Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 24. How old was Saff when she lost her virginity, Ana's blocked list and our love languages ranked

Episode Date: October 25, 2023

We're feeling nostalgic and wanted to throw it back to the OG YouTuber trends with a friendship test. How well do we know each other, our dating history and preferences in boys? Watch on spotify and let us know in the Q&A box which other challenges you want to see from us! (01:43) Who, when and where was Ana's first kiss? (03:21) How old was Saff when she lost her virginity? (03:46) How old was Ana? (04:05) Who is the most famous person who has ever slid into Ana's DMs? (06:56) Lights on or off? (07:28) How many of the people Ana has got with has she blocked? (08:15) Who is Saff waiting for to become single? (08:45) Whats the highest number of people Ana has got with in one night? (09:45) What does Saff think is her best feature? (10:13) Something that gives Ana the ick (12:22) What's Saff's biggest turn on? (13:24) What kind of reality stars is Ana most likely to get with? (14:32) Ranking our love languages Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

let's go hi babe happy thursday happy thursday how are you i'm good how are you yeah i'm good thank you good good this week is it's actually been a long week i'm not gonna lie but tell me about it i'm happy to be here i'm still just so grateful that we're doing this twice a week now me too i love the fact that we get like a little mini episode. Yeah. A little time for a catch up. A best friend catch up. Always nice.

In the long episode on Tuesday that we uploaded, we reminisced on our summer and like how much of an amazing summer we had together because I felt like we were together so much. I actually didn't realize how many holidays we went on together. It's actually crazy. Pretty much every many holidays we went on together it's actually crazy pretty much every holiday that I went on this summer was with you I know yeah but I love that yeah it's funny isn't it because when you're going through summer like you forget how much you

did until you actually take a look back and we did a lot so if you want to go and see well if you want to listen to what we did on summer, you can listen to Tuesday's episode. But because of that, it got me feeling a little bit like nostalgic over all of the old like YouTube days. And like, we do a lot of like friendship tests and like drunken, like truth or dares or anything like that.

So we thought it'd be fun to do a nice kind of like friendship test in this episode. I'm actually nervous because me too really I'm very competitive and if I don't do well at this I'm gonna actually be a bit heartbroken me too I'm very nervous for this so who's going first me or you um I I don't mind you go first do you want to go first okay I'll I'll go first. First question. Who, when and where was my first kiss? Are we like the name? Can I say the name? You can say the name.

No one's going to know the name. I can't actually remember his name. I know who it is. Wait, but hang on. I don't know if this was your first kiss. I know the first person you slept with. Oh, yeah. I know who you're thinking of. That's different. So maybe don't say that this was your first kiss i know the first person you slept with oh yeah i know who you're thinking of that's different so maybe don't say that person's name or oh the first person you kissed wasn't a youtuber at the time was it

no truthfully i'm not actually sure if you know this no i don't think i do know this i know who you slept with i know who you first fancied but I actually don't think I know your first kiss it was oh I'm just gonna give him a fake name just for the sake of it but he was called Jack um and I kissed him when I was like nine years old on my trampoline in my garden see do you know what's? I never ever kissed a guy that young. I mean, it's very young. I never kissed a guy until I was in high school. High school?

Yeah, I never ever kissed a guy in primary school. I don't know why I'm that shocked. Even year seven, year eight, never kissed someone. Yeah, but I should not have been kissing boys on my trampoline at that age. My mum and dad were in the garden.

Yeah, but I actually do think that's quite normal. I do think that's quite normal. I think I was disgusted by boys still at that time. That i think well i hope so by boys still at that time that's true i hope so the all-new fan duel sportsbook and casino is bringing you more action than ever want more ways to follow your faves check out our new player prop tracking with real-time notifications or have out more ways to customize your casino page

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Okay. How old was I when I lost my virginity? 15? 16? No, 15. Young. That actually sounds so young. But I did have a boyfriend.

