Sex, Lies & DM Slides - 71. Our (and Your) Worst EVER Dating Stories!

Episode Date: April 15, 2024

Sometimes you end up having a date that goes horribly wrong... but we keep telling ourselves it’s for the plot right?!? In this episode, you guys sent in your WORST ever dating stories that honestly had our jaws on the floor. Plus, we share our own worst dating stories! From someone demanding that their date paid for their train home, to a date that turned into a strange supermarket errand, to a guy wanting to keep a date on the DL. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

let's go hi guys welcome back to another episode of sex slides and dm slides with me saffron barker and me anastasia kingsnorth so we are back for another week and back for another opportunity to deep dive into all things sex and relationships babe how are you because i'm not feeling my finest self this morning as you can probably hear anna and i have both gone through the wars this morning yeah Anna's actually lost her voice for the last few days she's slowly getting it back although she's feeling terrible so I'm probably going to be doing more of the talking today yes please and I was nearly at the eye hospital because I haven't been

able to open my eye for the last hour and my my eye is in agony. So this eye looks smaller than the right eye. Wait. Yeah, my left eye looks smaller than the right eye. That's why. My eye is like throbbing right now. And I can't put a contact in it. So I also can't see. We're thriving today.

And I don't really know how it happened. I went to go put a contact in this morning. Here thriving. Really thriving. Really thriving. No, I literally just went to go put in a contact this morning and all of a sudden my eye was burning like absolutely burning so i took the contact out and like where it's white around our eyes there was no white it was completely red like it was

burning wake up and it was like that no no it wasn't until i put my contact in which makes me think that i had something on my hand but also i put a contact in the other eye and the other eye has been has actually been thriving so i don't know what's going on it still hurts it still feels like i've got something in my eye and my biggest fear is actually sleeping in my contacts and part of me was like maybe i haven't taken my contact out and i've got two of them like stuck in my contacts and part of me was like maybe I haven't taken my contact out and I've got two of them like stuck in my eye or something I still don't know I still might need to go to the eye hospital so we shall see and today you've got I'm gonna give myself an alter ego because I'm sounding a bit like a man so say it's Adam on the podcast it's not Anastasia

because I cannot physically go any higher pips than this voice and I'm so confused I literally woke up and I was like oh guys I'm always thinking about saying I said one word and no word came out so I've literally got in front of me right now a honey and lemon tea a lemon tea and some vitamin c and we're gonna power through and we're gonna talk about our worst first date stories yeah we're gonna power through with some amazing positivity of our worst date stories brilliant we have got this um to be fair i've overcome one challenge as well i also without being tmi had cystitis this morning for however long that's so i'm in a very common occurrence at the moment it's it's like so this is actually this is really tmi i don't even know if i should

be talking about it loads of people get it i have suffered with cystitis my entire life like really badly like the worst case of it anna has been with me in situations where like it won't pass for hours and hours and i go see a specialist and they tell me that i have nothing wrong with me and it's an ongoing thing like i know there's something wrong with me but nobody can figure out what it is and basically what cystitis is is that you get like a burning sensation and like you're in loads of pain you need to wean your arm and that is what i have but it's more like uncomfortable so like unless i'm sat on the toilet it won't pass and like i can't i can't think to myself like switch off my mind can only focus on this because it's that uncomfy but like i'd rather be in pain than be this uncomfortable

like it's that bad it's annoying as well because you don't know what triggered it like it just comes on randomly no this is it yeah i really thought that it honestly i thought it was alcohol or sex like i thought it would i thought it was one of those things that triggered it i've learned it's absolutely not because i'm having none of those in the moment so we're loving celibate life um so i actually don't know what does trigger it like i really don't know it's so bizarre but anna's we've nearly missed a flight once haven't we because my society just won't go i remember when we were on really weirdly somebody actually brought this up on the um question box for the ski trip we were sat in the bathroom for hours yeah hours when you when you were behind the

other week you had paper cuts the tightest again if you please tell me you've got the sachets i was like yeah i've got the sachets and the thing is i have the sachets and it goes and that's why i know it's the status it's so it's actually bizarre it is so bizarre does anyone else suffer with this please let me know if anybody is in full health right now i'm very jealous of you because we are going through it we're going the thing is they tell me i have full health i literally got i've been to the doctors so many times and every time they tell me the same thing they actually at one point they convinced me that it was in my head and i convinced myself that it must be something in my head when you've got cystitis you know you've

