after losing my dad which I'm so grateful you reached out you sent me a very kind text when you lost when I lost my dad and that meant a lot to me it made me realize like there was a lot of stuff that like you know petty drama or petty bullshit that I had going on in my life before all of that and when you lose somebody that's really close to you it makes you it almost like hits you in the face with life and And it makes you realize like life is short. Any time something can come along and kill somebody, like wipe them out. Yeah.

And so what's important to you in life, you have to take on like headfirst right now. So like that was a thing, you know, when I lost my dad, that was a couple months went by when I was really angry and I was going through all this grief. Of course, that's so natural to feel that way. Angry, sad. Like I went through all the stages of grief. And then kind of after a few months where I, especially being home all the time and just like, you know, cooking on my own and just being like sober in my life, just, you know, taking a step back from everything from social life, it made me realize what was important. And that was one of the things I feel like that brought me back to you was me being like, you know what, this like petty drama that we have that we're not talking over, you know, you took the

first step definitely. And reaching out to me and saying, I'm really sorry. Like I heard about your dad and I'm, I'm like, I'm really sorry. And if you need anything, I'm here for you. And like, always like, you know, no matter what's happened, I'll always be there for you that should matter yeah and when you sent that it was still right after you died when I was still like processing and angry but when I took a couple months off from life and took a step back and really looked at everything that was important to me one of the things I realized is like all this drama doesn't matter this is petty and this is a blip on the radar like in life or like a tiny like hill that's we're gonna pass and I was like looking back and I'm like Sheena was my friend for my first friend in LA who was there for me on my

birthday and you know we did all these other travels and all these other important things that we spent every day together for three years so when we hadn't, when months had gone by that we hadn't talked and that, you know, so much time had passed, that was when, you know, once I came to realize like what was important, that's when I then reached out to you and said like, this is stupid and I miss you. And I'm sorry for everything that's happened. And I'm sorry so much time has gone by and like, we should talk. And like, I think it was right when you guys started filming again I was like once you guys are done filming because that's a convenient timing Janet but I was like once this is all once you're done with filming yeah things calm down again because filming is always just

like such a crazy time and like new messy and new season yeah Just so much was going on. I was like, but once all that's over, let's talk. Like once the cameras are down and you're settled in back in LA with the baby and all of this, let's talk and like really get through this. I can't say like what would have happened? What if, but like if my dad hadn't died, I don't think, I think there would be a lot of petty problems I would still have in my life that now because I lost somebody and I realized how short life is and what the important things are, I kind of came back to what's important to me and what friendships actually matter and who's gone through the hard days with me. We went through our divorces together. Literally. It's wild.

That's how we bonded. And now we live with boys again. I know. Like what's that like? Let's talk about your, he's not a boy. He is a man. He's a man. Jason's the best. He's a smart lawyer man.

Yeah. Jason and I just bought a house together. I know. Congratulations. How awesome does it feel to buy your first home? It feels so good to be able to put up wallpaper or whatever I want or like paint a wall or like even just like bump into a wall and like put a hole in it and be like, it's cool. It's mine.

I own the place. Yeah. But like, yeah, like so much has happened. But like, yeah, I feel like we're in such, it's funny. Like we went, we have gone through stages of life together. And even if we took like a break, we're both like kind of in the same stage again, where like, you know, you and Brock are a family now. Jason and I just bought a house and are like getting to that next stuff. And it's crazy. Yeah. But you're already talking those next steps. So it's like, we are on that same path and like page again.

Yeah. We went through our divorce together. we went through our single girl phase together that was honestly I look back and like I'm so happy we did that I'm so thankful for those slutty years same well so like if we weren't man eaters in that time yeah would we be happy now I don't think so no that's the thing it was like I mean I was very single from like 20 to 25 and then like Shay and I ran into each other in Vegas and then we started dating. And then we got married, got divorced, I got with Rob. And then it was like, okay, I'm 33 and single. Like, what the fuck do I do?

Or I was 32. I don't know, whatever. You hang out with Janet. You go out every single night. You hit the town. You have girl sleepovers. It was the best. You talk about boys.

