Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 43. New Year New You

Episode Date: January 9, 2024

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let's go hi everyone and welcome back to sex lies and dm slides we are back with our first episode of the new year so happy new year everyone um anna so much has happened since we last spoke to everyone well guys yeah happy new year um i literally feel like I've lived several lives between the last episode and this episode um new year was crazy and I feel like 2024 is going to be all about like pushing boundaries and creating memories and I feel like in this episode we should keep the whole like new year spirit up a little more and discuss kind of like yeah like pushing boundaries but I haven't seen you since before Christmas so I want to know everything that has gone on how was your new years

it was good it was really fun um what well I had a party well actually you do know this don't you about me going to hospital no do. Do you know this or not? Okay, well, I didn't think I was going to be celebrating New Year's, I'm not going to lie, because I was the most unwell I've ever been in my entire life. So I know we're like trying to keep the spirits up and all that. We've got to add a dose of reality in here. We've got to add a bit of reality into it. So on the 29th, I woke up and I couldn't open my eyes because looking at light was when I tell you like I was screaming in pain I've never felt pain like it like bear in mind I've had like

13 operations on my ears and I've never ever ever experienced pain like it in my life so basically I had a migraine I had like a really bad headache the day before and it wouldn't go and it was there the whole day and all and I remember I went to bed and I thought I actually can't wait to wake up and not have a headache anyways all throughout the night head was absolute pounding when I woke up in the morning probably only had like two hours sleep because it hurt so much when I woke up in the morning well I couldn't open my eyes or look at light because my head honestly felt like it was going to explode like I couldn't see so my boyfriend had to I was on the phone to 111 they were like you need to phone an ambulance ASAP so call the ambulance but it was too long so my boyfriend ended up taking me to the hospital

took me to the hospital he actually couldn't stay with me because he had um rugby that he had to go to so he went to that I was at the hospital literally crying my eyes out still couldn't open my eyes anyways finally they drugged me up loads managed to open my eyes basically for a long time thought that I had meningitis um because basically I had all the symptoms to have meningitis turns out basically I'm just going to cut the long story short I don't have I didn't have meningitis don't have meningitis basically it just was a severe migraine but I've clearly never experienced anything like it in my entire life um and

that entire day the next day still absolutely crying my eyes out in absolute agony on every medication I think you could ever think of they've given me I'm taking like stupid amount um oh my god how long were you in hospital for did you come home that same day no no I came home that same day yeah um I wasn't like kept up because I did actually only have what they call a severe migraine. But I was it was it was just it was honestly awful. It was so bad. I just remember thinking like, I actually can't live another day like this, like the pain I was experiencing was that bad. But anyways, woke up on New Year's Day and I still had a headache like the entire day,

but it was just a headache. And I actually can't believe I got to celebrate New Year's. Yeah. Oh my God. So now you're still taking loads of like tablets and stuff to... No, no, now I'm fine. Now I'm fine. Oh, now you're all good.

You've gone into 2024, no headache. I've gone into 2024 with no headache. I've gone into 2024 with no headache. We love it. Headache today in 2023. Honestly, I did a full 360 turn because at one point I really thought, this is it. I'm going to be in hospital for a while. Oh, babe. I was so upset because I'd never felt pain like it. And honestly, it sounds so ridiculous because I know a lot of people that suffer with migraines and obviously I've always really felt for them. But I don't think I've ever quite understood that me having a really bad headache,

I can never call it a migraine because what I experienced was like, honestly, like you could have dropped a pin and I think I would have screamed. Like it was that painful. Yeah, because I don't think I've ever had a migraine. I know I've had a bad headache, but like what you're explaining, I don't think I've ever had a migraine. I know I've had a bad headache, but like what you're explaining,

I don't think I've ever had that before. No, like I think I've once or twice been like, oh yeah, I had a migraine. Well, no, I didn't. I can assure you I didn't. This was a migraine. Let's go. I'm going back to university for $0 delivery fee,

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Let's go. Fingers crossed you never get a migraine again. Yes, exactly. And on a positive note, I got to celebrate New Year's. So I did have a party. But the reason I was telling you is because I didn't actually think the party was going to happen. But it did happen. It did. Okay, so tell me about the party. How was it? Yeah, it was really fun

um it was just like my family and friends basically um but it was really nice because like my family got to meet my boyfriend's family and like um Libby's family was there and just yeah just like the people I'm super super close were all here. And so it was just really nice just to celebrate all together. And yeah, everyone got ridiculously drunk. I've never in my life seen my dad so drunk. So they played a game called Irish Poker. Have you played it? No, I don't really know what that is either.