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yeah before oh no no you didn't tell me before no so you won't know about this right um so it Right. So it was that day. So I don't really go on many dates. Honestly, I'm not really. I don't if I'm being honest, I don't really like dates. I don't like I don't know if I really like someone and I'd seen them a few times. Yes, I'd love to go out for dinner with them and everything else. But the idea of a date just doesn't really excite me too much. I just I don't know. I'm just not a massive fan on like dating like that like me being single it's not exciting for me to go on dates like I think for god's sake I've got to do the dates again that's the way that I see it that's how I'm starting to

get now so I don't really go on many dates anyway I was a little bit nervous for this day um it was all very last minute this guy was a lot older than me really fancied him anyways I was at the dentist the day before and I was getting my tooth fixed right and I've had my six front teeth done anyways long story, I banged my tooth because basically it wasn't completely like in place because I still had to go back in a couple of days. My tooth had come out. This was about half an hour before I was meant to be at this date. I've lost my tooth. My entire tooth is out. Like I, I can't even tell you i wanted to die and the thing is it's not like you know when you think of like veneers and you think of like the tiny little pricks i don't

have those no but it's not it doesn't look like a tooth now yeah it still looks not good like it's obvious that it's fallen off i've never been so embarrassed and the thing is this guy was traveling to me so he was traveling i think he driven over an hour the dates in half an hour yeah i think i remember honestly i actually i didn't know what i was gonna do because i was like well if i superglue it on what happens when i eat if it comes off and also it felt horrendous because it wasn't an actual tooth it was um i don't know what it's called but like it was it wasn't a tooth basically it was like a paste to look like a tooth until they got my tooth sorted if that makes sense so it didn't even feel like a normal tooth so when i when it's come out and i've gone to superglue it back in it feels like and also the amount of

superglue i put on it was so thick like when i was talking i could feel it like it was the thickest thing i've ever felt in my life i was thinking there's no way i could kiss this guy he'd feel this big heifer lump of a tooth like i could feel it in my mouth i think that's so iconic that you glued it back in it was so bad he didn't know the entire day but i had to constantly keep checking to myself is my tooth in like the entire day i was scared to eat anything did you eat in the end i can't remember if you ate or not i did eat but i ate on one side of my mouth oh okay and he must have thought what like it was obvious i was eating like this do you know what i mean i mean on one side of my arm what is she doing yeah well yeah did you see him again and he never he never knew he never knew so i mean it's yeah

but did you go on a second date i can't remember no i never went on a second date with him maybe because he saw maybe maybe because he saw my maybe maybe because he was really freaked out by the way you were eating no he was actually really nice I don't really know why I just wasn't it was like he was so nice we actually was on a date for like eight hours or something yeah I really feel like I remember who it is now and I have a picture in my head I don't know if it is this guy probably I've definitely shown you him and he was lovely and really good looking and so nice but and the thing is we would we've sat and spoke for hours and hours but there was no like I really want to see him again like I just can't it just wasn't he just wasn't the one for me that was it like I think you know but you

had a nice time and now you've got a really funny first date story yeah that's the only story that I think that's been like hellish the thing is I haven't even described it properly I think my mum explained it she would tell you how much super glue I put on that tooth to make it stick and how it was just horrendous I can't believe you put super glue in your mouth on the tooth babe it was that or I don't have a tooth quite frankly I had no option or i cancelled but i just feel like i could never cancel someone on the day i would feel so bad especially if it was literally like half an hour before as well because yeah and like what what do i say to my tooth is it almost doesn't sound real no and i'd be embarrassed to say because because one of my friends I wish I could get the boys

note I was racking up one of my friends who is so lovely she's like why don't you just be honest with him and tell him and rock up and if he still likes you and I was like you are joking you are you've got to be joking I could have all the confidence in the world I am still not telling a girl on a first date so my tooth has just fallen out and i've super glued it back in no no that is because this is before i'd actually got them done so they weren't finished but yeah i shouldn't have signed myself up to a date basically but here we are but i'm trying to think if i've got anything to compete with that to be fair there was one time i was in the alchemist and i went on a date with this guy i

