Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 64. It's Just A Little Crush

Episode Date: March 21, 2024

Everyone’s had a little crush in their life right? Well in today’s bonus episode, we thought we’d explore the topic a little deeper and look at our own experiences of having a crush. We chat all about inappropriate crushes, silly things we’ve done to impress the crush and which silver fox do we fancy in Hollywood atm? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's go. Hi guys, and welcome back to Sex Eyes and DM Slides. It's Thursday, which means we're back for another bonus episode. In our last episode, we actually spoke to dating expert Anna Williamson, and she answered lots of questions. That episode was so good. I love that episode. Yeah, me too. I think we, yeah, I feel like people are going to learn a lot

yeah because i feel like we can give advice but we can't give like solid advice we feel like we're experts but she actually is an expert so there's there is a difference yeah we're the unofficial experts a hundred percent um so now i don't know if you've seen this have you seen one day right i started watching it but I did get bored. And I, right, don't hate me because everyone that's watched it thinks it's the best thing ever. But my mum wasn't a fan. And my mum, I think, is the only person I know that's watched it that isn't a fan. She's like, I don't get the hype.

I think the only thing with it is there was definitely episodes that didn't need to be in there. And there's 14 episodes for the full thing. And I was like, by like by episode like seven or so I thought I probably didn't need to watch like four of these episodes to understand

what was going on so it was very long however I did cry a lot when I got to the end everyone I know was crying

but I also so I maybe stupidly didn't know but there was a film called One Day with oh okay I didn't know that I there was a film called One Day with... Oh, okay.

I didn't know that. I think it might be Anne Hathaway, potentially who plays Emma. And obviously that is only an hour and a half, whereas the series is seven hours. So it just depends how long you want to drag it out. However, it was amazing. And I did cry, even though I hadn't seen the film,

but like I kind of had an idea what was going to happen. You know, I... So it's the same storyline as the exact same storyline but as obviously like as I was watching it I was like right I kind of know what's going to happen here you're going to get an inkling because it's like it's only going to go one way um but I know that literally everybody on the internet has fallen in love with Emma and Dexter um because obviously they've had a crush on each other for absolute years that is the main plot line um so we thought it'd be fun to do a little episode today talking all things crushes because I don't think we've ever really spoken about like crushes that we had when we

were younger um or like our own experiences with them so who was your crush when you were like young like a child um oh my god I had so many when i actually think to my first ever crush it was probably a cartoon like genuine which i know it sounds so crazy but i used to love lazy town i used to fancy the guy from lazy town vorticus is a wild one because like i'm sure i'm picturing him in my the blue suit like he had a blue something on yeah yeah i have not watched like well obviously i've not watched well obviously I've not watched Lazy Town in years

but I haven't even thought about Lazy Town in years but it was so good no it was so good and do you know who else I used to really fancy

was that guy I can't ever remember his name the guy that looks like his hair is um oh my god what's those

not sweets they're in a packet ice gems yeah that's like an ice gem um is it jimmy something oh no come on are you doing right i'm getting off a bit i know who you want about i can't think of his name you will you will know is it jimmy neutron jimmy neutron that's who that's who it is. Oh, I used to fancy him. Yeah. I'm trying to think now, did I fancy a cartoon? I don't know if I did. I know Byron used to fancy the sexy fish from Shark Tale.

But I'm like that. Oh, stupid. That's a really common one though. Because then I saw a TikTok go viral and it had like millions of likes. Like, oh my God, yeah, we all fancied this fish when we were younger. How can we fancy? Because looking back, I'm like, surely not. But at the time, I think I genuinely you know who what who what i used to have a crush on this is so rogue but on

michael buble when i was younger and i would sorry yeah on michael buble i did and i would go and kiss the tv that is when he was on the tv i'm on about when i was like four or five but yeah i'd go and kiss the tv that Yeah, that is crazy to me. Michael Bublé. That's crazy to me. Babe, what? Even if you said you fancy Michael Bublé now,

