Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 48. Ask Us Anything (and I Mean Anything!)

Episode Date: January 25, 2024

We always love answering your questions and this episode, we answer everything your have been dyinggggg to know! From when our next girl trip is, to advise on figuring out your twenties, and what do we see each other doing in ten years. It’s giving major girl boss energy (in a good way!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

let's go hi everyone and welcome back to sex lives and dm sides so it's thursday which means it's time for another bonus episode now in our last ep i think i said this in the last bonus as well that it was my i thought the last few episodes we've done have been so interesting so good i loved the last ep that we did we oh my god we did like it was all about star signs and compatibility and basically you need to listen to it because we're now mental it's going to change your entire opinion on star signs i am telling you we are converted to star sign girlies yeah like wild like please if you don't believe in star signs or if you do obviously but like if you don't it probably would have been an ep like i wouldn't

have listened to go listen it will be an eye-opening episode i think i think you guys are very gonna much enjoy it um but off the back of that because it's very fresh early on into the year we thought we just do a nice little q a we did like one of these bonus episodes a couple of weeks ago and everybody really enjoyed it and it just kind of gives like i don't know like when we sit down to our youtube video vibes i love doing a q a so it's nice to do one of these once in a while um okay so i literally just asked on instagram so i'm just gonna like reel off a load of questions first one when are you guys going on your next holiday together we what we were right we were looking at we going in jan but i don't think we're going anymore are we i know yeah like we literally keep saying we're gonna go away but i feel like we well i have a my life is gonna change not that i can actually

talk about it i actually can't talk about it right now so literally i'd be that person but my life is about to change a lot and i feel like i don't really know what i'm doing with my life at the moment yeah in the next couple of months so i feel like we was gonna go away in january wasn't we were gonna go away and somewhere like quite far away but i don't think that's happening anymore no but we definitely will be getting some trips and i feel like we should book now we need to so many places i want to go to and i've realized i actually haven't been to that many places i feel like last year i went to like the same places like i went to la a couple of times i went to vegas a couple of times like i want to go back to australia i've already said i'm doing new years in australia this year like one million percent but other than that like I wanted to like cute little Europe places as well like I want to go to like Italy

and like the Amalfi Coast and like Cappadocia and like all places like that I really want to go to yeah same I feel like um I've been to like country-wise I've been to like lots of different states and stuff in different countries and places but I tend to go back to the same countries because there was that um I don't know if you've seen that like Instagram sticker that people have popped up on their story recently and it's like tick off the places you've been and like it for the US it just said USA well I've been to like seven different states in the US but like when you look at the countries I've actually barely been to that many countries and it really made me think I really need to

venture out with the places I go to me too because I was going to put it on my story but then I was looking at things actually I've not really been to any of those places I was like I need to go to all those places it inspired me to actually I need to book like get some books tripped trips booked ASAP. Let's go. The all-new FanDuel Sportsbook and Casino is bringing you more action than ever. Want more ways to follow your faves? Check out our new player prop tracking with real-time notifications. Or how about more ways to customize your casino page with our new favorite and recently played games tabs.

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When I, since I was a little girl, I always knew what I wanted to do. Now, I know YouTube wasn't a job but I always knew my strengths and my weaknesses and I always knew that like in some way I was going to entertain and perform like I just knew that would be my life like I knew that I would never ever have a sit-down job and I remember because obviously me and you we started YouTube so young like I started at 14 and although YouTube was such a new thing I obviously didn't know at 10 years old I was going to do YouTube it never was like a shock like oh my god shock I'm doing you like it just very quickly fell into place with me and I always knew that I was going to entertain and I was

I've never in my life until recently being like what am I going to do with my life and so I think I was personally very blessed growing up and I think I really struggled to understand and I also felt sorry for a lot of people that didn't know what they wanted to do for an example my younger brother it's in fact even now has has never known what he's wanted to do of his life like he's never loved anything enough and I always felt really sorry for him until recently I would say the last last year 2023 was like the first year that I was like I don't know what I want to do with my life anymore like I love what I do but I feel like I want to do more I've done it for so long um and so yeah I think it's normal like I think we all go through different stages where

we know what we want and we don't know what we don't want and I think if you know people that did when they were a child they'll they'll hit a point in their life where they won't know what they want I don't think everyone knows what they want their entire life you know yeah and I think like just reiterate what you said that was the same as me like I've started YouTube so young that I always knew I was going to do that but like I've only really questioned a couple of times like recently like you know do I want to do this rest of my life like I know I do but I also know that I want more but I don't know what I want to do this rest of my life? Like I know I do, but I also know that I want more, but I don't know what I want more of or like what I necessarily want to do. But I think that thought is so natural. I think that thought is so natural to a lot of people who also leave uni because a lot of my friends when they left uni, like they just got on their degree,