literally only saw him once it was very random um and i had like an all-in-one on that had a zip and i went to the toilet and i was really drunk at this point we'd had like a full bottle of wine this was a couple of years ago and luckily for some weird reason i took my coat to the toilet and i don't know why i did that still to this day because you just leave it on the chair anyway thank fucking god i did because the zip broke when i was in the toilet so my full bra boobs the lot are out and if i hadn't taken my coat to the toilet i would have walked back into that bar bearing in mind alchemist in spinning fields is huge i would have walked back out into this fucking bar full boobs out and then what do i say to the guy oh yeah by the way and i just sit there with everything out and then when we were walking home i remember i literally put when we got back to the table bearing in mind i had to sit there with my coat on so you all that's what i was about to say if you have to sit with my coat on

at this point you're definitely thinking what's the fuck i've got this big coat on and as i'm walking home i'm wrapping it around me he's trying do you know what i think i would have told him i was too embarrassed i literally i remember it happening i was going like looking at myself like how has this happened and then he tried to kiss me when we got back outside like outside my building he walked me home and he was trying to like open the jacket and i was like pulling it tighter around me thinking you can't open this jacket you can't open this jacket because all you're gonna see is tits and tummy i actually think i would have said that i think i would have said you won't believe it well to be fair he actually probably didn't well he clearly didn't think it was that weird because

he then asked to see me again and i just didn't see him again I think I was just too embarrassed that I sat in a bar with a big fur coat on because my boobs were out yeah that yeah why would you sit with your coat but I had my coat if someone did that to me I'd be like are you cold yeah but I had my coat off all night so it literally made no sense but I feel like that's quite tame I feel like I've been on so many dates I can't lie yeah see I feel like you've had your fair share of like I really haven't been on many dates but considering then you've not had any really bad days I don't really have any like crazy like awful first date stories to be honest I've always been like fairly lucky I've got the ick by a lot of guys I remember a guy came around my house and this is actually so mean because I love my short kings I love you guys like I always go

for guys that are quite short anyway I don't know why and this guy comes out on my sofa and you know my sofa it's a bit of a weird shape and he was sat with his back up on the sofa but his feet wouldn't touch the ground so he looked like a toddler like I can't explain it but the image that I have in my head of him he looks about four years old even though he's like a 25 year old grown man but it gave me the absolute ick like I looked at it and I thought oh my god this is like awful like it's actually awful I even thought that but I thought I can't see you again because it looked so weird and that is so shallow of me so I do apologize but yeah I've just that is so i've

just had weird first dates but overall a lot of mine have actually been fairly decent even though i'm still single so clearly it's not been that amazing actually no but i feel like they they have always actually been like you've always come back and been like yeah it was good i love an activity date i wouldn't really opt for that now like now i'm gonna say now i'm gonna go back out dating if i was to go on a date now i would prefer to go to a bar and get dressed up nicely really okay what's made you change your mind babe i think i've just been there done that with a lot of activity dates i've done a lot of the activities around manchester now but maybe though it's less likely for something to go wrong i I don't know. Do you reckon more could go wrong on an activity day or dinner day?

I think an activity day gives you maybe like a topic to talk about because like if you're doing an escape room, you're not really going to get to know each other. You're just trying to get out. Or like if you're doing the cube, like you're just going to play the game. So yeah, stuff could go wrong. I could get the ick over something that you do like in the cube when you put the mask on that oh i just i i would get the i genuinely would get the ick from myself i yeah more so i would get the ick from myself like when i went on a date at the cube he had to put the mask on rather than me and i thought if i have to put that mask on i'd rather i'd rather not like i'd rather just end the date than put that mask on because it

just gives me the absolute ick i hate it so much but other than that I actually I've got quite lucky with my dates I feel okay well yeah we haven't I mean I feel like my tube story is our fair share of bad dates because I think that is just it's terrible it's so bad it was awful um but also a lot of you guys have had some awful worst dates we did ask you guys on our instagram and so we thought we would share some answers obviously of course all anonymous so right the first one shall i read it again it says i went on a date with a guy who demanded i pay for his train home i didn't see him again why would she pay for his train makes no sense he demanded you pay maybe because he went and saw her but like that's just all but he like yeah that is so bad