Well, put it this way. If you want to get drunk you play this game because every single person that played this game couldn't walk i am not joking what imogen can't remember the last three hours of the night well i've seen the picture of imogen and your dad in the back of the car and they're literally both like passed out she put it on her story no she didn't she did she put a picture on her story of like Jed took it and like her and your dad are literally just like

head down in the back of the car. Yeah, my mum had to drag Imogen out. Well, she was like lifting Imogen. Well, my dad couldn't because he was too drunk and so was Jed. So they literally, my mum was like lifting Imogen

into the car. She can't remember any of the night. Bless her heart. Oh my God, bless her. Yeah, she was in a bad way from Irish poker. But I don't, what's the preference? Like how would you get that drunk? remember any of the night bless her heart oh my god she was in a bad way from irish poker but i don't what's the perfect like how would you get that drunk like what do you have what are you doing it's because it's like basically it's luck so you have like four different cards

and say the i actually don't know the rounds i'm really not the person to try and explain this game but like say you turn over the card and it's going to, you either say higher or lower. And say you get it correct. You make someone else drink, but you have to drink a lot. And there's a lot of people playing. Yes, I know this game.

I've played it before, but I didn't know it was called Irish poker. But I've played it before. Oh my God. Yeah, you get absolutely paralytic on that game. Yeah, and everyone stitched my dad up. Everyone. So my dad had a bottle of wine in about 10 minutes which is not good I'm not promoting this in any way yeah drink responsibly guys but yeah it was good thank you

we all got very drunk and it was really fun and I got a karaoke machine it's so funny because my boyfriend was like we're not going to be doing karaoke I was like oh you wait he was the last person standing on karaoke till 4am in the morning and honestly i think he wants to be a singer what was was your house messy the next morning yes it was an absolute tip but do you know what because of my because of my head i was so nervous about getting too drunk so i actually didn't really get drunk so when they're all on the karaoke machine I'm tidying around them for about two hours. Because I was thinking the last thing I want to do is come downstairs and it'd be an absolute bombsite.

I was like, there's nothing worse than like when you're already hung over, like walking into your kitchen. And I just think, fuck off. Like I just look at it, turn back around, go, it's not happening today. I'm not doing it. No, literally.

My mum though, she's so cute. She came at 10am in the morning to come and tidy up. 10am. I know go on wend oh my god but anyways how was your new year's eve yeah it was really good i i thought i was gonna have a pretty quiet one to be honest and then i didn't end up going to bed until about seven in the morning oh wow very quiet one yeah we ended up we were all over callums um and we just had like it wasn't like a party but just like a small gathering Wow. Very opposite to a quiet one. We ended up, we were all over Callum's. And we just had like, it wasn't like a party, but just like a small gathering. Did you dress up or not?

No. Well, I wore like a corset and a top, but we weren't like dressed up. But by the end of the night, I was in Callum's clothes because we were doing Just Dance at like four in the morning and I was sweating. Oh my God, Just Dance. We were playing Just Dance. We were doing like that. like four in the morning and i was sweating oh my god just dance we were playing just dance we were doing like that i missed that yeah say we all just like

because we played so many games and we were like what games we play now and we were like oh we could put just dance on youtube and copy it all so there's like 10 of us i've got videos of all just doing just dance in the living room at like four in the morning um and i literally got back and i was like i am gonna feel ill in the morning. Did you? Did you feel unwell the next day? I felt bad. Like, because Haz is really, I'm like, because Haz is at mine at the moment. And she actually had to come back to mine with her boyfriend before even New Year's

because she's that ill. And I was like, when I got back, bless her heart, I was like, I don't want to wake anybody up. But I woke everybody in the fucking house up because of how drunk I was everybody's obviously so ill I've come stomping in happy new year everyone blah literally went to bed for an hour could not sleep I was just so drunk still woke up after my hour nap and thought I'm why just why and I felt ill yesterday still oh god yeah actually being hungover is the worst thing ever I'm not doing it again like I'm actually now telling myself that I think I'm gonna try and do dry Jan just dry Jan maybe dry Feb but definitely dry Jan okay that's probably not

that's probably gonna be a lie isn't it but at least if I try and say it try I mean if you have that mindset is you're not gonna stick to it I know but I go to Disneyland tomorrow so I know that I'm gonna end up drinking in the evening so don't even tell yourself you're gonna do I know I don't even know why I said that really with resolutions is people set too many and obviously anything is possible but if you set so many and you partly know you're not going to stick to it then all you're doing is letting your like you're disappointing yourself well yeah and i also don't want to be unrealistic with myself like i want to actually set realistic resolutions that like because like you said i don't want to be come to the end of this year and be disappointed because like i know you don't achieve any of them yeah because yeah and i'll just be annoyed at