You hate boys. You love boys. Yeah. We literally went through all of it together. And like, I can't imagine now one I'm being single again I just couldn't know we could never especially like oh my god my heart goes out to all the single people in the pandemic because I could not imagine we would have gone crazy yeah I don't know oh my god if I couldn't annoy Jason every day during the

pandemic I don't know what I would have done yeah Yeah. Like I'm like, would I have stayed in Marina Del Rey? Would I have just gone to Palm Springs by myself with my sister and her boyfriend? Like what would I have done? And like, thank God now, like, you know, if we're back, like in that kind of same thing where we have our men to go home to and like a normal schedule and life and all of that. And you know what, to all the single girls out there, if we can do it, you can do it. You can do it. You can do it without a dating app. We did it without dating apps. And I honestly never thought after I got divorced, I'm sure you went through the same thing where I thought like, I don't ever want to do that again. Like I don't, I don't want to get into a long-term serious relationship again. I'm going to date and have

fun and be a single girl forever. And then like a couple of years go by and then stuff happens. I actually owe my meeting of Jason to you. I would have never met Jason if it weren't for you. Yeah. Like the, we met. So when one of our first, like, within the first, like, month or two of us going out, we went to Sur with Brad and a bunch of people. Uh-huh. And Brad was friends with Jason, and you already knew him then. Yeah. And then that sort of, like, introduced us.

Jason and I were friends for, like, two years, almost three years before we started dating. And I also never thought I would end up with Jason. He was, like, my goofy friend Jason. I never end up with Jason I he was like my goofy friend Jason I never was always a guy like the nicest human you've ever met in your entire life always like when I was single I I never saw him like that and when I had single girlfriends I'd be like you should hook up with Jason he's yeah he has a real job he's really hot like right he's super nice he's like not like you, a jerk. He's not a fuck boy. Like you should go out with him. And then I remember like when I was single

on my 30th birthday in Tulum, I'd broken up with my actor boyfriend who was like living off of me for a very long time. And I went to Tulum with a bunch of my girlfriends that I grew up with. And they were like, I was like, you guys, I've been on apps. I've done everything. I've gone on dates. I hate everyone. I'm going to end up alone. I'm going to be the old maid and you guys are going to have to take care of me and invite me to Thanksgiving when I'm 60, because I'm going to be alone. And they were like, you have to have like a single guy friend that you haven't looked at maybe in that way. And I was like, Oh, I was like, I don't think so and right at the as that happened Jason DM'd me no and said like your Tulum trip looks amazing you're gonna have to give me like

all your tips and your back I want to take the same trip and I was like four coronas deep at like a wait a second and I like pulled up his profile and I was like you guys do you think this guy's cute and they're like oh yeah they're like what he's single and I was like yeah they're like dm him right now and ask him out and I was like oh I was like I don't do that but okay and I like dm'd him back and I was like we should go out sometime and Jason he's like a little bit of a ditz we should tell the lion story oh my god yes he was like he was like what do you mean we should go out sometime we go out together all the time and I was like oh my god you have to spell it out I was like you know like we should go out sometime? We go out together all the time. And I was like, oh. Oh, my God. You have to spell it out for you. I was like, you know, like, we should go out, go out.

Go out, out. And he was like, oh, you wanted me to take you on a date when you're back? And I was like, yes. And he was like, okay, great. When are you back? And he, like, totally followed up, took me on the date, and we've, like, been together ever since. Where was your first date?

Our first, like, non-official datefficial date, but like where he asked me out. Yeah. And this is a funny story. He asked me, it was like this salon that he had been going to for a while. That's like a trendy West Hollywood salon. They were doing like a grand reopening. And so they had like, you know, like a full bar and it was catered and, you know, past free food and free drinks basically.

And he was invited because he was- He never turned down free food and free drinks basically. And he was invited because he was in God's house forever. He never turned down free food and free drinks. Never. Never. I love a good appetizer and free drink. And so he was like, do you want to come with me? When I got back, we hadn't talked like since our, my Corona conversation where I was like, ask me out.

And so he, when I got back was like, hey, do you, I'm going to this. And it was like something he would have asked me to when we were friends he's like I'm going to this salon reopening there's like it's like catered and there's an open bar do you want to open bar what yeah and I was like up I was like yeah but I was like wait is this the date or is he just at like is this just like you just forget about what I asked him and he's just asking me as a friend to go on this thing. Yeah. And so I invited Leo and Logan, Lala's gusbands. Yeah. I was like, you guys, who also knew Jason. I was like, come with me to this event.

I can't tell if Jason's asking me as a date or as a friend because we're friends. But he asked me this thing. Either way, there's free food and drinks. So you guys will have fun. Right. I was like, come with me to the thing. And if he seems like he's into me, you can leave. And we walked in.

You can be dismissed. You're dismissed. And we walked in. And Jason, like, just seemed extra flirty. He, like, kissed me on the cheek or something, which he had never done before. And was like, it's so good to see you. You look great. Like, complimented me.