because he said he would agree to go and see her he has agreed to pay like if i went on a date with somebody and i get there and they've demanded that i pay for their like petrol or like I'd be like what and also how do you demand someone to pay for you I wonder if it was in person or if he messaged her after because in person actually imagine if someone said that to your face yeah and also as well like did he try and see you again because like in his head was that normal yeah surely not we need context surely not because that is we do need more context right i went on a date with a boy that i've been seeing for a while thinking it was going well the next day he texted me saying keep it on the dl because he was seeing

someone else and didn't want her to find out are you joking so he's seeing two people at once yeah so he's asking her to keep it on the dl and you'd been and she'd been seeing him for a while yeah why boys actually think with their dicks like i actually don't think boys have a brain yeah no like they actually don't think their brains no no sure in what world do they think that's going to go down well oh yeah by the way like i'm seeing someone else so can you just not tell well i don't think he would have told her i'm keeping some i'm seeing someone else i think he would have just said like should we keep it on the down life oh shit yeah do you know what i mean but anyone that's saying that is like that's just a massive you're gonna

assume like yeah like also i completely understand like people want to like a private life and stuff but i would never understand when somebody has been in a relationship for so long and your boyfriend or the girlfriend posts on Instagram but they've never posted I know like to me that is so odd like I get having a private life completely and if you don't post at all fine but if you're posting and you haven't once posted your boyfriend or girlfriend to me that is just bizarre so one of my friends her ex-boyfriend was a model i'm saying model very loosely and he would refuse to post her on his main feed because he was like i'm gonna get more modeling work and more girls follow me for my modeling if i don't post you and he would only post her in like a carousel post at the end i to be fair i

know a lot of boys in the industry who are exactly like that and it is hard though because like i can't say i get it because i don't because i don't but also girls probably would unfollow them but also why do you care because you've got you've got your girlfriend so why do you care like I just don't like the but to actually say that to her as well and be like oh yeah you know like I'm gonna get more followers if people think I'm single like what I think that's so bizarre yeah well I I mean like I said I know a lot of guys have said that a lot apparently it's a lot more common then that was the first time I'd heard it I said, I know a lot of guys that have said that. A lot. Apparently it's a lot more common then. That was the first time I'd heard it. I can't believe more people do that.

No. In this industry, like, a lot of, like, well-known guys don't post their girlfriends for that reason. That is a fact. But, like, but why do you care? Like, why do you care that much? Like you said, if you've got a new girl. I don't know. That's the way that I see it. Like, if you.

Yeah. It shouldn't matter. No. No. Anyways. He said he loved me straight away in order to date me. So we're giving love bombing? We're giving love bombing. Okay, so I didn't really...

My thing is, I never really understood love bombing, if that makes sense. I don't really get the reason for it. It's almost to to like trap you to make you feel like you've known them your whole entire life and they're going to give you everything and it's just a form of like trapping i guess because it makes you feel like the most important person to them like i guess that is like I don't really know I wouldn't say that's like the textbook definition but that would be like my understanding of what love bombing is

yeah I think like I understood that love bombing meant that but I think I never really realized why it could be a bad thing if that makes sense yeah yeah because like I've definitely been love bombed I've had my fair share of being loved yeahbombed. Yeah. But I always saw that as a good thing. Like, oh, my God, this guy's really into me. Obviously, now I realise... Because that is how it's meant to make you feel. Yeah. Which is wild.

Which is wild. If a guy's telling me that a week in now, I'm running to the hills. Oh, yeah, no. Because, like, it should take time for someone to fall in love with you. Oh, see, I think I'm just too optimistic, though. Because I think, like, I just love the idea of, like, just fall in love with you oh see i don't i think i'm just too optimistic though because i think like i just love the idea of like just falling in love with

someone straight away and so i'm like oh i know like us girls get attached easily we get but yeah i think i need to how you get attached way too easily wait you don't i think you're good i have with certain people in the past and it has taken me fucking months to get over them. But now I feel like I'm a bit of a heartless bitch. Like, I can get over someone literally by the next morning. I think I fall for people way too easily. I would agree. And I get attached.