myself so what's the point although i'm saying that though I haven't actually made my new year's resolution properly yet so I still need I still need to do that yeah I was too drunk on new year's to even think about it so then and too ill the next day so I need to actually sit I'm making my vision board today so I'm gonna do that oh cute yeah I'm doing my vision board today love that so you didn't manage to get a New Year's kiss, did you? Oh, I did. You did? But not from like, it was in the video.

Oh my God, I was so embarrassed. So I was so drunk and a couple of people there I'd only just met. And I thought in this video that I'm holding Callum's hand, right? I thought, oh, I've got Callum behind me. I'm holding thisum's hand right I thought oh I've got Callum behind me I'm holding this girl's boyfriend's hand so I've never met before oh my god but I'd met him for the first time that night and I watched the video about the next one and I thought oh my god why was that like I genuinely did not realize like what did she say although she was fine she I don't think she realized I'd done it either because but I genuinely thought I had Callum's hand so then at midnight I obviously let go and was like that but I watched

the video back and I was like that's so weird that's not Callum I was like who the fuck was I holding well thank god you didn't kiss him thinking it was obviously not imagine no but I kissed Callum and then I kissed Byron so they were my new year's kisses oh and and Clee as well so I had lots of kisses did you well obviously you got a new year's kiss an actual new year's kiss yeah oh I love that for you what'd you say I love that for you very jealous maybe this year I'll get my proper new year's kiss I'm sure you will this is the year this is no guys this is actually the year I can really feel it can you yep like I can really feel it this year I didn't really hope so I didn't eat 12 grapes under the table yeah okay so but I keep seeing these like crazy theories online

around ways that you should increase your ways of finding love and the 12 grapes is a thing see the thing is I just think it's a I think it's just a way of manifesting but just a really odd way like I personally wouldn't sit under the table and eat 12 grapes for like one for each month of the year no I think that's I I'm very into manifesting very into my theories but this one I'm actually I feel like I can't get on board with it I can't understand how grapes like I genuinely feel like anyone could have made that up like it's not even the grapes is why do you have to sit under a table like why am I under a table doing it yeah no not I can't sit on the sofa like weird is like right so Anna was telling me this theory and I remember hearing my boyfriend and his family going has anyone got grapes around

getting closer to 12 and I'm now putting two and two together and thinking, please don't tell me they sit under the table. If they had a punnet of grapes, if you'd given them one, they all would have been under your dining room table. Yeah. To be fair, if my boyfriend did that last year,

then it clearly worked. Well, there you go. Exactly. So maybe it does. Maybe it does work. I'll have to ask him. There's that theory. And there's the red knicker theory

that if you wear red knickers on New Year's, you're going to ask him. There's that theory. And there's the red knicker theory. That if you wear red knickers on New Year's, you're going to find love. I need to expand on this theory. Okay, go on. I very, very much believe in this theory because of my sister-in-law, Nicole. So my sister-in-law, Nicole, she's from Brazil. And it's a tradition that they do is they wear different colours. So if you wear black on New Year's Eve, it's really, really really really unlucky what is this so wait is this underwear or general clothes clothes like any black is just unlucky to wear black on new year's eve and so it's a tradition in brazil that you

wear color and they celebrate new year's eve like absolutely huge like their new year's eve is absolute ridiculous like my dream is to go to brazil for new year's eve but anyways okay everyone wears color and all the colors mean different things so i wore white on new year's eve which basically means peace i'm not gonna lie love that i only just wore that because it looked best i was gonna wear a blue dress i didn't think i want peace so i'm gonna wear my white dress but i did deliberately not wear black. And I thought, well, peace is still cute. Probably would do something a bit nicer, probably a bit better, but we'll go with peace.

But then different colors mean different things. So I wore red underwear for love, but I also did have a bit of yellow because yellow stands for money. So each color means different things. And it's so funny because I was going to Nicole, have you got yellow and red on? She's like to Nicole, have you got yellow and red on? She's like, yep, I've got yellow and red on. Stop.

I wish I knew about this because I wore black underwear. Did you? Well, I didn't know. What colour was your outfit? I'm going to get all the different colours up. My outfit was, I had a black top on and brown trousers. So what does that mean for me? My year's going to be shit.