And Leo and Logan were like, he's into you. We're leaving. We'll meet you at the bar. Bye. And, like, that was our first, guess like first time yeah um and then I think he took me to he took me to a really nice restaurant in uh West Hollywood Angler that's like I never heard of that did it survive the pandemic it's in the Beverly Center and it their other location is in uh San Francisco and it's a Michelin star restaurant and so he took me there and it was so fancy.

I was like, I don't eat any of this stuff. I was like, banana pancakes with caviar. I was like, I don't eat caviar. I was like, I don't know about this. That was, I think, our first official date. But yeah, we have basically been together ever since the open bar salon night. Now he knows you're happy with McNuggets, a cheeseburger and a diet coke i'm the cheapest date ever cheapest date ever give me a bottle of obelisk with some chicken nuggets yeah so good oh i love that yeah yeah i'm happy for us

i'm happy for us too i want to hear about what your since we haven't talked in so long i want to hear about like what your covid life was like. I know you guys spent a bunch of time in Palm Springs. Yeah. We were there for like four months and then August 1st, we moved into our San Diego beach house. And that was also the weekend I got pregnant with summer. Oh my gosh. Literally the first morning we like moved all our stuff in on Saturday, Sunday morning, we woke up and I was like, you just got me pregnant. So in three weeks, I knew right away because I knew I was ovulating. I knew my doctor said to wait until after one period in ovulation cycle. And the next time when I'm ovulating, that that would be the best time for me to get

pregnant, to have a healthy pregnancy. So he knew that that week was like the time if it was gonna happen time yeah because we talked about it and we were kind of both thinking like we're either gonna do it now or we're gonna wait six months see what happens with the show with the gyms like well like I don't know if this is the best time to you know try to get pregnant but I'm like but if we wait six months like I'm okay with that but if we wait just know like it might not happen this is my best chance so he knew that morning I'm on top and then all of a sudden we're like halfway finished that he was like wait shit and like picked me up and then he was like wait I was like you just got me pregnant didn't you and he's. And then he was like, wait. I was like, you just got me pregnant, didn't you?

And he's like, I mean, I like half pulled out. And I was like, nope, that other half. That half counts. Summer made her way in. That half counts. I feel like being pregnant during COVID would actually be the best thing ever. It was the best time. I missed no music festivals.

I was going to say, you have no FOMO. I missed nothing. No FOMO. It was the best time. Nobody's doing anything. Nobody's drinking and partying. Nobody went to Coachella. Not just me. Nobody went to Coachella. Not just me.

Nobody went to Coachella. I love that. And you could just be like, yep, we're all home. I'm pregnant. I don't have to miss out on anything. It was semi-isolating because I was so terrified of getting COVID that I didn't let hardly anyone come over. Our bubble was pretty much Tom Mariana, James, Raquel, and Charlie, like occasionally.

Those were like the only people I feel like I saw. Yeah. And like my parents, but I didn't even see my parents. There was like a six, seven week span that I didn't see them because I was so paranoid. I'm like, what if I'm asymptomatic? And then it was like, then once I got pregnant, that was like past that first initial scare of COVID. Which if you knew weeks without your parents.

Oh my God. It was the longest time I've ever not seen my mom in my entire life. Longest. Your mom, when I remember when we would like go down to Palm Springs, like when we would stay over there together, it was just the two of us. You would sleep until like 10 maybe. I was always an early bird. So I would wake up at eight. And if you didn't answer by nine 30, your mom would be like, Janet, where is she? Yeah. What is she doing? And I'm like where is she yeah what is she doing and I'm like is she all right is she I'm like she's sleeping do you want me and she's like wake her up yeah whatever but you guys are so close I'm the same way with my mom and so I'm like hearing you say

weeks without seeing your parents yeah wild it was on March 17th it was St. Patrick's Day I moved into my house in Palm Springs and I didn't see my mom until Easter. Wow. And I think that was like towards the end of April, whatever day Easter was. But I'm pretty sure it was like six weeks that I was just like, no, like I go to Walmart for like my groceries and yeah, I wear a mask. But like, what if I'm asymptomatic? Like I would get tested, but I'm like, what if it's a false negative? Like we didn't know enough about it at the time. And then on Easter, my mom was like, I don't give a fuck, Sheena.