but they weren't sure if they actually wanted to use that degree. They weren't sure if that's even what they wanted to do anymore. Like they just made that decision to use that degree they weren't sure if that's even what they wanted to do anymore like they just made that decision to get that degree so they had a degree and now they're like now what do I do like a lot of my friends are actually just leaving uni and going traveling now and just going away for the next like year just to go and see the world which I think is like the most amazing thing and I'm honestly like that is all I want to do I cannot wait to be able to like go backpacking around like Asia and go back to Australia and stuff because I can completely see why so many people go and do that but I wouldn't if you don't know what you want to do in your 20s like don't beat yourself up about it because it's a very normal thought to have to be honest at any age in life whether you're 20

whether you're 30 whether you're 40 you can still question like what do I want to do you it's it's okay to not know and I think like honestly just believing that everything's gonna fall into place will just give you a peace of mind as well like I know I'm a very big overthinker and I for like the last year or so have like massively been overthinking like what am I gonna do like blah blah blah um and I've decided to get into something like I'm so passionate about that's so new and the reason I decided to do this is because I saw this um it was like again this honestly my feed is full of like motivational speakers I'm not joking but that's yeah it obviously goes to show what I watch and what I like watching which. But that's, yeah, it obviously goes to show what I watch and what I like watching, which is good.

It's all positive. And it was saying like, you know, how these like major celebrities who are like actors or scientists or whatever, like they might've made it at like age 43. They probably didn't know their whole life what they wanted to do. Like it's never too late to start something.

So I think one thing to think about as well is if you enjoy something, don't think, oh, well, I'm too late to start something so I think one thing to think is think about as well as if you enjoy something don't think always I'm too old to start this now as well I think you can start something new at any age and like Anna and I said just because someone might look like they've got it all figured out they at some point will hit a stage in their life where they don't have it figured out and they don't know what they want to do and that is normal um but yeah I think it's so much easier said than done but obviously overthinking it is like the worst thing you can do I think if you just do what you love and you enjoy eventually it'll fall into place 100% and it also gives me like this is maybe it's bad peace of mind but it gives me peace of mind that I'm not the only person who thinks like I don't know what I'm

going to do with my life like it gives me comfort in knowing that other people like i'm not the only one who thinks that so like yeah so many people think that so do not worry at all it's so funny because the next question underneath that was where do you see yourself in 10 years i'm thinking babe oh god i'm like i do not have a fucking clue i don't know where i see myself in six months I'm manifesting it I'm winning an Oscar that's my you are winning an Oscar I love that for you honest to god in 10 years I'll be 33 I have not got a clue like actually no clue and I'm like that's fine life's gonna be full of surprises for me I wake up every day I don't even know what I'm doing tomorrow so

I can actually see what's gonna happen to you in 10 years time i can see it i feel like you're gonna be such a big business woman with lots of investments you're gonna be like number one best-selling author of like something like i i can see that like i feel like you're gonna be very much business woman like i can almost see dragon dale on the yeah i would love to be like a boss bitch businesswoman like that is yeah that is exactly what i would love i'm putting it into the universe anna thank you it's out there in the universe i'm gonna have my dream house like dream family couple little kids maybe or i might be single rich auntie flitting around on a planet who knows who fucking knows but 10 years is a long time away 10 years 10 years a long time away where do you see me in 10 years in 10 years i see you

not in the uk okay not in the uk living somewhere abroad in a film or you've like you've been in films you're like rehearsing for your next film and yeah you've won an os you've like you've been in films you're like rehearsing for your next film and yeah you've won an oscar or like you've you're like living like your dream life that like you've always wanted to live like that's how and like seeing your like red carpets and shit like that's how i see you in 10 years wow thank you do you see me with a family oh yeah obviously like a career why really you think i have that's what i was talking about i will have a family in 10 years yeah i think in 10 years you will definitely have a family wow i love this for us slayed well let's actually go back to this in 10 years and see if it worked out yeah no when it

works out we'll play this podcast episode when it works out i love that will you be married in 10 years time i would like to think so would you think you'll be married in 10 years yeah yes yeah i would really like to think so yeah i feel like we're getting to the age now where like some of my friends like to start getting married soon we're getting to the age where we're we're getting old we're getting older guys but like do you think that's going to be such a weird day when like i've never even posted a boyfriend let alone when i post i'm fucking engaged or i'm pregnant like that is going to be the weirdest thing in the world for me to put i can't even fathom posting that if i do it i'm going to do the same thing with my announcement pic and