Oh. Yeah. Brown could mean something. Please tell me. Even if brown doesn't mean something, just tell me it means something good. Just lie to me. Right, I'm going to read the colours, okay?

Okay. So green is health. Okay. Orange is professional success. Ooh. I wish I chose that one. Yeah, I should have worn it. Red and pink is love and passion yellow obviously money and luck oh um blue is tranquility and friendship

oh that's white is peace and harmony and purple is inspiration so i wore none of those colors my colors didn't mean anything because I don't know black isn't actually a color is it and brown's not on the list and brown doesn't make the list right okay well that's good they had a bit of an orange undertone but do you know what I feel like I do feel like though you won't get bad luck I was with a Brazilian so I feel like I was in her spirit so if I didn't stick to this Nicole was telling me constantly I was gonna get bad luck okay that is I didn't know about it so maybe if I was aware and I knew about it and I still wore brown and black then I would get bad luck but fingers crossed catch me wearing actual rainbow underwear every day of this year like I know it's not new year's but I'm going to be changing up one day blue one day green one day orange I need all the luck I can

get there's also says that there and the other one but this is kind of like I don't think this is just a new year thing but have you heard of the invisible string theory no oh I love this one so I see it all over tiktok so it's basically where it's I guess it could be friendships as well but I think it's predominantly like partners but you're when you've been with your boyfriend or your girlfriend for like four or five years you'll then start to find out that like you'd been in the same place several times before but not met or like oh that's so weird I've seen this yeah or you'll find a picture and like your boyfriend will be in the background but you didn't know him at that point so like that's the invisible

thing so you're always meant to meet but you haven't met until it's the right time see I've seen these TikToks and it genuinely freaks me out me too like it freaks me out when people are like festivals and their boyfriend or their girlfriend is like right behind in the background yeah and they didn't meet until like two years after that yeah that's like nuts I always wonder I'm like is that gonna happen to me like has that happened like have I been in the same place as the person that I'm gonna marry like I have no idea like I do I love that theory so much and I really hope that when I have a boyfriend like I figure that out when it does come true yeah I love that theory I don't know how common it is for everyone I'm not gonna lie no I don't think it's but I searched it on TikTok after I saw one of them come up on my for you page and I was like looking up loads of people's

different like experiences with it and I was like wow if I saw that though I would literally be going right we're getting married we're meant to be oh one million but then I was being like hasn't her boyfriend Emil they've experienced it like they figured it out because obviously they met in the moment they met on a plane to Ibiza and never thought they were going to see each other again and obviously now they're probably going to spend the rest of their life together but they realized that after they grew up and went to all the same places and like missing each other by like an hour like they figured they feel and I'm like wow so you obviously just met when it was like meant to be but you're always meant to meet so I don't know I just love that theory that's I mean it's funny because my boyfriend he like we because I'm going skiing later and we were talking about skiing like the

hotel that I stayed in that I stayed in for like every year is the same hotel that he stayed in every single year in any place in the world like it's so it is so strange yeah so that's like a little like but it wasn't the same time so I'm like no but it's kind of still an invisible string because you're it could have been like you just you maybe just miss each other but it was still the same place like out of all the hotels yeah all the places do you know what I mean I'm a big one on that theory I'm really like maybe it just makes me happy watching everyone's TikToks where I'm like, oh, I'm so jealous. Honestly, when I see those TikToks, I probably watched them like three times over. I'm like, this is actually nuts. Yeah, it's crazy, isn't it?

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And this year, how like we want to break boundaries and stuff. What boundaries do you think me or you need to break this year oh I need to just push myself outside of my comfort zone in like every aspect of my life but especially dating I feel like I need to stop going for my usual type because I've had no luck with that and I need to tell you something I did go on a date last night did you yeah I went on a date last night which right and yeah I'm just hearing about this now purposefully I didn't have because I wanted to tell him on the podcast um and honestly talk about going into 2024 by the way on a on a new star for real guys literally second day in and i'm going on a date but like wow i just thought to myself i need to push myself outside my comfort zone i need to do something that like for once didn't meet him on hinge

he's not a dating app guy which has already pushed myself outside my comfort zone he is oh you're joking no I'm not I'm being serious this is what I mean like this is very okay right please start from the top the fact I'm I'm shocked so I don't want to give away like too much just in case it actually comes crumbling down because I am the sort of person where I will plan my full life with someone in my head and no I'm like yeah I'm gonna marry them have kids with them so I need to stop doing that but I was introduced to him through a friend so he's one of my friend's boyfriend's best friends okay which is nice because I was like they kind of basically this is awful but on I on Halloween i was sat with my friends and i was