It's Easter. I'm coming over. I'm bringing you a basket. Yeah. But it was crazy. That was like the longest time I'd ever gone without seeing my family. So then, you know, I'm pregnant. I was obviously seeing my family at the time, but I wasn't seeing many friends and any friends I did see were in LA driving down to San Diego or the one doctor's appointment I would have. I think I saw maybe Nima like once, but it was like, I would make everyone get tested before they saw me. And I'm like, look, I really want to hang out with you, but I need to feel safe. And I know you don't really leave, but like, there's that one

person who goes to the grocery store one time and gets COVID. Like that happened to one of my friends. And he's like, Sheena, I literally haven't left my house other than going to Ralph's one time. And now he has COVID. Yeah. So I would make people get tested before they saw me. And it was just like kind of isolating. But at the same time, I'm like, it's not going to be this way forever. And if this is what I have to do to be safe and to keep myself healthy for my daughter, then, you know, so be it.

And we didn't, I mean, we still don't know a whole lot. But like getting COVID when you're pregnant, you don't know what the side effects are. No, there's not been enough research. still don't know a whole lot but like getting covid when you're pregnant you don't know what the no there's not been enough research to your baby the vaccine wasn't out yet even if it was there wasn't enough research and then right there's like two dozen pregnant women in trials i'm like two dozen that's not very many and like for sure no no so it was like it was just such a scary time to be pregnant, but also the best time FOMO-wise to be pregnant. Totally, the best. And living down in San Diego made it so much better. I think in Marina, though, I would have been happy because I loved that apartment.

It was on the water. I could still walk and go to the beach. But being in San Diego, I can't wait for you to come down and see our house. I'm really excited. On the sand. Even when I was just home by myself and Brock was at the gym working, I would just go and walk and see the sunset. Like every day I like started like on my Instagram story, I would post the sunset like every night. And then I'm like, should I, am I like that like weird, like Pinterest-y person now? And my publicist was

like, you should start like a new highlight. He's like, I'm living for these sunset snaps. And I was like, oh really? I'm like, okay, I'm glad someone likes them because I was like, should I stop? I'm posting sunset so much, though, that I should highlight them. Yeah. Yeah. But it literally, I think, was the best time to be pregnant. Was there anything, okay, being pregnant and being stuck inside, living with a boy for the first time post-divorce.

Yeah. Like, how was that? Like, living with Brock. You had enough of a beginning that you guys like knew each other. I'm sure you could like poop in front of each other like that. Oh yeah. The door's always open. Your door open poopers? Oh yeah. Oh, Jason, I don't do that. Oh yeah. We have separate bathrooms. I mean, still to this day owning our house. We have two bathrooms here, three in San Diego. But I don't poop in his bathroom and he doesn't poop

in my bathroom. Oh yeah. No. Sometimes it's like, come on, hurry up. I don't poop in his bathroom when he doesn't poop in my bathroom oh yeah no sometimes it's like come on hurry up I don't cross that line yeah I did that when I was married like I would like open door policy but I was like I have to keep something I have to make him want to have sex with me at some point yeah see Brock still does so I believe that with yeah okay but living together pregnant, outside world is shut out. What was that like? Was there any weird stuff you learned about each other? There has to be weird stuff you learned about each other. Or like, I feel like it puts a relationship on a fast track.

Yeah. When you're just. Oh, 100%. I feel like we've been together for fucking 10 years. Yeah, me too. And I feel like I don't even. It really speeds up your relationship. And like the first part in the beginning there were

certain things where we were like really like getting on each other's nerves because we were both like stressing about work and like how to make an income and like he was starting like instagram live workouts and then like he was like pushing me harder than i wanted to be pushed and then would fight about the workouts and it was just like little things that like we didn't need to fight about like our first actual fight i remember he was filming workout videos in the garage and he had like the ring light plugged in with his phone recording himself and to plug in the ring light he unplugged the fucking garage refrigerator for three days oh yeah everything went bad so and it wasn't even about that it wasn't about the

fucking frozen pizza that was now soft it was just the fact that i was like you only thought about yourself i'm like it's not about the pizza it's not about the pizza it's not about the pasta but literally i had one of those moments where i was just like it was just like you were only thinking about yourself so because he knew that i was right and he was wrong and he was embarrassed and he had his ego. So then he like goes in the closet and starts packing all his shit. Now, mind you, he has a motorcycle in San Diego. We're in Palm Springs with my cars. And I'm like, where are you going to go? You're going to take an Uber back to San Diego? And I was just like, go ahead, walk out that door. Don't

ever fucking come back. Starts unpacking suitcase. All right, well, I changed my mind. This is a bad idea. It forces you to have to work through the issues. Yeah. In times you normally think, I'm going to go to my girlfriend's house. Or like, I'm going to do this and like, you know, we won't talk for three days. You can't do that. No. Three days in COVID is like six months otherwise.