I'd be like, huh? It's kind of giving like a still fox vibe to me. But like back then when you were younger, that's crazy. I'm not sure he was my

like obsession. I don't know why, but every time I'd be on the TV, I'd be singing on the TV. There's loads of pictures that my mum and dad have got of me in front of the TV like going to kiss it

because Michael Bublé was on the TV. Oh my God, that my mom and dad have got of me in front of the tv like going to kiss it because my group was on tv oh my god that is so funny such a random but i also do kind of remember having like crushes at not preschool like oh is it primary school preschool i don't even know the order anymore but when i was like eight or nine i can remember having crushes and like i've spoken to atticus as well about like do you have a crush and that he's definitely had crushes at his age as well i feel like i always had a crush there was always someone i i crushed on most young boys that would go on x-factor britain's good time and i had a crush on when i was yeah bradley mcconnell was mine who's bradley he was blonde and he was on X Factor. I don't know who that is.

George Samson. I think everyone fancied him. Oh yeah, George Samson was gorgeous. Literally everyone. But I fancied him when he was in Waterloo Road. Oh, I didn't even know he was in Waterloo Road. I've not seen Waterloo Road. What?

Are you joking? I've never seen it. Waterloo Road? Yeah. Oh, you are joking. I've never watched it. Waterloo Road was the best TV show. Me and my brothers were literally obsessed with it.

Oh my God, okay. Well, I know loads of people watch it. Oh, such a good TV show. There was, who else did I used to fancy as well? He was on CBBC. He was potentially in Tracy Beaker. I can picture his face and I can't remember now, but I feel like someone from there.

Really? Yeah, I can't think who it was now, but he gave me George Sampson vibes, vibes to him actually and i really fancied him wow i don't know who that is i can't think of his name i'm awful at remembering names from like kids tv shows but you know we all had our little crushes who got like growing up but the funny thing is i feel like i had more crushes when i was younger than i do now like i wouldn't sit here now and say like yeah i have a crush but i feel like now you like know people's like I think back then anyone that was like cheeky and good looking as like a young girl you'd fancy like I don't know did you ever

fancy bars and melody yes that's what I mean I just feel like just anyone that was cheeky young like you just fancy whereas like now I think you actually do just look past. It's like, oh, I don't know. And when you're younger as well and you have like a crush, I think it's more exciting. Like when you're like 10, you don't got a lot to think about. Do you know what I mean? So like all you're going to think about and romanticize is the fact

that you've got this crush on this boy or this girl and you really like them. And like, it's so exciting. Whereas in my adult life, if I started to crush on someone i'm panicking i'm thinking oh fuck i can't deal with these emotions i don't need these extra emotions the google i just don't need it so yeah i definitely but when i was a kid i loved loved loved having a little crush let's go i'm going back to university for $0 delivery fee, up to 5% off orders and 5% Uber cash back on rides. Not whatever you think university is for.

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So like a crush on someone you haven't one meant to like be crushing on basically the deputy head at our school when i tell you every single girl my friendship group fancied him in fact nearly every girl in the school fancied him to the point where there was a whole song about him a song there was a song that people would sing when it go part was he actually like literally walk past was he actually really good looking like would you still sit here now and say like no no no i'm so i mean it was obviously the best at the time but like I look back and I just think surely not but I think it's that also like I don't know like when you're in school like you fantasize over someone that's so much older and

you think they're sexy and like you know you can never have them because they're so much older i don't know if it was that sort of thing but like every single one of the girls in my friendship group that all my friends could bout i mean i can't sing the song because it's obviously says his name in it but like there was a song that like every girl would sing about him and i mean he he was 45 oh he was 45 see we had a p teacher at my old secondary school obviously can't tell you that but he was gorgeous as well but I don't know what he looks like I haven't seen him

in probably like oh my god like 8, 9 years but oh my god yeah he was good but he wasn't 45 he was definitely on the younger side