like asking was like oh do you guys have any like single friends or whatever because i was actually getting sick of like having to do it through dating apps so they they said to me this guy so i literally messaged him saying smash i remember you telling me this yeah and this is this guy but then obviously nothing ever came from that oh my god I don't remember what he looks like I want to remember what he looks like I so this is the only other thing I don't actually have any pictures because he doesn't have any posts on Instagram which I actually also really liked so at the time I was like well I don't know who you're speaking to like I don't know what he looks like I don't know who this guy is um and then my friend who's friends with him was sending me secret pictures of him

the other night when he was around their house and I was like oh my god like I was just really taken back by like how beautiful he actually was I was like wow um and then my friend because I basically forgot to reply to his last message like it just slipped my mind and I completely forgot so my friend kind of like brought me back up in conversation and was like oh Anastasia blah blah and then I got a message and it just said date night question mark so I thought yeah oh my god um and yeah we went out last night and I literally had it was probably the best first date I've ever been on really yeah and I think it made it so much stop I think it made it so much better because like

we hadn't met on a dating app which was one pushing myself outside my comfort zone and meeting someone through like a different circumstance two he's not my usual type he doesn't look like someone that I would like normally try and like swipe on a dating app and I think that's such a good thing because he's literally one of the nicest people i think i've ever made in my life like so yeah just like a proper like gentle boy do you know what i mean like just so lovely um and i'm seeing him again so oh my god yeah so updates i'm so happy for you this makes me so excited yeah updates to come guys i don't want to say too much just in case it all comes crashing down the next week's next week's podcast no but you know like fair play to him as well like second of jan no i know for real second of jan and we honestly it was such a nice date as well we went bowling and i kept winning

so we had the barriers up first and i won and he was like we're playing again with barriers down still won um so his ego went home hurt um but like I still believe that we just kept having like drink after drink after drink and to be honest like if I didn't have to get up this morning I probably would have stayed out even longer but I just said to myself like I need to go to bed now I've got to get up in the morning and does he live where you live he lives like 40 minutes away okay so so yeah it's not too far it's the furthest that i've had though i'm turning into you normally the far away ones are the fair ones guys normally i can see their building i can zoom into their window with my phone camera and look at what they're doing you're

meeting people not on hinge and they live on your doorstep this is a new year new you what a 20 fucking four what a year guys what a year is going to be for me and dating. Like, honestly, I'm pushing so many boundaries out. I love this for you. Basically, so last night when I got back, I was like, we'd already said on the date that we wanted to see each other again. So I pushed another boundary. And I never said this, but I'm organizing the second date and I'm booking it.

And I said, because he paid for everything and he would not let me pay. And I want to be able to pay pay something or like please just let me do something um so I messaged him and I was like you're free this day let's do something and he was like yeah okay so I've sort of sorted it and I never would do that normally I love this for you that's so cute so I pushed the boundary out and said it. But I know that it went good because I've heard through the grapevine of friends that it's mutually understood.

So do you know what I mean? Right, okay, which is good. Yeah. Which is good. And it's nice because you know people that know him. So you know his intentions and stuff, which is nice. Yeah, I think that's why I felt so safe going on the date as well because it kind of was like a blind date to an extent and like that's kind of scary

like but because obviously I knew people who knew him that I didn't feel nervous at all yeah still like he was waiting outside my building and as I was going down the lift I literally thought I was gonna be sick I was so scared all my friends were watching me out the window fine from the second you saw each other like what was it like was it awkward at all not in the slightest like literally not and I thought it would be because like what do you say to someone when you first meet them for the first time like it's just so embarrassing but I was actually sat with everyone upstairs I was like guys what does it mean we're all practicing different ways of me being able to say hello yeah that's literally me yeah because I was like I don't know what to say um but it just yeah it just I honestly can't explain that I'll more updates to

come guys if it goes if it goes very excited very exciting I love this you're really going into 2024 strong I'm breaking a lot of dating boundaries this year guys I'm gonna push myself out there and you might not need to this might be it this might be it I might be started I don't want to jinx it no I'm not saying anything because every time I say something it always goes you're manifesting it you're putting it into the universe that's it I'm putting it out into the universe and it's gonna work for me this time 2024 is the year of the boyfriend right so this year I've said I'm going to push myself outside my comfort zone in dating yeah how are you going to push yourself outside your comfort zone

what I think I'm just I think I'm just going to try new things so last night I actually tried something new I went to a hills dance class which is very much outside my comfort zone and it was so fun. Like it was so fun I'm not going to lie there was 10 minutes where I died of embarrassment because they split the class in half and you had to go up and do the dance and I just

went brain dead. Like I was tired. This was at 9pm at night I was so tired I'd done so much that day and i went brain dead and i literally just stood there like you could have stood it could have been in a movie what you didn't doubt you just stood no oh god i do know what like i wasn't even bad, but I just had a moment. And I was so embarrassed. Like, so embarrassed. I just stood there.