So it's like, you can't just ignore somebody for a little bit or like get away from them for a couple hours. Like, where are you gonna go right so I feel like it definitely fast-forwarded our relationship but then it also fast-forwarded like our comfortability with each other where it's like if I can do anything in front of this person and he is still attracted to me I've never felt so comfortable in a relationship. And that's when I was just like, this has to be the one. That's it.

Nothing I've done has pushed him away, even the slightest. I was driving Jason a little crazy during COVID. We were in, before we got our house, well, we rented a house first. But when we were in separate apartments together, but we were together constantly. So we were always in one or two bedroom apartments together. I was driving him crazy. He works a lot more than I do. And he's a lawyer. So like he has to,

I'll never work that much. Like I can't do like 75 hour weeks. It's just impossible. But I was driving like at the, instead of like evenings, I was like five o'clock. Cool. We're done.

And he's like, no, I'm going to work till eight. And I was like eight. But like, I've already watched at the, instead of like evenings, I was like five o'clock. Cool. We're done. And he's like, no, I'm going to work till eight. And I was like, eight. But like, I've already watched all the housewives and like, what am I supposed to do for three hours? Jason bought me a full paint set and easel. Cause he was like, I've got to keep her busy.

She's driving me insane. And so like mid COVID, he like bought me this paint set and easel. And I honestly, I started painting and it was like, we started painting. I'm not good. I saw your saw your garage yeah we went fucking viral on tiktok we got 16 million views that was nuts but like it's one of those things you have like when you have nothing else to do and you're stuck in the house it's like what else you're gonna do i guess i'm gonna paint i guess i'm gonna paint right oh we also didn't tell the time or the lion story about jason oh bless his heart. Jason's the smartest,

ditziest person I know. Yes, that's a very nice way of putting it. He's brilliant. I don't argue with him. Arguing with a lawyer. Very book smart. Yes. Arguing with a lawyer is impossible. He has the reasoning and logic behind everything. He's like, well, I don't understand why you're upset because this happened. I'm like, because I'm upset. I'm like, just because I don't want to, I'm just emotional. Like I don't want to have logic here. Yeah. But he also can be extremely ditzy. There are things he says where I'm like, oh no. Oh my gosh. What? And one of the things you're going to, wasn't it Tom Sandoval's birthday when I dressed as a dominatrix. And it was his theme. Tom's theme was the most extra of yourself. So everyone was dressing in very different costumes. Some people showed up like, you know, you were a dominatrix and it was his theme tom's theme was the most extra of yourself so everyone was dressing in very different costumes yeah people showed up like you know you were dominatrix some

people showed up like the pink panther like yeah like any costume that they wanted yeah you posted a story um getting glam yeah getting glam um with marine yeah and you were getting um contoured where you had all of your highlights where they had like the stripe highlighters on your face like along your nose they like did the dark contour all of that and Jason then so he saw that snap of you

with all of the highlights and contour on your face before it was blended in and then you saw him at Tom's birthday and you were dressed as a dominatrix yeah and what did Jason say to you he goes wait I thought you were coming as a lion I was like when did I I'm like thinking I'm like I do have a lion costume from Halloween last year but I was like when did I say I was coming as a lion I'm like did I tell Janet that he goes

no on your Instagram he goes you had the Lion King makeup earlier. And I was like, oh my God, bro. Like I was getting contour and he's like, what is that? He, the other day I said something about, um, lashes and I was like, yeah, like, um, this lash brand something. And he goes, what do you mean lash brand? And I go, um, it's like, you know, like an eyelash brand. And he was like, I know what eyelashes are he's like what do you mean a lash brand and he apparently did not know until a week ago that you wear fake eyelashes sometimes that fake eyelashes exist oh my god he just thought like mascara makes them like yes grow and he hasn't really watched me do my makeup like that and I was like I'm confused by your question right I don't understand your question. Right. I don't understand

what you don't understand. I don't understand the question here. And he was like, well, I know what eyelashes are. And when he said that, I was like, Oh no, I was like fake eyelashes. And he was like, come again. Like he didn't. And I was like, Oh no. Like you, I was like, you had a girlfriend for a while before me. and I was like oh maybe she just didn't do that stuff but like yeah Jason's the smartest person I know but also has these ditzy moments where he I think it's a lot of is around glam yeah he just doesn't understand and you know he's never put eyelashes or contour on so like can't blame him but like maybe I need to get ready in front of him more often yeah I think that's what it means I need to have him I need to let him sit