Yes, you were in a relationship. I was in a relationship. I had a boyfriend. Yeah, it must have been 15. So it's crazy, isn't it? Because at the time you feel so old i know how old was i do you know how i was well i know who it was i'm just trying to backtrack i think you've got to be 17

no i was 16 was you 16 yeah i, though. Okay. Okay, next one. Who's the most famous person who's ever slid into my DMs? Oh my God, I'm not doing very well on this, am I? The most famous person. We've had a fair share of footballers. Fair share of footballers. I can think of someone who's been in my DMs, but they didn't slide into my DMs. He's a singer a singer american why don't i know this an american singer babe you've got you've got to film me and i

actually don't know this okay i'm not doing very well on the friendship test and i am i no but to be fair though these are these aren't like personal questions no these are these are actually quite hard okay these are surface of questions it was jason darulo oh yes yeah yeah yeah really random i feel like he's been in so many people's dms yeah and you know who else has tiger yeah tiger has tiger has been in every person's dms i know so many people what did um what did jason derulo say i'm gonna have to get it back up because i haven't because how did i don't understand how did he get in your dms and if he didn't slide your dms how did he get into your dms so oh so i know how it happened now so do you know do you

remember that trend a couple of years ago where well quite a few years ago so it's five years ago now um where you'd have to like message 100 celebrities right you didn't so i must have messed i'm no i think i did it in my own time which is even more sad and looking at the time that i did it it was half 10 in the morning um so what the fuck was i doing i replied back to his story and i put this looks unreal and then he replied two days later saying it was a whole vibe left it then he messaged me back two weeks later what replied and just randomly messaged me saying also babe i've just dropped my new single you should do something and tag the song listening to it oh my god so trying to get me to promo his new

song so i just put i'll give it a listen and then he sent me back three flame emojis that is so weird the fact you were like i'll just i'll give it a listen all right i'll give it a listen i obviously didn't like it i'm not tagging it on my story but who's the most music i do love his music jason i do love your music but you're not about to give you yeah he is i don't understand how he sees everyone's dms him and tiger have actually been in everyone's dms i remember i got an invite from tiger to go to his party at uh like it was like the coachella after party but again I'm sure everyone did everyone and their mum probably yeah who's who's the most famous person to slide into your DMs oh I'm not gonna I don't know I know but I know you're not gonna answer it so I'm gonna answer that one oh my god okay

do I prefer lights on or off off yeah I feel like everyone prefers off i'm not doing it in with the lights on no and i feel like people automatically assume it's like a confidence thing it's not even that but surely that can't get you in the mood i just think it's sexier in the dark yeah like like even if there's like a and i don't mean like pitch black but like you know like no no yeah there can't be bright lights i don't want studio lighting on me no thank you um how many of the people i've got with have i now blocked well i would have said one but now i know you've unblocked him so none is that correct i would say that is correct yeah that is correct i'm not good with the block button me yeah i'm not good with that i don't unblock people i actually think it's very petty unless someone's harassing me i'm not gonna block them i'll just unfollow yeah yeah i'd rather just

i'm not gonna go as far as to blow unless you've like i don't know don't take really really bad you're not at the end of the day you block someone right they just make a new account or go on another account and yes it is not hard unless they're like harassing me there's no point okay next one who oh my god who am i waiting for to become single oh that's hard Is there someone you're thinking of? I would say, because of your obsession with Spider-Man, Tom Holland. Okay, fine. Yes. But also, I actually love Zendaya.

So I do love them two together. I think they might be one of my favourite celebrity couples. No, so do I. If not my fave. So do I. I do love Tom, but I love Spider-Man, but I like them two together. Too much. What's the highest number of So do I. I do love Tom, but yeah, I love Spider-Man, but I like them two together too much. What's the highest number of people that I've got within one night?