And, like, my head was, like, going 100 miles an hour. Like, thinking, what do I do? And the thing is, it was a full song. So it was a full two-minute dance. And I stood there for two minutes. No, you didn't. You stood there the whole time? I did the end pose. What? So the whole time you stood there for two minutes. No, you didn't. You stood there the whole time. I did the end pose.

What? So the whole time you stood there and just went. But anyways, do you know what? Even though that happened, I would still go again. See, I love that. Pushing yourself outside to compensate. And do you know what? I just want to do fun things like

to be honest I feel like it's really hard like I'm not making excuses for us but I knew going into that class there'd be lots of people that would like watch my videos and stuff and so I think that's why I struggle even more going to like new things because I'm like it's not like no one's gonna which I'm aware a lot of people don't know who I am I'm not saying that but no but I know what you mean it adds like another level of like nerves to it yeah and when I got there everyone knew I was so embarrassed when they split the room in half and everyone's got their eyes on me I just literally I wanted to curl up in a ball I was so did the dance teacher say anything to you after

like so basically like all throughout the class she kept complimenting me saying I was really good right and basically the last like she was it was only an hour's class you do like a 20 minute warm up blah blah you only get 20 minutes to learn a two minute dance and like that's a lot for my little brain to function that's especially when she's just suffered a migraine don't put her through my brain my brain can't be going through it anymore she can't i know so we just had to so like the first half was totally fine but the second half i feel like i zoned out and it wasn't because i just wasn't enjoying it but there was so much to remember. And like, I would forget my own head if it wasn't screwed on to me. Yes, babe.

You forget where your phone is in the house. 24-7. All the time. Because I'm the most forgetful person. So when it came to the second part of the dance, I was like doing it, but I wasn't even taking it in. And so then when she went, right, go up and do the whole dance, I had a little bit of a

fuck no i don't fuck no i don't blame you because there's not a chance i would be able to remember a two minute dance routine in 20 minutes yeah i'd maybe remember like it was difficult it was difficult by the way well i think i did image and go because i think i saw it on the story yeah yeah and we was in like high hills obviously high stiletto hills and when we were so funny we kept having to whip our hair and every time i whipped my hair i'd nearly fall over i couldn't even stand in the hills so it took me like good 20 minutes to be able to learn to dance in hills you have to stick your ass out it's something i've learned oh oh wow okay go on but when i can do it how unreal is it gonna be this is what i'm saying and i was gonna say are you gonna go i'm saying are you gonna go back and do it again yeah absolutely exactly so you're

going on thursday i'm going next week oh my god she's booked in already and she's gonna this time she's not gonna stand still she's actually gonna do the full routine when it's the dancing half well you never know babe the fact you even got yourself there and did something like that i love because also libby came with me and i texted libby like i'm gonna do this hills class do you want to come she's like i really wanted to but like i'd be so embarrassed and i was like libby who actually cares but also everybody probably feels like that yeah well because i know if i was a professional dancer i wouldn't be judging somebody else for giving it a go no just like if somebody starts youtube we're never gonna be like oh look at them trying to start youtube the people that say that are the people that haven't tried

yeah the people that normally are professionals normally don't judge yeah and everybody has to start somewhere exactly so anyways Libby also came and she was like I'm so grateful I'm proud of myself that I did that and I was like yes this is what we're taking into 2024 I love that I feel like I'm trying to adapt that energy but in the gym okay because I was so scared I mean you know last time I was at your house I had no idea no idea how to use, like, any machines or anything. Like, it's actually just terrifying walking into a gym and seeing seven-foot men everywhere all staring at you as soon as you walk in. I literally just turn the other way and go to the treadmill.

Well, yeah, I don't think there is seven-foot men. What gym do you go to? You know my gym. Oh, true. Yeah. True. So it's scary. Actually true, yeah.