I would agree to that. We know that. But I genuinely feel like it's because I just love love. And so, like, the whole idea of love just excites me so much. But it's funny because one of my friends said to me, this was after I split up with my ex. She was like, what I don't understand, Safran, is you were the best person at cutting people out of your life

that screwed you over. Never speaking to them again. Yeah, you are. Not causing drama, just cutting them out. She was like, so why can't you do this with him? Because you can do this with everyone else. And I sat there and I thought to myself, do you know what?

I'm going to give myself credit. I actually am really good at that. You're very good at it. You're very, very good at it. I think it's like if someone screws me over or a friend over, I don't even want the drama. I just don't want to be associated with you. And I think that's it.

Also, that's growing up. We just that like it's not even worth it no it's not like your time and your energy is just not worth it I feel like in my next relationship it's it's gonna take time for me to get attached now like I'm really and I think I feel like I've learned the hard way yeah and that is maybe a good thing yeah so we don't get attached like you say we don't get attached now like I'm really and I think I feel like I've learned the hard way yeah and that is maybe a good thing yeah so we don't get attacked like you say we don't get attached straight away again we're not gonna do that straight away again Upper Canada College inspires boys from senior kindergarten to year 12 to find their passions and realize their potential. An IB World School, UCC offers a supportive environment,

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was the surprise taking someone to your mum's birthday? How is that a surprise for her? I'd just be like, oh, nice to meet you, happy birthday. Hi, oh my God, I've got a surprise for you. We're going to go and surprise my mum with a birthday cake. I'm sorry, but that's not a surprise. I just think I need to know if that was a first date or if that was like well into it.

It can't be. I think we've all out. That just if that was a first date or if that was like well into it. It can't be. I think we've all out. That just can't be. It can't be a first date. There's no way. I mean, I wonder if you'd met the mum before, if that was the first time that you met this person's mum, because I think that is just crazy. Like if I'm going on a surprise date, I'm not thinking to myself, oh, yes, to M&S Cafe to go and meet his mum. I mean, M&S cafe is enough in the first place but then for his mom's birthday it's even weirder maybe one of to personally one

of the worst date stories because I would be so taken back if he told me I was going on a surprise date and like I said took me to M&S cafe with his mum. I'd just think, well, odd. Like, it's just so odd. So odd. I can't believe that. Didn't even get me anything. What, so he didn't buy you any food? Is that what she's suggesting?

So you sat and starved as well? That is actually mental. I honestly can't believe that. Okay, next one. I got asked on a cinema date and had to pay because he forgot his money I mean this is bad but also

like it's hard because it's like did he forget his money or is he doing it on purpose or did he offer to pay you back for his half or did he offer to pay you back in his half? Or did he offer to pay you back in general? There's so many angles that could go from.

It is half because it's like everyone has Apple Pay. This is what I'm confused about. It's like no one's out bringing cash anymore. I don't have Apple Pay at the moment. I've not had Apple Pay for about three, four months. Because I haven't set it up on my new phone. I've been using my physical card. I couldn't function without Apple Pay.

No, no, I couldn't function without Apple Pay. I know, I need to sort it. Actually, that's on my to-do list. I'm going to do that today. I don't even have a physical card. I just have Apple Pay. I know you don't, babe. You lose your physical card

literally every other day. I know. That is baffling. So, I could be in that position I'd just be thinking I would just be thinking that he's he obviously have Apple Pay well no I could be in that but I could find myself in that position I won't have to stay with a sort of my Apple Pay I mean it could genuinely be a mistake then because some people are wandering around without Apple Pay that is one in a million because I did have Apple Pay and it was the best thing to ever happen to

me so i don't know why i haven't set it up yet same it's like spending money without i was gonna he's at the limit now like crazy as well what you could spend oh you can spend whatever that's like dangerous you know i actually when i was seeing somebody in america so in america they don't really use apple pay which i find crazy because amer America is so ahead of us in every way, aside from Apple Pay, they barely use it. Like you can't really use Apple Pay anywhere. Yeah, physical card, but not Apple Pay. So I've actually had to order new cards for when I go to the US tomorrow, because I know I can't use Apple Pay and that's all I ever use. And anyways, I was seeing this guy in America for a while when I was with him for two weeks out there and I didn't have my physical card, I lost it.