I'd say he was like 20 yeah see that I get but like us fancying someone that's like 45 years old yeah but also a bit of a silver fox sometimes you can have a little crush on them

well you did babe from day dot with Michael Bublé didn but also a bit of a silver fox sometimes you can have a little crush on them well you did babe from day dot with michael buble didn't you yeah i love silver fox so about silver fox just gets me who would you who is a silver fox do you name your top three silver foxes oh god nowadays i don't really like i'm trying to think of a like a good looking celebrity that's in their like 50s or 60s can you think of any yeah because i can't really like i'm trying to think of a like a good looking celebrity that's in their like 50s or 60s can you think of any yeah because i can't think of like a um oh patrick dempsey yeah patrick dempsey actually he was just in um have you seen as i'm raising new film thanksgiving no i haven't seen oh he was just in that and he i thought he actually did look very good in that gone gray i'm enjoying the gone gray vibe right i like it okay i'm looking i'm looking now at um at silver foxes

there's daniel day lewis can't picture what he looks like let me show you i don't know oh i don't know i don't know oh I don't know I don't know he's not bad looking but I wouldn't put him as my top silver fox I'm looking down there isn't George Clooney huge silver

that's like a yes huge silver fox what about Hugh Grant oh I do like Hugh Grant I love Hugh Grant but I don't I don't know if I would be like in my top three I think I don't I think it's I don't know I'm gonna offend but like Jude Law because I don't think he's quite there yet but he's like on his way and I think he's gorgeous he's absolutely gorgeous yeah yeah and also Taylor Kinney

never heard of his name before, but I know his face. Because he's in Chicago Fire. Have you seen Chicago Fire? No, I've not seen that. I've only seen a few episodes of it. Actually, one of my best friends, Jasmine, she's obsessed with Chicago Fire just because of the men. Because they're all absolutely gorgeous.

Really? But I wouldn't class him as a silver fox, because I did not think he was old enough to be classed as a silver fox. Oh, him! Yes, I know who he is. He is 36, which I didn't think he was old enough to be classed as a silver fox oh him yes yeah I know who he is he is 36 which I didn't think he was not I thought it was like 50 oh that yeah I'm not gonna lie I thought he was in his 50s so oh yeah 36 no I think he looks young do you I think he looks a bit older yeah no I wouldn't I don't know I definitely thought he was older though I didn i think he looks a bit older yeah no i wouldn't i don't know i definitely thought he was older though i didn't think he was in his 30s really yeah he's gorgeous though

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Let's go okay what's the silliest thing that you've done to ever impress a crush if you've done anything god um i must have done something i feel like i'm more like again it's when i was younger but i probably just make up that i was into all the same things that they were. Yeah. That's what I was about to say. When we start to speak. But that never works out,

does it? No, because if they say, oh, if I said, oh, I love this film, then I'd watch a favourite character.

Well, I ain't got a fucking clue. I've not seen it. No. So then I'm just going to, I've shot myself in the foot. Yeah, I've definitely done things like that.

And it's, yeah, it's just pointless. Like, even nowadays, like, if you just lie about one thing, it's just,

there's no point because eventually they're going to learn that you're not into that so it's just what's the point but yeah i definitely say that i mean that's not even really that like it kind of is silly but it's not like crazy but like yeah that's probably just the worst i've done just to try and make myself like seem more compatible with them than i actually am because i want to be like what they're into no No, I've definitely done that. But I don't think I've actually ever done anything crazy, genuinely. I don't think I really have. It's probably going to come to me as soon as I put in this. But one thing, and I can't say who it is,

but one thing I will say is when I was younger, I had this crush and I was adamant that you're going to know who it is. I was adamant. I already know who it is. The minute you said it, I knew who it was. I genuinely would say to my parents no no it's not like a i'm a fan of him mom it's like i know i'm gonna marry him like genuinely i know i'm gonna marry him we are literally the same person my parents have laughed blah blah anyways one day he messages me and i'm like 14 and my biggest crush but like bear in mind he's

famous yeah messages me at the age of 14 when i tell you i locked myself in the bathroom i think i remember this i locked myself in the bathroom and i am screaming like actually screaming my parents come running my parents could tell you this exact story. My parents come running up the stairs, like what's wrong? What's wrong? They thought that I was like dying because I'm absolutely screaming. And I just knew, I knew that he was going to message me one day. Like I just knew it. And it's just bizarre. And like my parents and I laugh, I mean, I wish I could, oh, I can't say who it is. I can't say who it is I can't say who it is but because they'd get way too much yeah you can't um yeah but it's so funny like I the way I reacted when I was that young is just

hilarious but the reason I also reacted is because I genuinely I didn't I genuinely believe that in my head yeah I know I know that's know. That was quite iconic, though. But it's funny. It is weird, though. When I look back to that situation, like, that is weird. That is very weird. Okay, so have you ever turned a crush

into a relationship? I don't think I have. Maybe, well, actually, saying that, I found a new boy in school and then we ended up going out for like two days. So not really.