So I was like, oh oh I just can't but then I asked someone how to use the machines I thought fuck it I'm just gonna do it and I was so proud of myself I literally went on like four or five of them and so many people were doing like sets around me and I started to really panic I was like oh god like what if I think I'm not doing it right what if like my forms are whatever but I was like you know what at least i've tried and i've done it and i've been back and done it like several times since and now i'm like actually excited about going to that part of the gym and oh that makes me so happy yeah which is such even though i fucking strained my muscle so bad i got so cocky with myself i thought yeah i can put it on a higher one no i can't oh my god the pain so funny

i literally woke up my full chest and my boobs I literally bent over the side of the bed like oh my god I'm in agony really to be fair that's how I feel right now because I've just started a few challenges I'm doing Gymshark 66 and I'm also doing 75 day hard you're doing 75 day hard yeah well I'm on day two but yeah no I definitely will complete it still you gotta start somewhere oh my god actually 100% gotta complete it isn't that two workouts a day as well on one of them's outside yeah so two workouts a day 45 minutes one has to be outside you have to stick to your diet no alcohol or cheat meals read 10 pages a day I know you have to like take a progress picture I think there's one other thing I can't remember now but um yeah so I'm doing that and

how are you finding it even though well I've done one day but I am in absolute agony but I think I think it's because like I trained my glutes for the first time in forever and you know it's funny like even I got a bit of gym anxiety because I haven't been in so long like I think it's because like I trained my glutes for the first time in forever. And do you know what's funny? Like even I got a bit of gym anxiety because I haven't been in so long. Like I think it's so normal. Oh, 100%. And then I went outside, did my 45 workout outside. And then I went to the dance class and I went to the sauna. I just feel like I didn't stop yesterday.

And I'm thinking I can't be doing that every day. Surely. No, it's a full lifestyle change. But believe you you can do it and by the end of it you're gonna have a massive ass to dance in heels with absolutely so that is what we're going for look at these wins look at these wins well before we read out everybody else's like what they're going to do to break boundaries I think it'd be fun if we set, like, a boundary that we're going to break together. Now, I don't know what this boundary is going to be. And I have just said that without even thinking about what it's going to be. But I think we should set one.

And then by the end of the year, see if we've done it. Okay. I don't know what we could set together, though. Neither. But I feel like there's got to be something that we can both stick to or both agree that we're going to do. I mean, I would happily let it be something to do with travel I'm there maybe maybe we could be double dating because you're gonna have a boyfriend oh my god yeah we've never done a double date and we've always said that's it we'll do a double date we're gonna break no but I'm

saying no but that actually is breaking a boundary for us that is breaking a boundary because we've never we've always said we wanted to do it and we've never done it yeah and you know what when we're together I always feel like we do break boundaries of some sort yeah we've done we've had our um fair share of break boundaries we have we have we've what have we done well last year we went a lot of holidays so we did break the travel boundary we um we went skinny dipping with the girls we we did go skinny dipping that was that was quite a boundary to break i'm not gonna lie because i always wanted to do that so that was ticked off bucket list that was so fun though that was a very fun night so i feel like we need to set boundaries no maybe we need to do the opposite and set boundaries like that we shouldn't cross and that being one of them because we were so drunk that day and we get too drunk together but I don't even know if I'm gonna drink next year

that's a lie I definitely am on holidays oh this year oh my god this year this year no babe you're gonna no you know what no if you, babe, you're going to... No, you know what? No, if you're going to say you're not going to drink, I'm behind you and I'm not going to push that upon you. I'm going to say, go on. I thought you were going to say, I'm going to too. You say sober. Well, maybe.

No, I'm not. No, sorry. I am going to drink. Because for me, I actually feel like it would be easy to go sober. I just don't want to. It's just, i like getting drunk i think it's fine yeah me too but in moderation and i i don't feel like last year i had moderation whatsoever i think i'm going to drink a lot less um because there's loads of goals and stuff i want

to achieve and drinking doesn't help that and i hate being hung over and i've got to be sober for 75 days anyways for this challenge and you know what after that you might not even feel like having a drink and go but i feel like on holiday i always will yeah like i love drinking cocktails on holidays and doing shots yeah that's fun to me that is yeah that is part of my holiday that comes part of the package okay so when we go on our summer holiday this year, lots of cocktails, lots of shots. Absolutely. Me and you might be going away very soon.

Oh, to... Wait, but is that actually happening though? Yes, please can we make it happen? If we're going to make 1 million percent. I hope we can get me on the plane now. I'm free, I'm available, and I'll happily go away. But I can't drink because I'm doing a 75-day hard. That's fine.