just not tell you and let you just be shocked what i'd see on instagram no i'll be fuming you have to tell me before i see it on instagram i would be i want to i want a picture of the ring in our messages before i see it on my instagram feed or the pregnancy test or the pregnancy or the pregnancy test okay next one what is your favorite memory together oh i like that one cute what is my favorite memory i feel like i have so many but like a lot of them we couldn't really say oh my god i'm trying to think of one that's like funny yeah same that like we can actually speak about because i actually can't think i really want to say a good story well one of my favorite just holidays in general or two of them will probably always be I think in LA

last year we had such a funny three weeks like even like I just every time I think of that trip so many things went wrong and so many things went right but like the whole thing was just so funny do you know what i think of which i think was tragic at the time what was when we was in barbado and the electricity kept going out and we had no phones no hair dryers like i remember we just got out the pool and like i have hair extensions chlorine you can't leave your hair extensions like that we couldn't wash our hair we couldn't use a hair dryer we couldn't use a hairdryer. We didn't have phones. We had nothing.

It was like living back 2,000 years ago. And we were in Barbados, like a 10-hour flight away, and we had nothing. Nothing. And it was just us. It wasn't for anyone. Yeah. We were there over New Year's, right?

Yeah. That is wild that we spent New Year's in Barbados. Absolutely wild. right yeah that is wild that we spend new years in Barbados absolutely wild and it really wasn't it was it was actually quite a tragic holiday like I'm grateful we're very lucky we got to do that but like everything went wrong it wasn't busy either like when we went to the beach clubs and stuff do you remember like we were sat at a beach club on a like thing to ourselves and there was like loads of kids and we like got in the pool yeah and I was doing strictly come dancing dances with like oh yeah it was like it was a very odd trip but at the same time it was so funny because it was so tragic like i will never forget when the electricity went out we were literally just like how is this happening to us i just don't think me and you have

ever had a trip that's gone smoothly though and neither really because even paris when we were like 17 that's still oh that was that was awful new york when we went actually me and you that was a really good trip i was about to say new york was great that was an amazing trip we did nothing went wrong on that trip no but every other trip since oh my god and when we saw pretty women together i loved oh see now that was that night is probably one of my favorite nights ever like that was just so exciting like we were like 17 in new york on our own like that is crazy when we actually think about it and you know actually i'm actually gonna ask you here on the podcast will you please come to japan with me soon obviously i would love to go i want to go to japan more than anywhere and i

feel like that should be our try i will happily book a Japan whenever because I need a flight booked so you just let me know when you want to book it and I will book it and there's the blossom season soon oh so all the blossom trees will be yeah it's literally soon like it's from like February to something oh well fine like I will happily book a trip whenever so we will go to Japan for blossom season. That'll be really nice. But overall memories, I think we have too many for me to actually be able to pick one. But like all of the trips we've been on,

I think I will just remember for a lifetime. And I so wish that we could go back and relive some of them because of how funny they were. Like I really, really do. Let's go. Prime Big Deal Days is coming October 8th and 9th with exclusive savings just for Prime members. Involuntary deal squeals can happen,

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I think I do. I think I do from when I was younger because like we've been doing social media for so long that I don't think I understood boundaries when I was a kid is it like what to post and what not to post like I like to think I don't live with regrets either but like with literally living your life online it is really hard because people pick out everything well for the last one this is a nice one like light-hearted one if you could pick one of each other's items from their wardrobe what would you pick oh my god well i know yours 100 i think i know yours as well go on you go first

i'll take your it's a hard one between your ben and jerry's dunks because i love those or your bag collection for red carpets that you wear is extremely beautiful and i really want those oh thanks i was it would be your ben and jerry's dunks or or some of your boots i'm really enjoying your boot collection you have do you know what none of my boots are expensive either i know they're all like plt and like like ego vibes right yeah but i just managed to like like you can't get any of them anymore you do boots like you still need those red boots from ego to match the bag that i got for christmas because i have them and they are the most amazing boots in the world really like no i really want to get yeah you know i'm not a boots girl but i can walk around

in these boots all night and like they're perfect okay i need so you need them well that's a nice little way to end off the podcast absolutely well thank you all so much for listening i hope you guys have enjoyed make sure like we said at the beginning to go and listen to tuesday's episode all about astrology but like you actually need to listen and we we are going to find a good astrology book and recommend it to you guys thank you so much for listening and we will see you next tuesday for another episode see you guys then bye