And so I lost it whilst I was out there, shock. And I had like two days before I saw him and I was by myself. Anyways, I had no money. I had no cash. I couldn't get cash out. I couldn't go into like a HSBC or something because I didn't have my physical. They just wouldn I couldn't get cash out. I couldn't go into like a HSBC or something because I didn't have my physical. They just wouldn't let me get cash out. And so I was thinking to myself,

how am I actually going to get money? So I had to ask my friend Chris, right, if I could borrow cash off him, borrowed cash off him for those few days. And then when I saw this guy, I had to explain to him, I have no money. And I was like, the thing is, normally in the UK, we just use Apple Pay for everything. And I remember as the days went on, I could see him getting a bit weirder about the fact that I still have no money. And I ended up paying him all of this back, by the way. Well, not all of it, because a lot of things, like he did, like, obviously he would take me out on dates and stuff. And like he would pay. But I, you know, I sent him loads of money because i didn't have any money i didn't have

any money i had no money i couldn't access my money i'm really confusing to cannot use apple pay at all like really rarely i'd say like one in 10 places in the u.s you can use apple pay it's so bizarre and so i remember him like looking at me one of the days just thinking like, I don't understand like why have you not got a card? That is so weird. I was so embarrassed because I would never do that. No, I know you wouldn't. I would never want somebody to pay for me.

Like it's just not it. Well, that is news to me. Thank God I've got my physical card. Yeah, so guys, if you're going to the US, your physical cards otherwise you're gonna end up in soft situation yeah the next one got blackout drunk and the guy had to call my housemates and figure out where i lived and then take me home in an uber i mean honestly i feel like that's a common story like it would have been terrible for you like looking back waking up in the morning the anxiety would have been insane but i don't think that's that bad like i feel like everyone's got really drunk on the first date before and like

ended up in a bad situation well yeah to be fair how i met my ex i was so do you remember yes i've explained the story i was so drunk throwing up. First time I'd met him. It was a disaster. Never thought I would see him again. There you go. There we go. It happens to the best of us, guys. I've been so drunk on first dates before. I think also because you get

nervous. Maybe you're just like drinking and then like having... Oh, that's my thing. Yeah, have a little drink before you go as well. So it all just builds up and then like by the time you're leaving he's booking you any time i feel like you don't actually need to like stress about that because it really has happened to the best of us you're fine you're fine but i would feel her i mean i felt horrendous after it happened to me okay went on a date with a guy and thought it went well and we had great chemistry until he told me at the end he wasn't feeling it matched him two weeks later on the same app i swiftly unmatched

him right the way that i would see it is he obviously really i feel like he liked you as a person and like you got on really well which is why you felt like there was good chemistry but maybe he just didn't think you were the one i actually don't think it's that weird him matching you again because i feel like it's almost like a respectful thing maybe like he didn't want to like maybe not match with you because he likes you as a person yeah maybe i know it's a bit strange you don't really know what's going on in these guys heads but i actually don't think that's there's definitely not the worst story we've heard i mean it's saying that to be honest i have matched people that i've been on a date with before like again after like if it didn't work out and they've like renewed their

whatever so i guess it's not that weird but it's just a bit odd that well you thought you had great chemistry and then he wasn't feeling i don't know but yeah maybe it's not that weird because i have done that so i really i wouldn't worry about that personally well to be fair i feel like it could i feel like it also could be worse because you thinking you're having great chemistry like yeah it's really shit obviously but then you're like oh like he obviously didn't feel the same but it's better him being like that and being really nice than him just being like rude throughout the day so if anything i actually think that's not i actually don't feel like he's done much wrong the fact that he's even told you i feel like that's a good thing that was because at least he didn't ghost you and at least he gave you a reason and then we have to applaud him for

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I didn't stalk him before. Went on a date to a lovely beachfront bar. As soon as he sat down, he made a pretty racist remark safe to say i downed my pine left the date blocked one tinder and there wasn't a second day what the fuck i mean straight away thank god you left the date yeah like i am proud of you for leaving that day um and the fact that she downed down a pint and left yeah too right yeah we do not condone any of that over here that is vile behavior um and thank god that you downed your pint and left the date i think that is just bizarre absolutely like i wonder if in his head he really like

do you know what i mean i wonder if he like knew what he was saying well you know what you're saying because you're a grown-ass man yeah honestly you know what you're saying he probably didn't which is crazy and to me that just screams like uneducated and that is just the biggest ick and turn off ever good on you for up and leaving right so should we talk about what makes a bad day okay yeah i feel, yeah, let's do it. I feel like we should maybe, like, quick-fire them a little bit. Yeah, let's do it. Like, just give your brutal opinion, and then we'll, like, move on. Lateness and lack of apology.