We can have a wholesome one. We can have That's fine. We can have a wholesome one. We can have a detox holiday. We can have a wholesome detox. I tell you what though, my boyfriend is going sober this whole year. For the whole year? For the whole year. And I mean, fair play to him. But I keep saying to him, but what about holidays? He only gets like two weeks off of the year. I'm like, please just have a cocktail for your holiday. That's all right, man. We can go on holiday and I'll have a cocktail with you thanks once you've done 75 day hard if

we go on holiday and jam we'll have a detox and that's breaking a boundary for us because normally we would be seven cocktails deep so breaking a boundary for us exactly so that's our boundary breaking for this year we're going to try a double date I just got to find a boyfriend first so you're holding up your end of the bargain with that one just bear with me okay and then we're gonna go on lots of holidays and travel perfect I love that for us right let's read some of your guys's let me just get them up this is nice someone else has put I'm gonna travel across the world with my best friend that's really cute that's really sweet I like that this one I love actually someone's replied saying going to university at the age of 27 and that makes me so happy I love that genuinely there's been times

when I've been so scared to start something because of my age and I feel like it's too late to start it but when you look at all of these like half people that are famous or that are billionaires didn't start until they're 10 times older than us. Like you literally can start anything at any age. It's like even with my acting, although I did like bits as a child last year, I was like, this is a year where I'm going to dedicate the entire year to my acting. And I didn't want to do it for so long. Cause I was like, probably just too old to start. And then I was like, screw it. But like, yeah. And like, if you have have the attitude of everything you're never going to do anything no so it's like you actually just have to and going to university at 27 that's amazing because

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oh this girl says to give someone a compliment every day I think that is so sweet I love that spreading the love spreading the love I really want to do that should we do that we can do that Anna your hair looks luscious did you just say luscious oh my god that's as nearly as bad as what did I say last year that's nearly as bad as what i said fab no when it amazed no amazed oh my god right that's the new one anna your hair looks luscious saff your hair looks beautiful today i'm actually really enjoying the plat when you come on that's actually a very much lie with it's not though because it's not because when you come on i thought i'm loving the plat oh but i just didn't say it so but i was loving the plat mentally you should have said the compliment exactly but now i'm

gonna say the compliment okay so i'm loving the plat and my hair's looking luscious luscious and soft um what other ones have i got oh i like this one this one's scary but i'm going to start to say no more yeah we both said this. That's a really good thing. I love that. That's also on our list. This one makes me nervous. Reverse parking out of choice.

Stop. That is so mean. Reverse parking is actually stress though. Like if it's in a really busy car park and there's only one space and you have to reverse park into it, the way my anxiety goes through the roof. Really i don't like reverse parking see i find parking in a car park anyway is totally easy i just don't like parking on the side of the road oh like parallel parking yeah

that's what i hate doing yeah i'm not a fan either i'd rather i just want to be able to drive into space and drive out i'm not i don't mind reversing in but it's just when it's the sound of brain i just think oh gonna hit the curb gonna hit the curb i'm getting quite a lot of i'm actually gonna book driving lessons or i'm gonna book my driving test as well so lots of new drivers for 2024 oh i'm getting loads of people saying they're gonna travel australia as well and i love that for all of you because honestly, guys, I also plan on going back to Australia at some point this year. This one is just thinking, fuck it to everything, lol.

And do you know what? I actually enjoy that. Yeah, I really enjoy that. I feel like that is a mindset we should all just have. Yeah, because why not? You have one life. Nothing to lose.

Nothing to lose. And my last one I'm going to read out is leaving my toxic ex in 2023. We've been on and off for three years because I'm too comfortable one I'm going to read out is leaving my toxic ex in 2023 we've been on and off for three years because I'm too comfortable and I'm over it yes slay that's my favorite one so far me too toxic exes are being left in 2023 guys absolutely we are done with silly boys here on this podcast this is a little roundup for our first episode 2024 i hope you guys it's so nice to be back and i feel like it was a really positive episode so i love that 100 breaking lots of boundaries this year guys i still

want to hear all about your breaking boundaries as well so please message me more because i feel like i need inspiration yeah because like i said i haven't done my proper new year's resolutions yet so yeah well to be fair i still i still want to write some more. So yeah, throw them our way. Yeah. Also, we have a bonus episode on Thursday and this is all talking about our ins and our outs. And this is only something I've been seeing as of recently, but I'm so on board with it and I love it.

So definitely go and listen to that episode and happy new year. Yeah. Happy new year guys. I will see you on Thursday. See you on Thursday. Bye.