Yeah, like, all my crushes. Well, yeah, because you crush on anyone before you're with them and to be fair even this guy i was kind of kind of with him yeah that yeah that is true actually so like that's the weirdest thing well yeah you i don't know maybe i'm answering the question wrong but like i've not turned my like celeb crushes obviously into anything serious but but like little like crush that i've had yeah i've had little flings with them because yeah i guess you have to fancy them to like if they're going to

come up like if they're your crush and hopefully you're going to end up speaking to them unless it's someone who like you literally have no idea who you are who they are no unless it's someone like completely random they have no idea who you are you're never going to meet them opposite side of the world do you know what i mean um okay when does a crush get a bit too obsessive or is a crush ever innocent because i just feel like a crush is crush gets too obsessive when you lock yourself in the bathroom and start screaming that's when the crush gets too obsessive that was slightly obsessive but you did kind of see him so it kind of worked out i did and the thing is after that i didn't think he was like this fantasy guy i just thought

this is who i was meant to be exactly oh just you thought it was meant to be but i think a lot of the time as a whole though crushes are very innocent like it's just someone that you really fancy yeah yeah and again it's just that excitement isn't it because yeah you just fancy yeah you yeah a lot of the time your crushes you realise when you're actually with them they're really not the ones and it's very easy to not fancy them. Yeah, because a lot of the time when you do...

Because it's just an idea, isn't it? Yeah, you just fancy them for their looks, really. It's very superficial. Okay, to end it on then. Who is your celebrity crush now? Mine would probably be Michael B. Jordan. Oh, yeah. That is a very good one, actually. I probably would be Michael B. Jordan. Oh, yeah. That is a very good one, actually.

I probably would have said that for you as well, actually. Who do you think my celebrity crush is? I honestly don't think you're going to get it because I don't think I've told you about this boy. Yeah, I actually don't know who your celebrity crush would be. I feel like you could list my celebrity crushes, but I don't... I don't actually really have many celebrity crushes,

but if I had to choose one, it would probably be be michael jordan but i really couldn't tell you who yours would be mine it would be jordan ricky so don't even know him let me send you a picture yeah when i tell you this boy and i have actually um dm'd him before because i thought fuck it and we had a couple we like spoke a little bit but like and he's your celebrity yeah but the thing is that the chat was just like kind of do you know what i mean like you know when you can just tell the chat's sort of dead wow okay what does he do is he an actor no he lives in it's new zealand or australia but i'm pretty sure it's new zealand he's a record player i found him on tiktok on a compilation of gorgeous boys.

Wait, I actually think I know who he is. Is he always viral on TikTok? He goes viral on TikTok all the time for just being good looking. Yeah, I think I know who he is. Me and Freya sat and was going through these TikToks. I literally was goth-macked. Yeah, I've seen him. Yeah, do you know how I'm like?

Yeah, I've seen him. He has a girlfriend, right? Unsure. I don't know. I thought he did. I swear i've seen like i saw like video edits and stuff i don't know i've never seen a video in it when i went down my hole of like deep stalking there was like a potential um girl who he was spotted out in a bar with once but then everyone was like no no he's never gonna go this boy like if i had to describe my dream type that would be yeah he's giving noah beck oh he's giving noah beck he really is giving

noah beck which would be also probably be your crush yeah to be fair if i was saying celebrity i probably would say noah beck or him that's my sort of vibe so that's that's exactly what it's giving yeah so for now he'll stay in my dreams that's all for today guys uh thank you so much we really hope you enjoyed this episode uh be sure to check us out on socials and subscribe to the pod on spotify so you don't miss out on all of the gossip and make sure to go ahead and listen to tuesday's episode if you haven't already with anna some incredible advice i need to take that advice i need to go back and listen to that episode asap thank you all for watching we'll see you soon thanks guys bye