I mean, I feel like we're going to say yes to all of them, but I think maybe we should, like, say how bad we think it is. Okay, I like out of ten. Lateness and lack of apology. Eight out of ten. Yeah, because, like, the lateness, I feel like... I don't want somebody to be late on me i'd be so embarrassed and like my anxiety would be real but i do understand that things can happen

but it's a lack of apology it depends on the reason yeah the lack of apology takes it to a ten out of ten it's like the lateness i would say like five out of ten because it could be no you could be caught in traffic like it could be a simple yeah but yeah apology but no apology it's going up to eight agreed so eight out of ten for that one okay being rude to waiters lack of manners 10 out of 10 worst thing you can do biggest red flag ever ever ever the way that i would like literally dot like my i would think i would fold inside like i would i would think i would fold inside like i would literally die inside i would actually have to go to the toilet i think and get up and leave like it irks me that bad have you ever done that have you ever got up and let like that is one

thing like if someone was really rude obviously i would but like if he was rude to the waiter i would die inside and i'd be like why are you speaking to them like that and i would say something to the waiter but i still don't know if i could actually physically get off and leave i don't know it depends how bad it was i guess i would definitely apologize to the waiter on like his behalf i know i'd have to be like i'm so sorry about him and i'd feel i'd feel so sorry this is my first and last day yeah so 10 out of 10 for that one gross okay lack of interest in you they don't ask you any questions i have had this before i've had people like this i feel like a lot of the time i so like i will ask someone something and they'll answer it and they don't just have the decency to go what about you like you don't even have to ask me the question just say what about

you or even if you don't care still just say what about you or even if you don't care still just say what about you yeah and the thing is i started telling you anyways because you're not bringing any conversation to the table no honestly babe so now i'm telling you and i'm like oh well mine is i've been on a date like this and i literally would ask a question and then i'd have to ask another question and then like talk about myself because he wasn't asking yeah and i was like why why are you here yeah like what is the point do you know what i've met a few people like this and they're always the people that are so beautiful to look at and they've got no fucking personality like you've never known always literally like talking to a brick wall yeah babe i know so for that one we're

gonna go nine out of ten because it could be yeah nine out of ten for that one because it's like yeah like no what's the point you don't get their humor slash they don't get yours that's like a really big turn off for me because like that's hard like that is i'm gonna say 10 out of 10 i think if they couldn't get my humor i don't think i'd say 10 out of 10 but like I would put them all like I don't want any I just don't know how I don't know how we'd have a joke like if it was dead serious I'd be like oh like this isn't fun yeah I think I'll put I'll put an eight okay um you can't wait for the date I mean you can't wait for the date to end 10 out of 10 yeah obviously you have nothing in common i wouldn't put a 10 out of 10 like i don't think i would

necessarily date them again however to be honest for me i'd probably be thinking well it's making the date more interesting because at least we're like i was gonna say that i'd have like opposing opinions and like different like topics that you might like so you've got loads to speak about yeah and also i feel like naturally we all kind of do this i definitely used to do this i don't do this anymore but like say i was like oh i love cooking i used to not be like oh i hate cooking do you know i mean you i feel like we all kind of like say these white lies to kind of have something in common with someone whereas if they were just being honest and was like oh i actually don't really like that like it's all the same as like polite about it in the sense that we don't have anything in common i don't think that would actually be

the worst no neither to be honest i would be quite intrigued just to see what they like and what they don't like because at least it makes it a little bit different but also like if they don't have the same things in common then they're doing something wrong and then it's probably not gonna work but nice first time i know i'm joking uh constantly speaking about that x 10 out of 10 i'd be really yeah red flag it's really hard though because i love someone that's like open and i think like if you ask them about their ex then i feel like it's fine yeah but for them to just start going on about it was a blue like if they were bringing their ex up i'm like you're not over your ex then like you you probably want to date with her instead of me yeah you're still talking about her um they've admitted to cheating slash ghosting in the past i mean i probably would have said like eight out of ten because