But kissed, obviously. Yes. Yeah. I'm going to say four. I feel like it's, I know it's a definite three, but I feel like you've done

four in one night. I just feel like you have. It was three. Was it? You were right like you have it was three was it you were right you were right with three it was three okay when i was like 18 and i was out in worcester of all places um and there's this club called like sin and bush or something like that and it's the most like weirdest place i've ever been to and there's like a downstairs little bit called the crypt and everyone was just kissing everyone and like me being freshly 18 with like sours and wkd at the rate like my reach i was like oh yeah this is gonna be fun to kiss three people so love that three people let's go

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that's probably the one thing I'm grateful for. Like I'd rather not look like my dad. Love you Dazza and all, but I'd rather not look like him. But the eyes, they don't mind. They're giving like piercing blue. Yeah,

they're gorge. Okay. What's something that gives me the ick? Oh, okay. You know, you're really quite chilled. You actually't very chilled like i don't there's never like you've never said one thing but i think for you i'm fucking terrible at this what gives you the ick

i think it's very individual what I get the ick with. Like it really depends on the person. I'm doing so bad at this. But yes, like you've never said to me, oh, this is my ick. I don't think I have a particular ick that's not like super generic or like super silly. Do you know what I mean? But can you give me one example then? Because I need to know this answer now.

I'm really trying to think of something that someone's done that i'm like oh my god um cheating on me and sleeping with their best friend probably i would hope that's more than just a nick babe that's a red flag but that's like way more than a red flag i don't know about backpacks yeah you have had this thing about I don't like backpacks I don't I really don't I get they're practical I get it what about like a gym guy and they wear a backpack because that's very normal you still say no to that no because it's so practical but I think I got it from I went on well I don't know I think I told you this I'm not sure the guy running with a backpack the guy running the backpack but also i went on a date or it was a date where he came around here

and he wore a backpack into my house yeah that's so weird but he parked downstairs it's like leave your bag in the boot of the car like you're not we're not about to go on a hitchhike you don't need to bring your bag into my apartment yeah and like what was in the bag so you never found out what was in the bag well actually i do know what was in the bag but it's a really funny story that i'd want to tell you on a longer episode because i want to go into detail about it so i do know what was in the bag but it doesn't warrant bringing a backpack that could have definitely be handheld okay so backpacks are my ick okay your turn um what's my biggest turn on oh hands and are we talking physical feature or i don't know uh yeah i'll do both if you want

because i was gonna say like physical i would say like hands and arms and like muscles like very veiny hands you always look at hands and see the weirdest thing is everyone knows about me which is obviously very obviously say that quite loud and proud that no i actually really have a thing for hands like if they don't have like big nice veiny hands then it's just and it sounds so weird but yeah it's a no it's a no but yeah i feel like hands would be like physical and arms and arms and arms yeah but then like emotionally like mentally i would say like they'd have to have like career goals or like so they'd want something in life and they're really like motivated and really like you know and also like maybe like a gym guy but like that sort of like motivation

yeah yeah you put an l on the head i know you I got it okay which breed of reality stars would I most likely get with so like islanders made in Chelsea stars like TOWIE islanders yes it would be islanders because there's some gorgeous looking islanders and also they're probably the most like not not to say that people from taoi and main chelsea aren't normal though of course everyone's a normal person but they're probably i don't know like they've been having a tv career for like a lot longer and they're i don't know i just feel like with love islanders it's literally like the sort of people we meet on a night out they just get put on a show so i feel like also that's probably why i completely agree it definitely would be islanders would yours also be islanders

i don't know oh i don't know have you got with an islander have you got with a taoi star i haven't got with an islander no uh oh oh okay that's that's completely like yeah okay okay yes probably an islander. I was going to say, I'm just going to drop you in there. Yeah, I was just thinking for a second. No, I haven't. But yeah, of course I have.