next to me while I do my makeup and show him like a tutorial right we did a tutorial one of the things we did during COVID I let Brock do my makeup and I felt so bad because during the time when he was doing it I was like being like such a control freak and being like, you know, I'm posting this like on the internet for like everyone to see. I don't want you to make me look stupid. And he actually did a good job and I felt so bad after

because I like genuinely hurt his feelings because he like watched Marines videos and was like learning how to do makeup. He's like trying to shade eyeshadow. And he was being so cute. And I was just like, oh, what are you doing? No, stop. And I was like, oh my God, Sheena, calm the fuck down. Relax and let him do it like Maureen does and see how it turns out. And I feel like that's like one of the many amazing things he's brought to my life. It's like, I feel like my anxiety is at a two when it

used to be at an eight, nine regularly. I feel like he's like brought my control down so well. A lot. He's just like this fun loving, go with the flow person. And you're not, but he brings you down to like a even level between the two of you. He forces me to be more normal. More calm. More calm. Let's not say normal, calm.

Yes. He makes you more calm and relaxed and that's how it should be. Yeah. You're not supposed to, like, I feel like your exes and my exes, they're not supposed to make you anxious all the time. That's not the good feeling. Yeah. It's supposed to be somebody who makes you feel, like, comfortable, boring in a good

way, like, relaxed. Like, that's how it's supposed to be. I know. Thank God for good men. Right? Yeah. I feel like we could go on for like another hour and then another hour. So I think you're just going to have to come back.

I think I have to come back. Yeah. I already invited myself back. I know. But I'm glad you're inviting me officially. Yes. Because I know there were so many topics that we still didn't discuss. Oh, I have to say somebody commented rep, replying to your sticker question, about what we should talk about.

And talked about my senior dog that Jason and I fostered. Oh, yeah. It was so sweet. Jason and I, during the pandemic, there's a great organization in L.A. called Wags and Walks. That we started by fostering this 12-year-old old dog. He's on my Instagram. His name's Rufus. He was so sweet. We had we had him unfortunately only for six months before he had to be put down he like we held on to him literally maybe even longer than he should have been but like the sweetest old man dog ever like he was the he was such an awesome

gift during covid jason had to i say jason because jason did 90 of it but j Jason had to I say Jason because Jason did 90% of it but Jason had to change his diapers 12 times a day he had diapers he was blind he was deaf he was like the cutest but he was such a loving sweet dog his tongue always stuck out he's like the sweetest guy somebody commented though yeah it was Nick T Ann said no question but I loved that you adopted that sweet older pup sorry for the loss heart of gold of gold. Oh, and he really was. And like, we're going to do it again, I think. We have a trip coming up. And then after we're back,

I think we're going to continue to foster or adopt senior dogs. Because it's like a sick, weird thing. But I love them, even if they're not going to be around that long. I always said with Rufus that, you know the game of life the board game yeah either go to like the like shitty looking retirement home or you go to millionaire estates

right I was like Rufus was like this dog that had like a shitty life his entire life but we gave him millionaire estates like he was literally like our little prince and king we literally carried him around changed his diapers hand fed him like for every meal that's so so like we took care of him fully and like it gave us such a like full feeling and like made our hearts full so we're gonna do it again but wags and walks is an awesome organization for fostering and adopting stuff i want to give them a shout out because they're awesome they're awesome yeah thank you to the person who asked and said that because that was yeah meant a lot to me and I loved that. Aww.

Well, I loved having you here. I loved being here. This was so fun. It's good to get back on the mic with you. Right? We will be back again soon, you guys. Thank you so much for listening. Oh, I want to say one more thing.

If you drink Avaline after hearing this, tag me in your posts. I'll repost them. Janet Elizabeth X. Sometimes I have too much Avaline and I decide I'm going to mail people some from my Wine.com account. Giveaway time. Yeah. If you get some, we're in like 5,000 grocery stores across the United States. Yeah.

There's a bottle finder on our website, but we're in a lot of major grocery stores. So if you go and get a bottle of opaline tag me and i'll shout you out and give you props well thanks cheers i love you cheers love you too bye guys sheena shea shea fk thanks for listening to shenanigans with sheena shea download new episodes every week on apple podcasts Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. you want it? Let me see you shake that. Do you need it? Let me see you shake that. Do you want it? Let me see you shake that. Come and get it. Let me see you shake that.