because they can fully admit it but now i'm not gonna no i think my mindset's changed in the sense of for me it's a solid 10 out of 10 i would put i would probably say 10 out of 10 as well because cheating absolutely not i have ghosted someone in the past so i would like i would well i have admitted it on the fucking internet so it's on the internet but yeah cheating 10 out of 10 big no red flag yeah because it's like right some you can say someone i always believe that everyone can make a mistake but actually like when i deep it i've never cheated on anyone i would never cheat on anyone I think it's fucking disgusting and I like I just could never allow myself to do that no matter what I've gone through in life so I just think well you just can't be a good person if you've done that even if you don't want to be with that person just have the respect for them to end it before you cheat on

them before you like do like it's just it's about respect we don't like cheaters no and you know what it's so annoying i saw this um again a tiktok has gone viral about me shock what's new loving anyone every day anyways these comments i was reading about myself was how apparently i cheated on my ex meaning tyler and i just thought to myself where the fuck does this actually come from and like people believe this like i'm still friends with tyler i still speak to him and he can vouch me i would never do that but it's just crazy how so i'm literally going on a rant again about social media but it's just crazy how people actually believe people see like one thing or make up something and run with it because that is wild yeah i literally run with it that is actually the furthest from what like that's so ridiculous

so ridiculous anyways um yeah we don't like cheaters we're not here for it fully 10 out of 10 absolute no go um okay right quick fire they're arrogant i mean they're all like bad things but like arrogant seven eight out of ten yeah uh they overshare i don't mind an oversharer yeah i like i like an overshare i'm gonna go like one out of ten i don't think that's a bad thing i don't think that's a bad thing yeah i would agree with you i mean it could be a little weird to overshare on the. Maybe like three out of ten. They go on their phone. Ooh, no.

I don't like that. I think that's rude. I think it's really fucking rude. I'm saying ten out of ten. Yeah, me too. They say something offensive, i.e. sex is homophobic. Ten out of ten. Eleven out of ten. Absolutely not.

Eleven out of ten. Yeah. Thank you. Like, that again would make my skin grow like oh i hate it they offer to pay then ask you to transfer their money oh my god no i don't know i'm gonna go like seven out of ten because it's never happened to me but i would be a bit like i don't know i don't know i don't know how i'd react in that situation but what do you mean they can't offer to pay and then i know i know that is bad especially if they've offered to pay like

in person then they're like actually i changed my mind no yeah okay maybe like eight that's gotta be no that's gotta be 10 out of 10 yeah that is about too bad if someone did that to me i'd be like what the fuck why are we going opposite like 10 out of 10 i don't know does it make sense uh okay last one oh no two more they come on you too strong i normally will mind it because i love love and cringe but we're gonna change but we're gonna change so seven yeah we'll go for seven i'll go for an eight or a nine um they offer you unwanted life advice this does drive me insane this has happened to me before i mean honestly same but i do think maybe it could

like babe i was maybe it could be with good intention i was speaking to a guy and this was in person and i knew what i was doing with my money like I literally knew what I was doing with it and he was trying to tell me how to spend my money and like where to put my money but like he was telling me it in a way of like she's so dumb bless her she's got no idea and I was actually having the conversation like you are infuriating me he was telling me about like reward style links as it wasn't my job and i was actually sat there like what are you on about it is so funny like when yeah to be fair when someone starts giving you advice you've not yet that does piss me off like if i've asked for it please go if i haven't asked for it i don't need it i mean that's a good way to end it yeah so yeah god that's

so funny. Well, thank you so much for listening today, guys. Do let us know if you have any more worst hate stories. I don't think they would. Honestly, I would say mine tops a lot of those. Your one tops all of them, babe. Well, apart from the racist one. Oh, shit.

Yeah. Apart from that one. That can't get any worse. No, it can't get any worse than that um but yeah my story is horrendous anyways um thank you so much for watching today's episode please check us out on social so you don't miss anything um and subscribe to the pod on spotify so you can watch all of our episodes we will be uploading another episode on thursday um so look out for that episode then i'm sorry for sounding like a man Anastasia will be back soon

I'm sorry for having to talk more because Anna sounds like a man bye guys bye