Okay. Okay, so Anna, my next question is my favourite question. If you get this right, you know me so well because I feel like it's going to be hard to get it right. And believe it or not, every time I'm speaking to a guy,

I always ask them their order so the love languages there's five different ones what would you say in order as mine okay this is a little bit stressful I would say the first one would be words of affirmation yeah you're correct that's the first one okay then the second one i would say is physical touch yes wow you're doing so well yeah my heart's beating though if i get it wrong i'll be really annoyed now i say the third one oh i'm stuck between acts of service and quality time because i don't think it's gift

giving I think gift giving might be last I would say I'll say quality time okay can I just quickly just elaborate on this I've always been a bit confused of quality time because I've always felt like surely you can't have a relationship if you don't have quality. So I was speaking to this guy not that long ago and quality time was at the end of mine because I was like, it's like, that shouldn't even be a love language. Like surely that's just being in a relationship.

Like surely you spend time with someone you're with. Yeah, I get you. I've never thought of it like that. But he was like, but therefore that must be your top one. And I was like, no, because that's just a standard relationship.

So you don't think that's a love language you think that should just be set well i think that should just be set but therefore maybe that should be my top one i don't know do you know what i mean okay okay so i i went for it third without quality time it doesn't make sense to me yeah i completely agree with you okay so i'll just i'll just keep it as third okay and then i would say acts of service and gift giving did I get those two mixed up I don't um you probably did get the mix up yeah because my thing is right I feel like I hate the fact that I don't put gift giving last sounds like a lot great but for me when I I think my love language as well if I like someone I'm always

buying them things but I don't mean I don't mean someone has to buy me expensive things but it's more like the thought of you things like even if it's your favorite donut or something or like a chocolate bar and they're like oh just bring it home after work or something like that that to me I think more means more to me than opening a door because it's more like thoughtful or like flowers I still feel like it's more thoughtful than acts of service because it's more like thoughtful or like flowers i still feel like it's more thoughtful than acts of service so that's why i would choose gift giving before okay so we're talking yeah we're talking like little gifts not like drake buying his future wife like 30 birkin bags yeah although that'd be nice thank you that was so fine yeah i'll so take

that especially from drake okay i'm glad i got your top three no you did really well genuinely i did not think you was going to get that because no one normally does. Okay, what do you think mine are? Okay. Stick it round. Words of affirmation. Yeah.

Because you always like, we're both the same. If a guy tells us we're beautiful and everything else, that means a lot. I love that yeah um I would say quality time over physical touch for you I feel like you talk a lot about like the dates that you go on and the things you did together more than like oh my god like I don't know I just yeah no I would say I would say that's true I would say that's true and then I don't know it's a hard physical touch yeah I would say that's true I would say that's true and then oh I don't know it's a hard physical touch yeah I would say that's true

and I don't know if I've just convinced you with with the receiving gifts so I'm gonna say receiving gifts and then acts of service I see I don't know if this sounds bad I don't know if receiving gifts would maybe be third but that's only because it's like you said with the little things like when i was with my ex he would do a lot of little things like he got me my favorite dessert and i loved it because it was thoughtful but not because of the price of it just because i thought it was a lovely thing to do yeah so i think i agree with you on that so i feel like that would be parring on like third and fourth but you you got the you've pretty much got the order i think we've done quite well

do you know i'm very proud of you can relate but i feel like because that is my love language i give like that as well so there'll be like the order that i do things in a relationship too if that makes sense yes a hundred percent and it would be lovely to meet someone with like the same love languages yeah it would we can hope well that was fun i enjoyed doing that so did i we actually did quite well actually like not as bad as i thought we were gonna do no neither it's funny because when i tell people a lot of people like really really words of affirmation that is like by far my top but i think that's lovely to be like so open with somebody i think that's what it is yeah and be able to be like very emotionally available emotionally ready in a relationship

i love that yeah so do i well that was a nice way to wrap up this week's episode it was yeah i loved that i really enjoyed i did that well but hopefully i saved myself towards the end no you saved yourself with the love languages okay one million percent um and we will see you guys next tuesday for yet another episode we shall see you then bye guys